Texas Metro News

VOL.8 NO. 16 January 15, 2020

SEN. COREY BOOKER ends 2020 presidential bid

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MY TRUTH

HAPPY CENTENNIAL!

Making education a priority

By Cheryl Smith Publisher

By Norma Adams-Wade

Know better, live better

When you are young, you think you are going to live forever. Danger doesn’t bother you…this is your world and others are just living in it…You can beat anything and anybody...You are invincible.

So, why should you worry about anything? Nothing is going to happen to you.

But, if you live long enough, you start thinking about some of the choices you made and if you didn’t before; you think about how blessed you were to have parents or someone who prayed for and over you and sought to give you guidance when you thought you knew everything, when actually in the whole scheme of things, you knew so very little.

Which brings me to my truth.

I never got the chance to be that child who let my parents know that I was smarter than they were. There were things my mom didn’t tolerate and I just didn’t have the guts to try her. Conversely, Alayna did think she was smarter. And while clearly someone was praying for her safety and well-being, I on the other hand, was praying that I could walk up on her. I just wanted to catch her one time. Just once. I wanted to see her doing something that she had no business doing and I was going to catch a case and teach her a lesson that would stay with her forever and Amen!

Since I see things differently the older I get, I feel compelled to help those who come after me see a clearer picture. Sure they can go out and do something stupid or detrimental to their well-being but if they cross my path and I am aware, at least they See MY TRUTH, page 12

I WAS JUST THINKING...

Guiding Light Ahead

Citizen, alumni and elected officials gather in front of South Oak Cliff High School.

Special to the Texas Metro News Photos by Monique P. Stone On a brisk winter morning hundreds gathered in Oak Cliff for the ribbon-cutting and celebration of the reopening of the newly renovated South Oak Cliff High School on Saturday.

The gathering included Dallas Independent School District Superintendent Michael Hinojosa, Dallas Mayor Eric Johnson, Dallas ISD staff, alumni, community leaders, parents, students and supporters.

The program included remarks by Dr. Hinojosa,

Principal Willie Johnson, Dallas ISD District 5 Trustee Maxie Johnson, SOC Alumni, and a performance by SOC Choir.

In addition to the presentation of the history of SOC High School by Gary Blair, SOC class of 1998; there were proclamations by Mayor Johnson, U.S. Rep. Eddie Bernice Johnson, Sen. Royce West, Rep. Carl Sherman Sr., Rep. Toni Rose, Dallas County Commissioner John Wiley Price and Dallas city council member Carolyn King Arnold.

The keynote speaker was Dr. Frederick D. Haynes See SOC, page 4

South Oak Cliff High Principal Willie Johnson

Freda Ross celebrates 25 years in radio From Staff Reports

Veteran journalist Freda Ross, a graduate of the University of North Texas, recently celebrated 25 years with Cumulus Media.

Ms. Ross joined WBAP in 1994 as assignments editor and was soon promoted to assistant news director, then news director in 2015.

The multi-award winning journalist started her radio career in her hometown of

Sulphur Springs, Texas.

Before coming to WBAP she was news director for KETR Radio Station at Texas A&M University in Commerce, Texas.

She has served on the Board of Directors of the Texas Associated Press Broadcasters and is involved several non-profit organizations.

The entrepreneur also has her own line of jewelry.

Freda Ross

Photo: Sarah Ahamad

I have always loved lighthouses.

I have tons of pictures, souvenirs, and decorative replicas of them.

Lighthouses seem to have Ralph Harper a magnetic pull about them – an aura that seems to say, “Come heather. Rest awhile from your journey. I’m happy that my light guided you here.”

I was just thinking ... man/ womankind has had significant individuals who have been lighthouses for the rest of us throughout the ages.

This week, we commemorate one of those individuals whose light shone forth continuously during his impactful life cut short too soon, too painfully, too senselessly.

The light of Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. ‘s life could not be snuffed out by an assassin’s bullet that sought to silence him and leave us who loved him powerless in darkness.

That plan backfired on April 4, 1968 on that now infamous balcony in Memphis, Tennessee.

We all know the story. When Dr. King died, his voice drew louder, his power stronger, and his guiding light became perpetual for the ages.

I was just thinking of Dr. King when I stumbled across information about a new book by the forwardSee THINKING, page 5

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Senior citizens and drug use FROM THE CAPITOL

BY CONGRESSWOMAN EDDIE BERNICE JOHNSON

One of the crucially important things that we as a society must do is ensure that our population, particularly our seniors, does not fall victim to the prescription drug abuse explosion that is ravaging our state, and our nation. As a legislator and as a trained health professional it is a subject that is of particular importance to me.

It is widely recognized that the vast majority of seniors, those blessed to have

lived sixty-five years and more who become addicted to prescription drugs do so accidently. Far too frequently, simple mistakes are made that must be avoided. Seniors, or anyone else for that matter, should never take prescription drugs without sufficient light to determine precisely what they are about to consume.

In America seniors comprise approximately twelve percent of the population. They, however, consume nearly thirtyfive percent of all prescribed

medications and thirty percent of substances and health aids that are purchased without a written prescription.

As most people age the number of prescribed medications and over-thecounter remedies they consume increases, recorded data and experience informs us. Fiftyseven percent of women who reach 65 years of age use more than five prescribed medications or other healthrelated aids weekly. The percentage for men in the same age group is forty-four percent.

The imperfection of our healthcare delivery system complicates the problems that seniors encounter when purchasing and using

prescription drugs, and other remedies. Consumers are bombarded with television and internet commercials promoting prescription drugs and other substances that include information that in some instances is misleading.

Often, the individual promoting a health-related substance is wearing a white jacket to suggest that he or she is a medical professional when in reality the individual is a paid actor without any medical or health training. The producers of the advertisement know full well that many viewers, especially the aged, do not notice the small written note saying that the presenter is not a health professional or

physician.

