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Dear All, November is a poignant month when we remember all the fallen servicemen and women who have made the ultimate sacrifice fighting for their country. Thank you to all of you who have sent in such moving articles and memories of those we have lost here in Sussex, and who we must never forget.
I also hope it is a time to reflect and have hope for the future, even in these somewhat uncertain times. Those lives cannot have been lost in vain. However bad it gets I really hope we can try and make the most of every day, turn negatives into positives and reach for the stars as I am sure that is what they were fighting for – a future filled with freedom and opportunity.
It’s always very inspiring to hear about people who have taken the plunge and stepped out of their comfort zone to give something a go – however big or small. Donna Chapman, our front cover artist, and James Stewart, former lawyer and teacher (we are related!), are doing just that. You can read about their journeys in this issue and please do send in your stories if you are happy to share.
I hope November brings you energy, fireworks and a sky full of stars.
Best wishes, Kate X
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DECEMBER ISSUE DEADLINE – MONDAY 4 NOVEMBER
BONFIRE NIGHT
BY JOHN CLARKE
WHAT’S THE STORY BEHIND 5 NOVEMBER?
We all think we know the story behind The Gunpowder Plot and bonfire night ... but do we? It actually began with Queen Elizabeth I. Her persecution of Catholics was legendary. When her fifty-year reign came to an end it was thought that the new king, James I, would be more tolerant because his own mother had been a Catholic. Unfortunately, this was not to be and, increasingly, some young men felt called to violent action.
A small group of men, under the leadership of Robert Catesby, felt that blowing up the Houses of Parliament would, in all likelihood, kill the King, the Prince of Wales and those politicians opposed to Catholicism. To this end they acquired 36 barrels of gunpowder and stored them in the cellars under The House of Lords. These are the facts but opinions about what happened next are divided.
The popular story goes that as the plan progressed, some of the conspirators began to have second thoughts. There was a likelihood that innocent people would be hurt, namely those politicians who had actually fought for Catholic rights. And so, one of the group sent a letter to his friend, Lord Monteagle, warning him to stay away from Parliament on 5 November. This warning letter is said to have reached the King, who then made plans to stop the plot. Guy Fawkes was caught in the cellars with the gunpowder. He was duly arrested, tortured, and executed along with his fellow conspirators.
However, this theory is disputed by many historians.
It has been suggested that the letter may have been falsified by the King’s officials. There had already been minor terrorist acts against Parliament and the Palace and many of those involved in The Gunpowder Plot were already known to the authorities. It would therefore have been extremely difficult for them to acquire gunpowder in such large amounts without arousing suspicion.
It’s thought that one of the conspirators, Francis Tresham, taken in for questioning, confessed. The suggestion is that the letter was then created as a tool to explain how the King found out about the plot in the nick of time and also as a means of anti-Catholic propaganda.
The fact that the letter was unsigned and that none of the conspirators appear to have known about it – none claimed in their defence that they’d written it – lends weight to this theory.
The legacy of The Gunpowder Plot persists. Even now the reigning monarch enters the Houses of Parliament only once each year for the state opening. Prior to their arrival the Yeomen of the Guard search the cellars for explosives. Once a purely ceremonial ritual, in current times it has once again taken on a more serious tone.
On the night of 5 November, 1605, bonfires were lit all over London in celebration of the saving of Parliament and the King ... and the tradition persists to this day.
THE SILENCE
BY KIM LESLIE
With the guns silent, the trenches emptied and the First World War hostilities at an end, King George V issued a royal proclamation in 1919 calling for the nation’s first two-minutes’ silence in remembrance of the ‘victory of Right and Freedom … and of those who laid down their lives to achieve it … all sound, and all locomotion should cease, so that, in perfect silence, the thoughts of every one may be concentrated on reverent remembrance of the Glorious Dead’. The world-wide carnage amounted to some forty million. Today, with even more millions added to the catastrophic toll, we still honour King George’s call made a century ago for Armistice Day marking the end of the war with silence on 11-11-11 (11am on 11 November). To this was added a second silence on Remembrance Sunday as the royal family traditionally leads the nation at London’s Cenotaph or as we gather around the country’s war memorials throughout the land.
But our two-minutes’ silence wasn’t King George V’s idea. It started in South Africa, at Cape Town, where there was a Two Minute Silent Pause of Remembrance in May 1918. The first minute a time of thanksgiving for those Commonwealth troops who had returned alive, the second minute to remember the fallen who never returned. King George warmed to the idea and with the backing of the War Office and Cabinet the UK followed South Africa’s lead. But even before the royal proclamation, a groundswell of opinion was building for a national day of remembrance centred around silence. An Australian journalist working in London, Edward Honey, wrote a letter to the Evening News in May 1919 suggesting that during the peace celebrations of that year ‘Can we not spare some fragment of those hours of Peace … for a silent tribute to these mighty dead?’. The culmination of all this thinking was the first national two-minutes’ silence on Tuesday 11 November 1919.
But did it all start in Cape Town, or with King George’s proclamation? Nearer home, in Farnham, a plaque at the bottom of Castle Street proudly claims that the little Surrey market town observed its own two-minutes’ silence in 1916, three years before the national observance.
Local farmers were planning an agricultural sale and fair to raise funds for the war work of the Red Cross. But amid the turmoil of war, people asked if it was appropriate to hold a fair and jollifications. So the day’s programme included a two-minutes’ silence ‘as a token of respect to the memory of those who have fallen in the War, to the Wounded, to the Prisoners and to those who are fighting for their country’. There’s no connection or continuity between this very local observance and the national observance, but it does give Farnham a leading role in this solemn observance.
ALL RISE BY KATE STEWART
Hundreds of primary school children across Sussex have been learning about the law thanks to a new, educational workshop.
The All Rise Workshop helps children to understand their legal rights and responsibilities as well as take part in a mock trial and is the brainchild of former solicitor and Felpham-based primary school teacher, James Stewart.
James is on a mission to get law into state-funded UK primary schools in Sussex and beyond. He said: “Too many young people leave school with no understanding of the legal system and too many young people think professions like law are beyond them. I want to change that. I am a big advocate of public legal education in all schools in all sectors.”
“I want our children to be active and engaged citizens of the world, to understand their legal rights and responsibilities. I want our children to be confident and articulate and to be able to fight against injustice when required. I want children to leave my workshops feeling empowered and believe that professions like the law are open to them,” he added.
By the end of 2025, James is campaigning to secure funding from local and national solicitors to enable him to take his legal workshops into 100 state schools. One such firm is Chichester-based SMR Solicitors who sponsored an All Rise Workshop at Bersted Green Primary School.
Becky Turner, Bersted Green Primary School Y6 teacher, said: “The children really enjoyed the workshop. They got to experience a range of different tasks requiring them to problem solve and work as a team. The activities promoted oracy and all the children were involved in the whole session. We would strongly recommend the workshop.”
James Stewart added: “All children need to learn about law irrespective of where they go to school. I have taken my workshop to many schools and it is very rewarding, but I need more law firms and/or businesses to sponsor workshops so children don’t miss out.”
