President's Message
CHRIS REBUCK, PRESIDENT
Dear Friar Family,
As we reflect on another exciting year at Bishop Lynch High School, we are filled with gratitude for the continued support of our vibrant community. Our alumni, families, and friends continue to make a profound impact on our school, enabling us to build upon our strong foundation rooted in the Dominican pillars of prayer, study, community, and service. We are excited to share some stories in this Reflections magazine that will give witness to the strength of our Friar Family.
One of the most significant ways that this community has shown its generosity is through legacy family giving, which has allowed us to enhance our endowed scholarship programs. These gifts ensure that deserving students, regardless of their financial backgrounds, have access to the transformative education that Bishop Lynch offers. Thanks to the support of the Yoxall family and so many more, we are empowering the next generation of leaders and disciples who will carry the values of our school into the future.
This year, we also completed significant renovations to our library and cafeteria—spaces that are central to the daily life of our students. The updated library offers a modern learning environment, fostering creativity and academic growth, while the newly renovated Bistro has become a welcoming place where our students can gather and recharge. These improvements are just a few
of the ways we continue to invest in creating an inspiring and supportive atmosphere for our students.
We also celebrated an unforgettable moment during our Sports Hall of Fame induction ceremony. We honored, for the first time, whole teams with the induction of the legendary 2002 and 2003 back-to-back football state champions as well as Raleigh Williams III and Endyia Rogers, two of the most decorated student-athletes of the last decade. Their achievements on the field of play exemplified the spirit of excellence that has always been a hallmark of our athletics program. It was a moving reminder of the pride and unity that our school instills in every student, athlete, and alumnus and alumna.
As we move into the new year ahead, we remain committed to the mission of educating and forming hearts and minds in wisdom and virtue. We are deeply grateful for your continued support and the gifts of community and generosity that make all of this possible. Together, we will continue to build a legacy of faith, excellence, and service for generations to come.
Peace and Blessings,
Chris Rebuck
Reflections Staff:
Christopher L. Rebuck President
Michelle Argumaniz Director of Communications
Stephanie Savage Graphic Designer
Chelsea Hafertepe Duncan ‘11 Chief Advancement Officer
Monica Austin Director of Alumni and Donor Relations
Contributors:
Michael Gresham
The Texas Catholic
Michelle McDaniel
Photography:
Michael Gresham
The Texas Catholic
Drew Merlino
Visual Communications Associate
Get to Know BL's Chief Advancement Officer
Chelsea Hafertepe
Duncan '11
Returning to her high school roots, Chelsea Hafertepe Duncan, a proud member of the Bishop Lynch High School Class of 2011, stepped into the role of Chief Advancement Officer in June. Chelsea joined BL after a successful tenure at Jesuit College Preparatory School in Dallas where she managed stewardship and donor relations. Her journey in advancement and fundraising has been marked by dedication, innovation, and a commitment to strengthening the communities she serves, and the BL community is glad to have her back.
“My high school experience at Bishop Lynch had a great impact on my life,” Chelsea shared. “I am excited to be back home, and I look forward to building a culture of philanthropy and further advancing the mission of the school.”
With extensive local and national experience directing and implementing successful capital campaigns, annual giving programs, and major gift and stewardship initiatives, Chelsea is uniquely positioned to lead Bishop Lynch’s advancement quadrant.
Chelsea surpassed fundraising goals as a major gifts officer at Catholic Charities Dallas and led endowed giving and fundraising initiatives for Catholic dioceses and organizations across the country in her role as assistant vice president at CCS Fundraising.
As the chief advancement officer at Bishop Lynch, Chelsea is eager to establish a culture of giving through engaging our over 13,000 Forever Friars and current stakeholders.
"Giving to Bishop Lynch has such a tremendous impact on our students, and I am excited to have an alumna in a role that is so important to the advancement of that mission,” said Bishop Lynch President Chris Rebuck. “Chelsea has worked to develop vision and strategies to help Catholic organizations meet and exceed their philanthropic goals and I cannot wait to see her impact here at BL."
With a Friar at the helm, there are great things ahead for the advancement of BL’s mission!
The Fund for Bishop Lynch provides essential current use resources that allow deserving students the opportunity to attend Bishop Lynch, grow in their faith, learn from experienced and dedicated faculty, and become the men and women our world so desperately needs. To make your tax-deductible donation, scan the QR code or visit bishoplynch.org/thefund
Building our Legacy: Capital Campaign Renovations
Make an Impact
The first phase of campus renovations from the Boldly Leading Building Legacy Capital Campaign were completed ahead of this school year, and the changes have already brought a renewed sense of belonging to the Bishop Lynch campus.
Now in its new home along the BL Way, a transformed library provides a space for collaborative learning beyond the classroom. Depending on the time of day, you may find a few Friars quietly studying for a test, small groups working on one of the library’s monthly community service projects, or even world language classes traveling abroad with the help of virtual reality headsets.
The Bistro’s fresh look matches the liveliness of students enjoying meals and catching up with friends. Amidst an academically rigorous school day, students, faculty, and staff can recharge and refuel with delicious offerings from Sage Dining
in an environment conducive to community and great conversation.
The completion of Phase I of the campaign marks an important step in BL’s continued implementation of Universal Design for Learning, which makes curricula and educational spaces accessible to learners of all levels and styles. Phase II of the project involves a full renovation of the upstairs
commons with space for the Writing Center, Math Lab, and a home for the House System.
We invite you to campus to see these recent improvements for yourself! To learn more about transforming our Friars’ future through a gift to the campaign, or to schedule a time to come visit the space, email advancementoffice@bishoplynch.org.
Through the Decades
BY MICHELLE MCDANIEL
Coming Home: Alumni Reunite to Strengthen the Bishop Lynch Legacy
Bishop Lynch has always been more than just a school; it’s a family bound by shared values and a collective spirit of service. Even well after graduation, this sense of belonging endures and flourishes as alumni bring what they’ve learned into the wider world, striving for excellence, seeking truth, and working for justice.
In this installment of “Through the Decades,” we celebrate the extraordinary journeys of six distinguished alumni who embody the essence of the Friar family, joined together through their active leadership in the community.
