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Hi Girls, Santa Claus is coming to town... He really is and we wonder how many proposals he will be bringing with him. Hopefully there’ll be more fans of Brides Etc coming our way. It has been a pretty hectic year to say the least, what with new wedding dress designers popping up and every one going crazy for the cutest favours, we haven’t stopped. Here at Brides Etc, we have been very busy elves making sure this winter edition has not missed a thing. We have been lucky enough to have found the most glamorous and stylish of real wedding features which should not be missed! Petra satin court shoes by Rachel Simpson www.notonthehighstreet.com
Winter Warmers
Bridesmaids Dresses
Tried and tested winter products
Rich colours for cold weddings
Bridezillas Are you a marital monster?
Fabulous Fur
As always our Bridal pages have not disappointed and brought you the most sophisticated of looks no matter what age you are. We love putting together the Bridal pages here, as the conversation in the office is always what dress we would wear and how we would design our big days. That’s the great thing about having a young team; we know exactly what you brides want as we are constantly discussing our dream weddings, even if we are not getting married! It is getting colder out there now, so we thought of something to make you feel warmer. We got together with the great Holidays 4 Travel to give you some wonderful hot destinations, for places that would be bliss and perfect just for that amazing honeymoon. We all wish you a lovely Christmas, and look forward to seeing you at our upcoming wedding shows in 2013! Let’s all hope it’s a good one!
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For the most exclusive and romantic dream wedding venue, Boys Hall Manor is a must; being one of the most beautiful and historic buildings in Kent. Built in 1616 the Hall retains many of its original features. Set in 3 acres of landscaped gardens, the Hall provides a romantic and exclusive setting, providing a backdrop for stunning photography. • Licensed for Civil ceremonies • Civil Partnership ceremonies • Three rooms within the manor licensed for ceremonies • Exclusive use • 5 star Guest accommodation • Caters for up to 80 guests for a sit down wedding breakfast • Gazebo wedding ceremonies available Our professional wedding coordinators are on hand to discuss your requirements and guide you through every step of the way. We pride ourselves on making your day a truly memorable one.
Not every wedding has to be at the weekend! All the same exclusivity and personal service whilst allowing your budget to accommodate those little items that you thought you couldnt afford. Weddings to take place mid-week from Monday - Thursday only. (Applicable only when booking the ceremony and reception at Boys Hall)
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A seasonal selection of bridal gowns.
Pg 31 | BEAUTY
The favourite beauty products, as reviewed by the Brides Etc team.
Pg 35 | FITNESS
USN show us how to lose the bingo wings!
Pg 42 | VENUES
We help you to find the perfect venue.
Pg 49 | COMPETITION
Win a festive afternoon tea at Greenwoods.
Pg 51 | BRIDEZILLA
Are you turning into a marital monster?
Pg 54 | THEMED WEDDINGS
Delightful decorations to help give your wedding a theme!
Pg 65 | REAL WEDDING
Join Dean and Kerrie on their big day.
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NEWS Vera Wang, Spring 2013
Wedding dress trends for Spring 2013 After New York Fashion week back in September, we can expect to see some new trends in bridal couture popping up in Spring 2013. There were five that really dominated the Bridal runways; colour, portrait backs, peplums, lace and convertible gowns. Trend: Colour – Hit the colour trend by going for bold strokes of colour such as smouldering reds or heavenly blues. There’s no need to be confined to a white wedding dressing anymore. Pick any colour that is flattering to your skin tone; just make sure it still looks like a wedding dress. Trend: Portrait backs – This trend is a reminder that your wedding dress is not two dimensional! People will be looking at you from every angle so a demure, romantic back with delicate embroideries, lace frames and peek-a-boo keyholes is the perfect way to wow from every perspective. Trend: Peplum – The peplum has become a popular silhouette lately and it’s crept into bridal couture too. It celebrates curves cinching the waist and gracing the hips. Trend: Lace nouveau – After Kate Middleton’s stunning royal gown last year, lace has held a solid place in many runway collections. Pick a lace entwined dress to salute tradition with a fresh, re-worked design for soft modern romance. Trend: Transformers – Many brides these days are buying more than one dress; The gown, and a second dress to slip into for the after party. Designers have answered this with convertible styles. They’ve included removable skirts, trains and capes that create an outfit with both the elegant gown and a distinct reception look hidden underneath.
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Lovely Wedding Touches
Hyde Park Winter Wonderland 2012
When putting together your favourite bridal magazine, we spend hours trawling through websites trying to find the latest in wedding trends. So you can imagine our joy when we came across Lovely Wedding Touches a local company based in Essex. Stocking everything you need for your wedding, from vintage china to regal red pillar boxes. The team behind Lovely Wedding Touches offer a hands on approach to venue styling, they work closely with couples to get a feel for their individual style and then use their own knowledge and expertise to guide them in choosing the best props and accessories for their big day.
Fancy doing something a little bit different for your winter hen party? Hyde Park’s Winter Wonderland could be your answer. London’s spectacular Christmas destination is back for another fun year of winter cheer with free admission, and even more entertainment and new attractions than before. You’ll be spoilt for choice with the magical ice kingdom showcasing ice and snow sculptures, the UK’s largest outdoor ice rink illuminated by stunning suspended pea lights, the iconic giant observation wheel, the Christmas markets full of unique and handmade gifts, the Bavarian village serving up bratwurst and mulled wine, and of course Zippos circus. Open 10am-10pm from 23rd November to 6th January, head there to celebrate your hen party in winter style. Just make sure you wrap up warm!
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Bedcrumb expands the wedding range... If you love the vintage look with added personality and uniqueness, Bedcrumb is the place to go for so many wedding related items, from stationery to luxury favours. As if these beautiful creations weren’t enough, they’ve just added a new collection called Vintage Lovers. It features pretty retro swallows and hearts set on dotty antique lace backgrounds to create luxurious hand-finished invitations, RSVP postcards, Save the Date magnet cards and place cards. On top of this, the lovely Heidi at Bedcrumb has supplied us with some little goodies from the range. We will be putting them in gift bags at our spring wedding shows so if you want to nab one, keep your eyes out to find out which show we will be taking them to! Go to www.bedcrumb.co.uk to discover more creations Alexander Smith photography
Chocolate lovers, we have good news! Alexeeva & Jones, the world’s first specialist retailer of luxury chocolates from the world’s leading chocolatiers has come to town! The self proclaimed ‘salon du chocolat’ have opened their first shop at 297 Westbourne Grove, Notting Hill, London. They are offering a mouth-watering selection of hand crafted chocolate and a ‘chocolate lounge’ in which to enjoy them. So if you fancy treating yourself, this is definitely the place to go! www.alexeevajones.com
Prep’ed by Sasha’s favourite catering tips for 2012/2013 Tyme photography
While this innovative catering company is based in South Africa, their amazing catering tips will undoubtedly be universally loved. Here are just a few that we love: Make it personal - Serve and eat what you love and what reminds you of your love. The meal you had on your first date, or when he asked you to marry him. Any meal that is special to you. Creativity is the key – Surprise your guests with something a bit different. Infused waters for example, use seasonal fruits and herbs for delicious and cost effective beverages. Comfort foods – If you love pancakes, get a gourmet pancake bar, why not? It’s your day! This works with any of those childhood favourites, with a nod to adult sophistication. Go to www.sapphireweddings.wordpress.com/tag/foodtrends-for-weddings/ to see more tips
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Fanhams Hall Hotel Wedding Fayre
Sunday 27th January 2013 Open between 12noon and 4.00pm We all know they say a picture paints a thousand words, but nothing beats actually seeing Fanhams Hall all decked out perfectly for a wedding! Our Wedding Fayre is when the hotel dresses up for a wedding to show some of our rooms to their full glory. There’s plenty of exhibition stands with our favourite wedding suppliers and a chance to look around the hotel and grounds and speak to one of our wedding team about your plans.
