Welcome to our December edition of the Bystander. Season’s greetings to all our readers and a big thank you to our advertisers for supporting the magazine throughout 2024. Just like your favourite tub of Christmas chocolates, we have a magazine full of variety. Louise Herriman has a very informative article in which there are tips on how to sell yourself to gain promotion, switch jobs or embark on a new venture. Penny reveals some interesting Kimbolton related history as revealed by representatives of the Huntingdon Records Office. Georgia Rose reviews Judith Barrow’s latest novel entitled ‘The Stranger in My House’ and Hazel’s latest flash fiction contribution ‘A Change of Plan’ has a Christmas theme. Sally Gower has lots of Christmas traditions from around the world to share with us and we have a Christmas quiz for our younger readers to enjoy. Inn Farm Nursery have lots of Christmas fun activities for young children that will also help with their development and Canine Corner have some Christmas tips for dog owners. There is so much more inside so dive in and have a good read! Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!
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This Month’s Contributors:
Lee Munday, Paul Kinally, Penny Young, Tony Larkins, Joanne Cox, Georgia Rose, Anthony Withers, Hazel Wright, Eugene Smith, Louise Herrriman, Sally Gower
December Contents
Editor’s Letter
Christmas Quiz
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p.6
Health, Fitness, Beauty & Wellbeing p.8-10
Louise Herriman - How To Get Past The ‘Cringe Factor’ And Learn To Sell Yourself! p.8
Anthony Withers - Do Men Read Fiction? p.12
Inn Farm - Christmas Fun p.14
Penny Young - The Manchester Papers p.16-17
Crossword, Wordseach & Sudoku p.18
Gardening & Outdoor Section p.22-24
Lee’s Gardening Corner p.22
Camridgeshire Fire and Rescue p.30
Hazel Wright - A Change of Plan p.32
Beacon Wealth Management - Feeling Older?
Look after your Health and Wealth p.33
How To Choose The Perfect Wine Gift p.34-35
Eugene Smith - The Christmas Special p.36
Book Review - The Stranger in My House p.44
Peter Lane and Partners - Budging the Market Along p.48
Just For Kids! p.50
Sally Gower - The Novel in the Nativity p.54
Bystander Community p.56-63
The Staughtons with Hail Weston
Church Services p.62
The Boatshed Pottery p.64
Puzzle Solutions/Christmas Quiz p.66
Canine Corner - Christmas Tips For Dog Owners p.70
What’s On for Children? p.72
Nurseries, Primary & Secondary Schools p.72-73
Useful and Emergency Numbers p.73
Clubs, Groups & Organisations p.74-75
Mobile Library Times p.75
Business Listings p.76
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Christmas Quiz
What is the name of the snowman in the Disney movie
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What is the name of the lead character in the movie Elf: A) Ronald the Reindeer B) Alfie the Elf C) Buddy the Elf
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The Simpsons, who or what is called Santa’s Little Helper?
is the name of the evergreen plant that it's traditional to kiss under?
might a naughty child find in their stocking on Christmas morning?
is the name of the 25 days leading up to Christmas?
were the first people to visit the baby Jesus? A) Shepherds B) Three Kings C) Three Queens
reindeer is said to be the most famous reindeer of all?
popular Christmas movie is about a young boy who takes a train ride to the North Pole?
How to get past the ‘cringe factor’ and learn to sell yourself!
Let’s face it—"selling yourself" is something many of us find challenging. When it comes to asking for a promotion, switching jobs, or stepping into a new venture, speaking up about our strengths can feel uncomfortable. But confidently sharing your skills and achievements is essential in getting others to see your value and, in turn, can boost your own sense of self-worth and excitement for the change.
Start by looking back at your career history and listing all the projects you've worked on, no matter the size. If you’re naturally humble and think of success as a team effort, consider what you specifically did to help the team succeed. Don’t just focus on big results; often, it’s the smaller wins and steady progress that keep things moving forward.
If you’ve been away from the workforce, look at what you’ve achieved in other areas of your life. Perhaps you’ve been active in volunteering, managing a household, or helping organise a community event. These experiences involve valuable skills: planning, problem-solving, budgeting, people management, and communication. They’re just as relevant and can demonstrate your strengths and initiative. And don’t forget any new learning you may have done along the way.
Also, take note of tasks you find easy or even enjoyable. Often, these feel effortless because you’ve put in the time to develop those skills, and they reflect some of your strongest abilities. Recognising these recurring strengths isn’t arrogance; it’s sharing facts. If you don’t communicate what you bring to the table, who will?
If you’re really struggling, get a friend or professional coach to help you uncover your strengths. They can offer valuable perspective and help you see your achievements more clearly. Finally, try a similar exercise for your personal life; it’s a powerful way to reconnect with all you’ve achieved and overcome, building your confidence from within.
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Do Men Read Fiction?
This started off as a discussion in that well-known repository of intellectual debate – the pub. A friend of mine (female) belongs to a book club and another friend (male) said that most book clubs seem to be dominated by women, because, he claimed, men don’t read fiction any more. Could this be true? I checked the Sunday Times best seller list. The paperback top ten were dominated 8 to 10 by women. Not so the hardbacks where there is a more even distribution. Hardly conclusive so far. I asked a few friends, with equally mixed results although, it is true, many of the men tended to prefer non-fiction such as history or biographies but again not conclusive. Is there any proper research on the subject? Online I found an article written by a well-known American female novelist in which she lamented the lack of young male novelists: where, she asked, were the successors of Martin Amis, Julian Barnes, Ian McEwan? She went on to make the inflammatory suggestion that book editors at the largest publishers were largely 40 something white women selecting books which would appeal to 30 something white women. This of course provoked a furious reaction from (female) readers and publishers. Wisely, men kept schtum. I have to confess that I am in the non-fiction camp. If I do read fiction it tends to be renewing acquaintance with books or authors that I read decades ago. It would be interesting to hear the reaction of Bystander readers, but this might prove controversial so perhaps, to quote the Fast Show sketch, I should ‘get my coat.’
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On an entirely different note and with a glance towards the upcoming festive season I would like to alert Bystander readers to the New Year’s Day Walk which has been a tradition in the village of Great Staughton for more than two decades now. We meet at the sundial, next to the White Hart, on Staughton Highway at 11am on New Year’s Day for a gentle one hour/one and a half hour stroll on one of the village footpaths. It can be a bit muddy so boots are recommended. It's a good way to drive away some of the New Year’s eve demons. Contact me for more details. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Another event that might be of interest in the dark days of January, February and March is a series of tours of the historic church of St Andrew in Great Staughton exploring the architecture and monuments over the 800-year history of the church. More details elsewhere in the magazine.