Through their eyes, we witness the Bishop Lynch success story—a journey marked by personal growth, resilience, and an unwavering commitment to giving back. They remind us that the true measure of education lies not just in academic achievements but in the strength of the community it fosters. These six alumni continue to ensure that the spirit of Bishop Lynch remains vibrant and alive for both their former classmates and current and future students.
Dr. Arthur "Pat" Paddock '74
Retired from a career in dentistry Dallas, TX
When Dr. Arthur "Pat" Paddock ’74 reminisces about his time at Bishop Lynch, he remembers classes separated by gender, the echo of students singing up and down the hallways before class, and engaging in various on-campus activities.
Despite having almost no musical background, he was recruited by a friend to join the school band, which they enthusiastically started together that year. Among other activities, his participation in speech competitions further enriched his high school experience.
Reflecting on the impact of these diverse clubs and activities, Pat says, “I think it made all of us better people.” For Pat, they contributed to helping him grow into a more well-rounded person, deepening his friendships, and considering his eventual career in a new light.
The connections he formed during these years have endured, with many of his classmates and peers from those activities remaining “exceptional” friends to this day, profoundly shaping him as a person.
During his senior year, Pat also met his future wife, Terri ’75. They’ve been married for almost 50 years and have two daughters who attended
Bishop Lynch, Madison ‘03 and Markie ‘06.
That same year, as graduation approached and the time came to consider his career path, Pat recalls taking a professional aptitude test administered by a teacher. The result suggested a future as a mechanic—a notion he found amusing at the time, given how few mechanical skills he possessed. Little did he know, his dentistry career would involve meticulous mechanical skills, and he laughs when he calls himself a “molar mechanic.”
Pat’s long and successful career in dentistry is something he attributes to the strong foundation he received at Bishop Lynch.
"I think Bishop Lynch taught us to persevere through whatever comes along..."
“I think Bishop Lynch taught us to persevere through whatever comes along, which is essential as any career will have a lot of challenges, especially when you're first starting out. I learned not only from my coaches and our teachers but also the other students around me.”
Pat recently planned and attended his class’s 50year reunion, a testament to his enduring bond with his alma mater.
“Well, it was fantastic. It was great to see everybody again, and it's important to see Bishop Lynch keep going. I think it's incredible what they've done to the school and where it's going. It’s changed so much since I went, but all for the better. It's a beautiful school.”
Christopher Plumlee '84
Founder & Preside, ELEVATE Strategy Group Dallas, TX
Christopher Plumlee '84 did not originally want to attend Bishop Lynch. Growing up in North Garland and attending public school, he had built a strong network of friends and a community he was reluctant to leave. However, his parents, recognizing the need for a more challenging academic environment, enrolled him at Bishop Lynch. It was basketball that changed his mind.
In middle school, he had a passion for basketball. A pivotal moment came when the Bishop Lynch basketball coach invited him to attend a final district game.
Christopher recalls the event vividly: “I go to this game, which is teeming with people. There's no seat to be had anywhere; it’s standing room only. I'm watching this game, and they're going up and down the floor, and the environment is electric. BL wins and earns the right to go to state. People are screaming, falling out of the stands.”
For Christopher, this electrifying atmosphere was a "God moment"—a sign that Bishop Lynch was where he was meant to be. His only hesitation was he felt that everyone had known each other since elementary school, while he didn’t know a single person there.
“But I will tell you, the biggest thing from day one that made Bishop Lynch so special was the people. The administrators, the teachers, and the students were just so warm and inviting. I felt welcomed and comfortable from day one.”
Christopher's leadership qualities shone throughout his time at Bishop Lynch. He won multiple elections as class president, ultimately serving as student body president in his senior year.
His journey continued at Southwestern University in Georgetown, Texas, where he studied business. His professional path led him to work at a bank and in sales before founding and becoming president of his own company, where he focuses on helping leadership teams connect and engage to improve performance. He still feels that his time at Bishop Lynch impacts him today.
He believes that the culture at Bishop Lynch inspired students to become the best versions of themselves and strive for more. His experiences at Bishop Lynch taught him the joys of leadership and the importance of genuine care for others.
Christopher's commitment to giving back to the community that shaped him is unwavering, and he often returns to Bishop Lynch to volunteer.
“My dad instilled in us that you have to find meaningful, impactful ways to give back to the community. BL meant so much to me and my progression and maturation. God has blessed us prodigiously, and to whom much is given, much is required.”
"... the biggest thing from day one that made Bishop Lynch so special was the people."
Chelsea Dillard May '94
Partner, Holland & Hart LLP
Denver, CO
For Chelsea Dillard May ’94, transitioning from a small Episcopalian middle school with a graduating class of just 10 to the bustling halls of Bishop Lynch High School was a significant adjustment. But she quickly found friends and community through soccer, track, cross country, student council, and other clubs.
One of her most vivid memories is running and earning second place in a 4x4 state relay, then immediately leaving the meet to drive home to get ready for prom with her friends that evening. Throughout her four years, Chelsea built a great community with lifelong friends and deepened ties with her family, many of whom attended alongside her.
The diverse environment taught her invaluable life skills, emphasizing each person's unique talents and perspectives.
“I appreciated that Bishop Lynch was a learning environment for everyone, allowing us to learn from each other and realize that everybody has different gifts and talents. Some people are really strong academically. Others may have a strong interest in the arts or athletics. We all have different gifts to share, and that shaped my view
of the world.”
She went on to college in Oklahoma, already almost a whole year ahead through dual enrollment at Bishop Lynch. Despite triple majoring in international business, finance, and accounting, she was well-prepared with study skills, which made her undergraduate years feel very manageable.
Seeking another academically challenging environment like Bishop Lynch, Chelsea attended law school at the University of Colorado Boulder.
“I know that's not for everybody, but I missed that intellectual curiosity and sharing of ideas at Bishop Lynch. I craved that intellectual conversation.”
Today, Chelsea works to help families create generational wealth and give philanthropically.
The diverse community at Bishop Lynch has profoundly influenced her approach to her career and her interactions with clients and coworkers: “The experiences I had at BL, where I was with so many different kinds of people from different walks of life, allowed me to have a different perspective talking to clients and coworkers. I manage a team of 38 people now, and the seeds were planted early to accept people different from you.”
