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As I write this, I have two events looming on my calendar that terrify me. I have been asked to judge the talent of children and the cuteness of four-legged friends. I’m not sure my life experience up to this point has prepared me for this honor and daunting task.
Several months ago, Caleb Myers, a teacher at Hilton Head Middle School, asked if I would be a guest judge at the Stingrays Got Talent show on April 25. When I said “yes,” it was February 6, and April 25 was so far in the future it couldn’t really be thought about yet. But now it’s Tuesday … and the talent show is exactly 72 hours away. While I am terribly excited to watch all those talented kids dance, sing, twirl batons, and whatever else is on the agenda, how can I possibly CHOOSE a winner?!
I’m definitely an “everyone gets an A for effort” kind of gal – especially when it comes to kids! Thankfully, I’ll have fellow judges Sara Burns and Quinton Smalls to confer with.
That brings me to the next event I have been asked to judge. Franny Gerthoffer, director of Hilton Head Humane, insisted Jevon Daly and I head down to Coligny Beach on May 3 at 8:30 a.m. to participate in the
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annual Dog Walk. Here, we will revel in hundreds of happy tails marching and barking down the beach. Well, I will … Jevon will revel more in chatting with the dog owners, I suspect.
Categories we are responsible for judging include Best Dressed Duo, Human-Dog Look-alike, Biggest Bark, and Waggiest Tail. The Human-Dog Look-alike category has me laughing about the opening scene of 101 Dalmatians where Pongo the dog gazes out the window and tries to find a partner for his “pet,” Roger. As Roger bangs on the piano keys, writing his next song, Pongo observes several women walking down the street with dogs that look exactly like them.
I am sure I will survive these incredible events, and hopefully not hurt too many feelings when I am forced to choose the waggiest tail. But what I am most concerned about is WHY I was asked in the first place. Do I seem judgy to you? ;-)
We hope you enjoy our family issue – lots of good stuff in here, but I’ll just go ahead and direct everyone to page 77 for the Kids Summer Camp Listings. I know that’s what you came here for.
Have a magnificent May!
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The Powell Family, circa 2000 (from left to right) Olivia, Hart, Hamilton, Steve, Eloise, Senny, Lily, Emily, Hudson, and Rosie the Dalmation.
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BELOVED STORE THECELEBRATES MAGIC OF CHILDHOOD
Island Child is a fixture on Hilton Head Island. The beloved children’s clothing store has been outfitting the children of both locals and visitors since 1984.
Retail is a tough business and maintaining a thriving store for four decades is an impressive accomplishment.
Owners Steve and Senny Powell attribute their success to their teamwork. As Steve explained, “Our entire life together has been us, just making it work, no matter the circumstances!” Alongside their seven children, the Powells have navigated loads of changes in the retail industry and witnessed Hilton Head Island’s remarkable growth. Reflecting on challenging times, Steve recalled “the lean years when the island was in bankruptcy, the market crash of 2008, and the rise of online shopping.” Through it all, Island Child has adapted.
However, the narrative of Island Child and its beginnings as a family-operated business is not a linear journey, as some might assume. This story begins far from the beautiful beaches of Hilton Head Island and
long before the era of next-day shipping, smartphones, and social media was even a thing. This story begins in Chicago back in 1976.
“She was the new blonde bombshell, and everyone wanted to meet her,” Steve said. Senny had just joined the staff as an art teacher at a middle school in Chicago, where Steve was already teaching and serving as the president of the teachers union. She had “no time for Steve’s antics – or anyone else’s, for that matter!”
The job market in the mid-1970s was tough, with teaching positions scarce, so Senny was grateful to have landed the role and was laser-focused on preparing her classroom. Meanwhile, Steve, ever the savvy businessman, brokered a deal with the school janitor, Herb. He decided he would enter Senny’s classroom to introduce himself and impress her with his charm, while Herb would wax the floors just outside, trapping Steve in the room.
However, Senny wasn’t having any of it!
“Senny is never rude, but she can be quite direct,
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and she was definitely not amused,” Steve said of her response.
Senny chimed in, “It was not love at first sight.” Steve and Herb’s scheme was a bust.
But persistence and kindness did eventually pay off for Steve. “We became good friends because I was always willing to help her out and I just kept hanging around,” he said. After patiently sifting through a few of Senny’s suitors, Steve’s perseverance prevailed, and they tied the knot a few years later.
“We have so much fun together! He is my best friend,” Senny said, gazing at Steve affectionately.
(Side note: The way Senny and Steve reminisce about their meeting is as cute as you are envisioning it while reading this!)
After getting married, Steve and Senny were eager to start a family, but they soon faced challenges with infertility. During the 1970s, the topic of infertility was rarely discussed, leaving them feeling isolated.
“We were devastated and had to work tirelessly to find resources,” Senny said. “We began visiting infertility specialists in Chicago, and it was incredibly hard.” At that time, Steve had transitioned from teaching to working long hours at a Chicago-based real estate firm. He somberly recounts how infertility and adoption research was emotionally draining on Senny. “She would get hopeful and burst into tears when things didn’t go as planned,” Steve said. “I took charge of the research – spending evenings and even sneaking away during the day to make calls. I had to treat it like a job; I would pore over adoption agency booklets for hours.”
While Senny continued to teach, she found herself surrounded by friends who were starting families, which only compounded her feelings of loss. To cope, she turned to her passion for sewing.
“I began making baby quilts for my fellow teachers when they announced their pregnancies,” Senny said. “It may sound strange, but it was a way of healing for me. I love fabrics and I love sewing. It brought me comfort.”
Her designs became popular and she grew her hobby into a small business, from applique T-shirts to hand-painted fabric pillows. The couple began taking Senny’s products to craft fairs, setting up every weekend from March through December. Steve took their goods to upscale shops all over Chicago and the suburbs. They even sold to a shop in Water Tower Place on Michigan Avenue.
“We had a station wagon loaded with crates and buckets, and we started to learn the tricks of the trade while tracking what sold best,” Steve said. “This was our introduction to retail. We sold things all over Chicago!”
As their cottage business grew, they also welcomed their first child, Emily, through adoption. They embraced the world of adoption and retail wholeheartedly. In 1982, Steve received a job offer on Hilton Head, and they made the leap to move to the island sight unseen.
Shortly after moving, Steve and Senny seized the opportunity to buy a children’s store called the Snappy Turtle. They quickly found themselves navigating the challenges
of owning a brick-and-mortar store and began exploring various creative strategies to boost sales.
During this time, Steve had an idea for a custom souvenir to feature in the shop. He designed a circular logo showcasing a kitschy bear clad in a stylish Hawaiian shirt. The concept resonated with customers, and the Hilton Head Beach Bear became a hit. “We used the profits from this design to launch Island Child,” Steve said. They opened their store in a small space in the now-closed Hilton Head Inn. By 1985, the store found its permanent location in The Village at Wexford.
By this time, they had two adopted daughters, Emily and Olivia. “We kept an open file on adoption,” Steve said. Senny fondly remembers the moment she realized her calling. “I was in church, and while I was praying, I felt a strong message from God that we would adopt seven children,” she said. “I came home and told Steve,” who laughed and replied, “He didn't say a word to me!”
While Steve and Senny often share their adoption journey with lighthearted jokes and laughter, their actions are louder than their humble words. Between 1984 and 2000, they adopted a total of seven children and fostered another seven, welcoming children ranging from newborns to teenagers. They initially became foster parents as a pathway to adoption. Although they later realized that wasn’t always the case, Senny and Steve are grateful they went down that path.
Island Child grew every year – in popularity and in square footage. What started as a small, 800-square-foot store grew into an impressive 3,400 square feet. The couple spoke of how they were “constantly adopting, plus running the store, plus caring for ailing parents, and Steve was working fulltime as a real estate agent!” The store became so successful that they employed a full-time manager along with six salespeople to keep up with demand. Despite the chaos, Steve and Senny agreed, “We don’t regret a thing.”
Inside Island Child, one can’t help but feel comfort and nostalgia. The vibe blends the charm of a classic
Steve and Senny Powell at their wedding in 1978 in Lincolnwood , IL.
children’s nursery with the sophistication of a high-end children’s department store from yesteryear. This carefully curated selection of timeless and stylish items for children resonates with a diverse audience, making Island Child a beloved destination.
In an era dominated by cookie-cutter fast fashion, the Powells have balanced staying on trend without abandoning their roots of sourcing beautiful, high-quality children’s clothing.
“I believe it’s important to dress children like children,” Senny said. This core belief, combined with her passion for fine fabrics and the textile arts, has fostered lasting relationships with renowned children’s designers and brands such as Joan Calabrese, Mayoral, and Florence Eisman. Senny takes pride in listening to the young mothers who frequent the store and as a result, she is constantly adding trendy lines like Pink Chicken.
Island Child captures the essence of old school retail from the past – long before online shopping took over. This is evident in their large selection of special event attire, including a remarkable selection of Holy Communion dresses that Senny custom orders – a unique service not offered anywhere else on the island.
Beyond the thoughtfully curated selection of brands, the store’s enduring success is rooted in Senny’s ability to create genuine connections with her customers. “I have women who return year after year, and I get to see their children grow. We are dressing the children of the children we dressed years ago - from generation to generation. It is so gratifying."
Senny also cherishes the opportunity to share her own journey with infertility and adoption with women who walk through her doors. “Years ago, when information wasn’t easy to access, I kept a stack of adoption brochures and articles at the front desk, just in case someone needed them,” she said. “I’ve helped women, and then sometimes they would come back, months later, with a baby in tow. That makes me so happy.”
For these reasons, Senny has become a mother figure to many who walk into the store. She offers a listening ear and understands that toddlers will be toddlers, and she encourages children to explore a well-appointed play area (full of toys and games) while mommy shops, creating a safe and welcoming environment for mothers that is much appreciated.
Family is woven through every aspect of Island Child. If you look closely around the store, you’ll notice family paintings and portraits adorning the walls. Steve said that all seven of their children have spent countless hours in the store at various stages of their lives. While the Powell children have grown and moved to different locations, their son Hamilton is now a full-time member of the team, managing shipping and receiving.
Island Child can proudly boast a wide-reaching customer base, shipping products across the country and around the globe – from Fifth Avenue to Saudi Arabia. However, they are most proud that Island Child is a place where customers can feel comfortable and embrace the magic of childhood.
The story of Island Child is more than just a story about a family business; it shows how families evolve and grow together. With a warm smile, Steve said, “Sitting here reminiscing is incredible. It’s wonderful to see how we’ve adapted through every stage – whether it was no kids, seven kids, fostering, moving, changing jobs, or expanding Island Child. Looking back, it has truly been an adventure!”
Ryan and Leah McCarthy are photographed at their restaurant in Old Town Bluffton.
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THE FLAVOR OF FAMILY
IN FAMILY AND IN BUSINESS, THE ONLY CONSTANT IS CHANGE
If you had stepped into Downtown Deli 21 years when it first opened, you might not realize the history you were witnessing. You might not realize that this simple sandwich shop would be the springboard from which Ryan and Leah McCarthy would grow their culinary domain. But there would be signs.
If you looked closely, you could almost see, even back then, the glint of determination sparkling in their eyes. You could hear the buzz of excitement, of plans they were crafting even then for what this restaurant would become over the next five, 10, 15 years. As soon as you got your hands on one of their sandwiches, you’d taste the flavor that would propel this family forward to become Lowcountry mainstays.
“A question we get a lot is ‘How do you do it?’ We don’t really have a magical solution,” Leah said. “A lot of it has come with us not wanting to be stuck in who we were. I don’t like the word ‘pivot,’ but it’s about how we evolve.”
That evolution has been a constant during two decades in which the town around them has exploded. From their original location on Dr. Mellichamp
Drive, they would seize the opportunity for a spot on May River Road when the old Piggly Wiggly closed down. The centerpiece of a beautiful refresh to an Old Town icon, their new location offered not only a slightly more sophisticated, urban vibe than the old spot, but it also created new opportunities for Downtown Catering to take off. In the open unit next to the deli, they opened Venue 1223, giving them a beautiful event space conveniently adjacent to their kitchen. For events farther away, they added their fabulous food truck, even as they began running catering operations off-site.
It has been constant motion. Sure, there have been a few concepts along the way that we all wish could have
continued on in the McCarthys’ constant evolution. (A moment of silence, if you will, for the greatness that was Monster Pizza.) But, by and large, it has been success stacked on success.
On the business side, the throughline in all this is clear: quality first.
“We’ve always kept the same consistent product and we’ve never skimped on the products we use,” Leah said. “People have to come to expect that consistency.”
But there’s business, and then there’s family business. How do the McCarthys juggle the constant demands of a restaurant with the obligations to one another and to their children? By knowing when to say when.
A family photo is taken on the last day in Downtown Deli’s original location, circa 2018.
Cutting the ribbon at the original location with Mayor Hank Johnson and Leah’s mom.
“This year our motto is ‘slow down to speed up.’ We’re putting the brakes on growth to really hone in on our systems. We’re taking on less business because we feel like we’re on the precipice of another explosion,” Leah said. “If we say ‘yes’ to something without knowing our process is tight, we’re going to crash and burn.”
That means taking time off with one another and taking time with staff. Starting in 2020, when Leah was dealing with not only the devastating impact of Covid on the restaurant but also the loss of both parents, she and Ryan began to see their business in a new light.
“(The year) 2020 was obviously horrible, and in 2021 we had all the events and business come roaring back, on top of trying to keep up. We didn’t have time to sleep. We just looked at each other and said, ‘We’re exhausted’ and took off for two days,” Leah said. “We spent those two days just pouring into each other, talking about why we do this, how to sustain it, what we love about it. We knew we had to take care of each other first.”
With the couple reinvigorated and their love for their business rekindled, the next step was sharing that love with the staff. Starting in 2022, they began doing annual off-site retreats with the entire workforce, going on boat trips or golf cart scavenger hunts. These retreats soon turned into fullfledged getaways, this year taking the Downtown Catering staff up to the North Carolina mountains.
“We just shut down completely so we have that whole time to ourselves and let everyone enjoy each other,” Leah said. With her heartbreaking losses in 2020 at the front of her mind, Leah began offering paid mental health visits for staff. “If people aren’t able to show up, they’re not able to serve our customers,” Leah said. “Think about all the people who end up with substance abuse issues in this industry. It’s tough.”
They’ve also begun profit sharing with the staff, giving their workers a stake in the business after a year. It’s a clear sign that the McCarthys respect their employees, because they started in those same trenches, and still work them. That work ethic clearly rubbed off on son Aiden, who competed on Chopped Jr. and is now taking the soft skills he learned in the kitchen into the world.
“Aiden just got an internship with Raymond James and one of the biggest things they looked for was F&B experience,” Leah said. “They see that and they know you know how to deal with people and how to deal with high-pressure situations.”
And just because the McCarthys have reached what they call a “slow down to speed up” year doesn’t mean that their relentless drive has gone anywhere.
“We’re dangerous when we’re bored and we knew doing another restaurant was a bad idea,” she said. “So, Ryan and I decided to start working on a podcast called ‘In the Trenches,’ where we’re going to share a lot about lessons we’ve learned, from working together to owning a business.”
The podcast is currently in development (the first taping was a little rough but gave them the hunger to make it better) and will explore the unique dynamic that the couple has cultivated over 21 years of raising a family and running an empire.
“It was a way to create something new and bring some support to people who are in the same boat as we are,” Leah said. “We know a lot of husband-and-wife teams and it seems like everyone has a similar story.”
Look for the McCarthys’ podcast to drop sometime this year. Until then, swing by Downtown Deli in Bluffton, or Magnolia Cafe in Beaufort and enjoy 21 years of a family’s endless evolution.
ALL IN THE FAMILY
The following pages shine a special spotlight on those who have been successful at building a business that's more than just its profits. These local entrepreneurs have harnessed the strengths of their household — such as loyalty, shared vision, and emotional investment — to create family businesses that bridge the gap between generations, as well as build longevity and treasured traditions.
THE RUHLIN FAMILY
MICHAEL & FREDERIKA FEKETE
THE CAMPBELL FAMILY
THE FERGUSON FAMILY
JIM & MEREDITH BANNON
MATTHEW & JANE EPPS
THE RUHLIN FAMILY
Over the past 30 or so years, Kelly and Eric Ruhlin have become invested in our community in every sense of the word. Arriving on these shores as a couple, with Kelly seeing for the first time an island Eric had been visiting since the 1970s, it was immediately obvious that they were made for each other, and for Hilton Head Island.
“We never looked back,” Eric said. “We’re both from up north, so we loved the weather. And it’s been great to raise kids here because there’s so much to do.”
Marrying here and raising their boys, Zach and Will, surrounded by the beauty and tight-knit sense of community that Hilton Head is known for, they wove themselves into the fabric of the island. Eric became a deacon with Central Church and a youth baseball coach. Kelly organized the Banana Junior tennis tournament to raise funds for MUSC, served on the board of Friends of the Children, and worked with the PTA to revitalize the school’s grounds.
But it’s the business they’ve built together that truly helped make Hilton Head Island their home. As one of the most consistently top-ranking Realtors from Savannah to Charleston, Kelly drew from a deep well of experience to create her business, kellysellshomes.com. Not only has she called several different areas on the island “home,” but her extensive network is also a boon for helping clients who’ve just moved here connect with the community. A Realtor himself, Eric went into construction, founding Ruhlin Construction, earning his residential builder’s license and opening a cabinetry dealership.
