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My Self-Regulation Guide

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“Your brain’s upgrade button is “Your brain’s upgrade button is self‑regulation.” self‑regulation.” , CHOOSE HOW YOU WANT TO REACT IT HELPS YOU STAY IN CONTROL WHEN YOUR EMOTIONS GET BIG, IT'S NOT ABOUT BEING PERFECT. IT'S ABOUT STAYING IN THE RIVER'S SEAT OF YOUR EMOTIONS.

“Spot the trigger.

Don’t let a spark become an eruption.”

Everyone has triggers — things that set off strong emotions like anger, anxiety, embarrassment, or overwhelm.

tests exam pressure

Group work with people who don't try

Knowing your triggers empowers you and helps you to understand yourself well enough to stay in control.

Conflict with a teacher

Arguments with friends or siblings

Social media drama

Gossip or rumours

Being rushed

Changes at home not sleeping well

“Build

your calm, “Build your calm,

One page at a time.”

One page at a time.”

Signs your body might be feeling overwhelmed

stomach ache feeling sick tense musclesracing heart quick breathing tight chest

snappy mind goes blind feel tearful can't focus feeling exhausted saying "I don't care" pacing foot tapping defensive want to be alone

Think about Emotional and behavioural

signs

“Move your body, calm your mind.”

MOVEMENT-HELPS BURN ADRENALINE, REDUCES STRESS AND RESETS THE NERVOUS SYSTEM. THINK ABOUT WHAT MOVEMENTS CAN HELP YOU FEEL CALMER

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Walk around the block

Bike ride

Dance to a favourite song

Kick a football

Quick run or jog

“Pause. Breathe.

Use your senses to reboot.”

soothe the body and slow your stress response.

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Hot shower / heat pack

Listening to

Weighted bl

Breathing e

Sitting in a Soft lightin

Holding ice

Fidget ring

stress ball

Scented hand

Sensory input shifts the brain out of emotional overwhelm and back to the present moment. Think about what may work for you?

“Break the stress loop —distract your mind. ”

What activities may help you when emotions are too overwhelming to deal with immediately?

FavouriteTV show Art, doodling, or colouring

(Organisingsomethingsmall desk, drawer)

BCallingafriend

Reading

Favouritemusic

“I

control the moment.

I know what helps.”

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Expressing feelings releases tension and helps you feel lighter and think MORE

CLEARLY.Think about what may work for you?

Journaling , Using Voice notes or video diaries

Talking to a trusted adult or a friend

Creative outlets(drawing, poetry, music)

Crying and releasing (normalising this is powerful)

Low battery? Time to recharge your mood.

use the mood battery as a way to explore and express how your day is going. Think of your mood like a battery.

1. Note down all the things that have happened today that have affected your mood or feelings. Different situations or events can affect your mood battery. positive and happy situations may charge it, while sad and frustrating events may drain it.

2.Think about what you can do to recharge your battery.

#LookafterYOU

It is important to make sure you take good care of your body and mind every day.

Try out different ways to chill and recharge Found a winner? Stick with it and make it part of your day . scan the QR code to access more information

Check out the Young People

Thought Prompt cards

Non-judgementalhelping YOU feel seen, heard, and supported.

Get more support

www.reconnect-bromley.co.uk Connect. Choose. Change. A digital hub designed for young people

Bromley Y

Emotional wellbeing and mental health support for children and families.

Call 020 3770 8848

Visit bromley-y.org

Sexual Health Bromley

A free, non-judgmental contraception and reproductive health service for men and women (including under 16)

Call 0300 330 5777

Visit sexualhealthbromley co uk

METRO Snap –

LGBTQ+ Youth Group (Bromley)

A free, confidential weekly group for young people aged 16–25 who identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, trans, non‑binary, queer, or questioning. youth@metrocharity.org.uk www.metrocharity.org.uk

Bromley Well

Kooth offers online counselling, advice and emotional well-being support for anyone aged 10-18 www.kooth.com

Childline www.childline.org.uk

please call, chat online or email about any problem big or small Call on 0800 11 11.

To remove images shared online go to Report Remove at www childline org uk/remove it's ok to ask for help one day at A time

Young Minds

Provides crisis text support and extensive mental health resources for young people Text “YM” to 85258 (free, 24/7)

Support with overwhelming feelings, including self harm www.youngminds.org.uk

Support for young carers aged 4 to 19 to help the children manage caring relationships whilst enjoying their childhood. Call 0808 278 7898

Visit bromleywell org uk

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