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Features MAY 2013
42 Bridal Blooms P. Allen Smith gives us ideas for garden-inspired wedding bouquets
50 Song of the South Analeise Reeves finds her wings with The Field Larks
68 Surreal Summer From bold colors to bright patterns, dare to experiment with your wardrobe
78 Of Time and The River The home of Lori and Jere Spence
84 Two Mamas An Interview with Chrys Howard and Korie Robertson
103 Family Tradition Harvesting memories at Thompson’s Grocery
106 Southern Fried Standout BayouEats: Blue Light CafĂŠ in Ruston 4 BayouLife Magazine MAY 2013
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that I have to be thankful for this month. In the wake of the bombing in Boston, I am overjoyed that my aunt and cousin decided to stay indoors and watch the marathon from home - as they toured the city the day before. I am thankful that my friend and coworker Toni Navarro’s dream of owning a home was fulfilled this month. I am thrilled that Mary Napoli is now our assistant editor and for the talents of people like Mike Healey, Mary Dawson, Jenny Ellerbe and Joli Livaudais for their photographic expertise. I cannot express my gratitude to the talented group of contributors who write for our publication each month and my awesome staff, for Holly and James McCready at Rain the Salon and Day Spa for helping us with hair and makeup, and the Strauss for letting us use their magnificent facility for our photo shoot this month. Thank you to Maggie Sandel and Richmond McGough for modeling (Congratulations on graduation, Richmond). And I cannot even begin to thank Lori and Jere Spence enough for letting us feature their beautiful home - it is truly picturesque. Most of all, I am thankful for my mother this month and every month. I cannot imagine how my life would have been without the constant encouragement, love and support that she has provided me and still offers to this day. I cherish this quote, “God could not be everywhere, and therefore, He made mothers.” To pay homage to mothers everywhere, we compiled a few mother/daughter duos and asked them to share their thoughts on motherhood—and all the love and chaos that comes with it. See page 87.
I have always had great admiration for Mrs. Chrys Howard and this month I asked another mother I adore, LaRone Richardson, to sit down with Mrs. Chrys and Korie Robertson to talk about their relationship and adventures as mother and daughter. April was a busy month for us, and we had a blast attending events around our community. From running in Color Me Rad with a group of great girls to watching the amazing runway show at Fashion Fusion, meeting the incredible Jeannette Simon maker of Gypsy jewelry - at The Toggery, this month has been a whirlwind. I love running into people like Janelle Snellings, Jennifer Lord, Ashley Yeldell, Jorenda Stone, Charlie Heck, Austin Bantel and Patrick Trisler at events - it’s people like these that make the world that much brighter! Happy Mother’s Day to Jeanie Green, Phyllis Thompson, Mary Fuglaar, Paula Cumpton, Ava Losavio and Shirley Napoli, as well as all the other angels out there! We appreciate your support of BayouLife Magazine and hope you enjoy reading this month’s issue.
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Did You Know?
Statistics On Hearing Loss From Audibel The Hearing Center
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today is not as uncommon as one may believe. However, it seemed as if seeking treatment is less likely to occur with those who do have a hearing loss. The following statistics from the Better Hearing Institute below illustrates this gap between those with hearing losses and those who seek care. While we at The Hearing Center have been able to care for numerous individuals in the community, it is surprising to be reminded that there are so many that are not receiving the care that they should have. • 1 in 4 workers exposed to high levels of noise will develop a hearing loss
• Only 13 percent of general practitioners screen for hearing loss.
• 3 in every 10 people over age 60 have a hearing loss.
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• 9 out of 10 hearing aid users report improvements in their quality of life.
Clearly, these statistics are startling. This truly indicates that a lot of people are choosing to go without the benefits of solutions for their hearing loss. Most often, this can be due to confusion over what benefit hearing aids can provide and which type of hearing aid is best for a specific person’s loss. Also, cost can be a factor. At The Hearing Center, we provide complimentary consultations to identify which of our many affordable hearing aid products may be recommended for each patient’s unique hearing loss. If you or a loved one are interested in getting the care you deserve, simply submit your information on the Contact Us page of our website.
WE CAN HELP! A simple hearing test and video otoscopy can answer a lot of questions about your hearing. We will have a consultation about options to get you on the right track to improve your speech understanding and to make listening in group situations less fatiguing and more enjoyable. We will discuss technologies and fitting options to best fit your lifestyle and budget. The sooner we can get you started with your Auditory Therapy, the sooner you will start enjoying those soft sounds.
MAKING A DIFFERENCE Our mission is to bring understanding among people through hearing care by focusing on awareness, education, protection and treatment, So the World May Hear! At Audibel The Hearing Center, we care about your well-being and the lives of the less fortunate around the world. As a proud supporter of The Starkey Hearing Foundation’s “So The World May Hear” program, we are changing lives through the gift of hearing. Your support through the purchase of Audibel Instruments and your donation and trade in of any model hearing aids goes to the foundation’s programs to provide hearing instruments to children in the most remote and poverty stricken regions of the world. ABOUT US Audibel The Hearing Center is Northeast Louisiana’s Audibel dispenser. Cherry Phillips “The Hearing Lady” has been serving this area for over 25 years. We offer free hearing screenings, free second opinions, extended warranties and repairs on all makes and brands of hearing aids. You can find out more by visiting our website www.AudibelMonroe.com and you can see more and like us on Facebook / AudibelMonroe.
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The Craft Beer Movement American Craft Beer Week Pays Tribute To the Art of Brewing
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VERY YEAR,THE BREWER’S ASSOCIATION CELEBRATES the artisans of our industry with American Craft Beer Week. This year the dates are May 13th through the 19th. There are many fun “beer-centric” events held to pay tribute to the art of brewing. As we get ready to enjoy the festivities, let’s take a look at the history of craft beer in our country. In the late 1970s, the way people thought about brewing in America was beginning to change. Due to an influx of immigrants from all over the world who wanted to enjoy styles of brews from their respective countries, a culture of homebrewing began to emerge in the United States. These early homebrewers actually began what is now known as the Craft Beer movement. Eager to introduce American beer drinkers to bigger flavor, many of these brewers began to form small companies. In 1976, the New Albion Brewery was founded by Jack McAuliffe in Sonoma, CA. While this brewery was only in business for about six years, it inspired many others to follow. Earlier this year, the Boston Beer Company (Samuel Adams) released an American Pale Ale called New Albion in honor of McAuliffe, using his original recipe. Over the next few years, the quality and variety of products from these small companies continued to improve and evolve. By the mid 1990s, the volume of Craft beer had increased significantly. The number of Craft brewers went from 8 in 1980 to 537 in 1994 and over 1600 in 2010. This translates to more variety for the consumer. Louisiana’s own original Craft brewery, Abita, was recently ranked 14 out of the top 50 Craft Breweries in America. Founded in 1986, the Abita Brewing Company is nestled in the piney woods 30 miles north of New Orleans. In its first year, the brewery produced 1,500 barrels of beer. By 1994, they outgrew the original site (now a 100-seat brew pub) and moved up the road to a larger facility to keep up with demand. Today, they brew over 151,000 barrels of beer and 9,100 barrels of root beer in their state-of-the-art brewing facility. Their lagers and ales are brewed in small batches, hand-crafted by a 10 BayouLife Magazine MAY 2013
team of dedicated workers with only the highest ideals of quality. This pride, along with their brewing process, is what creates great brews. Abita is still privately-owned and operated by local shareholders, many who have been with them since day one. Topping the same list was The Boston Beer Company (Samuel Adams). In 1984, Jim Koch left college to pursue his dream of brewing “better beer.” He began by hand-selling his Boston Lager with a company that consisted of two employees. The beer caught on faster than anyone could have anticipated. By the end of 1985, Sam Adams beer had reached sales of 500 barrels and distribution had expanded from Massachusetts to Connecticut, and a place where great beer is revered, Germany. Today, they are a team of about 900 people. Still small by many standards, it is definitely a huge change from their humble beginnings. Their beer is recognized all over the world. They remain true to their original passion, making the best beer possible. From Abita and Sam Adams to Blue Moon, Leinenkugel’s, Magic Hat, etc., you will find a wide array of craft brands available at your local retailers. There is also a new crop of specialty beers and ciders hitting the market. Crispin, Fox Barrel and Angry Orchard are three brands of cider that cater to the gluten free set. Another new brand is Bard’s, which is a Sorghum-based beer that is naturally gluten free. There really is something for everyone!
For more information on new products and to keep up with all the Craft Beer Week happenings, find us on Facebook at: www.facebook.com/choicebrands
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Glenwood Hyperbaric and Wound Care Center and Diabetes Management Program
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HE GLENWOOD HYPERBARIC and Wound Care Center is a comprehensive resource for the treatment of patients with chronic, non-healing or difficult wounds, as well as non-wound related conditions approved for hyperbaric oxygen (HBO2) therapy. Experienced physicians and other healthcare professionals who are trained in hyperbaric medicine, wound care, and diabetes management staff the facility. Hyperbaric oxygen therapy may play a significant role in promoting healing as part of your wound care treatment plan that may also include surgery, antibiotic therapy, physical rehabilitation and more.
WOUND CARE With advanced wound care techniques and state-of-the-art technology, our experienced medical team has great success helping patients with chronic, problematic and difficult wounds. Each patient receives an individually developed treatment plan, based on his or her unique wound care needs. Our program is designed to correct the underlying cause of the wound, control infection, and improve the overall health of our patients adjunctive therapy for wound treatment. Types of Wounds Treated • Diabetic foot ulcers • Lower leg ulcers • Pressure ulcers • Bone infections
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HYPERBARIC OXYGEN THERAPY HBO2 therapy occurs when a patient breathes 100 percent oxygen inside a chamber pressurized 2-3 times normal atmospheric pressure. Therapy consists of three phases: compression; treatment; and decompression. All stages are painless. A clinical staff trained in hyperbaric medicine will monitor the process under the supervision of a physician. A special intercom system allows for constant communication. In addition, the chamber is made from a clear acrylic material, giving you full view of your surroundings. Conditions That Can Be Treated • Surgical grafts and flaps with inadequate blood flow • Diabetic wounds of the lower extremities • Chronic bone infections • Radiation injuries • Carbon monoxide or cyanide poisoning • Gas gangrene • Crush injuries • Acute traumatic peripheral ischemia • Necrotizing infections • Acute peripheral arterial insufficiencies • Decompression illness
• Gas embolism • Actinomycosis
DIABETES MANAGEMENT PROGRAM Glenwood Regional Medical Center’s Diabetes Management Program addresses the educational aspects of treating diabetes. The staff utilizes medical, dietary and educational approaches to help patients effectively manage their disease. Self-management education is an essential component of diabetes care. Patients attending the Diabetes Management Program are taught self-care skills to provide better management of their diabetes treatment regimen. The tools provided also enable them to avoid or delay the complications of diabetes for a better tomorrow. The Diabetes Education Program at Glenwood is recognized by the American Diabetes Association® as meeting the National Standards for Diabetes Self-Management Education. The Glenwood Hyperbaric and Wound Care Center, and Diabetes Management Program are located in the Glenwood Medical Mall, 102 Thomas Road, Suite 300B in West Monroe. For more information or to schedule an appointment at the Hyperbaric and Wound Care Center, call 318-329-8445. If you or your physician would like more information about Glenwood's Diabetes Management Program, call 318-329-4395.
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Tips For Parental Success Curb Misbehavior And Encourage Positive Behavior
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BY MELISSA TATUM SANDERLIN, LPC-S NCC
OW MANY OF US WONDER IF WE ARE DOING A GOOD job at raising our children? I question myself daily as to whether I am doing the right thing with my daughter. Am I teaching her manners, modeling kindness, inspiring confidence and encouraging positive aspirations? And of course, I have the question, “Is she happy?” None of us are the perfect parent, but I believe simply caring enough to ask these questions, makes for better parenting. All children go through different stages and phases in life. Some phases are more challenging to parents than others and can really make us question if we are doing what needs to be done. To help curb misbehavior and encourage positive behavior, it helps to first understand motivations behind a child’s behavior. According to the experts behind the STEP program (Systematic Training for Effective Parenting), there are generally 4 reasons a child misbehaves: • Attention • Power • Revenge • Feelings of inadequacy These are easily identified by our own reactions to the behavior. We typically feel annoyed and irritated when a child is seeking attention; angry or disrespected when the child is fighting for power; hurt when the child is wanting revenge; hopeless when he/she is showing feelings or behaviors of inadequacy. Parents ask me all the time how they can get their children to behave appropriately. Here are a few tips I share with them: Focus on positive behavior rather than negative. Try to praise them 5 times for every criticism. This may seem difficult, since we believe they should behave as expected, but remember that children have a lot more outside influences than previous generations. Give children of all ages choices whenever possible. This gives them a sense of power and control in their lives while staying inside your guidelines. Show interest in your child’s life. No, you don’t really care about Justin Bieber’s new girlfriend, but you do care about your child’s self esteem. Showing interest in the small stuff will increase the likelihood they
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will talk to you about the important stuff. In addition to the previous tip, spend quality alone time with each of your children. A couple of hours a week of time spent on activities alone will strengthen your bond and improve their self worth. Model positive behavior rather than parenting by the adage: “Do as I say, not as I do.” This is rarely effective in curbing negative behavior. And remember you want ALL people in their lives to be positive influences – this includes you. Make your expectations clear. Don’t assume they know what you want from them. And be consistent with expectations and consequences. Rather than having punishments for negative behaviors, try offering privileges based on positive behavior. Behavior charts are great tools to utilize this plan. Track one or two particular behaviors on a daily basis (such as doing homework before 7:00 or feeding the dog) with the agreement that after a certain number of these behaviors, they earn a reward. My five-year-old earns a Johnny’s pizza for every week she does not get a conduct mark – and reminds me to mark her chart every day! This greatly improved her conduct grade, and the teacher is grateful for the help. Do not take it personally when your child lashes out at you. He or she does not actually hate you, but does want you to recognize he/she is unhappy. No matter how they behave, they really always want to please you and make you proud. Make sure that you and your partner are on the same page regarding rules. Even if you are not in agreement about specific things, the child needs to think you are a team. And finally, remember YOU ARE THE ADULT! Children of all ages need and crave structure and rules, despite what they may say. I’m sure now you appreciate the rules your parents had, rather than what they let you get away with. I hope you will find these tips useful in your quest for parental success. If you would like more information about these ideas or if you are struggling with your child’s behavior, I am happy to help. Call Sanderlin Counseling Services at 318.323.7575 or email at melissasanderlin@gmail.com.
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HE TOP 20 CRITICAL ACCESS HOSPITALS, INCLUDING Richland Parish Hospital-Delhi, scored best among critical access hospitals on the iVantage Health Analytics’ Hospital Strength Index™ Patient Perspectives. RPH was one of only three Louisiana Critical Access Hospitals to be recognized with the iVantage Health Analytics HealthStrong Hospital designation in collaboration with the National Rural Health Association (NRHA). There are approximately 1,200 Critical Access Hospitals in the United States, according to the NRHA.
KEY AREA OF PERFORMANCE: RPH achieved success as a top 20 Critical Access Hospitals in the key areas of performance of Patient Perspective Index • Patient perspective index: A rating of hospital performance based on the percentile rank on two Hospital Compare HCAHPS measures (“Overall Rating” and “Highly Recommend”).
