Patrick Henry Family Services Orator - Fall 2013

The Magazine of Patrick Henry Family services

Fall 2013

Preparing for

Strong Tomorrows

In This Issue:

42nd Annual Awards Ceremony

Hat Creek Camps’ First Season

Investing in Character...

Changing Lives

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The Mission Of Patrick Henry Family Services is to provide a continuum of services to distressed children and families that will keep families together and children safe and successful. Our ministry began in 1961 as Patrick Henry Boys Plantation in Brookneal, VA. Over the years the ministry has grown to include a variety of other services. The Brookneal campus remains the site of our main offices as well as three of our residential homes for children. In addition we have satellite homes in Bedford, Cluster Springs, Rustburg and Wylliesburg. These operate as Patrick Henry Boys & Girls Homes.

Patrick Henry Family Services has three Hope for Tomorrow Counseling Centers… one in Lynchburg, one in South Boston, and another in Farmville. HFT Counseling Centers serve the public as well as Patrick Henry residents and their families. From the Lynchburg location Residential Care oversees Step Forward, a program which provides transitional living services for emerging adults ages 18-24.

Patrick Henry Family Services also provides an Outreach Program that operates Hat Creek Camps and Conferences, Unbridled Grace equine program, and Patriot Sports.

These are located in Campbell County.

Patrick Henry Family Services is a Christian ministry, but is not affiliated with any particular church or denomination. Patrick Henry, a 501(c)3 tax-exempt corporation, operates on voluntary contributions from individuals, churches, businesses, organizations and foundations. No government grants are accepted and no family is ever turned away due to lack of financial means. For more information, please visit www.patrickhenry.org.

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Photo Credits

In This Issue

Some photos courtesy of Big Door Photography.

Change Your Thinking.

Change Your Life................................................3 Thoughts of Patrick Henry................................4 Hope for Tomorrow Counseling........................5 A Salute to Billy Guthrie....................................6 Phil Jamerson Joins the Board........................6 Sunnyview at Cluster Springs...........................7 PHFS Volunteer: Karen Day..............................8 Unbridled Grace.................................................8 Annual Spring Horse Show...............................9 Camp Hat Creek’s First Season...............10-11 Residential Care’s New Staff........................ 12 “HUB” Outreach Activities............................. 13 Patrick Henry Invitational............................... 13 42nd Annual Awards Ceremony..............14-15 Investing in Character Changing Lives...........................................16-17 Dreaming Big....................................................17 Team Spirit....................................................... 18 Kidz-N-Repair................................................... 18 Jeffrey Fulgham Appointed Director of Institutional Advancement.........................19 Find Patrick.......................................................19 A Faithful PHBGH Donor................................ 20 Houseparents of the Year.............................. 20 The Honor and Memorial Register.....................................21-28 Fifty Flags for Fifty States.............................. 28 Christmas Shopping Already?....................... 29 Sand, Surf and Sun........................................ 30 Patriot Sports.................................................. 30 Our Mission, Our Name, Our Logos...............31

Questions or comments about The Orator?

Contact Jennifer Wall at 434-392-4073 or at jwall@patrickhenry.org Contributions: Donate online at www.patrickhenry.org, or mail to: Patrick Henry Boys and Girls Homes 860 Red Hill Road P.O. Box 1398 Brookneal, VA 24528-1398

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The Orator is written by the staff and children at Patrick Henry and original artwork by the children is featured from time to time. The Orator is edited and proofed entirely in-house by Patrick Henry staff. The only aspects of production done outside of Patrick Henry are the design, printing and mailing.

The generous support of donors allows Patrick Henry to mail The Orator to suppor ters as well as to others who may be unaware of Patrick Henr y Family Services.

Executive Director Robert J. Day Board of Trustees, Executive Committee J. Michael Davidson, Brookneal David J. Marshall, Forest Beverley E. Dalton, Altavista W. E. “Bill” Jamerson, Appomattox J. Blair Smith, Appomattox Bonnie B. Crews, Rustburg Teresa L. Sanderson, Lynchburg Hunter R. Watson, Farmville Stephen J. Bowery, Roanoke

A financial statement is available with the State Division of Consumer Affairs.

Contributions to Patrick Henry Boys and Girls Homes are tax deductible as allowed by law. Patrick Henry Boys and Girls Homes is a tax-exempt corporation under Internal Revenue Code 501(c)3.

Administration - 434-376-2006 Admissions - 434-376-6915 Fax - 434-376-3003 Web - www.patrickhenry.org

Jennifer Wall Editor, Orator Communications & Public Affairs Officer

Change Your Thinking. Change Your Life.

“You are what you eat.”

Remember that slogan from your elementary school days? It makes complete sense from a biological standpoint. How much more true, then, is the saying, “You are what you think.”?

Ralph Waldo Emerson said, “We become what we think about all day long.” This is a disturbing concept when you consider the kinds of things our young people are spending all day thinking about. Junk in.

Junk out.

Here at Patrick Henry Family Services, we are in the business of changing lives.

It’s that simple. And, it’s that difficult.

Whether it is a resident in one of our group homes or a camper at Hat Creek Camp or a client receiving counseling at Hope for Tomorrow, in the end, what we are working toward is a changed life.

Those we serve in our various ministries are heading in one direction, usually negative, and we are trying to get them headed in another. They are making bad choices and we want them to make good choices. Their current circumstances are bleak but we know their future can be bright if we can influence the right change.

different set of parents, better activities, a healthier diet, nicer clothes, a positive peer group, and more structure does not result in real or lasting change. Certainly, all these things are helpful, important, and needful, but none of these things will change the child or the family in the long term if we do not change their thinking.

Only lasting results are worth our efforts and your support. Nothing short of a changed life is acceptable. Otherwise we are wasting our time and your financial backing. Therefore, we don’t want to merely treat the problem. We want to fix the problem.

We have learned in our five decades of working with children and families that changing the outside does not change the inside. It never has and it never will. Conversely, changing the inside always changes the outside. If we can change the way someone thinks we can change the way they live. It’s simple really. Bad thinking leads to bad fruit: behavior, decisions, circumstances.

Good thinking, on the other hand, leads to good fruit.

Proverbs 23:7 declares, “As a man thinks in his heart so is he.” According to this scripture and a dozen or more “They themselves are the makers of themselves like it in the Bible, a person is literally by virtue of the thoughts which they choose what he or she and encourage; that mind is the master thinks. A person’s weaver, both of the inner garment of character character is the complete sum of and the outer garment of circumstances…” all their thoughts.

-James Allen Their actions and behavior are the blossoms of their When a child is in a difficult situation or

thoughts. negative environment, we who love and I am convinced that all problems care for them are quick to want to change (personal or corporate) are theological their circumstances and get them out of in nature. Change what people believe that environment. However, we have about God, themselves, the world, and got to understand that simply changing others and you change the trajectory of a child’s circumstances alone does not their life. change their life. A new environment, a

When you change your beliefs, you change your thinking; When you change your thinking, you change your expectations; When you change your expectations, you change your attitude; When you change your attitude, you change your behavior; When you change your behavior, you change your life; Romans 1:1-2 tells us that transformation (change) comes by the “renewing of the mind.” In short, what we do at Patrick Henry Family Services is a battle of and for the mind. It is an ongoing struggle with our clients over which ideas they will embrace and live out.

That is why character-based education (see page 16) will now be embedded in every aspect of our residential program: every activity, every staff member, and every venue in which we care for our residents will be infused with healthy, positive, and rightful ways of thinking.

It is also why professional, Christian counseling (see page 5) is such an essential part of our continuum of services and why we are working so hard to expand this vital service to as many locations and people as possible.

And it is why the gospel of Jesus Christ will be presented to every camper at our summer camp (see page 10). Because, if we can change the thought life of the children and families we serve, we can forever change their lives. And, changed lives is the business we are in.

For the children,

Robert Day, Executive Director

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Thoughts of Patrick Henry

by Patrick Henry youth Erica

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ounding Father, Patriot, Governor, Devout Christian, Orator, Attorney,

Defender of the Underdog, Champion of Liberty, Planter, Founding

member of Hampden-Sydney College, Colonel of the First Virginia Regiment and Commander of the Virginia force in the Revolutionary War, Delegate to the Continental Congress, Husband and Father—these are but highlights of Patrick Henry’s noted accomplishments. He was a very passionate man and it was this truthful passion and faith that enabled him to become all that he was and did for his country and fellow man.

Born in Hanover County in 1736, Patrick Henry died in the year of 1799 at his beloved Red Hill. As a father of six by the age of 35, Patrick Henry demonstrated his love of family. A little known, but meaningful part of his life was his commitment to his wife Sarah Shelton. After she became mentally ill and was dangerous to herself and others, Patrick Henry refused to have her committed to the asylum in Williamsburg where her life would have been spent in a windowless cell in chains and filth. Instead, he had a private apartment prepared in their home with a window, and fireplace. It is said that he himself spent a great deal of time looking after her until her death in 1775.

“… Virtue, morality, and religion. This is the armor, my friend, and that alone that renders us invincible. These are the tactics we should study. If we lose these, we are conquered, fallen indeed…so long as our manners and principles remain sound, there is no danger.”

-Patrick Henry, 1799

Henry had a powerful and strong voice, and he welcomed the opportunity to stand up for the forming republic and people in need. Shortly after his wife’s death, March 23, 1775, Patrick Henry argued passionately for the mobilization of military action against the tyranny of British forces.

During the House of Burgesses convention in Saint John’s Church, he shouted, “Is life so dear or peace so sweet, as to be purchased at the price of chains and slavery? Forbid it, Almighty God! I know not what course others may take; but as for me, Give me Liberty, or Give me Death!”

He married again in 1777 to Dorothea Dandridge. They had eleven children, two of which were born at Red Hill. Miss Dandridge was the granddaughter of Governor Alexander Spotswood. When they married Henry was serving his second term as governor.

When I consider the life of Patrick Henry, I am overwhelmed and honored that he is the namesake of my home away from home. His character gives me the opportunity to rise above problems and seek that which is just and good. I admire that he was strong in difficult times; that he did not run from problems; that he was committed to a bigger picture; and the betterment of others.

As for me, my favorite quote of Patrick Henry’s was made the year of his death: “… Virtue, morality, and religion. This is the armor, my friend, and that alone that renders us invincible. These are the tactics we should study. If we lose these, we are conquered, fallen indeed…so long as our manners and principles remain sound, there is no danger.”

At the end of the numerous rollercoasters in his career, Patrick Henry left the public life for Red Hill but did not retire fully. He reached farther with his real estate interests and was even elected again to the Virginia House of Delegates as a Federalist, a position he never filled due to his death. After all, however, he was an extraordinarily passionate man.

