November 2010 CPC Life by Christ Presbyterian Church

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FAITH STORY BART KOSEN “ God has given me a second chance.”

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Thanksgiving Harvest

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Debbie Ducar and her grandsons shop for Thanksgiving Harvest.

STUDENT MINISTRIES

INVESTED: 2011 PLEDGE DRIVE

SPOTLIGHT: steve wolinski

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Inspiring all generations to follow Jesus, love others, and live missionally.

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JOHN CROSBY

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he theologian N.T. Wright talks about a British cartoon that highlights “scenes you don’t often see” in modern, self-absorbed Western society: someone buying two copies of a street paper from the homeless or a teenager on a bus turning off his personal stereo so as not to bother people. Such cartoons make us smile because we wish people were like that (maybe that we were like that), but know in normal life, they aren’t, and we aren’t. Here’s another scene: A pastor reluctantly gets into the pulpit to talk about money, but instead of haranguing his congregation’s poor giving, he admonishes them for giving too much. (True story!) His folks, of modest means, were from his perspective going overboard to support the work of the church. A scene you don’t often see? Afraid so. Personally, I actually enjoy teaching and preaching about money and possessions – except for the actual “asking” or the feeling like I’m intruding or shaming. I want to do it differently, and better. This year our stewardship emphasis is “Invested,” taken from Paul’s second letter to the Corinthians. Paul talks about money for two chapters but without ever using the word “money.” Maybe that’s the point . . . money’s not the aim; what God wants to be doing among us is what really matters. Paul begins with his own version of a scene you don’t often see: there is a church

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Cover photo: CPCer Debbie Ducar takes her annual shopping trip with grandsons, Austin and Henry Scott, for Thanksgiving Harvest.

down the road from Corinth made up of poor, blue-collar Macedonians. The Macedonians’ response to the grace of Jesus is overwhelming, joyous giving! Paul then asks the Corinthians, so proud of their own faith, to be sure their giving reflects that same kind of reckless generosity. Instead of walking on eggshells or flogging cheapskates, Paul calls for GRACE to be given. Which church would you like to say you’re a part of? Grace is one of CPC’s “big words,” a term we use constantly. I’m reminded that while grace is God’s gift in us and for us, grace should also extend through us. In other words, God’s gift of grace is only completed as we share it with others. So Paul talks about the “grace given the Macedonian churches” in generosity beyond expectation, or even reason. It’s grace to be shared, grace invested in others . . . During November we’d like to look at moves that free up grace in this area of our lives, whether we call it money or giving or stewardship or . . . whatever! Are we insecure people who never have enough – or can contentment overflow with joy? Are we affected by our culture of greed, or is compassion working its way through our calendars, spending, and relationships? Has giving moved yet from duty to reckless generosity, disconnected from market forces? Pray for my mouth to find God’s choice of words, and pray for the Spirit to “open the eyes of our heart” to grace in a fresh way!

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Pledging is a way of honoring God by being intentional with our giving, as well as helping CPC plan its budget. Pease return completed pledge cards November 20/21 or visit www.cpconline.org/give. Learn more on page 6.

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John Crosby serves as Senior Pastor

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HIGHLIGHTS

HIGHLIGHTS THIS MONTH

Congregational Meetings On November 6/7, we will hold Town Hall meetings after the Saturday evening and Sunday morning worship services. John Crosby will share church updates and take your questions. After the 11:00AM service, the Town Hall is held jointly with the Annual Meeting, convened by the CPC Session. The purpose of the Annual Meeting is to consider a financial report on the fiscal year ending May 31, 2010, and to approve the current compensation payable to CPC pastors.

Missional Advocacy Team CPC’s new Missional Advocacy Team seeks to educate and engage on behalf of the suffering around the world. The initial area of focus is malaria. For $6

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you can buy a mosquito net to protect an African child from contracting malaria. Learn more and get involved at www.cpconline.org/advocacy.

Honoring Loved Ones In this holiday season, many feel loss more acutely. Join us to honor

Zambia Child Sponsorships Be part of CPC’s commitment to Moyo, Zambia. When you sponsor a child you help transform a commu-

Update Your Contact Info Does CPC have your current email address? In this digital age, we want to do more with email to keep you updated on select news and events. Help us keep our records current by sending your contact information to communications@cpconline.org.

125 people currently attend Sunday Communities. 200 men attended the October Men’s Breakfast.

LOVE OTHERS $2,530 raised for Zambia in one weekend through sale of “It Takes Courage” bracelets. 13 Lay Care groups offer support and prayer for those facing challenges.

those we lost on All Saints’ weekend, November 6/7, and at the Candlelight Memorial Service on December 7. nity. Sponsor packets available from the Missions Department or at www. worldvision.org/moyosponsorship.

Celebrate with us how CPC’s generations are following Jesus, loving others, and living missionally.

Green Team CPC wants to be better stewards of our resources. Recent changes by the CPC “Green Team” include motion sensors in hallways and restrooms, mugs instead of Styrofoam for staff, separate garbage and recycling containers, and energy-saving boilers. Please make sure to find the correct container for your trash as we work to take care of God’s earth together.

L I V E M I S S I O N A L LY 300 people from The Table, Calvary Baptist, and Whittier communities gathered for a block party on October 3. This is the 19th year of CPC Thanksgiving Harvest.

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Thanksgiving Harvest peanut butter sandwiches for Thanksgiving because they cannot “splurge” on the fixings for turkey dinner. Some families do without a Thanksgiving meal so they can pay rent or utilities. The reality is that Thanksgiving Harvest at CPC is more important than ever. Five agencies in the Twin Cities will benefit from the generosity of CPC members at a time when their demand is the greatest. Annually, CPC has donated over 1,000 bags of groceries and we hope to exceed this in 2010. In addition, we need 55 or more volunteers to pass out bags and collect and transport the food to the agencies involved.

n the fall of 1991, CPC member Mary Cederberg heard that Twin Cities’ food shelves were bare and families were going hungry. As a Deacon, Mary decided CPC could help with a food drive. Little did she know that her idea would evolve into Thanksgiving Harvest, a major annual CPC event that has fed thousands of Twin Cities’ families over the past 19 years.

