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Couples renew vows at anniversary Mass
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By
ALESHA M. PRICE Staff Writer
CHARLOTTE
'Translators of the Gospel"
Martinez met Mirtha
Annual Aquinas-Luther conference on works of key
focuses
religious leaders
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4
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Rolando
in a physics lab
He was the professor, and she was studying for her electrical engiclass.
neering degree. Through their acasocial acquaintance, they fell in love and were married 25 years ago. Expressing his dissent with the
demic and
Cuban government
via a letter led to
from the university and the harassment of his wife. Governhis expulsion
ment
Lay associates foster Maryfield vision of service
officials asked her to divorce her husband, and in response, she proclaimed he was a wonderful husband and father and was proud of what he
did.
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14
"Even through those
difficult
times, our marriage survived because
we loved each other," said Mr. who fled to Arden with his
Martinez,
Local life
is just
family and joined St. Barnabas Church. The Martinezes and more than 200 other couples with family and friends from around the diocese commemorated the sacrament of matrimony and the love that has carried them through years of joys and pains. The annual Mass celebrating 25th and 50th wedding anniversaries was held at St. Thomas Aquinas Church and was sponsored by the Family Life program of Catholic So-
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is about love one generous, understanding, forgiving and tolerating," Bishop Curlin said. "(It is) a love that enables you both to say, 'we forgive each other,'
"Marriage
...
The
celebration included time for the couples to renew their vows and recommit themselves to one another. Bishop William G. Curlin, celebrant, spoke of the love between a husband
is
and is a love that is so unselfish that you ask your spouse what makes the other happy." Edward and Alfredia Lewandowski, parishioners at St. John Neumann Church in Charlotte, agreed that consideration of the other person is what has kept them going for 50 years. "We trust in each other," Mrs. Lewandowski said. 'You don't think of yourself; you have to think of the other person. He always
comes
first."
The bishop asked what were the elements that supply the foundation for a happy marriage and said that kindness, generosity, unselfishness, love and love transcended into acts of mercy are the attributes necessary for long-lasting marriages.
"Lots of love, hard work and com-
Photos by Alesha M. Price
Pictured top, Paul and Jo Anne Pearson from St. Eugene Church in Asheville celebrate their 25th anniversary and renew their vows at the 25th and 50th anniversary Mass at St Thomas Aquinas Church in Charlotte on Oct. 28. Pictured bottom right, Bishop William G. Curlin, celebrant and homilist, takes the bread and wine. He called the couples shining examples of marriage.
mitment
to family are
what make
a
marriage work," said John and Mary Nelis, celebrating their golden anniversary. The bishop said the level of commitment must be extensive and
anyone
"Your goal
not 50-50; it is 100100. It is much more than simply a marriage contract. You have to say totally, 'I am yours.' You have come here to celebrate the gift of a heart to a is
heart."
Anne Pearson from Asheville, who are cel-
I
can't imagine being with
else."
The
bishop said that the couples
were shining examples of what the sacrament means especially during a time
expansive.
St.
rately.
when
statistically,
more than
half of marriages end in divorce.
"You show us the triumph of ungenerous love," he said. "You
selfish,
are our heroes because the family
what is most important." Gerry Carter, director of
"We want
is
Special
Paul and Jo
Ministries, said,
Eugene
ebrate those sterling examples of marital commitment. These couples
in
ebrating 25 years of marriage, agreed, "The marriage needs to be allgiving," Mr. Pearson said. "(There should be) no jealousy, and no one can be out for himself or herself. If you give more than you expect to receive, then it will be successful. I think you have to be aware from the beginning that there will be some tough roads, and you have to work through them together, not sepa-
to cel-
are a treasure for the church, so
want our appreciation
we
to be visible.
We
are honoring those couples who have been real symbols of what family life is all
about."
Contact Staff Writer Alesha
M.
Price by calling (704) 370-3354 or email amp rice@ch a rlottediocese. o rg.