Wednesday, February 14, 2018

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THE BROWN DAILY HERALD WEDNESDAY, FEBRUARY 14, 2018

VOLUME CLIII, ISSUE 16

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Tales of Brunonian love: decades of on-campus courtship Eleven couples recount love stories crafted on College Hill, carried beyond Van Wickle Gates

over the next couple of months — specifically, over crossword puzzles — but were too shy to act, until Middlekauff took the plunge. “My feeling was, ‘Well, it’s now or never, and if she spurns me, it’s not going

to be that bad of a situation because I’m not going to be on College Hill for many more weeks,’” Middlekauff said. Six years after this first encounter, including one year living together in Edinburgh after pooling their money,

Middlekauff and Goldin immortalized their union at their home away from home — at Brown, in Manning Chapel in 1989. Plus, New York “is prohibitively expensive” while Middlekauff ’s home state of Ohio “is prohibitively in Ohio”

By LAUREN ARATANI CONTRIBUTING WRITER

Thirty-five years ago, an arsonist proved to be a Valentine’s Day matchmaker. Brad Middlekauff ’83 was asleep in his room on the second floor of his Waterman Street apartment when he was awoken by loud sirens and the smell of smoke. He and his roommates were able to make it out through the fire escape, but the house was badly burned. That very day, Middlekauff was given a key to a room in Hegeman Hall, where he would spend the rest of his senior year. After moving what was left of his belongings into his new room, Middlekauff was looking to borrow a vacuum cleaner. He found one in a friend’s suite upstairs, where he met his future wife, Nancy Goldin ’84. “I thought you were sort of cute and bedraggled, but I wasn’t really looking for a boyfriend,” Goldin said. “I was struck by the fact that you were borrowing a vacuum.” Middlekauff and Goldin bonded

because all of their friends lived on the east coast, Goldin said. Everyday places, like Hegeman, are landmarks on campus for couples like Middlekauff and Goldin. Brown alums have met their partners at the library, in dorms and during classes. Some were introduced by friends; others met by coincidence. The Herald talked to 19 Brunonians who are a part of 11 couples whose love stories started on some corner of College Hill and have lived on for years. Thank ResLife

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People usually celebrate special occasions like wedding anniversaries or birthdays. But in 2008, Helene Miller ’80 P’15 and James Kase ’82 P’15 threw an unconventional party at an unconventional place: a first kiss anniversary party at Andrews Hall. Their first kiss took place in 1978, a couple months after they first met in Emery-Woolley Hall, where Miller lived her sophomore year. At a party on her floor, Miller saw Kase from across the room. “It was like there was no one else in the room,” Miller said. They didn’t talk to anyone else for the rest of the night. » See LOVE, page 3

Datamatch pairs over 2,600 Brown students Rubin ’80 discusses morality, Harvard’s matchmaking challenges of journalism algorithm couples students based on humorous survey

New York Times Paris bureau chief recounts experiences reporting in Middle East

By ELISE RYAN SENIOR STAFF WRITER

This morning at 7 a.m., thousands of Brown students opened an email in their inbox with more anticipation than any “Today@Brown” or even “Today’s Café Specials” message could garner. The Valentine’s Day email included the contact information of Brown students who were paired with the user through Harvard Computer Society’s matchmaking service — Datamatch — introduced to the campus this year. By Tuesday night, just over 2,600 Brown students had already filled out the survey. The survey remained open until Tuesday night at 11:59 p.m., inviting more students to leave their Valentine’s day plans to the Computer Society’s algorithm — though there is no obligation to contact a match. “The goal is to provide a fun tradition to people within a school that … has school-specific humor,” said Russell Pekala, one of the co-business leaders for Datamatch at Harvard, adding that

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By ANNA KRAMER AND SOPHIE CULPEPPER UNIVERSITY NEWS EDITOR AND SENIOR STAFF WRITER

SARAH MARTINEZ AND MARLIS FLINN / HERALD

Datamatch is “just a fun distraction to keep (students) happy during Valentine’s Day.” The survey is brief, containing 17 mandatory multiple choice questions,

space to include a short bio and other optional features, such as linking a Facebook, LinkedIn or Spotify account. Students can indicate whether they are » See DATAMATCH, page 3

When Alissa Rubin ’80 left Brown with a degree in renaissance studies and a hunger to travel, she did not foresee a future in journalism. But after a brief stint in academia, a transformative trip to apartheid South Africa launched a career that would take her to the Balkans, Afghanistan, Iraq and now Paris. “It’s the most wonderful thing to be able to live a life of asking questions and trying to figure out the answers,” she said in an interview with The Herald. After the interview, she recounted stories from her life as a journalist in a public event hosted by the Watson Institute for International and Public Affairs. “In my mind, we’re not powerful people, as journalists. Nor should we

be, necessarily. We’re supposed to be listening to people at every level,” Rubin told The Herald. While Rubin loves her job and cannot imagine a day when she quits or retires, she is often frustrated by the limitations of reporting. “Almost not a day goes by that I don’t wish I’d become a doctor. I wish I could make people better and not hurt,” she said. “Talking to me, in the short term, it doesn’t help anybody,” she said. Being a journalist “is an enormous self-indulgence.” Journalism creates a window into another world, albeit a warped one, Rubin said. “You help people see how complicated and gray and shadowy issues are out there in the world.” Delving into the lives and perspectives of so many makes it difficult “not to become a complete moral relativist,” she added. However, “my job isn’t to tell people which moral axis to choose,” Rubin said, adding that she has the power to show people the consequences of their decisions. “You want to look at why things happen, what drives events and what drives … » See RUBIN, page 2

WEATHER

WEDNESDAY, FEBRUARY 14, 2018

NEWS Fire stations opened to provide 24/7 discreet, efficient access for opioid addiction help

COMMENTARY Mulligan ’19: Focus on politicians’ actions, instead of the demographics of their supporters

COMMENTARY Miller ’19: Politicians’ misuse of constitutional vocabulary threatens our democracy

NEWS Professor of Neuroscience Diane Lipscombe to begin presidency of Society of Neuroscience in fall

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