“We’ve developed our own little worlds, where she does what she does and I can accommodate her clientele,”
said Eric. “I’m the answer guy for any questions about a home she’s listing. It’s very complementary.”
It’s a uniquely symbiotic set of businesses, with Kelly’s and Eric’s respective worlds remaining in an orbit that feeds both their success. It’s such a perfect model that it has even drawn their son Zach into the business. A Realtor with Century 21 Diamond Realty, he had perhaps the most extensive pre-employment training of any Realtor on the island. Plus, joining his dad on construction sites has let him see the industry from the same multi-faceted perspective.
“They’ve always seen us around real estate. We’re currently building our fifth home on Hilton Head, so this has always been a part of our kids’ lives,” Eric said. “We have always been a tight family. My dad worked in the corporate world, so he wasn’t around the majority of the day, but I was able to be around my kids as they were growing up, so he meshes in well.”
Will has also entered their orbit, albeit on a slightly different course as the owner of junk removal and dumpster rental service Camo Cans (camocans.co). While Eric is far from his only client, he knows his dad keeps him on speed dial whenever a construction project has debris that needs to be removed.
“He’s working all over Beaufort County, doing commercial and residential work,” Eric said. “That was fun to see him develop and rise on his own.”
In the realms of real estate, construction, and entrepreneurship, the Ruhlins have shown what a family can do when they find the perfect community to call “home.” And they’re helping others to make it their home as well.
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MICHAEL & FREDERIKA FEKETE
They say you shouldn’t bring your work home with you. But for the past three years, that wasn’t really an option for Michael and Frederika Feketé, founders and owners of Java Burrito. Though they’ve just moved back to Hilton Head Island, they were previously proud tenants of the apartment just above their Broughton Street location in Savannah.
“We really dreamed about an expansion opportunity for our business for a long time,” Frederika said. “When the opportunity came up, we had to go for it. It was a very unique building and a very unique opportunity to live above it.”
Raising their first child in the apartment of a circa 1895 building –originally constructed to house a general store and the owner’s family – gave the couple a chance to introduce their daughter to city life. Along with the vibrant cultural opportunities that downtown Savannah provides, it gave the couple a chance to show the franchise-resistant Savannah community that Java Burrito is indeed a family business through and through.
“My daughter grew up thinking her house had a restaurant in it, and all these people were just coming by to eat downstairs. That was a fun way for her to develop,” Frederika said. “What was really fun and rewarding was watching our concept thrive in two different places, with different
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demographics and different seasonality but with the common theme of fresh food in a community space.”
With the birth of their second child, however, the couple began to remember what had brought them to the Lowcountry in the first place. They also came to realize how different city life is with two children.
“We’ve always loved Hilton Head. Michael and I both came here as teens to attend IJGA, and I think coming back after three years, we’re feeling that same magic we felt back then,” Frederika said. “I’m so excited for our family to live on Hilton Head. The locals are so kind and heartwarming and supportive. It definitely felt like coming home.”
Now returned to their Hilton Head roots, the couple are able to avail themselves of all the opportunities the island offers to young families. And that dedicated family time –in a home that no longer shares a mailbox with their business – is a big part of how they balance their business.
“People always say you don’t want to work with your spouse, but we’re each good at different things and we know it. So it’s easy to differentiate who should take the lead and when,” Frederika said. “And if you don’t want to talk about work at home, you have to want it. We just really enjoy what we do, so talking about work is not always a negative. It’s a passion for Michael so he enjoys talking about it. And I enjoy hearing about it.”
It’s a dynamic that has allowed Java Burrito to become an institution on an island the Feketés once again call home.
“We’re here raising our kids,” Frederika said. “And it feels like we really belong as community members, business owners, and parents.”
When Dr. Michael Campbell opened his first Optical Solutions office in the Plaza at Shelter Cove in 1987, he wasn’t just creating a business. He was pouring the foundations for a legacy. Now, 38 years later, as he prepares for retirement, he does so knowing that the future of the company is in the very capable hands of his sons, Dr. Kevin and Dr. Michael Jr.
However, “retirement” might be a strong word.
“His version of ‘retirement’ is just working one less day a week,” Michael Jr. said with a laugh. “But he’s definitely taking more time to be with the grandchildren and live a little. Kevin just bought out his part of the business, so we’re partners.”
The official passage to the next generation was finalized back in October, and already the Campbell brothers are finding new ways to build on Optical Solutions’ renowned reputation for cutting-edge techniques partnered with strong customer care. As one example, Kevin expanded the capabilities of the practice by adding a dry eye clinic that leverages the latest treatments to help patients avoid daily eye drops.
“Dad laid such a great foundation of how to run an optometric practice focused on customer satisfaction, and Michael and I have continued that,” Kevin said. “But with both of us having graduated more recently, we were exposed to new techniques and technologies that we’ve been able to bring into the practice to take it to the next level.”
The brothers split their time between the three locations of the practice – Plaza at Shelter Cove, Hospital Center Commons, and in Old Town Bluffton, leaving them just
one day a week where they’re in the same location. But the partnership between them runs 24/7.
“We’re constantly calling each other and checking up on things. Luckily, we have a very good relationship inside and outside of work,” Kevin said. “Michael has more experience than I do, so it’s been great to have him here for advice.”
“It’s great to have another brain you can pick in any situation,” Michael said.
One might think that two brothers who work together so closely wouldn’t spend much time together outside of the office. But you need only to see them on the golf course to understand the natural chemistry they share. “We like to get out there and get competitive, you know, see who can beat the other person that week,” Michael said. “And we hang out a lot with our wives. It’s just easy for us to get along.”
They’re even vacationing together, with their parents taking the whole family to the Bahamas for their 40th anniversary; it will be the first Campbell Family Reunion with the grandchildren. “We’ve never done that before,” said Michael. “But that’s as our parents always said. There’s God, there’s family, and then there’s the business.”
And while it comes third, when it comes to the business, the patient always comes first.
“Education is such an important factor when it comes to the eye exam, and our ability to educate patients about their eye diagnosis allows us to work as a team and keep their eyes as healthy as possible,” Kevin said. “My dad has laid down a foundation that we will continue for another 40 years.”
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JIM & MEREDITH BANNON
At the foundation of both the family they’ve created together and the firm they’ve created together, Jim and Meredith Bannon’s deep and abiding respect for one another as partners in every sense of the word is the glue that holds it all together.
“My biggest privilege is that I get to work with my best friend every day,” Meredith said. “We just have seamless conversations running throughout the day and pick up where we left off, be it work or home life. We just have the ability to constantly communicate.”
That synergy plays well into both their lives and into the truly unique nature of the practice they’ve built at Bannon Law Group. On one hand, there is Meredith, who has carved out a niche as a respected and knowledgeable real estate attorney, handling even the most complicated of closings with accomplished ease. On the other hand, there is Jim’s side of the practice, with its focus on criminal defense, representing a range of clients.
This split philosophy is showcased through the firm’s famously colorful slogans, offering to cover you from DUIs to ROI, or from “the Big House to Your Dream House.” But beneath the quips, it’s the polished professionalism and incredible skill each brings to their side of the practice that has allowed this unconventional hybrid of a practice to flourish.
“We first met in law school as classmates and, other
than a year and a half, we’ve always worked together. We always saw each other as equals, both professional and romantically,” Meredith said. “It’s nice to have someone to bounce ideas off of and know that they’ll tell you the truth.”
This mutual respect and partnership has resulted in not just a firm, but a family. Together, they are raising daughter, E.G., through the middle school years, and are basking in the reflected notoriety of their Instagram celebrity French bulldog, Jean Luc (@Jeanlucountry).
As their family has grown, so has the firm. Bannon Law Group followed up recent expansions into Savannah and Charleston with the opening of their newest location in Pooler and the hiring of a new associate, Jake Standorfer.
As much as they’ve expanded over the years, however, the Lowcountry is still home. It’s where the Bannons built their lives, and where their story began.
“We’re loving our Bluffton and Hilton Head market. Everyone is moving down here and beginning their next phase or upgrading to their new home,” Meredith said. “And on Jim’s side, people are still getting arrested. We love our tried and true bread and butter.”
Theirs is a family that marches to the beat of its own drum, and a practice that defies description. Running through it all is the indelible chemistry of two people who were always destined to be partners – in business and in life.
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The husband-and-wife duo behind Mathew Epps MD Plastic Surgery/ FACE Aesthetics Medical Spa, located in Bluffton, has been making a splash in the local aesthetics scene. This is due to their unique individualized approach to both nonsurgical and surgical cosmetic medicine.
Dr. Epps, a triple fellowship-trained cosmetic surgeon and master injector, and his wife, Jane, an aesthetics nurse, work together to deliver complementary nonsurgical and surgical therapies for facial and body rejuvenation.
Dr. Epps’ professional interests lie in aesthetic plastic surgery, including facial plastic, oculoplastic, and aesthetic breast surgery. This led him to complete fellowships in these fields. This specialized training with leading
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THE FERGUSON FAMILY
It can be difficult in any family business to draw the line between business and family. You have to create a boundary between what stays in the shop and what comes home. But in most family businesses, there is the business, and then there’s the family. When the business is the family and the family is the business, you don’t even try to draw the line.
“It all kind of blends together. It’s something we talk about even when we’re not working,” said Dana Ferguson, matriarch of May River Home Services. “You have to. This isn’t really a business you can just shut off at 5 o’clock. People need air conditioning services 24/7.”
It’s a round-the-clock dedication that customers have come to rely on, calling on the Fergusons for A/C repair and service, annual inspections, system replacements, duct installation and repair, and indoor air quality testing. Dana holds down the fort, while husband Tim and his son T.J. head out into the field to put their expertise to work.
“It started a long time ago with us, just doing little projects and having T.J. grab a wrench or hold a flashlight,” Tim said. “Now when we get to that job, we each know we have certain things to do and we do them. We cater to each other’s strengths and weaknesses and really know how the other works.”
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a fantastically efficient team on the job, building the success of the business on the success of their family. When everything works that well, there’s no need to draw any lines.
“We have that built-in trust that we all have each other’s back,” Tim said. “We all know what the deal is. It’s unspoken.”
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LETTING YOUR
Want your child to succeed? Well, you’re going to have to let your child fail. I know it sounds counterintuitive.
As parents, we all want to bubble wrap our kids, but what if protecting them from hardship only handicaps them later in life? According to child psychologists, allowing children to experience falls, flubs, and failure is crucial for their development.
In the wise words of singer-songwriter Kelly Clarkson, “What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger, stand a little taller … makes a fighter, footsteps even lighter.” And like a background singer, research backs up these lyrics. Here are five long-term benefits of letting your child fail and establishing a growth mindset versus a fear-based fixed mindset:
Resiliency
Resilience is the ability to bounce back from adversity, adapt, and thrive in the face of challenges. When a child is allowed to fail, he is also allowed to confront his shortcomings, analyze his mistakes, and develop strategies for improvement. This is evidenced in toddlers as they are learning to walk. Every time their chubby, wobbly legs give way, they learn to catch themselves. Sure, at first, it is a padded diaper softening their landing, but with each fall they learn to secure themselves with steady objects like furniture, until eventually it is determination and will that keep them upright.
Problem-Solving Skills
Failure is an inherent part of the problem-solving process. When we encounter a problem, we often try different approaches until we find a solution. Each failed attempt provides valuable information, guiding us toward a more effective strategy.
For example, when my middle child, Ruth Love, was in lower school, she wanted to star in the school musical. Nowhere in our family lineage has anyone on either side been able to carry a tune or toe tap to a beat, so when she tried out, we knew as parents her dream was going to be dashed. Instead of getting a part in the performance, she was asked to help with the production.
Now, as a high schooler, Ruth Love has developed a passion for writing and directing. She has produced two short films and truly cares about her grades, not because her parents care about her grades but
FOCUS ON EFFORT, NOT OUTCOME!
Praise your child’s hard work, persistence, and problem-solving skills, regardless of the final result. Instead of saying, “You’re so smart,” try, “I’m impressed with how hard you worked on that project.”
because she wants to get accepted into a competitive film school. Through rejection, she learned about her strengths and has developed a direction in life.
Self-Confidence
True self-confidence is not built on empty praise or shielding our children from reality’s mighty rays. It is rooted in the knowledge that we are capable of overcoming challenges and achieving our goals. Over-protecting and over-providing for our children leads to entitlement and a false sense of confidence. True confidence comes from internal fortitude.
Grit
Grit is a little different from resiliency. Grit denotes courage and strength of character. As parents, we have to teach our children that while life is beautiful it is also hard. Setbacks are stepping stones to developing the resolve to go after goals, hopes, and dreams.
Emotional Intelligence
Raise your hand if you have a middle schooler. God bless you and, yes, you might be the one who needs the bubble wrap. Middle schoolers are a whirling dervish of emotions.
LETTING YOUR CHILD FAIL
The Oscar-nominated film “Inside Out” depicts this so well. In order for our children to be functional adults, they must first learn to manage and regulate their emotions. Anger, sadness, happiness, you name it, these emotions are innate and integral to understanding ourselves and how we operate.
So, how exactly can you set your kids up for success by letting them fail? Here are some expert-backed strategies:
Resist the Urge to Rescue
When your child receives a disappointing grade, do not immediately contact the teacher to plead her case. Instead, help your child to analyze her mistakes and develop strategies for improvement, such as contacting the teacher herself.
Focus on Effort, Not Outcome
Praise your child’s hard work, persistence, and problemsolving skills, regardless of the final result. Instead of saying, “You’re so smart,” try, “I’m impressed with how hard you worked on that project.”
Create a Safe Space for Failure
Let your child know that mistakes are a normal part of life. Share your own experiences with failure and how you learned from them. Also, encourage your children to try new things, even if they are afraid of failing. Let them know that you will be there to support them, regardless of the outcome.
Guide, Don’t Control
Offer guidance and support but avoid taking over. Let your child make his own decisions and experience the consequences, both positive and negative. For example, if your child is having friend problems, instead of telling him what to do, ask questions like, "How do you think your friend is feeling?" or "What are some ways you could resolve this conflict?"
Build Resilience
Resilience is like a muscle – it grows stronger with use. Allow your children to experience disappointments and help them to process those feelings. Help them also to understand that problems are not permanent and that they can overcome challenges.
Reframe Failure
Instead of focusing on the negative aspects of failure, emphasize the lessons learned from it. This does not mean you have to spin the truth or turn a blind eye, but rather look objectively at a mistake or incident with your child and discuss what happened and what she observed and learned.
Model Behavior
Whether we know it or like it, kids are sponging up everything we do. When we make a mistake as parents, we have to be able to admit it and demonstrate the ability to move on from it. Although it is important to establish ourselves as the authority, we also have to let our children know that we are human and humans make mistakes.
As local child therapist Dr. Debi Lynes says, “Normal is just a dryer setting.”
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NONPROFIT’S MISSION IS TO BRING BIRTHDAY JOY TO CHILDREN
Many people think of Hilton Head Island as a wealthy destination resort community, but the founder of the nonprofit The Celebration Projects, Libby O’Regan, knows that our population is also composed of families who need our help.
“There are kids in need of critical essentials like housing and food. And I would argue that joy, too, is a fundamental need, especially for children,” O’Regan said. “There are so many young people in Hilton Head, Bluffton and the Lowcountry who could benefit from joy.”
O’Regan is right. Child psychologists believe joy is not merely a fleeting emotion but essential for healthy brain function. They emphasize positive emotions, particularly joy, have a profound impact on a child’s developing brain.
According to Dr. Stuart Brown, a leading expert in play and founder of the National Institute for Play, joy is vital to brain development. Research suggests that joy stimulates the release of neurotransmitters such as dopamine, which are crucial for building cognitive skills, memory, and problem-solving abilities.
The Celebration Projects purchases a mix of wants and needs including colorful personalized birthday cakes for the kids.
The stack of presents usually wows children and parents
As well, the American Academy of Pediatrics reports that joy fosters creativity, strengthens social skills, and helps children process emotions in a healthy way, supporting their self-esteem and confidence.
O’Regan has seen the benefits of creating joy in her own family. Led by a desire to help area youths by serving children ages 4 to 18 experiencing financial, physical, or mental hardship, she launched TCP in 2020. “I have always celebrated birthdays and holidays in a big way. In our household, a birthday is celebrated with lots of family and friends. Some of my children’s favorite memories growing up have been at their birthday parties,” O’Regan said. “I believe that core memories are made at birthday parties and more children deserve to feel celebrated on their birthday. It is hard to believe, but 85% of the children that we serve have never had a birthday cake – let alone a birthday party. The concept of a party that includes an activity with family and friends, cake, lunch, and presents is not even something they have fathomed because typically it is way out of reach for their family.”
When TCP initially started, O’Regan had challenges connecting to children, but when TCP formed a strong partnership with the Boys and Girls Club of the Lowcountry, the organization began to have a steady stream of deserving children who could benefit from a birthday party.
“We take care of everything, from an activity like gocarting, painting pottery, a ropes course, bowling, arcade, mini-golf, or the movies, for up to 15 guests,” O’Regan said. “We provide lunch, drinks, snacks, cake, and presents, which run the gamut from new Nike shoes and sweatpants to a
sewing machine, to a new novel series, to necessities like hair and makeup products. The family and guests attend the party free of charge.”
TCP’s goal is to do about two dozen parties this year. O’Regan credits their growing success to the generous support of their community and donors who can sponsor birthday parties for $1,250 and get social media, website, blog, and annual report recognition.
