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Number of Homeless Children Rising

by Kathy Reandeau The most alarming homeless problem in our area is one many of us don’t see. Children are the fastest growing segment of our local homeless population. According to 2011 census data, Buffalo ranked third for U.S. cities with populations of more than 250,000 with the highest level of children living in poverty. In 2011 the Homeless Alliance of WNY stated that 523 youth ages 18-24 reported being homeless.

They are out of their homes for many reasons and might not be on the social services radar as they could be “couch surfing,” living in garages, or staying in

abandoned properties. Some are parentless, while others have parents that are incarcerated, ill, or incapable of providing care. These children often become victims of their circumstances, lagging behind their peers in many ways, including less healthy, less emotional and intellectual development, and less likely to graduate high school.

One group facing this challenge head-on is Plymouth Crossroads, a residence that provides a safe place to call home for abused, runaway and homeless young men ages 16-20. Certified through the NYS Office of Children and Family Services, it provides transitional housing in a home environment as a Runaway

and Homeless Youth Long-Term Transitional Housing Program.

Since January 2011 Plymouth Crossroads has been home to 68 young men, with lengths of stay ranging anywhere from three to sixteen months. Young men in the 16-17 year old range often need help completing high school or transitioning back to a safe home environment, while those 1821 need advice on going to college, finding a job, or learning how to live on their own. Plymouth Crossroads does not dictate a path, but promotes and supports their aspirations and helps them achieve self-sufficiency.

Program director, Jennifer Thorpe, explained that the residence is

voluntary. It is not a lock-down, but staff is on-hand 24 hours a day. Residents who choose to stay agree to abide by its rules and curfews. There is a pre-screening process which includes an interview that determines their capability to help and the young man’s willingness to be helped. Plymouth Crossroads tries to create a family and home environment, while providing the support and services these young men need. They often become a support group for each other and can discuss their unique challenges around the dinner table.

Touches of “normalcy” can be seen everywhere from photos to the resident bunny, Ziggy. Canine visits are scheduled, groups go on sports excursion, and lunch excursions are offered when funds are available. The boys share bedrooms upstairs, while the downstairs area has offices, a rec room, dining room, and TV area. Outside is a seating area and rock garden where residents can reflect and meditate on those who have come before them and how to shape their future.

“The most important thing

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The Climb of Life:

Navigating Womanhood In Today’s World

By Ana Lugo While perusing a popular women’s online magazine the other day, I came upon an article exploring the role of women today and society’s expectations of us, if any. The author recounted a conversation she’d had with a friend over tacos. Apparently, after she’d finished eating her admittedly oversized burrito, her companion said something like, “Wow, I’ve never seen a girl finish off an entire one of those before.”

This comment threw the female writer into a downward spiral of indignity. In her article she posed questions regarding women’s perceived expectations, the typical “bad if you do, bad if you don’t” scenario. She spoke of heels vs. flats, short skirts, too heavy vs. too thin, and how women are basically shamed no matter what they choose to do. If you want to be a housewife, you’re shamed for not wanting a career. If you want to forego marriage in favor of a career, you’re shamed for not wanting to settle down.

While reading this article a surge of anger flowed through me, not at the implied injustice of society’s expectations, but at the fact that an innocent comment by a friend could trigger such an impassioned and deep-seated sense of powerlessness within a human being.

Everyone is entitled to their own opinion, it’s what makes our country so great.

Maybe instead of obsessing over people’s mindless comments on our behavior, we should focus on living our lives according to our own set of values. I’m not saying this is by any means an easy task, but it’s the only way to find true happiness.

I offer all adult young women (including myself) the following advice: 1. You’re a woman, and being a woman is great! Why would you ever

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want to hide that? Just to disprove other people’s preconceived notions?

You’re not responsible for the entire world’s view of femininity. That’s too heavy a load for any of us to carry.

2. Everyone has an opinion about everything, including you and me. While we should respect everyone’s right to their own opinion, living your life and making choices based on what they may or may not think of you is a true waste of a life. People will think what they think, and there’s truly nothing you can do about it. So wear those heels or wear flats… as long as it’s what you want, not what you think other people expect.

3. Maybe when someone comments on your eating prowess, or the height of your heels, or the length of your hair, they’re simply making a comment.

Most people never mean to hurt someone’s feelings, or belittle them. They were just making an observation. On the rare instance in which someone is actually trying to push your buttons, it reflects negatively on them, not you. If someone is so miserable that they need to point out something in a derogatory manner in order to shame you, then maybe that person isn’t worth your time.

The bottom line is, we all need stop trying to control people’s perceptions of womanhood and just live. We should live the exact way we want to, whether that means fitting into traditional gender roles or not. Just do what you want! Be brave, be you. Bake a pie, wear a fluffy skirt, join the military, stop wearing make-up, get some thigh-high boots, build a bookcase… None of these choices make you more or less of a woman. They make you uniquely you, who is also a woman.

You’re free to do what you want.

So just find what that is, and do it.

Other people’s opinions have no real power over you. Just say to yourself and the world, “This is me. Deal with it.” and continue on your way.

It’s not child’s play: Buying the right video games for kids

(BPT) - The upcoming holiday season has parents and family members focused on finding the perfect gift for their loved ones. With this year’s release of the PlayStation 4 and the Xbox One joining the new Wii U, video games are bound to once again be at the top of wish lists.

With a vast selection of titles and genres, there is something for every player.

While choosing the right game may be perplexing to some parents, figuring out which games are suitable for your child doesn’t have to be. Remember to ask these important questions before giving video games and other interactive content as a gift: Is it age-appropriate?

Don’t judge a game by its cover.

While the pictures on the box can sometimes tip parents off, they may not always tell the whole story. It is important for parents to check a game’s age rating as well as its content descriptors, which indicate the types of content that contributed to the rating.

Ratings are assigned by the Entertainment Software Rating Board (ESRB), which is a non-profit self-regulatory body that gives parents the tools to make informed decisions about the suitability of video games and mobile apps. In addition to checking the age rating and content descriptors on the game box, shoppers can conveniently use the ESRB mobile app - available on Apple, Android and Windows devices - to find a game’s Rating Summary. These offer a more detailed and comprehensive look at the nature of the game, including specific examples of the content parents would want to know about.

Are there interactive elements?

If an online game or mobile app includes elements such as sharing user-provided personal information, broadcasting a user’s location or allowing players to interact through chat or share user-generated content, parents may want to know before letting their children play it. Just

as parents would monitor whom their children are interacting with in school, it is important that they monitor their children’s online acquaintances and what information they are sharing. That’s why the ESRB recently added a new component to its rating system, called Interactive Elements. These notices - which are accessible at ESRB.org or via ESRB’s mobile app - advise parents when an online game or mobile app has these types of interactive aspects, giving parents a way to make sure their children’s experience is as secure as it is age-appropriate.

Do you know the game?

Some of the big blockbuster games on the market are rated “T for Teen” or “M for Mature.” Parents should judge a game not solely on its popularity but on its age-appropriateness as well.

Checking the reviews of games, which sometimes include video highlights, and discussing content with game store associates or others who have played it before can also be helpful in the decisionmaking process. Once a game comes into the home, parents should play it with their child for a while or monitor their child’s play to ensure that the game is suitable.

Ratings are not the end-all decider when it comes to choosing games, especially since parents know what’s best for their children. But they can be a very helpful guide. By bearing these tips in mind, parents and other gift givers can ensure the video games they buy this year are just right for the family.For more information on game ratings, visit www.ESRB.org.

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Financial Matters: How to Prepare for Divorce

By Adrienne Rothstein Grace

(CFP®, CLTC, CDFATM)

This article is part of a multipart overview of preparing for divorce. For a copy of all steps contact Adrienne Rothstein Grace at agrace@financialguide.com.

In last month’s issue we tackled the topic of aligning yourself with the right professionals. This month we will explore the keys to what you can and should do now while preparing for your new life.

STEP #3 – DO IT NOW Before your divorce becomes a legal separation making you entirely independent, take care of those nagging “must do’s” in your life that for one reason

or another have been delayed.

• Take care of necessary medical and dental issues now – before your health insurance may change – not only for you, but also for your children, if any • Have a technician go through your car with a fine-toothed comb to identify any repairs that may be needed so that you are not caught off-guard with large expenses after your divorce • If you are keeping your house, do the same – go through and make a list of necessary repairs, get an assessment on your furnace and AC, and be sure to take a look at the roof and windows – knowing what to expect goes a long way in preparing for your financial future STEP #4 – SET YOURSELF UP FOR PRIVACY You have no doubt shared nearly

everything with your spouse.

After all, you were a team working together in everything from finances to a social life.

It’s hard to consider that someone with whom you were once so close will now be someone you need to safeguard against.

But it is not just your spouse you need to safeguard against, it’s everyone he/she has possibly shared confidential information with – it’s about protecting yourself against what you don’t know.

It’s time to get more secure.

Change all of your account user names and passwords. If you share an email account – get your own. Change the locking code on your phone and the password on your computer.

Change the password for your home internet connection. Review online bill pay and bank account access and safeguard your passwords. Secure your credit cards; cancel joint cards to avoid running up new bills.

Review all of your account access codes – right down to online shopping accounts – it’s not about your spouse intentionally acting inappropriately, it’s about safeguarding that no one can.

Adrienne Rothstein Grace is a registered representative of and offers securities, investment advisory and financial planning services through MML Investors Services, LLC Member SIPC. 300 Corporate Pkwy, Suite 216N, Amherst NY 14226.

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December Recipe

Spaghetti with Mussels – An easy seafood dinner.

By Susan Cullen

1 bag of fresh mussels (approx 2 lbs) 2 cloves of chopped garlic 5 tablespoons Olive Oil Half cup of chopped parsley 1 cup of white wine 1 pound of spaghetti Grated Parmesan cheese

Clean the mussels under running cold water. Discard any that are open.

In a saucepan large enough to hold the mussels, add olive oil and sauté the garlic. Once the garlic begins to brown, add the mussels. Stir and add parsley and white wine. Cover, and stir occasionally. Meanwhile cook the spaghetti in boiling water for 10 to 15 minutes.

Once the pasta is cooked, drain spaghetti and pour into a serving bowl.

Add the mussels and any liquid and toss. Serve immediately and top with grated Parmesan cheese.

Enjoy!

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Homeless

Continued from cover are not alone,” said Jennifer. “We provide professional and peer support so they become comfortable with each other and us, build a sense of trust, and open up so we can guide them on a new path.”

Plymouth Crossroads is the only suburban homeless program in Western New York and Lancaster has proven to be a happy location. The Village of Lancaster and the local Boys & Girls Club have been very welcoming. Local businesses and organizations have provided a great deal of support.

Although the facility is HUD-funded federally, that only covers half of its operating costs which include a lease, utilities, staff, case managers, transportation, food and other costs. There is a small grant from the Erie County Division of Youth, but they need to conduct ongoing fundraising. Annual events now include a theme basket auction in October, a golf tournament at Chestnut Hill in August, and participation in a yearly town-wide yard sale. New this

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Their needs include everything from small to large, with a full list that can be found on the website. Food, hygiene items, and clothing for sports, school and jobs are in demand.

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and cereal can add to the feeling of normalcy. Cash donations can go towards specific items or a birthday fund that provides presents. Christmas donations might include stocking stuffers such as $5 gift cards to McDonalds or Subway, decorations, items for Christmas dinner, blankets, hats, or scarves.

When asked about current priorities Jennifer replied: 1. This is a house for eight teenage boys.

Think of any needs that go with that, like haircuts, food, or gas cards.

2. Roofer to help with a leaky roof.

3. Maintenance and construction help.

4. Bicycles to help the teens get to school and jobs.

5. Color printer and a generator.

Jennifer is always open to presentations or speaking opportunities at schools, churches, scouting groups, or local organizations.

