
The Remarkable Life of Julieann White, USO Performer and Plane Crash Survivor
The Remarkable Life of Julieann White, USO Performer and Plane Crash Survivor
To create communities where each person feels loved, valued, supported and able to live life to the fullest.
We are humbled by the responsibility that residents and their families place in our hands. We pledge to respect and support our residents in living life to the fullest with dignity and independence.
Our communities are close-knit circles including staff, residents, and their families. This fosters genuine relationships, open communication, personalized service, and loving care.
Everyone on the team approaches their work with love, is sincerely devoted to the people they serve, and believes in the power of compassionate care.
We are healthcare professionals who listen, understand, and personally relate to everyone’s desire to get the most from life. We support wants and needs stemming from this desire every day, at every level of care.
Our optimism and sunny outlook fill each day at Cedarhurst with energy and exciting possibilities. We smile, laugh, forge friendships, and make memories together.
We share each person’s desire for a safe, joyful life. Demonstrating this through outstanding service, honesty, and dedication to each other creates genuine trust within our community.
President of Cedarhurst Senior Living
Welcome to the spring issue of Flourish! As the seasons shift and the world around us begins to bloom, I am reminded of the spirit of renewal and vitality that defines Cedarhurst Senior Living. Spring is a season of growth and new beginnings, and it’s the perfect time to reflect on the warmth and vibrancy that make our communities so special.
At Cedarhurst, we take pride in fostering an environment where every person feels loved, valued, supported, and truly at home. Our core values, being approachable, respectful, positive, passionate, empathetic, and trustworthy, continue to guide us in creating meaningful connections and unforgettable moments. From the cheerful greetings of our team members to the heartfelt interactions among residents, every day is an opportunity to celebrate the bonds that make Cedarhurst unique.
As the days grow longer and the flowers begin to bloom, our communities are bustling with activities and events that embody the joy of this season. Whether it’s planting flowers in our gardens, enjoying a lively conversation on the patio, or coming together for special celebrations, there is an energy and optimism in the air that reminds us of the beauty of community.
Looking ahead, we are excited to continue building on the traditions and relationships that make Cedarhurst such a welcoming place. Together, we’ll embrace the opportunities of this season, finding joy in the little moments and creating memories that will last a lifetime.
Thank you for being an integral part of the Cedarhurst family. Your presence and support are what make our communities thrive. Here’s to a spring filled with growth, connection, and countless reasons to flourish.
Almir Sajtovic
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IN THE SPOTLIGHT
Honoring the dedicated Cedarhurst teammates who uplift our communities with their core values.
LEADING THE WAY
Cedarhurst becomes a National Team for the 2025 Alzheimer’s Association Walk to End Alzheimer’s.
COVER STORY: LEGACY OF RESILIENCE
Discover the remarkable life of Julieann White, a USO performer and plane crash survivor.
LOVE REKINDLED
After 74 years apart, Tim and Dot find their way back to each other. 12
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A WARM WELCOME
A resident and his beloved dog make every newcomer feel at home in Nicholasville.
CAUGHT CARING
Celebrating team excellence and community connection with our Caught Caring boards, embodying Cedarhurst’s values.
SHOW SOME LOVE
Our residents felt the love this Valentine’s Day!
Edna Quinlan’s journey as one of Virginia Tech’s first female engineers in the 1940s. 26
BREAKING BARRIERS
A HUG TO REMEMBER
Families create lasting memories with painted t-shirts at Cedar Creek’s heartfelt Forever Hug event.
LIVING TRUE
Explore all the vibrant activities in our communities. Stay connected on social media for updates! 16
LOVE AT ANY AGE
Ralph and Beth’s story shows that love can blossom again when you least expect it. 18
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A DAILY BOND
A heartwarming friendship between Harry and John proves the power of kindness and connection in memory care. 28
NEW COMMUNITIES
Discover our latest communities as Cedarhurst of Wentzville and Cedarhurst of Newburgh are NOW OPEN! 29
BRIDGING GENERATIONS
Girl Scouts and seniors connect through crafts, stories, and shared wisdom at Cedarhurst of Des Peres. 30
Celebrating Cedarhurst’s 22 communities recognized for excellence in customer satisfaction and care. 32
HONORS FROM U.S. NEWS
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We are proud to pay tribute to the following dedicated teammates whose efforts propel Cedarhurst forward. They consistently elevate our communities to new heights.
For 17 years, Rosalina has been a pillar of dedication and compassion at Cedarhurst of Oakwood. Whether assisting residents, stepping in to cook breakfast when needed, or going the extra mile in countless ways, Rosalina’s commitment never wavers. Even in the face of personal loss, she returned to work after just one day of mourning her mother’s passing in Mexico. Nominated by resident Don Joyner, Rosalina is admired for her unwavering devotion, making a lasting impact on the lives of those she serves.
Corina embodies Cedarhurst’s core values every day. Known for her positivity, passion, and incredible event-planning skills - fondly referred to as “the Corina way” - she goes above and beyond for residents, staff, and families. During a recent snowstorm, Corina stayed on-site from Friday to Tuesday, ensuring everyone’s needs were met. From organizing transportation to cooking meals and leading activities, she stepped up without hesitation. Her dedication and heart make her an invaluable part of the Cedarhurst family.