“Richland Parish Hospital- Delhi is proud of the efforts of its physicians and staff who have contributed to our hospital achieving this designation,” said Michael Carroll, Administrator. “Our results as a top Critical Access Hospital means our community can count on us to deliver the services they need now and in the future. Small and rural hospitals play a critical role in providing efficient and effective healthcare that is on par with other larger suburban and urban counterparts. “Rural hospitals have new and difficult demands that are best managed with actionable information. The Hospital Strength Index reflects the multiple challenges of running a hospital by incorporating the measures on which the industry has worked to gain consensus and standardization,” said John Morrow, Executive Vice President of iVantage Health Analytics, Inc. The Hospital Strength Index™, now in its second year, is designed to deliver to each U.S. hospital a balanced scorecard and comparable
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rating of their performance pursuant to the enactment of the Affordable Care Act. The index enables hospital executives, boards and trustees to understand their relative performance and comprehend the 56 different performance metrics that address the critical aspects of sustainability: market, value-based and financial measures of comparative performance. Richland Parish Hospital is a 25 bed, non-profit community hospital serving Delhi and the surrounding areas. The hospital first opened in 1936 as the Delhi Clinic & Sanatorium by brothers, Dr. Lorenz Teer and Dr. Sheldon Teer. The Hospital now offers a wide range of services including Inpatient Services; 24/7 Emergency Care; Physical & Occupational Therapy; Cardiopulmonary Rehabilitation; Laboratory; Cardio Stress Testing; Certified Diabetes Education; Diabetic Foot Care; Wound Care; Women’s Health including Bone Density & Digital Mammography; and Imaging including Ultrasound, CT Scan & Digital XRay; Diagnostic Gastroenterology; Intensive Outpatient Geriatric Mental Health Program; and a Rural Health Clinic. The Hospital is one of the area’s largest employers whose staff provides excellent, compassionate care in all of their services. Visit www.delhihospital.com or call 318.878.5171 for more information. OUR NEWEST ADDITION: Richland Parish Hospital, Delhi Rural Health Clinic and Delhi Community Health Clinic welcome to their medical staff, Cesar Gonzales, M.D. Dr. Cesar Gonzales earned his medical degree from the University of Texas Medical Branch in Galveston, Texas in 2003. He completed his residency in Family Medicine at LSU Health Sciences Center in Monroe in 2010. Dr. Gonzales is Board Certified in Family Medicine and Addiction Medicine.
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The Dragon Boats Are Coming OIB Presents the 2013 Dragon Boat Festival May 18th
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front of the team on the boat with the sole purpose of keeping the rhythm of the paddlers. The ceremonial role of the drummer is to establish the spirit of the team. That spirit is reflected in everything from their elaborate costume to the irreplaceable encouragement he or she gives to the paddlers. The drummer who adorns the best costume will be awarded a prize, while a separate prize will be awarded to the team with the best spirit. Although a great costume and great spirit usually go hand in hand, the prizes are often awarded to two separate teams, proving that it takes more than outward appearance to get your team excited! Last year, we saw some unique and over the top costumes, so we are looking forward to seeing the outfits the teams will be sporting this year. Last year’s Bayou DeSiard Dragon Boat Festival was extremely successful, with 22 teams participating, hundreds of spectators and thousands of dollars raised for Downtown Monroe Renaissance. This year is already proving to be a bigger success with 36 teams currently registered. Executive Vice President of Retail Development for OIB, Scott McDonald said, “OIB is excited to be a part of this event. It incorporates many of the things we enjoy about this community… fun, sun and our beautiful bayou along with the wonderful people of north Louisiana.” Downtown Monroe Renaissance plans to use the money raised from this event to continue to fund projects like the annual Fourth of July and Christmas on the River firework shows, and various beautification and development projects. OIB is excited to have a part to play in such a great and rewarding project that gets so many people involved and reinforces future events for our community. For more information on the 2013 Bayou DeSiard Dragon Boat Festival visit their Facebook page at facebook.com/BayouDesiardDragonBoatFestival
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Spring Cleaning For Life Calm, Cool, Collected and Emotionally De-cluttered
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T HAS BEEN SAID THAT THERE IS A reason for each season. A correlation can be made between what happens emotionally and what occurs seasonally. Spring is associated with sunny weather, bright skies and flowers in bloom. Spring is symbolic of change, rebirth and growth. It is a time when we discard the old and worn and celebrate the new and fresh. De-cluttering isn’t just for our physical space but can also be done with the emotional space in our lives. Over time, I have observed that many people desire a type of Spring-cleaning for the mind. Picture yourself finding an old trunk that has been stored in the attic for years. When you open it, you find all the “stuff” stored in it from the past. Our feelings and emotions can be tucked away and buried, just as the trunk in the attic. People are filled with “stuff” that needs to be rediscovered and cleaned out in order to make room for new treasures. Clients who struggle with emotional clutter are more likely to have limited focus. Those that are more decluttered present a calm collectedness that suggests confidence in oneself. How does this therapist find physical and emotional Spring-cleaning to be beneficial? I admit that I have noticed that when my room, closets or desk drawers are cluttered, so are my thoughts and behaviors. I have found this impacts my interactions, creativity and ultimately, 24 BayouLife Magazine MAY 2013
the goals I am striving to attain. The dynamics of my physical space often reflect what is transpiring in my emotional space.
HOW TO DE-CLUTTER: • Self - Acknowledge the things that are harmful to you and learn to release them. Take note of your level of health and fitness and recognize the mind-body connection. Forego negative habits and adopt positive ones. • Home- Clutter in one area of your home can spill out into another room. So can clutter in one area of your life be carried over to another. Target emotional baggage (bad relationships, anger, resentment), as well as material possessions. • Emotional Life -Just as you free space in a room you can free yourself of negative thoughts, leaving room to be creative. Consider elements of your life as objects. Keep those of value and do away with those that are not. • With Others- Consider the people, places, things, situations or issues that lift you and your spirit up. Those that help to restore your energy and that simply bring you joy. • Family and Friends- You do not have to keep people in your life who are distressing to you even if they are family members. If you are always doing for others and it is draining you, start setting boundaries and learn to say “no.“ • Work- Work should be inspiring, uplifting and empowering. If you dislike your job, work
towards finding another one. When at work, declutter emails, clear desk and rid the workspace of outdated materials. Have a “clean out the clutter day” at work. A clearer workspace and a clearer mind will produce greater results. • Mind- Free your mind. If a memory or mental image doesn’t serve you positively, it’s time to “let it go.” Avoid “should haves,“ “could haves” and “would haves.“ Are your thoughts cluttered with negative energy, self-criticism and judgment? Strive for self-validation, support, love and acceptance. TIPS: • Work on one area of your life. • Organize and de-clutter that one area to be the best it can be. • Decide what to do with whatever is left.
De-cluttering is about finding balance in your life, connecting with who you are and creating a lifestyle where you wake up each morning eagerly anticipating what the day will bring. Wishing you a calm, cool, collected and Spring mindset…cut the clutter and Spring clean for your “life.“ For more information about counseling and emotional de-cluttering, contact Beatrice Tatem at Wellness Initiatives, 1900 North 18th Street, Suite 414, Monroe, LA 71201. 318-410-1555 or at btatem.bt@gmail.com.
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BayouProfile
Nick LaDart Rookie Angler Pursues Dreams of Being a Professional Bass Fisherman
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HE PAST BAYOUPROFILES HAVE FEATURED TENURED outdoorsmen from across the spectrum. It has been rewarding to be able to sit and speak with each and discover the many horizons they have seen. Changing pace a bit, I met Nick Ladart while covering the FLW tournament on the Ouachita River this past Fall. He was capably directing over two hundred anglers at the Forsythe Park boat ramp as they were getting set to begin the tournament. Not one to make opinions prior to meeting, in this instance I assumed Nick worked with the City of Monroe and was on the clock. After introducing myself, Nick shared he was with the ULM Fishing Team, and they were donating their time in order to assist the FLW crew. Once again, I have found ways to meet individuals with a true passion for the outdoors. Nick has been fishing since the age of 12. His first tournament was the local Ronald McDonald Big Bass Tournament on the Ouachita River. His first outing, and he was caught. Caught up in the action, passion
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and excitement of what is being a true bass angler. Nick states, “I was fishing tournaments every chance I could; it did not matter who was going. If they would take me, I was in.” Nick has a true calling and dedication to bass fishing…if you look close, you might see scales. Nick comments, “Fishing is not just a hobby, a hobby is something you do in your spare time, bass fishing is symbolic of who I am and will be in the near future.” Nick is thankful for the family and people in his life that continue to support him no matter what the tournaments show, good or bad. He has had wonderful opportunities to support his passion and life of fishing. ULM Fishing has been where Nick has been able to take that support and flourish. With four tournaments remaining, ULM Fishing team is in first place in the ACA School of the Year program. He says, “I started out three years ago with teammates, and now I have lifelong friends. Hopefully we will be able to look back appreciate all we have accomplished.” I knew when I met Nick I was going interview him in for a BayouProfile. Nick is anexample of what Louisiana and North Louisiana have to be so proud about…. our future here in and of the outdoors. Nick plans to continue his passion after graduating in the next year. He is making plans to pursue his dream of being a professional bass fisherman. If you ask me, Nick Ladart is already living his dream. If you see him, make sure to say “hello” and let him know how proud you are of him and the ULM Fishing team. Thanks and congratulations to this month’s Bayou Profile-Nick Ladart and to the ULM Fishing Team on their recent National Championship.
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Allen and Waters eg Waters and Heath Allen of Ruston were united in Holy Matrimony in a six p.m. ceremony on April 6 at Trinity United Methodist Church in Ruston. The double ring ceremony was performed by Reverend Brian Mercer. The bride is the daughter of Marlen and Roy Waters and she is the granddaughter of the late Elaine and William May of Homer and the late T.H. (Muddy) and Ruth Waters of Hammond. The groom is the son of Deborah and Edward Allen and the grandson of Katie and Huey Allen and Frances Wylie and the late Clyde Wylie, all of Kilbourne. Given in marriage by her parents and escorted by her father, the bride wore a gown of ivory silk by Allure. The fitted bodice featured a modified sweetheart neckline, three-quarter length sleeves and a
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sheer overlay intricately embroidered with Swarovski crystals. The ball gown skirt draped softly to the floor while extending to a chapel length train also embroidered with crystals. She wore her hair up with a tiara of crystals and pearls. Her earrings were pearl drops with Swarovski crystals, and adorning her neck were the pearls she received from her parents when she graduated from high school. She wore her mother’s bracelet and carried a linen handkerchief that belonged to her grandfather. The bride carried a cascade bouquet of O’Hara garden roses, pale pink and white spray roses, light pink stock, white freesia and ivy. Meg’s maid of honor was her sister, Leah Waters of Baton Rouge. Jessica Harbin of Kansas City, Emily Lawson of Ruston and sister of the groom Holly Allen of Kilbourne served as her bridesmaids. The
bridesmaids wore floor-length blush pink chiffon gowns designed by Jasmine. They carried bouquets of pale pink and white roses, white hydrangea and freesia. James Oliver of Sand Springs, OK served Heath as best man. His groomsmen were Matthew Thurman of West Monroe, Mitchell Albritton of Pearland, TX and Collins Hubbard of Rayville. Ushers were brother of the bride Thad Waters, Gregory Tolbert and Jarod Terry all of Ruston. The flower girl was Emma Thorn of Ruston and nephew of the bride John Rives Wooden of Shreveport served as ring bearer. Darden Gladney sang “The Lord’s Prayer” as he did in the bride’s parents’ wedding and was accompanied by Rosalind Gladney, both of Homer. Music for the wedding was provided by Rev. Micky Cloud. Mrs. Duddy Garrett served as wedding
coordinator. Following the wedding, a reception was held at the Ruston Country Club decorated by the bride, the mothers and numerous friends with a myriad of candles, brass, crystal, pink roses and white hydrangeas on pink damask overlays. The wedding cake was a fourtiered rough-iced cake adorned with fresh pink roses under a white chandelier laced with flowers, ivy and crystals. The groom’s chocolate golf-themed cake was made by a friend of the groom who made all his birthday cakes as a child. A dueling piano act, “176 Keys of Fun” from Arizona entertained the crowd with games and requests. After a send off with sparklers, the couple took a honeymoon trip to Savannah, Charleston, Gatlinburg, and Memphis. They will reside in Ruston.
Photography by Josiah Kennedy of Ruston.
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BayouTravel by Marci Livingston
E ARE FULLTIMERS, BUT IN A LITTLE DIFFERENT way! We live in our RV fulltime, but due to my husband's business, we need to frequent Louisiana to see how his contractors are doing. We also have rental properties in Monroe that require our attention sometimes. We started our travels at
the end of August 2012 and arrived back in Monroe at the end of Februrary 2013. Six months on the road was wonderful, but we were feeling the need to get back home and check on things.