If you know a school teacher or educational establishment that would be interested in hosting, or a solicitor or law firm interested in sponsoring, an All Rise Workshop email James on allriseworkshops@gmail.com or visit www.allriseworkshops.co.uk
CHRISTMAS CONCERT IN FELPHAM
Bognor Regis Concert Band are back in Felpham this December for their renowned Christmas Concert at St Mary’s Centre, Grassmere Close, Felpham PO22 7NU.
This promises to be a great family friendly night of Christmas and traditional music bound to fill you with festive spirit. Join us on Saturday 7 December at 7pm. Tickets are £7 each and are available on the door, or in advance at brconcertband@ gmail.com. There will be interval refreshments and our grand raffle. Enjoy live music from your very own concert band.
Later in December we will be supporting South Bersted Church’s Charity Christmas Concert on Saturday 21 December at 3pm in St Mary Magdalene Church, Bersted Street, Bognor Regis PO22 9QE.
This will be a family friendly afternoon, so bring the family to this special event. Details available at brconcertband@gmail.com
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HELPING PARENTS COPE
Join our Christmas Fair to help Home-Start support local families with young children through tough times.
Christmas should be a magical time for children, with presents, festive food, memories and good times all wrapped in love. But for thousands of children across our area, this festive period will be incredibly tough.
Many of the children and families we support live in unsuitable housing, experience poor health and financial hardship. We can’t make everything go away, but at Home-Start we help parents with coping strategies, access to foodbanks, energy and benefit checks, and a listening ear. We can also ensure that every family we support has the Christmas they deserve, bringing presents and joy to children during this special time of year.
You can help! Come along to our Christmas fair on Saturday 30 November. It’s a fun morning for all the family and will raise money to ensure local families have all the essentials they need this Christmas. There will be homemade Christmas gifts and toys for sale, a tombola, raffle, crafts, games, cakes and a chance to meet Father Christmas himself …
If you can’t make the Fair but would still like to donate to our Christmas appeal – thank you! Scan the QR code here or visit our website address for other ways to donate.
If you would like to join Home-Start as a volunteer or find out more email Jo@home-startawa.org.uk, call 01903 953799 or visit www.home-startawa.org.uk Home-Start Arun, Worthing and Adur Tel: 01903 953799 Charity No. 1132416
LOCAL HISTORY
BY SYLVIA ENDACOTT
Let us take a stroll and have a nostalgic look back at traders through the years. First let us remember D & M Wood; they were situated in London Road, next to the Odeon cinema, now a Bingo hall. From 1928, until the 1980s they sold drapery, general furnishings, and clothing, According to customer recollections, sales were frequent, flannelette sheets were 5/- (25p) in 1938 and ladies’ raincoat, 10s/11d. (60p) in the 1939 sales.
Another shop that always seems to spark interest was Edward H. Isted, in London Road. This shop evokes its memories with its smell as soon as you entered. They sold vegetable seeds, broccoli, cabbage, and a wider range of vegetable. Where have I found this information; in their 1945 Seed List! For you gardeners you could apparently purchase 7lbs. of Arran Banne potatoes for 1/-. (I suppose I should really convert all of that to metric!)
What about “The House of Hawkes” situated at No. 9 High Street from 1872 to 1970. A shop that sold groceries, wines, spirits etc. Interestingly they produced a magazine, price list and diary, which was issued “In the interest of Good Housekeeping.” This publication providing a list of all their provisions. including. articles on meals for “Tiny Tots”.
Today’s television advertising is of course very immediate but is not necessarily the choice for the local trader who is desperately trying to combat our shopping style of moving to the out of town stores.
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REACH FOR THE STARS
BY DONNA CHAPMAN
In February earlier this year I saw an advertisement in the Supporting All Artists magazine looking for an “Artist of the year”. They had pictures of previous years’ winners which were quite incredible with extraordinary life stories to match. Most of them seemed like ordinary people which got me thinking “What if?” and “What have I got to lose?” Then it was a matter of choosing a painting. I asked everyone who passed through the house to choose a painting they liked best. It was this painting, you see here called Reach, that got the most votes. So that was the painting that went.
In May, earlier this year, I had an email to say that I had made the finals. There had been 3000 entries and my painting had made it to the last one hundred. Truthfully this was a surreal moment! Judging took place in August and discovered that I had been awarded a Highly Commended. After working so hard this acknowledgment was just what I needed – it truly did fill my heart. I still can’t believe it. And my painting was part of a week-long exhibition in Nottingham from the 1st-6th October.
At the SAA awards presentation it was amazing to see my work in a large gallery hanging with these extraordinary paintings. It is what you dream of as an artist. (Well maybe a solo exhibition touring the world … anyway back in the here and now) and I’ve never felt so proud. Many of the other artists there on the night felt the same. It has been such a wonderfully encouraging experience and I will certainly try again next year. Nothing ventured, nothing gained, as they say!
ARUN & CHICHESTER (AIR) ENTHUSIASTS SOCIETY
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Patrons – Sqn Ldr Richard (Dick) Kharegat RAF (Retd) – ex Vulcan, Victor, B52 Pilot
Sqn Ldr Rod Dean RAF (Ret’d) – ex Hawker Hunter Pilot and Display Pilot Monday 25 November - 1845 for 1930 hrs
‘Harrier, F35 and Vertical VX4 – Testing Fixed Wing EVTOL Aircraft’
Presented by Jim Schofield
Jim Schofield has flown over 100 aircraft types and is the first pilot to fly front-line fighters spanning 100 years: 1917 Bristol Fighter, SE5a, Spitfire, Mustang, Viggen, Jaguar, Harrier, Tornado, Gripen, Typhoon, F-15, F-16, F/A-18 and F-35. He was one of the first pilots to land a Lockheed-Martin F-35 on a ship at night. During 20 years of service in the RAF Jim became the MoD’s lead Harrier and F-35 test pilot. In this fascinating talk, he will discuss this experience contrasted with testing the new generation of EVTOL (Electric Vertical Take-Off and Landing) aircraft such as the Vertical VX-4.
AirACES is an aviation talk society, providing its members with regular talks, given by experts in many different fields related to the world of aviation.
VENUE – Boxgrove Village Hall, The Street, Boxgrove, PO18 0EE 6.45pm for 7.30pm start. Members £5, Non-members £10 and under 16s FREE. Doors open at 6.45pm no pre-booking, no reserved seating. For further information about AirACES, please see www.airaces.org.uk, or call David Batcock on 07502 400657.
Reach by Donna Chapman.
CHRISTMAS LIGHTS: CAN YOU HELP?
BY KATE STEWART
Pam Evan’s Christmas lights display is legendary in Felpham and Sussex-wide. In 2023 Pam, 82, and her partner put up 7,123 lights covering the entire outside of her house and garden to raise money for St Willfrid’s Hospice. This year she wants to do the same but needs a team of helpers. Here is the letter Pam sent into the magazine – please help if you can.