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Finally, if you’re still wondering what to buy for that discerning friend, may I recommend Great Staughton and its People: how a Huntingdonshire village made its mark on England’s history. You don’t have to be a resident of Staughton to enjoy this book which is a panoramic view of England’s history from the Roman era to the present day seen through the eyes of the many remarkable from this little Huntingdoshire village. Would make a wonderful Christmas present. Paperback £15, Hardback £20. Contact me below to order your copy.
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The Manchester Papers
Penny Young
Members of the Kimbolton Local History Society were recently treated to a fascinating talk by two archivists from the Huntingdon Records Office, concerning the family papers of the Dukes of Manchester, the Montagu family and their original purchase of the estate from the Wingfield family, who lived at Kimbolton Castle from 1522.
They explained that in the 1860’s the National Records Office began contacting owners of the country houses and estates, throughout England, requesting that their family papers, which might contain documents of national interest, be sent to them to be properly recorded and chronicled. This operation was repeated in the 1880’s and from early in the 1900’s, it appears, local record offices took over the task and the Kimbolton estate was regularly asked to send in family documents so that their existence could be recorded for posterity. We learned that stately homes generally had a room, solely for the purpose of storing these documents, known as the ‘Muniment Room’, which would hold all the family papers such as estate maps, marriage settlements, family letters, deeds and records of staff employment and wages. We were shown on a plan of Kimbolton Castle where in the building it was thought this room was situated.
However, by the late 1940’s, 450 years of accumulated Manchester papers had outgrown the muniment room and boxes of papers were now stored in the Castle’s stables and in the loft over the gatehouse, which is now the frontage to the Castle from the High Street. A request to the Duke of Manchester from a couple of historians researching ancient maps, to have sight of any local maps relating to the area, which might be held by the family was agreed. The men were surprised at the haphazard muddle they found these papers in, and word got back to the local records office, that perhaps these valuable papers were not being kept properly. When it became known that the Duke of Manchester was beginning to sell furniture and paintings, the county archivists were worried that the family papers might also be sold and wrote to him asking if the papers could be brought into the local archives. To their delight, the duke acquiesced, and it was arranged that a local man, a Mr Tebbutt, was to collect all the many, many boxes of Manchester papers and deliver them to the archive office. We were shown a picture of the type of lorry that he might possibly have used, which, whilst it had a drivers cab, the back was an open trailer and it was perhaps hardly surprising that many papers might have blown out of the back on the journey, because when the archivists began to catalogue the papers, very often odd pages of longer letters were missing and other documents, which were known to exist from earlier recall of papers had not reappeared.
I was fascinated by this talk as I had recently learned about a similar set of circumstances involving our family papers in the 1930’s. The Kendall family papers are now stored at Kresen Kernow, the Cornish archives in Redruth. I had become aware that further Kendall papers were stored in archives at the Royal Institution of Cornwall (RIC) in Truro. On my most recent visit to Cornwall a day was found to view the Kendall papers in Truro. I was puzzled by the catalogue reference, “Hend/Kend” (followed by a reference number) and asked the archivist what this meant. She explained that it stood for Henderson/Kendall.
She further explained that back in the 1920’s a young man, Charles Henderson, had undertaken
a herculean task to visit all the stately homes in Cornwall, asking to see their family papers and take away with him any documents of local or national interest, to be properly recorded for posterity.
Charles Henderson had clearly visited Pelyn, our ancestral family home in Lostwithiel, quite early during this huge project. Family Wills dating back to 1332 and land deeds from as far back as 1439 were all duly recorded, and the documents returned. I am guessing that this would have taken place, during the lifetime interest in Pelyn, of the last Nicholas Kendall (1900-1992). Nick had taken possession of the family home following his marriage in 1925. The marriage produced no heirs and Pelyn has since sadly gone out of the family after 400 years.
The archivist then went on to tell me the story of Charles Henderson. This young man had, from childhood, suffered with chest complaints. As a child, Charles was very often bedbound, and became a scholar, eventually going to Oxford University. It was there that he met his future wife, and, some years later, during their honeymoon in Rome, he fell ill with complications from pleurisy and died, aged just 33. His young widow handed over all the papers he had been working on to the RIC. Charles’ premature death was also Cornwall’s loss, as he had planned a parochial history of Cornwall on a grand scale, of which, presumably, his visits to the county’s stately homes was just the beginning.
This aside, there were so many parallels with the talk by the Huntingdon archivists, and my ancestors down in Cornwall, I was rivetted. The Manchester papers filled 350 boxes. Transcribing, cataloguing and archiving these papers is a massive undertaking, helped in no small part by volunteers from within the membership of the Kimbolton Local History Society, who are painstakingly recording these precious documents. Our family papers filled ‘just’ nine trunks with tens of thousands of individual pieces of paper. The contents of 350 boxes of Manchester papers is simply mind boggling!
The Manchester papers, we were told, include letters from three Prime Ministers, including Benjamin Disraeli. On my last visit to Cornwall, I found a letter from Benjamin Disraeli to my 3 x great grandfather, who had just entered parliament as member for Cornwall. The letter, dated 18th October 1852, requests the presence of Nicholas Kendall at the meeting of Parliament fixed for 4th November, when ‘the House of Commons will immediately proceed to the choice of a Speaker’. It is signed, “I have the honour to be your faithful servant”. B. Disraeli. My gt grandfather replies – “I beg to say that I hope nothing will prevent me being at the opening of the session”. This letter is not easy to transcribe as Benjamin Disraeli’s seal is missing –presumably someone fancied this as a keepsake so there is a hole, the size of a large coin, running through all four pages of the letter, which does not make transcribing easy!
The final link from the talk at Kimbolton Castle and my family; a recently restored document, found amongst the Manchester Papers came from Essex. The archivists had wondered what it was doing amongst the Manchester Papers from Huntingdon and Cambridgeshire. Once transcribed though, the ancient document was discovered to be concerning lands owned in the area by Mary Boleyn (Anne Boleyn’s sister) and Richard Rich. These people are both in my family tree and indeed are named in documents which were taken away from our ancestral home to be chronicled by Charles Henderson.
