Interview
Intergenerational families of Carey: the Hardings Kelly Southworth Editor
The Harding family have had an ongoing relationship with Carey since the 1970s. Greg started at Carey in Year 7 in 1976, followed by Fiona (née Cowie) in 1981 who attended Carey for her final year of schooling. Her brother, David (1979), also attended Carey. At the end of Year 12, Greg and Fiona got together and are still together today, with three children, also Old Carey Grammarians (OCGs), Darcy (2010), Isabelle (2014) and Michaela (2015). Darcy is married to Ellie, another OCG from his year. Even though all the Hardings have graduated, they remain engaged with the School, helping out in various sports teams and on the Carey Medal Committee. The Hardings were recently interviewed by the Torch to find out more about their Carey stories, and particularly about the early days of co-education. What are some of Carey’s most notable changes between the 1980s and now? Greg: It’s definitely a much bigger school now. There were only about 1300 students when we were in Year 12, but now I think there’s over 2500. Fiona: It still seemed like a big school at the time for me though. I came to Carey in Year 12 from a small all-girls school, because I wanted to experience a much bigger, co-educational school before going to uni. Another big 12 | Torch
difference is the ratio of boys and girls. I started only two years after co-education was introduced at Carey, so there were only about 30 girls in my year level. That was pretty interesting. There were only a couple of girls in my geography class, and I was the only girl in my PE class. I think that made the boys more uncomfortable than me! I ended up switching into a different class. I think some of the boys found it a lot easier to accept the girls than others – some thrived and for others it wasn’t what they were used to. Greg: I think it was pretty brave of the first girls who came to Carey. I was in Year 10 in 1979, and to begin with a lot of us found it to be a bit of a novelty and maybe even a bit awkward. I’m sure it could have also been intimidating for the girls, and I think they were all really close because of it.
Above: Greg and Fiona Harding, 1985. Opposite page: (L–R) Darcy, Greg, Michaela, Isabelle and Fiona Harding.
When did you first meet?
Isabelle, Darcy and Michaela – did your parents talk much about their experience at Carey with you?
Fiona: We met on my first day at Carey actually, because I was trying to find my way around and Greg came up and asked me where I was going. I needed to go to Chemistry, and he sent me to the wrong room! I’ll never forget that. We didn’t have a lot to do with each other throughout the year, we had no classes together. We didn’t get together until the end of Year 12.
Isabelle: Little snippets used to come through at dinner! I remember Dad telling us about having to tie himself to his tent buddy on Hattah camp because he’s a sleepwalker and a liability to get lost in the middle of the night. Mum also told us about Dad not doing a very good job of showing her around on of her first day and getting her lost, and that he didn’t invite her to the Year 12 formal!
