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Dear Reader,
The holidays are here—a season filled with excitement, joy, and, for many parents, a bit of pressure to make everything “perfect.” But as we remind ourselves in this month’s issue, creating holiday magic doesn’t have to come with a hefty price tag. The moments your kids will treasure most are the simple ones—baking cookies together, strolling through twinkling lights, or snuggling up for a holiday movie night. Inside this issue, you’ll find inspiration for celebrating the season without breaking the bank, plus our annual guide to the best local holiday events across the Valley— from dazzling light displays to festive parades and familyfriendly celebrations. You’ll also find our calendar of events, product reviews, and helpful health tips to keep everyone feeling their best this time of year.
And don’t forget—our 12 Days of Giveaways is back! Visit ccparent.com December 1st–12th for your chance to win amazing prizes in our most popular event of the year. As we close out another year, we’re especially grateful to celebrate our 33rd year of publication. For more than three decades, we’ve had the privilege of connecting local families with valuable resources, ideas, and inspiration—something we couldn’t do without our advertisers. Their support makes it possible for us to keep this magazine free for readers each month, and we’re so thankful for their continued partnership.
Wishing you and your family a holiday season full of warmth, laughter, and the kind of memories money can’t buy.
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Write a Letter to Santa
USPS Greetings from the North Pole: Are your kids expecting to get a letter back from Santa? Don’t disappoint them! Receive a reply from Santa—complete with the North Pole Postmark! The Greetings from the North Pole Post Office program adds to the excitement of Christmas and is ideal for getting kids interested in letter writing, stamps, and penmanship. Visit about.usps.com/holidaynews/letters-from-santa.htm for details. Santa recommends sending your letter early to give the elves enough time to sort through all the letters from the girls and boys!
USPS Operation Santa: Every year Santa gets more letters than he can answer, but you can help! Adopt a letter and fulfill someone's holiday wish this year. This nondenominational program is intended to help as many deserving families as possible. Visit uspsoperationsanta.com if you'd like to write or adopt a letter this holiday season.
Virtual Holiday Fun for Kids
Get into the holiday spirit virtually this year! Kids will love the fun games, educational resources, and so much more. Check out these great websites and bring the festivities right into your home!
Ducksters: Kwanzaa Educational Page: Head to ducksters.com/holidays/kwanzaa.php for some online Kwanzaa fun. Kids can learn the history of Kwanzaa, how to celebrate with family, the seven principles, fun facts about the holiday, and more!
Macy's Santaland: Visit macys.com/social/santa-land for a fun and festive online holiday experience for everyone to enjoy. Get ready to set off on a personalized, interactive journey through the North Pole to visit the one and only Santa!
NORAD Tracks Santa!: Starting on December 1st, families can visit noradsanta.org for games, videos, and more. Then, on December 24th, families can watch the North American Aerospace Defense Command (NORAD) track Santa on his holiday journey around the globe!
Northpole.com: Since 1996, northpole.com has been making the holidays magical with loads of fun activities, letters to Santa, recipes, and more! Raymond the Reindeer will show you around Santa’s Secret Village. Visit the Reindeer Barn, Santa’s Den, the Toy Shop, Mrs. Claus’ Kitchen, or the Elf Clubhouse!
PJ Library’s Hanukkah Hub: Families can find everything they need at pjlibrary.org/hanukkah to get ready for the Festival of Lights, including child-friendly versions of the Hanukkah story. Teach your kids about Hanukkah, delicious recipes, great books to read, activities, and much more!
ReindeerCam: Santa’s Official Reindeer Live Feed: Your kids will love watching Santa’s Reindeer on the ReindeerCam! Visit reindeercam.com for a glimpse of the day (or night) in the life of a reindeer. With appearances made by Santa, your kids can watch him feeding his pals or reading his mail. Plus, if you’re lucky, you might catch other special appearances made by other holiday characters!
Santa.com: Santa has been working extra hard at santa.com to prepare some festive surprises for kids to unwrap for each day leading up to Christmas!
Why Christmas?: Visit whychristmas.com for tons of Christmas knowledge. Find out how Christmas is celebrated in different countries around the world, learn about different traditions and cultures, and explore recipes, jokes, coloring pages, and more at this Christmas knowledge headquarters!
Some Shorter Stuff
December is Safe Toys and Gifts Awareness Month. Stockpiling your holiday gifts for your child? Whether they are simple and homemade, or complex and store-bought, be sure they are safe! Watch for sharp edges that cut, small pieces that may break off, surfaces that pinch, and parts that can go flying.
12 Days of Giveaways! Head to ccparent.com for a chance to win cool prizes in our annual 12 Days of Giveaways! We're giving away great gifts December 1st–12th. You won't want to miss this familyfavorite promotion!
Do You Know a Teen Who Is “Repairing the World”? The Diller Teen Tikkun Olam Awards recognize Jewish teens in the United States who have demonstrated remarkable leadership and initiative in projects that embody the values of tikkun olam, “repairing the world.” Each awardee will receive $36,000 to support their work or further their education. Teens should apply at dillerteenawards.org/apply by January 8th.
Don’t Overlook the Critical Link Between Vision and Learning. Before deciding if a child’s learning problem is ADD, dyslexia, or even laziness, make sure to have their eyesight tested. Experts say 60% of children with learning disabilities have undiagnosed vision problems.
Engineered for Learning! Students in 3rd through 12th grade are invited to submit a piece of writing that explores how engineers create a better world. Winners will receive between $500–$1000 as a prize! Submission deadline is February 1st. Visit engineergirl.org and click on the EngineerGirl Writing Contest tab for the prompt, rules, and more information.
Meet our Cover Kid, Luke! Luke is a spirited 7-year-old with a sharp sense of humor and a love for fun. A determined athlete, he’d play soccer from sunrise to sunset if he could! He’s passionate about math and dreams of becoming a professor someday. When he’s not scoring goals, he’s playing piano, creating songs, drawing, gaming, cooking, or playing chess. With his big heart, love for animals, and his kitty Mochi by his side, Luke’s kindness and enthusiasm brighten every room.
