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Serving Catholics in Western North Carolina in the Diocese of Charlotte

Volume 5 Number 43

Finding Parents For Children

By JOANN

Who Need

•

August

23,

1996

Families

KEANE

Associate Editor

MOSCOW — Natasha and Galina cam-

burst into tears at the sight of the era-toting Americans.

No

disrespect in-

tended towards their visitors from the West, it's simply a gut reaction to the

unknown.

A

matron dries their

tears,

whispers soothing words and teary faces transform with beaming smiles.

The Russian children hope the photo will be their ticket to a better life.

On this summer day, dozens of scrubbed and shiny faces offer their best smile for the camera. The photographer is really a Catholic Social Services Worker from the Diocese of Charlotte, snapping wildly to build a file of adoptable children. Cherub youngsters flash toothy smiles. The children

may

derstand the foreign words that

not un-

fill

their

something inherent tells them photo may reach just the right fam-

ears, but this ily.

Preschool Natasha and Galina are perplexed yet intrigued. Like children anywhere, they long for a loving parental

touch. But the orphanage and

served emotional environment

know. They've been

re-

they

told of a better

life,

but can't quite visualize what

be

its

is all

it

might Photo courtesy Catholic Social Services

like.

Last month, Elizabeth Thurbee, director of Catholic Social Services

boarded a Russia-bound plane with Carol Mererriecks,

CSS

coordinator for

Vadim Philipou and Svetlana Orekchovo, 6, residents of Zouevo Orphanage near Moscow seem enlightened by The two Russian orphans hope to be adopted. Catholic Social Services through an arrangement with the Moscow Region of Adoptions is one of seven international agencies working to place Russian orphans from this region of Five-year-old

a

visiting kitty.

the

New

—

—

Federation.

International Adoptions for their second

orphanages CSS has come to know over the past five years. Their misvisit to the

exposure to the children for whom they've been asked to find American homes.

Thanks to an arrangement with the Moscow Region of Adoptions, CSS is one sion: first-hand

of seven agencies

residents are

the diocesan social services

agency holds a double-edged sword. The challenge of international adoption

im-

the faint of heart,"

is

1

6 years of age.

The babies are easy placements, the older children are more difficult, riskier. As orphans reach their preteen years, their fate is bleak.

Since the initial 1994 placement, CSS has entwined 21 Russian children with American families. This time

Thurbee returns with a larger mission: finding homes for 59 adoptable orphans,

MIKE KROKOS

is

hard work and there

many

risks.

Any

adoption beyond

in-

Name

Editor

SALISBURY the legacy of the

— Ed Murphy hopes

newly created endow-

ment that bears his name serves the faithful for generations to come. Further, he offers his efforts as a challenge for oth-

fancy brings a child with emotional is-

ers in the diocese to replicate.

sues that must be

At the same time, Thurbee

50 years as an active member of Sacred Heart Church. From serving on the origi-

bears witness to the unconditional love

nal parish council to singing in the choir,

between a parent and child.

With that in mind, CSS encourages family counseling before placement and after the arrival of the newest family

Murphy and late wife Eleanor "were

member. As Thurbee and

collection,"

are immeasurable.

to

By

adoption isn't for

immense, but the rewards

region. Collectively, the

Sacred Heart Parishioner Creates Church Endowment

able. "International

are

Of

newborn

is

mense, but the rewards are immeasur-

international adoption

Thurbee believes CSS is the only United States agency with connections to place Russian orphans from this region of the New Federation.

CSS works with four orphanages

Moscow

has been called to

says Thurbee. "It

the seven agencies,

in the

And

to

collaborate in international adoptions.

CSS

The challenge of

worldwide selected by these particular Russian officials

the tallest order fill.

dealt with."

a partner in the process,

provide counseling services and stay in contact with families for as long as needed.

Many times, sheer logistics pose staff

Murphy has

spent the better part of

we were

all sorts

a

Murphy

little

said. "In those days,

church and you did ev-

Now, the parishioner is giving back to the Salisbury parish

has established the

in

and

his

home

New England as well. Murphy

church

attempt maneuvers through the red tape

Educational Trust

$428,000.

Grants to Sacred Heart will be as the Eleanor C. Murphy Educational Trust Scholarship, and grants to Holy Name will be known as the Yates-

known

Murphy Educational "The reason was

my

Edward M. Murphy Endowment Fund to

benefit both Sacred Heart and Holy

Trust Scholarship.

for the

endowment

desire to help people

assist directly,"

Murphy

I

couldn't

said.

Church was the vehicle I could use the things

erything."

the greatest challenge as families-to-be

See Children, page 6

in-

of ways."

"We taught Sunday School for 20something odd years, and I took up the

volved in

Church, his childhood parish in Bedford, Mass. The endowment increases the number of diocesan endowments to 24 and the total assets of the Foundation of the Roman Catholic Diocese of Charlotte to a market value of $2,439,000 as of June 30. The current Murphy endowment totals more than

New

"It is

I

"The to

do

wanted."

hoped

that this little bit will

help the single parents of this world whose spouses run away. They are the people who need it," he added. "They

See Endowment, page 13

2 The Catholic

News

& Herald

August 23, 1996

Summer

Youth Group Spends Week Of

By JIMMY

In

Appalachia

ROSTAR

Staff Writer

GREENVILLE, N.C.

— For some, —

was the tragedy of poverty and natural disaster. Others say it was the heartwarming sense of community. Whether it

a particular incident or an appreciative

many special encounters highweek in late July for 41 teenand adults who represented the

resident,

lighted a

agers

Greenville Catholic Youth Organization during a Passionist Volunteers ministry

program in West Virginia.

The Passionist Volunteers program was founded to facilitate relief where environmental pressures often mar communities. Such pressures in West Virginia's Preston County poverty,

—

and, often, broken an indelible mark in the minds of many youth group memb e s r "My eyes are really open," says Stephanie Ragland, 18, who along with her younger sister, Jennifer, 16, learned much about a region in which family members once lived.

"The kids that was the worst part," adds Courtney Burch, 15, of residents living in one poverty-stricken area.

"Little kids walked around barefoot, even though they had already stepped on things like glass and pieces of metal."

The youth group's visit to the region, its second in as many years, was financed and supported by Greenville's St. Peter and St. Gabriel parishes, local businesses, sponsors and the commu-

decay

spiritedness

—

left

—

a ravaged neighborhood. Flood-ru-

ined furniture, household items and carpeting littered front yards along

members of the

selves.

During their ministry, the youth group separated into small work crews. Many helped with flood relief in nearby Monongalia County, a region recently devastated by mudslides, washouts and rushing water. Other groups remained in Preston County, tending to those whose needs ranged from

the gravel streets.

mined youths piled the heaps into Army Corps of Engineers' frontloading tractors and made their

way through

borhood lay a home plagued by flooding for the third time in a decade. This time, the family living

simple conversation. LaCarrubba says the latter is as important a ser-

there finally acknowledged defeat.

vice as the physical labor.

residents in a

Work it that

was, but

was of

it

many

Youth group members joined

time

to,

unteers'

the best kind: that

which makes the lives of others a little brighter. With that realization,

tain in the street.

youth minister Joe Blick says the group answered the call of Christ.

He hopes that the teens will con-

the destruction.

tinue to answer the call in their

is

CYO members

Greenville

basement

after flooding

me

home

materialistic

with us."

The GCYO' s youth ministers concur that the project was an especially

were ready

pull together,

One

to

move on

do

this

job quickly."

afternoon, several smaller

Passionist Volunteers build a porch onto in Preston County, W.Va.

Raftings for

tip toctk ai

Youth Organization

Sunday:

her compassion.

19-23

2 Thessalonians 1 1-5, 11-12 Matthew 23: 13-22

Tuesday:

2 Thessalonians 2: 3a, 14-17 Matthew 23: 23-26

Wednesday:

2 Thessalonians 3: 6-10, 16-18 Matthew 23: 27-32

Preston County for five years. She and her staff spend eight weeks each sum-

which typifies ApThose two months involve guiding volunteers from around the

Isaiah 22: 15,

Romans 11: 33-36 Matthew 16: 13-20 Monday:

there in an area

palachia.

country, although LaCarrubba visits the

Her

Pastoral Center in South River, N.J.,

is

a

year-round undertaking.

Both within the youth group and across the region in which the volunteers

worked, the bond of family and community yielded a spirit of optimism. By including themselves in that spirit and in helping to repair it when they could

—

In October of 1954,

Pope Pius XII

observance of the Queenship of Mary. The memorial instituted the universal

the high dignity of Mary as queen of heaven, angels and men. Mary is queen in that she excels all other saints and shares in a subordinate and analogous way

Thursday:

Jeremiah

Mark

6:

17-19 1 17-29 :

commemorates

Friday:

1

Corinthians

1

17-25

Matthew

23: 1-13

Christ's rule. In this role

she

is

described

in

terms

of mercy and grace. The memorial is Aug. 22.

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© 1996 CNS Graphics

when they discovered

that the girl

and her family were taken in by friends.

Some of the volunteers saw trie girl with her family the next day at a flood relief center. They watched in thanks a resilient,

laughing person, joyful with life.

Indeed, perseverance is a necessary

Saturday:

life

—

meaning to what we were doing. were really helping people."

We

at the

^ugiwt 25-31

to

hope,

PUT YOUR GIFTS

a home

spent in the region has not desensitized

occupation as director of the program, based in the Passionist Eastern Province

to

groups working across the flood zone reunited to lead a cleanup force through

Queenship of Mary

—

this scene was most poignant. But they soon learned that out of despair can come

the week' s

"I saw, like with the floods, how can be unfair," says Jarratt Burch, 16. "I saw the people just try to go on; they didn't complain about anything.

They still took the time to thank us.

"It can be easy to forget what we saw once we get back ... in our normal lives. But like with the girl I saw I think I'll always remember that. It gave

"We

as well as helping at local care facilities

area regularly throughout the year.

—

For many volunteers who remained solemn, even prayerful,

quality in Appalachia.

new challenges," he says. "I think it made everybody more (enthusiastic) to see the fact that we could get together,

extensive. In addition

LaCarrubba has been going

of a friend.

unteers shared an appreciation for their

seek

of Greenville Catholic

and

positive one. Edwards, 22, says the vol-

they touched.

Photos courtesy

tractor

A young girl, over-

as this transpired

how

and petty we can be," says Mark Edwards, an assistant youth minister. "I hope that we don't just go to West Virginia and have that (awareness) while we're there. I hope that we take some of that back

realize

dozens of job sites, volunteers spend each summer assisting in vacation Bible schools, literacy and recreation programs, and a lunch program for children,

mer

clean a mud-covered devastated northern West

Virginia.

to

and outreach centers.

"She always comes up with a way to get things done," says youth minister Randy Kukoly about Katie LaCarrubba, director of the Passionist Volunteers.

