February 2023

Need Help Paying for Childcare?

Who Qualifies?

Families qualify for the Alternative Payment Program based on two criteria “eligibility” and “need”.

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To be “ eligible”, a family’s income must meet eligibility requirements set by the State Department of Social Services, Child Care and Development Division.

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Need

A family “needs” childcare based on one of the following: parents are employed, in school, or participating in a training program, parents are incapacitated or are unable to adequately care for their child(ren), children with special needs (medical, psychological, or if the child(ren) needs care as protection from abuse or neglect.

CalWORKs Families (current and former recipients)

Childcare is a critical part of your success as a former or current recipient of CalWORKs (or AFDC) benefits. For former or current CalWORKs recipients, Supportive Services, Inc. can provide funding if you meet eligibility requirements.

How May I See if I Qualif y?

Currently there are more families in need of assistance than there is funding to help. A waiting list of eligible families is kept to fill funding slots as they become available. To be placed on the waiting list, you may contact (559) 230 -2030 or visit our website at ssifresno.org.

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Dear Reader,

Love is in the air! How can you think of February without thinking of Valentine’s Day, roses, and chocolates? It is always such a fun time of year because we are encouraged to appreciate those in our life for who we care for most!

Over the past decade, research has highlighted the link between affection in childhood and health and happiness in the future. Flip to page 8 for, “How a Parent’s Affection Shapes a Child’s Happiness for Life,” where author, Sandi Schwartz, covers what the science says and how you can bring more affection into your household.

If you have a toddler, head to page 10! As a parent, it can be a joy to watch your little one hit milestones, but can also become exhausting as they express their independence and work out their frustrations. While all of this is normal, it's easy to feel overwhelmed and frustrated. Check out the tips that could help you survive and perhaps even enjoy the toddler years in, “The Toddler Instruction Manual,” by Sarah Lyons. Early enrollment for preschools is right around the corner. Head to page 9 for our A+ Preschool directory and page 19 for our Early Childhood Preschool Directory to jump start your search!

This month launches our Nineteenth Annual Readers’ Choice Award Ballot. We will honor Central California’s most family-friendly establishments in an upcoming issue, so tell us your favorite businesses that deserve to be noticed. You could even win $100 to Smart & Final!

Plus, save the date for Camp Fair ’23! On Wednesday, March 29th, from 3–7 p.m., you’ll have the opportunity to speak oneon-one with summer camps and programs. Gather information, ask questions, and plan your kids’ best summer ever. We’ll see you there!

Erika Bullis

ShortStuff

News You Can Use

February is Black History Month

Celebrate Black History Month with your children and learn about the accomplishments of famous and lesser-known African Americans. Relive history with kids of all ages by reading stories of African Americans overcoming adversity and making their multicultural mark on the world. With books about everything from jazz and Jackie Robinson to slavery and segregation, there are many rich biographic themes to explore with your kids. Visit familyeducation.com > Activities > Holidays > Black History Month for printables, coloring pages, quizzes, activities, articles about the historic struggle for civil rights, and more education materials.

Educational Learning Kits

In collaboration with the Madera Superintendent of Schools, the Madera County Library will be offering fun and engaging thematic backpack learning kits to local families! With each theme, families will have access to a video where parents and children can learn how to use all the materials provided in each backpack. Families can choose from a variety of fun themes to make reading and learning fun at home.

These learning kits are now available for check out at the Madera County Library. The library encourages all families to take advantage of these fun kits!

For availability, please contact the Madera County Library at 675-7871.

The 16th Annual Trex® Plastic Film Recycling Challenge

This nationwide competition, hosted by Trex Company, the world’s largest manufacturer of composite decking and railing, challenges K–12 students from across the country to collect and recycle as much polyethylene (PE) plastic film as possible by Earth Day, on April 22nd, for the chance to win cash prizes and high-performance Trex outdoor living products for their schools.

Participants in the Trex Plastic Film Recycling Challenge will have opportunities to win cash prizes for their schools, thanks to returning corporate sponsor Charter Next Generation (CNG.) The leading provider of specialty PE films to the North American market will present $5,000 each to the individual elementary, middle, and high schools that recycle the most plastic film in their categories. Cash prizes of $3,000 and $2,500, respectively, will be awarded to the second and third place schools at each level. As extra motivation, CNG will award an additional $2,500 to the top recycling school overall—above and beyond their $5,000 category firstplace prize.

Those interested in participating, may visit NexTrex.com to enroll.

Some Shorter Stuff

Spreading Free Smiles & Hope! Willow Dental Group will host Dentistry with Hope which will provide the first 100+ adults (age 18+) free dental care on Saturday, March 4th from 8 a.m.–2 p.m. Each patient will have their choice of a cleaning, filling, or extraction. Plan to arrive early—care will be provided on a first come, first serve basis. For more information visit willowdentalgroup.com or call 434-1088.

Weekly Giveaways! Be sure to stay connected with Central California Parent at ccparent.com and all our social platforms for a chance to win cool prizes every week! Last month we gave away performance tickets, children's products, gift cards, and more!

National Burn Awareness Week is observed the first full week in February, and is a window of opportunity to update your family on avoiding contact burns, frostbite, hypothermia, cooking burns, and more. It is also a great time to check your hot water heater, which should be set to 120 degrees Fahrenheit or you could consider installing an anti-scald device. Visit ameriburn.org to learn more.

Join the Great Backyard Bird Count by taking note of the birds that visit your yard. With thousands of people around the world doing the same, we can better understand the movement of species around the globe. So fill those bird feeders and put fresh water in the birdbath, the Great Backyard Bird Count runs from February 17th–20th. Visit birdcount.org for more information.

Girl Scouts Are Gearing Up for Cookie Sales! are open and local booth sales start on February 5th. Support your local troop this year! Visit girlscoutsccs.org or call 291-5078 for more information.

Always at ccparent.com! Visit us online to view the digital edition of this month’s issue, our calendar of family events any day of the week, local resources, and so much more!

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An Update on your Family’s Health and Welfare HealthWatch

Emergency Care vs. Urgent Care

It's a Saturday night. What do you do if your child has a fever, you are having chest pain, or you are bleeding from a serious injury? Where should you go for medical care: the emergency department or an urgent care center?

Always call 911 if you think you may be experiencing a medical emergency, such as chest pain or severe bleeding. For other, lesssevere medical problems, the landscape can be a little confusing.

Emergency Care: Hospital emergency departments are prepared for every kind of medical emergency. Emergency departments are available 24 hours a day, every day of the year, and have special equipment and highly-qualified physicians, physician assistants, and nurses to respond to every kind of adult or childhood medical emergency. Most are staffed by physicians with specialized training and board certification in emergency medicine. Emergency departments are obligated to treat any patient regardless of their ability to pay or their insurance status.

Go to the emergency department or call 911 if you experience the following:

• Trouble breathing or chest pain

• Facial drooping or weakness in an arm or leg

• Bleeding that lasts longer than 10 minutes

• Seizures

• Head trauma or sudden acute headaches or dizziness

• Major broken bones

• Coughing or vomiting blood

• Sudden confusion or disorientation

• Severe abdominal pain

• Swallowed a foreign object

Urgent Care: Urgent care centers are not a substitute for emergency care as they don’t have the same equipment or trained staff that emergency departments have, but they can be a solid option for minor injuries or illnesses or if your doctor’s office is closed. Urgent care centers do not have a federal mandate to treat patients. Most accept health insurance, but require payment at the time of service.

Call your doctor’s office or, on evenings or weekends, go to an urgent care center for the following:

• Regular cough, sneezing, running nose, or sore throat

• Muscle aches, body aches, ear aches, or headaches

• Vomiting, upset stomach, or diarrhea

• Rash

• Minor bone fractures

• Pink eye

• Minor cuts

Anyone who thinks they're having a medical emergency should not hesitate to seek care. Federal law ensures that anyone who comes to the emergency department is treated and stabilized, and that their insurance provides coverage based on symptoms, not a final diagnosis.

–The American College of Emergency Physicians

Pediatric Fever Medications May be in Short Supply, But Help Is Just a Phone Call Away

The ongoing surge in viral infections may be past its peak in California, and not a moment too soon. Poison control centers across the US noted that a current shortage of children's ibuprofen and acetaminophen led to a new concern for the safety of families with young children. The shortage has led some parents to resort to desperate measures, such as crushing up adult doses of these medications and administering them to their babies.