Play Safe! Be Safe! Fires started by children lead to over 13,000 structure fires every year, with preschool-aged children most at risk for starting these incidents. Tragically, about 300 people lose their lives annually in these fires, resulting in around $280 million in property damage. Bedrooms are a common location for such fires, often igniting bedding materials. Children are also twice as likely as adults to die in residential fires, making early fire safety education essential. Visit usfa.fema.gov/prevention to access engaging tools for teaching fire safety to young children.
Need Some Help Preparing your Teen for College? Boys & Girls Clubs of America and Navient have launched a new digital program to help young people and their families prepare for college. This data-driven curriculum includes activities for teens to learn about college costs, understand financial aid, learn how to find scholarships, and understand student loans. Visit myfuture.net/activities and select "Diplomas to Degrees" from the "Activities" drop-down box to get started!
An Update on your Family’s Health and Welfare HealthWatch
Tiny Batteries, Big Danger: Button Battery Ingestion
California Poison Control System (CPCS) and Valley Children’s Healthcare have joined forces to raise awareness about the dangers of button battery ingestion through their “Button Battery Safety” campaign.
The campaign centers on the new resource When Swallowing Hurts: Button Battery Ingestion is a Medical Emergency, which offers vital safety information, prevention tips, and real-life stories to help parents protect their children.
“Button batteries can release toxic metals and acids that burn through tissue in the mouth, throat, or stomach,” says Dr. Rais Vohra, Medical Director for the Fresno/Madera Division of CPCS. “Ingesting a button battery is a medical emergency that requires immediate attention. Even placing one in the nose or ears can cause serious injury.”
These small, shiny coin-shaped batteries are found in many household items—remote controls, key fobs, watches, hearing aids, and even musical greeting cards. Their size and appearance make them particularly appealing to curious young children, which is why thousands of kids are treated in emergency departments each year after swallowing or inserting them.
According to the American Academy of Pediatrics, most batteryrelated ER visits involve children under 5. Of those cases, 85%
Home Fire Safety Tips
Home fires are more dangerous than most parents realize, claiming more lives each year than all natural disasters combined. The good news is that simple precautions can make a life-saving difference. Testing smoke alarms regularly and practicing a home fire escape plan are two of the most effective ways to protect your family.
“Home fires can happen anytime,” says Lori Wilson, executive director of the American Red Cross Central Valley Chapter. “The sooner an alarm alerts you, the sooner you can get out. Experts say you may have less than two minutes to escape a burning home before it’s too late.”
Here’s how to create a safe and effective fire escape plan for your family:
• Know your exits: Make sure everyone in your household knows at least two ways out of each room.
• Stay low to escape smoke: Smoke rises, so teach children to get down on their hands and knees to breathe cleaner air while moving toward an exit.
involve button batteries, with 90% due to swallowing and the rest from insertion into the nose or ears.
What can make it so dangerous is that parents and caregivers don’t always realize that a child has swallowed a button battery. If they suspect that is the case and the child is asymptomatic and stable, they can call CPCS at 1-800-222-1222 to determine the urgency of their need for treatment and the nature of treatment required. If, however, it is certain that the child has ingested a button battery, they should be taken to the ED as soon as possible. For children one year or older, giving small amounts of honey (about a teaspoon every 15 minutes) can help slow injury until medical care is received. Never give honey to infants under one. The best approach, of course, is prevention:
• Keep products with button batteries out of reach.
• Dispose of used batteries safely and immediately.
• Choose products with secure battery compartments that require a screwdriver or tool to open.
• Never change or insert batteries in front of small children.
For more information, videos, and safety tips, visit California Poison Control System’s resource page or call 1-800-222-1222 anytime for expert help.
–California Poison Control System
• Pick a safe meeting spot: Once outside, everyone should gather at a predetermined location, like a neighbor’s home or a tree in the front yard. This ensures no one goes missing and gives caregivers peace of mind.
• Get out and stay out: Never go back inside for people, pets, or belongings.
• Time your escape drill: Practice getting everyone out safely in less than two minutes. Make it a game for kids so they know what to do under pressure.
• Teach children about smoke alarms: Show them what the alarm sounds like and explain why it’s important. Use drills to reinforce the steps they need to take and build confidence.
By reviewing your smoke alarms monthly, practicing your escape plan regularly, and discussing fire safety openly with your children, you give your family the best chance of staying safe in an emergency. Small actions taken now can prevent tragedy later— keeping your holidays, and every day, safe.
–The American Red Cross
Top Holiday Travel Tips to Keep Your Family Safe
The holidays are here—which means twinkling lights, family gatherings, and lots of time on the road. Whether you’re driving across town or across the country, the excitement of the season can make it easy to overlook basic safety steps—especially with kids.
“We believe every child deserves the gift of safety this holiday season,” says Torine Creppy, president of Safe Kids Worldwide. “While you’re having fun with family and friends, it’s important for parents and caregivers to stay extra mindful of safety when traveling.” A few simple precautions can go a long way toward keeping your holiday merry, bright, and safe.
1. Buckle up the right way. Before you hit the road, double-check that your child’s car seat or booster is the right fit and properly secured. When used correctly, car seats can reduce the risk of death by as much as 71%. And while it’s tempting to graduate your child early, kids should stay in a booster until they’re at least 4’ 9” tall.
2. Skip the puffy coat in the car seat. That adorable parka might be great for the snow, but it can make car seat harnesses dangerously loose. Buckle your child in without the coat, then tuck a blanket or jacket over the harness to keep them cozy. Try the “pinch test” to make sure the straps are snug!
3. Prepare for winter weather. If you’re driving through cold conditions, pack extra blankets, snacks, and diapers, and keep your phone fully charged. Before starting your car, check that the exhaust pipe isn’t blocked by snow or ice to avoid carbon monoxide buildup. No matter where you’re headed, secure loose items—like gifts, hot foods, or boxes—so they don’t become projectiles in a crash.
4. Create a safe sleep space. If you’re staying overnight somewhere new, remember that babies need their own safe place to sleep. Use a crib, bassinet, or play yard with a firm mattress and fitted sheet, and skip pillows, bumpers, and blankets. A cozy sleep sack is the perfect blanket alternative to keep your baby warm.
5. Keep medicines and cleaners up and away. When traveling, it’s easy to forget that purses, suitcases, and nightstands might be within reach of curious little hands. Store medications, cleaning products, and other hazardous items out of sight and out of reach. If you’re visiting friends or relatives, especially grandparents, ask them to do a quick check before you arrive.
