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am truly honored and thrilled to say the journey you are about to embark upon is one of the most memorable times in your life. Enjoy it!
The planning process will be filled with excitement and important decisions. Although planning a wedding may be viewed as a long and challenging process, our team wants to make it fun and easy for you!
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First, you need to assemble your team. The people you can trust with your unique vision for your Big Day.
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Types of Honeymoons
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How Can I Ever Thank You!
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Million Dollar Moments
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Chicago’s Newest Newlyweds
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Designers’ Challenge
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Benefits of Hiring a Wedding Planner
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What to Do After the Wedding
Planning Notes 26
12-Month Planning Checklist
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Obtaining a Marriage License
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ONE YEAR ___ Create your budget. ___ Begin researching wedding vendors (go to chicagostyleweddings.com/vendordirectory to get started). ___ Choose a date and time for your ceremony and reception. ___ Select and book your ceremony location and reception venue. ___ Choose your attendants. ___ Begin wedding dress shopping. ___ Decide on an officiant and meet with him or her to learn about any premarital requirements. ___ Begin planning the guest list to get a rough idea of head count. ___ Determine your wedding theme, colors and décor.
TEN-TWELVE MONTHS ___ Finalize your guest list. ___ If you are having a destination wedding, mail save-the-dates. ___ Choose your dress and accessories and schedule delivery date and fitting(s). ___ Select dresses for bridal attendants. ___ Meet with and make final decisions on your team of vendors: wedding planner, stationer, floral and décor, caterer, musicians, photographer, videographer, transportation. ___ Get a facial and start your pre-wedding skincare routine.
12 MONTH
___ Have engagement photos taken.
Planning Checklist
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ou have said “YES!” but now what? With plenty to do before walking down the aisle, our twelve-month planning checklist will help you stay organized without experiencing the occasional mini-breakdown.
By using our easy-to-navigate guide, you will be able to plan your Big Day while also enjoying every moment of your exciting new chapter.
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SHINE ON Be sure to sparkle on your Big Day. Get your rings polished a few days ahead of your wedding. EVE J. ALFILLÉ GALLERY & STUDIO
SENT WITH LOVE Select stationery that tells your unique love story. Mail your invitations two months before the wedding to ensure arrival and enough time for your guests to RSVP. INVITATIONS BY DESIGN
NINE MONTHS ___ Begin to plan groom’s and groomsmen’s attire.
TWO MONTHS ___ Mail your invitations.
___ Register for gifts.
___ Develop a system for organizing
___ Reserve a block of hotel rooms for out-of-town guests.
RSVPs. ___ Begin to write wedding vows.
___ Reserve any rental equipment such as tables, chairs and tent (if necessary). ___ Choose a cake designer for your wedding cake and groom’s cake.
___ Prep for bachelor and bachelorette parties. ___ Confirm details for rehearsal dinner, ceremony and reception.
ONE WEEK
___ Select hair and makeup vendors.
___ Give assignments to wedding party
ONE MONTH
members and remind them of rehearsal
SIX-EIGHT MONTHS
___ Pick up rings and check engraving.
details.
___ Mail your save-the-dates.
___ Research local marriage license and
___ Start planning your rehearsal dinner. ___ Choose wedding favors for your guests.
name change requirements. ___ Have your final dress fitting. ___ Confirm details with the florist, caterer,
___ Meet with your officiant to plan ceremony details.
entertainers and officiant. ___ Have a trial run for full hair and
___ Start planning your honeymoon (check passports/visas if necessary). ___ Secure transportation to and from the ceremony and reception. ___ Purchase wedding bands and arrange
makeup. ___ Purchase gifts for attendants, flower girl, ring bearer, fiancé, parents and
___ Reserve groom’s and groomsmen’s ___ Schedule hair and makeup trials.
parties.
___ Decide who will do readings and toasts. ___ Finalize wedding vows.
TWO WEEKS
guests.
cards. ___ Prepare tip envelopes for vendors and arrange for someone to distribute them the day of the wedding. ___ Perfect your wedding vows.
ONE DAY ___ Get a manicure and pedicure. ___ Arrange to have welcome bags delivered to hotel rooms. ___ Host rehearsal dinner and hand out special gifts to the wedding party. accessories are all ready to go.
___ Meet with caterer to discuss menu ___ Plan welcome bags for out-of-town
___ Assign attendant to collect gifts and
___ Ensure dress, shoes, jewelry and
THREE-FIVE MONTHS details.
vendors.
wedding extra special.
___ Plan for floral and dress preservation.
attire.
___ Confirm timelines and details with all
anyone else who helped make your ___ Attend bachelor and bachelorette
for engraving.
___ Obtain marriage license.
___ Finalize seating arrangement.
___ Pack overnight bag if you are staying at a hotel the night of your wedding.
___ Give caterer and venue final guest
___ Choose the ceremony music and
count.
discuss reception music with your band
___ Break in your wedding shoes.
or DJ.
___ Get last pre-wedding haircut and color.
___ Confirm out-of-town guest
___ Practice your wedding vows.
accommodations.
WEDDING DAY ___ Arrange to get checked in and have luggage delivered to your hotel. ___ Relax and enjoy the day!
ENCHANTING CREATIONS Don’t be a late bloomer! Meet with your florist ten to twelve months before the Big Day to ensure you’ll have the floral arrangements of your dreams. PHILLIP’S FLOWERS
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Obtaining an Illinois Marriage License
Where To Go Call your County Clerk’s office to verify requirements, hours and additional locations. We recommend getting two or three certified copies of your marriage license for name change
REQUIREMENTS
when it comes to forms of acceptable
Both partners must appear together in
ID. Call your county clerk to verify what
person at the time of application.
documentation you should bring.
and/or filing purposes.
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CIVIL UNIONS
Unmarried people who are 18 years of
Civil unions are still legal, valid and
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apply for a marriage license, as can first
Illinois. It is not required that a civil union
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cousins 50 years or older. People 16 and
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licenses and has their ceremony within
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as well as a certified copy of their birth
60 days of the date their civil union was
certificates and a second form of identi-
actualized. If a couple does not live in
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Illinois, they may still apply for a marriage
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license in an Illinois county, provided
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tification, including a valid driver’s license,
they have a ceremony in that county
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state ID or a valid U.S. passport. If the
within 60 days.
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WHAT TO PROVIDE
Certain counties only accept cash, so
You must provide one of the following
call ahead to confirm what types of pay-
pieces of information to receive your
ment the clerk will accept. If you intend
marriage license: valid U.S. driver’s license
to request multiple copies of your marriage
or state ID, valid U.S. passport or U.S.
license, be prepared to pay a small repli-
Armed Forces identification card. If the
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your money. Whether your funds are limited or infinite,
Transportation 2%
Stationery 4%
2% Beauty (hair, makeup, spa services)
Cake 3%
accessories)
Beauty 2%
6% Attire (wedding gown, formalwear, rings,
Attire 6%
to break down your budget.
Floral & Décor 8%
After agreeing on your total, here’s a good starting point
Entertainment 8%
prospect of putting together a budget for their Big Day.
Photo & Video 10%
many couples find themselves overwhelmed at the
Other 3%
There are an array of options when it comes to allocating
Event Planner 12%
Ceremony & Recepttion 42%
Sample Wedding Budget
3% Cake (sweets, dessert bar) 42% Ceremony & Reception (venue, food, beverage, rentals)
8% Entertainment (DJs, bands, orchestras) 12% Event Planner PHOTOGRAPHY BY ERIN HOYT PHOTOGRAPHY
8% Floral & Décor (bouquets, boutonnieres, centerpieces)
3% Other (gifts, officiant, favors, rehearsal dinner) 10% Photo & Video (engagement session and wedding day)
4% Stationery (invitation suite, programs, menus, thank-you notes)
2% Transportation (limousine, trolley, classic car)
Tipping Guide Aside from contracts that include it, tipping is never required. In instances when a vendor has gone above and beyond, tipping is always
15% Bartenders 15-20% Catering Managers $50-100 Civil Officiant or Friend Performing the Ceremony
greatly appreciated. But how much is enough to thank those who have
$1-2 Coat Check Attendants, per guest
helped make your Big Day extra special? We’ve got you covered!
15% DJ 15% Event Planner, or a gift valued up to $500
10% Florist 15-20% Hair & Makeup Artists 15-20% Limo Driver $20-50 Live Musicians, per member $100-300 Officiant, additional to be donated to their institution
15-20% Photo & Video $1-2 Valet Attendants, per car Coqui Paperie
$25+ Waitstaff per server
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EARRINGS
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STATIONERY
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captivating classics
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JEWELRY BRUSH
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CLUTCH
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GOWN
Love Story via Veiled by ChaCha
EARRINGS
LAGOS
FLORAL
RING
Phillip’s Flowers
LAGOS
eternally yours
LIPSTICK
STATIONERY
Tom Ford
Invitations by Design
PERFUME
Oscar de la Renta
SHOES
Badgley Mischka
GOWN
Moira Hughes via Luxe Bridal Rack NECKLACE
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BOUQUET
Artistic Blooms
SKINCARE
Paris Hilton ProD.N.A. Advanced Recovery Serum
sultry & stylish
RING
State Street Jewelers
STATIONERY
DBY invitations
SHOES
Bella Belle Shoes
SUIT
Jojayden Custom Clothier WEDDING BAND
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RING
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BOUTONNIERE
Avant Gardenia
men of distinction CUFFLINKS
SUIT
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Jojayden Custom Clothier JEWELRY
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BOW TIE
The Groomsman Suit
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Mark and Graham EAU DE PARFUM
Prada – Midnight Train
STATIONERY
EJD Design
A Few of Our Favorite Things Something we love about the wedding industry is its effortless ability to follow its ever-changing styles, while still capturing the timeless essence of love. As certain items slip away, and new trends are introduced, our Chicago couples continue to sweep us off our feet with their breath-taking beauty and unique personalities. With a refreshing take on vintage styles, cutting-edge designs and eclectic dÊcor, we can’t wait to see what our couples choose to incorporate into their Big Day.
WRITTEN BY Mia Riddell GOWN Anne Barge
Monique Lhuillier
BEST OF BOTH WORLDS While the high-low trend hit the scene a few seasons ago, it seems to be gaining momentum this season. We love the hem's versatility and twist on the classic ball gown. Scoop out the front of this skirt and now you have a gown that is structured, simple, relaxed and non-traditional. Frothy versions of these skirts made their way down the runway and many of these high-low tulle confections were finished with seemingly endless trains. Keep in mind, this silhouette is great to show off a sensational statement shoe!
Reem Acra
SHORT & CHIC Short dresses are the most popular option for the bride who wants to spend her night being whisked away on the dance floor. If a floor length gown is still on your mind for your ceremony, consider choosing a glam mini-dress as your second look to slip into before your reception. Less material and shorter lengths will allow you to move freely on the dance floor without worrying about your train or extra fabric dragging along.
Justin Alexander Signature
Sareh Nouri Bridal
FITS LIKE A GLOVE A fashion staple for royalty and style icons everywhere, bridal gloves are appearing again in true fashion with undeniably gorgeous and vintage embellishments. If you’re looking to make a
Lasso
fashion forward statement, a pair of sheer or lace gloves will certainly do the trick. Flaunting this accessory in photos gives
TANGLE FREE, STRESS FREE
you an air of regal elegance and editorial edge. They also work
The last thing you want to worry about on your wedding
well with any style of dress – elbow length styles work well with
day is trying to pick apart your favorite necklace from a
strapless gowns, while wristlet gloves complement a higher
pile of tangled chains. Lasso is a travel and storage
neckline.
solution for organizing and protecting all of your glittering rings, necklaces and earrings to ensure they don’t end up in a tangled mess. It’s a cute and thoughtful bride-tobe or bridesmaids’ gift to make sure you never have to worry about misplacing or ruining your jewelry again!
HEADPIECE Keren Wolf
ALL ABOUT THE ACCESSORIES Bridal hair accessories have always been a trend on the runway, but this year brides are replacing the sacred veil with captivating statement pieces such as pearl-beaded barrettes, flower studded crowns and silk bridal turbans. Not only do these headpieces keep your hair from falling in your face, but they elevate your wedding hairstyle to tie your entire look together. Consider adding these memorable pieces to stand out on your Big Day.
BARRETTES Maria Elena Headpieces & Accessories
SUIT UP Today’s bride is unmistakably herself. If you would never be caught wearing a dress in your “every-day” life, then don’t wear one to your wedding! Bridal suits are a great option for the nontraditional, empowered bride. With a growing interest in women’s suits and gown alternatives for weddings, designers have started to create bridal suits that cater to every woman's ideal wedding day look. If you’re looking to do a modern take on a traditional gown, incorporate a lace cape on your suit jacket or attach a dramatic train to your trousers.
SUITS The Groomsman Suit
TAILORED TO YOU As the years go by, we see more and more grooms replacing the traditional black tuxedo with bolder colors and unique styles, showcasing their individual fashion tastes. Custom suits give you the opportunity to add flair to your wedding day attire with creative jacket styles, decorative vests and matching ties. You can match your suit color with your wedding theme, or you can draw attention to your fashionable choice with eclectic colors and patterns. CUSTOM SUIT Jojayden Custom Clothier PHOTOGRAPHY BY SYPhotography
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UNDER THE NEON LIGHTS It’s no secret that neon lights usually lead you to a
THE MAIN ATTRACTION
great party, so why not include them in your celebra-
When deciding what décor and design style you want for your
tion? Incorporate these electric signs at the door,
wedding, consider choosing pieces that captivate the essence
behind the altar or at your reception for an enticing
of the entire room. There are several ways to wow your guests,
accent to your wedding theme. Simply spell out you
but enchanting ceiling installations make for a great environment
and your partner’s names or write a clever catch-
at your ceremony, reception or even rehearsal dinner. Some of
phrase like, “better together” or “cheers to the newly-
our favorites include beautiful floral chandeliers, candles floating
weds”. It’s the perfect photo opportunity for guests to
down from the ceiling or a simple crystal globe decorated with
enjoy, and a unique feature that will make your cele-
metallic designs. You won’t regret adding this gorgeous feature
bration stand out.
to your wedding once you see how it brings the room together.
PHOTOGRAPH Courtesy of You Name It Events
PHOTOGRAPHY BY Erin Hoyt Photography
GOLDEN FIELDS Organic flowers have been showing up at wedding celebrations everywhere making for beautiful rustic and dreamy looks. One of our favorites is the towering plant, pampas grass. Its feather-like plumes are found in shades of beige, white and even dusty pink, making it easy to pair with other gorgeous flowers in a fresh bouquet or centerpiece. These organic flowers are romantic and versatile and can be incorporated into every aspect of your wedding décor, from an intimate countryside wedding to a glamorous city celebration. PHOTOGRAPHY BY Ashley Galminas Photography 42
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MOBILE MUNCHIES Whether you’re at an outdoor reception, a cocktail hour or a grand ballroom, food trucks are a fun alternative to serving your guests a wedding meal. Most food truck vendors can accommodate dietary restrictions or special requests, giving you the freedom to choose what kind of food you would like to serve.
TABLE FOR TWO
PHOTOGRAPHY BY Rick Aguilar Studios
There has been a surge of couples choosing to set aside a sweetheart table at the reception for themselves. With a sweetheart table, having those first few minutes as newlyweds to yourselves at a special table can make for an intimate, and memorable moment. Dress up the table with romantic décor and your family and loved ones will be gushing over you and your partner all night long. FLORAL & DÉCOR Kensington Florals & Events PHOTOGRAPHY BY Nakai Photography
DISCO FEVER What’s a better way to kick off your reception than a glittering disco ball shining light onto all of your guests? This 80’s quirk is making an appearance again at all styles of wedding celebrations. Of course, installing one over the dance floor is the obvious option, but there are so many other ways to incorporate this funky feature. Smaller decorative disco balls bode great for themed wedding cake toppers, name placeholders, mini flower holders and several other creative concepts. PHOTOGRAPHY BY Justine Montigny
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LAURA & MIKE Lovely Location Laura and Mike met in high school, but later realized they had actually attended pre-school together! Throughout their relationship, they had vacationed in Lake Geneva many times and had even gotten engaged in the area. It was clearly the perfect mini destination spot for their wedding.
Bright & Beautiful Laura’s vision for the Big Day included an abundance of color and was very summery, with pink, coral, bright green and white. With inspiration from Lilly Pulitzer and the flowers from her wedding dress fabric, the florals were big, bright and fresh. The vibrant flower arrangements and bouquets were also reflected in the custom watercolor monogram crest that was used on everything from the stationery to the napkins.
Recipe for Love Mike is a chef, so he came up with the entire menu for the cocktail hour and dinner. He worked closely with the chef at Geneva National Resort to bring those ideas to life. The guests couldn’t stop talking about how delicious everything was!
Par for the Course Both Mike and Laura agreed that their favorite part of the day was driving in a golf cart together around the reception site, soaking in the day and enjoying a moment of alone time.
Number of Wedding Guests: 190 To see more photos from this Real Wedding, go to chicagostyleweddings.com/real-weddings. WRITTEN BY Emily Conley
Real Wedding Vendors CEREMONY VENUE: St. Francis de Sales Catholic Church, Lake Geneva, WI | RECEPTION VENUE: Geneva National Resort PHOTOGRAPHY: Jenna Kutcher | VIDEOGRAPHY: One Fine Day Productions | WEDDING RINGS: James & Williams Jewelers ENGAGEMENT RING: New York Jewelers | EVENT PLANNERS: Frontier Flowers of Fontana; Graceful Events; Something Blue Lake Geneva GOWN: Lela Rose via Dimitra’s Bridal Couture | BRIDE’S SHOES: Sophia Webster | HAIR & MAKEUP: DMC Makeup Artistry BRIDE’S ACCESSORIES: Kate Spade; Tiffany & Co. | BRIDESMAIDS’ DRESSES: After Six via Brideside | STATIONERY: Bluebird Paper Company GROOM’S FORMALWEAR: Men’s Wearhouse | GROOMSMEN’S FORMALWEAR: Menguin | GROOM’S ACCESSORIES: David Yurman; Rolex FLORAL & DÉCOR: Frontier Flowers of Fontana | ENTERTAINMENT: Andrew Blake Band | CAKE & SWEETS: Julie Michelle Cakes; Alliance Bakery CHICAGOSTYLEWEDDINGS.COM
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SPOTLIGHT ON STYLE | Hues Used: Jennifer & Michael
LOLA EVENT PRODUCTIONS
Vendors EVENT PLANNER: LOLA Event Productions | VENUE: Café Brauer | PHOTOGRAPHY: Katie Kett Photography STATIONERY: Steracle Press | FLORAL & DÉCOR: Exquisite Designs | CAKE & SWEETS: Sweet Mandy B’s
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inding your dream wedding dress can feel daunting,
SIZING
regardless of your dress size. For curvy brides, navigating
Let’s start with one of the toughest parts of shopping for a
the high-fashion world of wedding gowns can feel down-
wedding dress – the sizing. When you buy a pair of jeans or a
right impossible. We understand the fear and apprehension that
dress off the rack at a run-of-the-mill clothing store, chances are
commonly accompanies bridal shopping when you don’t wear a
good that the manufacturer employs vanity sizing. As the average
sample size, but we also believe every woman should feel
size of a woman has increased over time, stores have adjusted
empowered when shopping for her Big Day. If you are a curvy
the size of their clothing without increasing the nominal size. This
bride-to-be searching for your perfect dress, you should know
means that an item that was sold as a size-twelve in a store in
that it is absolutely out there. The key is having the right mindset,
1950 is smaller than the item sold as a size-twelve today. To
confidence and support system to help you overcome any inse-
make matters more complicated, stores all use their own sizing
curities or fears to find the dress of your dreams.
systems, so it’s entirely possible to wear an eight, twelve and
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fourteen in jeans that come from three dif-
which is based on European measurement
matter what the tag in your dress says.
ferent stores. Your waist obviously doesn’t
charts. You should expect your wedding
The reality is that it does matter to a lot of
change from store to store, but rather the
dress to be one to two sizes (or more)
plus-size brides, so what can you do
number assigned to your clothes has little
larger than your typical off-the-rack size. If
about it?
correlation to the actual measurements of
you already have a difficult time with your
You have different options for dealing
the garments.
number size, having to go up in number
with the emotional impact of your wedding
Now here’s where things get psycho-
can feel soul-crushing. But here’s the
dress size. You can mentally prepare your-
logically challenging. Wedding dresses are
thing – you haven’t changed size. You are
self for the size to be bigger, acknowledge
typically made following high-fashion sizing,
still exactly the same, so it shouldn’t
the fact that wedding dress sizing runs small and accept the size of the dress you order as a reality that doesn’t affect how you look or feel in your dress. This strategy will work well for a lot of brides, but it isn’t enough for everyone. Another option is to simply not find out what size you are ordering. The sales associate will take your measurements and order your dress size based on your largest measurement, but you don’t have to know what size they order. Simply ask for that information to be withheld or redacted on any form or receipt you need to sign. You can have a friend cut out the tag when you receive your dress and never be the wiser. While this may sound dramatic, if the size of your dress will influence how you feel in it, it’s worth it to keep that negative information out of mind.
SHOPPING Where you choose to shop for your gown and who you choose to invite with you will seriously affect your experience. You should put some serious thought and consideration into both decisions before making appointments or inviting anyone along. Your feelings matter the most here, so be careful and cautious. Do some research to find plus-size friendly salons. We’ve got some incredible bridal boutiques in this issue who offer a range of plus-size gowns. Some brides also prefer smaller, more intimate salons where they don’t have to try on dresses surrounded by other brides. If you feel self-conscious, consider booking your appointment in an off-peak time or at a smaller store where you can be assured 50
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of privacy while you shop and try on
a close, supportive friend, parent or family
dresses. You’ll also want to make sure
member as your plus-one. Alternatively,
you only make appointments at bridal
some brides find strength in numbers. If
salons that carry sizes you can try on.
having a larger group to swoon over you
Sample sizes are generally a bridal size-
in pretty dresses feels right, don’t hesi-
eight or – ten, and it can be challenging
tate to invite a crowd. Regardless of the
to get a true idea of what your dress will
number of supporters you invite, make
look like on you if the dress you try on is
sure each person included only brings
considerably smaller. It can also feel awk-
good vibes. Even if your sister expects to
ward and embarrassing to try on a dress
be included, you may want to leave her off
that is clipped to you, with giant gaping
the list if she is known for offering biting or
holes in the back. Avoid this situation by
rude criticism. It might be uncomfortable
shopping at bridal salons that carry plus-
in the moment, but be picky and only
size samples.
invite those you know will build you up
Set yourself up for success by creating
and make sure you feel beautiful.
a support squad who will give you a boost of confidence without any underhanded
ALTERATIONS MATTER
or judgmental comments. It’s best to go
Once you have found your dream gown,
with at least one other person so you have
don’t trust the alterations to just anyone.
someone to give you feedback and make
Virtually everyone has to have their wed-
the experience feel more special. If you
ding dress altered, so go ahead and plan
are unsure about bringing a crowd, consider
for the expense and time requirements of some serious tailoring. It’s vital that you find a tailor who has ample experience with plus-size wedding gowns. A skilled seamstress can add boning, built-in bra cups and other structural support that can make quite the difference in the comfort and silhouette of your gown. Make sure the tailor takes the time to understand any specific concerns you have around the fit and any changes you wish to make. If you fell in love with a ball gown that is just too full for your shape or taste, you can have several layers of tulle or crinoline taken out during alterations. Ask your tailor to explain how any potential alterations will change and affect the fit.
CUSTOMIZATION There’s a wide range of customization available when it comes to wedding gowns. From a completely custom creation to small changes, curvy brides should be discerning when it comes to customizing their gowns. You may find a dress that checks all of your wants, except for the neckline. Don’t despair! See if there is a 52
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way to change up the look, like deepening
other bride, look good in a wide variety of
a V-neckline or adding lacy sleeves to a
styles – ball gowns, fit-and-flare, mermaid
strapless design. You can make some
and more. Bridal fashion is extensive and
pretty significant changes if necessary.
your size does not determine what is
If you can’t find anything that fits your
available to you, so don’t rule out that
needs, it may be best to go custom to
deep v-neckline, illusion back. Think about
avoid an ill-fitting gown. Research designers
when you feel the most confident and
and seamstresses who specialize in custom
what aspects of your body you want to
plus-size gowns and explore the possibil-
highlight. If you love your full hips or your
ities. Don’t let the potential price tag
strong shoulders, you may want to find a
scare you off from a custom gown – you
style that accentuates the parts of your
may be surprised at how reasonable a
body you’re proud of.
custom creation can be. Your wedding
To physically prepare for the day,
gown is one of the most important aspects
consider laying off salty, fatty foods for a
of how you look and feel on your Big Day,
few days before your appointment. Drink
so don’t be afraid to spend the time and
plenty of water and get ample sleep.
dollars necessary to find the right dress.
These small efforts will leave you feeling stronger and physically ready for trying
SELF-CONFIDENCE
on dresses. Wear an outfit you love and
You deserve to feel incredible and look
take the time to fix your hair and follow
amazing on your Big Day. Prepare men-
any beauty habits that make you feel
tally, physically and emotionally for wed-
better. Eat a healthy breakfast and make
ding dress shopping to give yourself the
sure you give yourself plenty of time to
self-confidence to enjoy the experience.
get to your appointments on time. Feeling
Being intentional about your attitude and
calm and confident will go a long way to
outlook can dramatically shift the tone of
making your fitting a success.
your shopping day.
You are your own worst critic, so do a
If you’re planning on trying to lose
little emotional homework before taking
weight before your wedding day, it can
on the bridal boutiques. Make a list of the
be tempting to put off dress shopping
things you love about yourself: physical
until you’re down a few pounds. However,
traits, personality characteristics and
don’t wait too long or you won’t have
achievements. Ask your partner to give
time for a made-to-order gown. Most
you a pep talk if that feels helpful. Focus
wedding dresses take around at least
on the positive and think about how you
eight months to arrive, and you’ll need a
want to feel walking down the aisle on
month or two for alterations once you
your wedding day. Go into your appointment
receive your gown, so plan accordingly.
with the knowledge that you will find a
Remember, your partner loves you for
dress that makes you feel like a bride.
who you are, and they think you look
Acknowledge any concerns or worries
amazing exactly as you are right now.
you have, name them and let them go.
There’s nothing you need to change in order to find your dream dress.
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INSPIRATION
Once you’ve made your bridal appoint-
One of the best ways to feel confident
ments, it’s time to get ready for the day.
about your body is to surround yourself
It’s good to have an idea of the styles you
with images of women with a body shape
like, but it’s definitely not required. Forget
that reflects your own. Don’t build Pinterest
any notion of anything you aren’t “allowed”
boards and wedding dress inspiration
to wear. Plus-size brides, just like every
that only feature thin models. Find body
your emotional desires, even if it fits well
so feeling good about yourself and being
life brides and other curvy women with
or your friends love it.
confident will do wonders for how you
whom you can identify. Seeing wedding
see yourself in that bridal salon mirror.
gowns on women similar to yourself will
CELEBRATE
You and your wedding dress are no less
help you feel more comfortable when
Make a big deal out of your wedding
important than anyone else just because
you try on a wedding gown and look in
dress shopping day (or days)! Invite your
you have a larger number on a tag in your
the mirror for the first time.
best supporters, look and feel your best,
gown. It’s also a healthy practice to
Along with curating a collection of
and then pop some bubbly and celebrate
remind yourself that everyone compares
curvy brides for dress inspiration, you
once you find your dress. Make a whole
themselves to others and feels insecure
should also take some time to find emo-
day out of it – with a stop to get your
about something, so there’s really no
tional inspiration. Consider how you want
nails done, a celebratory brunch or a
escaping those doubts. You can make
to feel on your wedding day. Maybe it’s
relaxing spa treatment after the shopping
sure your wedding dress shopping experi-
most important that you feel sexy or per-
is over. Even if you aren’t looking forward
ence is fun, successful and enjoyable
haps you want to feel like a princess.
to dress shopping itself, bookend the
by setting the right tone and mood and
These emotions, unique to each individual
trip with things you do love so you have
going into it with a positive outlook. The
bride, should drive your wedding gown
something to look forward to. The excite-
truth is that you will find a dress that works
shopping more than anything else. Focus
ment and enthusiasm will naturally carry
for you! It might not be what you expect,
on the emotions that are most predominant
over to your dress appointment as well.
so always keep an open mind when trying
when you imagine yourself as a bride on
Remember that your wedding day is
on different styles, but you will slip into a
your own wedding day and keep those
about you and your partner – not a model
gown that feels just right and that makes
feelings in mind when trying on dresses.
you saw on Pinterest. Your confidence
it easy to imagine walking down the aisle
Don’t buy something that doesn’t fulfill
and inner beauty reflect on the outside,
to marry the one you love.
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DIANA’S BRIDAL BOUTIQUE Stella York
THE CRYSTAL BRIDE Maggie Sottero
EVA’S BRIDAL INTERNATIONAL Morilee by Madeline Gardner
ALEXIS KAY DESIGNS BRIDAL & FORMAL WEAR Kenneth Winston
KATHRYN’S BRIDAL Badgley Mishka
WHITE DRESS BRIDAL BOUTIQUE Pronovias
DAME COUTURE Edith Élan
VOLLE’S BRIDAL AND BOUTIQUE Mikael D.
With This Ring T H E U LT I M AT E G U I D E T O C H O O S I N G T H E P E R F E C T W E D D I N G B A N D S
W
hen it comes to choosing the right wedding bands
rings that you like. If you are looking for a custom ring, you may
for your Big Day, you’ve got options is an under-
need even more time – keep in mind that even small details like
statement. Save yourself and your partner some
engraving can take up to one month. If you want your wedding
time and take the guesswork out of choosing which wedding
band to match your engagement ring, you and your fiancé can
bands are right for you by familiarizing yourself with these
purchase your engagement ring and wedding band as a duo
guidelines.
set or even have his wedding band match to form a trio set. No matter what you decide, it is important to give yourself enough
PLAN IT OUT
time to find or create the ring you have in mind.
Planning ahead is key. If you are purchasing wedding bands
Once you have established a personal timeframe, set a
separate from your engagement ring, start shopping two to
budget. The average wedding band costs around $600, but
three months before your wedding day. Browse for wedding
there are more cost-effective options if you are looking for more
bands in person and online, compare prices and revisit any
economical options. Plenty of wedding bands are available for
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hand, for a more durable option that
to show your enduring love, due to its
going to wear this band every day, so it
won’t tarnish, consider an Argentium
rarity. The metal is also a great choice
is important to choose a wedding band
silver ring due to its higher percentage of
for people with sensitive skin because
that will easily integrate into your lifestyle.
silver. Even though it is much harder
platinum is naturally hypoallergenic.
than sterling silver, Argentium is more
Platinum rings have high-shine and are
malleable, lending itself well to a variety
exceptionally durable, making it a great
of designs and settings for gemstones.
choice for couples who have a higher
KNOW YOUR BASIC OPTIONS Wedding bands come in many styles
Platinum: Of the white metals in this
and you have likely heard of the most
list, platinum is the most luxurious option
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under $100. More importantly, you are
budget but still want a timeless ring that is practical for long term wear.
common types — yellow gold, white gold, rose gold, silver and titanium. But more than anything else, thinking longterm about your budget and how you’ll wear your ring day-to-day will help you determine the right metal for your wedding band. Pure Gold: Pure or 24 karat gold is a very soft metal that is more likely to scratch and bend, making it a rare find. More practical and common gold choices include yellow, white and rose. Yellow Gold: The most common and traditional type of gold, yellow gold, is a mixture of pure gold with silver, copper and zinc. It is the purest color of gold and the most hypoallergenic. It requires the least maintenance, which makes it the easiest and the most practical to wear and repair. However, it is also the most expensive type of gold. White Gold: White gold is usually made out of gold and platinum or gold, platinum, nickel and zinc, which gives it its glistening white color. White gold is usually plated with rhodium, to give it a hard reflective surface, but it will require replacement plating once signs of wear and tear begin to appear. White gold is more durable and scratch resistant than yellow gold, and it’s also more affordable. Rose Gold: Rose gold contains silver and copper to give it its trademark warm pinkish hue. Its inexpensive copper mix also makes it cheaper and more durable than yellow or white gold. Silver: If you’re looking to go more traditional, a sterling silver wedding band will always be in style. On the other CHICAGOSTYLEWEDDINGS.COM
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banded together
Palladium: Palladium is another metal that works for people with sensitive skin. It is more common than platinum
You liked it and now you’ve got to put a ring on it! Wedding band options are endless, so we’ve collected some of our favorites below to
and friendlier to couples on a budget. The metal is prized for its bright, natural white color. Unlike silver, palladium is
help you find the bands that are just right for you and your partner.
not prone to tarnishing, making it a popular alternative. Titanium: Strong, lightweight and unique, titanium rings will endure the test of time and are a popular metal 1.
choice for men. Titanium is much more
2.
durable than gold or platinum and even stronger than stainless steel. Titanium wedding rings appear whiter than tungsten, but darker than cobalt, platinum or 3.
white gold. The metal does not contain any nickel, making it the perfect choice for a hypoallergenic wedding ring. Keep
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in mind – this metal cannot be resized, so it is best for couples who don’t plan 4.
on upgrading their rings in the future. Tungsten: Another metal choice for
5.
men, tungsten is harder than precious metals like gold and platinum and is perfect for those who are looking for a ring that is durable and far from dainty. Not only is the rare metal distinctive –
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its steel gray, white or black color comes with high luster – tungsten can stand
7.
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up to the wear and tear of an active lifestyle without losing its shape over time. However, just like titanium, tungsten can’t be resized. It also comes with a lower price tag than traditional gold bands and other jewelry metals like silver and platinum. Cobalt: This durable, scratch-resistant
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metal is another option for men. Cobalt is usually mixed with chrome to form a strong bond that also alters cobalt’s signature deep blue color into a stunning
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white one. As far as platinum and white gold rings go, cobalt rings are an affordable option for white jewelry. They are even whiter than titanium and offer a better scratch resistance. Plus, cobalt does not require rhodium plating to keep
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its color. It is also free of nickel, making it hypoallergenic and perfect for those who experience sensitivity to traditional jewelry material.
ADD A LITTLE BLING If you decide to spring for stones in your wedding band, the choice will ultimately come down to budget, style and personal taste. White diamonds are the most popular choice, but you can also opt for colored diamonds or gemstones to complement your ring. All of the metals above are well suited for stone embellishments. Popular wedding band styles for women include the eternity band, which features stones that wrap completely around the finger allowing the band to sparkle from every angle, and the channel band, which has two tracks of metal that hold a row of stones side-by-side. By far, the most popular male wedding
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band style with a stone is the gypsy band, where most commonly a solitary stone is placed into a hole and flushed with the surrounding metal’s surface.
PROTECT YOUR RING Your wedding band will likely be one of your most valuable possessions, so ring insurance is essential to making sure it is protected for a lifetime. Consider both its sentimental and monetary value and then opt to add a rider to your homeowner's or renter's insurance to provide higher coverage limits to your jewelry and protect it from greater risks. Make sure to talk with your jeweler first to see what options they offer. If they don’t have the option you would prefer, another alternative is to take out a separate policy with a specialty insurer like Jewelers Mutual. On average, the yearly cost to insure a ring is around $1 to $2 for every $100 that it would cost to replace, so that means that if your wedding band costs $2,000, you’ll be looking at around a $40 fee. Before you purchase insurance, you will first need to collect your receipt and have the ring appraised by a certified jeweler to get a description of details like its metal and embellishments. Taking a few high-quality photos of your ring from different angles to submit is also a good idea. Getting your ring laser inscribed and investing in a home security system can help you qualify for a discount on your jewelry insurance. Additionally, before settling on a policy, become familiar with the fine print as some policies may cover theft but not misplacement or repairs.
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dishwashing liquid before scrubbing it with a soft toothbrush. You can also soak your ring in equal parts ammonia and cold water for 30 minutes then let it air dry. Note that this latter method works only with diamonds and can damage other types of stones. It is also smart to take off your ring for tasks that require harsh chemicals or abrasive solutions (like the ones in household cleaners). These chemicals can erode metal settings and dull their finish. Ring maintenance should also include bi-annual visits to your jeweler, who can check the prongs on your setting to make sure they aren’t getting loose, which can lead to a dislodged stone. A little extra caution goes a long way when storing your wedding bands. When you need to take off your ring, place it in a dry and secure location. If you take off your ring often, consider a safe or an unusual but memorable hiding spot. If you need to take it off when you're on vacation, store it in the hotel safe. Lastly, it is worth remembering that diamonds are the hardest substance on earth, which means that they can scratch other gemstones, metal bands and even other diamonds if left in the same jewelry pouch or box. For that reason, keep your ring in an individual soft cloth pouch or box when you're not wearing it.
REMEMBER WHAT IS IMPORTANT When all is said and done, your wedding band will be more than a symbol to the world that you are married now – it is a testament to the love and commitment you and your partner share. And with the right amount of time, a set budget and the knowledge of basic wedding band options and care, there is no doubt that keeping in mind the reason you are searching for a wedding band in the first place will lead you to a ring that will represent that promise for a lifetime. CHICAGOSTYLEWEDDINGS.COM
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STEPHANIE & DANE Darling Details Choosing to work with the colors of the ornate ballroom, Stephanie and Dane incorporated accents of gray and silver into the overarching blue and white theme. Their florist designed a breathtaking floral installment of wisteria and orchids that framed the couple while they exchanged their vows. With thirteen tables, an exact match for the number of years Stephanie and Dane had been together, they chose to use a photo from each year of their relationship as their table numbers.
Ready to Mingle Stephanie and Dane had guests travel from all over the world to celebrate with them. The couple chose to seat random groups of people together and were thrilled when everyone bonded and had fun getting to know each other. Stephanie and Dane really hoped their guests would enjoy the dance floor, and they did — it was a boisterous party all night.
The Last Piece Everyone loved the cake which was layers of butter cake and chocolate fudge cake with passionfruit curd and bittersweet chocolate mousse fillings frosted with Italian meringue. For those who weren’t quick enough to indulge in their piece, there were onlookers waiting to run over and swipe the unclaimed slices.
Number of Wedding Guests: 135
To see more photos from this Real Wedding, go to chicagostyleweddings.com/real-weddings. WRITTEN BY Emily Conley
Real Wedding Vendors VENUE: The Blackstone Hotel | PHOTOGRAPHY: Colin Lyons Wedding Photography | VIDEOGRAPHY: Hendzel Productions STEPHANIE’S RINGS: Family Heirlooms | DANE’S RING: MJ Metals Jewelry | GOWN: Morilee by Madeline Gardner via Kathryn’s Bridal VEIL: Kathryn’s Bridal | BRIDE’S SHOES: Badgley Mischka | BRIDE’S JEWELRY: NADRI | HAIR: Lumination Salon MAKEUP: Neapolitan Collection | FORMALWEAR: Kathryn’s Bridal | GROOM’S ACCESSORIES: Baume & Mercier; Charles Tyrwhitt; Cuff-Daddy BRIDESMAIDS’ DRESSES: Bill Levkoff via Kathryn’s Bridal | STATIONERY: Minted | FLORAL & DÉCOR: Joseph’s Events ENTERTAINMENT: Okyne Medialab | CAKE & SWEETS: Cake Chicago CHICAGOSTYLEWEDDINGS.COM
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BIG CITY BRIDE
Vendors EVENT PLANNER: Big City Bride | VENUE: Bridgeport Art Center | PHOTOGRAPHY: Studio This Is | STATIONERY: Minted FLORAL & DÉCOR: Kehoe Designs | CAKE & SWEETS: Alliance Bakery
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HAUTE in the city
LOCATION Loews Chicago Hotel
PHOTOGRAPHY Rick Aguilar Studios
HAIR Zazú Salon
STYLING The Wedding Dresser
MAKEUP Bridal Brigade
FROM LEFT: GOWN Belle Custom Atelier, J.Mendel; SHOES Badgley Mischka; JEWELRY Eve J. Alfillé Gallery & Studio | GOWN Belle Custom Atelier, Sophie et Voilà; SHOES Bella Belle Shoes; JEWELRY State Street Jewelers; HEADPIECE Eugenia Kim | SUIT Jojayden Custom Clothier: SHOES Macy’s: JEWELRY & LAPEL PIN Eve J. Alfillé Gallery & Studio | SUIT Jojayden Custom Clothier; SHOES Macy’s; CUFFLINKS State Street Jewelers; RING & LAPEL PIN Eve J. Alfillé Gallery & Studio
To see the video and more photos from this fashion shoot, go to chicagostyleweddings.com/inspiration.