Beyond her professional development, Bishop Lynch deeply impacted Chelsea’s spiritual life. The open environment at Bishop Lynch allowed her to discuss faith openly and listen to diverse perspectives. This experience was so profound that it inspired her to send her children to Catholic school.
“It just blew my mind. It also made me extremely intellectually curious about the world and how faith traditions are formed. It just profoundly impacted my life to talk about faith so openly and form my faith in what felt like a very open faith environment.”
Kristen O'Bryant Van't Westeinde '04
Associate Director, Wealth & Asset Management and Insurance, EY
Dallas, TX
Bishop Lynch was a part of life for Kristen O'Bryant Van't Westeinde '04 long before she started as a student. Growing up, she attended football games and cheer practices, immersed in the vibrant school spirit and community.
“Bishop Lynch was all I knew, and I was very excited when I got to go there myself. It's a true community. I'm still friends with people I went to Bishop Lynch with, and even just last week, we got together. It's such a great community that's created lifelong friendships.”
"Bishop Lynch gives you that great education and foundation to succeed in college and beyond."
Kristen's high school years are filled with cherished memories, especially those centered around
homecoming. She fondly recalls making mums with friends and creating extravagant lunches for their dates—a beloved Bishop Lynch tradition since the 1970s. Living just down the street, her grandmother would bring lunches for her, her sister’s, and her cousins’ dates, adding a special familial touch to the festivities.
Introduced some years after graduation, Kristen and her husband Anthony Van't Westeinde '05 share many fond memories of their experiences which laid a foundation for their future together.
While her teachers were incredibly fun to learn from, they also imparted valuable life skills she carried into her college years and beyond. She pursued accounting at the University of Oklahoma, feeling well-prepared thanks to the solid educational foundation laid at Bishop Lynch.
“Bishop Lynch gives you that great education and foundation to succeed in college and beyond. All the teachers are amazing and just set you up to be successful. Anthony and I will likely send our kids to BL because we felt like we got such an amazing education there.”
Bishop Lynch also allowed Kristen to grow closer to her family, as she had many relatives who attended as well. While Kristen orchestrated her 20-year reunion, her mother Lisa Hebert O'Bryant '84 had her 40th, and her uncle Donny Hebert '94 celebrated his 30th.
“I think many families are close, but I feel like we're even closer just because we grew up together, going to grade school and high school together, and even all my friends became family. Everyone knows each other's siblings and cousins, just like a big family.”
Kristen is dedicated to giving back to the Bishop Lynch family she built over the years.
“It’s a great community to be part of, and I want to stay connected as a proud alumna.”
Lacey Blankenship Kinder '14
Sales Representative, Moffitt Services Dallas, TX
Lacey Blankenship Kinder '14 has always considered herself a social butterfly with a natural talent for connecting with people. This inherent love for social interaction led her to immerse herself in various organizations at Bishop Lynch High School, including tennis, Student Council, Habitat for Humanity, and more.
Reflecting on her time at Bishop Lynch, Lacey fondly recalls the incredible experiences she had. Still, she emphasizes that the most significant takeaway was the personal growth she achieved through her involvement in a diverse array of clubs and activities.
“Bishop Lynch has a wide variety of opportunities to explore your interests, whether it's robotics, chemistry, soccer, or something in between. No matter what it is, they impress upon us the importance of pursuing your passions and provide the stepping stones to do so.”
This exposure to different interests and opportunities played a crucial role in shaping Lacey’s future. Inspired by her varied experiences at Bishop Lynch, which helped her discover her deep love for connecting with others, she studied public relations at Texas Tech University and
continues to build upon the skills she developed at BL in her sales role in the oil and gas industry.
“I wouldn't be where I am now without that exposure. It's funny because when you're young, you just see joining an organization or club as a social outing. But then, as you get older, you realize how much those decisions have shaped us and led us to those next decisions in our lives. I’m so grateful for the numerous opportunities Bishop Lynch gives to students in that regard.”
Lacey believes Bishop Lynch provided her the perfect environment to explore and discover her true self.
“I think Bishop Lynch gives students a strong foundation so they can explore their interests, grow in their strengths, and ultimately gain the confidence needed to head into college with
"We had one of the largest classes, but it still felt small... It really is one big family!"
fortitude. High school years are critical in shaping us into the successful adults that we all hope to be, and BL lays the groundwork for that.”
Maintaining the friendships she made at Bishop Lynch has always been important to Lacey, and organizing their 10-year reunion was a natural step for her.
“We had one of the largest classes, but at the same time, it still felt small. I went through some really challenging hardships during my time at Bishop Lynch, and the community offered endless love and support to my family. That level of dedication to each student’s well-being is what makes BL so special. It really is one big family.”
The familial love and support she experienced at Bishop Lynch inspired Lacey to give back by organizing their reunion.
“It was important for me to make sure everyone felt loved and united again because we had such a special connection in high school. I wanted this experience of everyone getting back together to be intentional and to have the time to really reconnect.”
Dani López-Balderas '24
Student, Southern Methodist University Dallas, TX
When Dani López-Balderas ’24 began attending Bishop Lynch her freshman year, she was concerned that making friends could be a struggle given that she lived an hour away from campus.
To overcome this, Dani immersed herself in clubs, service opportunities, and the vibrant Bishop Lynch community.
Dani began attending events and meeting new people over the summer before her freshman year. She soon felt like she belonged. She attended summer camps, founded an ASL club, joined the BL Ambassadors club, French club, service Saturdays, and more.
“I was a shy kid when I first came to high school. But especially after speech class, it helped me
open up to people. And once I met a lot of people during those classes and clubs, I was able to open up even more.”
Coming from a family deeply involved in their church, Dani’s upbringing instilled in her the value of giving back.
“Because I've been so involved, I have been learning new things and values. I love seeing everyone coming together to help each other, and even things such as being there for one another in sports or trusting each other. The clubs, associations, and groups I've been in have given me a whole new perspective on the world. Each group you're involved in sees things a little differently, giving you a more diverse viewpoint and view of the world, allowing you to learn new things every day and adding that to what kind of person you become.”