Dear All,
I have done a Christmas lights display for many years in aid of St Wilfrid’s Hospice. The idea is you pay £1 to guess the number of lights (last year it was 7,123) and the nearest guess wins a prize donated by local village shops.
As I am getting older (82 years) and my partner has passed on I am asking for help this year in putting them up and I have the weekend of 16/17 November in mind.
Pam’s lights.
Just a few hours would be much appreciated to keep this tradition going. Please call me if you can help on 01243-868684 or 04796-657081 or email office@infocusmagazines.co.uk and Kate will pass on your details.
Many thanks, Pam Evans
DIPPING INTO 2025
BY JANET STOCKLEY-POLLARD
The Felpham Dippers are a group who are united in our love of cold water swimming. Last year we sadly lost one of our members, a lovely mermaid friend Rebecca, to the cruelness that is cancer. St Wilfrid’s Hospice helped her immensely and so we wanted to do something to help the charity, in her memory, so we made this calendar.
All of the photos are taken locally, and we have tried to make it a calendar that shows how much fun we have and how we are there for each other. We give thanks to everyone involved who has given their time freely and we would like to especially thank Stephen Pollard, Jacqueline Rackham, The Bognor Regis Museum, MJ and our brave October Girls.
The calendar is £10 and is available to purchase from local St Wilfrid’s Hospice shops, at select local outlets, and at some of the local Christmas markets. It can also be ordered by emailing us at felphamdippers@ gmail.com. For the cost of postage (Starting at £1.55) we will post it out, so if you would like one to go as a gift, just let us know.
We also have a Facebook page and website felphamdippers.com. It would be fabulous if you could join in and share it far and wide. Please help us to raise as much as possible for this wonderful cause. Thank you so much for your support.
HR IN FOCUS BY
TANYA SMITH AND GEMMA GUINEY
IS YOUR EMPLOYEE REWARD AND RECOGNITION HITTING THE SPOT?
If you’re a business owner or manager with direct reports, you are likely to be having conversations about an end of year celebration around this time. Often along with the tinsel and turkey we use the opportunity to reward and recognise our employees for a job well done throughout the year too.
Employee recognition is a key factor in improving employee engagement, job satisfaction, productivity, retention rates, and ultimately, a company's profitability. Oxford University's Saïd Business School found that 92 per cent of workers are more likely to repeat a specific action after receiving recognition for it; And according to a study by Gallup, companies with engaged employees experience 21 per cent higher profitability than those without engaged employees.
Have you seen these kinds of results or are you wanting to see these kinds of results in your business? Having the right kind of reward and recognition in place for your employees is critical to achieving this. The best reward and recognition programmes that motivate effort and improve engagement are personal, specific, and timely
Find out what it is that your employees value the most in terms of reward and recognition. That way, working extra hard becomes more worth it for them and they are more likely to appreciate your efforts. A simple questionnaire or a list with ideas on that they have to score out of ten (ten being the most valued, one being the least) are really simple and effective ways of finding out what it is they most appreciate and will value. An extra day off? Leaving work early? A voucher for a favourite shop? A certain drink or food? One offering is unlikely to suit all, so if you have a budget for reward and recognition, consider how it can be split to meet individual needs so that you get the best return on your investment.
Reward and recognition doesn’t always need to add to the bottom line though. The intangible stuff can have the same outcome, and it is worthwhile considering these options before anything else if budgets are tight – there really is no excuse for not putting something in place. Don’t get us wrong, the chocolates and bottle of wine are all lovely to receive, but often it’s the thank you card that accompanies it that can make the biggest impact. When someone takes the time to sit and write what they had seen you do (providing specific details), explaining what a positive difference your efforts have made on the business (quoting results or what others have said) and why they appreciate you so much can mean the world, as well as motivate effort and inspire loyalty.
For further information, HR queries or to send in a question visit: https://www.thehrhouseconsultancy.co.uk or email: enquiries@thehrhouseconsultancy.co.uk
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1 tbsp olive oil
2 onions finely sliced
1 large garlic clove, finely chopped
8 pork sausages
400g tin chopped tomatoes
Method
2 tsp Dijon mustard
½ chicken or vegetable stock cube, made up to 175ml
420g tin baked beans
Mashed potato, to serve
• Heat half the oil in a lidded saucepan over a medium heat. Add the onions and fry until golden. Stir in the garlic and fry for two more minutes. Transfer to a plate and set aside.
• Increase the heat, add the remaining oil and the sausages, and cook until caramelised browned all over.
• Return the onion and garlic to the pan with the tomatoes and mustard. Add the stock, season with pepper, and cook over a medium heat for 10 minutes, adding the beans after 5 minutes.
• Cover and cook for 5 more minutes until the sausages are cooked through. Serve poured over creamy mashed potato.
ALL THINGS MUST PASS DUO RETURN TO FELPHAM
After their sell-out shows in 2023, the All Things Must Pass Duo returns to Felpham this month. Alex Eberhard and Bernd Rest present George Harrison’s incredible music as a duo, stripped back to two guitars and two vocals.
This is the story of the duo: The All Things Must Pass Orchestra, a mighty 10-piece band dedicated to George’s music, has been performing regularly since 2014. Some years back, for a special show in Henley on Thames, George’s adopted home town, the band invited some guest musicians, among them the singer Sam Brown, who had worked with George Harrison. On the night, she performed on a ukulele given to her dad, Joe Brown, by George himself!
This musical connection ultimately led to the formation of the duo: The promoter of The Crooked Billet – a venue near Henley where George Harrison frequently dined and sometimes performed – asked Sam Brown if she could recommend musicians to perform George’s music to celebrate the 50th anniversary of the All Things Must Pass album release. She recommended Alex and Bernd, and the duo was born. Dhani Harrison, George’s son, attended their first show in May 2021 – a beautiful start to the project for the two musicians. Since then, they have been delighting audiences around the country with their carefully selected and arranged set of George Harrison’s music. An absolute treat, not just for Beatles fans.
The Duo will perform at Felpham Memorial Village Hall on 29 November. Tickets: www.allthingsmustpass.co.uk
Bernd Rest and Alex Eberhard of the All Things Must Pass duo.
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GOT AN EARFUL?
HERE’S SOME ADVICE FOR EAR WAX REMOVAL FROM GINA WILLIAMSON
Ear wax is a normal substance that helps protect the outer ear. For most people, it moves out of the ear naturally over time, however 2.3 million people a year in the UK require their ear wax to be removed by a professional.
The Royal National Institute for the Deaf says: “If left untreated, ear wax build-up can lead to temporary hearing loss, earache, a greater risk of infections, social isolation, and depression.”
So, who might need ear wax removal?
An ear wax blockage can happen to anyone at any age. Typically hearing aid users are prone to blockages, but if your hearing has become muffled, you are experiencing itching, cracking noises or a feeling of fullness in the ears, you may have a blockage of wax.
How is the wax removed?
There are two main ways– Micro suction and water irrigation. Micro suction is suitable for most individuals and has a reduced chance of infection and is quick and painless.
