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My Truth Publisher Cheryl Smith
What if you asked? NEWSFLASH! For anyone reading this, the world did not begin with you! Huge surprise for many, I bet. Unfortunately, in many relationships, disputes arise because someone believes that no one else could possibly have had the same experience. You’ve heard the arguments from children before. Parents couldn’t possibly know anything, The Fresh Prince and DJ Jazzy Jeff articulated the premise in their hit record, “Parents Just Don’t Understand.“ Does anyone really understand? Another hit song explains it all to me. Jerry Butler and Brenda Lee Eager sang, “Ain’t Understanding Mellow?” Which brings me to my truth!
First and foremost, I must say, history is important. Years ago I was charged with working with my students at Paul Quinn College to start a newspaper. Now I could have done like so many who don’t do their research, and published our newspaper immediately. Nope. Couldn’t do it. I directed my students to research OUR school and see if there had ever been a newspaper. Guess what? There was. So, as much as we had wonderful names on the drawing board, I went with history and we published The Quinn Quill. It was then and still today a decision I am proud of. A small but important act for what was the right thing to do. So, as we move forward, in this righteous fight, it is imperative that we realize that we are able to do what we do today because of what others did in the past. To negate their efforts and contributions is insulting, disrespectful, and most of all, counterproductive. The focus must be on the real enemy and just like children must realize that most parents are acting in their best interest; in this fight we can learn much about what we need to do today by studying our past, asking questions and being open to the realization that you do NOT have all the answers.
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VOL IX ISSUE 21
BROADCAST LEGEND NAMED TO TEXAS RADIO HALL OF FAME
Chris Arnold began career as a young teen
Hall of famer Chris Arnold
“I’m so honored. I was like ‘how, how did this happen’,” Arnold told Texas Metro News. “I mean, going up against country and music DJ legends, rock and roll and pop, legends…throw in general managers; how in the world? I never expected it.” Is it his greatest career achievement? “Yes, I guess it’s the crowning achievement.” Arnold said. “The Texas Radio Hall of Fame; I’ve always admired it. But Texas is such a large state with so many markets and so many different radio stations in it and there are so many genres of radio – music, news, talk, sports - here’s just so many different people that could be eligible or in it.
“It’s a reflective moment where you reflect on your career and I’ve never really reflected a lot. I’ve always just moved forward. This is special. “It’s humbling to think about, but 40 years, wow, time flies. When I first started in radio, Jimmy Carter was president. That’s how long I’ve been on the air in Dallas/Fort Worth,” said Arnold, who was the only journalist inducted into the Texas Black Sports Hall of Fame in 2019. Locally he is best known as a member of Skip Murphy & Company; one of DFW’s most popular programs – consistently ranking No. 1 among morning shows in the Metroplex.
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NASCAR’s Bubba Wallace talks Noose, Confederate Flag and More By Dorothy J. Gentry Bubba Wallace is tired - specifically “wore the hell out” - he said during an online Zoom call with media. The only Black driver facing full-time in NASCAR has been thrust into the spotlight over the past week after NASCAR and the FBI investigated the discovery of a noose in his team’s garage stall at Talladega Superspeedway on June 21. The FBI and U.S. Attorney for the Northern District of Alabama said Tuesday that no hate crime charges would be filed because the rope had been tied that way - clearly in the shape of a noose and in Wallace’s garage stall since October. NASCAR completed its own investigation Thursday and released a photo of the noose amid unfounded speculation the whole situation could have been a hoax. “Given the facts presented to us, we would have pursued this with the same sense of urgency and purpose,” NASCAR Presi-
dent Steve Phelps said. “Upon learning of seeing the noose, our initial reaction was to protect our driver. We’re living in a highly charged and emotional time. What we saw was a symbol of hate and was only present in one area of the garage—that of the 43 car of Bubba Wallace.” NASCAR released an image of the garage pull rope tied into a noose that was found in the garage. Wallace said he’s glad it was released but knows it won’t change everyone’s opinion of the incident that came on the heels of continued racial unrest in this country following the murder of several Black citizens by police including George Floyd and Breonna Taylor. “It wasn’t directed towards me or my family, but somebody still knows how to tie a noose,” he said. “And whether they did it as a bad joke or not, who knows? But it was good for the public to see. “It still won’t change most, or some people’s mind of me being a hoax, but it is what it is.” He’s ready to move the con-
Bubba Wallace
versation forward after an intense couple of weeks. “Part of my emotion today is one, being wore the hell out; two, is being a little frustrated and three, is finally seeing the light at the end of the tunnel.” He said everyone needs to “get away from what happened at Talladega. Let’s move on from that, put it to bed. As much as it’s tough for me balancing the human being side and racing side, it’s part of it. I accepted that. But we’ll just continue to move on.” The 26-year-old Wallace the son of a Black mother and
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Garland ISD announces updates for new school year Garland ISD may have more than 55,000 students and 7,500 staff, but the district leadership considers it to be “one big family.” The Texas Education Agency recently released its final guidance for reopening schools, and GISD has some new updates to share for 2020-21, with classes beginning on August 10. Restarting School Transition We realize that students have been out of school since midMarch, and we want to assure they have a smooth readjustment. Our return to school will be phased in over the first three weeks. From August 10 to August 28, students will attend school remotely, get to know
I was just
Thinking Norma Adams-Wade
Change “gonna” or has come?
By Dorothy J. Gentry Sports Editor Think back to when you were 14 years old. For some of you that may be easy, for others – like me - it may take a minute. Chris Arnold was on the radio in Memphis, Tennessee at the age of 14. He has worked nonstop in radio ever since. “I’ve been on the radio nonstop for 40 consecutive years in a top five market,” Arnold recalls. “I’ve been on four shows, three different stations and all four of those shows went to No. 1.” Arnold, who turns 62 in September, is a radio legend nationally but is most well-known and beloved in the Dallas/Fort Worth Metroplex where he’s been a household name for four decades. His stints include 30 consecutive years at the venerable K104-FM, serving as sports director and broadcasting the morning show with the legendary Fly Jock Tom Joyner, and the award-winning Skip Murphy & Company. Arnold has also hosted his own #1 sports talk show on 1310 the Ticket and joined 105.3. the Fan in 2011, as part of the Gbag Nation and on-air sports talent. As a result of this illustrious career, the long-time DFW radio, sports, and entertainment icon has landed in the prestigious Texas Radio Hall of Fame Class of 2020.