Annually, CPC has donated over 1,000 bags of groceries and we hope to exceed this in 2010. Fast forward to 2010. The poverty rate in our country has climbed to 14.3% and one in five children lives below the poverty line. Local agencies like VEAP and Trinity Mission report a 25-50% increase of families in need. The Salvation Army that supports Northeast and Southeast Minneapolis turns away more than 65 families each month due to insufficient food. In homes throughout the city, seniors eat

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Ramon, a South Minneapolis man, has benefited directly from CPC’s Thanksgiving Harvest. He lives in a small apartment with his wife and two children; his wife has kidney disease and receives dialysis treatments three times a week. Ramon lost his job in 2008 and shortly thereafter lost his home. He relies on Urban Ventures for support and food. He clearly remembers the groceries he received from CPC last Thanksgiving as a bright spot in an otherwise bleak holiday season. The blessing isn’t just for those who receive. Each year, Debbie Ducar takes her young grandsons grocery shopping for Thanksgiving Harvest (pictured on cover). Brad Kranendonk and his family load groceries into trucks for delivery. One CPC family personally fills 250 bags of food. In so many ways, Thanksgiving Harvest is a great example of CPC’s mission statement in action. Thanksgiving is usually a time for us to give thanks for how our lives are blessed. But it is also a wonderful time to brighten the holiday for someone who may not be as fortunate.

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Volunteer: Help distribute, collect, or deliver bags to agencies. Visit www. cpconline.org/harvest.

Shop: Pick up empty grocery bags and shopping list after worship on November 6/7. Shopping list also available at www. cpconline.org/harvest.

Return: Return filled grocery bags to the CPC parking lot on November 13/14.

Donate: Give towards the purchase of turkeys and produce. Make checks out to “CPC Thanksgiving Harvest” and put in the donation box in the Great Room.

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Wednesday nights are not about the masses. What’s meaningful is that each of these students and leaders is engaged in a caring mentor relationship and has a small group around them that, for at least one hour a week, lets them get away from the busyness of life and simply be who God created them to be.

“ It’s a time every week just to come and focus on God because that gets really hard to do with so much else going on.”

Wednesday Nights for CPC Students by Cory Gregory, Student Ministries

ome of my favorite commercials are those awkwardly hilarious “Wanna Get Away?” ads from Southwest Airlines. They highlight things we all relate to: situations, responsibilities, and even people we want to get away from. Certainly, we still need to deal with difficulties in day-to-day life and can’t escape all our fears. But it’s refreshing to think about places of refuge and release. Where are those

places we can “get away” that fuel and refresh us? For many students, CPC’s Wednesday night programs are just such a place. Each week, more than 300 6th through 8th graders show up at CPC. A couple of hours later, about 350 high school students gather in House Groups around the city. These various groups are led by 100 adults, college-age through empty nesters. These are big numbers – but

Ellie Schofield, a senior from Bloomington, shares this: “I love getting to bond and catch up with my group of girls. We are from different schools, so we don’t see each other much outside of church. It’s a time every week just to come and focus on God because that gets really hard to do with so much else going on.” Senior Reid Fronheiser from Edina reiterates, “Wednesday nights really help me let go of school and my busy life. I can take a step back and dwell on the important things like Jesus and the friends that I have.” We live in a time when teenagers are more distracted, pressured, and carry greater expectations than ever before. How blessed we are as a community to offer a chance for them to experience God’s grace and peace as we slow down and pay attention. Students may not need to “get away” on a one-way ticket to sunny California (though that may not hurt!), but they do need moments each week to simply come and be themselves. They need places to encounter God’s Word and His promises, so they might carry those truths with them into everyday life. Thanks for being a church that supports and values these students and leaders! CPC LIFE

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SHARING IN GOD’S WORK

by Jesse McLeod, Executive Pastor

uring this month we encourage members of the church family to consider their financial pledge to CPC for 2011. Our theme this year, “Invested: Sharing in God’s Work,” reminds us that pledging is a collective process – something we share in together – and that our focus is on God’s work and His purposes. When you give to CPC, you help advance the mission of inspiring all generations to follow Jesus, love others, and live missionally. I thought it might be helpful to explain more about why we ask you to pledge and its importance.

You can also see that pledged giving comprises the greatest portion of contributions to CPC. I realize that many people give faithfully year after year without ever pledging. However, because overall pledge fulfillment is nearly 100%, pledged giving comprises the foundation of CPC finances. The number of pledges and total amount pledged are core factors as we develop our budget. For many, pledging is an act of stepping out in faith and obedience to God. When we pledge for the coming year, we show that giving to God’s work is a priority, not an afterthought.

Where the Money Comes From:

If you have questions about pledging, or want to discuss automatic bank draft or other ways to give, contact David Peterson or visit www.cpconline.org/give. I pray each of you will be blessed as you consider how God is calling you to share in His work this year!

Where the Ministry Fund Goes: Missions: 13%

Pledge Giving: 66%

Pledging should involve prayer and thoughtful consideration. Remember that pledges are not contracts. Financial circumstances change, as we vividly have seen. People lose jobs, are laid off, or suffer financial reversals. When that happens, just call the CPC Finance Office to adjust your pledge.

Building Expenses: 18%

Non-Pledge Giving: 33% Other Income: 1%

Administrative: 13%

First, pledging is a key component to help us decide the scope of ministry for the coming year. CPC operates with a unified budget, meaning that monies go into a single Ministry Fund budget and are allocated during the budgeting process to the various ministries and operating areas. This enables the Finance Committee and Session to identify needs and set priorities, and then allocate funds accordingly. You can see the allocations for the current fiscal year at right.

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Kids’ & Student Ministries: 17%

Worship/Leadership: 22% Adult Ministry: 17%

There are several ways to make your pledge: Return completed pledge cards on November 20/21 or to the church office.