This is concerning because adult doses of ibuprofen and acetaminophen can be dangerous for young children. Both medications, when dosed improperly, can cause serious side effects, including stomach bleeding, liver and kidney damage, and even death.

We strongly urge parents and care providers not to use adult doses of these medications for children. If you are unable to find children's ibuprofen or acetaminophen at your local pharmacy, please speak to your healthcare provider about safe, alternative

options. Additionally, it's important to remember that children's medications should always be stored out of reach and out of sight of children, and to always follow the dosage instructions on the label. And, never use aspirin for treating fevers in children.

There are other options to help your child feel better besides fever medications. Saline drops for congested nasal passages can help with difficulty breathing and swallowing. Low grade fevers may not need to be treated as long as the child is feeling otherwise well and able to drink cold fluids.

Most importantly, get help and advice from the real experts. If you have any questions or concerns, please do not hesitate to contact your healthcare provider or the California Poison Control System on our toll-free hotline 1-800-222-1222, where a team of experts in pharmacy and poisoning prevention issues can answer all your questions based on your child’s health needs.

–Rais Vohra MD FACEP FACMT

Healthy Dental Tips for New Parents

Parenting is a magical experience. Navigating the world of parenting as a new parent though, can also be overwhelming. From constant feedings and diaper changes, to trying to get a few hours of sleep it can feel like a never-ending cycle. Here are a few tips that can help new parents feel more confident about taking care of their baby’s gums and teeth.

1. Although breastfeeding is the best way to provide immunity and bond with your child, there are risks associated with nursing for an extended period of time. Early childhood caries is a common problem for children who are breastfed for more than 12 months, on demand, especially at night.

2. You should start cleaning your baby's mouth as soon after birth as possible. Even before their first tooth comes in, you can use a damp washcloth, gauze, or Xylitol teeth wipes to gently clean the gums and tongue after feeding. Maintaining clean gums can also avoid a thrush infection.

3. As soon as teeth start appearing, begin brushing them with a soft, child-sized toothbrush or an infant finger brush.

5. The FDA has issued a warning against the use of Orajel or similar topical anesthetics for teething pain. Chewing on chilled, non-fluid filled teething toys can help with teething discomfort.

6. To help prevent tooth decay, it's important to use a toothpaste that contains fluoride. Since toddlers can't yet spit out toothpaste, use only a very small amount—about the size of a small grain of rice. For older children who have learned to spit, use a pea-sized amount of toothpaste. Small, but constant exposure to fluoride has the best anti-cavity effect on teeth.

7. Limit your child's intake of sugary snacks and drinks. These items can lead to tooth decay. Avoid giving them juice or other sugary drinks in a bottle or sippy cup, as this can lead to "baby bottle tooth decay." The American Heart Association recommends that sugar in food and drinks should be avoided for kids under two.

8. The American Academy of Pediatrics recommends limiting fruit juice intake to no more than 4 ounces per day for children under the age of 3. Diluting the juice with water by 50% can also help reduce the risk of cavities.

9. Cavity-causing bacteria are transmissible. To prevent the spread of these bacteria, do not share utensils, napkins, or towels between family members.

10. Schedule regular dental check-ups with a pediatric dentist. The American Academy of Pediatric Dentistry recommends a baby's first dental visit by their first birthday. The pediatric dentist can check for any potential issues and provide guidance on how to care for your child's teeth.

11. Practice good oral hygiene habits. As your child gets older, teach them the importance of brushing, flossing, and using mouthwash. Encourage them to brush and floss their teeth twice a day.

As a parent, you play a crucial role in setting the foundation for your child's lifetime of good oral hygiene habits. You can help ensure your child has a healthy mouth and strong teeth by following these healthy dental tips.

Lastly, don't be too hard on yourself. Parenting is a constant learning process, and it is natural to make mistakes sometimes. Just remember that you are doing the best you can, and your child will appreciate your love and care more than anything.

–California KiDDS Pediatric Dentistry

How a Parent’s Affection Shapes a Child’s Happiness for Life

How often do you hug your children?

We all live busy, stressful lives and have endless concerns as parents, but it is clear that one of the most important things we need to do is to stop and give our kids a big loving squeeze. Research over the past decade highlights the link between affection in childhood and health and happiness in the future.

According to Child Trends—the leading nonprofit research organization in the United States focused on improving the lives and prospects of children, youth, and their families—science supports the idea that warmth and affection expressed by parents to their children results in life-long positive outcomes for those children.

Higher self-esteem, improved academic performance, better parent-child communication, and fewer psychological and behavior problems have been linked to this type of affection. On the other hand, children who do not have affectionate parents tend to have lower self-esteem and feel more alienated, hostile, aggressive, and anti-social.

What The Science Says

There have been a number of recent studies that highlight the relationship between parental affection and children’s happiness and success.

In 2010, researchers at Duke University Medical School found that babies with very affectionate and attentive mothers grow up to be happier, more resilient, and less anxious adults. Five hundred people were followed from when they were infants until they were in their 30s. When the babies were eight months old, psychologists observed their mothers’ interactions with them as they took several developmental tests. Then 30 years later, those same individuals were interviewed about their emotional health. The adults whose mothers showed “extravagant” or “caressing” affection were much less likely than the others to feel stressed and anxious. They were also less likely to report hostility, distressing social interactions, and psychosomatic symptoms. Researchers concluded that the hormone oxytocin may be responsible for this effect, as it is released when a person feels emotions related to love and connection.

by Sandi Schwartz

A 2013 study from UCLA found that unconditional love and affection from a parent can make children emotionally happier and less anxious. This happens because their brain actually changes as a result of the affection. On the other hand, the negative impact of childhood abuse and lack of affection impacts children both mentally and physically. This can lead to all kinds of health and emotional problems throughout their lives. What’s really fascinating is that scientists think parental affection can actually protect individuals against the harmful effects of childhood stress.

Then in 2015, a study out of the University of Notre Dame showed that children who received affection from their parents were happier as adults. More than 600 adults were surveyed about how they were raised, including how much physical affection they had. The adults who reported receiving more affection in childhood displayed less depression and anxiety and were more compassionate overall. Those who reported less affection struggled with mental health, tended to be more upset in social situations, and were less able to relate to other people’s perspectives.

Researchers have also studied the benefits of skin-to-skin contact for infants. This special interaction helps calm babies so they cry less and sleep more. It has also been shown to boost brain development. According to an article in Scientific American, children who lived in a deprived environment, like an orphanage, had higher levels of the stress hormone cortisol than those who lived with their parents. Scientists believe that the lack of physical contact in the orphanages is a major factor in these physical changes.

From the moment you bring your baby home from the hospital, be sure to hold, touch, and rock them in your arms. Spend many precious moments skin-to-skin.

As they get older, be playful by doing fun activities like dancing together or creating silly games like pretending to be a hugging or kissing monster.

Set a reminder to make sure hugging is part of your daily routine. In the adorable Trolls movie, the Trolls wore watches with alarm clocks that would go off every hour for hug time. If that’s what it takes, then set yourself an alarm. Or make sure to give your kids a hug during certain times of the day, such as before they leave for school, when they get home from school, and before bedtime.

Another interesting idea is to use affection while disciplining your child. As you talk to them about what they did wrong, put your hand on their shoulder and give them a hug at the end of the conversation to convey that, even if you are not pleased with their behavior, you still love them. If your child hits their sibling, hug them and explain how hugging feels better and is kinder than hitting.

Finally, be careful not to go overboard and smother your kids. Respect their individual comfort level, and be aware that this will change as they go through different stages in life.

A+ Preschools

Brighten Academy Preschool Clovis / Fresno (559) 900-4352

Brighten Academy Preschool is an assessment-driven preschool enrichment program for children ages 2-6 years of age. Curriculum and instruction are based on the California State Kindergarten standards and children are taught according to their individual levels and needs. Children are placed in classes with peers that are within 5-6 months in age range which creates an even more specialized learning environment. Focus is not only on academic growth, but on social, emotional, and gross-motor development skills fostering self-esteem and problem-solving skills which, in turn, creates a self-assured, confident student when entering the world of public school. Three Clovis locations and three Fresno locations.