"The nicest thing you could say about her is that she doesn't judge anybody.

For us it's easy to judge. You have to have the whole picture, and she knows the whole story." He adds that her time

A

come with crying, fell into the arms

daily lives, truly see Christ in all

people and discover some things about themselves.

The experience "really made

cause, sal-

dump trucks arrived to sweep away

the range of the Passionist Vol-

work

common

vaging what survived and assembling the rest into a rugged moun-

agree

purpose and for the people whose lives

Although pressing needs often dicwhich projects volunteers devote

the area.

In one corner of that neigh-

nity.

tate

With mindful re-

spect for the residents, the deter-

home repairs and improvements to

joblessness, ecological disaster, industrial

GCYO be-

Passionist Volunteers them-

the

came

Corinthians 26-31 1

Matthew

1

23: 14-30

Service of Others

Consider

PRIESTHOOD in

The Diocese of Charlotte Contact Father Frank O'Rourke Vocation Director

1621 Dilworth Road East

28203 334-2283 (704)

Charlotte, N.C.

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The Catholic News

August 23, 1996

Franciscan Sisters Celebrate 50th Anniversary Of Religious Profession

Charlotte Catholic

Athletes Garner

Academic Awards CHARLOTTE — Several

By PAUL FREDETTE Correspondent

MAGGIE VALLEY

— Even

athletic

teams

at

Charlotte Catholic

High School were honored by the Pepsi-Cola Scholar Athlete program

the

swirling mountain mists, brooding storm clouds and steady drizzle could not

for excellence in academics.

flection Center

The following teams received awards for high team Grade Point Average; Volleyball: 3.644;

Sisters Jean Linder

Cheerleading: 3.597; Girls' Track:

Francisan Sisters of Tiffin, Ohio, with

3.590; Girls' Basketball: 3.533; Boys' Tennis: 3.524; Girls' Tennis: 3.498;

dampen

the festive spirit of the

Golden

Jubilee at Living Waters Catholic Re-

on August 12. Franciscan and Francine Sartor celebrated their 50th anniversary as nearly 100 relatives and friends. the family lee

Mass

members at St.

Among

Boys' Swimming: 4.464; Girls' Cross Country: 3.461; Girls' Swimming: 3.453; Baseball: 3.360; Girls' Soccer:

attending the Jubi-

Margaret Church was

3.265; Boys' Cross Country: 3.199; Wrestling: 3.156; Boys' Basketball:

Sister Francine' s 96-year-old mother,

Loretta Sartor, who traveled from Sandusky, Ohio, for the occasion.

Archbishop John F. Donoghue, a long-time friend of the jubilarians and former ordinary of the Diocese of Charlotte, presided at the jubilee liturgy.

Bishop William G. Curlin concelebrated with clergy from around the diocese.

Msgr. John T. McSweeney, rector of the Basilica of St. Lawrence, delivered the homily.

At the conclusion of the liturgy, Bishop Curlin thanked the sisters for all they do for the Diocese of Charlotte: "In your 50 years of religious life, your sacrifice has built a bridge to walk upon on our way to the Lord."

Fifteen

In addition, 160 student athletes

received individual academic awards Photo by PAUL

Pictured left to right: Archbishop John F. Donoghue, Franciscan and Francine Sartor and Bishop William G. Curlin.

were there for the occasion, among whom were two blood of the jubilarians: Sister Jean's

older sister, Franciscan Sister Helen Linder, and Sister Francine' s younger Franciscan Sister Dionne Sartor.

Franciscan Sister Jane Schmenk,

sister,

director of Living Waters, says she

is

delighted to have both Sister Jean and

on staff with her. "They are beautiful people to live with and work with," she says with relish, adding that she had prayed they would return to Living Waters once their duties elsewhere had been completed.

For Sister Jean Linder, those duSister Francine

Sisters

RCIA At

diocese from 1987 to 1994. Then Bishop

John

F.

Donoghue

also recruited Sister

Jean to help implement the decrees of the diocesan synod. Of those years, she remembers most fondly her work with

from The College of St. Francis in Joliet, 111., and her M.A. in English from the University of Notre Dame.

"That was always so energizing," she says, her eyes gleaming, "and the people were wonderful to work with."

GPA..

St.

Therese Church

—

RCIA

meets Thursdays at 7 p.m. at St. Therese Church. Simply come, or call the Faith Formation Office, (704) 664-7762.

Franciscan Sister Francine Sartor is

the daughter of the late Carroll and

Loretta Sartor of Sandusky, Ohio. She is

one of nine children,

six of

whom were

present at the Jubilee celebration in ad-

Franciscan Sister Jean Linder

dition to her mother.

Franciscan Sister Jean Linder, daughter of John and Anna Linder of

community of Franciscan

Payne, Ohio, entered the Francisan Sisters of Tiffin, Ohio on Aug. 12, 1946.

She is one of 1 1 children. A twin sister,

irony in recalling that her

Rosemary

my

Perrine, presently resides in

Payne, Ohio. Sister Jean has served her Franciscan community twice as president, first from 1970-74, and again from

From 1978-82, she served as a member and placement coordi-

Tiffin,

Ohio on Aug.

to religious life

She entered the Sisters of

12, 1946.

own

thoughts for a long time: "I prayed for older sister, telling

and prayerful she was, and what a good sister she would make."

Her own strengths enabled her to in Tiffin for 12 years before

After completing her work as Di-

to

as a

rector of Living Waters Catholic Reflec-

ter staff,

1974-78, and Director of Planning for the

tion Center. Sister Jean received her

CalLedral

Ck UTCi

B.A.

member

Franciscan

HisWll

F.

"A valid Will stands as a continuing expression of our concern for loved ones, as

well as an ongoing commit-

ment to the Church and community in which we

In Yours.

the live."

Bishop William G. Curlin

ou can express your commitment to your Church by making a bequest to the Diocese of Charlotte or to your parish. Simply have the following

Rector: The Very Rev. Paul Gary Parochial Vicars: Rev. Eric Houseknecht

statement included in your Will:

Thomas Williamson

Confession: Saturday 4-5 p.m. or by appointment

at the

Remember

22'

Sunday Masses: Saturday Vigil 5:30 p.m.

Sunday 8:15, 9:30, 10:45 a.m., 12:15 p.m.

Weekday Masses: Monday-Friday 7:30 a.m., 12:10 p.m.

Saturday: Rosary 8:45 a.m.; Mass 9 a.m.; Novena 9:30 a.m.

Reverend John 1993

of the Living Waters Cen-

she ministered

"/ leave to the

Charlotte (or (or

Roman

Catholic Diocese of

parish, city) the

sum of$

percent of the residue of my estate) for

religious, educational

Pattison,

August 28 Reverend Henry J. Becker, 1992

Sister's infirmary in Tiffin, Ohio.

St PalricL

1621 Dilworth Road East Charlotte, N.C. 28203 (704) 334-2283

Reverend Bertrand 1992

Maggie Valley to care for Father William Murphy, elderly pastor of St.

present responsibilities as assistant di-

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July 17

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coming

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mmttljs of 3M]J anh (August

God how good and how strong,

care for the elderly at St. Francis

tfye

fotjo passeit afaag bitrmg

was not the focus of her

1982-86.

rector of Planning for the Diocese of

fallnftring

vocation

council

nator of her community.

Please prag tav

She finds

involved being vicar for women religious for the Diocese of Charlotte,

Rev.

3.3

Franciscan Sister Francine Sartor

parish councils throughout the diocese.

Margaret's until his death in 1990. Before returning to Maggie Valley in 1992

I

minimum

Jean Linder

Charlotte in 1994, she assumed her

ties

for achieving a

FREDETTE

MOORESVILLE

members of the Franciscan

Sisters of Tiffin, Ohio,

sisters

3.132.

its

and charitable works!'

For more information on how to make a Will that works, contact Jim Kelley, Diocese of Charlotte, Office of Development, 1524 East Morehead St., Charlotte, NC 28207, (704) 331-1709 or 377-6871.

Parsons,

4 The Catholic News

& Herald

August 23, 1996

The Pope Speaks

Tro-Life Corner 1 £

Pope John Paul II

Hundreds Of Tourists Hear, But Don't See, Pope

m

VATICAN CITY

J^any thanks

to those who signed postcards urging Congress to override the President's veto of the Partial-Birth Abortion Ban Act. More than 30 million cards were ordered for

Catholic churches around the country.

Congress is being flooded with cards! There is still time to join this important effort.

Partial-birth abortions performed on children in the process of being born are more like infanticide. This brutal practice must stop.

Please write a personal note to your Representative and two Senators (U.S. House of Representatives, Washington, D.C. 20515-0010; U.S. Senate, Washington, D.C. 20510-0001).

converging on

ists

they would get to his

'Kes^ect Life Office

'Diocese

of Charlotte

(704)331-1720

B

ing English. His re-

marks in Polish, however, were longer than his main talk in Ital-

Instead, they listened as Vatican

who showed up

at his

summer

residence south of

12 noon Knights of Columbus Fourth Degree Exemplification Embassy Suites Hotel

Castel Gandolfo.

greetings to the English-speak-

he

Aug. 15

feast of

in the square called

Mary's assumption, a could share

said, to all believers that they, too,

in Christ's victory

Tomorrow

the church will celebrate the Assumption of the Blessed Virgin Mary into the glory of heaven.

Mary shared by

journey of she shares, body and soul, in the fullness of his eternal glory. From her place in heaven, may she guide us, amid the trials and difficulties of our earthly pilgrimage, toward the glorious desChrist her Son, so

The pope's voice booming attention to the

over death.

tiny

which

is

faith in the earthly

now

Upon you and your famiinvoke God's abundant blessings ofjoy

ours in Christ.

"Preserved from original sin in order to be the virginal temple of the incarnation of the Son of God,

lies I cordially

Mary became

Vatican Says Pope's Abdominal CAT Scan Results Were Normal VATICAN CITY (CNS) Pope John Paul

the great sign

Mary

human

which shines

he

was

light

on the

being," the pope said.

raised Jesus, stayed with

public ministry and

at the foot

him during

his

of the cross during

said.

—

left his

summer

II

residence Aug. 14 to go to a nearby

hospital for an abdominal

CAT

scan and "all results

almost total communion with the destiny of Jesus could not express itself except by also

were normal," a Vatican spokesman

including participation in his final glory," Pope John

press office, confirmed Aug. 15 that the pope went to

Paul said.

Regina Apostolorum Hospital in Albano, near the summer residence at Castel Gandolfo. "The situation is completely normal," the spokesman said. Officials at the hospital said the pope arrived about 5 p.m. and left less than an hour later after undergoing the test.

clearer

way

that this

That is why the Catholic Church proclaims that she was assumed, body and soul, into heaven, he said.