6. Double-check toy safety. Before wrapping up that new toy, take a moment to read the instructions and age recommendations. Keep toys with small parts away from younger siblings, and be especially cautious with button batteries (found in toys, remotes, key fobs, and even greeting cards).
7. Talk about gun safety. If you’re visiting someone’s home, don’t hesitate to ask whether firearms are present and how they’re stored. Guns should always be unloaded, locked, and kept out of reach, with ammunition stored separately.
8. Watch for fire hazards. Candles and fireplaces make the season cozy, but they also come with risks. Remind kids to stay at least three feet away from open flames and hot surfaces. When cooking, use the back burners and turn pot handles away from the edge. With a little preparation and a lot of care, your family can enjoy all the magic of the holidays—safely and stress-free.
–Safe Kids Worldwide, safekids.org
Making Magic on a Budget Low-Cost Winter Holiday Fun For Families
By Shannon Dean
By the time the holiday decor makes an appearance and the stores are playing “Jingle Bell Rock” on repeat, many parents already feel the pressure building. We want to give our kids the kind of magical winter holidays that they will hopefully repeat with their own children. But when the cost of everything is rising and the budget doesn’t stretch the way it used to, that pressure can turn into guilt or a sense of failure.
Fortunately, the winter holidays that your child will always remember have little to do with how much you spend. Kids probably won’t recall how many presents they received, that you served a gourmet meal, or that you put up picture-perfect decorations. What stays with them is the simple wonder of the season and the feeling of being safe, seen, and loved—none of which requires a credit card.
Less Really Is More: We live in a world that tells us “more” is the measure of love. But ask adults what they remember from their childhood holidays, and they’ll often describe experiences with sensory details, like the way the house smelled when grandma baked Christmas cookies, the flickering glow of Hanukkah candles, the taste of chocolately cocoa, and the warmth of holiday pajamas.
Even better, research shows it’s often the simplest moments that stay with us the longest. A Cornell University study found that experiences spark more lasting joy than material gifts. Sure, a toy might hold a child’s attention for a few weeks, but rituals and experiences like decorating gingerbread or taking a nighttime walk to look at holiday lights become the traditions they'll share with their own families.
Put Aside the Pressure: Even when you intellectually know that kids don't need an elaborate holiday, it's easy to feel like you’re not doing enough when social media implies that everyone else has the budget for matching family outfits, elaborate outings, and expensive gifts.
If you’re feeling that weight, you’re not alone. A recent survey found that nearly half of parents expect to take on debt to pay for holiday expenses, and 77% feel the pressure to top past holidays before the world became so expensive—but this season doesn’t have to be a competition. It can be a reset.
Presence Over Perfect: Kids are hardwired to notice joy, not price tags. They truly don’t care whether you bought the name-brand toy or the second-hand version, as long as you sit down and play
with them. It doesn't matter to them if your cocoa came from the discount store or a fancy café. They only care that you let them pile on more marshmallows than should be allowed.
Even something as simple as a homemade countdown calendar, with small daily activities (like read a holiday book, write a letter to someone we love, or make a holiday gift) can become an inexpensive, but treasured tradition. It doesn't have to be fancy. It just has to be your family's. "Tradition and simplicity go hand in hand," reminds Atara Malach, author of A Working Mother's GPS: A Guide to Parenting Success for the Modern Working Mom. "Guests and family alike will remember the warmth of the experience, not how cutting-edge your décor or menu was. Save your energy for connection, not perfection."
Let Kids In on the Truth: Experts say it's okay to be honest with your kids about what’s financially realistic. They can understand that sometimes we make different choices because we are prioritizing the things that matter most.
Dr. Lisa Damour, author of Untangled: Guiding Teenage Girls Through the Seven Transitions into Adulthood, recommends
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Seasonal Celebrations
In search of some festive family fun this holiday season? After finding the perfect Christmas tree and sipping some hot chocolate while decorating to your family’s satisfaction, don’t miss these seasonal celebrations. We’ve done the work for you and found the best of what the Central Valley has to offer. This guide lists activities for the whole family, including light displays, celebrations, tree lightings, parades, and more!
Photos with Santa in Fresno—Don't miss Santa at the mall this year from November 14th–December 24th
Signing Santa on the 2nd, 9th, and 16th; Pet night on the 1st; and Santa Cares on the 7th and 8th. See times, prices, and reservations online. Fashion Fair, 645 E. Shaw Avenue, Fresno. (559) 224-1591
Photos with Santa in Visalia—Make a date with Santa November 17th–December 24th at Fashion Court, near Macy's. Pet nights are the 1st, 2nd, 8th, 9th, 15th, and 16th. See times, prices, and reservations online. Visalia Mall, 2031 S. Mooney Boulevard, Visalia. (559) 733-3899
Christmas at Kearney in Fresno—Step back in time for a Victorian turn-of-the-century holiday! Take a guided tour of the beautifully decorated trees November 21st–January 4th. Meet Santa at the Mansion on December 6th–7th and enjoy a tea party December 13th. Check website for ticket prices and times. Kearney Mansion, 7160 W. Kearney Boulevard, Fresno. (559) 441-0862
IllumiNature in Fresno—Handmade Chinese lantern displays will illuminate the Zoo November 22nd–26th, 28th–30th, December 4th–7th, 8th, 11th–23rd, 26th–30th. Check website for January and beyond dates. 5–9 p.m. Tickets: $17–$25. Fresno Chaffee Zoo, 894 W. Belmont Avenue, Fresno. (559) 498-5910
Winter Wonderland Ice Rink in Coarsegold—Glide into the season November 22nd–January 4th. Check website for days and hours. Tickets: $15–$25. Chukchansi Gold Resort & Casino, 711 Lucky Lane, Coarsegold. (866) 794-6946