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Erica, PHBGH Youth

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Hope for Tomorrow Counseling has a new director,

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hen Jason Captain stepped down as Director of Hope for Tomorrow Counseling in order to return to full time counseling, concern mounted regarding a strong replacement. Soon, very soon however, it was clear that that concern was not necessary. Dennis Gowin joined Patrick Henry Family Services as Director of Hope for Tomorrow Counseling in June.

Dennis received his Juris Doctorate in 1978 from George Washington University following which he practiced public accounting and tax law for 22 years in the Washington DC and Northern Virginia areas. A successful career was not all Dennis wanted however; in 2002 he graduated from the Reform Theological Seminary in Orlando, Florida with a Masters in Counseling and Biblical Studies. For the next ten years, he founded and operated 14 Christian counseling centers throughout Central Florida.

“It was rewarding to develop strong Christian based counseling centers to help people struggling when life’s problems became overwhelming,” said Dennis Gowin.

Florida would prove not to be Dennis’ final destination. Having spent most of his youth summers on his Grandfather’s farm in Buckingham County, Dennis and his wife, Cheryl, Director of the Pregnancy Center of Southside Virginia,

Tomorrow

Counseling

made the decision to return to the area that had meant so much to him in his formative years. It was not long after returning that he learned of Hope for Tomorrow’s need of a Director.

“It is a true blessing to be able to effectively serve the communities in which I live with Christ centered therapy as we partner with local churches to further identify opportunities to serve,” said Dennis. “In counseling, we see the entire spectrum of issues in which people struggle. My mission is to help A MINISTRY OF people work through their struggle Patrick Henry in order to walk from brokenness Family Services to healing.

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At Hope for Tomorrow Counseling we recognize that many people have had life experiences that make daily living difficult. Learning how to process these experiences and to cope with them in healthy ways is the key to living a successful life. Fear, anger, resentment, anxiety: these and other emotions can literally paralyze an individual, making it difficult (if not impossible) to have healthy relationships with others.

Through our counseling services, we strive to help our clients develop a hope for tomorrow that is brighter than the realities of their past.

Dennis and Cher yl Gowin live i n R i c e w i t h t h e i r m u c h l ove d puppy Hennessy.

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Providing a Hope for Tomorrow that is brighter than the reality of the past.

Our mission is to help families and individuals with the greatest need and the least ability to meet that need. Accordingly, we offer excellent services at a fraction of the typical cost for counseling. Hope for Tomorrow is a ministry of Patrick Henry Family Services, a Christian non-profit organization that exists to provide hope and help for families and children in need. a Ministry of

Lynchburg

Farmville

PHONE:

South Boston

434-239-4949

www. HopeForTomorrowCounseling.org

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e i r h t u G Billy A Salute to

for His Years of Commitment and Encouragement

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or William Payne Guthrie giving and encouraging comes naturally. No organization has benefited more from Billy (as he is known to all) Guthrie’s commitment to others than has Patrick Henry Boys and Girls Homes where he has served as a Board member for over 50 years and has been recognized by the Virginia Association of Children’s Homes as a Distinguished Board Member.

In addition to his Board service, he has also served as Vice-President of the Executive Committee for more than 20 years.

“It is because of the commitment of people like Billy Guthrie that we are able to do what we do best...”

-Robert J. Day Serving in a leadership role is not the only way Billy Guthrie has contributed to the youth at PHBGH. Behind the scenes, he has given tremendously. If tennis shoes were needed for the boys, he made sure they had them; if the new girls’ home was in need, he donated extra;

his support of the boys’ and girls’ participation in the 4-H livestock program was continuous; he assisted in multiple construction projects; bought countless barbeque dinners and whatever else the boys and girls were selling, etc.

“It is because of the commitment of people like Billy Guthrie that we are able to do what we do best, provide a safe and Christian home for children whose needs can not be met in their natural home,” said Executive Director Robert J. Day. “When I first arrived at Patrick Henry it was Billy Guthrie’s encouragement that assured me of a level of selfless commitment that changes and enriches lives of young people.”

At the June, 2013, Board meeting Billy Guthrie joined the Honorable Joyce K. Crouch and the Honorable Lacey E. Putney as Trustees Emeritus.

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Joins the PHFS Board

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hillip Jamerson, a life-long Appomattox County resident, is the son of William “Bill” (who himself has served on the PHBGH Board for 38 years) and Ellen Jamerson.

He graduated from Appomattox County High School in 1977. Phillip continued his education at Virginia Tech where he graduated with a B.S. degree in Building Construction in 1981. He was also a member of their football team during his years

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at Virginia Tech.

Phillip is now the president of J.E. Jamerson & Sons, Inc. He is married to Terry Lynn Hall who is the Publisher of The Roanoke Times and Senior Vice President of BH Media. Phillip has four children, Trevor, Bryon, Brittney and Melissa.

Phillip is a charter member of Grace Hill Baptist Church where he also serves as a deacon.

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A Benefit Evening for Sunnyview at c lu s t e r S p r i n g S

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ue to water damage in the fire escape, the Cluster Springs boys’ home of Patrick Henry Boys & Girls Homes, Sunnyview, was closed temporarily in August, 2012. On June 27, 2013 the South Boston Advisory Board sponsored a special benefit event, “Re-opening the Door to Sunnyview at Cluster Springs” in the 19th century historic home to help raise necessary funds to restore the property, thereby making it possible for the boys to return to their loved country home.

The evening was alive with energy. While the Patrick Henry Girls’ Youth Choir brought enormous smiles to the faces of guests attending as they sang, they also provided keyboard music throughout the evening. Thanks to the generosity of area businesses and individual donors, a successful silent auction was also held. Silent auction items included a week’s stay at a wonderful beach house in Duck, NC; several opportunities for overnight stays at area Bed and Breakfast establishments, as well as area hotels; a hot air balloon ride; cabin stays at Staunton River State Park and Occoneechee State Park; a Ruger rifle; dinner for four at The Molasses Grill and much, much more.

What is a special event without television coverage?

Lynchburg’s WSET, Channel 13 covered the event which aired on both the nightly and morning news.

Built in 1894 by Rufus Owen, youngest son of notable planter, landowner and politician William L. Owen, the home was built to last as fire had destroyed the original antebellum home built by his father. The Victorian

mansion consist of 14 rooms most of which have either marble or slate floors. It is said that before the Depression the Owen family entertained governors and numerous special guests. In 1982 the then owners of Sunnyview, Mr. & Mrs. William M. Rogers, donated the home to Patrick Henry who adapted it for use as a boys’ group home.

PHFS thanks the South Boston / Halifax / Cluster Springs community for its support of this event. We encourage anyone who wishes to donate to the further restoration of Sunnyview at Cluster Springs to do so in the enclosed Orator donation envelope.

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eing a Mother of four and the Executive Director’s wife is not enough for Karen Day. She has a special role at Patrick Henry Family Services, often an out of sight role, but none the less a role that is very important to her, that of committed volunteer. Whether it is working with the horses; assisting with meals at camp; serving and cleaning up after special events; helping with office needs; or just sitting and talking with a tearful youth, Karen loves making a difference in the lives of the boys and girls that we serve.

“One of my most rewarding feelings is to be able to give—to make a positive difference in the lives of our amazing youth,” said Karen. “To see a smile where there once was none; to see courage after failure; or to listen as frustration turns to meaningful purpose. I believe I am fulfilling my purpose in life and that is to give, to make a difference.”

Many of Karen’s volunteer hours are spent in the horse program. “One of the nicest things about horses is that while they are very intuitive, they are not judgmental. The confidence our youth get from being around something so big and so powerful, yet willing to listen and do as directed is amazing.”

“A youth can come into the barn with quite an attitude and in no time after working with a horse you see their world brighten and open up. Horses are a solid place where youth find a forgiving and giving spirit. In addition, kids have to learn leadership skills and a horse wants them to be their leader. A horse looks to our youth for direction, safety, and comfort. It is empowering to watch a youth’s confidence grow as he or she works with our horses.

“I do what I do here at Patrick Henry because I love making those little differences and then watching the positive changes that are made in the lives of our youth. God has given me the opportunity to make a difference and I am thankful for that opportunity.”

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orses have an amazing and r ewa rd i n g c o n n e c t i o n w i t h humans,” said Equestrian Coordinator Nick Caputo. “They depend on humans for most everything: feed, shoes, shelter, etc; therefore their appreciation for their human friends is deep. In addition, they are social, so their connection with humans can be rewarding.”

“Some of our horsesAA Mhave found their MIINNIISSTTRRYY OOFF way to Unbridled Grace the very same Patrick Henry Patrick Patrick Henry Henry Family Services Family Family Services Services way some of our youth have found their way here. Those horses seek to give back and our youth seek to be needed.

It is a win-win! It is so rewarding to see a youth mounted and riding when only

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days earlier they were crippled with fear.

As perceived obstacles are overcome A MMI INNI ISSTTRRYY OOFF and the Ayoung rider finds him or herself Patrick Patrick Henry Henry atop something and powerful, fear Family Familylarge Services Services is overcome and confidence gained.”

Not only is the Unbridled Grace program a win-win for the youth of Patrick Henry Boys and Girls Homes, but it is

there for the community. Therapeutic riding; wide range of riding lessons; 4-H participation; collaboration with local trainers; partnerships with area farmers for purchase of straw and hay; etc. the program has much to offer. For additional information, please telephone Nick Caputo at 434-332-1650.

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or over 20 years Patrick Henry Boys and Girls Homes has been having horse shows. It is always a time of great excitement with community participation and support. The May 18, 2013 Spring Horse Show proved no exception to the tradition. Though light rain fell, the show went on as rider after rider competed and fans, family and friends enjoyed the event.

What was the exception was how the regional community embraced Unbridled Grace’s on-line horse show entry system with 298 entries entered before the show began.

Also, Equestrian Coordinator Nick Caputo made the first time decision to place Patrick Henry Boys and Girls in the show in regular classes, not just designated classes for only the PHBGH. “It was truly rewarding to see the youth that I had schooled ride not only well, but to fully compete to earn ribbons,” said Caputo. “Out of eight competing, five won ribbons and one took home first in the Trail Class. I honestly do not know who was proudest, the youth, me or our Executive Director Robert Day!” As the staff and youth involved in Unbridled Grace prepare for the upcoming Autumn Classic Horse Show scheduled for October 18 – 20, hopes are high for yet another successful event. The three day event will include the Blue Ridge Horse Force Jumper Finals. For more information about the event, please telephone 434-332-1650.

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The Wonders of God’s Creation

Experienced at Camp Hat Creek’s First Season “Hat Creek Camps ROCKED,” said Hat Creek Camps and Conferences Director Jeff Mosher. “I am not sure who had the most fun, the campers or the staff, but I am sure that this incredible place in God’s Creation positively enriched all who experienced it this summer. While the benefits of electronics (not allowed at camp) are temporal, the benefits of nature’s gifts and adventures are character building and lasting.”

is currently incarcerated. “There is this perception out there that Hat Creek only serves Presbyterian Churches or just Patrick Henry kids—this could not be further from the truth. Hat Creek seeks to serve ALL children and youth”. Mosher said.

