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COASTAL POWER COUPLE
REAL WEDDINGS: JESSICA & HEIDI
RYLIE & DALTON
TONI & BRANDY
KATIE & MATT
BRIDAL SHOPPING 101
GRAND WEDDING GIVEAWAY
QUIZ & CROSSWORD
SPICE UP YOUR BACH PARTY
YES TO I-DO YOUR SKIN BEAUTY TIMELINE YOUR WEDDING CHECKLIST YOUR WEDDING TEAM YOUR MARRIAGE LICENSE
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DEAR READER, G
rowing together may be the most vital thing a couple does. We’ve all heard warnings about growing apart, but not much has been shared about growing together. Growing together takes an active, conscious decision to value and support your partner and yourself. When life is stressful—when exterior situations make you want space— it is in those moments we should hold tighter to each other and leanin, share, listen, and learn. What’s a better time to begin working on growing together than right at the start of your marriage preparation?
The wedding planning process has the potential to become one of those chapters in life where couples are facing decision fatigue and opinion overload. Finding the right vendors can ease the wedding planning process and make this transitional period one to savor and enjoy! Gone are the days where couples should be stressed about appeasing every relative’s request; now is the era of intentional planning focused on the priorities of the engaged couple! Our wedding vendors know how to navigate sticky situations and advocate for their couples. Your big day and the celebration of your shared life together is all about you. The right vendor team will make the experience enjoyable, exciting, and tailored to you!
In this issue, we highlight creators and ideas that are committed to authenticity. We venture to a new venue on Pensacola Beach with a love for coastal catering. We also recap the very first Gulf Coast Grand Wedding Giveaway, unveil advice on bridal shopping from expert bridal stylists, and provide curated professional advice on sustainability in weddings. As custom, you can expect to garner inspiration from real weddings and utilize the all-encompassing wedding resources.
As you browse the following pages, I hope you find inspiration, comfort, and an eagerness to get to the altar! This is your time to plan the celebration of a lifetime, one that is uniquely yours and perfectly personalized.
We hope you enjoy indulging in the excitement and novelty of the world of weddings. Happy planning!
PHOTO BY CHELSI WITH AN EYE
THE WHARF
history
Nestled on the boardwalk at Quietwater Beach is a one-of-a-kind event venue with incredible beach views. Formerly Whiskey Joe’s, the restaurant is re-branding to a new concept, The Wharf, that reflects the culture and community of Pensacola as a fresh seafood restaurant. With the rebranding, they are working on some really exciting new menus that include brunch— something that they have never offered before!
Although in a transitional period, the The Wharf events team is excited to provide couples with an amazing venue and experience, as well as a catering menu that fits all budgets.
the vibe what we love
The venue boasts a serene, second-level, event space that offers room for up to 300 attendees. The space includes a deck that offers breathtaking sunset views. The wood accents, high vaulted ceilings, and stained glass chandelier offer an elevated and luxurious atmosphere. The Beach Pavilion is an incredibly special ceremony or reception site due to it providing unparalleled waterfront views, a beautifully covered space, an accessible pathway, and the ability to seat up to 100 guests.
BY ALYSSA GRYB
Can we talk about the versatility of this space? With a large indoor venue, a stunning deck, and a waterfront pavilion, you can personalize your event to reflect exactly what you dreamed of for your wedding ceremony, reception, rehearsal dinner, or bridal shower!
All of the event spaces are truly spectacular and we recommend anyone who is looking to host a beachfront wedding to visit for a tour!
Imagine your day at the beach...
ON THE COVER
When we think of paradise, we often think of tropical islands lush with magical foresty. The gorgeous Emerald Coast exudes this relaxing, ethereal energy, and our team was inspired to bring tropical elements to our white sand beaches.
The Henderson Beach Resort is located on the sugar white sand in Destin, FL, with multiple locations for your perfect wedding day. After the big day, you and your guests can stay on-site to experience the incredible hospitality the resort is known for!
Emelly & Nathan, our cover couple, met in college, connecting through their shared passion of empowering others and advocating for the community. “Both of us balance each other. Nathan represents the sun. He is the light that brings calm towards everyone,” Emelly writes. “He will say I represent the moon because even though it’s dark, I bring the light that shines through the darkness as a guided path. I cannot picture my life without my other half. I look forward to seeing the growth of our relationship that will blossom into our marriage.”
The stunning tablescape and florals were provided by Forget Me Knot and Emerald Coast Florals. Forget Me Knot set the stage with their natural wood table, champagne flutes, velvet bow napkins, and elegant flatware. Using our beautiful seaside as the inspiration, Emerald Coast Florals used native plants and flowers to complete this enchanting atmosphere.
Madison and Zach Higgins are a photography and videography duo on the Gulf Coast and beyond. Madison shared her eye and her talent for this shoot while making Nathan and Emelly feel at ease.
Brittany, owner of Destin Mobile Beauty Box, perfected Emelly’s hair and make up. Her hair was styled in a soft, romantic updo and her dewy makeup was natural with a pop of eyeliner and a pink lip to enhance her natural beauty.
The Costa and Heitz Family Condo was the perfect space for our Bride and Groom to relax and get ready. From the marble to the furnishings the space is luxurious and elegant. The condo was graciously prepared with a delicious spread of hors d’oeuvres from the Henderson catering team, made complete with a mimosa bar!
Nathan and Emelly were the epitome of a timeless pair in Randall’s Formal Wear and Margaret Ellen Bridal. Nathan looked handsome in his black tuxedo and Emelly was radiant in a strapless, slitted gown. Each ensemble was made complete with stunning florals from Emerald Coast Florals. Nathan wore the nontraditional look of a full lapel boutonniere and Emelly held a bouquet of natural florals wrapped with black flowing ribbon.
Just Think Cake prepared an elegant, four- tiered fondant cake with complementary florals, creating a sleek centerpiece for our shoot. The custom printed macarons included the couple’s name and our fun, faux wedding date.
This stunning cover shoot would not be possible without the expertise and assistance of each wedding professional involved. We couldn’t be more grateful that these professionals lended their talents to make our vision come to life!
COVER SHOOT VENDORS
Planning: Coastal Weddings
Photography: Higgins Photo & Film
Venue: The Henderson
Bridal suite: The Costa & Heitz
Family Condo
Florals: Emerald Coast Florals
Decor: Forget Me Knot Rentals
HAMU: Destin Mobile Makeup Box
Dress: Margaret Ellen Bridal
Suit: Randall’s Pensacola
Catering: The Henderson
Cake: Just Think Cake
Cover Models: Emelly & Nathan
A Bride’s Ride
At A Bride’s Ride, we offer you a chauffeured service providing classic vintage cars for your special event, photographs, and grand exits! Our cars are meticulously maintained, offering smooth, stylish rides that complement your special day.
The ‘Crown Jewel’ of our collection!
1962 Rolls-Royce Phantom V by James Young Limousine
Unsurpassed elegance is gracefully achieved with our rare limousine, the 1962 Rolls-Royce Phantom V by James Young. This limousine is widely considered by connoisseurs as the most beautiful Rolls-Royce ever built!
Candice Brown Photography
Sarah Alleman Photography
1953 Packard Convertible
1970 Oldsmobile 442 Convertible
1958 Cadillac Eldorado Biarritz Convertible
GOING GREEN
KARA CEDERQUIST-GREEN
In November 2021, Nicholas Richard Green asked me to marry him on a mountain in Colorado, and I knew all my stars were aligned. It’s not everyday a word that embodies your entire career becomes your last name. Being eco-friendly has always been something I am passionate about. In college, I learned about destination management, and I was hooked! For the last decade, I have zeroed in on sustainable tourism. I wanted to have an eco-friendly wedding, and I wanted to share the importance of sustainability with my wedding team. Below are a few tips for the bride seeking out environmentally-friendly wedding solutions!