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ANGLICAN

St. Bartholomew’s Pro-Anglican Church Christ-Centered; Bible Believing 2368 Eggert Rd, TOT (716) 831-1777 www.stbartston.org Rev. Fr. Arthur W. Ward Jr Service Schedule 9/11/12-6/16/13: Saturday: 4:30 p.m.

Sunday: 8:00a.m., 9:15 a.m. & 11:00 a.m.

Sunday School & Nursery 9:15 a.m. & 11:00 a.m.

Wednesday: 9:30 a.m.

St. Steven’s Anglican Church 10 Indian Trail Road, WIL Sunday: 11:00 a.m.

ALLIANCE CHURCHES

Kenmore Alliance 175 Bonnet Ave., TOT www.kenmorealliance.com Pastor Jon Schuerholz SAT: 6:00 p.m., Sunday: 8:30 a.m., 10:00 a.m. (also Sunday School) 11:30 a.m.

Wednesday: 6:30 Prayer Meeting Thursday: 6:15 p.m. AWANA Children’s Program Lockport Alliance Church 555 Davison Rd ., LKPT (716) 433-3571 www.lockportalliance.org Pastor Kevin Robbins Sunday: 9:00 & 11:15 a.m.

Life Hour: 10:15 a.m.

Niagara Alliance Church 7041 Witmer Road N. Tonawanda, NY 14120 716-731-5689 www.niagaraalliance.com Sunday: 9:30 a.m. Life Hour (Sunday School) Sunday: 10:30 a.m.

Worship Service Wednesday: 7-8 p.m.

Prayer Meeting

APOSTOLIC

New Apostolic 4229 Delaware, TOT Sunday: 10:30 a.m.

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Wednesday: 8 p.m.

New Life In Christ Ministries 285 Walnut Rd., LKPT Sunday: 11:00

ASSEMBLIES OF GOD Lewiston Assembly of God 4754 Creek Rd., LEW (716) 754-7736 www.lewistonassembly ofgod.org Sunday: 10:00 a.m.

Wednesday: 7:00 p.m.

Lockport Assembly of God 200 Beattie Ave., LKPT (716) 433-2900 lockportag@roadrunner.com Sunday: 10:30 a.m.

Wednesday: 7:00 p.m. Praise & Prayer New Covenant 345 McConkey Dr., TON www.nctag.org Pastor Dan Hamlin Sunday: 8:45 a.m.; 10:00 a.m.

First Assembly of God 9750 Niagara Falls Blvd., NF www.niagarafallsfirst.org Rev. James Armpriester (716) 297-7794 Sunday: 10:00 a.m.

Wednesday: 7:00 p.m.

Friday: 7:00 p.m.

Youth Service

BAPTIST CHURCHES

Amherst Baptist Church 100 Willow Ridge Drive, AMH Sunday: 9:30 a.m. Fellowship, 9:45 a.m. – Contemporary Worship Service Sunday School: 11:00 a.m.

Antioch Bible Baptist Church 3984 Lockport Olcott Rd., LKPT (716) 439-8101 Baptist Church of Ransomville Youngstown-Lockport Rd, RAN (716) 791-4939 www.ransomvillebaptistchurch.org Pastor Rock Garrow Sunday: 11:00 a.m.

Sunday School & Coffee Hour 9:45 a.m.

Bethel Baptist Church 995 Dodge Road Getzville, NY 14068 (716)688-8668 www.bethel-nab.org Rev. Kevin L. Wright Sun 10:00 a.m.

Sunday School 9:00 a.m.

Brighton Community Church (American Baptist) 1225 Brighton Road at Parkhurst, TOT Sun: 10:30 a.m.

Calvary New Covenant 78 Pyle Court, TOT Sun: 11:00 a.m.

Sunday School: 10:45 a.m.

Wednesday: 7:00 p.m. Bible Study Center Road Baptist Church 412 Center Rd. WS www.centerroadbaptistchurch.com Rev. William Livermore (716) 675-6545 Sunday: 11:00 a.m., 6:30 p.m.

Wednesday: 6:30 p.m.

Christian Fellowship Baptist Church 765 Niagara Falls Blvd., AMH Sunday: 11:00 a.m.

First Baptist Church 511 Union Rd., WS (716) 674-1816 Sunday: 10:15 a.m.; 6:00 p.m.

Wednesday: 7:00 p.m.

First Baptist Church of Clarence 10790 Hunt’s Corner Rd. Clarence (716) 741-3432 Rev. Ron Tryon Sunday: 10:30 a.m.

Children Service: 10:30 a.m.

Coffee hour after service First Baptist Church — Lockport 140 Genesee St., LKPT (716) 434-1783 www.fbclockport.com Pastor Dave McBeath Sunday: 10:30 a.m.

Wednesday: 6 p.m. Jesus and Me

First Baptist Church of Newfane 6047 East St. Newfane (716) 778-9216 Sunday: 10:30 a.m.

First Baptist Church of Wilson 251 Chestnut St., WILS (716) 751-6988 www.firstbaptistofwilson.com Pastor Stephen Hay Sunday: 11:00 a.m.

First Bible Baptist Church 949 Lincoln Ave., LKPT (716) 433-1611 Sunday: 10:00 a.m.; 11:00 a.m.

Sunday School: 6:30 p.m.

Wednesday: 7:00 p.m.

Prayer Meeting, 7:45 p.m. Bible Study Grace Baptist 2525 Eggert Rd, TOT Pastor Jon Longwell (716) 836-1525 Sunday: 10:30 a.m.

Sunday School: 9:00 a.m.

Harris Hill Baptist Church 5071 Harris Hill Road, WILM (716) 689-3199 www.harrishillbaptistchurch.org Sunday 11:00 a.m.

Morning Worship Sunday: 1:15 p.m.

Afternoon Worship Sunday School & Adult Bible Fellowship: 9:45 a.m.

Kenmore Baptist 10 Wardman Rd., KEN (716) 875-6223 www.kenmorebaptistchurch.org Sunday: 11:00 a.m.

Sunday School: 10:00 a.m.

LaSalle Baptist Church 8819 Munson Ave., NF (716) 283-5328 Sunday: 11:00 a.m., 6:00 p.m.

Wednesday: 7:00 p.m. Prayer Meeting Lighthouse Baptist 383 Wheatfield St., NT www.lighthousebaptistnt.com Pastor David Costantino Sunday: 11:00 a.m.; 6:00 p.m.

Sunday School 10:00 a.m.

Sunday: 7:00 p.m. Bible Study

Open Bible Baptist 72 E. Niagara St., COT Sunday: 10:00 a.m., 6:30 p.m.

Sunday School 11:00 a.m.

Wednesday: 6:30 p.m. Prayer, 7:00 p.m. Service Randall Memorial Baptist Church 6301 Main Street, WIL (716) 634-9800 www.randallchurch.org Sunday: 9:00 a.m.

Bible School Sunday: 10:15 a.m.

Worship Service Shalom Baptist Church 64 East Felton, Street North Tonawanda, NY 14120 (716) 694-5680 Rev. Roland Mills www.shalombaptistchurch.net Sunday School 10:00 a.m.

Worship 11:00 a.m. ¶ 6:00 p.m.

Wed.Bible Study 6:00 p.m.

Tonawanda Baptist 3200 Elmwood Ave., TOT Sunday: 10:30 a.m.

Sunday Bible study: 9:30 a.m.

United Baptist-Christian Church 4800 Creek Rd., LEW (716) 754-4473 www.ubcclewiston.org Pastor Bette Bond Sunday: 10:00 & 11:00 a.m.

Sunday School: 10:00 a.m.

West Somerset Baptist Church 1876 Hosmer Rd. Appleton 716-795-9929.

Sunday morning services: 9:45 Sunday school; 10:45 Morning worship; 6:30 Evening worship; Wednesday Evening Prayer Meeting 7:00. Pastor Scott Walker Whitehaven Road Baptist Church 1290 Whitehaven Rd., GI (716) 773-1004 www.Wrbc.Org Pastor Abram Duek Sunday: 9:15 a.m.; 11:00 a.m.

Youngstown United Baptist— Christian Church 230 Lockport St., YNST, NY 417-0021 • Pastor Denny Webb Sunday School: 9:30 a.m.

Worship: 10:30 a.m.

Evening Bible Study: 5:30 p.m.

Wednesday: Adult Bible Study & Prayer Meeting 6:30 p.m.

Thursday: Women’s Bible Study 6:30 p.m.

CHRISTIAN

Amherst Alliance Church 3915 Millersport Hwy, AMH (716) 689-9832 amherstalliancechurch.org Pastor John Bock Sunday: 10:30 a.m.

Amherst Church of Christ 8285 Transit Road, AMH Sunday: 10:30 a.m.; 6:00 p.m.

Sunday Bible Study: 9:30 a.m.

Wednesday: 7:00 p.m.

Bible Study Faith Emmanuel Temple 36 Locust St. (716) 433-8484 Sunday: 11:30 a.m.

Sunday School: 9:30 a.m.

Faith Tabernacle Church 5676 Beattie Ave , LKPT (716) 434-5451 www.faithtablockport.com Sunday: 9:30 a.m.

Grace Bible Church 6023 Dutton Place Newfane WedS: 6:30 p.m.

Sunday: 9:00 a.m.; 11:00 a.m.

(716) 778-9081 ww.gbcnewfane.com Pastor Tom Martin Hartland Bible Church 8110 West Ave., Gasport (716) 772-6115 www.hartlandbible.com Pastor Jon Goodwin Sunday: 11:00 a.m.

9:00 a.m. Breakfast 9:45 a.m. Discipleship Hour Living Water Community Church 2569 North Main St. Newfane (716) 778-5904 Sunday: 10:30 a.m.

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Lockport Christian Church 5845 Locust Street Ext., LKPT (716) 478-0500 www.lockportcc.org Sunday: 10:00 a.m.

Wheatfield Community Church Meadowbrook Square Plaza 3571 Niagara Falls Blvd.

Suite 5 • Wheatfield (716) 553-3794 www. heatfieldcommunitychurch.org

Niagara Frontier Bible Church 5287 Bronson Dr., Lewiston, NY (716) 297-8783 Pastor Tom Broderick www.niagarafrontierbible.com Sunday Services Sunday School for all ages: 9 a.m.

All Church Fellowship: 10 a.m.

Morning Worship: 10:25 a.m.

Evening Worship — Bible Study on Heaven 6:30 p.m.

Wednesday: Prayer Meeting 6:30 p.m.

Ridgewood Bible Church 7073 Ridge Road. WS (716) 434-5774 Sunday: 9:30 a.m.; 11:00 a.m.

Salvation Army 50 Cottage St. LKPT 10:15 a.m. Family Worship 11:00 a.m. Worship The Chapel at Crosspoint 500 Crosspoint Pkwy, Getzville (716) 631-2636 www.thechapel.com Pastor Jerry Gillis Sunday: 9:00 a.m.; 11:00 a.m.

The Chapel at Lockport 1 East Ave. (716) 250-5004 www.thechapel.com Sunday: 10:00 a.m. at the Palace Theater United Baptist-Christian Church 4800 Creek Rd., LEW (716) 754-4473 www.ubcclewiston.org Pastor Bette Bond Sunday: 10:00 & 11:00 a.m.

Sunday School: 10:00 a.m.

Victory Christian Church 6886 S Transit Rd (716) 625-9300 www.vcclockport.com Pastor Ron Friedersdorf Sunday: 9:00 a.m.

Thursday: 6:30 p.m.