There’s no need to book, just join us from 12noon and enjoy a fashion show during the afternoon at 1.30pm and 3.00pm. Entrance fee is £5.00 per couple including some tasty canapés and a glass of bubbles.
Fanhams Hall Road, Ware, Hertfordshire, SG12 7PZ Tel: +44 (0) 1920 460511 Email: enquiries@ehvenues.com www.ehvenues.com
Twas the night before
Dave and I went to school together so have known each other for around 15 years. I remember looking at him differently one day when we were 18, thinking that he was very good looking but had never appreciated it before! It wasn’t until after we had both left school and Dave was at university that one of our school friends decided to do a bit of meddling and persuaded me to ask Dave out, which I did on his 21st birthday. We went out three days later, going for drinks together although it nearly didn’t happen. I sat inside the bar waiting for him for about half an hour, all the time he was sat outside in the beer garden also thinking he had been stood up! We bumped in to each other eventually though. We talked all evening and had a great time, we were both surprised by how much we actually had in common with each other, then I impressed him by demonstrating my knowledge of the offside rule and creating a complex demonstration out of beer mats, wine glasses and napkins! We had been together for 6 and a half years and had been living together for six months when Dave proposed. It wasn’t unexpected but I still couldn’t quite believe it when he got down on one knee on Christmas morning and presented me with a beautiful diamond and platinum engagement ring. We had planned to have both of our families over for Christmas morning and when they arrived, we were engaged! It was a very happy Christmas!
Brides name: Kelly Thurgood Grooms name: David Carless Home town: Ware, Hertfordshire Ceremony venue: All Saints Church, Hertford Reception venue: Fanhams Hall, Ware Wedding date: 23rd December 2011
We had always said that we didn’t want a really long engagement so we started thinking about a date straight away. I had never particularly wanted a summer wedding so we decided to go with December, as Christmas is my favourite time of year. We thought about getting married on a Friday to help keep costs down so when we were looking, Dave suggested the 23rd, the Friday before Christmas. We reasoned that provided our friends and family could get the day off work, it would give them a long Christmas weekend and we could have a lovely festive wedding. We decided that we wanted to get married in a church and I spoke to the vicar at All Saints, where three generations of my family before me had
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got married. She agreed, even though Fridays were normally her day off! She allowed us to have carols and Christmas music as part of the ceremony and said that the church would already be decorated for Christmas, this made our decision easy. As we knew that the weather could be tricky at that time of year, it was important to us that our reception venue had a beautiful indoor space for photographs in case we couldn’t get outside. We also wanted to keep our guests warm during the drinks reception. Fanhams Hall had everything, lots of space, a beautiful room for the breakfast, stunning grounds if we were lucky enough to get out there and rooms for people who had travelled to stay in. Dave had three best men and divided the duties between them. He chose his older brother Andrew as his main best man who was tasked with the speech and handing over the rings. His younger brother Ben and friend James were the other two. I had three bridesmaids, my sister Sophie, my friend Allie and Dave’s cousin Georgie. We also had a little flower girl, Cassie, the daughter of the friend who meddled and got us together in the first place. I took my Mum, my sister and Dave’s Mum to all of my dress shopping appointments. I knew that I wanted lace and something sparkly and I also knew that I wanted to cover my shoulders in church so I was looking for long sleeves. I then ended up falling in love with my dress “Dabra” by Enzoani on their website and decided that I could never make a decision on another dress without trying that one on. I found a shop that stocked it and when I tried it on, I really did just know! When I came out of the fitting room, even my sister looked a little emotional which is quite a rarity, so I ordered it there and then. My Mum also ordered me a two tier, cathedral length veil covered in crystals to give my dress some extra sparkle. The dress was strapless so I continued searching for a shrug or jacket that I could wear with it and came across a Sophia Tollie lace bridesmaid’s jacket in a bridal shop near to my work. The lady let me take it home and try it with my dress and it matched perfectly. We wanted to choose our other suppliers based on how well we got on with them and the quality of the service that they provided. When we met Karen, our photographer, I had a similar feeling to the one I had when I tried my dress on – I just knew she was right. We were going to be with her all day so it was really important that we got on well with her. Her style is very unobtrusive and relaxed, exactly how we wanted to feel on our day. Choosing our videographer was also easy. Richard came recommended by a friend and we loved his work. Like Karen, he was easy to get on with, didn’t intrude on the day and promised a fantastic record of our day. Not everyone chooses to have their day recorded but I would absolutely recommend it as a video compliments your photographs beautifully and is such a great thing to show people who couldn’t make it to the day. We were lucky enough to have a friend who is an artist and designer and he created the most amazing stationery for us, designing a fun ‘crest’ that incorporated lots of our favourite things and became an emblem for our wedding day. He created invitations and orders of service for us which were absolutely stunning. He also created table numbers in the same style, but centering around the Twelve Days of Christmas poem to add to our festive theme. I realised that roses would be really expensive around Christmas and I’m actually not that keen on them as cut flowers anyway. Our florist, Sally at Halo Blossom, was the only one that I found who was willing to come up with a beautiful bouquet that didn’t feature roses and still looked just as pretty. We chose hypericum berries and ivy to look festive and she added anemones and lisianthus. She also made absolutely gorgeous candelabras for our table centrepieces that looked amazing in the room at Fanhams Hall.
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My final night as a single girl saw me in my old bed at my parent’s house, after a quiet drink in our local pub. I wasn’t really nervous at all and when I woke up the next morning, I actually sat in bed and read for a while before being shouted at by my sister to get in the shower! The wedding wasn’t until 2pm so we were ok for time. Dave’s Mum is my hairdresser and I wouldn’t trust anyone else with my hair now. She arrived early so that she could get back home for Dave and the boys, who had used the morning to have a proper wet shave and be pampered a little. It was so lovely to see my future mother-in-law on the morning. A friend of the family who is a beautician did my makeup which was nice as she has known me for a long time. I had no idea what Dave and the rest of the boys in the bridal party would be wearing as that decision had been left with Dave and kept as a surprise. When I saw my Dad, that was the
first time I had any idea what they were wearing and he looked amazing. Likewise, he hadn’t seen my dress so it was a big reveal in the morning and very emotional.
in between me and the vicar to rectify it. Dave looked round, expecting to see me for the first time and instead seeing his own Mum!
A Rolls Royce Phantom IV picked up my bridesmaids and my Mum then came back for me and my Dad. I was actually really early arriving at the church as I was paranoid about being late. I remember seeing my work friends standing outside with an umbrella, waving at me as I pulled up and me grinning back at them like a loon!