As he does at his general audiences, the pope summarized his remarks in several languages, includ-

said. Passionist

Father Ciro Benedettini, vice director of the Vatican

Guest Column Father John C. Aurilia

Being and Doing: Keeping A Christian Perspective

Patrick Cathedral Charlotte St.

The reading of the Gospels makes us aware of our multiple identity. There is a Thomas, a Peter, a John, a Zacchaeus, a Nicodemus in each of us. Usually, they do not coexist at the same time, thank God! Martha and Mary, however, seem to coexist in us beautifully on our Christian journey. We all need to find a good balance between being and doing, acting and contemplating. Most Americans have the notion

The Cathouc

•

the truth

trol,

we find that we are surrounded by mystery. In our we attach

quest for answers and search for meaning,

be

ourselves to whatever promises to sat-

that being

Most Reverend William G. Curlin

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We all need a good

more im-

balance between being

and doing, acting and

Some changes may occur to make this bal-

contemplating.

yy

ance possible.

Our

action and contemplation should give prior-

A

good friend of mine once said to me, "My daily Lectio Divina was not really working until it became His Lectio Divina."

Devotions also become expressions of our being.

There

God.

is

an innate drive in

human

beings to worship.

We instinctively know that there is something or someone

who

is

ultimately responsible for the

way

things

awareness may be. It is an effect of our profound sense of incompleteness and

are,

however real or vague

vulnerability.

We feel

deep deThrough devices such as advertising media and political campaigns, our fears and anxieties are artificially stimulated. Then products or programs are offered to relieve them.

But the relief doesn't last long. It is constantly replaced by new worries and ways to control them, as the cycle goes skilled in manipulating those sires

our "doing" should be a normal way of expressing our "being."

ity to

deep curiosity and hunger.

We live in a culture that is highly

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Because of a three-day holiday, the pope skipped his weekly helicopter trip back to the Vatican for the Wednesday audience. Instead, he led the midday An-

"The Christian people have understood in an ever

August 31

ian.

Rome.

his death,

Bishop William G. Curlin will take part in the following events:

Publisher:

Radio broad-

cast over loudspeakers the pope's short talk to those

destiny of every

piscopal Calendar

tour-

Square Aug. 14 thought see Pope John Paul II by attending

weekly general audience.

sign,

The

— Hundreds of

(CNS)

St. Peter's

that

a personal fragility in the pres-

ence of the unpredictability of the world in relation to

and

insecurities.

on and on.

It is clear that our being and doing must be solbased on God as our priority and on the expressions of our being, which we call devotions. What makes these two aspects interlocking is the reality of faith. The Decree on the Apostolate of the Laity (Vatican II, 4) states, "Only the light of faith and by meditating on the Word of God can one always and everywhere recognize God in whom we live, and move,

idly

and have our being. (Acts 17, 28) Father John C. Aurilia is pastor of Immaculate Conception Church in Hendersonville.

Light

One Candle

Father Thomas

The Answer This let

Is

Now

the day the

is

it.

How many times have we heard or words from the ancient

psalmists? Not yesterday, not tomorrow,

but today. This

God,

to love

the day.

is

To know God,

to experience

His Presence

with your whole being, this ning of

life

Many

— and

it is

is

now.

dreaming like Barbra Streisand's sad song about "The Way We Were."

Others get caught up in the future, dreaming about the way things will be past,

"when we retire" or "when the kids grow

Some even

The dying

man

said noth-

What does it look like, this present moment that the Lord has made? Roy

tightly to his

deeply and fully in the present

approached, the

in a hospital.

patient

A

nurse escorted a

tired,

anxious

young man to the bedside of an elderly man. "Your son is here," she whispered to the patient. She had to repeat the words

man waited. When she finished her task,

He was heavily

sedated because of

words of sym-

to offer

her. "Who was The startled nurse replied, "I thought he was your father."

"No, he was not my father," he answered.

"I never saw him before in my life."

"Then why didn't you say something when I took you to him?" asked

chair next to the bedside. All through the

people of hope in what is yet to come.

But nothing is more important for us than

began

pathy to the young man.

rooted in what has

It is

the nurse

the pain of his heart attack and he dimly

is

before.

died.

The young man

several times before the patient's eyes

important also to be a

It is

of our Christian heritage, knowing that

As dawn

opened.

come

miss the present life. important that we be conscious

son.

released the lifeless hand he had been holding. Then he went to notify the nurse. While the nurse did what was necessary, the young

what we are now

get so caught up in the

after-life that they

ing as he held

Popkins tells a story recounted in "The Caring Question" by Donald and Nancy Loving Tubesing. It happened one night

saw the young man standing outside the oxygen tent. He reached out his hand and the young man tightly wrapped his fingers around it, squeezing a message of encouragement. The nurse brought a

up."

McSweeney

hope.

the begin-

of us get caught up in the

J.

moment.

to live

Lord has made;

us rejoice and be glad in

recited these

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August 23, 1996

night the

young man

sat

holding the old

man's hand, offering gentle words of

But he interrupted

that

man?" he

asked.

He replied, "He needed his son and his son just wasn't here. When I realized he was too sick to tell whether or not I was his son, I knew how much he needed me."

That, my friend, is a scene from a day the Lord has made.

On a graffiti-filled wall, someone wrote, "Christ is the answer!"

Somebody else scribbled underneath,

"What

the question?"

is

On

this

day the Lord has made, the question is this: When will you welcome the Son of God into your life? If you can't rejoice in answering "Now!" maybe you can't really answer at all.

For a free copy of the Christopher News Note, "Thoughts to Brighten Your Day, " send a stamped, self-addressed envelope to The Christophers, 12 East

—

48th Street, New York, N.Y. 10017.

Father Thomas J. McSweeney is

di-

rector of The Christophers.

the nurse.

Family Matters Eileen

By The Seaside My family and

For one week each summer, we

were anchored in a small rented motor boat somewhere off the Jersey shore. With plenty of bait, a fish net, two crab lines and a white plastic bucket, we were ready for an afternoon of crabbing. and

I

I

return to the sea at

Cape May Point

to

Marx many blessings God has show-

dren listened to the news reports and,

although they didn't understand much of what was being reported,

be refreshed and restored. And it is "so cool" to follow a simpler way of life

ered

the years.

As my 4-year-old daughter, Teresa,

seems simpler until I see the beach bags, bicycles, beach chairs, coolers and boogie boards cascading from our minivan's rear door each time it's

gently lowered one of the crab lines

opened.

store for the

wonderful to retreat to a world where sand castles, sea shells and sailboats fill our days. The complex world we have left behind and all that it values seem insignificant against the backdrop

morning paper and coffee, we saw the photographs of grieving families on a Long Island beach whose lives would never be the same because they were personally touched by the horror and hate

of this majestic ocean.

of our world.

into the bay,

we

felt the delicate

pluck

of a crab's claw on our string, signaling

had taken the bait. Slowly we pulled up the line as my 6-year-old son, Bobby, readied his net to scoop up this feisty blue crustacean. "I got the crab, Dad!" he yelled at such a pitch that any sea creature within a mile of our boat must have it

taken cover.

As my husband,

Joe,

dropped the

crab into the bucket, Teresa turned to

me

with a look of genuine delight and said,

"This

is

so cool,

Mom."

—

at least

it

It is

Our time

at the

beach was special

year because two families whom we have known since our children were infants were also renting bungalows nearby. As the shrieks of seagulls and of our children at play became indistinguishable, it was easy to reflect on the this

on

our families over

their questions began.

black box?

But when we biked to the local general

people should

ing for sea shells, not for bodies and

black boxes.

We first learned of this terror in the sky and sea as we were watching an Olympic preview program two nights before we left for our vacation. My chil-

"What

is

a

are they checking

people's luggage?" Bobby asked.

"What is luggage?" he continued.

"Did it hurt when the people died?"

Teresa asked. "I'm going to ask God to send the people back to earth as humans after he sees them in heaven," told me before bed that night.

"I'm going to tell God to give the people a hug," Teresa said.

Bobby

Summer is

a season when come to the beach search-

Why

I

told

my

children that this plane

something that's very unusual; things like this almost never happen and that's why everyone is talking about it so much. I wanted to tell the families and Flight 800 friends of the victims of crash

is

TWA

See Marx, page

1

Family Reflections Andrew

Friendships

And Marriage

other relationships with people of the

our Pre Cana sessions the issue of friends of the opposite sex comes

Often

up.

The

in

egalitarian ideals of today's cul-

beyond the sensitive insecurities of love relationships. Having friends of the opposite sex can be a strain on a marriage. But, with honesty, understanding, trust and common sense, couples can establish for themselves

ture are often far

"rules of the road" that can help

problems

manage

that arise.

Marriage is a covenant in which we promise our fidelity. How that fidelity is lived out depends on the needs of the

However,

for either

of us to provide all the companionship of the opposite sex the other needs is a task that

we

cannot do well.

opposite sex to help us grow.

We

need

To do

this

Terri Lyke

struggle. esty

and

Hon-

may mean

boundaries.

ship must not continue or be

Analyze Your Intentions First we must be honest

— with

We

need to

ourselves and our spouse.

ask ourselves, really about?"

"What

is this

friendship

Do I receive residual ben-

need to withhold from my spouse? We may rationalize that our spouse is jealous and would misconstrue the "true nature" of the relationship.

However, we must recognize that such I

feel a

feelings are clear signs that

ing

we

are go-

beyond the appropriate boundaries

of respect for our marriage. able thing about honesty

A is

remarkthat

it

toward growth and understanding, though not always without a stretches us

of our marriage.

Finally,

fidelity

and remain faithful to our marriage, we need to establish and respect certain

efits that

Respect And Boundaries

individual couple.

&

we need

to

be sensi-

that

tive to the perceptions of others.

the other friend-

Marriage, though it may seem like a private arrangement, is a public

mm

vJ

office that speaks about us. Improper appearances, though having innocent intentions, also violate appropriate boundaries of respect for

km

limited to what

we can honestly share with our spouse. When it

the marriage.

comes to friendships of the opposite

sex,

there should be no secrets.

Secondly,

Relationships of the opposite sex that enrich us are those that

we need to know

the in-

tentions of our friends of the opposite sex. Our intentions may be honorable; however, we may find ourselves in the grip of an agenda that means no good for the marriage. Though it is not always

know

broader insights on our relationships with each other. Respecting the boundaries of our marriages does not neces-

necessary that friends of the opposite sex

sarily preclude loving friendships

befriend our spouse,

those of the opposite sex.

it

is

essential that

they honor the marriage and recognize that

our best interest

is

in the well-being

their

proper place. With honesty, good intentions and respectful appearances, friends of the opposite sex give us deeper and

It

with

just raises

the standard so that such friendships are rare indeed.