Water irrigation - You may be thinking of the ‘old fashioned’ strong burst of water from a big syringe. However, this is warmed water that is gently pulsed into the ear canal to remove large build ups. Water irrigation is NOT to be used for those with a compromised ear drum, such as holes (perforations), previous ear surgery, scarring or recurrent infections (as well as a few other health conditions). A medical history should always be taken prior to removal to ensure the correct method is chosen.
How will I feel afterwards?
The reason I love my job is the happiness and relief I see when I complete a removal. My clients are always so happy and often state they didn’t realise how much they had been missing regarding their hearing. Removals often help with Tinnitus, which can be a very welcome relief for people.
How much does a removal cost?
Pricing can vary between different providers, usually between the range of £40 to £80 depending on if it is one or two ears. Some companies set a set price that covers both ears even when only one is blocked. Others charge per individual ear. An important question to ask before booking is “If you cannot remove all the wax in one visit, do I have to pay any additional fee?” Sometimes, for safety reasons wax needs further oiling. In my professional opinion, you should not be scrutinised for this, and the initial fee should cover a possible return visit to complete the removal.
Does the NHS still provide this service?
Yes and no. Some GP surgeries do not provide this service anymore; however, some still do, and it is always worth enquiring with your registered GP surgery. However, this is usually a water irrigation method that may not be the correct method to use as mentioned. Whoever you choose to go for this service, make sure they are qualified, insured and give a clear pricing structure.
Gina Williamson is a qualified, ear wax removal practitioner based in Bognor. To find out more information visit her website www.decibelleearcare.com or call her on: 07904232141.
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LOCAL LIVES
REMEMBERING PRIVATE BYRON SNOOK AND SERGEANT THOMAS JOHN RUFF
BY JANE SUMMERVILLE
Private Byron Snook, a soldier in the 11th (1st South Downs) Battalion of the Royal Sussex Regiment, lost his young life in the First World War. Today, we remember him.
Byron was the son of Henry Thomas and Emma Snook who lived in Felpham. Henry served the Felpham community as a fruiterer and greengrocer, selling his produce outside of Victoria Cottage on the corner of Sea Road although, later, the Snooks moved 50-yards or so to the Mill House on the bend in Felpham Road. It is the Mill House that is stated by the Commonwealth War Graves Commission as the address for the Snook family; and it was their living here that gave rise to this part of Felpham becoming known as Snook’s Corner.
Private Byron Snook’s grave is in the Churchyard of St Mary, the Virgin, Felpham with a Commonwealth War Graves Commission headstone. The east face of the headstone is incised with the badge of the Royal Sussex Regiment; Private Byron Snook’s Service Number – SD/847; his date of death which was 29 December 1915; and his age which was 28 years old. The personal inscription on the headstone reads: “THY WILL BE DONE”. Private Byron Snook’s grave is not with the group of War Graves which are to the north of the church but is west, by the flint wall that separates the old churchyard from the newer part.
Today we also remember Sergeant Thomas John Ruff who lost his young life in the Second World War.
Sergeant Thomas John Ruff was a pilot in the Royal Air Force Volunteer Reserve serving in the 11 PAFU (Pilot Advanced Flying Unit).
Thomas, like Byron was the son of a local Felpham family who served the community: this time, not a fruiterer and greengrocer but a butcher. His father and mother were Frederick Thomas and Annie Elizabeth Ruff of Felpham, who had the butcher’s shop, F.T. Ruff. This was originally sited to the north of the village, on Felpham Road near Lavender Cottage and adjacent to what is now Darren Miles Funeral Service. Frederick later moved his shop to larger premises – at Snook’s Corner – in what is now the Chinese take-away food shop, Kam Too.
Sergeant Thomas John Ruff’s grave is also in the Churchyard of St Mary’s, Felpham, this time with the group of War Graves. The east face of his headstone is incised with the badge of the Royal Air Force; his service number – 1390378; the fact that he was a Pilot; his date of death which was 4 February 1943; and his age which was 22 years old. The personal inscription on his headstone states: “TO LIVE IN THE HEARTS WE LOVE IS NOT TO DIE”.
Additionally, both men are commemorated on the WWI and WWII Memorial Plaques, that are set on the south wall, inside the Church, near the baptismal font.
I have only selected two local men but we must remember all who lost their lives, at Remembrance Services both nationally and locally, on Remembrance Sunday. In Felpham, this Service of Remembrance will be led by The Reverend John Challis, Rector of St Mary’s Church, Felpham, at the War Memorial in the Churchyard, on Sunday 10 November 2024, at 10.45 AM. This is a community service whether individuals are of Christian or other faith or none and which involves local people, organisations and groups coming together in a shared act of remembrance.
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From my lovely Felpham Village therapy room, I offer treatments for pain, injuries, muscle and joint tension, stiffness, gut issues, sleep disturbances, food intolerances, allergies, skin problems, fatigue, anxiety, emotional issues and so much more. For general relaxation, a full body Hot Stone Massage is a popular choice. I see people of all ages including children, and I work regularly in a local care home to help with age-related complaints. I very much look forward to welcoming new clients.
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FELPHAM PARISH COUNCIL NEWS
FELPHAM HEROES / PARISHIONER OF THE YEAR 2024
Do you know a Felpham resident who deserves to be recognised for outstanding work in assisting others in 2024? Examples could be saving a life, caring, charity work or anything else that you believe merits recognition.
We would be delighted to receive nominations for awards in three categories:
• Young people up to 11 years of age
• Young people up to 18 years of age
• Parishioner of the Year – over 18 years of age
If you would like to make a nomination, please scan the QR Code below or email the Clerk: clerk@felphampc.gov.uk
Nominations will close 31 January 2025
Shortlisting will take place in February 2025 with awards being at a ceremony in March 2025.
Committee News
Benches: A VE Day commemorative bench has been purchased by Felpham Parish Council as agreed by the Projects and Community Involvement Committee and will shortly be installed in Old Rectory Gardens:
Noticeboards
Felpham Parish Council would be interested in hearing residents’ views on how they receive Felpham Parish Council information. Some of the 11 noticeboards throughout the village will shortly require repair/replacement and we would like to know whether these are used and in which areas.
Other Felpham News
Two EV chargers are to be installed in Felpham at Upper Bognor Road/Sea Road.
Adoption of roads on Blake’s Mead – West Sussex County Council have advised the following: The outstanding matter holding up the adoption of the final phase (phase 3) is the street lighting remedial works which we require the developer to undertake to enable the street lighting to be accrued onto the WSCC PFI contract. The developer has engaged with Enerveo, who are the WSCC lighting PFI provider. Enerveo have advised that the required replacement columns and lanterns are all on order, but there has been a longer than expected delivery date for the new columns. Enerveo expect delivery late next month but are chasing for an improvement. Based on the information provided it is anticipated that phase 3 adoption is a couple of months away.
Meeting Dates:
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SKILFUL STARLINGS
BY Alice McD ougall
November might be chilly, but it is a wonderful time to visit Pagham Harbour RSPB. The mudflats are alive with the raucous sounds our winter residents: curlews, godwits, lapwings, teal, widgeon, brent geese, dunlin, greenshank, redshank - all screeching, honking and whistling on the mudflats or flying overhead in gregarious flocks.