Resident Assistant, Cedarhurst of McHenry
Callie is a true ray of sunshine. She goes above and beyond, assisting not only residents but also supporting housekeeping, concierge, and kitchen staff to ensure seamless teamwork. Callie’s passion shines through in her care, always showing genuine empathy and respect. She addresses residents with warmth and professionalism, earning praise from both residents and their families. Her dedication to making every day brighter for those around her is what makes Callie an invaluable part of the Cedarhurst family.
Certified Medication Technician, Cedarhurst of Springfield MO
Sabrina is the definition of dedication and compassion. Her unwavering positivity, authenticity, and contagious laughter bring warmth to everyone around her. Beyond her role, Sabrina jumps in wherever needed - providing resident care, assisting in the dining room, and even helping with laundry and housekeeping. Her patience and upbeat personality make her an irreplaceable part of the Cedarhurst family. Committed and loyal, Sabrina’s passion for residents truly sets her apart. Cedarhurst of Springfield is beyond grateful to have her!
Kelly is a true leader who embodies passion, respect, and trustworthiness in everything she does. Dedicated to her role, she consistently strives for excellence while building meaningful relationships with residents and their families. Her warmth and kindness leave a lasting impact - one resident even shared with the Executive Director how much he appreciates her genuine care. Kelly’s commitment to Cedar Creek makes her an invaluable part of the team, and the community is lucky to have her!!
Jennifer is a true embodiment of passion, compassion, and integrity. Her genuine smile and positive spirit shine through in everything she does, making her not just a caregiver but a trusted advocate for residents. Always willing to help, Jennifer approaches each task with love and pride, treating every individual with respect. Her ability to connect with residents and staff alike creates a supportive, family-like atmosphere at Cedarhurst of Breese. Jennifer’s dedication and heart make her an invaluable part of the community, truly exemplifying what makes Cedarhurst great.
Environmental Services Director, Cedarhurst of Owensboro
Keith is the definition of dedication and heart. He consistently goes above and beyond to ensure residents feel comfortable, safe, and valued. Whether addressing maintenance needs or enhancing the community’s environment, Keith does it all with exceptional care. His involvement in special events, including dressing up as Santa Claus for residents and families, showcases his deep commitment. Always willing to lend a hand, even helping residents get dressed. Keith embodies Cedarhurst’s core values, making a lasting impact on everyone he serves.
Cedarhurst Senior Living proudly announces its designation as a National Team for the Alzheimer’s Association Walk to End Alzheimer’s® in 2025, marking a significant milestone in the organization’s ongoing commitment to Alzheimer’s advocacy. This recognition highlights Cedarhurst’s leadership in supporting Alzheimer’s research, education, and care.
Cedarhurst’s residents, team members, families, and partners will come together across various walks to raise awareness and funds for Alzheimer’s care and research. The 2025 Walk to End Alzheimer’s will feature the poignant Promise Garden ceremony, where participants carry flowers of various colors symbolizing their personal connection to the disease, creating a powerful display of unity and hope.
“This is a pivotal moment in the fight against Alzheimer’s,” said Almir Sajtovic, President of Cedarhurst Senior Living. “There are now treatments that change the course of the disease. We hope everyone in our communities will join us in supporting the
Alzheimer’s Association’s mission to raise awareness, fund treatments, and move closer to ending this disease. Our commitment to this cause extends beyond fundraising; it’s about building a legacy of support for families impacted by Alzheimer’s.”
Cedarhurst Senior Living has actively supported the Walk to End Alzheimer’s for several years, with 2024 marking a peak in both fundraising and commitment. Last year, all 50 communities united to raise nearly $66,000, and with additional sponsorship investments, Cedarhurst’s total contribution was just under $150,000. This enduring partnership reflects the organization’s mission to create communities where every individual feels loved, valued, and supported.
The impact of Cedarhurst’s involvement goes beyond numbers. Residents, families, and team members have shared deeply personal moments during past walks, from honoring loved ones in the Promise Garden ceremony to raising awareness within their local communities. These shared experiences have strengthened Cedarhurst’s resolve to be a leader in the fight against Alzheimer’s.
“Becoming a National Team in 2025 represents a new chapter of impactful contributions and leadership,” added Sajtovic. “Cedarhurst is proud to stand at the forefront of this movement and to inspire others to join us in advancing Alzheimer’s research, care, and support.”
Looking ahead, Cedarhurst aims to build on its previous success by rallying even more participants and increasing contributions to the Alzheimer’s Association, with a 2025 fundraising goal of over $100,000. Together, Cedarhurst and its communities are taking meaningful steps toward a future without Alzheimer’s.
Worldwide, over 55 million people are living with dementia, and nearly 7 million in the U.S. have Alzheimer’s. The Alzheimer’s Association provides critical education, support, and research funding to combat this crisis. Cedarhurst’s partnership exemplifies its dedication to advocating for those affected by Alzheimer’s and contributing to meaningful change.
