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Charger Bulletin The official student newspaper of the University of New Haven since 1938. Volume 95, Issue 3 | September 18, 2013 | West Haven, CT

Students Honor Those Lost on 9/11

Friend Zone

By BRENDA BUSUULWA

STAFF WRITER BBUSU1@NEWHAVEN.EDU

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ering message to share with the audience. Sophomore Justin Farrar of the Military Veterans of UNH recalled the day he saw the second plane hit the towers in New York. When asked by others why he wears a U.S. military uniform, Farrar only has one answer: “We wear the uniform so that our brothers and sisters do not have to, we wear the uniform so that our fellow Americans may enjoy freedoms that they are to inherit, we wear the uniform so you may continue in your valiant pursuit of happiness.” Senior Ryan “Rjay” Irons remembered being a young child of only nine years, and learning about the attacks on television. The events of that day made Irons realize what he wanted to grow up to be. “I realized that I wanted to fight crime, and stop those bad guys from hurting us good guys. 9/11

changed the way our country operates, the way we secure our borders, airports, transportation systems, but it also awoke the government and law enforcement agencies who previously did not communicate. 9/11 strengthened our security forces more than anyone could imagine,” he said. Imetovski paid tribute to the everyday citizens who rose to the occasionon 9/11. From the firefighters who charged into the burning buildings to the courageous Flight 93 passengers who charged the cockpit to divert another disaster, Imetovski asked everyone to remember the true heroes of that infamous day. “The true test of any great nation is how we rally together, despite adversity, and despite the situation that challenges us. We are Americans who, through unity and human empathy, continue to

complicated financing package, the financing wasn’t in place and details were still being worked out. This did not add to the total cost, and it actually allowed UNH to take the time and refine the design to make sure everything was done the proper way. Louis Annino, Associate Vice President for Facilities, stated in an email last week sent out the UNH community, that, when completed, the 140,000 square foot New Student Housing Project will provide 370 new on-campus housing opportunities, activity space, food

services and parking. Currently the construction zone has blocked off many student parking spots, but as part of the construction project, Thomas R. Harry, Executive Director of Program Management, said there will be 175 more parking spots as well. The current parking spots that are blocked off, will be reopened for use at the appropriate time following the progress made on the project, and in addition to the new parking spots that will be made,

What does it mean to be a friend and when are two people more? At what point does it become a relationship? And how do you go about making it more or keeping it where it is? These were some of the questions brought up on Wednesday night as students assembled to debate all of the things friends are and aren’t. Students piled in at the Moulton Lounge to make themselves sundaes to cool themselves down as the debate over these questions got fired up before the event even started. A set of rules was laid down; raise your hand and don’t mention names. Like that, Friend Zone began. A person in the audience said what the rest of the crowd was thinking; that the night would be nothing more than a battle of the sexes. As the event wore on, members of the Black Student Union tried to keep it civil in a room filled with men and women ready to speak up or forever hold their peace. However, the sexes weren’t really battling. Lines were being drawn but gender had nothing to do with it. The conversation grew from simple answers to things most of the audience could agree on, such as what a friendship is or even the problem with putting a title to a relationship. Then it grew as people shouted out different answers to questions. The crowd was a mixture of laughs and scrutiny, agreement and opposition. People were sharing stories that people could relate to and asked questions that the crowd wanted to know the answers to. Everyone shared what he or she wanted in a relationship as well as in a friendship. They vocalized their opinions on gender differences, and despite the contrary belief, the men were able to take sides with the women at some points, and the women were able to back up the men at other points. Some of the questions that were asked during the student discussion included, “What are the lines crossed that make someone think they are more than friends?” The response from the audience was, “When they keep calling you, you’re not responding, and they keep texting you and they’re not taking the hint.” Another student in the audience answered, “When you go somewhere with somebody and they bring you back. Usually, at UNH, when you go somewhere with somebody, you find other people for the way back.” “Is it worth it to risk a friendship on a relationship that might not work?” A female student replied saying that usually she gets in relationships with people she can be friends with; “If I can’t talk to you, why would I want to sleep with you? You need to be able to communicate with them on a more mature level if it is going to become a relationship.” Another student brought the question, “Do you get upset when you’re not the only friend?” to the table. “If you’re just a friend, stay in your lane,” was the audience’s response. Whether or not that was the answer they wanted to hear, “Friendship is not a relationship.” People were up on their feet, laughing and clapping, there was no way to keep them silent, no matter how hard the BSU members

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Danielle Givens, ’10 UNH graduate, began her volunteer service in the Philippines as a new member of the Peace Corps.

SEE PAGE 5 Read about how UNH celebrated Beat the Blues Week, in honor of National Suicide Awareness Week.

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SPORTS The Chargers redeemed themselves at their football home opener Saturday, when they shut out Pace. SEE PAGE 11

OPINION John and Leona Gehring donated to the Henry C. Lee Institute, and in recognition for their large donation the building will be renamed after them. Read how Katerina Sperl feels about this change. SEE PAGE 6 After celebrating the anniversary of September 11, read about how Elissa Sanci commemorates our country for joining together in these times of disaster. SEE PAGE 6

ENTERTAINMENT Check out the new feature, Staff Second Chances, for ideas of what movies to watch when Netflix falls short. SEE PAGE 13

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PHOTO BY JOHN MARDEN

By CHELSEA ST. PIERRE

STAFF WRITER CSTPI1@NEWHAVEN.EDU

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As thousands of people gathered across the country to mourn the loss of the 2,996 victims of the September 11 attacks, the University of New Haven held a special remembrance ceremony to pay respect to those who had passed. The Allingtown Fire Department was present, as well as a few guests who had served in the military. UNH’s own ROTC members were present to assist with the ceremony and procession. President Kaplan, Mayor John Picard, and the Undergraduate Student Government Association President Zani Imetovski were there to share remarks and reflect on this tragedy with the student body. Each one of them had an empow-

By SAMANTHA MATHEWSON

ASSISTANT EDITOR SMATH3@UNH.NEWHAVEN.EDU

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Amongst all the changes happening around the University of New Haven campus, the construction of the new residence building has entered its Blasting Phase. Construction on the building was expected to originally start at the end of the spring semester 2013, however due to the university’s

Blast Off

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