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their new teachers, readjust to “school hours”, and learn to use a program called Canvas. Canvas will be the new learning platform that all GISD students will use. It allows them to interact during classes, actively engage in assignments, take quizzes, collaborate with peers, communicate with teachers, and more. The return to school transition period will also allow campuses to rehearse and finalize all safety and sanitation protocols with a lower number of students to significantly reduce the risk of viral spread on campus. Some families will need their students to have face-to-face learning during this transition and throughout the school year. Face-to-face learning will
be available for those students effective August 10. Family Choice GISD is a district of choice, and that extends to its learning models. On Monday, July 13, families received an email that contains a commitment form to select the learning option that they feel is best for their child(ren). All families must make a choice, which will go into effect on August 31. GISD will offer two learning options for families, beginning August 31: • Face-to-Face Learning: Faceto-face learning is a “traditional” school model, where students physically attend school daily on campus. All
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Songster Sam Cooke promised us in his hopeful lyrics and haunting vocal rendition that “a change is gonna come.” “It’s been a long, a long time coming,” Cooke crooned, “But I know a change gonna come, oh yes it will.” By the same uplifting tone, before Barack Obama became our 44th POTUS (President of the United States), he gave the nation and the world a prescription for change and a better America in his best-selling book The Audacity of Hope. After George Floyd’s Memorial Day death under the cruel and heartless knee of Minneapolis police officer Derek Chauvin, Floyd’s six-year-old daughter Gianna “Gigi” Floyd gave the world a prophetic and proud declaration with no hint of doubt:
George Floyd
“Daddy changed the world!” Gigi exclaimed as media captured the moment and reported and broadcast it around the world. Gigi was giving her take on the astounding positive, global reactions as protesters took to the streets and individuals, businesses, and people at all levels of power began to reexamine and restructure their deep thoughts and operations related to racial issues. I was just thinking.... what do some of these signs of change look like? Here is just a summary list of untold change that already has occurred in America and the world. 1. People demonstrating in our nation’s streets are far more diverse that ever before. 2. Supportive demonstrations in foreign countries are happening as never before. 3. Police departments are responding to community demands for police policy and procedure reforms – specifically halting choke holds and excessive force. 4. More whites are discussing whether white privilege does or does not exist. 5. Diverse groups, though reluctantly, are opening up to discuss whether systemic racism exists. 6. Entertainers are apologizing for past skits where they wore black-face makeup that they now say they realize was offensive. 7. People generally seem more open to considering race-relation points athlete Colin Kaepernick attempted to make when he consistently knelt during the National Anthem, although still a divisive issue. 8. Kaepernick’s once-vilified take-a-knee gesture has become an accepted rallying symbol, even used in the halls of Congress. 9. Numerous corporations are airing consumer advertisements calling for racial unity. 10. Manufacturers are changing names of products that are
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July 15 Meet A Black Mental Health Professional: We Are Here, hosted by Dr, Tanisha Guy & Megan Pickens, LPC-S. 7–9 pm. Register: Eventbite.com. Hollywood Live! With Michael “Hollywood” Hernandez and Co-host Shavonda with a “V” Fields, on Hollywoodlive.com. From – 4 pm. Real Talk with Cornel West Join Verizon Media, NABJ and NAHJ as we explore the hard truths about Black oppression in American society with Dr. Cornel West. 2 pm. CST Register: https://vmrealtalk.splashthat. com/ Dr. West’s keynote, Q&A. Advocate for Women of Color wocempowerment@ gmail.com if you want to engage on issues that will impact your local community. WOCEI will hold a ZOOM meeting on Wednesday, July 15 @ 7:00 pm. Also, stay tuned for information regarding judicial candidates and other forums.
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Youth Justice Forum hosted by Black & Bitter Coffee and Books. Join this interactive forum streaming on FB Live. Follow Black & Bitter on Facebook and go to the page at 6 -8 pm. Mr. Theodore will discuss the School to Prison Pipeline and Ms Ransom will share local feedback and data on these topics. Eventbrite.com. Online Spiritual Care Sessions with Rev. Dr. Melanie Harris Fridays at 1 pm via Zoom. Friendshipwest Baptist Church. Join in on the session by click the link: https://zoom. us/j/8567036848? Access Code: 856 703 6848.
Free Wills Clinic. Zan Wesley Holmes Community Out Reach Center Hosts Dallas Volunteer Attorney Program. To participate, you must register, to determine your eligibility for this free service. Both registration and application must be completed between July 13-July 17. https://www.zwhjcoc.org/ registration-form-wills-clinic Appointments will be held July 29. Free Wills Clinic July 29, 2020. New Policies to Support the Protest: Breaking Down the Budget Hosted by Cara Mia Theatre. Interactive Facebook Live Q&A at 5:30 pm CST. The 10-point plan - bit. ly/ocofdemands. Featuring, Amber Baylor from Texas A&M University School of Law, Mayra Fierro from Metro Dallas Youth Committee, Amber Goodwin from Community Justice Action Fund, Kristian Hernandez from Our City, Our Future.
July 17 Stewpot Food Distribution/ Distribución de Comida - Must Sign Up. Friday’s distribution - we will have ready meals and groceries available. If you know someone who would like to sign up but they do not have access to the web, please have them call Aracely Lomeli at 469-573-0148. Register; www.Eventbrite.com /stewpot. 12 pm - 2 pm.
2020 Women’s Summer Book Discussion hosted by Fort Worth Metropolitan Black Chamber of Commerce. Join the women in a discussion of The Four Agreements by author Don Miguel Ruiz. Texas Christian University, Senior Learning & Development Consultant Ebony Rose will lead discussion. 10 – 11:30 am. https://us02web.zoom.us/ webinar/register/WN_-fZupTGmTuW3l5kCBbCALw Women of Color Institute Presents “Hour of Power” with Rashad Robinson at 10:00 am. Free training opportunities can be found on our website: www.nationalwomenofcolor.com. Register: https://us02web.zoom.us/webinar/register/WN_ihziUWAwSZWv3f6ejcXIVA
Terry Allen and the Happy Hour is back! 5:30 pm. CDT. Special guest is Froswa Booker-Drew, VP Community Affairs and author. Talking Change and Course Correction in the Pandemic Surge. Register: https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/vpIpcumvrD4jCjxEQOkkv1R6jaqJ1yhG_w. DeRay Davis LIVE - Arlington Improv 309 Curtis Mathes Way, Ste 147, Arlington, 8:30 pm. Tickets: https://improvtx. com/
Happy Birthday Jihad Muhammad Meet A Black Mental Health Professional: We Are Here, hosted by Dr, Tanisha Guy & Megan Pickens, LPC-S. 7 – 9 pm. A 2-hour event will introduce you to 20 Black mental health professionals. Register: Eventbite.com. Hollywood Live! With Michael “Hollywood” Hernandez and Co-host Shavonda with a “V” Fields, on Hollywoodlive.com. From 2– 4 pm.