6 The Catholic

News

& Herald

August 23, 1996

Catholic Social Services Helps Find from page

Homes

1

of the former Communist stronghold. Though a March 1995 Russian law eased adoption restrictions, the process can a paper chase. Yet, CSS is there to lend a hand.

For a family plagued by the constraints of conventional adoption, international adoption may be the route to parenthood. Older parents are often turned away from adoption agencies. Single parents make little progress in the adoption process. For those still clinging to the need to nurture,

become

the international route

is

gaining appeal.

Today a Russian orphan is declared free for adoption in a more expedient manner. This, coupled with the obligatory paper trail CSS homes studies and INH clearance means a potential parent could be nurturing their new child in six to nine months. A prospective parent with a com-

—

—

pleted

home

study could have their bundle of joy by Christ-

mas.

Formore information on international adoptions, Carol Meyerriecks, Catholic Social Services Coordinator of International Adoptions, (704) 255-0146.

The

children, pictured clockwise, are: llona Kotchowlaev with brother Stas, Vidnoza Veronica,

baby Ivan Kouzin, Andrei Netchaev and Sergei Stabrouski, Alexander Milov.

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The Catholic News

& Herald 7

rLnterta in merit The following are home videocassette reviews from the U.S. Catholic Conference Office for Film and Broadcasting.

Each videocassette is available on VHS format. Theatrical movies on video have a U.S. Catholic Conference classification and Motion Picture Association of America rating.

All reviews indicate the appropriate age group for the

Vid OS (2

video audience.

to Heaven 2" (1996) Animated musical sequel in which

"All

Dogs Go

two canine angels (voices of Charlie Sheen and Dom DeLuise), in San Francisco to retrieve Gabriel's horn, help a

Catholic Conference classification is A-III adults. The Motion Picture Association of America rating is PG13 parents are strongly cautioned that some material may be inappropriate for children under 13.

—

—

runaway boy return home while outwitting a devilish duo. Directed by Paul Sabella and Larry Leker, the songs are

"Mulholland Falls" (1996)

sprightly but the animation often looks

washed out

in this

rescue

The U.S. Catholic Confer-

tale.

shallow search-and-

—

ence classification is A-I general patronage. The Motion Picture Association of America rating is G general audiences.

—

CNS photo from

"Cimarron" (1960) Big, sprawling and generally le-

Western from the Edna Ferber novel stretching from the 1889 Oklahoma land rush to World War I tells the story of a would-be rancher (Glenn Ford) who becomes a crusading newspaper editor but alienates his wife (Maria Schell) by fighting crime and bigotry instead of getting rich. Director Anthony thargic

—

The Fan

De

Niro "Absolutely Scary"

Of Deranged Fan

In Portrayal

NEW YORK (CNS) — A knife

salesman's descent into criminal insanity is tracked in the nasty thriller, "The

Fan"

(TriStar).

Fanatical San Francisco Giants

fan Gil Renard (Robert

psyched

De

Niro)

is

of a call

nocent victims with him.

Director Tony Scott turns in a technically well-made film, but one more concerned with pulpy thrills than gleaning insights from a savage man's furious

Mann scores on the big action scenes but

ment conspiracy

is

A-I

— general patron-

Not rated by the Motion Picture Association of America.

age.

demise.

melodrama

"Mary

viewers will be offended by

Reilly" (1996) which the timorous

Lee Tamahori's

is

styl-

rich in period atmo-

sphere but the weak plot is derivative of 1974's "Chinatown" without the benefit of its intelligent screenplay.

Recurring brutal violence, several bedroom scenes with nudity, frequent profanity and minimal rough language.

The U.S. Catholic Conference clas-

—

A-IV adults, with resThe Motion Picture Assoof America rating is R re-

sification

is

ervations. ciation

—

stricted.

"Wagon Master"

(1950)

Lyric Western about a

Mormon

wagon train whose leader (Ward Bond) hires a pair of genial cowboys (Ben Johnson and Harry Carey

them

Many

a brief affair, a

to conceal the facts in

the case. Director

The U.S. Catholic Conference

classification

Connelly) with

1950s Los Angeles detective (Nick Nolte) runs up against a covert govern-

bores with the domestic soap operatics.

Stylized frontier violence and marital rifts.

girl (Jennifer

whom he had once had

ish

Reuters

Thora Birch and Vincent Kartheiser star as bickering siblings searching for their dad in the wilderness of "Alaska." The U.S. Catholic Conference classification is A-ll adults and adolescents. The Motion Picture Association of America rating is PG parental guidance suggested.

—

Investigating the bizarre murder

Jr.) to

guide

to Utah, encountering along the

way

(Wesley Snipes), has been traded to the

well as the

little

victim of an abused childhood (Julia

a broken-down patent medicine show (Alan Mowbray and Joanne Dru), a band of Navaho Indians and some vi-

Giants for a cool $40 million.

Having followed Bobby's career for over a decade while his own ca-

boy (Andrew J. Ferchland) and terrorizes his kidnap victim. However, the movie

Roberts) finds safety working as a cham-

cious killers on the run from a posse.

that his favorite baseball

player, star hitter

Bobby Rayburn

—

reer withered and divorce took his

boy from under

his roof

little

— Gil be-

comes increasingly agitated when Bobby goes into a batting slump and is upstaged by another Giants hitter, Juan Primo (Benecio Del Toro).

Knowing Bobby was Juan wears the number

upset that

on his uniform which was Bobby's lucky number with previous teams Gil corners Juan with a demand he surrender the number to Bobby. When rebuffed, he stabs Juan to death.

Soon after, Bobby's hitting dramatically improves, and Gil, who has been secretly stalking Bobby and his young son Sean (Brandon Hammond), wants Bobby to thank him for suppos-

—

1 1

—

edly reviving the slugger's career. Instead, Gil discovers

Bobby

is

sorry

Juan died and only sees baseball as a game, nothing more.

This sets the stage for Gil to take revenge on a player he now has only contempt for. By snatching Sean and insisting

Bobby

publicly acknowledge

him, Gil intends to go out in a blaze of glory even if it means taking more in-

the copious use of four-letter

way

words

Gil mistreats his

never presents Gil's behavior as remotely acceptable. The three violent scenes are intense but brief, conveying

how

de-

ranged Gil has become in severing all ties with reality.

De Niro is absolutely scary in his portrayal, yet

manages

Dour

as

some of mind

to extract

sympathy for his crazed state when he can no longer cope with his personal and professional failures. Snipes plays well off of him, going from self-

bermaid for kindly Dr. Jekyll (John Malkovich in the dual role) until his murderous associate Mr. Hyde turns up, provoking in her both dread and an unwanted physical attraction. Directed by Stephen Frears, this version of the Stevenson classic presents a drawn-out and relentlessly gloomy picture of the duality of good and evil and Victorian sexual repression.

The

vio-

in life.

rating

is

A-

III

is

"Mr. reer

Wrong"

much rough language,

ex- girlfriend (Joan Cusack). Directed

the U.S. Catholic Conference classifica-

by Nick Castle, the contrived narra-

A-IV adults, with reservations.

The Motion Picture Association of

tive serves primarily as a vehicle for

America

Brief slapstick violence, sexual innu-

—

rating

is

R — restricted.

and the courage required to withstand the perils of the trail. Frontier violence. The U.S. Catholic Conference classification is A-I general patronage. Not rated by the Motion Picture Association of America. to journey into the wilderness

—

(1996)

intense violence, spo-

tion is

natural grandeur of the terrain as well

Uneven comedy in which a cawoman (Ellen DeGeneres) is

Due to some

—

DeGeneres' low-key comic

talents.

endo and crude references. The U.S.

to

the

as an appreciation of the faith needed

R — restricted.

radic profanity and

movie

an unpleasantly disturbing experience.

homage

imbued with

— adults. The Mo-

swept into an affair by a handsome, wealthy stranger (Bill Pullman) only to discover he's a nut case obsessed with marrying her, despite all efforts to get rid of him and his jealous

is

is

tion Picture Association of America

its

into full-fledged psychopath, the

Director John Ford's poetic the pioneer spirit

U.S. Catholic Conference classi-

fication

Yet this bleak melodrama is marred narrow focus on Gil's escalating viciousness, even in front of his own son.

Aside from capturing the atmosphere of ballpark excitement and credibly showing a spiteful guy degenerating

Some gruesome

lence and recurring sexual innuendo.

centered womanizer to a father who learns perhaps too late what is important

by

tale in

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August 23, 1996

The high

cost of unforgiveness All

contents copyright

©1 996 by

CNS

"We could not concentrate on mending our relationship, for cancer had invaded our mother's frail body. In six months she slipped out of this world, still seeing herself the victim of my father's sin against us. She never forgave him, and she let it destroy her.

"Our mother had requested a private funeral but we thought we should at least put a death notice in the paper.

We were pleased with the people who came: co-workers, her hairdresser, nurses from the hospital. We placed a sheath of yellow roses on her coffin.

"When another bouquet of yellow roses arrived, we thought it had been directed to the wrong room. Bob and I were shocked when we read our

name on the card. And something within me burst like a volcano that had been smoldering for 12 years.

"I picked up the vase with the impulse to smash it, but brought it to the funeral director's office with instructions to destroy it. He was' a kindly man who nodded and put his arm father's

around my shoulder.

"He softly said, 'Some people try to make amends even if it is too late for it eases their conscience. Try to forgive, even if you can't forget.'

"We buried our mother but I could not bury my memory of the sin that was eating my heart. I saw my mother destroyed. Would I go the same way?

"Since the breakdown, I've tried.

some boys who hung out

By Jane Wolford Hughes Catholic

hard

It is

News

Service

to write of a person

who

insulated herself from God and closed herself off from human relationships. I hope the story of Catherine will help others who find it difficult to forgive

someone.

Perhaps Catherine's story will encourage them to reinterpret their lives and learn to trust God, and thus to escape from their fragile shell of anger or fear.

My

first

encounter with Catherine

was many years ago. She was a seamstress in a women's shop I visited.

Most often my garments needed shortening, so Catherine would be summoned to put up the hem. Our casual

"When another bouquet of yellow roses arrived

...

Bob and were shocked when we read our father's name on the card....

I

I

picked up the vase with the impulse to smash it."

dogged will-power, managed to satisfy her children's physical needs. But she put tenderness and expressions of love away in the coffin of her broken dreams. Emotionally, their life was barren except for the mother's fierce bursts of anger against the father, coupled with long silences. So the children learned to live inside themselves.

The mother, out of pride or shame, did not encourage contact with relatives or friends from the past.

Catherine absorbed her mother's privacy. She said, "People thought I was shy and quiet, and neither Bob nor I were trouble-makers, so people kind of forgot about us. They had enough problems of their own."

Catherine added, "Mrs. O'Leary, a neighbor lady, was my only adult friend. She seemed to understand without being nosy. But I was careful even with her."

