Bluffs & Bayous Jan/Feb 2024

January | February 2024

Wedding Edition� Edition �

a look INSIDE social scenes 7 Jackson, MS

Officer Installation for REPM Meeting

14 McComb, MS

Toys for Tots Golf Tournament

34 Natchez, MS

Adams County Chamber Birthday Gala

favorites 6 From the Stacks

Lacye Prewitt Schmidt reviews the book Mourning the Presidents: Loss and Legacy in American Culture

10 Something Scrumptious

Fall in Love with Local Food

40 Along & Beyond

The Friends of Magnolia Mound Plantation's 24TH Annual Petite Antiques Forum

45 Up & Coming

52 Southern Sampler

Reception at Linden

Olivia Dixon (now Wilkerson) graces the beauty of Tuscany, Italy.

See story on pages 20-21. Photo by Jazmin Scheitel Photography

Realtors under Attack

Miss-Lou Events to Pique Your Interest

44 Natchez, MS

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36 Legal Notes

Musings on the Message of Valentine's Day

features 15 Wedding Stories

A special collection of detailed wedding occasions from brides and grooms with Mississippi and Louisiana roots

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from the PUBLISHER

The New Year is a time to reflect on the annals of the previous year and celebrate the possibilities and opportunities of a new chapter.

It is also a time to share hopeful wishes with your family, friends, co-workers, and neighbors.

As I reflect on the past year, I am reminded of how fortunate I am to be surrounded with smart and talented co-workers. Our gifted Design Director, Erin Norwood, led us through 2023 with brilliant layouts, designs, and clever visual placements; and with this issue, we are excited that the talented Bonnie Dickerson now leads our Graphic Design section for 2024.

Our Sales Team grew a bit with Senator Melanie Sojourner signing on with us–what a dynamic addition she is! She will join Kari Blaney and me as we market our community to all of our readers. As always, my colleague and close friend, Jean Biglane, still steers us on the right track with our copy editing and creative ideas and is a right-hand support for me personally.

Our photographers, Bill Perkins, Lisa Whittington, and J. Phillip Larson, always seem to pop up and record the many social events throughout the area. Regular contributors, Alma

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Bluffs & Bayous is published monthly to promote the greater Southern area of Louisiana and Mississippi in an informative and positive manner. We welcome contributions of articles and photos; however, they will be subject to editing and availability of space and subject matter. Photographs, comments, questions, subscription requests and ad placement inquiries are invited! Return envelopes and postage must accompany all materials submitted if a return is requested. No portion of this publication may be reproduced without written permission of the publisher. The opinions expressed in Bluffs & Bayous are those of the authors or columnists and do not necessarily reflect the views of the publisher, nor do they constitute an endorsement of products or services herein. We reserve the right to refuse any advertisement. Bluffs & Bayous strives to ensure the accuracy of our magazine’s contents. However, should inaccuracies or omissions occur, we do not assume responsibility.

Womack, Sam Gwin, and Cecilia Hopkins Stevens, bring depth to our magazine with their bi-monthly articles that complement our features. I also am most appreciative of our Distribution Team, Mike Jones, Kippy Blaney, and Melanie Sojourner, who supply Bluffs & Bayous to all of our reading area.

This month’s featured section is also about new beginnings. The articles of newly engaged and newly married couples share a glimpse of their joyful occasions with all of you. Ageless happiness abounds throughout these celebrations with the cherished memories made and many more awaiting.

This is always one of my favorite issues; for it allows me to reflect on my own wedding with Mike, as well as on his and my children’s happy occasions. Together we share and adore eleven grandchildren from the five children we brought to our marriage, children whose engagements and weddings we have enjoyed and treasured over the past seventeen years.

Throughout this New Year of celebrations, followed by Mardi Gras season and Valentine events, may good health, happiness, and peace enrich your life along and beyond the Mississippi.

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BOOK REVIEW by Lacye Prewitt Schmidt

Commemorating the 35th Annual Natchez Literary & Cinema Celebration scheduled for February 22-24, 2024, Bluffs & Bayous offers this review of a book integral to the conference’s presentations and discussions that explore its 2024 theme—“Rites, Rituals, and Religion in the Deep South.”

Hebrews 9:27 states, “It is appointed for men to die once, but after this the judgment” (NKJV). Whether we are famous or infamous, death comes to us all. But what happens in the aftermath—in the wake of someone’s death? More specifically, what happens in the wake of an American president’s death?

How does that death impact our society as it mourns, and what is its impact decades later?

According to editors Lindsay M. Chervinsky and Matthew R. Costello, an American president’s death can significantly affect several societal issues and the culture as a whole, both immediately and long term. These editors had their work cut out for them to narrow the book to only twelve essay chapters since thirty-nine American presidents to date have passed away. The twelve essays they chose for their book, Mourning the Presidents: Loss and Legacy in American Culture published in 2023, however, offer some intriguing points of view about the influence an American president’s passing has on the nation and even the world.

On Thursday, February 22, 2024, at 10:30 a.m., Dr. Lindsay M. Chervinsky will speak at the 2024 Natchez Literary &

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Cinema Celebration. The book and her presentation reflect this year’s theme, “Rites, Rituals, and Religion in the Deep South.”

Other events during this two-days-plus program include additional lectures, cemetery tours, and a wake. With a click on this website, www.colin.edu/community/natchez-literaryand-cinema-celebration/, you can read more about this year’s NLCC, download a schedule of all the activities and lectures, and find out how to purchase tickets for the wake, luncheon, and breakfast as well as the cemetery tours.

Remember that the conference and lectures are free of charge, being generously sponsored by many local individuals and businesses. So come join us for NLCC 2024!

j Lacye Schmidt is an English instructor at Copiah-Lincoln Community College in Natchez, Mississippi..

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Officer Installation for REPM Meeting On Tuesday, November 14, 2023, Barbara Smith Winston of Natchez, Mississippi, was installed as President of the Retired Education Personnel of Mississippi. The event was held at the Mississippi Public Broadcasting Center in Jackson, Mississippi.

Representatives and members from each of the six districts were present.