Visit www.cpconline/give.

Contact: David Peterson, Finance Manager, at 952.920.8515 x206.

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CPC Ministry Programming November 2010

At CPC, we seek to inspire all generations to follow Jesus, love others, and live missionally. Please look through the various programs for kids, students, and adults --- and join us! For fuller descriptions and more information on any of these programs, please visit www.cpconline.org.

general THANKSGIVING BREAK Wednesday, November 24 and Sunday, November 28 Due to the Thanksgiving holiday, there will be no Wednesday night programs on November 24 and no Sunday Communities on November 28. WEDNESDAY NIGHT DINNERS Dinner served in the Great Room from 4:45-6:00PM every Wednesday there is programming. Salad Bar-$4; Dinner & Salad Bar-$8; Dinner without Salad Bar-$7; Kids’ Meal-$4; Family Max-$25 November 3: Taco bar, corn, cake November 10: Sloppy joes, chips November 17: Chicken, tators, cookies November 24: No dinner TOWN HALLS & ANNUAL MEETING Saturday and Sunday, November 6/7 after worship services (except The Table). Annual Meeting on Sunday at 12:00PM Senior Pastor John Crosby will share church updates and take your questions. MID-MONTH CHAPEL SERVICE Wednesday, November 17 at 12:00PM A traditional service with a short message by James Madsen, hymns, Communion, and prayers. Lunch immediately follows. No reservation necessary. CPC HOLIDAY BOUTIQUE Saturday, November 20 from 9:00AM4:00PM An opportunity to buy crafts and original artwork of all types, plus cookies and a soup lunch to benefit local and

global mission efforts. Free and open to the public, so bring your friends and your Christmas lists! Sponsored by the CPC Christian Fine Arts Committee, Women’s Ministries, and Covenant Bells. Learn more about the Cookie Sale on page 8.

THANKSGIVING WORSHIP Thursday, November 25 at 9:30AM Celebrate Thanksgiving as a community with a sermon from the Rev. Rich Phenow, special music by choir and brass, and a time to voice our thanks to God.

adults For women’s and men’s-only events, as well as 50+ adult ministries, please turn to those sections.

SMALL GROUPS Connect with others as you grow deeper in faith. We have groups for men, women, couples, and young adults, meeting short-term, long-term, and at all times of the day. We can also help you start one. Study the Bible, a book, or relational topics. With 90-plus small groups, we have one for you! Contact: James Madsen at 952.920.8515 x308; jamesm@cpconline.org. SUNDAY COMMUNITIES Sunday Communities offer a place to belong and a place to grow with people in a similar stage-of-life. November 7 is a great time to visit a morning Sunday Community as we begin the three-week “Invested” series. No class November 28. 9:30AM: S.A.L.T. (30s & 40s)

A.C.T.S. (50s & 60s) MIXED TAPES (20s & 30s couples) 10:45AM: MORE (all ages) CPC SINGLES (40s & 50s) Learn more in the Sunday Communities brochure (in Great Room kiosk) or at www.cpcponline.org/SC. Contact: Dan Anderson at 952.920.8515 x298; danderson@cpconline.org.

CPC SINGLES (40s & 50s) Sundays, November 7 & 14 from 10:45-11:45AM in the Parlor; meets two Sundays monthly Join us to study Everybody’s Normal Till You Get to Know Them. Our November service project is Thanksgiving Harvest to provide food for people in need. Learn more at www.cpconline.org/ harvest. Our social event is Mine-ha-ha Comedy Club on Friday, November 19. Dinner at Carbone’s at 6:00PM; club at 7:15PM. Contact: Heidi Huebscher at cpcsingles@gmail.com. AUTHOR SHAUNA NIEQUIST AT CPC Wednesday, November 10 at 9:30AM Author Shauna Niequist will speak about her latest book, Bittersweet. Free of charge; open to the public. Learn more under Women’s listing. IN THE WORD New study begins Monday, November 15 from 9:30-11:30AM in Room 108 In the Word is for men and women. Join us on November 15 for the beginning of a four-week study on the Book of Jonah. Contact: James Madsen at 952.920.8515 x308; jamesm@ cpconline.org. CPC LIFE

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COUPLES: TEN GREAT WAYS TO GROW TOGETHER SPIRITUALLY Wednesdays through November 17 from 6:00-7:30PM in the Fireside Room Peter and Heather Larson offer an easy format for spiritual growth that is fun, guilt-free, and non-threatening. Couples learn to experience spiritual intimacy through meaningful conversation, group sharing, and great dates. Contact: Debbie Ducar at 952.920.8515 x226; debbied@cpconline.org. CPC BOOK CLUB Thursday, November 18 at 7:00PM in the Parlor; no December meeting New members welcome to join us to discuss mostly fiction books and other picks. On November 18, we will discuss Jelly’s Gold by David Housewright. Contact: Nancy Reutiman at 952.920.1837; n.reutiman@q.com. WEDNESDAY MORNING STUDY Wednesdays from 11:00AM-12:00PM in Room 203 Study the Book of Ephesians with Rick Byron and others who desire lively discussion and teaching. We meet every Wednesday except Edynamoes days. Contact: Debbie Ducar at 952.920.8515 x226; debbied@cpconline.org.

men STUDY IN GRACE SMALL GROUP Thursdays from 7:00-8:00AM in Room 108 This study is for men in their 30s and 40s to talk about the importance of a grace-filled faith. Contact: James Madsen at 952.920.8515 x308; jamesm@ cpconline.org.

women BITTERSWEET WITH AUTHOR SHAUNA NIEQUIST Wednesday, November 10 at 9:30AM in the Sanctuary Shauna Niequist will speak from her latest book, Bittersweet: Lessons on Change, Grace, and Learning the Hard Way. Join us for fellowship with other

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women and conversation about life, love, writing, friendship, and all the ways God tends to our broken hearts. Free of charge. Contact: Laura Crosby at 952.920.8515 x290.