LEFT PAGE – FROM LEFT: SUIT Jojayden Custom Clothier; SHOES Macy’s; LAPEL PIN Varón by Maria Elena | GOWN Jenny Yoo Collection; JEWELRY State Street Jewelers; HAIR COMB Dame Couture | GOWN Jenny Yoo Collection; SHOES Bella Belle Shoes; JEWELRY Eve J. Alfillé Gallery & Studio; HAIR COMB Dame Couture ABOVE – FROM LEFT: GOWN Belle Custom Atelier, Sophie et Voilà; SHOES Bella Belle Shoes; JEWELRY Eve J. Alfillé Gallery & Studio GOWN Jenny Yoo Collection; SHOES Badgley Mischka; JEWELRY Eve J. Alfillé Gallery & Studio; HAIR COMB Dame Couture
GOWN Bella Bianca Bridal Couture, Galia Lahav; NECKLACE State Street Jewelers; RINGS & BRACELET Eve J. Alfillé Gallery & Studio
GOWN Bella Bianca Bridal Couture, Anne Barge SHOES Badgley Mischka JEWELRY State Street Jewelers
FROM LEFT: SUIT The Groomsman Suit SHOES Macy’s JEWELRY State Street Jewelers SUIT The Groomsman Suit SHOES Badgley Mischka JEWELRY Eve J. Alfillé Gallery & Studio
SUIT Formally Modern Tuxedo WEDDING BAND State Street Jewelers, Benchmark; WATCH State Street Jewelers; CUFFLINKS, EARRINGS, LAPEL PIN, RING & SHIRT STUDS Eve J. Alfillé Gallery & Studio
LOCATION Loews Chicago Hotel PHOTOGRAPHY Rick Aguilar Studios STYLING The Wedding Dresser HAIR Zazú Salon MAKEUP Bridal Brigade NAILS Tara Kadar VIDEOGRAPHER Newlyweds Cinema PROP STYLIST Amanda Wolfson Productions
FROM LEFT: SUIT Jojayden Custom Clothier; SHOES Macy’s; LAPEL PIN & RING Eve J. Alfillé Gallery & Studio; WATCH, CUFFLINKS & BRACELET State Street Jewelers | GOWN Diana’s Bridal, Pronovias; EARRINGS & RING ON MODEL’S RIGHT Eve J. Alfillé Gallery & Studio; BRACELET & ENGAGEMENT RING State Street Jewelers | GOWN Modeca; VEIL Belle Custom Atelier; EARRINGS State Street Jewelers; BRACELET & RING Eve J. Alfillé Gallery & Studio | SUIT Jojayden Custom Clothier; SHOES Macy’s; WEDDING BAND State Street Jewelers, Benchmark; EARRINGS & LAPEL PIN Eve J. Alfillé Gallery & Studio
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Beauty or Bust T H E U LT I M AT E G U I D E T O W E D D I N G M A K E U P
S
o, you found the dress of your dreams, booked the
choose these things? Probably because they spoke to essential
perfect venue and those save-the-dates are in the mail!
parts of your personality and you liked how they all work
Now, it’s time to tackle another wedding day must-have:
together. Your makeup should fit into the mix just as seamlessly.
bridal makeup. Like every other part of your Big Day, planning
Now, that is not to say your makeup can’t make a bold
your beauty routine and day-of makeup deserves the utmost
statement. Quite the opposite! In fact, a daring look might
attention and care. After all, your wedding day is one of the few
just make the perfect accent or contrast to the rest of your
times in your life where you can truly glam it up like a supermodel.
ensemble. After all, you wouldn’t want the color of your lipstick
So, you might as well take advantage of it! If you’re a makeup
or eyeshadow to clash with your flowers or bridesmaids’
novice, you might be stressing over just where to begin. To help
dresses. Find a delicate balance between your makeup and
you answer all of your burning questions, we’ve put together this
your wedding’s aesthetic that ties everything together effortlessly.
ultimate guide to wedding day beauty!
Inspiration is everywhere. LET’S START WITH THE BASICS.
Of course, Pinterest is a tried and true source of inspiration.
Your makeup journey starts with finding inspiration. This all-
But you can also look to other social media platforms as well as
important first step helps you get a better idea of what’s out
keep a close eye on some of your favorite celebrities, influencers,
there and what appeals to you. Are you going for a dramatic and
and beauty gurus. You might even take inspiration from online
smoky look? Or maybe more fresh-faced and natural with just
ads or billboards for things like perfume and other beauty
a pop of color? The possibilities are endless! Luckily there are
products. Magazines (like the one you’re holding!) are also
many resources out there to get your creative juices flowing.
incredible resources.
Think about your other wedding decisions.
Stay organized.
Before you begin your search, take stock of the things you’ve
As you find looks you like, save them all in one place so they
already planned. Consider your dress, color scheme, bouquet
can be found and referenced easily. And remember, at this
and any other relevant parts of your wedding. Why did you
point, nothing is set in stone! This early stage is your chance to
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let your imagination run wild and collect any and all looks that call to you. With that being said, you will probably want to end up with a look that’s less trendy and more classic. Why? Because your makeup will be forever showcased in your wedding photographs, so it is usually better to go with a look that can stand the test of time. But that doesn’t mean statement looks can’t work! It all depends on your unique style. Later, your makeup artist will help you refine your ideas and find what works best for you.
NOW, LET’S FIND YOU THE PERFECT ARTIST. Next comes the hard part: finding an artist who can execute the runwayworthy looks you've been dreaming about. Now, this step can be a bit tricky and requires some legwork, but in the end, it will all be worth it – trust us! Now, let’s review some of the ways you can find your makeup artist soulmate.
Nothing beats word-of-mouth. Getting a recommendation from someone you trust is one of the best ways to go. Were you recently a guest at a wedding and just couldn’t take your eyes off the bride’s makeup? Reach out and ask to be put in contact with the artist! Also, never underestimate the power of social media. Consider putting out a call to ask your friends and family if they have any connections or recommendations. You never know, that high school classmate you haven’t spoken to in years just might be BFFs with Beyoncé’s personal makeup artist. (We kid, but still…what if?). All jokes aside, however, you might be surprised by what your social network can find for you. But a word of caution: just because an artist’s style worked for one person, does not necessarily mean they will work for you. So, even if you get an amazing recommendation, it’s probably not a good 80
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a solid foundation
idea to just hire them blindly. You will still want to do your research before making any final decisions.
You know it’s all about that base! Finding a solid foundation that fits your skin-type can be stressful, we know. By working these products into your makeup routine, you can count on every day being as flawless
Check out the websites of local artists. If you find an artist you like, carefully
as your foundation!
review their website and portfolio. Do they have looks that prove they can pull off the style you’re going for? Does their
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website have a clean and professional appearance? If you’re impressed by what
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you see, then it might be time to take the
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next step: setting up a consultation.
Schedule a trial run. Before you make final hiring decisions, arrange to do a trial makeup run with the artist you’re vying for. Trial runs allow the makeup artist to show you what they’ve got. It's a time in which they can play 3.
around with different colors, foundations and styles to help you finalize a perfected look. Trials are also an opportunity to get a sense of what you can expect on your Big Day. So, when the wedding arrives, there are no major surprises. You can feel confident that your artist knows what
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they are doing and will make you look your absolute best. But remember, talent isn’t everything! While a trial run gives the artist a chance to show off their skills, it also helps you get a sense of who they are as a person. Sure, you want an artist who does amazing work, but you also want someone 5.
with a personality that jives well with your own. Professionalism and a good attitude are non-negotiables. After all, weddings can be high-stress. So, you need an experienced artist who works well under pressure and still manages to
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Laura Mercier Smooth Finish Foundation Powder Charlotte Tilbury Magic Foundation Fenty Beauty by Rihanna Pro Filt’r Soft Matte Longwear Foundation Éminence Organic Skin Care Vanilla Latte Tinted Moisturizer bareMinerals Original Loose Powder Mineral Foundation
make you feel like a superstar!
STICK TO A CONSISTENT SKINCARE REGIMEN. When it comes to looking your best on your wedding day, makeup can only do
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tinted moisturizer might be perfect for
said, extra coverage will be needed to
and body is equally important. This
you! As the name implies, tinted mois-
cover blemishes, dark circles or an
means drinking plenty of water, eating
turizers hydrate your skin while providing
uneven skin tone.
nutritious foods, and putting a little extra
just a smidge of color for sheer coverage.
thought into your skincare regimen.
Because of their rejuvenating quality,
Powder
During your consultation, your makeup
they work well for brides with dryer
Typically, powder foundations are very
artist will have many recommendations
skin. They are meant to enhance your
versatile. They are easy to blend, rarely
for ways to improve the quality of your
skin’s natural beauty without layering
leaving discoloration or blotchy lines (think
skin. For example, they might suggest
on unnecessary product. With that being
the dreaded makeup mask!). Usually, they
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so much. Taking proper care of your skin
regular facials to give your complexion a little pick-me-up. Or they might advise using a soothing exfoliator twice weekly to slough off dead skin cells. This leaves your face feeling baby-soft and gives your makeup artist a smooth, clean canvas to work with. But the importance of consistently practicing a good face-wash routine cannot be overstated. If you have ultra-sensitive skin, then keeping it simple is probably the best way to go! Use a gentle soap to cleanse your face twice daily, followed by an oil-free moisturizer for hydration. You might also consider adding a toner for an even skin tone. Just remember, don’t add any new products in your regime the day or so before your wedding if you don’t know how your skin will react.
FOCUS ON FOUNDATION. Now we turn our attention to one of the most important products in your makeup artist’s arsenal: foundation. While it might not sound as exciting as, say, eyeshadow or lipstick, foundation literally lays the groundwork for the fun stuff. After all, without a solid base, the rest of your look will fall apart. So, choosing the right foundation is essential. While you and your makeup artist will talk about the specifics and the best option for you, here is a general overview of the different foundation types available.
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have a lovely satin finish that leaves your face with a delicate glow. Plus, the absorptive quality of powder foundations keeps shininess down and works especially well for oily or acne-prone skin. But powder can also be quite finicky. It’s difficult to set, so it tends to wear off after only a couple of hours. Also, they are often light-weight, making it challenging to build coverage. Often, the more powder used, the cakier your skin tends to look. So, powders are usually best suited for brides who need minimal coverage.
Liquid By far the most popular choice for bridal makeup, liquid foundations provide a wide range of coverages and finishes. They're long-lasting and make great bases for the rest of your makeup. Like tinted moisturizers, liquid foundations also help to add a bit of hydration to your skin. So, they work well for dry or combination skin types. Whether you have only a few blemishes you wish to cover up or more troublesome skin problems, your makeup artist can help you find a liquid foundation best suited to your needs. But keep in mind that these foundations tend to be a bit heavier, so you will want to keep your skin’s sensitivity in mind. During the consultation with your makeup artist, let them know if you’re prone to breakouts or if your skin is easily irritated.
Airbrush This technique, which has been popular with models and film stars for years, is gaining traction among brides. And it’s easy to see why! When done correctly, airbrushing gives your skin a flawless look not easily achieved with more traditional foundations. Plus, it needs less product than a liquid foundation for full coverage, giving airbrush a similar lightweight feel to powder foundation. Better yet, most airbrush makeup is silicone-based, which 84
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Big Day as much as possible, that’s what
your skin. The right makeup artist will
resistant (so you can bring on the tears!)
friends are for.
help bring out the gorgeous glow of hap-
Once the airbrush foundation is set, it
piness that’s inside you to create a timeless, and perfect makeup look that’s
one of its downsides. For example, if air-
RELAX AND ENJOY THE EXPERIENCE.
brushed makeup does flake or streak
Your wedding day is a chance to look as
every day you get fully immersed in the
throughout the day, it can be more difficult
good as you feel. That means enhancing
supermodel experience. So, sit back and
to blend out than other foundations. But
your natural beauty with healthy habits
enjoy the extra pampering, you deserve it
if it dries properly, then it shouldn’t be too
and products that are best suited for
after all your hard work and planning!
doesn't move easily. But this can also be
personalized just for you. Plus, it’s not
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means it lasts longer and is more water-
much of an issue.
Cruelty-Free Products It’s a harsh reality to face that many makeup brands test on animals. But if you’re a more socially-conscious bride, you might be wondering if there are any ethical options out there. Luckily, they aren’t as hard to find as you might think! In fact, there are many big-name brands out there that are 100% cruelty-free. You just have to do a little digging. Ask your makeup artist about the products they use. If you’d prefer to use a cruelty-free brand, let your artist know and they will most likely be happy to accommodate.
LET’S TALK DAY-OF MAINTENANCE. In most cases, after the initial makeup application is complete, your artist most likely won’t be on-hand for touch-ups throughout the day. So, you’ll probably have to take your makeup maintenance into your own hands. That means anticipating and planning for anything that might mess up your flawless look. Talk with your makeup artist on the best ways to keep fresh-faced all night long. The best way to fight against fading makeup is to pack a touch-up kit with all the essentials – blush, translucent powder, cotton swabs, blotting paper, etc. – to stash in either the bridal suite or a clutch. Don’t be afraid to check in with your bridesmaids or family when you don’t have enough time to run to the powder room. They will want to help you on your CHICAGOSTYLEWEDDINGS.COM
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Hello, Gorgeous! With a million things to think about before your Big Day, a new beauty routine should not be one of them. From bridal trends to beauty tips, we have you covered in becoming your best self as you say ‘I do!�.
FLAWLESS & FABULOUS The key to achieving the bridal glow you have always wanted is to know which beauty products are current and work best for you. Embracing and enhancing your natural features is always a bridal beauty trend to follow. Doing your research on wedding makeup and skin care trends is a great place to start. Whether you choose a bold lip, defined brows or trendy metallics, your bridal look should elevate your every-day style, while also staying true to your personality and natural beauty.
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BRUSH
IT Cosmetics Heavenly Luxe Flat Top Buffing Foundation Brush #6 LIPSTICK White Lotus Lip Color
Recommended by White Lotus Weddings
EYE SHADOW
HIGHLIGHTER
Anastasia Beverly Hills Sultry Eye Shadow Palette
Make Up For Ever Highlighter Recommended by Visage Joli Makeup & Hair Chicago
DUAL LASH WAND
Honest Beauty Extreme Length Mascara + Lash Primer
EYE GELS FlashPatch Restoring Night Eye Gels TWEEZERS Tweezerman Slant Tweezer HAIR AND MAKEUP Appease, Inc. PHOTOGRAPHY Juancho SC Photography
SKIN BALM
CV Skinlabs Restorative Skin Balm FACIAL SPRAY Mario Badescu Facial Spray with Aloe, Herbs and Rosewater
NOT A HAIR OUT OF PLACE Whether you choose a traditional updo or effortlessly styled waves, embrace your unique hair texture with style. From a messy bun, to hair done up with eye-catching accessories be sure to highlight your natural beauty as you walk down the aisle.
STYLING POWDER
evo haze styling powder Recommended by DRYtini HAIR CREAM
Joico Heat Set Blowout Perfecting Créme HAIR SPRAY
Moroccanoil Luminous Hairspray Recommended by Studio Stÿl
HAIR & MAKEUP Sophia Bella Bridal PHOTOGRAPHY Inspired Eye Photography
Wedded Wellness A Y O G A T E A C H E R ’ S G U I D E T O K E E P I N G C A L M O N T H E B I G D AY (AND THROUGHOUT THE PLANNING PROCESS)
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rom cake tastings to vow writing, venue visits to décor
keeping calm and planning on, from the moment you said
designing and so much more, planning your Big Day
“yes!” to the moment you say “I do”.
involves a whole lot of big decisions. Whether you are
newly engaged or well on your way to planning the wedding of
STICK TO YOUR SUPPORT SYSTEM.
your dreams, you are probably already feeling the pressure to
Yoga is all about support: supporting the body, supporting the
get every single decision exactly right. And whether you have
mind and teaching the mind and body how to work together in
hired an amazing wedding planner or have a whole team of
supporting your overall wellness. Planning a wedding essentially
nuptial experts by your side, chances are you’re still feeling a
works the same way: you need a solid support system around you. One of the absolute best ways to make sure you keep self-
little (or, you know, a lot) stressed out. The truth is, weddings can be as stressful as they are
care at the top of your to-do list, throughout the entire wedding
magical – but they definitely do not have to be! If you have
planning process, is to assemble a support system that will be
already turned to the pros for everything from your flower
there for you no matter what – and once you’ve got ‘em, be
arrangements to the menu selections, then it’s time to add one
sure to keep them close by. From family and close friends to an
more expert to your list: a wellness expert! Because yeah,
amazing team of wedding professionals, many of which you
sometimes we all need a little help with something as simple as
can find right in the pages of this magazine. Don’t tackle
remembering to breathe.
wedding planning solo. Ask the folks around you for help, and
Here are some (totally yoga teacher approved) tips for
then let each of them do what they do best: whether that
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that the Big Day really does feel like the
There is no underestimating the power
says calla lilies are a never-fail classic,
most magical day of your life, rather than
of taking a breath when you are stressed
inviting your music-loving bestie to put
a marathon.
– whether that moment comes in the
together a rockin’ list of tunes for your
heat of rethinking your seating arrange-
TRY SOME EASY BREATHING EXERCISES.
ments, again, or just seconds before
own dresses (with some general guidance from you, of course.)
Did you know that there are entire yoga
to make sure all that deep breathing
classes dedicated to just sitting still and
doesn’t suddenly turn into full-on hyper-
breathing? (Believe it or not, it’s true!)
ventilating (that would definitely defeat
DJ or letting the bridal party select their
PLAN FOR DOWN TIME, AHEAD OF TIME.
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means trusting your florist when she
you’re about to walk down the aisle. But
Just like a regular yoga practice, wedding planning is as much about the journey as it is about the destination. And as crazy as it might sound, you actually have to plan to plan. Aka: don’t try to arrange your entire wedding all at one time, schedule yourself mindfully. If you’re running straight from a cake tasting to a dress fitting, or trying to write your vows after spending hours looking at seating charts, chances are that not only will you burn out fast, you will also miss the oneof-a-kind experience that is planning your wedding in the first place. Instead of trying to check everything off your to-do list as quickly as possible (tempting as that may be,) arrange each task in a way that supports your own wellness. Add a weekly massage to your wedding planning agenda. Schedule a quiet walk around your wedding venue after an extra-long session with your wedding planner. Take time to savor that cake you’re tasting (I mean, cake tasting is basically the best part of the whole planning process.) And don’t just stop to smell the roses (or those calla lilies) during the wedding planning process. Arrange a little down time in your Big Day as well. Whether that means scheduling an extended cocktail hour so you and your spouse can quietly bask in the glow of those just-spoken “I dos” or taking five minutes to kick your shoes off in the Bridal Suite between your first dance and dinner. Setting aside time during your wedding day to deliberately unwind will ensure CHICAGOSTYLEWEDDINGS.COM
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the purpose), consider practicing some
throughout
planning
planning all the way ‘til death do you
easy breathing exercises when you’re
process, and even beyond, is a great
part – and it’s another one that is as
already feeling calm. Then you will be
way to work some stress release into
easy as its name. Whether you journal
prepped to tap into them when they are
your schedule. And hey, don’t let all
daily, weekly or whenever you feel yourself
most needed.
your
wedding
those fancy yoga poses you see on
approaching meltdown mode, a gratitude
A favorite breathing technique of yoga
social media intimidate you: yoga is as
journal is a great way to refocus your
teachers is the “4-7-8 Breath” – and
much about sitting still as it is about
energy away from what is stressing you
yeah, it’s as easy to remember as it
breaking out a headstand or folding your-
out in the present moment, and towards
sounds. Simply inhale for a count of four,
self into a pretzel. Even just one yoga
all the things that are going oh-so-right.
hold your breath for a count of seven
session can calm the nervous system,
Consider giving yourself a goal of listing
and then release that breath through
slow the mind, relax the body and let
five, or even ten things you are grateful
your nose for a count of eight. Repeat
you tune into you. Added bonus: yoga
for – those super-stylish strappy san -
this breathing technique as often as nec-
is great for toning your muscles, if
dals that are also amazingly comfortable,
essary, until you are feeling ready to
that’s the look you are going for as you
that cake tasting that ended in red vel-
tackle whatever is heading your way: be
approach your Big Day. You really can’t
vet bliss, the fact that you are about to
it a persnickety future-in-law or an endless
beat something that tones your bod and
marry the most amazing person you
to-do list. Extra relaxation points if you
relaxes your mind at the same time.
have ever met.
close your eyes while doing it.
ACTUALLY PRACTICE YOGA. Signing up to attend a regular yoga class
And yes, you have to physically write
START A GRATITUDE JOURNAL.
each item down, pen and paper in hand
This is a wellness practice that you will
app.) By the time you’re done, not only
definitely want to take from wedding
will you be totally tuned into some positive
(definitely no typing these into your Notes
vibes, you will also have a hand-written keepsake that you can cherish forever.
START A MEDITATION PRACTICE. If you have always thought meditation is way too “woo” for you, think again. Meditation is one of the simplest – and easiest to implement – ways to de-stress your mind and reconnect to your calm; no matter where you are or what you are doing. And don’t think that meditation is just for professional yogis and Buddhist monks, either – it’s definitely a practice for anyone and everyone. Unsure of where to start? Believe it or not, beginning with even just a couple of minutes of a meditation practice a few times a week can completely transform the way you walk through the world – and through your wedding planning. Finally ready to give it a try? Consider starting with a mantra – one designed to draw your mind to everything that’s going well in your life, and to encourage the universe to send even more goodness 90
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Does a miscommunication with your
edge your emotions and then give yourself
your eyes if you are comfortable doing
calligrapher have you spiraling? Pause in
time to get to the root of them before
so, take a breath and say quietly to your-
your frustration, acknowledge what you’re
making a final decision. One of the keys
self: “I am a magnet for the goodness of
feeling and why and don’t move forward
to mindfulness is to accept that frustration,
life. I receive goodness freely and without
until you’re able to communicate from a
stress and discomfort are going to come
hesitation.” Repeat this mantra at least
place of calm. Is an unexpected inability
your way – and that’s okay! Let yourself
five times, or as many as needed before
to say yes to your dress or tux about to
feel your feelings, and then take the time
you begin to feel calm, grounded and
bring you to tears? Have a moment to
to figure out what needs to change
centered. Once you get into the habit, I
yourself in the dressing room, acknowl-
before you can move forward.
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your wedded way. Settle yourself, close
guarantee you’ll find yourself turning to these words whenever you need a quick pick-me-up.
ACCEPT THAT EVERYTHING IS NOT GOING TO BE PERFECT, IN ADVANCE. If there is one Big Day guarantee, it’s this: everyone wants their wedding day to be perfect, and nobody’s wedding day is. (Although, having the right professionals by your side can get you pretty darn close.) But even with the best in the biz behind you, things like unexpected weather, unfortunately-timed traffic, wardrobe malfunctions or minor miscommunications are bound to happen. And while you can’t always plan for the unexpected, you can plan for how you’re going to handle those last-minute snafus if, and when, they occur. Is the trolley transporting the entire wedding party stuck in rush hour traffic? Turn that slowdown into a dance party.
TAP INTO SOME MINDFULNESS. If you’re looking for more than mediation, or if meditation still just isn’t your thing, consider a mindfulness practice instead. (And yes, they are different things.) While meditation is designed to take you out of your current moment and direct your energy somewhere else, the goal of mindfulness is to bring your full awareness to your present moment, engage with what you are feeling and approach it with new energy. CHICAGOSTYLEWEDDINGS.COM
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TERI & MIKE Showing Off Chicago After meeting each other at work in Boston, Teri and Mike moved to Chicago together to attend grad school. Since neither are Chicagonatives, most guests were traveling from out of town. They wanted to showcase the city they love with a summer wedding. A Friday evening cocktail hour helped kick off the wedding weekend and gave guests time to explore and enjoy the city before the Saturday ceremony.
Sprinkled with Love The couple wanted an elegant and modern aesthetic for their wedding but, they decided their cake should be “all fun”! They covered the cake in sprinkles – Teri’s favorite. The pair also chose a banana bread cake with cream cheese icing for a unique take on the traditional wedding cake.
An Egyptian Flair Mike’s family is Egyptian, so the pair wanted to incorporate his cultural heritage into the reception. Teri and Mike worked with the band to curate several blocks of Egyptian songs throughout the evening. Guests were delighted to learn the traditional songs and dances!
Game Play Playing board games is one of Teri and Mike’s favorite hobbies. So instead of having a traditional guestbook, they asked that guests sign Jenga tiles. With the game added to their collection, the couple will be able to reminisce about their wedding day for years to come.
Number of Wedding Guests: 115 To see more photos from this Real Wedding, go to chicagostyleweddings.com/real-weddings. WRITTEN BY Emily Conley
Real Wedding Vendors VENUE: The Langham, Chicago | PHOTOGRAPHY & VIDEOGRAPHY: Giadore Photography | EVENT PLANNER: Effortless Events RINGS: Stephanie Gottlieb Fine Jewelry | GOWN: THEIA via Lovely Bride | BRIDE’S SHOES: Jimmy Choo HAIR & MAKEUP: Kate Johnson Artistry | FORMALWEAR: The Black Tux | FLORAL & DÉCOR: Avant Gardenia STATIONERY: Minted | ENTERTAINMENT: Sway Chicago | CAKE & SWEETS: Sugar Fixé | FAVORS: Garrett Popcorn
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SPOTLIGHT ON STYLE | Hues Used: Tricia & Jake
BETHANY MOORE EVENTS
Vendors EVENT PLANNER: Bethany Moore Events | VENUE: The Monte Bello Estate | PHOTOGRAPHY: GReyes Photography STATIONERY: Chelsea Brown Designs | FLORAL: Flowers by Steen Productions | CAKE & SWEETS: Vanilla Sugar Bakery DÉCOR: Chicago Factory, Flowers by Steen Productions, Key To Your Heart, Stacey’s Place & Morgan’s Place To see more photos from this Spotlight on Style, go to chicagostyleweddings.com/inspiration. CHICAGOSTYLEWEDDINGS.COM
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City Scene W H AT ’ S N E W A R O U N D C H I C A G O L A N D PHOTOGRAPH BY Jasko Omerovic Photography
InterContinental Chicago Magnificent Mile 505 N. Michigan Ave. | Chicago, IL 60611 312.321.8735 | icchicagohotel.com The InterContinental Chicago Magnificent Mile is thrilled to have given both their Renaissance and Grand Ballrooms exquisite renovations for your upcoming celebrations. Guests will twirl around the dance floor under opulent crystal chandeliers and intricate hand-painted frescos reminiscent of Michelangelo’s Sistine Chapel. With an updated color scheme of sophisticated gray tones and gold accents, the historic hotel establishes an elegant and lavish atmosphere that makes it one of Chicago’s most treasured gems. With the help of their incredible culinary and events team, The InterContinental Chicago Magnificent Mile will successfully make your wedding dreams come true.
Manzo’s Banquets 1571 S. Elmhurst Rd. | Des Plaines, IL 60018 847.593.2233 | manzosbanquets.com Manzo’s Banquets has effortlessly hosted beautiful weddings at their venue for nearly 35 years. With recent renovations, guests will be in awe of their spectacular ballrooms adorned with crystal chandeliers, ornate ceilings and marble dance floors enhancing the venue’s sophisticated atmosphere. The private bridal suites have been redecorated with love, to ensure you feel comfortable and relaxed on your special day. Guests will capture the perfect photo opportunity on an enchanting open patio decorated with glowing LED lights spelling “I DO” and “LOVE”. Manzo’s impeccable service and luxurious decór will help create intimate memories that will be cherished forever. 98
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River Roast 315 N. LaSalle St. | Chicago, IL 60654 312.527.1417 | riverroastchicago.com River Roast has been named one of the best patios in the city with glittering views of the Chicago riverfront and its acclaimed glory. Expansive windows line the restaurant’s historic red brick walls giving the venue a rich and industrial ambiance. With its updated bar that includes indooroutdoor service, the spacious Murdoch room opens up to a beautiful outdoor terrace for a cocktail reception STEPHANIE JENSEN PHOTOGRAPHY
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decorative mobile bars and an eclectic selection of furniture to accommodate your event’s ideal aesthetic. Your special day will be unforgettable with breathtaking views and remarkable service from the beginning to the the fairy-tale ending.
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City Hall 838 W. Kinzie St. | Chicago, IL 60642 312.801.1181 | thecityhall.com Chicago’s newly opened City Hall is a sprawling venue divided into a 5,000 sq. ft. event space, a 3,700 sq. ft. restaurant and a 6,000 sq. ft. patio. Skylights run the length
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of the building and bathe the space in natural light,
Experience a taste of France right here in Chicago at
accentuating the intricate iron trusses and exposed brick
Taureaux. Offering elevated French dining in the heart of
original to the structure. The open hall brings in classical and
Chicago’s Loop, this recently opened restaurant and bar
neoclassical design elements, emulating those of historic
boasts outdoor seating all year round under the covered
municipal buildings across America. Refined finishes, such
outdoor pergola. Your guests will taste the acclaimed
as art deco steel panels and a 40-foot marble bar, dazzle,
chef's seasonal menus and indulge in paired wines from an
while a newly built loft and private bridal suite, overlook the
extensive list. Let the private dining team customize and
space for your perfect wedding celebration.
refine your next wedding event to distinguished perfection.
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Location, Location, Location N
othing defines a wedding more than the location. Not
HOTELS
only does it set the tone for the day, but it also says a
If you are looking for a full-service, traditional location, a hotel
lot about the personality of the couple. The sheer
is a great choice. Most hotels have all-inclusive wedding
number of wedding venues can make an engaged couples’
packages and in-house event specialists that will lead you
heads spin. City vs. country. Ballroom vs. barn. Indoors vs. out-
through the entire process from linen colors to cake flavors.
doors. Library vs. loft. Park vs. by the water. There is so much to
Because of their versatility, hotels are a great option for almost
take into consideration that it can be overwhelming. Where do
any type of wedding celebration. It is common for hotels to
you start?
offer intimate nooks that can accommodate 20 guests, elegant
Before you dive head first in looking at venues you need to
grand ballrooms that can accommodate up to 400 guests,
determine your budget and how many guests you plan to invite.
rooftop terraces, skyline views and on-site restaurants where
This information will help you to narrow down your choices. One
you can hold your rehearsal dinner.
other thing to be mindful of is the distance your guests will need
If you foresee inviting numerous out of town guests, holding
to travel between the ceremony location and the reception
your reception at a hotel will take the guess-work out of booking
location, if they are not one and the same. Once you have those
a room. Some hotels can even supply you with a unique
details in mind it’s time to start thinking about the type of venue
reservation link for your guests to book their rooms. Another
for your Big Day.
perk is that it will allow guests the convenience to access their
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rooms throughout your reception to change
you are not a member. Similar to hotels,
Having the peace of mind that you have a
their high heel shoes to flats, freshen up
most country clubs will offer many of the
space to move into if inclement weather
or easily get to their room safely if they
services you will need on-site, such as
strikes will allow you to focus your
have had too much of a good time.
an event planner, catering and a variety
thoughts on other things. Then there’s
of linens.
the golf! Your wedding party might enjoy
COUNTRY CLUBS & GOLF COURSES
Known for their golf courses and expan-
playing 18 holes the morning of the
sive grounds, a country club is an ideal
ceremony or as a part of the bachelor or
A country club is another classic venue
location for an outdoor event. As every
bachelorette party.
to consider. You might think that you are
savvy planner knows, if you are planning
required to have a membership to rent
an outdoor ceremony or reception it is
their facilities, but they are not as exclusive
advisable to have a back-up plan in case
MANSIONS & HISTORIC SITES
as many people think. Many country
of rain. Be sure to discuss your options
If a picturesque setting is on your must-
clubs are available to the public even if
with your event planner ahead of time.
have list, then be sure to explore the
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many opulent mansions located throughout Chicagoland. Where else are you going to find cascading staircases, expansive grounds, exotic gardens, historical backdrops, romantic chandeliers and elegant architecture all in one place? Mansions that are available for events, such as weddings, will also offer some of the same amenities as hotels and country clubs. Most are likely to offer all-inclusive packages, including a dedicated wedding specialist, full-service caterer and bridal suites. The versatility you will have when deciding how to execute your Big Day will enable you to have both your ceremony and reception on the property if you so desire. Plus, most mansions will offer both indoor and outdoor site options. Keep in mind that Chicago weather can change on a dime. It is advisable to have an alternate location set up inside if you have decided on an outdoor wedding. Another bonus to having your wedding at a mansion is that they typically only host one event per day. This means that you will have the grounds to yourself for pictures and the staff will be completely focused on your needs alone.
MUSEUMS & LIBRARIES Art and culture are all around us in Chicago. There are many spectacular museums, art galleries and libraries to choose from. Though these locations might not be obvious choices for holding a wedding, they should be. These amazing buildings often feature exquisite art, unique architectural design, historical yet modern elegance and amazing natural light. Depending on the venue you choose, you may need to be more hands-on with all the details. This is a fantastic opportunity to truly make the day your own. If you do not feel prepared to handle all the planning single-handedly, you can enlist the help of a wedding planner. These professionals can walk you through everything from hiring caterers to selecting 106
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a florist. Plus, they will be your point per-
party. Be sure to take a step back and
BARNS & FARMS
son on the day of your wedding to take
carve out some time for yourself and
Getting married on a farm or in a barn
care of any issues big or small.
your wedding party to enjoy a little pam-
has grown in popularity over the years,
pering at the spa or improve their swing
and for good reason. Think rustic wood
on the golf course.
beams wrapped in twinkle lights, gorgeous
RESORT & SPAS Planning a wedding can be stressful, so
Choosing a resort and spa as your
landscapes for wedding photos, a casual
why not incorporate some well-deserved
wedding location can also take the guess-
reception set around fire pits, mature
rest and relaxation into the equation?
work out of how to fit in a trip to the salon
trees and farm to table catering. Though
Holding your ceremony at a luxurious
to have your hair and nails done. And
these kinds of locations will probably not
resort and spa might be just what you
don’t forget about that massage. After
have an all-inclusive option, you can hire a
need. The final 48 hours leading up to
the major undertaking of planning a wed-
wedding planner to assist you with all the
your Big Day are likely to be a whirlwind
ding and making it to the finish line (aka,
details. Plus, if you were planning to have
of activity for you and your wedding
the aisle), you deserve it!
your four-legged friend be part of the Big
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Day, holding your wedding in such a
BY THE WATER
numerous venues located by the river, or
versatile location means that your pet
Chicagoans looking to get married are
on Lake Michigan, that boast spectacular
could not only walk you down the aisle
blessed in many respects when it comes
water views. Whether the venue you
but could join you at the head table.
to location choices. On top of all the
choose has grand windows or a high-rise
beautiful hotels, restaurants, museums,
patio that overlooks the water, either way,
GARDENS & PARKS
etc. that the city and surrounding area
you can’t go wrong.
Parks and gardens have always been
have to offer, couples planning their wed-
popular as wedding locations. You are
dings also have the option of a ceremony
BANQUET HALLS
almost guaranteed amazing wedding
with water views, or even a wedding on
Banquet halls are another popular choice
photos among the blossoming flowers
the water.
for wedding celebrations. One major perk
in the spring, the lush greenery in the
Envision sailing down the Chicago
to selecting a banquet hall is large scale
summer or the magnificent array of col-
River as you and your guests sip cham-
events are their niche. This means that
orful leaves in the fall as your backdrop.
pagne under the setting sun. Depending
the staff will be well-versed in making
Many parks and gardens offer both out-
on the vessel you select, your guests will
any size event go off without a hitch.
door and indoor options for your nuptials
have the option of sitting out on an
With their custom kitchens designed to
giving you a built-in back-up plan. Addi-
open-air deck or in a climate-controlled
prepare meals for large events, all-
tional items to keep in mind are that
salon. Either way, they will be treated to
inclusive packages and dedicated event
parks and gardens tend to be public
a fabulous meal, full bar service and a
planners, you can rest assured that every
property, you will probably need to
spacious dance floor so that they can
aspect of your reception will be taken
adhere to a noise ordinance and may
dance the night away.
care of meticulously.
not have all the privacy that you and your partner desire.
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If you would rather keep your feet
If you are planning to have a rather
firmly planted on dry land, there are
extensive guest list, be sure to discuss
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your audio-visual needs with the event planner. From microphones for your toasts and speeches to projectors for your picture montage, this will be another item you do not need to worry about and an added feature to enhance your reception.
RESTAURANTS Throughout your wedding planning, you are likely to use restaurants for your bridal shower, bachelor or bachelorette party and rehearsal dinner, but many couples may not think of them for the wedding celebration itself. Here is some food for thought. A restaurant can be a great location if you are having a smaller wedding. It is common for restaurants to have event rooms that can be reserved for private parties, or, depending on the time of day, you might be able to rent the entire restaurant. While you are likely to get delicious meals at any venue you choose, most large kitchens are set up for catering, thus limiting the meal options you can offer your guests. You are more likely to be able to add variety to your menu at a restaurant, or even have your guests order off the main menu which is aavailable to all who dine at the establishment. Another perk that a restaurant can offer is a personal connection. Maybe you met your future spouse during your semester abroad in Italy or had your first date in Chinatown. Holding your wedding celebration in a restaurant that ties a part of your journey together as a couple to your wedding day can be a special reminder for you both of the things that brought you together, and will continue to be the ties that bind you together for your happily ever after.
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loft space. Many of these venues are con-
have amazing steel beams, original wood
modate even the most eclectic desires.
verted mills, so they have expansive,
or concrete floors, weathered brick walls
These couples may choose to say “I do�
wide-open spaces to fit all your friends
and exposed ceilings. Work with your
in a stunning wildlife habitat at a local zoo,
and family, plus a great dance floor. If you
wedding planner and photographer to
standing on a glass ledge thirteen hundred
and your wedding planner are up to the
come up with some creative ideas to
feet above the city, on the playing field of
task, this could be a great choice for you.
incorporate these urban features into
a hometown sports stadium, on stage at
Though some lofts will offer in-house
your photographs.
an iconic Chicago theater, in front of an
catering, many do not. This provides you
While most couples will opt for one of
with the opportunity to select the caterer
the more traditional wedding locations
among the stars at a planetarium. Chicago-
of your choice and have your wedding
mentioned earlier, there will always be
land offers an almost endless list of options
cake designed by your favorite bakery.
those adventurous duos who want to
if you are looking for something more
Another benefit is the unique photo oppor-
treat their guests to something a little more
inimitable for your wedding. The only limi-
tunities. These wonderful spaces tend to
unique. Luckily, Chicagoland can accom-
tation you have is your imagination.
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aquatic wonderland at an aquarium or
VICTORIA & FRANK Vintage Glam Victoria & Frank both love the Rat Pack Era and Old Hollywood Glam, so settling on a wedding theme proved to be easy. No detail was left unplanned, from the personalized and monogrammed pillows to the custom paper fan backdrop behind the live band playing big band music. The addition of red roses throughout the décor truly stole the show amongst the black, gold and ivory color palette. Together, it created a bespoke, intimate experience for guests to feel as if they stepped back in time.
Always Frank regularly signs his letters to Victoria with “I will love you, always.” In combination with the symbolism from Harry Potter, “Always” has become the couple’s personal mantra. They incorporated the “Always” emblem into every detail of their celebration, from their invitations to their table décor.
Unforgettable Moments When reminiscing about their favorite moments from their Big Day, Victoria and Frank had a hard time narrowing down their list. Frank decided that one of his favorite moments was riding around in Victoria’s Dad’s vintage car at the end of the day. For Victoria, the best part of the day was seeing her groom waiting at the end of the aisle.
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From the Chic to the Unique 8 WAY S T O M A K E Y O U R W E D D I N G M E M O R A B L E
C
ouples are always looking for exceptional ways to make their wedding stand out. Of course, you can opt
So, let’s jump right in and look at eight ways to ensure your wedding is as special as your commitment to each other!
for a flashy theme that will encompass your personalities,
or you can go with a classic, traditional vibe that looks like it
1. TAKE TO SOCIAL MEDIA
just came off the silver screen.
As you already know, anything and everything can be posted
However, if you don’t want to go with a theme per se, but
on your favorite social media platforms. Your wedding and
still want your wedding to be distinctive, there are a number of
the entire process leading up to it, can easily be shared
things that you can do to make sure that your guests are
with your friends, family and coworkers. We don’t have to
talking about your wedding for months to come. Sometimes it’s
remind you what a special day your wedding is to both of
the little touches that are the most memorable, and just a pinch
you as a couple, so it’s absolutely normal that you will
of creativity can certainly go a long way. Guests love to attend
want to share all of the exciting details with your social
a wedding that utilizes new, trendy ideas and maybe even get
media followers.
a few ideas for their own upcoming nuptials.