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CHRISTIAN CHURCH (Disciples of Christ)

Grove Street Christian 85 Grove St. TOT (716) 695-2446 email: gscc.doc@gmail.com Rev. Jim Girling Sunday: 10:30 a.m.

Payne Ave. Christian Church 1459 Payne Ave., NT (716) 260-1217 www.payneavenue.org Rev. Jerry McGlone Sunday: 10:00 a.m.

Weekly Coffee hour: 9 a.m.

Adult and Children’s Sunday School: 11:15 a.m.

CHURCH OF CHRIST

LaSalle Church Of Christ 1121 N Military Rd., NF (716) 283-1214 Sunday: 11:00 a.m., 6:00 p.m.

Wednesday: 7:00 p.m. — Bible Study Tonawanda Church of Christ Delaware & Summit, COT Sun: 10:30 a.m.

Sunday Bible School 9:30 a.m.

Wednesday: 11 a.m., 5:30 p.m.

Youth Service

CHURCH OF GOD

Yotvata Community Church (General Conference) 2271 Delaware Ave, KEN (Chapel Of Kenmore Presbyterian) Sunday: 11:30 a.m.

Contemporary Worship Style Wednesday: 7:00 p.m.

Children Church & Prayer and Bible Study River of Life Church (Cleveland TN) 195 Schenk St., NT (716) 692- 2230 Sunday: 11:00 a.m.

Tuesday: 7:00 p.m.- God Shop

CHURCH of the NAZARENE

Amherst Sonrise Church of the Nazarene 849 North French Road, AMH (716) 689-9832 Sunday: 11:00 a.m.

CONGREGATIONAL

Cambria Congregational Church 4045 Lower Mountain Rd. CAM 716-434-4205 Pastor Todd Blackley Sunday: 10:00 a.m.

EPISCOPAL

Calvary Episcopal Church 20 Milton Street, WIL Saturday: 4:00 p.m. Holy Eucharist - Contemp. Music Sunday: 7:45 a.m.

Holy Eucharist - Spoken Sunday: 9:00 a.m. — Family 11:00 a.m. Holy Eucharist — Choral (1st Sun, ea. mo. is Rite I) Wednesday: 7:00 a.m.

Holy Eucharist -Spoken Thursday: 12 p.m. Holy Eucharist w/prayers for healing Children’s ed. end of 9 a.m. service until 10:55 a.m.

Adult Ed. Sun. at end of 7:45 a.m. service & 10 a.m.

Bibly Study: Thurs. 10 a.m.

Rev. Ethan J. Cole, Rector www.calvaryepiscopal.net Christ Episcopal Church 7145 Fieldcrest Dr., LKPT (716) 433-9229 www.christlkpt.org Rev. Thomas J. Mitchell Sunday: 8:00 a.m.; 10:30 a.m.

Church of the Advent 54 Delaware Rd, KEN Rev. Terry W. Bull www.adventkenmore.org Sunday: 8:00 a.m.; 10:00 a.m.

Rev’d Dr. Judith Lee Sunday: 9:00 a.m.

Thursday: 11:00 a.m.

St John’s Episcopal ChurchYoungstown 110 Chestnut St., YNG www.stjohnsyoungstown.org Rev. Ellen L. Brauza Sunday: 8:00 a.m.;10:00 a.m.

St Martin-Fields Episcopal 2587 Baseline Rd., GI www.stmartinsgi.org (716) 773-3335 Rev’d Earle King Sunday: 8:00 a.m.; 10:00 p.m.

Sunday School 9:00 a.m.

St. Mark’s Episcopal Payne & Tremont, NT Sunday: 8 a.m., 10 a.m.

Wednesday: 10:00 a.m.

St Paul’s Episcopal Church 400 Ridge Rd., LEW (716) 754-4591 www.saintpaulslewiston.com Rev. Susan Keppy Sunday: 8:00 & 10:30 a.m.

Sunday Bible Study 9:00 a.m.

Sunday School 10:30 a.m.

St Paul’s Episcopal Church 4275 Harris Hill Road, WIL (716) 689-3199 www.stpaulsharrishill.org Rev. CE Piger Sun: 8:00 a.m.- Holy Eucharist (spoken Rite I) Sun: 10:00 a.m. - Holy Eucharist (Rite II with hymns) St Stephen’s Episcopal Church 616 Cayuga Dr., NF (716) 283-2774 www.ststephensnf.org Rev. Canon Isaac Ihiasota, Ph.D. Sunday: 8:00 a.m., 10:00 a.m.

EVANGELICAL COVENANT

Grace Episcopal Church 100 Genesee St., LKPT (716) 433-2878 www.gracelkpt.org Rev. Cynthia Sever Sunday: 8:00 a.m.; 10:00 a.m.

Evangelical Covenant Church 786 Kenmore Ave., KEN Sunday: 10:45 a.m.

St John’s Episcopal Church 431 Lake St., WILS (716) 751-6109 www.stjohnswilson.com

Abiding Savior 1534 Ruie Rd, NT (716) 693-0180

LUTHERAN

SAT: 6:30 p.m.

Sunday: 9:15 a.m.

Christian Education Sunday: 10:30 a.m. — Worship Amherst Lutheran Church 5125 Main Street, WIL (716) 632-4185 amherstlutheranchurch.org Saturday: 5:00 p.m.

Live Jazz Worship Sunday: 10:00 a.m.

Traditional Worship Augustana Lutheran 3141 Eggert Dr., TOT (716) 832-5720 www.augustana.bfn.org Pastor Troy Mulvaine Sunday: 10:30 a.m.

Sunday School: 9:00 a.m.

Calvary Lutheran Church 575 Ayer Road, AMH (716) 835-7567 www.lutheranrose.org Rev. Karl Schmidt Sunday: 10:30 a.m. Sunday Morning Divine Service Crossroads Lutheran Church 4640 Main Street, AMH SAT: 5:00 p.m.

Informal Service; Sunday: 9:00 a.m.

Contemporary Service Sunday: 10:30 a.m.

Festival Service Sunday School — Adult Sunday 9:00 a.m.–10:30 a.m.

Youth — Sunday: 10:00 a.m–11:30 a.m.

Faith Evangelical Lutheran Church 2730 Transit Rd. Newfane (716) 778-7981 Sunday Service: 11:00 a.m.

Faith Lutheran Church 2730 Transit Rd., NEW (716) 751-0310 Rev. Clarence Elliott First English Lutheran Church 185 Locust S, LKPT (716) 433-6161 Rev. Flavia Skilbred Saturday: 5:30 p.m.

Sunday: 10:00 a.m.

First Trinity 1570 Niagara Falls Blvd, TOT (716) 835-2220 www.firsttrinity.com Rev. Charles Whited Saturday: 5:30 p.m.

Sunday: 8:45 a.m.; 11:15 a.m.

Sunday School: 10:00 a.m.

Grace Lutheran Church 736 Cayuga Dr. NF (716) 283-1843 Sunday: 10:30 a.m.

Good Shepherd 2669 Sheridan Dr. TOT Sunday: 10:15 Sunday School & Bible Study: 9:15 a.m.

Holy Ghost Lutheran Church 6630 Luther St., NF (716) 731-3030 SAT: 5:00 p.m.

Sunday: 8:00 a.m., 10:30 a.m.

Immanuel Lutheran 107 Scott St, COT Saturday: 5 p.m.

Sunday: 10:30 a.m.

Sunday School 9:00 a.m.

Immanuel Lutheran Church 7147 Ridge Rd., LKPT Rev. Kenneth Craig (716) 434-0521 Sunday Services: 9:30 a.m.

Adult Bible Study 10:45 a.m.

Messiah Lutheran Church 915 Oneida St., LEW (716) 754-4944 Rev. Thomas Mason Mt. Olive Lutheran Church 6965 Chestnut Ridge Rd. LKPT (716) 434-8500 Rev. James Zang Sunday: 8:30 a.m.- Traditional Worship: 10:30 a.m.— Blended Worship Holy Communion weeks 1 & 3rd Weeks Pilgrim Lutheran Chapel & Delaware Rd, KEN (716) 875-5485 pilgrimkenmorelcms.org Rev. Ben Eder Sunday: 10 a.m.

Redeemer Lutheran Falconer at Thompson, NT (716) 692-5734

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www.rlcnt.com Pastor David Beutel Sunday: 10:30 a.m.

St James Evangelical Lutheran Church 2437 Niagara Rd Niagara Falls, NY 14304 (716) 731-4057 www.stjamesberg.org Pastor Jeff Milsten Sunday: 8:15 a.m., 10:45 a.m.

St. John Evangelical 6950 Ward Rd, NT (716) 693-9677 Sunday: 8:00 a.m.;10:30 a.m.

Sunday School & Bible Study 9:15 a.m.

Wednesday: 7:00 p.m.

St John’s Evangelical Lutheran 3512 Clinton St. WS (716) 668-2152 www.saintjohnsws.org SAT: 5:00 p.m.

Sunday: 8:30 a.m.; 11:00 a.m.

Sunday School & Education Hour: 9:30 a.m.

St John Lutheran Church Sunday Worship 6540 Main Street, WIL Sunday: 8:30 a.m.

Contemporary Worship, 10:30 a.m.

Traditional Worship St. Mark’s Evangelical 576 Delaware Rd, KEN Sunday: 10:00 a.m.

St. Mark’s Lutheran 1135 Oliver St, NT (716) 693-3715 www.stmarknt.org Rev. Patrick McKenzie SAT: 5:00 p.m.

Sunday: 9 a.m., 11:15 a.m.

Sundau Education Hour: 10:10 a.m.

St. Martin Lutheran 322 Old Falls Blvd, NT (716) 693-4415 Rev. Devie Ellis Sunday: 9:00 a.m.

Sunday School 10:15 a.m.

St. Matthew Lutheran 875 Eggert Dr, NT (716) 692-6862 Sunday: 9:15 a.m.

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St Paul’s Evangelical Lutheran Church 68 Eagle Street, WIL (716) 634-2330 www.stpaulswilliamsville.org Rev. Timothy Madsen Sunday: 9:00 a.m.; 10:30 a.m.

St. Paul Lutheran 453 Old Falls Blvd, NT (716) 692-3255 www.stpaulnt.com Re. Karl Haeussler Sunday: 8:00 a.m.; 10:45 a.m.

Monday: 7:00 p.m.

St. Paul’s Lutheran- Wilson 220 Young St., WILS (716) 751-9300 www.stpaulslutheranwilsonny. com Pastor Ron Haefer Sunday: 10:30 a.m.

Sunday School & Adult Bible study: 9:15 a.m.

Holy Communion 1st & 3rd Sundays St. Peter’s Evangelical Lutheran Church 6167 Walmore Rd., SAN (716) 731-4422 Pastor Bruce M. Gamache’ www.stpeterslcmc-sanbornny. org Sunday: 8:30 & 11:00 a.m.

Sunday School: 9:45 a.m.

St. Timothy Lutheran Church 1453 Staley Rd., GI (716) 773-4400 www.sttimothygrandisland.org Rev. Dean Hunneshagen Trinity Evangelical Lutheran Church 8760 Transit Road, EAST AMH (716) 688-9245 www.trinityontransit.org Contemporary SAT 5:00 p.m.

Traditional Sunday: 10:30 a.m.

Sunday school: 9:00 a.m.

Rev. Dr. Daniel Hoffman Trinity Lutheran Church 67 Saxton St. LKPT (716) 434-3106 Rev. Alan J. Bauch Sunday: 8:30 a.m.; 11:00 a.m.

Sunday school & Bible Study 9:45 a.m.

Sunday: 8:00 a.m.; 10:00 a.m.

Thursday: 7:00 p.m.

Trinity Old Lutheran Church 3445 Sheridan Drive, EGG (716) 836-4868 Sunday: 10:45 a.m.