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1—Kendria Lyles and Barbara Winston 2—Jordan Goins, Michael McNeese, Milton Kuykiendall, Barbara Winston, and William Herrlich 3—Ray Higgins 4—Kaitlyn Tidwell 5—Barbara Winston and Christine Robinson 6—Rikie Vaughn 7—Reginald Winston, Barbara Winston, Kendria Lyles, Yolanda Winding, and Adrian Smith 8—Melinda Bradford and Barbara Winston 9—Mr. and Mrs. Bill Herrlich 10—Yolanda Winding, Barbara Winston, Linda McMurtry, Deloris Anderson, Jacqulyn Williams, Ruthie Washington, Vounzell Murphy, Thelma Newsome, Bonita Reed, Dorothy Houze, Linda Gooden, Lillian Edney, Gwen Vanderson, and Evelyn Hutchins

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Celebrations along the Mississippi don’t begin or end with the winter holidays but instead are year round. January rolls right into Super Bowl parties, and February includes Valentine’s Day and all types of Mardi Gras festivities to precede the beginning of spring. One great option as you plan parties and events is to select local food as the centerpiece of celebration menus.

Often, consumers want to eat local but don’t know where to start. Enter the Louisiana State University and Mississippi State University Extension Services. Each state has a MarketMaker program accessible online. MarketMaker is an easy-to-use online resource comparable to a digital farmers market; it helps consumers determine what local foods are in season and where to buy them.

The “Eat Local” food movement is connected to the Farm to School Movement. Both began when community members became concerned about consumption of processed and ultra-processed food. Seeds to Success: The Louisiana Farm to School Program is a joint effort between the LSU AgCenter and the Louisiana Department of Education to connect schools and communities to local food access. Seeds to Success utilizes its Harvest of the Month program to share recipes, nutrition information, and student activities with locals. The program can be found online at seedstosuccess.com with all the materials free to the public.

This issue’s recipes would be great for a buffet supper or casual dinner party. Local foods featured include satsumas, shrimp, rice, blueberries, strawberries, and herbs.

Mississippi and Louisiana offer abundant vegetable and fruit crops to help make a meal worthy of celebration. Louisiana’s Gulf Coast parishes south of New Orleans produce citrus such as satsumas and navel oranges which mature in the winter.

Strawberries are in season from mid-February through May with blueberries ready from late April to June. Herbs and rice are available year round.

The key with any of these products is to look for labeling that identifies the products as grown or caught and processed in state. Louisiana offers the “Certified Cajun” label while Mississippi uses the “Genuine MS” label to show that the products are local to the state.

When sourcing shrimp, look at the origin of the product and where it was packaged to make sure that it is a local product. Here’s a seafood tip: look for a label that reads "IQF" or "individual quick frozen." Shrimp boats catch, sort, and freeze their seafood while at sea. Stores selling “fresh shrimp” on ice have probably thawed the product which can degrade quality.

To make the most of these recipes, source your ingredients locally using the Louisiana MarketMaker or Mississippi MarketMaker online resources. Fall in love with local food, one forkful at a time!

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Photos by Cecilia Stevens

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Cecilia Stevens (B.A. LSU and M.ED. Louisiana Tech) resides in Concordia Parish, works for the LSU AgCenter, and is the parent of two adult children.

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Strawberry Salsa

Berry-Basil Spritzer

Satsuma Salad

1 pint strawberries, hulled and finely diced 1 jalapeño, stem and seeds removed, finely diced Half of a small red onion, peeled and finely diced (about ½ cup) ⅔ cup finely chopped fresh cilantro, loosely packed Juice of 1 lime (about 2 tablespoons) Pinch of salt and black pepper

4 basil leaves 6-10 fresh berries, 1 ounce (strawberries, blueberries, or blackberries), divided 4 ounces (½ cup) sparkling lemon-flavored water Ice Basil sprig for garnish

1 lime 1 teaspoon honey 1 tablespoon finely chopped shallots 1½ tablespoons extra virgin olive oil ⅛ teaspoon salt 1 teaspoon finely chopped basil or mint, washed and dried 1 pound satsumas (about 6) Freshly ground black pepper

Toss all ingredients in a medium mixing bowl. Adjust flavor with additional salt and pepper if desired. Refrigerate 30 minutes prior to serving. If needed, keep covered in the refrigerator for 1 to 2 days.

Gently muddle basil leaves and 4 berries in the bottom of a stemless wineglass or rocks glass. Fill glass halfway with ice.

Add lemon soda; stir. Garnish with the remaining berries and basil sprig.

Zest the lime. Juice the lime (about 2 tablespoons of lime juice). In a small mixing bowl, combine the lime zest, lime juice, honey, basil (or mint), shallots, and salt. Add the oil and whisk. Slice the unpeeled satsumas about ¼ an inch thick; then remove the peel. Arrange the satsuma slices on a plate or platter and drizzle the dressing over them. Sprinkle with freshly ground black pepper.

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Shrimp Paella 2 cups reduced-sodium chicken broth ⅛ teaspoon turmeric 1½ teaspoons butter 1½ teaspoons olive oil 1 cup medium grain rice, uncooked 1 bay leaf ¼ teaspoon red pepper flakes

⅛ teaspoon salt ½ teaspoon smoked paprika ¾ pound medium raw shrimp, peeled 1 cup diced unsalted tomatoes, undrained 3 tablespoons fresh parsley, chopped 4 thin lemon slices

In a small saucepan, warm chicken broth over medium heat. Stir in turmeric. In a 10-inch skillet with a heavy bottom, heat butter and oil on medium-low heat.

Add dry rice to pan and coat in butter and oil. Stir for 5 minutes or until rice begins to brown. Pour in broth mixture and add bay leaf, red pepper flakes, salt, and paprika. Cover and bring to a boil over medium-high heat; then reduce heat and simmer without stirring for 15 minutes. Stir in shrimp and tomatoes. Cover and cook for 8-10 minutes on low-medium heat until shrimp are cooked through and liquid has evaporated. Before serving, stir in 2 tablespoons of parsley. Serve with a squeeze of lemon and a sprinkle of parsley on top.

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Toys for Tots Golf Tournament The 38th Annual McComb Toys for Tots Golf Tournament was held on Saturday, December 9, 2023, at Quail Hollow Golf Course at Percy Quin State Park in McComb, Mississippi. Event founder, Ted Tullos, still organizes the tournament today. The first year the event helped 15 foster families in Pike County, and this year it served 130 foster families. Sponsors for this year’s tournament were McComb Coca-Cola, McComb Market, and Tom’s Sheet Metals. All proceeds from the event go to St. Andrew’s Mission, which assisted in purchasing Christmas gifts and clothing for foster children in Pike County.