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Lee’s Gardening Corner
December is a quiet month in the garden, but there are still things to do, and plenty of plants that provide flowers, colour and scent. Although if we do get snow then you can sit inside and plan for next year.
If you have any bare ground either in the veg garden or in a border, and it's not frozen, it can be dug over or just forked, whatever is required to tidy it up, and add some organic matter (like leaf compost or manure). Clear away plants and debris that might cause others to rot, or hide slugs and snails. Rake up leaves and put them either in a compost bin, or a black bag with a few holes for air and this time next year it will be great compost.
Try not to walk on lawns, there will be lots of worm casts around which do make a mess, and if it's frozen constant walking will kill the grass. If we do have snow and it’s lying on evergreen branches it might be a good idea to knock it off so that the weight doesn’t case any branches to break.
Trees and shrubs can still be moved if the soil is workable. Pruning can be done to tidy up hedges and shrubs. There should still be vegetables to harvest: parsnips, cabbages and Brussels sprouts are just a few, if you have a greenhouse then troughs of carrots can still be on the go, and sow a new batch for early carrots next year. Broad beans can also be sown now to have an early crop. Fruit trees and bushes can also be planted. Keep a check on any plants stored in the greenhouse or any other frost free place, don't water too much as this can cause mould to appear, and make sure pots are going to be ok if we have lots of frosts.
Some plants to enjoy over the winter are Sarcococca, Hellebores, Hollies and Viburnum x bodnantense, and there are a number of winter flowering clematis. If you have made winter pots and baskets keep them dead headed and check for any rotting. Evergreen foliage and flowers can be cut to make displays for Christmas too.
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A Change of Plan
Christmas was just three weeks away, and Betty had really annoyed her daughter by turning down her offer to spend Christmas with her.
Betty had done her best to explain how she was feeling. Betty’s husband had passed away in March, and she wanted to spend Christmas quietly on her own. Betty was still finding it very difficult to be without George, and she just wanted to spend Christmas in her own home, surrounded by her memories, without feeling the need to be cheerful and upbeat for someone else.
‘But you can’t spend Christmas all on your own!’, her daughter had protested. ‘Yes, I can’. Betty had argued. ‘It’s what I want to do – really. I would love to come and spend some time with you after Christmas, though.’ In the end, her daughter had given in to Betty, even though she still felt quite hurt, and worried about her mum.
Betty sat gazing out at her garden, thinking over what she had done, and feeling glad she had not allowed herself to be coerced by her daughter. The house was quiet, and suddenly Betty heard a small ‘clink’ in the kitchen. She went to look what had caused it. There was nothing obvious, so Betty decided to make herself a coffee. Moving to the kettle, she stopped in her tracks. Her ‘special’ mug, which had been given to her by George a few months before he died, was sitting beside the kettle. ‘Did I get that out of the cupboard?’ she said out loud. ‘I really don’t remember doing so.’ Betty made her coffee and clutched the mug to her heart.
The next day, she was meeting an old friend for a pre – Christmas afternoon tea. She was looking forward to it very much, and made an effort to look nice, even adding a pair of ear-rings which George had bought her for their last wedding anniversary. When she got back home, Betty decided to change into her pyjamas for a nice chill out evening. She was devastated when she came to take off her ear-rings, and found that one was missing. Despite a thorough search of the house, and the area just outside her house, she couldn’t find it. Knowing it could be anywhere, she consoled herself by watching a film, but she felt very sad and wished she hadn’t worn them. She made sure she was very tired when she went to bed, knowing that otherwise she would lie awake fretting. Pulling back her quilt, she stepped back in amazement. There, on her pillow, lay her missing ear-ring!
When Betty got up the next morning, she was still turning over in her mind how on earth the ear-ring could have got onto her pillow. She went into the lounge to turn on the Christmas tree lights. Betty still felt the magic of twinkling lights on a dark, gloomy morning. She stood for a moment, admiring the tree. A bauble at the top of the tree suddenly caught her eye. Last Christmas Betty and George had bought baubles with their names on. There was hers, but George’s, which she had hung beside it, had gone. Thinking it had slipped off its branch, she looked through the whole tree, but there was no sign of it. Starting to feel very confused, Betty made her way into the kitchen to make breakfast. This time, it was almost not a surprise that George’s bauble was sitting beside the kettle.
‘So,’ Betty said aloud. ‘It would seem I have a change of plan. Looks like I won’t be spending Christmas all on my own after all!’
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Recently, I’ve found I’m not able to do as much as I once did, and those aches and pains seem to linger a bit longer. In my mind, I feel about 25 years younger—or at least I think I do. The reality check comes when I attempt something I believe should be easy, only to find I simply can’t manage it. I’m not quite sure when age decided to catch up with me, but it has - and with a vengeance.
Luckily, owning my business has allowed me to shift to a three-day week, which helps. Plus, after 45 years of planning my own finances, I’m in decent shape financially. Now, it’s time to adjust my lifestyle to fit this new, older me, though perhaps with a bit of effort to stay fitter.
So, has age started to sneak up on you too?
If it has, how has it changed your outlook? Are your finances prepared for this chapter, or are you still in the process of getting things lined up? If age hasn’t caught up with you yet, enjoy it - but be ready, because it will come. And when it does, having a plan will make all the difference.
Give me a call and let’s share stories and plans for the future. I’ll provide the tea and biscuits.
This brings me to another shift: Labour’s Autumn Budget. It’s likely made many of us rethink our future plans - it certainly has for me. Pensions have changed for many, and not in the best way, while changes to Capital Gains Tax mean fund growth is even more crucial.
Depending on your age and health, you may suddenly find yourself needing a plan you didn’t think necessary before.
We can only hope that Rachel Reeves and her team’s budget choices boost the economy enough to reverse some of these tax changes. But if not, it’s wise to be prepared. Inheritance Tax, once affecting around 6% of the population, is set to impact many more people, including farmers who were previously exempt. It’s time to reassess your financial strategies and make the necessary adjustments for you and your family.
And if you’re one of the lucky ones who doesn’t feel old just yet, congratulations! But keep an eye out—age has a way of sneaking up on you unannounced.
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Think about your recipient’s usual preferences. For fans of crisp, refreshing flavours, a Sauvignon Blanc or dry sparkling wine is ideal. Those who enjoy bold, rich notes might appreciate a Malbec or Shiraz.
