Senior School
Stronger, together Natalie Charles Head of Senior School
And I have to say, I’ve loved every minute of it – including the annual pilgrimage to Nagambie, not least because our participation through the APS/AGSV connects us to a sporting fixture with deep-rooted historical significance. This in turn expands and deepens our appreciation for the contributions made by all members of our community, irrespective of code, gender or division. It stands to reason then that, like most Australians, I shook my head in utter disappointment and disgust this year when the full extent of the online abuse directed at Tayla Harris in that photo was revealed. Because she could have been any one of our girls with her hair tightly braided, kicking or marking or running her heart out on any one of our ovals. As Brandon Jack noted in the Sydney Morning Herald, ‘It’s a tremendous photo in and of itself, but when put in context of the incredible
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social change it will help usher in by giving so many young girls an idol to look up to, it becomes something even greater.’ As the dialogue around Tayla’s photo has unfolded, I have been reminded of a similarly iconic and important photograph of Nicky Winmar raising his St Kilda jersey to point to the colour of his skin, in response to the racist taunts he’d received throughout the course of his career. For her own part, Harris was justifiably appalled and distressed because as she rightly noted, ‘It’s referring to my body, not what I was doing, which is playing footy…’ It’s probably also worth noting that a similar sentiment was expressed by one of our Year 11 girls, Mia Kendall, at assembly earlier this term. A talented footballer and slam poet, Mia’s performance of her poem – the gutsy and provocative ‘Awomen Amen’ – drew stunned silence from the 800-strong students, followed by wild applause due to its gut-wrenchingly honest (and at times painful) articulation of the vexed ‘virgin/whore’ dichotomy faced by young women in contemporary society: Writing this I feel exhilarated, Although when I read this out loud; To a crowd, I’ll probably feel humiliated, That’s what holds us back. The fear of embarrassment; What if someone has a crack? What if I just don’t have the knack? But no, we can’t backtrack; We’ve come too far to fall back…
Photo: Michael Willson/AFL Photos.
Doing the rounds of sport on a Saturday is one of the most appealing features of working in an APS School like Carey. Indeed, I can’t remember a single Saturday morning in my entire working life when I haven’t found myself hurtling down the highway in a bus bound for Geelong, wandering around one of the myriad sporting fields in the sunshine at Caulfield Grammar’s Wheeler’s Hill campus or shielding myself from the bitter wind at Flack Park in the shadow of the shipping containers.
If education – and specifically in our case co-education – is the key to authentic, decent relations that seek to honour the dignity of all, then schools everywhere must continue to engage the oft-times complex and confronting issues like sexting, pornography and consent without fear or favour. And a degree of urgency is required if a cursory glance at television programs like Married at First Sight and The Bachelorette is any indication. With tawdry romps in spa baths, alcohol-fuelled make-out sessions and the seemingly pathological need to disclose the most intimate of human encounters to anyone who will listen, it is clear that our young men and women are not just consumers but victims of highly commercial forces that are hostile