CrossCity Christian Preschool Fresno (559) 299-8484

CrossCity is a safe, fun environment that offers an Academic enrichment program as well as a Christ-centered curriculum that allows each child to grow in their faith while preparing to make them successful at school. Our program is assessment-driven based on California State Preschool standards which include: art, music, literature, science, math, and reading-readiness activities. CrossCity offers a variety of class options with qualified, loving teachers. Lots of fun, hands-on experiences for ages 2 1/2–5 yrs. old (must be 3 by December 1st and potty trained).

St. Anthony’s Preschool Fresno (559) 435-0700

St. Anthony’s Preschool is a licensed preschool serving the Catholic community of Fresno where faith and learning grow hand in hand. As a ministry of St. Anthony of Padua Parish, our preschool welcomes our youngest learners to instill the morals, values, and teachings of the Roman Catholic Church. Our developmentally appropriate curriculum supports the whole child, promotes our faith, and provides an environment which fosters the formation of the hearts and minds of students in truth, knowledge, service, and wisdom. Apply today and come grow with us! Call for more information 559.435.0700 or visit our website: sasfresno.com

St. Helen's Catholic School Preschool Fresno (559) 251-5855

St. Helen's School Preschool is a licensed preschool serving the Catholic community of Fresno where children learn, play and pray in Jesus way. As a ministry of St. Helen's Catholic Church, our preschool welcomes our youngest learners to instill the morals, values, and teachings of the Roman Catholic Church. Our developmentally appropriate curriculum supports the whole child, promotes our faith, and provides an environment which fosters the formation of the hearts and minds of students in truth, knowledge, service, and wisdom. Apply today and join our other angels in training! Call for more information 559.251.5855 or visit our website: shsfresno.org

St. La Salle Preschool

and Daycare Center

Reedley (559) 638-2621

Our center offers a Christ centered environment. It is a caring, safe and fun place for your children. We prepare our children for kindergarten by providing a high quality curriculum. Children are encouraged to explore, experiment and learn through a variety of activities and hands-on experiences. Our curriculum includes: religion, literacy, math, science, art, music, social studies and computer skills. We enroll full and part-time from 3-5 years of age.

Westminster Christian Preschool Fresno (559) 226-1414

Over 40 years of traditional morning preschool excellence. Located near Palm and Shaw. Child friendly environment. Small class sizes. Large shaded playground. Thematic and biblical curriculum offered by qualified caring staff. Visitors welcome. www.westminster-preschool.com.

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by Sarah Lyons

The Toddler Instruction Manual

It’s a good thing you are so cute!”

This is a phrase many parents often think of during the challenging toddler years as they find themselves cleaning up messes, potty training, listening to shouts of “No!” with every suggestion, and watching their child throw yet another tantrum.

As a mom of six kids, including 7-yearold triplets, we have had our fair share of challenging toddler moments. I remember many days when the triplets would use their nap time to destroy their bedroom instead of rest. Diaper changes were a wrestling match and meal times meant mopping the floor three times a day. The days were busy and exhausting, but they were full of giggles, hugs, and wet kisses. They could be distracted with silly songs and I could get a laugh from a goofy

face. At the end of most days it felt like a triplet tornado had gone through my house, but when I tucked them in at night I remembered there were lots of sweet moments as well.

Toddlers are defined as kids ranging from ages 1–3 years old and during this time they meet many developmental milestones including learning to walk, talk, interact with others, and explore the world around them. As a parent this can be a joy to watch, but can also become exhausting as kids express their independence and work out their frustrations through tantrums. While all of this is normal, it's easy to feel overwhelmed and frustrated. Toddlers don’t come with an instruction manual, but these tips could help you survive and perhaps even enjoy the toddler years.

Patience

When parenting a toddler, your patience will be stretched to the limits. Whenever you're dealing with a child, it’s best to remember they are learning and testing limits. Try to give grace to yourself and your child and allow for bumps along the way. Set boundaries for your child, but try to remain calm when boundaries are tested. Arguing with a toddler is never worth the effort. If you feel yourself becoming angry, simply walk away for a few minutes and return when your patience has returned. Modeling this behavior will help your child understand how to work out their own frustrations in a healthy way.

Laughter

The old saying “Laughter is the best medicine,” is easily applied to parenthood. When things seem particularly stressful or you are overwhelmed by a messy playroom, a little laughter can turn your mood around. Allow yourself to be silly and play with your child. Try to slow down and see the world through their eyes. Laughing and playing with your child can also be a good distraction if your child needs to be redirected and it’s a great way to boost the moods of everyone in the house.

Anticipation

One of the best ways to help keep your toddler from getting into trouble is to anticipate what might be tempting for little ones. Before nap or playtime, scan the room for dangers or messes waiting to happen. Remove anything fragile that can be broken, torn, or spilled from the room, or put high enough that it is out of reach. Pack your car with an extra change of clothing, emergency snacks, and diaper supplies in case you need them when you are away from home. When you are headed out of the house, try to leave a few minutes early in case you need extra time. If you know a toy or situation triggers your child to feel frustrated, avoid it if possible. You can’t prevent every tantrum and challenge you will face, but some can be avoided with a little planning.

Let It Go

Life is too short to worry about having a perfectly clean house. Toddlers are famous for making messes, dumping toys, and moving from one thing to the next in minutes. During the toddler years, try to focus on playing with your kids and allowing them to have fun rather than exhausting yourself cleaning. There will be plenty of years in the not-too-distant future where your house will stay clean. If toy clutter is stressful to you, reduce the amount of toys that are out at any given time. You can do this by rotating toys every few months, only allowing one box of toys out at a time, or donating items your kids are not interested in. Toddlers are often motivated by music. Play or sing “The Cleanup Song” and have your child help pick up toys before transitioning to mealtime or bedtime.

Safety

Toddlers are naturally curious which helps them learn and develop. This curiosity can lead them to do things that are unsafe like climbing where they could fall, putting things in their mouths, and getting into things they shouldn’t. Create a safe place for your child where they can play without safety concerns. You may find it easiest to create a play space where you

can use gates to help keep kids safe. For some parents, it’s easier to toddler-proof the entire house and let them have free reign.

Routine

Toddlers thrive on routine because they know what to expect. When kids know what to expect, transitions are smoother for kids. The whole day doesn't have to be planned, but having a routine at transitional periods of the day can make things easier for parents and little ones. Naps, bedtime, meals, and clean up time can give your kids the consistency that they thrive on.

Perspective

When dealing with the highs and lows of parenting a toddler, try to keep some perspective. The toddler years are short and your child is learning, discovering the world, and growing every day. When they are still and quiet, cuddle up and enjoy the moment. When they want to be carried, try to remember all too soon they will be too big. Enjoy the sweet moments, embrace challenging ones, and try to remember that toddlers are cute for a reason and this stage will pass in the blink of an eye.

Love Is In The Air What To Do and Say When Your Teens Are Dating

Parents are not generally comfortable with the idea that their teens may be dating, but experts suggest it's something to acknowledge and accept.

As behavioral psychologist Dr. Shane Owens says, “dating is a rite of passage for kids—and for their parents.” What should parents do and say if their teens reveal that they’ve started dating?

Listen Carefully—And Don’t Lecture

You should feel flattered if your teen tell you that they’re dating. It’s a sign that they trust you and are excited to share the news with you. “Kids don’t confide in their parents as much as they get older,” says Rachel Ehmke of the Child Mind Institute, “so when kids do feel like talking, really make an effort to be available and listen.” Listen carefully to what they say and try to react in a non-judgmental way. Avoid

lecturing them because if you do, says clinical psychologist Lisa Tiano, “they’ll tune you out, or give you the occasional eye roll, waiting for the lecture to be done and over with.”

Tell Them What Good Relationships Are Like

Use the occasion to talk to them about what good relationships are like. Middle school counselor Phyllis Fagell suggests that parents discuss relationship characteristics

by Tanni Haas, Ph.D.

like dependability, empathy, generosity, kindness, and considering someone else’s perspective. Ms. Fagell adds that parents also can recount their own experiences, “Talk about how you fell in love with your partner. What qualities did you admire?”

Explain How To Solve Conflicts

Explain to your teen that conflicts are inevitable even in the best relationships. Encourage them to deal with conflicts instead of ignoring them. Make your teens understand, Ms. Ehmke says, that “it’s much better to admit when something is wrong, talk about it together, and try to fix it together.” It will prepare them well for what it’s like to be in a mature, adult relationship in the future. Clinical psychologist Dr. Jose Delerme adds that parents should teach their teens that arguments aren’t about winning or losing, “Shift the idea of control to compromise, because no relationship should be one-sided.”