One of the practical steps that can be taken to minimize mistakes is getting concerned family members, particularly younger ones, involved in the prescription drug delivery process. They should ensure that all substances are labeled, and that they are handled and consumed properly.

If a member of your family is living in an assistant living facility or in a nursing home make sure that those whose job it is to care for them know that you are concerned. Ask to see a list of the medications that your relative or the senior you care about takes. A single inquiry by you can positively impact the wellness of a loved one.

Become familiar with the treatment processes of those you care about, those who helped to meet your needs when you were younger and when it was task to help you. It is now your time to assist them. Educate yourself about organizations such as the National Institute on Aging, and secure their recommendations on the proper and prudent care of the elderly. It is a decision that you will not regret!

*Congresswoman Johnson represents the people of the 30th Congressional District of Texas in the United States House of Representatives. A highly-regarded legislator and health professional, she chairs the House Committee on Science, Space and Technology.

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EDITORIAL

Trump committed to war without end?

It has come to this. An impeached president — still pending trial in the Senate — orders the assassination of one of Iran’s leading generals across the world where he is meeting with the leader of Iraq, a supposed ally. He does so without consultation, much less approval, of the Congress. Besieged at home, he lashes out abroad.

This president ran on the promise that he would end the “endless wars “in the Middle East. Earlier, he ordered and then wisely called off bombing strikes on Iran, saying that he did not want a war. Now he claims that he has acted to stop a war, not start one. He is either deliberately misleading the American people or he is deluding himself. Assassination of a foreign official is not the road to peace; violence almost inevitably begets violence. He has acted on what his own officials call “razor thin” evidence, shocking his own military advisers.

U.S. presidents now claim the right — and have the capability — of targeting and assassinating anyone in any place, foreigner or citizen, if they decide — on the basis of secret and often scanty intelligence — that person may be considering an attack on U.S. allies or soldiers or

representatives sometime in the future.

They call this potential threat evidence of an “imminent attack” to pay mock respect to the international law that they are trampling.

General Qassim Suleimani is portrayed as a terrorist with American blood on his hands. But he was not a stateless terrorist. He was a high official in a foreign government with which we are not at war. Assassinating him is an act of war. Ironically, Iran and the Shiite militias in Iraq that Soliemani guided were leading — if unacknowledged — allies in the fight against ISIS, who were largely Sunnis.

Similarly, those who attacked the U.S. on 9/11 were Sunnis, almost all from Saudi Arabia, funded largely by Saudi money. The Taliban in Afghanistan are Sunni. The attack on Yemen is led

by Saudi Arabia, which is Sunni. Iran fought against ISIS in Iraq and Syria.

Yet, somehow, it has become Trump’s leading target.

The road to this escalating conflict can be traced back to Trump’s perverse hatred of all things achieved by Barack Obama. One of his first acts was to pull the U.S. out of the Iran nuclear pact, over the objections of our allies and his own military advisers. He ramped up sanctions on Iran, seeking to force

KEEPING HOPE ALIVE

The Reverend Jesse Louis Jackson, Sr., founder and president of the Rainbow PUSH Coalition, is one of America’s foremost civil rights, religious and political figures.

them to surrender to a “better deal.”

The result has been escalating tensions and violence, as Iran has demonstrated — in attacks on Saudi oil facilities and on tankers in the Persian Gulf — that it has the capacity to strike back.

Now, after the assassination, the entire region girds itself for the retaliation that has already been promised.

This is utter folly. Under George Bush, the U.S. destabilized this region with its invasion of Iraq. That calamity has fostered escalating violence across

South Oak Cliff, III of Friendship West Baptist Church.

Then there was a special presentation by Dominique Alexander, president Next Generation Action Network, followed by a reception and campus tours.

South Oak Cliff High underwent a $52-million upgrade, which includes roof, window and exterior upgrades; band, chorus, dance and theater arts spaces; cafeteria and administrative area expansion; new competition and auxiliary gymnasium; football practice field and locker room enhancements; renovation of classrooms, courtyard and infrastructure for technology upgrades. The project was completed as part of the 2015 Bond Program.

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Mr. Alexander provided insight into

the region. President Obama added to the mess seeking regime change in Syria and in Libya, spreading the chaos.

Trump was right when he said it was time for the U.S. to get out of the Middle East. We have no stake in the spreading conflict between Sunni and Shiites. We have no desire to send the hundreds of thousands of troops needed to win a war or enforce a peace. All we are doing is squandering American lives and resources in an armed presence that simply adds to the violence without leading to a resolution.

Why has Trump abandoned his campaign promise? Why did he abandon his wise decision not to strike Iran earlier?

The only thing that has changed is that he has been impeached. Is he ramping up violence abroad to distract from the overwhelming evidence of his offenses? Is he using the U.S. military as a political campaign prop?

The next move is now in Iran’s hands. If the regime reacts predictably by striking back, Trump’s assassination will lead to escalating violence. Eye for an eye, tooth for a tooth, and soon all are left without sight and without teeth. Iran could — if its leaders can

rise above their grief and their anger — use this moment to take an initiative for peace, calling on our allies to join in convening a negotiation, opening a path that leads to less violence and greater exchange.

Trump may not wish to respond, but surely our allies in Europe would jump at the chance.

Clearly Congress must assert its constitutional war powers and limit the license of this or any president to wage war — or to assassinate foreign leaders — on a whim.

It must insist on public hearings that review the basis for the assassination.

We need major hearings on what we are doing in the Middle East and how we begin to get the troops home. The Congress needs to pass a renewed war powers resolution instructing the president to bring the troops home, not send ever more of them to the region.

If the Congress cannot curb a rogue president, then this Republic is in deep trouble. And the American people and its soldiers are headed deeper into wars without victory and without end.