The rest of the ceremony went perfectly and we left the church to the sound of Joy to the World, only to find that the heavens had opened and we couldn’t go outside for fear of being absolutely soaked! The church allowed us to have our group photo taken inside the church and it’s actually a really beautiful picture.
Just before I walked down the aisle, I realised that I hadn’t pulled my veil forwards to cover my face so my Dad quickly yanked it over me. Unfortunately, it got dislodged from my hair as I walked down the aisle and started to slip out! By the time I had reached Dave, it had come completely loose and my mother-in-law appeared
When we got to Fanhams Hall, we had some pictures taken in the grounds despite the rain. Karen had a huge white umbrella which we stood under the whole time and it made for some brilliant quirky photos. Inside, our guests were nibbling on some canapés and little shot glasses of hot soup, washing it all down with mulled wine. We chose winter vegetable cakes for starters and a hearty beef pie for the main dish, after deciding that most people would be having a proper roast dinner a few days later. We then had a yummy chocolate brownie for pudding. The food was amazing and lots of people commented on how great the service was by the staff. My Dad delivered a lovely sentimental speech, and upon mentioning what a great guy he thought Dave was, our little flower girl cheered very loudly, which got everyone laughing. Dave’s speech was very touching, recalling how long we had known each other and some funny memories of our time at school together. Finally, Andrew, Dave’s best man, gave a beautiful speech that quoted Harry Potter (I’m a huge fan), welcomed me in to the family and referenced the Nativity story in a very emotional ending to his speech. Dave and I are huge music fans and throughout the dinner, we had a playlist of a string quartet, playing covers of our favourite rock and pop songs playing. Apparently, lots of people were sat at their tables trying to guess what the songs were so it turned out to be a great icebreaker. We booked a DJ for the evening, again, on recommendation. After our evening guests arrived, everyone was ushered in to the Great Hall to wait for us to cut the cake, which had been made by my auntie. Dave and I then walked in to Huey Lewis and the News, The Power of Love (a nod to Dave’s favourite film Back to the Future). After cutting the cake we had our first dance to Elbow’s One Day Like This, then I had a special dance with my Dad to Don McLean’s American Pie, something we danced to many times when I was a little girl. Fanhams then served up an amazing evening buffet of fish and chips, and bacon and egg rolls. Yum! We went on honeymoon a couple of days after Christmas. It had been organised as a surprise by Dave so I had no clue where we were going until we got to the airport. He had arranged for us to spend 10 days travelling around Sri Lanka and then 4 days relaxing in the Maldives. It was an absolutely incredible experience, not least because I never knew where we were going next; he kept me guessing the whole time!
Recreating
David and Kelly’s
W e d d i n g
Photographs Karen at Parkwin Photography www.parkwinphotography.co.uk Videographer Richard at White Dress Films www.whitedressfilms.co.uk DJ Lovelight Entertainment. www.lovelightentertainment.com Stationery James Bragg at Popcorn For Your Eyes www.popcornforyoureyes.com Flowers Halo Blossom www.haloblossom.com
Married life has been lovely, it feels very different and I have loved every minute of it. We have spent most of our first year decorating our house which has been great. My advice... Decide what the most important aspects of your day are and apportion your budget accordingly. We wanted to get married in my childhood church, make sure that all of our guests were well fed with good quality food and had a great DJ to dance to in the evening who didn’t sound too cheesy. So these were the aspects of the day that we spent the most money on and it was worth every penny. Also, it’s nice to have some surprises. You can easily get caught up in controlling every aspect of the day but it was great for some things to be decided by someone else, like the honeymoon and the suits.
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pre wedding pampering Prepare for your wedding or celebrate your wedding day in unique style with loved ones Lifehouse not only offers a day of pre wedding pampering and relaxation, you can now hold your wedding breakfast with family and friends at Lifehouse Spa and Hotel. • • • •
Stunning English Heritage Conservation Gardens This special day taylor made for you Private dining experience for up to 60 guests Bedrooms and spa packages available for you and your guests • Historical village location in Essex close to Frinton on Sea and only 80mins from London
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DJ’s DANCE FLOORS LIGHTING STAGING DRAPING
Let your Lovelight shine Tel: 01279 445209 Web: www.lovelightentertainment.co.uk Email: info@lovelightentertainment.co.uk
Providing celebration cakes which are made to order in any size, shape design, tier amount or flavour. At cakeable we are experienced in creating cakes for people with dietary intolerances. Free no obligation quotations. Located in Faversham, Kent
01795 538310 or 07742 274480 www.cakeable.co.uk info@cakeable.co.uk
You’ll what we do
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www.johnlewis.com
WINTER
Cover ups For those fresh autumn mornings or winter crisp days, a shrug or cover up for your shoulders are the perfect options to keep you warm without ruining the style of dress. We have gathered together a range of pieces all at different costs and styles to suit all dresses and budgets.
Enjoy!
www.wraporshrug.co.uk www.hopeandgrace.co.uk
www.sassobridalaccessories.net www.wraporshrug.co.uk
www.sassobridalaccessories.net
www.hopeandgrace.co.uk
www.johnlewis.com
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Christine of Shenfield Established 1979
144 Hutton Road Shenfield Essex CM15 8NL Beautiful clothes for all occasions. Stunning outfits and co-ordinating accessories for the mother of the bride, groom and wedding guests. We stock a large range of sizes from Carla Ruiz, Mireia, Gina Bacconi, Jaego, Libra, Thana, Ispirato, Frank Lyman, Lucia, Faber, Gelco, Sahara and FDJ Jeans. Hats by Nigel Rayment & Calla Rosa Designs. Co-ordinating shoes and bags by Mary G & Cheshire Style. Expert alteration service available to ensure your purchase is the perfect fit.
01277 210626
www.christineofshenfield.co.uk info@christineofshenfield.co.uk
BRIDE-ALL
The Wedding Shop
WEDDING GOWN’S AND ACCESSORIES
JUSTIN ALEXANDER | SOPHIA TOLLI | ALFRED ANGELO | ETERNITY | ESSENSE | INTUZURI COSTURA
75 Chapel St, Exning, Newmarket, Suffolk. CB8 7HB
Tel: 01638 577401 www.bride-all.co.uk
A little extra
SPARKLE
Your wedding dress is the centrepiece of your big day but it’s the little details that really make any outfit. We’ve picked out some sparkly accessories to put the finishing touch to any gown.
Marina with Clear Crystals www.crystalbridalaccessories.co.uk Caraway £85 www.rainbowclub.co.uk
Capri beaded bridal cuff with Swarovski crystal gemstones by Victoria Fergusson at Liberty in Love - £200
Product Price www.accessorize.co.uk
Doria £65 www.rainbowclub.co.uk
www.accessorize.co.uk
Anjelica £95 www.rainbowclub.co.uk
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TRACY SAVILLE BRIDAL DESIGN Designer, Dressmaker and Pattern cutter
Your walk down the aisle begins at The Signature Spa. At The Signature, your special day is as important to us as it is to you. We have designed a variety of wonderful ways for you to look and feel beautiful. Relax in our luxurious spa and allow us to calm your mind and soothe away the tensions with our full range of treatments from massages to bridal make up and from facials to fabulous body treatments, manicures, pedicures and St Tropez spray tanning. Our product ranges include: ESPA, Dermalogica, CACI . Jessica Nails, Geleration Gel nails, Calgel nails, St Tropez , Lava Shells and Mii Cosmetics. Call or email us to discuss pre-wedding and wedding packages for you, for him, the bridal party and for your friends and family.