Catherine soon assumed the adult role at home: making decisions about school activities, recreation and parttime work.

When the women's store Catherine worked in moved, I lost track of her.

One day she called. After a breakdown, she was now cleaning houses. I invited her to do some work at our house.

It took several visits before her sad story

was continued.

I

didn't encourtell

it.

Her father had abandoned her mother, her little brother, Bob, and Catherine when she was 14. He took their life savings and stole their mother's spirit.

The family moved to another house and school district, and the mother, by

"One day Bob and

Bob

forgive.

Our

admitted to the hospital after she tempted suicide.

May God be merciful to her.

IN

THE MARKETPLACE

Briefly, tell of

for

a time when forgiveness made a big difference

you or someone you know.

"When a young girl in a family got pregnant out of wedlock. It was a close, Catholic family and the first reaction was one of anger and disbelief. However ... through forgiveness they were able not only to accept her mistake, but to have more Sister of Charity Barbara empathy toward other families in similar situations."

Boss, Pittsburgh, Pa.

—

my ex-husband

and mental abuse, and for leaving us achieved a bachelor's degree and have dedicated the rest of my life to helping single and battered women. But most of all ... was freed from bitterness, and my son has been able to see that through forgiveness you can achieve positive things instead of hanging on to hurt and anger."

"Forgiving

when my son was

only

1

and

...

for physical

one-half....

I

decided to at-

tend the neighborhood picnic. Mrs. O'Leary suggested it and said: 'It pays to be friendly. You never know when you'll need a friend.'

"We went, and the people were nice

Bob pitched the ball the farthest and won $5. He also was asked to join the softball team. It seemed like a good

to us.

I

—

I

anonymous, Nevada

"When my parents got divorced after 41 years and received an annulment. decided not to take sides.... It was upsetting for me, but by forgiving them was able Bernie Price, Indianapolis, Ind. to ... remain on good terms with both my parents."

idea at the time but he got in with

—

I

"When you find out that God forgives you and loves you, and when you go to confession to confess something that's bothering you, you have a sense of peace.

Nancy Forgiveness allows you to let go of what's bothering you and go on."

—

Sampson, Colorado Springs, Colo.

An upcoming

edition asks:

"religious vocation"

at-

(Hughes is a veteran adult religious educator in Farmington Hill, Mich.)

close-

ness was colored with tense wariness.

FAITH

it

maybe someday God will hear me. In the meantime ..."

Her voice trailed off. That was the last time I saw Catherine. She was re-

ing that I was losing the only person I had in the world. I could have, because I could not reach out to him to even try

understand and

He says he's got relihelps. I've tied that, and

tries to help.

gion and

I

age her but she seemed to need to relationship deepened when we happened to eat in the same cafeteria.

Slowly her story unfolded.

around the malls.

"Bob was 15 but looked older. He became as changeable as the weather.

It wasn't long before and he was lying to me, skipping school and was caught stealing a pair of Nike shoes.

"It wasn't such a terribly unforgivable crime, but I had no bank of trust to draw upon, so my embarrassment, anger and fear were out of proportion. I had the hollow black feel-

to

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grown over time?

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FOOD FOR THOUGHT taking forgiveness out of the "formula" for Christianity would produce a mutant religion. Forgiveness is basic.

But that doesn't mean forgiving is always easy. To forgive, I may first need to what caused recognize what led to the problem I've had with someone else our conflict. And how many of us really enjoy handling conflict?

It doesn't guarantee, either, that we'll be able to forget we were hurt, slighted or exploited. But here is where the mystery of forgiveness comes into view. As the catechism says: "It is not in our power not to feel or to forget an offense; but the heart that offers itself to the Holy Spirit turns injury into compassion" (No. 2843).

To forgive, people often have to "let go" of something: past resentments, perhaps, or the determination to win out to conquer another's point of view.

That may be a challenge.

Remember that at least in part, forgiveness is an activity of the heart: a heart not "closed" or hardened (Catechism, No. 2840).

I don't think in forgiving someone we agree to be exploited or hurt again and again. Still, I do think forgiveness is fundamental for Christians: It "bears witness that, in our world, love is stronger than sin" (Catechism, No. 2844).

How to

begin to forgive

—

—

David Gibson Editor, Faith Alive!

29

Forgiveness: Contrary to

conventional wisdom from attacking the vulnerable Saul.

They were dumbfounded! But David

By Father John J. Castelot Catholic News Service

explained:

In biblical times two factors were of

paramount importance: honor and shame.

When someone was

offended, his

honor was at stake. Not to avenge the wrong was considered a shameful dereliction of duty. Jesus summed up the attitude

— and rejected

an eye and a tooth thew 5:38).

for

it:

"An eye

for

a tooth" (Mat-

Old Testament when he refused to kill King Saul. David had served the king faithfully, but was rewarded with almost insane cruelty. David's success and popularity were perceived as a threat to the king's honor. The poor neurotic reacted by making several attempts on David's life.

David finally had to flee. But Saul was not content with being rid of him and set out to hunt him down. "Saul took 3,000 picked men from all Israel and went in search of David" (1 24:3).

David and his men holed up in a spacious cave. It happened that Saul

came

into the cave's forward section "to ease nature." Here was a golden opportunity for David to polish off his

tormentor. David's followers urged him to do so.

If anyone had a reason to strike while the iron was hot, David did.

Stealthily, he approached and cut off a piece of the king's cloak. Moreover, David restrained his eager men

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FAITH

IN

Catholic

Service

The phone rang, and someone asked for his mother.

He

sat there listening number of

to her just saying "yes" a

times.

When she hung up, she said to him, "Your father died." He looked back and answered, "Oh, I see," and after a pause: "It really doesn't difference.

We

What is forgiveness not? It is not only a matter of dealing with something that has already occurred: the past. For it also is a matter of going on with life, having learned from our capacity to hurt others something of the human need for love and affirmation as well.

And forgiveness is not a smug sense of righteousness leading the offended

make much

never had a relation"First,

ship anyway."

But

rage streaked up his spine. "He had no right to die without saying something to me," he cried inside. "He had no right! No one has any right to bring anyone into this world and then pretend that person doesn't exist! He had no right to die without recognizing me ever!"

Sleep was gone. The years of waiting for some word, the disappointment of broken dates, the shards of broken hopes were roiling in a heart offended and enraged.

And rage for days became the pattern of his existence. It took a long time for him to understand that it makes no sense to die twice that, as he said, "If you give your life to mourn-

—

fender and the offended. So it is not enough simply to go away and say nothing.

Forgiveness, when it can, must include reaching out to the offender.

So forgiveness has asks not only (and perhaps not principally) "Where do I go from here?" but rather "Where do we go from here?" social content. It

That makes

scholar, author, teacher

and

lecturer.)

I

I

'I

—

Reflection: In asking forgiveness,

I

open up

to the possibility of

a renewed

someone hurt. Forgiveness, says Brakenhielm, is "a way to manage the more deep-rooted injuries that human beings often inflict on each other. " That makes forgiveness a creative force. Its power may work to reorder I

forgive-

ness creative. So forgiveness imitates the action of God the Cre-

Forgiveness works toward healing what is broken or damaged between people, or between God and us. ator.

.

will for-

a Scripture

is

feel so based on

person to believe that by forgiving, he or she becomes better than the offender. We caricature forgiveness when we don't bear in mind that we are all sinners and that "there but for the grace of God go I." Forgiveness ought to bring transformation to both the of-

It is

give you. But if you do not forgive others, neither will your Father forgive

(Father Castelot

it

try to I

I

When Matthew recorded the Our Father, he singled out just one of its phrases for further comment, writing: "If you forgive others their transgres-

your transgressions" (6:14-15).

Jesus not only taught forgiveness, but practiced it impressively. When human hatred and cruelty had nailed him to the cross, he prayed: "Father, forgive them" (Luke 23:34).

why

something real or imagined? Next, can approach the person who offended me and say ..."

5:39).

your heavenly Father

would

violated. Is

conventional wisdom on its head. He didn't come to put the seal of approval on the accepted ethic, but to replace it with an ethic of nonviolent forgiveness: "But I say to you, offer no resistance to one who is evil" (Matthew

sions,

I

understand

later,

risky not to for-

The

of the a bit every time there is

give.

mind and

life

spirit dies

no forgiveness. We expend our energies obsessively replaying CNS

past offenses.

photo by The Crosiers/Gene Plaisted

But ing and to rage, your life is truly gone."

What can a person do who experiences this kind of anger over being offended by someone else? First, I would try to understand why I feel so violated. Is

lives.

FMS

went contrary to the conventional wisdom of the day.

Centuries later a descendant of David, Jesus of Nazareth, turned that

Asking forgiveness from someone we've harmed is a way to recognize that person's dignity, says Carl Reinhold Brakenhielm, theology professor at the University of Uppsala Sweden. In Forgiveness (Fortress Press, 426 S. Fifth St., Box 1209, Minneapolis, Minn. 55440. Paperback, $10), the Protestant theologian writes: "When do wrong toward another human being, am also saying, am way up here, and you are far down there.'" Asking forgiveness reverses things.

"The person who seeks forgiveness" affirms the other's human rights and worth "the very things he or she earlier violated."

our personal

Rowe,

anointed" (2 Samuel 24:7). David subsequently showed the king the severed fragment of his cloak as proof of how close he had come to killing him.

This story was treasured as an illustration of David's almost superhuman forgiveness, of his truly sterling character. It was a powerful story pre-

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cisely because such restraint

this attitude explains why David's friends were shocked in the

But

Samuel

"The Lord forbid that I should do such a thing to my master, the Lord's

By Brother Cyprian

it

based on something real

or imagined?

Next, I can approach the person offended me and say very simply:

who

what happened. I don't believe should have happened in this way, and I want you to know this so that if at all possible we can work through to a more fitting solution for you and for me."

But sometimes my response to a situation that offends me cannot be immediate. There are occasions when I need time to reflect; otherwise my reaction might undercut any possibility

"Here's it

of reconciliation.

seize the

moment

to forgive is to

of grace

—

or, better,

be seized by grace. By allowing the dead to bury their dead, the world again knows redemption. to

(Marist Brother Rowe is a research associate in the Department of Psychiatry at Johns Hopkins School of Medicine and a dean of students at the Graduate School of Social Work at the University of Maryland, Baltimore.)

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& Herald

August 23, 1996

People Conan O'Brien Turns Show

Into

Solid Letterman Rival

HOLLYWOOD (CNS) — Conan O'Brien says that when he succeeded David Letterman as host of NBC's "Late Night" talk and variety program three years ago, viewers saw "an Irish Catholic kid from Boston who's trying to do a good job." The critics were merciless.

"Nobody wants to see a late-night talk-

show host

trying to please you. It's not

fun to watch a guy work," O'Brien said.