(You can write to the Rev. Jesse Jackson in care of this newspaper or by email at jjackson@rainbowpush.org. Follow him on Twitter @RevJJackson.)

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the entire process:

After a November 2015 gas leak at South Oak Cliff High School, the President of Next Generation Action Network, Minister Dominique Alexander, got involved. He organized seniors, David Johnson, Teah Mitchell, Landon Finley, and Lizzett Godinez to protest & stage a walkout the declining conditions of the school. Various leaks, mold, asbestos, HVAC problems, and more were present as the property had not been repaired since its opening in 1952. These four courageous students were later known as the “Fab Four.”

One of our Fab Four students, David Johnson, a senior and quarterback at South Oak Cliff High School, initiated a student walkout on December 7, 2015. He used Peyton Manning’s famous on-the-

field battle cry, “Omaha” to signal the student body that it was time to take a stand.

Approximately 500 students walked out of class onto the front lawn of the school and proceeded to march and protest. From that point on, history was made and a movement was birthed ultimately changing the conversation regarding South Oak Cliff and other schools with similar problems. Dallas Independent School District was forced to look at equity in the southern sector of the district thanks to the advocacy work of the students, SOC Alumni Bear Cave, SouthWest Coalition, NAACP, and Next Generation Action Network (NGAN).

Under the tutelage of these organizations, the students did many things to gain the attention of

the district. They attended numerous Dallas ISD Board of Trustees monthly meetings, camped outside the building overnight, and canvassed the neighborhood for additional support determined that change would happen and that it started with them. By the time 2016 rolled around, Maxie Johnson, father of David Johnson, started the South Oak Cliff (SOC) Parent Coalition which joined the advocacy and added momentum to the fight for a better school. After months of advocacy, the District agreed to remodel the SOC building.

Negotiations would be intense starting at $13 million. The major concern was for the extent of the work because the students, their parents, and the community wanted South Oak Cliff to have the See South Oak Cliff, page 6

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Will money rule?

Democrats started this Presidential campaign season with more than 20 candidates.

Eventually, it dropped to about a dozen, with, so far, only five of those “qualified” to appear on the next debate stage. But debate performance doesn’t seem to matter much. Both Senator Kamala Harris and former Obama cabinet member Julian Castro having had excellent debate performances, and yet they have still dropped out of the race.

It’s a money thing. With just $9 million in the bank, Senator Harris said she couldn’t see her way clear to the nomination given her extremely limited resources. Castro, matching Harris in grace and reflectiveness, said: “It just wasn’t our time.” He, too, felt he did not have enough money in the bank to compete. It almost certainly would have helped these candidates qualify if they had the resources, say, of former New York Mayor Michael Bloomberg, who pumped $100 million into his campaign in just one month!

In fairness, though, it is essential to note that Senator Bernie Sanders raised a whopping $34.5 million in the fourth quarter of 2019 alone.

Mayor Pete Buttigieg and former VP Joe Biden raised more than $20 million in that quarter, and Senator Elizabeth Warren came close. The deadline for filing finance reports is later this month, so I’m cautious in concluding based on news articles and partial reports. Still, generally, those who have something to crow about put their numbers out there early.

And for some, money isn’t the only issue. Did they meet the thresholds the Democratic party set for debate qualification? Do they and their advisers think they can win? What are the polls saying? So even though Kristen Gillibrand had $14.9 million in the bank when she dropped out of the race last August, she was not polling well and failed to qualify for the September debate. Meanwhile,

that they have more time to go in-depth answering questions. Still, if it’s an all-white debate stage, DR. JULIANNE MALVEAUX what does that say about progress in this nation?

Senator Corey Booker did not qualify What does it say about the for the last debate, but he is hanging Democratic Party, which presents itself in there. as a big-tent party that has embraced Although Booker and entrepreneur diversity?

Andrew Yang are still in the race, the For Democrats, there are three keys Democratic field is mostly white, and to winning this election. First, Dems the January debate stage on January must engage “new voters,” including 14, 2020, in Des Moines, Iowa is young people and first-time voters. likely to be all-white. The white folks Next, Dems must monitor the rules on the stage may be “qualified”, but around elections so that they do not I find them no more qualified than, discriminate and scrutinize the ways say, Julian Castro and Kamala Harris. people are removed from the voting Their greatest flaw was the inability rolls. Finally, and most importantly, to compete in this multi-million dollar Democrats must place significant effort cacophony of voices. on getting out the vote in November (and during the primaries), and new voters and especially communities of color, must be targeted. Election protection organizations have the monitoring issue covered, and there are likely to be massive GOTV (get out the vote) efforts led by civil society organizations.

But what engages new voters?

They must feel that the political process reflects them. Already Neither Harris nor Castro will suffer Latino voters are concerned that much for dropping out of the race. Democrats aren’t vying for their vote.

Some say that Castro will run for And African American voters think that governor of Texas. Harris has three the Democratic Party takes them for years more of a Senate term, and granted. she is an effective presence in Capitol To engage new voters, perhaps Hill. I didn’t like seeing either of them Democrats need to examine their rules dropping out of the race, but the loss is to embrace more candidates of color. ours, not theirs. The way the election And they need to fight for legislation cycle works, candidates can get a big that makes it easier to vote. Democrats boost if they can win either Iowa or like to call themselves candidates of New Hampshire. But with the debate the “underdog.” But when billionaires qualification set so high, voters in those like Steyer and Bloomberg come states will not have the opportunity to sauntering through the door, concern see some great possibilities in action for the underdog seems to go out of the because they don’t qualify for the window. debates.

Julianne Malveaux is an author and To be sure, it was useful to narrow economist. Her latest project MALVEAUX! the field of candidates from an unwieldy On UDCTV is available on youtube.com. For number to a more manageable one. booking, wholesale inquiries or for more info And candidates all appreciate the fact visit www.juliannemalveaux.com

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thinking Dallas-area author, motivational speaker, philanthropist, mentor, and businessman Ralph Harper. Here’s how Harper describes his book on Facebook.

