Online Safety presentation to New Year 7 Families - April 2019

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Online Safety Education Child Protection Ltd.

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Video

Chat

WhatsApp WhatsApp is an instant messaging app, which lets you send instant

messages, images and videos to friends.

Viber

Tango

Viber lets you

Tango is an app which allows you to make voice

text, call, share photos and send video messages to people worldwide.

calls and video calls, and have group chats.

Skype is a computer programme and app, which lets you make audio

Discord is the only crossplatform voice and text chat app designed specifically for gamers. It is perfect for chatting with team member and seeing who is playing online

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Tik Tok

Skype

Discord

and video calls to friends and family.

Houseparty

YouTube

A group video chat app. When you and your friends are in the app at the same time, you’ll see each other instantly.

One tap and you're in.

YouTube lets you enjoy the videos and music you love. Upload original content, and share it all with friends, family, and the world.

TikTok is a global video community powered by music. Whether it’s dance, freestyle or performance, creators are encouraged to let their imagination run wild.

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Social Networks

Facebook

Twitter

Facebook is the

Twitter is a

biggest social network, which lets users create a page about themselves.

Snapchat

Instagram

Snapchat is an app that lets you

Instagram is a

send a photo or short video to your friends. The ‘snap’ appears on screen for a matter of

seconds before disappearing.

picture and video sharing

social network messaging service that lets you send public message called 'tweets'.

GAMING

app. Users can post content and use hashtags to share experiences, thoughts or memories with an online community.

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Biggest computer game in the world right now is….

So what is it…?

Fortnite is an online shooter that starts with 100 players and leaves one winner standing.

Battle Royale sees 100 players parachute onto an island, and the last player alive wins. Each game lasts about 20 minutes It has a PEGI rating of 12, for ‘frequent scenes of mild violence’ The game is violent — it is a battle to the death, after all — but the violence is rather cartoon-like – it isn't bloody or particularly gory

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National Crime Agency…

Advice for parents on Fortnite…

…has warned Fortnite is putting children at risk from online paedophiles due to the chat facility.

Although the game itself seems pretty harmless, players can talk and type whatever they want to each other, and bad language is rampant.

March 2018, a mother from Merseyside told how she intervened when her 12-year-old son was offered £50 to perform “sex acts” while playing the game by a man grooming him online.

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Be aware that there is mild violence – PEGI rating of 12

Monitor who your child is talking to – check the communication settings

Set up passwords on bank cards – lots of game purchase options

Set up time limits on how long they spend playing…

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Children hooked on addictive video games like Fortnite will be able to seek treatment on the NHS, after video gaming is classified as a medical disorder by the World Health Organisation (WHO).

The next one in-line, thought that it could maybe overtake Fortnite…

The move comes amid increasing evidence of young players suffering psychological distress and family breakdown as a result of their addiction.

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Child Exploitation Online Protection Centre (CEOP)

How do offenders engage youngsters? – by using the sites that they use....

Often posing as a child of the same age / gender.

They will often purposefully present a very similar profile as the child.

They are skilled at manipulating them into criminal sexual relationships

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Online grooming: The five stages

Online grooming: The five stages

Friendship

Forming a relationship

Flattering a child

Gaining information

into talking in a private chatroom/game where they will be isolated The child will often be asked for a non-sexual picture of themselves

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asking the child what problems /needs they have to create the illusion of being their best friend and that they can help They begin to fill the needs of the child

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Online grooming: The five stages

Online grooming: The five stages

Risk assessment

Exclusivity

Asking the child about

the location of their computer/tablet and who else has access to it

Building up a sense of mutual love and trust with the child suggesting that they can discuss "anything"

in order to assess the risk of being detected. The desire is to

create situations where they are alone together

to help reinforce a

special connection

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Online grooming: The five stages

Sex talk / Meet Engaging the child in

explicit conversations & requesting sexually explicit pictures from them

31st October 2015 Luke Harlow ‘adds’ Kayleigh Haywood on Facebook.

November 13th she meets Luke Harlow at his home.