Encourage Them To Keep Their Own Friends and Interests

Remind your teens how important it is for them to have their own interests that are separate from their partner. Dr. Delerme says that parents should tell their teens that “relationships should complement your life—not define it.” Also encourage them not to ditch their regular friends just because they’re in a relationship. Explain to them, Ms. Ehmke says, that “no one wants a friend who will throw her over for someone else, and you still need a social life outside your partner.”

Give Them A Sense of Perspective

Anyone who’s been in love knows that the feeling can be all-consuming. Your teens may feel that their current partner, especially if it’s the first one, will be their one-and-only, everlasting love. As parents, we know better, but should fight the temptation to minimize the relationship or make it bigger than it really is. Well-known lifestyle writer Dina Cheney puts it well, “When your child reveals a crush for the first time, it’s easy to accidentally make fun of it, but you should resist the urge to trivialize things.” She also says, parents shouldn’t aggrandize it either, “Asking your son or daughter if they’re going to marry the person, for example, would apply too much pressure.”

Get To Know Partners

Invite their boyfriend or girlfriend over to the house. It shows them that you’re comfortable with the idea of them being in a relationship. If your teens think you genuinely care to get to know their romantic partners, says Amanda Morin, senior expert at Understood, an education think tank, “they’re more likely to open up to you—and possibly, less likely to engage in questionable behavior.”

When To Intervene

One of the toughest questions is when parents should intervene in their teens’ relationships, possibly to end them. Experts agree that parents should do so if either of the kids aren’t treating the other well. “If you overhear your teen saying mean comments or using manipulative tactics,” says Ms. Morin, “speak up. Similarly, if your teen is on the receiving end of unhealthy behavior, it’s important to step in and help out.”

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FebruaryCalendar

Events are compiled six weeks in advance, we suggest that you call the telephone numbers provided to verify dates, times, costs, and locations of events. To Publicize Your Event: Central California Parent invites you to publicize your event by emailing a description including location, date, time, admission prices, age suitability, phone number for information, and photos. Central California Parent reserves the right to limit entries in this free service. Deadline is the 10th of the month preceding the event. If you have any questions, feel free to email us at calendar@ccparent.com or call (559) 435-1409.

1 Wednesday

PAINT NIGHT All ages and all skill levels are welcome at this painting event. Materials are provided by the library. Make an exact copy or create your own version of the painting, just be creative and have fun! 3:30–5 p.m. West Fresno Branch Library, 188 E. California Avenue, Fresno. 600-9277

2 Thursday

FRESNO MONSTERS Cheer on your Fresno Monsters as they take the ice against the Bakersfield Roughnecks at 7:30 p.m. Call for ticket prices. Selland Arena, 700 M Street, Fresno. 445-8100

OURSTORY: THE BLACK HISTORY

MUSICAL This exciting and educational experience is great for learners of all ages. Written by the Billboard charting artist, Griot B, this show will take you on a journey through time where you will learn about the amazing stories not taught in schools. Listen to the bass bump, the treble tremble, and the rhymes recited and you will leave this show educated, uplifted, and entertained. 7 p.m. Tickets: $21–$76. William Saroyan Theatre, 730 M Street, Fresno. 445-8100

SHAKESPEARE IN LOVE This enchanting, hilarious, and romantic stage play reimagines William Shakespeare's inspiration for Romeo and Juliet. Rated PG-13. 7:30 p.m. Tickets: $22–$25. 2nd Space Theatre, 928 E. Olive Avenue, Fresno. 266-0660

SINGIN' IN THE RAIN It's the roaring 20s and a pair of silent screen stars are preparing for their first musical talkie. Watch as chaos ensues when the studio decides to secretly dub the leading lady's screechy voice! Rated PG. 5 p.m. Tickets: $37–$69. Roger Rocka’s Dinner Theater, 1226 N. Wishon Avenue, Fresno. 266-9494

3 Friday

FRESNO MONSTERS Cheer on your Fresno Monsters as they take the ice against the Bakersfield Roughnecks at 7:30 p.m. Call for ticket prices. Selland Arena, 700 M Street, Fresno. 445-8100

NUNSENSE JAMBOREE–TULARE A wacky nun, known as Sister Mary Amnesia, regained her memory that she's always wanted to become a country singer. Can she realize her dream? 7 p.m. Tickets: $16–$18. Encore Theatre Company, 324 S. N Street, Tulare. 686-1300

SHAKESPEARE IN LOVE This enchanting, hilarious, and romantic stage play reimagines William Shakespeare's inspiration for Romeo and Juliet. Rated PG-13. 8 p.m. Tickets: $22–$25. 2nd Space Theatre, 928 E. Olive Avenue, Fresno. 266-0660

SHE KILLS MONSTERS–SELMA Follow Agnes as she leaves her childhood home following the death of her teenage sister, Tilly. When Agnes finds Tilly’s Dungeons & Dragons notebook, however, she finds herself catapulted into a journey of discovery and action-packed adventure in the imaginary world that was her sister’s refuge. Rated PG-13. 7:30 p.m. Tickets: $15–$21. Selma Arts Center, 1935 High Street, Selma. 891-2238

SINGIN' IN THE RAIN It's the roaring 20s and a pair of silent screen stars are preparing for their first musical talkie. Watch as chaos ensues when the studio decides to secretly dub the leading lady's screechy voice! Rated PG. 5:30 p.m. Tickets: $37–$69. Roger Rocka’s Dinner Theater, 1226 N. Wishon Avenue, Fresno. 266-9494

4 Saturday

ANIME GAMING EXPO Enjoy gaming tournaments, card games, vendors, artists, trivia, a scavenger hunt, and more from 10 a.m.–7 p.m. Tickets: $15–$50. Fresno Fairgrounds, Commerce and Agriculture building, 1121 S. Chance Avenue, Fresno. 650-3247

FRESNO MONSTERS Cheer on your Fresno Monsters as they take the ice against the Bakersfield Roughnecks at 7:30 p.m. Call for ticket prices. Selland Arena, 700 M Street, Fresno. 445-8100

JURASSIC EMPIRE–TULARE Embark on a Jurassic Journey at this fun walk-thru event for the whole family. Experience moving, breathing, massive dinosaurs! Tickets: $25–$38, for twohour time slots. 10 a.m.–8 p.m. Tulare Fairgrounds, 620 S. K Street, Tulare. 686-4707

KIDS CLUB Enjoy this free opportunity for kids to learn in a fun, interactive setting. Focusing on sustainability and living eco-friendly, this program is designed to teach kids about the importance of living with a "green" mindset. 11:30 a.m.–12:30 p.m. Fashion Fair Mall, 645 E. Shaw Avenue, Fresno. 224-1591

Win free tickets to see A Midsummer Night’s Dream!

A Midsummer Night’s Dream, presented by Valley Performing Arts Council, is William Shakespeare's comedic tale of mischief, magic, and romance comes to life onstage to the luscious music of Felix Mendelssohn. A story that transcends two worlds, mortals and fairies, it's a whimsical and humorous homage to the transformative power of love. The ballet dancers are at the height of their technical and dramatic abilities in Artistic Director Rodney Gustafson's inventive, playful, and concise choreography, while beautifully designed sets and costumes make this a visually stunning production. One performance only on March 18th, at 6:30 p.m. at the William Saroyan Theatre in Fresno.

Central California Parent is giving away four family four-packs of tickets to see A Midsummer Night’s Dream to some lucky readers! To qualify for our free random drawing, send a postcard with your name, address, email, and phone number by February 24th to Central California Parent: A Midsummer Night’s Dream, 7638 N. Ingram Avenue, Suite 101, Fresno, CA 93711. One entry per family.

If you are not one of the lucky winners, you can still enjoy the ballet. Tickets are available at Ticketmaster.com and the Convention Center box office. The box office is open from 12–5 p.m. on Mondays, Wednesdays, and Fridays.

