Carol Woods News - April 2023

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is published each month except July and August.

It is distributed to residents, members of the Priority List, and other interested persons.

Vol. MMXXIII, No. 4 Chapel Hill, North Carolina April 2023

Art and Décor

We often do not fully appreciate something until it is gone. During the COVID shutdown, our Social Lounge was cordoned-off, dark, and deserted, adding to our sense of isolation and gloom. Until then, probably most of us had given little thought to the extent that this one room brings us together as a community.

Now that it is once again populated from shortly after breakfast until evening, it is time to consider how and why this space became our common “living room”— the place where residents visit over cups of coffee, read the newspaper in a comfy chair or on the sofa by the fireplace, play table games, meet in small groups, have parties or receptions, and much more. Recently, Henry Tonn said “The Social Lounge is my favorite place on campus. One can sit quietly or be involved in a hubbub of activities. A true testament to Carol Woods.”

Carol Woods was designed with the Social Lounge near the Dining Room, reflecting a vision of the two as the social hub of the community. A good location, however, does not necessarily mean that a room will serve the intended purpose. The credit for making our Social Lounge a true gathering spot must go to . . . you guessed it—a resident committee.

The Decorating Committee was one of the first

standing committees of the Residents Association, formally recognized in March 1980, only eight months after the first residents arrived. Then known as the Interior Decorating Committee, its goal was: “to provide a décor of ‘Simple Elegance’ for the Social Lounge, lounges on each floor of the apartment buildings, dining room, hallways, Guest House and Health Center.” For 18 years the committee had only two members, Helen and Charles Metz, who chose all the furniture, pictures, accessories, and plants, many of which were donated by residents. In 1986 they created a Bid Sale for excess donated items to help fund their efforts—a precursor to our current Cash & Carry and Open House sales.

With new leadership in 1997, the committee dropped “interior” from its name and grew in numbers and responsibilities. In addition to evaluating donations, regularly rotating pictures, making repairs, and refurbishing areas, the committee accumulated new spaces ("Art and Décor" continued on Page 2)

Henry Tonn (left) and John Espenshade enjoy chess a couple of times each week. Knit Wits at play at their twice a month gathering. They welcome new knitters and stitchers. From left to right: Jane Bruce, Karen Reinfurt, Susie Hafer, and Mary Jo List.

to decorate and maintain with each campus construction project, including the 1994 completion of Building 4; the 2002 completion of Buildings 6 and 7, and 8 (now Charles House) and the conversion of Building 5 from a Health Center to Assisted Living apartments. The greatest extension of the committee’s responsibilities, however, came from the 2012–2013 “Campus Enhancement” projects that added a wing to Building 1, expanded the Library, and created the Fitness Center.

Twice, in 2001 and 2013, the Decorating Committee had to reclaim and redecorate the Social Lounge after it had served as a dining room during the expansion and remodeling of the main dining room. It was in that second reclamation project that the Decorating Committee assumed even greater responsibility, essentially replacing a professional decorator, and changing the Social Lounge from what one resident described as the “Faculty Club” (comfortable if a bit dowdy) to the “living room” we have today.

Betty Hughes and Jean Owen became co-chairs of the committee in the summer of 2012 and tell the story of this challenging time. The professional decorators who had worked on the dining room presented a plan for the Social Lounge that included buying all new furniture, with a budget several times as large as had been allocated. More important, the plan did not reflect the tastes, values, and activities of the residents.

In a meeting with Jean and Betty, Dave Wilkerson, Vice President of Operations, listened to their concerns and then asked them if they and their committee would like to take on the project themselves using the approved budget rather than serving only as advisors to the decorator. They agreed. After studying the space and assessing existing furnishings, they decided to reupholster many of the chairs and sofas instead of replacing them. A local decorator provided advice regarding fabrics, colors, and carpeting. Jean and Betty had the fireplace stones cleaned to show their natural beauty (a beforeand-after picture is in the top drawer at the east end of the lounge). They removed the drapes and altered the

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It must be 5:00 somewhere. Residents enjoying a chance to visit on a winter evening. Beginning at the left of the circle: Marcy Congdon, Nancy Martin, Laurence Avery, Marian Stephenson, Kathy Harris, Blair Bowers, Linda Brooks, Marcy Lansman, and Polly Johnson.

These Bagettes (name courtesy of Tom Rokoske) delivered food to all the residents in Building 1 once a day, every day for a year during Covid. They so enjoyed their time together waiting for the food to arrive that they have continued their gathering every Sunday at 4:00 p.m. From left to right: Janet Campbell, Mary Sturgeon, Annemarie Lalik, Helen Stein, Kathy Harris, Lee Mayfield, Bernice Bergup, Maureen Harris and Ann Witherspoon. (Missing this photo opportunity—Tish and Tom Rokoske)

alcoves to “bring the outside in.” They spent many hours visiting fabric and home furnishing stores to buy a few new things that would complement the old.