In its first summer, Hat Creek served 183 kids in grades 3 - 12; employed 17 staffers; served 2,576 meals; 16 youth declared their love of God; experienced no major injuries; and no kids were sent home. Campers came from the south as far as Woodlawn; and to the north as far as Alexandria/DC; and as far east as Blackstone and Red Oak. Camp also served our own community and surrounding towns of Lynchburg, Madison Heights, Rustburg, Bedford, Appomattox and others.

“The fact is a worthy vision is not easy. A vision of merit takes time,”

In addition, Camp Hat Creek served and ministered to kids not only from our own communities but from group homes, foster care/social services, former residents and children whose parent or guardian

and what is essential. Children are precious and it is essential that

stated American Camp Association’s Peg Smith, Camping MagazineSeptember/October 2013. Ms. Smith went on to quote from an article in the July, 2009 Harvard Business Review, “Leadership in (Permanent) Crisis,” the following: “sustainable change is not about change at all but about discerning and considering what is precious and essential.”

“Through Hat Creek Camps, we have considered what is precious we provide a positive impact to the next generation,” concludes Director Mosher.

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“When the trustees of PHBGH considered investing in Camp Hat Creek, we voted to do so believing that it would enable us to positively reach many more youth. We have been doubly rewarded as we have seen countless smiles, heard great laughter, learned of meaningful prayers, witnessed determination and glimpsed lifted spirits. Countless thanks go to these first year campers, the Camp staff, our generous supporters and the brave parents that trusted our vision.”

-Beverley Dalton. HCCC Trustee Committee

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“Clayton had such a wonderful time and it was extremely awesome to hear him tell me he had a “spiritual” cry with candles on the lake talking about Jesus. Thank you all for being there and having such a tremendous impact in the lives of children. May the camp counselors and everyone involved remain blessed for years to come. Imagine thinking for a few moments....how many years your service this summer will impact lives of folks you may never even meet. AKA (this years campers grandkids) God bless.”

-Kim Keyes

“I was headed to Hat Creek for the first time, and my Mother made me promise to send her a letter. She even addressed and stamped an envelope, with paper inside. Hat Creek was a lot of fun, swimming was my favorite, so I did not get the letter written on the first day of Camp, nor on the second, third, or fourth. Suddenly the call came, “Last day to send mail, so it will get home before you!” I rushed to my hogan, got the letter and made the outgoing mail with seconds to spare.... Two days later, I got back home, and found my Mother laughing so hard she had tears running down her face; holding the letter I had sent her from Camp, and the blank piece of paper inside!”

-Matthew (Camper) “Y’all did a W_O_N_D_E_R_F_U_L job this summer for your first year as Hat Creek Camps & Conference Center!

I’d like to say it is a small secret, but NO! THE WORD IS OUT! Those who attended, had a blast! The lessons learned came through long after the campers were home... you made summer memories that will last a lifetime for these kids. Thanks to all who worked AND PLAYED with our children. May God richly bless every individual who gave of themselves. Hope to see you next year!”

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Appointed Director of Residential Care

very child is God’s creation and we should all be burdened for their success as we make every effort in helping them receive confidence building self worth through God’s precious love and our care, thereby opening avenues to successful life skills as they enter adulthood,” states the new Director of Patrick Henry Boys and Girls Homes Residential Care Sherri Meeks.

Meeks is no stranger to the Patrick Henry community. She joined the staff in April, 2001 as a registered nurse with a title of Health Care Coordinator.

In 2011, she was appointed Licensing Compliance Coordinator for Patrick Henry Family Services. In January, 2013 Executive Director Robert Day appointed her Acting Director of Residential Care.

“Following a period of diminished command within our residential care program, I appointed Sherri Acting Director because I had observed her undeniable strength in youth development and care,” stated Robert Day. “This appointment brought substantial strength to the ver y foundation of our ministries, the boys and girls residential care program. Not

only did she pull together our newly implemented Character Based System program, but under her leadership we are seeing happier youth. It was clear that she deserved to become the Residential Care Director.”

“After serving in the role of Healthcare Coordinator and Licensing Compliance Coordinator for 12 plus years, I obser ved multiple areas where, if change were implemented, our program could be impacted to bring about greater outcomes for our youth, after all that is the reason we are here to serve the kids that Christ has placed in our care. In serving the residents in our care we are fulfilling the Great Commission. I take no individual pride in the success of the positive changes in Residential Care at Patrick Henry; it is truly the team, the heart of the team members, and the blessing of being in the will of Christ that contributes to this positive change.”

When asked what fuels her well of bottomless energy, Meeks quickly said, “Meeting distressed youth where they are in life is a privileged opportunity to make a positive difference. Seeing that difference come to light is sheer energy.” She concluded by saying,

“After all, from the bottom of my heart, I believe that every child deserves to be loved and motivated.”

Sherri and her husband David have been married for 27 years. They live in Charlotte County and have two children; a daughter who is a Registered Nurse and a son who is a Virginia State Trooper. In addition to the blessing of four grandchildren, they have a precious dog who would be offended if they really considered him only a dog!

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ich and his wife were formerly house parents at Patrick Henry from 2002-2005. Rich has a Bachelor’s of Business Administration from Campbell University and a Master’s of Art in Teaching from Liberty University. He has spent the majority of the time since 2005 as a special education teacher for Lynchburg City Schools.

“Coming back to Patrick Henry has been a bit like coming home,” said Rich. “When I left the job of house parenting, it was with a heavy heart. My own growing family prevented me from continuing in the capacity of house parenting. However, I have always felt that I had unfinished business with Patrick Henry. When the Lord opened up a pathway to return to work here, I jumped at the chance.”

“This organization has always had great potential to do powerful work in the lives of at risk youth and their families. With new leadership, a broader vision and a great team of caring, dedicated people, Patrick Henry Family Services is setting forth to fulfill its potential of being one of the premier providers of child and family services in the state of Virginia. It is an honor to be back and have the opportunity to serve this mission.”

Rich and his wife Amy have been married for fifteen years and have nine children. In one capacity or another, Rich has worked to be a catalyst for positive change in the lives of at risk youth for the past 11 years.

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Patrick Henry’s Tuck-Gray Gymnasium U s e d f o r “ HU B ” O u t r e a c h A c t i v i t i e s

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atriot Sports, the seasonal program that Patrick Henry Family Services holds for youth of all ages, is taking another step in its mission to encourage self-confidence, physical fitness, and awareness of God’s love. The “HUB” started in January, 2013 after the program’s Coach and PHFS’s Events Coordinator Steph Saunders spoke with several pastors about merging the area youth groups together in a central location for fun and free event gatherings. Participating area churches to date include Staunton River Community Church (SRCC), Brookneal Baptist and Childrey Baptist Church. Area youth pastors actually lead the HUB, which demonstrates a solidarity that make youth feel more comfortable.

“Anyone in 6th-12th grade is welcome to participate” says Steph Saunders. “Our hope is that as more area churches participate, more youth who may not be active in church life will want to be a part of this Christ-centered positive environment.”

With a great facility to provide this kind of gathering, PHFS can provide hope to area youth who often feel lonely or bored.

Boredom is a dangerous thing and having the HUB is one way to address that issue.

The format of the HUB is inviting and purposeful. There is a time of hanging out so the youth can warm up to their environment and say hello to friends. Then the interactive games begin. Ice breakers, friendly competition and a lot of laughter and fun are the ingredients that have these youths returning each month.

There are also snacks and a scripture driven message.

“While it has taken up to this point to begin seeing the first fruits from the HUB, what we are seeing now from this effort is amazing,” said Ben Saunders, youth pastor at Brookneal Baptist Church and staff member at PHFS.

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Winton Country Club Hosts 36th Annual Patrick Henry Invitational anticipated annual event as the area’s top amateur golfers join forces to play in the charity tournament. An established part of local history, the Patrick Henry Invitational has raised over $200,000 to date for PHBGH.

The Patrick Henry development staff along with the Shortcut High bus helped with the success of the Winton Golf Tournament. Pictured: (l to r) Guy Stockslager, Henry Carter, Kevin Lovell, and Adam Spencer.

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he 36th Annual Patrick Henry Invitational was hosted July 13 and

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This fundraiser held for Patrick Henry Boys and Girls Homes is a much-

Ryan Stinnett is no exception when it comes to the anticipation of the event.

This year marks his eighth Patrick Henry Invitational win. The winner receives a hand-crafted chair made in the PHBGH’s American Legion Craft Shop and Stinnett now has eight of them! PHBGH youth help during the tournament in retrieving golf balls, carrying golf bags, driving golf carts, etc.

The golfers are generous as they often tip the youth for their assistance.

Patrick Henry wishes to say special thanks again to Winton Country Club for hosting this special event and to all

of the participants and their generosity towards our youth. In addition, we thank the following sponsors for their support: AM FM Energy LLC, Charles & Elaine Anderson III, Banker Steel Company L.L.C., The Bank of Charlotte County, Bill’s Body Shop, The Briar Patch Restaurant, Clorox Company, CSE incorporated, James A. Downey Jr. PC, Farmers Seed & Supply, Helen H. Ferney Hough, Industrial Heating Co., Jim Killian, Midway Baptist Church, Lynn Bowling Montague Miller & Co., MONSANTO Bill Tucker, Dr. Chalmers M. Nunn Jr. Gastroenterology, Tim Pague, Piedmont Community Health Plan, Sardis Methodist Church, Simplified Logistics, LLC, Southern Air Inc, Temple Christian School, Temple Baptist Church, Marvin Tinsley, Clay Tinsley, and Workman Oil Company.

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Preparing for Strong Tomorrows: 42nd Annual Awards Ceremony Encourages Residents and Staff Alike It is a fact of life; challenges are a part of life and change brings opportunity for growth. For a moment, picture the youth at Patrick Henry Boys and Girls Homes who may have faced more challenges and change than most can imagine. Reasoning inside oneself of why they are at PHBGH; adjusting to a new living environment; new houseparents; a new school; food not being what it was like at home; and the list goes on.

Through our Annual Awards Ceremony, we celebrate the positive ways in which our youth face challenges and embrace opportunities through change. Many of you come out to this special event to show your support of our youth and all they can do and become. We sincerely thank you and our awards sponsors for giving us the opportunity to recognize the accomplishments of our incredible youth.

The Schaffer and Overbey Outstanding Citizenship Awards are competitive achievement recognition awards that each boy and girl strives for through their accomplishments. Youth are evaluated annually and given points in 12 categories. Each boy and girl strives to excel in the 12 categories earning admiration and respect through growth in good citizenship even though only one boy and one girl can be honored. This year’s recipients were Katherine Sebina and Yuri Neff.