However, will a few random posts do, or will you want a little
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more? In an environment packed full of hashtags, shouldn’t your wedding have one, too? Well, a lot of couples agree, as wedding hashtags are one of the biggest trends for 2019. So, how does it work? Well, whenever you make any post about your wedding, whether it be pictures of dress fittings or your first walk-through at the reception venue, you will include your carefully crafted wedding hashtag. That way, everyone can follow right along with you, from the first moments of planning to the last song at the reception. Now, you may already be throwing around a few ideas for your wedding hashtag, but make sure that it will be unique. There are hashtag generators that you can use, but they can be expensive. Plus, it’s fun to create one yourself, if you follow just a few steps. Brainstorm – Get together with your partner and come up with a few ideas. Think of your full names, your wedding date, the venue or honeymoon destination, your theme and some of your special memories. Also, consider your children, pets, your go-to music genre and your favorite sports teams. Get Witty – Now it’s time to get those creative juices flowing! Think about what makes your union unique, and try a play on words. Blend your last name with a saying, like #ILoveYouMoore, or make a pun like #FureverLove, especially if you are including fur babies in your journey. Keep It Correct – Be sure that you use the proper format. Capitalize the first letter of every word, be sure that there are no common typos and make certain no one else is using it.
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which we absolutely recommend, you
gifts for the table, with small potted plants
an iPad, or take a Polaroid and write a
can work together to be sure that he or
that can be taken home and planted in
note on the back. If you or someone in
she creates your ultimate vision.
your garden, or even consider tiny spruce
the family likes to sew, your guests can
The first thing to do is get inspired.
trees. Also, etched candles or little boxes
sign squares of fabric that can be put
It’s really important to find local trends,
containing monogrammed items will always
together in a beautiful wedding quilt to
because let’s face it – what’s going on in
be a reminder of your wedding.
be cherished for generations.
3. BE INTERACTIVE WITH YOUR GUESTS
Wisdom” box. This is an opportunity for
Use every inch of space at your dis-
Your guests love feeling as if they are a
to settle arguments, why you should
posal. A lot of people tend to neglect the
big part of your ceremony or reception.
never go to sleep angry or why deep-
entryway, but this is the first impression
It’s impossible to have everyone in your
dish pizza is never a bad dinner plan.
that your guests will have when walking
wedding party, but you can come up
Another interesting way to keep guests
into your venue. If you have a theme,
with ideas that will make it simple for
interacting is to allow them to create a
incorporate it here, and give your guests
them to participate in a myriad of ways.
time capsule. Let them add whatever
the option to be pulled in. For example,
One way to get started is to re-think
they want to a box or crate to be opened
are you going with a travel theme, or do
the notion of a boring guestbook, with a
at a predetermined time. You can even
you both just like packing a suitcase and
distant cousin standing behind it to
set up stations for multiple time capsules,
hitting the road when the mood hits? Set
somehow encourage people to sign their
say at one year, five years or longer.
up a globe or a flat vinyl map that your
names. The globe tip above is a neat idea,
guests can sign as they come in.
but let’s take things a step further. Allow
4. RENT A PHOTO BOOTH
your guests to leave a video message on
When these blasts from the past began
You can also set up a “Words of
Dallas or Los Angeles is completely different than what might be considered on trend in Chicago.
Your centerpieces can also serve as
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other couples to leave a few tips on how
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together. Candid photos can be the best
appearing at wedding receptions all
take photos with your two best friends?
across the country, some cynics thought
Most photo booths come with hilar-
they wouldn’t last. However, photo booths
ious props and a choice of backdrops
are most definitely the trend that is
or screens, so you can personalize the
decidedly here to stay! Perhaps a big
experience for your guests. Photo booths
5. SET UP A COCKTAIL LOUNGE
part of this is the nostalgia that is
are wonderful because, at weddings, old
If you have space at your reception venue,
involved. Doesn’t everyone recall cram-
friends tend to reunite after 10 years, or
consider setting up a lounge area where
ming into a dark booth at an amusement
family members from the other side of
guests can mingle and sip a cocktail or
park, an arcade or a movie theater to
the country are able to spend a few days
two. If your wedding will have a seating
way to commemorate these moments.
chart for the dining portion of the reception, or if guests simply want to converse in a more relaxed setting, a makeshift cocktail lounge can do the trick. A small side room is ideal, but you can also section off an area in the main venue and bring in a few sofas and tables to give the space its own vibe. And don’t forget to be creative with your cocktails, and have a few featured drinks with cute names that incorporate your wedding theme or other ideas. Years later, it may come up in conversation – I wonder what was in the “Kendall and Brady Blast”?
6. GET CUTE WITH YOUR CONFECTIONS While the wedding cake will always be the centerpiece of the sweets at your reception, that doesn’t mean that you can’t add a bit more here and there. Cupcakes are perfect for the kiddos, and you can even bring the sweets to the tables as centerpieces. You can wrap up local chocolates in brightly colored paper, or you can stack small boxes filled with candies on the tables as well. While it was extremely popular a few years back, what is known as the “groom’s cake” is really making a comeback. Of course, the cake doesn’t have to be just for the groom or decorated in sports or other hobbies. The idea of this second cake is to have fun with it. If you’re both big fans of the Broadway sensation “Wicked,” go with bright green icing on one side and pale blue on the other. If you both play golf, then your cake 124
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designer can go crazy with a fun hole-in-
wedding doesn’t have to be any differ-
enger hunt, which is a fantastic choice
one design. Are you getting the idea?
ent. Typically, the focus of the game is
for the young people at the reception.
Let your main cake be the masterpiece
on the bride and groom, where they are
Prepare a list of items or information that
that you’ve been dreaming about since
asked questions about each other until
must be gathered, and have a prize for
watching “Ace of Cakes,” but get quirky
one can be deemed the winner. However,
the winner who finishes the list first.
and eccentric with this smaller cake.
you can also test the members of the
7. GAME ON Everyone loves a good game, and your
wedding party, such as “Who Knows
8. AFTER THE PARTY
Taylor the Best”?
Many couples are heading out on their
There’s also the ever-popular scav-
honeymoon the following day, or at the start of the next weekend. They are sad to see the reception come to an end, so why not have an “after party”? A lot of couples opt to continue the party at their favorite bar or nightclub, where they have rented a separate room or a few VIP booths so that the fun doesn’t have to end. If you are catching a plane to Bermuda the next morning and are anxious to get to your B&B for the night, set up a plan for your guests. As mentioned, this may be the first time several of these people have gotten together for years, so make the night last! Spending time brainstorming with your loved ones can be a great way to come up with even more inspiring ways to make your wedding and its reception memorable. Think outside of the box, and don’t be afraid to try something new or different. On the flip side, if you’ve seen something that you thought was super-awesome at another wedding, incorporate it into your own, with perhaps an extra detail or a slight twist. Your reception is the party that you deserve after months, even years, of planning. This goes for your bridal attendants and family as well. Remember all those late nights making out-of-town gift baskets or visiting every bridal shop in town until you found the perfect bridesmaids dresses? Trust me, everyone is ready to let loose and celebrate! So, let your personalities shine through, and be as unique as you want to be with this list of tips. After all, it’s your wedding day – enjoy it!
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One-of-a-Kind Wedding Options T
here is no right way to plan a wedding. Seriously. The
personalize their celebration and truly showcase their person-
entire point of your Big Day is that it is a reflection of
ality as a couple. If you’re tempted to do something a little unex-
you, your partner and the love you share. While a
pected for your Big Day, we’ve got some ideas (both big and
traditional affair speaks to many couples, there’s no reason you
small) for you right here.
can’t design a celebration that makes the two of you happy, no matter how quirky or “outside the box” it may seem. We are
ELOPEMENTS
seeing more and more couples opt for non-traditional wedding
Let’s just start with perhaps the most dramatic non-traditional
ceremonies, receptions or wedding day elements in an effort to
route you can take – eloping. Couples choose to elope for so
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many reasons, and the popularity of this
stunning architecture if that is important
you’re eloping. Go as fancy or as casual
wedding day option is currently on the
to you. You can also choose a location
as you want! Other details you may con-
rise. Maybe you don’t want to spend the
that is special to you and your partner – a
sider including: a bouquet and bouton -
money on a typical wedding, you can’t
rooftop where you had drinks on your first
niere, a small wedding cake or sweet
stand the thought of hundreds of eyes
date, a waterfall you hiked to or a
treat and a customized announcement to
on you as you exchange vows or you
restaurant you both really love. There’s no
send out afterwards. Some couples choose
want your wedding day to feel completely
need to travel to another city or country
to celebrate with a small group of close
intimate and personal. There’s no rule
to pull off the perfect elopement, though
loved ones after a private ceremony. Skip-
about why you would choose to elope.
that is always a choice, too!
ping the traditional Big Day does not
Just like with planning a traditional wed-
Couples who decide to elope should
mean you have to pass on everything –
ding, you should choose what feels right
still consider including some of the ele-
include the elements and traditions that
for you and your partner.
ments of a more traditional wedding. At
feel right to you.
If you do decide to elope, there are
the very least, you should still hire a pho-
dozens of ways to pull off this more
tographer to capture the event. You’ll
intimate wedding day option. You can opt
want to have photos to share and look
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for just you and your partner, parents and
back on. You may also want to include a
If a full-on elopement feels too dramatic,
immediate family only, or a small gathering
videographer if you want to share your
but you are still not digging the tradi -
of close friends. Once you’ve decided
special day with friends and family who
tional wedding day experience, a desti-
who will be included, you’ll need to decide
may not be included in the event. If you
nation wedding may be just the ticket.
on a location. The courthouse is historically
have always dreamed of wearing a fancy
Destination weddings lend themselves
a popular option, and some cities and
white gown or a crisp tux, there’s no
to smaller affairs as you typically only
towns have city halls or courthouses with
reason to not dress up just because
ask your closest friends and family to
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spend the time and money required to
the day-of your elopement. You’ll almost
in control of every single detail, a destina-
travel. You may also choose this option
definitely need to buy your dress at home,
tion wedding could prove challenging, as
for your Big Day if you want a more laid
well ahead of your wedding date, and be
you’ll likely have to leave a lot of the work
back, less formal vibe than a traditional
sure to talk to the boutique owner about
up to professionals on location and trust
wedding venue would provide. If you
any concerns with packaging your dress
that it will be what you want when you
and your fiancé are from different states
for shipping to your destination.
arrive. If you are aware of these challenges
or countries, maybe a neutral location
Benefits of a destination wedding are
ahead of time, and tying the knot some-
makes more sense so as not to unfairly
bountiful: gorgeous photos in exotic loca-
where far from home sounds like your
burden one side of the family.
tions, a more intimate guest list, a relaxed
cup of tea, then a destination wedding
If you decide to host a destination
party vibe and less stress if you book
may just be your dream come true.
wedding, consider sourcing some wedding
your wedding at a resort that offers a full-
vendors from your hometown and bring
fledged wedding coordination package.
them with you. A hair and makeup artist
However, a destination wedding doesn’t
NON-TRADITIONAL RECEPTIONS
who knows your hair and skin, that can
come without some difficulties. Make sure
For couples who want a more traditional
do a trial run with you before the wedding,
you know exactly what the legal process
wedding ceremony, but still want to cus-
is invaluable. You may also want to
is like for obtaining a marriage license if
tomize their Big Day in a unique way, a
consider hiring a photographer who is
you are in another country. You may want
non-traditional reception may be the
willing to travel with you. This affords you
to consider staying for a night or two after
perfect compromise. Instead of hosting
the opportunity to get to know one another
your wedding and then booking a separate
an afternoon or evening reception like
during the engagement session this will
honeymoon, so you aren’t surrounded by
usual, couples could choose to have an
ensure you feel more comfortable than
your wedding guests for the entirety of
early-morning ceremony followed by a
you would if meeting someone on location
your newlywed vacation. If you like to be
brunch reception. Similarly, couples could
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choose to host a later ceremony with a
hors d’oeuvres or passed appetizers.
cocktail tables are perfectly acceptable,
cocktail reception to follow instead of a
This type of reception could be held in
make sure you do offer some seating
full dinner reception. There are specific
the early afternoon or later evening. If
options, especially for older guests and
pros and cons to consider with these
you choose to host a cocktail reception
anyone whose feet are tired from standing
non-traditional reception options.
during typical “dinner” hours (5-7 PM),
in heels.
A brunch reception is the perfect
you should let guests know, on a details
choice for the couple who wants to eat
card or invitation, so they don’t expect
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delicious food and spend time with
a full dinner. Having food stations or
While some cultures throw multi-day
their wedding guests, but doesn’t want
passed apps instead of a plated meal
wedding celebrations as per tradition,
a raucous party. Brunch doesn’t have to
can be a fun alternative to typical wed-
the Western or Christian wedding is typ-
mean no alcohol (hello, mimosas and
ding food, giving you the opportunity to
ically a one-day affair. If you crave the
bloody marys!) but guests tend to be
offer bite-size treats or unexpected fare
intimacy of an elopement or destination
more subdued and less inclined to tear
like tacos or sliders. While some couples
wedding, but also want to celebrate
up the dance floor at eleven AM. A brunch
choose a cocktail reception as a way to
with a larger group, a two-day wedding
reception can be laid back or more formal,
save money, be aware that snack food
could be the answer. On the first day,
but you should generally stick with a
costs can add up quickly and some-
exchange vows in a small ceremony
semi-formal dress code at most. An earlier
times end up costing more than a regular
with only your closest friends and family
celebration could also allow you to get
dinner. A cocktail reception is perfect
and then follow up the next day with
into more popular venues that may be
for a couple who wants a less-formal
a larger reception to celebrate! Or con-
booked already.
vibe. It’s generally easier to mix and
sider including all your guests in a week-
With a cocktail reception, a couple
mingle with guests when everyone isn’t
end full of festivities. You could have a
foregoes a full dinner in favor of heavy
seated at tables to eat. While standing
pre-wedding ceremony activity on Friday
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that incorporates a special interest that
for a personal touch. Some couples have
Desserts are easily customizable and
you and your partner share – kayaking,
elected to have their grandmothers drop
there’s no need to even stick to sweets.
hiking, painting, ballroom dancing – and
flowers in lieu of traditional flower girls,
Couples are opting to cut into things they
then have your wedding and reception
and the photos can be cherished for
love – pizza and cheese wheels are two
on Saturday. By stretching your wedding
years. Want a unity symbol but not into
popular choices – instead of traditional
celebration over several days, couples
the idea of lighting a candle? Switch it up
cakes. There’s also interactive s’mores
can personalize activities and share more
and toast your new spouse with each
bars, donut walls or French crêpes. You
time with their guests than just a few
other’s favorite beer or wine.
can always have a wedding cake and
hours at a busy reception.
You can always use entertainment options to set your Big Day apart and
your culture or favorite desserts.
UNEXPECTED WEDDING ELEMENTS
leave your guests with an experience to
Never forget that your wedding is a
remember. Hire a magician or tarot card
reflection of you and your partner. It’s
If you’ve read through all of the alternative
reader to move between tables. A mariachi
important that you both feel like your Big
options above and none feel quite right,
band could add a fun touch to a cocktail
Day is authentic and personal, even if that
you may be interested in planning a
hour. We’ve seen Elvis impersonators ser-
means flouting tradition or expectations.
more traditional wedding while including
enade guests at the reception and LED
From solo elopements to an unexpected
a unique element or two. From wedding
robots spray guests with fog from the
dessert, there are endless options for
attendants to dessert, there are hundreds
dance floor.
customizing your wedding, you just need
of ways to customize your wedding and
When it comes to the food options, a
to decide what feels right and follow your
food truck reception instead of a typical
heart – especially if it leads to pizza at
To customize your wedding ceremony,
plated meal or a beverage truck for spe-
your reception, because who doesn’t love
you can have a family member marry you
cialty cocktails is a memorable option.
a little wedding pizza?
add in a little unexpected flair.
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JAIME & WILL Knowing Early On After meeting through an online dating site, Jaime and Will just knew this was it. They shared so many interests including a love for food, traveling, sports (loyal Cubs fans) and family values. By their second date, they were a perfect match for one another.
Ready to Party Jaime and Will wanted their wedding reception to feel like a big party, with a focus on the band, food and bar. They featured two specialty cocktails named after the bride and groom – a pear martini with grenadine and a spicy Old Fashioned with habanero bitters – which were a big hit with guests. The upbeat band had guests kicking up their heels on the dance floor the entire night.
The Lone Star State In honor of Will’s Texas roots, the couple incorporated a “Texas chic” theme throughout their reception. They used antlers, cacti and plenty of candles interspersed with a navy, pink and metallic color scheme to keep things both western and elegant.
Photogenic Pup Jaime and Will enjoyed taking photos around the financial district and the Wells Street Bridge after their first look. One of their favorite moments of the day was including their sweet pit bull Macey in the photoshoot for some adorable family wedding portraits.
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How to Book a Wedding Venue B
ooking a wedding venue obviously requires organization
family and friends attend your celebrations, make sure the
and preparation, but whether you are ready for it
venue has room for your ample head count. So, grab your
depends on details such as where you are in your
laptop or a pen and paper and let’s dive into the most common
overall planning, the type of venue you want and how soon you
venue details to iron out.
want to get married. In order to choose the best venue, you and your partner
LOCATION
should determine what is most important to you both on your
Choosing a location is the first step of booking your venue.
wedding day. For example, if you both value having all of your
Consider guest count capacity, indoor and outdoor potential,
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catering and alcohol options and proximity
for a lot. Even if you only dislike the
locations have a list of caterers, design
to your ceremony. It is also important to
ceiling or the carpeting, moving forward
studios and florists they recommend who
note that while you might be able to
with signing a contract could translate
have worked with them on events in the
transform an event space with lighting,
into spending thousands of dollars trying
past. However, some venues go beyond
drapery and flowers, the costs of those
to camouflage it down the road.
recommendations and exclusively work
elements add up quickly. To avoid a
with these partners as their “preferred
hefty price tag, consider selecting a loca-
VENDORS
vendors.” Be sure to ask about the
tion that requires only minor changes.
Another detail to consider about your
policy before bringing in outside vendors
But remember, some little things count
venue are your wedding vendors. Many
to make sure you can create the wedding you have in mind. You and your partner should also look into an all-inclusive venue. All-inclusive venues often come with pre-packaged options, which can save a lot of coordination and research for couples who want a celebration that is more simple and traditional. A-la carte locales require a lot more time and effort, but they allow for more customization for couples who want a celebration that is tailor-made to their preferences.
GUESTS If you are not celebrating the day with just the two of you (which we are not knocking), make sure you consider any family or friends who will be witnessing your nuptials. Transportation, accessibility, parking, safety and proximity to the ceremony are all details to account for. Some urban venues don’t have attached parking and outdoor venues, while picturesque, are not always easily accessible for guests. Knowing approximately how many guests you will invite is crucial to selecting a venue that safely accommodates each person and allows everyone to have a good time.
BUDGET It goes without saying that to book a venue, you will have to spend some cash. How much you spend, however, is completely up to your personal style and budget. The average cost of a wedding venue is around $15,000, but venues can be as low as $2,000. Setting a 144
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budget for your venue might also impact
number of guests or a food and beverage
100 percent able to fill the number of
your vendor budget. The last thing you
minimum to book the space and guaran-
seats you request. Another tip for lowering
want to do is blow your budget on a
tee a certain price. If you know for a fact
the price of your venue is requesting
beautiful venue and then realize you
that your number of guests will exceed
changes to the event package. Politely
have to scrimp everywhere else. Call
the minimum amount or your catering
tell the venue representative what your
potential vendors and make sure each
needs and preferences will go beyond
price range is and ask if you can subtract
quote is within your means before even
the requirement, this could lower the
extras that you don’t think you’ll need
visiting a venue.
venue price or the catering price per
(chair covers, candle treatments, center-
guest. However, make sure that you are
pieces, etc.). Be aware – negotiating will
Many event spaces require a minimum
have its limits. If you are dead set on a particular venue, you will have to accept their general price range. Make sure you also ask the venue representative to calculate the total cost per person, including any service charges and taxes. Online prices and even prices quoted in person sometimes exclude these two figures, which can make a sizable difference in your total cost. For good measure, check that your venue doesn’t charge extra for services like cutting your cake.
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date. Give yourself a deadline and begin
your mind, there is no such thing as
date as you. So do not hesitate to book
researching and touring a month or two
booking too early – keep in mind, most
a space if you know you really want it.
before then. If you are having a longer
venues will not allow you to switch the
engagement, try to book your venue
date once you have signed a contract.
VENUE STAFF
early to lock in the current year’s prices
Remember, dates fill up quickly – wed-
While it may seem like a small detail,
versus the year you are actually getting
ding venues usually get booked as far as
couples need to consider the staff they
married. This can save you up to at least
two or three years in advance – and
will be working with. It should feel like a
15 percent of the total cost of booking
there are plenty of other couples out
natural fit and they should get along well
the space. Unless you are apt to change
there who will want the same venue and
with your wedding planner, and other points of contact. Searching for this type of relationship will provide a much smoother planning process and wedding celebration. Do not underestimate the power of word-of-mouth. Reviews are an important part of a business’ reputation and your secret weapon in validating whether the venue representative’s conduct and anecdotes are both truthful and professional. Finding out what kind of experience friends, family members and especially other brides had at a particular wedding venue will give you the most accurate sense of what you will be getting. Another perk of word-of-mouth – telling the venue representative about the couples you know that have gotten married at their establishment and recommended it to you could earn you a discount.
ASK QUESTIONS The most important aspect of booking your venue is to make sure you get all of the agreed upon details in writing. Nothing will give you more peace of mind than knowing all of the aspects of your dream venue are accounted for and guaranteed. Overall, booking a venue isn’t rocket science, but it does require careful thought and project management before you set foot inside of a location. There is no rule of thumb for what your venue should entail but there are workarounds to stay within budget and ensure everything runs smoothly so you and all of your guests have a memorable time. Trust us, the months of planning and hard work will all be worth it. So what are you waiting for? 148
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Something Blue F U N A N D F E S T I V E WAY S T O F E AT U R E “ S O M E T H I N G B L U E ” I N Y O U R W E D D I N G T H AT A R E A L S O O H - S O - M O D E R N
E
very bride and groom knows that there are a few items
blue classic, but there are also TONS of oh-so-modern ways to
you absolutely must have before you are ready to walk
get much more creative than that.)
down the aisle: including something old, something
But first things first: where did this whole “something blue”
new, something borrowed and something blue. But it’s that last
tradition even come from, anyway? Aren’t weddings supposed
one – something blue – that can leave a couple totally stumped
to be all about white? As it turns out, the tradition of having
for ideas. (Sure, that light blue garter might be a tried-and-true
“something old, something new, something borrowed and
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something blue” comes from an Old
how do you go about incorporating
statement-making earrings. Are there
English rhyme. (One that actually ends
something blue into your wedding, any-
buttons running down the back of your
with “and a sixpence in your shoe” – but
way? Especially if blue isn’t exactly a key
dress? Make them blue! Are you rocking
seriously, who wants to dance the night
element of the color palette you’ve been
a corset bodice? Replace those white
away with a sixpence in their shoe?)
planning for.
laces with blue ones. Adding a cocktail
The rhyme features four objects
START WITH YOUR ATTIRE.
can’t go wrong with a blue one. And
ple good luck in their life ahead. Something old to demonstrate continuity and
While a blue ribbon laced through your
Carrie Bradshaw, who arrived at her
sentimentality. Something new to start
garter is a classic “something blue” go-
headline-making wedding with blue feath-
the happy (new) couple off on an optimistic
to, you definitely don’t have to stop or
ers in her hair? If all else fails, or you’re
foot. Something borrowed from an already
start there. When it comes to modern
just not feeling the blue vibes? Blue
happily married couple, with the hopes
manifestations of this antiquated tradition,
undies totally count towards your blue
that their good luck will rub off on the
the bluer the better. From sassy stilettos
quota. Believe me when I say that when
newlyweds. And finally, something blue,
to a statement wedding or reception
it comes to wedding attire, blue is the
traditionally meant to deflect the Evil Eye
dress, sleek sunglasses for your outdoor
new white.
(eek), but more modernly to represent
wedding or a vibrant blue veil, this sea-
Grooms can definitely get in on the
the love, purity and fidelity that goes into
son’s couples aren’t just featuring a
blue action too. Think: a blue tux, vest or
a successful relationship.
touch of blue – their motto is go blue or
suspenders; argyle socks or shoe laces;
go home.
pocket squares or a fun bow tie. There
intended to bring the newly wedded cou-
So now that that’s settled – and you
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ring for even more bridal bling? You
are pretty clear that you don’t want the
Brides can also boost the blue with
Evil Eye anywhere near your Big Day –
accessories like a cute clutch or some
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who can forget fictional fashion icon
are so many ways to have fun with the color blue.
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GET CREATIVE WITH HAIR AND MAKEUP.
Consider a blue mani or pedi (or, just
to go – and exiting your wedding cere-
one sparkly blue accent nail on your
mony through a cloud of bright blue
It’s your wedding and you can walk
ring finger.)
bubbles will make for some seriously magical photographs.
down the aisle with blue hair if you want “rules” these days, which means that
ADD SOME BLUE TO YOUR CEREMONY.
right now there is no better time to let
The tradition of “something blue” defi-
CONSIDER A COLORFUL COCKTAIL HOUR.
your unique, creative spirit fly than on
nitely doesn’t have to stop at your
Custom cocktails are a super fun element
your wedding day. A blue hairdo a tad
wedding wardrobe. Consider adding
to any wedding reception – and while
too much for you? Consider blue high-
some brilliant blue elements to your
you’re creating your custom cocktail
lights or lowlights, a few blue flowers or
wedding ceremony itself. Incorporating
why not add some custom color to it as
gemstones to accent your updo, or a
blue flowers into your bouquets or wrap-
well? From blue liquor to creative incor-
blue birdcage veil.
to. Modern brides are breaking all the
ping them with blue ribbons are two
porations of fruit, there are tons of ways
And by the way, if you think blue
beautiful ways to boost the blue. Not
your mixologist can make sure you’re
makeup was best left in the ‘80s think
into carrying blue hues down the aisle
serving up all the color you want on your
again. While brow-high blue eyeshadow
yourself? Sounds like the perfect task
Big Day.
might be so four-decades-ago, there
for your flower girl, who will definitely
Not quite ready to drink your “some-
are other ways to do blue that won’t
be more than happy to sprinkle bright
thing blue” – or worried that you and
give you and your guests Saved by the
blue petals along your path. Or maybe
your guests will spend the entire evening
Bell flashbacks. I’m talking eyeshadow,
you’re ring bearer will present you’re
boasting blue tongues? In that case,
eyeliner or some super subtle shimmer.
ring on a plush, baby blue pillow. Blue
blue glasses or goblets are definitely the
None of the above speaking to you?
bubbles are also a wildly whimsical way
way to go.
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a hint of blue
EAT YOUR BLUES. You know it’s important to eat your greens – but on your wedding day, feel
Your “something blue” doesn’t have to be predictable. Find a shade of blue you love and include it anywhere throughout your Big Day. You can trust these true-blue options we’ve compiled to make a statement your
free to indulge in your blues, instead. Blue food, that is. And no, I’m not talking about a menu of purple potatoes, eggplant and blueberries (although, that would
guests will remember.
definitely make an impression.) When it comes to featuring a menu of blue food, dessert is definitely a huge 1.
crowd pleaser. (I mean, unless you and everyone you know just really, REALLY loves eggplant.) Consider adding some blue accents to your wedding cake – think: fondant ribbons, a blue monogram of your brand-new initials or edible blue flowers. If you’re including a groom’s cake that’s a great place to go all-blue.
2.
A garden of blue cake pop “flowers” will definitely dazzle your guests and their taste buds. An ice cream sundae bar with an offering of all-blue toppings is another fun and festive feature or maybe a custom candy bar with bowls of all-
3.
blue candies that your guests can take home as wedding favors.
SET YOUR TABLES IN BLUE. Whether you’re keeping your blues subtle or you’re jazzed about making them the star of the show, table arrangements 4.
and place settings are a great way to feature all kinds of blue accents. Blue glasses, goblets or dinnerware make for some gorgeous eating; while blue table runners or napkins can add that pop of color you’re looking for. Want to keep your “something blue” mostly on the down-low? Consider a 5.
subtle blue monogram on your cocktail or dinner napkins.
1. 2. 3. 4. 5.
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THINK: LIGHTING, DÉCOR AND MORE. Just because you don’t walk down the aisle carrying a bouquet of blue doesn’t mean you can’t feature some blue
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beauties in the rest of your floral arrange-
blue with the flip of a switch. Blue tunes
ments. Whether you’re seeing visions of
are another totally unexpected way to
ceiling-high flowers cascading blue or
get your wedded serving of blue – from
DON’T FORGET: THERE ARE DOZENS OF SHADES OF BLUE.
are more interested in small, subtle pops
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Is the color blue still not quite speak-
of blue blooms, a great florist will know
song that was stuck in our heads all of
ing your wedding day language? It might
exactly how to make all your blue dreams
1999, there are enough “blue” songs to
be time to head over to the paint sec-
come true.
keep you dancing all night long. (Just
tion of your local hardware store, to see
Blue candles – fun tea lights or more
make sure you don’t over-blue it, as
just how many shades of blue there
dramatic tapers – are another beautiful
many blue songs do tend to be on the
actually are to choose from. While every
way to include some blue in your décor.
sad, sappy side.)
venue and vendor obviously won’t have
Blue balloons or Chinese lanterns can
from (seriously, there are SO MANY)
tables in blue, or wrapping your dining chairs in blue bows.
Consider wrapping some highboy cocktail
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every shade of blue available to choose
TACKLE THAT TOUCH OF BLUE BEFORE THE WEDDING.
add a touch of whimsy to your reception.
having an idea of how much blue you really want and what hues you would like
While wedding invitations typically fea-
to include can go a long way in getting
Are you definitely looking to feature
ture the same colors you will be high-
you started. There is a perfect shade of
some blue but are not totally sure you’re
lighting throughout your wedding day,
blue for every color palette.
ready to commit? Blue lighting might be
there’s no rule that says they have to. A
After all, whether you love the color
the way forward for you. Talk to your DJ
blue envelope liner, blue text or even
blue or it just ends up giving you the
about including some blue spotlights on
blue calligraphy are all great ways to
blues, one thing is for sure: nobody wants
the dance floor. End up hating the vibes?
check “something blue” off of your to do
the Evil Eye making an appearance at
Chances are you’ll be able to ditch the
list before the Big Day.
their wedding.
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PATRICIA & GERASIMOS “It’s Wedding Day!” On the day of her wedding, Patricia woke up to her sister chanting “It’s wedding day!” The enthusiasm spread until the whole family joined in on the chant. The family danced out of the house and onto the bus taking them to the church while the live band from Crete, Greece followed along playing music. The band accompanied the bride as she arrived at the church, walking in with both her dad and brother by her side.
Darling Details Patricia loves invitations, so the couple wanted to ensure their wedding invitation made a lasting impression. The acrylic invitation included an etched lace design that was hand-drawn to match the details on Patricia’s stunning wedding gown. They also included a dance floor monogram that coordinated with their gorgeous invitations to make sure every detail flowed seamlessly throughout the celebrations.
Greek Traditions To celebrate her Greek heritage, the couple incorporated many Greek traditions throughout the day. Her father and Gerasimos both wore a traditional white sariki – a Cretan headscarf with a dense fringe, and Patricia changed into a traditional Cretan wedding dress midway through the reception. Staying true to Greek tradition, the first dance was The Bride’s Dance. The couple stood side by side while guests danced with Patricia and showered the couple with money.
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Your Wedding Party HOW TO APPEASE BOTH SIDES OF THE AISLE W H E N C H O O S I N G Y O U R AT T E N D A N T S
I
f you are anything like most couples, you’ve probably been
are you and your partner becoming a family, but you will also
dreaming about your wedding since the proposal. Your visions
be joined to each other’s as well. Therefore, things will change
have more than likely consisted of the perfect ceremony
when you need to think about incorporating some of the
venue, the most unique decorations and a reception that no one
important people in your partner’s life. Unless you’re going to
will ever forget. And it doesn’t end there! You may have even
have a gigantic wedding, you’ll need to make some cuts and
picked the most beautiful beach in the world to spend your honey-
devise a plan to make every attempt possible to make both
moon – can you almost feel the sand between your toes?
families comfortable with your choices.
But when it comes time to begin thinking about the bridal
Never fear, though, as there are a few tips that you can
attendants, groomsmen and the flower girl and ring bearer,
follow that might simplify choosing the members of your
you may think that it’s a no-brainer. Even though you may have
wedding party and ensure that you include as many loved ones
made a change or two over the years, you’ve definitely decided
as possible.
that you’re going to stick with your siblings, your three best friends from college and your favorite cousin. However, you’re getting married, which means that not only
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attendants, you will want to be sure that
is all about you and your preferences.
what one couple may see as an inspired
you make the right choices straight out
Always know that it can still be your day,
ceremony may not appeal to another.
of the gate. Think long and hard about
even if you make a few compromises
There’s no need to stress over your cer-
the repercussions of the selections that
along the way.
emony in the traditional sense, and see the choices that other couples have
you make, as well as how it may affect other people – particularly your relationships with your in-laws. It’s easy to get caught up with the idea that selecting your bridal attendants
TRADITION CAN GO RIGHT OUT THE WINDOW.
made as “rules.” If you find yourself
No two ideas are typically the same, and
popular, it doesn’t have to apply to
starting a sentence with “it’s customary,” remember that even if a choice may be selecting your own attendants. The first thing that may come to mind is separating the attendants according to whether they are male or female, or with which member of the couple they are the most acquainted. If this makes selecting your attendants difficult, or if a choice based primarily on gender just doesn’t feel “right” to you, there’s no reason that you have to go in that direction. If you’re the bride, and your best friend is the boy who lived two streets down your entire life, you shouldn’t feel pressured to ask a distant cousin merely to have a particular “look” during your ceremony or scattered throughout your wedding album. Make your decision based on love and loyalty – not on perception. There’s certainly nothing wrong with having a “man of honor” or a “bride’s man.” Many couples are even skipping the idea of a bridal party altogether, and simply looking at their wedding as a lavish party, where everyone is welcome, and no one feels left out. It seems that the days of 10 bridesmaids are over, as more and more couples are finding that they want the majority of the focus on their own relationship at the ceremony. When you’re considering your options, forget about seeing things as male or female, or traditional or modern. Only envision the ceremony that you will remember for the rest of your lives together. Nothing else will do!
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stands next to you on this long-awaited
keep in mind, starting with how there’s a
closest friend or sibling, but try to give a
day can sometimes get complicated, but
reason that you’ve heard countless times
little on how you can incorporate others
as long as you keep a clear head and
how blood is thicker than water. Your
into your wedding party. If you have
choose with your heart, you can’t go
family will always be your family, and
extra space on your side and your partner
wrong! However, we all know that family
your partner’s relatives are also going to
needs to include a step-sister or close
can sometimes be tricky. Don’t expect
become a big part of your relationship –
cousin, try to be as accommodating as
that to change just because it’s your
if they aren’t already.
possible.
wedding day. However, there are several things to
Everyone has the absolute right to
Additionally, if you’re having a really
save that special place of honor for their
difficult time choosing between your two closest friends, sometimes opting for a brother or sister can ensure that you won’t regret your decision or create feelings of ill will or jealousy. Even if you have a really small wedding party, you can even find unique ways to incorporate your closest family friends. This is your wedding, so get as creative as you want!
10 YEARS FROM NOW. There are so many different things to remember when making numerous important decisions regarding your wedding ceremony. So, it’s not too far-fetched to understand that there may be moments when you need a little grounding when it comes to making your choices. What are some of the things that can impact your decision the most? No matter what situation you find yourselves in, there’s always one thing that can help you step back and see things in a different light. Deeply consider where you may be in the next 10 or even 15 years. Will you have the same friends? Is it really wise to choose a bridesmaid or a groomsman that you only seem to be friendly with regarding a particular hobby or sports league? If you’ve just graduated from college, will you still keep in touch with your roommate from your semester abroad in Amsterdam? Be sure that you understand your relationships and are able to see which ones are “situational.” In other words, what if you no longer work in the same office on the same team? What if you no longer live in the same apartment building? 166
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What if your friend stops dating your sis-
require some compromising on at least
partner’s second cousin that you don’t
ter? Would you still feel a deep enough
one or two issues. Selecting your atten-
particularly like help seat the guests isn’t
connection to include this individual in
dants typically takes some give and take.
that big of a deal.
your wedding party?
Absolutely refusing to accommodate
More often than not, many couples
a particular person upon your partner’s
look at their wedding album a few years
request may set your entire wedding off
later and wonder why they chose a par-
on the wrong foot, especially if it involves
FIND OTHER WAYS TO INCORPORATE PEOPLE IN THE CEREMONY.
ticular person. They may not remember
a relative or a close family friend. Be
While you can make every attempt pos-
their last name, or even if they’re still
especially cautious when you may be
sible, not everyone can stand next to
friends on social media.
considering only three out of four siblings,
you in those beautiful eggshell dresses
Try to pick wedding attendants who
or if you are filling up more than your
that you spent weeks looking for, and
have a sense of permanence – that you
“fair share” of slots available for the
you shouldn’t feel bad about that. Some-
can envision being around for your 20th
wedding party.
times, no matter how hard you try to
wedding anniversary, or even becoming
It’s a fact that it is often difficult to
please everyone, it’s just not possible.
godparents or honorary aunts and uncles
merge two sides of the altar, while at
This can especially be the case with
to your children.
other times, it can quickly turn into one
close co-workers or more distant relatives.
big happy family. Setting the precedence
Even if you get along well enough at the
BOTH SIDES OF THE ALTAR MAY REQUIRE A LITTLE COMPROMISE.
to compromise will ensure that your part-
employee picnic or at your fun family
ner’s loved ones are included just as
reunion, it doesn’t mean that you may
often as your own can determine the
have a closer relationship with other
There probably hasn’t been a single wed-
tone for your entire married lives. So, in
people who may be a better fit for your
ding in the history of the world that didn’t
the grand scheme of things, having your
wedding party.
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Is This Seat Taken? A G U I D E T O P L A N N I N G Y O U R R E C E P T I O N S E AT I N G
W
ell, you’ve done it: you have finally settled on your
chart alone. From that fantastic wedding planner you hired to
guest list, sent out all those invitations you so thought-
your ever-helpful parents, there are plenty of people who will be
fully designed, and diligently gathered the RSVPs that
more than happy to assist you as you take on the task ahead.
came flooding in. It sounds like you, my friend, are smack dab in
This guide, full of tips and tricks for successful seating arrange-
the thick of wedding planning. At this point, if there’s one task on
ments, is a great way to get started.
that Big Day to-do list that you’ve been putting off, it’s probably
DON’T WAIT UNTIL THE LAST MINUTE.
the seating charts. Compared to dress shopping, cake tasting, ring designing
If you are waiting for those last, lingering RSVPs to trickle in:
and floral arranging, planning the seating for your wedding
don’t. If you have already followed up with your invited guests
reception can seem like a total snooze fest. But it’s also one of
who haven’t responded and you still haven’t heard back, it’s
the more important elements of the entire day. How you choose
the kids’ table or the highboy beside the DJ booth for them.
to handle this task can either lead to a room full of smiling,
(And honestly, even Miss Manners would say it serves them
dancing guests or an evening ending with awkward encounters
right.) Putting off your seating charts until the last minute is a
between estranged family members. So, for better or for
definite no-go – it’s a fairly substantial undertaking, and just ask
worse, it’s a task that you must complete.
any wedding planner: they’ll say it’s something you’re going to
The good news is that you don’t have to plan your seating
want to get settled and off your mind sooner rather than later.
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(All the more energy you can spend
able sitting next to each other. While it
circumstances. Put aside any dreams of
focusing on veil length and custom cock-
might be tempting to sit your college
your wedding day becoming the occasion
tails – am I right?) If the deadline you
roommate next to your BFF from grade
upon which your estranged in-laws finally
gave your guests to RSVP has passed
school (you’ve always wanted them to
make peace, and put those folks on
and you’ve heard from most of the family
become better friends, and what better
opposite ends of the room (or, at least,
and friends you are going to share your
way to bond than over their mutual love
opposite sides of a very large table) from
“I Dos” with, it’s time to get cracking on
of you, right?) if they’ve only spent a few
one another. Nothing about too much
seating charts. So, grab some of your
passing moments together, neither one
champagne and a few sappy love songs
favorite snacks – and your fiancé, of
is going to appreciate an evening of
says: “maybe it’s time to reconcile.”
course – and start planning.
inescapable small talk; especially if all
You’ll thank us later!
their own friends are sitting elsewhere.
START WITH CATEGORIES.
This isn’t speed dating, it’s your wedding.