The real magic, however, was in grouping furniture to create areas for small gatherings: couches and chairs around a low table at each end of the room; cushioned window seats and a table in each alcove; and, in the center, several small, easily-moved tables and chairs to accommodate two to four people. A cabinet with a sink provided space for coffee and tea service throughout the day. They completed their work by selecting chests and art from the donations kept for the committee’s work, and by purchasing contemporary lamps and other accessories to provide a modern touch.

The Decorating Committee has evolved as it has met the challenges on this ever-changing campus. Membership and expertise grew as responsibilities increased. The committee includes representatives from each floor of the three apartment buildings and has committee members assigned to specific activities (e.g., caring for the tokonoma in the hall between Building 1 and the Main Building, researching the provenance of donations and caring for the plants in one of the lounges). The committee also continues to refine procedures and guidelines for donations, the placement of private art, and how to handle donated materials no longer needed. More recently, Nick DeLuca, George Houston, and Bernice Bergup led the committee (the latter two through the worst of the COVID epidemic ).

From its beginning, the committee has had a special focus on art, both because art contributes so much to the appearance and “vibe” of a room, and because the committee became responsible for the care of art donated to Carol Woods. This is now an impressive and extensive art collection (currently over 1100 pieces). While serving as co-chair, Jean Owen took on the task of creating a digital catalog of the collection and continues to maintain it. Marilyn Quinlan has added information to the catalog by researching the provenance of some of these works of art. Jean has found that over 120 of the pictures were created by artists who have lived at Carol Woods.

Portrait of Steven White’s favorite model—Marian. He created a career for himself by painting stylized figures of Marian—mostly in gold and black.

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Residents of the second floor of Building 1 gather at 4:00 p.m. each Friday to catch each other up on the week’s events. The gathering can be as small as eight and as large as 20. ("Art and Décor" continued on Page 4)

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In 2015, Patricia Lockwood Davis asked the committee for space to display the works of artists currently living at Carol Woods. The committee dedicated part of the wall opposite the display cases where it is visible to those gathering in the Social Lounge. Patricia has organized 50 of these art shows, beginning with the works of our oldest living artists. More recently, the Decorating Committee and the Art Committee collaborated to make the wall opposite the Social Lounge into a Gallery space where the regularly scheduled guest art shows as well as

the annual Resident and Staff Art Show can be displayed.

In addition to these short-term displays of the works of our current resident artists, the Decorating Committee has selected some of these residents’ pictures to join those mounted in the halls of the apartment buildings and other public areas. Instead of just enjoying the general ambiance of our interior environment as you walk through, stop for a few moments to look at the art on the walls, think about what elements of the décor make the space inviting, and mentally thank the talent and generosity of the other residents who have made it possible.

Art in the Hallways

Walking the halls of Carol Woods is like a visit to an eclectic art gallery. Photographs, original oil paintings, pastels, watercolors, paper collages, pen and ink drawings, posters, and much more. Did you know that over 10% of these creative works of art have been done by Carol Woods residents?

I have many favorites, but the one I

always have to stop and look at is the woman in her 1940’s dress standing with a broom in one hand and her other hand on her cheek— just resting and thinking. I am reminded of A. A. Milne who said, “Sometimes I sits and thinks, and sometimes I just sits.” My woman in the 1940’s dress inspires me to just sit—fortunately, there is a chair close by.

Helen Stein – Building 1

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Jane Poparad is the 50th Carol Woods Resident Artist who has been featured by Patricia Lockwood Davis on the wall opposite the library.

Cross Stitch of State Flowers: Muriel Easterling – Building 7

Tulips: Marcy Lansman – Building 1

Rose: Jeanne Madigan – Building 2

Child: Sara Carter – Building 2

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A Service of Remembrance

Each year Carol Woods holds an in-person Service of Remembrance for the residents who have died during the past year. During Covid, Janet Ross, Chaplain/Social Worker, held virtual services. This year we were able to gather together with the families and friends of those being remembered.

Marianne Ratcliffe spoke of each of the residents individually as part of a whole. She reported that they were “an educated lot,” with degrees in accounting, audiology, bacteriology, Christian education, computer science, counseling, economics, English, history, law, social work, special education, theater, and theology. And each used their education wisely, by teaching (kindergarten to college), counseling children with dyslexia and deafness, serving as librarians in public schools and in a medical library, programming computers, and founding new ventures (a church, a science museum, a horse farm). Marianne concluded with thanking them for shaping the world with their love, working for peace, and making their communities, including Carol Woods, beautiful places to live.

A special part of the service is the reading aloud

of the name of each person, followed by the sounding of a Tibetan Singing Bowl. This January service of remembrance honored 34 residents who passed away in 2022. Several families were unable to hold an individual service, so this one was especially meaningful to them.

This year, the Threshold Singers again sang two songs and asked us to join them in Bridge Over Troubled Water to end the service.