The Signature Spa
Bow House, Mill Lane, Gaston Green Little Hallingbury, CM22 7QT Tel: 01279 725551 • info@thesignaturespa.co.uk www.thesignaturespa.co.uk
Wedding, bridesmaid and special occasion gowns individually designed and made to measure. Also mother of the bride & groom outfits, waistcoats, cravats and accessories.
For a free design consultation phone 077 7560 1005 or email: fracy7@hotmail.co.uk Located in Chelmsford Essex
Hair by Zoe .co.uk
07771 987285 zoe@hairbyzoe.co.uk
Beautiful Hire Items For Your Special Day info@lovelyweddingtouches.co.uk
Victoria Jane
www.ronaldjoyce.com
La la
Oooh
The perfect dress to suit your style and age, we get the best tips from Jasmine Bridal plus the finest dresses from varied designers.
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The bride in her
20’s
A bride in her twenties is young and fun and excited to throw a great party. She can carry off most gown styles effortlessly but enjoys full and floaty romantic gowns, the youthfulness of colour and playful accessories to make her gown individual.
The bride in her
30’s
A bride in her thirties has a finesse and style that she has developed as her own signature, so while she is fashion-forward, she knows what she likes and what works for her. She looks for a gown with a refined glamour, beautifully detailed, and one that will show her off at her best on her day; be that her gorgeous curves, her toned physique or her killer pair of legs.
Jasmine Bridal
www.jasminebridal.com
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The bride in her
40’s
A bride in her forties is a discerning bride with confidence and experience in knowing how she wants to be presented. She is sophisticated and won’t be constrained by tradition. She will choose a gown with a stunning cut and fabrication which expresses her beautiful sense of self.
Victoria Jane
www.ronaldjoyce.com
The bride in her
50’s
A bride in her fifties exudes an understated elegance and is looking for an appropriate gown which makes her feel beautiful on her day. She will often wear soft flattering shades of gold, oyster and peach, versatile gowns with a jacket or wrap to go from day to evening.
Victoria Jane
www.ronaldjoyce.com
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To experience a perfect wedding, add Orsett Hall to your Wedding List! We know that your Wedding Day is one of the most important days of your life and here at Orsett Hall we pride ourselves on ensuring that your day will be remembered forever. Our Wedding Gift to you is peace of mind that throughout the planning, preparation and the day itself, we will be there for you, ensuring that your special day runs smoothly. Orsett Hall can accommodate every wish for your ceremony, offering a serene setting for your special day – making all your dreams come true! Each couple is unique, as is Orsett Hall, a beautiful Georgian styled Hotel set in 12 acres of landscaped gardens with superb facilities including lavish bridal suites, spacious banqueting rooms, 35 luxurious bedrooms and a superb Garden Restaurant. We also have a fully licensed Chapel which is awash with flowers and has tasteful rustic furnishings with a beautiful viewing gallery for a truly unique and romantic setting. Our Banqueting Suites can accommodate from 80 to 350 guests and have dedicated kitchens for those couples who would rather use their own caterers. We have close partnerships with self-catering experts and local suppliers and together we discuss the happy couple’s needs, to help create that magical day whatever their cultural background or religion.
Please contact our Wedding Team on Tel: 01375 891402 or Email: weddings@orsetthall.co.uk to arrange a meeting or request a brochure. A member of the Wedding Team is available every Saturday and Sunday between 10.00am and 12.00pm for drop in enquiries or appointments can be made for any other time.
Very Simply, The Best
Prince Charles Avenue, Orsett, Essex RM16 3HS
Forget Me Not www.rainbowclub.co.uk
Pretty
Maids
Karen Millen www.karenmillen.com
Karen Millen www.karenmillen.com
Club Tess www.rainbowclub.co.uk
Kerrie www.rainbowclub.co.uk
Debut by Debenhams www.debenhams.com
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Belsoie Collection www.jasminebridal.com
This season we are loving these deep gem stone colours for bridesmaids dresses. Bold, rich colours are a lovely way to really frame your wedding dress too. We’ve also picked out diamante encrusted jewellery to add some winter sparkle, and shoes from rainbowclub. com that can be dyed to match the colour of your dresses. Pretty handy!
Luxe Cuff Bracelet www.crystalbridalaccessories.co.uk
Lela Rose www.dessy.com
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MOR Cosmetics Blood Orange Body Butter
This Benefit face cream is amazing; it kept my face rehydrated all day without looking shiny which I have experienced with other face creams. The smell is so fresh, and it made my skin feel so silky soft I do not have a bad word to say about it, total bliss!!
I recently discovered the luxurious products at MOR cosmetics and they are a treat! This winter their blood orange body butter has become my fail safe way to beat dry dull winter skin. It’s thick and rich, but absorbs quickly instantly banishing those pesky winter scales. Because it’s enriched with vitamins A, C & E and natural oils you can feel it soften and hydrate your skin, as well as see it work its rejuvenation magic. Plus, you’ll smell good enough to eat!
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Clarins Energizer Cream I love the whole Clarins Daily Energizer range, I actually went into a store and had a skin consultation. I got sick of spending a fortune on cheap products (I am a bit of a product o’holic) so decided to bite the bullet and buy more expensive products and haven’t looked back since. My skin felt smoother after just one use and instantly looked more radiant. The products have caffeine in so give skin the perk up it needs – especially after a long season of wedding shows!
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My must-use winter product is Clinique Even Better hand cream. I find my hands get so dry in the winter, but this hand cream really helps to keep them hydrated and soft. It’s long lasting - even after washing my hands I don’t need to reapply straight away, and it doesn’t feel greasy in the way that some other hand creams do. It contains SPF15 to help protect against sun damage, and as it is fragrance free it’s suitable for even sensitive skin.
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BLUSHING
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Every bride wishes to look stunning on their wedding day, so we have picked the latest blushers to make sure they give you the perfect glow on your special day. Boots No7 Blush Tint Cream £9.00
Benefit Bella Bamba £23.50
Boots No7 Natural Blush Cheek Colour £8.00
Benefit Coralista £23.50
Clarins Blush Prodige £25.00
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BANISH THOSE
BINGO WINGS AT HOME
Your arms are on full display on your wedding day, unless you have a little shrug, wrap or your wedding dress has sleeves, so taking the time to shape them is essential for looking gorgeous in your dream dress. A simple way to achieve slim, toned and sexy arms is with a few simple exercises at home. Start with some press-ups. By raising and lowering your body you will be banishing those bingo wings in no time. Try kneeling to start with (if you find it easier) and do 10 press-ups, have a small rest and repeat for a total of three sets.
alternating bicep curls
Team this with alternating bicep curls, using a filled bottle of water, or other item of weight around the house. Do 10 repetitions for each arm take a short break and repeat for a total of three sets. If you want to work your bingo wings super hard finish off with tricep dips; hold onto the edge of a stable chair, smoothly lower yourself down by bending your arms, taking your elbows back behind you. The larger the bend in your knee, the easier the exercise should be to perform, so adjust your leg position to maximise your gains from each dip. Again, aim for three sets of 10 repetitions of the exercise. If press-ups donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t float your boat, try going swimming to work your arms, and the rest of your body. Break up the lengths of breast stroke with a few lengths of front crawl to raise the heart rate and burn those calories and tone your arms.
tricep dips
For the best possible effects always team regular exercise with a healthy eating plan and plenty of water and you will be looking and feeling your best in no time. To help you achieve your goals, whatever they maybe for your wedding day, take part in the USN Body & Lifestyle Challenge. The 12 week challenge is a great way to kick start a healthy eating and exercise routine teamed with nutritional supplements to help aid your recovery from exercise and supplement your healthy eating plan with additional protein, fibre and carbohydrates in an easy, no-fuss method.