Think: family, college friends, high school
Seat your guests next to the people who
KEEP YOUR BESTIES NEARBY.
friends, office buddies, distant relatives,
make them comfortable and who they’re
While you won’t be spending much of
friends of your parents and – if they
guaranteed to have the most fun with.
your wedding reception seated (you’ll be greeting guests, circling the room,
made the cut – all the kiddos. Organizing
dancing, taking tons of photographs)
labeled piles of RSVPs – will not only
MAKE AN “OFF LIMITS” LIST – AND THEN STICK TO IT.
help you determine who you want sitting
Yes, “off limits” as in: these people can
time sampling, at some point. By placing
where, it’ll also help you figure out which
in no way sit within earshot, eyeshot or
a table of your BFFs between you (and
of your guests will be the most comfort-
arm’s length of one another, under any
your well-deserved meal) and the rest of
your guests by categories – whether that means making a list, an excel sheet or
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the room, you won’t feel obligated to
paper for the past decade. Don’t be
be forced to spend an evening awkwardly
make casual conversation with your
afraid to delegate.
trying not to bump elbows as they cut
parents’ work pals while your chicken
into their Beef Wellington.
let that table of friends run interference
REMEMBER: NOBODY LIKES A ‘SINGLES’ TABLE.
while you eat.
While time once was that weddings were
piccata gets cold. There will be plenty of time to chat with them later. Meanwhile,
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ON THE FLIP SIDE: EVERYBODY APPRECIATES A KIDS’ TABLE.
DON’T BE AFRAID TO ASK FOR SOME INPUT.
least, that’s what the rom-coms from the
Did the rug rats you know – and, okay,
‘80s say) nowadays, nobody – and that
generally love – make the guest list? Then
Speaking of your parents’ work pals,
means: nobody – likes a singles table.
it’s definitely worth thinking about hav-
unless you’ve been dropping in to visit
From the perspective of your guests, it
ing a kids’ table. Not only will all of their
your parents at the same office every
can definitely be both a little bit embar-
parents have more fun with their littles
week since you were a kid, chances are
rassing and a whole lot of boring. Seat
stashed away in their own, kid-approved
you haven’t a clue what the interpersonal
your guests by the people they already
space, the kiddos themselves will defi-
dynamics of your parents’ workplace are
know and love, and they’ll be guaranteed
nitely have more fun seated with others
like. When it comes to seating the guests
to have a good time. Think your cousin
their own age. It’s a win-win situation.
your parents invited to your wedding,
and your coworker would totally hit it
Plus, if your caterer is featuring a few kid-
enlist their help. I guarantee they will be
off? Find the time to introduce them
friendly options on the menu, having all
more than happy to tell you who gets
before your wedding – maybe your
those little eaters seated in the same
along best with whom, and who has
instincts are spot on, and they’ll end up
place will make your servers’ evenings
been fighting over replacing the photocopy
as each other’s dates. If not, they won’t
easier as well.
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WHEN IT COMES TO ACTUALLY ARRANGING: WORK SMARTER, NOT HARDER.
HAVE FUN WITH THE BIG DAY DISPLAY.
table after a location from your globe-
Now that the hard part of your seating
a giant map. Hosting your reception
chart is done, it’s time to have some
beneath some starry skies? Constella-
So, you’ve thought about it all, now it’s
fun! The seating chart is just one more
tion-themed table numbers with corre-
time to actually diagram who belongs in
fun and festive way to show off your Big
sponding place cards might be the way
what seats. Do so in a way that makes
Day style – so be sure to get creative!
to go. If you’re celebrating all things
sense to you. If that means digital, snag
(While keeping things organized and
vintage on your Big Day, a display of
a PDF of the reception floorplan from
easy for your guests to understand, of
vintage picture frames, each featuring a
your wedding planner and start clicking
course.) While a table lined with num-
different table, is cute and creative.
keys. Does your brain run better on old-
bered cards is a simple and classic
Have way too many guests to work in
school technology? A giant bulletin board
approach, that’s definitely not the only
that much whimsy? Something as simple
and some color-coordinated Post Its
way to go these days. Want to welcome
as an alphabetized board (in calligraphy,
should do the trick. Are you a lover of
your guests by inviting them to imbibe
of course) might work for you.
lists? Then number (or name) each table
that fancy bubbly you bought? Consider
and line up the guests accordingly. Defi-
listing their table numbers on champagne
nitely keep the overall flow of the room in
glasses; alongside pretty, personalized
mind too – aka: give your favorite guests
glass tags. For a rustic wedding, string
STILL NOT INTO ASSIGNED SEATING? NO PROBLEM!
the best seats in the house, put the
some rope across a few picket fence
If assigned seating – and all the charting
kiddos closest to the bathroom, and
posts and attach your guests’ place
that goes with it – is still just not for
don’t seat the grandparents next to the
cards with colorful clothespins. Is travel
you, don’t worry. Assigning guests to a
DJ’s giant speakers.
a trend in your relationship? Name each
table and then letting them determine
trotting lives, and pin each place card to
their own seating from there is a great way to keep all your guests organized without micromanaging every single detail. Is hosting a formal dinner not really the Big Day vibe you’re going for? In that case, consider some more creative seating: a mix of high and low tables, some couches and cushions, a blend of indoor and outdoor arrangements (weather permitting.) Pair more casual seating with hors d’oeuvres and a passed dinner, and your guests will be free to mingle, move around and change seats as they please. No matter how you decide to seat your guests, or what creative seating chart you incorporate into your Big Day, the most important thing to keep in mind is that seating arrangements are a great way to show your guests just how much you love them and appreciate their presence as you proclaim “I Do.” Thoughtfully arranged seating will not only ensure success on your Big Day, it will tell your guests you thought about them, and you are really glad they are there. 176
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TA Y LOR & RON N I E Heartfelt Vows Taylor and Ronnie chose to read their vows individually in front of the videographer before their ceremony. They opted not to do a first look, so reading each other’s vows was a personal and intimate experience in anticipation of seeing each other at the altar.
Feels Like Home The wedding ceremony itself was a celebration of Taylor and Ronnie’s south side Chicago upbringing. The wedding was held in their hometown church and their pastor incorporated many loving memories into their service. They also asked friends and family members to participate in the celebration by providing a ceremonial dance and song selection.
Family Roots Instead of a unity candle, the couple chose to use a plant to symbolize their union. Both mothers provided soil that the couple poured into the pot of the plant. The gesture ceremoniously illustrated their family roots and values.
Ronnie’s Favorite Moment While the whole day was memorable, Ronnie’s favorite moment was seeing his beautiful bride walk down the aisle for the first time. It was a magical moment that signified the wonderful journey they were about to begin together.
Number of Wedding Guests: 275
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Choose Your Words Wisely T I P S F O R C R E AT I N G T H E P E R F E C T W E D D I N G V O W S
W
ithout a doubt, your wedding will be full of magical
your vows should truly embody the spirit of your relationship.
moments. But one of the most meaningful moments
This is definitely not something you want to rush! You’d hate to
will by far be the exchanging of your vows. After all,
be scrambling at the last second and resort to snagging some-
they're the whole reason you're getting married in the first
thing subpar off the internet.
place! For a few short minutes, all eyes will be on you and your
Have an open and honest conversation with your fiancé
fiancé as you pledge your love and devotion to each other. In
as early as possible to discuss your vows. If you plan on
fact, your vows might just be the most important words you
having a religious ceremony, keep in mind that some religions
ever speak! But no pressure, right? With everything hinging on
require the use of traditional wording in your vows. But others
these all-important oaths, you want them to pack the right
can be more flexible. So, always be sure to keep your officiant
punch. So, if you’re dying to learn the secret to creating mem-
in the loop. That way, you can be aware of any limitations you
orable, personalized wedding vows, look no further!
might face.
START PLANNING EARLY.
DON'T BE AFRAID TO GET CREATIVE.
With so many other things to arrange, don’t let your vows get
If you want to break the mold and move beyond traditional
lost in all the chaos. More than any other part of the wedding,
vows, there are plenty of alternative options. The beauty of
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START WITH THE EASY STUFF.
would hate to pressure them into doing
really do whatever you want! Sure, there’s a customary format, but feel
Before you go lunging for a pen and
On the other hand, they might be just as
free to throw the rulebook out the
paper, there’s some preliminary fieldwork
thrilled by the idea as you are!
window. You might shake things up by
you should do first. Like with any major
reading a beloved poem or moving pas-
project, writing your vows involves a
sage from a favorite book. If either you
process. Following these first steps will
Once you and your fiancé are on the
or your fiancé is a musician, you might
help tremendously when the time comes
same page about writing your vows, it's
even consider playing something that
to start writing.
time to talk about tone. Are you dreaming
planning a wedding is that you can
something they’re not fully onboard with.
Time to talk tone.
of poetic and romantic vows that'll leave
represents you as a couple. It’s totally
Communication is everything.
your crowd in tears? Or maybe something
First and foremost, check in with your
casual and funny? A lot of these decisions
MAKE THEM YOUR OWN.
fiancé to make sure you agree on writing
depend heavily on your personalities.
If you’re feeling especially ambitious, you
your own vows. This might seem obvious,
Take some time to think about how you
might even be so bold as to write your
but it’s best to have all your bases cov-
can incorporate the best parts of your-
vows from scratch. Going this route
ered. After all, while you might have your
selves into your vows.
takes a bit more work. But nothing will
heart totally set on writing your vows,
Agreeing on a general tone is a good
be more gratifying than speaking the
your fiancé might be a bit iffy about it.
way to prevent any embarrassing surprises
vows you wrote as you gaze into the
Maybe writing isn't their forte. Or perhaps
on the day of the wedding. After all, how
eyes of your betrothed. But where do
they just don't feel comfortable being
mortifying would it be if your fiancé deliv-
you even begin with such a daunting
that vulnerable in front of all your friends
ered a long, heartfelt speech and you
task? Let’s break it down.
and family. Whatever the reason, you
followed up by jokingly vowing to never
up to you!
watch your favorite Netflix shows without them? What might seem clever and funny at first could turn out to be hopelessly awkward if you don’t plan ahead.
Better together? Along the same lines, it’s important to decide early-on just how much of your vows you’ll write together. Maybe you’re the type of couple dead-set on tackling everything side-by-side. Collaboration can be a beautiful thing. You might turn it into a romantic bonding time for the two of you to reflect on your relationship and future. Or maybe, after you’ve settled on a tone, you want to keep your vows a total surprise! Going this route will add a little extra thrill on your Big Day as you each eagerly await to hear what the other wrote for you. Many couples do a combination of working together and separately. There might be some parts that just make sense to collaborate on, while others you might want to keep secret. 182
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Get inspired.
mindset. Pour yourself a glass of wine,
your thoughts. It might even be a good
If you’re stumped on how to format
coffee, hot tea or whatever else puts you
idea to set a timer (about 10 minutes, or
your vows, there are plenty of samples
most at ease. Maybe even turn on some
so) in which you allow yourself to freely
out there to help inspire you. Read a
music that reminds you of your fiancé.
write whatever comes to mind. It doesn’t
large variety of different examples and
Just get comfortable and reflect on
necessarily have to make sense yet. In
save the ones that speak to you. You
what this marriage will mean to you. What
fact, you don’t even have to write in com-
can mix and match elements you like
specific qualities do you adore about your
plete sentences! For now, just allow the
from your favorites to get a bare-bones
fiancé? What are you most looking forward
pen to move across the page completely
idea for what you might want.
to in your future together? What do you
uninhibited. What’s important is that you
want to promise? These are the questions
get all your thoughts out in front of you.
You can even get inspiration from your favorite love songs, poems and sto-
your vows should answer.
ries. Consider printing out specific lyrics
This is an old trick that professional writers use to kick writer’s block to the
LET’S MOVE ON TO WRITING.
curb. And it can be just as useful as a
might even be able to find imaginative ways to weave them into your vows!
Now, that you have a general idea of how
Remember, the blank page is not your
you want your vows to sound, it's time to
friend. It’s better to have a page full of
dive into the nitty-gritty of content.
messy scribbling than nothing at all.
Practice some free-writing.
Create an outline.
to keep them nearby as you write. You
Do some soul-searching.
starting point for writing your vows.
Before you start writing your vows, find a quiet, stress-free time when you can be alone to really think about your
Keep a pen and paper nearby as you
So now you have a piece of paper
relationship. Create a romantic and relaxed
think about the questions above. Then,
filled with your semi-coherent, love-sick
atmosphere to get yourself in the right
whenever you feel ready, just jot down
ramblings. Now what? It’s time to make the magic happen! You’ll want to start by creating an outline. This will help you develop the structure you want your vows to take. Circle the big ideas from your freewriting exercise and expand on them a bit more. Then, put them into an order of importance and relevance. Maybe you want to open with how you first met, followed by the things you love about them and then close with whatever you wish to promise them. Once you have this rough sketch, writing your first draft will be much easier.
Prepare for multiple drafts. Once you’ve written your first draft, take a break from it. Put it in your desk drawer, or close out of that word document, and just walk away for a few days – maybe more. This really helps to clear your head. So, when you finally come back, you’re looking at it with fresh eyes. Distancing yourself makes the revising process so much easier since areas that need improvement will be more obvious. 184
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THE HOME STRETCH.
no pressure to follow it. But you might
repeat this process several times before
So, now you have something that resem-
be pleasantly surprised by the sugges-
you end up with a version you feel
bles a final draft for your very own
tions they give you.
satisfied with. At the same time, know
wedding vows. Congratulations, you’re
when to call it quits. Be careful that you
almost done! Now, it’s time to work on
don’t become overly critical of your work.
the finishing touches.
It’s very possible that you’ll have to
you’re striving for.
Keep things brief.
While this might go without saying, you should always practice your vows
There is no such thing as perfection. So, you’ll drive yourself crazy if that’s what
Practice makes perfect!
Show them to someone you trust.
before your wedding day. Play around with your delivery by placing emphasis
Having a second opinion can give
and emotion on different words until it
you valuable insight into what changes
sounds just right. If you feel comfortable,
For the benefit of your guests, shorten
you might need to make. Consider
you could even try practicing on someone
your vows to one or two minutes, tops.
showing your vows to someone you
else. This might be the same person
Ceremonies have a rhythm to them, and
trust – like a parent, or maybe your Maid
who helped you proofread.
you want to make sure you keep things
of Honor or Best Man. This is especially
While you don’t have to memorize
rolling. If they start getting a bit too lengthy,
helpful if there are places in your vows
them (although that would be a nice
it’s probably time to make some edits. If
that you feel just aren’t working. Ask
touch!), you should be able to recite your
there are things you want to say, but can’t
them for honest feedback and be open
vows fluidly without stumbling over your
fit them in, consider putting them in a letter
to their critique. But remember, ulti-
words. Even if you do memorize them,
for your fiancé to read before the ceremony.
mately, you’re in complete control of
it’s a good idea to keep a copy on-hand.
Or, you might even find a way to work
what makes it into the final version. So,
You’d hate to get a sudden case of
them into a toast during your reception.
if you disagree with their advice, there’s
stage fright mid-ceremony and completely forget your words! It’s best to have your vows typed and printed. But if handwritten, make sure your script is clearly legible and free of any margin notes. You don’t want anything to distract you while you’re reading.
READY TO GET STARTED? While creating personalized vows requires a lot of thought and time, it doesn't have to be overwhelming. If you keep an open line of communication with your fiancé and break the process down into smaller, more manageable steps, you'll be golden. Whether you decide to write your own vows, keep things traditional or do a combination of both, make sure you give yourself plenty of time to plan. Enough preparation will ensure that your vows sound streamlined and sincere. So, when the moment finally arrives, you’ll be able to speak from the heart and focus on what really matters: promising your commitment to the love of your life. 186
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Every Wedding Event Explained s you’re busy planning and prepping, it’s easy to for-
ENGAGEMENT PARTY
get about all the events leading up to your Big Day.
You said yes, which is definitely cause for celebration! There’s
From an engagement party to a day-after brunch, each
not a firm rule for who hosts the engagement party, but it’s
event is a chance to celebrate your love story with your nearest
usually the parents of the bride or groom. However, many
and dearest. But, more events also mean more questions. Who
couples choose to plan their own! Held during the first few
should you invite? Where should you have it? Who’s supposed
months of the engagement, the party is a fairly casual affair
to host, plan and pay for them all?
before the stress of wedding planning kicks into high gear.
A
We have rounded up the most common wedding-related events along with the tradition and etiquette for each. Keep in mind that none of these events are required (besides the ceremony, of course!), but the more celebrations the merrier!
Although if everyone is in on the surprise, you may head straight to your engagement party after the proposal! You don’t have to invite everyone that you plan to invite to the wedding; in fact, it’s customary to keep the guest list to just
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family, the wedding party and perhaps a
take a peek at your registry if you already
for this event. After all, it’s a time for
few other close friends. However, don’t
have one, but don’t feel obligated to reg-
you to relax, let loose and forget about
invite anyone to the engagement party
ister before the engagement. A card and
wedding planning.
that you don’t also plan to invite to the
nice bottle of wine are an appropriate
wedding. Speaking of invitations, an
engagement party gift.
The guest list for the bachelor and bachelorette is by no means limited to only those in your wedding parties; feel
engagement party doesn’t require formal
BACHELOR & BACHELORETTE PARTIES
free to include other close friends and
Host your engagement party at home
Hosted by the bridesmaids and the
group text may be the easiest way to
or at your favorite restaurant to keep
groomsmen, bachelor and bachelorette
determine everyone’s schedule to start
cost and planning to a minimum. It’s
parties take place closer to the wedding
planning!
still early, so save your budget for the
– think two months to two weeks before.
Whether your friends have planned a
Big Day! Many restaurants and bars have
While it’s tradition to have them on the
night on the town in your hometown or a
rooms available to rent for large groups
same weekend, don’t stress if you and
weekend getaway to a different city, the
that are perfect for engagement par-
your sweetie celebrate your final days
most important thing is to have fun at
ties. If you host at home, ask a few
as singles on different dates. It’s more
your bachelorette or bachelor party.
close relatives to pitch in with food prep
important to find a time that works for
Whether you go out for dinner and danc-
and decorating.
mailed invites. Evites or even a Facebook event are an acceptable and easy way to get the word out.
siblings. This is another event that does not call for formal invitations. In fact, a
everyone in your individual wedding
ing, enjoy mani-pedis and a wine tasting,
While most guests will likely bring a
parties. While not everything about the
take in a local sports game, explore a
small gift, gifts are not mandatory at the
party has to be a surprise, your friends
new city or simply lounge by the pool,
engagement party. Some guests might
should take on the majority of the planning
there are endless ways to celebrate your upcoming wedding with friends! One point of contention for bachelor and bachelorette parties can be the cost. As a rule of thumb, the wedding party should treat the guest of honor to a night out; however, if travel is required, the bride or groom should cover her or his own expenses, with the exception of a nice dinner or a few drinks on their friends at the destination. And if you do opt for a weekend getaway, don’t be
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offended if some of the invitees can’t attend; there are plenty more opportunities to celebrate you.
BRIDAL SHOWER Another event that takes place in the last month or two before the Big Day is the bridal shower. True to its name, the bride is showered with love and gifts at this traditionally daytime event. As for the host, it can be anyone from your maid of honor to your mom or another close female relative. Historically ladies only, the guest list should include family, the bridal party
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and other close friends of the bride. A
asked to gift lingerie or sultry sleepwear
The guest list should always include the
classic bridal shower is brunch at the
for the honeymoon. While this doesn’t
wedding party and immediate family, but
host’s home; opening presents would
require a registry, be sure to list your
many couples choose to invite extended
follow light snacks, refreshments and
sizes and perhaps a few preferred brands
family and other close friends as well. In
maybe a few games. If you’re imagining
on the invitation.
the case of a destination wedding, it’s a
something less traditional and a little
courtesy to invite all guests to the
more relaxed, have the festivities at a
REHEARSAL DINNER
restaurant or an art class.
The groom’s parents usually host the
Since the main event is the next day,
rehearsal dinner.
As with many events on this list, the
rehearsal dinner, which is always held
most couples opt to have a more casual
female-only rule is increasingly broken
the night before the wedding. After the
rehearsal dinner that complements the
by couples that choose to have a joint
couple and their wedding party rehearse
wedding. The rehearsal dinner is a time
shower. As with a traditional bridal shower,
the ceremony at the venue, they’ll head
for everyone to mingle and enjoy each
a relative or the couple’s close friends
to dinner to celebrate with their closest
others’ company before the production
would host a coed event at their home
relatives and friends. While the father of
of the wedding day; be sure to thank
or favorite local spot. Whatever kind of
the bride, best man and maid of honor
guests from near and far for attending
event you choose to have, mailed invita-
will give speeches the next day at the
and being a part of your celebration as
tions are expected.
reception, the rehearsal dinner is a time
you rest assured that everything is set
for other guests to share their fond mem-
for the Big Day.
Make sure to register before your shower because guests will look to it as
ories and well wishes for the couple.
The venue could range from your par-
a source for what to gift you at the
Like the engagement party, you don’t
ents’ backyard to your favorite restaurant.
shower. Alternatively, some brides opt to
have to invite everyone to the rehearsal
Whatever you choose, the rehearsal
have a lingerie shower where guests are
dinner that you invite to the wedding.
dinner is the perfect time to infuse a little of your personality as a couple into the wedding weekend. Was your first date at a taco truck? See if you can rent it for the event! Did you bond over a love of craft beer? Host the rehearsal dinner at your favorite brewery. If it’s a destination wedding, think about a restaurant that showcases the local cuisine. Paper invitations are customary for the rehearsal dinner and are sent after you receive wedding RSVPs. Guests do not bring gifts to the rehearsal, but the night before the wedding is a good time to give thank you gifts to your wedding party, especially if it’s something you’d like them to wear during the ceremony.
CEREMONY & RECEPTION The main event! Although tradition states the bride’s parents host the wedding and reception, like many traditions, this one no longer holds firm. Many couples choose to host their own wedding, the groom’s parents may offer to host or all three parties could chip in a little bit to pull off 192
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your dream wedding. The wedding cere-
Even if you choose not to have a wedding
tion may also host a brunch the day after
mony and reception themselves should
planner, most event spaces have an
the wedding. Especially common for des-
need no explanation, but there are a few
event coordinator that keeps things run-
tination wedding, the informal and com-
details that often need clarification.
ning smoothly while you enjoy your
pletely optional party is for wedding
The guest list is historically the same
special day to the fullest. Similarly, you
guests to say a final goodbye to the
for both events, but some couples choose
wouldn’t want your mom or best friend
newlyweds before they jet off to their
to have an intimate ceremony followed by
running around the venue instead of cel-
honeymoon. Of course, a brunch is just
a larger reception. Although it depends
ebrating at your side.
one more event to add to an already
on the couple’s style, the ceremony and
Guests should bring gifts from your
busy wedding calendar; nobody will ques-
reception will be the most formal of all
registry to the wedding. Register for
tion if you choose to skip this event and
your events, which means mailed invita-
gifts at a variety of price points at a few
start the honeymoon a little early (or you
tions are a must. The typical wedding sta-
different stores so that every guest can
just want to sleep in).
tionery suite will include an invitation,
find the perfect gift at a price they feel
Invitations to the brunch can be an
reception card, an RSVP card with pre-
comfortable with. If you don’t need or
added insert in the wedding invitations,
addressed envelope, directions to the
want physical gifts, you can also ask
but an evite is equally appropriate. While
venue, an accommodations card for out-
that guests contribute money to a hon-
destination weddings typically call for
of-town guests, as well as any other infor-
eymoon fund. Although this trend is still
inviting everyone that attended the wed-
mation you think your guests will need.
catching on, there are a few websites
ding, in other cases, it’s acceptable to
designed to help.
invite only the wedding party, immediate
Whether you hold the ceremony and reception at separate venues or at a
family and out of town guests as a cour-
location that can accommodate both,
DAY-AFTER BRUNCH
tesy. Common places to host a morn-
it’s helpful to have a day-of coordinator.
Whoever hosted the ceremony and recep-
ing-after brunch are at the host’s home or at the hotel where most of your guests stayed. Fitting the more casual atmosphere, the day-after brunch can be a comeand-go event. Let guests know that they should feel free to stop by anytime within a two or three hour period to offer any final congratulations. A buffet is an easy way to feed your guests without much stress and; offer light breakfast options like muffins, quiche and fruit that do not require a sit-down meal. While a mimosa or bloody mary bar is always festive, be sure to have plenty of coffee and water! If you take anything from this, it should be that there are a few rules that can’t be broken. Talk to your family and friends early-on about what events are a must and which you’d rather skip, discuss who might be willing to host and what you’d like to take on yourself, and set budget expectations for each event. Most importantly, remember that every event is supposed to be a celebration of your unique love story!
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NICOLE & NICOLE Meant to Be Nicole and Nicole had a strong connection from the very start and after only a few months of dating, they knew their love was meant to be. Sports, fitness and family are only a few of their many similar interests.
Feeling Butterflies They knew seeing each other prior to the ceremony was necessary to work out their excitement and nervous jitters. The resulting first look was one of their favorite moments of their wedding day. Nicole and Nicole exchanged gifts under a huge willow tree and treasured the alone time together before the busy wedding festivities began.
Family Support Having their family members involved in their wedding ceremony was very important to the couple. They chose significant poems and passages about love and marriage for their aunts to read as a meaningful and memorable part of their service.
Love is Sweet Enjoying good food was an essential part of Nicole and Nicole’s Big Day. Nicole R.’s mom customized a heart-shaped donut wall to create a special way to serve sweet a treat to the wedding guests. Each guest got to choose from over a dozen different flavors!
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Real Wedding Vendors VENUE: Lincolnshire Marriott Resort | PHOTOGRAPHY: Tamara Jaros Photography | EVENT PLANNER: Clementine Custom Events VIDEOGRAPHY: Our Wedding Movie | RINGS: James Allen; R.C. Wahl Jewelers | BRIDESMAIDS’ DRESSES: Reddington Bridal NICOLE J.’S GOWN: Stella York via Volle’s Bridal & Boutique | NICOLE J.’S HAIR & MAKEUP: Structure Salon NICOLE R.’S GOWN: Casablanca Bridal via Reddington Bridal | NICOLE R.’S HAIR & MAKEUP: Elana Darrus Makeup & Hair STATIONERY: Minted | FLORAL & DÉCOR: Yanni Design Studio | ENTERTAINMENT: The Gold Coast All Stars CAKE: Lovin Oven Cakery | SWEETS: Oak Mill Bakery | DONUTS: Do-Rite Donuts CHICAGOSTYLEWEDDINGS.COM
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Vendors EVENT PLANNER: Sarah Kathleen Events | VENUE: The Pavilion at Orchard Ridge Farms | PHOTOGRAPHY: Palette of Light Photography STATIONERY: Minted | FLORAL & DÉCOR: Event Floral | CAKE & SWEETS: Delish Cakes
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Your Unique Ceremony W H AT S H O U L D Y O U A S K Y O U R O F F I C I A N T ?
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very wedding is unique and the planning process can
Your wedding will create the perfect blend of two fam-
be similar to finding all of the right pieces to an
ilies, along with their past, traditions and standards. Depend-
extremely important puzzle. Selecting the right officiant
ing on your religious affiliations and even your own personal
is like sliding that last piece into the picture, standing back
preferences, you may opt for a ceremony that is classic and
and seeing just how perfectly it fits. You’ll want to make sure
traditional in every way. Or, you may want to take that cray-
that your officiant will be the perfect match for you specifically
on and scribble outside of the lines with a sudden burst
as a couple.
of creativity.
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You will also find that, should you come from different cultures, nationalities or religious backgrounds, it may become
Do you customize your script, or try to stick to something standard?
ested in working with an officiant who isn’t open to accommodate your vision.
Have you been involved with ceremonies that have incorporated unique ideas or unions?
even more challenging to select the per-
Some officiants have presided over
fect officiant. After all, it’s not always
hundreds of weddings. Therefore, it is
easy to combine ideas that are rooted so
fairly common that an officiant will read
deeply in opposing views. Yet, when you
from a script, or that they even have it
find the right formula, the end result can
memorized. However, what you need to
If you already know that you will have
be absolutely beautiful.
discover with this question is if the officiant
unique requests for your ceremony, it’s
is willing to make changes to what is nor-
best to mention this up front, and then
mally performed.
ask if the officiant has ever held a wedding
Therefore, it’s easy to see why finding just the right officiant can set the entire tone for your ceremony, including reciting
You can begin by asking to read the
of this nature. When meeting with a
your vows and that magical moment
script that is typically used at most wed-
prospective officiant, or even when vetting
when you both say “I do.” But how do
dings. Who knows? Perhaps it will be per-
them over the phone before you make an
you know that you’ve found “the one”?
fect as it is! If not, kindly ask the officiant
appointment, there’s absolutely nothing
First, you must start by asking the
if they are willing to amend the wording.
wrong with jumping right to the point.
right questions. You and your fiancé will
Most will agree to do so, but you may
Some officiants may only perform a
want to feel confident in your decision.
come across an officiant who isn’t com-
particular religious-based ceremony, or
Use this list to help you ensure the
fortable with making any changes and
others may not be familiar with your par-
officiant you have chosen is the right
tries to follow the same blueprint. At this
ticular culture. An officiant may have
selection for this ever-important role in
point, you will probably need to decide if
pages of five-star reviews or come with
your ceremony.
this is a deal breaker, and if you are inter-
a stellar reference from another recently married couple. But what’s most important is that they will be a good match for your specialized ceremony. You will also need to decide if you are willing to work with an officiant who has never performed a ceremony similar to the one that you are wanting, but is still willing to do so. A couple can tell a lot about an officiant and whether their personalities will get along. Yet, it’s also imperative to be sure that the officiant will put in the work to ensure that he or she is properly educated on your religion, culture or any other unique background or circumstance.
Have you performed multicultural or multireligious ceremonies? As already mentioned, some officiants specialize in a particular ceremony style, so it’s always best to know a bit about their background. Things can get even trickier when you are hoping for a ceremony that will incorporate two different cultures, ethnicities or religions. 202
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Choosing an officiant who has performed a ceremony that melds two different cultures, nationalities or religions may not be as difficult as you might
What are some of the different customs that you have seen used in ceremonies?
are based on tradition, such as the giving away of the bride, the exchange of rings and even sealing the deal with a kiss. Adding your own customs to
think. The United States embraces diver-
Even though you have already asked
your ceremony will make everything
sity, and it is a melting pot of different
if your officiant has performed a cere-
more meaningful to you and your
people from so many unique walks of
mony that will be similar to the ideas
guests. And when your family members
life. It’s not at all unusual for a Catholic
that you have presented, it doesn’t
see traditions from their own wed-
to marry a Buddhist, or for an American
hurt to ask about some of the customs
dings repeated in your ceremony, the
to wed an Austrian or a Jamaican, so
and traditions that they have seen. Just
feeling of pride and sense of culture will
professional officiants have learned the
like wedding planners and a host of
be unimaginable.
best ways to highlight the beautiful dif-
other wedding professionals, an officiant
Ask detailed questions of your officiant,
ferences, while also illustrating the numer-
has probably witnessed a lot of really
and you may also learn about a custom
ous commonalities.
original ceremonies.
or tradition that had been previously
If you come from countries that speak
Thankfully, unique ceremonies are
unknown to you or even your older family
two different languages, consider per-
memorable, so the officiant can more
members. Many couples walk into a
forming the ceremony in both of them. If
than likely recall a few examples that
meeting with a professional officiant with
you have different religious backgrounds,
might be useful to you. Moreover, you
a basic outline of what they’d like but
think about incorporating passages from
may even decide to replicate certain
leave with the entire ceremony mapped
both spiritual prayer books. Your union
aspects of a ceremony or two that piques
out. The best weddings are typically a
is a message that everyone can connect
your interest.
blend of many different ideas and input
with, especially on your wedding day.
So many things at weddings today
from several different people.
What are some of the best ways to feature our particular heritages? Almost every culture has a few staple traditions that couples often incorporate into their ceremonies. A professional officiant will surely be familiar with several, but here are a few ideas to get you inspired. Germany – German weddings include flower girls, just like most weddings. However, Germany also keeps the wedding party simple, as the flower girl is the bride’s only wedding attendant. Jamaica – It’s customary for the bride to wear a typical white wedding dress just like in the United States. However, the groom wears a brush jacket, which is a special shirt worn only for important occasions. Japan – Many Japanese couples begin their wedding ceremony with a quick sip of Sake. Mexico – During a Mexican ceremony, one tradition is for the groom to give the 204
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bride 13 gold coins. Another is a Lazo,
more classic, traditional wedding in mind,
leave the rehearsal in the hands of the
where a rosary or a rope is wrapped
it does not mean that you can’t spice
wedding planner or other professionals
around the happy couple to symbolize
things up a little. Who truly wants a
who work with the venue.
that their marriage will last forever.
cookie-cutter wedding?
What will you wear?
Pakistan – Flowers make up much more
Your officiant should be able to make
than bouquets and centerpieces in Pak-
a few suggestions, such as incorporating
This can vary depending on the type of
istan. Instead, the happy couple also
your wedding theme into the decorations
wedding that the officiant will be perform-
wears wreaths made of beautiful blooms
or even the wording of the ceremony, or
ing, as well as religious or cultural prefer-
around their necks.
perhaps you may want to have a loved
ences. Some officiants will wear robes,
The Philippines – This small country
one walk your pet down the aisle.
while others will wear suits or dresses. If
encourages wedded couples to release
If you’re looking for other ways to get
you have a particular idea of what you
doves right after the ceremony ends. It
creative, ask a few family members or
would like to see your officiant wear,
symbolizes their love taking flight, which
friends to perform a reading. It can be
speak with him or her plainly, and discover
has become a popular custom in the
something classic like a few lines from
if your request can be accommodated.
United States over the years as well.
your favorite poem, or it can even be an
Russia – For a Russian ceremony, a red
inspirational movie quote. Just be sure
carpet is used as the aisle to the altar, as
that the words are personal to both of
While no one really wants to think
the couple is viewed as royalty for the
you, and your guests will sense their
about this, situations sometimes arise in
day. Couples also race to see who arrives
importance.
which a particular wedding vendor cannot
Do you have a backup plan?
You can also consider the music that
assume their responsibilities. This, of
the household.
will be played during the ceremony.
course, can also apply to your wedding
Wales – It is traditional for the bride to
Choosing popular, current songs, but
officiant. It is best to simply ask what
include myrtle in her bouquet, which will
playing them with a string quartet, is an
type of emergency plan they have in
symbolize the unending love between
excellent way to do something classic
place. Many officiants always have some-
the couple. The bridesmaids will also
with a modern edge.
one on standby that they can call should
at the carpet first to declare the head of
the need arise. However, it’s also imper-
stick a cutting of the flower in their bouquets as well, in hopes that they will also soon encounter true love.
Will you attend the rehearsal? Many officiants will also preside over
Do you have any fun ideas on how to customize an otherwise traditional ceremony? Even if you are both of the same heritage and religion and have the idea of a
the rehearsal and make certain that
ative that notes are provided to the substitute officiant so that they can become as familiar as possible with your specific ceremony requests.
everyone involved is familiar with the
Your ceremony is the main event, so
order of things. This may be included in
it’s only natural that you’ll spend a good
the contract, or it may be an option that
portion of your wedding planning time
is available for an additional fee.
on ensuring that it will be perfect. This is
However, some officiants may opt to
the moment that you’ve been waiting for since you saw your first romance film or began to anxiously peek into jewelry store windows at their selection of engagement rings. Even when you’re on a quest to make your ceremony as unique as possible, or to include customs or traditions that are important to your culture, never feel pressured to include aspects that don’t appeal to you in a personal way. Finding just the right mix is key to the ideal ceremony, and a professional officiant can assist with every aspect.
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8 Important Tips F O R B O O K I N G G U E S T A C C O M M O D AT I O N S
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our wedding is not only an important event in your lives
travel expenses and juggling busy schedules for this not-to-
as a couple, but it is a day that your family and friends
miss moment.
are also looking forward to as well – often with every bit
Therefore, you will want to ensure that finding accommodations
as much excitement and anticipation. A wedding is one of the
is not just one more hurdle to jump so that they can attend your
happiest occasions that can be imagined, so it’s only normal
wedding. Even though you have menu tastings, formalwear
that everyone on your guest list will do everything possible to
fittings and way too many other tasks to mention, you can
ensure that they can be a part of this momentous occasion.
often set up accommodation options with only a few phone
When you look at your guest list, you may find that it is comprised primarily of people who live in the same general location. However, everyone has out-of-town loved ones that they hope
calls or even emails. So, without further introduction, it’s time to explore eight important tips for booking guest accommodations for your wedding.
can be a part of their Big Day. Moreover, what if you just moved to a different city? If you choose to host your wedding from your
1. LOCATION ALWAYS MATTERS.
new home, then you’ll have plenty of people traveling to join you
You’ve heard the phrase, “Location is everything” on repeat
in celebrating.
your entire lives because it is absolutely true, and it is even more
For all of your friends, family members and co-workers who
important at a time like your wedding day. While you might like
will be flying, driving or even taking a train to attend your
the idea of your day moving slowly so that you can enjoy every
wedding, you will want to make things as simple for them as
second without even the slightest hitch, chances are good that
possible. After all, they may be taking time off work, paying for
this may be the busiest day you’ve ever encountered.
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In short, every single minute counts.
walking distance, this is your best bet.
accompanies such a crowd – especially
So, having accommodations that are
That way, you won’t have to worry about
the weekend of your wedding.
nearby can be crucial, especially if you’ve
traffic and driving times at all.
Before you even think about contacting
maps and then start to search the sur-
a particular hotel to inquire about making
rounding areas for available hotels. You
4. LOOK FOR AMENITIES AND EXTRAS AVAILABLE TO YOUR GUESTS.
arrangements, make use of that handy
can even view price points, or set a filter
While you’re looking at things like room
GPS app on your smartphone to check
that will match a multitude of options.
types and availability, you should also
opted to book your own rooms the night before for an added convenience.
To see everything on an even broader scope, look at your venue on Google
explore the amenities that are offered to
on the actual distance from the hotel to
2. EXPLORE THE HOTEL’S EVENT SPACE.
hotel guests. Let’s face it – if you could
look at the actual driving time. Just because a hotel is only 10 minutes away
It never hurts to get an idea of the event
that offered an indoor pool for a similar
doesn’t mean that you can always use
space that is offered at a hotel, even if
price in the same location as the one
the estimated minute-per-mile method.
you already have your dream wedding
you selected, you had better not let your
You may have selected a venue that is in
venue booked. For example, you may
guests find out.
a busy area, which can increase travel
want to host additional events at the
You may think that no one may have
times. When you can, check the driving
hotel, to make it convenient for your out-
time to enjoy the property’s amenities, but
time on the exact day of the week and
of-town guests, who will find it harder to
you’ll need to keep in mind that your
time of the day as your wedding, if you
travel back and forth to other locations.
guests may not have the same hectic pre-
the venue. Once you’ve made note, next
want to get as accurate as possible. If you can find a hotel that is within
have made arrangements with a hotel
Many couples opt to host their rehearsal
and post-wedding itineraries that you will
dinners or a pre-wedding brunch at their
need to manage. Furthermore, many of
chosen hotel. You can also consider plan-
them will also be viewing this weekend as
ning a going-away breakfast or lunch for
a little getaway, so why not make it as
your out-of-towners, even if you’re already
much of a vacation as possible?
on your plane to discover the wonders of Europe or ready to board your cruise ship to the Southern Caribbean. The possibilities are endless, so it’s
Things that can make the stay more enjoyable include a: • Swimming pool • Hot tub or sauna
definitely worth looking into the possibility
• Spa
of an event space that may be available
• Fitness center
on your selected dates.
• Dining options on-site • Bar
3. ASK ABOUT OTHER EVENTS. When you have the venue booked and your date is set in stone, you will want to
• Lounge area • Play area or other children’s activities • Shuttle for airport transportation
make sure that there aren’t any confer-
difficult for last-minute guests to book a
5. DON’T BE AFRAID TO GET A LITTLE CREATIVE.
room could be problematic.