The Edgar and Rachel Bowery Music Award and the Charlean Light Carson Memorial Music Award are awards given in recognition of the boy and the girl who use their talent for the best purposes. The criteria for judging the recipients are based on overall performance, use of abilities, development of talent, and participation in areas where the music is demonstrated. Jamie Bible and Victoria Myers were recipients of these awards.

The Philippians 4:13 Outstanding Athlete Award and the Lt. Col. and Mrs. Eldon Cox Outstanding Athlete Awards are given to encourage each child in the program to put forth his or her maximum effort and develop skills to the fullest in competitive sports. In addition, these awards are sponsored to develop a sense of fair play; to create a desire to excel; and to foster individual responsibility in each resident who strives to earn these awards. This year’s recipients were Jonathan Davis and Elizabeth Smith.

The Dr. O. E. Howe Board Peer Leadership Award is given to the boy or girl who has best demonstrated a positive attitude and provided the best citizenship role model among the residents. This should be a young man or young woman who is looked up to by his or her peers as a positive leader striving to live a moral and productive life. The 2013 recipient was Yuri Neff.

The Christie Fariss Hite Memorial Ambassador Award recognizes the contribution of the resident who best represents PHBGH at churches, civic clubs, and special occasions by their testimony or talent. Jason Gazaille was this year’s recipient.

The Sgt. Jason C. Carr Memorial Academic Improvement Award and the Jenny Hartless Memorial Academic Improvement Awards are competitive progress awards for a boy and girl who show the most improvement during the academic school year. Each resident competes with himself/herself to show sustained improvement during the year. Dasmine Johnson and Katherine Sebina were our recipients.

Scholarships are also an amazing part of the evening as our seniors press onward to the outside world that awaits them. This year was a true blessing as all our Seniors have plans for higher education. The Seniors receiving scholarships included Yuri Neff, Elizabeth Smith, Devin Hubert, Autumn Lewis, Savanah Lynch, Dasmine Johnson, and Skye Bertiz.

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1) Larnza with Carma and Pierce Foulk; 2) Katherine with Board member Beverley Dalton; 3) Libby with Howe Board Member Helen Dudley; 4) Rosa with Board Chair Michael Davidson; 5) Jon with Board member Teresa Sanderson; 6) Savannah with former Board Chair David Marshall; 7) Yuri with former Board Chair Bill Jamerson; 8) Desmond smiles big with two awards; 9) Ryan with his Mother Phyllis McKinney; 10) Tori with Advisory Board member Jimmy Carson

The Shaffer Academic Leadership Award and the Jenny Hartless Memorial Academic Leadership Awards were established to encourage excellence in academic performance. They are awarded to one girl and one boy from our homes. The recipients should have maintained the highest grade point average for the first five of the six-week grading periods. This year’s recipients were Savannah Lynch and Yuri Neff.

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Kenneth L. Sr. and Lucy Woodall Harris Work Ethic Awards are presented to the one boy and girl in the program who exhibit the best all around work ethic in all endeavors, including, but not limited to cottage responsibilities, yard work, academic work, extracurricular and athletic participation, and community service. Paid employment is also considered when applicable. Ryan McKinney and Autumn Lewis won these awards.

S. Frank Pratt Most Improved Award and the Mr. and Mrs. Lewis C. Moorman Most Improved Awards are presented to the one boy and one girl who have demonstrated the greatest all-around improvement in areas including self-discipline; respect for self and others; acceptance of boundaries and consequences; appropriate relationships with family, friends, and members of the opposite sex; academic effort and performance; athletic and musical involvement; spiritual growth; peer leadership; and an evident desire to do what is right. Dasmine Johnson and Rosa Tosatto won these awards.

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The Diamond Hill Presbyterian Church Godly Man Award is given to encourage growth and Christian maturity in our male youth. It is presented to the boy who best exemplifies the biblical description of a godly man and who seeks to be a testimony and an example to others through his words and deeds. Devin Hubert was this year’s recipient.

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The Dr. O.E. Howe Board Most Virtuous Woman is given to encourage growth and Christian maturity with girls in our homes. It is presented to the girl who best exemplifies the biblical description of a virtuous woman and who seeks to be a testimony and an example to others through her words and deeds. Elizabeth Smith won this year’s award.

Dr. Culver Miller Great Effort Awards are presented to the resident in each home who has consistently demonstrated their best effort in all that they do. A positive attitude and determined effort are the marks of residents receiving these awards. Recipients of the Great Effort Awards may not receive an award in any other category. Josh Fifer, Raven Bible, Larnza Culpeper and Erica Spear were the year’s recipients.

The Advisory Board Outstanding Houseparents Award is given to the houseparents couple who has demonstrated Christian love, faithful service, dedication, and has been a strong advocate for the residents of Patrick Henry Boys and Girls Homes. This award is sponsored by the PHBGH Advisory Board. Russ and Ruby Caskey of Rustburg Cottage were this year’s recipients.

Former houseparent Carma Foulk was the surprise keynote speaker, speaking on the topic of “Blessed in Battle”. Her departure with Patrick Henry was unexpected as a result of sudden paralysis in her lower extremities, later to be determined as a cancerous tumor on the spine.

Carma walked the audience through finding the blessings despite the circumstances she faced. Carma emphasized these main points in her talk with the youth. “Choose to surrender yourself to the Lord. Choose to set right goals. Choose to step out in faith.” She also charged the adults in the audience to help this younger generation to prepare for such battles they might face.

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“The best way to predict your future is to create it.”

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t is our choices that determine who we are not our abilities and it is our character that governs our choices. Character defined by The American Heritage Dictionary is having moral or ethical strength, integrity, fortitude that distinguishes a person.

While the word character resonates strength, a young person’s character can be bruised easily by distrust, pain, abandonment, and an all too often cruel world at large.

Guided by God’s grace, we at Patrick Henry Family Services (PHFS) have adopted a “Character Based System” which is committed to transforming a youth’s bruised character back into one of strength and purposeful integrity; therefore, good choices become a part of who they are. What is a Character Based System (CBS)? CBS is a program approach with built-in incentives to “Step” youth towards a targeted behavior goal.

Goals are accomplished through Systematic, Theological, Educational and Patriotic (STEP) programming.

Character Based System Program Levels

• Step into Strong Character • Step up to Dependability • Step forward to Success Utilizing our wrap around services: Hope for Tomorrow Counseling, Hat Creek Camps and Conferences, Unbridled Grace Equestrian Program, and our on-site Work Study Program, PHFS will teach, emphasize, demonstrate, and support the targeted behavior goals in each phase of the system.

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values. A foundation on which to build each character trait builds on the previous character trait secured. CBS will assist our youth to:

1. Have the ability to judge right from wrong.

2. Care deeply about doing what is right.

3. Do what they believe to be right even in the face of pressure from without and the temptation from within.

Program components will utilize:

A consistent weekly format • Concentration on basic learning skills • Leadership principles • Empowering lectures • Required readings • Study and understanding of current events • Character movie segments • Weekly writing assignments • Devotion – both group and individual • Scripture memory verses.

As the CBS program is broken down into the three phases, each component of a phase will consist of the same three levels: Learn it. Live It. Teach It.

• Step into Strong Character Self Control, Truth, Modification, Patience, Courage, Order

• Step up to Dependability Charity, Justice, Faith, Tolerance, Respect

• Step forward to Success Work, Liberty, Frugality, Compassion, Leadership

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hat would help our Character Based System program reach its full potential? Patrick Henry Family Services dreams to one day have its own on-campus school; doing so would open up extraordinary avenues for its youth.

“One fact that is hard to handle with our youth is that we often put them right back into the very educational system that has helped to cripple them,” said Executive Director Robert Day. “It breaks my heart to hear the young teen share how he or she was teased at school for being the PH Kid as they are often called. Having our own school could provide the sort of individualized instruction that could facilitate learning as needed at a student’s stage in the program, thereby, developing a stronger academic student with deeper self esteem.”

Educational specialist with PHFS, Jodi Burnside, completely supports the dream. “What do all successful students have?” asked Burnside. “Self worth and a positive attitude, these values are essential to the success of a student. When we place our students in a system that has its share of bullies and those that look down on them, we often are giving them an almost impossible self worth mountain to climb successfully.”

Following a day in DC, Larnza stands reading the Gettysburg Address.

“Building on the legacy of the great Statesman Patrick Henry, PHFS anticipates that its CBS program will not only develop strong character which will foster good choices, but through the process we will see each youth develop greater selfesteem thereby empowering future leaders,” said Director of Residential Care Sherri Meeks. “This not only breaks current destructive family cycles, but promotes positive change for generations to come.”

“More than ever, our youth need clear expectations of what is expected of them in order that they expect it of themselves.

PHFS anticipates that its CBS program will not only develop strong character which will foster good choices and dependability, but through the process we will see each youth develop greater self-esteem thereby empowering success and future leaders,” concluded Meeks.

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“In addition, when our youth come into our residential care program they are often so far behind in their subjects that they are either overlooked or become problems for teachers and school officials. In order to cover up for their academic inadequacies, they become the class behavior problem or cutup. Having our own school would enable our staff to have their attention at prime learning times, not only in the evenings and weekends.”

“It is no secret that thoughts lead to actions, actions lead to habit, habits lead to character and character drives success,” continued Burnside. “If we had our own educational facility we could concentrate on the three things that enable successful students:

• Self Worth

• Motivation

• Strong Study Skills

In addition, we would have:

• Ability to meet individual educational needs

• Ability to fill learning gaps and provide support for targeted teaching, testing and tutoring

• Consistent structure

• Greater flexibility in scheduling necessary appointments for residents “As Eleanor Roosevelt once said, ‘The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams.’ As for me, I definitely believe in the beauty of this dream, for by it we stand only to see secure steps in youth success,” concluded Burnside.

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“Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.”

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all has arrived and with it so has that wonderful feeling that comes with crisp nights and Friday night High

School Football. This year we are especially excited that two of our youth are very much a part of the football spirit.

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here is a new business open to serve on the Brookneal campus of Patrick Henry Boys and Girls Homes, Kids-N-Repair. It is a work study program designed to repair bicycles and small engines.

“When we looked around we saw quite a few broken bikes and bicycle parts,” said house parent and co-Kids-n-Repair Advisor John

Jason Gazaille (#59) starts for the William Campbell High School JV Football team and is a part of the Varsity Team.

Erica Spear (right) is a William Campbell High School Varsity Cheerleader with a tremendous smile and great team spirit. What would football be without fans? Patrick Henry Boys and Girls Homes’ house parents (left) join together to support their youth in team spirit!