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Brides name: Emma Stratford Groom’s name: Daniel Gant Home town: Cambridge Ceremony venue: South Farm Shingay-cum-Wendy, Cambs Reception venue: South Farm Shingay-cum-Wendy,Cambs Wedding date: 28th December 2011
JUST GOOD
Friends
We first met when we were 17 and became really good friends, but didn’t get together until we were 24 and both realised that there was more between us than just friendship. However, soon after we got together I was due to leave for Thailand to do a bit of travelling. In the end Dan gave up his job and flew out to visit me, he stayed a while and we ended up coming home together! We got engaged on the August bank holiday in 2009, after we had been together for six years. We went for a Sunday morning walk along the river Cam, when suddenly he got down on one knee and proposed to me. I started to cry and didn’t immediately say yes as I was too busy saying “thank you”. I was eight months pregnant at the time so was very surprised and emotional! Dan
later told me that he had been a bit concerned I was going to discover the ring, he had hidden it in his backpack and when we got out of the car to go for the walk, I started to rummage about in it looking for something. Thankfully, I didn’t discover the ring, which was a single solitaire diamond set in a platinum band. Although we both loved the idea of an outdoor summer wedding we decided upon a winter wedding pretty quickly as we both felt that the British summer was far too unpredictable. We didn’t want to spend thousands of pounds planning an outdoor wedding only for it to be grey and miserable. We decided to marry in winter as we could plan to be indoors and cosy regardless of what the weather was doing.
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We both really wanted a log fire and had our hearts set on a barn for the reception. We spent a lot of time looking at venues online, but only visited two. The second venue was South Farm and we just fell in love with the place! We first visited just after the New Year on a very grey day, but the venue was bright and colourful and still had all the Christmas decorations up. When we walked into the barn we just looked at each other and both knew that it was where we wanted to celebrate our marriage. We also loved that there were different rooms which we could use for different parts of the day. As the barn looked so beautiful all decked out we decided on a Christmas wedding, but without a Christmas theme. We chose a date between Christmas and New Year as many people are off work then and without a lot to do! My wedding dress was an Amanda Wyatt, it was the fifth dress I tried on and it just felt right. I haven’t seen a wedding dress that I like as much since, it was beautiful. I had planned to wear it with a fake fur or feather wrap to keep warm, but decided that the dress was too beautiful to be covered so only had a light scarf to put around me for when we were outside. We wanted an informal feel to the day so didn’t hire suits, the men wore their own but with a teal tie to match the bridesmaid dresses. We wanted our friends and family to feel comfortable. I was happy for the bridesmaids to wear their hair and make-up however they wanted, I also took into account their preferences when searching for dresses. In the end they wore teal coloured Coast dresses with a fake fur shrug and a bag instead of flowers. We met wedding photographers, Tom and Lina, at the Red Lion in Histon to discuss our wedding, we liked them straight away and didn’t bother meeting with any other photographers.
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The best man was Dan’s oldest friend, Andrew, and the bridesmaids were my sister, Heidi and Dan’s sister, Deryn. Our little boy Alex (2) was the pageboy, and my friend’s daughters, Anna (4) and Lucy (2), were unofficial flowergirls. We didn’t put any pressure on the children to do anything, I didn’t mind if on the day they didn’t feel like walking down the aisle with me. The night before the wedding I stayed at my sister’s house with her and her boyfriend, just eating pizza and having a glass of wine. I was up at 6am for a morning run in the dark, just to have time to myself before the day started. On the way to the hairdressers I stopped off at the crematorium, where my Mum’s ashes are scattered and practiced my wedding speech! My sister is a hairdresser so her colleague, Sarah, did our hair. It was very relaxed in the salon, we were drinking champagne and eating croissants as our hair was being styled. We then headed to South Farm, where we met the make-up artist Kate, who is also a friend of my sister. It was a really relaxed and fun morning and I didn’t feel nervous at all, just really excited. The ceremony was at 2pm and held in the Old Dairy at the venue. My bridesmaids Heidi and Deryn held the hands of my two year old son Alex; all three followed me down the aisle. I had also asked the daughters of my friend, Katie, if they would like to walk down the aisle as well. Lucy (2) was a bit overwhelmed and started to cry but Anna (4) was not going to let that stop her and was happy to have her moment! My Dad gave me away, and as we started to walk down the aisle I felt very emotional and the tears started. Rather embarrassingly I was sniffing quite a bit during the ceremony and the registrar had to hand me a tissue! I walked down the aisle to Etta James’ ‘At Last’. We kept the ceremony pretty short with just one reading from my Aunty Pam. It all seemed to happen very quickly, but I
in a Cambridge pub and thought that they would be perfect for us. Although it wasn’t cheap to have a live band perform at the reception, it was worth every penny as we had such an amazing party. It was brilliant to have all the people who we care about most with us celebrating, dancing and drinking. Those memories are very precious. As we have a little boy we didn’t travel far for our honeymoon. We had three nights in the Arden Hotel in Stratford-upon-Avon, which was very luxurious and a wedding gift from my father in law. Since getting married our little family has grown, with the recent arrival of our daughter Poppy. From the outset we wanted a relaxed wedding which is actually quite hard to achieve. In many ways having it so close to Christmas did add a certain amount of stress to what is already quite a stressful event. Obviously businesses close for Christmas and there is the possibility of bad weather affecting deliveries etc. I tried to avoid putting too much pressure on myself. For example, I didn’t really have any flowers, just a bouquet, button holes and posies for the flower girls, so if there was a problem with the flower delivery it wouldn’t matter too much. Instead we decorated our tables with candles, which was perfect for a winter wedding.