MOM’S MORNING Large Group In lieu of November meetings, we’ll be joining the Shauna Niequist event on November 10. See above. Contact: Cara Tregembo at 952.925.4331; ctregembo@yahoo.com. Small Groups 1st, 3rd, and 5th Wednesdays of the month from 9:15-11:15AM This is a safe environment for meaningful relationships through Bible study, prayer, and support centered in Christ. Contact: Deb Carlson at deb_carlson@ writeme.com. MOMS OF TEENS Large Group Thursday, November 18 from 9:1511:30AM in the Fellowship Hall Paul Bernabei, Director of Noble Ventures, discusses “Guiding Our Teens Through Roadblocks.” Register: www.cpconline.org/register. Cost: $5 per session. Contact: Anita LaHaye at 952.926.7910; mlahaye@comcast.net. Small Groups Two Thursdays a month Moms meet bi-weekly to strengthen the bonds between moms navigating their kids’ teen years. Contact: Linda Murdock at 952.927.5491; lindamurdock1@comcast.net. COOKIE SALE AT THE CPC HOLIDAY BOUTIQUE Cookies due Friday, November 19 During the Holiday Boutique, Women’s Ministries sells cookies to benefit missions. If you’d like to bake, bring your cookies to CPC on Friday, November 19 from 12:00-7:00PM (one dozen per plate, in a Ziploc bag, and labeled). Contact: Carrie Stowers at cstowers@umn.edu. NEEDLEWORK GUILD Saturday, November 13 from 10:00AM2:00PM in the Fellowship Hall; meets 2nd Saturday monthly

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Needlework Guild’s mission is to make warm winter garments and blankets for local agencies that serve the needy. All are welcome regardless of sewing expertise. Contact: Sally Stoutenburgh at 952.927.6915.

MARTHA CIRCLE Wednesday, November 17 at 10:00AM in the Parlor; meets 3rd Wednesday monthly We are looking towards the Christmas season! Carol Krebs, Manager of Pathway, will show us some gifts and books. Bring unwrapped gifts to help stock the Santa Shop at Cornerstone. Contact: Pat Haberkorn at 952.941.4188. LYDIA CIRCLE Saturday, November 20 at 9:30AM in Room 204; meets 3rd Saturday monthly Lydia Circle will hear from Sharon Sampson, Director of Communications. Later, we will have a short meeting and go to the CPC Holiday Boutique for lunch. Contact: Ellen Hastings at 952.896.0066. ESTHER CIRCLE Saturday, November 20 at 10:00AM; meets 3rd Saturday monthly Join us at the home of Carol Koster (7100 Metro Boulevard #126, Edina, MN 55439) for fellowship and a discussion of Rick Warren’s God’s Answers to Difficult Questions. Contact: Carol Koster at 952.835.6649. RUTH CIRCLE Wednesdays at 9:30AM Ruth Circle is an active group of women who meet every Wednesday at 9:30AM. On the 1st and 3rd Wednesdays we meet in a member’s home, and the 2nd and 4th Wednesdays we do service projects. Contact: Cherie Miller at 651.484.6480. TITUS 2: AN INTERGENERATIONAL GROUP 1st, 3rd, and 5th Wednesdays from 9:30-11:15AM In Titus, Paul encourages older women to mentor younger women. Join us for a great combination of serious study with mentoring and fellowship. Register: Debbie Ducar at 952.920.8515 x226; debbied@cpconline.org.

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TUESDAY WOMEN’S BIBLE STUDY Tuesdays from 1:00-2:30PM Carolyn Beatty continues to lead this committed group of women as we study the Book of Romans. Contact: Judy Romine at 952.929.4983.

50+ NESTERS (Active Retired Age) Luncheon Sunday, November 7 at 12:30PM in the Fireside Room This luncheon’s theme is “Growing Wiser about Growing Older” to help us consider some of the opportunities and challenges we face in our retirement years. Cost: $10. Register: Lorilee Peterson at 952.920.8515 x243 or lorileep@ cpconline.org. Christmas Celebration Saturday, December 4 at 6:30PM in the Fellowship Hall Enjoy a wonderful dinner and the sounds of Christmas with the CPC Bell Choir. Cost: $15. Register: Lorilee Peterson at 952.920.8515 x243; lorileep@ cpconline.org. EDYNAMOES (70+) Wednesday, December 1 starting at 11:30AM Christmas is coming, our most joyous time of the year! Silver bells, shining lights, children’s glowing faces, a bright star – and in a manger, the Christ child! Do begin your holiday with us. We will have our annual feast plus a marvelous program, “Christmas Is . . .” presented by Brava, a creative women’s choral ensemble. Directed by Dawn Allen, this group performs widely to bring its message of inspiration and joy. Please join us starting at 11:30AM. As is our custom, we will collect toys for underprivileged children through VEAP. Cash and checks also welcome. Register: Judy Romine at 952.929.4983 by Sunday, November 28.

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Friday, November 5 from 7:00-9:00PM & Saturday, November 6 from 9:00AM -4:30PM Explore ways to be open to God and experience His power. The speaker is the Rev. Mike Flynn; Sara Renner and The Elements lead worship. Register: 952.942.9016; www.prayerventures.org. Contact: Lay Care at 952.920.8515 x275; laycare@cpconline.org.