1—Bert Haydel, Tommy McKenzie, and Ted Tullos 2—Andy Anderson and Kelvin Butler 3—Jane James and Andy Anderson 4—Cliff McGee, Greg Slaughter, Ed Codding, and Chris Codding 5—Ted Tullos, Mary Tullos, and Stone Lawshe 6—Sam Daniel, Flip Weinberg, and Harry Young 7—Joe Rush and Bill Johnson 8—Brad Terrell, Jeremy Spikes, and Scotty Cooper

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Wedding Stories� A special collection of detailed wedding occasions from brides and grooms with Mississippi and Louisiana roots

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Butler-Gierod & Freeman Wedding� SUMMIT, MISSISSIPPI | MAY 20, 2023

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onna Butler-Gierod and Ralph Freeman were married amongst family and friends attending from Texas, Arizona, Georgia, North Carolina, Michigan, and the surrounding Pike County area in Mississippi. The ceremony took place on the grounds of the couple’s home in Summit, Mississippi. A garden setting surrounded the wedding tent that was accented with urns and bedecked with arbor decorations all designed by the bride, who also fashioned the floral accents throughout the garden.

Attending the bride as her maid of honor was her aunt, Martha Fender, while Brenda Maness served as bridesmaid. The bride was given in marriage by her younger brother, Billy Butler. Dressed in formal kilt attire the groom’s attendants were Andrew Hempel; Brent Barksdale, nephew of the groom; and Forrest Adair. Music was provided by bag piper J. B. Griffith. The presiding official was Vance Barksdale, nephew of the groom; and the music solo during the ceremony was by Andrew Barksdale, nephew of the groom, with his arrangement of “I Cross My Heart” by George Strait.

Guests were served a wedding meal catered by Karen Stockman Ford while Malynda Cooper attended to the bar. Serving the champagne was Tina Barksdale while Judy Adair served the bride’s cake and Wendy Barksdale served the groom’s cake. Reagan Smith provided photography for the occasion.

After a honeymoon trip to Natchez, Mississippi, the couple returned to their home filled with wonderful memories of their friends and family who shared the memorable occasion of their wedding.

On the night before the wedding, the wedding party and out-of-town guests were entertained at an afterrehearsal dinner.

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Denham & Whittington Wedding� LAS VEGAS, NEVADA | SEPTEMBER 9, 2023

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n Saturday, September 9, 2023, Paige Elizabeth Denham and Ethen Young Whittington were married in a sunset ceremony at Desert Love Land in Las Vegas, Nevada. The bride is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Richard Denham of Biloxi, Mississippi, and the granddaughter of Sandy Denham and the late Frank Denham of D’Iberville, Mississippi. The groom is the son of Mr. and Mrs. Buddy Whittington of Natchez, Mississippi, and the grandson of Jeanie Walker and the late Jerry Walker and of the late Mr. and Mrs. Roice Whittington.

Escorted down the aisle by her grandmother, the bride wore a Rue de Seine trumpet gown of ivory charmeuse, its bodice featuring a plunging neckline with billowing sleeves and its open back featuring handknotted bijoux pearls. Completing her ensemble, the bride wore a long fingertip-length illusion veil and a pair of custom Vans with Mrs. Whitt and the wedding date embroidered on the heels. The blush roses designed by Amy Wong were a perfect complement to the bride’s wedding attire.

Attending the bride as her maid of honor was her best friend, Hannah Reed, of D’Iberville; and serving as flower girl was Kayleigh Gruich of Biloxi. Hannah’s gown represented the bride’s “something blue.” Spencer Whittington of Natchez, brother of the groom, served as best man; and Julien Gruich of Biloxi carefully attended the rings.

Music was a selection of the bride and groom’s favorites, and the event planner for the evening was Elopements of Las Vegas. Wedding hair and makeup were provided by Glammed Up of Las Vegas. The special moments of the evening were captured by Kassie Gunn Photography and Panovision Videography, both in Las Vegas. Transportation the day of the wedding was provided by VIP Transportation of Las Vegas.

Immediately following the ceremony, a champagne toast and cake-cutting were shared with those in attendance at Red Rock Canyon’s Desert Love Land. The evening’s seated reception was held at Maggiano’s Italian Restaurant in Summerlin, Nevada.

Pre-wedding events included a brunch at the Pepper Club in Las Vegas on the day before the wedding as well as a wedding-day brunch held at the residence where all the guests were staying. Guests took in the sights and sounds of Las Vegas the entire weekend before returning to their homes.

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In the spring of 2024, the newlyweds will honeymoon in Japan and return to reside in New Orleans, Louisiana.

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Dixon & Wilkerson Wedding� TUSCANY, ITALY | SEPTEMBER 4, 2023

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r. and Mrs. Billy and Leah Ulmer are delighted to announce the union of their son, Joshua Wilkerson, to Olivia Dixon, the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Bruce and Pam Dixon. The joyous occasion took place amidst the breathtaking landscapes of Tuscany, Italy, at the historic Villa Cetinale, just outside of Siena.

The radiant bride, Olivia Claire Dixon of St. Simons Island, Georgia, and the dashing groom, Joshua Wyatt Wilkerson from Natchez, Mississippi, stood united at Villa Cetinale in Tuscany, Italy, on the enchanting evening of September 4, 2023. The ceremony, meticulously curated by Sarah Patton, the talented event planner of Social Bliss Events, was a testament to the love that transcends geographical boundaries.

Surrounded by the rolling hills and vineyards of the Tuscan countryside, the ceremony was a testament to the love and commitment of the couple and to the timeless beauty of the region. Family and friends gathered to witness the union of two souls embarking on a journey of lifelong companionship.

The sun-kissed afternoon began with an intimate ceremony in the Villa Centinale’s lush gardens. The bride, adorned in an ethereal Martina Liana fit-to-flare gown with detachable sleeves and a detachable tulle skirt, was escorted down an aisle by her father. The air was filled with the sweet melodies of live music, creating an ambiance that perfectly complemented the romance of the moment.

The groom’s cousin, Alana Moonshower, conducted a ceremony that reflected the unique love story of Olivia and Joshua. Framed by a gorgeous floral arch, the couple exchanged heartfelt vows, promising a lifetime of love, laughter, and shared dreams.

Capturing every poignant moment was the talented Jazmin Scheitel of Jazmin Scheitel Photography, whose lens immortalized the genuine emotions and magical atmosphere. Santiago Boceta, the videographer, and his team ensured that the essence of the celebration would be forever preserved, allowing the couple to relive their special day for years to come. The floral arrangements, crafted by Flowers Living, adorned the venue with a symphony of colors and fragrances, adding a touch of romance to the historic surroundings.

Following the ceremony, guests were treated to a sophisticated cocktail hour during which they savored the finest Tuscan wines and delectable bites, including the best pasta one has ever had! Laughter and joy echoed through the historic villa as friends and family from

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near and far came together to celebrate the union of two families. The evening concluded with dancing the night away followed by everyone jumping in the pool in their sophisticated attire. The entire day was an experience that will be remembered by all!