FLORALS & DECOR
SAVE-THE-DATES
To start, we had simple save-the-dates used from recycled paper, and we included the option to RSVP online!
PLANNING
The main efforts behind an ecofriendly wedding are largely dependent on your wedding team. When you contact potential wedding vendors, ask them about their green practices. Building your wedding team is like pulling together a group of friends— everything is easier when you share the same values! So be transparent!
Flowers are undoubtedly one of the most stunning ways to dress up your venue. There are many ways to get the most out of your floral arrangements. We saved the florals from my bridal party in July to repurpose for our wedding in October. The florals were arranged as table decorations, placed in painted glass jars of all shapes and sizes. My friends were eager to donate jars and that was so exciting to me!
For the ceremony bouquets, we hired our friend and florist, Chrissy Florals. Chrissy used in-season and dried elements that matched our reused floral decor. All my bridesmaids took their bouquets home, and my bouquet was given to my parents. Through this process, we were able to minimize water usage, energy to refrigerate, and shipping waste.
DRINKWARE
We decided to rent amber colored glasses, setting one at each table. Guests used these for their drinks at a self-serve station to reduce washing/drying multiple glasses for each person. We set out bamboo straws at the bars, eliminating plastic straws entirely!
CONFETTI & GLITTER
As someone who loves nature, I can’t think of anything worse than being showered in a cloud of plastic. Plastic confetti is quite simply littering, but there are lots of biodegradable confetti options out there. For our exit, we chose white freeze-dried petals that I put inside cones made of a single page of my favorite book, the Alchemist. I found a copy of the book at my local library’s sale for $1!
VENUE
We also had the ceremony and the reception in the same place to reduce carbon emissions. Supposey Wedding Venue, located in Pensacola, Florida, is an incredibly unique, historic space. Initially we fell in love with the venue because of its natural beauty and built-in character. I knew I could significantly reduce the amount of decor and lighting (aka waste and cost) by letting the venue and its surrounding greenery do the work. Using natural light to your advantage guarantees that your photos will be fabulous!
DRESSES & TUXEDOS
Save you and your groomsmen money and help the planet by renting a tux. We used our family friend’s business, Gents Formal Wear in Pensacola. For the bridesmaid dresses, I allowed my bridesmaids to choose a different style and color of their choosing (with my approval of course). They are able to wear it again for years to come!
I believe over time wedding industry vendors will get more inquiries from brides on reducing waste for their special day. Happy Planning!
ABOUT THE AUTHOR
After graduating from one of the top 5 hospitality management programs in the world, Kara lived, worked, and traveled to over 50 countries around the globe— all the while learning about sustainable tourism. Kara resides out of Pensacola, FL, and works for Elysian Escapes as a luxury travel advisor. Her most recent motto “The grass is greener where you water it.”
VENDORS
Venue: Supposey Gardens
Planner: Chloe Sexton
Photo: Taylor Howton
Florist: Chrissy Florals
Gown: Bliss Bridal
Suits: Gent’s Formal Wear Hair: Tonya Penrose
Makeup: Hayley Gurney
Bridgerton Wedding
Fashion is experiencing a regency era in the 21st century, and we are LOVING it!
Every Body Every Bride
The Bridal Loft celebrated body positivity, hosting the EveryBody EveryBride runway show at Culinary Productions Venue. The bridal shop launched the sizeinclusive collection, a partnership with designer Stella York to provide a vast selection of gowns for EVERY bride! (1) Stella York’s full glitter gown beamed on the lit-up runway from its draped sweetheart neckline to its fitted silhouette. (2) Channeling princess chic, the pearl ballgown stole the show with it’s trendy puffy sleeves and beautifully draped corset. (3) Beautiful in its simplicity, the soft satin Stella York gown glided gracefully down the runway. “The energy and excitement was incredible,” Bridal Loft owner, Alyssa, remarked.
“The models were beaming, their confidence and attitudes brought the collection to life!” Brides can explore the EveryBody EveryBride collection at The Bridal Loft by booking an appointment at pensacolabridalloft.com
ON THE RUNWAY
Your wedding fashion inspiration! trending styles | local boutiques | runway shows
Art of Fashion
While sticking to tradition with the regency period’s unique design and full skirts, the current styles have taken grandeur to new heights. The Bridal Loft’s Bridgerton Wedding exclusive collection is inspired by the Bridgerton Netflix series and designed by costume designer Lyn Paolo. (4) Gown Harriet radiates romance with soft puffed sleeves, regal sequined lace, and a cathedral length train. (5) Color in bridal is a modern show stopper. Gown Eleanor is available in traditional ivory but can also brave tradition in soft mauve. The silky mikado, corset structure, and a full-lined skirting is the definition of royal attire.
Art of Fashion is a fun-filled fashion show event in Pensacola, FL, benefitting Covenant Care patients and families. The 18th Annual Art of Fashion’s theme was Parisian Escape, and this year’s fashionista sponsors went above and beyond très chic! Featured boutiques included S&K Boutique, Sobo Boutique, Randall’s Formal Wear, The Bridal Loft, Jen’s Designer Deals, Indigeaux Denim Bar & Boutique, and more! (6) The juxtapostion of classic/clean in the front with a playful, oversized bow in the back is the epitome of current bridal fashion. The Billeigh Bow Dress from Sobo Boutique can be used for a bridal shower, bachelorette party, rehearsal dinner, or elopement! (7) Randall’s Formal Wear showed the unique details that are appearing in tuxe/suit fashion with Ike Behar’s White Waverly, black vest, teardrop bow tie, and Euro slim pants. The White Waverly is a perfect “James Bond” formal look and is always a classic paired with black pants!
Tim Ludvigsen Photography
A. Lynne Photography
Ash Simmons Photography
ashsimmons.com
Brent & Angela Lane COASTAL POWER COUPLE
This issue’s power couple, Brent and Angela, have been together for decades. They moved to Pensacola almost 20 years ago when Brent was recruited to Cat Country’s morning show. The couple spends their time supporting breast cancer awareness, vacationing at Lake Martin, and being with their three children and grandchildren.
Q: HOW DID YOU MEET?
BRENT: We met in a bar in San Diego, that’s no joke. The Bitter End was the name of the bar. I got her number on an O’Doul’s napkin and I called her the next day.
ANGELA: There is actually more to the story than that, but in a nutshell, yes. We met on Good Friday. It was a multilevel facility and we were in the basement where the dance floor was. We were doing our own thing, and we happened to bump into each other. I looked up because he’s 6’5”, and I said “you have the most beautiful brown eyes I’ve ever seen.”
B: And I said, “you’ve got nice teeth.”
A: Bless his heart. Isn’t that hilarious? That has to be the worst line ever.
B: Yeah, but you have beautiful teeth. It’s very important....Actually that night on the way out the bar, my buddy said “wouldn’t it be something if that was the girl you were gonna marry?” And I laughed and said “yeah that would!” He showed up when we got married and went “well, I’ll be danged!”
Q: WHAT WAS YOUR FIRST IMPRESSION OF EACH OTHER?
ANGELA: He was very sweet. He was very kind. Which fortunately has stood the test of time.
BRENT: I thought she was hot! So hot like this is so out of my punting coverage, but I am going to try my best. Cher was on. I went in for the kiss and she came back. We were making out on the dance floor. It was so great!
Q: WHEN AND HOW DID YOU PROPOSE?
BRENT: 8 months in on New Year’s Eve. It was raining.
ANGELA: And it doesn’t rain often in San Diego. It was kind of magical.
B: I got down on one knee on the front stoop and was like “let’s do this!” She obviously said yes, and then we got married 16 months later, also on the one day it rained so much. There was so much rain.
A: A crazy day! But you’ll see in the photos, it lightened up. It ended up being a beautiful day.