When you’re asking exploratory questions
ences or large meetings being held at the hotel. Any events that could make it
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Additionally, check the surrounding
about the property, don’t forget to get
areas for things like sporting events, festi-
inspired by additional ideas that could
vals or big-name concerts. These attendees
make your guests’ stay even more con-
may also be looking at the same hotel as
venient or memorable.
an overnight option, and you may not want
First, if the hotel is within driving dis-
to be surrounded by the hype that often
tance of the venue, check to see if trans-
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portation can be arranged for your guests.
will undoubtedly change several times
booking a suite for the bridal party to uti-
Many hotels offer courtesy shuttles to
before the wedding, with some guests
lize, consider booking it for two days.
the airport and other popular destinations
finding that they can no longer attend,
That way, you’ll have time to bring over
within the city, and that’s also an added
and others finally realizing that they can
all of the necessities, as well as relax
bonus, as mentioned above. But often, if
readjust their schedules and be there to
with a little downtime.
a large block of rooms is booked, you
lend their support.
may be able to coordinate additional
When coming up with your count, be
7. CONSIDER MORE THAN ONE HOTEL.
shuttle services with the hotel, even if
sure to include:
it’s at an additional cost. If a lot of your
• All out-of-town guests who have
No matter where you look or what
guests are flying in for your wedding,
expressed that they would like to
options are available to you, it may just
attend
be that your wedding occurs at a busy
this service would be invaluable. Next, if you’re still thinking of ways to show your out-of-town guests a little love
• Any members of the bridal party who’d like to be closer to the venue
time of the year, or there may be unavoidable events that are booking up large
for making the effort to travel to your
• Yourselves, as the hotel is a perfect
blocks of rooms. Perhaps you are having
wedding, you can also consider setting
place to spend the night before the
a holiday wedding, or maybe your wed-
up a small gift bag upon their check-in.
wedding
ding date falls on the same day as an
This can include anything from unique,
Next, you will need to begin the
important city-wide event.
regional treats to tickets to a local attrac-
process of making arrangements as a
If this is the case, then it may be wise
tion that’s within walking distance.
group, which may be referred to as a
to make arrangements with two different
“block” of rooms. Note that you will not
hotel properties.
6. BOOK AS A GROUP.
be confirming reservations or making
Once you have decided that this prop-
payments, but you will make an agreement
8. SPREAD THE WORD
erty checks off all the boxes for what
with the hotel to set aside a number of
The final step is to spread the word about
you’re looking for in a hotel for your
rooms for your guests. Typically, they will
the options that you have arranged. Some
guests, you will be ready to move on to
need to be booked before a specific
couples may include a small card inside
the most important tip on this list – to
date, or the hotel will release them to
the invitations providing this information,
book as a group.
other interested parties.
or you can utilize your wedding website.
The first thing that you’ll need to do is
Be sure to set up a group code, so
Always follow up with word-of-mouth,
get an estimate of the number of rooms
that people booking their reservations
especially if you haven’t confirmed with a
that you will need, so that the property
can use this information to ensure they
guest who will needs accommodations.
will have a general idea of how many
are identified as a part of your group. This
Above all else, be sure your guests
guests to anticipate. This number doesn’t
also negates any confusion that might be
do not book their rooms independently.
need to be exact, but it should be accu-
created by using last names that might
If so, they will not receive the special
rate enough to create a good starting
be unfamiliar or difficult to pronounce.
discounted rate.
point for negotiations. The total number
Additionally, if you are thinking about
Setting up the accommodations for your out-of-town guests will not be a very time-consuming task, but it can make all of the difference. By following these simple tips, your guests will enjoy the convenience of a prime location, rather than having to race across town and possibly encounter traffic. Moreover, not only will you make this step of attending your wedding easier for your guests, but they’ll see the efforts that you have made and, accordingly, will make the same effort to be a part of your celebration.
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Celebration Locations CEREMONIES & RECEPTIONS
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ocating and securing the perfect venue for your
house 200 guests, while other venues are a bit more intimate.
wedding celebration is most likely at the top of your
If you have always dreamed of tying the knot outdoors, several
priority list. Whether it is a formal affair or a more
venues offer beautiful spaces and picturesque views that will
casual afternoon gathering, finding the right venue for your
fulfill all of your alfresco wishes. From ballrooms and mansions
reception style requires asking yourself a few key questions.
to lofts and gardens, these inquiries and more can be answered
For example, do you want to get married in the city, suburbs or
by simply perusing the next several pages. Keeping this guide
off the beaten path in a countryside affair? Additionally, will
handy during planning will help you navigate this important
your venue be able to comfortably host and accommodate your
wedding decision quickly and accurately ensuring the picture-
desired guest list? Some venues are spacious and can easily
perfect fit for your Big Day.
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CHICAGO Chicago Athletic Association chicagoathletichotel.com
312.792.3500 12 S. Michigan Ave. • Chicago
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Chicago History Museum chicagohistorymuseum.org
312.799.2254 1601 N. Clark St. • Chicago
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773.256.0159 ext. 1 7059 S. South Shore Dr. • Chicago
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312.747.4130 400 S. State St. • Chicago
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847.358.1330 112 E. Wacker Dr. • Chicago
250
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City Hall thecityhall.com
312.801.1181 838 W. Kinzie St. • Chicago
600
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Congress Plaza Hotel, The congressplazahotel.com
312.427.3800 ext. 5071 520 S. Michigan Ave. • Chicago
550
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888.957.2634 600 E. Grand Ave. • Chicago
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312.733.6900 311 N. Sangamon St. • Chicago
500
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312.563.0495 825 W. Erie St. • Chicago
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312.563.0495 825 W. Erie St. • Chicago
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Gibsons Bar & Steakhouse gibsonssteakhouse.com
312.587.0508 1028 N. Rush St. • Chicago
300
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312.896.7474 521 N. Rush St. • Chicago
250
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312.529.1114 350 W. Mart Center Dr. • Chicago
500
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InterContinental Chicago Magnificent Mile icchicagohotel.com
312.321.8735 505 N. Michigan Ave. • Chicago
550
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Kimpton Gray Hotel + Boleo grayhotelchicago.com
312.604.9830 122 W. Monroe St. • Chicago
250
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312.325.7142 171 W. Randolph St. • Chicago
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312.985.0730 505 N. State St. • Chicago
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773.283.7980 3638 N. Pulaski Rd. • Chicago
230
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312.840.6600 455 N. Park Dr. • Chicago
660
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LondonHouse Chicago londonhousechicago.com
312.357.1200 85 E. Wacker Dr. • Chicago
300
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847.869.5423 1328 W. Morse Ave. • Chicago
220
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Metropolitan, The themetropolitanchicago.com
312.876.3200 Willis Tower, 66th & 67th Fl. 233 S. Wacker Dr. • Chicago
240
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312.861.1100 200 E. Randolph Dr., 80th Fl. • Chicago
400
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312.751.8100 163 E. Walton Pl. • Chicago
300
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312.280.8447 50 E. Erie St. • Chicago
200
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888.957.2634 600 E. Grand Ave. • Chicago
200
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888.957.2634 455 N. Cityfront Plaza Dr. • Chicago
200
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888.957.2634 600 E. Grand Ave. • Chicago
500
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312.422.1325 17 E. Monroe St. • Chicago
800
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312.239.4074 800 N. Michigan Ave. • Chicago
250
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312.913.1600 311 S. Wacker Dr. • Chicago
500
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312.527.3140 435 E. Illinois St. • Chicago
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312.527.1417 315 N. LaSalle St. • Chicago
1200
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312.553.6100 209 S. LaSalle St. • Chicago
200
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Salvatore’s Ristorante salvatores-chicago.com
773.528.1200 525 W. Arlington Pl. • Chicago
200
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Skydeck Chicago theskydeck.com
312.875.9447 233 S. Wacker Dr., 103rd Fl. • Chicago
175
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Spirit of Chicago spiritcruises.com/chicago
888.957.2634 600 E. Grand Ave. • Chicago
500
$74
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773.276.0099 2408 N. Kedzie Blvd. • Chicago
300
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312.268.8235 323 E. Wacker Dr. • Chicago
750
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312.624.8778 155 W. Van Buren St. • Chicago
350
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312.994.7204 21 E. Bellevue Pl. • Chicago
140
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312.588.8000 401 N. Wabash Ave. • Chicago
250
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773.348.4600 2008 W. Roscoe St. • Chicago
120
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312.274.6423 701 N. Michigan Ave. • Chicago
200
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NORTH, NORTHWEST & WISCONSIN Allegra Banquets allegrabanquets.com
847.987.0897 5035 N. River Rd. • Schiller Park
250
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847.827.7818 2777 Mannheim Rd. • Des Plaines
320
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847.438.0025 20922 N. Rand Rd. • Kildeer
650
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Cotillion Banquets thecotillionbanquets.com
847.934.5500 360 S. Creekside Dr. • Palatine
650
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815.776.5027 444 Eagle Ridge Dr. • Galena
300
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Eaglewood Resort & Spa eaglewoodresort.com
630.773.1400 1401 Nordic Rd. • Itasca
340
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Gibsons Bar & Steakhouse gibsonssteakhouse.com
312.587.0508 5464 N. River Rd. • Rosemont
200
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847.494.2795 250 S. Grove Ave. • Elgin
300
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262.348.9900 7377 Krueger Rd. • Lake Geneva, WI
330
$55
Heritage Ballroom at the Centre of Elgin cityofelgin.org/ballroom
847.531.7047 100 Symphony Way • Elgin
300
Holiday Inn Itasca holidayinn.com/itascail
630.773.2342 860 W. Irving Park Rd. • Itasca
Lake Lawn Resort & Calladora Spa lakelawnresort.com
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350
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847.356.9911 485 N. Milwaukee Ave. • Lake Villa
300
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847.447.4203 5300 N. River Rd. • Rosemont
500
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847.381.6501 1010 S. Northwest Hwy. • Barrington
240
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847.593.2233 1571 S. Elmhurst Rd. • Des Plaines
500
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847.870.8787 6 S. Vail Ave. • Arlington Heights
250
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708.409.2828 401 W. Lake St. • Northlake
1100
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847.671.4230 10255 W. Irving Park Rd. • Schiller Park
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847.844.4810 100 W. Higgins Rd. • South Barrington
250
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262.249.3849 W4240 WI-50 • Lake Geneva, WI
270
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Rolling Green Country Club rollinggreencc.com
847.253.0400 2525 E. Rand Rd. • Arlington Heights
230
Wandering Tree Estate wanderingtree.com
847.381.1907 North Barrington
Armour House Mansion & Gardens armourhousecatering.com
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847.615.3219 1500 W. Kennedy Rd. • Lake Forest
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Chicago’s North Shore Convention & Visitors Bureau visitchicagonorthshore.com
847.763.0011 8833 Gross Point Rd., Ste. 307 • Skokie
1000
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Crystal Ballroom & Lounge, The crystalevanston.com
847.570.4400 529 Davis St. • Evanston
225
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847.866.8700 1710 Orrington Ave. • Evanston
400
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847.634.0100 10 Marriott Dr. • Lincolnshire
700
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847.480.7676 1150 Willow Rd. • Northbrook
200
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Ravinia Festival ravinia.org
847.266.5066 418 Sheridan Rd. • Highland Park
1000
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630.771.9400 2001 Rodeo Dr. • Bolingbrook
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708.687.9323 6119 W. 147th St. • Oak Forest
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630.986.4100 1200 Burr Ridge Pkwy. • Burr Ridge
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630.325.2900 300 S. Frontage Rd. • Burr Ridge
250
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708.371.7300 5000 W. 127th St. • Alsip
500
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708.429.7400 19110 S. Ridgeland Ave. • Tinley Park
1000
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815.600.7034 214 N. Ottawa St. • Joliet
350
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Seven Bridges Golf Club sevenbridgesgolfclub.com
630.964.7735 One Mulligan Dr. • Woodridge
200
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Silver Lake Country Club silverlakecc.com
708.349.6940 ext. 5 14700 S. 82nd Ave. • Orland Park
420
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Allegra Banquets of Villa Park allegrabanquetsvillapark.com
630.607.0094 237 W. St. Charles Rd. • Villa Park
250
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630.653.5802 26W151 Butterfield Rd. • Wheaton
275
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708.688.8355 3300 Golf Rd. • Brookfield
350
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630.260.8145 1 S. 151 Winfield Rd. • Wheaton
250
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Carleton of Oak Park, The carletonhotel.com
708.848.5000 1110 Pleasant St. • Oak Park
200
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630.505.4900 1801 N. Naper Blvd. • Naperville
400
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630.472.3079 298 Oakbrook Ctr. • Oak Brook
110
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630.571.0000 2301 York Rd. • Oak Brook
350
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630.530.0202 100 Drury Ln. • Oakbrook Terrace
1500
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630.575.8070 915 Harger Rd. • Oak Brook
2000
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630.279.5900 200 E. Lake St. • Addison
750
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630.443.5989 2N308 Brundige Rd. • Elburn
250
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630.850.5555 3500 Midwest Rd. • Oak Brook
850
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630.579.4100 2139 City Gate Ln. • Naperville
300
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630.420.6010 523 S. Webster St. • Naperville
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630.954.0000 2105 S. Spring Rd. • Oak Brook
750
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630.723.2468 8 E. Galena Blvd. • Aurora
220
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630.575.8744 7 Oakbrook Ctr. • Oak Brook
280
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630.208.7633 2325 Longest Dr. • West Chicago
250
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630.376.1500 2251 W. Lake St. • Addison
600
$65
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DI A N A & FRANCISCO Love Never Fails Diana and Francisco’s love story began in high school. A few years into their relationship, their love grew even stronger after having a brave, beautiful daughter who was born with a heart defect. Their angel baby passed away as an infant and together, Diana and Francisco learned to rely on each other for strength and comfort. The loving couple endured and were later blessed with a second beautiful daughter. She was a very special part of their wedding day, along with the memory of their angel baby.
Cultural Traditions Diana and Francisco’s Mexican heritage was reflected in many of the details. Throughout their Big Day they served specialty drinks, danced the “baile de la culebra” (a special cultural wedding dance) and even featured a Mariachi band. Their wedding color palette also held significance as their last name translates into ‘purple’ in Spanish.
Favorite Memories Before their guests came into the reception, Diana and Francisco had a quiet moment together to walk through their decorated celebration. This was one of their favorite moments of their wedding day. Another highlight was when their daughter ran up to them and started clapping while they were enjoying their first dance.
Number of Wedding Guests: 250
To see more photos from this Real Wedding, go to chicagostyleweddings.com/real-weddings. WRITTEN BY Emily Conley
Real Wedding Vendors CEREMONY VENUE: St. Mary of the Angels Church | RECEPTION VENUE: Bridgeport Art Center | PHOTOGRAPHY: Angela Garbot Photography EVENT PLANNER: Elena’s Garden Floral Design and Event Planning | GOWN: Anne Barge via Bella Bianca Bridal Couture RINGS: New York Jewelers | HAIR: Rare Bird Beauties | MAKEUP: Sol Jimenez | FORMALWEAR: The Groomsman Suit GROOM’S ACCESSORIES: The Tie Bar | BRIDESMAIDS’ DRESSES: Brideside | STATIONERY: Basic Invite | SEATING CHART: Reenie Rose FLORAL & DÉCOR: Elena’s Garden Floral Design and Event Planning | CAKE & SWEETS: ECBG Cake Studio ENTERTAINMENT: Escuela de Rancho; Jesse El Grandote; Mariachi Perla de Mexico CHICAGOSTYLEWEDDINGS.COM
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YOU NAME IT EVENTS
Vendors EVENT PLANNER: You Name It Events | VENUE: Bride’s Parent’s Home | TENT: Blue Peak Tents PHOTOGRAPHY: Mary Rose Photography | STATIONERY: You Name It Events | FLORAL: Town & Country Gardens WOODEN DÉCOR: Bride’s Father | ICE CREAM CART: Cook’s Ice Cream Cart & Catering To see more photos from this Spotlight on Style, go to chicagostyleweddings.com/inspiration. CHICAGOSTYLEWEDDINGS.COM
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312 Chicago
Biggs Mansion
Blue Door Farm Stand
136 N. LaSalle Dr., Chicago 312.325.7118
1150 N. Dearborn St., Chicago 312.809.2444
2010 N. Halsted St., Chicago 312.265.0259
Maximum # of Guests: 225 Starting Price per Person: $60
Maximum # of Guests: 200 Starting Price per Person: Call
Maximum # of Guests: 200 Starting Price per Person: Call
From the heart of Italy to the Heart of the Loop, 312 Chicago focuses on contemporary Italian cuisine by Chef Luca Corazzina. The ambiance continues to evoke the comfort and sophistication of a 1930’s supper club, but the style is pure, modern elegance with rich walnut wood & dramatic chandeliers.
Housed in an iconic and historic landmark, this unique and sophisticated space is the only man cave a groom needs. Perfect for bachelor parties, birthday celebrations, and viewing parties.
Let the seasons dictate what’s on the table. Blue Door Farm Stand provides a warm and welcoming space perfect for wedding showers, brunches, rehearsal dinners and more!
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52 W. Elm St., Chicago 312.573.4000
12 S. Michigan Address,Ave., City Chicago 312.940.3552 000.000.0000
1160 N. Dearborn St., Chicago 312.642.1160
Maximum # of Guests: 250 Starting Price per Person: Call
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Maximum # of Guests: 240 Starting Price per Person: Call
A farm-to-table oasis in the heart of Chicago’s Gold Coast, Blue Door Kitchen and Garden offers a charming and elegant space for wedding showers, rehearsal dinners and other celebrations!
Located on Chicago’s cultural mile on Michigan Ave. across from Text the iconic Millennium Park and Jay Pritzker Pavillion, the Chicago Text Athletic Association hotel has been restored and transformed into Text a 241-room luxury lifestyle hotel. The property features 17,000 Text sq. ft. of multi-functional venue space to accommodate upscale Text events and functions of various sizes. Text.
Mastering the art of elevated BBQ, Chicago q provides a charming and comfortable atmosphere for any rehearsal dinner, shower or gathering!
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City Hall
Cochon Volant Brasserie
112 E. Wacker Dr., Chicago 847.358.1330
838 W. Kinzie St., Chicago 312.801.1181
100 W. Monroe St. (at Clark St.), Chicago 847.284.0855
Maximum # of Guests: 250 Starting Price per Person: Call
Maximum # of Guests: 1200 Starting Price per Person: Call
Maximum # of Guests: 80 Starting Price per Person: $52
This column-free space boasts 40ft ceilings with 20ft windows and skylights that run the length of the building, bathing the space in natural light. Laser-cut art deco steel panels and a 40-foot marble bar flanked by fluted columns dazzle while a newly-built brick second floor, complete with bridal suite, overlooks the space.
Located around the corner from the historic Chicago Board of Trade Building, Cochon Volant Brasserie blends traditional French influences and execution with American bistro staples. Semi-private spaces are available for breakfast, lunch, dinner, and weekend brunch. Ask about our fully private spaces and special room block rates that are available at the Hyatt Centric The Loop Hotel.
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The ultimate way Experience classic your own Private parties of 10-250. included.
to showcase Chicago to your guests. luxury and superior service aboard Rehearsal Dinner Cruise. Perfect for Breathtaking sunsets and skyline views
Coco Pazzo Restaurants
The Congress Plaza Hotel
The Curragh Irish Pub
300 W. Hubbard St. • 212 E. Ohio St., Chicago 312.836.0900
520 S. Michigan Ave., Chicago 312.427.3800
6705 N. Northwest Hwy., Chicago 773.774.6170
Maximum # of Guests: 150 Starting Price per Person: $40
Maximum # of Guests: 550 Starting Price per Person: $45
Maximum # of Guests: 150 Starting Price per Person: Call
Coco Pazzo’s elegant setting, and Coco Pazzo Café’s warm ambiance add versatility when selecting the perfect venue for your wedding festivities. Our goal is to make all guests feel welcome, as we embrace all couples and event celebrations.
This downtown Chicago hotel offers a convenient location across from Grant Park and close to Lake Michigan. Since hosting its first wedding in 1893, the Congress Plaza Hotel & Convention Center has upheld an enduring tradition as one of Chicago’s premier settings for unforgettable celebrations.
Celebrate in one of Chicago’s best loved Irish pubs! Located in the beautiful northwest neighborhood of Edison Park, our private event room features a gorgeous stone fireplace, full bar with customizable draft beer system, slate and hardwood floors and iron chandeliers. We also provide private dressing rooms for the bride and groom, complimentary valet parking for guests and a private event entrance.
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Erie Café
ETA Restaurant + Bar
Farmhouse Chicago
536 W. Erie St., Chicago 312.266.2300
455 N. Park Dr., Chicago 312.840.6605
228 W. Chicago Ave., Chicago 312.280.4960
Maximum # of Guests: 200 Starting Price per Person: $35
Maximum # of Guests: 150 Starting Price per Person: $120
Maximum # of Guests: 100 Starting Price per Person: $35
The Erie Café is a classic Chicago steakhouse, with warm and inviting fine dining. The Erie Café is a family owned and operated, with 3 generations providing exceptional service and attention to detail. Highly individualized private dining is a priority at this River North establishment.
ETA Restaurant + Bar at Loews Chicago has two private dining rooms that offer unique settings for rehearsal dinners. Pullman and The Dining Car each accommodate up to 150 guests in a welcoming environment, offering menus that serve up locally sourced, seasonally-inspired dishes that pull inspiration from rustic meals of the past.
Farmhouse Chicago is a midwestern craft tavern featuring the best of the Midwest. Located in River North, our event space will make you feel right at home with our midwestern hospitality. Our mission is offering affordable, approachable midwestern fare based on locally sourced and sustainable ingredients.
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Fig & Olive - Chicago
Forbidden Root
Fulton Market Kitchen
104 E. Oak St., Chicago 312.445.0060
1746 W. Chicago Ave., Chicago 312.929.2202
311 N. Sangamon St., Chicago 312.733.6900
Maximum # of Guests: 400 Starting Price per Person: $55
Maximum # of Guests: 45 Starting Price per Person: $40
Maximum # of Guests: 500 Starting Price per Person: $40
Fig & Olive - Chicago is located in the city’s luxurious Gold Coast district on tree-lined Oak Street. This 10,000 sq. ft. dining destination features indoor and outdoor spaces which evoke the ambiance of the Mediterranean Riviera. Combined with modern finishes and accents, the venue’s various spaces can accommodate an intimate event of 10 guests to a large event of 400 guests.
Forbidden Root is more than just a restaurant and brewery it’s an experience. We offer a unique, rustic setting for your wedding festivities, and have both private and semi-private dining areas that are perfect for engagement celebrations, showers, and intimate rehearsal dinners.
Fulton Market Kitchen offers guests the rare opportunity to enjoy dining, drinking, and the work of incredible artists in a single, truly unique setting. Only steps from Randolph St.'s Restaurant Row, our versatile space can be tailored to accommodate every type and size of event. We'll work with you on food, signature cocktails, furniture, entertainment, florals, and everything in between!
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Galleria Marchetti - La Pergola
Gibsons Bar & Steakhouse
Gibsons Italia
825 W. Erie St., Chicago 312.563.0495
1028 N. Rush St., Chicago 312.587.0508
233 N. Canal St., Chicago 312.414.1100
Maximum # of Guests: 160 Starting Price per Person: $50
Maximum # of Guests: 500 Starting Price per Person: $75
Maximum # of Guests: 750 Starting Price per Person: $45
Introducing La Pergola at Galleria Marchetti, the new openair boutique venue for extraordinary events. This unique setting features a European-designed shade structure with a retractable roof, a beautiful indoor pre-function space, and the fantastic food and service for which the Marchetti’s of Como Inn fame are known.
Always happening and consistently offering abundant portions of Gibsons Prime Angus, Gibsons Grassfed Australian Beef, pristine fish and homemade desserts. Entertainment radiates from the piano bar where locals, celebs and out-of-towners mix and mingle. Choose from six of the iconic steakhouse’s private dining rooms.
Located in the West Loop, Gibsons Italia is a three-level, modern Italian steakhouse that features outdoor dining and a retractable roof showcasing stunning views of the Chicago River. The menu includes seafood, vegetables, risotto, and gold-extruded pasta. At the heart of the menu is a world-class tour of beef featuring Gibsons Prime Angus, Gibsons Grassfed Australian, and Japanese Kobe.
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Gino’s East
Gino’s East River North
The Guesthouse Hotel
162 E. Superior St., Chicago 312.266.5421
500 N. LaSalle Dr., Chicago 312.988.4200
4872 N. Clark St., Chicago 773.564.9568
Maximum # of Guests: 300 Starting Price per Person: $30
Maximum # of Guests: 500 Starting Price per Person: $30
Maximum # of Guests: 50 Starting Price per Person: Call
Our centrally located restaurants are perfect for entertaining a rehearsal dinner, reception, welcome dinner, engagement party or day after brunch. We can offer the perfect setting for your legendary event. Our spacious rooms can accommodate groups of 15-300. Room sizes will vary based on location. Please contact our event management team for further details on custom menus and setup.
Show your guests the ultimate Chicago experience at Gino’s East River North with a craft brewery on floor 1, a whimsical dining room surrounded by graffiti on the 2nd floor and The Comedy Bar on the 3rd floor. Did we mention that there is deep dish pizza too? Leave your guests with memories that only the Windy City has to offer.
Voted one of the best new hotels in Chicago, celebrate like a local at our neighborhood boutique hotel. Perfect for an intimate wedding, rehearsal dinner, shower or milestone celebration, our unique event space is designed with urban sophistication. Our distinctive style and exceptional service is guaranteed to create lasting memories.
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The Gwen Hotel
Holiday Inn Chicago Mart Plaza River North
Hugo’s Frog Bar & Fish House
521 N. Rush St., Chicago 312.896.7474
350 W. Mart Ctr. Dr., Chicago 312.529.1114
1024 N. Rush St., Chicago 312.640.0999
Maximum # of Guests: 250 Starting Price per Person: Call
Maximum # of Guests: 400 Starting Price per Person: Call
Maximum # of Guests: 500 Starting Price per Person: $75
Perfectly situated in the heart of Chicago, The Gwen offers its guests the best of the city from right outside its doors. Located in the landmark McGraw-Hill Building on the beloved Magnificent Mile, the hotel offers ideal venues for intimate affairs, elegant festivities for hundreds and every event in between.
From beginning to end, the Holiday Inn Chicago Mart Plaza River North offers innovative culinary concepts, impeccable service, and Instagram-worthy cityscape views overlooking the Chicago River. Our team of professionals work closely with you to provide everything needed to make your wedding dreams come true.
A lively next-door neighbor to the iconic Gibsons Bar & Steakhouse, this Gold Coast seafood authority offers an impressive selection of fresh seafood, flown in daily, along with renowned Gibsons Prime Angus beef. Guests can choose from six elegant private dining rooms.
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Kimpton Gray Hotel + Boleo
Kimpton Hotel Palomar Chicago
La Storia
122 W. Monroe St., Chicago 312.950.7012
505 N. State St., Chicago 312.985.0730
1154 N. Dearborn St., Chicago 312.915.5950
Maximum # of Guests: 250 Starting Price per Person: $85
Maximum # of Guests: 150 Starting Price per Person: $70
Maximum # of Guests: 150 Starting Price per Person: Call
Boleo, the year-round rooftop lounge at The Kimpton Gray Hotel, may only be 15 floors up, but you’ll feel like you’ve been transported all the way to Argentina. Contact us to plan your timeless celebration under the stars. The drinks flow, the music is always playing, and the food is irresistible!
The Canvas Room, a non-traditional space, boasts highlights like floor-to-ceiling windows, outdoor patio space, and the capacity for interactive chef events-thanks to an open-kitchen layout. The sophisticated style of our River North luxury lifestyle hotel-and that loveable Kimpton personality-make us the ideal setting for your next to-do.
Exuding a genuine Italian experience, the cozy and comfortable environment of La Storia is best for rehearsal dinners, wedding showers, family gatherings, business dinners and more!
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La Villa Restaurant & Banquets
Lockwood Restaurant & Bar
LUXBAR
3638 N. Pulaski Rd., Chicago 773.283.7980
17 E. Monroe St., Chicago 312.917.3404
18 E. Bellevue Pl., Chicago 312.642.3400
Maximum # of Guests: 230 Starting Price per Person: Call
Maximum # of Guests: 75 Starting Price per Person: $50
Maximum # of Guests: 150 Starting Price per Person: $50
Whether you have a growing guest list or a small intimate party, La Villa has a variety of room options to accommodate your needs. Our “Belvadore” room may be a perfect place for your rehearsal, with a minimum hold of 25. Also available, our bright open air “La Strada” room holds a maximum of 80. If that’s just not big enough, our “Grand Hall” will hold 230 of your closest friends and family.
Craft an event reflective of your vision for occasions leading up to and following your wedding. Entertain in a refined setting under 21 Greek mythology frescoes of the Palmer House lobby. Sample from American bistro selections uniting Great Lakes region flavors blended with hyper local Chicago influences to bring forward a casual yet playful experience exemplified by homegrown label partnerships.
LUXBAR is the Gold Coast’s quintessential neighborhood bar, serving hand-crafted cocktails that complement the kitchen’s all-American feel good food. The soaring second floor private dining spaces offer ideal settings for events large and small with sweeping views of State Street & Bellevue Place.
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The Metropolitan
The Mid-America Club
Millennium Knickerbocker Chicago
233 S. Wacker Dr., 66th & 67th Fl., Chicago 312.876.3200
200 E. Randolph Dr., 80th Fl., Chicago 312.861.1100
163 Walton Pl., Chicago 312.751.8100
Maximum # of Guests: 400 Starting Price per Person: Call
Maximum # of Guests: 400 Starting Price per Person: $50
Maximum # of Guests: 100 Starting Price per Person: Call
Located on the 66th & 67th floors of the iconic Willis Tower, experience stunning panoramic views of the Chicago skyline while enjoying world class cuisine & service. Impress your guests with a unique Chicago experience. The Private Event Team at The Metropolitan is ready to assist in turning your vision into a night to remember!
The Mid-America Club is among the most idyllic Chicago venues located just steps from Michigan Avenue, Grant Park, Millennium Park, and we have the best views in the city. The elegant, private ambiance of our venue offers a unique option for those who wish to avoid having their celebration in the public eye of a hotel or restaurant.
The Millennium Knickerbocker Chicago is located in the heart of the Gold Coast, and is a versatile venue that is perfect to accommodate any size event. Our Executive Chef will create a special menu for you, whether it be a casual, themed, upscale, or family fun event. We have the experience, knowledge, and setting to get you ready for your special day.
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The Murphy Chicago
NoMI
OdysseyVenue Chicago River
50 E. Erie St., Chicago 312.280.8447
800 N. Michigan Ave., Chicago 312.239.4075
455 N. Cityfront Address, Plaza CityDr., Chicago 888.957.2634 000.000.0000
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Maximum # of Guests: 125 Starting Price per Person: $100
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Steps away from Michigan Avenue, The Murphy offers elegance, charm and historic space for rehearsal dinners too! Working with Chicago’s top caterers, let us execute a wonderful event for you.
Host guests amidst high end art, distinguished design and sophisticated ambiance with spectacular views overlooking Michigan Avenue. Design custom menus with cuisine from the award-winning NoMI Kitchen. For more information contact Lindsey.Kaskowitz@hyatt.com
The newest vessel in the Entertainment Cruises fleet – Text Text Odyssey Chicago River – features plated menus, flexible bar Text packages, curated entertainment and unparalleled views of Text Chicago’s iconic water riverfront. This unique, glass-enclosed Text made its debut in late 2018 and has since offered a vessel Text. memorable experience like no other venue in the city.
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Orso’s Restaurant
Pazzo’s at 311
Pinstripes
1401 N. Wells St., Chicago 312.787.6604
311 S. Wacker Dr., Chicago 312.913.1600
435 E. Illinois St., Chicago 312.527.3140
Maximum # of Guests: 100 Starting Price per Person: $24
Maximum # of Guests: 400 Starting Price per Person: $65
Maximum # of Guests: 220 Starting Price per Person: $41
Old World charm in the heart of Old Town. We offer a variety of options to host rehearsal dinners, engagement events and weddings. Our beautiful outdoor garden can accommodate up to 100 people for a traditional sit-down dinner or up to 125 for a cocktail reception. With keen attention to detail, Orso’s seasoned Event Planners will help make your vision a unique memorable experience for all.
Pazzo’s is located south of Willis Tower. We provide full-service event planning and have two private rooms that seat 50-400 guests. Our atrium makes us one of the most beautiful venues in the city. Let our staff customize an event you’ll always remember in a venue you’ll never forget. Also available for rehearsals and engagements.
Strike the perfect balance between exceptional food, gracious service and fun as you gather with family and friends for your special day. Our elegant ballrooms seat up to 220 guests. For a more intimate experience, choose from private reception rooms or outdoor patio with picturesque views of Chicago. Pair with deluxe bowling lanes and bocce courts to create a simply unique wedding celebration!
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Quartino Ristorante & Wine Bar
River Roast
Rock Bottom Restaurant & Brewery
626 N. State St., Chicago 312.698.5000
315 N. LaSalle St., Chicago 312.527.1417
1 W. Grand Ave., Chicago 312.755.1677
Maximum # of Guests: 300 Starting Price per Person: $35
Maximum # of Guests: 400 Starting Price per Person: $47
Maximum # of Guests: 250 Starting Price per Person: $40
River North’s most authentic urban Italian food and wine experience, Quartino features a menu of regional specialties including salumi, handmade pasta, Neapolitan pizza and house made cheeses.
Located on the Chicago River, River Roast offers dramatic city and water views from every seat. James Beard award-winning Chef Tony Mantuano and Executive Chef Cedric Harden’s menu of contemporary American tavern fare is satisfying and soul-warming. Our private rooms accommodate intimate affairs from 10-400 for cocktails and dinner with access to a private outdoor veranda.
Rock Bottom will make your wedding event a memorable one! Our renovated event spaces & rooftop terrace create an atmosphere for a one-of-a-kind event. River North location, private rooms with full bar access, upgraded AV capabilities and a private staff dedicated to you. Add our award-winning craft beer selections and innovative menu choices and you have the recipe for your event’s success!
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Salvatore’s Ristorante
Sepia
STK Chicago
525 W. Arlington Pl., Chicago 773.528.1200
123 N. Jefferson St., Chicago 312.441.1920
9 W. Kinzie St., Chicago 312.340.5633
Maximum # of Guests: 230 Starting Price per Person: $45
Maximum # of Guests: 100 Starting Price per Person: $78
Maximum # of Guests: 550 Starting Price per Person: $75
Salvatore’s is the perfect place to begin your wedding celebration! Let our staff create a rehearsal dinner, reception or bridal shower that you will never forget! With the help of our event planners expertise, they can design every detail to fit your needs. From linen to custom menus we are always happy to help!
Located in the West Loop, Private Dining by Sepia is a stylish event space that brings the Michelin-starred experience to life for any private occasion. Inventive American cuisine created by Executive Chef Andrew Zimmerman focuses on productdriven menus that showcase the best of the season. Designed to cater to any occasion and available seven days a week.
From engagement to bachelorette; wedding shower to wedding reception; first date to renewal of vows – STK Chicago is your premier wedding destination. With built in ambiance, and décor that will vibe up any occasion, STK Chicago boasts a romantic and intimate setting, perfect for your engagement party, bachelor/ bachelorette party, wedding show, wedding ceremony & reception.
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The Talbott
Taureaux
Terrace 16
20 E. Delaware Pl., Chicago 312.944.4970
155 W. Van Buren St., Chicago 312.624.8778
401 N. Wabash Ave., Chicago 312.588.8030
Maximum # of Guests: 100 Starting Price per Person: $30
Maximum # of Guests: 70 Starting Price per Person: $52
Maximum # of Guests: 50 Starting Price per Person: $75
Gather your loved ones at The Talbott! Located on a quiet, quaint & quintessential Gold Coast street just steps off the Mag Mile, our unique hotel offers multi-functional venue space to cater to an intimate and upscale event of any kind.
Taureaux is an elevated, inviting French-inspired restaurant and bar in the heart of Chicago’s Loop neighborhood. From an 8-person intimate gathering to a 350-person reception, your guests will taste our acclaimed chef's seasonal menus and indulge in handpicked wines from our extensive list. Our private dining team, as well as indoor and outdoor settings, are offered to enhance your next occasion.
A rehearsal dinner marks the beginning of your celebration and Terrace 16 will create a truly memorable evening. Our private dining rooms and seasonal rooftop patio offer breathtaking views of the Chicago River, Lake Michigan, and the city's prized architecture. Terrace 16 offers new American cuisine with high-quality, approachable dining and a vivacious atmosphere.
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Thompson Chicago
Tuco & Blondie
Untitled Supper Club
21 E. Bellevue Pl., Chicago 312.994.7204
3358 N. Southport Ave., Chicago 773.327.8226
111 W. Kinzie St., Chicago 312.880.1511
Maximum # of Guests: 150 Starting Price per Person: $85
Maximum # of Guests: 60 Starting Price per Person: $18
Maximum # of Guests: 750 Starting Price per Person: Call
The Thompson Chicago is truly a one-of-kind venue for rehearsal dinners in the Gold Coast. Enjoy carefully crafted menu options from acclaimed restaurant Nico Osteria among the candle light in an intimate environment. Our exceptional service and irresistible menu will make your evening unforgettable.
If you’re hungry, chow down. If you’re thirsty, drink up. We have room for all. The hottest new spot on Southport! Private & semi-private rooms available seven days a week for (up-to) 60 guests. Perfect for your shower, bachelorette party, rehearsal dinner, or reception. With several party options...it’s a perfect fit with a lot of fun!
Untitled can accommodate up to 750 guests across its five elegantly appointed rooms, each offering distinct experiences and available together or individually. Lush materials and vintage detailing combine with chic art deco elements to add warmth, while speakeasy-inspired features and lighting provide your event an alluring backdrop.
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The Walton Room by Rosebud Restaurants
Warwick Allerton Hotel Chicago
2008 W. Roscoe St., Chicago 773.348.4600
188 E. Walton St., Chicago 312.778.6000
701 N. Michigan Ave., Chicago 312.274.6421
Maximum # of Guests: 120 Starting Price per Person: $45
Maximum # of Guests: 250 Starting Price per Person: $40
Maximum # of Guests: 200 Starting Price per Person: $70
Volo has been fortunate to have hosted many rehearsal dinners, post-wedding brunches, and other wedding related celebrations that have been truly special. We’d love to create a unique and memorable celebration for you. Our “#1 Hidden City Patio” (Chicago Magazine), 100 year old patina’d barn, and urbanchic dining room combine to create an ideal wedding venue.
The Walton Room, in Streeterville is the newest private event venue from the Rosebud Restaurants family. This beautifully appointed space features, state-of-the-art kitchen, two bars, luxe gold finishes and Chiavari chairs. The spacious layout offers a variety of options for groups of 10-250. The cuisine is a combination of Rosebud's famous Italian classics plus Steakhouse favorites.
Warwick Allerton Hotel Chicago presents two very different, yet equally spectacular ballrooms, for your occasion. Our 23rd Tip Top Tap offers breathtaking views of Michigan Avenue and downtown Chicago, accommodating up to 200. For more intimate affairs, you’ll love the architectural features of our 3rd floor Buckingham Ballroom, accommodating up to 120 guests.
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Biaggi’s Ristorante Italiano
Biaggi’s Ristorante Italiano
Eaglewood Resort & Spa
1524 S. Randall Rd., Algonquin 847.658.5040
20560 N. Rand Rd., Deer Park 847.438.1850
1401 Nordic Rd., Itasca 630.694.5907
Maximum # of Guests: 84 Starting Price per Person: $15
Maximum # of Guests: 72 Starting Price per Person: $15
Maximum # of Guests: 340 Starting Price per Person: $40
Located in Algonquin Commons, Biaggi’s Special Event Room comfortably accommodates up to 84 guests. With large tables, glass and mahogany wine displays and a stone hearth fireplace, your guests will dine in comfort. Whether it’s your bridal shower, rehearsal dinner or wedding reception, let Biaggi’s help to make your special day an event to remember.
Located in the Deer Park Town Center, Biaggi’s offers a choice of private room options. Our Special Event Room, complete with mahogany wine displays, comfortably accommodates up to 72 guests. And our Wine Room is perfect for smaller gatherings of 10 – 20 guests. Let Biaggi’s help to make your special day an event to remember.
Nestled on 106 acres of lush, manicured grounds, Eaglewood can provide an unforgettable setting for your happily ever after. From breathtaking photo opportunities and personalized culinary creations to authentically crafted receptions and rehearsal dinners, we look forward to delivering a day as momentous as your love for each other.
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Gibsons Bar & Steakhouse
Gino’s East
333 Plum Grove Rd., Elk Grove Village 847.690.1426
5464 N. River Rd., Rosemont 312.587.0508
45 S. Barrington Rd., South Barrington 847.304.4466
Maximum # of Guests: 125 Starting Price per Person: Call
Maximum # of Guests: 200 Starting Price per Person: $65
Maximum # of Guests: 200 Starting Price per Person: $22
Imagine your bridal shower, rehearsal dinner or intimate wedding overlooking the beautiful Fox Run Golf Course. The Event Room features a cozy fireplace, scenic waterfall and an outdoor patio for your celebration. Experience our superior customer service and allow our event planner to make sure your occasion is more than you ever dreamed possible.