This fall, Dani started a new chapter at Southern Methodist University, double majoring in French and chemistry, plus minoring in finance. Inspired by her experiences at Bishop Lynch, she aims to apply the skills and values she’s acquired to make a positive impact at SMU. She’s already eager to join clubs and organizations on campus.
Memories are fresh, and life will continue changing as she dives into a new community, but the transformative power of Bishop Lynch taught Dani to lean into the change without losing her past. She intends to maintain her deep connection to her alma mater as she eagerly anticipates the future.
“Just because there's a new bridge built doesn't mean you have to knock the past one down. Maintaining a connection with Bishop Lynch is not about hanging on to the past but rather about helping form new ways for the future, upcoming students. Once you're part of the Bishop Lynch community, you're always part of it. It's not going to go away; even though you are going to form a new community, it's always going to be there. It always helps you out. It's just nice to pay it forward to the new students and show that they're always there if you need it.”
Final Words:
These personal stories from Bishop Lynch alumni— Dani López-Balderas ’24, Lacey Blankenship Kinder ’14, Kristen O'Bryant Van't Westeinde '04, Chelsea Miller May ’94, Christopher Plumlee ’84, and Dr. Pat Paddock ’74—highlight a common thread woven through the school’s rich tapestry: a deep sense of community and belonging. Despite spanning different decades and experiences, each Friar's journey reflects the enduring values instilled at Bishop Lynch High School.
Through their stories, we witness the timeless beauty of Bishop Lynch—a place where personal growth, academic excellence, and spiritual nourishment intersect. More than just a school, Bishop Lynch is a community where bonds forged endure through adulthood, where alumni continue to give back, and where every individual’s journey contributes to the collective legacy.
It’s a testament to the enduring spirit of family and community, where every member, past and present, finds a place to grow, connect, and contribute—a legacy that continues to inspire and uplift the Friar family.
Mind, Body, and Spirit:
New Director of Athletics
Champions StudentAthlete Formation
Alex Cantillo is living his dream. With a passion for student-athlete development and a background in youth mental health, he is invested heart and soul in the next stage of growth for Friar athletics.
Cantillo recognized the power of sports in developing the total person early in his career as the offensive line coach and personal development coordinator at Mater Academy in Hialeah Gardens, Florida. With masters’ degrees in sports psychology and in mental
health counseling, the role was a natural fit for Cantillo.
He went on to serve as the athletic director at Downtown Doral Charter Upper School in his native Miami before joining the Friar Athletic Department as director of athletics in June 2024.
Personal development is cornerstone to the BL Athletic Program, which is uniquely positioned within the Student Formation quadrant in recognition of the power of sport to build virtue.
“The determination to wake up before the sun to drive to practice and balance academic and athletic schedules, the choice to put the team’s goals above your personal desires, grappling with the disappointment of loss and the humility of victories—when studentathletes engage with these challenges with sincerity of heart and honest self-reflection, they become powerful opportunities for deep and lasting growth,” shared Cantillo.
President Chris Rebuck is confident that Cantillo’s leadership will pave an important future for BL athletics.
“Mr. Cantillo has such an excitement and passion for the powerfully formative aspect of athletics. He presents an inspiring and collaborative vision that will enhance every aspect of the student-athlete experience. As we build on a tremendous legacy of athletic success here at BL, I welcome his partnership in cultivating coaches and families to live our mission call to ‘strive for excellence’ through the lens of athletics,” said Rebuck.
You are part of a vibrant community of more than 13,000 Forever Friars who live and work in every state across the globe. You’re never far from a fellow Friar!
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Homecoming & Class Reunions
Future: Forming the
The Yoxall Family Legacy
When asked about the impact of Catholic schools on her life and family, Margaret “Midge” Yoxall smiles and starts from the beginning—Catholic education is simply a part of who she is. From her earliest years at Holy Trinity Catholic School and Ursuline Academy and her tenure as a beloved member of the faculty at St. Pius X Catholic School to the joyful memories of watching her grandchildren walk the same Bishop Lynch hallways of which her five children were so fond, almost every aspect of Midge’s life has some echo of Catholic education.
And she wouldn’t have it any other way.
Midge’s connection to Bishop Lynch began not with the school, but with its namesake. Her father, Thomas George Murnane, was the attorney for The Most Reverend Joseph Patrick Lynch, the third and the longest-serving bishop of the Diocese of Dallas, from the 1920s to the 1940s. Midge remembers accompanying him to the bishop’s residence on Swiss Avenue when she was 10 or 11.
“I was well-behaved,” she shared. “I wanted to continue to go!”
After graduating from Ursuline Academy, Midge attended the University of the Incarnate Word in San Antonio, Texas, and it was there that she met a young man from Belleville, Illinois, Patrick Yoxall. Pat’s Catholic high school,
just outside of St. Louis, was run by the Marianist priests, and at their encouragement he had made the journey to Texas to attend St. Mary’s University.
Midge and Pat were married at Holy Trinity Catholic Church on January 14, 1956, the beginning of a legacy of deep faith and joyful generosity. It wasn’t long before they had outgrown their first house in Casa View and moved to the other side of Ferguson into the home where Midge currently resides.
As their children grew, so did the family’s investment in the St. Pius X community just down the road. All five Yoxall children attended St. Pius X Catholic School, and after years as a substitute, Midge joined the faculty full-time in 1976 when their youngest, Thomas Yoxall ‘84, started fifth grade.
The diverse careers and talents of the Yoxall children, now with children of their own, are a testament to Bishop Lynch’s formation of the total person.
Midge celebrates her 89th birthday surrounded by her children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren.
St. Pius provided a close-knit community for the Yoxalls and created a sense of belonging for their children. Pat played tennis with a group from the parish, including St. Pius’ pastor, Monsignor Thomas Weinzapfel.
“He was very respected, very beloved,” said Midge fondly. “The day we moved into our new church, it was debt free. And he saw the need for a Catholic high school in East Dallas, so he did everything that he could.”