Q: IF YOU COULD GIVE YOUR MARRIAGE A SLOG AN, WHAT WOULD IT BE AND WHY?
BRENT: I think that our slogan is probably persevere above all. ANGELA: It is…nicely done. I like it! *fist bumps Brent*
Q: WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE LOCAL/ COASTAL DATE NIGHT SPOT?
BRENT & ANGELA: Jackson’s! (Jackson’s Steakhouse)
INTERVIEWER: What do you like to get?
B: Usually the blueberry muddle martini, which I’m probably not calling it right. There’s something about the steak with lump crab on it. It’s amazing. And usually we’ll get bacon wrap scallops—
A lot of times, we will just let them tell us what’s good at the time, and they’re never wrong. But, we always feel that’s kind of our spot. Celebrating not only the big things, but the little things. Last time we were there was in the summer for…?
My mom and dad’s 52nd wedding anniversary and my dad’s 80th
Q: WHAT IS THE NUMBER ONE ITEM ON YOUR BUCKET LIST TOGETHER?
ANGELA: He really really wants to go to Chile and ski. So that would be something the two of us… we have to do it soon because we’re aging. We have just really focused all of these years while raising kids to share experiences with them. We really love traveling as a squad. There’s nothing like having all the kiddos with you and making all those memories.
BRENT: You said you want to go to Greece, so that’s also on my bucket list.
ANGELA: Hey, thank you for listening. I’d forgotten about that but yes I do want to... Collectively, we talk often about our goal to have the home paid off. We’ve been aggressively working on a plan to have that done. So that’s going to be a huge celebration.
BRENT: Early in our marriage, we went through a lot of debt. I had a business problem that ended up going south. We ultimately took a Dave Ramsey class at our church and ended up teaching that class for 10 years. So that helped us establish some great financial goals together. We worked the weeks and spent eight years backing out of a problem. It was a lot, but if you’re willing to work together on it, there’s no doubt about it.
Q:
WHAT IS YOUR NUMBER ONE TIP FOR A SUCCESSFUL AND LOVING MARRIAGE?
BRENT & ANGELA: Take walks. *laughter*
A: We walk every evening. We have two dogs, so it’s just part of our routine. We started it so many years ago. It used to be after family dinner. The kids would get their bikes, and we would do that mile. I do think that it’s turned into our therapy. It’s how we decompress. It’s how we let the day go. It’s how we share thoughts and dreams and frustrations.
B: It’s where we talk about all the things that we’ve got to work through. I think it’s about intentionality too. There’s hard conversations that can be had if you trust each other. There’s got to be a level of respect even when you’re frustrated with each other. It’s too easy to let a cross-word become malicious intent, and then you have to work your way back around that.
Q: CAN YOU DESCRIBE
A SIGNIFICANT MOMENT IN YOUR MARRIAGE THAT STRENGTHENED YOUR BOND?
BRENT: Breast cancer.
ANGELA: It’s something we never saw coming. Although we didn’t really discuss it, we were immediately so together and on the same page. It was just hand-in-hand, “here we go”. For me, I felt so much respect because of his care, time, and attention. I obviously went through some really awful stuff, but he was 100% there with me. He never missed an appointment. I had a couple of things go really bad, and he had to get really involved with my care. I know it wasn’t easy, and some of it was really icky. I know he had a really hard time seeing me and not being able to take that away.
BRENT: It was obviously a surprise. For the radio station, we had a promotion every October for making strides against breast cancer. She was getting a mammogram every year around that time. We went from zero to “oh my gosh, you need to come back in.” I have a friend, Jeff, who I’d met a year before, and he’d also went through breast cancer with his wife. He said, ‘If you look for it, you’re gonna find God in the storm, and you’re gonna find your blessings in the storm.’ He was right. It brought us together. I did whatever she needed and became an advocate for her care. It’s a very maturing part of a relationship. You start dealing with health concerns and decisions you have to properly make, and suddenly you become grown adults together. Certainly, I’ve never been prouder of somebody who’s a wonderful advocate and a light to other women getting the same news. Angela is an incredibly strong person in doing that and that’s amazing.
Q: WHAT DO YOU LOOK FORWARD TO IN THE REST OF YOUR LIFE TOGETHER? HOPES, DREAMS, ETC.?
BRENT: A lake house. The lake house is really a metaphor but still true. We love Lake Martin, and it’s a trip we’ve done for 13 years at the end of the summer. Our goal is to have a place at the lake where we can just go.
ANGELA: I love where we are right now. Our kids and everybody’s just doing so well. Being able to watch them, be their biggest cheerleaders, and see their successes, not only in their careers but in their marriages. This grandparent stage is the best thing ever. We like being called Gigi and Pops.
BRENT: She’s worked really hard on the Gigi and Pops thing. We have printed stuff. If this kid calls us anything other than Gigi and Pops… I think that having kids who are successful, I’ve never been prouder.
Readers can learn more about breast cancer awareness and donate through The Keeping Abreast Foundation at keepingabreastfoundation.org
REAL WEDDINGS
love stories and wedding inspiration
HIGGINS PHOTO & FILM
Jessica & Heidi
The old adage that the best marriages are built from the strongest friendships is true. Heidi owns an award winning salon in Gulf Breeze and had come highly recommended to me when I (Jessica) was looking to change hair stylists. The minute I sat down for my consultation, I felt at home. Heidi walked over and introduced herself to me like she does with all first time clients. Before I (Jessica) left, Heidi had told me her sister was moving to Gulf Breeze the following week and gave me her number to meet up with them. We struck up an immediate friendship within days of her giving me her number and quickly transformed into best friends. She thought she was going to help her sister become good friends with me, but it was Heidi and I that really hit it off. Our circles became one another’s and a few times a week we were out watching a Saints game or meeting for “Supper Club” with our favorite people. After a few months we both started realizing our connection was more than just friendship, there was a chemistry that became undeniable. One night while out with some friends, we ended up kissing and sparks flew like a downed power line in a CAT 5 hurricane! We slowly stepped into dating and then into a relationship together. We took our time to be intentional about making big decisions like moving in together and buying a home with one another. I knew from the beginning that my life was over as I knew it. She consumed me and all that I could see was her when I thought about the future. On a trip home to Denver about 3 1/2 years, I walked out of the jeweler that my family had used all my life with a beautiful diamond set in a simple platinum band. I flew home with a gorgeous ring in my bag but no idea how to ask her to marry me. I was okay with that though, I wasn’t in a rush and was willing to wait for the absolute right moment. I pulled the ring out a few times a month to just stare at it though. The meaning it held and the story it would one day tell was beautiful to me.
About a year later we were at Brandi Carlile’s Mothership Weekend festival and the Saturday night headliner was Sara Bareillis. Our song has always been “I Choose You” by Sara Bareillis so I thought before we packed up for the weekend, “I’m going to bring the ring. If Sara plays our song, that’s my sign.” Lo and behold, she played it right in front of us. After I caught my breath and calmed my nerves, I reached into my pocket and knelt down to ask her for forever. I used the last verse of “I Choose You” to close out my vows, and I even surprised her by jumping onto a chair and singing those lines to her during our first dance. Our love story came full circle as we shared that moment together. The rest, as they say, will be history!
PHOTOGRAPHY: Weddings by Adina
VENUE: Garden & Grain Pensacola
EVENT COORDINATOR: Jayden Berndt
GOWN: Azazie, Alterations by Swan Alterations
SUIT: White House Black Market
HAIR ARTIST: Kyla Schieber and Lindsey Holsombach, Salon Allure
MAKEUP ARTIST: Maleena Burgett, Salon Allure
CATERING: Graze Craze and Portabello Market
RINGS: Shane Company
Rylie & Dalton
We, based in Fort Walton Beach, Florida, about 20 miles from our wedding destination, live a true water-based lifestyle on a bayou. I am an at-sea fish biologist for the State of Florida, working on charter fishing boats aiding marine fisheries research. Dalton, a first mate on a sportfishing boat, participates in many billfish fishing tournaments in the Gulf of Mexico and owns his own custom fishing rod company, “Sarverods.” We both attended Navarre High School in Navarre, Florida, where our paths first crossed through mutual friends. Despite initially wanting to keep things platonic, I couldn’t resist Dalton’s persistence. After seven years together, our bond grew stronger as we supported each other through various life changes. Dalton’s grand romantic gesture of driving through a hurricane to return home from North Carolina, after deciding a week into school that he didn’t want to be apart from me, showcases our deep commitment.