July 23 Together We Test Free Covid-19 Testing at Friendship West 616 W. Kiest Blvd 9 am - 1 pm. Friendship-West Baptist Church in partnership with Project Unity, Catalyst Health Network, St. Paul United Methodist Church, Stratifi Health, and Alpha Phi Alpha Fraternity Inc. You must wear a Mask.
July 24-25 Desperate for Jesus Women’s Conference, hosted by Oak Cliff Bible Fellowship. Join Chrystal Evans Hurst and Priscilla Shirer, July 24 at 7pm and July 25 at 9 am for a spirit-filled, free online conference. Features two amazing speakers and women of God: Jackie Hill Perry and Katherine Wolf. It’s FREE, but you must register at www.DFJ2020.com.
July 24, 2020 Curbside Market by La Francaise Bakery 10 am – 2 pm Curbside Market @ La Francaise Bakery 201 Gold St., Garland. DeSoto Fourth Friday Concert - DeSoto Gospel Live DeSoto is going VIRTUAL! Back by popular demand, our DeSoto Fourth Friday Music Series online! Facebook at www. facebook.com/ArtsDeSoto. 8- 9 pm.
Happy Birthday L. Diane Evans Black Teens in America Share Perspectives Hosted by Dallas Professional Women, Roundtable discussion. Participants will be: encouraged to educate themselves on Black history, able to celebrate Black heritage, culture, and influence, able to identify microaggressions and other forms of racism, able to recognize forms of racism and white supremacy, able to build bridges of understanding (generational + different communities) Tickets: https://us02web.zoom.us/ 6:30 - 7:30 pm.
Essential worker gifted van Sheriff Marian Brown, Commissioner John Wiley Price, and other Dallas County officials joined with area car dealers on Thursday to present essential worker Devon Gabriel with a 2017 fully-equipped, wheelchair accessible Dodge Caravan. “Good corporate citizens continue to create ways to give back to this community,” said Commissioner Price, as he praised members of the North Texas Automobile Dealers (NTAD). “Their willingness to enrich the lives of others has taken many forms and has intensified during this COVID-19 pandemic.“ President C. Brent Franks, along with other members of NTAD, including
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Drive Thru FOOD Pantry Word of Peace International Ministry, Inc 2000 N State Highway 360, Ste 2044, Grand Prairie 3:00 pm -5:00 pm. Sharing what we have to be a blessing to our community!
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Build Your Own Business Free Webinar Series by The Boss Business Coach. Start and Grow Your Own Business. Join the series of free classes. Register today, classes begin July 9! Tickets by Eventbrite.com.
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Tom McCollum, President and CEO of Goodson Acura and Don Herring, CEO of Don Herring Mitsubishi expressed their commitment to giving back to those in need, like Mr. Gabriel, who was joined by his mother, Dallas County Deputy Sheriff Catrina Gabriel. “This was a collaborative effort of North Texas Automobile Dealers,” Mr. Franks said. “We came together to solve a need for an essential worker.” Dep. Sheriff Gabriel was moved to tears. Their family was sorely in need of a new vehicle and to have one handicap accessible, which can be very costly, was definitely a blessing. “The only words I have is, thank you.” Those words were also echoed by Mr. Gabriel, who said, “I love you and thank you.”
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HALL OF FAME from Page 1 “We were number one for eight years and at one point we were number one for 36 consecutive ratings periods and that was unheard of in a major market, Arnold said. “We won every national award you can think of and we had so much fun. It was historic.” Arnold recalled waking up daily at 3:30 a.m. to head to the infamous Grand Prairie studios for the show, “You don’t get used to it (the time) but I knew we were going to have fun when we got there. That’s what made it easier to get up. I knew when I walked in the door it was going to be crazy and fun.” Arnold also acknowledged “the late great Chuck Smith,” longtime general manager at Service Broadcasting, which owned the station, and its owner Hymen Childs with helping his career. “They helped me have an interesting life. Chuck also encouraged me and basically dared me to top the last thing I did,” Arnold said of Smith who died in 2017. “‘I bet you can’t do that again,’” Arnold said Smith would say to him. “He loved me telling stories about what happened at events I was at. And he always wanted me to cover these different things.” Station management was very supportive, acknowledged the University of Oklahoma alum. “Hymen is the one who put it in the budget and let me keep doing it,” Arnold said. “And he was proud that I was putting K104 on the sports map. I had pressure on me to maintain it – like Chuck said, ‘You done started it now; you gonna be able to keep it up?’ That was a challenge and I love challenges like that. I was like oh yeah, I ain’t never getting tired of this.”
Impact Arnold’s longevity in the ever-changing radio broadcast business is what resonates many of his colleagues, friends and admirers. “Chris Arnold is an absolute legend. He is personable and has provided me with so much advice in this business,” said Kevin Gray, an on-air radio host for 1053thefan where Arnold currently works. “It’s an honor to work with him and know that he continues to impact this business in the myriad of ways he does. Absolutely incredible.” Dwain Price, former long-time Dallas Mavericks beat writer for the Fort Worth Star-Telegram and now writer for Mavs.com, recalls hearing about Arnold when he (Price) first moved here. “This is a terrific honor and a well-deserved honor for one of the quintessential pioneers in the radio industry,” Price said. “When I moved to Dallas in 1990, it seemed like Chris was always in eight or nine places at the same time. That’s how versatile he is, and how well he is at his craft. “And his voice and knowledge sort of draws you into whatever it is that he’s saying, because he always left you hanging on the edge of your seat and with something to remember him by. Again, congrats and hats off to a gentleman and a true professional.”
Dallas Mavericks Since 1996, Chris has been an
integral part of the NBA’s 2011 World Champion Dallas Mavericks broadcast team. First serving for eight years as their courtside analyst for Fox Sports Southwest and currently since 2005, serving as the Mavs game night emcee. He was also selected to emcee the 2010 NBA All Star Game in AT&T Stadium in front of a crowd of 108,000 people. His duties with the Mavericks have expanded to include work as their Inclusion Ambassador. “Chris Arnold has been a part of the Mavs organization since 1996 and a staple at Mavs games since 2005, and one of the hardest working people I know,” said Cynt Marshall, CEO of the Dallas Mavericks. “We are so proud of his induction into the Texas Radio Hall of Fame, but it’s not a surprise. He is talented, dedicated and a true joy to work with. We are just so glad the Hall of Fame has recognized his talents and will honor him this year.”