Winter Wonderland Ice Rink in Hanford—Enjoy ice skating, Santa photos, pet photos, princess breakfast, superhero breakfast, Santa storytime, and more November 22nd–January 11th. Check website for event days and times. Tickets: $16–$25. Civic Park, 400 N. Douty Street, Hanford. (559) 585-2525
Christmas at River Park in Fresno—Find holiday fun all month long November 28th–December 30th! Enjoy holiday music, train rides, character meet-and-greets, and so much more. Visit website for days, times, and prices. River Park, 71 E. Via la Plata, Fresno. (559) 4374855
Glice Skating in Bass Lake—Enjoy skating on glice (synthetic ice) November 28th–January 31st. Check online for days and times. Tickets: $5–$15, good for a 2-hour session and skate rental. The Pines Resort, 54432 Road 432, Bass Lake. (800) 350-7463
Carriage Rides in Clovis—Take a free horse drawn carriage ride through the beautifully decorated streets of Old Town Clovis November 29th–December 21st. Fridays from 5–8 p.m. Saturdays and Sundays from 1–4 p.m. (559) 298-5774
Christmas at Tenaya Lodge in Fish Camp—Celebrate the season at the lodge November 29th–December 24th. Enjoy gingerbread, snow globe, and ornament workshops and breakfast with Santa. Tickets: $10–99. Visit website for days and times. Tenaya at Yosemite, 1122 Highway 41, Fish Camp. (559) 692-8974
Photos with Santa in Merced—Get in the holiday spirit and get your Santa photos done November 29th–December 24th. Check website for pet photos, times, cost, and reservations. Marketplace at Merced, 851 W. Olive Avenue, Merced. (209) 723-3981
Steam Trains in Reedley—Experience the magic of moonlight stream train rides in this cozy and relaxed atmosphere. Kids will also enjoy play areas and trails. Plus, pick out a Christmas tree! Open November 29th–December 23rd. Steam trains run 10 a.m.–5 p.m. on weekends. Tree sales 10 a.m.–5 p.m. on select days. Pajama Christmas 6–8:30 p.m. on select days. Tickets: $5–$40. Hillcrest Farms, 6943 S. Reed Avenue, Reedley. (559) 638-2762
Candy Cane Lane in Clovis—Celebrate the holidays with a drive or walk down Candy Cane Lane, through December 1st–25th from 6–10 p.m. Over 100 homes are elaborately decorated with lights, displays, and yard art guaranteed to thrill children and adults alike. Free! Off Peach and Alluvial Avenues, Clovis.
Candy Cane Lane Parade in Visalia—Kick off the holiday season on December 1st from 6:30–9:30 p.m. with floats, bands, dancers, and more! Main Street, Visalia. (559) 334-0141
Christmas Tree Lane in Fresno—Drive down Van Ness Boulevard and see all of the elaborate light displays and Christmas scenes that transform the houses into a magical holiday event December 1st–25th. Check website for updated days and times. Van Ness Boulevard from Shields to Shaw, Fresno. (559) 348-9200
Christmas Tree Lighting in Clovis—Full of music and holiday cheer, families won't want to miss this festive event on December 1st from 6–8:30 p.m. Plus, there might even be a special guest from the North Pole! Clovis Civic Center, 1033 Fifth Street, Clovis. (559) 324-2000
Holiday Fun at the Library in Fresno—Head to the library to build a gingerbread house, visit with Mr. and Mrs. Claus, enjoy a Christmas party, do winter crafts, listen to holiday music, and more! December 2nd–13th Visit website for locations, days, and times. Free! Fresno County Public Library, Fresno. (559) 600-7323
Winter Concerts at FCC in Fresno—Expect great music and singing from Fresno City College. Symphony Orchestra on December 2nd, Choir on December 3rd, and Symphonic Band on December 9th at 7:30 p.m. Tickets: $5–$8. Fresno City College, 1101 E. University Avenue, Fresno. (559) 442-8221
Tree Lighting in Sanger—Watch the tree lighting, see Santa, and enjoy festivities at this 42nd annual event on December 3rd from 5:30–8 p.m. Tree lighting at 6:45 p.m. Brehler Park, Seventh & N Streets, Sanger. (559) 875-4575
Children's Christmas Parade in Porterville—Enjoy this community parade on December 4th from 7–9 p.m. Route follows Main Street from Morton to Olive Avenue, Porterville. (559) 784-7502
Hometown Holiday in Tulare—Don't miss this free event featuring Santa photos, carolers, holiday movies, kids activities, and even snow! December 4th–7th from 5–7 p.m. Zumwalt Park, 455 E. Tulare Avenue, Tulare. (559) 334-0141
Winter Celebration Concert in Fresno—Enjoy an evening of joyful music and festive spirits from 7–8 p.m. on December 4th. Fresno Pacific University, 1717 S. Chestnut Avenue, Fresno. (559) 453-5588
Winter Concerts from New Horizons in Fresno—Music from classical to contemporary—and, of course, Christmas—will be performed by New Horizons Band & Orchestra of Fresno in two free concerts on December 4th and 9th at 7 p.m. 4th at Bullard High School Auditorium, 5445 N. Palm Avenue. 9th at University Presbyterian Church, 5739 N. Cedar Avenue. Fresno. (559) 250-8094
Christmas in the Park & Electrical Farm Equipment Parade in Reedley—Join for this annual celebration on December 5th! From 5–9 p.m. there will be food trucks, crafts, vendors, and the tree lighting at 6 p.m.—all at Pioneer Park. At 7 p.m. the parade begins with tractors, buses, combines, and many antique vehicles all lit up on G Street, Reedley. (559) 638-3548
Christmas Parade in Atwater Christmas"–themed parade. Call for route. Atwater. (209) 355-49
Christmas Parade in Lindsay cookies, a tree lighting and more on begins at 6 p.m. Downtown, Lindsay. (559) 562-7102
Christmas Tree Lighting Ceremony in Madera holiday magic, photos with Santa, horse-drawn carriage rides, f on December 5th from 5:30–8 p.m. Tesoro Viejo, 4150 Town Center Boulevard, Madera. 822-3375
Downtown Christmas Parade & Christmas in the Park in Madera enjoy this festive light parade on Avenue, between A and H Streets. After the parade, enjoy music, with Santa, the tree lighting, and more until 10 p.m. Courthous Avenue, Madera. (559) 481-8313, (559) 481-1711
Tree Lighting in Coarsegold join for carols on December 5th 35610 Highway 41, Coarsegold. (559) 683-1443
Tree Lighting at CrossCity in Fresno drone show, live music, horse-drawn carriage rides, cookie and inflatables, and selfies with Santa! Church, 2777 E. Nees Avenue, Fresno. (559) 323-9675
Winter Fest & Christmas Parade in Caruthers 5th from 4–9 p.m. Winterfest begins at 4 p.m., the parade begins a Avenue, and the pageant begins at 7:30 p.m. Enjoy vendors, food raffles, and more! Caruthers Fairgrounds, 13599 S. Raider Avenue, Caruthers. (559) 203-0399
Children’s Electric Christmas Parade in Clovis—Usher in the holiday spirit with spectacular holiday floats glittering with lights as they make their way through the streets of Old Town Clovis on December 6th from 6:30–9 p.m. Old Town, Clovis & Pollasky, Clovis. (559) 575-4311