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Hewitt & Seale Wedding� MCCOMB, MISSISSIPPI | SEPTEMBER 23, 2023

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n September 23, 2023, McRaney Elizabeth Hewitt of Summit, Mississippi, and Zachary Martin Seale of Flora, Mississippi, were happily married in the outside courtyard of the newly renovated Palace Theater in McComb, Mississippi. Pastor Dwayne Parker of Flora officiated the ceremony with Pastor Brad Fitzgerald of McComb completing the opening prayer and remarks, giving of the bride, and assisting with communion.

The bride is the daughter of Jamey and Beth Hewitt of Summit where the bride has lived the entirety of her life. She is the granddaughter of Jim Hewitt and Barbara Mercier of McComb and Tom and Earlene Conner of Tylertown, Mississippi. The groom is the son of Jerry and Tracy Seale of Flora where the groom has lived most of his life. He is the grandson of Curtis and Esther Seale of Madison, Mississippi, and the late Harold and Ivon Martin of Chula, Mississippi.

Escorted by her father, the bride wore a beaded, lacy gown from The Bridal Path in Madison. Complementing this dress was the bride’s bouquet of various white flowers designed and arranged by Fresh Cut Catering & Floral of Flowood, Mississippi.

Attending the bride were her dear friends Courtney Travis, matron of honor, of Cordova, Tennessee; Alli Lovertich, matron of honor, of Madison; Mollie and Brooke Seale of Flora; Hannah Martin of Hernando, Mississippi; Jordan Adams of McComb; Katie Connelley of Monticello, Arkansas; Sydney Williamson of Brandon, Mississippi; Maddy Mahaffey of Madison; Meredith Lee of Nettleton, Mississippi; Abbey Fitzsimmons of Memphis, Tennessee; Sara Grace McKay of Brandon; Molly McMahon of McComb; Kailin Blanton of McComb; and Lily Watts, flower girl, daughter of Wesley and Jordan Watts of Brandon. The bridesmaids surrounded the bride and groom in an organized rainbow of colors, wearing chiffon dresses of individually selected styles from the website Birdy Grey.

Serving as the groom’s best man was Jerry Seale of Flora. Groomsmen included Grayson Hewitt of Summit; Wes Neely, Hunter Wooten, and Hayes Shepherd, all of Flora; Robert Hudson of Starkville, Mississippi; Colby Tacker, Chip Goza, and Jake Jones, all of Flora; Storm Davis of Benton, Mississippi; and Montana Miller of Flora. The ring bearer was Liam Norton, son of Hunter and Loryn Norton of Madison. The groomsmen wore black tuxedos, suspenders, and bow ties from Tuxes Too of Jackson, Mississippi. The wedding director, who worked diligently to ensure the bride’s dream came true,

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was Susan Gibbes of McComb. DJ Adam Collier of Jackson provided the music for the outdoor; and soloist Loryn Norton of Madison sang “How Deep the Father’s Love” during the bride and groom’s partaking of communion.

Following the wedding party’s departure from the ceremony, guests transitioned to the inside of the Palace Theater to kick off the reception. The bride and groom began the party with a first dance to “Sweet Symphony,” followed by a father-daughter dance to “Isn’t She Lovely” and a mother-son dance to “Time After Time.” Peyton Shea Photography and St. Germain Film captured photos and videos throughout the day and evening to document hundreds of guests, family members, and friends gathered to dance, eat, and celebrate the occasion.

DJ Adam kept the guests on the dance floor all night by energetically interacting with and providing the best music for the crowd. Due to the fabulous set-up of the venue, guests were able to lounge at a table one-totwo tiers above the dance floor, walk around for fresh air in the beautifully lit courtyard, or dance the night away in front of the stage.

Ken Dixon, head caterer and owner of Mitchell’s Catering in Brookhaven, Mississippi, provided delicious dinner foods for all guests. The bride’s wedding cake was made and designed by Lori Cosse, family friend and owner of Cakes by Lulu of Lafayette, Louisiana. The Broadway Deli of McComb provided an assortment of richly flavored cheese cakes as the groom’s cake. Beautiful floral arrangements from Fresh Cut were strategically placed inside the venue, as well as outside for the ceremony, to decorate and highlight the natural beauty and character of the Palace Theater.

To end the night, the newlyweds stayed at the Brentwood House in McComb, followed by an early flight from New Orleans, to their all-inclusive honeymoon in St. Lucia with Sandals. The couple now resides in Flora.

On the eve of the wedding, the groom’s parents hosted a rehearsal dinner at the Mallard on Lake Dixie Springs in Summit. The bride and bridesmaids spent the night together in the Brentwood House of McComb where they got ready on the wedding day. Assisting the bride and bridal party were makeup stylists Libbi Kyle and Janna Travis and hair stylists Hannah Wood and Jaclynn Pepple of Molly Gee salon in Madison. Wedding invitations and save-the-dates were printed and designed by friends at Mahaffey Printing of Jackson.

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Lancaster & Meng Wedding� NATCHEZ, MISSISSIPPI | NOVEMBER 4, 2023

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he marriage of Mallory Elizabeth Lancaster and Elliot Calvert Meng took place on the beautiful front porch steps of Linden Historic Bed & Breakfast in Natchez, Mississippi, on Saturday, November 4, 2023.

The double-ring ceremony was performed by Brother Doug Broome.

Parents of the couple are Mr. and Mrs. Stephen S. Lancaster of Waterproof, Louisiana; Mr. Gregory F. Meng of Senatobia, Mississippi; and Ms. Randy C. Meng of Frogmore, Louisiana. The bride’s paternal grandparents are the late Mr. Robert E. Lee Lancaster, the late Mrs. Virginia Mallory Lancaster, and the late Mrs. Bonnie McIntosh Lancaster, all of Ferriday, Louisiana. Her maternal grandparents are Mrs. Audrey Thames Patten and the late Mr. Lee Edward Patten, both of Sicily Island, Louisiana. The groom’s paternal grandparents are Mrs. Marjorie Field Meng and the late Mr. Lester Joseph Meng II, both of Natchez, Mississippi; and his maternal grandparents are the late Mr. Sam H. Calvert and the late Mrs. Eunice Moore Calvert, both of Frogmore.

Escorted by her father, the bride arrived at the ceremony in a 1949 Packard, Custom 23rd Series, Golden Anniversary Edition, driven by Mr. David Hawkins of Nashville, Tennessee. She walked down the aisle wearing an ivory, banded pleat detail, fit-and-flare gown with a trumpet skirt and rounded train by Stella York. She also wore a cathedral-length veil with a blusher and ribbon edging by Bel Aire Bridal. She carried a bouquet of thirty-six ivory roses secured by ivory ribbon.