Sunday School 9:30 a.m.

Trinity Lutheran 146 Reserve Rd. WS (716) 674-5353 www.trinity-lutheranchurch. com Rev. Ronald Habedank Sunday: 8:00 a.m., 10:30 p.m.

Zion Lutheran Church 447 Central Ave., GAS (716) 772-2277

METHODIST

Asbury United Methodist Church 850 Dodge Road, PO Box 743 Getzville, NY 14068 church office phone 716-6888677 emailAsburyamherst@juno. com website: www. asburyamherstumc.org; Sunday worship is at 10:30 am Rev. Jackie Ann Rose Kraft Bethany United Methodist 177 Cornwall Ave, TOT (716) 836-8722 Sunday: 9:30 a.m., 10:45 a.m.

Bible Fellowship Church 1136 Baseline Rd., GI (716) 773-3748 www.Bfcgi.Org Pastor Calvin VanderMey Clinton St. United Methodist 50 N Adam. St., COT (716) 433-6227 Pastor Cheryl Brown Thursday: 2 p.m. Adult Bible Study Sunday: 11:15 a.m.

Sunday school and Junior church held during main service Covenant United Methodist 539 Main St., WS (716) 674-6869 Rev. Renee T. Engels Sunday: 9:30 a.m.

Emmanuel United Methodist Church 75 East Ave. LKPT (716) 433-2838 www. lockportemmanuelumc. org Rev. Duane Priset Sunday: 8:15 a.m.; 10:30 a.m.

Sunday school: 9:15 a.m.

Monday: 6:30 p.m.

Healing Service Exley United Methodist Church 338 Lake St., WILS (716) 751-6057 Rev. John Loeser Fillmore Chapel United Methodist Church 2523 Youngstown-Wilson Rd., Ransomville (716)791-3815 Rev. Anne Cole Sunday Worship Service: 11 a.m.

Children’s Sunday School: 11:15 a.m.

Thursday: Adult Bible Study: 7 p.m.

First United MethodistNorth Tonawanda 65 Main St, NT (716) 694-2456 Rev. Greg Crispell Sunday: 8:30 a.m., 10:45 a.m.

Sunday School: 9:30 a.m.

First United Methodist Church- LaSalle 8210 Buffalo Ave., NF (716) 283-3370 Sunday: 10:00 a.m.

Harris Hill United Methodist Church 8495 Main St., WILM (716) 632-4688. www.harrishillumc.org Rev. Katie Zettle Sun: 10:30 a.m.

Sunday School for Adults, Jr. & Sr. High at 9:30 a.m.

Sunday School for 5th grade and under during worship.

10:00 a.m.

Tuesday: Adult Bible Study 10 a.m.

Kenmore United Methodist 32 Landers Rd., KEN (716) 875-5091 Sunday: 9:20 a.m.; 11:30 a.m.

Living Faith Free Methodist 1907 Center Rd., WS (716) 674-3030 Sunday: 10:30 a.m.

Nash Road Free Methodist 958 Nash Rd, NT (716) 692-8683 www.facebook.com/ nashroadfmc Sunday: 9:00 a.m.; 11:00 a.m.

Newfane United Methodist Church 2699 Main St., NEW (716) 778-7011 Pastor Kim Smith Sunday Service 11:00 a.m.

New Hope United Methodist Church 2846 Seneca St., WS (716) 825-8745 Rev. Renee T Engels Sunday: 11:00 a.m.

North Ridge United Methodist Church 3930 North Ridge Road Lockport, NY 14094 (716) 433-4105 www.nridgeumc.org Rev. Matthew Worley Sunday: 10:45 a.m.

Open Bible Church Free Methodist 4143 Beach Ridge Rd, NT Sunday: 8:30 a.m.; 9:45 a.m.

Pendleton Center United Methodist 6864 Campbell Blvd, NT (716) 625-8306 www.pendletoncenter.org Pastor Tom Kraft SAT: 5:00 p.m.

Sunday: 8:15 a.m., 9:30 a.m., 11:00 a.m. & 6:30 p.m.

1st Monday of the month: 6:00 p.m. — Prayer Service Pendleton Community Free Methodist 5721 Creek Rd, NT Sunday: 10:55 a.m.

Sunday School: 9:45 a.m.

Quaker Rd. United Methodist 2800 Quaker Rd., GAS (716) 772-7457 Sunday: 10:45 a.m.

Ransomville Free Methodist 3924 Ransomville Rd. RAN (716) 791-3855 www.rfmconnect.org Pastor Bill Lowery, Jr. SAT: 5:07 p.m.

Sun: 10:00 a.m.

Sunday: 9:00 — Kids Jam. & Adult Fusion Ransomville United Methodist 2573 Yngst-Lkpt Rd., RAN (716) 791-4978 www.ransomvilleumc.org Rev. Matthew Worley Sunday: 9:15 a.m.

St. James United Methodist 4661 Porter Road Niagara Falls, NY (716) 297-6421 www.stjamesniagara.org Pastor: Rev. Daryl Bennett

Hartland United Methodist 8019 Ridge Rd., GAS (716) 772-2376 Pastor Cheryl Brown Sunday: Worship Service 9:30 a.m.

Sunday/Adult School

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Tonawanda United Methodist 221 Morgan St, COT Sunday: 11:00 a.m.

Tonawanda Free Methodist 207 Grove St, COT (716) 693-1199 • www.tfmc.info Pastor Don Mohr Sunday: 9:00 a.m., 11:00 a.m.

Monday: 7:00 p.m. — Biker Church

Pastor Roderick Hennings Sunday Protocol of Worship Morning Manna - 8:30 a.m.

Legacy Leadership Institute — 9:40 a.m.

Celebration Service — 11:00 a.m.

Latter Rain — 6:00 p.m. \

Trinity Church of Grand Island 2100 Whitehaven Rd., GI www.gitumc.org Rev. Larry Baird Sunday: 8:00 a.m.; 10:30 a.m.

Warrens Corners Methodist Church 5293 Stone Rd. LKPT (716) 434-7385 Rev. Carl Chamberlain Sunday: 11:00 a.m.

Williamsville United Methodist 5681 Main Street, WIL (716) 634-4800 www.williamsvilleumc.org Rev. Rich Neal Sunday: 9:00 a.m. & 11:00 a.m

ORTHODOX

PRESBYTERIAN

Amherst Presbyterian Church 151 South Youngs Road, AMH (716) 633-4656 www.amherstpreschurch.org Rev. David A. Smith Sunday: 10:30 a.m.

Bible Presbyterian Church 1650 Love Rd., GI (716) 773-7303 www.Biblepres.Org Pastor Kevin Backus, Ph.D. Sunday: 10:45 a.m. — Morning Worship & Junior Church 6:00 p.m. — Evening Worship 9:30 a.m. — Sunday School (All Ages) Curtis Park Presbyterian 748 Woodland Drive, TOT (716) 834-3534 Sunday: 10:00 a.m.

St.Theodore Orthodox Church 96 Los Robles Street, WIL Saturday: 5:00 p.m. — Vigil Sunday: 9:30 a.m. — Sunday Divine Liturgy

Deerhurst Presbyterian 257 Deerhurst Park Blvd, TOT (716) 875-1962 www.deerhurstchurch.org Rev. Steven E. Jelensperger Sunday: 10:00 a.m.

PENTECOSTAL

Faith United Presbyterian 3150 Elmwood Ave, KEN (716) 875-9550 Sunday: 10:30 a.m.

Sunday School: 9:00 a.m.

New Life Center United Pentecostal 80 Luksin Dr, COT (716) 694-0071 Sunday: 10 a.m., 6:30 p.m.

Wednesday: 7:30 p.m.

Harbor Lights Fellowship 1821 Grand Island Blvd., GI (716) 773-7900 www.harborlightsfellowship.org Pastor Gerard Haberstrow Saturday: 7:00 p.m.

Sunday: 10:00 a.m.

Zion Dominion Church of God 895 North Forest Road, WIL (716) 250-7040 www.ziondominion.org

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First Presbyterian Church — Lewiston 505 Cayuga Dr. LEW Lewiston, NY 14092 (716) 754-4945 www.firstpreslewiston.org Sunday: 11:00 a.m.

First Presbyterian Church Lockport 21 Church St., LKPT (716) 433-5905 www.lockport1stpres.org Rev. James Hardy Sunday: 10:30 a.m.

First Presbyterian Tonawanda 149 Broad St, COT (716) 692-1319 Sunday: 11:00 a.m.

First Presbyterian Church West Seneca 2085 Union Rd., WS (716) 668-1115 Sunday: 10:00 a.m.

First Presbyterian Church of Youngstown 100 Church St., YNG (716) 745-7067 www.youngstownpres.org Pastor Rex T. Stewart Sunday: 8:30 a.m.; 10:45 a.m.

Island United Presbyterian Church 1822 Huth Rd., GI (716) 773-4849 www.Islandpresbt.Org Rev. Carla Marie Kline Second Presbyterian Church 71 Van Buren St., LKPT (716) 434-2105 Saturday: 5:00 p.m.

Wrights Corner Presbyterian Church 6515 Ridge Rd. (716) 434-7752 Sunday: 10:00 a.m.

Kenmore Presbyterian 2771 Delaware Ave, KEN (716) 875-7600 www.kenpres.org Rev. Howard Boswell Sunday: 10:00 a.m., 6:00 p.m.— Youth Service Knox Presbyterian 2595 Elmwood Ave, KEN (716) 873-2423 www.knoxchurchbuffalo.com Rev. Matthew T. Haberman Saturday: 6:30 p.m.

Contemporay Sunday: 9:30 a.m.— Discipleship 11:00 a.m. — Blended North Presbyterian 168 Payne Ave, NT (716) 693-7030 Sun: 11 a.m.

Sunday School: 9:45 a.m.

Third Presbyterian 110 Felton St., NT Sunday: 10:45 a.m.

North Presbyterian Church 300 North Forest Road, WIL (716) 632-1330 www.northchurchwilliamsville. org Rev. William Hennessy Sunday: 8:30 — Worship in the Chapel 10:45 a.m.— Worship in the Sanctuary

SEVENTH DAY ADVENTIST Seventh-Day Adventist Church 32 W High St., LKPT (716) 433-2327 Saturday: 10:00 a.m. — Bible Study Saturday: 11:20 a.m. — Church Service

UNITED CHURCH of CHRIST

Phoenix United Church of Christ 1280 N French Rd Amherst, NY 14228 Rev. Debbie Baxter (716) 713-6370 Worship: Sundays at 10 am www. phoenixunitedchurchofchrist. com Church of the Nativity 1530 Colvin Blvd, TOT Sunday: 9:00 a.m.; 10:30 a.m.

(716) 875-3365 www.nativityucc.org Covenant United Church of Christ 4449 Main St. GAS (716) 772-7802 Sunday: 10:00 a.m.

Ebenezer United Church of Christ 630 Main St. WS (716) 674-4566 Sunday: 9:15 a.m., 11:00 a.m.

Kenilworth UCC 45 Dalton Dr, KEN (716) 835-4120 Sunday: 10:30 a.m.

Kenmore UCC 295 Delaware Rd, TOT

(716) 875-1725 www.simplesite.com/kucc Sunday: 10:30 a.m.

Sunday School — all ages & nursery care during the 10:30 a.m. service Coffee hour reception following service each week Lockport United Church of Christ 98 East Ave., LKPT (716) 433-2545 Rev. Stephen Hall Sunday: 10:30 a.m.

Salem UCC 144 Morgan St at Main St. COT (716) 692-3429 Sunday: 10:30 a.m.

Sunday School & Bible Study 9:30 a.m.