Geyer. “We also saw lawn mowers and weed eaters in need of repair, but the best news of all was when an empty work shop was discovered. It all came together and now our kids are learning life skills” Each week at least four residents spend three hours not only getting their hands dirty while replacing bicycle tires, brakes and chains and learning small engine repair and maintenance, but through donated workbooks and materials they gain a better understanding of how engines work. Changing oil and fluids has even regenerated

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use of some broken PHFS lawn mowers and weed eaters.

“Before if the weed eater broke on campus, we would put in a work order to have it repaired.

We would often have to wait quite awhile. Not any more,” concluded Geyer.

“It has really helped that a number of outside manufacturers and businesses have sent materials and / or tools to help,” said house p a r e n t a n d c o - K i d s - n - Re p a i r Advisor Nick Durham. “Park Tools, Briggs and Stratton, Far Out Bicycle Shop and several individuals have helped tremendously.”

“Everywhere you turn you can find a need. What is important is filling that need” continued Durham.

“Our youth need job skills, they need spending money and they need after school real life learning opportunities, all of which instill confidence and competency. Our hope is that the community will take advantage of our need to serve and give us the opportunity to repair their breaks!”

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Fo r m o r e i n fo r m a t i o n o r to s c h e d u l e a r e p a i r, p l e a s e telephone 434-376-6915.

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m a h g l u F y Jeffre Appointed Director of Institutional Advancement

Henry Family Services “P atrick could not be more pleased

to welcome Jeffrey Fulgham to lead our office of Institutional Advancement,” stated Executive Director Robert Day. “Jeffrey brings a deep well of experience to PHFS and I am confident that under his leadership we will see strong growth in our development efforts.”

Before joining Patrick Henry Family Services, Jeffrey R. Fulgham, CFRE (Certified Fund Raising Executive), ser ved at the National D-Day Memorial Foundation for ten years, holding positions of Director of Development, Vice-President for Finance and Development, and Co-President. Prior to his arrival in Virginia, Jeffrey was Director of Institutional Advancement at Wesley College in Dover, Delaware and served for over six years as the founding Executive Director of the Schwartz Center for the Arts in Dover where he managed a $7.5 million

capital campaign and orchestrated the conversion of an historic opera house into a downtown performing arts center.

He started his fundraising career with Hope Hospice and Palliative Care in Fort Myers, Florida after four years as an entrepreneur in the private sector. He holds a Bachelor’s degree in International Business from Florida Atlantic University in Boca Raton.

Institute. Additional, he serves on the Executive Committee of the Michigan Wildlife Conservancy located near Lansing.

Jeffrey has held seats on numerous non-profit Boards and committees in a variety of communities, including President of the Board of Directors of the Piedmont Chapter of Association of Fundraising Professionals. He was awarded that chapter’s Fund Raising Executive of the Year award in 2005. Jeffrey chaired the Virginia Fund Raising Institute in 2006 and 2012, and currently serves as PastChairman of the Association of Fundraising Professionals Virginia Caucus for Virginia Fund Raising

“My wife and I began giving to Patrick Henry in 2008 because we strongly believed in this ministry’s mission,” said Jeffrey. “When the possibility of joining the staff presented itself this summer, I immediately felt it was a call from God and everything else I was considering went immediately off my radar screen. I am supremely excited to be a part of this wonderful organization and look very forward to what blessings God has in store for us now and in the future.”

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Find Patrick Patrick Henry was the first elected governor of Virginia. As you read through this issue of The Orator, look for Patrick hiding in one of the photos (he looks just like the graphic at the right, just smaller). So when you find him, submit your entry to jwall@patrickhenry.org by December 1, 2013, for a chance to win. Be sure to tell us the page number and location of the picture where you found him. Please include your name, hometown, and affiliation with Patrick Henry Boys & Girls Homes.

From the correct submissions, we will choose at random the lucky winner to receive a gift from us.

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ernadette Kyle has been supporting Patrick Henry Boys and Girls Homes one check at a time for a very long time.

“It all started when I was teaching school at what was Robert E Lee High School,” said Mrs. Kyle. There was an Orator lying on my desk. A young female student walked by and picked it up.

She looked at me and said, ‘I know of this place. My brother lives there and they are doing very nice things for him.’ Her words were most sincere and I never forgot them.”

Mrs. Kyle continued to speak of how her own father died when she was just ten, leaving her Mother to raise four young children on her own. “I so appreciate the struggles of family situations that are out of our control. It is meaningful to continue to read through The Orator that PHBGH does a wonderful job making a difference for the young people that have difficult situations.”

“I was fortunate; however, I grew up near Lynchburg College. As my high school math teacher, Blake Isley, saw promise in me, he helped me get the necessary monies through government grants and the Kiwanis Club to enable me to enroll in Lynchburg College. Lynchburg College became like family, it was vey good to me.”

In addition to her dedication to PHBGH and Lynchburg College,

Mrs. Kyle has a life-long passion of horticulture. Her love of flowers has spanned many years starting as she watched her Mother help support her family as she sold bouquets from their flower garden to help pay bills. Her yard is like a conservatory, but without the dome. There are hellebores, sixty year old azaleas, winter jasmine, day lilies, double bloom hydrangeas, a fifty-five year old “Perfect Perfection” camellia, daffodils, only to name a few.

Mrs. Kyle’s eyes light up when she shares a slip from her boxwood. In Mrs. Kyle’s own words, “After all they are the ‘grandchildren’ of Thomas Jefferson’s Poplar Forest boxwood.”

Her English boxwoods are a result of her late husband’s friendship with the Hutter family of Poplar Forest who once shared garden samples with him.

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Houseparents of the Year Recipients our work as a job,” said Ruby Caskey. “Russ and I believe that what we do is an opportunity to enrich the lives of youth and in doing so our own lives are enriched.”

“I am who I am today in a large degree because of Russ and Ruby Caskey,” said PHBGH alum Henry Carter. “They were my houseparents and because of their genuine commitment to my finest interest, I knew I was loved and, therefore, I was motivated to become the best I could be.”

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hen it was announced at the 42nd Annual Awards Ceremony that Russ and Ruby Caskey (left and center) were the recipients of the Advisory Board Outstanding Houseparents Award of the year, all in attendance burst into loud applause. Beloved by many, the Caskeys hold a special place is the hearts of the youth they have helped to raise. “We never look at

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The Caskeys were houseparents at PHBGH in the 90s, but left to pursue other interests. “We missed the youth and decided in 2011 that it was time to return.” commented Ruby. “I am so glad we did!”

Patrick Henry Family Services Trustees Joe Fariss is photographed to the right of the Caskeys as the then Chairman of Advisory Board who sponsors the award.

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The Honor and Memorial Register

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he following donors made honor or memorial gif ts to Patrick Henr y Family Ser vices in recognition of those who have made a difference in their lives. These gifts not only help our ministry, but they also live on as a lasting legacy to those who are honored. In fact, many people have been introduced to Patrick Henry Family Services through honor and memorial gifts.

When honor and memorial gifts are received, our office promptly notifies the honoree or the family of the deceased and provides the name and address of the donor of each gift.

The following gifts were received from January 1, 2013 to August 31, 2013.

Patrick Henry Boys and Girls youth Jason and Jamie accompanied Executive Director Robert Day (second from right) to the Awards Ceremony for the Greater Lynchburg Community Trust Youth Service Award. Also photographed above is Luke Towles, Market President Wells Fargo. PHFS received a $10,000 Grant for funding the cost of disadvantaged youth in Central Virginia attending Hat Creek Camps and Conferences for the 2013 summer program. The youth leaders that awarded this grant were very encouraged by the positive difference HCCC will make in the lives of campers.

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Donna, Lauren & Jonathan Witmer Mr. & Mrs. Alvin D. Royster

Kevin Michael Ashworth, Jr. Mr. & Mrs. Merle T. Adkins, III

Ed Woody Bethel Baptist Church

Claudia Wilkerson Austin Glass’s Auto Service, Inc. Mr. J. Willard Greer

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Virginia D. Beebe Mr. & Mrs. Tom J. Veillette Andy Bendheim Mr. & Mrs. Thomas M. Proffitt

D Mr. Robert Day College Hill Baptist Church

F Fathers Gravel Hill Baptist Church

G Mrs. Alma D. Gibbs Cory Dale Mrs. Mildred C. Weidemann My Grandchildren Mrs. Weston W. Gupton

H Wyatt & Margaret Hall Ms. Sandra H. Farris Worth Hudson Anonymous

M Virginia D. McCormick Ms. Barbara J. McCormick

Mr. & Mrs. Bob McCullough Mrs. Pat Owen Fathers of Midway Baptist Church Midway Baptist Church Margaret Milroy Mr. & Mrs. Gene Perkins Mothers Gravel Hill Baptist Church

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IN MEMORY OF: A All Aborted Babies Mr. James G. Whitt

Hilda S. Tignor Brenda H. Proffitt

Louise V. Allen Mr. & Mrs. Clarence N. Irby

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Gladys Ranson Anderson Mr. & Mrs. Thomas C. Spain

Charles R. Underwood Ms. Joanne Marino Pump Technology, Inc.

W John & Sue Warren The Price Companies, Inc.

Mike Anderson Glass’s Auto Service, Inc. Mrs. Wyona Anderson Mrs. Patty T. Pugh

Hallie Watson Mr. & Mrs. Dennis Hunt

Walter Claude “Cecil” Anderson, Jr. Mr. & Mrs. John H. Anderson, Jr.

William Wellons Ms. Alice Hunt

Andy Andrews Mrs. Madeline C. Boliek

Harriet Whitten Mrs. Sarah Jane Early Mrs. Betsey Metz

Elsie Mae Arendall Glass’s Auto Service, Inc.