Before arriving in Monroe, we started dreaming of all our favorite foods. We made a list of the best restaurants and visited our favorites more than once. We love the parks in our area and played at them all. We called up some old friends, arranged some play dates and spent time with one set of grandparents. I met a few girlfriends out for lunch, dessert or just a glass of yummy sweet tea. Hubby met up with his Saturday soccer buddies and got nice and winded again. We spread out over our land and enjoyed that we could walk around without someone always watching us or fussing at the boys for well, just being boys. Although we are happy to have land to park at while we need to be in our hometown, we wish we did not have the house payment or the list of things that need to be done on the house. The house is listed with an agent and although it still has not sold, we will continue to hope that it does. We will gladly move the RV for new homeowners! We stayed in Monroe for about three weeks and then we packed up again and drove the RV to Baton Rouge for more of hubby's work. It's always a great place to visit, and we get to see the other set of grandparents. They live on a dead end street which was perfect, because we parked without being in anyone's way. Our home was with us, and we stayed for over three weeks. After a few days, the newness of being at the grandparents wore off (the boys were getting restless), and I remembered to turn on my tourist brain and start researching fun family things to do in Baton Rouge. Of course, a town that size is full of fun things to do. But it is funny that when you have lived in a place so long how quickly you forget all the opportunites for families. I first turned to my zoo membership that I purchased in Monroe and was happy that the Baton Rouge Zoo was on the list. Then I looked up my Evansville Museum Membership that I purchaed online and discovered that the Louisiana Art and Science Museum was on the list! Yippee! Another free place to visit! We discovered our favorite park again, and since the boys are getting older (and thanks to a bike trailer for the younger boys), we biked to the park. Our last visit was to New Orleans to visit one of my step-brothers and his wife and check out the Louisiana Children's Museum that is located in the Warehouse District. 30 BayouLife Magazine MAY 2013
CAPTIONS Top Left: Mark, Asher and Jeanette Livingston Top Right: Mason and Adin at the beach Middle Left: Boys with their Nana, Amanda Barry Middle Right: RV parked at the house Bottom: Bryan Barry, Mason, Adin, Mark, Asher and Marci Livingston, Rachelle Barry
Although it is a little different visiting our hometown in our RV for extended periods of time, it is really nice to have the option to drive off anytime we want. For exmple, when we were in Baton Rouge, we drove to Bay St. Louis for a weekend of beach fun. We stayed at Buccaneer State Park and enjoyed the room to spread out and, of course, had a blast at the beach! There are many different ways to live and enjoy the country, and I am excited that we found a way to travel even though my husband's work is not completely location independent. I hope our way of travel encourages others to consider options to enjoy our great country also. We are on a journey as a family of 6. We desire to have a great marriage and keep the hearts of our children close by minimizing the things of this world that want to pull us away from each other. We are NOT perfect and we make a TON of mistakes, but each day we start anew to focus on the things we find important! Feel Free to Follow Along! www.LivingstonFamilyAdventures.com
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s a perfect Sunday Spring afternoon winds down, the crowd begins gathering for great food, jazzy music, a beautiful bayou-side outdoor setting and a lot of fun. The event can be no other than Blend of the Bayou by Men Who Cook, the annual fundraiser held each Spring by the Northeast Louisiana Arts Council. The wildly popular activity centers around a wide array of delicious food and beverages prepared and served by prominent area professionals and businessmen who generously volunteer their time and talents for the cause. The Men Who Cook either underwrite the preparation costs of their specialties or secure funding from one of their contacts in the business community. The results of their labors are served from whimsically decorated tasting tables in a pastoral bayou-side setting on Island Drive. Adding the finishing touches to a perfect
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afternoon is a group assembled by everyone’s favorite, Mason Granade, to provide upbeat live music for the event. Additional supplies and services are donated by area businesses, such as Marsala Beverage, Southern Beverage, BancorpSouth (sponsor of the Men Who Mix, whose officers and other celebrity bartenders provide guests with their favorite libation) and Community Trust Bank (sponsor of our newest addition, the Men Who Brew, a group of young professionals who are perfecting the art of homebrewing). This year’s Blend, scheduled for May 5, will be the 16th since the activity began in 1997 with 16 volunteer cooks and 250 guests, growing each year since with last year’s party including 70 cooks and bartenders serving over 700 guests. “You’ll see everyone you know there,” notes Arts Council CEO Tommy Usrey of the most en-
joyable benefit of the event’s skyrocketing attendance numbers. This year’s event is dedicated to the memory of Victor Cascio and Chuck Trascher, two of the original Men Who Mix. “Victor brought his vast knowledge of wine as one of the three original wine stewards the first year along with Bill Street, who still tends the bar for us. Chuck joined the group the second year and brought his great sense of humor to the bar tent,” says Usrey. Dr. Jay Altick, also a long term member of the group says of the two, “It’s not going to be the same without them. I was always on the same shift, with Victor on my left and Chuck on my right, almost like an assembly line.” Usrey adds, “There is a sense of camaraderie among the guys that makes this such a special group; I really just enjoy watching them interacting with our guests.” Blend’s phenomenal success story began in 1996 with a brainstorm by Usrey and former Executive Director Dot Bassett. The two saw a similar event while in St. Louis at an arts conference, and each knew instantly it would work in Northeast Louisiana. To get started, they turned to Margaret Lauve and Jan Brockman, two of our area’s top hostesses. Tommy recalls, “They loved the idea, and we were off and running.” Lauve has continued to co-chair the Arts Council committee that puts on the event each year with Development VP Kim Leija, and Event Coordinator Gregory Hudgins. Margaret explains, “I really enjoy it. It’s a lot of work, but it’s a lot of fun, too.” Tommy credits Blend’s success to the cochairs and the many other volunteers who organize and set up the event, but gives a special nod to the cooks. These men volunteer to prepare and serve their specialties and provide the funding for what they serve. “It’s really hard to believe that several of these guys . . . Joey Cordill, Jim Lockhart, Jim Norris, Bob Stratton . . . just to name a few, have been right there supporting our efforts for the entire 16 years. It’s not unusual at the end of the evening, as we’re wrapping up each year’s Blend, to hear the men discussing what they plan to serve next year or suggesting friends to invite to cook.” You’ll hear those comments first hand from the cooks themselves. Among those who have cooked every year since 1997, attorney Brian Crawford, who usually serves a spicy seafood dish, recalls, “The event has really grown over the years–it’s like a festival now. It’s a great opportunity to share an activity with old friends and meet new ones. I’ve been lucky enough to be a participant every year.” Brian’s son, Trent, is now cooking with Bob Brown, who’s been with us since the CONTINUED ON PAGE 65
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COLORS ARE FOR THE FISHERMAN ONLY by Kenny Covington RKANSAS BASS FISHING
legend Larry Nixon said it best one time. He said, “Probably the biggest mistake we make in bass fishing is we tend to overcomplicate it.” Having spent most of my life chasing and trying to catch bass, I have learned in over 30 years of tournament bass fishing that he is absolutely correct. There are no absolutes nor are there sure things, we tend to overcomplicate what we are trying to do. And we overcomplicate our thought process, especially when it comes to lure colors. If you ask a handful of fisherman what their favorite color would be from a crankbait to a softplastic, you will surely get several different answers. Each has their favorite and each will swear that there is no need to use anything else. For the fisherperson who is just starting out this can be an overwhelming bit of information and it can cause a bit of frustration when it comes to the decision making process. The following are a few guidelines that will help the anyone who is trying to get into the sport for the first time or this can also help the tournament angler who is trying to simply narrow down their already overflowing tackle system.
Soft Plastics: This is the area where color is usually the most debated and over analyzed. Here is a list of basic softplastic colors every bass fisherman should own: 1) Watermelon/red 2) Junebug 3) RedShad 4) Black Neon 5) Black/blue I can go anywhere in the United States and catch fish on some form of each of these colors. By soft plastics, I am referring to creature baits such as a Zoom
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Brushhog, a Reactions Sweet Beaver, a plastic lizard or plastic worm. This would also include jig trailers and soft plastic jerk baits. However, no matter what soft plastic you are talking about, the above five colors will give you a good starting point. Hard Baits: When I am talking about Hard Baits I am referring to your crankbaits and topwater lures. They come in many shapes and sizes and the further you get into the sport the more of these lures you seem to collect. I have found that I will use a handful of these lures and they seem to produce no matter what body of water I go to, as long as I have and am throwing a color I have confidence in. Here are some basic color guidelines for hard baits: 1) Basic Shad Pattern 2) Firetiger 3) Crawfish 4) Bream All four colors have their place and time, but with these simple choices, you can’t go wrong. Shad patterns work well in the Summer and Fall. Firetiger works well in stained or muddy water situations. Crawfish is a good choice in the early Spring and Winter. Bream colors work good around all phases of the bass’ spawn. These are simply some basic guidelines that will allow you to simplify your bass fishing approach and enjoy your time on the water. Don’t be afraid to experiment and maybe try something that may seem unorthodox. I am reminded of a tournament several years ago on Kentucky Lake where my team partner Howard Beetz was catching fish on a Bomber Long A in a Firetiger color in ultra clear water. Firetiger is a color best suited for stained or muddy water. We went on to finish 7th in a field of over 200 boats, and several of our key fish came on that particular lure. When I asked Howard why he thought the bigger fish were hitting that Long A he simply said, “In that clear water, they haven’t seen very many of them.” In this sport, there are no absolutes. I hope this bit of information will help you on your next trip to the water. Be careful and catch one for me. See you on the water!
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Turn Feelings Into Flowers
The Garden Gate Florist Now Open In Monroe.
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O-OWNERS JON NICHOLSON, AMF, PCF, and James Nicholson are proud to announce the opening of their new venture, The Garden Gate Florist. Jon and James own and operate The Florist of Covington in Covington, LA and are now expanding their operation to include Monroe, which is Jon’s former home. Jon Nicholson previously lived in Monroe for nearly twenty-five years and was associated with Les Petites Fleurs for thirteen years. He looks forward to being back in his hometown and serving his former clients as well as building new relationships in the coming years. Jon is the current Louisiana State Florist Association’s Designer of the Year and also held that title in 2010. He won second place in the Mid-America Cup competition in 2011 as
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well as numerous other industry awards. He is an Arkansas Master Florist and a Professional Certified Florist as well as a Louisiana Licensed Florist. He has been a floral designer for thirty years and is a graduate of several design schools. James Nicholson holds an Associate of Applied Arts degree and spent most of his career in the fashion industry as a designer for several major labels before joining Jon in the floral industry. He is a Louisiana Licensed Florist and brings his vast art and design experience to his floral artistry. Garden Gate offers imported and domestic fresh flowers, dried flowers, permanent botanicals, soy candles and gifts for all occasions. Stop by and visit with Jon and James and their friendly staff and look at what they have to
offer. Your custom silk designs and special orders are welcomed. The Garden Gate Florist will be located at 1820 Tower Drive in Monroe and will provide a full range of floral services from fairytale weddings and distinctive sympathy tributes, corsages, gourmet food baskets and fresh cut flowers for every occasion. Look for Jon and James to announce their Grand Opening in the near future. The Garden Gate Florist is located at 1820 Tower Drive in Monroe. (318)398-0062 www.gardengatemonroe.com.
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Put Your Poker Face On For Tensas Academy Mark Your Calendars For the Lake Bruin Poker Run on June 16th
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OIN US SATURDAY, JUNE 16, 2013, FOR THE 4TH ANNUAL “Lake Bruin Poker Run” benefitting Tensas Academy, St. Joseph, LA. This year’s event will be held from 4:00 to 7:00 p.m. at Lake Bruin in St. Joseph, LA. Participants can win $500.00 prize money while taking advantage of beautiful Lake Bruin. With over 200 participants last year, this year is sure to be even bigger and better! Scorecards can be purchased prior to the Poker Run for $50.00 at Netterville Landing, Lake Bruin Grocery, Cross Keys Bank (St. Joseph Branch) or Lake Bruin Country Club. Online purchases may also be made at www.lakebruinpokerrun.eventsbrite.com. There is no limit on the number of scorecards participants can purchase and the more purchased, the better chances to win! The day of the Poker Run, get your team together, decide your course and head out on the lake to designated piers where you will find a variety of food, drinks and fun! Whether traveling by boat or car, there is no restriction on how teams get to each pier. Travel to all 5 participating Poker Run piers (in any order) and “draw” a card for your poker hand. Take your time
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traveling to different docks and visit with other boats along the way- there is plenty of time to play! Once all of your cards are gathered, turn your scorecard in at the last pier you visited and head to Netterville Landing for the Captain’s Party at 7:30 p.m. Food and drinks are available for purchase while cards are scored to determine the winning hand. Prizes are also awarded for second and third places, so make sure to be there for the announcement! Although you do not have to be present to win, you don’t want to miss the “party on the lake” at Netterville Landing that benefits a good cause. For more information about the “Lake Bruin Poker Run,” visit us at www.lakebruinpokerrun.eventbrite.com, find us on facebook or email us at poker@tensasacademy.org. Lake Bruin offers events throughout the summer. Revive 5 on Memorial Weekend a 5k on Lake Bruin. Farmers Market in St. Joseph 7noon every Saturday Memorial Weekend - Labor Day. Annual Boomin’ on Bruin Fireworks Show to be held on Friday July 5 at 9:00 p.m.
May Is National Melanoma Awareness Month
Be Healthy. Be Beautiful.
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BY JANINE HOPKINS, MD
E HEALTHY. BE BEAUTIFUL IS THE wording that is incorporated into my logo for Hopkins Dermatology. But more than just words, a heightened dedication and emphasis on skin cancer treatment and prevention for men and women through protection and rejuvenation remains the priority of my practice.” ~ Dr. M. Janine Hopkins
ARE YOU AT RISK? 1. As a teenager, did you work at least three summers outdoors? 2. Have you had three or more blistering sunburns before age 20? 3. Do you have red or blond hair, and fair skin that burns easily? 4. Do you have lots of freckles on your upper back?
5. Has anyone in your family had melanoma? 6. Do you have rough, red spots on parts of your body that are seldom, or never exposed to the sun? If you answered “YES” to only three of these questions, then your risk of developing melanoma is 20-25 times higher than that of the general population. WARNING SIGNS: • Any mole or skin lesion changing in shape, size or color • Any mole or skin lesion that itches, scabs or bleeds • Any new or existing mole that looks different than other "normal" moles: the "ugly duckling" sign. • One of the ABCDE warning signs
A stands for ASYMMETRY; one half unlike the other half. B stands for BORDER; irregular, scalloped or poorly defined border. C stands for COLOR; varied from one area to another; shades of tan and brown, black,sometimes white, red, or blue. D stands for DIAMETER; while melanomas are usually greater than 6mm (the size of a pencil eraser) when diagnosed, they can be smaller. E stands for EVOLVING; a mole or skin lesion that looks different from the rest or is changing in size, shape or color. Make an appointment with Dr. Hopkins if you have one or more of the ABCDE traits and all new growths. Visit our website to view photos of ABCDE examples.
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Thank You to Our Supporters
Thanks to Our Sponsors and Patrons, This Year’s Fashion Fusion Was a Huge Success
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HE CHILDREN’S COALITION FOR NORTHEAST Louisiana and the Debbie Bourg Dancers would like to express their sincere gratitude to everyone involved in the Third Annual Fashion Fusion. Community support went well beyond our expectations. The production, which was performed to a sold-out crowd, was absolutely amazing! Eleven area boutiques were featured as the dancers and models “Rocked the Runway.” The entire performance was choreographed with high energy modeling segments that fused into the spectacular dance routines. The guests enjoyed chart-toping hits from the Motown era through today! “We wanted the audience feel as though they were at an actual concert during Fashion Week,” quoted choreographers, Debbie Bourg, Kelsey Bourg Tanner and Mackenzie Salter. As everyone entered the main lobby of the West Monroe Convention Center, they were awed by the mannequin center piece around the piano, which was played by our very own Debbie Bourg Dancer, Katie Counts. They were also able to view some amazing art pieces by Lissy Sanders Compton and mingle around the lobby as they awaited the start of the show. Sixteen local Celebrity Models, forty-five store models, and fifty dancers participated in the event. Local salons, Rain the Salon & Day Spa and Hair Solutions, gave of their time and talent to do hair and make-up for the models and dancers, giving them the experience of a professional production. It was quite amazing to see how it all came together. Numerous hours of rehearsals, planning and coordinating from everyone involved definitely paid off! We were truly honored to host an event showcasing the tremendous talent in our area. The Children’s Coalition along with the dancers, models, and salons came together to create a unique way of raising awareness for those children in need. The Debbie Bourg Dancers were so thankful to be partnered with the Children’s Coalition for such a meaningful opportunity! We would especially like to thank our sponsors for helping make this event possible: Community Trust Bank, Entergy, Vantage Health Plan, Skyjacker Suspensions, Glenwood Regional Medical Center and Lisa and Beryl Richardson. For videos of the show, please contact Showcase Productions. Photos are available for viewing and/or purchasing online at stevenpalowsky.zenfolio.com
What’s In Bloom
P. Allen Smith gives us three ideas for garden-inspired wedding bouquets.
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edding season is upon us. The months of May and June usher in a bevy of blushing brides, which means there are parties to plan, menus to create and of course – my personal favorite – bouquets to be made. Whether you’re having a grand affair or opting for a small intimate ceremony, the most important floral aspect is the bride’s bouquet. It should not only be a reflection of the bride and her personal taste, but of the setting, the décor and her attire. Traditionally, the bride’s bouquet is also a gift from the groom. While modern planning practices and convenience have led most bride’s to select the style, color and blooms they want, some grooms still opt to present her with the bouquet on the big day. In either case, I’ve found fresh flowers from the garden along with a few stems from my local florist make simple, no-fuss bouquets that are equally elegant and fitting for the occasion. By selecting from what is in season and readily available, you will not only create a bouquet that is natural and indigenous to your area, but you may also save a few dollars. Here a few of my favorite choices for memorable spring and summer bouquets.