Star-Studded Career In addition to his Mavericks correspondence, his television experience included five years working as a sports reporter at ABC affiliate WFAA TV in Dallas. Chris’ work garnered an Emmy. Before going to WFAA, Chris worked on a tv show he wrote, produced, and hosted. “On The Beam” a syndicated African American entertainment television show that was seen by more than 20 million households in 46 cities across the US, Japan, the Caribbean, and in 17 countries in Africa. That show won an Ace award for Cable Television excellence in 1991. A proud member of Kappa Alpha Psi Fraternity, Inc, Chris has covered every major sporting event the world has to offer: 28 Super Bowls, 21 NBA Finals, two Olympics, 15 Final Fours, eight World Series, 26 Championship Boxing Title Fights, 25 NBA All Star Games, eight Baseball All Star Games, five Pro Bowls, 15 College Football Bowl Games and even the World Cup. He is also a very popular speaker, host and emcee. He’s spoken at major corporate seminars, civic groups, schools, charities, churches, sports banquets, golf tournaments, and more. He also mentors and provides guidance to youth; making sure he reaches out and helps change lives. When asked how he connects with his listeners Arnold said he simply talks to them in a normal manner. “I always talk to the listeners like I’m talking with them, like I’m their friend and not like they are listening to me and I’m on a perch,” he said. “I always make it conversational. I always tell this to other people wanting to get into radio too; you try to make it conversational and that’s what I try to do. “And I talk exactly the way that I talk in public,” he continued “I don’t have a different voice on the radio. And that’s the way I talk when I’m interviewing players. I talk with execs the exact same way when I’m on the radio.” What’s his favorite career memory?
“There’s been so many. So, so many. I can’t even tell you what’s the favorite,” Arnold said. Some memories he did share include being at the World Series in San Francisco in 1989 when the earthquake hit and he was ringside in 1997 at the Mike Tyson/Evander Holyfield fight when Tyson infamously bit off Holyfield’s ear. “When I think about all the things I’ve been to. I got to travel the world – local, state, national, the world,” he said. “I’ve covered the Olympics, I’ve been to almost every stadium in America – Australia, Mexico, Tokyo - everyone can’t say that.” And as the husband and father prepares to be inducted into the Hall of Fame – an upcoming virtual ceremony due to the coronavirus pandemic - Arnold reflects back on his time and says he wouldn’t change a thing. “I’ve been on radio since I was 14-years-old, every single year; from 1973to 2020. I’ve never not been on radio. In September it will be 47 years on the radio, nonstop.” “I have zero regrets about anything that has gone on because whatever successes and failures, it has allowed me to be where I am now.” Arnold has served as mentor and inspiration for many including Ro Parrish, Emmy award-winning TV host, Turner Sports, who first met Arnold in his teen years growing up in DeSoto. He met Arnold through his parents who had connections with the popular Skip Murphy and Company Morning Show. Knowing his love of sports they ensured Parrish had interaction with Arnold who did the show’s sports segments. “I knew who Chris was and I was extra excited to meet him because I heard him doing the sports every morning,” Parrish recalled. The two forged a close friendship and always kept in contact, so much so that during his senior year, right before he was to leave for college, Parrish was scheduled to shadow Arnold for the day not just at K104 but also at Chris’ sports show on the Ticket. “Forget Cloud 9, I’m on Cloud 25,” Parrish recalls. He spent the evening full of energy and excitement and didn’t make it to sleep until 2 a.m. – two hours before he was to be up and headed to the station. He made it to the station and with adrenalin kicking in – made it through the show. But that didn’t last. After signing off at K104, Parrish and Arnold set off for the Ticket in separate cars with Parrish trailing Arnold. Stop and go traffic on a heavy, under construction I-30, along with a fresh case of sleepiness caused Parrish to doze off and run into the back of Arnold’s vehicle. “I just rear ended him. Chris got out of the car to make sure I’m alright,” Parrish said. Arnold’s gold Landrover had “a little scratch” while Parrish’s Nissan sustained slightly more damage. “He asked was I ok and I was. My pride was hurt more than anything. Obviously I don’t want to get in a wreck but I was thinking I missed an opportunity. This was going to be the best day of my life.” Arnold remembers that day as well. “Ro was eager and hyped
up to spend the day with me. He didn’t get much sleep. I wasn’t mad at all,” Arnold said. “My car was fine. I knew where his heart was.” The bond between the two grew. “CA is one of those guys who served as a mentor; him showing me, especially as a man of color, that you can have success, do sports, hang out with Michael Jordan, etc he’s showing me pictures and telling me stories. That was like a light bulb; it was like, wow. I’m passionate about this, maybe I
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can have a career doing this. “He definitely served as motivation to give me the inspiration to do what I do now,” said Parrish, who pledged the same fraternity as Arnold, and his father, businessman and philanthropist, Roland Parrish Sr. “CA has always been there; he’s been supportive and I’m definitely happy for him. CA is my guy. I’m not where I am now without seeing what he did and him giving me feedback and just the whole relationship. I’m always appreciative of everything CA did for me.”