“I have written a book that is intended to address the plight within the Black American culture and community over the next fifty years.”

The book title went through several changes and the writer and editors settled on: Own the Change: How Our Children Will Lead the Next Cultural Movement.” The cover displays overlapping profile photographs of Abraham Lincoln, Martin Luther King Jr., and Barack Obama. The unspoken message seems to be: here is greatness that you, too, and emulate.

Yes, the project -- covering 50 years -- does sound extremely ambitious.

Some might even say the goal seems unreachable.

But what I like about Harper’s endeavor is his lighthouse approach.

“It’s about guiding our children to the future,” he says in another promotional piece.

Harper is seeking to lay out a foolproof path down which new generations, mainly AfricanAmericans and underserved cultures, can reach secure futures for themselves and our America.

And Harper lays out detailed plans covering 50 years of guidance for our children and their children – from January 1, 2019 to December 31, 2069.

Harper, a Dallas-area transplant born in Birmingham, Alabama, calls his overall endeavor The 2060s

Project. It has various components, and the public can explore the farreaching endeavor at www.the2060s. com and more about Harper at www. ralphharper.com. The book takes the reader from black America’s beginnings in slavery to the pinnacle of America’s first African-American president. It also lays out distinct principles necessary for young people to adopt on their journey to make America the “perfect union.”

We can all use a little more light on our pathway. Thank you, Abraham Lincoln. Thank you, Martin Luther King Jr. Thank you, Barack Obama.

Lighthouse keepers.

Media mogul Oprah Winfrey is known for a much-repeated quote: “When I look at the future, it’s so bright it burns my eyes.”

Norma Adams-Wade is a veteran, awardwinning journalist, graduate of UT-Austin and Dallas native. She is also one of the founders of the National Association of Black Journalists (NABJ) and was inducted into the NABJ Hall of Fame.

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JANUARY 15, 2020 METRO BRIEFS

DA responds to bail reform editorial

In response to the Dallas Morning News Editorial Board’s January 5, 2019 piece entitled “Dallas needs bail reform, but not a policy that puts violent offenders back on the streets,” I would like to clarify the mechanics of the bail system and to provide the community with transparency regarding the progress and vision surrounding bail reform in Dallas County.

As District Attorney of Dallas County, I am committed to striking the critical balance between ensuring community safety and respecting the due process rights of those people who have been accused of a crime.

The bail system should ensure that dangerous defendants are prevented from hurting the community – but not that poor defendants are kept in jail because of their economic disadvantages – pending the resolution of their cases.

This is the vision that I championed before being elected DA, and it is

the one that continues to guide my efforts as my office works towards making Dallas a safer and more just community for all.

For a fair and balanced bail system to operate, efforts to reform are required from all criminal justice system stakeholders. The Editorial Board’s critiques are not so much invalid as they are too narrowly focused. As the Board points out, police officers alone should not bear the responsibility of criminal justice reform.

In fact, no one part of the criminal justice system should. For the community to be safe, partners in the criminal justice system and community must collaborate to achieve such success, and when preventable crimes do occur, the spotlight needs to be focused on how we should work together and each do our part.

When a person is arrested in Dallas County, they are brought either to the

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same amenities as any other school.

This was a constant fight because at first renovation plans only covered the inside of the building, things like the plumbing system and the roof. Funding and scope for the project gradually increased as the students along with their support groups continued to apply pressure.

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Dallas County jail or to a suburban jail. Pursuant to the principles of both the U.S. and Texas Constitutions, a magistrate, either in the county jail or that suburb, reviews the arresting officer’s affidavit to determine if there was probable cause for the arrest. If the magistrate does not determine probable cause existed, the person is released. If the magistrate finds probable cause, the arrested person is entitled to a bail hearing before a magistrate within forty-eight hours.

This is the step in the process where

In February 2016 DISD agreed to $25 million. By May, the students had gotten it to $40 million. Finally, in October 2016 the board voted 6-3 to increase the budget to $54 million for a full renovation.

Classes were moved temporarily to Village Fair while South Oak Cliff went under construction. Many challenges arose in renovating the well over a 60-year-old building.

On May 4, 2019, Maxie Johnson was elected Dallas ISD school board trustee of District Five. After his election, he fought to get eight million dollars more for the South Oak

the Editorial Board expressed concern, but in doing so, misrepresented a critical detail of the bail process: at the initial bail hearing, neither a defense attorney nor an attorney representing the District Attorney is present.

The magistrate judge alone sets the bail that they deem appropriate, using their discretion to assess the facts of the case, the arrestee’s prior criminal history, the arrestee’s financial affidavit, and the results of the arrestee’s risk assessment (a tool designed to help determine the likelihood the person will return to court as well as be rearrested for a new offense).

Since taking office, I have been working to help change the process by having both defense counsel and a representative of the District Attorney’s Office present at all initial bail hearings to ensure that all aspects of due process and safety – including a risk assessment – are fully considered in the determination of bail. But as the

DA, I lack the authority to unilaterally make such a change.

At the DA’s Office, we are aware of our ability to impact people’s lives for better or for worse through our work, and we take seriously our duty to balance the safety and due process rights of all community members. We are also humbled by the fact that we alone do not hold the key to creating a more just Dallas County, as no criminal justice reform effort can succeed without a system-wide commitment to transformation. That means that my role is a necessary – but not sufficient – ingredient in the recipe for a safer, more just Dallas County.

We encourage all our partners to work together to reform the Dallas County bail system, as we all have a role to play in order to succeed.

Jo h n C reu zo t D a lla s C o u n ty C rim in a l D istric t Atto rn ey

Cliff High School project bringing the total to $62 million. The students remained at the Village Fair location for one year and an additional unforeseen semester in order to get everything just right.