But in among this cacophonous menagerie is a less conspicuous and often understated bird: the starling. Although sometimes described as a ‘small’ ‘and ‘black’, anyone who has given a starling more than a cursory glance will know that they are so much more than that. With iridescent blue, purple and green streaking through their feathers, their winter plumage, more brown than black, is covered with delightful, bright white spots.
Starlings have many skills, one of which is the ability to mimic a whole range of other birds. You may think you are hearing an owl, a curlew or wagtail – or even a machine or car alarm – but in fact it is the sneaky starling. The other incredible talent of starlings is of course the murmuration.
In the UK, a starling murmuration is one of the most mesmerising events of our natural world. Who could not be enthralled by this perennially morphing mass of birds as they twist and turn, dip and rise, forming themselves into ever changing shapes? Why and how starlings achieve this incredible feat without flying into each other has occupied many scientists and naturalists. Flocking is associated with safety; an airborne predator will find it far more difficult to catch an individual bird when it is in a flock. The close proximity of the birds enables them to communicate and respond
Starling.
quickly to any threats – and being fast moving dynamic birds, their response times are sharp. One hypothesis is that they copy the behaviour of their seven neighbours, and those seven copy the flight path of their seven neighbours and so on. The result is a huge body of birds all moving as one. Brighton Pier is a well-known sport for starling murmurations but they can also be seen at Bognor and Southsea Pier.
To find out what happening at Pagham Harbour and Medmerry RSPB this November: https://events.rspb.org.uk/paghamharbour
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STROLLING IN SOUTHSEA
BY SIMON BAKER IRONS
The Millennium Promenade is a 2.6-mile accessible walk from the Historic Dockyard to Southsea Castle. The route is easy to follow as it is either marked by a chain stone motif set in the pavement or by plaques inset into the ground. The walk passes through an area that is rich in history, information boards along the route provide some very interesting reading, it is also good to deviate from the trail slightly in certain places to see and learn more of the historical past.
• Either start within the Historic Dockyard or by the chain link motif path just outside, which begins by a large capstan with a chain that transforms into the floor. (Please note that access to Historic Dockyard is only possible during their opening hours and that dogs are not allowed within the dockyard).
• Follow the chain past ‘The Hard’ which was first constructed around 1720 as a landing spot for small boats. Shortly after starting there is a break in the chain and a slight detour is required through Gunwharf Quays to rejoin the chain again at the Spinnaker Tower. Standing tall at 170 metres, the Spinnaker Tower dominates the skyline, a trip up the tower is rewarded with some breathtaking views.
• Follow the chain away from the tower and along the waterfront. Cross the Creek, and exit Gunwharf by the Wightlink Ferry Terminal, the chain then continues to Camber Quay; the original fishing settlement developed in the 12th century by the Normans. Once a busy commercial dock, Camber Quay now has just a small fishing fleet. The Bridge Tavern standing on the opposite dockside has a large painting on the outside wall, depicting the way life was in the Past. This area was reputed to be the main meeting ground of press gangs who enlisted young men to sign up for the Navy and was also notorious for its many ale houses, many have now gone but the buildings remain and can be easily identified. The Point, also known as Spice Island, was once a major port importing exotic spices from around the world.
• The chain continues around Spice Island to the Round and Square Towers, which were both built in 14th Century to protect the city from invasion by the French. The chain rises onto the battery wall. Take a seat here and watch the many ships entering or leaving the harbour, there’s always something passing by.
• Continue following the chain until it ends at the Spur Redoubt, a small triangular-shaped fort that is believed to be the point from which Nelson set sail for the Battle of Trafalgar onboard HMS Victory. Onwards from here follow the directional posts and plaques in the floor along the waterfront, through the funfair and past Clarence Pier. Opened in 1861, the pier was a landing place for many passenger steamers.
• The route then continues along the Clarence Promenade and concludes at Southsea Castle, another historic fortification, constructed in 1544 it was built to defend against potential French attacks.
To see more photos and walks please follow me on Instagram @piertopiertrekking
BOGNOR REGIS MEN’S PROBUS
We are a group of about 40 retired and semi-retired men who meet monthly for a lunch and a talk from a guest speaker. Meetings are held on the third Wednesday of the month at the Beachcroft Hotel, Felpham.
This year we have been marking the 80th anniversary of D-day with a talk about Bletchley Park in May by Mark Lubienski, a guide at Bletchley Park, and one on D-Day itself in October by David Smith, a local historian. We have also had outings to the D-Day museum in Southsea and to Wilton Park near Salisbury, requisitioned during the war for the use of Southern Command, and where much of the planning of D-Day was carried out.
On a more light-hearted note, we have had talks on the history of Butlin’s and one by Barry Johnston, son of cricket commentator Brian Johnston, on his life behind the microphone. An extra feature this year has been two joint pub lunches with Arundel Probus.
Might this interest you? If so, you would be welcome to come to your first meeting on a trial basis.
Contact Guy Ashby 01243 584042 or Bill Page on 01243 828 025.
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COULD YOU BE A COUNCILLOR?
Are you passionate about local issues and want to make a difference in your local community? Would you like to be involved in decision-making and representing the views of local people? West Sussex County Council will be holding elections on 1 May 2025 and is inviting people to find out more about becoming a councillor.
County councillors are elected by the people of West Sussex to represent their interests and ensure they have a voice when decisions are being made around vital services such as social care, roads and transport, education, waste and recycling, and libraries.
The county council is holding an information session for people to find out more about what it is like to be a county councillor.
It will take place on Wednesday 13 November 2024 at County Hall, Chichester, from 6pm to 7.30pm, or you can join online.
To request a place or a link to join online please email democratic.services@westsussex.gov.uk
Andrew Lubienski, Bognor Probus Chairman; Michael Jowett, Treasurer; Bill Page, Vice-Chairman
SAVE THE VILLAGE POST OFFICE CAMPAIGN
BY LIZZIE MICKERY
Thanks to all who attended our Open Day at 1 Grassmere Parade, Felpham, the site of the new Post Office. We hope you can see the huge potential the space gives us. Thanks to everyone who assisted, greatly appreciated. Presently the directors of the CIC are busy filling in the Post Office paperwork in order to facilitate the change of ownership. While this is going on, the need to raise funds continues. The Post Office will belong to the community. This is the opportunity to hopefully create something that suits us all. And don’t forget – any donations or loans, £100 or over, will qualify for one share in the Friends of Felpham CIC. A voice, a vote at the AGM and a share certificate!! Also, if you have any thoughts on fundraising, we’d love to hear from you. And of course, we will pursue any grants we are eligible for.
Plus, we’d also welcome your assistance. Practical help and/or supplies from local tradesmen and residents, anything you could contribute, would be gratefully received. If you’d like to join our action group, we’d be delighted to welcome you. Email info@friendsoffelpham.org or drop any ideas/your name and contact details off at the Post Office.
SAVE OUR VILLAGE POST OFFICE – NOW, NOT IF BUT WHEN!!