KIDS WORKSHOPS AT HOME DEPOT Bring your mini-DIYer into Home Depot to build a Valentine's Vase from 9 a.m.–12 p.m. Free! Your local Home Depot. 431-9860

NUNSENSE JAMBOREE–TULARE A wacky nun, known as Sister Mary Amnesia, regained her memory that she's always wanted to become a country singer. Can she realize her dream? 7 p.m. Tickets: $16–$18. Encore Theatre Company, 324 S. N Street, Tulare. 686-1300

SHAKESPEARE IN LOVE This enchanting, hilarious, and romantic stage play reimagines William Shakespeare's inspiration for Romeo and Juliet. Rated PG-13. 8 p.m. Tickets: $22–$25. 2nd Space Theatre, 928 E. Olive Avenue, Fresno. 266-0660

SHE KILLS MONSTERS–SELMA Follow Agnes as she leaves her childhood home following the death of her teenage sister, Tilly. When Agnes finds Tilly’s Dungeons & Dragons notebook, however, she finds herself catapulted into a journey of discovery and action-packed adventure in the imaginary world that was her sister’s refuge. Rated PG-13. 2 and 7:30 p.m. Tickets: $15–$21. Selma Arts Center, 1935 High Street, Selma. 891-2238

SINGIN' IN THE RAIN It's the roaring 20s and a pair of silent screen stars are preparing for their first musical talkie. Watch as chaos ensues when the studio decides to secretly dub the leading lady's screechy voice! Rated PG. 5:30 p.m. Tickets: $37–$69. Roger Rocka’s Dinner Theater, 1226 N. Wishon Avenue, Fresno. 266-9494

5 Sunday

ANIME GAMING EXPO Enjoy gaming tournaments, card games, vendors, artists, trivia, a scavenger hunt, and more from 10 a.m.–7 p.m. Tickets: $15–$50. Fresno Fairgrounds, Commerce and Agriculture building, 1121 S. Chance Avenue, Fresno. 650-3247

JURASSIC EMPIRE–TULARE Embark on a Jurassic Journey at this fun walk-thru event for the whole family. Experience moving, breathing, massive dinosaurs! Tickets: $25–$38, for twohour time slots. 10 a.m.–8 p.m. Tulare Fairgrounds, 620 S. K Street, Tulare. 686-4707

MICHAELS CRAFTS Head to Michaels to make a painted friendship rock for free! 2–4 p.m. Contact your local Michaels for more information. 353-3201 or 324-8725

NUNSENSE JAMBOREE–TULARE A wacky nun, known as Sister Mary Amnesia, regained her memory that she's always wanted to become a country singer. Can she realize her dream? 2 p.m. Tickets: $16–$18. Encore Theatre Company, 324 S. N Street, Tulare. 686-1300

SHAKESPEARE IN LOVE This enchanting, hilarious, and romantic stage play reimagines William Shakespeare's inspiration for Romeo and Juliet. Rated PG-13. 2 p.m. Tickets: $22–$25. 2nd Space Theatre, 928 E. Olive Avenue, Fresno. 266-0660

SHE KILLS MONSTERS–SELMA Follow Agnes as she leaves her childhood home following the death of her teenage sister, Tilly. When Agnes finds Tilly’s Dungeons & Dragons notebook, however, she finds herself catapulted into a journey of discovery and action-packed adventure in the imaginary world that was her sister’s refuge. Rated PG-13. 2 p.m. Tickets: $15–$21. Selma Arts Center, 1935 High Street, Selma. 891-2238

SINGIN' IN THE RAIN It's the roaring 20s and a pair of silent screen stars are preparing for their first musical talkie. Watch as chaos ensues when the studio decides to secretly dub the leading lady's screechy voice! Rated PG. 11 a.m. and 5 p.m. Tickets: $37–$69. Roger Rocka’s Dinner Theater, 1226 N. Wishon Avenue, Fresno. 266-9494

6 Monday

MACRAME MONDAYS–SANGER

Families are invited to learn the art of macrame from 6–8 p.m. Sanger Branch Library, 1812 Seventh Street, Sanger. 875-2435

7 Tuesday

CRAFT & PLAY Join Librarian, Mr. Eric, for crafts, play activities, and some stories from 10:30–11 a.m. Politi Branch Library, 5771 N. First Street, Fresno. 600-0840

KIDS ART CLUB Join for hands-on crafts and art activities from 3:30–4:30 p.m. Gillis Branch Library, 629 W. Dakota Avenue, Fresno. 600-9915

8 Wednesday

FAMILY STORYTIME Join for an interactive storytime for all ages meant to welcome families to the library and build literacy skills. Enjoy stories, songs, and fingerplays! Caregiver participation is encouraged. 10:30 a.m. at Kerman and Kingsburg, 1:30 p.m. at West Fresno, and 3:30 p.m. at Mosqueda. 600-7323

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9 Thursday

FRESNO MONSTERS Cheer on your Fresno Monsters as they take the ice against the Lake Tahoe Lakers at 7:45 p.m. Tickets: $13–$16. Gateway Ice Center, 2473 N. Marks Avenue, Fresno. 277-2233

NUNSENSE JAMBOREE–TULARE A wacky nun, known as Sister Mary Amnesia, regained her memory that she's always wanted to become a country singer. Can she realize her dream? 7 p.m. Tickets: $16–$18. Encore Theatre Company, 324 S. N Street, Tulare. 686-1300

SHAKESPEARE IN LOVE This enchanting, hilarious, and romantic stage play reimagines William Shakespeare's inspiration for Romeo and Juliet. Rated PG-13. 7:30 p.m. Tickets: $22–$25. 2nd Space Theatre, 928 E. Olive Avenue, Fresno. 266-0660

SHE KILLS MONSTERS–SELMA Follow Agnes as she leaves her childhood home following the death of her teenage sister, Tilly. When Agnes finds Tilly’s Dungeons & Dragons notebook, however, she finds herself catapulted into a journey of discovery and action-packed adventure in the imaginary world that was her sister’s refuge. Rated PG-13. 7:30 p.m. Tickets: $15–$21. Selma Arts Center, 1935 High Street, Selma. 891-2238

SINGIN' IN THE RAIN It's the roaring 20s and a pair of silent screen stars are preparing for their first musical talkie. Chaos ensues when the studio decides to secretly dub the leading lady's screechy voice! Rated PG. 5 p.m. Tickets: $37–$69. Roger Rocka’s Dinner Theater, 1226 N. Wishon Avenue, Fresno. 266-9494

10 Friday

FRESNO MONSTERS Cheer on your Fresno Monsters as they take the ice against the Lake Tahoe Lakers at 6 p.m. Tickets: $13–$16. Gateway Ice Center, 2473 N. Marks Avenue, Fresno. 277-2233

NUNSENSE JAMBOREE–TULARE A wacky nun, known as Sister Mary Amnesia, regained her memory that she's always wanted to become a country singer. Can she realize her dream? 7 p.m. Tickets: $16–$18. Encore Theatre Company, 324 S. N Street, Tulare. 686-1300

SHAKESPEARE IN LOVE This enchanting, hilarious, and romantic stage play reimagines William Shakespeare's inspiration for Romeo and Juliet. Rated PG-13. 8 p.m. Tickets: $22–$25. 2nd Space Theatre, 928 E. Olive Avenue, Fresno. 266-0660

SHE KILLS MONSTERS–SELMA Follow Agnes as she leaves her childhood home following the death of her teenage sister, Tilly. When Agnes finds Tilly’s Dungeons & Dragons notebook, however, she finds herself catapulted into a journey of discovery and action-packed adventure in the imaginary world that was her sister’s refuge. Rated PG-13. Vizual Voices ASL interpretation offered. 7:30 p.m. Tickets: $15–$21. Selma Arts Center, 1935 High Street, Selma. 891-2238

SINGIN' IN THE RAIN It's the roaring 20s and a pair of silent screen stars are preparing for their first musical talkie. Watch as chaos ensues when the studio decides to secretly dub the leading lady's screechy voice! Rated PG. 5:30 p.m. Tickets: $37–$69. Roger Rocka’s Dinner Theater, 1226 N. Wishon Avenue, Fresno. 266-9494

11 Saturday

DIY-U AT LOWE'S Bring your mini-DIYer into Lowe’s to build a Sweetheart Swan Note Holder at one of the select time slots for a workshop hosted by a Red Vest experts from 10 a.m.–1 p.m. Walk-Ins start at 1 p.m. Reserve your space online in advance. Free! Your local Lowe's. 436-6266

FRESNO MONSTERS Cheer on your Fresno Monsters as they take the ice against the Lake Tahoe Lakers at 5 p.m. Tickets: $13–$16. Gateway Ice Center, 2473 N. Marks Avenue, Fresno. 277-2233

KIDS ZONE School-aged kids can join to make a Panda or Sloth Valentine craft from 11 a.m.–12 p.m. for free! JCPenney. Fresno, Hanford, and Visalia. Call your local store for more information.