South Oak Cliff High School, the Fab Four, SOC Alumni Bear Cave and Next Generation Action Network (NGAN) joined together and created a unique and historic moment in DISD history. Other schools in the District, especially south of the Trinity River now have a fighting chance to fight for bond funds for their schools because of these courageous students and the

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A Trichologist’s Prospective about Scalp Oil ABOUT YOUR HAIR

BY DR. LINDA AMERSON

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Many consumers have asked me these questions: Do I need to oil my scalp? I have heard that it clogs your scalp, what should I use when my scalp is dry?

Now to give you a Trichologists prospective of oiling the scalp. When there is a scalp malady/condition, yes you need to address your scalp.

African Americans have approximately 90,000-140,000 sweat glands.

When the sweat dries, it leaves a film or residue on the scalp which is sodium buildup.

This sodium buildup is not removed or cleansed from the scalp, in many cases, as often as it should.

Many consumers neglect shampooing their hair and scalp for 3-4 weeks, or longer, to hold on to a trendy hairstyle. Sometimes it is laziness.

Resulting in dry hair, dry scalp, an excessively itchy scalp which leads to tender scalps, erythema, inflammation, and irritation just to name a few. This is when oiling of the scalp and hair becomes routine after shampooing.

On the other hand, there are some consumers who have over-active sebaceous glands, where their scalp produces more oil. Frequency of shampooing should become common practice.

In addition, in the Indian community, I have several clients who share with me about applying oil to their scalp and hair for shine and hair re-growth.

Lastly, many natural hairstylists will instruct their client who wear twists, and locks to postpone shampooing their hair and scalp for 6-8 weeks to preserve their style.

I disagree with this recommendation when there is a scalp condition. The scalp condition needs to be addressed first, then the trendy hairstyle second.

More professionals need to realize this

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Feeding The Needy, host, Michael “Hollywood” Hernandez, 1641 Corsicana St, Dallas. 3-5p., Sundays.

37th 2020 A Tribute to Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr., Naomi Bruton Theater, 1309 Canton St. 10a. Student Performance. Tickets: Box Office: 214-743-2400.

Dr. MLK, Jr. Celebration Black Laughs Matter, Staring Arnez J., Theater at Grand Prairie, 1001 Performance Pl. 8p. Tickets: AXS.com.

Dr. MLK, Jr. Celebration, Yvonne Orji, Majestic Theatre, 1925 Elm St. 8p. Tickets: AXS.com.

37th 2020 A Tribute to Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr., Morton H. Myerson Symphony Center, 2501 Flora St. 7:30p. Tickets: Box Office: 214-7432400.

The Kinsey African American Art & History Collection, African American Museum 3536 Grand Ave. Till 3-1-20.

2020 Martin Luther King, Jr. Parade: Sign Up, for info contact: La Ronda Bacon or Natashia Cooper at the King Center, 214-670-8418.

JANUARY 15 Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Birthday Wreath Laying Ceremony for Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Community Center, 2922 Dr. MLK. Jr. Blvd. 12 noon.

Wednesday Night Worship, Speaker: Rev. Michael Fisher Pilgrim Rest Missionary Baptist Church,1819 N. Washington Ave.7-8p.

AKA Founder’s Day Celebration, host AKA Xi Omega Chapter, Sandaga 813, 813 Exposition Ave. 7p-2a.

JAN 16 - FEB 2 “The Rat Pack Lounge”, Granville Arts Center, 300 N Fifth Street, Garland. 7:30-9:30p. Tickets: sa1. seatadvisor.com.

JANUARY 16 Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Workforce Opportunity Fair, J. Erik Jonsson Central Library, 1515 Young St. 11a-3p.

DPD Listening Session w/ Chief Hall & Councilman Atkins, Dallas Public Library Highland Hills, 6200 Bonnieview Rd. 6-8p.

The Cliff Annual Awards & VIP Reception, host Oak Cliff Chamber of Commerce, Emcee Rep. Yvonne Davis, The Kessler Theater, 1230 W. Davis, 5:30-8p. Info: Mr. Cooks, 214943-4567 x202.

Ribbon Cutting State Re. Jessica Gonzalez, host Oak Cliff Chamber, 400 S Zang Blvd. #1214. 5:308:30p. Info: Zanir Ali, 469-826-3291.

2020 Festival of Laughs, The Theatre at Grand Prairie, 1001 Performance Pl. 7-9p. AXS.com.

State of the District Press Conference, host Councilman Casey Thomas III, Well Med Senior Activity Ctr, 3107 W. Camp Wisdom # 170 &175. 10a.

Celebrate Duncanville, host Duncanville Chamber of Commerce, Hilton Garden Inn, 800 N. Main St. 6-10p. RSVP: 972.780.4990

Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Welcoming Communities and Immigrant Affairs Panel Discussion, Volunteer Now, 2800 Live Oak St. 2-3:30p.

Kunta Kinteh Island Film Screening, By Elvin Ross, Paul Quinn College, 3837 Simpson Stuart Rd. 7:30-9:30p. Tickets: Eventbrite.com.

Downtown Dallas Comedy, host TBAAL, Clarence Muse Café, 1309 Canton St. 9p. Tickets: Ticketmaster.com.

JANUARY 18 Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. The Walls Project, Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Community Center, 2922 Dr Martin Luther King Blvd. 9a.

Scholarship & Awards Gala in honor of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Speaker: Andrew Gillum. Hilton Anatole 2201 N. 35 Fwy. Tickets: 214-670-8418.

Smooth R & B 105.7 Smooth Winter Grove III Anthony Hamilton, The Theater at Grand Prairie, 1001 Performance Pl. 8p.

Tickets: AXS.com.

Volunteers Needed! Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Clean Team Initiative for South Dallas & Fair Park, 2922 Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Blvd. Reg. 9:45a. 10a-2p.

Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Weekend “2020” All Black Affair, host Made Men Entertainment, House of Blues, 2200 N. Lamar. 10p-2a.

Tickets: Eventbrite.com.

SDS Gents Presents - 7th Anniversary Outreach Ball, Los Lomas Banquet Hall, 3761 Irving Mall. 6p-1a. Tickets sdsgents.ticketbud.com.

Mingling Over Mimosas, host Debonair Society, African America Museum, 3536 Grand Ave. 123p. Tickets: debonairsociety.ticketspice.com.

JANUARY 20 3rd Annual Realizing the Dream Healthy Living Expo,Building strong, healthy communities, physically, mentally, financially, spiritually, holistically & socially, African American Museum, 3536 Grand Ave. 10am - 6pm. , Join us after the Dr. MLK, Jr. Parade.

Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. March/Parade, Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Blvd & Holmes St. to Fair Park 10a.

2020 Downtown Dallas Comedy, host TBAAL, Clarence Muse Café, 1309 Canton St. 9p.

Tickets: Ticketmaster.com.

Veterans Benefit Fair, DeSoto Library Multipurpose Rm. 211 E. Pleasant Run Rd. 10a-1p. Info: 972-2309648.

Cowboys of Color Rodeo & After Party, Dickies Arena, 1911 Montgomery St. Ft. Worth. 2p.

Tickets: Eventbrite.com.

Breakthrough Series: Breath Reborn, host, M.E.T.R.O. Christ’s Church, 450 E. Parkerville Rd., Cedar Hill. 9a-2p. Tickets: Eventbrite.com.

Tri-Cities Annual Meeting & Holiday Mixer, International Museum of Culture 411 US Hwy 67 Frontage Rd,Duncanville.

Garland Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Parade & March, host, Garland NAACP. Parade Starts on Dairy Rd. ends at Grandville Arts Center.

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Dallas Bar Association Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Luncheon, Dr. King Justice Award: Richard G. Stewart, Jr. Belo Mansion 2101 Ross Ave. 12-1p. Tickets: dallasbar.org.

DFW Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Inaugural Scholarship Brunch, host DFW Moorhouse College Alumni Assoc., African American Museum, 3536 Grand Ave. 11a-2p. Tickets: Eventbrite.com.

Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Great Days of Service, Community Missionary Baptist Church, 115 W. Beltline Rd. DeSoto. 8a. Clean up.

The Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Fresh Produce Distribution Center, Bldg. A 2929 Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Blvd. 10a-2p. Chefs are on-site for cooking demonstrations.

Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Symposium, Moody Performance Hall, 2520 Flora St. 7-8:45p.

Tickets: 35468.blackaudhosting.com.

Dr. MLK, Jr. Scholarship Breakfast, host, Nu Pi Lambda Chapter of Alpha Phi Alpha Fraternity, Inc. Hilton Arlington, 2401 E. Lamar Blvd. 8-11a. arlingtonalphas.com.

Grand Prairie Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Parade & Program, host Grand Prairie NAACP, Parade Starts at Liberty Bell on 317 College St. 10a.

Info: Call 469-644-8209

JANUARY 21 Power Hour Knowledge is Power, host IHCC, IHCC Office, 135 S. Jefferson St. Irving. 11:30a -1:00p. RSVP: irvinghcctx.chambermaster.com/ Free Skill Quest Career Readiness, Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Community Ctr. 2922 Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Blvd. Info: 214-879-9950. 9a-11a.

Poet’s Groove, Sway’s Room, 1175 N. Watson Rd. Arlington. 9p. Tickets: Eventbrite.com

JANUARY 22-26 Denton Black Film Festival, Denton Black Film Festival 215 W. Hickory St. Denton. Time Vary Tickets: dentonbff.com

JANUARY 22 The Dr. MLK Fresh Produce Distribution Center, Bldg. A 2929 Dr. MLK, Jr. Blvd. 10:30a-1p.

Wednesday Night Worship, Speaker: Rev. Louis Laurent Pilgrim Rest Missionary Baptist Church,1819 N. Washington Ave.7-8p.

Swing Dance Class, Allure Jazz & Cigar Lounge 110 S. Cockrell Hill, DeSoto. 7:30-9:30p. 8p.

JANUARY 23 Happy Birthday to team member, graduate of Prairie View A & M University Jessica Hayden Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Toastmasters Club, 2922 Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Blvd. Bldg. A, Activity Rm. A, 6:45p. Contact: 214-670-8418.

Free Skill Quest Career Readiness, Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Comm. Ctr. 2922 Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Blvd. Info: 214-879-9950. 9a-11a.

Cheers For A Cause, host Dr. Cynthia Mickens Ministries, Tower Club, 1601 Elm St. 48 fl. Dallas.

6-8p. Tickets: Eventbrite.com.

Level Up Your Side Hustle, Grow DeSoto Market Place, 324 E. Beltline Rd. 6-8p. Register: www.growdesoto.org 410 Line Dancers Thursday Class DFW Sports Garden 1850 E. Beltline Rd. Coppell. 7-9p.

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JANUARY 24-25 “Songbirds” feat: Kayla Williams, host TBAAL, Clarence Muse Café 1309 Canton St. 9p. Fri. & Sat. Tickets: Ticketmaster.com.

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Year New Orleans based Entertainment Firm, Puissance Maison Productions, partners with DFW based 501(c) (3) nonprofit, Ladies in Film & Television (L.I.F.T.) formerly known as Headline Mentors & Performing Arts, breaks ground January 17-18 with the support of Film Maker & Composer, Elvin Ross, of Tyler Perry Studios. LIFT is a community of ladies building memories together! LIFT is building a diverse team of ladies that do not have to depreciate or devalue themselves to be part of a male-driven industry.