St. Paul’s UCC (Wendelville) 7416 Campbell Blvd, NT Sunday: 10:00 a.m.

St. Peter’s UCC 1208 Oliver St., NT (716) 693-0749 www.stpetersnt.org Rev. Linda Harle-Mould Sunday: 10:30 a.m.

Sunday School: 9:00 a.m.

St. Peter’s United Church of Christ 1475 Orchard Park Rd., WS (716) 674-1233 www.st-petersucc.org Rev. Hope Harle-Mould Sunday: 10:00 a.m.

St Stephen United Church of Christ 8520 Tonawanda Creek Road, EAST AMH • (716) 741-3481 www.clarenceucc.com Sunday: 10:30 a.m.

Coffee Hour: 10:00 a.m.

Zion UCC Parker Blvd & Koenig Cir., TOT (716) 836-6220 Sunday: 9 a.m., 10:30 a.m.

OTHERS

Bethesda Full Gospel Tabernacle Delaware and Broad, COT (716) 693-6990 www.bethesdafullgospel.org Pastor Sam Ciffa

Sunday: 10:00 a.m.

Wednesday: 7:00 p.m.— Bible Study Friday: (1st and 3rd Friday): 7:00 p.m.

Calvary Bible Church 445 Delaware, COT (716) 692-6450 Sunday: 10:00 a.m., 6:00 p.m.

Thursday: 7:00 p.m.

Fellowship of God’s Word 116 Broad St, COT Sunday: 10:30 a.m.

The Fair Havens Church 7337 Ward Rd, NT (716) 693-9204 Pastor Patricia MacKinnon Sunday: 10:00 a.m.

Niagara Community Church 10500 Cayuga Drive, NF (716) 297-3399 Sunday: 9:30 a.m.

Sunday classes for all ages 11:00 a.m.

The Oasis Center Services held in: Knox Gymnasium 2595 Elmwood Ave. TOT www.oasisoutreach.com Sunday: 2:00 p.m.

Bible Study: Thursday from 7:30-8:30pm Salvation Army- LaSalle 7018 Buffalo Ave., NF (716) 283-7697 Sunday: 11:00 a.m.

Salvation Army- Tonawanda 46 Broad St, COT Sunday: 11:00 a.m.

Salvation Meeting: 7:00 p.m.

True Word Anointed Ministry of Jesus Christ 600 Oliver St., NT Sunday: 9:30 a.m.

Sunday School 11:00 a.m.

Wednesday: 7:00 p.m. — Bible Study Vanguard Christian Church 75 17th Avenue, NT (716) 694-7816 Pastor Alan Valentine Sunday: 11 a.m.

Friday: 6:30 p.m. — Youth Service

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History Corner: What Was Theophilus Thinking When He Read Luke’s Christmas Story?

By Jeff Keefe

In Luke 1:3 we read that, “I too decided to write an orderly account for you, most excellent Theophilus.” Who was Luke and what did the early Church say about Luke? He was not one of the twelve disciples and not Jewish. According to an early church Bishop named Eusebius, c. 300, Luke was a Greek from Antioch, Syria.

We don’t know anything for sure about Theophilus. Some say he was one of two high priests in Jerusalem with that name, some say a Jew from Alexandria. The strongest case seems to be an important Roman official, because Luke referred to Theophilus as “most excellent” which is how Paul addressed two Roman Governors; Acts 26:25, “…most excellent Festus” and Acts 24:2, “… most excellent Felix.”

Our picture of Jesus’s birth comes primarily from the Gospel of Luke 2:1-20. To modern readers and listeners, Luke 2 is a nice story that we like to hear over and over each Christmas. It gives us warmth and comfort, assurance and confidence.

But to Gentile readers like Theophilus, it was more challenging. Luke writes, “… an orderly account for you, most excellent Theophilus, that

you may have certainty concerning the things you have been taught.” The titles Luke applies to Jesus in chapter 2 would have been recognized by any Roman as titles of Caesar Augustus.

Caesar Augustus was the first Emperor, Caesar or King. So Luke reminds us that at the time of Caesar Augustus, Jesus is a descendent of King David, the most heroic King Israel ever had. Jesus was born in the same village that David was from, Bethlehem. It was public knowledge that some failed messiah’s claimed to be descended from David and called by God to rescue the Jews from Rome.

We can easily read on in the story and miss other challenges that faced Theophilus. Luke tells us an Angel brought the Good News of Jesus birth.

But the Romans already had the gospel, the good news inscribed on a stone monument in a town on the eastern coast of the Aegean Sea. The Priene calendar inscription dates to 9 B.C.) And reads in part, “Since the birth of the god Augustus was the beginning of the good news for the entire world…”

Luke continues, “…in the City of David, a Savior...” A Savior? But Caesar Augustus had the title of savior of the world written in stone in before Jesus birth, the same Priene monument records, “…

has brought our life to the peak of perfection in giving to us Augustus Caesar, whom it filled with virtue for the welfare of mankind, and who, being sent to us and to our descendants as a savior.”

Luke goes on, “… who is Christ the Lord!”

Lord? Theophilus could have easily responded, Caesar is Lord! Caesar is in control. Caesar has the wealth. He has the armies; earthly kings are subordinate to Caesar. It is to him I owe my allegiance. What kind of Lord is an infant wrapped up and lying in a manger? Where is his army? Where is his power? Luke: “And suddenly there was with the angel a multitude of the heavenly host …”

The angels declared “peace on earth.” But it was Caesar who brought the famous “Pax Romana,” the Roman Peace, to the entire Mediterranean world.

In the Mediterranean world at that time Romans and their subjects were told that the good news began with Caesar Augustus, he was the savior, he was lord, and he brought peace. All those little details must surely have challenged “most excellent” Theophilus. Will he trust in Caesar or Jesus? Caesar’s empire or kingdom was one of power, strength, oppression, domination, exploitation and greed. Everyone knew in the ancient world, that is how empires behave.

Some scholars speculate, that we should we translate the Greek words theo philus not as a specific person but as friend of God or lover of God. Do you hear Luke asking, most excellent theophilus; are you in the Kingdom of Caesar or the Kingdom of God? Merry Christmas.

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Tips for stress-free holiday meals

(BPT) - Holiday meals are often the highlights of the season, as nothing beats making memories with friends and family over delicious food and good wine. However, planning the perfect get-together can be difficult and even stressful. Between deciding on the perfect menu, finding complementing beverages, grocery shopping and decorating your house with holiday cheer, it’s difficult to prepare to host a gathering that will be remembered long after the holiday lights are packed away for the year.

To help you get through this holiday season seamlessly, Tom Colicchio, chef/owner of Craft Restaurants and head judge on Top Chef is sharing his tips for planning an effortless holiday meal that will knock your guests’ socks off. After all, entertaining and cooking for loved ones should be fun, not feared. * PLAN AHEAD AND PREP. Colicchio advises home cooks take a page from professional chefs who live and die by their “mise en place” - a fancy term for having all ingredients prepped and ready to go. Chop all the ingredients ahead of time - dice veggies or nuts and grate the cheese the day before. You won’t even have to pick up your knife the day of your event until it’s time to carve the meat, freeing up much more of your time to enjoy your friends and family. * SIMPLIFY YOUR MENU. Holiday menus can get out of control with a dozen side dishes, but Colicchio says it’s no less special if you streamline to just a few. Colicchio’s recipe for stewed apricots and fennel with ricotta, pistachios and black pepper from the Bing Food & Drink app is memorable, but fairly simple and much of it can be done in advance. Best of all, you don’t need to be afraid to bring the Bing Food & Drink app right into the kitchen thanks to the unique hands-free feature. Just activate hands-free mode in the app and seamlessly flip through each step of a recipe by waving your hand in front of the screen to avoid making a mess of your tablet. * START WITH THE INGREDIENTS, NOT THE RECIPE. Feeling inspired by seasonal ingredients or memories of holidays past tied to specific flavors? Colicchio says when it comes to ingredients, if it grows together it goes together. He recommends stopping by a farmers market and starting with fresh, seasonal ingredients, then searching by those ingredients within the Bing Food & Drink app for Windows - which houses hundreds of thousands of recipes from renowned chefs like him, plus sites like Epicurious, Food52 and others. * DON’T FEAR YOUR MICROWAVE. Another tip in the spirit of mise en place is to make all of your purees, sauces and chutneys in advance, up to five days, and simply reheat the day of. Many people are hesitant to use the microwave when cooking a special meal, but a quick reheat does not lessen flavor or reduce the integrity of these types of dishes in any way. It’s faster, saves a pot to clean, and you won’t risk scorching it on the stovetop.

With these simple tips, your holiday meal will be the talk of the town, and best of all, you’ll be stress free. Here’s to a successful holiday gathering full of memories and cheer.

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No Rhyme Or Reason: Leg lamps and tradition

By Alyssa Palombo

I know it’s not just me who feels like the Christmas season shows up earlier every year. This year, on Halloween I happened to drive past the Boulevard Mall and saw they had wreaths up on the outside of the building. I don’t even have words for that.

It’s so easy, with the way retailers start shoving the holidays down our throats at the end of October, to grow apathetic towards the entire holiday season. I don’t want to delve into hackneyed true-meaning-ofChristmas territory here, but for me this time of year always prompts me to think about the traditions my family has created over the years and what meaning this season holds for me.

My whole life, Christmas day has always been spent at my grandparent’s house. During the day, before Christmas dinner, we all spend time hanging out, eating, drinking, talking, in a more relaxed way than we usually can at any other point in the year.

I’m not quite sure how it started, but many years ago now someone—possibly my father, possibly my uncle— grabbed the TV remote and called for us all to guess what part of A Christmas Story was on at that very moment. From 8 p.m. on Christmas Eve to 8 p.m. on Christmas Day, TBS plays the movie— a holiday favorite throughout my family—nonstop. We all guessed, and I’ve since forgotten who won that first round, but it doesn’t matter: history was made.

Fast forward to the present. What started as a casual, momentary Christmas Day game has evolved into a structured, cutthroat (just kidding—kind of) competition, with a score being meticulously kept, established rules (hashed out over many arguments at the bar in

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my grandparent’s basement) and much calculation on the part of the players, accounting for commercials and credits in between showings. Someone will call for a guess, everyone present (if you chose that moment to use the bathroom, you’re out of luck) submits their picks, and the TV is turned on to reveal who guessed the scene closest to where the movie is at that particular time. Whoever has won the most rounds by 8 p.m. .is the winner, and not only gets bragging rights for a whole year, but also a Christmas tree ornament of the movie’s famous leg lamp to keep until next year’s competition.

Of course, everyone wants to win the leg lamp individually, but there’s also a larger scale competition between the three households of the family, and the appropriate trash talk can crop up at any given family gathering throughout the year. If I can’t win, then hopefully my brother or father or mother can, so at least the title comes home with us. At the beginning of each Christmas season, my dad will call for a family viewing of the movie, saying, “We need to study!”

Silly? Sure it is. It’s also a lot of fun, and it’s become, in its own small way, something important to our family, because it’s something that’s just ours. It’s a tradition that’s all the more meaningful because we created it ourselves. Not that there’s anything wrong with traditions and customs that have been passed down through the years, but it’s different altogether when it’s something you came up with.

It has a different kind of significance and, for me, I can already tell that our annual A Christmas Story game is something I’ll always remember.

And if TBS ever decides to stop running the movie for 24 hours on Christmas, well, we’ll just have to come up with something else. Until then, game on.

Secrets for a streamlined routine: How to look flawless in seconds Award winning actress shares her must-have multi-tasking beauty solution (BPT) - Every year, women spend billions of dollars on cosmetics and beauty products because they think that a complex routine is the key to unlocking their beautiful best.