Something Blue The color blue is meant to symbolize loyalty and honor. As a child, I loved the beautiful blue hydrangeas my mother grew in a shaded area of our yard. Today, I use the same type of cut stems to create simple, yet stunning arrangements. The lacy blossoms of the large flowers will add a touch of femininity, selecting the true blue color completes the ancient rhyme. Another great thing about hydrangeas is they are readily available almost year-round. If you don’t grow hydrangeas in your own garden or if they aren’t in bloom when you need them, you’re almost certain to find them by putting a call in to your local florist or even paying a visit to your local supermarket. Because hydrangeas are so full, you’ll only need a few stems to create a lush bouquet. It’s important to know Hydrangeas do have a tendency to lose their vitality, so you’ll want to keep them in a cool place and give them plenty of water after they are cut. If possible, cut them the morning of the wedding to ensure the freshest bouquet. Use floral ribbon to bind them together, and then finish with an elegant satin ribbon in a coordinating shade of blue, green or cream to complete the bouquet.
Spring Mix This time of year there are so many stars in the garden, it can be hard to choose just one. For a mixed bouquet, I recommend blending roses, tulips and ranunculus. Perhaps the most readily available of the three – and perhaps found in your own garden – are roses. With more varieties, shapes, sizes and colors than you can dream, roses are a natural choice for wedding bouquets, whether you’re having a casual backyard celebration or a formal church wedding. If you don’t have roses in your garden, again they are one of the easiest flowers to find in a floral shop or grocery yearround. To start this mixed bouquet, you’ll want at least six to eight stems. Next, I like to blend the roses with tulips. Similar in size, tulips bring a different texture to the mix. It’s also a great way to add in a different color easily. Again, I recommend six to eight stems. You want the bouquet to be full, but not burdensome for the bride. Finally, add ranunculus to fill any gaps or spaces between
the larger blooms. The paper-thin petals, which unfold in multiple layers, will coordinate beautifully with the rose stems. If you want to create a monochromatic bouquet, find out specifically what will be available (either in your garden or at the florist) and create your scheme from there. All of these choices also make for beautiful multi-colored bouquets, which can highlight your wedding color palette.
Singular Sensation There are a number of reasons to love peonies. For starters, they are one of the hardiest and most resilient plants in the garden. Second, they are also one of the most gorgeous. With large, full blooms, a soft fragrant scent and a variety of colors it’s easy to see why they often top the list for bridal bouquets. What’s more their prime time for blooming starts in mid-May and runs through June—perfect for the wedding season. If you plan to cut peonies from the garden, I suggest selecting half-opened blooms, simply because they will last longer. You also want to cut the flowers early in the morning before the heat of the day. If the heads are heavy with dew, be sure to gently shake them to remove the water. Cut 12-15 stems to bouquet length and bind with your favorite ribbon. As I mentioned, peonies come in a range of colors from cream to cranberry. If you’re going for a more demure bouquet, select soft white blooms to blend with the bride’s dress and add a subtle touch of elegance. Bold pink is a popular choice for contemporary celebrations. Use them alone for the bouquet and then mix with other brightly colored stems, such as belles of Ireland, yellow and orange garden roses or vividly hued anemones, for larger arrangements. No matter what blooms you choose, remember to keep your bouquet away from heat and direct light. If possible, you may want to store in a fridge or cooler. Also, be sure to give cut stems access to water by placing them in a shallow vase or misting occasionally. Know your garden and its blooming times and also be in touch with local florist or market, and you’re sure to have beautiful blooms for the special day.
Easy-to-Grow Cut Flowers
Whether you’re saying “I do” in Spring, Summer or Fall, there are a bounty of blooms in season and ready for the cutting. Here are a few of my favorite, easy-to-grow stems for these three seasons. Spring Daffodils – If you’ve been to my farm, you know daffodils are one of my favorites. Plant the bulbs in the late Fall, and you’ll enjoy vases full of the yellow charmers as soon as the temperatures begin to warm. Roses – Perhaps the most sought-after cut flower, no cutting garden is complete without a few rose bushes. Summer Dahlias – One of the most cheerful blooms in the garden, you’ll want to plant your dahlias around the same time you put tomatoes in the ground. You can expect to have cut flowers from late Summer until the first frost. Lilies – Lilies will come back year after year and be prolific producers of open full blooms. White Oriental lilies make for an elegant and fragrant bouquet. For the best color selection choose an Asiatic variety. Zinnias – Plant zinnias and you’ll enjoy a bounty of wildflower-like beauty from early summer until the first frost. I like cutting these and loosely arranging a mason jar for an effortless look. For a bouquet, I suggest tying with natural raffia. Fall Sunflowers – An iconic symbol of the close of Summer and start of Fall, cut a few sunflower stalks and loosely assemble with ribbon for a tied bouquet or simply enjoy their beauty in tall metal or glass vase. Cockscomb – With a vase life of 5-10 days, cockscomb’s modern look makes for a hardy bouquet. Mix with other seasonal selections from your florist or market, such as button mums, for a Fall display.
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Non-invasive Fat Removal
CoolSculpting Available at Mickel Plastic Surgery
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BY TIMOTHY J. MICKEL, MD, FACS
T FIRST GLANCE,YOU MIGHT THINK THESE PHOTOS ARE from the LSU Primate Research Center or are an example of a failed attempt at laser hair removal. But ignore the fur and look closer. The top photograph shows a 54 year-old man who, in spite of a healthy diet and an aggressive exercise regimen, still has localized fat collections in the “love handle� area. These have bothered him since kindergarten at St. Christopher’s Day School when the fat collections were much larger, fortified by graham crackers, cupcakes and Hostess Twinkies often donated by slender, boney classmates who would only eat pimento cheese sandwiches on white bread, cut catty-cornered with the crust trimmed off. He learned to hide them over the years by leaving his shirttail out and by swimming in a t-shirt. The adolescent growth spurt and high school athletics made him slimmer overall, but the love handles persisted. In college, fast food and beer drinking gave most of his fraternity brothers love handles too, so he fit right in. In medical school, he was too busy to worry about love handles, and he was inside for four years anyway, so who cared?
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During eight years of surgical training he stayed in the hospital every third night. Vanilla ice cream and Ensure milkshakes became a dietary staple, which added a spare tire to the love handles. Finally, he became a plastic surgeon and briefly considered devising a system of mirrors that would allow him to perform his own liposuction. But he was afraid something that sensational might end up on the front page of the National Enquirer along with alien abductions, the antics of Bat Boy and dried up celebrities in unflattering bathing suits. He decided that maybe someday he would return to his training program in Dallas and have one of his colleagues perform liposuction, but a wife, five kids and a busy practice made it hard to find time for elective surgery, compression garments and limited activity. The years went by and in spite of diet and exercise, he figured he would just have to live with his localized fat collections – until he learned of a new technique to remove fat non-invasively, by freezing it. By now you’ve probably figured out that I am the patient in the pictures. The photo on the right is after two CoolSculpt treatments to the love handle areas. CONTINUED ON PAGE 132
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What’s Happening at River Oaks School? Calling All Future Pre-K 4 Students!
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PEN ENROLLMENT FOR PRE-K 4 is going on now. School tours are offered by appointment and space is limited, so call the office at 343-4185 to set up your appointment. Come and take a look at the exciting place where Mustang pride begins. ELEMENTARY Elementary students grades K-5 recently celebrated the third quarter Awards’ Day with many students receiving honors for all A’s, A’s and B’s and Character Counts awards. Juniors Libby Herman, Brent Charles Alexander and Annie Stinson gave outstanding speeches on fairness, self-discipline and perseverance. Accelerated Reading parties are underway celebrating top honorees in the Accelerated Reading program. In May, those who earn 100 points will get to go to the Duck Dynasty Ware-
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house headquarters! Everyone is working hard for the fourth and final Awards’ Day as well as the end of the year class programs and the allimportant end of the year parties! MIDDLE SCHOOL AND HIGH SCHOOL Several students recently competed in the MAIS Academic Betterment Competition and the Louisiana District Literary Rally. Twentytwo of our high school scholars placed at the Louisiana Tech High School Literary Rally, qualifying to participate at the State Rally at LSU in Baton Rouge on April 20, 2013. The quiz bowl team won the MAIS district tournament on March 21 and is preparing for state competitions.
SPORTS Mustang Tennis, Track and Golf teams are
in full swing for Spring competition. Spring football practice has begun for both JV and Varsity squads in preparation for the kick off of the 2013 Mustang football season in August. Coach Stockton will be hosting his annual basketball camp May 28-31 for basketball players grades K-12. SPIRIT GROUPS Spirit groups have been elected! Varsity and JV cheerleaders as well as the Varsity dance line (the Sun Dance Kids) and the JV dance line (the Sunsations) are preparing for summer camps in May. The girls are getting ready for Fall pep rallies, a Friday tradition for ALL Mustangs!
If you are interested in being part of all the wonderful things happening at River Oaks, call to schedule a tour (343-4185). Come see all the great things in store for River Oaks students of all ages! Mustang pride prevails from beginning to end! River Oaks School-striving for excellence in academics, the arts, and athletics. (Our Mission). River Oaks School has a nondiscriminatory, open admissions policy.
More Than Meets The Eye
Daily Press... For All Your Daily Favorites
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BY JOHN WILLIAM DYE
AILY PRESS IS THE KIND OF PLACE THAT SNEAKS UP on you. I walked in expecting a gas station, but what I found was some of the most technologically advanced food service in northern Louisiana. In a surprised daze, I ordered a “Cajun Turkey Po’boy” on a touch-screen kiosk, but the biggest shock was yet to come: the food wasn’t just good, it was excellent. It was absolutely nothing like what I’d expected to find in a place with fuel pumps out front. For a while, I could only wander around and marvel at the other things Daily Press offered: the self-serve espresso bar, the display cases parading ornate cupcakes and the array of 21 naturally-flavored frozen yogurts complete with sweets and fresh fruit toppings. My only problem came later when I was trying to describe what I’d discovered to my friends. “It’s like this gas station that does pressed sandwiches, except it’s more like a sandwich shop with killer coffee… or maybe a frozen yogurt place with a specialty bakery, but that’s not really it either… Okay, look. Just get in the car. I’ll show you.” In reality, Daily Press is a sly combination of amenities neatly folded into a Chevron station. I’d call it a food-service playhouse for adults, but if the after-school snack rush is any indication, the kids get a kick out of it, too. This versatile approach means you run into people visiting Daily Press for all kinds of reasons. There are teachers grabbing breakfast before school and chatty couples on casual lunch breaks, as well as whole little league teams throwing post-game frozen yogurt celebrations, etc. I’m usually in there for my morning espresso. They have just added new outdoor seating, and I like to sit out there with my coffee and watch the world wake up. I say this without equivocation: Daily Press has the best brew in town. And if you’re stopping by for breakfast, you’ve got to try the orange juice, too. Nothing says “freshlysqueezed” like a machine that automatically juices a dozen whole oranges right in front of you to fill your cup. I get mine with a breakfast burrito. Daily Press is a prototype for a new kind of establishment. It’s difficult to say exactly what it is, because nothing like it really existed before. It’s a model based on personalization and freshness, all mediated through the conveniences of technology. If you want a custom salad (hard-boiled egg, feta cheese, crasins and ham) with a bowl of broccoli-cheese soup (add chicken and tomato), you simply make your selection exactly as you want it on a touch-screen kiosk and a server will prepare it fresh to order. If you want an iced caramel-apple mocha, the semi-automated espresso bar is awaiting your command. Greek yogurt parfait with strawberries and granola? It’s all there. So if you're ready for one heck of a surprise, check out the Daily Press on the corner of Hwy 165 and Forsythe Extension in Monroe. You’ll be amazed at what you’ll find in that unassuming Chevron station.