Two TCP sponsors are The Zone and Burr and Forman Law Firm. “The Zone feels that The Celebration Projects really aligns well with our mission to provide family entertainment, as well as fill a gap and energize others in the community. The Celebration Projects gives to people who otherwise would not have the experience,” said Libby Cherrington of The Zone.
Bret Pruehs, managing partner of Burr and Forman said, “Our firm’s friends and clients come up with amazing ways to serve, and hosting birthday parties for local children is a good example. We’re proud to sponsor The Celebration Projects.”
Over the past five years, TCP has had a tremendous impact on local kids. “From Kaleigh’s birthday party at Station 300 to Tyra’s birthday party at Cinemark in Bluffton, we celebrated girls, boys, and teens who were experiencing hardship in their own ways,” O’Regan said. “For one special day, they were able to put aside their troubles and feel loved, special, deserving, and celebrated.”
The mom of one TCP party recipient shared, “My daughter was being harassed and bullied. Some of her friends chose the other girl, so they would not get beat up.
The Zone in Bluffton is a frequent choice for birthday party recipients.
All smiles for Sophia at her birthday party.
Our daughter was having a really rough year. I truly thank The Celebration Projects because she loved her party, even with only a few people coming.”
Another TCP party recipient had recently lost her mom. Her father was overwhelmed by his wife’s passing. The prospect of planning a birthday celebration while they were grieving was too daunting. TCP stepped in. “We showered her with cake, a restaurant gift card so they didn’t have to cook, a party for 13 friends at Station 300, and plenty of presents to bring a smile to her face,” O’Regan said. “Though it would not replace the loss of her mother, the party brought joy during a difficult time.”
An upcoming party is for a child coming from a domestic violence situation. “Who is more deserving of joy on their birthday than a child who has experienced violence within the walls of their own home?” O’Regan said.
Because The Celebration Projects hosts just two parties per month, being selected to receive a TCP party is a big deal. Explaining the process, O’Regan said, “When the Boys and Girls Club nominates a child, they are selected out of dozens of children who have birthdays that month, making them feel even more special. One mom told me, ‘As a parent, it means the world to see your baby feel so special and loved.’”
Over the next couple of years, TCP would like to see its volunteer network grow, and TCP is taking steps toward that goal. It is launching a student-run club at Hilton Head Preparatory School in August to get a younger generation involved. Recently, TCP hosted a Galentine’s Day Tea Party at the South Carolina Yacht Club, where several volunteers signed up to help run parties.
“Our future success will depend on individual donors who embrace our mission of providing joy and recognize that it, too, is a fundamental need,” O’Regan said. “Since there is so much competition for grants, we also rely on and cannot thank generous business sponsors enough for their support in our mission of bringing smiles to the faces of the youth in our community. If we can make two children, their families, and their guests smile each month, we are succeeding in bringing joy to hundreds of people in Hilton Head and Bluffton each year.”
For more information, visit thecelebrationprojects.org.
Fun TCP Facts
• The average TCP party costs $1,250 and it includes food, cake, presents, venue, and entertainment.
• TCP serves youth ages 4-18 years old.
• 85% of the children TCP has served say they have never had a cake for their birthday, let alone a birthday party.
• TCP party participants are Hispanic (60%), Black (36%), and White (4%).
• TCP serves the communities of Hilton Head Island (40%) and Bluffton (60%).
Brian and Holly Jackson are photographed with their daughters, from left, Ruby Lee, 5; Gloria, 9; Penny,7; and Sofie Beth, 12. The girls help their parents when foster children come to stay with their family for a while.
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BLUFFTON COUPLE’S PRE-TEEN DAUGHTER IS CATALYST FOR PUSHING FOSTER FAMILY STATUS
Sofie Beth Jackson was sound asleep at home in Bluffton when her family’s first foster child arrived around midnight.
The 12-year-old had insisted that her parents, Holly and Brian, should wake her if ever she was in bed when a child arrived in their care. This night, they did just that.
“Sofie Beth got right up and got into her mothering mode,” her mother said. “We gave the child a bath, got her dressed, and Sofie Beth wanted to read her a book before bed.”
That was in 2024, after the Jackson adults were certified by the state of South Carolina to be a resource family, commonly known as a foster family. Locally, the program is administered by the Child Abuse Prevention Association (CAPA), a nonprofit organization that is licensed by the state to serve families in Beaufort, Jasper, Colleton, Hampton, and Allendale counties.
From the time her parents began including Sofie Beth and her three younger sisters in their conversations about becoming a foster family, she thought it would be cool. “At that point, I didn't really understand the depth of it, but I was like, ‘Wow, to have another kid in our house, I would be really good at helping with that,’” she said.
“Sofie Beth has always been a leader,” Holly said. “We kind of joke that ‘She’s not bossy; she has strong leadership qualities.’ She’s very mother-like to her younger sisters, so it didn’t surprise me that she wanted to do this.”
Her mom said Sofie Beth is interested in the details of a foster child’s well-being. “Each child is required to have a doctor check-up within 48 hours of coming into my care,” Holly said. “Sofie Beth wants to know how did the doctor visit go, can I go to the doctor visit, can I go to the dentist with them. She wants to be part of the hard part.”
One of those hard parts involved a child whose behavior caused a moment of high stress for Holly. “I know that (Sofie Beth) saw it on my face, and she said, ‘I’ve got this’ and she did. She just took the child by the hand and went for a walk.”
Whether or not her being closer to a foster child’s age is part of that calming connection, Sofie Beth has an additional theory. “You’re still the authority figure,” she said to her mother, “and sometimes in their lives, that authority figure has let them down.”
BECOMING A RESOURCE FAMILY
Holly became aware of CAPA in 2017 while working as a television news reporter. “When I worked for WSAV, I covered the opening of the CAPA foster family program,” she said. “I remember thinking ‘Wow, this might be something I'd be interested in.’”
She and Brian discussed the idea, but “We both tried to bury it. We tried to make it not work, and it just kept coming back,” Holly said. “We had so many reasons why we shouldn't commit – life is too busy, we already have a lot of kids, we’ve got too much going on, we both have full time jobs.
One of Holly’s primary concerns was that she would become too attached to children in their care and couldn’t bear the thought of them leaving.
“Like so many people, I shut it down with the whole idea of ‘Oh, I could never give them back,’ she said. “(I thought) I would have to adopt them all because I couldn’t give them back!”
At some point in recent years, there was a shift in her perspective. What if everybody had that mindset and decided not to foster because of their own fears?
“So, I changed it into, ‘This is very likely the absolute worst period that (these children) will ever go through in their whole lives, and we could be a bright spot for them,’” she said. “Let’s be part of their lives – maybe just a small blip in their lives, but let’s let it be a relaxed and joyful blip.”
Getting a nudge from Sofie Beth was the final push they needed. “We had already agreed to get certified,” Holly said. “But we weren’t sure if we wanted to start immediately.”
Hearing this, Sofie Beth said, “Oh my gosh, can you please just say we’re ready to start? How will we know unless we try?”
Megan Buss, resource family case manager at CAPA, is familiar with the hesitation Holly and Brian experienced at first.
“One big fear is that the family will get attached to a child and won’t want to give them back,” Buss said. “But there are so many positives!”
Not only does the foster family provide a safe, stable, and nurturing environment for a child, but they can also provide the child with new social experiences, Buss said. “For example, some children have never seen Santa Claus, or have never eaten at a restaurant, or never attended a baseball game,” Buss said. When a foster family can do things like this with a child, “it turns out to be quite a beautiful thing.”
Buss said the general requirements for becoming a foster family include: the home must pass fire inspection, a background check on all family members over the age of 13, fingerprinting for everyone over 18, medical checkups for everyone, and a home study.
“The home study is where we talk about family history, see family dynamics, and learn about their discipline techniques,” Buss said. “It’s just getting to know them, their interest in fostering, and having them answer a questionnaire.”
After those criteria are met, and a family situation is deemed suitable, there is training. Held over three days, the sessions cover all sorts of potential issues and solutions. For instance, many children are coming from a trauma situation, so families get training in how to deal with the resulting behaviors.
From application to approval takes about two or three months, Buss said.
Families are advised to be prepared for a child to spend up to a year with them, though shorter time frames are more common. The Jacksons have welcomed a total of four children, ages 2 to 9, for durations that varied from two days to six weeks.
The entire Jackson family has embraced the program and their responsibilities as a foster family wholeheartedly. Holly is the primary caregiver, and handles the large and small details, from making sure the child is safe, fed, and clothed, health checkups, and all the details in between.
With a demanding job as a bank executive in Savannah, Brian’s involvement is mostly evenings and weekends, especially for fun adventures. On the regular, 7-year-old Penny said, her dad “makes our lunches and takes us to school,” and he always says “yes” to ice cream.
All four of the Jackson girls pitch in with love, support, and play.
“I really like having the opportunity to do something as a family, to be with and help the other kids,” said Gloria, age 9. Her mom said, “Gloria was a huge help with the school age child. She carried her in on her hip the first day of kindergarten.”
Ruby Lee, age 5, had fun with one of the girls who was her age. “They played together all the time,” Holly said. Penny chimed in, “Yeah, she taught the girl how to pull up stepping stones and find worms and snails and stinger bugs.”
“You have to wait until after the rain,” Ruby Lee said.
Brian is proud of his daughters and their efforts. “It’s really cool to watch them being little mamas and pitching in and helping,” he said.
When asked the first thing they do when they learn the family will be receiving a foster child, Penny said she wants to know “How old are they?”
Gloria said, “I get ready, get calm, and get excited.”
“I know to be ready for anything,” said Sofie Beth.
(Ruby Lee missed the question because she was off looking for bugs.)
JOYS AND CHALLENGES
The highlights of fostering are numerous, according to Jackson family members.
“For me it, was Day One with one of them,” Holly said. “I said, ‘Hey, my name is Holly and you can call me Miss Holly or you can call me
Sofie Beth Jackson, a student at Bluffton Middle School, is a “huge help” with foster children in the care of the Jackson family.
…’ and I was saying all these different names, and she said, ‘I'm going to call you mom.’”
Sofie Beth said the child did the same thing to her. “I said you can call me Sofie or Sofie Beth, or we can make up a name. And she said, ‘I’ll call you sister.’”
Gloria enjoyed teaching one of the children “how to be outside.”
Penny related how she loaned a treasure to someone. “One night, a girl sleeping in my room was crying and I let her sleep with my stuffed animal,” she said.
Though staying in touch with a child’s birth family is very rare, Holly said she has formed a friendship with the grandmother who now is the guardian of one of the children.
“She and I talk every week, we’ve met up three times, and I’m always following up, asking about his speech therapy and different milestones, and she’s sending me pictures,” Holly said.
One special success was that one of the children received Section 504 accommodations as a result of the required doctor visit. (Section 504 is a policy of the U.S. Department of Education that helps ensure that students with disabilities have equal access to educational opportunities.)
“We knew she needed glasses, so we got her an eye exam, and she got glasses,” Holly said. “She also got behavior therapy.” That 504 documentation will follow the girl to any South Carolina public school she attends.
Another highlight is experiencing support from community members who have helped with their charges. From the doctors who squeeze a check-up into their schedules, to the schools who work with the foster children, and even neighbors at the bus stop, “Everybody has just been so accommodating and I feel like the community, no matter where I am, is just pulling for these kids,” Holly said. “No matter who I call, once I tell them what the situation is, they're like, ‘Let’s do this. I’m here to help.’”
As for challenges, there are a few. At the top of the list is having to say goodbye – sometimes on very short notice. Not only are the children
sad to leave, but the Jacksons are sad to see them go.
“Goodbyes are very hard for all of us,” Holly said. “Especially the moment they say goodbye, it’s just a swarm of emotions in our house! It’s the packing up, it’s crying, it’s some of us getting snippy with each other, because we’re trying not to show that we’re sad, because we want this person to stay with us because they become like our family. And then they disappear and it’s almost like you’re mourning a death because you don’t know if you’re ever seeing this person again. That’s really hard.”
Still, the upside is experiencing the joy of helping a child in a tough situation. “When I put down my pros and my cons list, the pros always win,” Holly said.
Some families might hesitate to introduce their own children to others who have behavioral or mental health issues, or family trauma. Holly recognizes their family is often dealing with another child’s sadness, anger, fears, and feelings of abandonment. Seeing those things now, she believes, will help her children be more compassionate and understanding of the world around them.
“I know that I’m going to be introducing tough feelings for my own kids, and sometimes I question ‘Am I right in doing that?’ but I think in the grand picture, this is going to be a lifelong lesson that can help them in so many ways,” Holly said. “To be able to be aware of what other kids have gone through, and people next to them in the workplace, or the classroom, in college, or wherever –these things will come back to them.”
It is already working for Sofie Beth.
“I didn’t really know much about kids’ traumas and stuff – I never went through any of that,” she said. “At school now, sometimes I understand why kids are a certain way, why some kids have to go to the social worker to get a snack, why this one kid always wears the same shirt every day. It’s a whole different perspective.”
The Jackson girls encourage others to consider becoming a foster family, or at least support the work of CAPA through donations of funds or items on their shelter wish list.
Gloria summed up her family’s experience as an example of why others should get involved: “These kids go through a lot more than people know. If a family can help them, it could change that kid’s life.”
To learn more about CAPA and how to support its programs, visit capabeaufort. org/foster.
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Once Upon a Child
BRINGING SUSTAINABLE, AFFORDABLE SHOPPING TO BLUFFTON
For parents, keeping up with their children’s everchanging clothing sizes and toy preferences can be both costly and overwhelming. Enter Once Upon a Child, a franchise that offers an ecofriendly, budget-conscious solution. Bluffton’s newest location is owned by Leah Baker, whose passion for thrifting and sustainability led her to open the store, creating an invaluable resource for families in the Lowcountry.
Baker’s journey to opening the store wasn’t a straight path. Having lived on Hilton Head Island 15 years ago, she and her husband moved to Virginia but always hoped to return. “My sister was here on Hilton Head, and we were trying to figure out how to come back and what to do,” she said.
Initially, Baker considered opening an independently owned consignment shop focused on maternity and children’s clothing. However, she realized the risk of going solo and found comfort in the support of a franchise. That’s when fate stepped in.
Baby and toddler bodysuits are always ten for ten dollars.
A variety of children's books at reduced prices.
Strollers, and shoes, sorted by size in neat blue boxes, line the walls at this fun store devoted to your littles.
“A friend of mine owned a Once Upon a Child in Virginia,” Baker said. “After talking to her, I realized this was the perfect fit – why start from scratch when I could be part of a trusted brand?” Two years later, her dream has become a reality.
Baker’s passion for her business is personal – she’s not just an owner, she’s a customer. “I have a 6-year-old son, Jack, and a 3-year-old daughter, Isla,” she said. “They love coming to the store – especially for the toys! Jack even enjoys shopping for clothes, so he was thrilled when I told him we were opening this.”
Her own experience as a mom fuels her dedication to making the store an inviting, easy-to-navigate space. “Every Once Upon a Child store has a different feel,” Baker said. “Ours has that Bluffton charm – welcoming, bright, and friendly.” How Once Upon a Child works
The concept for the store is simple: Parents can bring in gently used children’s clothing, toys, and baby gear for cash or store credit. The items that are accepted become inventory for the store. The process is designed to be seamless.
“You bring in what your kids have outgrown, we go through each item, and our system generates an offer,” Baker said. “If you accept, we pay you cash on the spot. If not, you can take your items back – no pressure.”
Unlike traditional consignment shops, where sellers wait for their items to sell before getting paid, Once Upon a Child buys inventory outright. “Everything goes straight to the floor,” Baker adds. “It comes from your home, into our bins, and onto the racks for the next family to enjoy.”
The store accepts all seasons of clothing year-round and a wide variety of baby gear, including strollers, jumpers, swings, and books. “We even check for safety recalls on all gear to ensure families are getting safe, high-quality items,” Baker said.
The back wall of the store is stocked with all sorts of toys, from Little People to Polly Pocket.
A tool bench for your builder-to-be sits waiting for its new owner at Once Upon a Child.
Since opening its doors, Once Upon a Child has seen an enthusiastic response from the Bluffton community. “It’s been amazing. We’ve been super busy every day,” Baker said.
To celebrate its launch, the store hosted a grand opening weekend packed with giveaways and activities. “Thursday, we gave away a Radio Flyer wagon and had balloon twisting,” Baker said. “Friday, we did a dollhouse giveaway and face painting. Saturday, Queen Elsa visited, and we raffled off a brand-new Little Tikes bounce house.”
While Baker is still settling into the daily rhythm of the store, she plans to continue engaging the community with events. “I’d love to have a coffee truck some mornings for the moms,” she said.
Sustainability and affordability
Beyond providing affordable children’s items, Once Upon a Child plays an important role in sustainability. Baker is passionate about the store’s eco-friendly mission.
“There are tons of clothes that end up in landfills every year,” Baker sais. “Instead of throwing out perfectly good clothing, we’re giving them a second life. It’s a win-win –parents make a little cash, another family gets a great deal, and we reduce waste.”
In a time where fast fashion and overconsumption contribute to environmental issues, Once Upon a Child offers a responsible alternative. “Shopping secondhand isn’t just about saving money,” Baker said. “It’s also about making a difference.”
While Baker’s entrepreneurial journey has been exciting, it has also been deeply personal. When she and her husband moved back to the Lowcountry, they had planned to open the store together with her sister. Tragically, her sister passed away unexpectedly after they had already signed with Winmark, the franchise parent company.