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THURSDAY 28 NOVEMBER 2024
DOORS OPEN 1.30 FOR 2pm
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CREATE A WINTER GARDEN
BY RACHEL LEVERTON
November marks the start of winter, and many gardens become bare and lifeless as plants retreat for the season. However, there are plenty of ways to keep our outdoor spaces interesting, even during the gloomy months.
Add Garden Lighting for a Warm Glow
One of the simplest ways to bring life to a winter garden is through outdoor lighting. As daylight hours shorten, strategically placed lights can transform a garden into a magical evening retreat. Fairy lights are perfect for draping over trees, shrubs, or fences, creating a gentle sparkle. For a more dramatic effect, solar-powered lanterns or spotlights can highlight key features, such as evergreen trees or sculptures, casting interesting shadows and adding depth.
Pathway lighting is also a practical and aesthetic addition. Choose LED or solar options for energy efficiency and consider warm-toned bulbs to create a cosy and inviting atmosphere. Make sure electric lights are rated for outdoor use and are on a timer so that the wildlife isn’t disturbed.
Introduce Outdoor Heating for Comfort
Consider adding a patio heater, fire pits, or chiminea to provide a focal point for gathering, encouraging you to enjoy your garden even on colder nights. A fire pit offers the bonus being able to toast marshmallows and watch the flames dance, while chimineas bring a rustic charm and warmth to smaller spaces. Electric patio heaters are easy to operate and can be strategically placed near seating areas for comfort.
Create Colour with Winter-Flowering Plants
There are plenty of species that thrive in colder weather and can inject colour into your garden. Hellebores, also known as the Christmas rose, bloom in shades of white, pink, and purple from November through to spring. Winter pansies, cyclamen, and primroses are also great options for adding cheerful colour to borders and pots. Evergreen shrubs such as holly and euonymus keep their vibrant green hues year-round, while the bright berries of pyracantha or cotoneaster can provide food for wildlife and visual interest.
Incorporate Topiary
A piece of topiary will add interest to a pot and provide structure in winter. Formal shapes such as balls, pyramids and cubes work well. Box and yew are traditional choices. You can buy reasonably priced ready-trimmed topiary, but if you don’t fancy the maintenance try planting a small conifer paired with ornamental grasses like miscanthus or carex, to add texture and movement to the garden.
Add Interest with Seasonal Garden Accessories
Frost-proof pots filled with winter flowers, garden ornaments, bird feeders, and outdoor sculptures can all serve as focal points. Mirrors can be used to reflect light and elevate the atmosphere and help it feel dynamic, even when the plants are resting. By using one or more of these tips, your garden can remain a space to enjoy, whatever the weather. Happy gardening.
MAKING IT UP
PART TWO
BY FELPHAM FASHION GURU VICKY BOOKER
It’s time for the second instalment of my top makeup tips. Last time we covered all things base, to get a great finish, as well as some of the tools of the trade – namely your essential brushes.
Blush
What’s next?
Now, there’s often a bit of debate about the ‘right’ order to apply the next steps. Is it a case of working from top to bottom so, eyes, then cheeks, then lips? Or do you work backwards, which is a tip a makeup artist once gave me and start with lipstick? Sounds odd – well her rationale is often people get put off by stronger lip colours, but if you start with that, then do your eye makeup and blush, it all comes together more harmoniously and doesn’t feel ‘too much’. Give it a go and let me know how you get on.
Remember back in the day when we sucked in our cheeks and piled on the blusher in the hollow part to get killer cheek bones?! As we get older, avoid brushing too low on cheek as it drags face down; smile, aim for the fullest part of the apple and brush and blend up and out towards the hairline. It’s important to get the undertone right too – if you’re colouring is cool for example and you go all in on the bronzer, it can look too yellow.
Mascara
Watery eyes? A keen swimmer? I’ve been asked about the best waterproof mascara and how to remove it. I personally prefer a tubing mascara to a waterproof one (I love Beauty Pie’s ‘Wrap Star’).
Tubing mascaras have polymers rather than pigments found in traditional mascaras. These polymers wrap around each individual eyelash and stick to it avoiding the spidery eye look. When it comes to removing it, use a cleanser and gently massage it into the lashes and it will come off in little clumps! Never rub the whole eye area when removing makeup as this drags the delicate skin and over time adds to fine lines.
Eye and Lip base
Give it some lip
My secret weapon is the colour me beautiful lip base – I literally use this every time I’m putting on lipstick. Not only does it help to keep the colour on for longer, but it smooths fine lines, stops ‘bleeding’, and gives an even base so pencils and lipstick glide on easily.
Remember I offer makeup applications and lessons using the colour me beautiful range – all tailored to suit your personal colouring. So, if you want a boost, need to learn some techniques to apply, or want a party look for the upcoming festive season, get in touch to level up your makeup look today.
Want personalised advice? Book a Style Consultation with me. Vickybooker.com or contact me for info – vicky@vickybooker.com
Vicky Booker.
A HEALTHCARE REVOLUTION?
OR A THREAT TO PERSONAL DATA? BY LOUISE ADDISON
Have you heard about the new body scanning technologies such as NEKO? These scans promise that they will revolutionise preventative healthcare by offering comprehensive health assessments in a matter of minutes. They combine multiple diagnostic techniques to provide a detailed overall view of an individual's health status, potentially detecting issues before they become serious problems.
The NEKO Body Scan uses a sophisticated array of 70 sensors to collect an estimated 50 million data points from the body in just 10 minutes. The process involves:
• Full-body imaging in a specialized chamber equipped with high-resolution 2D and 3D cameras and thermal imaging sensors.
• Measurements of heart function and blood circulation, including an ECG scan.
• Additional tests such as eye pressure, grip strength, and blood pressure in both arms and legs.
• Blood analysis using a small blood sample which is checked for various biomarkers.
After the scan, artificial intelligence algorithms process the collected data to identify potential health risks and abnormalities. Then an in-house doctor reviews the AI-generated results, and patients receives a personalised health evaluation. So why might we consider undergoing a full body scan? Early detection - The comprehensive scan can identify potential health issues before symptoms appear. In NEKO’s first year of operation in Stockholm, 14.1 per cent of visitors required further medical treatment, and 1 per cent were found to have severe conditions of which they were previously unaware.
Time – The entire process, including consultation with a doctor, only takes about an hour.
Personalised health insights – Patients receive immediate access to their results and can then track their health data over time through a dedicated app.
Accessibility – These scans come in under £300 which makes comprehensive health assessments more affordable and convenient for a broader population.
However, while the scans offer significant benefits, they also raise important ethical questions:
Privacy and data protection – The scans collect highly personal health information.
Informed consent – Patients should fully understand what data is being collected and how it will be used.
Psychological impact – Detailed health information out of context could adversely affect anyone prone to health anxiety.
Unnecessary interventions – There's a risk of detecting minor abnormalities that may not require treatment, potentially leading to both unnecessary anxiety and / or medical procedures.
Integration with existing healthcare systems – Careful consideration must be given to how these services interact with the NHS to ensure cohesive care.