2. Celebrate the Occasion
Consider the occasion they’ll enjoy the wine for. A bottle of Champagne or sparkling wine is ideal for New Year’s celebrations, while a cosy red like Merlot or Malbec is perfect for winter evenings by the fire. A light, easy-drinking white could be just the thing for Christmas gatherings. Matching the wine to a festive moment makes the gift feel more thoughtful and relevant to the season.
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3. Choose Something Unique Independent wine merchants, like Handpicked Wine Box, often stock distinctive wines from small vineyards, adding an extra story to your gift. A bottle they’re unlikely to find in supermarkets feels that much more special.
At Handpicked Wine Box we seek out the top artisanal, family producers from across the world. We love sharing the romantic stories of their vineyards and their characterful wines with you.
4. Add a Personal Touch Presentation matters. Choose a gift box or include a handwritten note to show thoughtfulness. At Handpicked Wine Box, we offer gift wrapping and personal messages on handwritten cards to make each gift feel unique.
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The Christmas Special
If there’s one thing which truly embodies the spirit of Christmas, uniting families, friends and strangers, it’s watching telly. But have you noticed a certain familiarity in the schedules from year to year? This Christmas, see how many of the following you can spot on TV. Whoever ticks off the most wins first go at the Quality Street (and aren’t the tubs small these days etc etc etc). And don’t start calling me Scrooge. I love Christmas, but won't tolerate lazy television.
• Christmas editions of sitcoms stretched to twice their normal length, with half the normal number of jokes.
• One token religious programme broadcast at lunchtime when nobody’s watching telly.
• Soap operas spreading their Yuletide messages of joy by killing off popular characters. And if any Radio 4 snobs are feeling smug reading this, I refer you to The Archers doing exactly this in 2011, cementing its descent into a tiresome Eastenders wannabe.
• An eye-watering number of repeats, leading you to believe that they’d repeat last year’s news if they thought they’d get away with it.
• An awful, awful BBC remake of a Classic Serial.
• Newsreaders you never see during the rest of the year.
• Christmas editions of sitcoms filmed abroad for no reason whatsoever.
• Repeats of Top of the Pops hastily edited down to seven minutes.
• Christmas idents which appear to have had considerably more time and effort put into them than the surrounding programmes.
• The Big Christmas Day Film. Which everyone’s already seen.
• An otherwise normal episode of a drama which ends with one of the characters staring in wide-eyed wonderment at the sky, while sleighbells are heard.
• A Mrs Brown’s Boys Chrstmas special. If you concentrate you can hear the commissioning editor giggling insanely and intoning “Now I am become Death, the destroyer of worlds”.
• Carols from King’s featuring at least one ghastly modern carol which nobody will ever like.
• Christmas films featuring a recent divorcee, whose plucky children celebrate the season by fixing her up with a local hunk. These will have been showing on Channel 5 since midOctober.
• Christmas editions of sitcoms containing enough maudlin sentimentality to rot your teeth.
• Some unfortunate second-league show, such as Casualty, having their big Christmas episode broadcast on December 30th.
• A Doctor Who special which will have fanboys in their fifties incandescent with rage, until their mums send them to bed.
• An MR James Christmas ghost story which isn’t the least bit scary. But will have the same plot as every other story he wrote.
• Christmas specials with location scenes obviously filmed in July.
• Carols from King’s, where the human zoo of the choral scholars proves horribly captivating.
• Looped repeats of Only Fools and Horses which enable you to pinpoint the exact moment it jumped the shark, and yet continued for another twenty years.
• Panel shows containing at least one participant who nobody has ever heard of. Quite possibly including themselves.
Have a very Merry Christmas! I won’t mention New Year, as that’s always rubbish. https://eugenesmithwriting.com/
Budgens is all about food. Early morning deliveries, 6 days a week, ensure lots of fresh produce.
Everything is here to create delicious meals from scratch. We also have a great variety of prepared meals.
A wide range of Wines, Beers, Ciders, and Spirits will complement your meal.
We have a Bakery plus Costa Coffee, Fresh Sandwiches & Frozen Foods.
We’re just round the corner. Open long hours, 7 days a week, with car parking.
The Stranger in My House is the latest release from Judith Barrow. It is a gripping 'cuckoo in the nest' domestic thriller, exploring how coercive control can tear a family apart. Set in Yorkshire and Cardiff, from the 60s to the winter of discontent, The Stranger in My House dramatises both the cruelty and the love families hide behind closed doors.
This is my review:
Charlie and Chloe are eight-year-old twins who are still reeling from the loss of their mum when their dad, Graham, brings home Lynne, and tells them she is going to be their new mummy. They will also have a new brother, Saul, age thirteen, and sister Evie, age fifteen. Charlie is immediately suspicious and reminds Chloe that Lynne was the nurse who made their mum cry.
Graham believes he is doing a good thing in saving Lynne and her family from the rough estate they came from, but it isn’t long before you wonder at the truth of their background or indeed anything that comes out of the manipulative Lynne’s mouth.
The ensuing breakdown of the family shows how powerless children are and I became angry on their behalf, and frustrated at the unfairness of it all. That it evokes such emotions shows how good the writing is.
Barrow knows family and relationships and that is evident throughout this page-turner, which will have you rooting for your favourite characters. There is lightness to balance the dark and of course always the hope that the truly evil will get their comeuppance.
Beautifully written and excellently paced, The Stranger in My House is yet another triumph from Barrow and without hesitation I recommend it to all who enjoy suspenseful storytelling from an author who knows her craft.
The Stranger in My House was published on the 14 November and is available wherever you buy your books.
Georgia Rose is my pen name and the name I use for everything connected to my writing. You can find me at georgia@georgiarosebooks.com or www.georgiarosebooks.com.
PURPLE HORIZONS
A community initiative making a difference
Purple Horizons was launched in September 2019 by five local mums sitting around a table with a cup of coffee, with the aim of raising money and awareness of causes close to our hearts.
Our vision was to create something that is not only engaging and enjoyable but also enlightening, something to “broaden our horizons” and at the same time “make a difference”. Purple Horizons was set up to organise events that raise money for local charities and increase awareness of the important work these organisations do. Since our launch we are proud to have raise £44,000 for local charities including Papworth Trust, Addenbrookes Charitable Trust (specifically for the Cambridge Cancer Research Hospital) and Rise Africa UK.