In Memoriam

Ted Atkinson

Ruth Barnes

Art Benavie

Kitty Bergel

Nancy Bless

Gay Brashear

Bill Brown

Kay Cameron

Molly Cameron

Cheryl Chandler

Fran Davis

Bill Eastman

Judy Eastman

Arlein Freund

Jean Gregory

Anne Heuer

Lois Ann Hobbs

Carol Hogue

David Jones

Ann Kendall

Pat Kiffney

Doris Leonard

Eileen Lohr

Jessie Lutz

Margaret Mays

Ann Pace

By Parry

Connie Sheffy

Ralph Smith

Claire Sobel

SuSu Vause

Helen Whaley

Pat Williams

Weezy Williams

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MUSINGS: Profile

Exhibit A: A key and a coin, side by side on the small table at the entrance to the dining room; just a plain metal door key, not one of our magical ID keys

Exhibit B: A neat note next to said key and coin reading “Key and 25¢ dropped on floor in front of check-in machine 12/28 – 5:10 p.m.”

Seeing these items made me smile. I had one of those “This is Carol Woods!” moments, so dear to my heart. Could I extract a profile of the writer from this evidence? Here’s a guess. The person is:

• Observant: It was a very small key and an even smaller coin.

• Precise: Found not “the other day” but 12/28 at 5:10 p.m.

• Honest: That 25¢ belongs to its owner.

• Empathetic: Imagines the key owner,

flustered and worried.

• Civic-minded: Takes the time and trouble to help.

I might even go out on a limb and say this is a profile shared by many a Carol Woodsian.

I recently encountered another smile-inducing sight. My neighbors contrived an informal path over the pine straw to their front door. It is demarked by big sticks, some of which, they tell me, are mementos of past hikes. One day, I noticed little sticks in a neat square right in the middle of the path. Curious, I looked more closely. In the middle of the square was a tiny green shoot: an incipient daffodil! How lovely! And reflective of some of the above traits as well.

Jan Dodds: Carol Woods Resident Artist

When I retired from my academic position in higher education, I decided I wanted to explore my artistic interests. I had taken art classes off and on but looked forward to doing it more regularly. A friend was taking a course at the Carrboro Arts Center called Playing With Paint. Having no experience with paint, I decided that seemed a good place to start.

As with many art classes, the instructor was optimistic and encouraging. I continued for about a year making notepaper, wrapping paper, and selected small, framed items. She suggested other classes and workshops I might enjoy, so I became a regular student in a variety of explorations.

In the Painting Experience course led by a California instructor, we painted with tempera that had been mixed for our workshop. The colors were beautiful. We painted on large pieces of paper and used very large brushes. I displayed these paintings in my basement, which ended

up as my painting area that was always ready for experimentation.

I took two courses at the Arts Center that were more like collage augmented with paint. I enrolled in a studio class where I received critiques from the instructor and other students in the class.

I took several classes at the Carol Woods Art Studio learning how to create portraits. Currently I am in the Plein Air class, where I learned to draw and use a variety of mediums. It was to be for one month, but one year later we are still going.

After a life based on words, paragraphs, and essays, the chance to have a pursuit with no boundaries—just some suggestions to get me started—has balanced my life in a very satisfying way.

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Currently, masks are optional for residents, including EA, in on-campus public spaces. Visitors are required to wear masks indoors in public spaces on campus, except when actively eating or drinking.

COMING EVENTS

The Assembly Hall, 7:30 p.m.

WEDNESDAY EVENING CONCERTS

04/05/23 Sam Magill, cello; and Dmitri Shteinberg, piano

04/12/23 Bach’s Musical Offering: Alice Ju, violin; Jacobus Hermsen, viola; and Joyu Lee, cello

04/19/23 Matvey Lapin, violin; and Katya Lapin, piano

04/26/23 Kevin Lawrence, violin; and Dmitri Shteinberg, piano

THURSDAY EVENING PROGRAMS

04/06/23 David Price, Past professor of political science and public policy at Duke and member of U.S. House of Representatives for 17 terms: “Congress: Looking Back, Looking Forward”

04/20/23 Richard Harkrader, Founder, Carolina Solar Energy LLC, Durham: “The Energy Transition: From Fossil to Solar," in partnership with The Climate Crowd

Celebrating the passage of a year of discombobulation

Building 2 sports new decks, new yellow deck umbrellas, and friends coming for a visit.

Marcy Congdon and her furry friends, Girl and Martha, greeting Yoda and Dan Grandstaff

Surgical masks are required on all visitors (residents and non-residents) to Buildings 4, 5, 6 & 7. All residents are strongly encouraged to wear masks in indoor public areas when off-campus.

THE CAROL WOODS NEWS

Carol Woods News Committee

Co-Chairs: Sindy Barker and Nancy Martin

Editorial Team: Eva Clontz, Carol Eckerman, Eleanor Howe, Susan Marston, Jane Misch, Jeanette Pfaff, Sally Walker

Council Liaison

Sonna Loewenthal

Proofreaders

Janet Campbell, Jan Dodds, Gail McKinnis, Claire Miller, Katherine Savage

Layout

Linda Graham Design

Distribution

Chair: Sherri Davis

Carol Candler, Nancy Elkins, Janet Turchi, Frances de Usabel, Donna Kavee, Hattie Warner

Photographers

Sindy Barker, Betsy Hamilton, David Hughes, Patricia Lockwood Davis, Nancy Martin

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