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Small summer respites can become a game-changer When my wife and I boarded an airliner for San Diego last month, we had plenty of company on the flight. The summer travel season was in high gear, and our plane brimmed like a biblical ark. The boarding line stalled as passengers tried to squeeze luggage into carry-on bins. Travelers inched over each other to shoehorn themselves into the narrow seats. There were sighs all around as everyone sized up the prospect of crossing half the country in such tight quarters. Wedged in place, I thought of a magazine interview I did last year with Arthur Brooks, who writes and lectures about the science of happiness. He travels a lot, which means many hours on commercial flights. Brooks has come to see it as an opportunity. As he explained, “the airplane is a great laboratory” for a social scientist. He gets to see human behavior in all its variety. In that spirit, my wife and I focused our attention on the senior airline attendant on our flight, a personable woman named Pamela. In the midst of the bustle, she remained serene, finding a couple of spare seats to create slightly more room. Pamela smiled calmly as she worked the aisle, even joking with a passenger who had requested, tongue-incheek, to be moved to first class. “I’m happy to do that,” she responded with a wink, “as long as you’re willing to sit in someone’s lap.” Impressed by Pamela’s easygoing attitude on what was obviously a stressful day, my wife asked her the secret to her good humor. “I had the day off yesterday,” she told us. “It helped a lot.” Can a single day of rest really be a game-changer? Such a small interlude of respite might seem like a trifling thing here in summer, when thoughts so often turn to weeklong idylls on the beach and the pleasure of extended time off the clock. But when I spoke with novelist Ann Patchett a few weeks ago, she touched on this very thing. Patchett is especially busy this summer as she promotes “Whistler,” her new novel, but her work as an author and bookstore owner in Nashville keeps her active all year. Patchett has built a life filled with people, and she seems deeply grateful for the community it’s created. Even so, she’s found that just a single day alone can be restorative. “And if I spend a whole day by myself, in which I never get in the car, it’s like I’ve spent the day plugged into a generator,” she said. “I have so much energy. I have so many great ideas. I can solve any problem, do anything, if I don’t have to see people.” My trip to California gave me a nice weeklong break. I’m back in the thick of things, but it’s good to know that when I need a breather, even a day away from the grind might be worth it. Email Danny Heitman at danny@dannyheitman.com.
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Luke Lipsey, Wendy Lipsey, Anna Aronson, Marla Aronson, Laurie Aronson, Susan Lipsey and Richard Lipsey
Richard Lipsey stood with JFK and danced with Jackie. But this Louisiana icon’s proudest role is Pops BY JAN RISHER Staff writer
Richard Lipsey briefed presidents and built one of the country’s largest firearms businesses. Ask his children and grandchildren about him, though, and the stories get smaller — and that is the point.
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Richard Lipsey in 1963 in his dress uniform in Washington, D.C.
t Jacqueline Kennedy’s command, the 24-year-old lieutenant from Baton Rouge took the first lady onto the dance floor at the White House. By then, Richard Lipsey was already a fixture of the Kennedy Camelot days. He had landed there as an aide to Gen. Philip Wehle who had plucked him from Fort Polk to work receiving lines in the Oval Office.
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Richard Lipsey, king of 2022 Washington Mardi Gras, with his grandson, Luke Lipsey.
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The Lipsey family are huge LSU and Kim Mulkey supporters. Pictured here, Laurie Aronson, Richard Lipsey, Kim Mulkey and Susan Lipsey.
In October 1963, weeks before the assassination of President John F. Kennedy, Marshal Tito, of Yugoslavia, was at the White House to meet with JFK. As Lipsey entered the room for the meeting, camera in hand, a guard told him cameras weren’t allowed. The president said otherwise. The photographs Lipsey took that day of the president with Tito turned out to be among the last taken of JFK in Washington. Six decades later, ask Lipsey what he is proudest of, and he doesn’t mention Camelot — not the Kennedys, not the White House. “My family’s what I’m most proud of,” Lipsey said, and began to list them: his two daughters, Laurie and Wendy, his grandchildren and his wife of 63
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LSU coach Jay Johnson celebrates with Richard Lipsey as the Tigers punched its ticket to Omaha in 2025.
“He never missed anything.”
LAURIE LIPSEY ARONSON, Richard Lipsey’s daughter, on his ability to balance family and work