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Symbols, statues and substance THE LAST WORD Dr. Julianne Malveaux Socially isolated and alone in my home, I lifted my fist into the air when I learned that the Mississippi legislature voted to remove the Confederate stars and bars from their flag. As NACCP President Derrick Jackson said, “it’s been a long time coming.” A long time since the songstress Nina Simone put it out there with Mississippi G—damn. A long time since Emmett Till was massacred for “reckless eyeballing.” A long time since James Chaney, Andrew Goodman, and Michael Schwerner were murdered. It’s been a long time coming, but has Mississippi changed? I’m an economist, so I have to go with the data. Mississippi is the most impoverished state in our nation. It also has the highest percentage of African Americans – 37 percent. Still, the state voted in a racist white woman – Cindy HydeSmith, who joked about lynching in the days leading up to her election. Mississippians found such jokes acceptable since they rejected Mike Espy’s candidacy for the Mississippi Senate seat that Hyde-Smith now occupies. He garnered 46 percent of the vot4e in what was described as the closest Senate election in Mississippi since 1988, still, his defeat speaks to the intransigence of racism in his state. Perhaps his 2020
candidacy will yield different results. From my perspective, though, it’s not the symbolic flag, but also the substantive racial inequality in Mississippi. So while I also cheered that the Princeton University Board of trustees finally agreed to remove the nation’s racist 28th President’s name from its public policy school, I wonder if anything else has changed at Princeton. Students have demanded a more diversified faculty and curriculum and funding for research on reparation. The name change is the first step. What is the next step? In Virginia, Governor Ralph Northam (D) said he would remove the statue of Jefferson Davis, the traitorous President of the Confederacy from Richmond’s Monument Avenue. As soon as he announced it, there was a lawsuit challenging his decision, and the matter is headed for court. Rita Davis, the Black woman who is Northam’s legal advisor, said the statue was designed to minimize “a devastating evil.” If you walk down Monument Avenue, evil abounds. Taking the statue down is a first step for the blackface-wearing governor, but again what’s next? Even as the winds of change are swirling, there are dinosaurs who cling tenaciously to our nation’s racist past. I do not understand why Confederate loyalists seem to have forgotten that THE CONFEDERACY LOST THE CIVIL WAR. Except to stir up his racist base, I don’t understand why a man
who was born and raised in New York has such loyalty to the Confederacy. On June 26, the 45th President issued an executive order “protecting monuments, memorials, and statues and combatting recent criminal violence.” The executive order is replete with combative and incendiary language, describing protesters as “rioters, arsonists, and left-wing extremists.” It uses terms like “Marxism” and “agitator” to describe those who oppose historic racism as “ignorant of history.” Because of this “ignorance” (look in the mirror, Mr. President), the executive order says the Feds will prosecute people who “destroys, damages or desecrates a monument on federal or state property,” and their “accomplices” and imposes criminal penalties of up to 10 years in
jail. Really? If our nation’s founders had been held to the same specious standards, there would be no United States of America. The folks who are clinging to statues are clinging to a way of life where Black people are supposed to bow and scrape and accept any kind of treatment from “powerful” white people. In adhering to the Confederacy and folks like Woodrow Wilson and Andrew Jackson, they are clinging to Presidents who were oppressive segregationists. Wilson’s legacy is especially egregious as he deliberately attempted to reverse Black progress by resegregating the civil service. Now, we have a President who would do it all again by embracing racism, retweeting a “white power” video, demonizing protesters, and using language designed to divide.
Some of the symbols of racism are being erased, albeit slowly, but little has changed about the substance of racial inequality. People should not be celebrating symbolic victories unless they are prepared to challenge structural inequality. I cringe when I walk in downtown DC, looking at signs that proclaim “Black Lives Matter,” knowing that many of these stores have exhibited racist behavior toward Black neighbors. Don’t eradicate the symbol, Mississippi, Princeton, commercial establishments, if you aren’t also willing to eliminate the substance of racial inequality. Dr. Julianne Malveaux is an economist, author, media contributor and educator. Her latest project MALVEAUX! On UDCTV is available on youtube.com. For booking wholesale inquiries or for more info visit www.juliannemalveaux.com
The Warrior Model Size Matters! QUIT PLAYIN’ Vincent Hall “Do we have the intelligence, humor, imagination, courage, tolerance, love, respect, and will to meet the challenge? Time will tell. None of us alone can save the nation or world. But each of us can make a positive difference if we commit ourselves to do so.” -Cornel West, Race Matters This is the fourth and final installment in this protest series, “The Warrior Model.” No one, as my dear Brother Cornel West has said, can save the nation of the world. However, my commitment to making a positive difference has been lifelong and enlightening. Week one, we dealt with the difference between rallies and sustained protests. In other words, one hit does not a fix make. Then it was “Organic and Organized.” The thrust was that movements should stir from the ground to the mound, and the surge must be symmetrical. Thirdly, my caveat was to “Take
a Knee.” The spirituality that drives you to the protest line can keep you safe and sane. Lastly, you must remember and never forget that size does matter. There are two things I know about life in Maya Angelou’s “Yet to be United States.” Race matters and size does too. Any of the Warriors can attest that our most significant breakthrough came via a Dallas Morning News article that broke in the mid-1990s. The City Council and DPD needed to do something about John Wiley Price and the Warriors. The meat of the matter was that when the receipts were tallied, and the numbers were in, the Warriors had cost the City of Dallas $1,000,000 in police overtime, tactical preparedness, and other residuals. Hint: Your oppressors don’t give a damn how many times you march around that wall until it becomes costly to their bottom line. The “Empire” will always strike back, but there are some monetary limitations. Size matters because if you mount a movement, every iota of data that you can scrape up lends a significant hand to your stated goals. Showing up and listening to some “midnight
militant” spit hatred through a bullhorn is baseless. You cannot engage, enact, or negotiate any cause without the requisite stats.
many were commissioned law enforcement officers. We knew how many were behind desks and how many were on patrol. We knew by substation how
During our fight against the Dallas Police Department, we did some data mining. We knew how many minorities and women were on the force and at each ranking. We knew how their salaries ranked against White men in the same rank. We knew who the real Rednecks were, and we searched out and publicly taunted every Uncle Tom! We knew DPD had roughly 2400 in its employ and how
many officers reported per shift and their report times. We knew there were never more than about 360 officers on the streets of Dallas at one time. Our New Year’s Day protest at the 1993 Cotton Bowl game was a double whammy. Lorenzo Gray led the chant. “Welcome to Dallas. Have you heard, Dallas is just like Johannesburg.” Not only did 50 of us cause the city to bring in more officers, but
also we showed the world that Dallas was still the hub of racial hatred and animus. Those Notre Dame fans were in shock. We hit the pocketbook and the image simultaneously. In America, size matters because money matters! The call for the reallocation of resources (aka as Defund the Police, aka a lousy choice of words) requires that we understand the size of the problem and potential cures in our urban centers. Policing models have been stretched past crime to social services. Dallas County, pre-pandemic, played host to almost 6,000 people weekly at the Lew Sterrett Justice Center. Our daily jail population is bigger than 90% of the towns and hamlets in Texas. More than 40% of those inmates require prescription drugs. A little under 30% have mental issues. Juvenile facilities, intense counseling, and reentry services are underfunded by the tens of millions. Race Matters, Size Matters, and Black Lives Matter, no matter what that “Whipcracker” in the White House says. Vincent L. Hall is an author, activist, and award-winning columnist.