The proposal, a weekend before my college graduation, took place during a sunset photo session at Bean Point beach in Anna Maria Island, Florida. Dalton proposed with a beautiful green diamond, symbolizing our love for nature. We tied the knot at the Sandestin Golf and Beach Resort’s Beach Club on September 10, 2024, in a celebration that perfectly encapsulated our love story and shared passion for the water. The venue’s pristine sandy shores, crystal-clear waters, and stunning views of the Gulf of Mexico created a serene and picturesque atmosphere. Our love for the water was seamlessly integrated into their special day, making the Beach Club’s beautiful views and tranquil setting the perfect choice. Our journey together, from high school friends to lifelong partners, is a testament to their enduring love and commitment.
PHOTOGRAPHER: Christina Griffith, Saltwater Images
VIDEOGRAPHER: Faltisek & Gloria
FLORIST: Sunquest Weddings & Events
RENTALS: Destin Event Rentals
DJ: Shane Keller
BAKERY: Just Think Cake
GOWN: Margaret Ellen Bridal
SUITS: Men’s Wearhouse
HAIR & MAKEUP ARTIST : Bride Guide Pros
EVENT COORDINATORS: Kim Snelson & Jodi Joyce, Sandestin Weddings
Toni & Brandy
We first met in North Carolina in 2015 while Toni was stationed on MCAS New River and Brandy was in school. What started out as friendship blossomed into something more in 2016. The next few years that followed were filled with graduations, deployments, and moves up and down the east coast. During December of 2020, at the height of the Covid-19 pandemic, Toni proposed at home during our Christmas break in Philadelphia, PA, by placing the ring on a Christmas tree branch as if it were an ornament. Two years later, we moved to Florida and started planning from over a thousand miles away! Toni is a lover of all things historic, so we planned a traditional wedding with grand venues full of rich history. We opted to host our nuptials at the historic Hope Lodge Mansion, where we had draped aisles, floral arches, and a live violinist. Fun Fact: this is where George Washington and his army stayed during the battle of Georgetown! Our reception was held at the regal Cairnwood Estate in Bryn Athyn, PA. We wanted our special day to be very intimate, so we kept our guest list under 50 and invited only our closest friends and family. We hired one of our best friends as the photographer and the Maid of Honor created our custom balloon artistry! We incorporated fun personal touches to our day, like using the bus for our favorite NFL team, The Philadelphia Eagles, as transportation for our bridal party and placing our own family photos around the estate. We also curated custom cocktails named after our two german shepherds, Rory and Lavender. Our day had a subtle Bridgerton theme and was full of whimsical florals, 60s love songs, Italian traditions, and a ton of champagne and cannolis. Toni wore her traditional Marine Corps dress blues and Brandy wore a very coquette, Bespoke Allure Bridal with custom boning and sleeving. Our day was truly magical, and we wouldn’t change a thing! We are currently stationed at Naval Air Station Pensacola, but we will soon be heading out on our next adventure to Oahu, Hawaii!
LEAD PHOTOGRAPHER: Kelsey Hawkinberry, Keerha Visuals
ASST. PHOTOGRAPHER: Madelyn Spicer Photography
HAIR ARTIST: Alexandra Archibald, Bardot Bridal Hair
MAKEUP ARTIST: Maria Hunter, Carmellina Beauty Co
CATERING: Karen Spire, Karen’s Catering
CEREMONY VENUE: Hope Lodge Mansion
RECEPTION VENUE: Cairnwood Estate
BALLOON ARTISTRY: Selebrate With Seleste
GOWN: The Bridal Loft
CUSTOMS/ALTERATIONS: A Plus Curves
MUSIC SERVICES, LIGHTING, PHOTOBOOTH: Party With GQ
LIVE VIOLIN: Lieder Strings
FLORAL ARCHES: Party Rentals by Zeus
TRANSPORTATION: Lower Mayfair Eagles Bus
Katie & Matt
Every little girl dreams about her dream wedding and dream guy. Little did I know I would get both! We had a mutual friend on Instagram and his profile popped up as people I should follow. So I started following him, and I thought he was really cute, but I didn’t think he would be interested in me. Later that night I got a friend request from him, and I was so excited about that. I posted a note on Instagram that said “I don’t regret many things in life but I regret buying this HP printer.” He replied to it, saying that it took him over a year to setup WiFi to his scanner and that he was technologically challenged. I never thought when I first posted that, it would bring me my best friend. We’ve talked every single day since then, and we went on our first date a week and half later! Our first date was perfect, we talked the entire night. We played putt putt, then had dinner at Longhorn and then we rode around town just talking and learning about each other. A week later we had our second date, and we had our first kiss at a waterfall. He has always been so supportive, caring and he always wants to help me! He’s my Prince Charming! A year later from our first date on February 4th, 2024, Matthew took me to a waterfall that neither of us had been too, and he proposed! I knew I wanted the last 3 digits of our wedding date to be 224, which means today, tomorrow and forever. So we picked April 22nd of 2024. I wanted my dream wedding to be small and stress free! We rented a beach house and we stayed there for the wedding weekend. The only guests that attended were my parents, my sister and her husband, and Matt’s parents. Everything I had envisioned came to life, and every detail was just perfect, right down to the baby’s breath flowers in my hair. We picked to write our own vows and that just made the day even more special! There’s no one else I could imagine doing life with. A week and half after we got married my granddad passed away. That was one of the hardest things I’ve had to go through, I’m so thankful that he was able to see our wedding pictures right before he passed and that means so much to me! Matthew was so supportive during that and got me through it!
PHOTOGRAPHER: Savanah Elizabeth Photography
VIDEOGRAPHER: Emerald Coast Films
BAKERY: Sherry’s Cake Shop
BRIDAL SHOPPING 101
SHOPPING TIMELINE?
Congratulations on your engagement– let the dress shopping begin! It’s never too early to start searching for the ONE. Right now, new gown orders typically take 5-8 months to arrive, so starting early ensures you’ll have plenty of time for fittings and alterations. For tighter timelines, sample gowns off the rack are a fabulous option, offering quick availability without sacrificing quality and experience. We recommend starting alterations 2-3 months before your wedding to achieve a flawless fit! Your dream dress is waiting for you– let us help you find it!
WHO’S INVITED?
When shopping for your wedding dress, bring the people whose opinions you trust most– those who love and support you unconditionally. While it’s tempting to make it a big event, it doesn’t have to be! Save the big celebrations for other moments in your engagement. Instead, choose a small group who will focus on you and your vision. And don’t forget, dads are welcome too–they can be wonderfully supportive and excited!
IN-PERSON VS. ONLINE SHOPPING?
In-person wedding dress shopping is a once-in-a-lifetime experience you’ll treasure forever. Unlike online shopping, you can guarantee the quality of the gown and enjoy a personalized, catered experience tailored to your style and vision. Experienced stylists guide you every step of the way, ensuring a perfect fit and stress-free process. Plus, you’ll have a reliable shop to address any issues and make your journey to the aisle as seamless as possible.
“I WANT TO SLEEP ON IT”?