Women are busier than ever and need simple solutions to streamline their everyday.

Emmy and Golden Globe Award nominated star of the TV series “Nashville,” Connie Britton was one of these women whose routine involved multiple steps. Back on set and busier than ever, Britton offers up her favorite tips for simplifying her routine. * Connie’s beauty secret: “I have tried many products over the years and have a cabinet full of the latest moisturizers, sunscreens and foundations to prove it,” says Britton. “I was so excited to finally discover POND’S Luminous Finish BB+ that has short and long term benefits - it gives me flawless coverage instantly and evens out my skin tone while brightening and moisturizing my skin. It really does it all and keeps its promise.” Britton has teamed up with POND’S to help women get flawless skin. The multi-tasking beauty benefit cream is formulated with Tone Perfecting Complex and visibly fades dark spots. * Snacks to swear by: Busy routines allow for little time to sit down and enjoy a meal. “I make sure to carry high protein, healthy snacks like almonds that are great for my skin and help keep it radi-

ant,” explains Britton. As a bonus, being prepared with healthy snacks make it is easier to resist the urge to give into the temptation of sugary treats. * Get glowing: Britton’s other secret for beautiful skin? “I love doing exercise that feels like it strengthens and nourishes inside and out, so lately I have been doing a lot of yoga, which incorporates body, mind, and spirit,” she says. “I always feel great after!” * Make-up for lost time: “As a mom, it’s tough to fit in a full eight hours of beauty sleep,” says Britton. “But I’m always really amazed at what a difference a couple of coats of volumizing mascara make in the morning. It actually helps me look bright-eyed and well-rested.”

After curling lashes apply two coats of mascara for eyes that looking instantly brighter and awake.

For more tips from Britton, visit the POND’S Facebook page at facebook.com/Ponds.

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Fall back in love with your wardrobe this holiday season

(BPT) - Not only is the holiday season time for presenting loved ones with carefully hand-picked gifts, it’s also the season for dressing up and sharing good cheer at office parties, family events and cocktail gatherings.

With all the holiday events beginning to fill up social calendars, women nationwide begin to have the all-too familiar feeling that they have nothing in their closets to wear. In fact, most women only wear 20 percent of the clothing in their closet 80 percent of the time, often leading to “closet regret.”

When clothes lose their softness, shape or freshness, they tend to shift to the back of the closet, becoming items once loved but no longer worn. As the invitations for holiday gatherings arrive, don’t let the anxiety of having nothing to wear and the fear of going over budget on a whole new wardrobe stress you out this season.

Refresh your holiday attire by adding another layer of fragrance to your Downy soft wardrobe with Downy Unstopables Glow In-Wash Scent Booster. These in-wash scent boosters go beyond everyday freshness to keep your outfits smelling fresh from one party to the next.

“One of the most important, but often overlooked, layers of a woman’s wardrobe is scent,” says P&G’s Scent Expert and Perfumer Mark Haward. “Even before you put on your perfume, Downy Unstopables gives you these lovely, long-lasting layers that will help you feel beautiful. Your closet will have new life.”

With Downy as your seasonal helper, look forward to less stress,

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saving time and money by shopping your own closet and donning your holiday favorites. Don’t know where to start? Here are a few tips on how to refresh the holiday outfits already in your closet, making them look like new and ready to bring on the holiday cheer. * Mix and match. If you have a staple little black dress that’s been worn many times, give it a fresh burst of color with a red belt, a colorful scarf or even beautiful stone statement necklace. Many of your favorite holiday outfits can be accessorized with pops of color making them look new. * Play up the textures. Softness is important for any holiday couture. You’ll want to be comfortable in your holiday outfit whether you’re spending an evening under the mistletoe or on the dance floor.

Be sure to add Downy Infusions Cashmere Glow Fabric Softener in your wash cycle to condition your clothing and add extra softness so you can enjoy the entire holiday event in comfort and with confidence. * Create surprising high-low clothing combinations. One of the latest trends is mixing high and low-end fashions for a great new look. Try this trend with items already in your closet, like pairing a classic coat with a trendy peplum dress or a basic T-shirt with a statement skirt. Pulling this trend off helps create bold new looks from items you already have. * Renew your favorites. Keep your holiday favorites looking new event after event by protecting them with the fabric care regimen, including Downy Unstopables In-

Wash Scent Booster and Downy Infusions Fabric Softener. Caring for your clothes is much more than just “clean” and using fabric softeners and scent boosters is extremely important to the life of your clothes. With Downy you’ll

be able to shop your own closet for the perfect outfit to wear all season long, saving money and time.

For more clothing care tips and inspiration visit www.Pinterest.com/ Downy.

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COMMUNITY EVENTS: December 2013 DECEMBER 2013

HOLIDAY BAZAAR SAT. DEC. 7 – 10 a.m. to 2 p.m.

Buffalo Seminary 205 Bidwell Parkway, Buffalo Over 40 local vendors with a variety of goods.

CRAFT SHOW & WREATH SALE SAT. DEC 7 9 a.m. to 3 p.m.

Harris Hill UMC 8495 Main Street Williamsville NY Variety of craft vendors. Fresh wreaths & poinsettias.

Lunch available CHRISTMAS COOKIE SALE SAT. DEC 7 9:30 a.m. to 11:30 a.m.

Orchard Park UMC 3700 N. Buffalo Road Orchard Park NY Large selection of home made cookies

ANSWERS TO DECEMBER WORD SEARCH

CHRISTMAS CONCERT SUNDAY DEC. 8 at 7 p.m.

St. Peter’s United Church of Christ 1475 Orchard Park Road West Seneca NY 14224 – 674-1233 Featuring “Strike The Rock” and St. Peter’s Chancel Choir WE NEED A LITTLE CHRISTMAS SUN. Dec 8 2 p.m. to 3:30 p.m.

Messiah Lutheran Church 915 Onida Street Lewiston NY Lewiston Choraleers Present a fun filled family friendly Christmas program

made Cookies at intermission - Christmas Carols & Hymns, Hanukkah songs, Songs of Peace & Hope.

FESTIVAL OF LESSONS AND CAROLS SUN. DEC 15 4:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m.

Calvary Episcopal Church 20 Milton St. Williamsville NY A holiday musical celebration with traditional and not-sotraditional holiday music offered by Calvary’s adult choir and guest musicians.

LIVING NATIVITY SUN. DEC 15 6:00 p.m. 8 p.m.

Salem Lutheran Church 10 McClellan Circle Buffalo NY 824-2747 This will be a fun event for all ages with activities for the children, music and refreshments. Costumed characters and live animals will also be featured. Come and experience the reason for the Season.

Autism spectruM disorder: An overview TUES. DEC. 17 – 6:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m.

Parent Network of WNY 1000 Main Street , Buffalo NY 14202 parentnetworkwny.org In this workshop participants will learn about Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD) and will discuss how and why Autism Spectrum Disorders are diagnosed and by whom.

The workshop will also cover learning styles, recent research and ways to promote success at home, school and in the community Register online now

COOL CRAFTS FOR COLD DAYS THURS.-MON. DEC. 26 –30 12:00 p.m. to 4:00 p.m.

Herschell Carrousel Factory Museum BUFFALO NIAGARA CONCERT BAND 180 Thompson St Wed. DEC 11 7:00 p.m. to 9 p.m.

North Tonawanda NY Fatima Shrine $6 Adults $5 Seniors $3 Children 1023 Swann Road Celebrate the holidays with a trip to the Carrousel MuYoungstown NY An evening of fantastic music, set in the beautifully deco- seum! Escape the winter weather and enjoy one last ride for the year. Each day features special winter or holiday rated National Shrine Basilica of Our Lady of Fatima. crafts for children.

Conducted by Amy J. Steiner

The hidden message is: CHRISTMAS CAKE

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26th. Annual holiday concert SAT. DEC 14 7:00 p.m. to 10:00 p.m.

Lockport UCC 98 East Ave. Lockport NY – Free will offering Celebration of the Heart - Nan Hoffman & Joe Tumino with Kathy & Tom DeLaoughry & Mary Bieger - Home-

LITTLE TYKES MINI NATURE CAMP: W IS FOR WINTER MON. DEC. 30 9:30 AM-11:30 AM Tifft Nature Preserve 1200 Furhmann Blvd Buffalo NY Non members $8 per child and adult

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Enjoy a morning of fun and exploration at Tifft Nature Preserve. Nature games, crafts, hikes, snacks and more are in store as we learn about nature together! Ages 3-5.

Non-Members: $8 per child and adult, $4 additional children with same adult. Buffalo Museum of Science Members Save 10%. Pre-registration required. Please call 825-6397.

7145 Fieldcrest Dr., Lockport (433-9229) Prayer & Bible Study EVERY MONDAY 10:01 AM Christ Episcopal Church 7145 Fieldcrest Drive, Lockport (433-9229)

CLASSIC GUITAR WITH MIR ALI TUESDAYS & THURSDAYS 2:00 - 8:00pm Calvary Episcopal Church 20 Milton St., Williamsville (633-7800)

GENERATION NeXt FIRST & THIRD WEDNESDAY YOUTH GROUP MEETINGS St. Bartholomew’s Pro-Anglican Church EVERY MONDAY 6:00pm Christ Centered; Bible Believing FAMOUS FIRST OF THE YEAR FLEA MARKET Mt. Olive Lutheran Church 2368 Eggert Road Town of Tonawanda NY SAT. JAN. 4 2014 8:00 a.m. to 3:00 p.m.

6965 Chestnut Ridge Rd., Lockport (434-8500) (716) 831-1777 ext. 15 VFW Harvey D Morin (Any student grades 7-12 are welcome!). Mondays www.stbartston.org 965 Center Rd West Seneca NY 6:00pm beginning September 12th Generation NeXt meets on the First and Third WednesBuffalo’s Favorite Flea Market with something for everydays of every month at St. Bartholomew’s Pro-Anglican one.

YOUTH GROUP Church. Generation NeXt is a place to grow in your faith EVERY MONDAY 6:30pm – 8:30pm as well as have fun. Please join us for a night of fun, felFREE BREAKFAST Bethel Baptist Church lowship and worship.

EVERY FIRST SUNDAY 9:00am 995 Dodge Rd. Getzville (688-8668) www.generationnextyg.com Heartland Bible Church www.bethel-nab.org Juniors meet from 7:00pm till 8:30pm 8110 West Ave., Gasport (772-6115) Middle school and High School Students gather for a Discipleship Hour is at 11:15am time of recreation (games), discipleship (bible study), and Seniors meet from 6:30pm till 8:30pm praise worship. All are invited to attend.

FAMILY NIGHT COFFEE CAFÉ EVERY WEDNESDAY 5:30-6:45pm EVERY SUNDAY 9:45-10:30AM BIKER CHURCH Amherst Alliance Church Amherst Alliance Church EVERY MONDAY 7:00pm 3915 Millersport Hwy., AMH (689-9832) 3915 Millersport Hwy., Amherst (689-9832) Tonawanda Free Methodist Church EVERY WEDNESDAY 6:00-7:00pm Join us for fellowship, coffee and donuts before our Sun- 207 Grove St., City of Tonawanda (693-1199) King’s Kids Club –Ages 3 years to 5TH grade day service. Everybody welcome!

30 Minute-Biker Church. We ride to different locations Emmanuel United Methodist Church each Monday evening after 7:00pm Biker Church for 75 East Avenue, Lockport (433-2838) YOUTH FELLOWSHIP food and fellowship. All are welcome.

Focuses on the teachings of Bible stories: Inter-active lesEVERY SUNDAY 6:00-7:30pm sons, crafts, fun activities and snacks.