Each of our events offer something unique and cater to a wide audience. From art to politics to sport, literature, history to health and wellness, our events cover a diverse range of topics. We also host themed gatherings such charity balls, lunches (including our annual Christmas lunch) and sporting events, as well as hands-on creative workshops like our wreath-making for the festive season. Whether its wine-tasting or learning something new, we truly offer something for everyone.
We have certainly had some fascinating talks, from learning that China genuinely seeks stronger ties with the West, to discovering the diplomatic delicacy of eating sheep’s brains without offending your diplomatic host and pondering why there isn’t a collective noun for English sparkling wine akin to cava, prosecco and crémant.
We are always eager to welcome guest speakers with an interesting story or insights to share and would welcome anyone interested in addressing to our members to get in touch.
Check out our website for details of how to become a member - its free!
Follow us on social media and find further details about previous and upcoming events!
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Budging the Market Along
Paul Kinally of Peter Lane & Partners in Kimbolton explores how much impact the 2024 Budget will have on property buyers and sellers.
What did the hotly anticipated 2024 budget from Chancellor Rachel Reeves do for those looking to buy or sell a property?
Apart from a few initiatives such as the post Second World War new homes building programme, Thatcher’s Right to Buy legislation, the 1988 cessation of mortgage interest relief at source (MIRAS) and the 2022 mini-Budget, governments don’t often seem to impact the UK property market in a direct way. Significant market fluctuations have usually been the result of referred influence from domestic economic performance and events such as a pandemic and global financial depression, leading to major market upheavals.
This latest budget appears to have done little to move the dial in property, and the jury will be out for a few years until we know if the new government will be able to make good on its promise of planning reforms and its new homes building programme.
So what has the 2024 budget done for us? Apart from what some might term as several mean and short-sighted measures affecting specific market sectors, the budget has removed much of the uncertainty of the past few months for many would-be movers who have been hanging on to see what might happen. The budget has given buyers and sellers room to plan with some predictability. As budgets go, it could have been much worse for the property market.
If you are thinking of moving and would like to discuss any aspect of the process, Paul can be contacted at the Kimbolton Office on 01480 860400 or paul.kinally@peterlane.co.uk
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Just for Kids
Childcare for 2–11 year olds
A wonderful charity run setting based in the beautiful village of Spaldwick, and led by a fantastic team, we are pleased to offer:
• 2 to 4 years old: pre-school childcare during term time between 9am to 3pm (lunch available; pre / after school care and holiday time covered by the clubs below). Eligible Government funded places available. Each session is planned and includes play activities that help progress the children’s learning and development in the areas covered by the Early Years Foundation Stage framework.
• 2 to 11 years old: breakfast and after school care (S-Club) for the morning (8am to 9am) and afternoon (3pm to 6pm) for those attending Playtimes Pre-school and Spaldwick Primary School.
We offer a relaxed and calm environment where children can enjoy breakfast; and a hot tea in the afternoon. We encourage stimulating but relaxed activities to prepare children for / help them unwind from their school day.
• 2 to 11 years old: holiday club for all (available for all children, they do not need to attend Playtimes
Pre-school or Spaldwick Primary School) between 9am to 5pm (lunch and hot tea available; breakfast and afternoon snack included).
We provide indoor and outdoor activities (children are encouraged to play outside wherever possible), including baking, arty crafts, nature walks, bug hunts, seasonal parties, and much more.
For more information, please contact: Email playtimesoffice@gmail.com or call 01480 890077 to book a place. Hours: Mon – Fri: 8am–6pm Playtimes, Ferriman Road, Spaldwick, Huntingdon, PE28 0TQ Charity No. 1032297
The Novel in the Nativity
I’ll always remember the excitement of waking up on Christmas Day when I was young, sneakily opening stocking presents at 5am and eagerly tucking into whichever book of the Lucy Daniels Animal Ark series had awaited me. Kittens in the Kitchen, Mouse in the Mistletoe, Whale in the Waves, you get the idea. The joy of reading at Christmas time (or, ahem, any time of year) has never left, which is why an Icelandic Christmas tradition, Jólabókaflóð, appeals so much. The European island nation once boasted the record for most books published per capita in the world (apparently this is now the UK - awkward). Especially impressive when you factor in their population of just over 300,000. Icelanders give, receive and read new books every December on Christmas Eve. The thought of curling up in front of a cosy fire with a new book and a glass of something festive on Christmas Eve truly does make me feel warm inside. As long as I’ve done all my wrapping.
This December tradition had me wondering about those of other countries around the globe. The UK of course has the erratic Christmas cracker and pantomimes (oh no, it doesn’t!). But would any others intrigue me as much as Iceland’s? Pick up your spoons and dig into some of these.
Sweden and Donald Duck’s Christmas Day 3pm broadcast (arguably the best and only Donald that should be celebrated – grumble, America, grumble). This tradition began in the 1960s, when TVs weren’t as common as they are today, thus only two channels were available, one of which aired Disney cartoons at Christmas. Well, what could be more festive than Donald Duck and friends wishing us all a merry Christmas?
Ukraine and spiders’ webs. The legend is that one year, a widow was too poor to decorate the Christmas tree and one night, the house spiders decided to weave silvery webs all over it for the children to be greeted with the beautiful sight of the twinkling cobwebs on Christmas morning. Ukrainians still honour this tradition today. Spookily reminiscent of Halloween, or a quaint tradition steeped in good nature? Literally. I’d go with the latter.
Finland and saunas. I do not enjoy the cold, so this one I am all for. Many Finnish homes are equipped with a sauna and as many as 75% of Finns take part in the tradition where families share a sauna on Christmas Eve. It’s thought to be dedicated to the spirits of those long since passed, as a way of continuing to involve them in present celebrations. Comforting in more ways than one perhaps, although I’m not sure how these spirits would feel about the fact their families strip naked for said saunas in order to pay tribute to them.