GRIEF RECOVERY Tuesday, November 9 at 6:00PM in the Parlor; meets 2nd Tuesday monthly all year (excluding December) This group is for those who have lost a loved one. We experience God’s hope and healing through fellowship, prayer, and sharing a meal. Contact: Debbie Manning at 952.920.8515 x275; debbiem@cpconline.org. ALZHEIMER’S DISEASE CLASSES Thursday, November 11 from 7:008:00PM in the Fireside Room; meets monthly through May This monthly educational series is designed for those who have received an Alzheimer’s diagnosis, their care partners, and professionals. November’s talk is “Managing the Holidays.” Register: Lorilee Peterson at 952.920.8515 x243; lorileep@cpconline.org. DIVORCECARE Thursdays through December 16 from 6:00-7:30PM in Rooms 203 and 204 Join others who are experiencing the grief of divorce and find help, discover hope, and experience healing. Contact: Grete Kirkeng at 612.280.0482; gkirkeng@hotmail.com. CANDLELIGHT MEMORIAL SERVICE Tuesday, December 7 at 7:00PM in the Sanctuary Learn more under Special December Events on page 10.

kids Kids’ weekend programs for 6 weeks old-5th grade available during all worship services. Wednesday night Kids’ Club and Choir are for 1st-5th grades. Register: www.cpconline. org/register. Contact: Anne

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FAMILY COMMUNION WORKSHOP Saturday, November 6 at 3:30PM in the Fireside Room The Family Communion Worship is for elementary-aged children and their parents. We’ll talk about why Communion is special and when it is time for a person to begin taking it. Light supper will be served ($3 per adult; $2 per child; maximum of $10 per family). Register: Anne McCracken at 952.920.8515 x216; anne@cpconline.org. FAM JAM FOR PRESCHOOLERS AND THEIR FAMILIES Saturday, November 13 from 9:0010:45AM in the Multi-Purpose Room Bring your family, bring your smile! Please join us for a fun-filled morning of crafts, cookie decorating, facepainting, and an air jumper. Register in your child’s classroom. Contact: Sara Kietzmann at 952.920.8515 x309; sarak@cpconline.org.

MISSIONS URBAN HOMEWORKS WORK DAYS Friday and Saturday, November 5/6 from 8:00AM-4:30PM Volunteer (age 16+) at Lovell Square doing demolition and interior/exterior work. Tools available onsite or you may bring your own. Meet at Lovell Square Park (intersection of N. James Ave. and N. 11th Ave. in North Minneapolis). Register: www.cpconline.org/register. Contact: Mike Hotz at 952.920.8515 x210; mikeh@cpconline.org. THANKSGIVING HARVEST Pick up empty bags: November 6/7 Deliver filled bags: November 13/14 Since 1991, CPC has donated over 1,000 bags of groceries to needy families at Thanksgiving and we hope to exceed this in 2010. Bags and shopping lists will be distributed November 6/7 after worship and need to be returned to the CPC parking lot November 13/14. Volunteers also needed to distribute, collect, and deliver bags to agencies. Visit: www.cpconline.org/harvest. CPC LIFE

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FAMILIES MOVING FORWARD Sunday-Saturday, November 21-27 at CPC CPC will host homeless families during Thanksgiving week through the Families Moving Forward ministry. Sign up in the Great Room before and after services to prepare meals, host, set up, or clean up as we love people in need. Contact: Erin Dahl at 612.747.9813; erin.dahl@live.com. ADOPT A FAMILY Adopt: November 27/28 & December 4/5 Deliver: December 12 by 1:00PM Adopt A Family is a CPC Deacon ministry that provides Christmas gifts for families who otherwise wouldn’t be able to afford them. Select a family the weekend of November 27/28 or December 4/5, then drop off your gifts on December 11/12 at CPC. Contact: Betsy Bakke at 612.827.4574; thebakkes@usfamily.net.

students MIDDLE SCHOOL ELEVATE Wednesdays from 6:00-7:30PM in the Multi-Purpose Room 6th and 7th graders are invited to come for a night of fun, friends, and faith. Students participate in a small group with high school student leaders. Register: www.cpconline.org/register. Contact: Mandy Jester at 952.920.8515 x232; mandyj@cpconline.org. COMMITMENT CLASS Wednesdays from 6:00-7:30PM in Room 204 8th graders are invited to be a part of CC to engage in spiritual talks, group learning, and small group conversation. Register: www.cpconline.org/register. Contact: Lee Hanssen at 952.920.8515 x267; leeh@cpconline.org.

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HSM HOUSE GROUPS Wednesdays from 8:00-9:30PM 9th-12th graders meet at House Groups off-site. Contact: David

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Stewart (952.920.8515 x260; davids@ cpconline.org) or Brooke Toftoy (952.920.8515 x286; brooket@cpconline.org).

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TABLE HANG-OUTS Table Hang-Outs are a time for The Table community to connect with each other in various activities. Contact: Ashley Barlow at 952.920.8515 x223; ashleyb@cpconline.org. Holy Yoga Thursday, November 4 from 6:007:00PM in Room 204 Join other Table friends as we practice yoga while praising God. Tavern on France Sunday, November 21 from 7:309:00PM Connect with other Table friends as we eat, drink, and be merry. Meet at Tavern on France (6740 France Ave. S. Edina, MN 55435) after the worship service. Craft Time for Adults Friday, December 3 from 7:00-10:00PM Get creative with Table friends at Studio Bricolage (4301 Nicollet Ave. S. Minneapolis, MN 55409). Cost: $15. special december events

CANDLELIGHT MEMORIAL SERVICE Tuesday, December 7 at 7:00PM in the Sanctuary Begin the season of Advent with a time to remember loved ones and experience renewed hope. Please join us for a special candlelight service to honor those you have lost and set your heart and mind on the coming Messiah. Dessert follows in the Great Room. Contact: Debbie Manning at 952.920.8515 x275; debbiem@cpconline.org. Men’s Breakfast Saturday, December 11 from 7:009:00AM in the Fellowship Hall Men will gather for fellowship, breakfast, and to hear from special speaker, CPC member Terry Hitchcock. Terry was featured in a documentary about running 75 marathons in 75

days. Cost: $10 if you pre-register; $12 at the door. Register: www.cpconline. org/register.