“This was supposed to be a family thing – a sister thing,” Baker said. “Now, it looks different than I imagined, but I’m still doing what I love.”
Despite the heartache, Baker finds strength in her family and the supportive Bluffton community. “My mom moved here to be with us, and my husband’s family is here, too,” she said. “We have so many people in our corner.”
As the business grows, Baker is looking for passionate team members. “Weekends and evenings are the hardest shifts to fill,” she said. “A lot of moms want to work during school hours, which makes sense. But we need people for our later shifts, 3 to 8:30 p.m. on weekdays, and all day on weekends.”
Employees enjoy in-store discounts and first dibs on new inventory. “It’s a fun place to work,” Baker said. “We’re always laughing and having a good time.”
In just a short time, Once Upon a Child has made a significant impact on Bluffton families. With a focus on affordability, sustainability, and community, Baker’s store is more than just a retail space; it’s also a resource for parents and a labor of love.
Baker is excited to continue growing the business while staying true to its mission. “We’re here to make life easier for families,” she said. “Whether you’re shopping, selling, or just stopping by to say ‘hi,’ we can’t wait to welcome you.”
For more information, visit Once Upon a Child Bluffton at 1202 Fording Island Road or at OnceUponAChild.com/ Location/Bluffton-SC.
Arts Center of Coastal Carolina https://www.artshhi.com/arts-education/ camps
Create A Play
June 9-13
Ages 6-14 9:30a.m. - 3:30p.m.
Creative Explorers Camp: Multi-Media Madness
July 16-20
Ages 7-12
Time: 1-4 p.m.
Tuition $175
kids will learn the basics of clay work while exploring their artistic potential.
Tuition $345
Make a cast of new friends during this fun-filled week. Campers will experience a mini-production and will not only be the cast but will also be the writers and production crew. Campers will learn how to create characters, develop storylines, craft simple sets, props, and costumes, then will perform for family and friends on Friday afternoon.
Art Around the World:
NOTE: No Class on Friday, July 4 as we will be firing the clay pieces in the kiln and returning the following Friday to glaze the work. At that time pieces will be fired a second time and available for pick-up in approximately 1 week.
Take the Stage! Performing Arts Camp
July 14-18
Time: Ages 6-8; 12:30 p.m. - 3 p.m.
Ages 9-14; 9:30 a.m. - noon
Instructor: Various
Tuition: $145
Adaptive Arts Camp
June 16-20
Ages Rising 6-12 graders
Time: 10 a.m. - noon
Tuition: $115 (scholarships available for students with disabilities)
In this camp color theory, creativity and imagination come to life. Students will enjoy a fun and inspiring environment where they can explore different art forms, including painting, drawing, sculpture, and mixed media. Each day features exciting projects, guided instruction, and plenty of time for personal expression. Throughout the camp, kids will develop their artistic skills, learn new techniques, and express themselves in unique ways, then showcase their creations on Friday.
Kids N Clay: Squish, Shape & Create
June 30 – July 3 and July 11 (glaze day)
Ages 7-12
Time: 1 p.m. - 3:30 p.m.
Tuition $145
During this fun-filled week, students will dive into the world of art as they work with our master teaching artists to create original 2D and 3D art from all over the globe. From Africa to Asia, students will build self-esteem as they explore the elements of art through a variety of mediums and meet new friends.
Open to independent creative learners with mild to moderate learning and/or development disabilities.
Get “fired up” for a hands-on adventure in the world of clay at our Kids ‘N Clay Camp. This fun and creative camp is perfect for young artists who want to dive into the exciting world of sculpting and pottery. Students will learn a variety of ceramic hand building techniques: including pinch, slab, coil, surface decoration, glazing, and more! Whether it’s making tiny creatures, colorful pots, or imaginative sculptures,
Join us as we explore music, dance, and drama in this fun-filled camp. Students will work with professional artists to create scenes and musical numbers while developing strong physical characters and staging stories as an ensemble. Young actors will engage in various singing styles, scenes, and dance techniques throughout this fun-filled camp and will create a mini showcase performance in our Black Box on Friday.
Mixed- Up Masterpieces Visual Arts Camp
July 14-18
Time: Ages 6-8; 9:30 a.m. - noon
Ages 9-14; 12:30 p.m. - 3 p.m.
Tuition: $145
In this one-week camp, students will study folk and fine art from all around the world that will inspire both traditional and unusual 2D and 3D masterpieces. A final exhibit and reception will be held
on Friday. Whether your child is a budding artist or just looking to have fun with friends, our camp is the perfect place to spark their imagination and build confidence through art.
Theatre Camp 2: Acting & Backstage Magic
July 21-25
Time Session 1: 9 a.m. - noon
Time Session 2: 1 p.m. - 4 p.m.
Ages: 9-14
Tuition: $175 per session
Join us for an exciting and immersive summer experience at our Technical Acting Skills Intensive. This hands-on camp is designed for students who are passionate about the art of acting and want to deepen their technical knowledge to become well-rounded performers.
Whether you’re a beginner or have some experience, this camp will guide you through the essentials of stagecraft, performance techniques, and behind-the-scenes secrets.
Registration Requirements:
Pre-registration is required for all classes, workshops, and camps. To secure your spot, an online registration must be made. For registration online visit our website at www.artshhi.com and click on the Education tab. If you have questions or need assistance with online registration, please email aadams@artshhi.com.
Family Discount:
If registering more than 1 child from the same family in a camp session, receive $15 off. Enter promo code: SIBLING25 at checkout
Cancellation Policy:
Cancellations must be made 2 weeks prior to the first day of class. A $25 administration fee will be deducted from any refunded amount for all summer camps. To request a cancellation please email aadams@ artshhi.com. Refunds will be mailed within 2 weeks of cancellation.
ALLIANCE DANCE ACADEMY
http://alliancedanceacademy.com/
June 16-20 & July 14-18
11 a.m. - 4 p.m.
Tuition: $250
Princess Camp
Ages: 3 & Up
Dancing, Crafts, Story time, Movie, Water Slide & Pizza Fridays
Dance Camp
Ages: 7 and Up
Dancing, Crafts, Story time, Movie, Water Slide & Pizza Fridays
Sizzling Summer Sessions
June 16-19
July 14-17
Tiny Stars
Ages: 2.5 -3
5:30 p.m. -6 p.m.
Creative Movement, Ballet and Tumbling
$55
Twinkling Stars
Ages: 3-5
6 p.m. - 7 p.m.
Creative Movement, Ballet, Tumbling and Tap
$70
Super Stars
Ages: 5-7
6 p.m. - 7 p.m.
Hip Hop and Tumbling
$70
Hip Hop Stars
Ages: 8 and Up
6 p.m. - 7 p.m.
$70
Acro Stars
Ages: 8 and Up
7 p.m. - 8 p.m.
$70
Shining Stars
Ages 5-7
7 p.m. - 8 p.m.
Ballet, Jazz & Tap
$70
BLUFFTON SCHOOL OF DANCE
https://blufftonschoolofdance.com/ summer/
FULL-DAY CAMPS
9am-4pm
This is NOT a performing arts camp, but a full day summer camp for active and creative rising 1st - 5th graders.
Campers arrive at 9 a.m. and participate in both camp-wide and small group activities all day—both indoors and
Please see organization listed for final times, dates and pricing on all activities.
outdoors—with the goal of expanding their creative minds and exercising their bodies.
By pick up time at 4 p.m., campers will leave with new friendships, smiles and awesome memories … and maybe they’ll be a bit tired out from their fun-filled day as well!
Activities include: Outdoor Games, Relays, Playground Visits, Dance Classes, Drama Classes/Games, Outdoor Water Games, Arts & Crafts and more!
HALF-DAY CAMPS
9am - 1pm
Dancers will THRIVE during a summer full of magic, art, and imagination! We are offering fun-filled summer dance camps for ages 3-5, this summer at Bluffton School of Dance.
From stomping around the safari to rocking out at the disco, we have tons of exciting themes, fun activities, and lots of dancing to make for a memorable week! Your dancer will be talking about it long after they leave the studio.
Activities include: Outdoor Games, Playground Visits, Dance parties, Outdoor Water Games, Arts & Crafts and more!
FIRST TEE - LOWCOUNTRY
https://firstteelowcountry.org/programs-2/ Camps will begin the week of June 9th. Hilton Head camps are each held for four days, Monday through Thursday from 9 a.m. to 11 a.m. Bluffton camps are each held for three days, Monday through Wednesday from 9 a.m. to 11:30 a.m
Hilton Head Camp Tuition $160 per week Bluffton Camp Tuition $120 per week
• Week of June 9th Camp – Ages 7 to 11 (Monday through Thursday from 9 a.m. to 11 a.m.)
• Week of June 16th Camp – Ages 7 to 11 (Monday through Thursday from 9 a.m. to 11 a.m.)
• Week of June 23th Camp – Ages 12 and Older (Monday through Thursday from 9 am. to 11 a.m.)
• Week of July 7th Camp – Ages 7 to 11 (Monday through Thursday from 9 a.m. to 11 a.m.)
• Week of July 14th Camp – Ages 12 and Older (Monday through Thursday from 9 a.m. to 11 a.m.)
Summer 2025 Bluffton Camps – THE GOLF CLUB AT HILTON HEAD LAKES LOCATION
• Week of July 21nd Camp – Ages 7 to 11 (Monday through Wednesday from 9 a.m. to 11:30 a.m.)
• Week of July 28th Camp – Ages 12 and Older (Monday through Wednesday from 9 a.m. to 11:30 a.m.
HILTON HEAD PREP
Dolphin Day Camp:
Come join the Dolphins for a day camp full of fun, learning, and exploration. Each week students will focus on a different theme. Our camp counselors will lead them through age appropriate activities both on campus and in the local community. Themes include Water Week, Art Week, STEM Week, and more. Come see what the island and Hilton Head Prep has to offer this summer.
Ages: 15 months - rising 5th grade
Price:
Full Day for 15 months - 2.5 years old: $475 per week
Full day for 3 year olds - 5th grade: $375 per week
HALF DAY PRICING AVAILABLE
‘N Clay
Hilton Head Prep Summer Camp Dates:
June 2-6
June 9-13
June 16-20
June 23-27
July 7-11
July 14-18
July 21-25
Summer Sports Camps
Join the Hilton Head Preparatory School Athletic Department
for a summer of training! All camps are run by current Prep coaches with years of experience in their respective sports.
See below for camps, dates, and prices.
Future Soccer Camp
Dates: June 2-5 (Monday - Thursday)
Time: 9 a.m. - noon
Ages: 5-9 year old boys and girls
Tuition: $250
Strength, Agility and Games
Dates: (Monday - Thursday)
Weeks Offered: June 2, 9, 16, 23, July 7 and 14
Time: Noon - 2p.m.
Ages: Rising 4-8th grade boys and girls
Tuition: $160 per week
Girls Basketball Camp
Dates: June 9-13 (Monday - Friday)
Time: 9 a.m. - noon
Ages: Rising 4-8th grade girls
Tuition: $285
Elite Dolphins Soccer Camp
Dates: June 23-26 (Monday - Friday)
Time: 9 a.m. - noon
Ages: Rising 10-16 year old boys and girls
Tuition: $250
Boys Basketball Camp
Dates: June 7-11 (Monday - Friday)
Time: 9 a.m. - noon
Ages: Rising 4-8th grade boys
Tuition: $285
Kids
Camp at the Arts Center of Coastal Carolina.
Elite Volleyball Camp
Dates: June 14-18 (Monday - Friday)
Time: 9 a.m. - 3 p.m.
Ages: Rising 9-12th grade girls
Tuition: $425
Rising Stars Volleyball Camp
Dates: July 21-25 (Monday - Friday)
Time: 9 a.m. - 3 p.m.
Ages: 10 years old - rising 8th grade girls
Tuition: $425
Flag Football Camp
Dates: July 21-23 (Monday - Wednesday)
Time: 9 a.m. - noon
Ages: Rising 6-8th grade boys and girls
Tuition: $180
Hero Academy Camp
Dates: July 16-20
Time: 8:30 a.m. - 3 p.m.
Location: Hilton Head Prep
Ages: Open to students 11-15 years old
Tuition: $425
The Details: A fun, hands-on camp offering a practical overview of law enforcement, the U.S. Armed Forces, and first responders. Campers will learn through real-world activities and expert presentations.
Activities Include:
- Police, Fire and EMS Vehicle Displays
- Police, helicopter and K-9 Demonstrations
- Forensics and Fingerprinting
- Mock Crime Scene
- CPR Practicum
SEA LOVE CANDLE BAR & BOUTIQUE
Located at the Shops at Sea Pines Center, Sea Love is a one-of-a-kind candle-making experience. They specialize in providing an engaging and creative activity for all ages. Attendees can craft their own custom candles in a relaxed and enjoyable environment. They can unleash their creativity and craft their own signature scented candles guided by expert staff, with over 100 fragrances to choose from. Visit sealovehiltonhead.com
THE SANDBOX
https://thesandbox.org/ Kids Summer Camps
Dates: June 9-13
Time: 9 a.m. - noon
Ages: 5-6 years old
Dates: June 16- 20
Time: 9 a.m. - noon
Ages: 7-10 years old
Dates: July 7-11
Time: 9 a.m. - noon
Ages: 5-6 years old
Dates: July 14-18
Time: 9 a.m. - noon
Ages: 7-10 years old
Space is Limited.To register, email Alicia Powell at apowell@thesandbox.org or call 843.842.7645.
*Pricing changes and human error occurs. Please see organization listed for final times, dates & pricing on all activities.
Summer camps at First Tee – The Lowcountry
With the last few weeks of the school year upon us, the looming prospect of summer has parents scrambling to find ways to keep their kids active, engaged, entertained – and out of the house. There are any number of options, of course, but what about giving your child a chance to try something new? What about a summer camp that not only lets them get some fresh air and enjoy the beauty of the Lowcountry, but also lets them learn a new sport, make new friends, and develop valuable life skills?
The First Tee – The Lowcountry has been offering exactly that through their popular programs all year long, and this summer they’re teeing up a whole summer of opportunities for kids at their Hilton Head Island campus as well as at Pinecrest, The Golf Club at Hilton Head Lakes, and The Landings at Pleasant Point.
“These camps are a great way to introduce kids to the game of golf and everything First Tee has to offer,” said Executive Director Pat Zuk. “With our summer camps, we incorporate all the instruction and activities that you’d find in our regular classes in a really fun environment that’s perfect for students who maybe never have been introduced to the game. And kids who are already familiar really benefit from the extra instruction.”
Camps at the Hilton Head campus are held Monday through Thursday starting June 9, with Bluffton camps running Monday through Wednesday starting July
21. Hilton Head camps are $160 a week and Bluffton camps are $120 a week, with scholarships and financial aid available. Campers do not need to bring their own equipment, although they are encouraged to bring it if they have their own. Divided into different age groups, these camps let kids learn at their own pace, discovering the joys of the game while learning the fundamentals with friends. Along the way, they’ll be introduced to First Tee’s nine core values and discover how the program puts an equal emphasis on personal development and golf skills.
“Parents are really looking for something that is going to keep their child active while enriching their lives. That’s precisely what First Tee does,” Zuk said. “These camps are a perfect way to build their confidence and let them enjoy their summer.”
Along with hosting summer camps, First Tee’s Hilton Head campus on Gumtree Road is open to the public all summer long. Boasting a six-hole, par 3 golf course, 325-yard driving range, two USGA greens, short game practice area, and a stocked fishing pond, there’s no shortage of ways to spend a day enjoying the outdoors across their sprawling facility. Use of the facility is a $10 donation for adults, $5 donation for children, with a $70 donation earning unlimited use for a month. The facility is free for First Tee participants, active duty military and their families.
To learn more or sign up, visit firstteelowcountry.org.
Article by Jesse Blanco
by M.Kat
Dining With Children
Because I cruise social media pages maybe a little more than I should, I find the range of questions that get asked of locals to be a bit fascinating. There’s a wide variety of them, of course, with different people looking for different things. My favorites are the ones that are short and sweet, but usually end up in an online pillow fight among those who answer.
“I’m looking the absolute best oysters! Go!” is a shortcut to a heated discussion. As is “What’s the best Italian restaurant (or pizza) in town?” That one gets you going every time. You know who you are.
You might or might not be surprised to know that probably the next most frequently asked question is where one can take kids to eat. Of course, every mother’s child is a perfectly well-behaved angel – this has been confirmed – but we do understand that if there is, for example, a long wait for a table, then we are going to need somewhere to keep them entertained. If you have kids, then you know the drill. Fortunately for me, those days are long gone, but I do see and hear where the kiddos are being staged these days while mom and dad navigate a wait – or a beverage. Here are some of those observations.
Skull Creek Boathouse/Dockside
It’s hard to argue against this place being mentioned as a top spot on the island for kids. It just might be the only place where an actual playground is built alongside the waiting area. All the favorite games are there, plus some climbing options and room to run. Plus, the spectacular views, especially at sunset, make for a scene that is tough to beat. In the summertime, the waits for a table can get fairly funky during the dinner hour. Most people know this. I just find the scene out here tough to beat when you are juggling a few toddlers. The menus are kid friendly and everyone goes home a winner.