From relaxation to workout central… Should you happen to be in the Venezuela capital of Caracas on Christmas Day morning, prepare to witness swathes of the population roller-skating their way to Mass. Such a tradition is this wholesome activity that roads now close to traffic in the city from 8am to allow for the two-wheeled pilgrimage en masse. You’d just hope the communion wine consuming part doesn’t turn into a lock-in or the journey back might be tricky. There is a plethora of other delightful Christmas traditions around the world that may tickle your fancy, such as the debated German or Spanish pickle on the tree, or the star-shaped parol lanterns made from bamboo and rice paper in the Philippines. Wishing everyone a merry Christmas and a peaceful new year, whatever traditions you enjoy. As for me, I’d like this year to be Sally in the Sauna with a Science Fiction Novel. Best get building… Sally Gower
Bystander Community
HAIL WESTON WILDLIFE AND GARDENING GROUP
Tuesday 3rd December
Christmas Social
7:30pm Hail Weston Village Hall
Quiz plus cheese ploughman's along with Tea/Coffee and Wine
Members £1.00 /£3:00 non members children welcome further information contact: tel_maggs2@225771mgl.co.uk
RUSHDEN TOWN BAND CHRISTMAS CONCERT
KEYSOE VILLAGE HALL
DECEMBER 1st 5.00pm
Tickets £8.00 - Janet 01234 376577
Email:bookings@keysoevillagehall.co.uk
START YOUR CHRISTMAS OFF WITH POPULAR SONGS & CAROLS
North Beds Ramblers walk every Saturday
North Beds Ramblers:
Please note change of start time for afternoon walks – Winter start 13:00 Come and join us for a walk. We walk every Saturday afternoon approx. 6 miles and Saturdays twice a month in morning for approx. 12 miles
December Walks
7th pm Woburn, 6.6 miles
14th pm Mince Pie Walk, Blunham, 4.5 miles
21st am Wilstead, 5.5 miles or pm Wilstead, 6 miles or both 11.5 miles
28th pm Riseley, 6.3 miles
Contact; Margaret Sawyer 07780933729 Facebook; North Beds Ramblers https://www.ramblers.org.uk/north-bedfordshire
KEYSOE VILLAGE HALL
BIG BREAKFAST
DECEMBER 21st
JANUARY 18th
9am - 11am
Full English - £7.50
Small English - £4.50
Tea & coffee included No need to Book JUST TURN UP
���� Kimbolton & Stonely Parish Council ���� Christmas Market &
Lights Switch On
Sunday 1st December 12 - 4pm
Kimbolton High Street
Come along and buy some fantastic Christmas gifts and sample delicious food. There will be a wide range of stalls including chocolates, jams, pickles, jewellery, wooden gifts, table burners, vegan cupcakes, burgers, bacon butties, face & body products and much, much more. Meet Father Christmas and watch the Christmas lights switch on.
St Andrew’s Renovation Project
SECRETS OF THE CHURCH
THE PEOPLE WHO MADE STAUGHTON GREAT
A journey across eight centuries of England’s history as we explore the architecture of the historic church of St Andrew and tell the stories behind the monuments, memorials, brasses and tablets of this wonderful building.
The tour will be guided by Anthony Withers, author of Great Staughton and its People
Venue: St Andrew’s church Great Staughton PE19 5BB
Dates for 2025: January 11, February 15 and March 15 all at 11.00am
The price of the tour is £6 which includes refreshments
Book and pay on line here indicating the date(s) you prefer. or scan the QR code
Or just Email Anthony Withers at aw.staughton@gmail.com with your preferred date and pay at the door.
Visit our web page to find out more www.swhw.co.uk
What’s on in Kimbolton in December
Sunday 1st
Monday 2nd
10-12.30pm Bytes Cafe. Youth & Community Hall 10-12pm Fitness Class. Mandeville Hall
10.30 - 3pm Kimbolton Castle Christmas Fair 12 - 4pm Kimbolton Parish Council Christmas Market & Lights Switch On 3pm Onwards. Kim Jam. New Sun Inn
2.30pm WI. Mandeville Hall
Tuesday 3rd 9-11am Baby & Toddler Group. Youth & Community Hall 4.15 - 5.15pm Rainbows. Scout Hut 5.30 - 6.45pm Brownies. Scout Hut
Wednesday 4th
10-12pm Bridge Club. Mandeville Hall 2-7.30pm Dance Class. Mandeville Hall
Thursday 5th 11-12pm Fitness Class. Scout Hut 12pm Senior Lunch Club 2-7.30pm Dance Class. Mandeville Hall 4.30-5.45pm Beavers. Scout Hut
Friday 6th
6-7.30pm Cubs. Scout Hut
Girlguides. Scout Hut. Check website for times: www.girlguiding.org.uk 7.30pm Bingo. Mandeville Hall
7-8.30pm Scouts. Scout Hut 8pm Quiz Night. New Sun Inn
10-12.30pm Bytes Cafe. Youth & Community Hall
Monday 9th 10-12.30pm Bytes Cafe. Youth & Community Hall 10-12pm Fitness Class. Mandeville Hall 6-7.30pm Cubs. Scout Hut
Tuesday 10th 9-11am Baby & Toddler Group. Youth & Community Hall 4.15 - 5.15pm Rainbows. Scout Hut 5.30 - 6.45pm Brownies. Scout Hut
Wednesday 11th 10-12pm Bridge Club. Mandeville Hall 2-7.30pm Dance Class. Mandeville Hall
Thursday 12th 11-12pm Fitness Class. Scout Hut
Friday 13th 10-12.30pm Bytes Cafe. Youth & Community Hall
Saturday 14th
Monday 16th 10-12.30pm Bytes Cafe. Youth & Community Hall 10-12pm Fitness Class. Mandeville Hall
Tuesday 17th
Senior Lunch Club
Dance Class. Mandeville Hall 4.30-5.45pm Beavers. Scout Hut
Girlguides. Scout Hut. Check website for times: www.girlguiding.org.uk
7pm Kimbolton & Stonely Parish Council Meeting. Youth & Community Hall 7.30pm Paint & Sip. New Sun Inn. Tickets £10 to include a glass of Prosecco
7.30pm Gingerbread House Making Competition. New Sun Inn. Tickets £5 to include a glass of Prosecco
Wednesday 18th 10-12pm Bridge Club. Mandeville Hall 2-7.30pm Dance Class. Mandeville Hall
Thursday 19th 11-12pm Fitness Class. Scout Hut 12pm Senior Lunch Club 2-7.30pm Dance Class. Mandeville Hall 8pm Christmas Quiz Night. New Sun Inn
Friday 20th
10-12.30pm Bytes Cafe. Youth & Community Hall 7pm Christmas Cinema Night. Film: Wonka. Mandeville Hall
Saturday 21st 6-8pm Winter Wine Bar. Whitchurch Wines 7pm Kim Jam Christmas Special. New Sun Inn