Women’s Christmas Brunch Saturday, December 11 from 9:3011:30AM in the Fireside Room Norah Long, currently starring in Chanhassen’s Dinner Theatres’ “I Do! I Do!” will entertain and inspire us with word and song as we prepare our hearts for Christmas. Cost: $10. Register: www.cpconline.org/register. PROJECT HOMELESS CONNECT Monday, December 13 at the Minneapolis Convention Center Project Homeless Connect brings volunteers (18+) from all backgrounds to serve people experiencing homelessness. Register: www.homelessconnectminneapolis.org. Contact: Mike Hotz at 952.920.8515 x210; mikeh@cpconline. org. CHRISTMAS EVE WORSHIP Friday, December 24 2:00PM - Family Service (identical to 4:00PM) 4:00PM - Family Service 6:00PM - Traditional Service with Communion 9:00PM - Traditional Service with Choir 11:00PM - Table with Communion Please note that on Sunday, December 26, there will be one morning service at 10:00AM and a 6:00PM Table service. MISSION MINNEAPOLIS: LOVING OUR CITY WITH THE TABLE Monday-Wednesday, December 27-29 Join The Table on their first local mission trip! We will be working with Urban Immersion and spending three days loving our neighbors well. Cost: $100 (30 spots available). Register: www.thetableatcpc.org. Contact: Ashley Barlow at 952.920.8515 x223; ashleyb@cpconline.org.

FA I T H S T O RY

I was in a CPC small group when someone shared Micah 6:8 with me. He said it was the answer to my question, ‘what does God want with the rest of my life?’ Now I know God wants me to stand for justice – for me, that means doing the right thing. To love mercy – which is to love and serve others. And to walk humbly with God – which means not being selfish, but giving of my time, talents, and money. When I do these things, I’m free.

In My Own Words A Faith Story as Told by Bart Kosen The first service I came to at CPC, I left with tears running down my face. This was four years ago, and John Crosby gave a message about the great things God wants for our lives and the powerful ways He works when we open ourselves to Him. I had recently been through a crossroads in my life and had nearly given up hope. The question on my heart and mind was, ‘what does God want with the rest of my life?’ I felt such a warm, welcoming spirit at CPC and I knew this was where I needed to be.

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Prior to that, for more than 30 years, I ran my life on my own self-will. Externally, I looked like I had it all together. I built a successful practice as a financial planner, ran marathons, worked and played hard. But I was relying on the power of me, not the power of the Lord. I got into a very unhealthy relationship, and when it exploded, it was more than I could handle. I entered a period of real darkness with a threeyear exhaustive divorce, difficulties with my kids, and the decline of the stock market. Everything I valued was slipping away. I went to bed at night and prayed God would take me, that I wouldn’t wake up in the morning. I tried to drown my pain in alcohol. I nearly drank myself to death.

My son, then 21, suggested I go to Alcoholics Anonymous. What I discovered in AA is that God has always been faithful. His hand was always reaching out to me; I had forgotten to grab hold of it and walk with Him. Gradually God restored me to health, to life, to caring, and to having hope. As the fog began to lift and the fear subsided, I began to relearn the normal things of daily living – things like showing up and coming with a good attitude. I’ve learned these are the only two things I can control. God has given me a second chance in life, a new opportunity to serve Him. I had been living in darkness, but God revealed Himself to me and said, ‘I have more work for you to do.’

I had been living in darkness, but God revealed Himself to me and said, “ I have more work for you to do.” I now lead AA meetings at three prisons. The guys in there are shaky, fearful, and with a variety of abuse issues. As I’ve listened to their stories, I realize that, but for the grace of God, I could have been in prison, too. Maybe I should have been. But for some reason I was spared. So I feel an obligation to serve. I’m not going to wear all black and turn into Johnny Cash – although maybe I should learn how to play the guitar; I do like to sing! – but I feel like prison ministry is a calling.

As a Deacon, I recently assumed chair of the CPC Barnabas Fund [to help CPCers in financial distress]. I’ve met with applicants going through unbelievably tough times. One woman has applied for a job everywhere. Even at the dry cleaner, where people usually don’t want to be exposed to the fumes, there were 50 applications ahead of hers. The Barnabas Fund is just a one-time gift – but what happens after that? If this woman can’t find a job, she’ll eventually be evicted and can’t even afford to move her stuff. She’ll just have to walk away. When I hear stories like that, I realize giving isn’t just a good thing to do; I have an obligation to give until it hurts. I’m not there yet. God loves and cares for this woman just as much as He does for me. If I give $50 or $500 or $5,000 to CPC, it isn’t going to have a material effect on whether we reach our retirement or not, or whether we’ll be homeless. We need to dig deep and repay our thankfulness and God’s faithfulness. I see all the wonderful missions CPC is involved in. Not just in our backyard; we’re spreading the love of Jesus Christ, loving others, and living missionally all over the world. My tenure as a Deacon ends in April. But the opportunities to serve are just beginning. I don’t know what that’s going to look like in the future but I know that God has given me a heart to say yes. The only chance I have at anything today is to turn my will and my life over to the care of God. How can I not freely give what has been so freely given to me? How can I not share? He’s restored me to a place that I can, and will, serve Him.

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Bart Kosen

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I N O U R F A M I LY

2nd grade bibles We gave Bibles to 105 2nd graders, encouraging them to read and know Godâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s timeless Word for themselves.

block party The Table hosted a block party October 3 with Calvary Baptist Church for the Whittier neighborhood. Two communities came together for food, games, and quality time.

needlework guild Some of the 450 items handmade by the Needlework Guild to keep people in need warm this winter. fall at cpc Seasonal colors enrich the Memorial Prayer Garden.

GIDDYUP, STUDENTS Lee Hanssen, a new member of the Student Ministries team, corrals middle schoolers at their Wednesday Night kick-off.

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In Our

Family

Congratulations Ryan and Sally Knapp welcomed son Charles Theodore (Charlie) on September 18. Big sister is Mackenzie; grandparents are Ted and Kathy Burger; Uncle is Andy Burger; and Great Aunt and Uncle are Jan and Bud Burger. Justin and Sally Grimm welcomed daughter Amelia Louise on October 1. Big sister is Charlotte. Casey and Jennifer Crews welcomed son Kellan Casey on October 5. Mike and Nancy Corbett welcomed daughter Rachel Lillian on October 19. Big brother is Benjamin.