Harbourside Cafe, Harbour Town
Another top choice in my book is deep in the heart of Harbour Town. The Harbourside Cafe not only offers probably your best view of the yacht basin and the island’s iconic lighthouse, but there are also a ton of distractions around. There are shops to browse, pathways to stroll through, and the family can enjoy looking at the various watercraft docked in the marina. Or you can take the kids to the Gregg Russell Playground just a stone’s throw away. Add to that a postmeal concert from the legendary entertainer himself and you are in business.
Local Legend Brewing Company
New on the list this year is the island’s new brewery, Local Legend. Owned and operated by SERG, it is more than obvious
they considered the need for space for families traveling with children. Not only is there a fairly large outdoor area, featuring corn hole games and other distractions, but inside you will find a clear divide between the beer-consuming adults and the arcade game-playing children. Everyone gets a side of the room. Down the middle are a series of booths, allowing access and visuals to both sides. There is food on the menu here. I suspect it will become as popular as our next stop in very short order.
The Bank
The island’s largest food court/food truck park is an ideal spot for not only variety in the kind of eats you can offer your group, but also outdoor fun. They’ve been open for a couple of years now, so most people know about it, but if you don’t know and you have children in tow, then you should.
A few others that are certainly worthy of mentions here include Fish Camp on Broad Creek, Poseidon at Shelter Cove, and Salty Dog at South Beach Marina. If all else fails, or the weather doesn’t feel like cooperating, then it sounds like a few pizzas are in order with special reserved seating for some Netflix. Hey, options are always good.
Photography
>> Jesse Blanco
>> Local Legend Brewing Company
Article by Sheila Tucker . Photography by M.Kat
Why is Everyone Crying and Where is the Dog?
Mom. Mommy. Mama. Mother. MOOOMM!!! Bruh.
I see you. You’re being pulled in all directions: soccer practice, ballet lessons, and theatre rehearsals on the same day, inconveniently at the same time. The school calls, and you need to pick up your sick child, but you can’t clear your schedule to take the rest of the day off.
“I guess it’s ‘bring your sick child to work’ day,” you mutter under your breath.
Then there’s dinner to cook, homework, and the never-ending pile of laundry. Why is there always so much laundry? You tell yourself it will get easier when they get older, only to discover a whole new level of worry and concern.
Breathe.
Toddler meltdowns, teen meltdowns, and the dog needs to go outside. You crave a few moments of peace. A time out. You silently make your way to the bathroom. Surely, in all the commotion, no one will know you’re gone. Sadly, this is the only room for temporary solace. That is, until you’re found.
You take a deep breath. Trying to hold it all together like an old piece of painter’s tape. You have approximately 30 seconds, maybe 60 if you’re really lucky, before someone begins to wiggle the door knob.
You know your time is up as you hear your name echoing down the hall and steadily becoming more pronounced. “Moooommmmm!” You stand up. Roll your shoulders to return them to their rightful place, sigh your biggest sigh of the day, and open the door.
You, mama, juggle all of the day’s tasks while raising children and precariously balancing some semblance of a social life. I see your tired eyes,
...there’s dinner to cook, homework, and the never-ending pile of laundry. Why is there always so much laundry? You tell yourself it will get easier when they get older, only to discover a whole new level of worry and concern.
body, and soul. Putting one foot in front of the other because that’s your only option.
You take a hard swallow of your daily dose of worry. You are concerned you’re not living up to the expectations of your children, your spouse, society, all the moms who look like they have it all together, but most importantly, yourself.
There’s this struggle to juggle all the things in your life. You know, the stress of trying to get it right, to be a good mother. Worrying if you’re doing enough or providing enough nurturance to your child’s life.
Let me save you some time. You are. You do. End of story.
Your mind is holding so much and constantly reshuffling in an effort not to drop the ball or forget something –anything.
You, mama, have an impressive number of balls in the air at all times.
I’m here to tell you it’s OK to drop a ball. Then, with the skill of your best elementary school kickball player, kick it somewhere far away. Or you can place it to the side sans the flair.
Truth be told, not all the balls you’re juggling are glass. Some are rubber. That’s right – you’ll see those bounce instead of witnessing a crash with a million tiny pieces to clean up. You know which one is which. It’s at the height of the stress and mental load that you doubt yourself.
Dropping or setting down a ball is not a failure. It doesn’t say anything about
Why is Everyone Crying and Where is the Dog?
your parenting skills or personhood. There’s zero shame. It’s called being a good enough mother.
“Good enough” doesn’t mean you’ve given up or don’t care. It allows your child to see that life is not perfect. Instead, it can be messy, and people can make amends.
The amount of emotional and mental weight you’re holding is bound to get heavy, frustrating, and fatiguing. Try this with me.
Pick up something heavy, but something you can easily hold. Now, imagine toting it around all day long. Yes, even while you’re driving or holding a child. You might find it difficult to focus. You quickly become fatigued and frustrated. Your arms or back might hurt. You begin to have thoughts about your situation that create more frustration.
Okay, now put that thing down and imagine doing the same things. Notice the absence of the pressure. In some ways, it’s easier – until guilt creeps in like an unwanted glitter explosion – sparkly, pointless, and impossible to clean up.
Guilt is one unfortunate and potential side effect of setting down a ball.
Your guilt makes sense. You want to give your children the absolute best childhoods, so they’re not sitting on my therapy sofa talking about you later in life. They probably still will, so let that one go.
You might be wondering how you can overcome guilt. The answer is simple; the practice, not so much. It starts with acknowledging your guilt. Don’t push it away. Make room for it to be there. Then, with your guilt in hand, you proceed. This could look like saying to yourself or aloud, “Ugh, I feel so guilty that I can’t attend all of Stephanie’s games” while also remaining present during the ones you can attend.
Usually, where you find guilt, you also find unmet expectations. Those expectations are great. They can give you something to look forward to. They can also be miserable when the distance between your expectations and reality is the size of the Grand Canyon.
Give yourself a break. Be kind to yourself. And know you can absolutely do it all. You can. You just can’t do it all at the same time and probably not on the same day (sometimes not even the same week).
You’ve got this, mama.
Happy Mother’s Day to all of you mamas, moms, mothers, like-a-moms, mommies, mooooommmms, and bruhs. Thank you for who you are and for carrying the mental, emotional, and physical load – Every. Single. Day. Now place your hands on your heart and repeat after me: “I am loved. I am good enough.”
To read more about the joys of being a good enough mom, search the CH2/CB2 archives in the May 2023 edition for “The Art of The Good Enough Mother.” There, I talk about the research and what being a “good enough” mother looks like. It’s a quick read for one of those times you’re hiding out in the bathroom.
Happy Spring!
Charlie and Carolyn Taylor with their daughters Stella and Rose.
Article by Barry Kaufman
SHOP LOCAL, SLEEP BETTER
SMALL, LOCAL MATTRESS STORE OFFERS BIG-BOX SELECTION, PRICES
At its heart, all local business is family business. That’s particularly true here in the Lowcountry, where the lines between community and family can get a little blurry sometimes. We raise our kids together here, cheering them on with one voice on the baseball fields and from the sidelines. We share in the communal experience of gathering around an oyster roast or a beach party. In short, we are a community in the purest sense of the world.
And a community – just like a family – always takes care of its own.
When Charlie Taylor opened May River Mattress Company three years ago, there was no certainty that his new venture would be successful. After all, the mattress industry is dominated by big-box brands – national chains that stake their claim at every strip mall and storefront they can in order to squash smaller stores.
Photography by M.Kat
It was not a sure thing. But Taylor had a few things going for him.
The first was his family. A third-generation entrepreneur, his grandparents, Charles and Ellen Taylor, started Shoreline Rentals on Hilton Head Island in the 1980s; his parents, Ginny and Mark, own Hilton Head Pottery and Taylor Long Term Rentals, and have shown him how a business is run.
The second element is his own invaluable experience,
spending the past 15 years focused on the mattress industry as well as the wider furniture industry as a whole. His was an experience both earned and passed down, making him ideally suited for running his own business.
But the biggest thing he had going for him was this community.
“We have had so much community support in our effort to offer people a truly local mattress store,” Taylor said. “It’s
Stella tests the new mattresses with a few good bounces.
The Taylor Family
truly about keeping dollars local. A lot of people talk about that, but it’s an integral part of any community that when you spend money here, it stays here.”
He doesn’t mean it stays just in the company. Taylor launched May River Mattress as a celebration of community, and he uses it to give back at every opportunity.
“The money you spend here lets us support our community and its initiatives,” he said. “We’ve been supported enough that we’ve been able to help support Island Rec Center, the Outside Foundation, Coastal Conservation League … if it helps kids or our local environment, we’re there.”
But even the most sincere gestures of goodwill can only go so far. It’s important that a local business be local, but it’s equally important that it offer what customers expect from a business. For a mattress store, that means a wide selection of brands and options to suit any sleeper at a price that won’t keep you up at night. That is exactly what Taylor has been able to deliver, thanks to his impressive business acumen.
“We certainly don’t carry the weight of some of the bigger names in certain aspects, but being a small business, it’s far easier to be nimble,” Taylor said. “We’re able to minimize overhead and pass the savings on to our customers, and we’re not beholden to any one brand or manufacturer. If something isn’t working or we don’t like the value a label offers, it’s easy for us to change.”
That has allowed May River Mattress Company the opportunity to curate a collection that offers the best night’s sleep at any price. From national brands like Tempur-Pedic, Stearns & Foster, Beautyrest, and Nectar to smaller, familyrun lines like Greensboro, North Carolina’s Mattress Grove – almost all of which are made in America – it’s the same selection you’d expect at the big box. That is, if the big box stores were as selective about their offerings.
Because that could be the biggest advantage that Taylor had in creating his business. The man lives, breathes, and knows mattresses.
“At our store, it’s very much educational based. We walk you through the whole process and let you compare,” he said. “I’ll have a customer come in who wants the exact mattress type and brand they bought 15 years ago, but a lot can change in 15 years. Some labels simply offer a better product for what you’re looking for now. Plus, you’ve probably changed in 15 years. Your body is different, your sleep patterns are different, so your needs are different.”
That education is just part of a philosophy that puts the customer – that member of the community and thus, that member of the family – first.
“A mattress is a very personal, subjective purchase and you want someone to guide you,” Taylor said. “At a big box store, they might just show you the selection and say, ‘go for it.’ Here, you’re going to get me or one of my employees who also have years of mattress-specific experience, and we know what to look for.”
It’s a dedication to you, the customer, that is simply reciprocal. They support you, because you supported them first.
“We’re very lucky to have such a great community and such great customers,” Taylor said.
May River Mattress Company is located at 1060 Fording Island Road, Suite B in Bluffton. Stop by, call (843) 836-2337, or visit mayrivermattress.com.
Plush custom upholstery, pillows , and inviting conversation nooks make this great room the heart of the home
Article by Cheryl Ricer
Design by Alexandria Wildasin, ASID, Edwards Antiques and Interiors
A Timeless Transformation
WATERFRONT HOME THAT WOWS
Along the scenic waterways of one of Hilton Head Island’s most prestigious communities, a newly reimagined waterfront home stands as a testament to the art of blending classic elegance with contemporary comfort.
Alexandria Wildasin, ASID, owner and principal designer of Edwards Antiques and Interiors (EAI), and her associate designer Sarah Plankey, ASID, took on the challenge of transforming a grand yet outdated Mediterranean-style home into a refined, inviting sanctuary that reflects their clients’ modern sensibilities while honoring the home’s architectural heritage.
A NEW BEGINNING
The journey to this stunning redesign began with an unexpected turn. The homeowners, previous clients of Wildasin and Plankey, had just completed an extensive interior update on their previous home when they decided to make a spontaneous move.
“We had literally just finished their project. We had just installed everything, and we were waiting on three rugs,” Wildasin said. “Then I got a call from the client saying, ‘We sold the house!’ I was in complete shock. She told me, ‘This house just came on the market around
the corner, and we fell in love with it. We put our home on the market, had a bidding war within two hours, and it sold. Can you help us with the new one?’”
With a full roster of ongoing projects, Wildasin and Plankey scrambled to accommodate their longtime clients, understanding the urgency of their request. “They wanted it done as fast as humanly possible,” Wildasin said. “We started the consultation before they had even closed on the house. They were so eager to begin.”
BREATHING LIGHT INTO A DARK SPACE
The home, built in 2006, exuded a heavy Mediterranean influence, with dark wood cabinetry, deep red and yellow walls, ornate detailing, and an overall feeling of heaviness. Despite its impressive scale and prime location, it lacked the airy, welcoming feel the new homeowners desired.
“The house gets incredible natural light because of its positioning on the waterway, yet the interior felt so dark,” Plankey said. “We knew immediately that our main goal
was to brighten and refresh the space while maintaining its character.”
The team opted to keep the original hand-scraped walnut floors, which added warmth and contrast to the new, lighter palette. The kitchen underwent a significant transformation, with cabinets painted a soft neutral shade, new countertops, and an island that was reconfigured for a more streamlined look.
“The original island had a step-up design, which felt very dated, so we cut that off and made it all one level,” Wildasin said. “We also replastered the hood above the range to smooth out some of the ornate detailing – it originally had faux brick and carved grapevines, which were just too much.”
STATEMENT LIGHTING AND GRAND SCALE
A defining feature of the home is its grand scale, which posed a unique design challenge. “A lot of the rooms aren’t huge in terms of footprint, but the ceilings are incredibly
In perfect balance to the house's restrained elegance, the den provides a cozy respite filled with saturated tones and textures.
high, and there are so many dramatic architectural elements,” Wildasin said. “We had to find ways to balance those proportions to make the home feel inviting rather than overwhelming.”
Lighting played a crucial role in achieving this balance. “We waited and waited for the chandelier in the living room because it had to be just right,” Wildasin said. “It’s nearly 60 inches wide, and finding something that would work with the ceiling height was tricky.”
Similar attention was given to the lantern in the stairwell – a bold, oversized fixture that enhances the home’s verticality while maintaining a sense of warmth.
“We wanted the light fixtures to anchor the rooms rather than disappear,” Wildasin said. “The rust-finished chandeliers in the dining and living rooms are a perfect example. They have this beautifully gritty patina that contrasts with the fresh, bright walls and cabinetry. They almost feel like pieces salvaged from a centuries-old French chateau, which brings
The overscaled chandelier adds just the right amount of drama when viewed from all angles
This group of atmospheric original oil paintings adds a sense of grounding to the airy view from one end of the house on the first floor.
A custom designed sofa sits pretty in the bay window overlooking the scenic corner view of the waterways just beyond.
The designer's signature barely blue ceilings and strategically mixed neutral tones for the walls and trim allow the architectural details of the house to take center stage.
so much depth to the design.”
A LUXURIOUS AND TIMELESS PRIMARY SUITE
The primary bedroom was another space that required a thoughtful approach. “It’s a funky-shaped room,” Wildasin said. “It’s surprisingly long but not very deep, and it has a curved wall leading into the bathroom.” To create a sense of structure, the team added a paneled accent wall in a deep, rich wood tone.
“People often worry that darker colors will make a space feel smaller, but in reality, they can create a greater sense of balance,” Wildasin said. “The paneling gave the room a cozy, grounded feel while allowing the water views to remain the star.”
The space was further softened with herringbone rugs, motorized linen drapery, and plush, oversized bedding, blending luxury with livability.
The primary bathroom underwent the most dramatic transformation. Originally an ornate travertine-filled space
The media room embraces layered textures, patterns, and color on the fully custom furnishings, and several seating groupings making it a flex space the whole family can enjoy.
with columns, a built-in tiled tub, and excessive detailing, it felt overwhelming. Wildasin said, “The clients initially considered keeping it, but after spending just one night in the house, they called me and said, ‘The good news is, the shower is completely busted! We’re ripping it out!’”
Working with Savannah Surfaces, the team selected large-scale marble tile that felt both formal and timeless. “The new space is sophisticated yet simple – a perfect
retreat,” Plankey said. “We kept the original cabinetry but refinished it, replaced the countertops, added new hardware, and installed a freestanding tub that makes the room feel much more open.”
THE ART OF BLENDING OLD AND NEW
Antiques are a signature element of EAI’s designs, and this home was no exception. “Every room has at least one antique piece,” Wildasin said. “It’s something we always
The EAI Design Process
PROJECT INITIATION PHASE
Step 1: Consultation – Up to two hours of design time with Alexandria Wildasin
Step 2: Contract, Retainer & Project Commencement
RESEARCH, DESIGN & PRESENTATION PHASE
Step 3: Trade Day – On-site measurements, photos, and final criteria meeting
Step 4: Design & Documentation – Execution of drawings, sourcing goods and services, procuring estimates (standard six weeks from Trade Day)
Step 5: Presentation – Visual display of furnishings and materials, presentation of estimates, and collection of deposit
PROJECT MANAGEMENT PHASE
Step 6: Order Placement – Assessment of delivery lead times
Step 7: Budget & Progress Review
Step 8: Initiation of Construction / Renovation
Step 9: Installation Period – All orders are received
Step 10: Furniture Installation & Styling
Step 11: Client Reveal
Step 12: Deficiencies Identified
Step 13: Deficiencies Resolved
Step 14: Project Closure Meeting – Presentation of final invoices
Step 15: Thank You & Client Party! We celebrate with a party at our client’s home, inviting friends and family to break in the new space and toast to a beautifully completed project.
The grand entrance to a quietly luxurious master bathroom sets the tone for rest and relaxation.
The wood paneling and moody rich tones of the upholstery are the perfect counterpart for the sculptural custom horn lamp and antique accessories.