really enjoyed it and I don’t even recall feeling nervous. I was more concerned that my nose might be running as I fought back the tears! The drinks reception was held in the House at South Farm, with warm winter Pimms and Thai canapés. It is such a beautiful room with a log fireplace. The fire was lit and the room felt cosy and Christmassy. Before the rest of our guests joined us, Dan and I spent some time together chatting and having our photos taken. Tom and Lina, the photographers, made us feel very relaxed so we could chat naturally to each other and with them as they took the pictures. I was freezing for the outdoor ones but it was worth it as the pictures are amazing! South Farm has a Thai tuktuk, so we went for a spin in it with our son which was great fun and a great surprise. Our wedding meal was a Thai buffet followed by crème caramel. Neither my Dad nor Dan felt comfortable doing a wedding speech, so breaking with tradition I did a speech. I mainly thanked people, but it was very emotional and I know that it wasn’t just me feeling a bit tearful by the end of it. Thankfully the best man’s speech was absolutely hilarious, certainly the best I have heard, it was genuinely funny and well thought out. Instead of a wedding cake, my friend Emily made cupcakes for us as a wedding gift. She also sculpted figurines in icing of Dan, Alex and I, which must have taken her ages! One of the things that we felt was really important was the music in the evening. We could only afford to have a small wedding with about 50 day guests and another 50 in the evening, so we really wanted the evening to be a party and to be equally as important as the wedding day. We both wanted live music. Dan’s sister, Deryn, saw a local band Charlie and the Funk Factory playing
Recreating
Daniel and Emma’s
W e d d i n g
Lina and Tom at Liquid Photo www.linaandtom.com Flash Kate www.flashkate.com South Farm www.south-farm.co.uk Charlie and the Funk Factory www.charlieandthefunkfactory.co.uk The Bridal Pixie www.thebridalpixie.co.uk Petals and Pearls www.petalsorpearls.co.uk
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the
perfect wedding venue
Greenwoods Hotel, Spa & Retreat is a beautiful 17th Century, Grade II listed manor house situated in the rural village of Stock in Essex. Greenwoods offer a sumptuous venue for both intimate and larger weddings and the beautifully landscaped gardens provide an idyllic back drop for timeless wedding photographs. • Marquee now available for up to 160 seated guests • Manor house available for 15 to 70 seated guests • Licensed for Civil Ceremonies • Garden Gazebo • Evening Receptions • 39 Stunning Bedrooms • Bridal Hair & Make-up • Hen Spa Packages
01277 829990 www.greenwoodshotel.co.uk
Greenwoods hotel spa and retreat
Hintlesham Hall Hotel
Hintlesham Hall is a magnificent 16th Century Grade 1 country house set in beautiful, peaceful and mature gardens, with an impressive tree-lined drive The Hall is the perfect setting for your wedding, whether your dream is for a more traditional occasion or a vibrantly spectacular celebration. The warm, relaxing and friendly ambience of this beautiful country house, together with attentive staff and renowned cuisine, will create a truly memorable occasion for you and your guests, no matter what season. We offer a flexible range of Wedding Packages including Exclusive Use of the Hall and its 32 unique bedrooms. Make an appointment to tour this beautiful wedding venue with our experienced Event Managers to discuss your personal requirements.
Wedding Open Day
Sunday 3rd February 2013 from 1pm until 4.30pm
s today on 01473 6523 652334 334 Call us t @hi tl h h or contact tracy.carter@hintleshamhall.com www.hintleshamhall.com
The complete venue for memorable weddings Set in tranquil surroundings, with large outside areas, fountain and an avenue of mature tree. Our wedding coordinator and head chef will ensure your day is relaxed, happy and memorable. • Wedding Receptions • Civil Ceremonies
• Luxury Accommodation This beautifully restored 17th century thatched Essex Barn is an idyllic venue for your special day.
01245 440 005 info@channelsce.co.uk Channels, Pratts Farm Lane East, Little Waltham, Chelmsford CM3 3PT
Little Channels is the ideal venue for slightly smaller civil ceremonies and wedding receptions. Situated in picturesque surroundings with a wonderful courtyard area providing a warm and friendly atmosphere.
01245 362 210 info@littlechannelsce.co.uk Little Channels, Pratts Farm Lane West, Little Waltham, Chelmsford CM3 3PR
Channels Lodge
Set in the grounds of Channels this converted farmhouse offers luxury accommodation including a bridal suite.
01245 441 547
info@channelslodge.co.uk
www.cliffordsestate.co.uk
WHERE TO
WED?
The save the dates have gone out, the church is booked, now all you need to do is find your dream venue. Easy right?
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ull of excitement and still in that “just engaged glow”, you and your future hubby sit down for what you hope will be a fun evening of planning. You start discussing your guest list, who will be in your bridal party, who will be coming to the day and who will be coming to the evening. Satisfied and rather smug that you have completed your first wedding planning task without even a tiny disagreement, you then count the numbers and realise that between you both you have over 200 “close family and friends”. You reach for another bottle of wine and start crossing people off the list (mainly from his side) and if you’re lucky enough you may reach a more sensible number. And that’s just the beginning…. For most brides a wedding has a lot of expectations to live up to. Most girls have been dreaming of their big day since they first played dress up in their mum’s wedding veil, so you want to get it right and who could blame you?
One of the first things you should consider is what time of year you want to get married. Although most weddings still take place within the spring and summer, over the last few
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years we have seen record amounts of rainfall over July and August. This has meant venues are now experiencing a real shift in the wedding season, with a lot of brides now opting for “off peak” wedding packages and booking winter weddings, or taking a chance with April showers. Luckily venues are recognising this and many now provide all weather marquees so couples no longer have to fear that they will be serving their wedding breakfast with a side of hypothermia. One of the main considerations when booking a venue should be the location of your photographs. For summer weddings, look for a pavilion, a picturesque fountain or an open lake. However at winter weddings you can’t expect your guests to stand around in the cold for an hour and a half while your photographer snaps the outside shots. Make sure you ask your wedding coordinator about inside locations too; look for a dramatic staircase, fireplace or feature wall. Anyone opting for an outdoor-based wedding, be it summer or winter, will need to ensure the venue is prepared for all eventualities including shelter from scorching sunshine, pouring rain and freezing cold!
Warren House
will have a room capacity for a wedding breakfast and then an overall capacity for evening guests. Smaller to mid-sized venues may take away a few tables to make way for your evening guests and the dance floor, and will often convert the top table into your evening buffet table. When looking around your venue ask your coordinator how they plan on running your day and coordinating your guests. If they are planning on turning the room around for the evening ask what happens to your guests while this is in progress. For the men mainly, the testament of a good wedding is all in the menu. Whether your venue has its own chef or you have to outsource your catering, it is recommended that you have a taste session ahead of your big day. You need to make sure that the menu works for the time of year and that it will suit most tastes. You will never please everyone with your menu so try to go for either a conventional starter or a conventional main, that way you can please even fussy eaters with at least one course. Alternatively, why not try a “Bride” and “Groom” menu and ask your guests to pick a team!
“ensure the venue is prepared for all eventualities including shelter from scorching sunshine, pouring rain and freezing cold!”
Once you have the practicalities sorted you can then move onto the fun part of creating a theme for the day. For great tips and ideas on creating your very own wedding wonderland please turn to our venue styling feature on page 54.
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If you are already exhibiting symptoms... here are a few remedies: • It’s easy for brides to get caught-up in the furore of wedding planning, but try not to neglect the other person this day is about. Don’t assume that your fiancé does not want to be involved and remember what this day signifies for both of you. • Set aside evenings where there is a strict ‘no wedding talk’ rule with friends, family and your fiancé. This will give you a break from the stress of planning and save you from appearing self-absorbed.