One by one, the Yoxall five began their Bishop Lynch journey, each growing into their own unique talents and interests. Michael Yoxall ‘75 was first, capturing memories in the many photographs that fill yearbooks from his time on staff. The next year, Helen Yoxall Frink ‘76 joined her older brother, excelling at speech and debate and performing as a member of Brigade. When Kevin Yoxall ‘78 became
the third Yoxall to join the Friar family, heavily involved in athletics and on the Byline staff, Midge remembers that their monthly tuition payment was around $175.
What seems like a bargain now required sacrifice for Midge and Pat at the time. She remembers that finances were tight, but their confidence in the importance of a Bishop Lynch education for their children never waned.
Dan Yoxall ‘81 joined the Friar fold in 1977 and enjoyed his time on the student council and playing football. Tom started just three years later, and he also enjoyed serving with the student council and on the tennis courts where he played varsity.
The diverse careers and talents of the Yoxall children, now with children of their own, are a testament to Bishop Lynch’s formation of the total person.
THE IMPACT OF THEIR INVESTMENT IN BISHOP LYNCH
HAS EXTENDED BEYOND THEIR CHILDREN TO THIS NEXT GENERATION OF DALLAS-BASED YOXALLS.
Michael retired from a career in printing and design, not a far cry from his days on the yearbook staff. After spending the first half of her career in the corporate world, Helen became a high school counselor. Kevin, a 2013 inductee to the BL Sports Hall of Fame, is a renowned strength and fitness coach with a resume that includes some of the country’s top collegiate athletic programs. Dan is the president and CEO of San Antonio Manufacturers Association having spent his career in marketing and advancement. After graduating with his law degree from SMU, Tom has spent over three decades as a partner with Locke Lord and serves on the BL Board of Directors.
Midge and Pat's example of faith and love is as alive as ever in their 12 grandchildren and two great-grandchildren, and the impact of their investment in Bishop Lynch has extended beyond their children to this next generation of Dallas-based Yoxalls. Kimberley Yoxall Swenke ‘13 (Grant Swenke '13), daughter of Michael and his wife Kristi, was the first grandchild to become a Friar, followed by Tom and his wife Tish’s three children Benjamin ‘15, Murphy ‘17, and Joseph ‘22.
One of the last things that the family did together before Pat passed away in 2012 was watch Kim and Ben perform in a Blackfriars musical.
Even with Pat’s passing and the youngest generation on to their next adventures, the Yoxall family remains a pillar of the Bishop Lynch community with Midge’s continued commitment to Catholic education at the center. Through the Midge and Pat Yoxall Family Scholarship which funds an annual BL scholarship for a St. Pius graduate, Midge will be instrumental in the formation of young people in the faith for
generations to come just as she was for her students, her children, and her grandchildren.
And the rest, as Midge said as the interview concluded, is history.
“Very good history.”
THANK YOU TO ALL WHO GOLFED AND SUPPORTED THE TOURNAMENT!
This year’s Bishop Lynch Golf Classic on October 28, 2024, was a tremendous success, with 115 golfers, along with sponsors and volunteers, bringing their “A game” to the Dallas Athletic Club. The annual tournament supports the Friar Athletic Association and the Colin Bodensteiner Memorial Fund, which has made the BL experience possible for over 80 students with financial need since its establishment.
Bishop Kelly blesses new Our Lady of Guadalupe mosaic at Bishop Lynch
BY MICHAEL GRESHAM
The Texas Catholic
Published April 18, 2024
Our Lady of Guadalupe’s journey to Bishop Lynch High School took a bit of a circuitous route.
But now she has found a perfect spot to call home.
The community of Bishop Lynch prayerfully gathered April 8 with Auxiliary Bishop Greg Kelly for the dedication and blessing of a mosaic of Our Lady of Guadalupe at the east Dallas campus. The mosaic, created by artist Donna Van Hooser, was donated to Bishop Lynch High School as a gift from the Dybala family.
“We are so thankful to the Dybala family and for Donna for giving us this gift and allowing it to enrich the lives here of students today and for years to come.”
– Dr. Chad Riley, Principal
“Having Our Lady here to bless our hallways at Bishop Lynch is a very, very special gift to all of us,” said Bishop Lynch President Chris Rebuck, who recognized the significance of the day, the solemnity of the Annunciation of the Lord, as he expressed gratitude on behalf of the school community for the donation. “For 60 years now, families have entrusted their children to come journey in a very special way in faith and in formation here at Bishop Lynch. So, it is special that we as a community have been entrusted to hold this very special place for Our Lady of Guadalupe here on this campus that will be a part of every student’s journey every day that they’re here on this campus.”
Barbara Dybala, whose son, Paul, attended Bishop Lynch and was named the 2023 Alumni of the Year, is a mosaic artist in Rockwall County as well as a friend and student of Van Hooser.
She credited a conversation with Van Hooser and another friend in Dallas as the catalyst for the mosaic’s donation and journey to the halls of Bishop Lynch.
It was a journey that included several moves with the artist, a home renovation, and eventually a rented van of questionable reliability, as Dybala and her husband David transported the larger-than-life mosaic from Arizona to Texas themselves. “This van was so broken down we had to rope the door shut,”
Following the blessing, Bishop Kelly and BLHS Chaplain Fr. Mark Garrett pose with Artist Donna Van Hooser (center) and the Dybala family- Paul ‘89 and Kelly with three of their children including Sophie ‘24, and David and Barbara.
recalled Dybala, adding that she “left Our Lady’s face uncovered so she could see her journey.”
Along the way, the Dybalas stopped for Mass in Sweetwater, Texas, where upon learning of the mosaic of Our Lady of Guadalupe resting in the back of the van, a group of parishioners asked to have the van doors opened so that they could pray.
“It was a very, very touching and moving part of Our Lady’s journey to Bishop Lynch,” Dybala said.
For her part, Van Hooser said she first started working on the mosaic in one house, moved it to the basement to finish it, then moved houses only to discover the ceilings in her new home weren’t high enough for her to work on it.
“Our Lady spent some time on her side until I could have the house remodeled,” said Van Hooser, who eventually moved to Arizona, where Our Lady traveled as well until the Dybala family purchased the mosaic as a gift for Bishop Lynch. “I think it’s time for her to be seen by more people than just me and a few friends. I’m thankful that she’s now in a place where she can be truly appreciated.”