This Gibsons Bar & Steakhouse location is situated in the heart of Chicagoland’s bustling Rosemont area, a stone’s throw from the Donald E. Stephens Convention Center, Allstate Arena and the Rosemont Theater. The classic American steakhouse features Gibsons Prime Angus beef along with fresh fish, classic cocktails, an extensive wine list and exceptional service.
Perfect for entertaining a rehearsal dinner, reception, welcome dinner, engagement party or day after brunch. We can offer the perfect setting for your legendary event. Our spacious rooms can accommodate groups of 10-150. If you are from Chicago or visiting for the first time, Gino’s East is the spot to make your memorable event stick out from the rest.
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Gino’s East Rosemont
Grand Victoria Casino
Hofbräuhaus Chicago
9501 W. Devon Ave., Rosemont 847.825.3333
250 S. Grove Ave., Elgin 847.531.7652
5500 Park Pl., Rosemont 847.671.2739
Maximum # of Guests: 80 Starting Price per Person: $13
Maximum # of Guests: 250 Starting Price per Person: $54
Maximum # of Guests: 1000 Starting Price per Person: $33
Our private party room, Gino’s Musikskeller, features stunning portraits of famed Chicago musicians and a full service bar showcasing Chicago craft beers. Our iconic deep dish pizza is a “must experience” for out-of-town guests. We’re easy to get to and there’s a ton of free parking. Stop by to take a look and we’ll be sure to turn on the Disco Ball.
Reinvent your reception at the Grand Victoria Casino! Experience two newly renovated ballrooms, the Grand Ballroom and the Victoria Ballroom, plus our outdoor balcony overlooking the picturesque Fox River. Let us customize the perfect menu for your ideal reception, rehearsal, or brunch.
Hofbräuhaus Chicago provides an authentic entertainment experience. From traditional German cuisine to famous freshly brewed beers, and nightly live music from Germany, every day feels like Oktoberfest. Hofbräuhaus Chicago can accommodate any size party and offers three classic rooms: the Beer Hall, King Ludwig Room and Biergarten.
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Wandering Venue Tree Estate
The Crystal Ballroom & Lounge
5300 N.Address, River Rd.,City Rosemont 000.000.0000 847.544.5300
North Address, Barrington, City IL 847.381.1907 000.000.0000
529 Davis St., Evanston 847.570.4400
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Crystal Ballroom & Lounge takes events to the next level with a stunning space featuring scratch cooking, personalized one on one attention, and a flexible approach. From casual to refined, we ensure you have exactly the experience you’ve dreamed of. Located in the heart of downtown Evanston, you’ll have lakefront photo ops, guest accommodations, and amazing nightlife at your fingertips.
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Hilton Orrington/Evanston
Pinstripes
Ravinia Festival
1710 Orrington Ave., Evanston 847.556.7920
1150 Willow Rd., Northbrook 847.480.7676
418 Sheridan Rd., Highland Park 847.266.5066
Maximum # of Guests: 450 Starting Price per Person: $39
Maximum # of Guests: 200 Starting Price per Person: $38
Maximum # of Guests: 275 Starting Price per Person: $50
The Northshore’s finest hotel located in the heart of Evanston. Ideal for your rehearsal dinner, brunch the following day of your wedding, showers and bachelor and bachelorette parties. Amazing space to fit your needs and style. More than 8 various and unique spaces to choose from.
Strike the perfect balance between exceptional food and fun as you gather with family and friends at Pinstripes. Our elegant ballrooms seat up to 200 guests. For a more intimate experience, choose from private reception rooms or a grand outdoor patio surrounded by picturesque wetlands. Pair with deluxe bowling lanes and bocce courts to create a simply unique wedding celebration!
Internationally renowned, the private spaces at Ravinia are the perfect setting for your rehearsal dinner. Our indoor and outdoor spaces along with our world-class menus will make every moment of your extraordinary event unforgettable. Begin your love story on a high note and let Ravinia’s landscape and history be the backdrop to this special time in your lives.
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Arrowhead Golf Club
Biaggi’s Ristorante Italiano
The Carleton of Oak Park
26W151 Butterfield Rd., Wheaton 630.653.5800
2752 Showplace Dr., Naperville 630.428.8500
1110 Pleasant St., Oak Park 708.848.5000
Maximum # of Guests: 250 Starting Price per Person: $27
Maximum # of Guests: 56 Starting Price per Person: $15
Maximum # of Guests: 200 Starting Price per Person: $35
Nestled among a forest preserve, the stone and brick clubhouse, lush fairways, lavish greens and sparkling waters provide the perfect setting for wedding receptions, rehearsal dinners, and indoor and outdoor ceremonies. NEW outdoor terrace available for cocktail parties.
Located in Naperville Crossings, Biaggi’s Special Event Room comfortably accommodates up to 56 guests. With large tables, glass and mahogany wine displays and a stone hearth fireplace, your guests will dine in comfort. Whether it’s your bridal shower, rehearsal dinner or wedding reception, let Biaggi’s help to make your special day an event to remember.
Class, quality and ambiance are the signature of events hosted by The Carleton of Oak Park. A historical venue with event coordinators eager to assist in the planning of your celebration, The Carleton is located 9 miles from downtown Chicago and has over 6,000 sq. ft. of event space, making it the ideal location for rehearsal dinners and post-wedding brunches.
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The Clubhouse
D.O.C. Wine Bar
2155 City Gate Ln., Ste. 103, Naperville 630.579.3210
298 Oakbrook Ctr., Oak Brook 630.472.3079
326 Yorktown Ctr., Lombard 773.480.3708
Maximum # of Guests: 80 Starting Price per Person: $35
Maximum # of Guests: 110 Starting Price per Person: $40
Maximum # of Guests: 100 Starting Price per Person: $19
Che Figata, Italian for "That's Awesome!" A sentiment you and your guests will share when you experience the housemade Mediterranean menu while sipping the finest Italian wines in our stocked cellar. The scene is festive and inclusive, with an open-air, exhibition kitchen. Your guests will enjoy a variety of seating options, including our stylish patio space.
Located at Oakbrook Center in the heart of Oak Brook, The Clubhouse is committed to creating an unforgettable experience for you and your guests. From engagement parties and rehearsal diners, to stunning wedding ceremonies and wedding receptions, event specialists will work with you to create an event to impress.
Thank you for considering D.O.C. Wine Bar for your special event. Our two private rooms are available seven days a week for brunch, lunch, or dinner. Join us for a sit-down meal or cocktail style reception. Our event spaces feature a private bar, table and couch/lounge seating, floor to ceiling windows, fireplace, and access to an outdoor courtyard.
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The Drake Oak Brook
Gino’s East
Naper Settlement
2301 York Rd., Oak Brook 630.571.0000
315 W. Front St., Wheaton 630.588.1010
523 S. Webster St., Naperville 630.420.6010
Maximum # of Guests: 350 Starting Price per Person: $30
Maximum # of Guests: 150 Starting Price per Person: $22
Maximum # of Guests: 40 Starting Price per Person: Call
Escape to The Drake Oak Brook, boasting a natural grandeur and history of hosting events of all kinds. Create memorable moments while experiencing elegant venues, legendary and attentive service, delectable cuisine, and unique amenities.
Perfect for entertaining a rehearsal dinner, reception, welcome dinner, engagement party or day after brunch. We can offer the perfect setting for your legendary event. Our spacious rooms can accommodate groups of 10-150. If you are from Chicago or visiting for the first time, Gino’s East is the spot to make your memorable event stick out from the rest.
With its warm wood floors and ceiling, authentic hand-carved bar and period lighting, the historic tavern is an ideal setting for a rehearsal dinner or bridal shower. An outdoor patio is also available. Our exclusive listing of approved caterers and staff will work hand-in-hand with you to make your event unforgettable.
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The Oaks at Gibsons Bar & Steakhouse
Pinstripes
Venuti’s Banquets & Ristorante
2105 S. Spring Rd., Oak Brook 630.954.0000
7 Oakbrook Ctr., Oak Brook 630.575.8744
2251 W. Lake St., Addison 630.376.1500
Maximum # of Guests: 300 Starting Price per Person: $65
Maximum # of Guests: 280 Starting Price per Person: $38
Maximum # of Guests: 600 Starting Price per Person: $65
The OAKS is a nearly 6,000 sq. ft. private dining expansion at Gibsons’ Oak Brook location. The versatile and beautiful space, with hardwood floors, terrazzo entry, and custom wooden accents, is accompanied by Gibsons’ legendary food and service for events of all kinds. Customizable menus will be available from the expert private dining team.
Strike the perfect balance between exceptional food and fun as you gather with family and friends at Pinstripes. Our elegant ballrooms seat up to 280 guests. For a more intimate experience, choose from private reception rooms or rustic grand outdoor patio complete with a fire pit. Pair with deluxe bowling lanes and bocce courts to create a simply unique wedding celebration!
Enjoy your party at Chicagoland’s most dramatic special events property. Old world architecture mixed with contemporary artwork offers the elegance and warmth that you deserve on your special day. Known for our attention to detail, five star service and our exquisite food, let Venuti’s customize your private event.
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SYLVIA & BILL Keeping with Tradition Sylvia and Bill coincidentally grew up attending the same Greek Orthodox Church, though they did not know each other at the time. They decided to get married in that same church with a traditional Greek Orthodox ceremony to celebrate their shared passion for their Greek heritage.
Real Life Fairy Tale Sylvia and Bill’s wedding day was simply mag ical. They felt like royalty strolling the elegant grounds together to take photos, while the stunning interiors of the Armour House Mansion & Gardens were elevated with enchanting floral touches. The couple even made a grand entrance fit for a king and queen, descending the grand staircase hand-in-hand for a magical moment they will never forget.
Time to Party The dance floor was rocking once the couple got things started with some traditional Greek dancing. Guests loved joining in the boisterous traditional dances! Sylvia and Bill also offered guests a smoky treat on the outside terrace – a custom cigar bar featuring some of Bill’s favorite cigars. With a dance party inside and cigars and gorgeous gardens to explore outside, there was something special for guests to enjoy at every turn.
Number of Wedding Guests: 225
To see more photos from this Real Wedding, go to chicagostyleweddings.com/real-weddings. WRITTEN BY Emily Conley
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The Team PLANNER/STYLIST Glamour & Lace Events FLORAL & DÉCOR Kensington Florals & Events CAKE & SWEETS Amy Beck Cake Design STATIONERY Amore Creative RENTALS Hall’s Rentals Marquee Event Rentals VENUE Chicago Public Library – Harold Washington Library Center PHOTOGRAPHY Ashley Galminas Photography Vote for your favorite design at chicagostyleweddings.com/vote
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Benefits of Hiring a Wedding Planner W
hen is the last time you planned a large-scale, eight-
someone to oversee all the details of your Big Day so you
hour party for one hundred guests including food,
can sit back, relax and enjoy the party. Something like the
entertainment and extensive wardrobe selections?
electricity hookup for the catering staff is the last thing a bride
Unless you’re a professional event planner, chances are you
needs to be thinking about before she walks down the aisle to
have never planned such an involved affair. But it can’t be
marry the love of her life. Do yourself a favor and take some
THAT hard, right? All in all, a wedding is really a complicated,
of the wedding stress off yourself by hiring a professional.
full-scale party that requires hundreds of decisions and dozens
We have broken down the types of service and benefits of
of external vendors working together to pull off one fabulous
hiring a wedding planner here, so all you have to do is decide
event. Most of us don’t have the time, energy or expertise to
how much help you need. When you are ready to find your
put together a wedding completely on our own. But don’t
wedding planner, we have got some of Chicago’s best right
despair, that’s where our lovely wedding planners come in to
here in the pages of this issue. Are you starting to feel less
save the day. When you hire a wedding planner, you are hiring
stressed already?
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choice. The investment for comprehensive
Wedding planners generally offer different
wedding planning generally ranges from
tiers of service, priced according to the
10-20% of your total budget. In return,
amount of time involved and services
your planner will help you pick a wedding
offered in each category. Before hiring a
date, secure a venue and help you hone
wedding planner, you and your partner
in on the specific style and vibe you
should decide how much of your budget
want for your Big Day. They will guide
you’re willing to spend and how much
you through selecting your vendors
help you truly need. Once you understand
including, photographers, DJs, caterers,
the volume of work you’re able to take
florists, rental compa nies, makeup and
on and how much you need or want to
hair artists. With their knowledge and
outsource, you can get to work finding a
recommen dations you will save countless
wedding planner who offers the type of
hours of scrolling through reviews. Your
service you need.
planner will attend all vendor meetings with (or for) you and handle pricing
Full-service wedding planning
negotiations. Depending on the wedding
If you have an incredibly demanding
planner you work with, you will probably
job, chose to have a wedding in a location
receive at least one wedding planning
where you don’t live or feel completely
assistant in addition to your full-time
overwhelmed and clueless about how to
event planner. Full-service wedding plan-
start planning such a big event, then a
ning typically begins shortly after you
full-service planner is probably the best
get engaged and runs through the day of your wedding.
Partial wedding planning Wedding planners may have their own term for this type of service, such as month-of planning, but it generally falls between full-service planning and day-of coordination. If you have already booked a venue and have a general idea for what you want your wedding to be like, partial wedding planning services are perfect for you. You will get help with establishing a wedding day timeline and narrowing down your design choices, while still maintaining control of the details. You will probably have one or two sit-down meetings with your planner in the days leading up to your celebration and email access with your planner throughout the process. If you decide partial planning services are right for you, be prepared to make some big decisions (like where and when to host your wedding) on your own, but feel confident knowing you have a professional to help you with the details. 256
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Day-of wedding coordination
superhero thrown in. Weddings involve a
The term ‘day of’ is a bit misleading,
lot of people, and large numbers of
as no one could come in only on your
people generally means a few disasters
wedding day and effectively manage all of
are inevitable. We’ve heard stories from
the details and vendors. Day-of wedding
planners of every kind of crisis they have
coordination usually begins at least 8-12
solved, and most usually occur without
weeks before your Big Day. Your wedding
the couple even knowing what was
coordinator will meet with you once you’ve
happening. From a grandparent passing
hired all of your outside vendors and will
out during the toasts (they were com-
take over to finalize details and confirm
pletely fine after getting some hydration)
their coverage times for the actual day.
to a melting wedding cake, wedding
You can expect your day-of coordinator
planners are innate problem solvers. If
to provide you with a timeline of events
they have been in business for a while,
and manage the logistics of your wedding
chances are there are very few issues
day. They will also generally attend your
they haven’t handled.
rehearsal and coordinate any outstanding payments or gratuities.
Imagine you’re in the stunning wedding dress of your dreams, you just married the love of your life and you are on your
WEDDING PLANNER OR SUPERHERO?
way to celebrate with everyone at your
Honestly, most wedding planners are
straight into a spilled cherry slushie on
expert event planners with a touch of
the sidewalk. There’s red liquid staining
reception. You step out of the limo and
your white dress and you are about to walk into a room full of people who will be looking right at you. If you have hired an experienced wedding planner, there’s no need to cry. They will whip out some of the white chalk they carry around for just this moment (who knew?) and color right over the glaring stain. No one will ever know the difference. That moment right there is worth every penny you spent to hire a planning pro.
MONEY MATTERS Weddings are not cheap. Even small, seemingly simple affairs will require a significant investment. It can seem daunting to spend a chunk of your wedding budget on a planner, but not hiring a professional can end up costing you even more. Planners know the ins and outs of the local wedding market, which means they know which vendors you can trust and who you should stay far away from. This expert advice and knowledge your wedding planner brings to the table will help you avoid expensive 258
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mistakes. A good wedding planner will
about your desired style and vibe and
vibe you know you want but can't really
double-check every contract and every
then create those ideas and dreams into
describe? How do you make sure you're
decision to make sure all of the details
something magical.
staying within your budget? A wedding
are correct. They ensure you don’t end
A good wedding planner also knows
planner has the expertise to take your
up with a room full of gardenias when
the difference between Pinterest and
dreams and intangible ideas and turn
you paid for peonies.
reality. Your budget may not line up with
them into a cohesive, gorgeously styled
your Pinterest dreams. By using their
wedding day.
VISION AND REALITY
expertise, they can help manipulate your
You may have dreamt of your wedding
budget and offer creative solutions to
ADVICE AND MEDIATION
day for years. Maybe you know exactly
design your dream wedding while keeping
Weddings tend to cultivate unique con-
what you want the room to look like
things realistic and within your budget.
flicts. Bringing together two families is
when you walk in, hand-in-hand with
One common misconception is that wed-
inherently tricky, and when you throw in
your new spouse, to be introduced to
ding planners can save couples money
all the logistical details and personal
your guests for the first time. Or perhaps
when it comes to negotiating contracts.
feelings involved in a wedding, the sit-
you have a Pinterest board with thousands
While your planner may have a working
uation can get sticky. One of the best
of ideas, overflowing with inspiration.
relationship with a company that could
parts of having a wedding planner on
While it's fun to imagine things in your
cut costs a bit, a discount should never
board is that they can act as a mediator.
mind or look at them on a Pinterest
be expected.
Maybe you’re too scared to tell your quickly
future mother-in-law that you think her
challenge. One of the greatest benefits
become overwhelming and impossible
favorite flowers are tacky and ugly, but
of a good wedding planner is their ability
to wrangle. How do you pick a color
your wedding planner can tactfully
to look at your inspiration, talk to you
palette that evokes the timeless, elegant
inform her that you’re using specific
board, bringing that vision to life is a
Wedding
inspiration
can
floral arrangements without it feeling personal. If you have a particularly challenging bridesmaid who questions every decision, you can direct her to your wedding planner who will always have your back. Then there’s the plethora of advice you receive when you hire a planner. Not sure if a venue is big enough for your guest list? Your planner will be able to tell. Can’t decide if you should have live music or a DJ? Your planner can give you a rundown on the pros and cons of each and help you make a decision. Completely lost when it comes to wedding gown styles? Your planner has seen every body type walk down the aisle and knows what gown will impress. Wedding planners live in the wedding world – they know what is trendy, tacky and tasteful.
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makeup should be completed to sending the wedding party down the aisle, a planner has the knowledge and skills to make your day run flawlessly. Hiring a wedding planner also frees up your family members to enjoy your day instead of working to make sure everything goes to plan. Your mom deserves to relax and enjoy your wedding day, too. You cannot coordinate your reception set-up while you’re busy walking down the aisle and exchanging vows. It takes a lot of work and expertise to pull off a wedding day. Even the most organized of couples can’t successfully enjoy their Big Day if they are simultaneously trying to manage it. Plan to hire a wedding planner and make sure there is room in your budget to cover the level of service you need before you make any other decisions.
THE VALUE OF TIME You are only engaged for a short amount of time and as they always say “time is money.” Do you want to spend that special season stressed out over five thousand wedding decisions? Or would you rather spend your time creating memories with your fiancé and dreaming of your honeymoon? A wedding planner’s most valuable contribution is their time. They spend their time finding vendors, negotiating contracts, and making decisions so you don’t have to. Every minute your wedding planner spends making your Big Day dreams come true is a minute you have back – to spend with your friends and family, your fiancé, your dog, at the gym, reading, whatever it is you’d rather be doing than stressing out about wedding planning. Hiring someone who can get things done while also reducing your stress and workload is one of the smartest decisions you can make, besides getting married of course! CHICAGOSTYLEWEDDINGS.COM
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What to Do After the Wedding Y
ou will spend several months or even longer planning your
think to plan for any after the wedding logistics, but turns out –
wedding. Chances are, you will put serious thought and
there’s a lot to be done!
consideration into drafting a workable budget, securing
the perfect venue, booking the best entertainment and finding
IMMEDIATELY AFTER THE WEDDING
your dream dress. But once your Big Day has come and gone,
You’ve said “I do,” partied through the night with your friends
are you clear on all the follow-up items? Most couples don’t
and family and enjoyed a grand exit with your new spouse. Now
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backup plan in case they need to make
cards, cash or checks to the reception.
place so when you leave the venue,
any last-minute payments. Your wedding
Make sure that you not only have a secure
everything is properly taken care of.
planner should take care of all financial
place for the gifts and cards to be displayed
logistics, but if you don’t have a planner
or stored during the celebration, but also
or coordinator, make sure you or someone
arrange for someone to transport the gifts
you trust has finalized all of the payments
after the reception has ended. Decide if
before you leave the premises.
you want the gifts brought to your home
Payments Make sure all payments were received by your vendors and that gratuities have been distributed. You don’t want an angry phone call from your caterer
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you need to make sure you have plans in
or if a trusted family member or friend will
Gifts
hold onto them for you until you return
demanding payment when you’re getting
With online shopping and easy shipping,
from your honeymoon. Once you decide
ready to jet off on your relaxing honey-
the number of physical gifts brought to a
who will be in charge of the gifts, make
moon. If you’ve hired a wedding planner
wedding have declined, but still expect a
sure you have a clear plan for how they
or coordinator, make sure to have a
few. Guests will also bring cards with gift
will collect the items (usually your wedding
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planner will facilitate this process) and
time. If you are leaving for your honeymoon
your efforts go to waste. Click on your
when you will pick up the gifts.
immediately after your wedding, find some-
hashtag and scroll through Instagram and
one who can complete the returns for
Facebook posts to save all the photos
you. This is a good task for a best man or
other guests shared. You will find unex-
maid of honor who lives in town.
pected gems, sweet memories and differ-
Formalwear If you rented formalwear or any of your wedding attire, make sure you have a return plan in place. Most rentals are only
ent perspectives from your Big Day when
Social Media Sweep
you see it through other people’s eyes
for a few days, so avoid any late fees or
You spent hours coming up with the
and camera lenses. If you find pictures
extra charges by returning everything on
perfect wedding hashtag, so don’t let
you want to print, reach out to the guest who took it and ask if they can send you the original. If you created a special Snapchat geo-filter make sure to check your feed within twenty-four hours to see the shared photos before they expire!
Preservation Preserving your bridal bouquet and wedding gown are lovely ways to keep the memory of your Big Day alive. Some popular methods for preserving flowers include hanging the bouquet upside down to let the blooms air dry, pressing individual petals in parchment paper or using silica gel to preserve the flowers for a more natural look. If you want to keep your bouquet long after your wedding has passed, be sure to decide which method will achieve the look you want. Preserving your wedding gown is also a process that needs to start the day after the wedding. If you are heading on your honeymoon right away, arrange for your mother or maid of honor to take it to the pres ervationist or dry cleaner as soon as possible. By waiting, any stains on the gown will have fully set in. After cleaning, the preservationist will then proceed to put the gown in an air-tight box where the oxygen has been removed and replaced with nitrogen, so your delicate gown will be beautiful for years to come. If you choose not to preserve your wedding dress, the fabric may become yellow and even show signs of mold over time.
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while watching your favorite guilty pleasure
cons. Sharing a last name with your
whelmed by your to-do list, it’s best to
TV show or find another way to make the
spouse will make things easier if you
know what specific tasks need to be com-
activity more enjoyable, but make sure
decide to have children together, as you
pleted and make a plan for accomplish-
you get this important task done!
are all easily recognizable as a family unit
ing a few things at a time. Don’t try to do
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post-wedding tasks. To avoid feeling over-
when you fly, register for school or attend
everything the first day back!
Name Change If you, your spouse or both of you are
like sharing a last name makes them feel
Thank-You Notes
legally changing last names, make sure
closer to their spouse, while some just
doctor appointments. Some people feel
Now that you are home, you can settle
you don’t procrastinate too long. The
want to be able to use a common mono-
in and really enjoy using all your new,
sooner you get your name changed, the
gram. There are plenty of reasons to not
lovely wedding gifts. Make yourself a nice
sooner you can complete other changes
change your name as well. If you are
latte with your new Nespresso and settle
with your bank, insurance and other com-
already established professionally or well
in to write some thank-you notes. It may
panies, and get a new driver’s license.
known in your chosen field, it could hurt
feel like a lot of writing, but it’s absolutely
You’ll have to change your name at the
your respectability and notoriety. Changing
necessary to give a sincere thank you
social security office before you can make
your name can feel akin to changing your
to everyone who gave you a gift and
any other updates, so plan to take at least
identity, so some people reject the change
celebrated your love with you and your
half a day to get it done. We recommend
on principle and choose to keep their full
new spouse. Keep an organized list of
going to the social security office as early
given name. There is also a gender role at
every gift and who gave it so you can
as possible to avoid long wait times.
play – women are traditionally expected to
easily keep track of who still needs a
If you haven’t decided whether or not
assume their partner’s name, but this may
note. You may want to split the thank-you
to make the big name change, you may
feel contradictory to your personal politics,
note duties with your spouse, write them
want to consider some of the pros and
or downright confusing for a same-sex
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couple. There are reasons to change your
Days. Be fair and considerate when leaving
last name and reasons to keep your last
reviews. If you received poor service, you
name, but in the end, it really comes
can absolutely give a poor rating, but
down to making the choice that feels
make sure you explain the situation clearly
authentic and right for you. There are also
and unemotionally. Never use a review to
other options to a full-on switch: hyphen-
lash out at a vendor.
ated, your partner taking your name or a
Also make sure to share everything
new combined last name that incorporates
your vendors did that was above and
both names. Whatever you decide, make
beyond your expectations. Did your wed-
sure you take the proper steps to make
ding planner unexpectedly stash away
your name change legal.
two plates of food for you and your partner to enjoy once you had retired to
Vendor Reviews
the hotel room for the night? Tell everyone!
Once you have had some time to
Future brides and grooms rely on your
reflect on your wedding day and relive all
feedback as much as your vendors do,
the highlights, it’s a good practice to
so make sure to celebrate all of the won-
leave reviews for your vendors. Businesses
derful moments, big and small. It’s also a
big and small rely on reviews and feedback
good practice to send a personal thank-
to gain new customers. You can also
you note to each of your vendors as well.
think of leaving reviews as a small service to future couples who will be looking for input on who to hire for their own Big
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Another way to preserve wedding
palettes, venues, bouquets, overall re -
photos. Once your photographer sends
day memories is by creating keepsakes.
ception vibes and so much more. You
over your gallery of images, take the time
Photo gifts come in practically every
can submit your wedding on our website,
to choose your favorites to have printed.
shape and size. A mug with a photo of
chicagostyleweddings.com.
While it may feel a bit overwhelming to
you and your dad walking down the
sort through the hundreds (or even thou-
aisle makes a fabulous Father’s Day gift
sands) of images, you will be grateful you
while a canvas print of a family portrait
Whew! You’ve checked every box on
spent the time to pick your favorites in
would be perfect for your grandmother’s
your to-do list, from vendor gratuities to
the moment. You can even turn it into a
birthday. You can preserve your photo
submitting your wedding celebration to
date night with your new spouse. Taking
memories however best suits you and
ChicagoStyle Weddings, you have com-
the time to have some of your favorite
your loved ones.
pleted every post-wedding task. Now
and not just online.
Date Nights
it’s time to celebrate with your new
pictures printed will ensure that you get to enjoy these fabulous photos in real life
PLANNING & PREP
the wedding is choosing your wedding
Wedding Submissions
spouse! It is quite common to feel a bit
Once you have your wedding photos,
of a letdown after the excitement and
Create a photo book or album with a
don’t forget to submit them to Chicago-
anticipation of planning and enjoying
large collection of photos you like and
Style Weddings! We publish photos and
your Big Day. Be sure to plan a date
want to keep. Perhaps smaller, customized
stories from gorgeous Chicago wed-
night out with your new spouse and cel-
albums for your parents, bridesmaids or
dings in our magazine and online to
ebrate your new life together. The new-
any others who made your day special is
share the special details from your Big
lywed title does not expire until after
your style. Consider printing photos in
Day with our audience. Our brides and
your first anniversary, so you have an
both color and black and white as they
grooms-to-be love seeing real Chicago
entire year of celebrating ahead of you.
can have very different aesthetics.
weddings to gain inspiration for color
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How Can I Ever Thank You?
e all know wedding planning involves a lot of time,
confirms that you received the gift so that the giver knows it
energy and usually a healthy dose of stress at some
was not lost in transit. Thank-you notes should always be
point. But what makes that all worth it? Wedding
handwritten, as a printed message comes across as cold and
gifts! (Okay, and maybe the whole being married to the love of
thoughtless. While you can arguably take up to three months
your life part, too.) But in all seriousness, you will probably
after your Big Day to send a thank-you, the gesture feels more
receive more gifts for your wedding than at any other time in
sincere when sent in a timely manner. It is perfectly fine to send
your life. From outfitting your kitchen with matching silverware
your notes before the wedding for gifts received at showers
to fluffy, monogrammed towels for your bathroom, you will be
ahead of time.
given plenty of thoughtful items that you actually want and
Newlyweds can sometimes feel unsure about what to say or
need. The only catch to this plethora of presents? Writing the
how to structure a thank-you note, especially since sending
thank-you note.
handwritten letters is pretty rare these days. We have simplified
The etiquette on this item is pretty clear, you have got to
the process for you and laid out everything you need to know
send a thank-you note to every single person who gives you a
to make sure you are sending thoughtful thank-you notes that
gift. The note both communicates your appreciation and also
everyone will appreciate.
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THE NOTE Traditionally, wedding thank-you notes are small, folded-over cards with a monogram on the front. If you choose to take the traditional approach, you can use your new married monogram. If your wedding vibe is less traditional and more laid-back or modern, you may want to choose a colorful, creative and less formal thank-you note. Pick the style that fits your personality, and feel free to use more than one style of thank-you note depending on your audience. You may want a more casual or spirited card for close friends and something more formal for distant relatives and casual acquaintances. And don’t forget that you can register for your thank-you notes as well!
THE FORMAT Thank-you notes are typically small for a reason – you don’t need to write that much! You should always start with a greeting – “Dear Whomever” is always appropriate – and then include two to three sentences of text. In the body of your thank-you note, be sure to mention the specific gift you received and how you will use it. It may seem obvious, but don’t forget to say ‘thank you!’. End with something personal – “We can’t wait to see you soon!” or “We are so happy you could celebrate with us!” – to help your thank-you feel meaningful.
Dear Aunt Helen and Uncle Mark, Thank you so much for the beautiful vase you gave us. We cannot wait to display the fresh-cut flowers from our garden in it. We are looking forward to seeing you both at the Fourth of July party soon! Love, Jennifer
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a thank you note feel a bit awkward. Never mention the exact amount given. Rather, treat each monetary gift as a “generous gift,” and write how you plan to spend the cash in your card. For example, “Thank you so much for your generous gift. We were so excited to be able to book a snorkeling excursion on our honeymoon!” If you receive an item that is a duplicate or that you plan to return, keep that information to yourself. Mention the specific gift given in your note and focus on your gratitude to the gift giver. If you received three toasters, your thank-you might look like this: “We really appreciate the four-slice toaster. We can’t wait to have you over for brunch soon so you can see it in action! It means a lot to us both that you thought of us at this exciting time in our lives.” There is a chance you may receive something that you’re unsure of how to use or what exactly it is. In that instance, be as general as necessary while focusing on the person who gifted it and how appreciative you are.
THE RECIPIENT Model your greeting based on how familiar you are with who gave you the gift. It would be weird to address your sister or close friend with a formal pre-fix, but your Dad’s work friend that you’ve never met should be addressed with a Mr. or Mrs. as appropriate. You should also think about the recipient when signing your own name. Traditional etiquette states that since you are writing the card yourself, you should only sign your name. For a more modern approach, both names can be signed. For those who are close to you, your first name should suffice. It’s best to use your full name – first, maiden, and married – when sending a card to someone who may not recognize just your first name. Remember that thank-you notes are 270
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not solely for gifts, either. You should
day, the task may feel overwhelming.
send a hand-written thank-you to anyone
At the end of the day, guests genuinely
who helps you plan, prepare and cele-
appreciate knowing that you received
brate your Big Day. This includes your
their gift and that you are grateful. Make
wedding planner, photographer, offici-
writing your thank-you notes more fun
ant, the host or hostess of any wedding
by writing while watching a guilty pleasure
showers or events and any others who
TV show or listening to your favorite
contributed significantly to your ceremony
podcast while you crank them out. Take
or reception.
a moment to truly reflect on how thankful you are for the generous people who
THE ORGANIZATION
celebrated your Big Day before sitting
Staying organized and on top of your
down to write – the grateful spirit will
wedding thank-you notes will make life
come through in your notes. The most
so much easier. Keep track of every
important thing is that you actually send
gift – who gave it, what it is, when they
everyone a thank-you note, so stay on
gave it – in a spreadsheet so you can
top of your gift list and make sure you
clearly mark when you have sent a
address, stamp and mail each and
thank-you note for each item. If you
every card of gratitude. Your hand may
have several wedding showers, try to
hurt by the end of the process, but once
send those notes immediately after the
you are done, treat yourself to a bubble
event so they don’t pile up. If you wait to
bath and one of those new, fluffy towels
send any notes until after your wedding
you just received.
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DUSTIN & ALEX From the Beginning After initially meeting online, Dustin and Alex immediately felt a connection between each other that allowed them to be their authentic selves. Alex confirmed he knew Dustin was the one for him the first time their eyes met. The Tennessee natives decided to host their wedding in their new hometown of Chicago in order to share the love of their new city with friends and family.
Dashing Details The wedding’s breathtaking décor showcased Dustin and Alex’s endless love from start to finish. Their vision came to life with towering floral centerpieces, gleaming candelabras and a chic white and blue monogrammed dance floor. The newlyweds dined at a sweetheart table complete with gilded thrones and a luscious spray of blue and white flowers. Their reception was full of meaningful toasts, plenty of dancing and even a visit from an LED robot.
“You’re the One” Alex surprised Dustin with a performance by R&B singer Dondria to commemorate a moment early on in their relationship when Dustin stole a Dondria CD from Alex and playfully refused to give it back. This thoughtful gesture, and Alex’s memory for special details, are only a few of the many reasons the couple finds themselves to be a perfect pair.
Number of Wedding Guests: 111
To see more photos from this Real Wedding, go to chicagostyleweddings.com/real-weddings. WRITTEN BY Emily Conley
Real Wedding Vendors VENUE: Kimpton Hotel Allegro | PHOTOGRAPHY: Jolie Images | VIDEOGRAPHY: Windy City Production RINGS: Rogers & Hollands | FORMALWEAR: Eaden Myles | ALEX’S SHOES: Versace | DUSTIN’S SHOES: Christian Louboutin ACCESSORIES: Meister Watches | MAKEUP: Beyoutiful Kisses Studio | FLORAL & DÉCOR: Yanni Design Studio ENTERTAINMENT: Avi Sic; Dondria; Ray Silkman; Z BOTS LED Robots | CAKE & SWEETS: West Town Bakery
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THE GILDED AISLE
Vendors EVENT PLANNER: The Gilded Aisle | VENUE: The InterContinental Chicago Magnificent Mile PHOTOGRAPHY: KYLE JOHN Photography | STATIONERY: Fiore Press FLORAL & DÉCOR: Designs by Jodi | CAKE: Bittersweet To see more photos from this Spotlight on Style, go to chicagostyleweddings.com/inspiration. CHICAGOSTYLEWEDDINGS.COM
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elieve it or not, your choice of flowers will be one of the
these details but coming in with a few ideas of what you will
most impactful aspects of your wedding décor. Flowers
need is always helpful.
have the power to really set the mood and evoke a
magical atmosphere. Not to mention they are gorgeous in
A SHAPE FOR EVERY STYLE
photos! The bridal bouquet is the floral element that everyone is
First things first – what style of bouquet do you want? Your
sure to notice – your guests are going to be giving you all of their
florist will tell you that there are many ways to customize your
attention as you walk down the aisle, and your bouquet will be
bouquet to your style, and shape is one of them. Ask them to
right there with you, front and center.
show you examples of different kind of bouquets and look at
Thinking through your bridal bouquet can be a great way to
plenty of pictures ahead of time to get to know your preferences.
begin the process of determining your overall floral design.
Bring several photos to your floral appointment. You might not
But it’s not as simple as just picking out a few kinds of flowers
know the name of every flower or arrangement technique, but
you like and leaving it at that. Did you know that there are
a picture is worth a thousand words!
several different shapes for bouquets? Have you thought
If you’re looking for a larger bouquet, there are several options
about any extras you want to incorporate into your floral
open for your consideration. For a dramatic look, choose the cas-
arrangements? Do you know which members of your wedding
cading style, which includes longer flowers and greenery spilling
party will get flowers? Your florist will walk you through all of
out and down from the center to create a voluminous waterfall
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effect. Another related style is the pageant (sometimes called presentation) style, which features long-stemmed flowers gathered together, meant to rest in the crook of your arm. You could also opt for the hand-tied style, which features a mix of flowers and greenery loosely tied together with a visible ribbon or twine, achieving an organic “freshly-picked” boho look. For the classic bride, the round shape is timeless, featuring one or two types of flowers gathered in an arrangement that looks good from any angle, with stems wrapped completely in ribbon or with other adornments. Brides wanting a smaller bouquet can opt for the nosegay or posy style, which tends to feature just one or two types of flowers in a small rounded bundle that can easily be held in one hand. This look is popular for bridesmaids, leaving one hand free so they can help the bride with anything and everything in
seasonal blooms
a pinch! Another small style that evokes a vintage vibe is the pomander, which looks like a ball of flowers hanging from a ribbon or string. While a bride could walk
Celebrate the season your wedding takes place in and choose your
down the aisle swinging this style of bou-
bouquet, boutonniere and floral décor based on what flowers are in
quet, it’s a more common choice for
bloom. Some flowers can be sourced year-round, but other flowers – like
flower girls. Another unique smaller option
sunflowers – can be much more difficult to find depending on when
is the composite style (also known as
you’re getting married. Here’s a few of the many flowers available for each
glamelia), which takes petals from several
specific season.
flowers and pins them together to form what looks like one giant bloom.
Spring
Summer
Shape is not the only physical element
Cosmo, Hyacinth,
Anemone, Calla Lily,
you have to take into account when think-
Hydrangea, Lilac,
Casablanca Lily, Cornflower,
ing about your bouquet. You also have to
Lily of the Valley, Orchid,
Daisy/Gerbera Daisy,
pay attention to how big the bouquet will
Peony, Rose, Tulip,
Delphinium, Queen Anne’s Lace,
be in relation to your body. For taller
Zinnia
Rhododendron, Rose,
brides, the sky’s the limit – go for a cas-
Stephanotis
cading look or an overflowing bundle if you want. For shorter brides, it’s best to
Fall Aster, Calla Lily,
Winter
Chocolate Cosmos,
Amaryllis, Camelia, Freesia,
Chrysanthemum, Dahlia,
Heather, Holly/Evergreen/Ivy,
Parrot Tulips, Rose, Statice,
Lisianthus, Narcissus, Rose,
Sunflower, Victorian Lily
Ranunculus, Violets
go for a smaller look. You don’t want your flowers to overshadow your face or cover up a large portion of your dress!
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gown as a backdrop. Because of this,
within. For instance, your florist may use
and spacious church allow all the tiny
it’s important to match your bouquet to
a different shade of flower to match a
details in your bouquet to be seen? Is
the style of your dress. If you are wearing
champagne-colored dress than they would
there colored carpet, tile or draping in
a more ornate dress, full of beading or
for a bright white dress. And a “pink”
your hotel ballroom? All your wedding
intricately patterned lace, think about
bridesmaid dress may mean something
plans should look intertwined in some
choosing a simpler bouquet so that your
quite different to you than to your florist.
way or another. While you don’t need to
dress takes the spotlight. This might
If you don’t have extra swatches, come
necessarily match your flowers to the
mean that you choose one color for the
prepared with pictures so they can get a
design elements of your space, it’s good
flowers and stick with that, or use fewer
feel for your true color scheme.
to be mindful of them so they don’t clash
blooms. With a more modern, simple
Besides matching your general aes-
gown, you can either match the minimal-
thetic, you want your flowers to make
istic look with a simple bouquet or you
sense given your venue and the time of
SEASONAL BLOOMS
can go a bit more dramatic with the
day you will be holding your wedding. An
No matter what aesthetic you are going
flowers. If you’d like the bouquet to take
outdoor daytime wedding is perfect for
for, the time of year that your celebrations
center stage, go ahead and mix many
bright and sunny blooms like sunflowers,
occur play a huge part in your flower
different kinds of flowers or use several
tulips and peonies. The sunlight and open
choices. If you have your heart set on
colors together.
with each other.
spaces will allow those flowers to shine! If
daffodils, hosting your wedding in the
When you meet with your florist, be
you’re having an indoor wedding in the
fall is not going to bode well for your
sure to bring along fabric swatches from
evening, you’ll need to keep in mind how
floral hopes! While many flowers are
your dress and your bridesmaid dresses if
your bouquet will look under the venue’s
available throughout a large part of the
possible. That way they are able to see
lighting and alongside the interior décor
year, there are some specialty blooms
the exact color palette they are working
of the space. Will the lighting in your tall
that you will only be able to get during one season. Talk to your florist about which flowers you have in mind, and be ready to take her suggestions for alternative blooms that will give you the look you’re going for. For instance, garden roses or hydrangeas can often substitute for peonies, which are beautiful but only available for a very short amount of time. Don’t think about seasonal availability as a limitation – embrace it! You have likely chosen wedding colors that coordinate with the season, so your flowers will naturally match. Take the opportunity to use flowers and supporting elements in your bouquet that celebrate the season. You may even learn about ways your florist can source your flowers from a local greenhouse, which will mean they are extremely fresh and vibrant. Try not to get attached to the particulars – once you give your florist some inspiration photos and color schemes, let them run wild and use their professional knowledge to work some floral magic. Chances are, they will achieve a look that goes beyond your expectations.