Christmas Tree Lighting in Oakhurst—This 37th annual tree lighting will feature vendors, crafts, food, and more from 4–9 p.m. on December 6th. Tree lighting begins at 6 p.m. and Santa will arrive afterward on his big red sleigh! Talking Bear, 40307 Highway 41, Oakhurst. 683-7766
Country Christmas at Ford Farms in Lindsay—Meet Santa, Mrs. Claus, and the Grinch on December 6th, 13th, and 20th from 10 a.m.–4 p.m. Tickets: $10, kids 2 and under are free. Enjoy Christmas music, food vendors, a petting zoo, and more! Ford Farms, 22827 Road 180, Lindsay. (559) 577-0445
Downtown Christmas Parade in Lemoore—Streets will be lined with a variety of vehicles, floats, entertainment, and more for “Cowboy Christmas” on December 6th at 6 p.m. D Street, Downtown Lemoore. (559) 924-6744
Electric Light Parade & Tree Lighting in Dinuba—”Winter Wonderland Express”–steps out at 5:30 p.m. on December 6th, E. Tulare Street then left on L Street. Following the parade is the Holiday Tree Lighting and pictures with Santa at Entertainment Plaza, 289 S. L Street. Downtown Dinuba. (559) 591-5900
Holiday Hit Parade in Merced—Enjoy this community parade on December 6th beginning at 2 p.m. Downtown, Main Street, Merced. (559) 226-5600
Holiday Open House at ARF in Fresno—Enjoy a bake sale, raffles, vendors, pictures with Santa, and more on December 6th from 11 a.m.–3 p.m. Animal Rescue of Fresno, 4545 E. Dakota Avenue, Fresno. (559) 225-5715
Holiday Open House at Fig in Fresno—Start the day with horse-drawn carriage rides and holiday vendors. Then enjoy holiday treats as you prepare for photos with Santa. December 6th from 10 a.m.–1 p.m. Fig Garden Village, 790 W. Shaw Avenue, Fresno. (559) 412-5296
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Hometown Lighted Christmas Parade & Tree Lighting in Chowchilla—Join on December 6th at 5:30 p.m. on Robertson Boulevard. Following the parade at 6:45 p.m., is the tree lighting ceremony at Veterans Memorial Park, 600 W. Robertson Boulevard, Chowchilla. (559) 665-8615
Toyland Parade in Sanger—Bring the kids to this fun, 77th annual festive parade in Downtown Sanger December 6th at 11 a.m. Parade route begins at Academy Avenue, Sanger. (559) 875-4575
Christmas Concert & Tree Lighting in Visalia—Join for a magical evening on December 7th! Experience the concert, tree lighting, fun kids activities, and more at 4 or 6 p.m. Childcare available. Gateway Church of Visalia, 1100 S. Sowell Street, Visalia. (559) 732-4787
Magical Winter Tales in Fresno—Enjoy this festive concert featuring tales from Vienna to Hungary on December 7th at 2:30 p.m. Call for ticket information. Paul Shaghoian Concert Hall, 2770 E. International Avenue, Fresno. (559) 512-1726
The Grinch Who Gave Back Christmas in Porterville—Bring the whole family to this free event featuring toys, resources, photos with Santa and The Grinch, giveaways, music, and more! December 10th from 3–6:30 p.m. Porterville College Stadium, 100 E. College Avenue, Porterville. (559) 793-2527
Seasonal Fun with PARCS in Fresno—Celebrate the season with Fresno PARCS with Holly Jolly Family Bingo and a Winter Celebration on December 12th; Gingerbread Wonderland and Grinchmas on the 13th; Winter Wonderland on the 17th; a Holiday Workshop on the 23rd; and so much more. Go online or call for times, locations, and more information. Free! Fresno, (559) 621-7529
Winter Wonderland in Fresno—Join for festive ice skating with holiday displays in the lobby and on the ice! December 12th–January 5th. Times vary daily, visit website or call for available session times. Tickets: $19. Gateway Ice Center, 2473 N. Marks Avenue, Fresno. (559) 277-2233
Downtown Christmas Parade in Fresno—The 96th annual Downtown Fresno Christmas Parade “Let It Glow” is on December 13th from 6:30–8:30 p.m. Downtown, Fulton Street from Inyo to Calaveras, Fresno. (559) 490-9966
Home for the Holidays in Fresno—This annual musical celebration features an evening of seasonal favorites on December 13th at 7:30 p.m. Arrive early to enjoy lobby caroling, hot chocolate, and pictures by the tree. Tickets: $21–$98. William Saroyan Theatre, 730 M Street, Fresno. (559) 261-0600
Live Nativity in Fresno—Step into Bethlehem and experience the story of the first Christmas come to life December 13th–15th from 6–8 p.m. for free. California Temple, 6290 N. Valentine Avenue, Fresno. (559) 437-9451
Merry Mountain Christmas Parade in Mariposa—This historic foothill town’s parade begins at 5 p.m. in Old Town Mariposa on December 13th. After the parade, enjoy the tree lighting and other holiday fun! Old Town, Main Street, Mariposa. (209) 966-2456
The North Pole Market in Tulare—Let the holiday spirit sweep you away to the biggest indoor market around on December 13th from 10 a.m.–5 p.m. Enjoy Santa photos, letter writing,cheerful tunes, and more. Free entry! International Agri-Center, 4500 S. Laspina Street, Tulare. (559) 688-1030
Voices of Christmas in Fresno—Join for this program that is filled with carols and celebration on December 14th from 3–5 p.m. Tickets: $12–$25. University Presbyterian Church, 1776 E. Roberts Avenue, Fresno. (559) 994-9275
A Holiday Celestial Spectacular in Visalia—Join for live musical performances, kids games and activities, sweet treats, pictures with Santa, and a feature at the planetarium on December 19th from 4–7 p.m. Planetarium showings at 4:15, 5:15, 6:15, and 7:15 p.m. Tickets: $5. Tulare Planetarium & Science Center, 11535 Avenue 264, Visalia. (559) 733-6433
Candlelight Concerts in Fresno—This live, multi-sensory experience in an awe-inspiring location will bring the holiday magic alive on December 19th. Enjoy Christmas Carols on Strings at 6:15 or 8:30 p.m. Tickets: $40–$59. The Grand 1401, 1401 Fulton Street, Fresno. (402) 249-2445
DecemberCalendar
Events are compiled six weeks in advance, we suggest that you call the telephone numbers provided to verify dates, times, costs, and locations of events. To publicize your event: Central California Parent invites you to publicize your event by emailing a description including location, date, time, admission prices, age suitability, phone number for information, and photos. Central California Parent reserves the right to limit entries in this free service and to prioritize free, family events. Deadline is the 10th of the month preceding the event. If you have any questions, feel free to email us at calendar@ccparent.com or call (559) 435-1409.