To join Cedarhurst Senior Living in the 2025 Walk to End Alzheimer’s or to learn more, visit alz.org/cedarhurstseniorliving.
Illinois Valley (Ottawa) Walk to End Alzheimer’s (IL) 6-Sep
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Growing up in a musical family, Julieann’s love for performance began at an early age. At 12, her grandparents enrolled her in dance lessons, which ignited a passion that would shape the rest of her life. Little did she know this early love for the arts would lead her to become one of the youngest entertainers to perform with the USO during World War II.
In 1945, at just 16 years old, Julieann came across an advertisement in the St. Louis Post-Dispatch calling for performers to audition for USO Camp Shows. Thousands of girls from across the St. Louis area answered the call, but Julieann, fueled by determination and a desire to contribute to the war effort, took the bold step of auditioning.
“I was supposed to be 18, but I was only 16,” she admits with a laugh. “We were poor during the Depression, and everyone had to work. Sometimes that meant bending the rules.”
Julieann’s courage paid off. Out of thousands of hopefuls, she was selected as one of only four girls to join the “Foxhole Circuit,” a group of performers who would
In those days, USO performances were not just shows — they were lifelines. As Julieann’s troupe made its way from New York City to San Francisco, then across the Pacific to Guam, Manila, and beyond, they knew their presence offered more than entertainment. It was a brief escape from the horrors of war, a fleeting moment of joy amid the chaos.
Their first stop, Guam, left an impression on the young performer. The sight of wounded soldiers, many missing limbs or severely burned, was something she would never forget. Yet, amid the tragedy, Julieann and her fellow performers worked tirelessly to uplift the soldiers’ spirits.
“We visited hospitals and saw things we never thought we’d see,” Julieann recalls, her voice thick with emotion. “Men without arms and legs, burn victims, and those who had been released from Japanese prison camps. You never get over that.”
Despite the emotional toll, Julieann remained committed to her mission, visiting soldiers in the hospital and serving in the mess halls. She formed deep connections with the soldiers, many of whom wrote letters praising the performers for bringing a bit of joy to their otherwise grim reality.
“Our shows became a symbol of normalcy for them,” she says. “It was not just about singing or dancing. It was about giving them a moment to forget the war.”
Julieann’s journey as a USO performer took a harrowing turn on August 27, 1945, when she was aboard a C-54 aircraft bound for Manila, Philippines. The plane was meant to land on a military airfield, but due to a miscalculation, the plane landed too quickly, causing the tires to blow. As the plane veered off the runway, the impact was violent. The aircraft flipped onto its nose and skidded into thick overgrowth, but by miracle, all passengers survived.
“I remember the scariest part was evacuating the plane,” Julieann says. “We had to climb down a ladder from the wing, and that was nervewracking. It felt like we were so close to disaster.”
But the troupe pressed on. Julieann stayed in Manila, where she joined an all-girl band and continued to entertain the soldiers who had come to rely on their performances. The band became a favorite among the troops, with soldiers frequently writing letters to express their gratitude.
As if one plane crash was not enough, Julieann survived a second near-fatal crash just months later. On January 20, 1946, while traveling from Korea to Japan, her plane, a Douglas C-47 cargo plane, was caught in a violent storm.
“We were tossed around like dice in a cup,” Julieann recalls. “The plane shot up to 16,000 feet before plummeting 3,500 feet in seconds. I was lifted from my seat and hit my head on the ceiling. We were all thrown around like ragdolls.”
The plane, which lacked seat belts, eventually skidded into the Sea of Japan. The crew and passengers, including Julieann, were forced to abandon the plane, preparing for impact by crossing their arms and leaning forward.
In the freezing cold of January, they took refuge in two rubber life rafts and drifted at sea. Julieann temporarily lost her hearing, and some passengers sustained serious injuries. Yet, their survival was a testament to the bravery of the crew and the resilience of the performers.
“Fortunately, a Japanese fishing boat found us, guided by the faint light of our Zippo lighters,” Julieann recalls. “I remember seeing the boat approach, but I do not recall how we got onto it. The fishermen never spoke a word to us, and I never saw them again.”
A few years ago, Julieann received an unexpected message: “My name is Eugene Poynter, and I was the Crew Chief on your plane that ditched in the Sea of Japan on January 20th, 1946.” Overjoyed, Julieann immediately called Eugene, and they began a series of conversations that would last for months.
Eugene had long sought out survivors of the crash, and with the help of his son and daughterin-law, he reconnected with Julieann. They exchanged stories and photos, with Julieann sharing details of the USO shows they performed before the crash. Eugene, stationed at the back of the plane, recalled his role in preparing life rafts as the plane hit the stormy waves. He revealed that the left wing had cracked upon impact, and he feared they would not survive. Eugene praised the young pilot, Joe Zinno, for safely landing the plane despite the storm.
Their conversations continued for months until Eugene’s sudden illness and passing. Julieann was saddened but remained in contact with his family. Eugene’s son later sent her a photo of him as a 17-year-old soldier. Julieann was struck by how young he looked, remembering him as the caring, kind soldier who had dealt with the wounded during the crash. His memory stays with her, especially every January 20th anniversary.