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WHO GETS WHAT? After you decide on the shape, size and blooms for your bridal bouquet, you will need to think about flowers for the other people who are helping you celebrate your Big Day. Of course, the bride gets the most dazzling bouquet, but who else gets bouquets, corsages and boutonnieres? There are no hard and fast rules for this, so choose whomever you would like! But keep reading for some of the traditional guidelines.
BOUQUETS Typically, each bridesmaid gets a bouquet that mimics or takes inspiration from the bride’s bouquet. You will never run out of great photo ops when you and all your girls have beautiful blooms to show off! If your flower girl won’t have anything else in her hands (like a basket or a sign) it’s a cute idea to give her a mini bouquet as well – she’ll love being your mini-me!
CORSAGES Corsages are meant for the women in your family or any woman you would like to honor, including ceremony readers and other guests who have a special place in your Big Day. Whether you give corsages only to immediate family members (such as mothers and grandmothers) or you offer them to all your important consistent with providing them to relatives on both sides of your families. You don’t want anyone feeling unfairly left out! You may have seen women wearing
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corsages in different ways – some pinned onto their dresses and some around their wrists. Mimicking how men wear boutonnieres, many women will pin the corsage on the left shoulder of their dress. But they may worry about snagging or ruining a delicate gown. An alternative is to opt for a bracelet style corsage that is typically worn on the left wrist. Or, you can ask your florist if they CHICAGOSTYLEWEDDINGS.COM
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offer a magnetic option. That will take the
wedding can receive boutonnieres as
your choice. But why not go beyond the
hassle out of pinning and will simplify the
well, including fathers and grandfathers
traditional look? You can choose other
process without running the risk of dam-
of the couple, ushers, other family mem-
materials to wrap your bouquet. Try burlap
age to expensive dresses. Both wrist and
bers and even the ring bearer. This is a
or twine if your wedding will be rustic,
pinned versions can look beautiful, so it’s
special way to give a small thanks to
velvet if you’re going for a boho theme, or
best to go with whatever will make your
the important men in your life. Don’t be
lace from your mother’s wedding dress
special ladies feel most comfortable.
surprised if the guys need some assis-
for a personal tribute. You can also draw
Remember, everyone has a different style.
tance pinning them on – send a mom in
extra attention to the wrap by using a
You’ll want your leading ladies feeling
to help them attach their boutonnieres
boldly patterned ribbon or an oversized
their best on your Big Day, that way they
with ease!
ribbon tied in a giant bow. Some brides
can focus their attention on ensuring your
even opt to have several colored ribbons
celebrations go as planned. You may find
SPECIAL TOUCHES
hanging down off their bouquets to add
it helpful to talk to the mothers to see
It’s easy to overlook the way your bouquet
an extra artistic flair and to showcase
which style they would prefer, and which
is held together, but don’t forget the fin-
more color.
option they think would work best for the
ishing touches! Most bouquet styles have
Another way to upgrade your bouquet
other ladies.
visible stems, which means that your
is to attach glitz or family heirlooms to the
wrap choice matters, and personalizing
wrap. Going for a glamorous aesthetic?
BOUTONNIERES
this part of your bouquet opens the door
Ask your florist to attach some sparkly
Grooms and groomsmen typically wear
to your creativity and allows you to show
accessories like gemstone brooches or
boutonnieres, also known as “button-
off what makes you unique.
appliques. Or perhaps you’d like to honor
holes,” which are pinned to their left
The standard option for wrapping your
your family history by incorporating some
lapel. But other men involved in your
stems is a satin ribbon in the color of
heirlooms into your bouquet. It could be a piece of your grandmother’s handkerchief, a locket passed down from generation to generation, or even cufflinks from someone special. After the celebrations are over, consider preserving your flowers so that you can insert them into a scrapbook or keep as a token from your special day. Of course, there are professionals who can preserve your flowers to ensure the best quality. Do some research for the best professional preservationist that can encapsulate your flowers and wedding day memories for years to come. Your bridal bouquet is one of the most visible aspects to your wedding-day look, so take the time to think through all of your available options! Your florist will be a wealth of knowledge for you as you decide on all the details and decisions. So, remember to take advantage of them as a valuable resource as much as possible. By putting some extra love and effort into your floral decisions, you will be able to bring a bit of floral flare to your Big Day.
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Wedding Themes CLASSIC, OUTRAGEOUS AND SOMETHING IN BETWEEN
I
t is true that we are living in a world filled with personaliza-
perfect wedding theme. In fact, you may want to emphasize the
tion. You can no longer carry a simple water bottle to the
sports team that you cheer for every Monday night, or even
gym, it must be in your favorite color with your initials embla-
include a few facets of a particular hobby. Wherever your plan
zoned across it.
takes you, there is a multitude of ways to add some of your
Almost everything is personalized, so why would you let your wedding day remain simple and straightforward? It’s only the most important day of your life, after all.
favorite things into your wedding day. Here are a few fun ideas to infuse more of your personalities into your ceremony and reception!
If simplicity is still important to you, then there are a number of glamorous, classic designs that can still set your wedding
FIRST THINGS FIRST
apart. However, if you are craving a little something more, then
Before you begin deciding how to incorporate your theme into
only your own creativity can limit your ideas. Plus, if you work
your wedding, you will need to make a final decision on which
with an inspired wedding planner, then nothing is off limits
theme best represents you as a couple. There are plenty of
(except for unicorns – unicorns may be somewhat problematic.)
places to draw inspiration, like taking a nod from nature or even
As you begin to brainstorm and toss around a few ideas, you
making a list of some of the activities that you enjoy together
may find that you don’t need mythical creatures to realize your
as a couple.
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Here are a few ideas to get those creative juices going!
details like bright flowers and festive
Gilded Age – The Roaring 20s was a
names for your cocktails. Flamingos can
very prolific time in American history,
Black and White – When you want to
be a fun addition to a number of designs
fondly remembered for its flapper dresses,
be somewhat simplistic, a color scheme
to add to your island theme as well. If you
its music and its “let’s all have a good
of classic black and white can add a
really want to go all out, think about a
time” feel. Touches of this era can be
formal air to your wedding, and it can be
sand sculpture, and leave sunglasses on
added to accent your formalwear selec-
accented in a number of ways. Rather
the tables for engaging photo opportunities.
tions, whether it be through fedoras or
than merely utilize the two colors in a reg-
Go Cubs Go – If you love to sit in a
sparkly, intricate headbands. Name your
ular fashion, think about stripes or even
crowded stadium, drinking a cold beer
cocktails after Fitzgerald’s characters,
polka dots. Imagine the unique invitation
and eating your weight in popcorn, you
or set up a Prohibition password before
ideas that you could explore with your
can even bring your love for baseball –
your guests can order their “hooch.” The
designer! And have you ever been to New
or any other sport, for that matter – into
great thing about this theme is that it can
York City and indulged in a famous black
your reception. You don’t have to go full-
fun, but it’s still classy, presenting the
and white cookie? Have some brought in,
blown baseball bats and umpires, but it’s
perfect union between the two. Just keep
or talk to your baker about adding them
a great idea to carry this theme into the
your eyes open for Al Capone!
to your cake or dessert table.
groom’s cake, or even with cupcakes to
All You Need Is Rock and Roll – If
Island Flair – This theme can be
accentuate the cake table. When you’re
you and your partner met at a concert or
especially fun if you will be honeymooning
meeting with your photographer, think about
share the love of this energetic genre,
in the Caribbean or if you have decided to
setting the men up with sports t-shirts
then this might be the theme for you! This
set sail on a luxurious cruise. If you’re
under their tuxedoes, as well as baseball
idea leaves you with a lot of options, as
thinking about palm trees and a playful-
caps, for a few poses. This is also a great
you can narrow down your era of rock
but-relaxed vibe, you can also incorporate
way to get the guys excited for pictures.
music. Are you 80s kids, and love the idea of big hair and blaring guitar solos, or do you find yourself wishing you grew up in the 90s in Seattle? Maybe you are into metal, and you’re not ready to leave your head-banging days behind you. Whatever the case, you can get really outrageous with this theme! Pass out backstage passes to all your guests, with your names and wedding date on them, and go crazy with your cake design. You will also want to consider hiring a live wedding band and giving special attention to the set list. Into the Woods – If you love the feeling of being surrounded by nature, or perhaps you enjoy hiking and camping as a couple, this theme can add a touch of whimsy to your day. Pin some beautifully decorated fairy wings on your flower girl, and instead of rose petals, sprinkle “pixie dust.” The bride and her attendants can wear flowers in their hair, and you can opt for choices like daisies or pale-colored baby roses with plenty of baby’s breath. You can also really bring this theme into your décor, incorporating greenery and garlands. For
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translate to your actual wedding décor?
with flowers and twinkle lights.
If you’re hoping to bring out your wedding
Be especially sure to add some attention
Dreaming of a White Christmas - If
theme as much as possible, then you’ll
to areas that may be a bit overlooked.
your wedding is taking place close to the
want to weave it into as many décor
Your wedding cake table is always a
holidays, then you will want to use this to
ideas as possible. This is where working
given, but nowadays, adding a few finger
your advantage, especially when it comes
with an experienced wedding planner
desserts has become quite popular, offering
to decorations and your formalwear choices.
will come into play. He or she will be
yet another space to work into your
White will be the color of the day, accented
able to let you know if you can push
theme. Also, consider your entrance table.
with shades of red and/or green, and your
the envelope, or if you have gone way
This area can also be spruced up and
flower girl(s) can be snow angels for the
over the top. Plus, years of knowledge
even introduce your theme as your guests
occasion. You can add to the romance
and experience will be key when im-
make their way into the venue.
with cleverly placed mistletoe, and sprigs
plementing your ideas. They may look
Your reception tables are also a won-
of spruce can bring an aromatic flair.
phenomenal on paper, but how will they
derful place to get fun and creative. You
FLORAL & DÉCOR
your centerpieces, think about jars filled
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well as talk to your decorator and floral
GET CREATIVE WITH YOUR CHOICE OF VENUE
designer about centerpieces that will also
When you begin looking at reception
Now, photo booths come with plenty
complement your ideas.
facilities, it’s a great idea to have already
of options, including backgrounds and
can place theme-related favors here, as
black-and-white photos to pop out. To put it mildly, things have really changed.
selected your theme. Of course, if you
scenes that can be selected by your
TIE IN THE MUSIC
have had your eye on a particular venue
guests when posing for their pictures.
As already mentioned in some of our
from the moment that ring was placed
Some companies even create their own
suggested themes, music is an excellent
on your finger, you can easily find ways
scenes, which could apply to your
way to really breathe life into your vision.
to incorporate your theme without any
theme. Additionally, it’s common for a
This might seem like an obvious decision,
difficulty. However, if you are open to a
box of props to accompany your pho-
but with so much planning and other
variety of selections for your facility, then
to booth, or you can bring your own.
wedding-related responsibilities, some
you may want to look at it with your
Think along the lines of beach hats and
couples may not think about blending
theme in mind.
bright-colored sunglasses for a summer
their wedding theme into the ceremony or reception music.
If you have a sports-related theme, imagine if a sporting venue has a room
theme, or maybe masks and beads for Mardi Gras.
Just imagine a magical Disney theme,
that can be used for special events. Or, if
Encourage your guests to dress
complete with Cinderella’s coach, brought
you are keen on a natural theme, what if
with the theme. – This can work especially
to fruition with classic Disney melodies
there’s a reception facility with views of a
well with the black and white option that
played by a string quartet during the
wooded area or a stream? The options
was mentioned earlier, as your guests
ceremony. At the reception, you can liven
are truly endless!
can wear those colors, which can also
things up with an occasional “Kiss the
apply to any other theme revolving around
Girl” or “A Whole New World” mixed into
ENGAGE YOUR GUESTS
a particular color scheme. If you have a
your regular choices.
Perhaps the best and most important way
Hawaiian theme, flowered shirts should
Be sure to meet with your DJ or live
to incorporate your theme is through
come to mind, and you can ensure every-
band to explore your options, and let
engaging your guests. If they can feel as if
one has a lei or two.
them know that you are interested in
they’re a part of what’s going on, then they
If you want to keep your ceremony
extending your theme into your musical
will have a much better time, and your
classic, you can request that your guests
selections. If you’re going with a Broadway
wedding will always be a memorable event.
play to the theme only for the reception.
Baby theme, it doesn’t necessarily mean
Rent a photo booth. – Nothing can
Think about Superman or Batman tees
that your entire reception must be filled
showcase a theme quite like a photo booth.
coming out for a superhero theme, or
with Showtunes. A professional entertainer
When you initially think about a photo
clothing sporting your favorite “Game of
will be able to find just the right mix to
booth, your memories might take you back
Thrones” character. Your guests will never
keep your guests on the dance floor, but
to a little box at an amusement park, where
forget such a unique reception!
still tie in the music that will embrace
you crammed in with your two best friends
Hopefully, you have drawn some inspi-
your theme.
and then waited patiently for a strip of
ration, and you are just bursting with ideas. Set aside some time with your partner to go over some of your favorites and even come up with a few new ones. You can also get opinions from your friends and family before you make your final decision. Above all else, remember that your wedding is a celebration that will not only focus on your love but also on who you are as a couple. Get creative, have fun and let your personalities shine through, you and your fiancé will definitely be happy with the results!
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LEXIE & TYLER Say “I Do” Lexie and Tyler held their wedding ceremony and reception at the same venue, but still wanted the ceremony to feel traditional. A family friend created glass crosses and a gorgeous centerpiece for the altar to bring a church-like feel to the space.
School Pride The couple met at the University of Kentucky, and they made sure to include their alma mater in their reception. Kentucky fans call themselves the “Big Blue Nation,” so instead of a more traditional route, Lexie and Tyler had a UK-themed “BBN” cocktail hour featuring bourbon, beer and nugget pretzels.
Autumn Beauty The reception space is incredibly unique, fea turing woodwork architecture, hand-painted ceilings, tall vases of magnolia leaves and a giant stone fireplace. Lexie and Tyler wanted to make sure the décor was cozy and warm, so they had candles flickering in the fireplace and the entire space draped in warm shades of maroon, gold and deep green for their fall wedding.
Love, Sweet Love Lexie and Tyler share a love of all things food. Lexie also happens to be the lead cake designer at Vanille Patisserie, so they treated guests to unique sweets including a tiered wedding cake, a groom’s cake shaped like a bourbon barrel that actually dispensed bourbon, a full dessert table of sweets and late-night snacks.
Number of Wedding Guests: 125 To see more photos from this Real Wedding, go to chicagostyleweddings.com/real-weddings. WRITTEN BY Emily Conley
Real Wedding Vendors VENUE: University Club of Chicago | PHOTOGRAPHY: Dory L Tuohey Photography | ENGAGEMENT RING: Kruckemeyer & Cohn WEDDING RINGS: Tiffany & Co. | GOWN: Martina Liana via Volle’s Bridal & Boutique | BRIDE’S SHOES: Betsey Johnson FUR STOLE: Betsey Johnson | HAIR: Touché Salon | MAKEUP: Elana Darrus Makeup & Hair | FORMALWEAR: Tom James Company GROOM’S SHOES: Allen Edmonds | BRIDESMAIDS’ DRESSES: Jasmine Bridal via GiGi’s Boutique | STATIONERY: Little Shop of Papers FLORAL & DÉCOR: Fleur | ENTERTAINMENT: Bluewater Kings Band; The CoverGirls Violin Show | CAKES & SWEETS: Vanille Patisserie CHICAGOSTYLEWEDDINGS.COM
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Food Truck Frenzy Whether you’re at an outdoor festival, a farmer’s market or
WHAT KIND OF FOOD TRUCKS ARE AVAILABLE?
even a high-end wedding, these rolling kitchens are clearly
There are a large variety of food truck options customized to fit
having a moment in the spotlight. Food trucks are fun and offer
almost any dietary preference, budget or theme. There is no
specialized food options that are delicious and convenient.
limit to what you and your vendor could come up with to
While there are some logistical considerations required, we
accommodate your guests. Your favorite restaurant may even
think having flavorful tacos, decadent crêpes, gourmet grilled
have a mobile catering option that lets you bring your favorite
cheese or artisanal coffee at your event is worth the challenge.
foods to your wedding guests.
I
t is no secret that food trucks have become very popular.
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Food trucks can offer almost every
flavor (maybe a combination of you and
their wedding receptions because they
type of international cuisine imaginable:
your partner’s childhood favorites?). There
evoke an open, laid-back and welcoming
Mexican, French, Chinese, Thai, Italian
are mobile cupcake trucks specializing
vibe. Using a food truck is also an easy
and more. With trucks that specialize in
in unique flavor combinations with the
way to make your wedding feel per -
childhood staples like hotdogs, ham-
additional possibility of creating a cus-
sonalized and unique. The food at your
burgers, grilled cheese or shaved ice,
tomized recipe just for you. Shaved ice,
wedding plays a large part in setting the
you can keep things casual and unex-
cotton candy and sweet French crêpes
tone for the night, so it’s important to
pected for your guests. If sweet treats
are other great dessert options.
think about the overall effect your menu
are more tempting then savory snacks,
You can also use a food truck to
will have on your reception. Food trucks
then dessert-specific trucks that focus
revive your guests after a long night of
don’t just offer culinary delights, they
on cupcakes, ice cream or baked goods
dancing. Bring in a truck for late-night
also give your guests a one-of-a-kind
may be just what you’re after. There are
eats like mac-and-cheese bites, seasoned
experience they will always remember.
even trucks that serve up specialty bev-
fries, sliders, churros or popcorn to keep
Most food trucks allow guests to cus-
erages, from artisanal coffees to cocktails
your guests fueled for more dancing. If
tomize their orders while the typical
and Prosecco.
your band or DJ has everyone dancing
reception menu is usually limited to only
the night away, they are going to need a
a couple options. Many food trucks also
pick-me-up after a few hours.
contribute to the overall style of a
Maybe you aren’t a huge fan of wedding cake and you want a food truck for the dessert portion of the evening. An
wedding – providing unique décor or fun photo opportunities. Guests will have
off if your wedding is on a warm night.
WHY SHOULD I BOOK A FOOD TRUCK FOR MY WEDDING?
Consider creating a custom ice cream
Many couples choose food trucks for
energetic and social crowd as opposed
ice cream truck could be a fun way to celebrate childhood nostalgia and cool
the opportunity to mix and mingle while in line, which can help encourage an to strict seating charts or standard dinner arrangements. Depending on the number of guests and your menu selection, food trucks may be a cost-effective complement to the traditional plated or buffet-style meal. The ability to customize food trucks means they can accommodate almost any need. Regardless of the size of your wedding, there’s a food truck for you. Food trucks are extremely versatile and can be integrated into nearly any wedding theme. Have you planned your reception in a vintage French style? Consider hiring a French crêpe food truck to enhance the experience. Adding a Latin flair to your celebration? Find a food truck to serve up empanadas or tacos. You can even choose a food truck with a specific exterior – think metallic, antique or a bright and bold color – to fit in with your color scheme. You can also customize the menu to highlight you and your partner’s personalities. From serving your favorite comfort foods to a childhood sweet treat or
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one to a Chicago hotdog or deep dish
you, the menu options can serve as a
pizza to introduce your guests to the
DEALING WITH DIETARY RESTRICTIONS
way to personalize your Big Day.
city’s flavors. If you or your partner are
Whether you and your guests are vegetar-
Don’t be afraid to ask your food truck
from different regions, consider a truck
ian, gluten-free or dairy-free, dietary restric-
vendor if they can add a menu item for
that honors your roots with lobster rolls,
tions shouldn’t be an issue for a food
your event. Most vendors will accommo-
fried chicken or cheesesteaks. What a
truck. There are food trucks that specialize
date special requests as best they can.
fun way to represent your hometowns!
in vegan-friendly menus and gluten-free
With food trucks, the food and drink
If your bridesmaids are up for it, con-
treats. When in doubt, just ask. They’ll
sider ditching the traditional bridesmaids’
have the scoop on preparing gluten-
luncheon in favor of a gathering of food
free sandwiches, crafting a vegan dish or
USING A FOOD TRUCK FOR OTHER WEDDING EVENTS
trucks. You can usually find parts of
whipping up non-dairy ice cream. Chances
town that host several trucks for lunch.
are, they’ll be able to accommodate any
This can be a fun way to let everyone
dietary restrictions you may have.
If you have your reception menu set, but
pick their own favorite food items. Or, if
still love the idea of incorporating a food
you’re planning to host a post-wedding
truck into your wedding festivities, there
brunch or barbeque, a food truck can be
WHAT YOU SHOULD KNOW
are plenty of other ways to do so.
options are nearly endless.
the perfect way to keep things casual and
A single food truck can accommodate
Consider your rehearsal dinner, reserve
laid back. You can use the post-wedding
75 to 100 guests. Since the average
three food trucks to serve an appetizer,
gathering as a way to leave guests with a
wedding has 150 guests, two food trucks
the main course and dessert. Another
lasting memory of your favorite eats. A
might be a good option while also allowing
idea is to highlight regional specialties
food truck specializing in bubbly would be
for a larger variety of food. To really cut
for your out-of-town guests. Treat every-
an ideal addition to any brunch.
down on lines, you may want to hire
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three trucks. You can mix it up and offer three types of cuisines like Italian, Mexican and Chinese. Or go the breakfast, lunch and dinner route. Lots of variety is sure to entice your guests’ taste buds. If you stick with one food truck, make sure you discuss your head count with them to ensure there will be enough food items for everyone to be served. Keep your season in mind. Off-season weddings may come with a less expensive investment, but make sure you think about your guests. Most people won’t trudge through the snow for a cupcake, even from a seriously cute food truck. If you plan on having a summer wedding, make sure there’s shade nearby to keep your guests cool as they order and wait for their food. Make sure your venue is food truck friendly. Trucks need a place to park and a suitable electric outlet to plug into. While food trucks can be offered at both indoor and outdoor events, it may be easier for the truck to pull into an open spot rather than a crowded parking lot. Talk through your ideas with your wedding planner and venue coordinator to iron out the logistics of when, where, and how many trucks you can have on the property. Food trucks require time to set up and tear down, so check with your reception venue about the time allotments before you sign anything. What time can the truck set up? When should the truck be removed? These times are very important when selecting any type of mobile catering. Lastly, creating a specific, limited menu from your food truck’s larger menu may help streamline everything. A smaller menu will speed up the entire process. When guests have only four or five options to choose from, they will order a little more quickly. Having a limited menu will cut down on wait times, help the staff plan more accurately and may keep your costs down as well.
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give my compliments TO THE CHEF Chicago attracts some of the world’s top culinary talent by combining a sincere passion for food alongside the artistic mastery that only a select few embody. When it comes to your wedding day meal, Chicago’s culinary scene is ready to prove that it is in-fact a reality to have high standards when it comes to what your guests will enjoy after you say “I do!”. Amaze your guests by serving them an edible masterpiece that will be talked about long after your Big Day.
Cedric Harden Executive Chef River Roast Chef Cedric Harden is the leading force behind the culinary program at River Roast. Growing up with the natural inclination and desire to cook for his family, Harden realized that he was passionate about bringing people together through delicious dishes. This revelation inspired him to begin his study at the Le Cordon Bleu Cooking and Hospitality Institute of Chicago at the age of 22. After working his way through different kitchens, Chef Harden now uses his culinary expertise to amaze guests at River Roast. With a strong focus on Midwestern comfort food, he thoughtfully creates shareable dishes that are meant to bring joy, and capture the love and warmth of the region’s cuisine. Dish Right: Apple wood smoked chicken, seasoned and served with signature crispy potatoes.
Ben Holt Director of Culinary Operations Jewell Events Catering With degrees in Culinary Arts and Pastry, Ben trained at Second Empire Restaurant in Raleigh for almost 8 years under Executive Chef Daniel Schurr. It was there that he learned the discipline of working hard and always staying true to the craft. Ben entered FOUND LIGHT STUDIOS
the catering world for the excitement and unique challenges that come with working in prestigious offsite venues. With ever changing menus, cuisines, venues and tight timelines, there is never a dull moment in catering. This lively atmosphere feeds into his passion for the culinary arts and gives him the motivation to express his creativity. Dish Left: Summer Salad - arugula, peach, blueberry, mint, shaved parmesan and pancetta collar with blueberry vinaigrette.
Greg Carso Executive Chef The Metropolitan With a widespread wealth of culinary knowledge and 30 years of experience, Chef Greg Carso brings a special flare to The Metropolitan in Chicago’s iconic Willis Tower. After attending Chicago’s Washburne Trade School and La Varenne École de Cuisine in Paris, Carso established himself at Levy Restaurant Group. Soon after, he joined the culinary world of private
Michael Tsonton
clubs that landed him in his current role at the bustling city club.
Executive Chef Ravinia Festival
Carso has celebrated many company-wide awards including Rookie Chef of The Year. He continues to experiment and evolve using cutting edge techniques to provide guests with world class cuisine.
Award winning chef Michael Tsonton is the talented man in charge of the
Dish Below: Chicken Milanese - breaded chicken breast, topped
culinary team at Ravinia Festival. He
with arugula. grape tomatoes and pecorino romano cheese,
oversees all of the versatile dining
finished with a red wine vinaigrette and balsamic glaze.
experiences within the venue including the Lawn Bar, Tree Top, Park View, Ravinia Market and the new rooftop dining experiences that recently opened. As an impacting force in the culinary industry, Chef Tsonton is passionate about bringing a memorable food experience to your wedding celebration. Together, Chef Tsonton and his hardworking staff will turn your festivities into a culinary masterpiece that your guests will rave about for years. Dish Above: House cured salmon gravlax with braised grapes, cucumbers and black pepper-farmers cheese.
Matt Jergens Executive Chef The Gwen Hotel As Executive Chef of The Gwen Hotel, Matt Jergens applies his culinary expertise from different regions of the country and their origin to create unique dishes that guests will savor forever. His lifelong passion for cooking has allowed him to have an extensive career in both hotels and independent restaurants. Jergens oversees all aspects of the luxurious hotel’s food and beverage programs, striving to create cuisine that will tap into diners’ past memories, as well as creating new ones. Chef Jergens states, “Every dish has some kind of thought or story behind it.” Dish Right: Tempura Octopus – sprinkled with rancho gordo salad, salsa tinta and purslane.
Walleska Cianfanelli Executive Pastry Chef Palmer House Walleska Cianfanelli is a renowned international pastry chef who brings a sweet and savory touch to the Palmer House. She specializes in pastries and desserts among other sweets and was awarded the Best Chocolate Sculpture award at World of Chocolate in 2017. Cianfanelli has extensive experience in decorating pastries and plating desserts, as well as assembling dessert buffets for a large number of guests. All of these attributes showcase her passion for the culinary arts and her devotion to the craft. Dish Right: Caged Heart - milk chocolate sponge cake, fresh strawberry confit, milk chocolate mousse and strawberry glaze encaged by a chocolate dome.
Dan McGee Executive Chef Swissôtel Chicago Chicago native Dan McGee uses his 30 years of culinary experience to influence his role as the Executive Chef at Swissôtel Chicago. His love for cooking made him get into the business, but it was his passion for travel and international cuisine that convinced him stay. Chef McGee first began working for Swissôtel Hotels in 1990 and joined the Chicago team in 2008. Beyond his daily role as Executive Chef, he spends much of his time working with the brand team curating seasonal Vitality menus and activations. Chef McGee is recognized as one of the company’s Vitality Cuisine experts and represents Swissôtel nationally and internationally on various press trips. Dish Left: Turmeric rubbed chicken kabobs, red & black quinoa, mango chutney, with shaved apple.
Sweet Slices HOW TO CHOOSE THE BEST CAKE FOR YOUR WEDDING
C
ake tasting may be one of the more exciting aspects of
CHOOSING A BAKERY
wedding planning, but knowing where to start the
With an abundance of cake designers to choose from, it’s
process can be daunting. For most couples, the cake
important that you decide on a bakery that you think is
is the centerpiece of the reception. Your cake is not only an
delicious, and also talented. You should feel confident that they
exquisite feature, but also gives your guests something delicious
can deliver you the cake of your dreams. Once you have nar -
to look forward to during the celebrations. When choosing a
rowed down the selections, schedule a tasting. If you’re trying to
wedding cake, you should decide on a style that matches your
decide between two bakeries, you can schedule a tasting at
wedding theme as well as your own personal preferences. Use
both, but just keep in mind that many places have a fee for
the tips and tricks throughout these pages to help pick out the
tastings. Check with the shop about any tasting charges before
cake that’s a perfect fit for your wedding.
you arrive to avoid any unexpected fees. You don’t want to bite
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into your wedding cake without under-
choose a more personalized flavor com-
the type, color and consistency of your
standing exactly how much it will cost.
bination for the remaining tiers. Consider
frosting. You want to make sure that
choosing more daring flavor combinations
your cake designer knows what you
FLAVOR
such as lemon raspberry, hazelnut praline,
want your wedding cake to look and
Deciding on the flavor of the cake might
cookies n’ cream, coffee or salted caramel.
taste like before deciding on the frosting.
be the most difficult part of the process.
Choosing unique, personalized cake flavors
For example, you might like the way
You want to find something that everyone
will help put a delicious twist on the final
fondant creates sharp, clean edges, but
loves, while making sure you still enjoy
notes of your celebration.
you’re not fond of the actual flavor. Butter-
the cake as well. If you and your partner
cream makes for a better tasting cake,
have different tastes, consider alternat-
FROSTING
but it won’t create as clean of a look. If
ing flavor combinations by tier. You can
When the cake flavors are selected, it’s
your wedding vibe is sleek and elegant,
pick something safe for the largest tier –
time for the icing on the cake – literally.
you may choose to forego the taste in
think vanilla or chocolate – and then each
There is a lot to consider when choosing
favor of the aesthetic appeal of a fondant
your wedding as much as possible.
If your wedding is more modern, you
cake will still tie into your overall theme.
Depending on the style you’ve chosen
might want to go with more vivid colors.
for the décor, you’ll want the cake deco-
An ombre cake will create an eye-drawing
rations to match.
centerpiece. You can keep it simple or
Another thing to consider when picking the frosting is color. If you select darker shades – like black, blue or purple – you
If your wedding is designed with ele-
spice it up with flowers and other dec -
could end up with stained teeth in your
gance in mind, you might want to go with
orations. Including bright, vivid colors
photos after sharing the first bite with
a wedding cake that is more traditional
will insure that your cake matches your
your spouse. Consider choosing a lighter
in style. This might include piped flowers,
desired theme.
accent color that won’t leave noticeable
like roses, or real flowers as accents.
A rustic wedding might lead to a naked
traces behind.
Lighter colors are usually associated with
cake. Naked cakes usually include some
elegance, so stick with a color that matches
type of filling, like fresh fruit, but aren’t
STYLE
the rest of your wedding theme to make
fully frosted on the outside so some of
Your cake should capture the essence of
the cake the centerpiece of your reception.
the “naked” cake shows through. If you’re
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icing. Whatever you decide, make sure the
CAKES & SWEETS
someone who doesn’t enjoy the taste of
The first step is to check the cake
icing, this might be exactly the cake for
pricing at your bakery. Many bakeries
you! And bonus – less frosting means
charge by the slice, which can range any-
less of a mess!
where from $2.50 to $8 per slice. The
The final step in dressing up the cake
price of the cake will depend on how
is the cake topper. You may choose to go
large the cake is, the kind of ingredients
with something more traditional, or you
used and the overall design of the cake.
may think of something that’s completely
When you’re first meeting with your
out of the box. Whatever you choose,
baker, make sure you’re clear about your
you want the cake topper to tie the cake
budget and make selections within your
together. A unique topper can also help
price range.
the cake to stand out.
The list below is a guide for determining just how large a cake you will need,
SIZE
depending on how many people will be
It’s important to know just how many
attending your reception:
people are going to be at your wedding
• 5-inch round: 8 servings
before ordering your cake. Not only do
• 6-inch round: 12 servings
you want to make sure that you have
• 7-inch round: 16 servings
enough cake to feed everyone at your
• 8-inch round: 24 servings
reception, but you also want to ensure
• 9-inch round: 32 servings
that the amount of cake you need is
• 10-inch round: 38 servings
within your budget.
• 11-inch round: 47 servings • 12-inch round: 56 servings • 13-inch round: 67 servings • 14-inch round: 78 servings • 15-inch round: 89 servings Use these serving sizes as a starting point but also check with your cake designer for their recommendations. You want to make sure that there’s enough cake for everyone to enjoy!
DELIVERY There are a few things that you should keep in mind when scheduling the delivery of your cake. First, try to avoid transporting the cake yourself if at all possible. There’s a lot to consider once the cake leaves the bakery and makes its way to the venue. Leave the delivery up to the baker so you don’t have to worry about the cake arriving safely. Plan on leaving extra time for your cake designer to make last-minute adjustments before the rest of your guests arrive. You also need to know how the venue plans on storing your cake. This will ensure that the cake is fresh and 302
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ready to eat once your reception starts. Most professionals suggest that getting the cake to the venue about an hour to an hour and a half before the reception begins is ideal.
EATING THE CAKE If your reception is outdoors, you’ll need a plan to keep your cake as pristine and delicious as possible. This might include doing your cake cutting pictures early so that the culinary staff can take the cake in the back and cut it up to prepare it for serving. Double check that your reception venue has a cool, dry area to store your cake before setting it out for the reception. Before you dig in, make sure your photographer has taken pictures of the cake by itself and any other photos you want with you and your partner. Don’t miss your chance to stuff cake in your partner’s face because all the frosting melted off before it was time to cut the cake!
A SWEET ENDING Your wedding cake needs to be both visually pleasing and delicious. Striking just the right balance between style and substance can be challenging. This is why we suggest thinking through all of the details and decisions before sitting down with a baker to design your cake. After reading this article, talk with your partner about the goal for your wedding cake. Do you want guests to rave about how beautifully designed the cake was, or how scrumptious the cake tasted? Honestly, it can be and should be, both. These priorities are personal to each couple and drive your decisions about the size, flavor and design of your wedding cake. Once you understand what you want from your wedding cake, you will be better equipped to find a baker that can bring all of your cake dreams to life. CHICAGOSTYLEWEDDINGS.COM
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Delicious Decisions A wedding cake is the most traditional type of wedding dessert, but that does not mean this treat has to be dull. Your cake designer can help you decide what works best for your wedding reception and figure out how to create a dessert that not only looks
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sensational but tastes delicious, too! Take a look at some of our favorites that are sure to have your guests wanting another slice.
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Million Dollar Moments H O W T O AV O I D T H E M U N D A N E A N D E L E VAT E Y O U R W E D D I N G P H O T O S
W
hen you hire a photographer for your wedding, you’re entrusting them with one of the most important aspects of your Big Day. Memories fade, but photographs last
forever! Professional photographers are talented artists and they know how to make you look your best for your engagement shoot and your wedding day. But there are also steps you can take to set your photographer up for success. With a little bit of planning, you can make decisions that will elevate your photos and create an inspiring scene for your photographer to capture. Keep reading for some practical tips that will take your wedding photographs from bland to fantastic.
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PERFECT TIMING Even if you plan ahead and account for last minute changes, everything will take longer than you think on your Big Day. It’s important that you build additional time into your wedding day timeline so that you are prepared for any delays, setbacks or extra shots you might want. Ask your photographer if she has suggestions for a specific time of the day to take certain photos so you can come prepared with a photography-friendly wedding day timeline.
TIPS FOR GETTING READY TIME Starting your Big Day by getting ready with your wedding party? If you want to get some shots of this exciting time with your besties, you should plan about 3045 minutes at the end of your getting ready time just for photos. This is the perfect opportunity for your photographer to use that natural morning light streaming in the window for capturing detail shots of your dress and jewelry, plus it will also give you the chance to pose for some group shots. Want an insider’s tip? Wait until you’re actually finished getting your hair and makeup done to take most of those primping photos. It may seem a little fake, but do you really want a photo with your face only half made up, or your hair lopsided and only partially in an updo? Save a few key steps to complete while taking photos, like adding one last decorative hairpin or applying a final dusting of powder or lipstick. Be mindful of any items that might create an eyesore in photos. Whether you’re getting ready in your home or in a packed hotel room, designate a corner where all your girls can stash their belongings. Nothing cheapens a photo like several overnight bags overflowing with brightly colored odds and ends! Pick a spot that will be out of the photographer’s line of sight and hide 308
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everybody’s personal belongings. That
you will take advantage of this short
SNEAK-AWAY SESSIONS
way, your favorite candid shot won’t be
timeframe to capture the most important
Once your day gets going, it doesn’t
ruined by random clutter.
photos. Couples often choose to use
stop! You’ll be surrounded by people
this time to take their “couple” portraits,
and hurrying from place to place, so be
GOLDEN HOUR
the more intimate photos of you two
intentional about grabbing your photog-
The 30 to 45 minute window right before
looking adoringly at one another. Golden
rapher to sneak away for some quick
the sun sets is undeniably the best time
hour is also the ideal time to schedule an
private sessions throughout your day.
to capture magical photos. The sun gives
engagement shoot. Take note of a tricky
Wouldn’t you like to see your reception
off its warmest hues and lights up every-
timeframe: noon to 2:00 p.m. has the
venue when it’s all set up before guests
thing in sight with a glittery soft light. No
brightest sunlight and therefore creates
arrive? Sneak in with your partner and
matter what time of day you’re holding
the harshest shadows and squintiest
your photographer before they open the
your ceremony and reception, be sure to
faces. Avoid taking outdoor photos at
room to your guests. You’ll get some
talk with your photographer about how
this time if possible!
genuine shots of your reaction to the
under the stars. Soft lantern or streetlamp
common element is the group shot. Why
practice twirl on the dance floor. You’ll
lighting is romantic and gives you and
not step it up and try something uncon-
be thankful once the night is over that
your partner much needed alone time to
ventional? Whether this is your classic
you have some photographic evidence
take in the day you’ve just had. Since
family portrait, your bridal party session
of your perfect venue and your photog-
the Big Day is complete and the stress is
or groups of friends during the reception,
rapher will love that you planned a time
over, these photos are some of the most
here are some tactics you can use to
for them to capture all the beautiful
genuine and intimate you’ll capture
breathe new life into your group photos
reception details.
throughout the day.
for visual impact.
Posing
either when you want a break from danc-
GROUP SHOTS WITHOUT THE HASSLE
ing or after your guests have gone home.
While wedding photos can vary dra-
and it can take a little bit of coaxing to
Go outside and create a little getaway
mat ically from wedding to wedding, one
get your family or bridal party out of their
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Another great chance to sneak away for a photo op is at the end of the night,
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shells and looking comfortable. Start putting people at ease by playing music from someone’s phone to get everybody moving, smiling and laughing. Photos can be very flattering when the subjects are in motion – walking towards the camera, laughing while gathered close together or dancing as a group. For bridal parties, experiment with poses beyond the straight line, like semicircles and circles, clusters of smaller groups spread out, differing levels (some sitting and some standing) or turning your back to the camera to catch those special back-of-the-dress details.
Reception Groups Group photos aren’t over once you’ve taken the family and bridal party shots. How about taking one giant group photo at your reception, or capturing other large specific group photos? From college
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BACKDROP MAGIC
buddies and extended family members,
The background of your photos will be
these group shots will give you priceless
just as noticeable as the people in the
memories to cherish forever. What could
foreground! Your photographer will natu-
be better than commemorating this
rally scope out the best settings at your
moment in time with all of the people
venue, but you can help them by thinking
who love you most and came to celebrate
this through ahead of time and creating
your union?
a dramatic backdrop that will look stun-
The logistics of that many people in
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friends and childhood classmates to work
ning in photos.
one photo can get tricky, however, and you should talk to your photographer
Specialty Walls
first if this is something you’d like to try.