NUNSENSE JAMBOREE–TULARE A wacky nun, known as Sister Mary Amnesia, regained her memory that she's always wanted to become a country singer. Can she realize her dream? 7 p.m. Tickets: $16–$18. Encore Theatre Company, 324 S. N Street, Tulare. 686-1300

SHAKESPEARE IN LOVE This enchanting, hilarious, and romantic stage play reimagines William Shakespeare's inspiration for Romeo and Juliet. Rated PG-13. 8 p.m. Tickets: $22–$25. 2nd Space Theatre, 928 E. Olive Avenue, Fresno. 266-0660

SHE KILLS MONSTERS–SELMA Follow Agnes as she leaves her childhood home following the death of her teenage sister, Tilly. When Agnes finds Tilly’s Dungeons & Dragons notebook, however, she finds herself catapulted into a journey of discovery and action-packed adventure in the imaginary world that was her sister’s refuge. Rated PG-13. 2 and 7:30 p.m. Vizual Voices ASL interpretation offered for the 2 p.m. performance. Tickets: $15–$21. Selma Arts Center, 1935 High Street, Selma. 891-2238

SINGIN' IN THE RAIN It's the roaring 20s and a pair of silent screen stars are preparing for their first musical talkie. Watch as chaos ensues when the studio decides to secretly dub the leading lady's screechy voice! Rated PG. 5:30 p.m. Tickets: $37–$69. Roger Rocka’s Dinner Theater, 1226 N. Wishon Avenue, Fresno. 266-9494

12 Sunday

MICHAELS CRAFTS Head to Michaels to make a Watercolor Heart Frame for free! 2–4 p.m. Contact your local Michaels for more information. 353-3201 or 324-8725

NUNSENSE JAMBOREE–TULARE A wacky nun, known as Sister Mary Amnesia, regained her memory that she's always wanted to become a country singer. Can she realize her dream? 2 p.m. Tickets: $16–$18. Encore Theatre Company, 324 S. N Street, Tulare. 686-1300

SHAKESPEARE IN LOVE This enchanting, hilarious, and romantic stage play reimagines William Shakespeare's inspiration for Romeo and Juliet. Rated PG-13. 2 p.m. Tickets: $22–$25. 2nd Space Theatre, 928 E. Olive Avenue, Fresno. 266-0660

SHE KILLS MONSTERS–SELMA Follow Agnes as she leaves her childhood home following the death of her teenage sister, Tilly. When Agnes finds Tilly’s Dungeons & Dragons notebook, however, she finds herself catapulted into a journey of discovery and action-packed adventure in the imaginary world that was her sister’s refuge. Rated PG-13. 2 p.m. Tickets: $15–$21. Selma Arts Center, 1935 High Street, Selma. 891-2238

SINGIN' IN THE RAIN It's the roaring 20s and a pair of silent screen stars are preparing for their first musical talkie. Watch as chaos ensues when the studio decides to secretly dub the leading lady's screechy voice! Rated PG. 11 a.m. Tickets: $37–$69. Roger Rocka’s Dinner Theater, 1226 N. Wishon Avenue, Fresno. 266-9494

13 Monday

FAMILY STORYTIME Join for an interactive storytime for all ages meant to welcome families to the library and build literacy skills. Enjoy stories, songs, and fingerplays! Caregiver participation is encouraged. 10 a.m. at Gillis and 3:30 p.m. at Central. 600-7323

MACRAME MONDAYS–SANGER Families are invited to learn the art of macrame from 6–8 p.m. Sanger Branch Library, 1812 Seventh Street, Sanger. 875-2435

14 Tuesday

FAMILY GAME NIGHT It's a night of fun for the whole family with a variety of board games from 3:30–5 p.m. West Fresno Branch Library, 188 E. California Avenue, Fresno. 600-9277

WORLD AG EXPO–TULARE Families will love exploring the world’s largest annual agricultural expo. Enjoy free seminars, food, and more! Tickets: $20, kids 6 and under are free. 9 a.m.–5 p.m. International Agri-Center, 4500 S. Laspina Street, Tulare. 800-999-9186

15 Wednesday

FAMILY STORYTIME Join for an interactive storytime for all ages meant to welcome families to the library and build literacy skills. Enjoy stories, songs, and fingerplays! Caregiver participation is encouraged. 10:30 a.m. at Kerman and Kingsburg, 1:30 p.m. at West Fresno, and 3:30 p.m. at Mosqueda. 600-7323

WORLD AG EXPO–TULARE Families will love exploring the world’s largest annual agricultural expo. Enjoy free seminars, food, and more! Tickets: $20, kids 6 and under are free. 9 a.m.–5 p.m. International Agri-Center, 4500 S. Laspina Street, Tulare. 800-999-9186

16 Thursday

NUNSENSE JAMBOREE–TULARE A wacky nun, known as Sister Mary Amnesia, regained her memory that she's always wanted to become a country singer. Can she realize her dream? 7 p.m. Tickets: $16–$18. Encore Theatre Company, 324 S. N Street, Tulare. 686-1300

SHAKESPEARE IN LOVE This enchanting, hilarious, and romantic stage play reimagines William Shakespeare's inspiration for Romeo and Juliet. Rated PG-13. 7:30 p.m. Tickets: $22–$25. 2nd Space Theatre, 928 E. Olive Avenue, Fresno. 266-0660

ASPIRE

SHE KILLS MONSTERS–SELMA Follow Agnes as she leaves her childhood home following the death of her teenage sister, Tilly. When Agnes finds Tilly’s Dungeons & Dragons notebook, however, she finds herself catapulted into a journey of discovery and action-packed adventure in the imaginary world that was her sister’s refuge. Rated PG-13. 7:30 p.m. Tickets: $15–$21. Selma Arts Center, 1935 High Street, Selma. 891-2238

SINGIN' IN THE RAIN It's the roaring 20s and a pair of silent screen stars are preparing for their first musical talkie. Watch as chaos ensues when the studio decides to secretly dub the leading lady's screechy voice! Rated PG. 5 p.m. Tickets: $37–$69. Roger Rocka’s Dinner Theater, 1226 N. Wishon Avenue, Fresno. 266-9494

THE ORIGINAL HARLEM GLOBETROTTERS: 2023 WORLD TOUR

Enjoy this basketball experience like no other, with ankle-breaking moves, jaw-dropping swag, 4-point shots, rim-rattling dunks, and more! Get ready for world-class basketball showmanship, full-court fun, and the team the whole family will cheer for! 7 p.m. Tickets: $27–$107. Save Mart Center, 2650 E. Shaw Avenue, Fresno. 278-3400

WORLD AG EXPO–TULARE Families will love exploring the world’s largest annual agricultural expo. Enjoy free seminars, food, and more! Tickets: $20, kids 6 and under are free. 9 a.m.–4 p.m. International Agri-Center, 4500 S. Laspina Street, Tulare. 800-999-9186

17 Friday

FRESNO MONSTERS Cheer on your Fresno Monsters as they take the ice against the Seattle Totems at 6 p.m. Tickets: $13–$16. Gateway Ice Center, 2473 N. Marks Avenue, Fresno. 277-2233

NUNSENSE JAMBOREE–TULARE A wacky nun, known as Sister Mary Amnesia, regained her memory that she's always wanted to become a country singer. Can she realize her dream? 7 p.m. Tickets: $16–$18. Encore Theatre Company, 324 S. N Street, Tulare. 686-1300

SHAKESPEARE IN LOVE This enchanting, hilarious, and romantic stage play reimagines William Shakespeare's inspiration for Romeo and Juliet. Rated PG-13. 8 p.m. Tickets: $22–$25. 2nd Space Theatre, 928 E. Olive Avenue, Fresno. 266-0660

SHE KILLS MONSTERS–SELMA Follow Agnes as she leaves her childhood home following the death of her teenage sister, Tilly. When Agnes finds Tilly’s Dungeons & Dragons notebook, however, she finds herself catapulted into a journey of discovery and action-packed adventure in the imaginary world that was her sister’s refuge. Rated PG-13. 7:30 p.m. Tickets: $15–$21. Selma Arts Center, 1935 High Street, Selma. 891-2238