The first time Tim Holly laid eyes on Dorothy “Dot” Holbrook, it was the first night of their freshman year at Kentucky Wesleyan College. The school held a mixer for incoming students, and Dot, drawn to intellectual men, spotted Tim sitting on a piano bench, glasses perched on his nose.
“He looked very intelligent,” she recalls with a laugh. “I didn’t know whether he actually was, but the glasses made him look that way, so I walked over and introduced myself.”
Tim, immediately intrigued, asked her to join him for coffee after the event. And just like that, their story began.
For three months, they were inseparable, dating exclusively but never quite labeling their relationship as serious. They were young, enjoying each other’s company without fully realizing what love was. Then, as quickly as it began, it ended. Dot, eager to experience college life and meet new people, broke things off.
“I was barely 18,” she says. “I enjoyed dating Tim but also wanted to see other people. I didn’t think he was upset at the time. I didn’t know until 72 years later how much it really hurt him.”
Tim put on a brave face. “I acted like it didn’t bother me,” he admits, “but it did. It bothered me extremely.”
Life carried them in different directions. Both married, raised families, and built fulfilling lives. But fate, or perhaps perseverance, had other plans. More than seven decades after their college romance, Dot and Tim reconnected on Facebook.
“It was strange at first,” Tim says. “I expected a warm response! But after we talked for a while, I started playing songs for her on my guitar. That had been ‘our thing’ in college.”
As they reminisced, they found common ground in their values, their faith, and their love for music. The bond they once shared had not only survived but deepened with time.
In 2023, Tim made a trip to Kentucky for Thanksgiving and stopped in Owensboro to visit Dot. The moment he saw her, his old feelings rushed back.
“The attraction I had for her 74 years ago was immediately back,” he says. “I asked if she would mind if I moved closer. The five-hour drive from Ohio once a month wasn’t working.”
Dot agreed, and her children gave their blessing. Initially, they planned to live together, but life had one more curve ball to throw their way. Tim suffered a stroke, making independent living impossible. That’s when Dot began searching for a place that could provide the care he needed while keeping them close.
Story Idea Submitted by Kierston Cates, Cedar Creek of Washington Life Enrichment Coordinator
At Cedar Creek of Washington, hugs took on a whole new meaning at a heartwarming event called “Forever Hug.” Organized by Life Enrichment Coordinator Kierston Cates, the event brought residents and their families together for a night filled with love, laughter, and lasting memories.
Kierston first discovered the idea through TikTok videos and knew instantly that it would be the perfect way to create something truly special for the community. “I wanted it to be unforgettable,” she shared. “I wanted something that everyone would be able to keep with sentimental value.” With that vision in mind, she and her team set up stations filled with shirts, paint, and a simple yet powerful concept - hugs that could be preserved forever.
Each family member took turns embracing their loved ones while wearing paint on their arms, leaving a lasting impression, quite literally, on a T-shirt designed to capture the moment. Breanna, another team member, added the date and a heart to each shirt, making them even more meaningful.
For resident Rosalie Hager, the event was an opportunity to connect with her grandchildren in a unique and touching way. “I was very excited to be able to do this with my grandchildren,” she said. “It was so special because each hug was so meaningful.” The joy of spending time together and seeing the final design of their shirts was an emotional experience for all involved. “When I am feeling lonely, I can look at it and know how loved I am,” Rosalie reflected.
Her granddaughter, Portia Beden, shared the same feeling, expressing how meaningful it was to watch the shirts come to life. “Each hug lasted a little longer than the last,” she recalled, describing the moment her grandmother’s shirt was covered in a rainbow of hand prints from her greatgrandchildren. “In the end, it was so heartwarming.”
The Forever Hug event was more than just an activity; it was a tangible reminder of love, family, and the deep connections that make Cedar Creek of Washington feel like home. “I hope this is a memory that everyone will remember forever,” Kierston said. Judging by the smiles, laughter, and colorful shirts, it certainly will be.
“It was so special because each hug was so meaningful.”
Love has a way of finding people when they least expect it. For Ralph Ostermueller and Beth Higgins, their journey to companionship began not in the early chapters of their lives, but rather in the unexpected setting of Cedarhurst of Columbia. What started as a simple introduction in the dining room soon became a story of love, resilience, and joy shared between two kindred spirits.
Beth Higgins was born and raised in South Carolina, where she built a fulfilling career as a Home Economist in the Women, Infants, and Children (WIC) program. In 1980, she married her husband, Phil, on Halloween, and together they built a beautiful life with their daughter, Kytha. When Beth eventually moved to Cedarhurst, she had already been a widow for nearly two decades, having learned to navigate life independently while cherishing the memories of her beloved husband.
Ralph Ostermueller’s life journey took him through St. Louis, where he worked as an Expert Witness and Business Valuer, as well as serving his country in the Army. He married his wife Dorthy in 1963, and together they raised four children, two sons and two daughters. Ralph’s loss was more recent, as Dorthy passed away in 2022 after a lengthy illness. Though he had time to prepare for her passing, the grief was no less profound. Seeking comfort and connection, he found solace in prayer groups and the supportive environment of Cedarhurst.