Consider asking your floral designer
She may need to bring a special wide-
to create a large flat structure with a
angle lens to make it work, or you’ll have
stand that can serve as a background
to think creatively about your space. Is
wall and cover it in items like flowers,
there a large staircase you can pose
paper pinwheels, tissue poms, balloons,
people on strategically? Can your pho-
vinyl lettering or greenery with a custom -
tographer peer out a window onto a
ized neon sign. You can use this “wall”
wide lawn filled with people? Have your
behind the head table (for all those teary-
DJ help facilitate this group photo process
eyed toast reaction shots) or as a photo
so it goes as quickly as possible with the
booth background for all of your guests.
least amount of fuss.
You can even repurpose a ceremony
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arch as a reception photo op spot! And
and fell in love. For a rustic wedding, be
better. When your background is dark,
don’t forget to take advantage of existing
sure to find a great barn wall to serve as
you might be washed out or details will
backdrops at your venue or in the neigh-
the perfect backdrop.
get lost. Think about renting uplighting
borhood that are just screaming to be included in your photos. For the edgy
from your venue or a lighting designer.
Lighting
Uplighting comes in a variety of colors
couple, a wall covered in bright-colored
This can’t be overstated – the right
and can feature patterns or textures
graffiti is a great photo spot. For a small-
lighting can make or break your wedding
(called a “gobo”) meant to illuminate the
town wedding, take a stop by the town
photographs! In general, the greater the
walls, floors and specific focal points.
sign to commemorate the place you met
number of soft lighting sources, the
Remember that warm colors like pink, purple and orange tend to flatter most skin tones, and you can even get custom lighting designs like a monogram or your last name that you can shine onto a dance floor or prominent wall for a personalized experience. There are plenty of lighting options that go beyond being simply functional – they are beautiful to look at in and of themselves and they’re even prettier in photos! Have you seen how eye-catching string lights can be when they’re draped across the top of an open outdoor space? What about rustic lanterns on tables or hanging from trees, or candles of different heights scattered around in ornate candelabras? String lights can also create a tented ceiling structure when draped from a central pole or hung from above, and they look especially romantic when they glow from behind sheer fabric. Remember to always check with your venue to see if they allow open flames before you plan on lighting hundreds of candles. There are plenty of non-flame options that look real!
ACCESSORIES TO THE RESCUE A few props and accessories go a long way in making your photos unique and special! Toss items are not limited to your ceremony exit – consider bringing items like confetti or even a champagne bottle to pop for other occasions, like pictures with your girls or group shots with your family. Of course, don’t forget that sparkler shot! You could also bring along a few cute signs to hold in photos, 314
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you can put it on the ground so you
or “Thank You” to be featured on your
won’t get dirty for any sitting poses. And
thank-you notes later on. If you’re getting
don’t forget about a specialty hanger for
married in the winter, think about a
those dress shots – there are a lot of
glamorous fur wrap or silk scarf to keep
cute options for personalized hangers
you warm and add some texture for
that will match the style of your gown
snow-filled outdoor photos. Want one
and really pump up your photos.
of those beautifully curated invitation
Your most personal “accessory” might
suite photos? Remember to bring dec-
be your fur baby! Don’t overlook your pets
orative accessories to style this look
when it comes to your Big Day. Whether
with your photographer, from coordinat-
just in the engagement shoot or on the
ing ribbons to a fancy ring box and
wedding day itself, be sure to include your
loose flower petals.
furry friends in your photos and you’ll
The furniture in your photos shouldn’t
always look back with fondness on your
be an afterthought. While you can find
family photo. The best way to elevate
something to sit on anywhere, you can
your wedding photos and engagement
get an elevated look in photos by bringing
shoot is to put in a little advance thought
along or renting a vintage velvet chair or
and then let your true personality shine.
chaise lounge. A cute coordinating blanket
Remember to relax and enjoy the day.
is also a lifesaver, especially for engage-
You favorite photos will most likely be
ment shoots. You and your partner can
the ones capturing the candid moments
snuggle together wrapped up in it, or
between you and all your loved ones.
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A
fter your Big Day winds down, your photos will be some
feel. Are they warm and welcoming? Do they have a sense of
of the most precious keepsakes. But let’s face it, unless
humor and charisma that instantly puts you at ease? This is
you’re a professional model, getting in front of the
the person who will be trusted with capturing the most intimate
camera can be nerve-wracking. While it is perfectly natural to
moments from your Big Day. So, it is important to make sure
feel a bit awkward, the last thing you want is for that anxious
you feel comfortable being vulnerable in front of them.
energy to show in the photos. Luckily, there’s plenty you can do
The best photographers are pros at making you feel as if
to ditch the nerves and achieve picture-perfect posing. Read
you have known them for years. Often, your photographer will
on for some tips and tricks to help you make the camera lens
do plenty to get to know you. But your relationship with them
your friend.
should be a two-way street. Just think about it, would you rather have your photos taken by a good friend or a complete
GET TO KNOW YOUR PHOTOGRAPHER.
stranger? Learn as much as you can about your photographer
When you book your photographer, try to learn as much about
as early as possible. It will do wonders for calming you down
them as possible. Think about how their personality makes you
once the camera starts flashing.
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BOOK AN ENGAGEMENT SESSION.
whether the photographer is a good
Your photographer will doubtlessly have
Engagement shoots are a trend that has
match and can deliver the kind of photos
many poses in their arsenal to bring out
been picking up steam in the last several
you’re looking for. Ultimately, you can
the best in you. But that doesn’t mean
years. We’re talking more than just the
think of your engagement shoot as “prac-
you can’t bring your own ideas to the
“prom pose” pictures in a studio. These
tice” for the main event.
table! If you have a pose that you're
creative engagement sessions are a beau-
absolutely dying to try, let your photog-
tiful way to kick-off your engagement,
rapher know. Better yet, bring in some
and the photos can be used in a multitude
photos that can be used as a reference.
of ways. But engagement sessions do
WONDERING WHAT TO DO WITH YOUR HANDS?
Your photographer will be happy to help
more than provide adorable material for
One of the most common questions cou-
bring your vision to life.
your save-the-dates. They also give you
ples ask when being photographed is,
This is when you will truly know
Keep in mind that some poses, while
and your fiancé a chance to be in front
“What should we be doing with our
they might look stunning in magazines,
of the camera before the Big Day. Plus,
hands?!” This is a very valid question.
don't exactly translate well in the real
it's yet another wonderful opportunity to
Many times, the instant you step in front
world. Just be prepared for your photog-
connect with your photographer, with
of the camera, your arms suddenly feel
rapher to make modifications or adjust-
the added benefit of seeing them in
like paperweights dangling uselessly at
ments. Their entire job is to make you
action. In fact, many photographers
your side. You need to give them some
look and feel your absolute best, so try
include engagement sessions as part of
purpose. But you don’t have to make it
to keep an open mind to the suggestions
their packages for precisely this reason.
too complicated. In fact, it could be as
they give you, and don’t take it personally
After all, this is also their chance to get
simple as both of you using your hands
if they tell you to pose differently.
to know you more as a couple.
to help support the bouquet, throw your
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ring hand out in front of you and show
care! It’s a great way to instantly lighten
A good remedy is to start developing
off your bling or even delicately resting
the mood and will no doubt make for
better body awareness.
your hands on each other’s shoulders or
some wonderful shots.
waists. Again, your photographer will
In fact, you can start right now! Take stock of the position of your body. How
guide and assist you, but the main take-
CHECK YOUR POSTURE.
are you sitting? Slumped forward with a
away is to always make sure your hands
When you feel nervous, it’s natural for
curved spine and slouchy shoulders? That
are engaged.
your body to start caving inward. But
simply won’t do! Take a moment to draw
If all else fails, don’t be afraid to
poor posture, along with being bad for
your shoulders back, opening up your
throw them in the air like you just don’t
your spine, is extremely obvious in photos.
chest and lifting your chin. Draw your belly button to your spine to give yourself an instantly tighter stomach. Make a conscious effort to sit and stand up straighter. The sooner you make good posture a habit, the easier it will be to maintain when the wedding day jitters kick in. But maintaining good posture doesn't mean you have to be tense. Occasionally, check in to make sure you aren’t holding any unnecessary tension. Remember to relax your shoulders and unclench your jaw.
FIND YOUR WAIST. Often, when your photographer instructs you to “place your hands on your hips,” they’re technically referring to your waist. Your hips are usually the widest part of you, so placing your hands here might make you look bulkier than you really are. But if you rest your hands right above your hips on your waist, you instead draw attention to your smallest width—which can actually slim you down.
LEARN FROM THE PROS. Start studying photos of your favorite celebrities and take notes on their posing styles. If you look at enough pictures, you will start to notice a few patterns. First, rarely do they stand facing the camera straight-on. Instead, they often position themselves slightly angled, with one knee bent or crossed over the other. Their arms float delicately away from their sides, to avoid making them look bigger. Sometimes, a hand is placed on a slightly cocked hip to create flattering curves. 318
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The truth about good posing is that it’s often uncomfortable. As many pho-
Gaga are great reference points. They
tographers will tell you: if you’re not sore,
are masters of making the camera work
then you’re probably not doing it right.
for them. But you don’t need to be a
That idea might seem counterintuitive at
superstar to take pictures like one. You
first. But sometimes what feels awkward,
can learn from their techniques and use
actually looks way more natural than you
them in your own photoshoot.
might think. The best thing you can do is
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Red carpet pictures of Kim Kardashian, Emily Blunt, Lupita Nyong'o and Lady
to try and relax into the pose if possible.
BUT…IT’S HARDER THAN IT LOOKS.
can be a bit uncomfortable, you should
At the same time, posing is much easier
never be in pain! If your photographer
said than done. It’s one thing to under-
poses you in such a way that is excruci-
stand how your body should be posed.
ating, don't suffer in silence. Let them
It’s another thing entirely to actually do
know so they can adjust and accommo-
it. Don’t be fooled by the way models
date you.
On the other hand, while some poses
seem to effortlessly slide into crazy-
Also, if you are confused by what
photogenic poses. Remember that these
your photographer wants you to do,
individuals are trained professionals
don't hesitate to ask for clarification. A
who make their careers out of being
good photographer should be able to
photographed. They had to work hard to
give you directions that are easy to both
make it look so easy.
understand and execute.
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PRACTICE, PRACTICE, PRACTICE!
but it can also be tricky to get right!
Although you might feel a bit silly doing
need to be in a lunge position, so that
it, practice your poses in front of a mirror
most the weight is supported by the
Whew! Tired yet? Don’t worry – the
until you feel confident about them. This
thigh rather than just the arms. This will
more you practice, the easier it will
is an especially good idea for poses
provide more stability for the one being
become. Just remember, the perfect dip
that are a bit more complicated – like
dipped back. Meanwhile, practice keep-
won’t happen overnight.
dancing shots. The famous “dip” is a
ing your spines and neck completely
romantic and timeless moment to capture,
aligned to make you streamlined. Try
Typically, you or your partner will
not to crane too much when going in for a kiss as this might create an awkward angle.
SAVE YOUR MUST-HAVE POSES FOR THE END. Of course, you want each and every picture to turn out spectacular. But if there are any shots or poses that you want to just knock out of the park, save them for the end of your session. Chances are, you’ll be stiffest at the beginning when you’re most nervous. But once the camera starts firing, you’ll get warmed up in no time. As your confidence grows and you build rapport with your photographer, you’ll fall into those dream shots much more easily. The same applies to the day of your wedding. While your engagement shoot will give you some much-needed practice, you'll most likely still be a bundle of nerves when the Big Day finally arrives. So, it's usually best to do the more traditional portraits with your bridal party and family before moving on to the magazine-quality creative shots.
BREAK-IN YOUR SHOES. Whether you’re wearing flats or heels, find time to break-in your footwear. Trust us, you do not want your wedding to be the first time you wear your shoes. The last thing you need is blisters that will leave you dreading being on your feet all day. And you definitely don’t want pictures of you hobbling down the aisle. After all, how terrible would it be to look back on your photos only to remember how much pain you were in? If you’re worried about scuffing up your shoes before the wedding, try just wearing them around the house. A few 320
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hours over the course of several days should do the trick.
IT’S ALL IN THE WAY YOU SMILE. It’s common for people to not like the way their smiles look in photos. But there’s a reason for it! A strained, artificial smile is easy to detect – especially if it doesn’t quite reach your eyes. At the same time, over-smiling might cause you to squint in a way you otherwise wouldn’t. A beautiful, natural smile comes from true emotion – which will only happen if you let yourself relax. Ironically, if you are feeling a bit tense, one of the best ways to get a genuine smile is by fake laughing. Letting out a forced “ha-ha” will feel strange, but that’s the whole point! It will feel so funny that you’ll actually end up laughing for real. And those shots will be priceless.
NEVER UNDERESTIMATE CANDIDS. Keep in mind that not all the photos from your Big Day need to be posed. Your photographer will be there every step of the way, capturing hundreds of special moments between you and your new spouse. In fact, for many couples, their favorite photos end up being candid shots that truly capture the essence and joy of the day.
REMEMBER WHAT IT’S ALL ABOUT. While being photographed can be somewhat uncomfortable, don’t get too hampered down with the need for perfection. Remember, this is your wedding day! Try to keep the focus on what’s truly important: capturing the pure love shared between you and your new spouse. If you stay calm and relaxed, your delight and excitement will naturally come through in your photos – no matter what pose you strike! CHICAGOSTYLEWEDDINGS.COM
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The Most Important Playlist of Your Life
T
he cake flavors and fillings have been selected, and
You have probably heard it said that “music is the soundtrack
you have made the painful decision between London
of our lives,” and it can never be more true than at your
and Paris for the honeymoon. You found the perfect
reception. Think about it. We have all been to those receptions
horse-drawn carriage, and you somehow managed to find
where the dance floor is almost always empty, or when the
bridesmaids dresses that no one has made a single complaint
couple insists on playing an endless stream of songs that
about – openly.
almost no one has ever heard before. It makes the reception
Certain wedding planning aspects are higher on your priority list, or there are those that you just can’t wait to do because
awkward, and it definitely doesn’t create a lasting memory for your guests.
the process is actually going to be fun. Making important
While your guests come to your ceremony to witness you
decisions regarding the music at your reception checks off
exchange your vows, share your first kiss as a married couple
both of those boxes.
and wipe at happy tears throughout it all, they come to the
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reception to celebrate, and dance the night away. So, it is your job to ensure that they have a phenomenal time. This can rely on the music, along with the interactive abilities of your DJ or band leader. So, when you are considering your vision for your ultimate playlist, there are a few things that you will want to keep in mind.
WORK WITH YOUR DJ. Selecting your DJ is perhaps one of the most important decisions you can make when it comes to your reception. A professional DJ is an entertainer who will wear many hats during your celebration. See your DJ as your Master of Ceremonies, who will not only play appropriate music but will make announcements, interact with your guests and keep that dance floor full! It’s true that you will want to work with a DJ who will assess your guests and instantly get a read on the type of music that will work best for your particular crowd. However, when you have a varied guest list, a little bit of this and some of that is often in order. Yet, you will need a professional with numerous weddings under their belt to be able to play the right song at the right time. Once you have met with a few different DJs and have finally made a decision, opting for a true professional with abundant experience, you want to immediately
begin
discussing
the
type
of music that you hope to play at your reception. If you thought you were off the hook, think again! Just because you are working with a professional doesn’t mean that your input won’t be required. Of course, you can provide minimal information and leave it in the hands of your DJ, but years later, you won’t want to watch your reception video and wish that you had taken more time in selecting particular music. CHICAGOSTYLEWEDDINGS.COM
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DECIDE IF YOU WILL HAVE A COCKTAIL HOUR. Sooner rather than later, decide if you’re going to incorporate a cocktail hour. This is a time when photos are being taken at the ceremony site, or if everything will be held at the same venue, when the space is being rearranged to accommodate the reception, including dining tables and a dance floor. At this time, your guests can gather and even snack on hors d'oeuvres, also indulging in a cocktail or a glass of wine. Envision this as a laid-back time, where guests mingle and discuss how much they loved the ceremony. For the cocktail hour, choose low-key music to give a chill vibe. A lot of DJs go with what is commonly known as “elevator music.” Another trend is to play the instrumental versions of popular Top 40s songs. It’s always fun to watch guests exclaim, “Oh wow, I didn’t know this was Lady Gaga!”
INVOLVE YOUR PARTNER IN THE DECISIONS. Even if you are tempted to start scribbling down every song on your “Favorites” playlist, be sure that you make this a couple’s decision. Sit down when you have plenty of time to discuss the music for the reception. Consider your guests, as well as the particular genres of music that you prefer. Both of you should feel responsible for the decision that you eventually make, ensuring that you’re equally happy with the selections that will play. Don’t be afraid to mix it up, either. It’s not a problem to go from smooth jazz to a little heavy metal – just pass out the earplugs at the door!
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few selections to your reception repertoire
Father’s Dance, just to name a few.
as well. A truly cultural wedding can
However, you can also request specific
involve many different aspects, and the
songs for other dances with people who
more you include, the more authentic it
are important to you as well. If you have
will feel – to both you and your guests.
had a best friend for 10 years and you
You may have seen a Jewish wedding
have “a song,” then set it up for a mem-
where the Krenzl is performed, or maybe
orable moment during the reception. The
where an intricate African step dance
same can even go for friends from school
takes center stage. If older family mem-
– play your school “fight song” and see
bers are present, displaying your religion
who can still remember the words!
or nationality can be a great source of
The most important thing to remember
pride for them, and it also illustrates that
is that you can never honor too many peo-
even if you may be living in a modern
ple at your reception. If playing a certain
world, you will never forget your back-
song does the trick, then go for it!
ground. This can often be a happy, emo-
LIVE MUSIC, DJS & DANCING
Dance, the Mother’s Dance and the
tional moment for the entire family,
BRING IN SOME CULTURE.
especially when they see your partner
Culture is an important part of any wed-
joining in as well.
ding, but if you have chosen to really
If you happen to be a couple who
display your heritage through your attire,
come from completely different cultures,
the food and other facets of your wedding,
then it can be really interesting to add an
then it’s only natural to want to include a
interactive dance from both backgrounds.
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Think of group dances that both cultures
allow your guests to dance to songs with
theme, there’s no better way to incorpo-
can try for the first time, which will engage
which they are more familiar, but it will
rate it than by playing a few perfectly
all of your guests. You can also consider
make the cultural moments even more
placed songs throughout your reception.
playing a few songs in different languages,
significant and memorable.
If you want to remind your guests that they’re at a Hawaiian Luau, then throw
which can be a very unique touch.
“Over the Rainbow.” If you’re giving a
retain such songs as an occasional
THINK ABOUT INCORPORATING YOUR THEME.
feature or highlight. Not only will this
If your wedding reception has a particular
“Alexander
If the majority of your guests are not of the same culture, you may want to
on Israel Kamakawiwo‘ole’s version of nod to Broadway, then who can resist Hamilton?”
What’s
your
name, man? The genre of the music can even reflect your theme. Your guests will love to hear a little Swing to complement your Roarin’ 20s theme, or even some Madonna to tie in the 80s era vibe.
INCLUDE SOME FAN FAVORITES. Whether you love them or hate them, there are some “get out and dance” songs that have made their way around the wedding circuit for the last decade or two. You know the ones we’re talking about, from “The Cha Cha Slide, Part 2” by Mr. C to "Apache (Jump on It)" by The Sugarhill Gang. They probably aren’t something that you will throw on in the car on your way to work, but they are songs that will fill up the dance floor and get everyone moving.
MAKE A “DO NOT PLAY” AND A “PLEASE PLAY” LIST. For every wedding, there are typically two important lists that you will want to hand over to your DJ eventually. After much care and thought, these lists will dictate two imperative things regarding the music at your reception: what to play and what not to play. • The “Do-Not-Play” List – This list will include songs that, even if a guest should request, the DJ will not play. Maybe you have just never liked Bon Jovi, or perhaps you never want to hear “YMCA” again during your lifetime. These are things that your DJ needs 328
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so don’t ever take a chance on play-
played while they were driving to the
send someone across the dance floor,
ing whatever pops up on your random
lake or a particular set of lyrics that
demanding that the song be changed.
Pandora or Spotify playlist. Give your
really tug at the heartstrings.
You’re not hanging out with friends at
selection of songs a lot of thought, and
You will never create a more important
a club where you have to endure
let it change and grow in the months
playlist, so be sure to give this the time
tracks that you really don’t like, only
leading up to your wedding. Some cou-
and consideration that it deserves. It’s
hoping that the next selection will be
ples start keeping a list in the Notes
your moment, your vision and your wed-
better. This is your reception, which
section on their smartphones months
ding. Let the music that you select
means you are ultimately in charge.
out, so they don’t forget the song that
embody it in every way imaginable.
LIVE MUSIC, DJS & DANCING
to know, so that you never have to
• The “Please Play” List – This list will include selections that you actually want the DJ to play during the reception. Very special songs for the First Dance, the Father’s Dance and the Mother’s Dance will be set ahead of time. The “Please Play” list will be comprised of regular songs that you would like to hear during the “open” portion of the reception, when you’re hoping to join your friends on the dance floor and sing every word. Maybe a particular song holds a special meaning to you and your girlfriends from college, or perhaps a song brings back memories of growing up with your brother. When you create a short list of this music, your DJ will typically fit them into the playlist whenever possible, or during certain requested moments.
ALWAYS LISTEN TO THE LYRICS. At the end of the day, don’t forget to pay close attention to the lyrics of the notable songs that you have selected. The words are what give the songs meaning, which is more than likely why you have chosen them in the first place. Some couples even select a particular tune as their official wedding song. You can incorporate this in all sorts of fun ways. Have a line of the lyrics stamped on your napkins, or it can even be emblazoned across a banner that hangs above the cake table. Creativity is always key! Your wedding will be one of the most important days of both of your lives, CHICAGOSTYLEWEDDINGS.COM
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Arrive In Style ransportation is often lost among the extensive checklist
Numbers will vary from vendor to vendor, but usually a party
that comes along with planning your wedding celebra-
bus can carry anywhere from 12 to 55 passengers while a
tions. But that doesn’t mean it isn’t equally as important
stretch limousine offers seating for 8 to 10 people. Maybe a
as everything else! There are many details to consider while
classic car or trolley is more your style, make sure to review all
thinking of transportation for your Big Day. In this article you
of the available options. Another item to consider is riding in a
will find the ins and outs of everything you need to know and
separate vehicle from the bridal party after the ceremony for a
remember about wedding transportation, while still adhering
few private moments with your new spouse.
to your allotted budget.
It’s easy to forget that you will need to plan transportation before AND after the ceremony. An optimal time to start
FIGURING OUT THE DETAILS
looking at transportation options is around four months
When thinking about transportation between wedding venues,
before your wedding day. At this point, you should know
start with a headcount of people who will be needing transpor-
where the wedding is going to be and the size of your bridal
tation. Include you, your future spouse, the bridal party and any
party. Also keep in mind the time of year your wedding will
other friends and family members that will need transportation.
take place. If you are having a spring wedding, transportation
This information is necessary to know while talking with vendors
services will be in high demand during the months of April
because it will help you decide the size of vehicle you will need
and May due to high school proms. It is never too early to
on your Big Day. Keep in mind, the number of passengers may
start looking at your transportation options. It’s also a good
also affect the price.
idea to get price quotes from a few different companies
Before reaching out to vendors, ask yourself what kind of transportation you want to use for yourself and the bridal party.
before signing a contract. This will give you an accurate comparison of services and costs.
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a more unique form of transportation like
transportation service you need for your
For out-of-town guests, check with the
a trolley or double-decker bus. You will
wedding day.
hotel that you have booked your guests’
leave your guests in awe and they will
• What forms of transportation do you
room block to see if they offer any type
appreciate your thoughtfulness.
of shuttle service. Most of the time this
offer? • What vehicle sizes and color options
not responsible for a rental car service
HONEYMOON TRANSPORTATION
unless there are circumstances where
On the day after your wedding, it is time
you feel it is necessary. Provide a link to
to head to the airport from the honeymoon
a local car rental company on your wed-
suite. Check to see if the hotel or resort
ding website so guests can rent a car
you are staying at offers a shuttle service.
while planning their flights.
This amenity is often a free and convenient
is free or at a low cost to you. You are
TRANSPORTATION
OUT-OF-TOWN GUESTS
way to get to the airport. Or, start your
WEDDING GUESTS
married life in style by choosing a limou-
If you are wanting to transport your guests
sine or private car service to get to and
from your wedding ceremony to the recep-
from the airport.
are available? • What different amenities do your vehicles offer? • Are alcohol or snacks provided in the vehicle? • Tell me more about my chauffer and his/her background? • Can I pick a playlist? • When will you arrive to pick up the guests? • Can I decorate the vehicle?
tion, consider renting some sort of party bus that will be able to accommodate
QUESTIONS TO ASK
everyone. Again, check to see if the com-
It is critical that you ask the right ques-
any sort of breakdowns or delays?
pany you’re using offers any packages
tions, but where do you even begin? Below
• What are the cancellation or refund
for renting multiple vehicles. If you want
you will find a list of questions to get you
to think more creatively, you could choose
started, to ensure you’re getting the
• What insurance is available to cover
policies? • Can we meet in person to finalize?
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Types of Honeymoons F R O M R E L A X AT I O N T O E X P L O R AT I O N – T H E R E ’ S A P E R F E C T D E S T I N AT I O N F O R E V E RY D I F F E R E N T TA S T E .
Y
our honeymoon has the potential to be one of the
lace up your hiking boots and explore miles of scenic trails. Or,
most, if not the most, memorable trips of your life. Get
if you like wine and picturesque landscapes, the West Coast is
inspired from the following adventures, and take the
where you should go: Northern California’s gorgeous Wine
time to plan a getaway that appeals to both you and your
Country. Book a comfortable stay at a nearby bed and breakfast
spouse – a trip that will create special and unique experiences
after indulging in the offerings of one – or several – of the region’s
you will cherish forever.
400 wineries.
The Laid-Back Loungers: Tropical, beachside honeymoons
The Romantics: Get swept up in the history and old-world
are always in style. It’s the ideal setting to unwind from the
charm of Europe. You can’t go wrong with Paris, Rome, Venice
stress, soak up some sun and concentrate on one another.
or Prague, but there’s an abundance of hidden gems that also
Mexico’s vast array of all-inclusive hotels offer great value. If
deserve some love. For the best of both worlds, try a river cruise
ou prefer to stay domestic, you can relax by the ocean at one
that docks at large metropolis areas, while also letting you
of the many beautiful beaches and lovely hotels Florida and
explore lesser known but equally beautiful cities and towns.
California have to offer. If you are bored by the beach, consider
Keep in mind, you don’t need money to make memories. If
activities like whale watching (great in Los Cabos, Mexico) or
finances are an issue, plan a trip close to home. Spend a few
swimming with wild dolphins (Oahu, Hawaii).
days at a quaint, little Inn, or enjoy one of the many resort spas
The Domestic Roadtrippers: Hit the open road and feel the wind in your hair. Venture to any of our 61 national parks,
nearby. You have the rest of your lives to travel – what matters now is fully enjoying one another’s company.
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Gibsons Bar & Steakhouse ...............................6, 7
Appease, Inc ....................................................83
Ceremony & Reception Locations
Bridal Brigade ..................................................84
Allegra Banquets.............................................104
Gwen Hotel, The .............................................143
DRYtini............................................................89
Armour House Mansion & Gardens ....................130
Hawk’s View Golf Club .....................................192
I Do Plus Two...................................................84
Arrowhead Golf Club .......................................126
Heritage Ballroom at the Centre of Elgin .............134
Sophia Bella Bridal............................................91
Bolingbrook Golf Club......................................112
Heritage Prairie Farm .......................................202
Brookfield Zoo ...............................................209
Hilton Chicago/Oak Brook Hills Resort ................108
Burr Ridge Hotels ...........................................191
Hilton Orrington/Evanston .................................159
Café la Cave ..................................................211
Holiday Inn Chicago Mart Plaza River North .........155
Cantigny Park & Golf .......................................177
Holiday Inn Itasca............................................152
Carleton of Oak Park, The ................................136
Hotel Arista ....................................................187
Chicago Athletic Association..............................107
InterContinental Chicago Magnificent Mile............101
Chicago Gaelic Park ........................................114
Kimpton Gray Hotel + Boleo.............................135
Chicago History Museum..................................110
Kimpton Hotel Allegro ......................................109
Chicago Marriott Naperville ...............................171
Kimpton Hotel Palomar Chicago ........................145
Chicago Marriott Southwest at Burr Ridge ...........191
La Villa Banquets ............................................186
Chicago Park District .......................................132
Lake Lawn Resort ...........................................154
Chicago Public Library – Harold Washington Library..182
Lehmann Mansion...........................................146
Crystal Bride, The..............................................31
Chicago’s First Lady Cruises .............................144
Lincolnshire Marriott Resort ..............................195
Dame Couture..................................................52
Chicago’s North Shore CVB ..............................168
Loews Chicago Hotel.......................................129
Diana’s Bridal Boutique ......................................33
City Hall ........................................................137
Loews Chicago O’Hare Hotel ............................189
Eva’s Bridal International ....................................53
Clubhouse, The...............................................194
LondonHouse Chicago.....................................111
Eve J. Alfillé Gallery & Studio ..............................59
Concorde Banquets.........................................173
Makray Memorial Golf Club...............................206
Jenny Yoo Collection .........................................19
Congress Plaza Hotel, The................................157
Manzo’s Banquets...........................................120
Kathryn’s Bridal ................................................25
Cotillion Banquets ...........................................181
Mayne Stage..................................................164
Luxe Bridal Rack ..............................................21
Crowne Plaza Chicago Southwest at Burr Ridge ...191
Metropolis Ballroom.....................................14, 15
State Street Jewelers ........................................37
Crystal Ballroom & Lounge, The ........................163
Metropolitan, The ............................................113
Veiled by ChaCha Bridal Boutique ........................52
Doubletree by Hilton Chicago Alsip.....................122
Mid-America Club, The ....................................119
Volle’s Bridal & Boutique ....................................51
Drake Oak Brook, The .....................................207
Midwest Conference Center ..............................184
Wedding Dresser, The........................................55
Drury Lane ....................................................124
Millennium Knickerbocker Chicago.......................99
Dupage Convention & Visitors Bureau.................205
Mirage Four Points Sheraton .............................172
Eagle Ridge Resort & Spa ................................201
Murphy Chicago, The.......................................125
Eaglewood Resort & Spa .................................147
Mystic Blue Cruises .........................................106
Elite Private Yachts ..........................................106
Naper Settlement ............................................203
Empress Banquets, The....................................175
Oaks, The – at Gibsons Bar & Steakhouse ..........165
Studio Stÿl.......................................................90 Visage Joli Makeup & Hair Chicago .....................80 White Lotus Weddings .......................................85 Zazú Salon ......................................................81
Bridal Fashion Aisle Chic ........................................................23 Alexis Kay Designs Bridal & Formal Wear ..............50 All About the Gown by Judy................................54 Bella Bianca Bridal Couture ................................17 Belle Custom Atelier & Bridal Boutique .................54
White Dress Bridal Boutique ...............................35
FORMALWEAR Formally Modern Tuxedo ....................................63 Groomsman Suit, The ........................................62 Jojayden .........................................................61
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Grand Victoria Casino ......................................185
Fulton Market Kitchen ......................................167
Odyssey, The..................................................183
GOWN PRESERVATION
Galleria Marchetti – La Pergola .........................8, 9
Odyssey Chicago River ....................................106
Austin Preservations ........................................282
Galleria Marchetti – The Pavilion........................8, 9
Odyssey Lake Michigan ...................................106
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Paramount’s Meyer Ballroom ............................158
Johnson Studios Ice Sculptures.........................294
Park Hyatt Chicago..........................................127 Pazzo’s at 311 ...............................................149
Entertainment
Pinstripes ......................................................153
BANDS & ORCHESTRAS
Prairie Landing Golf Club..................................148
Bluewater Kings Band......................................327
Ravinia Festival ...............................................2, 3
H.Y.P.E. Productions, Inc...................................325
Renaissance Center.........................................213
JoeSounds Music ...........................................326
Ridge Hotel, The.............................................174
Standing Room Only Orchestra..........................326
River Roast ....................................................133
DJS
Rolling Green Country Club...............................190
Chicago Wedding DJs .....................................327
Rookery Building, The......................................169
H.Y.P.E. Productions, Inc...................................329
Salvatore’s Ristorante ......................................105
Midwest Event Solutions...................................328
Seven Bridges Golf Club ..................................166
RED Weddings........................................310, 311
Invitations & Stationery Amore Creative...............................................269 Coqui Paperie ................................................270 DBY invitations ...............................................270 EJD Design....................................................271 Invitations by Design........................................271 MAXE Designs................................................269
Jewelry Benchmark ......................................................BC Eve J. Alfillé Gallery & Studio ..............................59 European Jewelry .............................................61 Lasso .............................................................62 State Street Jewelers ........................................37
Silver Lake Country Club ..................................193 Skydeck Chicago ............................................121
Floral & Décor
Spirit of Chicago .............................................106
Artistic Blooms ...............................................285
Photography
Stan Mansion .................................................131
Avant Gardenia ...............................................280
Amanda Mae Visuals .......................................320
Swissôtel Chicago .......................................10, 11
Johnson Studios Ice Sculptures.........................294
Ashley Galminas Photography ...........................315
Taureaux .......................................................204
Kensington Florals & Events..............................266
Bethany Kay Design Studio...............................319
Thompson Chicago .....................................12, 13
Northern Greenhouses Floral & Event Design .......281
Trump International Hotel & Tower Chicago .......IFC, 1
Phillip’s Flowers ..............................................284
Venuti’s Banquets & Ristorante...........................4,5
Yanni Design Studio ........................................279
Volo Restaurant Wine Bar .................................176
DANCE FLOOR DESIGN
Wandering Tree Estate .....................................151
Yanni Design Studio ........................................279
Warwick Allerton Hotel Chicago .........................123
FLORAL PRESERVATION
Dan Voss Photography .....................................315 Duron Studio..................................................312 Elena Cuellar Photography ................................318
Austin Preservations ........................................282
Culinary Services CAKES & SWEETS
Gift Registery
Amy Beck Cake Design ...................................302
Bloomingdale’s, The Registry .............................IBC
Emma Mullins Photography...............................321 Erin Hoyt Photography .....................................314 Hadassah B. Photography.................................321 Jasko Omerovic Photography............................313 Kenzie Leigh Photography ................................317 Kristin Bernice Photography ..............................308 Mangata Studios.............................................312
Bakester Patisserie, The ...................................302 Bittersweet.....................................................299
Guest Accommodations
Ocken Photography.........................................313
Quintessential Cake, The ..................................303
HOTEL ROOM BLOCKS
OkBritknee Photography...................................319
Urban Icing ....................................................303
Carleton of Oak Park, The ................................136
Rachael Schirano Photography ..........................320
Vanille Patisserie .....................................300, 301
DuPage Convention & Visitors Bureau.................205
RED Weddings........................................310, 311
CATERING
Guesthouse Hotel, The.....................................210
Rick Aguilar Studios ........................................309
Bauer’s Catering .............................................146
Gwen Hotel, The .............................................143
TWA Photographic Artists .................................308
Hilton Chicago Oak Brook Hills Resort ................108
UnPosed Photography .....................................314
Holiday Inn Chicago Mart Plaza River North .........155
Zazú Media......................................................81
BellaRu Catering .............................................293 Chicago Food Truck Hub ..................................292 Jewell Events Catering .....................................291
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Palmer House, a Hilton Hotel ............................115
Hotel Versey...................................................212 Trump International Hotel & Tower Chicago .......IFC, 1
EVENT STAFFING
PHOTO BOOTHS AirBooth Social...............................................318
Carol’s Event Staffing.......................................294
Honeymoon & Travel
Instant Party Photo Booth .................................309
FOOD TRUCKS
Apple Vacations ................................................96
Midwest Event Solutions...................................328
Chicago Food Truck Hub ..................................292
Pompano Beach Club ......................................333
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Rehearsal Dinners, Brunches & Events
Gino’s East – Wheaton ....................................241
Volo Restaurant Wine Bar .................................237
Grand Victoria Casino ......................................238
Walton Room, The – by Rosebud Restaurant.......237
312 Chicago..................................................228
Guesthouse Hotel, The.....................................231
Wandering Tree Estate .....................................239
Arrowhead Golf Club .......................................240
Gwen Hotel, The .............................................232
Warwick Allerton Hotel Chicago .........................237
Biaggi’s Ristorante Italiano - Algonquin ...............237
Hilton Orrington/Evanston .................................239
Biaggi’s Ristorante Italiano - Deer Park ...............237
Hofbräuhaus Chicago ......................................238
Rentals
Biaggi’s Ristorante Italiano - Naperville ...............240
Holiday Inn Chicago Mart Plaza River North .........232
Blue Peak Tents..............................................287
Biggs Mansion ...............................................228
Hugo’s Frog Bar & Fish House ..........................232
Midwest Event Solutions...................................328
Blue Door Farm Stand .....................................228
Kimpton Gray Hotel + Boleo.............................232
Step It Up Rental ............................................286
Blue Door Kitchen & Garden .............................228
Kimpton Hotel Palomar Chicago ........................232
Carleton of Oak Park, The ................................240
La Storia .......................................................232
Che Figata .....................................................240
La Villa Restaurant & Banquets..........................233
Chicago Athletic Association..............................228
Lockwood Restaurant & Bar .............................233
Chicago q......................................................228
Loews Chicago O’Hare Hotel ............................239
Chicago’s First Lady Cruises .............................229
LUXBAR........................................................233
City Hall ........................................................229
Metropolitan, The ............................................233
Clubhouse, The...............................................240
Mid-America Club, The ....................................233
Cochan Volant Brasserie...................................229
Millennium Knickerbocker Chicago.....................233
Coco Pazzo ...................................................229
Murphy Chicago, The.......................................234
Coco Pazzo Café ............................................229
Naper Settlement ............................................241
Congress Plaza Hotel, The................................229
NoMI ............................................................234
Crystal Ballroom & Lounge, The ........................239
Oaks, The – at Gibsons Bar & Steakhouse ..........241
STYLIST
Curragh Irish Pub, The .....................................229
Odyssey Chicago River ....................................234
Wedding Dresser, The........................................55
D.O.C Wine Bar – Lombard ..............................240
Orso’s Restaurant............................................234
WEDDING CONSULTANTS
Drake Oak Brook, The .....................................241
Pazzo’s at 311 ...............................................234
Bethany Moore Events .....................................264
DuPage Convention & Visitors Bureau.................205
Pinstripes – Chicago .......................................234
Big City Bride .................................................257
Eaglewood Resort & Spa .................................237
Pinstripes – Northbrook ...................................239
Effortless Events .............................................261
Erie Café .......................................................230
Pinstripes – Oak Brook ....................................241
Gilded Aisle, The .............................................265
ETA Restaurant + Bar at Loews Chicago Hotel ....230
Quartino Ristorante & Wine Bar .........................235
Glamour & Lace Events ...................................263
Event Room at Fox Run Golf Course ..................238
Ravinia Festival ...............................................239
Farmhouse Chicago.........................................230
River Roast ....................................................235
Fig & Olive – Chicago .....................................230
Rock Bottom Restaurant & Brewery ...................235
Forbidden Root...............................................230
Salvatore’s Ristorante ......................................235
Fulton Market Kitchen ......................................230
Sepia ............................................................235
Galleria Marchetti – La Pergola .........................231
STK Chicago ..................................................235
Gibsons Bar & Steakhouse – Chicago ................231
Talbott, The....................................................236
Gibsons Bar & Steakhouse – Rosemont .............238
Taureaux .......................................................236
Gibsons Italia..................................................231
Terrace 16.....................................................236
Gino’s East – Barrington ..................................238
Thompson Chicago .........................................236
Gino’s East – Chicago .....................................231
Tuco & Blondie...............................................236
WEDDING EVENTS
Gino’s East River North ....................................231
Untitled Supper Club .......................................236
Complete Wedding Expo, The............................244
Gino’s East – Rosemont...................................238
Venuti’s Banquets & Ristorante..........................241
Illinois Bridal & Wedding Expo ...........................254
Transportation Classic Wedding Car........................................331
Videography Amanda Mae Visuals .......................................320 RED Weddings........................................310, 311 TWA Photographic Artists .................................308 Zazú Media......................................................81
Wedding Services
H.B.I.C. Weddings ...........................................267 Kensington Florals & Events..............................266 Lillian Rose Events ..........................................260 LOLA Event Productions...................................259 Preoccupied Bride ..........................................266 Sarah Kathleen Events .....................................258 Soirée Style Events .........................................258 Wedicity Wedding & Event Detailing ...................256 You Name It Events .........................................256
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