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cutting ceremony with hope to engage community support by promoting a more diverse atmosphere for ladies in the Film & Entertainment Industry. Paul Quinn College has partnered with the organizations to host the screening of Award-Winning Filmmaker, Elvin Ross, Kunta Kinteh Island: “Coming Home Without Shackles” January 17th at 7:30 pm. Media Tech Institute has partnered with the organizations to host the Film Making Master Class with Elvin Ross January 18th at 10 am.

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Parade & March January 18, 2020 10AM Parade starts on Dairy Road @ Garden Drive (near Embree Park) It proceeds north on Dairy Road to Highway 66 (Avenue D) West (Left) on Highway 66 (Avenue D) to First Street North (Right) on First Street to Highway 66 (Avenue B) West (Left) on Highway 66 (Avenue B) to Fifth Street North (Right) on Fifth Street to Austin Street Parade ends at the Granville Arts Center 300 North Fifth @ Austin Street, downtown Garland, TX 75040

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Achieving the Unbelievable: Think Like a Marathoner January 18, 2020 10:30AM — 12:00PM The Highland Hills Library 6200 Bonnie View Rd. Dallas, TX 75241 Speaker: Tony Reed, World History Making & Hall of Fame runner, who completed 131 marathons on all seven continents and 50 States.

Think like a marathoner and follow this mindset to win the marathon race of your life. Learn how to Set Short-term and Life-Long Goals; Build Mental Toughness Like a Marathoner; Manage Change & Risk; Expand Your Comfort Zone; and Overcome Obstacles to Success.

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DALLAS/FORT WORTH CHAPTER 2020 Scholarship Luncheon

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My Truth - Know better, Do better, continued from front page won’t be able to say they weren’t forewarned, thus forearmed.

That’s why the Healthy Living Expo is so important.

We must pick up the baton and carry it the next leg, challenges the Rev. William Barber.

We must address the issues.

Information is key and too often slow in coming and that’s why it is imperative that those who can and know, seize every opportunity to share.

So on January 20, 2020, I’m inviting you to join me at the African American Museum in Fair Park for a day of information sharing, entertainment, fun, food and fellowship; all as we commemorate the legacy and birthdate of Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Beginning at 10:00a.m. there will be sessions on How to live the life of a vegan, Sister CEO, Why the NAACP is important, and Dr. Amerson will once again share critical information on hair loss and proper care.

There’s the Authors showcase where authors will read from, speak on and sell their books.

Let me tell you about some of the vendors: Zan Wesley Holmes Jr. Community Outreach Center will be there. Now, if you haven’t visited the center before, you are missing out on a wealth of information and resources.

There’s also Sage 360, and the young entrepreneur is getting an early start on building her empire with the introduction of her products.

Dr. Kang, of Limitless Power, will discuss holistic healthcare and how what you eat impacts your life tremendously.

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I know there will be so much information shared at the Expo and our communities will benefit tremendously.

Sometimes folks do what they do because they don’t know better. Together we can make sure that more people know better so they can do better!

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And as always, we have Pan African Connection Bookstore and Resource Center with books, jewelry, oils, and much more, including authentic items from Africa!

Then, we’ll entertain you with the ICON Classic Car Show, the MAVS Maniaacs, Deejay Ken Bell and more…

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THAT CELEBRITY INTERVIEW

ASK ALMA

Surviving R. Kelly

Knowing my place

BY ALMA GILL

Dear Alma, My stepson, who I adore and have known most of his life, is getting married next summer. I love him and love the girl he is getting married to. Here is my problem. There is bad blood between his mother and me. I tried for years to get along with her and even acted as a buffer between her and my husband on many occasions. I did this to the point of causing myself anxiety because I just wanted everyone to get along so badly.

About three or four years ago, after being married to my stepson’s father for almost 17 years, I snapped. I lost my temper with her; there was a very ugly scene that even took place in a courtroom in front of a judge.

It was something I will never forget. I haven’t spoken to this woman since. When my stepson visits, he shares comments that she continues to make about me to this day. I don’t engage at all. I will not let him hear me bash his mother in any way. If this was any other woman, I would be out for blood, but I realize that the people who would get hurt are my stepsons, who I love so, I suppress my anger.

But back to why I’m writing: How do I attend this wedding with a woman that I know does not hesitate to start fights, regardless of who is around. She will be surrounded by her very large family, and I will basically be there with a small handful of my family members.

I will be outnumbered. And did I mention that I am estranged from my husband, too? That I’m not so worried about, but it still causes tension. And, Alma, where do I sit?

Jackie B., South Carolina OMG Jackie, sounds like you’ve already lived through one Jerry Springer moment, and you don’t want to participate in another. I don’t blame you, girl; it can suck the life right out of you. Congratulations on the upcoming wedding of your step-son, and congratulations to you for loving him unconditionally. The one-on-one relationship between the two of you is special, and that’s how it should be. Step-parents are an extension of original parents. A relationship with step-children cannot be defined by the relationship you have with the original parent. Once you commit as a step-parent, you commit to that child for life.

Now, back to your dilemma. I applaud you for taking the high road, which most times, as you know, is the road less traveled. The high road can be a lonely place--it’s usually not where you find the fist bumps, the I-got-your-backs or the you-go-girl road signs.

Now here’s where my advice gets a little tricky — I want you to stay on that road. It’s great that your stepson is able to include you and wants you to be a part of this most special occasion. But you need to lay back.

You know how there are different levels of guests at a wedding? You have the “family” guest, the “really good friends” guest and the “friends from work” guest. For that day, I’d like you to participate as a “friends from work“ guest.

I say that because, from what I read in your letter, there’s a chance for a Jerry Springer – Round 2 moment, and you certainly don’t want that to happen.

I’m a step-mother, so I’m not asking you to do anything I wouldn’t do. I love my step-daughter, TaKisha, with all my heart. There’s nothing I wouldn’t do for her, so I sympathize with your situation. There was a moment in our lives when I had to take a step back. I took the high road. I took the blame and all that extra madness that comes along with it. Yes, it broke my heart. Yes, it made me sad, but those are the yield signs along the way on the high road.