SINGIN' IN THE RAIN It's the roaring 20s and a pair of silent screen stars are preparing for their first musical talkie. Watch as chaos ensues when the studio decides to secretly dub the leading lady's screechy voice! Rated PG. 5:30 p.m. Tickets: $37–$69. Roger Rocka’s Dinner Theater, 1226 N. Wishon Avenue, Fresno. 266-9494

SUN MAID KENNEL CLUB ALLBREED DOG SHOW Join for three days of conformation, obedience, and junior showmanship at this free event! Families will enjoy seeing over 100 different dog breeds! Parking on grounds: $10. 8 a.m.–6 p.m. Fresno Fairgrounds, 1121 S. Chance Avenue, Fresno. 650-3247

18 Saturday

FRESNO MONSTERS Cheer on your Fresno Monsters as they take the ice against the Seattle Totems at 5 p.m. Tickets: $13–$16. Gateway Ice Center, 2473 N. Marks Avenue, Fresno. 277-2233

NUNSENSE JAMBOREE–TULARE A wacky nun, known as Sister Mary Amnesia, regained her memory that she's always wanted to become a country singer. Can she realize her dream? 7 p.m. Tickets: $16–$18. Encore Theatre Company, 324 S. N Street, Tulare. 686-1300

SHAKESPEARE IN LOVE This enchanting, hilarious, and romantic stage play reimagines William Shakespeare's inspiration for Romeo and Juliet. Rated PG-13. 8 p.m. Tickets: $22–$25. 2nd Space Theatre, 928 E. Olive Avenue, Fresno. 266-0660

SHE KILLS MONSTERS–SELMA Follow Agnes as she leaves her childhood home following the death of her teenage sister, Tilly. When Agnes finds Tilly’s Dungeons & Dragons notebook, however, she finds herself catapulted into a journey of discovery and action-packed adventure in the imaginary world that was her sister’s refuge. Rated PG-13. 2 and 7:30 p.m. Tickets: $15–$21. Selma Arts Center, 1935 High Street, Selma. 891-2238

SINGIN' IN THE RAIN It's the roaring 20s and a pair of silent screen stars are preparing for their first musical talkie. Watch as chaos ensues when the studio decides to secretly dub the leading lady's screechy voice! Rated PG. 5:30 p.m. Tickets: $37–$69. Roger Rocka’s Dinner Theater, 1226 N. Wishon Avenue, Fresno. 266-9494

SUN MAID KENNEL CLUB ALL-BREED DOG SHOW Join for three days of conformation, obedience, and junior showmanship at this free event! Families will enjoy seeing over 100 different dog breeds! Parking on grounds: $10. 8 a.m.–6 p.m. Fresno Fairgrounds, 1121 S. Chance Avenue, Fresno. 650-3247

19 Sunday

FRESNO MONSTERS Cheer on your Fresno Monsters as they take the ice against the Seattle Totems at 1 p.m. Tickets: $13–$16. Gateway Ice Center, 2473 N. Marks Avenue, Fresno. 277-2233

MICHAELS CRAFTS Head to Michaels to celebrate Black History Month and create a painting for free! 2–4 p.m. Contact your local Michaels for more information. 353-3201 or 324-8725

SHAKESPEARE IN LOVE This enchanting, hilarious, and romantic stage play reimagines William Shakespeare's inspiration for Romeo and Juliet. Rated PG-13. 2 p.m. Tickets: $22–$25. 2nd Space Theatre, 928 E. Olive Avenue, Fresno. 266-0660

SINGIN' IN THE RAIN It's the roaring 20s and a pair of silent screen stars are preparing for their first musical talkie. Watch as chaos ensues when the studio decides to secretly dub the leading lady's screechy voice! Rated PG. 11 a.m. Tickets: $37–$69. Roger Rocka’s Dinner Theater, 1226 N. Wishon Avenue, Fresno. 266-9494

SUN MAID KENNEL CLUB ALL-BREED DOG SHOW Join for three days of conformation, obedience, and junior showmanship at this free event! Families will enjoy seeing over 100 different dog breeds! Parking on grounds: $10. 8 a.m.–6 p.m. Fresno Fairgrounds, 1121 S. Chance Avenue, Fresno. 650-3247

TOY-ANIME COMIC CON–HANFORD Kids of all ages will enjoy this local comic-con with fun, contests, and more! 11 a.m.–4 p.m. Tickets: $8, kids 10 and under are free. Hanford Fraternal Hall, 1015 N. Tenth Avenue, Hanford. 209-667-8214

21 Tuesday

KIDS ART CLUB Join for hands-on crafts and art activities from 3:30–4:30 p.m. Gillis Branch Library, 629 W. Dakota Avenue, Fresno. 600-9915

WORLD BALLET SERIES: CINDERELLA This enchanting story is for all ages with a wonderful dose of humor, majesty of classical ballet, and the promise of “happily ever after.” Follow everyone’s favorite princess as she falls in love with a prince. Meet the wacky sisters, stepmother, and fairy grandmother. See how the pumpkin becomes the carriage, and how the dreams come true! 7 p.m. Tickets: $40–$125. William Saroyan Theatre, 730 M Street, Fresno. 445-8100

Early Childhood Preschool Directory

Name, Address, Phone Ages Hours

Brighten Academy Preschool 2016 Shaw Ave., Clovis (559) 299-8100

Size

2 to 6 years 6:30 a.m. to 6 p.m.

Brighten Academy Preschool 1825 Austin Ave., Clovis (559) 294-1310

Brighten Academy Preschool 290 N. Villa Ave., Clovis (559) 298-7880

2 to 6 years 6:30 a.m. to 6 p.m.

Comments

Assessment-driven specialized enrichment focusing on the development of academic, social, emotional, gross/fine motor, and problem solving skills. 92

Assessment-driven specialized enrichment focusing on the development of academic, social, emotional, gross/fine motor, and problem solving skills. 162

2 to 6 years 6:30 a.m. to 6 p.m.

Brighten Academy Preschool 5646 N. Figarden Dr., Fresno (559) 492-1238 2 to 6 years 6:30 a.m. to 6 p.m.

Assessment-driven specialized enrichment focusing on the development of academic, social, emotional, gross/fine motor, and problem solving skills. 135

Assessment-driven specialized enrichment focusing on the development of academic, social, emotional, gross/fine motor, and problem solving skills. 85

CrossCity Christian Early Education Center 2777 E. Nees Ave., Clovis (559) 299-8484

3 to 6 years 9 a.m. to 12 p.m. 120

Half-day program, loving Christian teachers. Curriculum art, music, literature, science, math, reading readiness, Christian nurture. Reasonable tuition.

Fresno Montessori School 1572 E. Barstow Ave., Fresno (559) 432-3669

Shining Star Preschool 5415 N. West Ave., Fresno (559) 435-0349

St. Anthony's Preschool 5680 N. Maroa Ave., Fresno (559) 435-0700

St. Helen's Preschool 4888 E. Belmont Ave., Fresno (559) 251-5855

150 18 mos. to 6 years

8:30–11:30 a.m. Mon–Fri, 12:15–3:15 p.m. Wed–Fri

2 years to TK 7:30 a.m. to 5:30 p.m. 130

The goal of the FMS program is to help each child develop his/her own unique potential. Kindergarten program available.

Christ-centered, small classes, hands-on learning, loving environment that encourages curiosity and eagerness to learn. Mornings and full day.

3 to 5 years, PottyTrained

3 to 5 years, PottyTrained

7 a.m. to 6 p.m. Mon–Fri 30

7 a.m. to 6 p.m. 24

Where faith and learning grow hand in hand. Come grow with us. Please call for more information.

Where children learn, play and pray in Jesus's way. "We're angels in training."