When you find the dress, don’t hold back– say yes! This is a once-in-a-lifetime moment filled with excitement, joy, and magic. Trust your instincts and heart and let yourself live in the thrill of falling in love with your gown. It’s not just about the dress; it’s about celebrating you and the journey to your big day. Capture that unforgettable moment and make it yours–you deserve every bit of the sparkle and celebration!
The Gulf Coast Grand Wedding Giveaway
With the help of over 30 vendors, Lesley & Brandon Lange had the opportunity to win a free wedding with the exciting debut of the Gulf Coast Grand Wedding Giveaway. On November 17th, 2024, the couple tied the knot! Lesley remarked, “The Gulf Coast Grand Wedding was an absolute dream come true! We were blessed with the chance to work with so many amazing vendors who truly care about their community. The dedication, hard work, and love that these individuals poured into us made the journey so special. Everything was beautifully tailored towards our love story. From beginning to end, the process was so much fun, and our expectations were blown out of the water! Our wedding shower was stunning and whimsical. Our rehearsal dinner was elegant and charming. Our wedding day was absolute perfection! Each vendor took our vision and truly turned it into something better than we could have ever imagined. There will never be enough words to express our gratitude. This has been the most amazing part of our story yet.”
Cheers to the Langes!
Supposey Venue · Phocus & Co · Ash & Air · The Bridal Loft
Melinda Orona Weddings · Classic City Catering
Pearce Bespoke · Kendra K Beauty · Hemstitch Rentals
Heidi Fisher Art · Joe Hobbs Art Glass · Chrissy Florals
The Powder Room Hair Parlour · Marvelous Strings
Highlight Weddings · Tap The Coast · Graze Boarders
Whim Cotton Candy · Light Bright Events · Elegant Rides
Cj Customs Jewelry · Top It Off The Cupcake Bar
Sweet Magnolia Baking Co · Lily Hall · Fete & Flora
Golden Gypsy Jewelry · Culinary Productions · Coastal Weddings
Alyssa’s South Venue · The Thirsty Ranch · Rollin in Dough
T W O D R E A M V E N U E S
One Unforgettable Experience
S a y " I d o " t o t h e w e d d i n g o f y o u r d r e a m s i n D o w n t o w n P e n s a c o l a F i v e E l e v e n P a l a f o x
a n d O y s t e r B a y B o u t i q u e H o t e l p r o v i d e s t u n n i n g s e t t i n g s f o r y o u r c e r e m o n y a n d
r e c e p t i o n , e a c h o f f e r i n g u n i q u e b a c k d r o p s t o r e a l i z e y o u r v i s i o n
E x t e n d t h e c e l e b r a t i o n w i t h l u x u r i o u s a c c o m m o d a t i o n s a t O y s t e r B a y , a b e s p o k e b o u t i q u e h o t e l w h e r e p a m p e r i n g a m e n i t i e s a n d i m p e c c a b l e s e r v i c e a w a i t . C r e a t e
m e m o r i e s t h a t w i l l l a s t a l i f e t i m e . Y o u r d r e a m w e d d i n g a w a i t s .
Your Forever
ACROSS
1: An automated message you might set up while away for your wedding, abbr.
3: A small gift given to wedding guests to thank them for attending.
6: The bride’s mother, abbr.
9: Something typically worn around the neck with 11 across.
11: A formal evening suit.
13: A traditional dance performed at Jewish weddings where the newlyweds are lifted into the air.
15: Many people hope for this to be open at a wedding.
17: A popular wedding planning website.
18: The count of people invited to a wedding.
19: The card sent before the wedding invitation.
20: A person who shows people to their seats at a wedding.
23: The event held the day before a wedding.
25: This might be purposely spilled on a wedding guest wearing white.
26: A traditional bridal headpiece.
DOWN
2: A person who marries couples.
3: The name of the toasting champagne glass.
4: A way to document the wedding day in real time.
5: The person that hems a wedding dress.
6: A married maid of honor.
7: Flowers worn on the lapel of a suit jacket.
8: An unmarried man.
10: Positive answer to the question “Do you take your partner to be your lawfully wedded spouse?”
12: The groom’s mother, abbr.
14: The safest tool to remove wrinkles from delicate wedding fabrics.
16: Confirmation of attendance, abbr.
21: A popular honeymoon destination in the USA.
22: One might consider a wedding here if living on the Gulf Coast.
23: This atmospheric condition is considered good luck on a wedding day.
24: The color of 25 Across.
See answers on the bottom of page 57.
Answer the to discover your wedding’s extra special touch!
1 ) ) ) ) HOW WOULD YOU DESCRIBE YOUR OVERALL WEDDING VIBE?
Elegant and grand Fun and playful
2 ) ) ) ) WHAT’S MOST IMPORTANT TO YOU ABOUT YOUR GUEST’S EXPERIENCE?
Feeling connected A B C D
Having an epic time Lot of laughs & fun The atmosphere
3
A formal venue A laid-back spot A historic location An intimate place A B C D
) ) ) ) WHAT IS YOUR IDEAL SETTING FOR YOUR WEDDING?
4 ) ) ) ) HOW WOULD YOU DESCRIBE YOU AND YOUR PARTNER’S STYLE? Chic elegance
Casual streetwear
Eclectic retro
Stylish minimalism A B C D
Stunning visuals
5 ) ) ) ) WHAT KIND OF MEMORY DO YOU WANT YOUR GUESTS TO TAKE HOME?
Stories for years to come Inspiring experiences A heartfelt keepsake A B C D
A grand gesture A fun night out A new experience
6 ) ) ) ) WHAT’S YOUR FAVORITE WAY TO CELEBRATE RELATIONSHIP MILESTONES?
A cozy night at home A B C D
Unique and creative Calm and sentimental A B C D Tally your
letters (A, B, C, or D) & check
Hilton Garden Inn Pensacola Airport/Medical Center is your ideal venue for a magical day Nestled in the heart of Pensacola, our elegant space and exceptional service will make your wedding unforgettable From intimate ceremonies to grand receptions, our versatile event space can be tailored to your vision. Our on-site catering services provide a convenient and sophisticated dining experience for events of all sizes. Our dedicated Catering Managers will handle every detail, so you can focus on making memories.
Located near Pensacola - Airport, we offer easy access for out-of-town guests where they can enjoy modern, comfortable rooms, ensuring everyone stays close to the celebration
COASTAL WEDDINGS LOVE SONGS
Take a break from wedding planning, and sing & dance to the reason behind it all!
Die With A Smile - Lady Gaga, Bruno Mars
BIRDS OF A FEATHER - Billie Eilish
Stargazing - Myles Smith
luther (with sza) - Kendrick Lamar, SZA
Belong Together - Mark Ambor
II MOST WANTED - Beyonce, Miley Cyrus
Made For Me - Muni Long
Love Me JeJe - Tems
Little Things - Ella Mai
Can I Have This Groove - Kenyon Dixon
Highway Queen - Mt. Joy
4x4xU - Lainey Wilson
I’m Gonna Love You - Carrie Underwood
Beautiful As You - Thomas Rhett
Forever - Hovvdy
Just Like A Movie - Prateek Kuhad
SPICE UP YOUR BACH PARTY
Planning the ultimate bachelor or bachelorette party has never been
more exciting! Gone are the days of predictable celebrations; today’s parties are all about unforgettable experiences. Whether you want to go bach sh*t crazy or just have a relaxing day with your besties, there are unique ideas for everyone! We have gathered the newest and coolest ideas to share with our readers, promising celebrations tailored to every personality and party-style preference. Get ready to be inspired and start planning your pre-wedding festivities!
COCKTAIL CLASS
Cocktail making services are one of the trendiest social experiences! Perfect for both beginners and budding mixologists, cocktail classes guide participants through bartending techniques, from shaking and stirring to garnishing with flair! Your guests not only get to enjoy tasting their creations, but also learn the art of balance and presentation. It’s the perfect party choice if you’re looking for a playful hands-on experience for your guests.