After the first couple of months, he said he decided "I'm going to have a good time, I'm going to enjoy this, I'm going to do the show I think I should do, and I'm going to do my best every night."

The turnaround has been obvious.

O'Brien still has the same sidekick in Andy Richter, the same band led by Max Weinberg, and the same writers, but

some

TV

critics

late-night

now

say his

is

the best

show on TV.

Actress Ellen Burstyn Talks

About

'Spitfire,'

Filmmaking (CNS) Ac-

—

WASHINGTON tress Ellen

wanting

tionwide, put up $6.1 million to

make

the picture, then sold distribution rights

Rock Entertainment for $10 million within hours of the film's Sundance success. to Castle

Goodbye To Murdered Colorado Priests PUEBLO, Colo.

More than

4,000 Say Last

—

Actress Likes Not-So-Happy Turn Of Events Of Her Character HOLLYWOOD (CNS) When Catholic actress Teri Austin lands a role on

—

television, she's glad she's able to use

it to teach a little lesson about moral values. married to actor-screenwriter Eric Anderson, who had a recurring role as Billy Sidell on "Thirtysomething." It's the first marriage for each.

But for Austin's character on Showtime' s made-for-cable "Bedtime" series, the situation is somewhat different. Frustrated over her inability to conceive a child with her husband, her character falls into an affair. The affair, already taped, "is not romantic," Austin told Catholic News Service. When it comes to extramarital affairs on TV, she added, "I've never seen an affair where it turned out terrible, regretful. It's the repercussions they don't show."

In real

life,

Austin

is

4,000 people crowded into the Colorado state fairgrounds in Pueblo for a colorful funeral liturgy Aug. 12 to say their

goodbyes

two

to

priests

who were

stabbed to death in their rectory. Father

Thomas

Scheets, 65, pastor of St. Leander's Church for six years, and Father Louis Stovik, 77, a retired priest who lived at the rectory, were found dead of multiple puncture wounds Aug. 7. Thousands of people filled, then overflowed a section of the fairgrounds' Events Center designed to hold 3,500 people. About 60 Knights of Columbus flanked more than 100 white-robed priests and six bishops from three states.

Pope John Paul waves II

while speaking

from his

summer residence at Castel

to see better films will support

latest,

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about people

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News

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that in

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grams

The News

Burstyn hopes moviegoers

"The Spitfire Grill," which was financed by a Catholic organization

her

In

Hollywood, they should make an

effort to support the film, just to

send a

message." The actress was in Washington to promote the film, which

won

the

Audience Award at this year's Sundance Film Festival in Utah and was scheduled for national release during August.

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A

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FATHER JOHN S. RAUSCH MORGANTON — Large pots of

black beans cooking for hours and

food and

warmed in a microwave promised a meager lunch for the 300 poultry workers on strike against Case Farms, Inc. A dozen volunteers working in the kitchen of St. Charles Borromeo's parish hall formed an assembly line to make bean and cheese tacos for the strikers, 90 percent of whom are Latino. The kitchen buzzed with folks reporting from the picket line and transporting food and people.

Ken

Whittington, pastor, had opened the hall for the workers and wrote a letter to area people describing the workers' grievances and begging

I

"Oh

yes," he

wrote, "St. Charles will be their head-

The work stoppage occurred

llas

Father

spiritual support.

real.

quarters while they seek justice."

torti-

after

a series of unethical practices that in-

clude unsafe working conditions, disrespect of workers, refusal to bargain col-

low wages and a poor social environment. In late April an ecumenilectively,

cal delegation of seligious leaders vis-

Morganton, interviewed workers and documented the conditions in a fact

They

or face arrest for trespassing.

finding report.

fused and were arrested. On May 15, 1995, about 300 workers struck the plant

The

report highlights the

dangerous line speed as 90 chickens a minute pass by workers, resulting in repetitive motion injuries and cuts. Case

Farms requires workers, the report "to purchase

some of

their

own

says,

safety

love

encyclical

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states,

must

Father Whittington offers a 5 p.m.

Spanish Mass every Sunday for his Guatemalan parishioners. On Saturday nights between 75 and 100 Latino parishioners attend a charismatic prayer meeting.

There is Bible study on Wednesdays, and music practice for three choirs, each in

re-

a different dialect.

Father Whittington

is

involved in

the labor struggle because

it's

assuming manner he says, "All I've ever done at this church is open the doors."

But, in doing that, he made the church real.

Glenmary Father John

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That strike lasted three days and ended when the company agreed to discuss an array of workers' grievances.

Not satisfied with their treatment, Case Farms workers elected to join the Laborers' International Union of North America on July 12, 1995, by a vote of 237 to 183. Although the NLRB certified the election and ordered the company to negotiate with the union, Case Farms stalled with legal maneuvers.

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August 23, 1996

House Of Prayer Offers

Spiritual

Caring Hearts AIDS Ministry Receives Governor's Award

Haven

By PAUL FREDETTE Correspondent

"My house

shall be a house of prayer for all peoples, says the

Lord. " (Isaiah 56:7)

HOT SPRINGS

—

Since 1976 this prophetic word has found place to prosper at the Jesuit Residence and House of Prayer overlooking the town of Hot Springs. Over the years, the retreat

house has served a small but steady

number of pilgrims seeking the quiet simplicity of its modest accommodaAcross the spacious ground is the Hiker's Hostel, built in 1974 to serve the needs of hundreds of hikers regularly emerging from the Appalachian tions.

Trail alongside the Jesuit Residence.

The house and property were acquired by Jesuit Father Andrew Graves 1955 to serve as a parish residence and chapel for the fledgling Catholic community in the mountains of Madison County. It was not until 1968 that the present A-frame Chapel of the Redeemer was built to serve worshippers.

The Maryland Province of the Society of Jesus decided to expand their minisin

try in this area at a

was

a

growing

time

when

"there

interest in 'small as

ASHEVILLE

good' and a renewed interest in nature," said Jesuit Father Vincent Alagia, director of the House of Prayer for the past seven years.

to fo-

mountain

make

lives," said Father Alagia, "cannot help but be opened to let God into their

lives."

In a relaxed tone that barely hov-

ered above a whisper, he spoke about the habits of prayer

among

those

who

among those HIV/AIDS.

care-giving activities

ally for private or

guided retreats lasting week. Lately, Christians of other denominations have grown more comfortable with this experience and often visit the retreat house. "We

ently," he said slowly as if to savor this

from a few days

simple truth. "At times, people don't even realize they're praying because

now

from non-Christians,"

ing in a particular way, they doubt they

"You can probably

are praying at all." Father Alagia un-

count them on one hand, but they are coming."

derscored the need to realize the essen-

Thefollowing is the last in a threepart series submitted by Maggi Nadol, Respect Life Coordinatorfor the Dio-

character of any prayer as being

cese of Charlotte, with text furnished

The

by the National Conference of Catho-

to a

get requests

said Father Alagia.

Father Alagia certain whether

spirituality,

but he's

quite sure the atmo-

sphere of the house

answers a strong need: "The hospital-

—

ity

—

the informality

small, homey and safe." His smile grew as he passed on a recent retreatant's remark that "the schedule didn't look like a schedule." is

Retreatants

work out

rhythm of their day individually to allow time to walk the the

"Everybody prays

affected with

differ-

Catholics: Act To

they identify prayer itself with a certain

tial

way of praying.

one's relationship with the Lord. vitality

of prayer, he said, can be mea-

sured by the consequences. "Prayer especially alive if

it

leads to action

no prayer is valid unless

it

lic

—

countercultural and to speak on behalf of all

One

reason for Father Alagia' atmosphere around the House of Prayer is the inevitability of meeting the poor. Anyone who makes a retreat there for any length of time will

charm and

and will come

attractive

in touch with

ing the poor," he said, "they can't help

but be touched by the poor."

The House of Prayer

the only

is

North Carolina. and board of direc-

Jesuit retreat center in

Currently, the staff

they can enjoy hot mineral baths. They

uled for remodeling to restore

themselves

time to read, rest and pray.

hard no? to pray in an environment of nature. Anybody with some experience of God in their "It's

respond pastorally, sensitively and individually to pregnant women on the receiving end of terrible advice about

tors are consulting with officials of the

as retreatants in recent years,

allow

some people claim that it is acceptable to kill some of the most helpless among us by means of a procedure called partial-birth abortion. Our obligations as Christians are clear: With every means available to us we must

from touch-

the poor. "If they don't run

Broad River where

trails or

human life, whether it provokes admiration or ridicule. The Good Samaritan is our model. We must follow the example of this parable and serve not only those we choose, but especially those who choose us, precisely because they need our help.

Today, in the United States,

takes one out 1

partiality to the

location

is it

their' s

make

making

to year-

the facility

banned.

it

Attorneys At

Our Holy

Father's words leave

us in no doubt:

"We are the people of

life because God ... has given us the Gospel of life and by this same Gospel we have been transformed and saved ... [W]e are called to act accordingly. " (The Gospel of Life, 79)

FREDETTE

Kaplan, Gilpin

their children's future.

community, and for the benefit of the common good, we must appeal to our elected officials who decide whether partialbirth abortion will continue or be

sched-

any bigger.

"The people have indicated their hopes that the chapel would receive attention first, but there are no grand plans for building or expanding, only improving and enhancing what we already have." better without

and

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The Chapel of the Redeemer, which has served parishioners as well

mountain

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others."

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life better for

Since its founding two years ago, Caring Hearts AIDS Ministry has grown to involve the efforts of more than 50 parishioners in a variety of

cording to Father Alagia,

isn't

Photos by PAUL

Joan of Arc

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Most of them, accome individu-

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is

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parish

— Caring Hearts

St.

In a letter inviting Father C. Morris Boyd, pastor of St. Joan of Arc, to the awards ceremony in September, Governor Jim Hunt said, "This award

cus on Ignatian spirituality," added Father Alagia.

been finding their way to

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New Endowment To come

don't

and say

to the pastor

Provide For Educational Needs,

from page

& Herald

13

Marx, from page 5

1

Founup with endowments, and has the machinery for distributing the income and maximizing the yield of these funds." plained. "But the diocese has the

I

haven't got enough to send a child to

dation, an organization already set

school or what have you. This type of

how

deeply the rest of the country feels

their loss.

We

all

know how

easily

it

"My grandfather, Thomas Yates,

with the Foundation's work. "I think the Catholic community is becoming

could have been one of our loved ones.

On a glorious Saturday morning following a week at the beach, my husband and I began packing up for the return trip home. I turned on the Olympics for Bobby and Teresa who were enjoying many of the Games' events.

"What's happening?" Bobby asked.

"What do they mean a pipe bomb?" A few minutes later our friends' nine-yearold son, Will, rode his bike to our beach house for a final good-bye. I listened to Bobby recount the tragedy to Will.

