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Couples renew vows at anniversary Mass

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By

ALESHA M. PRICE Staff Writer

CHARLOTTE

'Translators of the Gospel"

Martinez met Mirtha

Annual Aquinas-Luther conference on works of key

focuses

religious leaders

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4

Rolando

in a physics lab

He was the professor, and she was studying for her electrical engiclass.

neering degree. Through their acasocial acquaintance, they fell in love and were married 25 years ago. Expressing his dissent with the

demic and

Cuban government

via a letter led to

from the university and the harassment of his wife. Governhis expulsion

ment

Lay associates foster Maryfield vision of service

officials asked her to divorce her husband, and in response, she proclaimed he was a wonderful husband and father and was proud of what he

did.

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"Even through those

difficult

times, our marriage survived because

we loved each other," said Mr. who fled to Arden with his

Martinez,

Local life

is just

family and joined St. Barnabas Church. The Martinezes and more than 200 other couples with family and friends from around the diocese commemorated the sacrament of matrimony and the love that has carried them through years of joys and pains. The annual Mass celebrating 25th and 50th wedding anniversaries was held at St. Thomas Aquinas Church and was sponsored by the Family Life program of Catholic So-

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We always pray for you, that our

God may make you worthy of his calland powerfully bring to fulfillment every good purpose and every ing

effort

of faith..."

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is about love one generous, understanding, forgiving and tolerating," Bishop Curlin said. "(It is) a love that enables you both to say, 'we forgive each other,'

"Marriage

...

The

celebration included time for the couples to renew their vows and recommit themselves to one another. Bishop William G. Curlin, celebrant, spoke of the love between a husband

is

and is a love that is so unselfish that you ask your spouse what makes the other happy." Edward and Alfredia Lewandowski, parishioners at St. John Neumann Church in Charlotte, agreed that consideration of the other person is what has kept them going for 50 years. "We trust in each other," Mrs. Lewandowski said. 'You don't think of yourself; you have to think of the other person. He always

comes

first."

The bishop asked what were the elements that supply the foundation for a happy marriage and said that kindness, generosity, unselfishness, love and love transcended into acts of mercy are the attributes necessary for long-lasting marriages.

"Lots of love, hard work and com-

Photos by Alesha M. Price

Pictured top, Paul and Jo Anne Pearson from St. Eugene Church in Asheville celebrate their 25th anniversary and renew their vows at the 25th and 50th anniversary Mass at St Thomas Aquinas Church in Charlotte on Oct. 28. Pictured bottom right, Bishop William G. Curlin, celebrant and homilist, takes the bread and wine. He called the couples shining examples of marriage.

mitment

to family are

what make

a

marriage work," said John and Mary Nelis, celebrating their golden anniversary. The bishop said the level of commitment must be extensive and

anyone

"Your goal

not 50-50; it is 100100. It is much more than simply a marriage contract. You have to say totally, 'I am yours.' You have come here to celebrate the gift of a heart to a is

heart."

Anne Pearson from Asheville, who are cel-

I

can't imagine being with

else."

The

bishop said that the couples

were shining examples of what the sacrament means especially during a time

expansive.

St.

rately.

when

statistically,

more than

half of marriages end in divorce.

"You show us the triumph of ungenerous love," he said. "You

selfish,

are our heroes because the family

what is most important." Gerry Carter, director of

"We want

is

Special

Paul and Jo

Ministries, said,

Eugene

ebrate those sterling examples of marital commitment. These couples

in

ebrating 25 years of marriage, agreed, "The marriage needs to be allgiving," Mr. Pearson said. "(There should be) no jealousy, and no one can be out for himself or herself. If you give more than you expect to receive, then it will be successful. I think you have to be aware from the beginning that there will be some tough roads, and you have to work through them together, not sepa-

to cel-

are a treasure for the church, so

want our appreciation

we

to be visible.

We

are honoring those couples who have been real symbols of what family life is all

about."

Contact Staff Writer Alesha

M.

Price by calling (704) 370-3354 or email amp rice@ch a rlottediocese. o rg.


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