Following the ceremony, she wore gloves of tulle and pearl detailing by Heirloom Bridal for sunset photos.

The bride’s attendants included her younger sister, Morgan Lee Lancaster of Waterproof, as her maid of honor. Matrons of honor were Adalyn Boyd Craig of Shreveport, Louisiana, and Hannah Driskell Butts of Natchez. Bridesmaids were Chelsea Link Meng of Baton Rouge, Louisiana; Caroline Virginia Crosby of Mandeville, Louisiana; and Abigail Kaiser Brown Hobdy, Taylor Weeks Massengale, and Merritt Elizabeth Murray, all of Natchez. The attendants wore elegant, high-neck, sleeveless gowns by Azazie and carried petite versions of the bridal bouquet.

The couple’s wedding attendants and flower girls included the groom’s nephew, Crawford Field Meng, and the groom’s niece, Amelia Jane Meng, son and daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Gregory Field Meng II, as well as the bride’s cousin Lucy Elizabeth Tumey, daughter of Mr.

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and Mrs. Brandon Tumey, all of Baton Rouge.

Gregory Field Meng II of Baton Rouge served as best man. Groomsmen were Christopher Weldon Meng and Lyndon Marsh Meng, both of Senatobia; Russell Blanks Butts II, Hayden Scott Butts, and Thomas Scott Adams, all of Natchez; Ruston Chase Brown of Ponchatoula, Louisiana; James Ryan Rachal of Lafayette, Louisiana; Johnathan Lewis Swaggart of Madison, Mississippi; and Jaxson Slade Lancaster of Waterproof, who served as Junior Groomsman. The couple chose their siblings to carry their rings for the ceremony.

Lauren Powell Photography of Bossier City, Louisiana, captured the couple’s engagement, bridal portraits, wedding ceremony, and reception. Music was provided by Darren Prince, Beats2Geaux, of Pollock, Louisiana. Event planners were Mrs. Barbara Nell Lomansey and Mrs. Carolyn Eidt-Myers, both of Natchez; Mrs. Wendy Lancaster of Waterproof; Mrs. Rene Adams of Natchez; and Mrs. Marjorie Feltus Hawkins of Nashville, Tennessee. Catering was by Rene Adams, and floral design by Mrs. Deanie R. Collier of Baskin, Louisiana, and Mrs. Kim P. Blackmon of Waterproof. Mrs. Deanie Collier also made the couple’s delicious wedding cake. Reception rentals were by Box K Events of Port Allen, Louisiana, and Alpha Lit of Ruston, Louisiana, and Jackson, Mississippi. Wedding party gifts included personalized glassware.

Before the wedding day, the wedding party and families rehearsed at Linden, followed by a rehearsal dinner at the Garden Room of Monmouth Historic Inn, hosted by the groom’s family, Ms. Randy C. Meng and Mr. Forrest B. Flinn, both of Frogmore, and Mrs. Emily M. Calvert of Natchez. Catering was provided

by Monmouth Historic Inn. The mother of the groom surprised the couple with a slideshow throughout the night. Speeches were given by Mrs. Adalyn Craig, Mrs. Hannah Butts, Mr. Gregory Field Meng II, Mr. Thomas Scott Adams, and Mr. Gregory Field Meng.

Earlier that day was the bridesmaids luncheon at Sunnyside Bed & Breakfast in Natchez, hosted by the bride’s paternal aunts: Mrs. Jeanine L. Herrington of Clayton, Louisiana; Mrs. Jessica L. White of Metairie, Louisiana; and Mrs. Jennifer L. Crosby of Mandeville.

Their meal included a delicious four-course lunch provided by Mrs. Colleen Wilkins, owner of Sunnyside.

Following their wedding, the newlywed Mengs honeymooned in Whitehouse, Jamaica, and are at home in Frogmore with their best furry girl, Cotton.

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Sandel & Hardin Wedding� NATCHEZ, MISSISSIPPI | MAY 20, 2023

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shley Dunbar Sandel of Natchez, Mississippi, and John Calvin Hardin IV of Shreveport, Louisiana, exchanged vows on May 20, 2023, at First Baptist Church Natchez with Reverend Stan Buckley of Madison, Mississippi, officiating the ceremony.

The bride is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Henry Adrian Sandel III of Natchez and the granddaughter of Mr. and Mrs. Henry Adrian Sandel, Jr., of Dixon, California; Mrs. Katie Adams Watson of Natchez; Dr. and Mrs. Edward Leon Gaudet of Natchez; Mrs. Marie D’Antoni Gross of Metairie, Louisiana; and the late Mr. William Wade Watson of St. Joseph, Louisiana. The groom is the son of Dr. and Mrs. John Calvin Hardin III of Shreveport and the grandson of the late Dr. and Mrs. John Calvin Hardin, Jr., of Shreveport and Mr. and Mrs. Harry Hope of Longview, Texas.

Escorted by her father, the bride wore a timeless gown by Essence of Australia from Town & Country Bridal in New Orleans, Louisiana. With a twist on the classic mermaid silhouette, the gown pulls inspiration from Old Hollywood while adding the modern touch of a pointed sweetheart neckline complete with satin button details along the back. The bride wore her mother’s pearl-embellished, cathedral-length veil as her “something borrowed” and cerulean blue heels as her “something blue.” Complementing the ensemble was a bright floral bouquet by Moreton’s Flowerland of Natchez.

Attending the bride were Lauren Helus, matron of honor, and bridesmaids Emma Aiken, Shelby Blakely, Megan Buckner, Lucy Belle Hall, Sierra Horstmeier, Michelle Lamb, Weslea McWilliams, and Lauren Smith.

All wore full-length, neutral chiffon gowns in varying styles from Show Me Your Mumu. Hair and makeup were provided by Wesley Anderson, Macee Crouch, and Lindsay Edwards of Natchez.

The groom’s attendants included best man Tyler Parker and groomsmen Charlie Copeland, Christopher Ferris, Christian Hall, Ellis Rech, Will Sandel, Jonathan Sealy, Edward Stroud, and Cameron Vauclin.

During the ceremony, worship songs were performed by the First Baptist Church Natchez praise team under the musical direction of Derrick Burt; and scripture readings were shared by Dr. Doug Broome, Senior Pastor of First Baptist Church Natchez. Wedding coordination was provided by Mrs. Becky Fortenbery, and floral décor was provided by Moreton’s Flowerland.