"They put the pipe bomb in the luggage at the Olympics and then called 911."

and mother, Isabel Murphy, were

more and more aware of the Founda-

Bobby

people that realized it takes an education to bring people up from a com-

tion because of various articles in the

walked up our front porch steps and

Catholic newspaper," he said.

"Is this unusual?"

person that we're talking about doesn't

do that. They just quietly suffer or walk away and go to some other place.

That's who we hope to reach."

The purpose of

— both

"It

endowment

the

Sacred Heart and the New England church is to provide scholarships for the benefit of students from each parish. Those include scholarships at

was

my

thinking that the di-

ocesan Foundation was in as good a position if not better than anyone to be able to handle the endowment," he added.

—

Attorney helped

Don Hodgens, who

Murphy with

the

endowment

for pupils attending the parish schools,

process, said one of his responsibili-

scholarships for parishioners in need

ties is to outline different

of vocational training

at

a local com-

munity college, or cost of

clients

As a

tuition for

students in a Catholic seminary.

mon

_

Ed Murphy

laborer, increase their ability to

making, specifically

in the textile busi-

ships.

Murphy explained.

Once he decided to create an enHis grandfather left an active busidowment, Murphy said the next quesness career to establish a school teachtion was how to set it up. "I couldn't ing the textile trades, and his mother was possibly do it because I'm not going to one of the first be here too many teachers at the more years. And the diocese has the school. His late I didn't have the wife, Eleanor, organization to Foundation ... and has the ness,"

was

also

teacher for

machinery for distributing the

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income and maximizing the

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Foundation officials worked Hodgens and Murphy to make the endowment process as easy as

on the and miracles often included water, fish and nets because he understood all that these images could teach us about everyday life and eternal

closely with

possible. "Jim Kelley (executive director of the Foundation)

was very

helpful,

knowledgeable and cooperative in explaining how the Foundation is set up and used," Hodgens said.

"Through his gift, Mr. Murphy is leaving a legacy that will help meet the at

both Sacred Heart

Kelley said individuals establishing

endowments take another step

in liv-

ing out the life of stewardship. "Just as

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It was in the Jordan River that Jesus chose to begin his public ministry following his baptism. And it was by the seaside that he called his first followers.

Along the shore in the afternoon, he fed 5,000 people with five barley loaves and two dried fish. In the evening, He walked on water and calmed the sea and winds.

Although at times it may seem that the world is adrift, if we fasten ourselves to a faith which is anchored in the teachings of the Gospel we will extinguish the hatred in our world.

Near the lakeside city of Capernaum, Jesus spoke the words that I pray may bring some comfort to the families in anguish on the Long Island shore: "Let me firmly assure you, he who believes has eternal life. I am the bread of life. ..This is the bread that comes down from heaven for a man to eat and never die. I myself am the living bread come down from heaven. If anyone eats this bread he shall live forever; the bread I will give is my flesh for the life of the

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satisfaction of

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as $10 a month, only 33 cents a day, you

literally

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the

He knows how

Jesus has called us

the chance to go to school and hope for a brighter future.

You can

the

or establishing an endowment, contact Jim Kelley, Executive Director of the Foundation, 1524 East Morehead Street, Charlotte, N.C. 28207, or call (704) 331-1709 or (704) 377-6871.

rowboat.

is

their personal family history, a descrip-

Catholic mission sites around the world.

For as

For information about tion

Your

you become a sponsor

tion of the country

(CFCA), a Catholic

sponsorship program assisting needy children at

can help a poor

their families.

you receive a photo of your

You can help one very poor

and Aging

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tirelessly to

do

When

Conchita through Christian Foundation for Children

and

do the work

six.

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is

their

said.

sponsorship dollars help them

to

But there

who know

improve conditions for needy

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and

even basic necessities are a luxury to her family of

hand-in-hand

munities and labor

$25 per

for playthings,

Church of the Diocese of Charlotte," he

we

Catholic missionaries and lay

with a

as a day laborer, there

no money

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with dedicated, trusted

Because her

father earns only

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we make gifts from our monthly income, we also have an opportunity to give from our accumulated assets to endow the

provide a child with the life-chang-

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Only four years

amount you can

with the

child

when we're

times Jesus would

lowing Mr. Murphy's example by remembering the Church in their current and future estate plans."

Guatemala

a time of year

perfect vehicle."

parishioners across the diocese are fol-

his

This

reminded how much Jesus enjoyed the sea. He spent a lot of time traveling by

and Holy Name parishes for generations to come," Kelley said. "More and more

month

said,

by Foundation staff, a board, and is professionally managed, Hodgens noted.

"For Mr. Murphy and what he wanted to accomplish, the Foundation was a

needs of individuals

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News

& Herald

August 23, 1996

Diocesan News Briefs Symposium On Aging HENDERSONVILLE — The

Sacred Heart Church. Leaders' School 1

1th

Annual National Symposium Ministry With the Aging, co-sponsored by the Diocese of Charlotte CRISM office, is Oct. 1 -4 at Kanuga Conference Center.

For information, call (704) 251-0428.

Foster Families Needed

CHARLOTTE — Catholic Services needs foster families or willing to

become

follows.

CHARLOTTE longer meets

are

licensed in N.C. to

Hospital Volunteers

Needed

CHARLOTTE — Mercy and Pres-

South Charlotte Area Ultreya, which inSt. Gabriel and other parishes on the south end of Charlotte, meets at St. Matthew Church the fourth Sunday each month beginning in October. cludes

Marriage Encounter Weekend CHARLOTTE The next Marriage Encounter weekend is Sept. 20-22.

To register, call Tom and Emilie Sandin,

—

5081.

Holy Angels Golf Tournament

byterian hospitals need volunteers to as-

hospitals' volunteer coordinators for in-

formation.

—

Women

in

treat for

men that explores the partnermen and women in marriage,

Ministry"

is

Church and public ministry directed

by Peter McCord.

"Christ With Me, Christ Before Me, Christ Above Me" is a Sept. 13-15

men of Irish descent to reflect

on the call to be Christ's companion on our journey to God directed by Jesuit Father Joseph McGovern.

"Spirit Without the Spirits" is a Sept. 20-22 retreat for recovering alcoholic women in A.A. For information, contact Jesuit House of Prayer, P.O. Box 7, Hot Springs, N.C. 28743, (704) 622-7366.

Food For Fans

CHARLOTTE is

— Pre-game food

offered prior to the Caro-

lina Panthers' Sept.

1

Living Waters Retreats

MAGGIE VALLEY —

a Sept. 6-8 re-

the

and music

tournament to benefit Holy Angels is Monday, Sept. 23 at Cramer Mountain Country Club. For information, contact Josh at (704) 825-4161.

House Retreats "Men and

HOT SPRINGS

retreat for

CRAMER MOUNTAIN — A golf

the gift shop, and in the

intensive care waiting room. Contact the

ships of

Ultreya no

(910) 274-4424. For information, call Steven and Peggy Geiger, (704) 845-

(704) 343-9954.

Jesuit

—

Gabriel Church. The

Social

who

provide loving care for infants. For information, call Sandra Breakfield at

sist families, in

at St.

game beginning

10:30 a.m. at St. Peter Church two blocks east of Ericsson Stadium.

of the Creatures" retreat directed

Thomas

is

"Canticle

a Sept. 9-15 nature

by Franciscan Father Dominican Sister

Vigliotta and

Jeanette Stang. Cost

is $235.

"Drink the Living Water" is a Sept.

19-26 active, interactive, inner-active

with nature directed by Blessed Sacrament Father Robert Rosseau and Sisters of Charity Sister Fran Grady. Cost is

$235.

"Francis, Go Repair My Church" an Oct. 4-6 weekend retreat celebrating the feast of St. Francis including a dramatization of the Transitus directed

by Conventual Franciscan Father Alfred is

Cost is $85, "Songs are for Singing"

Sartor.

is an Oct. 11-13 weekend retreat in the colorful

surroundings of -the Smokies in autumn directed by

Burke. Cost

"The

Dominican Father Michael is

$85.

Stillness of the Forest" is

an

der Discalced Carmelites' Oct. 17-20 lent retreat to

si-

open the celebration for

the Centennial of St. Therese

is

directed

by Carmelite Father Keiran Kavannaugh at the Avila Retreat Center. Cost is $105 for three days, $ 1 50 for four days (Thursday is optional). To register, send a $15 check payable to OCDS to: Sandra Malkovsky, 2131 Eastridge Dr., Apex, N.C. 27502. For information, call (919) 772-2067.

and Brenda Petras. Cost is $235.

"Make a Joyful Noise Unto the Lord" is an Oct. 25-3 1 retreat of exploration and prayer inspired by the beauty of the mountains in autumn directed by Sisters of Charity Sisters Gloria

and Fran Grady. Cost "Let 17 retreat

Golden Agers Meet

is

Solomon

$235.

Us Celebrate" is a Nov. 11for those who like to mingle

with spirituality, Eucharist and Thanksgiving directed by Conventual Father

John Quigley, Joanne Wheller and Gus Tamborello.

To

LINCOLNTON

register for these retreats, con-

Living Waters Reflection Center, 1420 Soco Rd., Maggie Valley, NC

tact

— The

Golden Agers group of St. Dorothy Church meets the fourth Wednesday each month and welcomes new members. For infor-

Institute

Rescheduled

Hibernians Meet The Ancient Order of Hibernians meet Thursday, Aug. 29 at 7:30 p.m. at the Columbus Swim and Tennis Club, 7523 Idlewild

CHARLOTTE

28751. For information, 3833.

call

Day

of Reflection

GREENSBORO

Neumann Church

St.

John

to

be

in-

cluded.

(704) 926-

Post-Abortion Support Group

—

H.E.A.R.T., GREENSBORO Encouragement for AbortionHealing Related Trauma, is the Greensboro Pregnancy Care Center post-abortion support group for women who have unresolved

at St. Vincent de Paul Church beginning with the sacrament of reconciliation at 6 p.m. Prayer director Capuchin Father Sylvester Catallo from St.

Aug. 30

Lawrence Brindisi Friary in Beacon, N.Y. will celebrate Mass at 7:30 p.m.

Father Catallo has directed prayer cenacles throughout the nation, and recently returned from a cenacle in Italy.

For information, call Marcia Ebner, (704) 849-0690.

Get Ready For The Glory

CHARLOTTE

— "The 3 R's

for

the 3rd Millennium: Repentance, Rec-

Renewal," a day of reflecon preparation for Christ presented by the charismatic renewal team at St. Thomas Aquinas Church is Sept. 21 from 9:30 a.m.-3 p.m. For information, call Joyce Brown, (704) 547-1836. onciliation,

tion

Eucharistic Adoration

ASHEVILLE

— The Basilica of

St. Lawrence, D.M. welcomes all to adoration of the Most Blessed Sacrament daily from 6 a.m.-9 p.m. For information, call the basilica office, (704) 252-

6042.