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A Perfect Mother’s Day Gift Mammography From North Louisiana’s First Breast Imaging Center of Excellence BY PAM BRATTON, APRN, FNP-C
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E NOW HAVE EXCELLENT long-term data establishing that 95% of screen-detected breast cancers diagnosed before they reach 1.5 cm are curable. But that same research indicates that we must commence rigorous treatment on one class of these cancers or they will almost certainly be fatal (1). Breast cancer is a biologic process and, as such, tumor growth is a process. Another recent study found that the time for a tumor to grow from 1.0 cm to 2.0 cm, though highly variable, averaged about 1.7 years. This study, however, also found that the tumor growth rate for younger women was faster than in older women (2). The more we understand about this disease, the more we realize just how important early detection is to patient survival. Very few cancers that are under 1.5 cm can be felt, meaning that they must be detected by imaging, and this fact focuses attention on screening. If the healthcare provider cannot see
the cancer, he or she cannot diagnose the disease. This seemingly simple fact is at the heart of early detection. Just as every woman is different, every woman’s mammogram is different. The ability to see a possible abnormality on a mammogram may range from approximately 50% in some women, to over 98% in others, dependent upon tissue density. Interpreting those mammograms requires physicians who are not only extremely aware of the different imaging manifestations of breast cancer and whose abilities are reinforced by the opportunity to see a large number and variety of breast cancers each year, but who also have ready access to additional imaging technologies when they may be indicated. Nothing is more important to early detection than patients, who take seriously the commitment to obtain annual screening mammograms at 12-month intervals, and dedicated radiologists, who manage each patient’s
screening and diagnostic process and expertly interpret each patient’s images. These physicians will routinely go beyond image interpretation, to factor in the individual patient’s history and relative indications of risk. Importantly, they recognize that, for the patient, there is no such thing as a routine mammogram. Where necessary, they will recommend further imaging. It takes real commitment to provide excellent care. In the case of breast disease, excellent care may mean the difference between affecting a cure, or not. The Kitty DeGree Breast Health Center and Kitty DeGree Breast Health Imaging are committed to excellence in meeting the early detection goal. Driving this level of commitment requires educated patients who are willing to demand the best-and who are willing to seek it. We are privileged to serve these patients. Happy Mother’s Day! CONTINUED ON PAGE 129
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ilk and honey voices float out over the melodic sounds of a steel guitar and mandolin. The ethereal creatures with the enchanting voices and stellar musical talent exude the kind of charisma that seems divinely inspired. These are The Field Larks. They may be achingly beautiful, but they have their cowgirl boots firmly planted. “We don’t want to get on stage with an electric guitar and drums and a bass and call ourselves a country music band. That’s not country. That’s not who we are. And we don’t want to be something we aren’t,” explains Monroe native Analeise Reeves, who makes up one half of the duo, along with fellow Southern belle Keely Raquel. These Field Larks have every reason to be happy. Although most musicians and songwriters spend years struggling to find recognition in Nashville, it hasn’t taken long for these ladies to put Music City under their spell. After a few short months of singing in the clubs on Music Row, The Field Larks have inked a deal with Big Yellow Dog Music and are well on their way to the big time. Reeves says that the Larks were in the right place at the right time. Maybe it was fate. Maybe it was divine intervention. However you want to look at it, it seems like it was just meant to be. Her last name may be familiar to locals, but her musical talent is uncommonly incredible. The songbird is the daughter Amanda and Donald Reeves of Monroe and granddaughter of fashionista Linda Reeves, owner of the long-standing and always stylish boutique, Signatures, on Forsythe. Born and bred in Monroe, music has always been a passion for Reeves. As a child, she excelled in piano and began composing at the tender age of ten. Her ethereal voice was striking and could be heard in the church and school choirs. Reeves graduated from Neville High School and earned a degree in Marketing from LSU. But don’t let that angelic appearance fool you—
she is undeniably intelligent, intensely driven and brave beyond measure. She could have plotted out a career in any field and found success, but her Music City dreams were irresistible. Unlike many hopefuls with country music dreams in Nashville, Reeves holds her own by working in an upscale boutique that boasts celebrity clients like Nicole Kidman and Sheryl Crow. Though a career in fashion is a solid backup plan, it seems as though music is in her DNA. In fact, her mother had plans to pursue opera when she was accepted to Juilliard in New York City. However, the news of Analiese’s impending arrival changed the course of her destiny. Now, that bouncing baby girl has charted her own path to fulfill those melodic dreams. Reeves moved to Nashville shortly after graduating in Baton Rouge knowing that the competition would be stiff. “Everyone there is a writer. Everyone is trying to make it in music. You are literally competing with thousands,” she explains. Armed with unmistakable talent and charisma, Reeves made friends easily and soon got the lay of the land. She hadn’t been in town long when a friend invited her to “Writer’s Day” at a Nashville Sounds baseball game to meet Keely Raquel, a young, fair-haired beauty who would be singing the national anthem that day. That meeting would quickly prove to be a game changer. Raquel, from Panama City Beach, FL, possessed an angelic voice and a bubbly personality that Reeves instantly responded to. The two beauties discussed the idea of working together, and after the game, began to spend time together. It didn’t take long for them to realize that this pairing was special. A true duo, both women contribute vocals and music, with Reeves on piano and tambourine and Raquel on guitar. Things seemed to be falling into place. But it wasn’t until they began to compose songs together until they knew for sure that fate had intervened. From that very first song, The Field Larks were hatched. “We loved the way our voices and harmonies sounded together. We liked the way we wrote together. It just kind of clicked,” recalls Reeves with the glint ~ Analeise Reeves of a smile. “The first song we wrote together was The Lightweight,” she says with a sense of pride. If The Lightweight is any indication of what is to come, these two are definitely on the right path. Together the women sculpted a song that is clever, engaging and displays their charming sense of humor. They spin a story about a boyfriend who is about to get the boot for talking big but behaving anything but. They call him out for boasting to his friends that he spends his nights wading in whiskey, when actually he has emptied his girlfriend’s supply of Skinnygirl, the trendy low-cal beverage marketed toward females, and passed out on the couch just after sundown. They
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chide him for not being able to hold his liquor and “drinking my Skinnygirl and acting like one, too.” The song is more than impressive for a first run. The Lightweight is musically memorable and lyrically irresistible. It’s just the kind of pro-girl tune that will have the ladies rolling down their car windows and singing at the tops of their lungs. However, the bluegrass influenced instrumentation is polished and wise beyond its years. If this is just the beginning, the duo is certain to have a bright future ahead. “Keely is a huge believer in social media,” Reeves says, “So she put The Lightweight on Twitter. It got a lot of positive attention, and we were really excited. The next thing we knew, Bethenny Frankel’s assistant had sent us an email.” Frankel is the American television celebrity behind Skinnygirl products, notably the Skinnygirl Cocktails of which the Larks mention in The Lightweight. The Larks received word that Frankel had heard their song and loved it, and she wanted to know if there was a music video for the Lark’s track that she could share on her Skinnygirl product website and Twitter account. “We did not have a video for the track yet,” Reeves explains. “But we said, “Of course we do!” And we went out the next day and made a video for three hundred dollars!” The video, which is viewable on You Tube and www.thefieldlarks.com, was sent to Frankel, who then posted it to her own social media sites. Reeves and Raquel were giddy with excitement, but The Lightweight was about to bring them even more good fortune. It was now necessary for Reeves to affiliate herself with BMI (Broadcast Music, Inc.), so that her songwriting credits would be protected. Raquel guided her friend through the process, and the two proudly showed their video to the BMI staff. As soon as BMI executive Clay Bradley watched The Lightweight, he was blown away. Bradley’s interest was a giant coup. He is well-respected in the business and known for being the grandson of Owen Bradley, the man who not only discovered the legendary Patsy Cline, but is also credited as creating the modern “Nashville Sound.” Reeves reveals that “when Clay heard our song and watched our video, he said, “I don’t know exactly what it is, but you two have something special.” He immediately called his colleagues at Sony and Big Yellow Dog Music and arranged meetings for the women. In early April, The Field Larks signed a development deal with Big Yellow Dog. They strongly believe in the Larks and assist them in developing their musical and vocal talents and boosting their media exposure and marketing strategies. As a smaller more independent company, they can focus more intently on their artists and nurture their creativity in a way that a large firm cannot. The decision was an important choice for the duo and feeling at home with Big Yellow Dog was a big factor in the decision making process. The road ahead is not entirely certain, but these gifted artists have the confidence and drive to make their dreams a reality. Reeves and Raquel will continue to write songs and perform with their band around Nashville to gain exposure. With talent and charisma like theirs, a record deal can’t be too far in the future. These brave young women are just beginning to stretch their wings in Music City’s vast sky. However, it won’t be long until the whole world will be able to watch them soar. Listen to and learn more about The Field Larks on their website, www.thefieldlarks.com, and follow them on Twitter and Facebook for all the latest on their progress in Nashville.
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Antidepressant Meds Not Working for You?
Dr. Calvin Walker Can Help You Find Your Way Back to the True You.
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LTHOUGH ANTIDEPRESSANTS CAN BE EFFECTIVE FOR many patients, they do not work for everybody. Additionally, since antidepressant medications are typically taken by mouth, they circulate in the blood stream throughout the body often resulting in unwanted side effects such as weight gain, sexual problems, upset stomach, sleepiness and dry mouth. More than 4 million patients do not receive adequate benefits from antidepressants and/or cannot tolerate the side effects caused by them. While antidepressant medications are the most common treatment for depression; there are alternatives. Dr. Calvin Walker, M.D. offers this alternative with TMS therapy. This treatment provides targeted stimulation of the brain regions involved in mood regulation without the burden of systematic side effects. TMS stands for “transcranial magnetic stimulation.” This breakthrough depression treatment uses a highly focused, pulsed magnetic field, similar in type and strength to those produced by a magnetic resonance imaging (MRI) machine, to stimulate function in brain regions known to affect mood. Dr. Calvin Walker is one of only three doctors in the state of Louisiana who can offer NeuroStar TMS Therapy. TMS Therapy is an FDA approved treatment for patients who have not achieved satisfactory improvement from prior antidepressant medications. It is non-invasive which means that it does not involve surgery or require anesthesia or sedation, as well as non-systematic which means it is not taken by mouth and does not circulate in the bloodstream causing unwanted side effects. The typical treatment course consists of 5 treatments per week over a 4-6 week period for an average of 20-30 total treatments. Each session lasts approximately 40 minutes. Depression is a serious medical illness affecting more than 14 million American adults every year. It results in a persistent state of sadness that may interfere with an individual’s thoughts, behaviors, mood and physical health. Symptoms can include: • Lack of interest in or pleasure from activities typically enjoyed • Feelings of worthlessness, hopelessness, helplessness or guilt • Significant weight gain or weight loss • Difficulty thinking or concentrating • Changes in sleep habits and energy levels
If you or anyone you know is suffering from depression, call Dr. Calvin Walker at 318.323.0700!
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Moving Ahead at JGS
Jesus the Good Shepherd Catholic School Congratulates Sixth Grade Graduates
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ONGRATULATIONS TO OUR sixth grade graduates! We are so proud of them and will miss them next year when they move on junior high. Most will be attending St. Frederick, and we look forward to seeing them at events throughout the school year and beyond! Our sixth grade graduates for 2012-2013 are Jacob Allbritton, Abbey Amos, Bailey Barham, Larkin Barham, Connor Biglane, Mary Kathryn Breard, Krystyn Bondad, Emily Brinkerhoff, Emily Brodtman, Ladell Brown, Zach Burton, Tommy Calvo, Clayton Coon, John Cordell, Gavin Corder, Kelsy Cross, Kurt David, Emalie Dickey, Charlie Dickey, Frances Doyle, Isabella Eberts, Grant Evans, Savannah Frantz, John Tyler Gault, Katie Maude Gerhardt, Ben Hopper, Julian James, Annie Juneau, Tyler Kincaid, Samuel
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Lavespere, Auburn Morgan, Sophie Morstead, Abby Perkins, Lauren Petrus, Jett Polk, Maggie Potgieter, Callie Shaw, Zachary Shaw, Maddie Sitton, Ford Sparks, Griffin Steverson, Gabby Trejo, Evan Venable Thomas Williams. Congratulations, sixth grade! Jesus the Good Shepherd School summer camp program will begin May 30 and run through July 26th. This fun and educational program for JGS students enrolled in the 20132014 school year is open to Pre-Kindergarten through sixth grade children, is supervised by certified teachers and teachers' aides, and is filled with exciting activities! Field trips to the Louisiana Purchase Gardens and Zoo, Ouachita Parish Public Library Main Branch, Skatetown and Tinseltown Movie Theater are all on the agenda. When not taking awesome field
trips, children will have plenty of fun games, playground equipment and planned activities to keep them busy and having fun as well as yummy snacks served daily! Each week will have a different theme, and the children will learn through fun, educational and creative theme oriented games, crafts, programs and music as well as pretend play! Summer camp is open to all students enrolled in the 2013-2014 school year, so be sure to contact the school for more information on becoming a part of the JGS family! School tours are available every Tuesday at 9:00 a.m. or by appointment. Classes are filling up quickly; call now to get your child enrolled at Jesus the Good Shepherd School.
Restoring A Youthful Smile Dr. David Finley Gives You Smile Power
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HE AMERICAN POPULATION IS GETTING OLDER. People are living longer lives than any time in the world's history. At the turn-of-the-century, an American could expect to live to be about 49 years old. By 1999, this expected lifespan had grown dramatically to over 76 years. We can expect this trend to continue on through the years with the advent of better health care, better nutrition and a better understanding of the aging process. A number of things occur as we age. We may gain weight, lose weight, our eyesight and hearing deteriorate and our mental and physical dexterity sometimes also diminishes. Our faces also age and can become less youthful in appearance. One important aspect of aging occurs as teeth wear down and shift. This creates a decreased vertical dimension (The distance from your nose to your chin) and changes in lip support. When vertical dimension and lip support is lost, a loss of muscle tone in the face may occur. This loss in muscle tone can lead to changes in some facial features away from the mouth, including the area around the eyes. All of
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these aspects of facial aging can have a profound effect on a person's psychological and emotional wellbeing as well. Restoration of the age worn dentition (smile creation) has the potential to make patients look younger by re-creating lost lip support, rebuilding lost vertical dimension and allowing more tooth to show in the patient's smile. The care of our rapidly aging population may very well prove to be one of the largest challenges that cosmetic dentists will face in the future. Dentists providing this type of treatment must be well educated in the latest cosmetic techniques and materials and must also have a comprehensive knowledge of how our teeth function without creating damaging stresses to our bones, muscles and teeth. If you feel that you have an age–worn smile that is taking away the youthful appearance you once had, then perhaps modern-day smile creation is just what the doctor ordered.
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Add a Little Salt and Pepper to Your Style
Salt and Pepper On Antique Alley Is Bursting at the Seams with New Arrivals
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ALT & PEPPER, LOCATED IN THE heart of Antique Alley, has been known for their vast selection of different and affordable shoes since they opened in 2009. Their new location in the Old Mill Building on Trenton Street has become the hot spot for accessories, vintage-wear, shoes, clothing, gifts and much more! Right now, their store on Antique Alley is bursting at the seams with Spring shoes in every style and color. Whether you are looking for that perfect shoe to complete an outfit or just want something to brighten your Spring wardrobe, Salt & Pepper has a huge selection to choose from. A favorite for Spring is brightly colored wedges. Wedges are perfect for those numerous parties and events, because they are comfy and easy to wear but still add the slimming effect of a heel. Salt & Pepper has plenty to choose from!
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Or maybe you need a cute, flat sandal for chasing your kids around the park. Salt & Pepper has tons! Another favorite this season is bright colored oxfords. These are great for days when your pedicure isn’t as fresh as it should be. Salt & Pepper has those too! Again, no matter what your personal style is or what outfit you’re trying to match, you will want to check out Salt & Pepper’s huge selection. If you’re a fan of Salt & Pepper on facebook, you will see pictures of new arrivals as soon as they come through the doors. The good thing about their facebook page is you can keep up with new deliveries and call to snag your favorites before they are gone. They can even ship them right to your door! For a limited time, Salt & Pepper is offering $5 flat rate shipping to anywhere in the US…no matter how much you order or where in the US it is shipping to! That’s
yet another reason to “like” their page. (www.facebook.com/saltandpepperboutique) Salt & Pepper is now on instagram too! Follow along @saltandpepperboutique. The Salt & Pepper girls say their shoes sell out very quickly, so don’t wait. Have you checked out the new store yet? Stop by and visit their new space, which is full of new, Spring shoes, clothes, jewelry and other favorites like Lenny & Eva, Natural Life and the vintage collection. Salt & Pepper now carries Tan Towels, too! Get a magnificent glow without the damaging sun exposure! Be sure to check out those Tan Towels and all of the great new, Spring merchandise in stock. The new store is located at 400 Trenton St. in West Monroe – in the Old Mill Building right as you come in to Antique Alley!
Total Lifestyle Makeover
Louisiana Center For Weight Loss Surgery Offers Local Weight Loss Surgery With Peace of Mind
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HILE BARIATRIC SURGERY CAN BE COSTLY, FOR some individuals the benefits are immeasurable! It is estimated that only 5% of individuals who participate in non-surgical weight loss programs will lose a significant amount of weight and maintain that weight loss over an extended period of time. Those statistics can be overwhelming for someone struggling with morbid obesity and its health risks. Obesity-related health conditions are health risks that, whether alone or in combination, can significantly reduce your life expectancy. A partial list of some of the more common obesity related health conditions are Type II diabetes, high blood pressure, high cholesterol, osteoarthritis, depression, sleep apnea, reflux and infertility. These and other health risks can be significantly improved by weight loss surgery, along with diet and exercise; for instance Gastric Banding (LapBand速) can resolve or improve hypertension by 70.8% and resolved or improve Type II Diabetes by 80.8%. At Louisiana Center for Weight Loss Surgery, LCWLS, Dr. Walter Sartor has completed over 800 bariatric procedures since 2007, 400 of which were the gastric sleeve. The national average weight loss after a gastric sleeve procedure is 50% of excess body weight after one year; but at LCWLS our average weight loss at one year is 67.6% of excess weight, 17.6% higher than average! To top it off, the national average for complications after the gastric sleeve procedure is 2.2%, our complication rate is less than 1%. LCWLS is accredited as a Bariatric Surgery Center of Excellence速, which represents the gold standard in quality and patient satisfaction. The Louisiana Center for Weight Loss Surgery also goes one step further with its bariatric surgery program by offering a 6 month Total Lifestyle Care (TLC) program. The TLC program will include detailed weekly weight training activities in combination with your aerobic fitness program. Our dietician will recommend meal plans along with suggested grocery items. She will also discuss food choices when eating at local restaurants. Follow-up appointments are every 6 weeks for exercise and dietary reevaluation, where program adjustments are designed to fit you. If you feel that the weight loss program at Louisiana Center for Weight Loss Surgery is right for you, please visit the LCWLS website at www.laweightlosssurgery.com or call (866) 821-LIVE for more information. Surgery of any kind is a big step, so why not have peace of mind in a familiar place with a local surgeon.