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Following the ceremony, the bride’s parents hosted a reception at Stanton Hall for celebration. Piano music was provided by Alvin Shelby of Natchez during cocktail hour followed by dance-floor music performed

by Rewind Band of Baton Rouge, Louisiana. Catering this event was Wayne Bryant of The Continental Cook at the Carriage House, and the wedding cake was created by Molly Manning Robertson of Natchez. Kylie Wooten Photography and Melancon Media of Jackson, Mississippi, captured this special day.

On the eve of the wedding, the bride was honored by a luncheon hosted by her aunts and grandmothers at The Castle Restaurant. That evening, the groom’s parents hosted a “Night Before” party at Natchez Brewing Company.

The couple currently resides in Shreveport where John is practicing accounting, and Ashley is beginning her career as a nurse anesthetist.

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Sessions & Strong Wedding� NATCHEZ, MISSISSIPPI | MARCH 25, 2023

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ary Frances Sessions of Natchez, Mississippi, and Ryan Anthony Strong of Vidalia, Louisiana, were married the evening of March 25, 2023, at Rosalie Mansion in Natchez with Judge Walt Brown officiating.

The bride is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. James Timothy Sessions of Lake St. John, Louisiana, and the granddaughter of Mr. and Mrs. Don Corley and of Mrs. Annie Ruth Millsaps and the late Gene Millsaps of Greenwood, Mississippi. The groom is the son of Ms. Stacey Denee Copeland of Vidalia, and Mr. David Anthony Strong of Natchez and the grandson of Mr. and Mrs. Hyram Copeland of Vidalia and of Mrs. Carolyn Copeland and the late Billy Joe Strong of Natchez.

Escorted down the beautiful brick walkways of Rosalie by her father, the bride wore an ensemble from Magnolia Mariée Bridal Boutique of Natchez. Her chosen gown was a Mikado ballgown designed by Eddy K Italia with a deep sweetheart neckline and beaded lace and sequins-over-skin tulle back detail, pockets, and fabric buttons to the end of the train. Completing her ensemble, the bride wore a cathedral veil with scalloped, floral lace trim; and she carried a bridal bouquet of white tulips and roses accented by white baby’s breath and eucalyptus.

Attending the bride were Corley Anne Ross, sister of the bride and matron of honor, of Vicksburg, Mississippi; Mary Kate Coggin, maid of honor, from Amory, Mississippi; and bridesmaids Kate Cortelloni of Bufford, Georgia; Brooke Lindsey of Biloxi, Mississippi; and Emily Hootsell and Jordan Parker, both of Natchez. Serving as flower girls were Brooklynn Ross of Vicksburg, niece of the bride, and Lylah Vestal of Vidalia, niece of the groom.

The groom’s attendants included Tanner Martin, best man, from Natchez; and groomsmen Hunter Lindsey from Biloxi; Dylan Galbreath and Justin Allgood, both of Natchez; Ryan Lackey of Dallas, Texas; and Mac Lindsey of Baton Rouge, Louisiana. Serving as ushers were Christian Lackey of Natchez; Robert Patterson of Oklahoma City, Oklahoma; and Jarett Cooper and Jake Cooper, both of Lafayette, Louisiana.

Serving as ring bearers were Myles Barrett Ross of Vicksburg, nephew of the bride, and Myles McClung of Vidalia, nephew of the groom.

Following the ceremony, a reception was held in the Rosalie Mansion Courtyard with music provided

by Jamie Tyson with River City DJ. Catering the event was Morgan Catering of Natchez, and flowers for the

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ceremony were provided by Moreton’s Flowerland of Natchez. Natalie Cavin of Nattie’s Cakes designed and prepared the bride’s and the groom’s cakes. As a gift to the bride, Cheryl Rinehart coordinated the wedding and reception; and Stacey Landers of Stacey Landers Photography provided photography for the beautiful occasion.

After their honeymoon in Montego Bay, Jamaica, the couple is at home in Biloxi, Mississippi.

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Turner & Barnett Wedding� NATCHEZ, MISSISSIPPI | AUGUST 12, 2023

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small, intimate elopement ceremony was held for Brooks Elizabeth Turner and Justin Travis Barnett under the pergola in the gardens of Monmouth Historic Inn in Natchez, Mississippi, with Dr. Brian Moneham officiating.

The bride is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Blakely Arch Turner of Natchez. She is the granddaughter of Mrs. Ann Burns Shaidnagle and her husband James, the late Mr. and Mrs. Harry “Sonny” Arch Turner, and the late Max Raymond Mullins.

The groom is the son of Mr. and Mrs. William Guy Barnett of Vicksburg, Mississippi, and the grandson of the late Mr. and Mrs. William Guy Barnett and the late Mr. and Mrs. William Andrew Dodson.

Given in marriage by her father, the bride wore an A-line strapless gown from the Martina Liana collection at Elle James Bridal in Ridgeland, Mississippi. The gown featured a sweetheart neckline and included floral embellishments, tiny pearl beading, lace-layered tulle, and satin buttons. Her Blossom veil was pale ivory enhanced with beaded trim.

The bride’s bouquet included white peonies and ranunculus blossoms with both silver dollar and willow eucalyptus. Tied to her bouquet were three memory charms on a blue ribbon, a gift from her sister, Brittany Funderburg Rogel. As the bride’s great uncle John Grady Burns was in Italy, he helped suggest the flowers as well as recommend The Flower Station. Along with her bouquet, she carried an ivory lace handkerchief with lace trim and a gold heart pendant, each belonging to her great grandmothers. Also, as part of the something-old, something-new tradition, she was given by her mother a 100-year-old silver sixpence to wear in her shoe.

Serving as flower girl was Chloe Case Rogel, niece of the bride. Nephew of the bride, Zachary Collins Rogel, served as ring bearer.

Following the ceremony, the parents of the couple hosted a brunch in Monmouth’s Quitman Lounge and Study. Assisting were Ann Gaudé and Lynn Edwards.

Paula Guillot with Cakes by Paula furnished the cake.

Taylor Cooley Photography served as the photographer.

The bride’s hair and makeup were by Bailey New Van Rooyen.

As a wedding gift, the bride’s parents surprised the couple with a live wedding painting by the bride’s lifelong friend and local Natchez artist Kate Lee Laird.

The couple is at home in Vicksburg, Mississippi.

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Hodges & Webber Engagementm

NUPTIALS MAY 25, 2024 | BATON ROUGE, LOUISIANA Mr. Jason Hodges of Montgomery, Alabama, and Ms. Jolene McNemar of Alexandria, Louisiana, announce the engagement of their daughter, Alexis Brook Hodges, to Evan Blake Webber, son of Mr. Curtis Webber of Natchez, Mississippi, and Mrs. Tatia Vail of Bossier City, Louisiana.

