te2eela
Are you
] CAMPUS QUIZ ]
(Women)
or
Fatret el tazbeet:
faseela?
The guy you have a crush on hasn’t asked for your number. What do you do? A) Nothing, what can I do? I just wait and hope that he does. B) I try to subtly encourage him to ask for my number by acting really friendly and fun to hang out with C) I give him my number without asking for his and say “let’s hang out some time.” That way the ball is still in his court but I gave him a nudge forward D) I ask for his number and give him mine
So you go out for coffee with a guy and it goes really well, but the next day he doesn’t call. What do you do? A) Think that he probably didn’t like you, or thought you were unattractive or boring B) Not contact him until he contacts you first C) Shoot him a nice text or BBM saying that you had fun D) Call him
El ‘tazbeeta’ kanet mashya kwayes the first week or two but now you feel like he’s starting to lose interest – he calls/ messages less and makes fewer plans to see you. How do you react? A) Freak out internally and talk to your friends about what you could’ve done for him to lose interest B) The next time he calls/messages, you don’t answer. And when you finally answer and he wants to make plans, say you’re busy. Two can play this game. C) You try not to worry too much and just assume he’s busy or something. If he messages or calls, you act normally, but you don’t see him out. D) Call him and ask him if anything is the matter and why is he not acting normal
When you’re in a relationship:
You and your boyfriend have plans but he cancels at the last second. You: A) Say ok, then sit and mope at home. B) Tell him “that’s fine, I kind of wanted to hang out with my friends anyway.” And if he calls/messages you later that night you don’t answer. C) Tell him you’re disappointed but you understand. D) Start a fight
You call your boyfriend twice throughout the day but he doesn’t answer. You: A) Worry that something happened to him B) Don’t call again. And blow him off when he calls you back. C) Send him a message saying: “just making sure everything’s ok. Call me back when you have a free moment.” D) Keep calling until he answers
You see a girl flirting with your boyfriend, and he doesn’t seem to mind. You: A) Have an inner breakdown. Of course he doesn’t mind, she’s a million times hotter than you!
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B) Ignore him and flirt with another guy the rest of the night C) Go up to them and politely introduce yourself D) Pull your boyfriend away and start a fight
You get in a huge fight with your boyfriend. What do you do? A) Cry and predict that it’s probably over B) Not speak to him until he calls you to apologize C) Let yourself cool off, then call him to calmly talk it over D) Call him and cry hysterically on the phone
After you break up: Your boyfriend changes his FB relationship status from “in a relationship” to “single”. What do you do? A) Deactivate your Facebook account. You can’t deal with this right now. B) You only know about this from a friend, because you already deleted the bastard from your Facebook C) It upsets you but what can you do? You’ll try your best to avoid checking his profile from now on D) You stalk his profile daily, and the profiles of any girls who post on his wall
You see your ex at a party talking to some girl, and you don’t know if she’s his date or just a friend. You: A) Leave. You’re still too emotional to be dealing with this right now. B) Ignore him and laugh and flirt with some of the other guys there C) Politely greet him if you make eye contact, but mainly try to avoid him D) Pull him aside and question him about who that girl is
You and your ex are still semi-friendly, but then he calls you up to tell you that he’s dating someone new and it’s kind of serious. How do you react? A) Cut off all ties and hate yourself for not doing it sooner B) Pretend you could care less C) Tell him you wish him the best, but maybe you guys shouldn’t really speak anymore so things don’t get awkward D) Start crying on the phone
Results:
Mostly A’s: Your biggest enemy is yourself. Your issue isn’t being either te2eela or faseela, your issue is that you have low self-esteem which can work against you as much as being either a bitch or clinger could. Mostly B’s: You’re the type of girl that guys go crazy over in the beginning because you’re so hard to get. As long as you keep a good balance of it and not get too caught up in your pride or trying to one-up the guy (flirting with other guys if he’s talking to another girl, etc.), you have a good chance of keeping your man in line. Mostly C’s: You’re a great mix of emotional availability without being suffocating. Look for a guy who can appreciate these qualities, not someone who’s only into it for the chase. Mostly D’s: Sad to say, but you’re a clinger. In the beginning, guys like a chase and don’t want what comes easy, and in a relationship no one wants someone who’s a drama queen and who will suffocate them. Try to loosen up a bit and remember that he could be pursuing YOU, not the other way around!