Divine inspiration
Van Hooser began making mosaics in 1991, inspired by a trip to see the then-cathedral now Cathedral Basilica of St. Louis.
“I had never seen mosaics at that scale before,” Van Hooser recalled. “Every surface, ceiling, and wall is covered in mosaic. It’s just simply amazing. I just remember sitting there and thinking, ‘I need to try this.’”
A trip to Santa Fe, Mexico, in 2003 fueled Van Hooser’s desire to create an image of Our Lady of Guadalupe.
“I had seen the image before but not in that scale — it was everywhere,” she explained. “I knew I needed to make a mosaic of that image.”
Van Hooser started by researching the image of Our Lady of Guadalupe and her story. In its creation, she used rose petals, gold from Venice, and even incorporated an Our Lady of Guadalupe medal into it.
“It was something that I saw that represented both a religious and a cultural heritage that really moved me and still does to this day,” she said.
Bishop Lynch Principal Chad Riley said April 8 that a lot of symbolism surrounds the dedication of the new image of Our Lady of Guadalupe at the school, noting that the ceremony was held on the Solemnity of the Annunciation of the Lord, the day of total solar eclipse, and comes on the heels of the Diocese of Dallas’ cathedral being elevated to the National Shrine Cathedral of Our Lady of Guadalupe.
Moreover, Riley said the location of the mosaic at the intersection of one of the school’s main hallways held profound significance.
“This hallway that we call ‘The Way’ connects all parts
"It is special that we as a community have been entrusted to hold this very special place for Our Lady of Guadalupe here on this campus that will be a part of every student’s journey every day that they’re here on this campus.”
– Chris Rebuck, President
of the students’ formation and experience here at Bishop Lynch,” said Riley, adding that at Bishop Lynch the goal is to accompany students in a way that all their experiences are in some way connected to Jesus, who is the Way, the Truth, and the Life. “If you join together the symbolism of this accompaniment and that of our journey along ‘The Way,’ we now have the placement of Our Lady of Guadalupe — Mary, the mother of Jesus — to accompany us and to walk with us on our own journey along our own way.”
Riley called the addition of the mosaic a blessing for Bishop Lynch and its community.
“We are so thankful to the Dybala family and for Donna for giving us this gift and allowing it to enrich the lives here of students today and for years to come.”
2024
2024 Sports Hall of Fame Inductees
CONGRATULATIONS TO OUR NEWEST INDUCTEES!
Two new athletes and two teams were inducted into the Bishop Lynch High School Sports Hall of Fame—formerly called the Sports Honor Roll—on Sunday, April 21, 2024, in the Competition Gym. ESPN and Fox Sports Analyst and former NBA player Stephen Howard ‘88 set the stage for the event as the evening’s emcee, sharing fond memories of Friar athletics and powerful lessons from his career in organizational leadership. Established in 1988, the Sports Hall of Fame commemorates student-athletes whose careers and values exemplify Bishop Lynch’s mission of excellence in scholarship and service.
Endyia Rogers
CLASS OF 2019
Endyia Rogers was named the 2019 Texas Gatorade Player of the Year as a senior at Bishop Lynch. She was selected to the TAPPS First Team All-State all four years. She holds the Bishop Lynch record for most points in her career with 2,657. Rogers won two state championships, including her senior year where she led the Friars with 25.0 points, 5.0 rebounds, 4.2 assists, and 2.7 steals during the year.
Rogers went on to play college basketball at USC, Oregon, and Texas A&M, appearing in 138 total games and averaging 14.1 points, 4.3 rebounds, and 3.6 assists. At Oregon, she was named All-Pac-12 for three seasons.
Rawleigh “RJ” Williams, III
CLASS OF 2015
Rawleigh “RJ’’ Williams, III, finished his star-studded career at Bishop Lynch as the all-time lead in career rushing yards (5,023), rushing touchdowns (62), total yards (5,627), and total touchdowns (71). In his senior season, Williams broke the school record in both rushing yards with 2,814 and touchdowns with 37. The 2,814 rushing yards led the state of Texas.
He went on to play collegiate football at the University of Arkansas where he was named First Team All-SEC by the Associated Press in his sophomore season after leading the Southeastern Conference in rushing yards with 1,326. Williams is a founding partner with Milk & Honey Sports in Dallas where he focuses on client development, and he previously served on the Bishop Lynch Board of Directors.
Championship Teams BACK-TO-BACK STATE FOOTBALL
2002 - 2003
Head Coach: Gary Oliver
Overall Record: 13-1
Bishop Lynch defeated St. Joseph 50-28 to win the fifth state championship in program history. Senior QB Chris Phillips (TAPPS MVP) and Corey Jordan (1,467 rushing yards) led the Friars to a 10-1 record, winning their last 10 games.
First Team All-State on offense included Phillips, Jordan, and Gregg McBride. First Team All-State on defense included Deavin Cox.
2003 - 2004
Head Coach: Gary Oliver
Overall Record: 12-2
Mack Haning and Michael Smith were selected to Second Team All-State offense and Pablo Kirk and Adan Flores were awarded Honorable Mention AllState on defense.
The Friar defense held opponents to just 16 points per game. The offense scored more than 35 points in nine of their 11 games.
With back-to-back state championships, the Friar Football program went 25-3 in those two years. BL defeated SA Central 31-8 in the TAPPS state game to earn the program’s sixth state championship. Deavin Cox was selected to First Team All-State on offense and defense, playing running back and
linebacker. Gregg McBride was selected to First Team All-State offense and Frank Puskarich and Michael James were selected to First Team All-State defense.
Eric Alcala was selected Second Team All-State as a linebacker, and Justin Farrell and Jacob Rochester were named Honorable Mention All-State on offense.
Class
CLASS NOTES
Mikey Hernandez '94 graduated with a Master of Fine Arts in Art from the University of Dallas.
Marti Nary '11 lives in Sacramento, California, where she works as a territory sales manager. She continues to be involved with Camp RYLA after being nominated by Ms. Schnurr in 2010 and loves volunteering with the organization.