The bride-elect is the granddaughter of Mr. and Mrs. Ronny McNemar of Alexandria, Louisiana; Mr. Edward Hodges of Vidalia, Louisiana; and the late Ms. Janell Hodges of Jackson, Mississippi. A 2013 graduate of Cathedral High School, Alexis Hodges earned her Bachelor of Science in Dietetics and Nutrition from the University of Mississippi in 2018. She is currently a Home Care Consultant and Marketer at Home Instead Senior Care in Baton Rouge, Louisiana.

The prospective groom is the grandson of Mrs. Linda Shirley and the late Mr. Robert Shirley of Vidalia, Louisiana; and Mr. Clyde Ray Webber, Jr., and the late Mrs. Gwen Webber of Ferriday, Louisiana. A 2015 graduate of Cathedral High School, Evan Webber graduated with an Associate of Science in Criminal Justice from Copiah Lincoln Community College in 2017 and earned his paralegal certification from Louisiana State University of Alexandria in 2018. He is currently employed by the East Baton Rouge Parish Clerk of Court where he serves as a Minute Clerk.

The couple will exchange vows on Saturday, May 25, 2024, at the Old State Capitol in Baton Rouge, Louisiana, with a reception following the ceremony.

Martin & Pahnka Engagementm NUPTIALS MARCH 1, 2025 | NATCHEZ, MISSISSIPPI

Mr. and Mrs. George Davis Martin of Roxie, Mississippi, announce the engagement of their daughter, Harley Ann Martin, to Jacob Rodgers Pahnka, son of Mr. and Mrs. Joseph William Pahnka of Natchez, Mississippi.

The bride-elect is the granddaughter of Mr. and Mrs. Billy Gene Martin of Roxie; Mr. and Mrs. John Roland White of Centreville, Mississippi; and the late Ms. Kim Darlene Davis of Woodville, Mississippi. She is a graduate of Adams County Christian School, Class of 2018, and has received an Associates of Applied Science from Sowela Technical Community College in Lake Charles, Louisiana. Currently, she is working on her Associate of Science at Sowela Technical Community College and her Bachelor of Science in Nursing and Master of Science in Nursing from Lamar University of Beaumont, Texas. She is currently employed at LSU Family Medicine Residency Clinic and Lake Charles Memorial Hospital as a Licensed Practical Nurse.

The prospective groom is the grandson of the late Mr. and Mrs. Joseph Earl Pahnka of Fayette, Mississippi; the late Lonnie Mikal Rodgers of Natchez; and the late Isabelle Eyrich Sebille of Natchez. He is a graduate of Cathedral High School, Class of 2016, and attended Copiah Lincoln Community College. Currently, he is employed at Cameron LNG as a Process Operator.

The couple will exchange vows in Natchez, Mississippi, on March 1, 2025.

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The 35 Annual Natchez Literary & Cinema Celebration will be held February 22-24, 2024 at the Natchez Convention Center TH

The Natchez Literary and Cinema Celebration takes pride in announcing

plans for the 35th Annual Celebration. Using the theme, “Rites, Rituals, and Religion in the Deep South,” this humanities conference will explore life and rituals, cemetery history, mourning practices, and historic holidays which are all deeply embedded in the Southern Experience.

FOR MORE INFORMATION ON FREE & TICKETED EVENTS, VISIT WWW.COLIN.EDU/NLCC

CONFERENCE CO-SPONSORS: Co-Lin, the City of Natchez, the Adams County Board of Supervisors, Visit Natchez, Mississippi Arts Commission, Mississippi Department of Archives and History, Mississippi Humanities Council, the Natchez National Historic Park, Southwest Mississippi Center for Culture & Learning at Alcorn State University, and the generous contributions of individuals and businesses throughout the state and region.

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legal notes Realtors under attack ARTICLE | Sam Gwin

Recently, there has been a class-action lawsuit filed in Missouri against the National Association of Realtors, alleging that realtors nationwide have been taking great advantage of homeowners and homebuyers as well as real property owners and buyers. In the lawsuit, a jury returned a verdict for 1.8 billion dollars, and this appears to be the beginning of mass litigation against real estate firms around the country.

The main issue appears to be that realtors will normally charge a seller a percentage of the sales price, normally 6%.

Then, upon sale, assuming the buyer has his/her own realtor, the two realtors split the commission with each receiving 3%.

This has been the standard arrangement in real estate deals in this country for over 100 years.

The beef with the plaintiff in the class-action case is that as sellers of real estate, they should not have to pay out of the 6% both their realtor and the buyer’s realtor. For example, a seller wants to sell his/her land for $100,000.00; but instead of having to pay 6% of the sales price, or $6,000.00, he would like to pay only 3% to his/her own realtor thus netting $97,000.00. The buyer on the other hand has to pay his own realtor; so assuming it is also 3%, then the buyer now pays $100,000.00 to the seller and $3,000.00 to his realtor or $103,000.00.

But guess what? Real estate commissions have always been subject to negotiations, and I have seen realtors reduce their percentage multiple times. However, some real estate just doesn't sell easily. Realtors can burn up hours and hours as well as advertising costs in trying to sell some properties; and in the end, 6% does not come close to fairly compensating them. Also, most sellers factor the 6% into their bottom line of what they must have in selling their property.

It needs to be noted that the United States Justice Department is also behind this lawsuit in the name of consumer protection. Under my very simplistic hypothetical above, I don't see how would-be buyers are protected at all; and if this is not reversed, every buyer henceforth will be paying more money to purchase a house or real estate. The buyer is the consumer. Tell me how he has been protected?

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I see things that I believe are concerning. I see this litigation as having a dimming effect on real estate sales.

It adds confusion to the seller/buyer/realtor dynamics. In all probabilities, a lot of buyers are going to have to add commission into their home loans and pay interest on them.

Second, this lawsuit in my opinion is unconstitutional.

The United States Constitution prohibits government from enacting laws that impair or interfere with citizens’ rights to contract. A real estate sale contract is always between citizens and is an inviolate right, meaning it cannot be violated or impaired. This lawsuit does exactly that by interfering with real estate owners’ and realtors' ability to contract.

Almost everyone who buys or sells land has to deal with realtors; and I believe realtors provide a very much needed service in this industry. They have invaluable knowledge in buying and selling real estate that the average Joe Blow does not. Buyers and sellers have always had the contracted right to negotiate their commissions, and a seller has the right to say, “I will not sell my property and pay a 6% real estate commission.” A realtor has always had the right to say, “I will not attempt to sell your property unless I am paid 6%.” It's the landowner’s call.