FRESNO MONSTERS Cheer on your Fresno Monsters as they take on the Ontario Reign at 6 p.m. Tickets: $10. Gateway Ice Center, 2473 N. Marks Avenue, Fresno. (559) 277-2233
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FRESNO MONSTERS Cheer on your Fresno Monsters as they take on the Ontario Reign at 7:45 p.m. Tickets: $10. Gateway Ice Center, 2473 N. Marks Avenue, Fresno. (559) 277-2233
PAINT NIGHT Join for an evening of art and fun from 4–5 p.m. Supplies provided. Politi Branch Library, 5771 N. First Street, Fresno. (559) 600-0840
5 Friday
BILINGUAL STORYTIME Come enjoy free engaging, interactive stories and songs in Spanish and English, perfect for ages 0–5 and their families. 11:15 a.m.–11:45 a.m. Tulare Public Library, 475 N. M Street, Tulare. (559) 685-4507
B&N STORYTIME Families are invited to this free storytime featuring a different picture book each week at 11 a.m. Your local Barnes & Noble, Fresno & Visalia. (559) 437-0484
DIY KIDS WORKSHOP Join for a free workshop where kids can make a Holiday Cocoa Mug from 9 a.m.–12 p.m. While supplies last. Visit homedepot.com/workshops to register in advance and find your local Home Depot. Clovis, Fresno. (559) 294-9600 or (559) 431-9860
FIRST SATURDAYS Nurture scientific imaginations, build confidence, and encourage testing, tinkering, creating, and wonder today for only $3! 9 a.m.–2 p.m. $3. Fresno Discovery Center, 1944 N. Winery Avenue, Fresno. (559) 251-5531
FRESNO MONSTERS Cheer on your Fresno Monsters as they take on the Ontario Reign at 5 p.m. Tickets: $10. Gateway Ice Center, 2473 N. Marks Avenue, Fresno. (559) 277-2233
Mickey and pals are rocking the DJ table at Disney On Ice and you could be on the guest list! Feel the electric atmosphere as they remix favorite Disney tunes into colorful worlds. Wish upon a star with Asha as she and Valentino save the Kingdom of Rosas from King Magnifico. Roar with delight as Simba, Timon, and Pumbaa step into the spotlight. Groove to ocean beats with Ariel and friends, harmonize with Elsa, Anna, and Olaf, and sway to the rhythm of the waves with Moana and Maui. And the party really goes off the charts when guest DJ Stitch takes control. Get ready to turn up the fun at Disney On Ice presents Let's Dance! January 29th–February 1st at the Selland Arena in Fresno.
Central California Parent is giving away tickets to some lucky readers! To qualify for our free random drawing, send a postcard with your name, address, phone, and email by December 31st to Central California Parent: Disney on Ice, 7638 N. Ingram Avenue, Suite 101, Fresno, CA 93711. Only one entry per family, please.
ON STAGE
A CHRISTMAS CAROL A 21st century twist on the classic story of Ebenezer Scrooge. Rated G. Tickets: $27–$30. 2nd Space Theatre, 928 E. Olive Avenue, Fresno. (559) 266-0660
• December 4th, 11th, 18th at 7:30 p.m.
• December 5th, 6th, 12th, 13th, 19th, and 20th at 8 p.m.
• December 7th, 14th, and 21st at 2 p.m.
A NUTCRACKER LIKE NO OTHER This 11th annual winter production takes families on a holiday adventure! Tickets: $21. Warnors Theatre, 1463 Fulton Street, Fresno. (559) 432-6292
• December 6th at 1 and 4:30 p.m.
A NUTTY NUTCRACKER The classic tale—but nuttier! Tickets: $17. Dancing School of Selma, 2013 Second Street, Selma. (559) 899-7686
• December 13th at 4:15 and 7 p.m.
• December 14th at 2:30 and 5 p.m.
AN IRISH CHRISTMAS Experience the joy of An Irish Christmas as seen on PBS! Enjoy all the holiday carols you know and love, plus a spectacular high-energy display of Irish dancing at it's very best. Tickets: $43–$80. Visalia Fox Theatre, 308 W. Main Street, Visalia. (559) 625-1369
• December 14th at 2 p.m.
CHILDREN'S NUTCRACKER Celebrate the holidays with this timeless fairy tale featuring Clara and a very unusual Christmas. Tickets: $5–$15. Lindsay Community Theater, 190 N. Elmwood Avenue, Lindsay. (559) 284-2223
• December 5th and 6th at 7 p.m.
• December 6th at 4 p.m.
• December 7th at 2 p.m.
FIESTA NAVIDAD Mariachi Los Camperos presents their Fiesta Navidad. This world-renowned band will bring the pageantry and excitement of Mexican holiday customs to life in La Posada. Tickets: $48–$78. Tower Theatre, 809 E. Olive Avenue, Fresno. (559) 485-9050
• December 21st at 4 p.m.