Featured: Tap The Coast, Mobile Beverage Co.
Planning: Aislinn Kate Weddings
Photography: Aislinn Kate Weddings
HIBACHI AT HOME
If your dream party has a flavorful dining experience, hibachi at home may be what you’re looking for! A professional hibachi chef is an exciting and entertaining culinary experience, and many hibachi businesses now offer to bring the resturant to you! Imagine the sizzle of food, dazzling knife tricks, and interactive cooking techniques, while your guests savor delicious dishes customized to their preferences. It combines the thrill of live cooking with the comfort of a private gathering.
Featured: Fireroll Catering, LLC
CUPCAKE BAR
Got a sweet tooth? Elevate your bachelor or bachelorette party with a custom cupcake bar! It’s a fun DIY station where guests can decorate their own cupcakes, choosing from flavors, frosting, and toppings. The interactive nature of the bar encourages mingling as guests compare creations!
Featured: Top It Off, The Cupcake Bar
Photography: Phocus & Company
CIGAR LOUNGE
Add a touch of sophistication and luxury with a mobile cigar lounge. This upscale experience brings the charm of high-quality cigars, an exterior lounge atmosphere, and elegant decor directly to your guests. Cigars are hand-selected by experts, carrying a variety of craft cigar brands. Whether you’re a seasoned aficionado or a curious novice, the mobile cigar lounge caters to any palette.
Featured: Ash & Air, Mobile Cigar Lounge
Photography: Phocus & Company
CUSTOM CANDLE
Add a warm, personalized touch at the end of your bachelor(ette) party with a commmemorative candle! Your candle creation can be customized by label, fragrance, and packaging to reflect the theme, style, and energy of your event. Unique keepsakes blend sentiment and style, not only serving as decor but as lasting reminders of the joy shared during your celebration!
Featured: Pensacola Candle Company
As you plan your bachelor or bachelorette party, consider these innovative ideas to create an unforgettable celebration. From mastering mixology in a cocktail class to enjoying the theatrical flair of a hibachi cook at home, each experience offers a distinctive blend of fun and flavor. A custom cupcake bar adds a sweet, interactive element, while a mobile cigar lounge provides a sophisticated retreat for those seeking luxury and relaxation. Commemorative custom candles serve as personalized keepsakes, ensuring your guests leave with a warm reminder of the special day. Embrace creativity & make moments that will be remembered and treasured long after the last toast is made!
Ashley Livingston Photography
Yes to I-DoYOUR SKIN BEAUTY TIMELINE
MARLEE BRUNO, FOUNDER OF MIND BODY & SOUL MEDICAL
WHAT TREATMENTS TO GET AND WHEN
Your wedding day is a long-anticipated event, one you’ve likely dreamed about since childhood. It’s a day full of love, excitement, and memories, but let’s be honest—you also want to feel and look your absolute best. Glowing skin is the ultimate accessory to your dress, and makes sure that you look great in every photo taken to capture the celebration. But – achieving that picture-perfect complexion takes time and dedication. Just like everything else in wedding planning, good skin doesn’t happen overnight. Think of it as your ultimate skin-care journey— and trust me, it’s worth every step! As a board-certified Physician Assistant and Master Injector, I’ve had the privilege of helping countless brides prepare their skin for their special day. In this guide, I’ll walk you through a six month beauty timeline designed to give you that flawless glow every bride dreams of. Whether you’re six months out or already feeling the final stretch, there’s something here to help you achieve radiant skin on your big day.
6 MONTHS OUT: START BUILDING THE FOUNDATION
Let’s start at the six-month mark. I know it may feel like a long time away, but prepping your skin early is key to achieving longlasting results. This is the time to lay the foundation for smooth, healthy skin that will radiate when you walk down the aisle. First, let’s talk about microneedling. This treatment is a must for anyone looking to improve skin texture, minimize pores, and boost collagen production. I typically recommend a series of three microneedling sessions, spaced about one month apart. It works by creating tiny, controlled micro-injuries in the skin that stimulate your body’s natural healing process. In turn, your skin starts producing more collagen and elastin—two of the most important proteins for youthful, firm skin. Brides love
this treatment because over time, it leads to smoother, firmer, and more even-toned skin. And who doesn’t want that? While microneedling does wonders, it’s important to be patient. Collagen takes time to build, so starting early will give you time to do a series, giving you the best possible results by your wedding day. At this stage, you’ll also want to introduce medical-grade skincare into your routine. Unlike drugstore products, these are specifically formulated with higher concentrations of active ingredients, ensuring they penetrate deeper into the skin and provide noticeable results. I recommend starting with a cleanser, exfoliant, antioxidant serum (hello, Vitamin C!), and a high-quality moisturizer And of course, don’t forget sunscreen— protecting your skin from UV damage is critical for maintaining your glow.
3 MONTHS OUT:
TURN UP THE GLOW
Fast forward three months, and it’s time to start focusing on treatments that will give your skin a luminous, dewy glow—perfect for your big day. My go-to recommendation for brides at this stage is the Hydrafacial with dermaplaning. Hydrafacials are a favorite for a reason— they deeply cleanse, exfoliate, and hydrate the skin all in one treatment. Plus, they’re gentle enough to do monthly leading up to your wedding. By combining Hydrafacials with dermaplaning (which removes dead skin and peach fuzz), you’ll ensure your skin is smooth and prepped for flawless makeup application. Trust me—your foundation will glide on like butter, and you’ll have that soft, airbrushed finish in all your wedding photos. If you’re considering Botox or dermal fillers to smooth out fine lines or enhance your facial features, this is the perfect time to schedule them. Botox typically takes a minimum of two weeks to fully settle in, and fillers need some time to reduce any swelling, so planning these treatments six weeks out ensures a natural, refreshed look without the rushed feeling.
1 MONTH OUT:
RELAX AND FOCUS ON SELF CARE
At the one-month mark, your skin should be in great shape, but don’t let stress undo all your hard work! Stress is one of the biggest skin saboteurs. It can lead to breakouts, redness, and irritation—all things we definitely want to avoid right before your wedding.
The best thing you can do during this time is to pamper yourself. Stick to the treatments that are already working, like your Hydrafacials, but avoid trying anything new. Now isn’t the time for experimentation! Instead, indulge in self-care like a relaxing massage, meditation, or even a cozy evening at home with a good book. Keeping your stress levels in check will help prevent any unwanted flare-ups.
BRIDAL BEAUTY DOS AND DON’TS
To keep your skin on track, here are some essential dos and don’ts for your wedding skincare prep:
• Do: Start treatments like microneedling, Botox, or fillers early enough to see full results by your wedding.
• Do: Stick to a consistent skincare routine using medical-grade products tailored to your skin type.
• Do: Hydrate! Drinking water is crucial for plump, glowing skin.
• Don’t: Introduce any new skincare products or treatments in the last month before your wedding.
• Don’t: Over-exfoliate or use harsh products that could irritate your skin.
• Don’t: Neglect your body! Remember, glowing skin isn’t just about your face. Exfoliate, moisturize, and hydrate your entire body so you’ll feel confident in your dress.
BONUS TIPS FOR THE BIG DAY
The day has finally arrived, and all eyes are on you! You’ve followed the timeline, prepped your skin, and now it’s time to enjoy the moment. To keep your skin hydrated and glowing, use a hydrating mist before makeup. Choose a lightweight, long-lasting foundation that won’t cake up, and keep blotting papers on hand to control shine throughout the day.
Oh, and one last thing—don’t forget to smile. There’s nothing more beautiful than a bride who feels confident, happy, and radiant from the inside out!