&

tion experiences.

jackpot will be given away every week.

confidential and

St.

—

will host the annual

Contact your parish office

Center. Cash prizes including a $500

at

—

(910)

Marian Movement Cenacle CHARLOTTE A Marian Movement of Priests and Faithful Cenacle is

diocesan celebration Sunday, Oct. 27 at 3 p.m. for couples married 25 or 50 years.

Salisbury and Albemarle areas meets the

7:30 p.m.

And Gold

Silver

at

Min-

day of reflection and friendship Greensboro Vicariate is Tuesday, Sept. 24 from 9:30 a.m. to 3:00 p.m. at St. Paul the Apostle Church. Franciscan Father David Hyman will conduct the program.

CHARLOTTE

Hodges

274-4901.

for the

by Knights of Columbus Council 770 is played Mondays at 7 p.m. beginning Sept. 9 at St. Ann Church in the Activity

at

A CRISM

according to participants' needs. For information, call Marilyn

istries)

And Leaders' Schools SALISBURY — Ultreya for the

Friday each month

—

(Catholic Retired Invited to Special

Ann Bingo CHARLOTTE — Bingo sponsored

last

—

Rd. All Catholic men of Irish ancestry are welcome. For information, call Tim Lawson, (704) 522-9728.

mation, call Christine Kiser, (704) 4354813.

Ultreya

eight weeks. Meetings will be scheduled

Focus on Initiation, 90 Days Institute has been rescheduled for Jan. 1729, 1997, just in time for the Lenten and Easter seasons. Early registration by Oct. 17 for special savings. Call Sheri Wilson, (910) 765-3499 for details.

Oct. 14-20 nature retreat directed by

Father Eric Pitre, John Boyles, and Frank

—

area.

retreat

at

Carmelite Retreat APEX The Secular (Third) Or-

—

GREENSBORO Piedmont Knights of Columbus Council 939 recently rededicated the .William Ries Memorial Playground at the Mclver Center.

Originally donated in 1 981 with proceeds from Operation LAMB, the playground was dedicated to Past State Deputy William Ries, who was also Past Grand Knight of Council 939. Madelyn Ries and daughter Mary were on hand for the ceremony, along with the honor guard from Abbot V.G. Taylor Assembly. A granite plaque replaced the original memorial.

The Mclver Education Center is an education facility which specializes in the education of physically and mentally challenged students. The principal, Tim Clifford, was on hand to accept the new memorial. Piedmont Council 939 is actively involved in community and charitable causes in the Greensboro

The Catholic News & Herald welcomes parish newsfor the diocesan news

feelings and needs regarding their abor-

Good photographs, preferably black and white, also are welcome. Please

Groups are free and meet once a week for

submit news releases and photos at least 10 days before the date of publication.

briefs.

August 23, 1996

The Catholic News

& Herald

15

World And National News Briefs Keep Pressuring Congress On Abortion, Senator Urges

SAN DIEGO

(CNS)

partial-birth abortion "the

— Calling

most

revolt-

a legitimate option for Catholics, al-

Catholic Relief Services, the overseas

the church that journeys through history,

though

relief

and development agency of the U.S. bishops, and Bishop Reilly is chairman of the U.S. Catholic Conference Committee on International Policy.

uniting

"not the only legitimate option," said an official of the U.S. Catholic Conference. Just as abortion is that it's

many people

ing issue I've ever had to deal with,"

single issue for

Republican Sen. Rick Santorum of Pennsylvania urged Catholics to keep pressure on Congress to override President Clinton's veto of legislation banning the procedure. "We're going to win the override in the House, but right now we're 12 votes short in the Senate," he said

the past single issues have included can-

Aug. 1 3 at a reception for Catholic members of Congress and Catholic delegates to the Republican National Convention in San Diego. Santorum, who is Catholic, said he had received at least 70,000 postcards urging the override as part of a

campaign

initiated

by the U.S. bish-

ops. "Partial-birth abortion has been put

on the back burner by the press and by everyone else except the Catholic Church," he

on civil rights, the Vietor labor unions, "and there is

didates' stands

nam War

nothing wrong with that," said John Carr.

Abortion,

a

is

it is

to be considered

by

issue

— Voting on

is

not

new

the basis of a single

in U.S. politics,

and

it is

Pope Says Young Catholics Must Become 'Living Icons' Of The Church VATICAN CITY (CNS) Young

—

Catholics must

become "living icons" of

to

be held in

Paris.

voters,

Hungary

beth in Convent Station.

Bishops

Call For

Peace

In

Oppose Sanctions

WASHINGTON

Single-Issue Voting Called 'Not

(CNS)

not the only issue"

he continued.

"We have a culture that is not only antagonistic to the unborn child but to the poor child," added Carr, who is secretary of the USCC Department of Social Development and World Peace. Carr addressed participants in a workshop on political responsibility at Xavier Center on the campus of the College of St. Eliza-

Burundi,

The Only Option' For Catholics CONVENT STATION, N.J.

"fundamental human

rights issue, but

U.S.

said.

today, in

all men and women in Christ, Pope John Paul II said. The international World Youth Day gatherings, he said, are an opportunity for young people from different countries, races, languages and backgrounds to witness to the unity found in Christ. Pope John Paul announced the publication Aug. 15 of his message for the 1997 World Youth Day,

(CNS)

— The

people of Burundi "deserve a respite from terror" said a joint statement by Auxiliary Bishop John H. Ricard of Baltimore and Bishop Daniel P. Reilly of Worcester, Mass. They also opposed sanctions against the African nation. "All

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The Catholic News

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August 23, 1996

St. Michael Church GASTONIA — Over 90 have by 1922 congregation had grown church was dedicated in

the to 58. The church was administered to by from the Abbey. In 1925, St. Michael attained parish status and Benedictine Father Walter O'Brien became its first resident pastor.

Through the years, the Belmont Abbey Benedictines assisted St. Michael's growth in many ways. From architecture to construction, ecclesiatical duties to teaching, Belmont Abbey's clergy proved instrumental in St. Michael's develop-

Michael Church 708 St. Michael's Lane

April 1903 as a

ment.

mission of Mary Help of

room house was converted

Gastonia, N.C. 28052 (704) 867-6212

Christians

years

passed since born.

St.

Founded

who were

at

Michael Church was the request of workers

in the area building a mill, the

St.

Vicariate:

Church in Belmont, which in 1910 became Belmont Abbey

Gastonia

George M. Kloster Masses: Sat.: 5:00 p.m.; Sun.: 7:00 a.m.; 8:30, 11 :15 a.m.; Spanish: 3rd Sunday each month, 3:30 p.m.

Number of parishioners: 2,300 Number of households: 915 Pastor: Rev.

Cathedral.

Less than 15 churchgoers

attended Mass in the early years; although

priests

grew

enhance the lives of children in 1942, when a fiveBy mid-decade, while the parish comprised 165 people, land on Gravely Avenue (now St. Michael's Lane) was bought to accommodate a new, permanent school building, which was dedicated in February 1952. The school, staffed by Sisters of Mercy from Belmont's Sacred Heart Convent, hosted over 120 students in its first year.

Parish membership continued to expand during the 1940s, '50s and beyond.

By May 1958, a new church had been built, a granite-faced structure adjacent to the school. An ever-growing parish and storm damage to the old church had served as reminders of the need for a new building. Benedictine Father Michael Mclnerney, who during his lengthy career designed more than 500 buildings, was architect.

The church project marked the third time Father Mclnerney 's talents were called upon by St. Michael parish: In 1903 he had drawn up plans for the first church and in 1944 designed the school building.

Parishioners broke ground for the construction of a parish center in 1978, a time during which more than 1,400 people Parish

life

to further

into a Catholic school.

attended

St.

Michael. The addition was dedicated in late April

1979.

Because Belmont Abbey falls under no diocesan jurisdicMichael, too, was under its "nullius" that is, of no diocese status for decades. That changed in 1962, when the parish was merged into the Diocese of Raleigh, and again 10 tion, St.

—

—

years later with the formation of the Charlotte Diocese.

was

the parish

The

staffed with

parish

ating the school,

is it

council activities,

CCD,

Abbey Benedictines

Still,

until 1989.

indeed an energetic one. In additipn to operalso engages in community projects, parish Knights of Columbus, nocturnal adoration,

scouting and sports.

It successfully operates Experienced shop which generates money that through the St. Vincent de Paul Society is filtered back into the community. Project 2000, a fund drive to expand the church, school and parish center buildings, is in its initial stages. St. Michael actively participates with the area's Lutheran community and plays a role in ecumenical services and projects as well.

In an area which honors one of North Carolina's earliest and most important Catholic laymen, Judge William P. Gaston, St. Michael Church remains a vital presence in this Charlotte

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Parisk Mission Sto Pkilip flke Aposfle OLnrclh

Attenzione It's

Boun giorno

last call.

remain on our November Italian excursion with Father Mauricio West.

let

Him bless you.

Introducing our Spiritual Directors ... pastor of St. Mary Church in Father Bob Charlton, SSCC Fairhaven, Mass., worked in youth ministry and conducted retreats for

Quante per favore?

shrine of St. Francis to Florence the grand spendors of Florentine Art and our final destination, Venice with its

how much, you ask?

children and young adults as well as parish missions.

As Vocational Director

of the Office of Youth Ministry, he guided seminarians in their first year of discernment. He is also the councillor at the Provincial of the Sacred Heart

and has written articles on the founding chrisms of the Sacred Heart Congregation and reflections of the life and spirit of Father Damien.

New York Regional Director of the Sacred Gloria Anson Apostolate and the Sacred Heart Center in Heart Enthronement Syracuse, N.Y., has promoted the primacy of Jesus as Lord in the homes, schools and the marketplace. She has conducted parish missions throughout the country and chaired the National Sacred Heart

—

$1,900. That's round trip air hotels, from Charlotte,

**

We depart November 3, re-

worship Jesus;

—

Our Italian adventure will take you from Rome and a papal audience to Assisi

romantic canals.

behold His heart; discoverJesus,

A few seats

breakfast daily, welcome and departure dinners, and all

turning November 12. Call today. Don't miss this grand opportunity to visit Italy with Father Mauricio West.

entrance fees.

Conference

The hours

at the Franciscan University in Steubenville,

Ohio

in 1993.

for the mission are: Sunday, Sept. 8 from 7-8:30 p.m.

Thursday, Sept. 12 Monday, Sept. 9

Come, enrich your

—

life;

strengthen your faith.

Come, receive His love and

from 9-10:30 a.m. and 7-8:30 p.m.

St.

Philip the Apostle

Church

graces; rest your weary hearts.

525 Camden Dr., Statesyille, NC 28677

Come and

(704) 872-2579

See.