SHREK THE MUSICAL Enjoy this laugh-out-loud, big-hearted adventure bursting with catchy songs, dazzling costumes, and your favorite fairy-tale misfits. It’s the feel-good event of the season. Tickets: $18–$25. Fresno Memorial Auditorium Theatre, 2425 Fresno Street, Fresno. (866) 973-9610
• December 5th, 6th, 12th, and 13th at 7:30 p.m.
• December 6th, 7th, 13th, and 14th at 2 p.m.
SOMETHING ROTTEN Hysterically historically inaccurate! Get thee to the funnery! Rated PG-13. Tickets: $45–$79. Roger Rocka's Dinner Theatre, 1226 N. Wishon Avenue, Fresno. (559) 266-9494
• December 4th, 11th, and 18th at 5 p.m.
• December 5th, 6th, 12th, 13th, 19th, 20th, 26th, and 27th at 5:30 p.m.
• December 7th, 14th, 21st, and 28th at 11 a.m.
• December 31st at 6 p.m.
THE LION KING JR. Watch the African savanna come to life featuring classic songs from the Broadway musical and animated feature film. Tickets: $5–$15. Porterville Barn Theater, 42 S. Plano Street, Porterville. (559) 310-7046
• December 5th, 6th, 12th, 13th, 19th, and 20th at 7 p.m.
• December 7th, 14th, and 21st at 2 p.m.
THE LITTLE TOWN OF CHRISTMAS Enjoy twelve yuletide sketches. This show features a collection of traditional carols and is sure to bring you holiday laughter, nostalgia, and warmth! Rated G. Tickets: $13–$18. The Golden Chain Theatre, 42130 Highway 41, Oakhurst. (559) 683-7112
• December 5th, 6th, 12th, 13th, 19th, and 20th at 7 p.m.
• December 7th, 14th, and 21st at 2 p.m.
THE NUTCRACKER This holiday classic is based on the E.T.A. Hoffman fairytale, an intriguing combination of magic and childhood imagination, sure to entertain the entire family! Tickets: $38–$82. William Saroyan Theatre, 730 M Street, Fresno. (559) 445-8100
• December 20th and 21st at 2 p.m.
THE NUTCRACKER World Ballet Company brings this beloved holiday tradition to life in a dazzling, Broadway-caliber production. Tickets: $52–$125. William Saroyan Theatre, 730 M Street, Fresno. (559) 445-8100
• December 5th at 7 p.m.
KIDS CLUB Enjoy this free opportunity for kids to learn in a fun, interactive setting. Focusing on sustainability and living eco-friendly, this program is designed to teach kids about the importance of living with a "green" mindset. 11:30 a.m.–12:30 p.m. Fashion Fair Mall, 645 E. Shaw Avenue, Fresno. (559) 224-1591
STORYTIME AT PETUNIA’S Kids ages 3–8 are invited for stories along with puppets, music, and crafts at 11 a.m. Free! Petunia’s Place, 6027 N. Palm Avenue, Fresno. (559) 438-1561
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PRESCHOOL STORYTIME Come enjoy free, engaging, interactive stories and songs, perfect for ages 0–5 and their families. 11:15 a.m.–11:45 a.m. Tulare Public Library, 475 N. M Street, Tulare. (559) 685-4507
13 Saturday
ARTS & CRAFTS Kids ages 3–13 are invited to make a free paper wreath, while supplies last. 1–1:45 p.m. Tulare Public Library, 475 N. M Street, Tulare. (559) 685-4507
B&N STORYTIME Families are invited to this free storytime featuring a different picture book each week at 11 a.m. Your local Barnes & Noble, Fresno & Visalia. (559) 437-0484
BIG BROTHERS BIG SISTERS KIDS CRAFT Families can make a fun and engaging craft together while learning about our community. 12–2 p.m. Fashion Fair Mall, 645 E. Shaw Avenue, Fresno. (559) 224-1591
BLACK ANGEL MOMMIES This free grief support group for Black mothers healing after pregnancy or infant loss runs from 10–11:30 a.m. Child watch and light snacks will be provided. Please RSVP with Jennifer Pino-Xiong by phone. Park Grove Apartment Complex, 2674 E. Clinton Avenue, Fresno. (559) 600-3330
KIDS ZONE School-aged kids can create a LEGO Creator 3-in-1 Toucan or Monster Truck from 11 a.m.–12 p.m. for free! JCPenney, 555 E. Shaw Avenue and 851 W. Olive Avenue , Fresno and Merced. (559) 224-8330 and (209) 723-3981
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FAMILY DAY Enjoy free storytimes, performers, exhibits, kids activities, and more from 11 a.m.–4 p.m. Fresno Art Museum, 2233 N. First Street, Fresno. (559) 441-4221
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KIDS MASTER GARDENERS Join for a free, hands-on gardening activity, including an interactive lesson, book, songs, and crafts. 3:30–4:30 p.m. Betty Rodriguez Library, 3040 N. Cedar Avenue, Fresno. (559) 600-9245
19 Friday
BILINGUAL STORYTIME Come enjoy free engaging, interactive stories and songs in Spanish and English, perfect for ages 0–5 and their families. 11:15 a.m.–11:45 a.m. Tulare Public Library, 475 N. M Street, Tulare. (559) 685-4507
20 Saturday
B&N STORYTIME Families are invited to this free storytime featuring a different picture book each week at 11 a.m. Your local Barnes & Noble, Fresno & Visalia. (559) 437-0484
DIY-U AT LOWE'S Bring your mini-DIYer into Lowe’s to build a Sleigh Ride Toy at one of the select time slots for a workshop hosted by a Red Vest experts from 10 a.m.–1 p.m. Walk-ins start at 1 p.m. Reserve your space online in advance. Free! Lowe’s, Clovis, Fresno. (559) 436-6266 or (559) 322-3000
STAR PARTY Observe planets, stars, galaxies, and nebulae while learning about the night sky from the Central Valley Astronomers at dusk. Free! Eastman Lake, 32175 Road 29, Raymond. (559) 288-2094
STORYTIME AT PETUNIA’S Kids ages 3–8 are invited for stories along with puppets, music, and crafts at 11 a.m. Free! Petunia’s Place, 6027 N. Palm Avenue, Fresno. (559) 438-1561
26 Friday
PRESCHOOL STORYTIME Come enjoy free, engaging, interactive stories and songs, perfect for ages 0–5 and their families. 11:15 a.m.–11:45 a.m. Tulare Public Library, 475 N. M Street, Tulare. (559) 685-4507
27 Saturday
B&N STORYTIME Families are invited to this free storytime featuring a different picture book each week at 11 a.m. Your local Barnes & Noble, Fresno & Visalia. (559) 437-0484
BUILDERS' ZONE Kids ages 3–13 are invited to the library to build with LEGOS and get creative for free! 1–1:45 p.m. Tulare Public Library, 475 N. M Street, Tulare. (559) 685-4507
The Art of the Thank You Note
By Tiffany Doerr Guerzon
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The art of the handwritten thank you note seems to be quickly fading into the past, but writing thank you notes is a useful exercise for children. It helps instill the message that receiving a gift is not a right, but a privilege. Creating a written message also encourages kids to sit down and think about the person who gave the gift. This simple activity can also improve small-motor skills in younger kids, as well as spark creative thinking in all ages.