22 Wednesday

FAMILY STORYTIME Join for an interactive storytime for all ages meant to welcome families to the library and build literacy skills. Enjoy stories, songs, and fingerplays! Caregiver participation is encouraged. 10:30 a.m. at Kerman and Kingsburg, 1:30 p.m. at West Fresno, and 3:30 p.m. at Mosqueda. 600-7323

STEAM CLUB–KINGSBURG Join for a hands-on activity to build, create, or craft together. Materials will be provided. 2:30–3:30 p.m. Kingsburg Branch Library, 1399 Draper Street, Kingsburg. 897-3710

23 Thursday

SINGIN' IN THE RAIN It's the roaring 20s and a pair of silent screen stars are preparing for their first musical talkie. Watch as chaos ensues when the studio decides to secretly dub the leading lady's screechy voice! Rated PG. 5 p.m. Tickets: $37–$69. Roger Rocka’s Dinner Theater, 1226 N. Wishon Avenue, Fresno. 266-9494

THE MAGICIAN'S NEPHEW–VISALIA Families will enjoy this play from the Chronicles of Narnia, presented by Enchanted Playhouse Theatre Company at 7 p.m. Tickets: $10. Visalia Fox Theatre, 308 W. Main Street, Visalia. 625-1369

24 Friday

SINGIN' IN THE RAIN It's the roaring 20s and a pair of silent screen stars are preparing for their first musical talkie. Watch as chaos ensues when the studio decides to secretly dub the leading lady's screechy voice! Rated PG. 5:30 p.m. Tickets: $37–$69. Roger Rocka’s Dinner Theater, 1226 N. Wishon Avenue, Fresno. 266-9494

STEEL MAGNOLIAS–REEDLEY A young beautician, newly arrived in a small, Louisiana town, finds works at the local salon. A small group of women share a close bond of friendship and welcome her into the fold. Call for rating. 7:30 p.m. Tickets: $11–$37. Reedley River City Theatre, 1720 Tenth Street, Reedley. 638-6500

THE MAGICIAN'S NEPHEW–VISALIA Families will enjoy this play from the Chronicles of Narnia, presented by Enchanted Playhouse Theatre Company at 7 p.m. Tickets: $10. Visalia Fox Theatre, 308 W. Main Street, Visalia. 625-1369

TWINKLE TWINKLE LITTLE STAR Head to the planetarium for a showing of Forward to the Moon at 6 p.m. or The Edge: Pluto and Beyond at 7:30 p.m. Tickets: $3–$5. Reservations are recommended. Downing Planetarium, 5298 N. Maple Avenue, Fresno. 278-4121

SINGIN' IN THE RAIN It's the roaring 20s and a pair of silent screen stars are preparing for their first musical talkie. Watch as chaos ensues when the studio decides to secretly dub the leading lady's screechy voice! Rated PG. 5:30 p.m. Tickets: $37–$69. Roger Rocka’s Dinner Theater, 1226 N. Wishon Avenue, Fresno. 266-9494

STEEL MAGNOLIAS–REEDLEY A young beautician, newly arrived in a small, Louisiana town, finds works at the local salon. A small group of women share a close bond of friendship and welcome her into the fold. Call for rating. 7:30 p.m. Tickets: $11–$37. Reedley River City Theatre, 1720 Tenth Street, Reedley. 638-6500

THE MAGICIAN'S NEPHEW–VISALIA Families will enjoy this play from the Chronicles of Narnia, presented by Enchanted Playhouse Theatre Company at 4 p.m. Tickets: $10. Visalia Fox Theatre, 308 W. Main Street, Visalia. 625-1369

TWINKLE TWINKLE LITTLE STAR Head to the planetarium for a showing of Accidental Astronauts at 2 p.m. or Cosmic Colors at 3:30 p.m. Tickets: $3–$5. Reservations are recommended. Downing Planetarium, 5298 N. Maple Avenue, Fresno. 278-4121

26 Sunday

SINGIN' IN THE RAIN It's the roaring 20s and a pair of silent screen stars are preparing for their first musical talkie. Watch as chaos ensues when the studio decides to secretly dub the leading lady's screechy voice! Rated PG. 11 a.m. Tickets: $37–$69. Roger Rocka’s Dinner Theater, 1226 N. Wishon Avenue, Fresno. 266-9494

STEEL MAGNOLIAS–REEDLEY A young beautician, newly arrived in a small, Louisiana town, finds works at the local salon. A small group of women share a close bond of friendship and welcome her into the fold. Call for rating. 2 p.m. Tickets: $11–$37. Reedley River City Theatre, 1720 Tenth Street, Reedley. 638-6500

27 Monday

FAMILY STORYTIME Join for an interactive storytime for all ages meant to welcome families to the library and build literacy skills. Enjoy stories, songs, and fingerplays! Caregiver participation is encouraged. 10 a.m. at Gillis and 3:30 p.m. at Central. 600-7323

MACRAME MONDAYS–SANGER Families are invited to learn the art of macrame from 6–8 p.m. Sanger Branch Library, 1812 Seventh Street, Sanger. 875-2435

28 Tuesday

BUILDERS CLUB Take on the building challenge by using books or your imagination to design unique creations. LEGOS will be provided, and themes will be suggested. 3:30–5 p.m. West Fresno Branch Library, 188 E. California Avenue, Fresno. 600-9277

CRAFT & PLAY Join Librarian, Mr. Eric, for crafts, play activities, and some stories from 10:30–11 a.m. Politi Branch Library, 5771 N. First Street, Fresno. 600-0840

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Lessons/Classes

FRESNO FENCING ACADEMY

5717 N. First Street, Fresno

Classes for Girls & Boys Men & Women of all ages.

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Call (559) 224-1910 or visit www.fresno-fencing.com

Children‛s Entertainment Programs

Bubble Show Bubble Play Time Balloon Artistry

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PRIVATE SCHOOL Spanish and English Lessons

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If you want your staff to become fluent in English and/or Spanish, do not hesitate to call us ASAP! 20 years of experience! Ask for Professor Mr. Mendoza fresnospanishandenglish.com Phone: 559.367.4210

1616 W Shaw Ave., SUITE B-5 FRESNO, CA 93711 Tel. 559.367.4210 Web: fresnospanishandenglish.com

Comfortable Home, Pet Free, Smokeless Setting Ages 8 to Adult Small Classes, Graduations, Diplomas, Field Trips and SEW Much More! 559.392.0527

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19th Annual Central California Parent Readers’ Choice Award Ballot

We want to hear from you! You know what you like and where to go with your kids in the Central Valley. It’s your chance to share with other local families! We’ll honor Central California’s most family-friendly establishments with our Nineteenth Annual Readers’ Choice Awards in an upcoming issue. So, tell us your favorite destinations that truly deserve to be noticed. Once you complete and send in your ballot, you’re eligible for our free random drawing to win a $100 Smart & Final Gift Card!

Send your completed ballot by March 31st, 2023 to: Central California Parent, 7638 N. Ingram, Suite #101, Fresno, CA 93711. Only one entry per family, please. Owners and employees of Central California Parent advertisers are ineligible.

Name: Telephone: Address: City: Zip: (Optional) Sign me up for the Free Family E-Newsletter! Email: Please provide exact name for each choice.

For ballots to count and be eligible for the drawing, at least 25 categories must be filled-out.

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Adult Foster Care

Make A Difference From The Comfort Of Your Home

California MENTOR is seeking loving individuals with an available bedroom, to support an adult with special needs. Receive ongoing support and a generous monthly payment ranging from $1,020-$4,500.

Adult Foster Care

California MENTOR is seeking loving individuals with an available bedroom, to support an adult with special needs. Receive ongoing support and a generous monthly payment ranging from $1,020-$4,500.

Contact Tori Winter Today (559) 636-2894 Ext. 5006 ourAskabout Program!Referral

Make A Difference From The Comfort Of Your Home

California MENTOR is seeking loving individuals with an available bedroom, to support an adult with special needs. Receive ongoing support and a generous monthly payment ranging from $1,020-$4,500.

California MENTOR is seeking loving individuals with an available bedroom, to support an adult with special needs. Receive ongoing support and a generous monthly payment ranging from $1,020-$4,500.

Contact Tori Winter Today (559) 636-2894 Ext. 5006 ourAskabout Program!Referral

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California MENTOR is seeking loving individuals with an available bedroom, to support an adult with special needs. Receive ongoing support and a generous monthly payment ranging from $1,020–$4,500.

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Contact Tori Winter Today (559) 636-2894 Ext. 5006 ourAskabout Program!Referral

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Safe Infant Sleep is as easy as:

Alone. Back. Crib.

Help reduce sudden infant death syndrome (SIDS) in Fresno. For more on the ABCs of safe sleep and resources visit sleepsafefresno.com