Finally, I see the lawsuit as a money grab by a bunch of greedy people. Just my opinion.

j Lucien C. “Sam” Gwin III was admitted to the Mississippi Bar in 1981 and has been practicing many aspects of the law at the firm of Gwin, Punches & Kelley in Natchez, Mississippi, ever since.

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The Friends of Magnolia Mound Plantation’s Twenty-fourth Annual Petite Antiques Forum The Friends of Magnolia Mound Plantation will hold the twenty-fourth annual Petite Antiques Forum on Thursday, January 25, 2024, a one-day educational event featuring a lecture, luncheon, and tour of two private historic homes.

The forum will open with an illustrated talk by Jim Blanchard at the Louisiana State Archives building on Essen Lane in Baton Rouge, Louisiana. Blanchard is a contemporary topographical artist known for his architectural archival watercolors of historic Louisiana buildings. His talk, “From St. Louis Square to the State Capitol: An 1850’s Voyage on the Mississippi from New Orleans to Baton Rouge,” will feature images of his paintings to offer a “steamboat tour.”

A native son of Lafourche Parish, Jim Blanchard was reared amidst the nineteenth-century architecture of the region and creates artwork based on the region’s architectural history. He also has participated in the restorations of Houmas House, Ashland, and Bocage Plantations on the River Road. Additionally, he designed and oversaw the construction of the Great River Road Museum at Houmas and created its history exhibits.

Following the lecture, forum attendees will travel to Houmas House on the banks of the Mississippi River in Ascension Parish. Here, they will have lunch and tour the garden and the new Great River Road Museum as well. The forum will conclude with tours of two privately owned historic homes on nearby Bayou Lafourche, Belle Alliance and Palo Alto Plantations, both rarely open to the public.

Built in the late 1840s and named for a Mexican war battle, Palo Alto Plantation, an Anglo-Creole cottage, purports to have been designed by noted architect James Dakin. The Greek Revival mansion Belle Alliance, its design attributed to renowned architect Henry Howard, was built in 1846 by Charles Kock.

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Road Museum at Houmas House, and tours of the two Bayou Lafourche landmarks. The event will begin at 9:00 a.m. on Thursday, January 25, 2024, and conclude that afternoon. Reservations are necessary, and space is limited. Register online at www.friendsofmagnoliamound.org or call Babeth Schlegel at (225) 421-3165 for a registration form.

Proceeds from the Petite Antiques Forum will be used to preserve the collection of decorative arts and artifacts displayed at Magnolia Mound, which is listed on the National Register of Historic Places. Its collection of furnishings is owned and maintained by the Friends, a nonprofit 501 (c) (3) organization.

To attend the forum, please register online at www.friendsofmagnoliamound.org or call Babeth Schlegel at (225) 421-3165 for a registration form.

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NEW ORLEANS neworleansonline.com neworleanscvb.com ogdenmuseum.org nola.org FB: nolajazzmuseum/live newcombartmuseum.tulane.edu nobt.org neworleansfilmsociety.org neworleanscitypark.com

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January 6-February 18 Mardi Gras Parades Mardigrasneworleans.com/ parades _______________________

Saturdays in Jan. & Feb. Red Stick Farmers Market 5th & Main Streets 8 am-Noon

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1st Saturday in Jan. & Feb. BR Arts Market Red Stick Farmers Market 5th & Main Streets 8 am-Noon

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Valentine’s Day? Is it still celebrated?

So much has changed in my life these last few decades that I’m not sure as to what to celebrate anymore.

I have to admit Valentine’s Day was never a big deal here on Tupelo Brake. I’d usually get each daughter her own box of candy and a valentine, and that was pretty much it.

Buster came from a family that rarely had a Christmas tree, so Valentine’s Day was just another day to ride around and check the land to see where drainage was needed.

I hear that some folks go all out for the day with flowers and candy and beautiful cards and other gifts; and I reckon that is their choice, to celebrate in style.

As a child in elementary school, Valentine’s Day was pretty special. We’d all get a paper sack to decorate with V Day symbols, hearts and such, with our name prominently displayed. On the “day,” we’d bring valentines to school to place in the bags. This was before valentines were sold everywhere, so we all would just get the packet from Hobson’s Five and Dime (no Dollar Stores or Walmarts then), which meant they were pretty much the same for every child to give.

We’d pick out the prettiest ones for our best friends; then the rest of the class would get the remainder of the cards. We were not required to give a Valentine to everyone, so some kids didn’t get as many as others. But my mama would not let me pick and choose who would get the valentine signed “Alma.” Oh, no. I had to give one to EVERY KID whether I liked them or not.

I would try to explain to her that I didn’t like some of the people, for they might be mean or dirty or big dummies. Didn’t matter to my mama; I had to write my name on a valentine for every kid in the class. It was a major embarrassment to give a valentine to someone that I knew hated me because I made better grades than they did or because I was taller than most everyone or because I had curly hair. . . you know kids and their weird resentments.

So, the night before the school’s Valentine Party, I would sit at the kitchen table and sign my name to a valentine for every blooming kid because Mama would check my stack and make sure that it corresponded to the class list of students.

I never considered hiding some or throwing them away because her All-Knowing Self would find out, and I would be in more trouble than usual.

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At school the next morning, I dutifully dropped valentines in every bag, and prayed that no one saw me dropping the cards in some certain bags. But it was better to face their teasing than to disobey Mama. I was always so thankful when that day was done, and I wouldn’t have to face that trauma for another year because I guarantee that I had to give a card to everyone again the next year.

After I got older, I realized that Mama was trying to teach my brothers and me to practice the Christian principles that we were taught in church and Sunday School—be fair, be kind, be thoughtful, be conscious of others’ feelings if they were left out. I never thought that maybe some other mamas were doing like my mama, telling their kids to make sure every kid got a valentine from them, too.

I don’t know how Valentine’s Day is handled in school now; it may be just a thing of the past as far as I know. I suspect the rules may be different from what we had as children since so many things have changed like no Indians allowed at Thanksgiving and “Merry Christmas” replaced with “Happy Holidays.”

If Valentine’s Day is still celebrated, I hope that people are kind like my mama and not judgmental like me when I was nine years old. Some love and caring in this world is a much needed attitude, here in 2024, where a shortage of good things grows longer every day.

j Alma M. Womack lives on Smithland Plantation on Black River, south of Jonesville, Louisiana. In addition to her duties as maitresse des maison, she is the keeper of the lawn, the lane, and the pecan orchard at Smithland.

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