The Measure of a President WAKE UP AND STAY WOKE Dr. E. Faye Williams, Esq. TriceEdney – As a student of philosophical principles, I am aware of the school of thought that does not believe in the existence of “NORMAL” as a universal state of being. A testament to that idea is the fact that each of us has a unique set of experiences that shape differences in our definitions of normal. However, living among others with as little conflict as possible requires a standard of conduct with written and unwritten principles to which most consent. We label those who do not consent or who behave outside of the parameters which we consider in order as abnormal or, more commonly as criminals. A RESPONSIBLE HUMAN’s
comportment reflects character, honor and is respectful of the personage and rights of those with whom she/he must interact. Without those character traits it’s unlikely that any person could rightly ascend to a position of LEADERSHIP. I define a LEADER as one who assesses the impact of circumstances upon a group and, through the powers of discernment, persuasion and/or inspiration, navigates and guides that group to/ through a course of action that results in the greatest benefit for that group. Not all Presidents of the United States have conducted themselves as responsible humans. An even smaller number have demonstrated qualities of leadership that have been predicated on the “common good.” The implications of their leadership (enlightened, dishonorable, failed or otherwise) set the tone for their time in office
and beyond. It is expected and hoped that anyone willing to run for the office has a character rooted in the foundations of honesty, selflessness, character and compassion. Until now, we have generally rejected an abject liar, a person devoid of compassion, and one motivated only by self-interest. Somehow, the current officeholder slinked in the door. I know many sycophants of #45 will vehemently reject my assessment of their ‘boy,’ but facts support my position. These facts are no longer based in “he said, she said” dialogues. His current incompetence has now resulted in the loss of American lives. Lives lost that he is supposed to value above all others. Lives for which he is expected subordinate personal interests and which he is expected to defend. Lives which depend on his leadership. Lives which he has abandoned at the altar of
“What’s Good for Trump.” Failing the creation of a comprehensive or cogent national strategy to combat COVID-19, #45 has begun to ‘reinvent’ his belief that COVID-19 will miraculously “disappear.” Failing to set an example of behavior endorsed by medical science, he presents to the public without masking and ridicules those who do. Simultaneously, he lies to the American public, stating that “more testing creates more infections” and that infections are on the decline. Meanwhile, the US, whose population is roughly 5% of the world’s population, has suffered 25% of COVID-19 worldwide fatalities. #45’s most recent and most egregious act is his ongoing and public support of Vladimir Putin while US intelligence sources have disclosed that Russia paid bounties to the Taliban for the lives of US service members
serving in combat in Afghanistan. According to sources, Taliban combatants were paid $100,000 per each American life. Once again, #45 does not believe US Intelligence sources and labels reports of bounties as “fake news” and “a hoax.” He has laid these American lives on the altar of his reelection. These are just two of the myriad offenses of character and leadership he presents to us. After assessing the carnage in the wake of his disastrous term of office, is there anything he can offer us in a second term that will justify the butchery of his first term? The choice is yours! It can only be made with your vote! Dr. E. Faye Williams is National President of the National Congress of Black Women (www. nationalcongressbw.org) and host of “Wake Up and Stay Woke” on WPFW-FM 89.3 radio.
Unimaginable Love FAITHFUL UTTERANCES Dr. Froswa Booker-Drew Lately, I find myself staying up later than I should. I’m by nature a night owl. When I was a little girl, my mother worked late and I would be up with my dad listening to music. Before my daughter was born, I would work really late because for some reason, I had more clarity and the ability to focus. Even when I was pregnant, I remember staying up watching “Martin” until about 2:00 am. No, it wasn’t the best habit but it’s been a challenge for years and for a period, I had gotten so much better with going to bed before 11:00 until the other night. I made the mistake of reading the news while preparing for bed. That was a huge mistake.
I read about the murder of Elijah McClain, a 23-year-old beautiful soul who was killed on his way home by police for looking suspicious in 2019. In his last words, he said this to the three officers: “I can’t breathe. I have my ID right here. My name is Elijah McClain. That’s my house. I was just going home. I’m an introvert. I’m just different. That’s all. I’m so sorry. I have no gun. I don’t do that stuff. I don’t do any fighting. Why are you attacking me? I don’t even kill flies! I don’t eat meat! But I don’t judge people, I don’t judge people who do eat meat. Forgive me. All I was trying to do was become better. I will do it. I will do anything. Sacrifice my identity, I’ll do it. You all are phenomenal. You are beautiful and I love you. Try to forgive me. I’m a mood Gemini. I’m sorry. I’m so sorry. Ow, that really hurt. You are all very strong. Teamwork makes the dream work. Oh, I’m sorry
I wasn’t trying to do that. I just can’t breathe correctly.” I found myself heartbroken, incensed, and irritated once again. I then saw the video of a lady screaming at a Starbucks employee in California because he asked her to wear a mask and another lady going ballistic on a Trader Joe’s employee for the same reason. All of these situations involved young people all under 25 who were being mistreated by those who obviously are older and should know better. I found myself furious. I found myself questioning God for allowing this behavior. And in that moment, I realized that love allows you to continue giving. Giving us chances to get it right. How God’s heart must be broken to see those that He’s created continuing to abuse others created in His image? And no matter how technologically advanced we’ve become, we are no different than
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white father - competes fulltime in the NASCAR Cup Series, driving the No. 43 Chevrolet Camaro ZL1 1LE for Richard Petty Motorsports. Wallace, who helped lead NASCAR’s response during the racial and social unrest and protests following Floyds murder by a Minneapolis police officer, also called for the sport to ban the controversial Confederate flag from all of its events. “No one should feel uncomfortable when they come to a NASCAR race. It starts with Confederate flags,” Wallace told CNN’s Don Lemon. “Get them out of here. They have no place for them.” Two days later, on June 10th, NASCAR’s governing body
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Cain and Abel. The blood of more Abel’s continues to cry out from the soil. (Genesis 4) We have become tone deaf to the sounds of violence and to God’s voice. I was reminded of the scripture in Genesis that captures a conversation between God and Abraham. We know that God experiences anger, that God sees the actions of humanity and hears the cries of those that are treated poorly. Several things. We do know that God’s love is all encompassing. God sacrificed His son for us which is the ultimate expression of reconciling us to Him. This is Atonement. Maybe what’s keeping the world from completely imploding on itself are those 10, 50, or more who are righteous, those who are upright in 2020. Is that you? Righteousness is not perfection. But are you one of the folks that God counts on to live in peace with others, that intercedes, that seeks justice and speaks truth? Are you exhibiting God’s love in a time when love
is cold even to those who don’t deserve it? Is your heartbroken by the things that breaks God’s heart? If not, it’s time for some introspection. As much as I’m angry at the world, it’s time for me to look inward and begin to reflect and strive to be one of those that God finds when He is seeking for those who truly love Him. One of the most powerful prayers I’ve ever prayed was the prayer by Bob Pearce, the founder of World Vision. It’s time we all pray this: “Let my heart be broken with the things that break the heart of God,” So we know God’s heart. How’s your heart? And are you one of the 10 (metaphorically) that’s left who can be counted on?