Kathy Grove Blanck '66 and her husband purchased an RV and five years ago and set out to tour the continental United States. They visited 48 states and had a blast doing it.
Dr. Marie Sohner-Rodriguez '74 graduated from Texas A&M University and went on to medical school at UTMB Galveston, followed by residency in obstetrics and gynecology at St. Joseph Hospital in Houston where she met her husband and fellow resident, Dr. Michael Rodriguez. They have five children between them and four grandchildren, and they have practiced in Tomball, Texas, for 40 years.
Karl Brown '74 † and his wife Susan celebrated their 46th wedding anniversary in January 2024.
Robyn Mooney Delahunt, Ed.D., ‘84 earned her doctoral degree in education in 2019, and she is currently writing a comprehensive social studies curriculum program which features a series of ten illustrated children's books about various events from early US History for publication Summer 2025.
Bishop Lynch Assistant Athletic Trainer Dr. Jordan Hart '04 traveled with United States Youth Soccer regional select and national teams in England, Costa Rica, Germany, and Austria to serve as medical staff.
Milan Pantuso Organ '07 worked for Oceaneering International from 2014-2024. She founded Magnolia Boone Paperie in 2019 and now is fulltime with the company, a fullservice wedding and event graphic design studio which has been featured in D Weddings, D Magazine, and The Scout Guide.
Billy Mixon '14, a graduate of the University of North Texas, is currently working for a Dallas Cowboys-owned company as a research analyst.
Laryssa Bonacqisti Sommer '14 graduated from the University of Iowa College of Law with her J.D. in May 2023. Laryssa currently works as a law clerk for a federal bankruptcy judge in Fort Worth.
Virginia Anne Edwards '18 received her chemical engineering degree from Auburn University in 2023. She is currently working for the Alabama State Department of Environmental Management.
Sophie Noya '19 graduated from Texas A&M University in December 2023 with a degree in communication and spent five months serving internationally with Fundación Bolivia Digna. Sophie serves as a mentor and teacher for children in rural areas. She loves to serve others and shares that while these children live in poverty, they have a joy about them that has taught her so much!
Elizabeth Catherine Edwards '20 graduated from Auburn University and she started pharmacy school at the Auburn University Harrison College of Pharmacy in fall 2024.
Julia Kubes '21, currently studying at the University of Rochester, recently received several academic awards. Julia was inducted into the engineering honor society Tau Beta Pi, and she was one of 18 juniors invited to be a part of academic honor society Phi Beta Kappa. She received the Donald F. Othmer Sophomore Excellence Award which is given to the junior chemical engineering student with the highest scholastic achievement for the first two years of study, as well as the Albert K. Ackoff Award, given to the top third year chemical engineering student. Over the summer, she worked as an intern at the Naval Surface Warfare Center in Indian Head, Maryland.
Andrew Dybala ‘23 is in the honors program at the Leeds School of Business at The University of Colorado Boulder. He is supporting Coach Prime and the Buffaloes by playing trumpet as a member of The Golden Buffalo Marching Band (GBMB). Andrew is supported by his dad, Dr. Paul Dybala ‘89, who has been the pre-game and halftime stadium PA announcer for the GBMB this fall during all home football games at Folsom Field. You can follow Paul on all social media channels @GBMBVoice.
During the summer of 2025, Cate Kratovil '23 is riding the Texas 4000 for Cancer from Austin to Anchorage which takes 80 days.
Go Cate!
The Texas Catholic Newspaper featured Jodie Orugun ‘24 in their graduation edition, spotlighting the recent graduate for her scholastic accomplishments and her enthusiastic involvement in campus life. Jodie graduated with an associate’s degree from Dallas College days before her high school graduation thanks to her dedication to Bishop Lynch’s dual enrollment program which allowed her to earn college credit as a high school student.
Notes
Friars First Pilgrimage
Bishop Lynch alumni, faculty, staff, and friends hiked the Camino de Santiago in the summer of 2024 on the first-ever BL pilgrimage to Santiago de Compostela. Participants began their journey in Sarria, Spain, hiking through the Galician countryside guided by the symbol of a seashell, which marks the Camino’s many routes to the pilgrims’ destination.
Friar family members on the trip included alumni Karen Hall Ghormley ‘77 and husband Stephen, Kathleen Collins Burns '78, Susan Hall King ‘78, and Mary Sansone Schaar ‘78; past parents Maria Bilder (Cristina Kulakowski ‘05 and Eric ‘09) Anna Garcia Burton (Jeremy ‘02 and Lauren Melton ‘06), Jean Quill Cook (Rachel ‘02), and Maria Isabel Villalpando (Nydia Marguez ‘00); staff member Alejandra Robles, and Bobbie Taylor, wife of John Taylor ‘78. Also in attendance were friends of Bishop Lynch, Melissa Steward, Amy Warren, and Janet Staring. Buen Camino to all our Friar pilgrims!
SATURDAY, MARCH 1, 2025 • 6 PM
SATURDAY, MARCH 1, 2025 • 6 PM
Grab your dancing boots and blast off with the Friar family for an evening of dinner and drinks, all while supporting scholarships for stellar Bishop Lynch students.
Grab your dancing boots and blast off with the Friar family for an evening of dinner and drinks, all while supporting scholarships for stellar Bishop Lynch students.
For information about sponsorships, donations , and tickets, visit www.bishoplynch.org/galA
For information about sponsorships, donations , and tickets, visit www.bishoplynch.org/galA
Jennifer Adamcik '99 and her husband Jason Anderson welcomed their first child, Evan Adamcik Anderson, on August 25, 2024.
Gabrielle Duvall Armstrong '01 and Christopher Armstrong '01 welcomed their fourth child, Clover Marie, on March 28, 2024. She joins her sisters Marigold and Rosalie and her brother William.
Jamie DeWitt '03 and his wife Erin welcomed their third child, Stoneleigh Vaughn.
Alumni BIRTHS
Welcome to our newest Friars!
Dominic Armstrong '05 and his wife Christina welcomed Francisco Leal on January 3, 2024. He joins big brother Ernesto.
Stephanie Plugge Collins '06 and Billy Collins '06 welcomed Charlotte Ann on June 17, 2024.