SYMPATHY TO: Marilyn Tyckoson and son, Bob Tyckoson, on the passing of Edwin “Gil” Tyckoson on August 6. He is also survived by sons, David, William, and Timothy, and their families. A memorial service was held on October 4 in the Sanctuary. The Rev. Rich Phenow officiated. Margie and Mark Sborov and family on the passing of Margie’s mother, Margery Lade, on October 12. A memorial service was held on October 15 in the Chapel. The Rev. Rich Phenow officiated. Jan and Jim Doudiet and family on the passing of Jan’s mother, Millie Stevenson, on October 12. A memorial service was held on October 15 in the Sanctuary. The Rev. Dr. Dan Anderson and the Rev. Jody Phenow officiated. Gail and Tom Haugen on the passing of Gail’s father, Gilbert Okerstrom, on October 12. He is also survived by grandchildren Tim, Katharine, Grace, and Grant.

NOTIFICATION OF DEATHS Stay informed about loss and memorial services at CPC through email updates. To subscribe, email Emilie Grill at emileg@cpconline.org.

Bob and Mary Melander welcomed the birth of their granddaughter, Ruby Alice, on October 19. Parents are Dave and Sarah Melander and big brother is Oscar. Candace Snyder and Keith Slagle were married on October 2 in the Sanctuary. The Rev. Rich Phenow officiated. Katherine Manuel and Brian Vander Pol were married on October 2 at Central Presbyterian Church in St. Paul, MN. The Rev. Rich Phenow officiated.

IN THE HOSPITAL Cindy Johnson - U of Minnesota Dale Kattleman - Abbott Helen Burr - Fairview Southdale Jean Stenberg - Abbott FINANCIAL UPDATE JUNE 1 – SEPTEMBER 30, 2010: Ministry Offering Budget: $1,108,656 Actual Ministry Offering: $1,205,471 Variance: $96,815 Expenses are solidly within budget. As of this printing, total October giving wasn’t available, but was tracking behind budgeted targets.

Copies of our annual audited financial statements are available in either hard copy or electronic form. Please contact David Peterson, Finance Manager, at 952.920.8515 x206 or davidp@ cpconline.org or pick up a copy in the kiosks. Thank you for your gifts to CPC as we seek to inspire all generations to follow Jesus, love others, and live missionally. To give to CPC, visit www.cpconline.org/give or contact David Peterson, Finance Manager.

Natalie Siefer and Jed Overmann were married on October 8 at Gale Woods Farm in Minnetrista, MN. The Rev. Dr. Dan Anderson officiated.

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Brittney Evans and T.J. Widel were married on October 16 in the Sanctuary. Pastor Brad Jackson officiated. Ashley Neeser and Michael Urlick were married on October 22 in the Sanctuary. Pastor Kyle Jackson officiated. Sara Haymaker and Dave Dobberfuhl were married on October 23 at Wayzata Community Church in Wayzata, MN. Pastor Brad Jackson officiated. Jennifer Buckner and Greg Winegarden were married on October 30 in the Sanctuary. The Rev. Dr. John Crosby officiated.

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CPC Life, CPC’s new monthly publication, is born from a desire to be good stewards of our money and to better communicate the stories and events of our church. In 2009, we spent over $14,000 to mail out the biweekly Carillon, which was more than the cost of printing it. By saving on mailing costs and publishing monthly, CPC Life represents a cost savings from The Carillon.

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COMMUNITY LIFE

What We’re Reading visit pathway books to find these recommendations THE LAND BETWEEN

by Jeff Manion In The Land Between, author Jeff Manion uses the story of the Israelites’ trek out of Egypt toward the Promised Land as a metaphor for the hard times of transition all of us experience. He writes, “This book is not intended to be a how-to manual on locating a swift exit ramp from the Land Between.” Rather, in compelling ways, Manion uses the story of the Israelites, as well as contemporary anecdotes, to ask some critical questions. He doesn’t give easy answers, but in looking at God’s interaction with others, we see His faithfulness and ourselves more clearly. Laura Crosby, Formational Initiatives

TRUE TO HIS WORD: THE STORY OF BIBLE STUDY FELLOWSHIP

by Gregg and Deborah Shaw Lewis This is the inspiring story of A. Wetherell Johnson, missionary to China and creator of Bible Study Fellowship. When Johnson returned from her time in China, she was asked to lead a Bible study for five women. She agreed on one condition: she would not “spoonfeed” the class. She provided a few questions; they prayed and listened to what God had to teach them. The group then shared what they learned and listened to a lecture from Miss Johnson. The same pattern is followed today, 50 years later, but now in 1,000 classes and in 30 countries! This book is a wonderful history of BSF and God’s faithfulness. Carol Krebs, Pathway Books

THANKS FOR THANKSGIVING

by Julie Markes Thanksgiving is a holiday that often gets little emphasis beyond family gatherings and extensive meal preparation. But the concept of being thankful – living life with a grateful heart – is one that we should pass on to our children. Thanks for Thanksgiving helps children focus on what they’re thankful for and to whom they’re thankful. From play dates and piggyback rides to puddles and dress up, Markes reminds children of the many things they have been given. The last page is left blank for the child to list all the things for which he or she is grateful. Let’s cultivate thankful hearts in our children – and in ourselves – this year! Pathway has other Thanksgiving books available as well. Carol Krebs, Pathway Books

What We’re learning

stewardship Christian stewardship is our faithful response to the generosity of God’s love towards us by way of us committing our time, talent, resources,

by James Madsen, Adult Ministries and money to God. When we give to God out of gratitude because we are thankful for all He has done for us or when we give because we love Him . . . it does something amazing inside us. It gives us joy. It nourishes our heart.

We experience God at work in our lives when we let go of our stuff and let Him use it. For me, the beginning point is to remember everything I have of value is really God’s; He has just entrusted it to me.

What We’re praying by Gayle DeHaan and Barb Harmon, College of Elders for CPC

for our community

for the world

In this month of Thanksgiving, pray that all CPC members draw near to God with a grateful heart and pledge generously to God’s work.