The Louisiana Center for Weight Loss Surgery is a partnership between Dr. Walter Sartor, P&S Surgical Hospital and St. Francis Medical Center.
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Child Passenger Safety 101 The ABCs of Child Restraints
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NYONE WHO HAS HAD THE JOY OF A NEW CHILD OR of a new child or new grandchild has also likely experienced the headache of choosing the “right” child safety seat, then attempting to install it correctly as well. As child passenger safety technicians, we are often asked “which child seat should I purchase?” The answer: 1) a seat that fits your child (age/height/weight/physical or developmental challenges), 2) a seat that fits your vehicle, and 3) one that is new and free of defects and recalls. While there are things you can purchase second-hand, a child seat is not one of them as the seat’s history must be known. (Has it been involved in a crash? Does it have all of its original pieces and parts?)
What type of seat fits your child? We must consider age/weight/height/developmental factors. The American Academy of Pediatrics recommends that infants/toddlers ride rear-facing up to 2 years of age or until they reach the highest weight or height limits of the restraint. That weight limit may range from 20-40 pounds depending on your child seat. From that point, children should ride in a forward-facing restraint utilizing the internal harness (this could range from 40-85 pounds depending upon the restraint). Once your child has reached those uppermost limits or the child is least 4 years of age and at least 40
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pounds, your child may graduate to a (belt-positioning) booster seat, which may be high-backed or backless, until they are 4’9” in height and the vehicle seat belt fits them correctly. Older children and all passengers should correctly utilize the vehicle’s lap and shoulder seat belts (IE: the lap belt should be on the lap area while the shoulder belt covers just that, and not placed behind the back nor under the arm). All children younger than 13 years of age should ride in the rear seat, if a seating position with a lap/shoulder belt is available.
What seats fits your vehicle? There are many factors to consider, such as number of other child restraints in use, other passengers, slope of the seats, size of the vehicle, etc. Sometimes the instruction manuals of the child safety seat and the vehicle are confusing or contradictory. CONTINUED ON PAGE 132
Pure Natural Luxury
Fiesta Nutrition Center Introduces Kate Quinn Organics Clothing For Babies and Children
QUESTION: What’s the “Spring buzz� at Fiesta? ANGIE: We’ve introduced the pure, natural luxury of organic clothing for babies and children from KATE QUINN ORGANICS. QUESTION: What is the story behind Kate Quinn? ANGIE: Kate McIntosh Quinn designed her first line of baby wear in 2005. She was one of the first to introduce the use of organic fabrics in earthy colors without sacrificing style. The response was so positive that what was once a line of baby basics had expanded to include stylish coordinates, varied colors and larger sizes for little kids.
QUESTION: What’ the “look� of this clothing line? ANGIE: Why hip AND organic of course! Colors on trend sound like they’re straight from the garden. This year’s PINSTRIPE COLLECTION is available in hues of saffron, wispy slate grey, mid-century mint and rosemary. QUESTION: What is available and what sizes? ANGIE: We stock onesies, sacques, tops, shorts, pants, and dresses in sizes 0-3 months up to 5T for girls and boys.
QUESTION: What are the advantages of choosing organic cotton? ANGIE: Promoting the use of certified organic cotton is a commitment to both fair trade and the earth. The certification requires using sustainable farming practices that maintain and replenish soil fertility without the use of toxic and persistent pesticides and fertilizers. The low-impact dyes used on this cotton contain no harsh chemicals and heavy metals. The fair-trade standards create safe, healthy and non-abusive working environments with fair wages. The end result of all these measures is a long-lasting, durable garment.
Fiesta Nutrition Center offers: baby registry, lovely complimentary gift wrap and gift certificates. Pictured wearing Kate Quinn is Scarlett Isabella, a member of the Fiesta Nutrition Center family. Fiesta Nutrition Center is located at 1211 North 18th Street in Monroe, Louisiana. Cilantro Organic Bistro is located inside and offers daily organic lunch specials. For more information, visit their website at fiestanutrition.com or call 318-387-8446.
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Celebrating 35 Years of Dance
Dance...The Dream Begins at Debbie’s School of Dance in West Monroe
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N MAY 11TH, DEBBIE CREW BOURG WILL DIRECT her 35th Annual Spring Recital! The show will be held at the Monroe Civic Center’s Jack Howard Theater at 6:30 p.m. “Let’s Rock!” is a Musical Production based on the history of Rock and Roll. You will enjoy the hits that topped the charts for the last several decades. It’s a show that will be fun for everyone! Bourg says, “My mother enrolled me in dance class at Young School of Dance at the age of 3, and I knew from the start that it was my passion. Appearances on KNOE’s Happiness Exchange, festivals, dinner theaters, local charities and pageants were some of my favorite memories. I especially loved performing at the Francis Hotel. The Grande Ballroom which encompassed the entire top floor, made you feel as though you were in Hollywood. My parents loved music, theatre and the arts, so my brother Paul and I were blessed to experience many wonderful opportunities. They were my number one fans from the beginning. They were there for each dance and piano recital, Little Theater play (Mom even joined me), cheerleading/dance team event, ballet performance and pageant. Yes, I did them all! I attribute my work ethic and determination to their loving support. One of the greatest lessons my Mom taught me was to always finish what you start, no matter how difficult it may be, and that nothing truly worthwhile is ever easy. I try to instill this in my students! I began teaching for Mary Lou Young Shepard at the age of 15. In 1978, I decided to open my own studio, Debbie’s School of Dance, at 105 Cotton Street with 75 students. Now with over 300 students, we have won national titles and performed on national television, and I have choreographed for numerous local plays, pageants and productions. One of my greatest blessings was to watch my daughter Kelsey develop into a professional dancer then return home to continue the legacy. My husband Lawrence and daughters Brittany and Kelsey join me in continuing to create a place where young people can grow into successful adults. We are committed to teach not only the Art of dance but important life lessons such as self-discipline, strong work ethics, respect, and the sharing of your talents with those less fortunate. We believe that a dancer is blessed with the most precious instrument in which to share their talent. Therefore; our motto is to “DANCE FROM THE HEART AND GIVE GOD THE GLORY!”
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We Deliver... Quality Care
Morehouse General Hospital Provides Quality Care and Delivery Services For Mothers and Babies
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OREHOUSE GENERAL HOSPITAL HAS PROUDLY SERVED residents of Northeast Louisiana and Southeast Arkansas since 1930. Delivering babies is one of the things that we do best. We love bringing new babies into the world at Morehouse General Hospital; and we are committed to providing quality healthcare before, during and after birth for all of our mothers and their babies.
Dr. Martin Young graduated from the University of London, in London, England. He completed a fellowship in pediatric endocrinology at Children’s Hospital of Boston and in 1992 was appointed Assistant Professor of Pediatrics at Tulane University Medical School. He is a member of the Endocrine Society and the American Diabetes Association. Dr. Young has practiced for more than 30 years and in 2012 joined the medical staff at Morehouse General Hospital. He is accepting new patients at his practice in Bastrop, located at 420 South Vine Street. To schedule an appointment, call (318) 283-3032
Dr. Janos Guoth graduated medical school in Hungary and relocated to the US in 1986. He completed his residency in Obstetrics and Gynecology at the University of Cincinnati, College of Medicine in Cincinnati, Ohio. Dr. Guoth has practiced in the US for more than 25 years and has been a valued member of the Morehouse General Hospital medical staff for the last 6 years. He is board certified with the American Board of Obstetrics and Gynecology. He is currently accepting new patients at his practice in Bastrop, located at 425 South Vine Street. To schedule an appointment, call (318) 281-8555. Dr. Curtis Sanders earned his medical degree from the University of Kansas, School of Medicine in 1996. He completed his internship and residency in Obstetrics and Gynecology at LSU Health Sciences Center in Shreveport in 2000. He practiced at EA Conway in Monroe for 12 years before joining the medical staff at Morehouse General Hospital. Dr. Sanders is board certified by the American Board of Obstetrics and Gynecology and is a Fellow of the American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists. He is accepting new patients at his practice in Bastrop, located at 618 South Washington. To schedule an appointment, call (318) 281-5035.
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Give Your Mother the Gift of Rejuvenation Pamper Your Mom with a Gift From Derma MediQ and Spa Nouvelle
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HE STAFF AT DERMA MEDIQ AND Spa Nouvelle create a very relaxed and serene environment with Dr. SowmaFakhre offering free initial consultations to each of her clients. Dr. Sowma-Fakhre is Board Certified in Aesthetic Medicine by the AAAM. She takes time with each client and listens as the client describes their desired result. Derma MediQ offers many non-invasive aesthetic procedures such as Botox, Juvéderm, Artefill, Radiesse, Obagi Blue Peel and Photofacials. For a full list of services see our website, www.DermaMediQ.net. Located at 1705 Lamy Lane, Derma MediQ and Spa Nouvelle have grown into a thriving Medi-Spa. The staff at Spa Nouvelle has created a peaceful setting with all the luxuries and amenities of a full day spa with the benefit of Dr. Sowma-Fakhre only a few steps away. Spa Nou-
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velle is staffed with two licensed aestheticians: Wendy Newsom and Drew Farr; three licensed massage therapists: Ana Hale, Jeanette Barron and Mary Beth Dickerson; and one licensed Nail Technician: Leigh Ann Ford. Wendy and Drew offer a variety of specialty facials from Microdermabrasion, Deep Pore Cleanse, Vitamin C facial and a Delicate facial. Each client is evaluated before the facial begins so that the exact facial the client needs can be determined. The massage services at Spa Nouvelle range from relaxation to intense deep tissue, including therapeutic sports massage. Mary Beth, Ana and Jeanette each get to know their clients so that each massage is designed specifically for that client. The Nouvelle Signature massage is the most popular massage service offered at Spa Nouvelle. Each therapist adds their own per-
sonal touch using a variety of aromatherapy, heated herbal wraps and hot moist towels. Spa Nouvelle has a private nail room with the ability to serve two clients at once. Leigh Ann’s spa pedicure is her most popular, along with her Shellac polish. The Spa Day Escape is the most popular service that Spa Nouvelle offers. It includes a day of pampering with services from each of our talented technicians. This is the perfect gift for Mother’s Day, graduation or any bride. Derma MediQ and Spa Nouvelle are open 6 days a week Monday – Saturday from 9 a.m. to 5 p.m. Spa Nouvelle is available after hours for private parties of 5 or more. Call Derma MediQ and Spa Nouvelle for details on all of our packages.
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second year, so it’s now becoming a family affair! As you’d expect, preparations for this year’s Blend are well underway. Cooks are signing up, other volunteers and sponsors have stepped in to make this the most successful event ever, raising funds to underwrite the Arts Council community outreach programs. When asked how you become a cook, Usrey replied “Periodically, we add new cooks when someone moves out of the area or can no longer participate. Seems there’s always someone who’s waiting in the wings – I think we’re really blessed with some amazing “men who cook” in our region!” Tickets to Blend of the Bayou are now on sale and may be purchased for $40 per person at the Arts Council office in West Monroe City Hall, at Community Trust Bank locations, City Apothecary in the P&S Surgery Building and The Toggery and Vieux Carre Gourmet on North 18th Street. Or, you may be interested in something with a little more panache. Because of their popularity over the years, we will once again offer area of reserved tables for our $500 Bayou Benefactors where you can entertain 8 guests or clients with no fuss or cleanup at home. Or, get 8 friends together and share the cost of a table. Why not make this a really special afternoon while making your donation to the organization that "makes the arts happen in northeast Louisiana" at the same time? And you'll have an opportunity to acquire original artwork by some of our leading visual artists at the Bayou Gallery, so bring your checkbook and support YOUR favorite artist! Works by 20 of the area’s most prominent professional artists will on display for a silent auction during the event. The silent auction has proved to be so popular with the artists and art lovers that we’ve made it a permanent feature of an already fun afternoon. Good food, good drinks, good music, good friends and now GREAT art . . . they all come together at Blend of the Bayou! Once you’ve been to one, you’ll put Blend of the Bayou on your don’t-miss list every year. For more information or to purchase tickets by credit card, call 318-396-9520 or drop by the Arts Council office in West Monroe City Hall.
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Behind The Fame
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Faith, Family and Ducks
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by Dan Chason
RECENTLY HAD THE OPPORTUNITY TO SPEND THE DAY with the Phil Robertson clan of “Duck Dynasty” fame. I agreed to hold a concealed handgun class for the hunting and television personalities. I was somewhat apprehensive about “teaching” any of these hunting legends anything. What I found was surprising, even though I have considered Phil one of my friends for many years. I was greeted at Phil’s home by Jep, the youngest son, Allen the oldest son, along with Willie, Phil, Uncle Si and, of course, Ms. Kay. Members of the Duck Commander workforce were there and were treated as family. Ms. Kay was gracious as always and with her quiet elegance, you don’t have to be around the Robertson home long before you realize who calls the shots. Every man who entered the home, showed a noticeable respect and admiration for the matriarch of the Robertson clan. Phil was casually lounged in his signature camouflauge chair, along with two rat terriers that would look at you strangely if you walked towards their master. Uncle Si sat alongside, with his sweet tea glass nestled close to the half-gallon of refills at the ready. Ms. Kay had prepared breakfast and slowly the Duck Commander crew and friends filled the room. What surprised me was how at ease these friends were with each other, regardless of how many fan’s vehicles pulled into their driveway and made the turnaround in attempts to catch a glimpse of their heroes. “That happen a lot?” I asked Phil. “Oh, just about 40 to 50 times a day, 7 days a week” he said, as he shrugged his shoulders. We covered the required material, and I attempted to keep the subject matter on point. That is difficult with Uncle Si in the audience. I figured that most of the “Duck Dynasty” image of Silas Robertson was for television, but I could not have been more wrong. I have never laughed so hard and so frequently in all of my life. The man is who he is on camera and off camera. The jovial ribbing from Willie, Jep and Phil was as natural and off the cuff as it appears on camera. They truly have a deep seeded affection and respect for one another. I felt right at home. As I have related before, I first met Phil Robertson many years ago
photography by Andy Chason
when I was in my early 20s. I had gone to Cypress Creek to fish the Ouachita River. My goal was to get to Lake DeGraffenreid, which is on the Ouachita River between Prairion Bayou and Riverton. Problem is when a young man has a small boat, the choice landing is whatever is close to your destination. My brother had told me about Cypress Creek but warned me about the man that ran the place. “He has a mailbox there and you best not forget to put your $2.00 in it, or he’ll be waiting on you when you come out,” resonated in my ears as I unfolded two dollars and placed it there. About that time I looked up the hill and approaching me was a barefooted man, bearded of course wearing only a faded camo shirt and pants. “Gonna go catch a mess, friend?” was all he said as he retrieved his money and watched me launch my boat. “I am going to try to catch some bass for my Daddy,” was my reply to the man. Phil wished me good luck and I was on my way. After fishing for a long time with no luck, I returned to Cypress Creek, rounded a bend and low and behold who did I see. The same bearded Phil Robertson was pulling up a hoop net that you could not put another fish into. “Now this is fishing, brother….you need some to take home?” I told him. “No, thank you,” as my Dad wanted bass and bass he would have. “Well, I seen some of them trash fish busting down at Lapine Bayou there. You may wanna give them a try.” So off to Lapine I went and sure enough the bass were there and hungry for my Bandit crank bait. It was one of my best days ever on the Ouachita. I said it once and I will say it again; it was the best two dollars I ever spent. Then there were the times with Mr. George Franklin. Phil’s property adjoined Mr. George’s and they became fast friends. Both revered as true conservationists, they turned some less than desirable property into what is now some of the best duck and deer hunting in North Louisiana. I just have to believe that Mr. George Franklin is sitting in heaven and is smiling about all the successes of Phil and the Duck Commander crew.