Their story began in the dining room, where Ralph introduced himself to Beth. A simple greeting quickly turned into a deep and meaningful conversation. From that day forward, they spent time together every day, sharing meals, attending community activities, and even traveling to visit family in South Carolina, Chicago, and St. Louis. Their daughters, Kytha and Katy, were deeply supportive, encouraging their parents to embrace this unexpected yet beautiful bond.
From the start, Ralph and Beth knew this was something special. “It was so easy to be candid,” they both recalled. Having experienced long, loving marriages before, they recognized what a genuine connection looked like. They understood the joys and challenges that come with love, and they embraced this new chapter with open hearts.
Both Ralph and Beth had experienced the profound loss of their spouses, but their perspectives on grief and love allowed them to move forward without fear. Beth, having lost Phil many years before, had learned that while grief never fully fades, life continues. Ralph, still amid his healing process, acknowledged that no amount of preparation can truly prepare someone for the loss of a spouse. However, he found strength in his
At Cedarhurst Senior Living, our Life Enrichment teams are more than just activity coordinators, they are the heartbeat of our communities. They bring energy, creativity, and passion to their roles, ensuring that all residents experience joy, purpose, and connection. That’s why celebrating National Activity Professionals Week was so important across our communities, an opportunity to recognize and appreciate the profound impact our Life Enrichment teams have on the daily lives of our residents.
Tara Powell, Director of Education & Engagement at Cedarhurst Senior Living, describes our Life Enrichment staff as essential to the fabric of our communities. “They create engaging moments, but more importantly, they show seniors that there is so much life to be lived in senior living communities. They tailor experiences to each resident’s preferences and wants, making every day meaningful.”
The work of Life Enrichment teams goes far beyond planning activities. They provide opportunities for residents to thrive, fostering a sense of belonging and purpose through friendships, committees, and lifelong learning. Whether it’s organizing group events, leading one-on-one programs, or encouraging independent pursuits, these teams ensure that residents remain active, involved, and fulfilled.
What sets Cedarhurst’s Life Enrichment professionals apart is their unique combination of empathy, creativity, and adaptability. “They are listeners, shoulders to cry on, friends, and so much more,” Powell shares. “Their ability to connect with reside
To support and empower our Life Enrichment teams, Cedarhurst invests in their growth through training programs like the National Activity Professional Certification and the Certified Dementia Practitioner Certification. Regional Life Enrichment Specialists provide ongoing guidance and resources, and our annual Life Enrichment Retreat serves as both a professional development opportunity and a well-deserved celebration of their contributions.
Powell offers heartfelt gratitude to all Life Enrichment team members: “Thank you for the incredible work you do every day. Your creativity, dedication, and compassion make a lasting impact. You help make Cedarhurst a home filled with warmth, laughter, and purpose. Your efforts do not go unnoticed, and we are truly grateful for everything you do.”
As we honor National Activity Professionals Week, we celebrate the spirit of our Life Enrichment teams, the true architects of joyful, engaging, and fulfilling experiences at Cedarhurst Senior Living.
At Cedarhurst, life enrichment and dining form the heart of our community. Through tailored programs and personalized culinary experiences, we foster a vibrant environment where residents feel cherished, engaged, and supported, creating a home where every individual thrives
For nearly seven years, Madonna Vogt has been a pillar of Cedarhurst of Waterloo, bringing warmth, dedication, and quiet strength to the dining experience. As a Dining Server, Madonna is more than just a familiar face, she is a source of comfort and consistency for residents who know she will serve them with care, respect, and a heartfelt smile. Her passion for ensuring that every meal is delivered just the way residents like it is evident in everything she does.
Madonna embodies Cedarhurst’s core values, with residents and staff alike praising her for being respectful, positive, and passionate. Whether keeping the dining room spotless, remembering residents’ preferences, or maintaining an air of grace even at the busiest of times, she provides an essence of class to the community. Her commitment extends beyond the dining room. During inclement weather, she has even stayed overnight to ensure she is there for the residents who depend on her.
Born and raised in Pampanga, Philippines, Madonna immigrated to the United States in 2014 and became a proud American citizen in 2020. Due to the pandemic, her official ceremony was canceled, but Cedarhurst of Waterloo ensured she had a special moment, organizing a heartfelt ceremony with the Daughters of the American Revolution (DAR). To Madonna, Cedarhurst is more than just a workplace, it is her second home, her extended family.
From her unwavering dedication during COVID-19 to her love for travel, Madonna’s story is one of resilience, heart, and quiet strength.
Story Idea Submitted by Ronica Reid, Director of Sales, Cedarhurst of Nicholasville
From the moment visitors step into Cedarhurst of Nicholasville, they’re greeted by two of the community’s most beloved ambassadors - Gene Beard and his four-legged sidekick, Ellie. Gene, a retired creative mind who spent his career working for Hallmark and pioneering trends in the Christmas tree industry, has found a new passion in his golden years: helping others discover the warmth of his Cedarhurst home.