Pray that the families who receive meals through CPC’s Thanksgiving Harvest would feel God’s love and seek Him.

Pray for CPC 3rd-5th graders as they pack shoeboxes for Operation Christmas Child and for the children around the world who will receive them. May they offer joy, hope, and an understanding of Jesus.

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SPOTLIGHTS

[ Staff Spotlight ]

Jane Nienaber

Jane Nienaber serves as the Organist and Accompanist for CPC worship. Hometown: NE Minneapolis Family: Husband, two adult sons, and one grandson Favorite Hymn: “My Hope is Built on Nothing Less” Favorite Christmas Carol: “In the Bleak Midwinter” Favorite food: Chocolate

[ Volunteer Spotlight ]

Steve Wolinski

Q How did you begin as an organist? I started playing in an organ class at my high school (Edison High School, where Roger Anderson also attended). I began accompanying one of the choirs in school and my teacher encouraged me to become an organ major. I went to the University of Minnesota where I was a music major with the organ as my primary instrument. My husband is also a church organist and we met at the U.

Q What has been your experience as an organist at CPC? I’ve been at CPC for 22 years. I like CPC because we have a good music program and Heather Hood challenges us all to do our best. I love all the choir people and I have good instruments to play on (both organ and piano). Over the years, I have also had many people who have spiritually encouraged me at CPC. My favorite part of my job is leading congregational singing, because singing is such an important part of expressing our praise to God. I see it as a privilege to get to do that. Q What does an average workweek look like for you? I practice, accompany choirs, and work on the music library. For Sunday’s service, I don’t pick out music until I know what the hymns are. Then I try to have as much varied repertoire as I can: Bach, Mendelssohn, American composers. And one of my challenges is to continually learn new music. I also teach both children and adults on organ and piano. Q What has your faith walk looked like? I grew up as a Methodist. In my family we never really talked about faith, as such. My heart changed when I started attending Bible Study Fellowship when my son was in the 1st grade. That’s where we really talked about the importance of having a personal relationship with God. I am again in BSF and studying Isaiah.

Q How long have you been at CPC? Fifteen years. I love CPC’s combination of Christ-centered teaching and being God’s hands and feet in the community and world. Q Tell us about the new CPC Missional Advocacy Team (MAT). We want to choose causes that are 1) on the hearts of church members and 2) align with our current mission partners. We can then bring the resources (and here they are so abundant) to influence public policy and government officials. We can also educate people and pray.

Q Why has the MAT chosen malaria as its first issue?

Steve Wolinski serves as the lay leader of the CPC Missional Advocacy Team.

CPC is involved in Africa where malaria is a great killer. One million people die every year of malaria and 90% of those occur in sub-Saharan Africa; 85% of those deaths are children under the age of 5. CPC is in Congo and Zambia and the kids in these communities are dying of a fully preventable disease. Going on a mission trip and giving money can help, but there is that third area of influence that has the potential of having a larger impact in the systemic problems facing these communities.

Q What is the future goal for the MAT at CPC? CPC’s ultimate goal is for the MAT to act as an overseeing body for different areas of advocacy, such as immigration, gender violence, affordable housing, HIV/AIDS, and human trafficking. The potential at CPC is huge. We are uniquely positioned because we have people who are passionate and energetic about issues as well as congregants who have powers of influence. We have a lot of untapped potential. Learn more: www.cpconline.org/advocacy. Family: 11th grade daughter Book you are reading: The Power of a Whisper by Bill Hybels Favorite Food: Seafood cooked in garlic

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This Month in Worship

CURRENT SERIES

November 6/7 | Invested: From Insecurity to Dependence Brad Jackson speaking

Invested: Sharing in God’s Work In 2 Corinthians, Paul celebrates the Macedonians whose “overflowing joy and extreme poverty welled up in rich generosity.” Even in trials and poverty, these early Christians counted it a privilege to share in God’s work. What stops us from that kind of joyful, radical giving? This series will address three common misbeliefs that get in the way of generous living: that we don’t have enough, that we don’t need to share, and that we have nothing to gain.

November 13/14 | Invested: From Greed to Compassion John Crosby speaking / Brad Jackson at The Table November 20/21 | Invested: From Grudging Duty to Contented Generosity / John Crosby speaking November 27/28 | Embraced: Redemption is Coming Deb Kielsmeier speaking / Kyle Jackson at The Table

november At A Glance (see pages 7-10 for details) SUN

MON

1 Women in the Word In the Word

Sunday 7 Communities (S.C.) CPC Singles Nesters’ Lunch Town Halls & Annual Meeting

S.C. CPC Singles Thanksgiving Harvest Bags Due

21 S.C. Families Moving Forward (FMF) Table Hang-Out Pledge Weekend

Women in the Word In the Word

Women in the Word In the Word (new study begins)

2 Romans Study Financial Peace (FPU)

22 FMF Women in the Word In the Word

WED

TUE

3 Ephesians Study, Ruth Cir. Titus 2 Group Wed. Dinner & Programs

Romans Study Grief Recovery FPU

Eph. Study, Ruth Cir. Shauna Niequist Wed. Dinner & Programs

Mid-Month 17 Chapel Eph.Study, Titus 2, Ruth & Martha Cir. Wed. Dinner & Programs

Romans Study FPU

FMF Romans Study FPU

FRI

THU

FMF Eph.Study, Titus 2, Ruth Cir.

4 Study in Grace Men’s Group Table Hang-Out DivorceCare

5 Prayer Ventures (through 11/6) Urban Homeworks Work Day

Family Communion Workshop Town Hall Meeting

13 Needlework Guild Fam Jam

Cookies Due for Holiday Boutique

25 FMF Thanksgiving Worship

UHW Work Day

Study in Grace Men’s Group Alzheimer’s Class DivorceCare

Study in Grace Men’s Group Moms of Teens CPC Book Club DivorceCare

SAT

Holiday Boutique & Cookie Sale Lydia & Esther Cir. Pledge Weekend

26 FMF

27 FMF Adopt a Family Starts

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