Although it appears that not every bride is convinced that all good things come in small packages, “I went to a wedding once where the bride-to-be over-fed her bridesmaids in the run up to the wedding, to ensure that she was the thinnest one going down the aisle. There was even a weigh-in before the big day so that she could be certain that she was the lightest, some of the Bridesmaids were so scared of her they actually put on multiple layers just to make sure they tipped the scales”, one horrified guest recalls. Another bride even demanded that Lydia a maid of honor from Chislehurst grew out her pixie crop, “so that guests wouldn’t mistake me for a man. The worse bit is that the bride then ordered each of her bridesmaids to tie their hair in a ponytail and fixed appointments for us at the local hairdressers at our own expense to have our hair groomed into a style only worthy of the gym.”
• D elegate tasks to others. Don’t try and take everything on, but remember that there are ways to ask for things to be done.
And it appears that not even families can be spared from a scathing attack from the bridezilla. “My sister got engaged to a lovely man and they set the date for two years later”, Emma-Jane a loving sister from Chelmsford recalls. “Nine months after her engagement my boyfriend proposed, completely out of the blue. When my sister returned from holiday to hear of my happy news, her reaction was most unexpected. Instead of throwing her arms round me in congratulations, I received a slap around the face. She said that I was doing it on purpose and that my fiancé should take back the proposal, despite us deciding to get married a year before her wedding.”
• Most importantly enjoy it. Most people only plan on doing this once. Take a step back and just absorb what is happening on the day, you’ll want the memories to last a life time.
So ladies if you recognise yourself in any of these stories it might be time to take stock before your bridesmaids turn into alcoholics, your sister emigrates and your mum is conveniently out at a “yoga class” every time you seem to pop in with your scrapbook!
• Try to stop thinking about it having to be ‘perfect’. Nothing can be truly perfect. If you start replacing perfect with: ‘memorable’, ‘romantic’, ‘loving’, or ‘fun’ it might help lower the stress of trying to achieve perfection.
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For our first date Dean took me to The Piano Lounge in Epping, I was so nervous even though we had known each other for ages!! After about 2 and half months I knew I was falling in love with Dean. After being together for 2 amazing years Dean proposed. I always hoped he would ask me but I was so shocked when he finally did as I never thought it would really happen. We were living in Singapore at the time but had returned home to visit our families. Dean got down on one knee and asked me to marry him in front of my mum, dad, sister and brother in law, as well as my dearest aunt & uncle who had flown in from Australia. For me it was the perfect proposal. I am a big family girl and Dean knows how much
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my family mean to me. It was the most amazing feeling having them all there to share in this beautiful moment with us. The ring was gorgeous, it was a radiant cut diamond on a platinum band, and I felt like a very lucky girl! Not long after our engagement we were in full planning mode, we decided on a black tie theme. Due to the time of year we thought this would give the day a romantic and glamorous feel. We both loved the idea of a winter wedding and chose the beautiful Gosfield Hall. The grounds are stunning all year round and the interior is so elegant, it just worked so well with our theme. We chose Gosfield Hall as unlike other large houses, Gosfield Hall allows you to use all of the property and the grounds. I fell in love with the venue as soon as I saw it. It’s every girls dream to shop for a wedding dress, and my mum very generously bought my dress from Vera Wang. I cried the first time I tried it on, as did my mum and cousin who were both at the fitting. The dress took my breath away it made me feel so special, I knew instantly that it was “the one”. I was like a little girl and didn’t want to take it off! My final night was spent at home with my mum and aunt as well as our little girl who was 7 months old at the time. It was a lovely relaxing evening as I wanted to be fully prepared for the big day ahead of me. On the big day the preparations started about 7am, I chose to get ready at the venue in the beautiful Bridal suite – which is like something out of Cinderella. As I pulled up to the venue I saw my bridesmaid Lucy arriving and promptly burst into tears, I could not believe the day was finally here. All the preparations and details that I had been working on for this huge day were finally in motion.
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My make-up was done by a fantastic artist called Lisa Barker and my hair was styled by Terry Marshall. I was over the moon with both, especially as the day before the wedding I had decided to wear my hair down instead of the “up do” which we practised in the trials. Getting ready that day I felt very calm, everything just felt so surreal but the moment I climbed into my dress the nerves hit me. My nerves finally subsided as I rounded the corridor to walk down the 112 foot aisle to Dean. We decided to have a civil ceremony hosted in the Queens Chamber, and it was a good choice as it just looked incredible. As I walked down the aisle I couldn’t stop smiling, I felt so proud and happy that all our amazing friends and family were here with us to witness me marrying the man of my dreams. I just felt so happy, I couldn’t believe Dean was finally going to be my husband and I couldn’t wait to be his wife. I walked down the aisle to song bird by Eva Cassidy. The ceremony was incredible and I loved every moment of it. After the ceremony we treated our guests to a medley of songs by Ian a fantastic Ratpack and Sinatra singer. We then moved to the main room for the wedding breakfast, the room looked so opulent and so fitting with our theme, it felt like we were in a fairy tale! We chose to celebrate with 108 of our nearest and dearest as well as 60 evening guests. We wanted our closest friends and family to witness our marriage, and we certainly got our wish. For our wedding breakfast we decided to give our guests a choice of 3 starters, mains and desserts. As we wanted everyone to
have a meal they really enjoyed. The speeches were fantastic, emotional and very funny. We decided our first dance would be to Joe Cocker ‘Beautiful’ which is our song. It’s so romantic but we giggled like teenagers all the way through as we were so happy. For the evening entertainment we had a DJ who was supplied by the venue. We would have liked to pick our own as we, like most people, have our own musical tastes but unfortunately this wasn’t an option. After the big day we spent a couple of well-earned weeks relaxing in the Maldives for our honeymoon at the amazing Reethi Rah resort, it was out of this world and the perfect ending to our perfect wedding! I love married life, I enjoy being a wife and calling Dean my husband I feel so proud to be Mrs Wright. In the future we plan to have more babies and to enjoy life to the full. We often discuss that one day we plan to head to Vegas and renew our vows, and with a bit of luck I will get to wear my dress again - if I can ever fit into it after another child :) “I would advise all future brides to savour every moment of your big day, everyone gave that advice to me and I still can’t believe how quickly it went. As soon as we were married and walked back down the aisle as man and wife I wanted to do it all over again. It’s one of the most important days of your life so hold on to every detail and enjoy it.”
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VIDEOGRAPHER Videography isn’t something everyone has experience with, so when it comes to picking a videographer for your big day, you’ll want to make the right choice! We’ve put together a checklist so that you can make sure you’re videographer suits you down to the ground. So firstly, what exactly is videography?
Videography is a way of capturing your wedding memories in video form (your very own chick flick). It means you can remember ever detail and relive your special day, time after time. You can document everything from the excitement of getting ready and the romance of the ceremony, to the aftermath when everyone gets to the bar, all on a DVD to share with family and friends. These are some of the top factors to consider in making sure your wedding video is exactly what you are hoping for:
Communication
‘I know exactly what you mean’ Trying to explain the dream video you have in mind isn’t always easy, so it’s really important that your videographer understands you. Make sure you pick someone who you get on with and find easy to communicate with. That way, the ideas that are important to you will be captured in your DVD without any disappointments.
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‘I like your style’ You wouldn’t buy a wedding dress without trying it on first, so don’t hire a videographer without seeing some of their previous work! Check that they film and edit in a style that suits you. Videographers will always have their own unique style so be careful not to pick an artsy, cinematic style videographer if you’re hoping for a fly-on-the-wall documentary.