Body scanning technologies like NEKO represent a significant advancement in preventative healthcare, offering the potential for early detection of health issues and personalized health insights. However, as these technologies continue to evolve, it's crucial to address the ethical considerations they raise to ensure their responsible and equitable implementation. Contact your doctor to discuss.
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CREATE AND CURATE A MEMORY BOX
A STEP-BY-STEP GUIDE BY SADIA KHAN
A memory box is a wonderful way to preserve and cherish your most treasured moments and would make a wonderful Christmas present. Whether it's for yourself, as a future gift for a child, or to remember a family member who has died, it's a lovely thing to have or receive. Here is a step-by-step guide to creating and curating a meaningful memory box.
Step 1: Choose Your Box
Start by selecting a suitable container. It can be a decorative wooden box, a sturdy shoebox, or a specially purchased memory box. The size depends on how many items you plan to include. You can cover or decorate the box to reflect the theme or personal style, using paint, stickers, or fabric.
Step 2: Gather Your Memories
Collect items that hold sentimental value. These can include photographs, letters, concert tickets, travel souvenirs, or small mementos. Choose items that evoke specific memories or milestones, such as baby’s first shoes, wedding invitations, or holiday postcards. Ensure each item has a personal significance and tells part of the story.
Step 3: Organise and Arrange
Carefully arrange the items in the box. You can sort them chronologically or by theme (e.g. travel, family, achievements). Use envelopes or small pouches for delicate items like jewellery or pressed flowers. Adding labels or notes can help explain the significance of each item, providing context for future reminiscing.
Step 4: Personal Touches
Add personal touches to make the memory box even more special. Write a letter or include a diary entry to capture your emotions and thoughts. Add scented sachets to evoke memories through smell, or digital elements like a USB drive with a playlist of favourite songs or video clips.
Step 5: Maintain and Update
A memory box should be a living collection. Keep it updated with new memories and revisit it periodically to curate it. Remember, the container is a limit. You can keep anything, but not everything. My mother used to say, 'If everything is special, nothing is special,' so keep only the most cherished items. Curating can be a therapeutic activity and talking about the items with others, keeps the memories alive.
Each member of my family has their own memory box. They get to decided what is special enough to keep in their box. This is very important; if you have delightful memories of reading The Gruffalo to your firstborn and are deeply attached to the book, but they don't consider it special enough to keep, the memory is clearly yours, so it should go in your own memory box. Don't guilt them into keeping it in theirs!
Creating and curating a memory box is a deeply personal and rewarding project. It not only preserves your most cherished memories but also serves as a tangible connection to your past. So, gather your mementos, let your creativity flow, and start building your own treasure trove of memories today.
BEAUTY IN FOCUS
BY SIOBHAN FARRELL
Here local skin care and beauty therapist, Sioban Farrell, answers your questions, please keep sending them in (details below).
Q: Am I too old for a facial?
A: Facial treatments can benefit all ages. When you go for a consultation, your skin therapist will assess your skin type and concerns and recommend a 'skin journey' and treatment plan to suit you. As we get older our skin can become dull, lose elasticity and the appearance of lines and wrinkles become more apparent. Facial massage can be a great way to encourage blood circulation to the muscles to help firm and tone the skin as well as decrease puffiness by stimulating our lymphatic (waste removal) system.
Regular treatments help to maintain and prolong these results. Depending on the type of facial you have will determine other benefits such as reducing pigmentation (age spots), brightening the skin and even more advanced methods to firm and tone. To find out which facial treatment is best for your skin, ask a therapist, who like me, offer no obligation skin consultations.
Q: Does Gel polish ruin your nails?
A: This is a question I get asked so much! The simple answer is NO, as long as a trained professional is carrying out the service and also that the product is being removed properly. The most damage I see being caused to the nails following a gel polish treatment is due to the polish being picked off. This then removes the top layers of the nail plate and causes weakness and dehydration. Regular maintenance of your nails every 2-4 weeks (depending on the type of gel product used) will ensure this doesn't happen, as well as following aftercare advice given to you by the nail technician.
Q: I want to get my eyebrows shaped and dyed, but I'm worried they will look too dark?
A: Our eyebrows really frame our face and can make all the difference to our overall look. Often a simple shape and tint can knock years off our appearance!! A lot of my clients, especially older ladies, do worry that the dye used will be too dark and unnatural. Be rest assured that there is not one colour that suits all just ask your therapist to look at a selection of different tint colours which can also be mixed to form the perfect shade based on your natural hair colouring and skin tone. Often, immediately after the treatment, brows can be slightly darker but this will soften after 24-hour hours.
Q: How do I stop my makeup from looking too cakey on my skin?
A: Simple answer here...ensure your canvas is hydrated! Look after your skin and make sure it is moisturised and this will reduce the need for using a lot of topical makeup. Skin of all ages may not always need a full foundation, especially for a daytime look. Often tinted moisturisers or light mineral powders, all available from chemists and supermarkets, will do the job, but first your skincare must be on point. If you do require more coverage, layering your products can help. Start with your moisturiser and SPF product. Allow these to sink in first, then apply your tint moisturiser or light foundation with a brush to the areas needed (often the forehead, around the nose and chin) using your fingers just helps to spread bacteria! If certain areas require more coverage, such as under the eyes, apply an under-eye concealer to brighten and hydrate. Finish with a setting spray or powder. This is a brilliant addition to any make-up bag and not expensive - and keeps your make-up looking fresh all day!
SF Beauty owner, Siobhan Farrell, is a qualified skin and beauty therapist with 15 years experience. Her salon is based in Yapton. Email your beauty/skincare questions for Siobhan to: office@infocusmagazines.co.uk and put Beauty In Focus in the heading. For more information on bespoke skin consultations and types of facial treatments please contact Siobhan via her website www.sfbeautystudio.co.uk
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A GOOD READ
BY NATASHA DONOVAN
A Spot of Bother by Mark Haddon
A Spot of Bother is a darkly humorous and poignant exploration of a family unravelling under the weight of its own dysfunctions. The central character, George Hall, is a retired man in his late fifties who becomes obsessively convinced that a lesion on his hip is cancerous, leading to a gradual mental breakdown. While this sounds a depressing premise for a story, Haddon’s deft handling of the anxieties of middle age and the fragile nature of mental health, ensures that the reader is able to smile, wince, cheer along and empathise with everyone involved.
The narrative weaves together the perspectives of George’s immediate family, each dealing with their own crisis, as is often the way of families. His wife, Jean, is having an affair, while their daughter, Katie, is preparing for a second marriage to a man that no one in the family likes. Their son, Jamie, is struggling both with his identity and his and his own relationships. Each of them is so wrapped up in their own little world that they fail to notice that George, who is like an extra in the film of their own lives, is falling apart in front of them. The blend of dry wit and deep empathy, keeps all the relationships authentic and relatable and there are moments when the reader, no matter which generation they belong to will recognise themselves and their own family relationships.
Haddon’s prose is sharp, and his ability to balance humour with moments of genuine emotional depth is impressive. A Spot of Bother is a compelling read, offering both laugh-outloud and moments of introspection.