As we finished the class, Phil and the gang were ready to shoot. Surprising to me was when Phil related that he had never shot a pistol. You could have fooled me, as he is a crack shot. I discovered that the apple didn’t fall far from the tree as Jep and Willie both showed their skills with a handgun. Uncle Si showed his military training background and was a natural with a six shooter. As far as Allen? Let’s just say, he is a gifted speaker and preacher. Upon completion and returning to the Commander warehouse, I was absolutely shocked. What Phil had described as a “gathering of folks” was an understatement. Cars lined the roads, parked any and everywhere a space could be found, just to get a photograph of the Duck Dynasty vehicles and tractor trailer rig. One of the cast members, John Godwin was there taking pictures with folks at the warehouse/store entrance which was drawing a long line of fans. There were literally hundreds of cars with license plates from Minnesota, Indiana and even one from Canada which made me wonder how my friend’s daily existence must be. Fame and fortune are nice, but having that kind of response, especially at your house has to get old. What it really brought to mind for me was how a bearded guy with a duck call in one hand and his Bible ever present, from West Monroe, Louisiana has come this far. After my day with the Robertson’s, the answer is simple. Faith, Family and Ducks. They are who they are, and it has captured over 8.5 million weekly viewers. I don’t care what the going price is for the number one show on A&E, from what I saw today, you couldn’t pay me enough to tolerate what they do with the level of patience and professionalism in which they do. They are an asset to our community, our state and to the world of the outdoors. Their priorities and hard work have made them a household name, and I am proud to be counted as one of their friends and fans. Dan Chason is a former professional fisherman and guide. He is currently a certified Concealed Handgun Instructor in the state of Louisiana. To book a class with Dan, contact him at 318-366-4868 or at Laconcealedcarry.vpweb.com
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Bent Oaks Boutique
Models Maggie Sandel and Richmond McGough look out-of-this-world in these precious linen yoga pants. Maggie’s look pairs a seafoam off-the-shoulder top with fold-down gauzy pants. Richmond’s tie-dyed inspired look features cut-out shoulders and a chic coral trouser.
RodĂŠo Boutique
Add pizzazz to your wardrobe with exotic patterns and tropical prints. Whether it’s an Aztec-inspired dress or a Hawaiian-print short in a breezy fabric, these looks are a surefire hit for warmer temperatures.
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Salt & Pepper
Flirty, with just a hint of sultry, Richmond’s flowing striped dress will have heads turning. We adore the braided belt and chunky statement necklace. Maggie’s simple sleeveless jumpsuit is fresh, flattering and fashion-forward.
Signatures
We’re blown away with bold prints and splashes of summer color. Maggie’s sheer printed blouse paired with a white cigarette pant is the perfect transition outfit from Spring to Summer. Richmond makes a statement with this printed shift dress and neutral platform shoe.
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Bayou Gypsy
Roses are red, violets are blue, Richmond and Maggie are wearing haute hues. Richmond’s lace and embroidered sleeveless dress is super chic for Summer nights. While Maggie blooms with colors from her head to her toes in red pants paired with a feminine rose print top.
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The Fashion of Ruston
The ultimate warm weather apparel, Richmond’s tiered coral dress is light and lovely. Maggie’s v-neck flowing top is fresh and fun. Pair it with a vivid blue pant and simple sandal, then hit the sand and surf.
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HerringStone’s
She loves me, she loves me not, she loves me! From a simple solid dress paired with an embellished peep toe heel to a bell-sleeve mini and neutral pump - these looks are ready for Summer lovin’.
The Toggery
Richmond is pretty in pink in this posh, graphic print halter dress. Accessorize with a azalea pink Kate Spade bag as she hits the boardwalk. Maggie looks stunning in this season’s hottest color. This beautiful silk dress is paired with a gorgeous handcrafted cuff and earring.
Find Your Guardian Angel at Serendipity
Find the Perfect Mother’s Day or Graduation Gift at Serendipity Designer Jewelry
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HE GUARDIAN ANGEL COLLECTION BY MARIANA A wise person once said: "I believe in angels - that they’re always hovering near, whispering encouragement whenever clouds appear, protecting us from danger and showing us the way, performing little miracles within our lives each day." Mariana designed the Guardian Angel Collection in the spirit of belief in angels. With this belief, Mariana’s Guardian Angel pendants allow you to give the woman you love the protection, guidance and hope of an angel to watch over her every day. MARIANA JEWELRY The artist and jewelry designer Mariana has been creating unique and original pieces
of jewelry since 1997. Mariana’s jewelry is famous all over the world. Her naïve colorfulness and her flawless interfusion between old and new, fabric and stone, material and spirit is visible in every one of her jewels. It is the foundation; the heart and the core of her creation. Mariana’s jewelry, influenced by natural elements, is designed to spiritually uplift the wearer with good energy. The following list represents a portion of the natural mineral stones used in her jewelry and their meanings: • Rose Quartz: Love Stone • Aquamarine: Courage and Protection • Amethyst: Stone of Peace and Strength • Clear Quartz: Stone of Power • Carnelian: Passion and Sexuality
• Pearl: Lessens Stress of the Heart • Chrysocolla: Peace • Citrine: Lucky Merchant’s Stone
MARIANA GUARANTEE Your Mariana Jewelry is nickel-free and has a lifetime unconditional guarantee. Mariana’s jewelry is 24kt gold or silver plated made with: Gemstones, Handmade crystals and fabric beads, combined with Swarovski crystals. Some of these elements are antique and over 100 years old. In order to preserve the item at its highest quality, avoid direct contact with water, moisturizing cream or perfume. Made in Israel. www.mariana.co.il.
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OF TIME AND THE RIVER
HOME OF LORI AND JERE SPENCE Article by Maré Brennan Photography by Joli Livaudais
THIS PAGE: Classic Acadian French architecture is a hallmark of the Spence home which is sited next to an ancient Indian moun by the Ouachita River.
OPPOSITE PAGE: The outdoor kitchen and patio overlook the beauty of the Ouachita River.
Like the ancient Native American mound builders who erected earthen hills along the Ouachita and its tributaries where they hunted and gathered, so did Lori and Jere Spence when they sited their home where the sloping banks of the river makes a cut-in to join up with Bayou DeSiard. In their front yard stands a towering reminder that we were not the first to settle these fertile lands...a ceremonial Indian mound that rises to almost 20 feet and serves today as a meeting place for neighborhood children or on the occasional snowy day as a mini-mountain to slide down. Just beyond that Indian mound, the Spence family has created their own lasting and “living” monument, a comfortable stucco and brick Acadian French-inspired home where they are raising their family. “Our contractor Eddie Flanigen kept saying, ‘Dirt is cheap,’ as he brought in truckload after truckload to make sure our home was going to be safely above the river’s flood level. But after a 100 truckloads...,” the homeowner laughs jokingly. She then describes how during the last river rise, the waters came within two steps of the back patio of the home. “We had our pontoon boat tied up right here,” she points within a few feet of the patio. “Boy, were we glad to have brought in that dirt.” Behind the Spence’s home lies an out-
doorsman’s paradise for the couple’s two young sons, Wilson and Mitchell, and their trusty black labrador retriever Grits. Grits is an 11-year-old National Master Hunter who still loves the hunt but spends most of his days exploring the river bottoms with the boys. The boys’ rustic tree house at the river’s edge is an irresistible lure, while fishing at the dock or watching for wild things are everyday occurrences. Lori and Jere spend quality time outdoors made even sweeter with double height back porch with a gourmet outdoor kitchen complete with stainless appliances and accented with a verdigris alligator sculpture made by a New Orleans artist. Friends and family are always found gathering al fresco at the oversized, square dining table that seats eight comfortably. At the back door, a tiny set of Mitchell’s footprints are etched into the patio concrete, a reminder of just how fast children grow up. Throughout the home, Lori and Jere sought to infuse the space with connections to family history. For years prior to building their home, Jere collected cypress from old houses and barns as they were being torn down around Jones, LA where his family has Spence Farm. The cypress mantle over the fireplace in the den was made from reclaimed wood found on Spence Farms, while the yellow poplar of MAY 2013 BayouLife Magazine 79
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the mantle in the Great Room was from Dyersburg, TN, where Jere’s dad was born. Opposite the kitchen, an antique gas French chandelier, rewired for electricity by Lori’s dad, provides lighting for a darling breakfast seating area within the living room. Café curtains in a bold, red floral pattern were custom made by Lori’s mother, who also created many of the curtains throughout the home. The colorful, Chinoiserie man on the mantle was given to Lori by her dear friend, local designer and collaborator Clowe Wright. In the kitchen, large floor tiles in tones of grey and cream are placed on the diagonal to open up the space and blend with the creamy color of the cabinetry. The farmhouse sink firmly grounds the home to its rustic roots. The backsplash behind the stainless GE Monogram double range is fashioned of old brick upon which is carefully hung a celadon green plate inscribed with the Spence’s wedding date. The glass paneled door to the well-organized, walk-in kitchen pantry was salvaged from a New Orleans Post Office. A countertop of solid teak forms the top to the large kitchen island with rich, deep oxblood red cabinetry and a round, hammered copper prep sink. Three zinc pendant lights from Irby Lighting provide illumination for
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the island and the most sought after seats in the home, new barstools Lori discovered at Woodstock Furniture Revival. Lori’s infamous wooden pig always gets into the spirit of the season with special decorations and provides a whimsical focal point on the island at any time of year. Located a short distance from the kitchen is a guest bedroom and bath with a distinctly country flair. One of the bathroom’s unique features an old barn window that has been converted into a mirror. The bed is covered in a colorful quilt, which Jere’s mom, Alpha Spence, found on a trip to Branson, MO. “Wilson is obsessed with tacos, and he painted those tacos for me,” says Lori, pointing out the canvases that her boys painted for her which are displayed prominently on the room’s bedside tables. An adorable canvas created by Lori’s friend Mimi Rutledge, was originally painted for the boys’ nursery. The linen curtains that cover the room’s tall window are embellished with tiers of generous ruffles edged in a mossy green grosgrain ribbon. The Great Room of the home includes a double height fireplace of stacked Arkansas blue stone with arched doorways on either side that give entry to the kitchen and living room. A baby grand piano, which had been Lori’s childhood piano, is strategically placed next to a bank of windows overlooking the river. Comfortable sofas and seating throughout the space
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ensure every seat is the best in the house and invite guests to linger a little longer. In the foyer, a painting depicting “Goldilocks and the Three Bears” which Lori and Jere found in Salzburg, Germany on a pre-honeymoon trip to Europe is always a conversation starter. An iron console table with Greek key detail is placed near the foot of the staircase. The Great Room’s den and dining area are separated by generous brick columns. Wide plank hardwood flooring used throughout the area creates a unifying element for the space. The dining room is centered by a round table, conducive to sparking great conversations over meals shared beneath the iron and crystal chandelier. An abstract painting by Sue Sartor adds visual interest beside the dining room’s window. The master bedroom is a study in serene blue walls gracefully intersected by a trio of eyebrow arched floor to ceiling windows which overlook the river. The windows are dressed in voluminous red silk curtains. That same vibrant hue, a favorite of the home owner, is repeated in a large canvas by the couple’s talented sister-in-law, Polly Spence, hangs above the bed which is covered in soothings tones of soft blue and cream with touches of red. Local artist Margaret Becton’s large scale painting creates a counterpoint above a favorite sofa Lori had reupholstered in a lustrous blue velvet. An Oriental three-panel screen leads to the master bathroom where more of Clowe Wright’s deft hand with color and wallpaper is on display. Arched walls around the jetted tub feature a gorgeous Chinoiserie paper with a subject of elegant egrets on a pale background. Travertine tile floors and countertops unify the space which also includes a glass walled shower with tumbled travertine tile. Upstairs, Wilson’s room is an example of everything a boy’s room should be -- full of adventuresome details like the “porthole” window that looks out onto the Ouachita River, a suggestion by his grandfather Dr. Jere Spence -- and key details that reflect his love of dogs like the quilted bedding with appliquéd dogs, Wilson’s own “Blue Dog” painting and the whimsical dogs-in-convertibles wallpaper that covers his bathroom walls. Wilson’s room is probably Grits’ favorite room, too, as Grits is only allowed to climb upon one piece of furniture, Wilson’s bed, for their nightly ritual, story-time. Now that’s a well-read dog! Mitchell’s room is all-boy, too, with twin beds upholstered in a brown gingham with dinosaur appliquéd quilts and matching moose throws. The beds had been Lori’s as a little girl and had been acquired in Texas. The small tables and chairs in the center of the room had been a gift from Linda Davidson, the owner of Nature’s Way Montessori. Said Lori wistfully, “She wanted Mitchell and Wilson to have their desks when the school closed.” Surely the goal of creating a comfortable, beautiful home filled with respect for history, art and family has been realized. Add to that a powerful dose of adventure that can only come from living in such close proximity to one of the most beautiful waterways in America and the Spence house, like the Indian mound it shares space with, is one for the ages.
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THIS PAGE: 1) Cool slate walls and deep red curtains and throws are reflected in the artwork by sister-in-law Polly Spence above the bed in the master bedroom 2) The master bathroom features a lovely Chinoiserie wallpaper in the soaking tub nook. 3) Wilson’s room features a “porthole” window that overlooks Ouachita River 4) Mitchell’s room is all boy but is furnished with beds that belonged to Lori as a little girl and a table and chair set given to the owner from Linda Davidson.
Quality Gifts and More
Find A Gift That Will Surely Make Any Mother, Graduate or Birthday Girl Swoon at Material Things in Monroe
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ATERIAL THINGS OF MONROE may be known best for its quality fabric, custom workrooms and superb personal consultation services. But, did you know they also offer quality gifts that would make any mother, graduate or birthday girl swoon with delight? For instance, their collection of Dian Malouf designer jewelry has a mission statement “to create the most unique pieces of jewelry you will ever see.” Dian Malouf does just that with a line of jewelry that boasts that it is still MADE IN THE USA. In fact, the Dian Malouf collection evolved into what most would consider the American dream. From its humble beginnings, Dian started out simply designing for her friends, but eventually her designs earned their spot in top department stores and high end retail es-
tablishments like Material Things across the country. Now, Dian Malouf has a reputation as one of Americas’s Best Designers. Each piece of the collection is still made one at a time (not mass produced), and each and every stone is still hand cut. Stop by Material Things and see the Dian Malouf collection being offered at 20% off for the entire month of May. In addition, owners Joyce Sims and Peggy Gonzales of Material Things travel far and wide to select antiques, rugs, lighting and home accessories. They also carry two readymade bedding lines, including Lili Alessandra and Legacy Home. If you are in need of drapery rods, they can take care of that for you as well. The Antique Drapery Rod Company is one of their resources, each piece of their hard-
ware is hand-finished to order and made in the USA. For the home keeper, they offer a full line of Caldrea products, including four of their most popular scents. This fabulous line is biodegradable and environmental friendly! For a special occasion, Material Things custom makes “Memory Sachets”-a lavender filled fabric sachet featuring a sepia toned photo of a loved one sewn to the front and embellished with the passementerie. These make wonderful gifts for Mother’s Day, Graduation, Christmas or birthday. So, whether you’re looking for a home makeover, a small personal gift, a knock-out piece of jewelry or a great home cleaning product, visit Material Things and experience what they have to offer.