Marjorie Winkelmann Mr. Werner Fred Rieger

Mrs. Christeen Armstrong American Legion Auxiliary Unit 8, South Boston

Frances & Willard Austin Mr. & Mrs. Alvin Royster

B Martha Babcock Mr. & Mrs. Wilton J. Klement Laurie Babcock Mr. Robert Babcock Judith Lee Bailess Mrs. Mildred Shelton Maude Tweedy Bailey Mrs. Barbara H. Caldwell Mrs. Barbara C. Cheatham Mrs. Hazel D. Francis Ms. Evelyn Hall Mr. & Mrs. Clarence N. Irby Dr. Margaret S. Moore Mr. & Mrs. William C. Mosebrook Cornelia Dodson Baker Mr. & Mrs. Thomas C. Spain Hazel Ballowe Mr. Davis P. Ballowe Abner Barley Ms. Patricia L. Rhodes

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Mr. Bill Barrow Mr. & Mrs. Merle T. Adkins, III Norman R. Baty, Jr. Grace & Le Marshall Orie Christopher “Sonny” Baynes, Jr. Mr. & Mrs. James W. Burgess Clover United Methodist Church Mr. & Mrs. Grady J. Cole Mr. & Mrs. Edward J. Edmondson Mrs. Gayle W. Gray Mr. & Mrs. William J. Long, Jr. Mr. Larry D. Roller Mrs. Peggy L. Wazeka Mr. Bobby Whitlow Ms. Linda Yeatts Bud Bell Mr. & Mrs. Alvin Harvey Joyce W. Benfield Ms. Christine D. Avant Mr. & Mrs. James H. Brammer, Jr. Mr. & Mrs. John N. Francis Mr. & Mrs. Wayne B. May, Jr. Floyd Richard Bennett Ms. Linda Owens Wayne Betterton American Legion Post 342, Volens

William “Sammy” Bigger Mr. & Mrs. Norman D. Wagstaff, Jr. Mrs. Shirley Hackney Blalock Mr. Jeffrey C. Blalock Ms. Peggy L. Powell Richard Dean Blasser Mr. Lawrence E. Cassada Annie Grimes Boatwright Mr. Joseph P. Kilgore, Sr. Carroll Boswell, Jr. CIT Group, Inc. CIT Commercial Services Pamela S. Boyd Mr. & Mrs. Norman D. Wagstaff, Jr. Robert (Bob) Boykin Mr. & Mrs. Ronald E. Boykin Mattie Elizabeth Brown Mrs. Dorothy B. Jennings Mary Adams Brubaker Mr. & Mrs. Newton C. Crump, Jr. Alvin Buchanan Mr. & Mrs. Newton C. Crump, Jr.

Robert E. “Buck” Buchanan Mrs. Weston Gupton Mr. & Mrs. Jerry Hite Ms. Nancy D. Mills

Sue Campbell Mr. & Mrs. Larry E. Jordan

Nora Bugg Ms. Anabel Carter

Leo J. Carden, Jr. Mr. & Mrs. James W. Burgess Mr. & Mrs. T. C. Leggett Mr. & Mrs. William J. Long, Jr.

James William C. (Jim) Burton Mr. & Mrs. William J. Long, Jr.

Lorraine Carpenter Lynchburg Home Rebekah Lodge No. 41

Virginia Butler Glass’s Auto Service, Inc.

Jack D. Carroll Mr. James F. Carson Mr. & Mrs. Larry E. Jordan

C Robert Allen Caldwell Mrs. Barbara H. Caldwell Dominion Seven Architects Mrs. Hazel D. Francis Lambs United Methodist Church Sunday School Mr. & Mrs. William C. Mosebrook Mr. & Mrs. James R. Pittard Mr.& Mrs. Joseph W. Rogers, Jr. Mrs. Melcoie Callahan Mr. J. Willard Greer Mr. & Mrs. Kenneth E. Irby Dr. Jack Campbell Mr. & Mrs. Don Zatrepalek

Howard Carson Mr. & Mrs. Thomas Burton James F. Carson, Jr. Mr. James F. Carson Jean Sensabaugh Cash Mrs. Yvonne B. Allen Steve M. Cassada Mr. & Mrs. Marvin T. Barker Glass’s Auto Service, Inc. Bob Chaney Mr. Paschal V. Tillman, Jr. Millie Chevalier Mr. & Mrs. James E. Hite, Jr. Serena Kay Childress Mrs. Vera C. Childress

When Hat Creek Camps held their first week of summer camp, members from the Red Hill Women’s Garden Club participated by providing crafts for the campers. Using pressed flowers and other items from nature, the campers made cards and other crafts under the instruction of the Club members.

The Red Hill Garden Club is made up of members from Halifax, Campbell and Charlotte counties.

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Wilton Clary Mr. & Mrs. Raymond A. Wells & Louise Clara D. Clay Mr. William E. Dodson & Family James Clements Mr. & Mrs. George H. ”Buck” Gale Berlie Cobb Mr. & Mrs. Benny O. Marston Richard L. Coffey, Sr. Mr. James F. Carson Terry Coghill Mr. & Mrs. Norman D. Wagstaff, Jr. Jean & Eugene Coleman Mr. & Mrs. R. David Jones Rawley T. Coleman Mr. & Mrs. T. C. Leggett Lewis R. Copley Ms. Daphne W. Copley Nicki Wilde Cortright Mr. & Mrs. John Luther Morgan, III Melba Cox Ms. Kitty Dawson Mr. & Mrs. Warren Pulliam Wayne Cox Mr. & Mrs. Bucky James William Creedle Mr. & Mrs. Norman D. Wagstaff, Jr. John I. Crews Mr. & Mrs. Gary Gupton Mrs. Mary W. Newby Elizabeth S. Crowder Grace & Le Marshall Ida Crutchfield Mr. Al Crutchfield Mr. & Mrs. David Dunn Mr. & Mrs. Gary Gupton

D Elizabeth (Libby) Dangerfield Mr. John B. Riddle Roy Daniel Mr. & Mrs. John W. Hix James Robert Davenport, Jr. Mr. & Mrs. Clarence N. Irby J. L. Davidson Mrs. Myrtle Davidson

Wes Cothran, Wanda Bise, and Mary Carroll from Lynchburg’s Nationwide office on Laxton Road held a workshop for the residents in the Step Forward and Step Up programs of PHBGH. The Nationwide representatives covered home insurance, renters’ insurance, and automobile insurance as well as answered many of our resident’s questions.

Dennis Dawson Mr. & Mrs. Warren Pulliam

John Anthony Dulick Ms. Betty Leap

Ronnie Ferrell Mr. & Mrs. Buddy Ferrell

Mrs. Iris “Mickey” Dawson Ms. Kitty Dawson Thompson Insulation Co., Inc.

Thomas Dunn Glass’s Auto Service, Inc.

Bob & Ruth Fischer Mr. Lawrence E. Fischer

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Hansford F. Fitch Aunt Gertrude, Bobbie & Sharon Shifflett

Muriel Dawson Mr. & Mrs. Warren Pulliam Joseph George DeShazo Mr. J. Willard Greer Amos Dickerson Dr. & Mrs. L. Arnold Frederick William W. Dickerson Mr. G. H. Jamerson, Jr. Geraldine Dix Mr. & Mrs. Thomas Burton Glass’s Auto Service, Inc. Isabel B. Dixon Mr. & Mrs. Curtis E. Hamlett, Jr. Mr. & Mrs. Harry Dodson Mr. William E. Dodson Ruth W. Dodson Mr. William E. Dodson Gayle Carson Drinkard Mr. James F. Carson Laurence (Booker) Dudley Warren & Janet Litchford, Gene & Mary Tibbs, Vernon & Karen Dudley & B. David Dudley

James Darrel East Mrs. Gail C. Ferguson Thomas Earl Elliott, Sr. Mrs. Jeannette M. Walker Gerald Endler Mr. & Mrs. James W. Burgess Paige Southall Epps Mr. & Mrs. Newton C. Crump, Jr. A. Deane Estes Ms. Daphne W. Copley

F Cecil & Cleta Fadelog Ms. Roma L. Loy Stephen Wallace (Henry) Farmer Christine & Danny Hale

Vicki Fitchlee Mr. & Mrs. T. C. Leggett Hagood Fitz Mr. & Mrs. Norman D. Wagstaff, Jr. Bobby Floyd Mr. Wayne V. Floyd Dorothy M. Fore Mr. Glen N. Abernathy Mary Renn Forsyth Mr. & Mrs. Billy Reynolds Mr. Leroy Foster Ms. Belle Carter Mr. & Mrs. Norman D. Wagstaff, Jr. Ronnie Foster Mr. Bernard S. Gowen, Jr.

Larry Wayne Fears Glass’ Auto Service, Inc. Mr. & Mrs. Warren Pulliam Mr. & Mrs. William L. Wellons

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Roy Ferguson Ms. Vickie P. Hite

James “Jay” Garnett, Jr. Mr. & Mrs. Jack Leatherwood

Steve Ferguson Mr. S. Howard Ferguson, Jr.

Ross Garrett Dr. & Mrs. Harold Crowder, Jr.

Mrs. Betty Gardiner Mr. & Mrs. T. C. Leggett

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While they are all smiles in the above photograph, on the court the PHBGH youth and staff took their opposing annual basketball challenge seriously.

While the staff won, it was only by two points!

Jean Geoghegan Mr. & Mrs. Norman D. Wagstaff, Jr. Virginia W. Gillispie Mr. & Mrs. Roy G. Gillispie Phillip Gilreath Mr. & Mrs. Norman D. Wagstaff, Jr. Armstead Boyd “Joe” Glover, Jr. Mr. J. Brian Burton Mr. & Mrs. Ronnie L. Crabtree Mrs. Clarice W. Crews Dr. & Mrs. Harold Crowder, Jr. Mrs. Frank B. Godbold Mr. J. Willard Greer Mr. & Mrs. Gary Gupton Dr. Cynthia K. Hall Mrs. Barbara B. Johnston Mr. & Mrs. T. C. Leggett Mr. & Mrs. Alex Paoletto Mr. & Mrs. Earl G. Powell Mr. & Mrs. Leslie W. Powell, Jr. Mrs. Christine L. Tanner Allie, Mary, James, Richard & Franklin Gordon Mr. & Mrs. Alvin Royster Robert Douglas “Doug” Gravitt, Sr. Mr. Donnie R. Conner Dr. & Mrs. Harold Crowder, Jr. Mr. J. Willard Greer

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Polly Green Mr. & Mrs. Samuel Wilmoth Louise Greene Mr. David Pennell Arthur Trevellian Greene, Jr. Mr. & Mrs. John Luther Morgan, III Lilburn Greer Mr. & Mrs. Norman D. Wagstaff, Jr.

Mac & Marie Harper Mr. & Mrs. Samuel D. Craig, III Mr. Donald E. Knowlson Ms. Cindy R. Parker Mr. Laurence C. Pettit, Jr. Mr. & Mrs. Kent Stephenson Mr. Richard M. Harper Universal Leaf Foundation

Eulalia Hockaday Mr. & Mrs. Bucky James Billy J. Hodges Mr. & Mrs. Ralph V. Puckett David Hubert Mrs. Marlene L. Hubert Ruth M. Hughes Mr. & Mrs. Ralph V. Puckett

Charles “Charlie” M. Hall Mr. & Mrs. Merle T. Adkins, III

Mrs. Lois P. Harris Mr. & Mrs. James W. Burgess Mrs. Eva C. Hagood Mrs. Barbara B. Johnston Mr. & Mrs. T. C. Leggett Dr. & Mrs. Lucien W. Roberts

William Hall Mr. & Mrs. Earnest Clark

Ryland Harris Mrs. Carolyn Nichols

Virginia Hall Ms. Maxine Sartain

John Hawkins Mrs. Michele Mason

David Hallberg Mr. & Mrs. Norman D. Wagstaff, Jr.

Margaret Heater Ms. Sandra W. Boswell

William “Bennie” Inge Mr. & Mrs. Norman D. Wagstaff, Jr.