Simple classic materials in a reimagined scale work in perfect harmony with the antique oushak rug, horn and hide table, and airy color pallete.
do to ensure that a space feels layered, collected, and not overly ‘new.’”
In the keeping room, a French wine-tasting table serves as a breakfast table, adding rustic charm. The living room’s bibliotheca, a massive antique bookcase with a bleached finish, brings a sense of history to the space. Even smaller details, like the coffee table sourced from a Charleston dealer, contribute to the home’s distinct personality.
A particularly playful antique find ended up in the wine room – a portrait of a monk holding a magnum of wine. “It’s from an artist who restores damaged oil paintings and adds funny details,” Wildasin said. “When I saw it, I texted the client immediately and said, ‘I’m buying this for you. It’s going in the wine room.’ They loved it.”
A HOME DESIGNED FOR LIVING
Beyond its beauty, the home is designed to be lived in and enjoyed. “The goal was always to create spaces that feel comfortable yet elegant,” Plankey said. “From the formal living room with its layered textiles and plush seating to the upstairs media room with its game table and bar, every space is meant to be used and loved.”
One of the most unique custom pieces in the home is a fully curved, built-in sofa in the keeping room’s round bay window. “That was a tricky space to furnish, so we designed something that would fit perfectly, creating the ultimate cozy nook for reading and lounging,” Wildasin said.
The homeowners’ favorite part of the finished home changes frequently, Wildasin said. “Every time we talk to them, they mention a different space,” she said. “One day it’s the media room, the next it’s the den, then it’s the outdoor lanai. I think that’s the sign of a truly well-designed home – when you’re just as excited to wake up and spend time in one space as you are another.”
With its blend of classic grandeur and relaxed sophistication, this waterfront home is a masterclass in timeless design – a home that doesn’t just look beautiful but feels welcoming, comfortable, and uniquely personal.
Luisa, the lead seamstress at Carolina Windows (right), works with designer Casey Bryant on a pillow layout.
ARTICLE BY BARRY KAUFMAN PHOTOGRAPHY BY M.KAT
Maintaining Energy and Balance
The life of a designer is rarely one of routines. With every job, the basic job description remains the same: Make a space more beautiful than you found it. It’s every other variable that changes –the owner’s preferences, the materials and objects that need to be incorporated, the size of the space, the light it receives, the foot traffic, the lifestyle, pets or no pets … the list goes on and on and on.
Within a space, designing each element comes with its own infinite loop of variables. One key example of this would be the windows. Window treatments might be one aspect of an overall room’s design, but they serve as a sort of linchpin for the entire space.
It’s something that Casey Bryant is constantly mindful of and will focus on as the in-house interior designer at Carolina Window Designs.
“It’s so important to have window treatments right, because without those balances to the space, all of your energy goes right out the window,” Bryant said. “You still want your beautiful views, because we are on the coast, but you need a beautiful frame around that artwork. You can spend hundreds of thousands of dollars on furniture and rugs, but if you don’t have anything on the windows,
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you’re not keeping that energy, you’re not balancing that space, and you’re not tying everything together.”
She speaks from experience as a designer for her own firm, Luv Ur Space. For more than 15 years, before moving to the Lowcountry, she lived and worked in New York, where her designs graced some of the most lavish homes in Manhattan. The Upper East Side has a decidedly more metropolitan design philosophy than that of the Carolina Lowcountry, but to Bryant it’s all part of the same thread.
“It’s not about my style, it’s about the client. And that’s really what I try to stay true to. My philosophy is about working
A seamstress works on custom drapery in the workroom.
with what people already have,” Bryant said. “People still want their homes to be beautiful. There’s no difference. It’s just a little bit more laid back down here.”
Ten years ago, she made the move South to begin a new adventure. One of the first professionals she truly clicked with was Carolina Window Designs’ Jennifer Kirkland. “I met Jennifer as I was looking around for people I wanted to work with, and we immediately just connected,” Bryant said. “I’ve been working with her ever since.”
Bryant and Carolina Window Designs recently made the relationship official, with Bryant joining the company as the newest member of the team. “They’ve always been like family to me, the whole group here,” Bryant said. “I still do my own thing, but I’m thrilled to be working so closely with Jennifer and everyone here.”
Bryant’s panache for putting the client’s style at the heart of a project, then putting each detail into its perfect place to create balance, works well with the elegant coastal style of Carolina Window Designs.
“A lot of people are moving down here to create their forever home, and they’re bringing their whole life down to intermix with a more coastal style. The key is to create that look without taking away their whole life story by intertwining their pieces with new upholstery and new artwork,” Bryant said.
Naturally, window treatments play a vital role in
pulling the old and new together. “We can do it all at Carolina Window Designs because the seamstresses are in-house and make everything custom,” she said. “That’s what sets us apart.”
For Bryant, it’s a fortuitous time to be focusing her energies on window treatments. Among the design trends she sees playing a more vital role in homes over the next few years, window treatments are going to be huge.
“Things like wallpaper and trim are leading the trends, but window treatments are something people are paying a lot more attention to – you’re starting to see more of the valances, more of the swag. It’s not just a blank window with some blinds anymore,” Bryant said. “And it’s just good feng shui to keep all that energy in the room.”
With her move to Carolina Window Designs, Bryant is taking the seasoned eye that she has cultivated through her celebrated and extensive career in interior design and training it on what could be the most important element of anyone’s home. And it’s helping her find balance in a job she loves surrounded by people she considers family.
“I just love what I do,” Bryant said. “I love bringing joy to people and making their home a beautiful space for them to enjoy.”
Casey Bryant, an interior designer with Carolina Windows, is photographed in the showroom.
Roddy Lane and Doug Hoover
Article by Linda S. Hopkins Photography by M.Kat
The Art & Science of Stone Restoration
Master technicians Doug Hoover and Roddy Lane have the skills and experience to make natural stone look better than brand-new
Training is useful, but there is no substitute for experience.” The oft-quoted line from the 1963 James Bond film, From Russia With Love, applies to almost any situation requiring specialized skills. You can watch a YouTube video, read a textbook, attend a class, or even go to college, but becoming an expert in any field requires time and practice in the real world.
From hairdressing to heart surgery, nobody wants to take a chance on a disaster born of inexperience. And that’s what can happen to your expensive stone floor or those exquisite marble countertops when you hire the technician straight out of his three-day certification class.
What your stone surfaces need is a series of diamond grits used in the proper order by a master technician who is proficient in their use. Enter Doug Hoover and Roddy Lane of Stone Restore, with more than 30 years of combined experience in the industry.
“The process of cutting stone is multi-tiered,” Hoover said. “All stone is different, and over many years, you build the skill to read and listen to the stone. The stone talks to you; it makes a sound when it is cutting properly, and it all has to do with the particular grits you’re using. We have a plethora of tools … many different grits of diamond products and diamond powders. There are a million combinations you can use to get a floor to shine, and it’s knowing what that recipe is.”
When Hoover and Lane begin a job, the first day is what they call discovery, where they take a small section of the floor and “decide what it wants.” They do a test spot and interpret what the floor can do based on the Mohs Hardness Scale. “Different diamonds react very differently to the hardness level of the stone. Some will actually do damage. But that same diamond on a different stone will do a perfect cut,” Hoover explained.
Hoover and Lane make adjustments as they feel and hear what the stone is doing underneath the diamond, recording the grit numbers and rotation numbers to get what they call “a prescription.” “The skill level to be able to do that is very elusive,” Hoover said. “It takes many, many years.”
According to Hoover, there are places you can go and pay someone to train you to do this, but all they do is train you on the products they want to sell. “When you go to school, they have a few pieces of stone for you to work on. They know exactly what the process is to work on that particular stone because it is a test piece in a classroom situation. That is the exact opposite of the skill level you need,” he said.
“And there are so many other issues you’re confronted with from job to job,” Lane added. “It’s more than reading the directions on a box of diamond powder.”
DO YOUR STONE SURFACES NEED SOME LOVE?
If you’ve invested in stone floors or countertops, you know they can get abraded, etched, stained, or otherwise damaged, thus looking tired and lackluster. Hoover and Lane can bring all your surfaces back to life, making them look not only like new, but better.
“You invest in stone because it can be maintained. Natural stone can always be made new,” Hoover said. “Once we’ve done your floor, there is no reason you can’t have a perfect floor for the life of the house.”
Periodic tune-ups are recommended, and repairs can be made easily. “If you have an accident — say drop the pickle jar or spill wine — we can fix it like that,” Lane said, with a snap of his fingers.
“You live in your home. You’re going to mess up your floors,” Hoover added. “But just know that five years down the road, you will need a kitchen tune-up. We can bounce you back to brand-new in an hour to an hour and a half, and you’re ready to go for another five years. All I have to do is match my prescription, and we keep a record of that.”
GET TO KNOW THE TEAM
When you hire Stone Restore, you can be assured that Hoover and Lane will be there personally to do your job. It is a two-man operation, and they keep it that way for the sake of quality and consistency. They don’t have a showroom, a website, or an Instagram account. What they have is the passion and pride that ensures superior work.
Both Hoover and Lane served in the Marines prior to going into business. After retiring from the military and before opening his own floor restoration business, Hoover worked for Grainger Industrial Supply. At the time, he owned a home in Hilton Head Plantation with travertine floors he hated because they had not been maintained. He began investigating how to restore them and realized nobody else was doing this. He had found a niche.
His original business was First Floor, specializing in VCT. But as he began seeing more and more stone floors in homes, he narrowed his focus and, for the past 16 years, has strictly been restoring stone.
Lane moved to the area from Tallahassee, Fla., where he met his wife Melissa, a dedicated schoolteacher. While looking for business opportunities in the Lowcountry, he met Hoover at a local restaurant, and the two Marines hit it off immediately. “Doug brought me on to do a nightmare job, stripping Saltillo (Mexican tile). Then we started getting into more stone. I stuck with him, and I’m still here,” Lane said. That was 17 years ago.
The two are perfectly matched for the work they do, Hoover said. “Roddy has an enormous eye for detail. He gets a handle on it very early on, which
Hoover and Lane can bring all your surfaces back to life, making them look not only like new, but better.
makes our efficiency so much better. We have many complementary attributes.”
Hoover and Lane are the most respected stone restorers in the area. (Ask your neighbors or ask for references.) They were also recently hired to restore the massive stone floors in the F-35 hangar at the Marine Corps Air Station in Beaufort. Joining a government contract and getting through the clearance process was a big feather in their cap, Hoover said. “It was a beautiful marble terrazzo floor, but it was in unbelievably bad shape. We made it look brand-new.”
In addition, they have been doing historical work in Beaufort and, most recently, a centuries-old home in Savannah. “It takes a certain level of confidence to bring someone into a situation like that. It’s more than just fixing a floor. It’s respecting that this is a very delicate home. You have to be very careful, and you have to know what you’re doing,” Hoover said.
Stone restoration is truly an art and a science. If you are looking for expert service with no mess and minimal disruption to your life (they move all the furniture and put it back exactly where they found it at the end of the day), and if you appreciate professionals who show up on time, you will love Hoover and Lane. “We are totally committed to making it a no- to low-stress experience,” Hoover said. “And we are never late — ever.”
To schedule your complimentary consultation, call Stone Restore at (843) 422-6799.
David Lopez, owner of Father Nature, is photographed at his office.
ARTICLE BY BARRY KAUFMAN . PHOTOGRAPHY BY M.KAT
A GROWING VENTURE
FATHER NATURE HAS BEEN CULTIVATED TO SUCCEED AS A
REGIONAL POWERHOUSE
If there’s one thing plants do well, it’s grow.
Of course, some grow more easily than others. That patch of crabgrass in your backyard? It’ll spread everywhere before you know it. That rare orchid struggling to find the perfect spot of sunshine? Well, that’s just a waiting game.
Growing a business, however, is an entirely different challenge. Finding the perfect balance of resources, timing, and market demand can be elusive. The only surefire way to cultivate success is through hard work. And that’s exactly how David Lopez has grown Father Nature since launching it in 2017.
“Our company mission has evolved into creating beautiful outdoor spaces and giving customers new ways to enjoy them,” Lopez said. “We install pavers, concrete, firepits, and synthetic turf for putting greens or pets. Whether it’s laying down an entire lawn or completely replacing a driveway, we do it all.”
It’s a significant expansion from where the company started – with just a handful of customers and some equipment when Lopez took over from his father. Initially, Father Nature was solely focused on providing routine lawn care services. But soon, customers began asking for help with other landscaping projects.
What started as a small side venture has grown into a thriving business with hundreds of satisfied clients across the
Those clients are easy to spot – they’re the ones with the lawns that make you slow down as you pass, admiring their
“We were honest with them,” Lopez said. “We told them we were still learning, but we promised to do the best job possible.”
That transparency and dedication quickly earned the customers’ trust and, slowly but surely, Father Nature gained experience, taking on more complex projects. As demand grew, it became clear that delivering high-quality work
would require bringing in more skilled and experienced people – professionals who could help turn Lopez’s vision into reality for his customers.
Lopez is the first to acknowledge that he couldn’t have done it alone.
“I can’t do it all myself,” he said. “This wouldn’t be possible without my wonderful team. We have great foremen and
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pristine beauty.
experienced guys out in the field, and a fantastic admin team keeping everything running smoothly. They are a huge part of this business.”
For Lopez, success isn’t just about the work itself. It’s about the people.
“It’s about great employees and great customers. That’s what makes a company great,” he said.
That same commitment to people extends beyond Father Nature’s customers and employees. It fuels the company’s philanthropic efforts as well.
“We’ve been giving back because we’re so grateful for the support from our community,” Lopez said. “We’ve donated property cleanups for the elderly, held regular community giveaways, and contributed to local schools I attended.”
One of Lopez’s proudest moments was seeing his company’s logo on banners at Bluffton High School, where he spent his formative years.
“That’s a big accomplishment,” he said.
It is almost as big as what he’s built with Father Nature. What started as a small side venture has grown into a thriving business with hundreds of satisfied clients across the Lowcountry. Those clients are easy to spot – they’re the ones with the lawns that make you slow down as you pass, admiring their pristine beauty.
“We take pride in delivering top-tier landscaping for clients who value quality,” Lopez said. “If you’re passionate about your outdoor space and want to invest in the best craftsmanship and service, we’re the team to make it happen.”
This commitment to excellence has been the driving force behind Father Nature’s success. Since taking over, Lopez has overseen remarkable growth, with an expansion into Hilton Head Island on the horizon to provide faster, more reliable services in the area.
That same vision can be seen in countless outdoor spaces transformed by Father Nature’s expertise.
To see how they can elevate your property, visit fathernatureinc.com.
Photography by M.Kat
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A LINE IN THE SAND
COURTNEY’S THOUGHTS
Forgive and forget? Not me. I hold a grudge. For. Ever. I let nothing go. Is it healthy? No. Is it a boundary? Absolutely. And, according to my therapist, “Boundaries without clarity are not boundaries at all,” so who is winning now?
I learned a long time ago, but not soon enough, that you get one chance with me. Just one. And then you’re on my list. So, when Barry posed the question, “If you could punch just one person, square in the face, with zero repercussions, who would it be?” I immediately began sorting through my mental journals of all who had done me wrong. Afraid of a virtual assault charge, Barry ultimately softened the question to “If you could put anyone in a dunking booth
and Hall of Fame pitcher Randy Johnson was taking aim, who would be in the hot seat?
I had to clarify.
“Who? As in just one person?” Impossible. Because, as with all things in my life, I have a list for this.
Mr. R., my high school mechanical drawing teacher –who, after learning I quit the field hockey team my senior year, yelled down the hallway, “Hey Hampson, quitters never win and winners never quit.” To him, I say, “Screw you buddy, and your four years of sexist comments and put-downs.” Take the shot, Randy.
And while I am at it, I may as well throw my field hockey coach in there, too. She could use a good reminder of what it means to be a coach.
How about the dude I dated who revealed after we landed in the Miami airport that he put an illegal substance in my bag? (As you already know, I have never inhaled, so I was justly appalled but never detained.)
Or the other loser who got another woman pregnant (his coworker, nonetheless) despite being in what I (and the
state of New Jersey) thought was a committed relationship.
The colleague who told me I was “walking like I just had a baby” when I returned to work following an ectopic pregnancy ranks up there pretty high on the Randy Johnson hit list.
Certainly, what’s-her-name from seventh grade could use a swift fastball to the face, I mean the dunking booth target. She was the ringleader of all bullies, the epitome of a mean girl. She made me cry. And there is nothing I hate more than showing my emotions.
The “finance bro” in his stupid khakis and his stupid vest who, after 17 years of employment (plus blood, sweat, soul, and tears) told me there was no severance package. Randy, hit him with your best shot. And then do it again for good measure.
Despite the many volumes of all who’ve done me wrong, on the flip side, there are plenty who have done me right. Allow me, if you will, to pay a brief tribute to one. Mary Vaux, a Bluffton icon, passed away in late March. She was the first person who, nearly two decades ago, made me feel at home in Bluffton. Mary welcomed me into her family and her home (literally giving me the keys to her house). It was in her backyard that I got my first real taste of what the May River gives to the Town of Bluffton. She trusted me to be the wedding coordinator for her daughter Emily’s nuptials (and later, Mary Gwynn’s wedding too). Mary was the first local who didn’t treat me like a Yankee. She introduced me to her friends, taught me the finer points of Southern hospitality, and how to master the art of considering every detail. My fondness for Mary and all I learned from her is forever woven into the fabric of my life.