Gene’s journey to Cedarhurst was shaped by a lifetime of bold decisions, beginning with the moment he walked into Hallmark’s headquarters and simply asked for a job. “I felt the place was so large, they must have room for me somewhere in the corporation,” Gene recalls. And they did, placing him in a new product development. Later, he worked for Papercraft in Pittsburgh,
developing everything from Cabbage Patch Kids wrapping paper to the best-selling ‘Christmas is Love’ design that graced countless gifts.
His career took him across the world, from designing decorative paper to overseeing the production of artificial Christmas trees in China. For the last 25 years of his career, Gene worked with Puleo International, a family-owned company led by a father and his three sons. “Those years were the highlight of my career,” Gene says. “Tony and I spent weeks on end developing artificial Christmas trees, fiber optic villages, and outdoor products.” But for all his career successes, Gene’s greatest pride isn’t in a design portfolio - it’s in his 46 years of sobriety, achieved “one day at a time.”
“It was all a bed of roses when I worked at Hallmark,” Gene shares. “But I also learned to enjoy the bottle a little too much.” After turning to Alcoholics Anonymous, he met a sponsor who became his life partner for 42 years. “We went to meetings and conferences together. Then, when he developed Alzheimer’s, I cared for him at home as long as I could. When it became too much, I placed him in memory care at Cedarhurst of Beaumont. That was in 2019, and he passed in 2020.
”Though grief weighed heavily, Gene found comfort in Cedarhurst’s community. When his own health needs changed, he made Cedarhurst of Nicholasville his home. “I waited a year, trying to make it work with an in-home caregiver, but I realized I needed more help. I’ve now been here close to a year, and I have no regrets.”
Now, Gene spends his days ensuring others feel just as welcome. As an ambassador, he joins Director of Sales Ronica Reid on tours, offering an honest perspective on life at Cedarhurst. And of course, Ellie plays a starring role. “It’s a lot of fun,” Gene says. “Ellie loves meeting new people, and they love meeting her.”
For Ronica, working with Gene and Ellie is a dream come true. “Gene speaks from his heart,” she says. “He really wants families to understand what a great place Cedarhurst is. And Ellie - are you kidding? Having her tag along in all her cuteness is the best!”
Ronica, too, has a deep personal connection to Cedarhurst. Before she ever met Gene, their lives were unknowingly intertwined. “My dad had dementia, and I placed him in Cedarhurst of Beaumont the same year Gene placed his partner there,” she recalls. “COVID hit, so I never met his partner or even saw Gene. But I like to think my dad and Eddie got to know one
another, maybe sitting together at meals or participating in activities. What are the odds that I’d later become the Director of Sales here in Nicholasville and work with Gene?”
The connection is more than coincidence, it’s a testament to the kind of place Cedarhurst is. “When I placed my dad, I was exhausted and heartbroken because my mom had passed away just six months earlier,” Ronica shares. “Cedarhurst not only saved my dad, but they saved me too. I will be forever grateful.”
With Gene and Ellie leading the way, prospective residents don’t just get a tour, they get a glimpse into the genuine friendships and support that define life at Cedarhurst. “Gene was always a ‘man about town’, attending dinner parties given by Gloria Vanderbilt back in the 1980s, no less,” Ronica laughs. “Being a resident ambassador is a perfect fit for him.”
For Gene, the role is about more than just showing people around. It’s about helping them see that moving to Cedarhurst is not an end, but a beginning. “I hope people learn that there’s an adjustment, sure, but this is the place they need to be to live safer, happier, and longer,” he says.
That sentiment shines through in the joy Gene finds in everyday moments, whether it’s watching Ellie race ahead during a tour or seeing a new resident find their footing. “If I hadn’t gotten the feeling from the entire staff in the beginning, I wouldn’t have come here,” he says. “The food, the care - these folks are here for me.”
As Cedarhurst’s ultimate welcoming committee, Gene and Ellie prove that home isn’t just a place - it’s the people (and pets) who fill it with love. And for those considering a move, there’s no better guide than a man who has spent his life embracing new opportunities, one bold step at a time.
Cedarhurst communities received thousands of Valentines from people all over the country!
Thank you all for showing love!
At 100 years old, Edna Quinlan reflects on a life marked by resilience, determination, and groundbreaking achievements. As one of the first women to earn an engineering degree from Virginia Tech in the 1940s, Edna carved a path in a male-dominated field, proving that passion and perseverance can break down even the most rigid barriers.
Born at home in North Haven, Connecticut, on January 29, 1925, Edna grew up in a lively household with two sisters and one brother. Her early years were filled with outdoor adventures, from skating in the winter to swimming in the summer. But it was at Leetes Island in Guilford, Connecticut, where her father built a summer cottage after the Great Hurricane of 1938, that her love for the sea truly blossomed. It became her sanctuary, a place where she spent countless days fishing, sailing, and later teaching boating safety with the Coast Guard Power Squadron.