Kenmore Presbyterian PATHWAYS COFFEE HOUR 295 Elmwood Ave, Kenmore (875-7600) EVERY TUESDAY 10:00am MOVI Pathways Bookstore EVERY WEDNESDAY 6:15-9:00pm NEW YOUNG ADULT BIBLE STUDY Lincoln Rd. Lockport (434-8500) The Chapel at Crosspoint EVERY SUNDAY 7:30-9:00pm Join the people from Mt Olive church at Pathways Book500 Crosspoint Parkway, Getzville (631-2636) North Presbyterian Church store (Lincoln Rd. Lockport) The MOVI movement gathers every Wednesday night in 300 North Forest Rd, Williamsville (632-1330) ALL welcome! the Crosspoint Theatre, at the Crosspoint campus, from Are you 18-30s looking to meet other young adults at 6:15-9:00pm.

Teens should expect that every WednesNorth Church? Please join us for a Bible study, fellowVINTAGE day when they leave they are equipped and encouraged ship, and refreshments on Sundays from 7:30-9pm at EVERY TUESDAY 8:00PM for the weeks journey ahead.

This will happen through Peter & Tara Martin’s home in Eggertsville. Questions?

The Chapel at Crosspoint music, small groups, and discussions from the bible and Email Tara at tara.wyckoff@gmail.com.

500 Crosspoint Parkway, Getzville (631-2636) more.

Vintage College-Age Young Adults Ministry “Vintage” YOUTH GROUP – the college-age/young adult group. Live music- HonSECOND & FOURTH SUNDAYS 6:00 - 8:00pm est dialogue- Real people. Join hundreds of other 18-20 Covenant United Church of Christ something’s every Tuesday night at 8pm for the best night 4449 Main Street, Gasport, NY of your week! For more information contact Wes Aarum.

Gasport Youth Group meets on the 2nd and 4th Sundays www.vintagetruth.com of the month from 6p-8p at Covenant United Church of Christ, 4449 Main Street, Gasport, NY. The group is RUTH CIRCLE made up of students from the neighboring towns for EVERY THIRD TUESDAY 1:00pm grades 5-12. For information: www.covenantyouth.org.

First Presbyterian Church Scott Brauer is the leader along with many of the parents. 21 Church St., Lockport (433-5905) Ruth Circle is a group of golden age women who meet Anointing & Prayers for Healing for study and companionship.

EVERY THIRD SUNDAY 8:00am & 10:00am Christ Episcopal Church

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December 2013 Neighbor Link News 15 CHILDRENS PROGRAM EVERY MONDAY 6:30pm – 8:30pm Bethel Baptist Church 995 Dodge Rd. Getzville (688-8668) www.bethel-nab.org The ages are 4 years to grade 5. The time is 6:30-8:00pm.

The kids enjoy a time of singing, crafts, snacks, games & a Bible story each night.

US TOO- Cancer Support Group FIRST TUESDAY 7:00-9:00pm the VA Hospital, 3495 Bailey Ave. Buffalo, NY 14215, in Room 301 US TOO! Prostate Cancer Support Group meets on the first Tuesday of each month at the VA Hospital, 3495 Bailey Avenue, Buffalo, NY 14215, in Room 301, from 7pm to 9pm. Admission is FREE and you do not have to be a veteran to attend. We also meet on the first Thursday of each month at Sisters Hospital, St. Joe’s Campus on Harlem Rd. in Cheektowaga NY, 14225, from 7pm to 9pm, in the first floor Community Room. Relaxed round table family oriented discussions. For info call 716-8349200 ext. 5169 or our hotline at 743-7595.

Jesus & Me (JAM) - Children’s Outreach EVERY WEDNESDAY 6:30pm First Baptist Church 140 Genesee St., Lockport (434-1783) JAM meets It begins with a meal, come hungry! JAM uses lively worship, Bible teaching, an emphasis on missions, and small group activities. JAM ministers to children from K- 5th grade.

Adult Bible Studies EVERY WEDNESDAY 6:30-8:00pm Amherst Baptist Church 100 Willow Ridge Dr., Amherst (691-9456) AWANA Children’s Program EVERY WEDNESDAY 6:30-8:00pm Amherst Baptist Church 100 Willow Ridge Dr., Amherst (691-9456) Mid-Week Prayer Service EVERY WEDNESDAY 6:30–7:30pm Lockport Alliance Church 555 Davison Rd., Lockport (433-3571) Youth Group EVERY WEDNESDAY 6:30-8:00 pm Calvary Baptist Church 405 Lincoln Ave., Lockport (434-2251) Cubby Bears (peewee club) ages 2-K Patch Club (Grades 1-6) CBC Teens (Grades 7+) Zang’s Gang Bible Study EVERY WEDNESDAY 7:00pm

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Mt. Olive Lutheran Church 6965 Chestnut Ridge Rd., Lockport (434-8500) Zang’s Gang Bible Study,

175 Bonnet Ave. Kenmore (876-5570) AWANA Children’s Program

FAMILY NIGHT EVERY WEDNESDAY Ridgewood Bible Church 7073 Ridge Rd., Lockport (434-5774) AWANA Boys Brigade Ignite (Jr. High) Fusion (Sr. High) Bible Study

AWANA Kids Club EVERY THURSDAY 6:30–8:15pm Victory Christian Church 6886 S Transit Rd., Lockport (625-9300) All kids are welcome! Join us for Games, Fun, and Biblical teachings

Tea and Sharing EVERY SECOND WEDNESDAY 10:30am Christ Episcopal Church 7145 Fieldcrest Dr. (corner of Rochester Rd. & Fieldcrest) Lockport (433-9229) Christ Episcopal Church, 7145 Fieldcrest Drive, Lockport extends a warm invitation to all the ladies of the community to attend their informal “Tea Time” on every second Wednesday at 10:30 AM in the parish hall. Tea, coffee and light refreshments will be served. Everyone is welcome so please bring a friend and come join us for fellowship. Christ Church is handicapped accessible.

Spaghetti dinner EVERY THIRD WEDNESDAY (Sept- May) 4:30-6:30pm New Covenant 345 McConkey Dr. Town of Tonawanda (877-9882) www.nctag.org Help support our food pantry! $7.00 adult & 3.50 child 4-12 WEEKLY BIBLE STUDY Every Thursday 11:00am - NOON Payne Avenue Christian Church 1451 Payne Ave. North Tonawanda Come join us in our weekly Bible Study, every Thursday from 11am to noon and please feel free to bring a lunch.

Bible Study EVERY THURSDAY NOON Clinton Street United Methodist Church 50 North Adam St., Lockport (433-6227) Thurs. NOON (12:00 P. M.) Bible Study with Pastor Cheryl Brown. Bring your lunch!

Church Night Out EVERY THURSDAY 5:30pm Randall Baptist Church 6301 Main St. Williamsville (634-9800) Pizza Dinner - $3 adults, $1 kids (reservations required) AWANA Children’s Program EVERY THURSDAY 6:15pm Kenmore Alliance Church

MOSAIC- Singles Ministry EVERY THURSDAY 7:00pm The Chapel at Crosspoint 500 Crosspoint Parkway, Getzville (631-2636) The Chapel Singles Ministry provides an environment that encourages Christ-Centered living through Biblical teaching, fellowship, and service. We meet on Thursday nights at 7:00pm. www.thechapel.com/mosaic Divorce Care EVERY THURSDAY 7:00pm The Chapel at Crosspoint 500 Crosspoint Parkway, Getzville (631-2636) Divorce hurts! We’re not interested in the whys and how’s and what’s of your divorce, or to condemn or criticize. We’re interested in providing a forum where, in an environment of accountability built on unconditional acceptance, each person can face the issues of divorce with dignity and hope. www.thechapel.com/divorcecare STEP ONE EVERY THURSDAY 6:30pm Mt. Olive Lutheran Church 6965 Chestnut Ridge Rd., Lockport (434-8500) Join us for “Step One” -- a conversation about contemporary topics, refreshments and entertainment for all (even kids!) in a casual environment. Christian light, music and light refreshments) Togetherness on Thursdays EVERY THIRD THURSDAY 11:30am Christ Episcopal Church 7145 Fieldcrest Dr. (corner of Rochester Rd. & Fieldcrest), LKPT (433-9229) Every Third Thursday is Togetherness on Thursday (TOT) at Christ Episcopal Church, 7145 Fieldcrest Drive in Lockport. Morning Prayer at 11:30 AM followed by lunch at noon. Call Church for reservations at 433-9229.

Weekly Radio Broadcast EVERY FRIDAY 9:00am Zion Dominion Church of God 895 N Forest Rd., Williamsville (250-7040) Listen to our radio broadcast, every Friday at 9:00am on WUFO 1080AM

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PRAYER MEETING EVERY FRIDAY 10:00am Mt. Olive Lutheran Church 6965 Chestnut Ridge Rd., Lockport (434-8500) YOUTH GROUP EVERY FRIDAY 5:30PM Amherst Sonrise Church –Nazarene 849 North French Rd., Amherst (691-7795) AWANA CHILDREN’S PROGRAM EVERY FRIDAY 7:00pm New Covenant Tabernacle 345 McConkey Dr., Town of Tonawanda (877-1335) Youth Service PRAYER MEETING EVERY FRIDAY Mt Olive Lutheran Church 6965 Chestnut Ridge Rd., Lockport (434-8500) Prayer Meeting at the Church GOLDEN EAGLES EVERY SECOND FRIDAY OF THE MONTH The Chapel at Crosspoint 500 Crosspoint Parkway, Getzville (631-2636) At The Chapel we value our senior citizens and strive to provide open doors for fellowship and a growing sense of community by enjoying life together. These luncheons and gatherings provide an opportunity for fellowship, fun and food in a light-hearted atmosphere, enabling everyone to become acquainted. For more information, contact Skip Hartman at 716-631-2636 x204.

co-op where anyone can purchase children’s clothing, toys, baby gear. Most items are only 25 cents. This is open to the community.

HABITAT FOR HUMANITY FIRST SATURDAY OF EVERY MONTH! First Presbyterian Church 149 Broad St., City of Tonawanda (692-1319) E-mail: church@firstprestona.org.

Web address: www.firstprestona.org Our Church is continuing its active support of Habitat for Humanity by scheduling a series of workdays throughout the year. We have a Habitat Workday on the first Saturday of each month! The Habitat programs are so designed that anyone, with any skill level, can participate! Participants will meet at 8am in the Church parking lot to form carpools. Come and experience the fellowship, cooperation and feeling of accomplishment that one receives working with Habitat! Come, and bring a friend who’s looking to make a difference in the world!

Post an event in the Community Events Calendar It’s FREE for any church or community group.

Submit your event at: info@neighborlinknews.com or call (716) 553-3306. Deadline is the 20th of the prior month.

VENDOR/CRAFT SHOW SATURDAYS EVERY SATURDAY 9:00am - 2:00pm Grace Lutheran Church 375 Payne Ave (corner of Robinson) North Tonawanda, NY 14120 Vendor/Craft Show Saturdays will feature vendors showcasing their products in and around the Church Memorial Hall coinciding with the NT City Market 9am-2. Second Saturday of each month the Church will continue to sell its famous hot chowder. A portion of the proceeds raised will be donated to charitable organizations. Tables available, contact Brian 716-523-0944. Free admission WOMEN IN THE WORLD BIBLE STUDY EVERY SATURDAY 9:30am Mt. Olive Lutheran Church 6965 Chestnut Ridge Rd., Lockport (434-8500) CLOTHING CO-OP FIRST SATURDAY 9:00am - NOON Kenmore Alliance Church 175 Bonnett Ave., Town of Tonawanda (876-5570) Join us the First Saturday of the month for our clothing

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How to make household drafts a thing of the past (BPT) - With the onset of cooler weather, now is the ideal time for homeowners to consider the efficiency of their heating systems. Drafts, gaps and poor insulation throughout the building envelope can significantly contribute to the efficiency of a home’s heating system, the comfort of occupants and the household budget.