EMBRACE THE JOURNEY
Your wedding day is one of the most special moments of your life, and you deserve to feel absolutely stunning. Beautiful skin is the result of thoughtful planning, so start early, stay consistent, and enjoy the pampering process! Whether you’re prepping with microneedling, indulging in Hydrafacials, or simply sticking to your skincare routine, every step of this journey will bring you closer to your dream bridal look. Most importantly, remember that this is your time to shine—embrace it! The effort you put into your skin will pay off, not only on your wedding day but for years to come. After all, beautiful skin is always in style!
630 E. Government St., Pensacola, FL 32502
mindbodysoulmedical.com 850.204.7433
@mindbodysoulmedicalinc
@mbsmedicalpcola
MIND BODY SOUL MEDICAL
Founded by esteemed healthcare educator and board-certified physician assistant, Marlee Bruno M.M.S., PA-C, Mind Body & Soul Medical is nestled in the heart of Downtown Pensacola, FL, specializing in facial balancing, bio-regenerative aesthetics and expert injectable coaching. The top-tier wellness sanctuary offers an array of minimally invasive, result-driven aesthetic wellness treatments such as injectables, laser treatments, medical weight loss, hormone replacement therapy and targeted skincare treatments. Bruno also offers invaluable business and life coaching, integrating cutting-edge aesthetic techniques with robust wellness strategies to enhance both physical and mental well-being.
Yes to I-Do
YOUR WEDDING CHECKLIST
KELLY RHODES, OWNER OF SOUTHERN FRILLS
6-12 MONTHS PRIOR
Set a preliminary budget to guide planning/figure out who all will contribute
Hire a wedding planner
Create a wedding email (gmail or yahoo) to keep all things wedding in one place
Establish an ideal wedding date
Choose color scheme, theme, and overall formality. What do you want your wedding to look, smell, sound, taste, & feel like?
Meet with the following vendors:
Photographer
Videographer
Florist
DJ/Band
Transportation
Officiant/Minister/Notary
Entertainment for cocktail hour/ ceremony
Rentals (tents, staging, lounge, bars, accent décor, lighting, hanging installations)
Announce the engagements
Start compiling a guest-list with addresses and current name spellings. Guests can be organized in the following categories: family, friends, work friends, other
If there will be an engagement party or rehearsal dinner, set a date & location and purchase invitations
Order and mail out Save-The-Dates once your venue is booked
Begin visiting ceremony & reception locations that fit your desired date, aesthetic, and guest count
Meet with catering & bakery vendors
Start looking at wedding attire
Begin shopping for wedding rings
4-6 MONTHS
PRIOR
Review the budget
Finalize honeymoon plans
Solidify plans for the rehearsal dinner (if necessary)
Determine what customs, traditions, vows, or readings you wish to have
2-4 MONTHS PRIOR
Select person to hand out programs
Purchase wedding party gifts
Arrange for babysitter at reception (if necessary)
Select ushers (if applicable)
Sign up for premarital counseling/ mentoring (if required)
Start addressing invitations
Prepare maps/directions cards
Communicate hotel recommendations for out of town guests
As you receive presents, be sure to update and/or add items to registry
Send out thank you notes for wedding and shower gifts
Mail out invitations 8 weeks prior to the wedding
Determine if meals served at the reception will be plated or buffet
Purchase bride(s)/groom(s) attire
Purchase mother’s attire
Purchase bridesmaids and groomsmen attire
Purchase accessories
Find a reliable seamstress
Schedule hair stylists (as well as the trial run)
Finalize photo-shot lists
Other purchases:
Toasting flutes
Cake knives
Unity ceremony items
Dancing accessories
Favors
Cardbox
Sign in items
Determine if children will be invited
Determine # of out-of-town guests
Reserve or find suggestions at a hotel for guests
Finalize guestlist
Pick out and order wedding favors
Pick out and order wedding invitations
Register for gifts
Finalize food/menu
Arrange final fittings for wedding attire
1-2 MONTHS PRIOR
Obtain your marriage license (from 3 to 30 days of the wedding date)
Schedule meeting with officiant to finalize the wording
Confirm florist orders with planner
Finalize vows
Wrap wedding party gifts
Get something old, new, borrowed and blue
Select the order in which you want wedding party to enter ceremony location
Select ceremony & reception music
While guest arrive
Seating of the grandparents & parents
Processional (entering of officiant & wedding party)
Your grand entrance
Unity ceremony song
Recessional (The exiting of wedding couple followed by the party)
Grand entrance into the reception with your wedding party
First dance
Father and daughter dance
Mother and son dances
Cake cutting
Bouquet toss
Garter removal & toss
Last dance
Arrange parking for reception (if needed)
Ensure that out-of-town guests know the cut-off date to make their reservation
Begin to prepare seating arrangements for reception
Send rehearsal dinner invitations
2 WEEKS PRIOR
Obtain marriage license, if you have not yet done so
Discuss service with officiant
Practice walking in wedding shoes
Arrange for return of groom’s attire, if needed
Let your bank company know you will be out of office
Write toasts for rehearsal dinner and reception
Final meetings with all vendors and planner two weeks before wedding
Prepare tip and payment envelops for officiant and other vendors
Pay final vendors fees at the final meeting with vendors
Put together an overnight bag for wedding night
Leave a copy of your honeymoon itinerary with someone in case of emergency
Designate someone to collect the wedding gifts brought to the reception
Confirm early meeting times with wedding party for the day of the wedding
Your wedding planner will email a detailed wedding day itinerary to all wedding vendors
Make sure wedding gifts are being logged in book; send thank you notes promptly
Finalize seating chart
Provide caterer with final head count 7 days prior to the wedding
Have manicure and pedicure (1-3 days before the wedding)
Exfoliate your skin as much as possible
THE DAY BEFORE THE BIG DAY
Meet at rehearsal venue with wedding party and planner
Drop off favors, guest book, pen and all accessories with the wedding planner
The wedding planner will hand out the wedding day itineraries to the wedding party at rehearsal
Suits to be picked up the day before the wedding
Bridesmaids to steam their dresses
1300 W Garden St, Pensacola, FL 32502
southernfrillsevents.com
850.382.2448
@southern_frills
@southernfrillsevents
Kelly@SouthernFrillsEvents.com
SOUTHERN FRILLS WEDDINGS & EVENTS
We are a wedding design company focused on creating a luxury experience for our clients. We take our client’s personalities, preferences, and love story and bring their dream wedding to fruition. Creating unique and beautiful experiences for them and their guests. Anticipating their needs and desires for a seamless process that is fun and exciting through their engagement.
KELLY RHODES OWNER + LEAD PLANNER
Photos by Aislinn Kate
Weddings
Yes to I-DoYOUR WEDDING TEAM
To have and to hold, from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, until death do us part.
YOUR MARRIAGE LICENSE
REQUIREMENTS
When applying for a marriage license, both parties, age 18 and over, must be present.
A Florida marriage license allows a couple to get married anywhere in Florida, regardless of the county the license was purchased from. If you are getting married outside of Florida, obtain the marriage license from the state where you will be married. Every marriage license is issued by a county court judge or clerk of the circuit court under their hand and seal.
To obtain a marriage license you need: A valid federal or state government photo identification card is required and must provide the correct legal name, date of birth and signature of the applicant.
You do not need to be a resident of this county or the State of Florida to obtain a marriage license.
Marriage licenses are for use within the State of Florida for sixty (60) days from the effective date.
Prior to obtaining a marriage license, both parties must sign an affidavit indicating they have read the Family Law Handbook, which is available as an online resource through The Florida Bar Family Law Section in either English or Spanish. The Family Law Handbook is also available for viewing in the Clerk of Courts Marriage and One-Stop courthouse service locations.