Despite her deep connection to the outdoors, it was mathematics and problem-solving that truly captured Edna’s mind. “I had a brain like a man,” she says with a laugh, recalling how she gravitated toward math electives throughout school. This passion led her to pursue a career in engineering, a bold move at a time when women were often discouraged from entering the field.
Edna’s journey to Virginia Polytechnic Institute (now Virginia Tech) was unconventional. Traveling alone by train to Blacksburg, Virginia, she entered a world where women
in engineering were a rarity. Her first choice was chemical engineering, but when a department head told her, “Women don’t become engineers,” she refused to be deterred. Instead, she pivoted to ceramic engineering, a field that allowed her to continue her passion for science and innovation.
Being one of the few women in the program, Edna often felt invisible to her male classmates, a fact she now takes in stride. “Few men really noticed me,” she recalls. “That could have been because I wasn’t the best looking, but also because I didn’t let anyone mess with my day.” She remained determined, and she found support from a professor who encouraged her to push through, even when the odds were stacked against her.
After graduating, Edna embarked on a career as a laboratory director and technician, where she found an unlikely ally in an African American colleague. At a time when both women and people of color faced significant workplace challenges, the two formed a bond, navigating a world that wasn’t always accepting of them. “We weren’t socially accepted, so we supported each other,” she says.
Edna’s career was fulfilling, but her greatest pride lies in her family. Her son, Paul, born in 1952, was raised with the same values of determination and resilience that defined her own life. He and his wife, Beth, have carried on the family’s tradition of summers at Leetes Island, where Edna’s beloved cottage remains a cherished retreat. With two grandsons and three great-grandchildren, her legacy extends far beyond her pioneering work in engineering.
Looking at the advancements in the field today, Edna is heartened to see more women pursuing careers in engineering. “Seems like women are much more accepted now, and it’s a wonderful thing,” she says. Her advice to young women entering male-dominated fields is simple yet powerful: “You must be determined not to be accepted. Just go ahead and do it.”
In November 2023, Edna moved into Cedarhurst of Blue Springs, where she quickly became part of the community. From bingo nights to enjoying lemonade with friends outdoors, she embraces each day with the same spirit that carried her through a century of life. “I only accepted Cedarhurst, and I chose a great option,” she says. “I thank my son and the staff. I have made many friends here.”
Reflecting on her 100 years, Edna remains grateful for the journey - her family, her career, and the experiences that shaped her. Her story is not just one of personal triumph but an inspiration for future generations. Through her courage and quiet defiance, she paved the way for women in engineering, proving that determination can change the course of history.
And as she sits among friends at Cedarhurst, enjoying the warmth of the sun and the laughter of those around her, Edna Quinlan continues to inspire - not just as a trailblazer, but as a woman who lived life on her own terms.
At Cedar Creek of Prairie Meadows, where compassionate care is the foundation of daily life, an extraordinary friendship has developed between two unlikely companions. Harry Pitner, a memory care resident, and John Federico, the community’s dedicated Environmental Services Director, share a unique bond that transcends words.
Harry Pitner has lived a life of precision and responsibility. Born and raised in Omaha, Nebraska, he followed in the footsteps of two generations before him, building a career with Union Pacific Railroad as an electrical engineer. His work was vital, ensuring the safety of train operations, analyzing incidents, and preventing future derailments. But Harry’s legacy extends beyond his career, he is a devoted family man, a problem-solver, and a storyteller, though these days, his words often tumble out in ways that are difficult to understand.
John has made it his mission to uphold Cedarhurst’s core values, not just through his work maintaining the community, but also through his heartfelt interactions with residents. Among his daily tasks, John takes special care in mopping the floor of Harry’s apartment. But his true act of service comes after the cleaning is done.
Each day, like clockwork, Harry wheels over to John’s office, where John pulls up a chair so they can sit eye-to-eye. For fifteen minutes, time slows down as they share a conversation, one shaped by laughter, memories, and genuine connection. Harry recounts tales of his family, his service in the Air Force, his work at Union Pacific, and even stories of love and adventure. While his words may not always be clear, the emotions behind them resonate deeply. John listens, nods, and responds with warmth, never rushing the moment, never looking away.
This daily ritual is more than just a chat, it is a testament to the power of companionship. In a world that can sometimes feel isolated, especially for those living with memory loss, John’s presence is a reminder that every person’s story deserves to be heard.
It’s hard to say who benefits more from this friendship, Harry, who finds a trusted listener, or John, who finds joy in Harry’s wisdom and humor. But one thing is certain: at Cedar Creek of Prairie Meadows, moments like these define what it truly means to care.
On a crisp Sunday afternoon in February, laughter and lively conversation filled the halls of Cedarhurst of Des Peres as twelve fourth-grade Girl Scouts from Keysor Elementary Troop 1476 in Kirkwood, Missouri, gathered with twelve residents for a heartwarming intergenerational event. What began as a simple craft activity quickly evolved into a meaningful exchange of stories, experiences, and wisdom, proving that no matter the years that separate them, generations have much to learn from one another.
quick to point out the shared values across generations, particularly the importance of kindness, resilience, and curiosity.