Monday 23rd 10-12.30pm Bytes Cafe. Youth & Community Hall 10-12pm Fitness Class. Mandeville Hall
Tuesday 24th
Wednesday 25th
Thursday 26th
Friday 27th
Saturday 28th
Sunday 29th
Monday 30th
Tuesday 31st
10-12.30pm Bytes Cafe. Youth & Community Hall
CHRISTMAS DAY
BOXING DAY
6-8pm Winter Wine Bar. Whitchurch Wines
NEW YEAR’S EVE
All 10.30am services can be accessed via Zoom: ID 418 4055 563 Passcode: 022067
Morning & Evening Prayer are held on Zoom at 8.30am & 5.30pm respectively on Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday and Friday
Join us at St. Andrew’s church on Friday for an informal bit of fun with your toddlers and pre-schoolers, along with refreshments and chat for the adults. 9.00am - 10.30am during school term
ST. ANDREW’S, GREAT STAUGHTON
Sun 1st: 8.00am BCP Holy Communion
Sun 8th: 10.30am Parish Communion
Sun 15th: 10.30am Parish Communion
Sun 22nd: 10.30am Parish Communion 6.00pm Benefice Carol Service
Tue 24th: 3.00pm Christingle 11.30pm Midnight Mass
Wed 25th: 10.30am All Age Communion
Sun 26th: 10.30am Benefice Communion
ALL SAINTS, LITTLE STAUGHTON
Sun 1st: 10.30am Benefice Service with Advent Carols
Sun 15th: 9.00am Parish Communion
Tue 24th: 4.00pm Christmas Nativity service with carols & puppets
ST. NICOLAS, HAIL WESTON
Wed 4th: 10.00am Morning Prayer
Sun 8th: 9.00am Parish Communion
Sun 15th: 3.00pm Christmas Creative Communion
Tues 24th: 5.00pm Christingle
The Boatshed Pottery
Brought together through their love of all things ceramics, Zoe and Ellie are based in the heart of Kimbolton, working both individually and collaboratively on private commissions. They also offer a variety of workshops.
On different dates throughout the year, they open their doors to welcome you into their working pottery studio. Here you will be able to shop their new range and chat to Zoe and Ellie about any upcoming courses. This year they have been working on a collection of wheel thrown tableware and decorative ware, in a variety of styles and colours, perfect for your home or as gifts.
What we offer:
• Studio/Shop open days;
• 5 week courses;
• 2 hours taster sessions: wheel–throwing and hand building;
Stay in our cozy log cabin in Äkäslompolo, Ylläs, Finland. We can also arrange your full itinerary from the moment you land in Lapland till the moment you leave. Searching for Santa, Huskies, Reindeer Safaris, Snowmobile Safaris and much more.
For more information please contact: Jane Phone: 01480 812598
Email: jane@funwithsanta.co.uk
Canine Corner - Christmas Tips For Dog Owners
Christmas is nearly upon us and with much of the festivities centred around the gathering of family and friends, the family dog is often included too. For some dogs this is great fun but others may find it a little overwhelming. It is important to consider the needs of your dog in the run up to Christmas. Here are a few tips to ensure the festive season goes smoothly…..
• If you have a puppy or young dog, you will need to be extra vigilant. Christmas trees, decorations and fairy lights are potential chew hazards. Ensure your dog does not have unsupervised access to these.
• It is lovely to wrap up a present for your dog and let him enjoy unwrapping it. Many dogs prefe the wrapping paper to the present itself!
• Always ask if gifts contain edible items before putting them under your tree. Otherwise your dog may find out for you…..!
• Many of our festive favourites can be dangerous to dogs. Christmas pudding and mince pies (both contain raisins), alcohol, chocolate and cooked turkey bones can all cause serious problems and you should take care to make sure your dog cannot access them. Snacks left out on tables are very tempting so make sure they are out of reach. Chocolate tree decorations are definitely not a good idea! If your dog does eat chocolate, raisins or cooked bones, phone your vet immediately for advice.
• If you are having guests for Christmas, ensure your dog has a safe place to go if needed. This may be a covered crate in a corner of a quiet room, or ideally a separate room with a comfy bed and water. Make sure he is used to using his safe space on a regular basis.
• If you know your dog doesn’t like visitors, plan ahead. Make sure he has had a good walk beforehand and then put him in his safe space before they arrive, preferably with a chew or a food filled kong. Instruct visitors (especially children) to leave him alone. Remember to take him out for regular toilet breaks through the day.
• If your dog usually likes visitors, it is still very important to supervise interactions and monitor him to make sure he is still coping with the attention. Don’t rely on your dog to take himself to his safe space when he’s had enough, not all dogs will do this. It is your responsibility to watch him and remove him from the situation if you think he may be stressed, overtired or over-stimulated. Be aware that the noise of a busy family Christmas can mean that vital signals are missed. Owners often tell me that they are not sure if the dog growled or not before a bite incident as it was so noisy in the room. If in doubt, keep the dog out.
• Make sure all guests know the rules, especially if they don’t have dogs themselves. Tell them not to feed the dog snacks (we don’t want aunty feeding Fido mince pies) and children must know not to climb on or pester the dog.
• If guests bring their own dogs, don’t assume they will all get along. Make sure the dogs have met beforehand out on a walk, preferably a few times, and are happy in each other’s company.
• If your dog does not like loud noises, put him in another room or in the garden before you pull Christmas crackers.
• Enjoy the extra time you have with your dog and the take the opportunity for long walks whenever you can.
• If you leave snacks out for Father Christmas, make sure your dog doesn’t get to them first!