The Cat Who Saved Books by Sōsuke Natsukawa, translated by Louise Heal Kawai Rintaro Natsuki has always considered Natsuki Books, his grandfather’s tiny, second-hand bookshop, a place of wonder and the perfect refuge for a quiet, introverted young boy. He has spent many happy hours there reading.
Then his grandfather dies leaving Rintaro grieving and alone and the boy turns inwards even more and even stops going to school. Then he encounters a talking tabby cat named Tiger who wanders in and asks Rintaro for help. Tiger explains that he needs a book lover to accompany him on a mission to save books from people who have imprisoned, mistreated, and betrayed them. Together they embark on a series of bookthemed adventures.
Sayo Yuzuki, is a strong, sensible girl who Rintaro has known since primary school. She calls by the bookshop to bring Rintaro homework, because she is concerned about his increased reclusiveness. They begin to discuss the power of books throughout the centuries; how books can introduce us to new ideas and how every difficult book offers us a new challenge. The children begin to develop a friendship through their shared love of stories.
This children's novel was originally published in Japan in 2017, and Kawai’s elegant translation renders it accessible to English-speakers, without losing any of the essence of the Japanese language and culture. A wise and whimsical novel, about how love and loss affect our lives. Beautifully written and thought provoking, it will appeal to both children and adults alike.
VE DAY MEMORIES NEEDED!
BY MIKE HARDING
Next May 2025 it will be 80 YEARS SINCE THE END OF THE SECOND WORLD WAR and the Felpham History Group met at the small hall at St Mary’s Centre to discuss how, and even whether, to mark this anniversary next year.
These get-togethers have little formality about them, although there is an agenda. Everyone at the meeting had a family member or members who were involved in the war, some in the far eastern theatre which lasted longer (until August 1945) than the war in western Europe (ending May 1945). The official date of the end of the western conflict is 8 May (VE Day) but fighting went on for a few days more and some were, of course, still suffering from wounds, malnutrition, sheer exhaustion and other problems.
We were keen not to ‘celebrate’ in a way which ignored the level of suffering which had and is still taking place, but also wanted to reflect the joy and relief which was unleashed when the Axis Powers (Germany and Japan) surrendered.
For those in Britain, 8 May, 1945, was a day of not only huge celebration, but collective relief. Many sacrifices had been made on the home front too, and women had stepped into jobs reserved at that time for men. Women worked in Royal Ordinance factories for example, a perilous occupation. The South and South East was considered too dangerous to site one!!
VE Day in Sussex was celebrated with great gusto. The parties on 8 May lasted all night, there was dancing in the streets (congas!) with bands playing, not least in Bognor Regis, which had suffered casualties and buildings destroyed from earlier bombing raids. It must have been one ‘helluva do’, across the UK, and the birth rate shot up nine months later! But many troops were still stranded around the world and desperate to get home. Some were not back with their families until over a year later. There’s a good article on the Royal British Legion website about this issue – www.britishlegion.org.uk/stories/the-challenge-of-getting-home-after-ww2
We know of planned events in Bognor for next summe and we are talking to RAFA (Royal Air Forces Association) locally to reduce any chance of conflicting activities, and possibly even to join forces. The plan is to hold a multi-media event in Felpham in May 2025. This will involve incorporating music, dance and film as well as displays and information boards. If anyone would like to get involved or has any memorabilia which could be displayed (such as ration books, personal memoirs, photographs, postcards etc.), please email us at: info@thefelphamhistorygroup.net
The Felpham History Group is part of the Felpham Village Conservation Society. The group meets every month – email for more info.
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NOVEMBER HOROSCOPES
BY LOCAL ASTROLOGER LETICIA
PARMER
The life-lesson bringing planet Saturn gains in strength this month, bringing increased opportunities for you to grow in wisdom from the teachings and challenges you set yourself for this lifetime. Also Mercury goes retrograde reminding you not to jump to conclusions, but instead to bide your time while you gain perspective.
ARIES
Time to get back into meditation, which will bring you the peace of mind you seek. Double check any travel plans to avoid confusion.
TAURUS
Now you must deal with groups and organisations in a mature and disciplined way. Steer clear of suspicions, jealousy or sneaky behaviour.
GEMINI
Career matters become serious once again - its time to push for the respect you deserve. Stay philosophical about your partnership.
CANCER
Once again you are called to the world of education - either as teacher or student. Don't sweat the small stuff - your best is enough.
LEO
Allowing yourself to let go of what you no longer need, either mentally or physically, will greatly help your clarity and creativity this month.
VIRGO
Take a good hard look at the person you are teamed up with, to be sure you are not acting in either a parental or a rescuing mode with them.
LIBRA
You have been on a long journey to improve your health. Why not write a blog or book about all that you have learned from this?
SCORPIO
Children and creativity are under the disciplinary blanket of Saturn again. Also, stay alert when handling money, carefully count your change.
SAGITTARIUS
Mother and home seem burdensome once more. Remind yourself not to take anything personally and avoid jumping to conclusions.
CAPRICORN
Saturn again disciplines communications, so back up your computer and re-check messages for accuracy before pressing 'send'.
AQUARIUS
Money lessons return, so be sure to have in place a good savings account. Also, double check appointments to avoid a wasted journey.
PISCES
Place ego and pride aside and fearlessly push yourself forward into the spotlight, its time for you to shine and show your gifts proudly.
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REMEMBERING BY ARTIST OF THE MONTH JOHN KING
I was researching the history of No. 87 RAF Squadron in which I once served, it was active in both World War I and World War II. Having been disbanded after World War I, the Squadron was reformed on 15 March 1937 at RAF Tangmere. This research led me to the 14th May 1940 when three young men, Pilot Officer Paul Jarvis, aged 20 years, Chris Mackworth and Gordon Saunders from New Zealand, were all young Hurricane pilots who lost their lives on the same day, whilst in combat over France.
It was events like this, which must have been repeated so many hundreds of times throughout World War II that brought home, the sad and tragic reality of war. Events like this inspired my painting entitled ‘Remembering’ It shows a home family shrine, remembering also, those who were left behind.
Just 12 years later, in 1952, I was posted to RAF Wahn in Germany to await the arrival of the newly reformed 87 Night Fighter squadron. Now, in more peaceful times, it was equipped with Gloster Meteor NF11s, and is a squadron these three young men and countless others gave their lives for.
The painting ‘Remembering’ a pastel painting was actually inspired by the 87-squadron event. The photo in the painting is of Pilot Officer. Paul Jarvis, the clock is at 11 O’clock, and the fallen rose petals, indicate the fallen comrades. The Poppy the date, 11 of November.
Remembering also, and closer to home, the four young aircrew who died when their Handley Page Hampden bomber, whilst on a mission to Germany, unexplainably crashed near Sea Road in Felpham, where a memorial to them can be seen. They were Sargents: S.W.C. Culmur, R.E. Nation, J.A. Hutchison, and D.Manning.
WE WILL REMEMBER THEM
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