hey so Bobby here what's the biggest mistake a guy makes when he's trying to get out of the friendzone I take a guess I'll leave it in the comment section okay I'll tell you the biggest mistake is trying to express your way out of the friendzone what does that mean it's when you try to express your feelings to a woman maybe you just blurt out how much you like her maybe you make the mistake that I I did once and you send her a long text revealing your feelings or some guys will send flowers poems love letters sadly I've done all of them anytime you do that you're expressing your automatic interest in her and what you're doing is you're hoping that she immediately expresses romantic interest back in you but that almost never happens trust me I've been coaching guys now for 11 years and as much as your friends might say just tell her how you feel that always backfires and not only do you get rejected but you wind up making things so awkward that you actually ruin the friendship this happens for for a few reason