Ruben “Winn” Hensley Mr. & Mrs. Jack Leatherwood

Clifford E. Isaacs Mrs. Erna Isaacs

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Louise Jones Hamlet Mr. & Mrs. Merle T. Adkins, III Ms. Deborah Barksdale June T. Hankla Mr. & Mrs. Gary C. Brown Edison Vermont Hanson Mrs. Lorene Lucado John William Hardie Mr. & Mrs. William J. Long, Jr.

Robert E. Hicks, Jr. Mr. William P. Guthrie Christie Fariss Hite Mr. & Mrs. S. Joe Fariss Corey Hite Ms. Belle Carter

Allene Overbey Hunt Mr. & Mrs. James Funderburk Robert Hurd Glass’s Auto Service, Inc. Larry Donald Huskey Mr. Donald W. Huskey

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J Grace R. Jackson Mr. & Mrs. Bill Stallings Mr. Gerald Jacobs Mrs. Barbara B. Johnston Grace Jackson Jefferson Mr. & Mrs. Bill Stallings

Brian L. Jenkins Mrs. Yvonne B. Allen Donald Reed Jennings Mrs. Yvonne B. Allen Bobby Ray “Pete” Johnson Mr. & Mrs. Merle T. Adkins, III Edward C. Johnson Mrs. Margaret M. Johnson Mrs. Helen P. Johnson Mr. & Mrs. Merle T. Adkins, III Grace & Le Marshall Mattie “Molly” Jolly Mrs. Essie Bryce Gordon James G. Jones Mrs. Mary Riely Pettyjohn

K Tom & Faye Keys Mr. & Mrs. Robert A. Keys Wayne King Ann & Peyton Pond Helen M. Kittinger Mrs. Hazel T. McGuire

L Mary Alice Laughlin Mr. & Mrs. Curtis E. Hamlett, Jr. Sterling Laughlin Mr. & Mrs. Curtis E. Hamlett, Jr. Herman Lewis Mr. & Mrs. T. C. Leggett Mrs. Herman Lewis Mr. & Mrs. T. C. Leggett Theo B. Lewis Mr. & Mrs. Richard Guill Thomas S. Lovelace Mr. J. Willard Greer Mr. & Mrs. T. C. Leggett

M Benjamin Hunter Marshall Mrs. Alma F. Almond Mr. William P. Guthrie Mr. & Mrs. William E. Jamerson Dr. & Mrs. Robert W. McCullough Mr. & Mrs. Lewis Moorman

David Martin Mrs. Lorene Lucado

Mable Messing Mrs. Maxine Rigsby & Family

Emma Jean R. Martin Mr. William N. Martin

Mildred Mills Mrs. Sara Bass

Ruby W. Martin Mrs. Elnora W. Duffey

Charles Braxton (Charlie) Mitchell Mr. & Mrs. Donald N. Parris

Monroe & Evelyn Maxey Mr. & Mrs. Gary C. Brown Terry McCluskey Anabel & Belle Carter Joshua Loren McGarrahan Mrs. Judy M. Saunders Betty Robbins McGee Mr. & Mrs. Norman D. Wagstaff, Jr.

Frederick W. Moore Mr. & Mrs. Floyd E. Williams Gertrude Moore Mrs. Elizabeth Strange Kathleen Moore Ms. Mary (Beth) Rogers Katherine Morcom Mrs. Marguerite F. Singleton

Charles McKenzie Anabel & Belle Carter

Peter Morekin Mr. Ronald E. Boykin

Terry Meadows Mr. & Mrs. Gary Gupton

Wylie Morgan Mr. & Mrs. Norman D. Wagstaff, Jr.

Mr. Jack Meness Mrs. Sue Payne Morgan, Susan, Stella Brooks, David, Mary & Dennis

Arline W. & Willie (Bill) Morris Mrs. Jeanette M. Walker

Julie Austin-Witcher, representing Virginia in the community service based Mrs. National beauty pageant, chose to collect school and art supplies this summer for the benefit of the Miller Home for Girls, Patrick Henry Boys and Girls Homes and the Bedford Domestic Violence Women’s Shelter. In appreciation of her generosity, the girls in PH’s Bedford cottage participated in one of her drives held at Chick-Fil-A in Lynchburg. Also photographed is Emily Robinson (far right) host of WSET-TV who was present filming for her show.

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Ren Morris Mr. & Mrs. Ernest M. Nichols

Elbert H. Noel Mr. & Mrs. Curtis E. Hamlett, Jr.

Freddie Pierson Mr. & Mrs. William R. Martin, Jr.

Wayne Ridgeway Mr. & Mrs. Curtis E. Hamlett, Jr.

Stella C. Morris Mr. Glen N. Abernathy

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Alphas Pollard Mr. & Mrs. Norman D. Wagstaff, Jr.

Irving Robertson Mr. & Mrs. Don Carson, Jr.

Blair Moseley Mr. & Mrs. Bucky James

N Lucy Simpson Neal Bell Helicopter Mr. & Mrs. Rivers Claytor, Jr. Ms. Joyce Estep Ms. Bernice C. Goodson Mr. & Mrs. Frank Key Ms. Holly Anne Neal Jim & Jo Anne Neal Mr. Scott Neal Nancy Parrott & Maynard Ledford Mr. David Rinehart Mr. William P. Sumner Ms. Jean W. Vernon James Stuart Neff Mr. & Mrs. John Luther Morgan, III Mr. Chandler Nelson Mr. Paschal V. Tillman, Jr. Carrie Baker Newcomb Mr. & Mrs. Thomas C. Spain Earl Newman Lambs United Methodist Church Linda W. Newton Mr. Glen N. Abernathy

Ann Jackson Owen Mr. & Mrs. Bill Stallings Howard W. Owen Mr. & Mrs. Marvin T. Barker

P George F. Pace Lt. Col. & Mrs. Eldon W. Cox Mr. & Mrs. G. W. Walther Ewalt Ms. Rosalie Kelly Mrs. Marguerite F. Singleton Linda Brooks Paris Mr. Bob Paris Herman Parrish Mr. & Mrs. Norman D. Wagstaff, Jr. David Parsons Mr. & Mrs. Dallas Parsons Lorraine W. Penn Ms. Nell S. McIver & John Richards Mrs. Shirley Perkins Mr. & Mrs. Thomas Burton Fran Piechota Mr. & Mrs. Ronnie L. Crabtree E. W. “Ted” Piercy Ms. Belle Carter

Barry Wayne Pollard Mr. & Mrs. Benny O. Marston

Mildred Rockwell Mr. & Mrs. Norman D. Wagstaff, Jr.

Robert Severn Ponton Ms. Rebecca May

Laura Murrie Rodgers Mr. & Mrs. Joseph M. Brantley

Victor Henry Powell Mr. J. Willard Greer

Mary Rogers Ms. Esther J. Morrison Mr. & Mrs. Thomas J. Norwood Mr. & Mrs. Glenn Thacher

Julian Price Mrs. Virginia Price Waller William N. Prillaman Mr. Jeffrey L. Michael Mr. & Mrs. Robert L. Michael & Jeffrey Joseph Pruett Mr. & Mrs. Norman D. Wagstaff, Jr. Sue Puckett Mrs. June P. Taylor Brad Puryear Mr. & Mrs. John B. Puryear, Jr.

R Joan Moses Ranson Mr. & Mrs. Willie M. Caldwell Mr. & Mrs. Willie M. Caldwell, III Mr. & Mrs. Monte Mays Mr. & Mrs. R. Glenn Morris Mr. Frank R. Ranson Mr. & Mrs. Aulden Roach Mr. & Mrs. William Shorter Mr. & Mrs. D. Craig Smith Mr. & Mrs. Russel S. Walton Earl Aery Raynar Ms. Esther L. Hutcherson Mr. & Mrs. T. H. Reynolds Col. Claude L. Reynolds Thomas Reynolds Cruiser Club USA Chapter 08 Nancy Rice Mr. & Mrs. Norman D. Wagstaff, Jr. Harvey Ricketts Mr. & Mrs. Martel T. Ricketts Mrs. Eunice Ridgeway American Legion Auxiliary Unit 8, South Boston Mr. Roy T. Ridgeway, Jr.

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Mrs. Frances Irby Roller Mr. J. Willard Greer Berkley & Alma Royster Mr. & Mrs. Alvin Royster William (Bill) Runkle Bill’s Halifax School Classmates Charles Russell, III Mr. & Mrs. Norman D. Wagstaff, Jr.

S Vera Santone Mr. & Mrs. David Rosemond Kathryn Satterfield Glass’s Auto Service, Inc. William Loftis Satterfield Mr. J. Willard Greer Minnie Gee Saunders Mrs. Grace T. Marshall Ernest William Schliecher Mr. & Mrs. John Luther Morgan, III Charles R. W. Schoew Mrs. Elizabeth L. Dudley Ruby Seamon Mr. E. Fred Blankenship Frances Seamster Glass’s Auto Service, Inc. William Winfield Shiers Mr. J. Willard Greer Dr. Jean Short Mr. & Mrs. Norman D. Wagstaff, Jr. Hattie Lee Sims Glass’s Auto Service, Inc.

Everyone loves Katherine’s gorgeous smile.

When the boys of Stephens Cottage got in a bit of trouble they lost their movie night privilege. Hoping to get out of the trouble soon, they thought creatively!

Frances Singleton Mr. & Mrs. Norman D. Wagstaff, Jr.

Paul Steube Mr. & Mrs. James W. Burgess

Donald J. Sinkiewicz Mr. & Mrs. Norman D. Wagstaff, Jr.

Massie Stinson Mr. & Mrs. Sumner R. Pugh

Robert Sizemore Mr. & Mrs. Barry G. Hughes Mr. & Mrs. Norman D. Wagstaff Yvonne Sizemore Mr. & Mrs. Barry G. Hughes Annie R. Smith Mr. & Mrs. Roy G. Gillispie Hayes Smith, Sr. Mr. & Mrs. Norman D. Wagstaff, Jr. George & Carol Spaulding Mr. Philip H. Wallace, Sr. Doris Anne Minix Speierman Mr. & Mrs. Charles Cushwa Mr. & Mrs. Howard A. Moore Ms. Betty Jo Wingfield Carol Spurlock Mr. & Mrs. Robert L. Floyd Edith Walthall Stafford Mr. & Mrs. John Luther Morgan, III Gustav H. “Buddy” Stalling, III Mr. & Mrs. Merle T. Adkins, III John Joseph Stephens Dr. & Mrs. Lucien W. Roberts

William V. Strain Mr. James F. Carson Thomas Walter Stubblefield Mr. & Mrs. William R. Carr, Jr. Mr. J. Willard Greer Mrs. Barbara B. Johnston Mr. & Mrs. William M. Riddle & Bill Eugenia Fischer Sundin Mr. & Mrs. John Luther Morgan, III Lois & Marshall Swanson Mr. & Mrs. William N. McCachren

Averille Bersch Temples Mrs. Mary B. Swan & Family

George Tweedy Mrs. Jeanette M. Walker

Maj. Gen. (Ret.) Carroll Thackston Glen N. Abernathy Mr. & Mrs. James W. Burgess Mr. James F. Carson Mr. J. Willard Greer Mr. & Mrs. Gary Gupton Mr. & Mrs. T. C. Leggett Mrs. Shirley R. Pool Mr. & Mrs. Norman D. Wagstaff, Jr.