The equipment
‘It’s all covered’ Good quality equipment is always going to help toward a good quality end result, so it doesn’t hurt to ask about the equipment. Check if it’s up to date. The amount of equipment is also important. A single camera is not likely to guarantee you capture everything. Two cameras will allow for better shots and reduce the chance of missing important moments. Finally a third camera provides even more safety and more creative options. Having said that, the most important thing is that your videographer really knows how to get the most out of the equipment they use.
How much will it cost?
‘I have a budget’ Videography is an expensive business so good quality videographers don’t come cheap. Prices can vary a lot but you should usually expect to pay at least as much as a photographer. It is also worth regarding particularly cheap quotes with suspicion as it’s likely to mean the quality will be compromised.
The editing
‘The finishing touch’ The editing is the part that brings it all together. To make sure the final production is exactly as you want it there are a few questions to go through with your videographer: • How long will the final video be? •C an you have more than one version? You might want a full version and highlights package • What title and captions will be included? • Will the DVD have a title menu? •W ill music be added? If so, can I choose my own music and what is the situation with copyrighting? Handy hint: If you are on a tighter budget you can save money by leaving the editing for a later date. Ask for your wedding to just be covered, this way you can keep the ‘raw’ footage which can be edited when you can afford it.
Video formatting
‘I want it to last’ It’s a good idea to check what format the video will be shot and supplied in. Now that high definition is becoming more and more prevalent, choosing wide screen and high definition will ensure your video keeps it quality finish as technology advances. Handy hint: It’s not a normal request, but you can ask for the master quality version of your video in the original format. This can be used for further editing or transferring to new video formats at a later date.
Our final tip
If you need to, compromise in other areas, to make sure you get the best videographer you can afford. Your wedding video will be the thing you keep with you for many years after the day!
What our experts say 1. Choose the Right Style Some wedding videographers may adopt a traditional “wedding video” approach which documents your special day whereas others may be able to provide you with a more cinematic “wedding day film”. Make sure you choose a videographer whose style you like so that you are not disappointed with the final product. 2. Are They a Member of a Professional Trade Association The wedding market is flooded with people claiming to be “Professional Videographers”, any individual with a true commitment to the industry will be a member of a Professional Trade Association such as the IOV and will adopt the policies and codes of practice of that association. 3. Business Insurance & Copyright Compliance Whether it’s music recorded during the ceremony or popular music tracks dubbed onto the finished video, all videographers must ensure that your wedding video is fully copyright protected with the correct licenses. Although not legally bound to do so, they must also have Public Liability insurance to give you complete peace of mind, be safe not sorry. Matt Kilgariff – Institute of Videography
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Flat bands are slightly more contemporary than the classic court style. With their squared-off sides, these bands look more sleek and modern.
Patterns
Using pattern is a great way to choose a more individual design. Modern jewellery techniques mean that you are no longer limited to just one metal, but can now mix different ones. Many designers have mixed traditional and modern metals like steel and titanium. As well as creating new and exciting options, these can be a more affordable alternative. The hottest designs from Furrer Jacot in Switzerland use precious metals with carbon.
Finishes
Most metals can be produced in a variety of finishes. Traditionally rings were polished to achieve a high shine finish, but recent trends have included a range of matt and sand-blasted styles.
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Why not make your wedding rings really individual by using engraving? Some manufacturers can even reproduce your own handwriting to spell out a personal message or design.
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Gold
Gold has been the traditional choice for hundreds of years and it offers lots of style options. Gold is mixed with alloys and 9ct, 18ct and 22ct designate the mix and therefore the purity of the metal; each grade of gold will vary in price accordingly. Gold is available in different colours, the most popular being yellow and white. The ‘whiteness’ of white gold will vary according to the alloy mix and so is often rhodium plated.
Stones
In recent years, more and more wedding couples are adding a little sparkle to their wedding rings by having them stone-set. Diamonds are the most popular choice, but you can use any precious stones. Remember that you will be wearing your wedding ring every day and stone set rings are not as hard wearing as plain bands.
Platinum
Platinum is the most costly of all the metals. It is a heavy and dense white metal which is popular because it is so durable and hard wearing. That doesn’t mean that it won’t scratch though; it just won’t wear away as quickly as the other alternatives.
Palladium
As part of the Platinum family of metals, Palladium shares many of the same qualities and aesthetics. It is lighter in weight and therefore a more cost effective alternative to Platinum and has grown massively in popularity in recent years.
Titanium
Titanium is a much lighter metal known for its durability, which can make it a perfect choice for those in manual jobs. It is also hypo-allergenic. It doesn’t come with a huge price tag but make sure you chose the right size, as jewellers cannot resize titanium rings!
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Mexico are now a regular occurrence due to recent new flight routes to Cancun so this also makes it easier to travel there and also better value. It is rare to find a hotel below 4* standard in any of the key resorts in Mexico and most are 5* All Inclusive. However, if All Inclusive large resorts are not your thing you can also find hidden gems dotted around on the beach resorts of Mexico that offer a discreet hideaway from the rest of the world, on what feels like your own perfect part of the beach with a beautiful view of the ocean. Imagine celebrating your honeymoon with a private dinner on the beach, followed by champagne and your own bed under the stars. Anything is possible in Mexico! For honeymoon ideas and to search for holiday offers try www.holidays4mexico.co.uk
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Capital: Mexico City Flight time: approx 10 hours from London Time difference: 6 hours Currency: Mexican Peso Months to go/avoid: Unless you want to join in the revelry of Spring break avoid Cancun during the peak weeks in March when thousands of Students descend on the hotels and the nightlife goes crazy. Most UK travellers visit Mexico during our Winter season between late October and May. Temperature/Climate: Highest average temperatures are around 32C in August
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JAMAICA Most honeymooners head to Jamaica because of the beaches as they are truly spectacular! From the miles and miles of soft white powdery sand along the Negril coast to the small secluded coves, offering private beaches on which to relax and soak up the sunshine, and the clear aquamarine waters of the Caribbean. You could be forgiven for spending all your time relaxing on holiday in Jamaica but this Caribbean island also offers a wide range of activities and watersports aswell as nightlife and wonderful cuisine. Experience Negril’s seven mile stretch of soft white beach framed by ever present palm trees on this quintessential Caribbean beach – this is what dreams are made of. Admire the spectacular sunsets whilst sipping on an exotic cocktail from one of the many restaurants, bars and cafes. If it’s real seclusion and that feeling of ‘getting away from it all’ that you re looking for, then Whitehouse on the South coast of Jamaica could be just the ticket. Wander along the pristine Caribbean beaches here largely undisturbed in your own slice of paradise. If you want time away from the beaches why not visit the old colonial buildings and experience the hustle, bustle and great bars and shops of Montego Bay – Jamaica’s second largest city. Spend time perusing the local crafts in the markets here and get a real feel for the character of Jamaica with its fun laid-back vibe. Alternatively stay in Ocho Rios on the North coast of Jamaica, home to the famous town of Dunn’s River Falls where you can experience amazing waterfalls, lush tropical rainforests and stunning beaches aswell as joining in the fun with the various events and entertainment available here.
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THE FACTS
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