Maya Angelou said, “I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.” I will never forget how Mary made me feel. The others are just names on a list.
“I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.”
-Maya Angelou
FBARRY'S THOUGHTS
irst of all, had I known that Courtney had such horrifying anger management issues, I never would have agreed to debating her in a column. Clearly, I am just one flippant remark away from being mowed down in a hailstorm of baseballs. Thankfully, this column stopped being about us debating one another years ago.
Second of all, I might have really shot myself in the foot on this one. Because, yes, this was my idea. I am the one that inadvertently lit the fuse on Courtney’s long-simmering resentment towards her exes, her former teachers, and random passersby whose one errant comment have earned them a lifetime of scorn.
And yet, having read her side first before writing this, I can’t really follow her. I don’t really have any specific resentments against any particular
response from Glenn Frey and Don Henley...
"What gives, Barry?"
individuals, at least none that I’d air in public. There are a few select politicians I could be talked into setting up on the dunk tank, but reading the room it seems like there are two groups of people: those who would agree with me and those who would set my house on fire for daring to speak against someone on their side of the aisle.
So, what I’m going to do is widen the platform on the dunk tank and invite a few of my least favorite kinds of people to come on up and take their chances with the Big Unit. (Oh right, I should probably explain for the non-sports fans that Randy Johnson’s nickname was the Big Unit because of his extraordinary height and the relative immaturity of sportswriters.)
First up on the block, people who shout out answers on trivia night. I have been running live trivia for more than 10 years now and, without fail, at least once a month some jackwagon will decide that everyone in the bar needs to hear what the answer is the second the question leaves my mouth. I don’t know what lingering insecurities drive them to this kind of bravado, but I assure you people that no one in the bar is thinking that you’re the smartest person here. They’re thinking that you have the impulse control of a toddler after a dozen Pixy Stix.
Next up, every other motorist on the road. I don’t drive much, seeing as I work from home and I can walk to the bar, but it seems like every time I buckle up, I am witness to the catastrophic failure of our driver’s ed industry. Folks, I don’t have the space to explain all the rules of the road to you, but look up how four-way stops work. And traffic circles. And double yellow lines. And what a turn signal is for. And when you’re done, lobby your representatives to bar Georgia drivers from crossing state lanes.
Finally, classic rock band the Eagles. No particular reason, I just don’t particularly care for their music – and these things always work better when I can come up with three examples.
Yeah, by setting the topic and then immediately swerving, I am once again playing chess instead of checkers in this column. But, if you guys insist that I single out one person to receive a trip in the dunk tank, I’ll acquiesce. I pick Randy Johnson.
Checkmate, Big Unit.
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Article by Cheryl Ricer
JEAN-PIERRe KLIFA
Paris Brings Bold and Elegant Style in New Boutique
French Fashion designer Jean-Pierre Klifa is bringing his signature bold prints and timeless styles to Hilton Head Island with the opening of his newest boutique in Coligny Plaza. Known for his vibrant designs and high-quality craftsmanship, Klifa is expanding his footprint, adding Hilton Head to his list of 12 boutique locations across the country.
“I came to Hilton Head after opening a store in Charleston because I wanted to expand in South Carolina,” Klifa said. “I always felt that the South Carolina woman was a great representation of my customer – affluent, educated, and stylishly elegant with a strong sense of confidence.”
Klifa’s journey in the fashion world spans over 30 years, beginning in Paris, where he grew up in a family of designers. While he made his mark as a handbag designer, his iconic bucket bag, which became the No. 1 selling handbag in the U.S. from 2009 to 2011, helped him establish his reputation in the industry.
After selling his handbag company, Klifa transitioned into fashion retail, opening his first boutique in Key West before expanding to multiple locations nationwide.
His brand is defined by bold prints, vibrant colors, and classic silhouettes that appeal to women looking for statement pieces that are both comfortable and elegant. “Women don’t come to me for plain clothing,” Klifa said. “They come to me when they want color, prints, something festive to the eyes. My designs are comfortable and easy to wear, but the prints are what set them apart.”
The new boutique opened in April, directly opposite Chico’s. While Klifa admits he’s still getting familiar with the area, he is confident that his designs will resonate with Hilton Head’s fashionable clientele. “I’m excited to bring my collection to Hilton Head,” he said. “It’s a destination with a vibrant energy, and I think my designs will fit right in.”
The boutique will showcase Klifa’s latest collection of dresses and handbags, all crafted with meticulous attention to detail. “The fabrics we use are exclusively made for us to exact standards,” he said. “They are soft, luxurious, and printed digitally to ensure sharp, vibrant colors that don’t fade over time. My goal has always been to create easy-to-wear, low maintenance garments that are beautiful and elegant.”
A LEGACY OF CRAFTSMANSHIP
Beyond fashion, Klifa’s signature bucket bag remains a standout piece in his collection. “I’ve been making the bucket bag since 2004, and it’s been my signature piece,” the designer said. “It’s handcrafted in the same factory I’ve worked with for 25 years, using high-quality leather trim and gold-plated hardware that never fades or oxidizes.”
Each season, Klifa curates a fresh selection of accessories to complement his clothing line, drawing inspiration from global design trends. “I work with a team of designers from around the world,” he said. “This international influence
brings a unique perspective to my collections, making them truly distinctive.”
While he didn’t plan a traditional grand opening event, Klifa is ensuring that the boutique’s launch gets noticed. “I don’t usually do a lot of marketing, but for this store, I’m putting in the effort,” he said. “Between magazine features and big ads, I want to make sure people know we’re here.”
With a reputation for bold fashion, impeccable craftsmanship, and a dedication to quality, Jean-Pierre Klifa’s Coligny boutique promises to be a must-visit destination for stylish women. Whether looking for a show-stopping dress or a timeless handbag, shoppers can expect a collection that embodies confidence, color, and classic elegance.
To get a sneak peak at Kilfa’s classic, recognizable fashions, visit JeanPierreKlifa.com.
Changeable Hawk-Eagle
This sharpeyed raptor is always perched high, scanning below for unsuspecting prey.
Toque Macaques Grooming Tiny hands, tender moment- macaque mom caring for her youngster.
Pied Hornbill
They move slow and with such purpose- the most soulful eyes of any bird in Sri Lanka.
An up-close and personal hello with an Asian elephant - checking for any snacks!
Malabar
ARTICLE AND PHOTOS
BY LUCY ROSEN
Sri Lanka: A Birding and Wildlife Adventure
One rainforest. One forest. Two national parks. Countless bumpy roads. One hundred eleven new bird species. All this in just five wild and wonderful days in Sri Lanka.
Going on a birding and wildlife safari in Sri Lanka is like stepping into a nature documentary – except you’re right in the middle of it, sweating, dodging branches, and trying to focus your camera while a monkey side-eyes your snack. The dense forests and tangled undergrowth make bird photography tricky, but the thrill of spotting something new makes up for it.
Unlike many birding hotspots, the lodges here don’t use feeders or platforms to attract birds – something I quickly learned isn’t part of the culture. My suggestion to add some? Met with polite smiles and a firm “nope.” Sri Lanka takes its “let nature be” approach seriously.
THE JOURNEY BEGINS
Getting there was an adventure in itself – 22 hours of travel from Savannah to Colombo via Emirates Airlines, which, by the way, felt more like a flying hotel than a plane. Think of lie-flat seats, warm blankets, and service that makes you feel like royalty. With hydration sticks in hand (to battle jet lag like a pro), I powered through 10 time zones and landed in a world where wildlife rules.
SINHARAJA FOREST RESERVE
First stop: Sinharaja Forest Reserve, Sri Lanka’s last big stretch of untouched tropical rainforest and a UNESCO World Heritage Site. It’s about 33 square miles of thick, green jungle, home to rare trees, butterflies, and more birds than I could keep track of.
Winding through the narrow trails, we were surrounded by the calls of birds I’d only seen in books – like the redfaced malkoha, Sri Lanka spurfowl, and green-billed coucal. The Sri Lanka blue magpie even showed up for breakfast, watching my plate like a hopeful puppy. Despite the thick foliage and low light making photography a challenge, the sheer number of birds and unique plant life made every step feel like a discovery.
The forest is alive with movement – not just from birds, but also from its population of purple-faced langurs, a primate species found only in Sri Lanka. These shaggy-haired, wide-eyed monkeys swung effortlessly through the trees above us, sometimes stopping to peer down as if they were as curious about us as we were about them. Occasionally, a giant squirrel – a creature as big as a housecat – would scurry across a branch.
One of the highlights of Sinharaja is the phenomenon of “bird waves” – mixed-species feeding flocks moving through
the forest in coordinated chaos. Within seconds, trees that seemed empty were filled with motion as dozens of birds, from drongos to babblers, swarmed an area to feed together. It was mesmerizing, like watching an orchestrated flash mob of feathers.
UDAWALAWE NATIONAL PARK
From the dense rainforest, I transitioned into a completely different world. Udawalawe National Park, a vast, open landscape, feels more like the African savanna than tropical Sri Lanka. Spanning some 120 square miles, Udawalawe is best known for its elephants, hundreds of them.
It didn’t take long to find them. Within minutes of the first game drive, we spotted a family moving through the grasslands, led by a massive matriarch. Unlike some other places in Asia where elephants are often in conflict with human settlements, Udawalawe provides a sanctuary where they roam freely. We watched in awe as they used their trunks to strip bark from trees, playfully tossed dirt onto
Indian Peafowl Displaying. Flamboyant feathers- nature’s show-off in full, dazzling display mode - hoping to attract a girlfriend.
Sri Lankan Stilt Fisherman
He climbed down from his perch in the water to have his portrait taken by Lucy.
Monitor Lizards.
Prehistoric grapplers in a midday showdown- with tail whips and firm grips!
Spotted Deer with Locked Antlers
Two stags in a quiet standoff, testing strength.
Green Bee-eater in Flight
This amazing bird hunts flying insects with an unmatched grace.
their backs to keep cool, and nuzzled their young with a gentleness that felt almost human.
But Udawalawe isn’t just about elephants. The park is also home to water buffalo, sambar deer, and crocodiles that lurk in the shallows of the Walawe Reservoir. And then there are the birds – so many birds. Crested serpent eagles perched on dead branches, scanning the grasslands for prey, while vibrant green bee-eaters flicked through the air like tiny, iridescent acrobats.
Despite spending hours scanning the trees and rocky outcrops, we never did spot a leopard. Our guide, however, assured me they were there, watching us, even if I couldn’t see them.
BUNDALA NATIONAL PARK
Next up was Bundala National Park, a completely different ecosystem. Located along Sri Lanka’s southeastern coast, this Ramsar-designated wetland spans 24 square miles and is a paradise for birders. Unlike Udawalawe’s dry scrub
Sri Lanka: A Birding and WildlifeAdventure
and grasslands, Bundala is all about water – lagoons, salt pans, and mangroves that serve as a magnet for migratory birds.
One of the first things I saw upon entering the park was a massive flock of greater flamingos, their pink feathers glowing in the morning light. They weren’t alone. The wetlands were teeming with life. Painted storks, which look like a cross between a wood stork and a roseate spoonbill, waded through the shallows, while pied kingfishers hovered over the water before plunging in headfirst.
Crocodiles lounged along the muddy banks, looking eerily prehistoric, and toque macaques darted in and out of view. Then, as if scripted by nature itself, a lone elephant emerged from the mangroves, walking slowly toward the water. There was something almost cinematic about it, a reminder that, in places like this, wildlife still moves to its own rhythm, untouched by human schedules.
LUNUGAMVEHERA NATIONAL PARK (YALA BLOCK V)
My final stop was Lunugamvehera National Park, which serves as a crucial corridor for elephants moving between Yala and Udawalawe. Covering about 90 square miles, this park is a mix of dry monsoon forest, scrubland, and lakes, making it a hotspot for all kinds of wildlife.
Here, peacocks strutted through the grasslands like they owned the place, their iridescent feathers shimmering in the sunlight. The Malabar pied hornbill, with its oversized yellow beak, was impossible to miss, and we were lucky to spot several perched in the trees.
While we didn’t find any leopards, the landscape itself was worth the visit – rolling hills, ancient trees, and waterholes dotted with bathing elephants. And just when we thought we’d seen it all, a sudden rustling in the bushes revealed a group of wild boars trotting through the undergrowth, tails raised like little flags.
MORE THAN JUST WILDLIFE
Beyond the wildlife, Sri Lanka’s culture was just as captivating. The street markets were a sensory overload, with spices, bright textiles, the sounds of bargaining vendors, and the occasional monkey trying to grab a snack. The people were warm and welcoming, always eager to share a story or a smile.
And the primates – oh, the primates. Toque macaques seemed to be everywhere, from temple ruins to roadside trees, while purple-faced langurs lounged in the treetops like jungle royalty. Their antics never got old. Watching them interact felt like peering into a tiny, furry society.
Sri Lanka is a dream for birders and wildlife lovers, but it’s not always easy. The dense forests make photography a challenge, and some animals stay frustratingly out of sight. But the flip side? Everything you see is real. No staged feeders, no artificial setups – just wildlife being wildlife.
If you’re looking for an adventure that blends incredible animals, stunning landscapes, and rich culture, Sri Lanka delivers. I left with a newfound respect for its conservation efforts, a camera full of memories, and a strong desire to go back and finally spot that elusive leopard.
Wild Elephant No hurry, casually claiming the road as his afternoon path. Driving at night is a bit scary here.
Village Schoolchildren at Sinharaj. Bright smiles and waves from the future of Sri Lanka.
ARTICLE BY LYNNE HUMMELL . PHOTOGRAPHY BY M.KAT
CLIMB ABOARD THIS COMEDY TRAIN AND HANG ON TO YOUR HAT!
Sea Glass Stage Company will celebrate spring with The 39 Steps, which will run May 2-18, Fridays through Sundays, at the historic Coligny Theatre in Coligny Plaza on Hilton Head Island.
The hilarious farce pokes more than a bit of fun at 1930s-style whodunit spy thrillers as it follows a boring, average man, Richard Hannay, through a series of wild events that resulted from a simple outing to a theatre show.
The madcap fun begins with a beautiful woman who turns out to be a secret agent and hurtles
through a stage act featuring a couple of con artists, followed by hilarious underwear salesmen on a rumbling steam train, bumbling policemen, an amazing escape, two more beautiful women, a plane crash, a sinister man missing part of a finger, an attempted murder … and that’s just the first act!
The play is among the zaniest choices of theatrical productions for community theatres. Last year, when Jessica Walck was asked if she would direct a show for the Sea Glass spring production, she accepted and suggested The 39 Steps. Walck has appeared on the Sea Glass stage twice, first
On a crowded train, Richard Hannay (Kyle Price) runs to escape the bumbling police (Travis McKinley and Karen Boyle) as Pamela (Ashley Gonzalez) considers how she can avoid further trouble. The local Sea Glass Stage Company production of The 39 Steps runs May 2-18 at Coligny Theatre.
as Beth in Dinner With Friends last October and as Diana Goodman in Next to Normal this past February.
“There are different reasons to do theatre – to inform, to tell a story, to highlight social issues, to laugh,” Walck said about her choice for this show. “Dynamic comedic timing is my favorite thing to do. Hearing an audiences’ laughter is such a gift.”
Walck is an experienced director who recently moved to the Lowcountry from Naples, Florida, where she was mentored by Dallas Dunnagan at The Naples Players theatre.
Dunnagan’s family name is synonymous with early community theatre on Hilton Head Island. Her parents, Bill and Peggy Dunnagan, opened and
Richard Hannay (Kyle Price) is startled when the beautiful Annabella (Ashley Gonzalez) collapses across his lap in rehearsals for The 39 Steps at Sea Glass Stage Company. The local production runs May 2-18 at Coligny Theatre.
nurtured the first community theatre on the island, the Hilton Head Playhouse, in the 1970s. Dallas eventually took the reins and continued to build the organization until – and through – the opening of the Self Family Arts Center, now known as the Arts Center of Coastal Carolina, in 1996.
The four actors in this show are all new to Sea Glass Stage Company, though all have a considerable amount of stage experience.
One of the performers, Travis McKinley, acted in numerous shows directed by Dunnagan in the early days of the Playhouse. He is pleased to now work with Walck. McKinley is known for his comedic timing and his intense study of character development in every role. In his first show with Sea Glass, McKinley plays 12 characters, from policeman to conman, elder housekeeper to hopeless romantic innkeeper, an underwear salesman and a professor.
His sometime sidekick is Karen Boyle, another newcomer to Sea Glass and to the island, who plays 14 characters, most of them in tandem with McKinley as a policeman and salesman, but also as the brilliant Mr. Memory, a farmer, the sheriff, and an elder master of ceremonies, among others. Boyle’s previous experience includes some time as a stand-up comedian.
The boring, average man around whom the story centers, Richard Hannay, is played by Kyle Price, who recently appeared in May River Theatre’s The Full Monty. Price got his start in theatre in college as a way to get credit for community service for another class. Turns out he got a role right away and enjoyed the experience. He also has performed locally in several productions with May River, and with Main Stage Community Theatre, where he also serves as a board member.
Ashley Gonzalez rounds out the cast, portraying the three beautiful women who connect with Hannay along his journey, each of them more stunning and captivating than the last. Gonzalez was
THEATRE CAMP FOR KIDS
Sea Glass Stage Company will host two summer day camps for children and teens at its home, the historic Coligny Theatre, 1 N. Forest Beach Drive on Hilton Head Island.
