Old School vs. New School
We asked two women, Old School vs. New School the same questions look below to see what they had to say! 1. Why does society say women can’t get along or work well together? 2. How do you think we can dispel this perception?
New School, Nisha Glenn, Founder of Educated Girls Rock
Hey girl, “Those are some really cute shoes that you have on”. Now was that hard to say? Apparently it was because society says that most women can’t get along with other women. Therefore, women giving compliments to other women seem to validate this statement. Women who are unfamiliar with each other tend to have a hard time communicating. To make matters worse, common courtesy is not used because a simple HELLO doesn’t exist when you see other women. Saying hello and or giving a compliment can surely break the ice. But how many women actually go out of their way to say hey. The misconception is women judge a book by its cover without opening the 8
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pages. There is this crazy notion that most women are insecure, jealous, and envious of each other. Why? Because it tends to be a proven fact, most women are in competition with other women on all levels. For instance, women will criticize a woman’s hair, nails, clothes, shoes, handbag, make-up, career, etc. I think the issue at hand goes deeper because the insecurity lies within self. Most women have problems with their own insecurities, which comes off as them being envious of the other women success. Every woman is not secure with who they are, if you are strong and confident you should be able to get along and work with other beautifully made women.
Most women tend to surround themselves and associate with women they are comfortable with versus getting to know other women that are on a higher level than they are. We should enjoy meeting new people and not be afraid to encourage the next woman while congratulating her on her success. We should inquire about “How did you get to where you are”? In the 21st century, the conflict among women today is not only inherited, but is being promoted daily. Women should be able to have multiple associates with different views on life. Enlarging your territory should be a priority. Try stepping outside of your comfort zone with a simple hello and a smile. If in passing, a simple Hello can go further than a raised eyebrow. Small gestures can make the ice crack and open the door for unlimited possibilities with other women.