Opening Hours: Wednesday 12-6pm, Thursday 10:30-5pm, Friday 10.30-7pm, Saturday 10.30-5pm For more information pop-in and ask or email jeff@whitchurchwines.shop
Baby and Toddler Activities
Grafham Little Fishes, Stay and Play Session for 0 to 4year olds
All welcome on Wednesdays 10.00 to 11.20, term time only, in Grafham Village Hall. Just turn up for free play time, followed by a short bible story, action songs and simple craft. For more details, contact Jane Rowley 01480 890986 littlefishes@eastleightonstone.com
Family Fun Friday St Andrew's Church, Great Staughton, 9.00am - 10.30am term time only. Tea, coffee, playtime, story time, singing. Contact Sylvia - 01480 812022 for more details. St Neots Toy Library - Mon to Thurs 8.45am - 4.30pm, Fridays 8.45am-1.00pm. At The Butterfly Children’s Centre, next to Winhills School and The Eatons Children’s Centre next to Bushmead School. Telephone Lyanne 01480 358350/Jaci 01480 358340. Rhyme time - rhymes and stories for babies and toddlers aged 0 - 2 years. St Neots library. 2 sessions 10am & 11.15am term time only on alternate Fridays Baby Gym classes
Promoting tummy time, sensory stimulation and adult two baby bonding. Classes operate term time only, Friday mornings : 10.30am - 11.15am, Open sessions, no booking required., £5 per session, pay as you go (Cash only)., Operates at Huntingdon Gymnastic Club, Mayfield Road, Huntingdon, PE29 1UL, Run by Beccy Chapman Bsc WAHpc, Like Us on Facebook to keep updated, search: ‘baby gym 8-weeks to walking’
Riseley All Saints Church Junior Jivers - music and movement session followed by stay and play every Thursday at 930am term time only - Contact: Samantha Toseland Tel: 07880 700894
Young People’s and Children’s Organisations Guides, Brownies and Rainbows
Kimbolton Guides, Brownies & Rainbows Esther Crook on 07713 165935 esthercrook1@gmail.com Gt Staughton Guides Lindy Bornman, email fgsguides@gmail.com Upper Dean Brownies & Rainbows, Karen Jones: email: div.nbeds@bedsguiding.org.uk Little Staughton Guides, Little Staughton Brownies Scouts, Cubs, Beavers
1st Brington Scout Group, Contact: Tim Collins - 07881 821649
Dance/Performing Arts
Linda Allen School of Dance – Ballet, tap and modern jazz from 3+ years - Spaldwick and Kimbolton Ladies ballet and tap in Kimbolton, 01480 861332, info@LindaAllenDance.com, www.lindaallendance.com Stageworks Studios, St Neots. Dance, drama and singing classes for ages 3+. 01480 223331 Motion Dance Academy, Hinchinginbrooke Shcool, Huntingdon - 07887 932294, Miss Mollie www.motiondanceacademy.co.uk missmollie@motiondanceacademy.co.uk
Nurseries, Playgroups, Pre-Schools & Kids Clubs
Crosshall Nursery School 01480 475980
Crosshall Kids Club 01480 219518 Inn Farm Priv. Day Nursery 07802 826798 www.innfarmdaynursery.co.uk
Keysoe Playgroup – Keysoe Village Hall, MK44 2JE, Thursdays 9.30-11.30, £2 per family, healthy snacks, hot drinks, biscuits and craft activity included. Lovely friendly group with lots of toys for your little ones. Come and join us. Term time only.
Village Hall, Yelden 07539 662544, yeldenvillagehall@gmail.com
Grafham Nature Reserve & Watch Group The Wildlife Trust 01480 811075
North Beds Young Farmers’ northbedsyfcmembership@gmail.com FB: North Beds Young Farmers Instagram: @northbedsyfc Twitter: @northbedsyfc
Grafham Water Sailing Club 01480 810478
Wildlife Trust Brampton Wood
George Cottam Volunteer Warden, 01480 450809; Wildlife Trust Huntingdonshire Local Group Pat Doody Chair, 01480 392706. Eve talks Brampton Memorial Centre 7.30pm, 2nd Wednesday Sept - March. Guided walks in the summer. Grafham Wildlife & Conservation Group Sam Malt 01480810844 day/01480811654 eve
Village Sports
Badminton Club (Kimbolton)
Catworth Playing Field
Cricket Club, Kimbolton
Cricket Club, Little Staughton
Carpet Bowls, Catworth
Carpet Bowls, Kimbolton
Carpet Bowls, Gt. Staughton
Shirley Osborne 860198/Jill Strand 861508
Mary Matthews, 07717 246107
Mark Field, 07769 159496
Adrian Thrasher 07834 602086
Marge Baker, 01832 710145
Mary Foster, 01480 861594
Anthony Withers, 01480 861224. Carpet Bowls, Spaldwick
Carpet Bowls, Ellington
Table Tennis Club - Melchbourne
Andrew Vickers, 01480 891201
Janet Stewart 01480 533482 janetstewart725@gmail.com
Peter Wilkinson peteathillands@gmail.com, 07792 056 157 Tennis Club, Kimbolton
Tennis Club, Gt Staughton
Grafham Tang Sou Dao Club
Great Staughton Golf Society
Roy Butler, 01480 861007
Nicole Yates, 01480 860616
Steven Treadaway 01480 812433, info@cambstangsoudao.co.uk
Derek Fitzgibbon, 01480 861234 Little Staughton keep fit
Yoga Classes, Little Staughton, Hail Weston, Linda Tongue 01480 350345, Brampton, Catworth & Godmanchester 07733343702, lindatongue@yahoo.co.uk
Mobile Library Service 0345 045 5225 for enquiries / renewals
2nd Wednesday of the Month (R. H10) - 11th December
Diddington : Manor Farm 9.30am to 9.50am
Southoe : The Church 10.05am to 10.25am
Spaldwick : High Street 10.45am to 11.05am
Stow Longa : The Green 11.15am to 11.45am
Catworth : Station Road Midday to 12.30pm
Covington : Cross Street 1.45pm to 2.15pm
Kimbolton : Stow Road (Newtown) 2.30pm to 3.45pm
Kimbolton : Castle Gardens 3.50pm to 4.30pm
4th Tuesday of the Month (R. H23) - 24th December
Bythorn : School Lane 10.00am to 10.20am
Molesworth : Phone Box 10.25am to 11.00am
Brington : Church Lane 11.10am to 11.35am
Old Weston : Village Hall 11.45am to 12.20pm
Leighton Bromswold : The Avenue 12.30pm to 1.00pm
(R. H24) - Monday 23rd December
Ellington : Mermaid Pub 9.30 to 10.00am
Grafham : Breach Road 10.10am to 10.35am
Perry : Chichester Way 10.45am to 11.40am
Hail Weston : Orchard Close 12.00pm to 12.20pm Great Staughton : The Causeway 1.30pm to 2.00pm
Kimbolton : Stow Road (Newtown) 2.15pm to 3.45pm
Kimbolton : Castle Gardens 3.50pm to 4.30pm
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