Make it Fun
So how can parents encourage this practice? By making it fun instead of a dreaded task! Try putting together a thank you note kit. Grab a lidded box and put in some blank note cards, envelopes, and postage stamps. Then, cruise the aisles of the dollar or craft store for inspiring art supplies with which to decorate those notes.
Build a Kit
• Blank note cards and envelopes
• Postage stamps
• Markers, pencils, and crayons
• Chalk and oil pastels
• Stamps and stamp pad
• Stickers
• Glue and tape
Write a Boilerplate
Writing these note can get monotonous. Consider writing out a “boilerplate” message on an index card and placing the card in a stand-alone frame. Include this in your kit.
Elementary school-age kids can copy the basic message and personalize the card with artwork. Encourage older children to make their notes personal by writing down at least one thing they liked about the gift. For pre-writers, write out the basic message yourself and allow your child to decorate the card with art supplies. Have them sign their own name, if they are able—this is great name-writing practice!
Kids will probably still need a nudge to get going on those notes, but a thank you note kit will make it much more fun for your kids and easier for you! Plus, friends and family who receive these decorated, personal notes will surely find them priceless.
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taking a careful, but reassuring approach. She suggests a phrase like, "One thing that will be different this year is that we won’t have as many presents. But we’ll enjoy time together as a family, there will be a lot of love and fun, and we can count our blessings and think about what we can do for others."
When we stress the importance of giving, we’re teaching our kids something far more valuable than what’s inside any gift box. We’re teaching them generosity, gratitude, and how to find joy in the moment they’re in.
Address Practical Matters:
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Embracing a pared-down holiday is an important step, but there are practical ways to cut spending too. Many families adopt the "four gift rule," which means kids get something they want, something they need, something to wear, and something to read.
For extended family and adults, you can set gift budgets, agree that all gifts will be handmade or thrifted, or choose a family experience instead of gifts. Crafting and at-home activities are particularly meaningful for kids. Let them make homemade ornaments, gifts, or decorations, and embrace holiday baking days, family story nights, and holiday walks.
Prioritize What They’ll Actually
Remember: A few years from now, your child probably won’t remember what was inside that wrapped box. But they will remember the night you let them stay up late to watch a holiday movie. They’ll remember stringing popcorn, hanging handmade snowflakes, and singing along to holiday music. They’ll remember the feeling of being with family, being loved, and being part of something that didn’t have to be perfect to be wonderful.
If the money’s tight or the schedule’s full this year, take a deep breath and let go of the pressure. Light a candle, turn on the music, and make space for the little things, because they’re never little to your child. This year, they might just be the things they’ll remember most.
Inexpensive Memory-Making
Night of the Lights: Pick a night, bundle up, and walk or drive around to see holiday lights. Bring a thermos of cocoa and play your favorite holiday playlist. Let the kids rate the houses and pick a "winner" just for fun.
Holiday Story Hour: Dig out old holiday books (or check a few out from the library). Light a candle, pull on fuzzy socks, and read aloud together. Let an older child take a turn reading. Or make up your own holiday tale as a family.
Kindness Countdown: Create a DIY calendar where each day counts down with a small act of kindness. Write a note to a neighbor, donate old toys, or make a card for a nursing home resident.
Be Honest About the Budget
To explain a smaller holiday without creating guilt or disappointment, try phrases like:
“We’re being smart with our money this year, so we can focus on what really matters—spending time together.”
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“You’re going to get a few really meaningful gifts, but the biggest gift is us being together, making memories, and giving to others.” Invite them to plan a tradition, help with decorations, or make something for someone else. Empowering kids to participate shifts the focus from receiving to experiencing.
Meaningful Crafts
Garland of Gratitude: Cut out paper stars. Each day, kids write one thing they’re thankful for and string them into a garland.
Wish Jar: Let each family member write down one non-material holiday wish and place it in a decorated jar.
Holiday Interview Book: Have kids “interview” friends and family about their favorite holiday memories and write them down in a scrapbook.
Handprint Time Capsule: Trace everyone’s handprint on construction paper, write the year, and tuck it away to look back on next year. Add to it every year and use it as a decoration.
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Who Qualifies?
Families qualify for the Alternative Payment Program based on two criteria “eligibility” and “need”.
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To be “ eligible”, a family’s income must meet eligibility requirements set by the State Department of Social Services, Child Care and Development Division.
“Need”
A family “needs” childcare based on one of the following: parents are employed, in school, or participating in a training program, parents are incapacitated or are unable to adequately care for their child(ren), children with special needs (medical, psychological, or if the child(ren) needs care as protection from abuse or neglect.
CalWORKs Families (current and former recipients)
Childcare is a critical part of your success as a former or current recipient of CalWORKs (or AFDC) benefits. For former or current CalWORKs recipients, Supportive Services, Inc. can provide funding if you meet eligibility requirements.
How May I See if I Qualif y?
Currently there are more families in need of assistance than there is funding to help. A waiting list of eligible families is kept to fill funding slots as they become available. To be placed on the waiting list, you may contact (559) 230 -2030 or visit our website at ssifresno.org.