WHERE TO GO
Baldwin County
220 Courthouse Sq
Bay Minette, AL 36507
251.937.0260
Bay County
300 East 4th St
Panama City, FL 32401
850.763.9061
Calhoun County
20859 SE Central Ave, 130 Blountstown, FL 32424
850.674.4545
Escambia County
190 W Government St Pensacola, FL 32502
850.595.4300
Franklin County
33 Market St, 203
Apalachicola, Florida 32320
850.653.8861
Gulf County
1000 Cecil G. Costin Sr. Blvd,148 Port St. Joe, FL 32456
850.229.6112
Gadsden County
10 E Jefferson St Quincy, FL 32351
850.875.8601
If either applicant has been previously married, the exact date of the last divorce, death, or annulment must be provided.
If you have one, or more child(ren) together, who were born in the State of Florida, you must complete the Affirmation of Common Child(ren) Born in Florida form.
Holmes County
201 N Oklahoma St Bonifay, FL 32425
850.547.1100
Jackson County 4445 Lafayette St Marianna, FL 32446
850.482.9552
Jefferson County 1 Courthouse Circle Monticello, Florida 32344 850.342.0218
Leon County 1276 Metropolitan Blvd, 101 Tallahassee, FL 32312 850.606.4060
Liberty County 10818 NW, FL-20 Bristol, FL 32321 850.643.2215
Mobile County 151 Government St Mobile, AL 36602 251.690. 8150
Okaloosa County 101 East James Lee Blvd Crestview, FL 32536
850.689.5000
Santa Rosa County
6495 Caroline St, A Milton, FL
850.983.1966
5841 Gulf Breeze Pkwy Gulf Breeze, FL 850.983.1824
Sarasota County
2000 Main St Sarasota, FL 34237
941.861.7400
Wakulla County 3056 Crawfordville Hwy Crawfordville, FL 32327
850.926.0905
Walton County 571 Highway 90 E, 2nd Floor DeFuniak Springs, FL FL 32433
850.892.8115
31 Coastal Centre Blvd Santa Rosa Beach, FL 32459 850.267.3066
Washington County 1293 Jackson Ave Chipley, FL 32428
850.638.6285
Wedding Resources
ATTIRE:
A Plus Curves Bridal
4400 Bayou Blvd, STE 48, Pensacola, FL 850.475.8296 pensacolabridalloft.com 21 35
35 W Maxwell St, STE 160, Pensacola, FL 850.456.5683 apluscurves.com
The Bridal Loft
BEAUTY & PERSONAL CARE:
5 CATERING
Fishbein Orthodontics
4900 Market Place Rd, Pensacola, FL + 850.477.1089
fishortho.com
Publix Catering
2 EVENT PLANNING
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5055 N 9th Ave, Pensacola, FL + 850.477.8226 publix.com/engaged
Bash Pensacola bashpensacola@gmail.com 850.341.0139 bashpensacola.squarespace.com
Madison Leigh Events madisonleighevents@gmail.com madisonleighevents.com
FLORISTS
Chrissy Floral Designs 1300 W Garden St, Pensacola, FL 850.332.8812 chrissyflorals.com
Celebrations The Florist 717 N 12th Ave, Pensacola, FL 850.433.2022 celebrationstheflorist.com
Floral Tree Affairs info@floraltreeaffairs.com 850.791.0515 floraltreeaffairs.com
The Open Rose Flowers & Gifts 6434 Open Rose Dr, Milton, FL 850.626.1797 theopenrose.net
MUSIC
Blues Angel Music
657 N Pace Blvd, Pensacola, FL 850.457.7557 bluesangelmusic.com
Boogie Inc. mrsboogie@boogieinc.com 850.438.1660 boogieinc.com
Creative Entertainment 850.602.4025 cegulf.com
Mosaiq Events inquiries@mosaiq.events 850.977.3640 mosaiq.events
SN DJ Entertainment 850.501.1590 sndjpensacola.com
Ash Simmons hi@ashsimmons.com ashsimmons.com
Phocus & Company 850.320.7875 phocusonme.com
A Bride’s Ride abridesride@gmail.com 850.316.0635 abridesride.com
Celepretty Limo
celeprettylimo@hotmail.com 850.501.1389 celeprettylimo.com
Gem Printing Co
1904 Veterans Blvd, Metairie, LA 504.834.9580 gemprinting.com
Spike’s Printing Co.
3740 N Pace Blvd, Pensacola, FL 850.432.2335 spikesprinting.com
Wedding Walls
850.995.9988 weddingwalls.com
VENUE
Alyssa’s Venues gatheratalyssas@gmail.com 850.798.6200 alyssasvenues.com
400 Quietwater Beach Rd, STE 13, Pensacola Beach, FL 18
Garden & Grain
50 E Garden St, Pensacola, FL events@perfectplain.com perfectplain.com
Hilton Garden Inn Pensacola Airport 1144 Airport Blvd, Pensacola, FL 850.479.8900 hilton.com
Hilton Pensacola Beach 12 Via De Luna Dr, Pensacola Beach, FL 850.343.6780 hilton.com
Live Oak Pensacola 7874 Beulah Rd, Pensacola, FL 850.449.2100 liveoakplantation.com
Oyster Bay Boutique Hotel
400 Bayfront Pkwy, Pensacola, FL 850.912.8770 stayoysterbay.com
Pensacola Beach Resort
165 Fort Pickens Rd, Pensacola Beach, FL 850.916.9755 thepensacolabeachresort.com
Pensacola Yacht Club
1897 Cypress St, Pensacola, FL 850.433.6773 pensacolayachtclub.org
Seville Quarter
130 E Government St, Pensacola, FL 850.434.6211 sevillequarter.com
The District
123 E Government St, Pensacola, FL 850.332.5224 districtsteaks.com
The Well
42 E Garden St, Pensacola, FL events@perfectplain.com perfectplain.com
The Wharf
VENUE CONT.
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UWF Historic Trust
330 South Jefferson Street, Pensacola, FL 850.595.5985 x107
historicpensacola.org
5 Eleven Palafox
511 South Palafox, Pensacola, FL 850.341.2949
5elevenpalafox.com
The Best Way to Thank Your Wedding Team!
Calling all engaged people who are meeting vendors, securing packages, and loving the services you are receiving: have you left those vendors a review? Chances are, the online reviews or word of mouth recommendations you received impacted who you selected to be part of your wedding team.
Your vendors rely largely on the experiences and recommendations of their previous clients. Your unique team of wedding vendors thoroughly enjoy being part of your love story & adding to the wedding day magic.
And the best thank you that you could give is a review for future couples to see!
QUIZ ANSWERS
MOSTLY A’S:
Fireworks or Live String Quartet
You love the idea of making your wedding feel magical and grand. Add a grand display of fireworks or a live string quartet to create magical moments your guests will never forget. These touches add elegance and drama, making your day feel like a true fairytale.
MOSTLY B’S:
DIY Food or Drink Station
Set up DIY food and drink stations like a build-your-own taco bar, cocktail station, or dessert decorating table. These stations encourage mingling and ensure everyone has a great time.You’re all about creating a lively and interactive experience for your guests.
MOSTLY C’S:
Live Artist and Vintage Photobooth
You love a creative and nostalgic vibe. Hire a live artist to paint the ceremony or reception, and set up a vintage photobooth with quirky props for guests to take home unique mementos.
MOSTLY D’S:
A Wedding Time Capsule
Create a wedding time capsule where guests can leave notes, advice, or mementos for you to open on a future anniversary. This heartfelt touch will make your wedding truly unforgettable.
CROSSWORD ANSWERS
1: OOO 2: Officiant 3A: Favors 3D: Flute 4: Video 5: Seamstress 6A: MOB 6D: Matron 7: Boutonniere 8: Bachelor 9: Tie 10: I-Do 11: Tuxedo
12: MOG 13: Hora 14: Steamer 15: Bar 16: RSVP 17: Knot 18: Guestlist
19: Save-The-Date 20: Usher 21: Hawaii 22: Beach 23A: Rehearsal 23D: Rain 24: Red 25: Wine 26: Veil
Perfect Location