Katie O'Blenes Bitler '08 and her husband Trey welcomed their first child, Emma Kate, on December 7, 2023.
Brayden Fassett ‘09 and his wife Louisa welcomed their second son, Benjamin Brant, on May 20, 2024. He joins big brother Samuel.
Elizabeth Ortiz Haggerty '11 and her husband Trevor welcomed West Ann on April 28, 2024.
Fernanda Martinez Chase '14 and husband Bryan welcomed Ellie Jane on April 11, 2024.
Vanessa Garnica Barker '11 and her husband Luke welcomed Sean in 2023.
Chelsea Hafertepe Duncan ‘11 and her husband Kyle welcomed McKenzie Maureen on October 1, 2024.
Marti Nary '11 and her husband welcomed their first child, Nora Jeanne Nickens, in 2023.
Ryan Plugge '13 and his wife Lauren welcomed Baker Dominic on April 18, 2024.
Laryssa Bonacquisti Sommer '14 and her husband welcomed their first child, Charlotte Lorilye, in the summer of 2024.
Bailey Shelton '18 and his wife Dona Jiji-Shelton welcomed their son, Thomas Jack, in December 2023.
WEDDINGS & ENGAGEMENTS
Nico Muñoz ‘04 married Erica Mendoza '04 on September 16, 2023, at St. Pius X Catholic Church in Dallas, Texas, with a reception at The Venue at Boyd Farm. The wedding party included Zach Muñoz '03, Jason Enriquez '04, Cecilia Barajas Bravo '04, and Elena Padilla Cardoza '05.
Lacey Blankenship '14 married Lucas Kinder on August 14, 2024.
August 31, 2024.
Annie Urbanus '10 was engaged to Logan Brewer in July 2024.
Connor McGrath ‘15 married Erika Lowe ‘16 on
Brooks Ragan '17 married Lauren Campagna '17 on November 4, 2023.
Recognizing Faculty and Staff Retirements
Jim Urbanus '73 Advancement 1998-2008, 2019-2024
Thomas Garcia Transportation 2013-2024
our Retirees Well
You may send your retirement well-wishes to retirement@bishoplynch. org and Bishop Lynch will be sure to forward your sentiments to our recent retirees. Please include the recipient's name in the subject line.
In Memoriam
REMEMBERING THOSE DEAR TO OUR HEARTS
Michael Colgin ‘66 passed away on May 19, 2024.
James Hooker ‘66 passed away on Nov. 9, 2023.
Richard Crawford ‘67 passed away on Aug. 11, 2024.
Jerry Cadigan ‘69 passed away on July 6, 2024.
Robert Pace ‘69 passed away on Oct. 27, 2023.
James White ‘69 passed away on Sept. 10, 2023.
Sharlene Andries ‘70 passed away on June 11, 2024.
Anthony Barr ‘70 passed away on Sept. 15, 2023.
John Gregory Ralph ‘70 passed away on March 16, 2024.
Elizabeth Fassett ‘71 passed away on Aug. 1, 2024.
Nancy French ‘71 passed away on Oct. 4, 2023.
James Boland ‘72 passed away on June 23, 2024.
Theodore Doolan ‘72 passed away on Aug. 2, 2024.
Karl Brown ‘74 passed away on April 2, 2024.
Jill Luigs ‘74 passed away in January 2024.
John O’Rourke ‘75 passed away on Jan. 31, 2024.
Martin Beckstrom ‘76 passed away on Aug. 18, 2024.
Eugene Schaefers, Jr. ‘77 passed away on Dec. 22, 2023.
Eugene White ‘77 passed away on Oct. 30, 2024.
Mary Baker ‘79 passed away on Sept. 23, 2024.
Eloise Ganter ‘81 passed away on May 17, 2024.
Thomas Lopez ‘81 passed away on Aug. 5, 2024.
John Cheesar ‘82 passed away on Oct. 13, 2024.
Warren Hohmann, Jr. ‘83 passed away on Dec. 15, 2023.
Paul Ryan ‘83 passed away on June 9, 2024.
Jon Love ‘84 passed away on April 26, 2024.
Lee Milazzo ‘85 passed away on Feb. 13, 2024.
Philip St. Clair ‘86 passed away on May 13, 2024.
Gary Tomlinson ‘87 passed away on Dec. 30, 2023.
Christopher Reid ‘99 passed away on Dec. 12, 2023.
Kaitlin Ferguson ‘06 passed away on July 16, 2024.
John Willems ‘11 passed away on April 10, 2024.
Brooke Johnson ‘18 passed away on July 19, 2024.
In this edition of Reflections, we remember all of our alumni who passed away since our last publication date up to Nov. 1, 2024.
Please visit www.bishoplynch.org/in-remembrance to share the names of any members of our Friar family who have passed away.
Plan for the Future
As a member of the 1963 society, your special legacy to Bishop Lynch enables us to further our goals together into the future.
There are many ways to make a planned gift to Bishop Lynch including:
• A gift in your will or living trust
• The establishment of an endowed scholarship
• Outright gift of appreciated securities
• Donor advised fund
• Beneficiary designations of gifted life insurance
• Charitable gift annuity
If you're interested in opportunities for planned giving at BL, please contact our Advancement Team at advancementoffice@bishoplynch.org or 214.324.3607 x 4114.
9750 Ferguson Rd. Dallas, TX 75228
MARK YOUR CALENDAR FOR THESE UPCOMING dates!
You’re Invited: Dine & Dialogue
Join us for an engaging presentation and conversation over a meal alongside fellow Friars. Visit www.bishoplynch.org/dineandialogue for the most updated events and to reserve your complimentary ticket.
Celebrating Black History
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FEBRUARY 6, 2025
Celebrating Women’s History
MARCH 27, 2025
Mental Health Matters
APRIL 15, 2025
Celebrating Asian American History
MAY 1, 2025
Alumni Events:
• January 7 - Taco Tuesday
• January 30 - Alumni of the Year Celebration
• April 9 - Career Night
• April 27 - Sports Hall of Fame Induction
• May 16-17 - Class of 1975 50th Reunion
We can't wait to gather the classes of 1985, 1995, 2005, and 2015 for their reunions next fall!