DISCOVERING COMMON GROUND
With colorful supplies in hand, the Girl Scouts eagerly introduced their craft project - creating personalized pens and bookmarks. As they decorated together, the young Scouts used their newly crafted pens to interview the residents, delving into what life was like when they were in fourth grade.
Jackie Wegman, a 93-year-old Cedarhurst resident and former teacher, found the experience especially meaningful. “I always learn something from young people whenever I am around them,” she shared. Jackie fondly recalled playing outside with friends until nightfall, a contrast to today’s world where children face an ever-growing array of distractions. Despite these differences, she was
As conversations unfolded, surprising similarities surfaced between the Scouts and the residents. Nine-year-old Girl Scout Caroline Davis was fascinated to learn about the games residents played as children. “Some games were the same,” she said. “They played checkers and cards. I played Sorry with them, and they remembered playing that when they were younger.”
The discussions also revealed how opportunities for young girls have evolved over time. One resident shared that when she was growing up, there were no school sports teams for girls, and they had to participate through organizations like the YWCA. Caroline was struck by how different things were then, realizing how fortunate she is to have a variety of athletic opportunities available to her today.
For resident Barbara Burr, 88, and ten-year-old Scout Pema Henke, a love of art and basketball created an instant connection. “We both picked art as our favorite school subject,” Pema shared enthusiastically. Their conversation highlighted how passions and interests can transcend generations, creating bonds that defy age.
The event concluded with a sweet note - Girl Scout cookies, of course. But the real treat was the newfound friendships, and the valuable lessons learned. “It was fun doing the activities,” Caroline said. “It was also nice to help them put some of the pieces together since they had trouble seeing the smaller pieces.” This simple act of assistance reinforced the importance of patience, empathy, and working together.
Reflecting on the day, Jackie Wegman offered advice that resonated with everyone in attendance: “There is always something you can learn from other generations.”
For the Girl Scouts, the experience was a reminder of the value of listening and appreciating the stories of those who came
before them. As Caroline put it, “I will take away that getting to work with older people and knowing about them helps you connect it with your own life.”
For the residents, the visit was a welcome opportunity to share their memories, wisdom, and a few laughs with a younger generation eager to learn.
As the event wrapped up and new friends said their goodbyes, one thing was clear—these shared moments of connection had left a lasting impact.
In a world that often feels divided by age and experience, the gathering at Cedarhurst of Des Peres was a beautiful reminder that understanding, kindness, and learning flow both ways when generations come together.
Cedarhurst Senior Living is proud to share that 22 communities have been named a 2025 Best Senior Living community by U.S. News & World Report in the categories of Best Assisted Living and Best Memory Care. The trusted, databacked ratings of the best senior living communities across the United States assist older adults and their loved ones in choosing the right community for them.
For its 2025 Best Senior Living ratings, U.S. News rated nearly 3,500 communities on several criteria, including resident and family members’ satisfaction with safety, care, community management and staff, value and other services and amenities provided by the community.
“This recognition from U.S. News & World Report reflects the heart of who we are at Cedarhurst,” said Almir Sajtovic, President of Cedarhurst Senior Living. “It honors the hard work of our dedicated team members and reaffirms our commitment to creating communities where residents feel genuinely loved, valued, and supported. We’re proud to provide environments where older adults can truly thrive and live life to the fullest.”
U.S. News awards the designation of “Best Senior Living” only to those communities that satisfy U.S. News’ statistical assessment of performance on consumer satisfaction surveys administered in the previous two calendar years, reflecting the viewpoints of more than 450,000 residents and family members. Only the highest-rated communities in each care level earned a “Best” rating.
COMMUNITY NAME “BEST” AWARDS BADGE:
Cedarhurst of Arnold Best Assisted Living & Best Memory Care
Cedarhurst of Beaumont Best Assisted Living & Best Memory Care
Cedarhurst of Bethalto Best Assisted Living
Cedarhurst of Blue Springs Best Memory Care
Cedarhurst of Breese Best Assisted Living
Cedarhurst of Canton Best Assisted Living
Cedarhurst of Des Peres Best Assisted Living
Cedarhurst of Dyer Best Assisted Living
Cedarhurst of Farmington Best Assisted Living
Cedarhurst of Highland Best Assisted Living
Cedarhurst of Lebanon Best Memory Care
Cedarhurst of McHenry Best Memory Care
Cedarhurst of Salina Best Assisted Living, Best Memory Care
Cedarhurst of Springfield, MO Best Memory Care
Cedarhurst of St. Charles Best Memory Care
Cedarhurst of Topeka Best Assisted Living
Cedarhurst of Waterloo Best Assisted Living
Cedarhurst of West Plains Best Assisted Living
Cedar Creek of High Plains Best Memory Care
COMMUNITY NAME ACCOLADE EMBLEMS:
Cedarhurst of Frankfort AL – Activities & Enrichment
Cedarhurst of Nicholasville AL – Caregiving; MCActivities & Enrichment
Cedarhurst of Owensboro MC - Activities & Enrichment
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