The first camp is “Page to Stage: Playwrights’ Workshop,” running 10:30 a.m.-1 p.m.
June 23-27 for ages 13-17.
For younger folks, ages 7-12, “Musical Theatre Boot Camp” will be held July 14-25 from 9:30 a.m. to 2 p.m.
The culmination of both workshops are final performances that showcase the acting and playwriting of each group.
Learn more about the camps and reserve a spot at sgstage. org/educational-programs.
raised on Hilton Head and began ballet training at Hilton Head Dance School at the ripe age of 5. She danced with Savannah Ballet Theatre from 2015-2024, and has performed in local theatre, most recently in Cabaret at May River Theatre.
Audiences are sure to offer round after round of laughter over the course of this nonstop outlandish tale and the antics of its numerous characters.
“This is a love letter to theatre,” Walck said. “It doesn’t take itself too seriously.”
The 39 Steps was written by Patrick Barlow, adapted from an original concept by Simon Corble and Nobby Dimon (a parody of Alfred Hitchcock’s 1935 film), and first produced in 2005.
The local production will run May 2-18 at Sea Glass Stage at Coligny Theatre, 1 N. Forest Beach Drive on Hilton Head Island. Shows are 7:30 p.m. Friday and Saturday, and 2 p.m. Sunday. Tickets are $35 adult, $20 student. For more information and to purchase tickets, visit sgstage.org/tickets, or follow Sea Glass Stage at Coligny on Facebook and Instagram.
Article by Barry Kaufman
Leading with Confidence
COLIGNY’S JR RICHARDSON HONORED AT FIRST TEE COMMUNITY
BANQUET
At its recent community banquet, supporters, volunteers, and staff for First Tee – The Lowcountry gathered at Sea Pines Country Club to recognize members of our community who reflect the organization’s core values. Representing honesty, integrity, sportsmanship, respect, confidence, responsibility, perseverance, courtesy, and judgment, this cross-section of the community was granted an award based on the core value they best represented.
Honored for his confidence, JR Richardson accepted the award with humble enthusiasm and appreciation for everything First Tee – The Lowcountry does.
“This is a tremendous organization that is out there in schools and on the course changing young lives,” Richardson said. “And it’s easy to see the confidence they instill in their students through their guidance and their dedication. I’m honored to represent such an important aspect of what First Tee brings to our area’s young people.”
Richardson exemplifies a confidence that has been earned through years of service. In introducing the celebrated developer, philanthropist and community leader, First Tee of the Lowcountry wrote: “As one of Hilton Head Island’s most esteemed developers, JR Richardson has played a transformative role in shaping the community. His contributions include landmark projects such as the expansion of Coligny, the creation of Windmill Harbour and the South Carolina Yacht Club, and more than 20 years of service as chairman of the Sea Pines Architectural Review Board.”
But that just scratches the surface of what Richardson has done for Hilton Head Island. Brought here by his parents, Norris and Lois Richardson, Coligny’s founders, he has had the unique perspective of not only witnessing the island’s modern age but also playing an active role in shaping it. Working hand-in-hand with his wife, Leslie, the couple have elevated the island through a wealth of philanthropic pursuits while raising three children in our community – James (Amanda), Collins (Morgan), and Forest (Andrew) – as well as one grandchild, James Norris Richardson IV. At 80 years old, Richardson still pursues his role in our community with vigor, overseeing five different projects while advancing the community’s conversation around obtainable housing and hunger relief.
As was said during the award ceremony, “His legacy is reflected not only in the built environment but in the many lives he has touched through his dedication and generosity. JR Richardson is a pillar of the Hilton Head community – a leader whose work reminds us of the lasting value of community-driven development and care for others.”
Photography by Lisa Staff
JR Richardson
The Richardson Family, 1955
The Richardson Family
Joan and Wade Webster Community Impact Award
Winner Kaye Black
Guest Speaker Kristin Dubrowski, Hopeful Horizons
Kristin Dubrowski speaks to the crowd
Guest Speaker A'Nya Marshburn, Lowcountry Autism Foundation
Keynote Speaker Carrie Cook, Federal Reserve Bank of Richmond
Presenting Sponsor Novant Health's Ryan Lee
Celebrating Local Impact and Lasting Change
On March 26, Community Foundation of the Lowcountry (CFL) held its muchanticipated third Annual Community Meeting at the Arts Center of Coastal Carolina on Hilton Head Island. This event served as an opportunity to reflect on CFL’s initiatives and accomplishments of the past year, while also celebrating the individuals and organizations that are making a significant impact in the Lowcountry. The evening’s theme, “Local Impact, Lasting Change,” resonated with the near-capacity crowd eager to share in the celebration.
For more than 30 years, Community Foundation of the Lowcountry has been a cornerstone of charitable giving in the region. With a dedicated staff of 12 individuals, CFL administers more than 540 charitable funds, representing more than $110 million in philanthropic capital.
The event, which was free to the public, was a resounding success, filled with inspiration and a deep sense of gratitude for the collaborative spirit that defines the Lowcountry. Attendees were treated to a program that featured a lineup of distinguished guest speakers and the presentation of the Joan and Wade Webster Community Impact Award.
WSAV-TV news anchor Andrew Davis hosted the event with his signature warmth, humor, and enthusiasm, and set the tone for the evening. CFL was excited to have Presenting Sponsor Novant Health onboard this year, and Ryan Lee, president of Coastal Carolina Hospital, provided brief comments about Novant’s commitment to the region.
Community Foundation of the Lowcountry President and CEO Scott Wierman
Wade and Joan Webster, Kaye Black, and CFL Board Chair Lynn Jennings Taylor
Scott Wierman, president and CEO of Community Foundation of the Lowcountry, delivered an informative year in review presentation. Wierman highlighted CFL’s achievements over the past year, made possible through the support of donors, nonprofit partners, and the broader community. These accomplishments reflected CFL’s ongoing commitment to lead philanthropic efforts that address critical needs in the Lowcountry, from affordable workforce housing to nonprofit capacity.
The keynote address was delivered by Carrie Cook, vice president of community development and community affairs officer of the Federal Reserve Bank of Richmond. In her presentation, titled “Catalyzing Community Development,” Cook shared valuable insights into how local communities can harness their collective resources to drive sustainable economic growth and social progress. She also highlighted the significant role that organizations like CFL play in fostering long-term solutions to complex societal challenges. Cook reinforced the idea that true community development requires collaboration, innovation, and a positive vision for the future.
In addition to the keynote address, the evening featured two remarkable speakers whose work epitomizes the theme of “Local Impact, Lasting Change.”
Kristin Dubrowski, CEO of Hopeful Horizons, an organization based in Beaufort that serves as a children’s advocacy, domestic violence, and rape crisis center, spoke passionately about her experience, the origins of Hopeful Horizons, and the importance of nonprofit leadership training programs offered at CFL. Dubrowski emphasized how nonprofit organizations are critical in providing essential services and programs to those in need.
Dubrowski also shared her excitement about CFL’s Ekedahl Center for Nonprofit Excellence, which debuted in the fall of 2024 due to the generosity of Dave and Patty Ekedahl, and encouraged nonprofits to take advantage of the center’s programs and workshops offered throughout
the year. Dubrowski’s powerful message underscored the importance of education, mentorship, and leadership development in creating positive change and sustainability in the nonprofit community.
A’Nya Marshburn, community program manager at the Lowcountry Autism Foundation, captivated the audience with her speech about the positive impact CFL-administered scholarships had on her academic career, specifically the Krum Foundation Scholarship, and how she is now paying it forward to the Lowcountry community. As a Krum scholar, which provides funding support throughout the recipients’ entire post-secondary academic journey, Marshburn earned two bachelor’s degrees at the University of North Carolina and a master’s in social work from Columbia University by the age of 23.
It’s not often that people leave an area and return, especially at a young age, but Marshburn knew that she wanted to come back to the Lowcountry to give back to the community that raised her. She eventually landed at Lowcountry Autism Foundation, with which she was familiar because her young godson had recently been diagnosed with autism. She saw it as a sign. By the end of her presentation, the audience understood how fortunate the Lowcountry is to have Marshburn back home.
Perhaps the most emotional moment of the evening was the presentation of the Joan and Wade Webster Community Impact Award. The Websters, longtime supporters of the organization, created the award with CFL to recognize an individual who has demonstrated exceptional commitment to charitable work in CFL’s service area of Beaufort, Colleton, Hampton, and Jasper counties. This year, the honor was bestowed upon Kaye Black, a wellknown figure in the Lowcountry philanthropic community.
Black’s recent contributions to several organizations, including Volunteers in Medicine, Port Royal Community Charitable Fund, Women in Philanthropy, and First Presbyterian Church of Hilton Head, have made her a pillar
Celebrating Local Impact and Lasting Change
Guest Speakers - A'Nya Marshburn, Kristin Dubrowski, and Carrie Cook
Keynote Speaker Carrie Cook, Federal Reserve Bank of Richmond
Annual Community Meeting Poster
of community service. Black delivered a heartfelt speech that recognized both the importance of nonprofits that provide support for those in need, and the generous Lowcountry philanthropic community.
Black was awarded a $10,000 grant to distribute to local organizations of her choosing. She selected Volunteers in Medicine, The Children’s Center, and the Deep Well Project, all of which serve Hilton Head Island and the surrounding communities.
Following the program, a networking reception sponsored by Dividend Assets Capital was held in the Arts Center lobby, and included CFL donors, business leaders, public officials, and nonprofit representatives. It gave attendees, including CFL staff and board members, the opportunity to interact with individuals committed to charitable endeavors that make the community, and all of its residents, stronger.
CFL’s Annual Community Meeting was a powerful reminder of the enduring impact of philanthropy on the Lowcountry.
KNOW YOUR FLOOD ZONE AND GET COVERED NOW
Hurricane season begins again on June 1 and along with it comes a reminder about the importance of maintaining flood insurance separate from other types of insurance policies, particularly given our area’s susceptibility to stormwater surges.
On Hilton Head Island, flooding may stem from different kinds of natural phenomena such as hurricanes, storm surges, high tides, and heavy rainfall. The only way to mitigate flood-related damage is to be prepared.
As part of our town’s flood program, we work to educate our residents on safeguarding their properties, regardless of where they live. Through our participation in the National Flood Insurance Program (NFIP), we make certain that federal flood insurance remains accessible to all residents. This program mandates construction techniques to minimize flood damage in areas prone to periodic flooding, as outlined on Flood Insurance Rate Maps (FIRMs). Referred to as the 100-year floodplain, this designation encompasses more than 80% of the island. Get to know your flood zone, potential risks, and associated hazards.
So, let’s review: Flood insurance is available to all residents and it is a separate policy. Unlike standard homeowner insurance policies, flood insurance provides critical coverage of damages resulting from flooding, flood-related erosion, and flood-caused mudslides. Make sure you review your policy thoroughly; separate coverage is available for building structures and contents.
You don’t need a mortgage to purchase flood insurance; renters can get coverage to safeguard personal belongings, regardless of whether the property owner invests in structural coverage.
CELEBRATING BLUFFTON 2025: A YEAR OF COMMUNITY EVENTS AND CONNECTION
The Town of Bluffton has launched Celebrating Bluffton 2025, an expanded series of community events designed to give residents more opportunities to connect with neighbors and spend time with friends and family.
Since 2021, the town has continued to build out its calendar of townhosted events as a way to bring people back together after the pandemic. This year, that calendar has grown further with the opening of Bluffton’s new Welcome Center in February. Located in the historic Squire Pope Carriage House at Wright Family Park, the Welcome Center now serves as a hub for education and community programming. It is open Monday through Friday from 10 a.m. to 5 p.m., and Saturdays from 11 a.m. to 4 p.m.
The events included in Celebrating Bluffton 2025 are intended to offer something for everyone. Whether it’s a family movie in the park, a river cleanup, or a long-standing tradition like the Christmas parade, these gatherings give us all a chance to step away from our screens and daily routines and spend time with one another.
As Bluffton continues to grow, the town has prioritized events as a way to keep our sense of community strong. These events are meant to preserve and promote connection – whether you’ve lived here all your life or just moved to town.
A Note from Hilton Head Island Mayor, Alan Perry
MAYOR
A Note from Bluffton Mayor, Larry Toomer
Lisa Staff Photography
In addition, any house within an NFIP-participating community is eligible for flood insurance coverage, even if it is located outside high-risk zones. Homes facing lower flood risks qualify for a Preferred Risk Policy. For further information on purchasing flood insurance, visit Floodsmart.gov or consult a local licensed insurance agent for optimal rates.
Our community’s commitment to sound floodplain management practices has earned us a Class 5 rating from the Federal Emergency Management Agency’s (FEMA) Community Rating System (CRS). This rating not only reflects our effective flood management but also translates to a potential 25% discount on flood insurance premiums for Hilton Head Island property owners. Since 1991, our town has been actively involved in FEMA’s CRS Program, which evaluates communities based on their effectiveness in managing floodplains. This includes public information dissemination, mapping and regulatory standards, flood damage mitigation, and flood preparedness.
Certified floodplain managers are on hand to provide information and address inquiries regarding local drainage issues, coastal erosion, flood map determinations, flood risk assessments, flood elevation certificates, FIRMs, and construction requirements in particular flood hazard areas. For more information, or to reach a floodplain administrator, visit hiltonheadislandsc.gov/flood/insure.cfm.
Among the featured activities is the Movie in the Parks series, with family-friendly films shown monthly at various locations. On May 2, Moana 2 will be screened at Martin Family Park from 6 to 8 p.m.
Additional events this month are:
May 3: May River Cleanup, Oyster Factory Park, 9 to 11:30 a.m.
May 15: Historic Preservation Symposium, Town Hall, 5:30 to 7 p.m.
Every Thursday in May at noon: Historic Preservation Month lecture series at Wright Family Park, exploring Bluffton’s early families and landmarks.
Summer brings more activities for children, including waterslide days, the Independence Day fireworks celebration, and the Mayor’s Cup 5K and concert on July 2. The Bluffton Concert Series continues with performances in August, October, and November. The year wraps up with the town’s Christmas Tree Lighting, Santa’s Workshop, holiday movie night, and the annual Bluffton Christmas Parade.
We invite you to pack a picnic, grab a blanket, and join your neighbors at one of these free events. They are not only opportunities to enjoy our parks and public spaces, they are reminders of what makes Bluffton unique.
For full event details and updates, follow the Town of Bluffton Government Facebook and Instagram pages. You may also contact Lyndee Simoneaux, the town’s director of events and venues, at lsimoneaux@townofbluffton.com.
On behalf of town council and staff, I look forward to seeing you at an event this year. Let’s continue to strengthen Bluffton’s connections – one gathering at a time.
A Note from Larry Toomer continued
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Russo’s Fresh Seafood Bluffton hosted its annual All-You-Can-Eat Oyster Roast and exceeded expectations by raising $2,100 for Palmetto Animal League (PAL). The event, held earlier this year, was a heartwarming community affair where hundreds of seafood enthusiasts convened in support of the local animal welfare champions.
PAL is a dedicated no-kill adoption center committed to fostering a community where every neglected animal receives a second chance at life. PAL operates with a compassionate approach to animal welfare, proactive relocation efforts, and innovative strategies to address pet overpopulation.
PAL’s team was present with adorable adoptable dogs, hoping to connect them with loving forever families. “We were absolutely thrilled and deeply grateful for this event and the surprising amount raised,” said Lindsay Perry, marketing coordinator for PAL. “This generous contribution will go a long way in ensuring our animals remain safe, healthy, and ready for their forever homes.”
The Programs for Exceptional People (PEP) 30th Anniversary celebration event, Big Band, Big Hearts, will be held Sunday, May 18, at noon at The Jazz Corner in the Village of Wexford on Hilton Head Island.
This milestone celebration will bring together community members, families, and supporters for an afternoon of music, food, and festivities. The event will celebrate PEP’s three decades of empowering adults with intellectual disabilities and the lifechanging impact it continues to have today.
The event will feature live performances from one of the Lowcountry’s favorite bands, Deas-Guyz, along with a mimosa reception followed by a luncheon.
Tickets for this limited seating event are available at pephhi.org.
Giovanni Scianna has been promoted to Battalion Chief of Shift 2 at the Bluffton Township Fire District. Chief Scianna has been a dedicated member of the fire district since he began his firefighting career in March 2008 on Shift 3.
Over the years, Chief Scianna has demonstrated a strong commitment to professional development and leadership. He earned his Nationally Registered Paramedic (NREMT-P) certification in 2009 and has contributed significantly to the fire district’s mission through his involvement in specialized response teams.
Known as “Gio” to his colleagues, Chief Scianna has also been an integral part of the Bluffton Fire Rescue Running Team, an eight-time Siller Cup Champion in the Tunnel to Towers Foundation 5K held in Columbia.
Beyond his operational roles, Chief Scianna has played a key role in shaping the fire district’s culture of excellence and firefighter well-being. He has served on the awards committee and was instrumental in establishing the Fire District’s Wellness Committee, reflecting his dedication to firefighter health and safety. Additionally, he currently oversees the department’s hydrant maintenance program, ensuring the operational readiness of hydrants across the nearly 250-square-mile fire district.
Chief Scianna steps into the role previously held by Battalion Chief Derek Franks, who retired in January after more than 25 years of service.
MAY 2025
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Free Golf Demo at Palmetto Dunes’ Robert Trent Jones Course
The class is hands-on, interactive and all skill levels will benefit.