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William (Billy) L. Thomas Mr. & Mrs. Alvin Harvey C. Talmadge Tollerson Mr. & Mrs. Norman D. Wagstaff, Jr.

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Mrs. Edith Tolley Mr. & Mrs. Thomas Burton Mr. J. Taylor Thornhill, III

Reid Tanksley Mrs. Barbara B. Collie

Mable Tomlinson Mr. & Mrs. T. C. Leggett

Roy & Blanche Tate Mr. & Mrs. Robert A. Napier

Chlorene B. Tuck Mr. Glen N. Abernathy

Betty B. Taylor Mr. & Mrs. Sumner R. Pugh

Cordelia Tucker Mr. & Mrs. Norman D. Wagstaff, Jr.

John Edward Taylor Mr. & Mrs. Barry G. Hughes Thomas Neavil Teass Mrs. Emily S. Pendleton Mr. & Mrs. Horace A. Teass

Mary P. Tucker Mr. & Mrs. C. Manly Rucker, III Mrs. Nancy Tucker Mr & Mrs. Merle T. Adkins, III

Charles R. Underwood 1789 Questers Ms. Ann Y. Andrew Mr. & Mrs. Richard Dunn Ms. Elizabette Fentress Ms. David M. Fultz Ms. June S. Fultz Gopher Utility Services, Inc. Griswold Industries Mr. & Mrs. Richard V. Key & Caroline City of Laurinburg Lower Cape Fear Water and Sewer Authority Mr. & Mrs. John R. McDonnell Mr. & Mrs. James M. Stallings Steward Ingram & Cooper PLLC Mr. & Mrs. Roy M. Stewart Charles R. Underwood, Inc. Employees Mr. & Mrs. S. J. Weisner

V Carolyn VanBenschoten Mr. & Mrs. Ronnie L. Crabtree Barbara Vassar Mr. & Mrs. Curtis E. Hamlett, Jr.

W Mr. Lester D. Wade Ms. Belle Carter

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Pauline Wagstaff Mr. & Mrs. John I. Wagstaff Mr. & Mrs. Norman D. Wagstaff, Jr. Norman D. Wagstaff, Sr. Mr. & Mrs. Norman D. Wagstaff, Jr. Ola Mae Thompson Walden Thompson Insulation Co., Inc. Eugenia Walker Mr. E. Fred Blankenship Dwight Waller Mr. & Mrs. William H. Carson Ted Ward Mr. & Mrs. Norman D. Wagstaff, Jr. Nancy Wall Warren The Beulah Baptist Church Nursing Home Ministry Mrs. Mary B. Swan & Family

Tucker Carrington Watkins Mr. & Mrs. John Luther Morgan, III G. Allen Watson Mr. & Mrs. Dennis Hunt Mr. William C. Webb Mrs. J. Earl Bass & Family Annie Goodman Weber Lynchburg Home Rebekah Lodge No. 41 Becky Wells Mr. & Mrs. Samuel D. Piercy, Jr. Louise Wells Mr. G. Robert Boswell Elizabeth Whitfield Mr. & Mrs. Billy Reynolds Georgia Wilborn Mr. & Mrs. Norman D. Wagstaff, Jr. Calvin J. Willard Mrs. Grace T. Marshall & Le

Iris McCormick Williams Nancy & Carole Cassidy, Lynn & Dale, Mike & Wendy Mr. & Mrs. Curtis W. McCormick

Thelma Henry Wyatt Mr. & Mrs. William D. Browning Mr. & Mrs. Ronald O. Overstreet & Nathan Mr. & Mrs. Henry Lee Wyatt, II

Mr. & Mrs. Robert Williamson Mr. William E. Dodson

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Georgia Brann Yancey Mrs. Weston Gupton

Frances Meeky Woltz Mr. J. Willard Greer

James H. “Billy” Young Richard Glenn & Barney Porter

Raymond Wood Mr. & Mrs. Norman D. Wagstaff, Jr.

Cleo Younger Mr. & Mrs. John Chappell

Daniel T. Wright Mr. James F. Carson Thomas D. “Danny” Wright Mrs. Roberta H. Helms

Fifty Flags for Fifty States

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nce a year Red Hill Road becomes a traf fic thoroughfare for guests from across the Commonwealth as visitors come to celebrate the Nation’s independence at Patrick Henry’s home. A plantation once alive with the voice of whom Thomas Jefferson said was the greatest orator he had ever known, continues its patriotic command each July 4th with speeches by Patrick Henry interpreter, Patrick Henry Jolly (fifth great grandson of Patrick Henry) and fireworks at dusk; in addition to hosting the very moving Naturalization Ceremony.

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Debbie Yancey Mr. Carroll B. Bradley, Sr.

“It is always exciting to see the July 4th activities that take place at Red Hill Plantation,” said Director of Property Management Drew Preston. “This year we decided to do our part in contributing to the celebration by lining our newly improved road with a flag for each state. It was an impressive site and our youth were very much excited to contribute to the event. We are definitely looking forward to the continuation of this new tradition.”

Christmas Shopping Already?

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hile it may be a bit early for Christmas shopping, we have a suggestion to help you with gifts for those you want to remember at Christmas and they “already have everything they need/want”. Why not consider making a gift to Patrick Henry in their honor? In this way you will let your friends and loved ones know you are thinking of them and help the children at Patrick Henry at the same time.

Here’s how it works: Make a gift of any amount to Patrick Henry Children’s Fund and send us the names and addresses of those you want to honor.

We will send them a beautiful Christmas card (see the picture below) letting them know that you have made a gift (amount of the gift not mentioned) in support of our Patrick Henry children in their honor!

Please send your gift to the Children’s Fund by December 1. A pre-addressed envelope is included in this Orator for your convenience. If you have questions or need further information, please contact Mary Lynn Hawkins at: 434-376-2006, ext. 100 or email mlhawkins@patrickhenry.org.

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Sand, Surf and Sun Every Youth’s Dream

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hanks to the generosity of many of you, our youth again enjoyed the much anticipated Beach Blast trip! Since 1976 Garden City Chapel in Garden City, South Carolina has provided the facilities for our residents and staff to be able to enjoy an amazing beach experience.

Your support helps them take a trip to a water-park; the opportunity to play putt-putt; and to get ice-cream on the boardwalk, all special beach memories.

For many of our youth, this is a childhood opportunity they would not be able to participate in due to their home situations.

Faithfully, our donors have recognized this fact and, therefore, have shown their support through a beach sponsorship of a resident.

It’s also a spiritual time for the residents as they engage in activities that help them look inside themselves and their relationships. Devotional time, musical worship, prayer and Bible study make this more than a beach week. Through God’s Word our youth focus on healthy relationships, team building games, problem-solving skills and exercises that focus on respect of self and others in a super fun setting.

Not only does your support provide the opportunity for sun, surf, sand and fun, but it provides necessary funds to feed this amazing group of hardy eating, growing children and teens.

Then there are the outings! Playing at the beach is great fun, but there are also other area attractions that all youth enjoy.

The Beach Appeal fund covers the trip’s costs. Most importantly, YOU do. It is through your donations that our youth have a beach trip. Without you, trips to travel could not happen. One of our favorite things we hear is the excitement in a resident’s voice who has never crossed the Virginia state line.

Developmental sports

A developmental sports program centered around teaching competition and the fundamentals of basketball, soccer and floor hockey. This exciting and educational program is geared towards 5–12 year olds.

PATRIOT SPORTS a Ministry of

Basketball clinic

2-day higher level basketball clinic for grades 9–12, focusing on individual and team play. this program aims to prepare you for high school basketball and will be taught by former college recruited players.

Open Gym

For ages 16 and up. The gym will be open to play 5 on 5. FREE, no registration needed.

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For more information, including dates and times, contact Steph Saunders at (434) 376-2006 or by email at ssaunders@patrickhenry.org facebook.com/PatriotSportsAMinistryofPHBGH

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Our Mission • Our Name • Our Logos As you read The Orator, you will come to understand how our new name…Patrick Henry Family Services…and our various ministries fit together. Our logos will help guide you as you enjoy this issue.

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ur mission is “to provide a continuum of services to distressed children and families that will keep families together and children safe and successful.” To fulfill that mission (and to help families contend with the dynamic challenges posed by our culture), we have built upon our original residential care concept with a series of other ministries, programs, and services. Each complements the other, and together, they help to create a foundation for healthy, secure families and communities.

The steady expansion of our services has led us to change our name to Patrick Henry Family Services, reflecting the more comprehensive range of efforts in which we are now engaged. And with the help of generous and faithful donors*, we envision a time when our list of services may expand even further, enabling us to meet other growing needs facing children and families throughout the state of Virginia.

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Over the years, we have realized that many of the situations that led children to our care might have been avoided through counseling. That is why we began Hope for Tomorrow. Our Hope for Tomorrow Counseling centers, presently located in Lynchburg, South Boston, and Farmville are ready to provide discrete, uplifting assistance close to home. Whether ministering to individuals, couples, or entire families, our goal is the same: to bring peace and stability to lives in turmoil. Our licensed professional counselors seek to resolve conflict, mend relationships and restore families from a Christian perspective. In keeping with the ministerial aims of our organization, no one in need of our services is ever turned away due to inability to pay.

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Patrick Henry Family Services P.O. Box 1398 Brookneal, Virginia 24528

Non-Profit Organization U.S. Postage PAID Lynchburg, VA Permit # 161

Scan the QR code with your smartphone to learn about all the ways you can help.

Christmas Shopping Already?

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hile it may be a bit early for Christmas shopping, we have a suggestion to help you with gifts for those you want to remember at Christmas and they “already have everything they need/want”. Why not consider making a gift to Patrick Henry in their honor? In this way you will let your friends and loved ones know you are thinking of them and help the children at Patrick Henry at the same time.

Here’s how it works: Make a gift of any amount to Patrick Henry Children’s Fund and send us the names and addresses of those you want to honor.

We will send them a beautiful Christmas card letting them know that you have made a gift (amount of the gift not mentioned) in support of our Patrick Henry children in their honor!

Please send your gift to the Children’s Fund by December 1.

A pre-addressed envelope is included in this Orator for your convenience. If you have questions or need further information, please contact Mary Lynn Hawkins at: 434-376-2006, ext. 100 or email mlhawkins@patrickhenry.org.

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