Red Deer Advocate, December 15, 2014

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Red Deer Advocate MONDAY, DEC. 15, 2014

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Gay teen thankful for support BY MURRAY CRAWFORD ADVOCATE STAFF Even with supportive friends and family, coming out as gay can be challenging. And coming to terms with her own identity was a real struggle for one Central Alberta teen. Even though she is now comfortable in her own skin, many teens she knows in her small Central Albertan community face the same struggle and don’t have the same supports she does. “It took me forever before I actually told anyone,� she said. “I was in denial forever.� Her real name and the town she lives in are being withheld, as well as the name of her mother. S i n c e a b o u t FIRST SCHOOL-BASED Grade 7, at GAY-STRAIGHT ALLIANCE 12 years old, WAS IN RED DEER A2 she started to question whether she was gay or straight. Now, in Grade 11 and 16-years-old, she is thankful for the support she received when she came out. “Her and her girlfriend were best friends so a lot of people’s response is ‘Oh you guys are just really close,’ � said her mother. “We got a lot of ‘it’s a phase.’ � That mindframe was something she struggled with before coming out. She honestly felt her girlfriend was that good of a friend. But they officially dated six months before she came out. But she didn’t initiate the conversation that led to her coming out to her parents. Her family sat her down and confronted her, saying they knew and they loved and supported her and her girlfriend. “It wasn’t a fight, this needed to be talked about so you guys can feel comfortable,� said her mother. “There was some worriedness on their part on how people would react to it.� Even after the conversation, she said she was still really worried. “Coming out to my friends wasn’t that hard, but when they started to tell people I’d get weird looks in the hall,� she said. “Guys would make some disturbing comments.� “Boys can be a little perverted about the whole thing,� said her mother. She responds to the comments by telling them, in a matter-of-fact way, that this is who she is and they shouldn’t be making those comments. “Most of the time they look blankly at me because they don’t expect me to say anything back and then they walk away,� she said, adding there’s the odd time where they just keep going with the disturbing comments.

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Charities hard at work in Christmas season BY MURRAY CRAWFORD ADVOCATE STAFF With only 10 days left until Christmas, local charities are in the homestretch of their busiest season of the year. The Salvation Army has been hard at work at the kettles and getting the adopt-a-family program going; the Christmas Bureau has wrapped up its charity checkstops and is still hard at work at its toy and food hampers and the Red Deer and District Food has been hard at work on the Bank Stuffa-Bus, Canadian Pacific Holiday Train and putting on the Tom Jackson and the Huron Carole. Last week the Christmas Bureau had 778 families come through and expected to surpass their anticipated 850 families for toys and a food hamper. Families with kids get the two, while couples get the food hamper. Applications to receive food and toys continue until Dec. 17. They are delivered on Dec. 22 and 23 this year. “Checkstops are down from last year, but it was extremely cold this year,� said Teresa Kutynec, Red Deer Christmas Bureau president, adding they raised about $15,000 this year, down from about $24,000 from last year. “There was lots going on that weekend, it was -26 C. There were lots of factors.� One of those other fundraisers running that weekend was the Stuff-a-Bus

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Tracey Reed, left, and Iris Davison fill a gift hamper for a client at the Red Deer Christmas Bureau on Thursday. campaign at Parkland Mall. In total it raised $12,000 for each of the Christmas Bureau and the food bank. Fred Scaife, Red Deer and District Food Bank executive director, said the holiday train raised about $1,300 from food and drink sales at the concert and Canadian Pacific donated $7,000 to the local food bank. On top of the cash the food bank received about 1,600 pounds

of food. The problem for the food bank so far this Christmas has been the lack of cash donations. Typically they rely on this time of year to get most of their funding for the next year.

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Gas prices could boost holiday sales Savings at the pump could mean more money spent on presents this year.

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Soliloquy and Ihana Youth Choir members perform at the Winter Voice concert held at the First Christian Reform Church on Saturday. The choirs, along with Brioso children’s choir and It’s Time a cappella ensemble, performed two shows, both put on by the Choral Singers Unite Society. All choirs were under the direction of Lisa Ward.


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