Be mindful, be guideful (is that a word? LOL). What I’m trying to say is, you can control this. You know the rituals of a wedding. They’re all basically the same. I’d suggest you arrive on time, sit down with five minutes to spare. And since you asked, sit five rows behind his mother. You don’t need to get there early and stand outside with the smokers checking everything out.

Take your seat, smile, and shut your mouth. Don’t chime in about anything, not the wedding colors, the bridesmaid dresses, the soloist — nothing.

Remember, you’re on the high road. Once the couple exits, smile, smile, hug, hug and go get in your car. Make your way to the reception. Walk in and find your seat. I’m sure they’ve made appropriate arrangement for the reception seating. If not, since you asked, sit on the opposite end of the hall from her.

You don’t have to be seen. You don’t have to be all up in the middle of the mix, and you shouldn’t. He has a mother and a father. Both, I’m assuming, will be front and center at the celebration. You’re no longer with his father and you don’t want to throw down with his mother, so step back.

Repeat it with me: “I’m taking the high road.” If she heads in your direction with some foolishness, that’s your cue to leave. Please, please don’t engage this woman, no matter what. If tensions run high and things get out of hand, take a deep breath, grit your teeth and keep it moving – down the high road!

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Alma Gill’s newsroom experience spans over 25 years, including various roles at USA Today, Newsday and the Washington Post. Email questions to: alwaysaskalma@yahoo.com. Follow her on Facebook at “Ask Alma” and twitter @almaaskalma.

By VALDER BEEBE

The holidays have come and gone and I know yours was as joyful as ours. Now a new year, 2020. The Valder Beebe Show’s team has put together an outstanding journey for the show as we feature and focus on VISION 2020 Baby Boomers [& Gen X’ers too]. That makes this interview so intriguing because R. Kelly the R&B crooner is a Gen X’er at age 52. I invited into the Valder Beebe Show studios Jesse Daniels, Executive Producer of Lifetime’s Surviving R. Kelly Part II. A worldwide conversation about the history of sexual abuse from R&B star R. Kelly. Weeks after the program aired, Kelly was indicted on ten felony counts of aggravated assault and was arrested on charges including child pornography and kidnapping. Lifetime Introduces “Surviving R. Kelly Part II: The Reckoning” With Revealing new information about R&B Singer R. Kelly. Jesse Daniels, Executive Producer of Surviving R. Kelly Part II. Now, Lifetime unravels more to the saga with Surviving R. Kelly Part II: The Reckoning. The new series features interviews with new survivors, supporters, psychologists and cultural and legal experts, and more insights into the evergrowing saga of the R&B singer, who is currently facing federal and state charges.

Airing Jan. 2, 3 and 4, the three-night event uncovers new stories with revealing details and explores why the voices of the girls that spoke up decades ago are only

now being heard.

Jesse Daniels, Executive Producer became a last minute guest to replace Tiffany Hawkins, who was one of those girls. In 1991, Tiffany was a 15-yearold aspiring singer who performed background vocals for Aaliyah. She looked up to R. Kelly and thought of him as a big brother, but when the singer made the relationship sexual, Tiffany says she was damaged, emotionally and physically, and even lost her desire to sing. She later told her mother and hired a lawyer who brought her case to the district attorney – but her complaint was dismissed and she ultimately settled in a civil suit. In the Lifetime special, Tiffany will recount her experiences with R. Kelly, how he kept her silenced, and what she hopes viewers will take away from Surviving R. Kelly Part II: The Reckoning.-Text provided by Jesse Daniels publicists in conjunction with the Valder Beebe Show

VBS: Tiffany Hawkins originally was supposed to be my guest, at last minute you became her replacement. I’ve heard that victims who came forward have been harassed and threatened.

JD: I don’t want to speak for Tiffany, but we need to respect any survivor who is not usually in the public’s eye. Anytime a survivor comes forward we need to know this is a personal sacrifice.

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JUST MERCY MOVIE REVIEW BY HOLLYWOOD HERNANDEZ

Just Mercy is the true story of a man in Alabama, Jamie Foxx as Walter McMillian, who is sitting on death row for a crime he didn’t commit. While Foxx has a big part of this heartwrenching drama, it’s Michael B. Jordan, as civil rights lawyer Bryan Stevenson, who is the star of the movie. The movie is about the early career of Stevenson, a Harvard graduate, who moves to Alabama and begins a law practice to get innocent men off of death row.

Stevenson faces a corrupt and racist system everywhere he turns.

He fights for justice for Walter and two other condemned men.

One is a Vietnam vet, Rob Morgan as Herbert Richardson, who should be in a mental hospital, not on death row and another convicted killer, O’Shea Jackson Jr. as Anthony Ray Hinton, whose only crime appears to be that he is Black.

Still, he presses on trying to uncover the truth and give the men a new trial that could exonerate them from their sentences.

The performances are moving, especially when one of the men gets his execution carried out.

His march to the electric chair may have you shedding a tear or two.

Morgan’s performance is powerful.

With Foxx’s character, Walter McMillian, you feel the frustration and the sadness with the racist system that has false testimony and no physical evidence stacked up against him but the local Alabama court refuses to give him a fair trial. It’s only after an appearance on 60 Minutes and a hearing in a higher court that Walter finally gets a fair trial.

Just Mercy shows the racism that was still very much alive in Alabama in the late ’80s. While it is a true story at the beginning of famed civil rights lawyer Bryan Stevenson’s career, it’s hard to believe such injustice was still occurring in the deep south at that time. The movie will really stir your emotions.

Just Mercy is rated PG-13 and runs a little bit long at 2 hours and 16 minutes, but on my “Hollywood Popcorn Scale,” I rate the movie a JUMBO.

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