banned the flag causing an uproar among long-time race fans. “The presence of the Confederate flag at NASCAR events runs contrary to our commitment to providing a welcoming and inclusive environment for all fans, our competitors and our industry,” NASCAR said in a statement on its website “Bringing people together around a love for racing and the community that it creates is what makes our fans and sport special. The display of the Confederate flag will be prohibited from all NASCAR events and properties.” Wallace said Friday that despite the ban, people who want to fly it outside the tracks, as several did at Talladega, can do what they want. “It’s the right for peaceful protests. It’s part of it. But you won’t see them inside of the
racetracks where we’re having a good time with the new fans that have purchased their tickets and purchased their favorite driver’s apparel,” he said. “You won’t see it flying in there. Outside, they’re just going to be making a lot of noise. It’s part of it. It’s exactly what you see on the flip side of everything going on in cities as they peacefully protest. “But we won’t see cops pepper-spraying them and shooting them with rubber bullets, will you?” he said in reference to police across the country and tactics used to disperse many of the peaceful protests that are occurring. NASCAR was formed in 1948 and runs three national series -- Cup, Xfinity and trucks. The racing sport is scheduled to stop in Dallas on October 25th at Texas Motor Speedway.
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Dr. Froswa’ Booker-Drew is the Founder and CEO of Soulstice Consultancy, specializing as a Partnership Broker and Leadership Expert for companies and organizations to thrive with measurable and meaningful impact. She also is the VP of Community Affairs and Strategic Alliances for the State Fair of Texas.
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Mo’ Bettah Wings -- Carl Moore FROM MARVA WITH LOVE Marva Sneed On “From Marva with Love,” we recently heard from Mr. Carl Moore owner of Mo’ Bettha Wings. Mr. Moore is from Shreveport, Louisiana, and a graduate of Southern University in Baton Rouge, Louisiana. I am also an Army Veteran and Elementary School Teacher. He also has a nonprofit organization in Shreveport, COOPER ROAD USA, that promotes unity in the community. He says, “We are responsible for telling the proud past of one of the largest African American communities in the United States.” MS: I am really intrigued by Copper Rd. USA. Please tell us a little about it. CM: Copper Rd. is a proud, predominantly Black community in Shreveport, Louisiana. It was established in 1928 it was established outside of the city limits. So for the first 50-55 years, we had our own police department our own sheriff de-
partment, our fire department, schools, and stores. We were very similar to Black Wall Street in Tulsa, Oklahoma. In 1978, we joined the city of Shreveport we were annexed to Shreveport. Before that, we were self-sufficient you could actually go from kindergarten to college right there in the community. Southern University-Shreveport is located inside the perimeter of Cooper Rd., a proud place to be from
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MS: Tell how you got started on this journey to have Mo’Bettah Wings? CM: Actually many years ago I helped my nephew finance
a business in Shreveport. His name is Richard Washington. We call him Snapper. He started a wing business and it has been very successful for the last 15 years. So last year I asked him if he would come out to help me. My son, who’s 28 wants to have his own business. My nephew came out and got us started and so far business has been really good. The first year was rough like most businesses when they start. As we became apart of the community people came and they have been eating our food and they love our customer service. We have over 30 flavors of wings, tenders, and po’boys. We are blowing up over in that corner in Oak Cliff. There was so much more to the interview with Mr. Moore. Go to BlogTalkRadio.com/ Cheryl’sWorld Link: https://bit. ly/31n15Jr Mo’Bettah Wings is located at 2860 East Ledbetter, Dallas, Texas. They have a great take out menu. Call your order in 214-9640082. You will enjoy it. Tune into “From Marva with Love” Fridays from 11:00 am-1 pm. on BlogTalkRadio.com/ Cheryl’s World.
Black has been Capitalized. Now what? THE BLACK CARD Terry Allen I called one of my community moms, Mary McFall, Esq. I celebrated with her that, as a NABJ Board member, we had issued a statement updating our policy and practice and we will be integrating the capitalization of the word ‘Black’ in our communications. As a student at SMU, Mary introduced me to Kwame Ture and collectively the three of us shared a long conversation over dinner, after a speech at St. Luke Community UMC, about the transition from Negro to Black. So, I was excited to call her and inform her of the national movement to capitalize Black. I asked if she had my old copy of the Browder files. She smiled! We chatted about that conversation. I was off to the bookstore. I am just standing there looking to replace my copy of Anthony T. Browder’s From The Browder File: 22 Essays On The African American Experience and I saw her follow me from aisle to aisle. I pretended I didn’t notice being followed in a retail store but you and I both know better. So, like many times before, when I had to diffuse the fear of a Black man in the room, I smiled jubilantly and spoke in my best Chicken George voice, “Hello how are you today?” She stood there, smiled and after a long pause, she said, “I just want to say I am sorry.” I continued to smile and raised my eyebrows projecting my safe non-threatening “what for” look. She sensed that was a nonverbal
question and said, “I am so sorry for what happened to Black people.” I paused as well and stated, “I am sure your apology is sincere. Can you reach your friends, employers, clergy and take action as you apologize? Have a nice day.” Purposely, I did not wait for a response and intentionally stopped shopping and walked to my car. As I walked to the car another white friend of mine texted me,“Thanks for taking my call yesterday, I am just checking in with you to see if you are OK. I just did not know.” Another apology! Oh my! I am happy to live in this moment that has awakened others to the racial pandemic that has a 400+ year institutionalized foundation. I am happy to live this moment but how do we really capitalize on the capitalization of the word Black? Here are my thoughts, while companies are posting their newfound awareness and issuing updated positioning statements we must move swiftly to action. While we are civically changing core social services and ‘reforming’ police reform. We must focus on the underlying economic layer of the racial pandemic. The Defund and Invest cry has resonated with promises of boycotts and buying blackouts. Eleanor Holmes Norton, the District of Columbia’s House of Representatives delegate, informed an NFL team that their nickname needed changing or do not return to the District. Nike has pulled the same team’s merchandise. Quaker Oats has pulled a long-standing syrup off the shelf. What next? It is now our time to chip away at the horrible economic disparities that racism
created for Black folks. Here is just my shortlist of things I want to see happen today, not tomorrow: • Corporations open your supply chain to Black owned businesses and vendors. • Corporations and organizations, immediately let your C-suite staff reflect the diversity in the country, • Institutions of education & training, please place the truth in all textbooks and curriculums. Un-erase History. • Completely redesign the credit scoring system to reflect a real payment rating and stop giving positive scores for open debt history and negative scores for satisfactory paid debt history. • Buy, contract and engage viable Black businesses owners on a large scale. • Mentor existing Black entrepreneurs and the next generation of Black game changers. • Engage culturally-competent Blacks who represent the Black experience beyond their melanin, because my Big Mama told you, “All skinfolk ain’t Kinfolk” • And lastly this one is for my Black people, embrace solidarity over personal preference and use your double-digit trillion-dollar purchase power to buy or boycott. You have more to add to the list? Email me with your list at Terryallenpr@gmail.com or call me here at the paper. Terry Allen is a multi-media journalist and board member of the National Association of Black Journalists.