November 15th Kayleigh is declared missing by her family

At this stage the predator will usually try to

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What is

cyberbullying? …any form of bullying that is carried out through the use of…

Laptop

Smartphone or tablet

Desktop Computer

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Gaming Console

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Cyberbullying

Cyberbullying

Tips for dealing with Cyberbullying!

Bullying (Face-to-Face)

Report

Don’t respond

S-Start T-Telling O-Other P-People Be aware of what you share

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Save the evidence

Block the bully

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0800 1111

A chance for a young person to    

What should I do if my child is being bullied online?

talk to a counsellor who

treats them with respect about any issue work at their own pace Confidential Free

Online Chat Report information to your child's school.

Many children prefer to talk about their problems online, where they feel more in control.

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Education Child Protection Ltd.

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www.ceop.police.uk

www.thinkuknow.co.uk

Child Exploitation and Online Protection Command

CEOP Reporting mechanism for CHILDREN…

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When should I report to CEOP? (Children) Someone … online is putting pressure on me to do things I don't want to do

Someone… online keeps asking me to meet them face-to-face & I feel pressured by them

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What happens when a ClickCEOP report is sent?

Someone…

I don't know is asking me to live-stream & do things I don't want to do

Young person contacted by a Child Protection Advisor (CPA) – specialist social worker.

Someone…

I met in an online game keeps trying to talk to me privately

CPA - designed to safeguard, support and reassure

CEOP is a law enforcement agency – reporting is like reporting to police

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www.thinkuknow.co.uk

11-13 year olds

Parents

Education Child Protection Ltd.

Education Child Protection Ltd. Education Child Protection Ltd.

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Parent and Carer

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Advice for parents on Apps…

Parents…talk to your child about…

Using a strong password

To think before they post

Developing a nickname

How to block and report

Change settings to private…

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Using social networking sites, it is so important that we use privacy settings to keep ourselves, and our information, safe!

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So how do we do it‌?

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Parents…talk to your child about…

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Consider the minimum age

Not to check-in / share location

Accepting friend requests from strangers

Not to give out personal information…

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Never give out your

Helpful sites for Parents & Carers

Personal Information

www.net-aware.org.uk

Allows parents and carers to search for apps, games and sites if they have a concern or need more information

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Making things safer….

Parental Controls

Parent Zone have very useful magazines for parents – Digital Parenting – can read whole catalogue on their website

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Important messages for young people...

Making things safer….

Talk to experts from O2 & NSPCC

0808 800 5002

“It’s never too late to tell”.

FREE Help with setting up parental controls, adjust privacy settings or advice on social networks

“Someone CAN help you.”

There are lots of people who can help (e.g. Family / School / GP / Police) “Get support without giving your name.” (ChildLine) “Reporting online to CEOP is the same as reporting to the police.”

– so Education Child Protection Ltd.

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all reports will be taken very seriously

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Advice…

Remember almost everything you do on the internet…

It's okay to say ‘no’

…can be seen by other people

Remember… if a stranger or someone you don’t like sends you a 'friend' request

- so be careful what you say and

think before you type!

you don’t have to accept it

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Advice for young people…

Tell someone if you're being bullied on the internet (for example, getting nasty Facebook messages or emails)

Take a screen shot of any nasty messages – and don't delete the message until you have done this.

Taking a screen shot saves the nasty messages, so that you can show them to people who can help you

Be aware of what you share…

Never arrange to meet up with someone you've met online – even if they seem nice, or you think you know them

personal information

Never reply to emails saying you have won the lottery or inherited money - they are fake emails, from people who are trying to trick you

Only post things that you would be happy with your

family seeing

Turn your privacy settings up to the highest level on your social networking sites

Remember advertising you location is dangerous

If something happens, tell someone – Home / School / ChildLine / CEOP Education Child Protection Ltd.

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Simple checklist for parents: I have visited www.thinkuknow.co.uk with my child (I have bookmarked the CEOP website and told my child what is there) Open and honest dialogue – show an interest and learn about what your child does online Stay in control as much as you can through parental filters, Family Sharing, and apps like Screen Limit Advertise yourself as one of the people your child can turn to – without being chastised…

Education is better than saying to your child “you are not doing this anymore…”

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