The United States Department of Energy says that household heating and cooling accounts for around 54 percent of the average American’s utility bill. Although some savings can be achieved through proper equipment maintenance and upgrades, the United States Department of Energy explains that an energy efficient furnace alone will not have as great an impact on energy bills as using a whole-house approach.

With heating and cooling taking up a large chunk of the household budget, understanding where your home is hemorrhaging money and how to effectively stop it can make a considerable difference to your comfort and your wallet. Building specialists say that any cold or drafty areas within a home are typically caused by air leaks within the building envelope. Air leaks can make rooms uncomfortable and allow the air to escape, forcing

heating equipment to work continually to compensate. According to InsulationSmart.com, floors, walls and ceilings alone can account for up to 31 percent of air leakage in a home.

Consulting a home inspector or home energy rater, who can assess your home from roof to basement; will give you a better sense of where your home is leaking money and what cost-effective measures are available. While stop-gap solutions such as caulking and sealing visible cracks can help alleviate some of the air leakage, a home inspector will make recommendations that consider the whole wall infrastructure.

For instance, a home with traditional batt or

blown-in insulation is typically less energy efficient than a home with modern insulation material such as spray foam, because of the gaps these traditional insulation types leave behind.

Unlike the traditional insulation materials, spray foam insulation such as Icynene both insulates and air seals the home’s envelope in one step to provide a cost-saving option that not only stops drafts from occurring but reduces energy waste and cuts the monthly heating and cooling bill.

Over the long-term, the savings quickly add up.

Spray foam insulation performs for the life of the property, ensuring that homeowners can enjoy comfortable indoor temperatures all year round without overrunning their heating and cooling equipment. Spray foam insulation can noticeably reduce heating and cooling costs, in some cases by up to 50 percent, easing the strain on the household budget.

Additionally, spray foam insulation helps minimize random airborne moisture and pollutants from entering the home, ideal for allergy sufferers particularly once the cold weather passes and spring arrives. Homeowners can learn the five easy steps of selecting the right insulation for their home on www.icynene.com

The perfect 10 for your heart: new science shows combination of omegas supports heart health (BPT) - One in three U.S. adults may benefit from support for healthy blood lipids, such as triglycerides, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. Maintaining healthy blood lipids is an important - but often overlooked - aspect of promoting cardiovascular health and overall wellness for vibrant aging.

There are a few key steps one can take to improve and maintain heart health and overall health, such as increasing the daily level of physical activity, quitting smoking, managing stress, and making better food choices. While dietary and other lifestyle changes are the cornerstone to improving cardiovascular health, appropriate nutritional support may also be beneficial, such as a quality omega fatty acid supplement.

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“When thinking about omega fatty acid support for general heart, brain and eye health, omega-3s naturally come to mind first. However, nutritional science is now recognizing that omega-7s may also offer specific support for healthy blood lipids,” says Dr. Michael Roizen, the chief wellness officer at Cleveland Clinic and Chief Medical Consultant for The Dr. Oz Show. “Specially designed levels of purified omega-7 and omega-3 fatty acids have been combined in a new product that provides both targeted and general support for cardiovascular health. Think of it like this: combining omega-7 with omega-3 may be the perfect 10 for heart health.”

Roizen cautioned some omega-7 supplements on the market may also contain higher levels of a

potentially unhealthy saturated fatty acid. When looking for a product with “purified” omega-7s - such as those used in clinical studies - it is important to consider and research any supplement containing omega-7s.

“Talk to your doctor about this powerful combination of purified omega-7s and concentrated omega-3s to provide enhanced support for your heart health,” adds Roizen. Mega 10 from Metagenics contains a proprietary combination of purified omega-7s and omega-3s.

EDITOR’S NOTE: These statements have not been evaluated by the Food and Drug Administration. This product is not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease.

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The Wave of the Future in Pain Management There are few medical breakthroughs so amazing that they literally change the course of medicine. Just as LASIK surgery revolutionized vision care, and gastric bypass revolutionized weight loss, new technologies are revolutionizing how doctors treat pain and debilitating diseases such as degenerative joint conditions, migraines, arthritis and neuropathy.

The newest technology called MLS Laser Therapy, originally developed in Italy, is now available in the United States, and Dr. Anthony J. Bianchi, D.C. in Cheektowaga is proud to be on the medical technological forefront by offering this brand new therapy to his patients.

MLS Laser Therapy is used to reduce pain, relieve inflammation, and restore mobility. It uses specific wavelengths of light on tissues that have a strong anti-inflammatory effect on tissues that are exposed to the laser. Photons of laser energy penetrate deeply into tissue and accelerate cellular reproduction and growth. As a result of exposure to the MLS laser, the cells of ten-

dons, ligaments and muscles repair themselves faster. As inflammation is reduced, pain subsides very quickly. Unlike some pharmacological solutions, there are no Known negative side effects. Laser therapy is cleared by the FDA and proven successful as evidenced by extensive and credible studies conducted in our country’s finest institutions including Harvard University.

Moreover, MLS Laser Therapy is painless and treatments average only 10 minutes.

Over 90% of patients experience positive results within the first few treatments, with treatment protocols ranging from 3 to 15 sessions depending on the nature of the condition.

Another new technology is Whole Body Vibration (WBV) which was initially used by the Russian aerospace industry and is now being used to reduce arthritic pain, increase muscle strength, flexibility, blood circulation, improve walk balance, and increase bone density.

Finally Disc Rehydration Therapy is the primary non-surgical safe and effective treatment

for patients with herniated disc, degenerative joint disease, facet arthritis, disc bulge, and spinal stenosis. The nee therapy actually reduces the pressure inside the discs of the spine by drawing the bulging and herniated material back into the disc, and eliminating the pain. Unlike drugs or injections, this new therapy is natural and its effects are lasting and often permanent.

The best news is that these new therapies are suited for almost everyone. Regardless of the therapies you’ve tried in the past you still have a chance to relieve your chronic pain or other debilitating condition and regain normal healthy lifestyle.

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A Pilgrim’s Progress

I don’t like to put words in other people’s mouths, so when we report on the work we do at the Samaritan Center, we often generalize, certainly respecting and protecting other people’s confidence and the trust they have put in us. We dare not expose people who are vulnerable and in pain with personal and family difficulties.

However, on rare occasions, someone out of the past comes forth with a statement that looks back over many years from a more healed point of view, to express a perspective on the pains they went through back then.

Recently, a lady came forth to tell me how it was for her, thinking it might be helpful to others who have gone through things like she did or to encourage others to search for a helpful spiritual mentor/counselor.

She put it on paper, saying: After the death of my son, life was very hard. In my time of denial, confusion, sadness and despair, I stumbled upon a wonderful counselor, one who I could trust. He allowed me to cry and get angry without telling me “you will be okay” like so many of my “friends” said. He let me talk without interruption. He slowly helped me to move past many fears and my sadness, which I now call “being free. It always helped to be truthful with all shared with him.”

This person lives in a brave new world compared to where she had been. Living in the Christian faith has become even more obvious in her

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daily life as she goes about helping others inside and out of the church.

I see it as going through the Lenten season in a new way. Surely, it leads through the Passion of Christ and the shock, a pain of persecution and death itself. But when it becomes part of the journey of life for us as well, we can resonate with the death and resurrection to new life that results from having gone through the “valley of the shadow of death.”

Taking time with a counselor or spiritual mentor is getting a personalized, guided tour through those parts of life that are the most scary. In doing so, we end up like Mary Magdalene, looking through tears to see the risen Lord and being sent forth with great joy to tell others what we have seen and heard. It is a new life all over again.

The Rev. Dr. Erwin A. Brese has been a spiritual mentor of many since 1976 when he became a member of the American Association of Pastoral Counselors. He has been on the Samaritan Counseling Center’s staff since 1999.

(BPT) - The holiday season is quickly approaching and you may already be stressing about how to find items that everyone on your shopping list will love.

Sure, you could pick up a generic gift certificate or hand over some cash in a bland holiday card, but you can do better than that. This year, avoid the socks and hand soaps and make everyone wish they received a present from you with the following great gift ideas. From the rugged outdoorsy type to the chefs in the kitchen and all your loved ones in between, there’s something for everybody. * For the on-the-go coffee or tea drinker: vacuum insulated travel tumbler For the busy, always traveling relative, coworker or loved one, the Thermos Brand Vacuum Insulated Travel Tumbler is the perfect gift this holiday season.

Whether they’ll use it for running errands, during a weekend hike, or after a long meeting, this tumbler will keep liquids hot for five hours or cold for up to nine hours.

Constructed with an unbreakable stainless steel interior and exterior, this sleekly-designed tumbler stays cool to the touch with hot liquids and sweat-proof with cold liquids.

This travel tumbler is BPA-free, durable, and includes a lid that can be operated with one hand, creating the perfect on-the-go sipping experience. It’s available in stainless steel silver, teal and plum, and for the tea drinkers in your life, this travel tumbler also contains a built-in tea hook that easily holds tea bags or most loose leaf infusers. * For the outdoors enthusiast: give fishing fanatics the ultimate lure When the angler in your life reaches for their tackle box, make sure they find fishing’s latest marvel, the Rapala Scatter Rap. An ideal stocking stuffer, the Scat-

ter Rap Series flaunts classic balsa body shapes and an industry-first “Scatter Lip,” which delivers a one-of-a-kind evasive action. As the lure swims though the water, its uniquely curved lip produces an erratic sweeping motion, mimicking a spooked baitfish fleeing attack and enticing predators to strike.

The Scatter Rap Series is perfect for casting or trolling for multispecies game fish, comes in 14-to-16 tempting color patterns, and is available in four trusted Rapala silhouettes, including the Scatter Rap Crank, Scatter Rap Shad, Scatter Rap Minnow and Scatter Rap CountDown.

A can’t-miss gift for outdoors enthusiasts, the Scatter Rap will take your loved one’s on-the-water fun to a new level. * For the snacker: fuel your holiday with flavor From marathon shopping-excursionsto traveling to grandma’s house, having protein-based snacks on hand is key to maintaining your holiday stamina. With the abundance of carb-laden and fattening treats available, choosing snacks that are tasty and guilt-free is not always easy.

Treat yourself, and the snack lovers on your shopping list to lean protein snacks like Jack Link’s Turkey Jerky. Made with premium cuts of white meat turkey, it tastes great, and is naturally high in protein, low in fat, calories and carbs. Slip a bag in your purse, glove compartment or your family’s holiday stockings for a delicious and satisfying, anytime and anywhere snack.

Jack Link’s Turkey Jerky and dozens of other Jack Link’s Jerky products and flavors are available in grocery stores, mass retailers, convenience and drug stores nationwide.

For more information on these great gift ideas, visit Thermos.com, Rapala.com, JackLinks.com and Calphalon.com or connect with each brand on Facebook.

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A Christmas Carol

By Samuel Taylor Coleridge The shepherds went their hasty way, And found the lowly stable-shed Where the Virgin-Mother lay: And now they checked their eager tread, For to the Babe, that at her bosom clung, A Mother’s song the Virgin-Mother sung.

They told her how a glorious light, Streaming from a heavenly throng.

Around them shone, suspending night!

While sweeter than a mother’s song, Blest Angels heralded the Savior’s birth, Glory to God on high! and Peace on Earth.

She listened to the tale divine, And closer still the Babe she pressed: And while she cried, the Babe is mine!

The milk rushed faster to her breast: Joy rose within her, like a summer’s morn; Peace, Peace on Earth! the Prince of Peace is born.

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