I’m a daddy? ASK ALMA Alma Gill Dear Alma, I hope I can explain this right, because I really need your help. I don’t want to go to family with this, not yet. About a year and a half ago I went back to my 30th year high school reunion and had a really great time. I’ve been divorced for over eight years, so it was good to see so many old girlfriends. I hadn’t been back to my hometown for a really long time. I’ve had short visits every once in a while since joining the Army after graduation. Shortly after my visit, my homie called to tell me Sharon (not her real name) wanted to talk to me about my son. Sharon is one of my old girlfriends. I was like, what! I NEVER knew she was pregnant and I certainly didn’t know we had a son. I was shocked by what he said and didn’t follow through. I thought, if it was true, she should contact me directly and handle her business a little better than that. Fast forward two months ago I read on Facebook, Sharon had died. I don’t know what to do. Should I reach out to her son? He has to be at least 30 years old by now. How do I approach a grown man about being his father all these years later? Maybe I should just leave it alone, but it bothers me more and more every day. I’ll be honest, I’m angry and pissed! What is your advice? Father Maybe Dear Father Maybe, Wow, I can’t imagine the shock, surprise, resentment and disbelief. Clearly, you’re wrestling over this 30 year
bombshell , blast from your past news that has bruised. Talk about a knock out — I feel you, son. Hopefully, my ability to sympathize and connect will break the ice and allow us to have a mini, meaningful, mature conversation. This is enormous, and yes, yes, you have every right to be outraged. My advice is first, do what you do to relieve stress, then, get to crackin’ and clean up this mess. The pain of a child overrides the pain of a parent. He’s grown, but you’re “growner” (my word, you know what I’m sayin’). As the parent, you must make this right. Is it too late for you to reconcile? No with a capital NO! Don’t you dare take your mind down that road of disillusionment. That’s a cop out. Ummhm, the same clumsy, selfish, inconsiderate decision his mother made years ago. The reality is you owe it to your son to “man up and own your circumstances.” It’s time to acknowledge him and correct it. Mama tried, whatever, better late than never. We’ll never know her reasons why. Today belongs to you, make it right, make him whole, cause that’s what fathers do. If you aren’t looking to get or gain anything from your son, I’d say by all means, take the first step. Approach him unconditionally with an open heart. Be frank, he can handle it. He’ll make the next move, respect it. If it’s a positive reaction, what a blessing. If it’s a negative, he has reasons, thirty of ‘em. So keep at it, don’t give up on him. Never, ever speak ill of his mother under any circumstances. Accept the empathy that’s overwhelming you and respond to it, don’t ignore it. Sharon’s watching down from heaven, praying you’ll do the right thing and so am I.
THINKING from Page 1 deemed racially offensive. 11. Sports franchises are discussing more seriously what personal freedoms to allow players and teams. 12. Confederate statues, monuments and portraits are being removed nationally as a way to avoid offending various ethnic groups. This, too, still is a divisive issue. 13. Leaders are listening to requests that names of various buildings be changed because they honor ole south persons who many consider were racist. 14. The Black Lives Matter movement seems less berated than before. 15. People of various races are wearing “I can’t breathe” and Black Lives Matter T-shirts that represent racial causes.
George Floyd, indeed, has changed the world as we know it.
Cooke said a change “gonna come.” Gianna said change has come. Let’s all do our part. Will you help? Norma Adams-Wade is a veteran, award-winning journalist, graduate of UT-Austin and Dallas native. One of the founders of the National Association of Black Journalists (NABJ), she was inducted into the NABJ Hall of Fame.
Re-Opening a Trichology Clinic during COVID-19 ABOUT THE HAIR Dr. Linda Amerson There are a small number of credible board-certified Trichologists in the world. Two Trichology colleagues: Dr. Nikkie Lee, Seattle, WA and Dr. Germaine Williams-Beckles, Trinidad and Tobego were asked to share about the changes made for re-opening their Trichology Clinics. My name is Dr. Nicole Lee. I have been an Accredited Board Certified Trichologist for four years. However, I have studied trichology for over 11 years. I am the owner of Seattle Trichology and Innovative Hair Designs in Seattle Washington. On March 16, the governor ordered all non-essential businesses to close, including hair loss clinics, so I had to get creative during this time. I offered
virtual consultations, which have been great for my practice. Since re-opening June 6, I now provide every client with a face mask and I wear a mask also during their visit. All clients are required to sanitize their hands when entering the clinic. Some clients willingly prepaid for services and products. A touchless checkout option. I also offer non-surgical hair replacement services for clients and other beauty professionals. Seattle Trichology/Innovative Hair Designs www.seattletrichology.com 1417 NW 54th St Ste314 Seattle, WA 98107 (206)854-1424 My name is Dr. Germaine Williams-Beckles. I have worked in the beauty industry over 35 years, been a Board Certified Trichologist for the past 20 years and opened my clinic (Rayogee Wellness Lifestyle Hair and Scalp Clinic) 15
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years ago. I live in Trinidad and on May 30, 2020 the Prime Minister closed down everything. Yes, the borders, as well as all non-essential businesses (which my company falls under), were ordered closed by the Prime Minister, to contain the spread of COVID 19. With my business closed, my regular stream of income was nonexistent. However, online programs and product sales continued throughout this pan-
demic. Personally, time spent with family was priceless, keeping in mind the fragility of life. I reopened on June 6. To minimize the potential risk, daily appointments were reduced, hand-washing and mask-wearing protocol implemented. The clinic is already divided into specialized areas, which allowed for social distancing by default. I have spoken to other Trichologists or Beauty Professionals about what they are
doing in their clinics differently since COVID-19 is a health crisis. Other practitioners have invested in temperature scanners and various PPE equipment to protect themselves and their clients before reopening. I offer other services, such as online classes for beauty professionals interested in growing their hair loss business and I also offer custom-blend hair & scalp products for consumers and professionals. Dr. Germaine Williams-Beckles For more information: drgeeslinks.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/GermaineWilliamsBeckles/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/geewilliamsbeckles/ Contact: 1-868-627-4659 Dr. Linda Amerson, LA’s Hair & Scalp Clinic, Arlington, TX 817 265 8854 Hairandscalpessentials.com #ScalpDoctor
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