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TWO MAMAS
An Interview With Korie Robertson and Chrys Howard article by LaRone Richardson photograph by Mary Dawson
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n honor of Mother’s Day, we recently asked a very special mother/daughter duo to share a little of their busy lives with our readers. “Busy” may be an understatement. Not only does Korie Robertson co-star with her husband, Willie, and other Robertson family members, in the weekly A&E TV hit series Duck Dynasty, she’s also a best-selling author. The Duck Commander Family, co-written with Willie, has over 300,000 copies in print, and has been on The New York Times’ Best-Seller List for 17 weeks in a row. Additionally, Korie is a sought-after public speaker, office manager of the Robertson family’s multi-million dollar Duck Commander duck call business, and mother to five well-adjusted children. John Luke is 17; Sadie is 15; Will, whom they adopted at age 5 weeks, is 11; and little Bella is 10. Foster daughter Rebecca is 24 and initially came to live with the Robertsons as an exchange student from Taiwan eight years ago. Korie’s mom, Chrys Howard, is the former Senior Editor and Creative Director for Howard Books, a division of Simon & Schuster Publishing. She has edited and co-written over 100 books and has authored nine, with over a million copies in print. Currently, Chrys is working with Robertson clan matriarch, Kay, on a new cookbook. She and her husband, John Howard, live next door to Korie and Willie in West Monroe. (Monroe natives will remember with fondness the many successful entrepreneurial endeavors of John and his father, Alton Howard, and John’s uncle, 5-time Monroe Mayor W. L. “Jack” Howard.) Chrys arrives first to the interview, which is scheduled at a local tennis court where John Luke and Sadie have matches scheduled. (With families this busy, some serious multi-tasking is required!) Having finished reading Duck Commander
Family the night before, I’m privy to all sorts of family trivia, so even with her back to me, and surrounded by kids, I realize it’s Chrys when Sadie calls out, “Hey, Two-Mama!” and accepts an affectionate hug. As a baby, John Luke christened Chrys “Two-Mama,” and all the other grandchildren (she has 11 total) have followed his lead. “Korie was pregnant with Sadie at the time,” explains Chrys, “and was having some problems, so the doctor put her to bed. Naturally, I was over there all the time helping out with John Luke. He was just beginning to talk, and he started calling both of us ‘Mama.’ We tried to give him alternative names for me, but he was insistent that we were both ‘Mama.’ One day after Sadie was born, I tried again; I pointed to Korie and said, ‘That’s Mama.’ He looked right at me and said, ‘Two Mama!’ My theory is that he had heard the grown-ups talking about having two babies now, so he concluded we had two mamas, too!” A few moments later, Korie arrives, but she’s on the phone and motions an apology. Like her mom, Korie is clad in fashionable skinny jeans, a pretty Spring blouse and sandals. Both are tall and slender, with long blonde hair and a natural, authentic beauty that seems to emanate from calm centers deep inside. Korie finishes her phone call, and we search for a quieter place to talk in the shade away from the bleachers. Ever prepared, Chrys has brought a double foldout lounge chair into which she and Korie settle. It reminds me of how they’ve faced life’s joys and challenges as mother and daughter through the years. Close. Side by side. In Willie and Korie’s case, no two people living in the same country could have been raised more differently. Yet, as Willie writes in Duck Commander Family, his mother “got a job working in the corporate offices of Howard Brothers Discount Stores in Monroe, Louisiana, which ironically, was owned by Korie’s family.
Ashley, Korie and Chrys Howard on a family ski trip.
Chrys with Korie and younger brother, Ryan, at the park
Four generations, Myrtle Durham (Chyrs’s grandmother), Korie, Chrys, Betty Shackelford (owns Shackelford-French Realty - Chrys’s mother)
Everybody in a family has their different and unique personalities, and you just have to love and appreciate them for who they are. That’s what makes a family be a family.”
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Our lives were beginning to intersect when we were just babies. God had a plan.” Indeed He did. The true, tell-all stories shared in Duck Commander Family are inspiring and uplifting, the family photos delightful and the recipes mouth-watering. Without giving away too much and spoiling a fascinating, unforgettable read, suffice it to say: these families’ intertwined histories are the classic case of the truth being infinitely stranger than fiction. You’ve got to read it to believe it. “Willie and I came from two totally opposite families in a lot of ways, but in the most important way, we’re the same,” relates Korie. “Willie’s parents, Kay and Phil, and my parents taught us that people are always more important than things. When we were growing up, both our homes were open to anyone who needed a place to stay, whether it was an unwed mother or a teenager who’d been kicked out of their house. Both our families believed in sharing what we had.” Sharing and togetherness is still a big part of the Robertson and Howard families. Willie’s brother, Jase, his wife, Missy, and their three children live across the street from Willie and Korie and the Howards, plus three sets of Korie’s aunt and uncles and Korie’s grandmother. Shares Chrys, “People ask us all the time, ‘How do you live next door to each other? How does your whole family live on the same street? Don’t you just drive each other crazy?’ And we don’t. We work together; we vacation together. Everybody in a family has their different and unique personalities, and you just have to love and appreciate them for who they are. That’s what makes a family be a family.” At the inception of Duck Dynasty, the producers suggested injecting drama among the sisters-in-law. Korie immediately told them, “We don’t do drama; that’s just not how we are.” The success of the series has been phenomenal, and its viewership continues to grow exponentially each week. According to the network, the second season finale was A&E’s “most-watched telecast of all time among all key demographics, including total viewers, adults 18-34, 18-49 and 25-54.” In its third season premiere, the show boasted over 8.6 million viewers and is considered the number one TV show on cable, consistently beating such heavy hitters as Survivor and The X Factor in the ratings. “So many people relate to the show,” smiles Korie. “It’s incredibly humbling, the reach it’s had. I think it’s because you don’t have to be a redneck to watch it. You don’t have to be a Southerner, you don’t have to be a hunter; everyone who watches our show can relate to family and faith. Of course, we’re not The 700 Club, and that’s not what the show’s gonna be, but A&E isn’t afraid of the faith element.” “When Willie and Korie are on speaking engagements,” adds Chrys, “what people want to hear, every time, is more of how faith and family all work together in their lives. I think our world is searching for that. They want to know how do you live life and have no regrets. For us, the way you do that, is you live a welllived life with Christ as the center.” It’s never a good thing to try to read the mind of God, but I walk away from this interview thinking He has blessed these families to be a blessing to so many others. And, like Willie, I think He had it planned that way all along. 86 BayouLife Magazine MAY 2013
Our Best Mom Genes
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he was your first home. Nearly every little girl dreams of being one. She will fight for you and with you with the same intense, immeasurable love. Without question, there is no love like that of a mother for her child. And as we grow, so does out relationship with our mother. Baby dolls eventually give way to boyfriends, and princess crowns to wedding veils. But the bond between mother and daughter remains irreplaceable. Our readers share their thoughts on motherhood— and all of the love and chaos that comes with it. These modern mamas effortlessly wear the pants and the aprons and the high heels.
written by Mary Napoli and Michael DeVault photography by Joli Livaudais | Livaudais Studio Special thanks to Material Things for use of their beautiful chair
Dianne Cage and Satchie Snellings Godfrey
For most of the Ark-La-Miss, Dianne Cage was a fixture on morning television, a woman famous for taking homemaking to the level of art long before Martha Stewart. For Satchie Snellings, she was Mama, and as Satchie raises her own daughter today, she says she drew on her mother’s most important lesson about raising children. “Let them have fun. Allow them to be independent. But make them follow the rules,” Satchie says. “Listen to your children. She always says that.” Dianne is frequently impressed by Satchie’s compassion for others, a trait Dianne says has served her daughter well in the healthcare field. “She really, truly has a compassionate heart,” Dianne says. Dianne has taught Satchie a lot over the years—including how to truly enjoy her mother’s chicken and dressing. (“With fresh peas,” according to Satchie.) But Dianne says that one lesson she’s tried to impress upon her daughter stands out. “Always trust in the Lord, and He’ll never leave you,” Dianne says.
Alana and Kamden Cooper
“My mom knows a lot about Louisiana,” says 8 year old Kamden Cooper proudly. Her mother, Alana Cooper, smiles lovingly at her daughter. As Director of the Monroe-West Monroe Convention and Visitors Bureau, she takes pride in the Twin Cities and in our state. While most working mothers do their best to leave their job at the office, it is often beneficial to bring her work experiences home. Cooper’s love for the unique culture of Louisiana is something she passes along to her children. Travel for the Convention and Visitors Bureau is often an opportunity for the Director to turn a day of meetings into an educational weekend family getaway. “Kamden is learning about Louisiana in Social Studies, so it is the perfect opportunity to expose her to different parts of the state when I travel. Over her Spring Break, I had a meeting in Opelousas, so afterward we brought the kids to Avery Island and Jefferson Island,” explains Cooper. Kamden nods excitedly. “We got to see how Tabasco is made, and we saw lots of pretty birds,” she interjects. This mother and daughter clearly have fun together, whether at work or play. Kamden turns her pale blue eyes to her mother as a contagious smile fills her face. It is clear that she adores her mom, and as Cooper reaches for her daughter’s hand, it is easy to feel their love.
Angela and Ashley Mayo
Watching her mother, a retired school teacher, acclimate to life in the public eye has inspired Ashley Mayo. Ashley is the daughter of Monroe Mayor Jamie Mayo and his wife, Angela. Ashley says growing up with a prominent, influential woman in the house helped guide her into becoming a lady and lead a life as a responsible citizen of her community. “She has always been my role model,” Ashley says. Angela worked hard to impress upon her daughter the value of adherence to the Golden Rule. Her mother’s lesson according to Ashley: “Be a good person who always treats everyone with respect.” Angela says she’s “awed” by the woman her daughter has become. “Ashley is focused and always works hard to obtain her goals,” Angela says. One of those goals—attending nursing school—continues to be a source of pride for Angela. “When Ashley graduated from nursing school, that was really important to me,” Angela says. She hopes that, through the good times and bad, she has impressed upon Ashley to take everything in. “Always appreciate the good things in life,” Angela says. “It helps to work through the challenges.”
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Yvonne Stephans and Deb Roa
Susan Neck and Kim Verhagen
When Yvonne Stephans thinks of her daughter, Deb Roa, one word comes to mind. “She’s a survivor. Literally a survivor,” Yvonne says. “She’s come through cancer, dealt with it and she’s a winner.” Stephans says her daughter’s ability to cope with the life-threatening disease inspired her when she faced her own cancer battle. A central tenant of Deb’s strength draws on a lesson Yvonne says she hopes she has impressed upon Deb. “Your faith and your family come first.” Today, as Deb shepherds her own daughters through adolescence, she says her mother’s patience and love has served a vital inspiration as Deb deals with what she calls the good times and the bad, “because I was totally unbearable at times.” Like her mother, faith is important to Deb, too. In fact, her favorite memory of her mother involves worship at Temple B’nai Israel. During one event, mothers bless daughters by the laying on of hands. On this particular occasion, Deb says she was blessing her daughters and felt her mother’s hand on her shoulder. “You’re never too old to be blessed by your mom,” Deb says.
Dr. Amber and Malia Salas
Dr. Amber Salas knows a thing or two about motherhood. She has guided countless mothers through pregnancy in her local OBGyn practice and has two precious children of her own. The same patience and attentiveness that Salas shows her children also endears her to her patients. To six year old Malia, her mom is nothing short of a superhero. “My mommy delivers the babies, and she takes care of the mommies,” the spirited sweetheart explains. The kindergartener is full of personality and inherited her mother’s beauty, as well as her brains. Although Salas teaches her tiny twin everything from cartwheels and t-ball to life lessons, she admits that she has learned a great deal from her daughter. “She teaches me how much fun it is laugh,” she says glancing at her giggling daughter. “She has a great sense of humor.” Looking at these two, it’s easy to imagine years and years of laughter in their future.
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Jean Huenefeld and Rebecca Harrod
Susan Neck and Kim Verhagen share a special bond—on and off the clock. For these local business owners, work and family go hand in hand. A classically-trained chef with a culinary degree from Colorado Institute of Art in Denver, Verhagen owns and operates The Coffee Bean, a local hotspot that features a delightful breakfast, lunch, and catering menu that has earned a loyal following. Neck runs a popular and successful business of her own, Ole Susannah’s Estate Sales. While Neck can often be found at The Coffee Bean lending a hand, Ole Susannah’s is a venture that gives the mother and daughter the opportunity to work closely side by side. Together, they assist families in liquidating personal assets with in-home estate sales. “It’s important to us to treat these families like our own,” Neck says assuredly. Verhagen listens to her mother and nods. “My mother showed me how important it is to be an ethical businessperson and to run your business with integrity and honesty,” explains Verhagen. The two also worked together on Neck’s historicallybased novel, Reflection of Glory. Verhagen’s degrees in English and French were helpful when researching historical accuracy for the novel, as well as during the editing process. For this mother-daughter team, each success is that much sweeter when it can be shared.
If family seems just a little more important to Jean Huenefeld, it’s with good reason. A member of the Daughters of the American Revolution, Jean’s lineage has informed numerous aspects of the lives of her children. “Family heritage is very important for me to know, my parents, their parents and those who came before,” says Rebecca. In addition to her mother’s involvement in the DAR, the Huenefeld family also claims members of the Sons of the American Revolution and the Children of the American Revolution. “That lent itself to studying our own history, learning about what came before,” Rebecca says. Family pedigree aside, Rebecca says her mother’s graciousness proved to be the most important trait she inherited. “Always think more of others than you do of yourself,” Rebecca says. Her mother is known far and wide for penning compassionate, encouraging and sometimes chiding letters. Jean says her daughter’s most important trait comes not from her, but from her father, Fred. “She likes everybody,” Jean says. Fred is a community fixture and is frequently seen engaged in civic activities throughout the community. He is also a personable and approachable figure, which is how Jean sees Rebecca. “She doesn’t meet a stranger, just like her daddy,” Jean says. After spending thirty years in real estate, today Jean devotes her time to her grandchildren.
Show Us The Bayou Life
BayouLife Magazine Teams Up With The Monroe-West Monroe Convention And Visitors Bureau To Host 6th Annual Photo Contest
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HE MONROE-WEST MONROE CONVENTION AND
Visitors Bureau (MWMCVB) is partnering with BayouLife Magazine to host their 6th Annual Photo Contest. Prizes for the contest total over $800, but perhaps the most exciting prize is that this year’s Best of Show winner will be featured on the cover of the July Issue of BayouLife Magazine. “We are very excited about the partnership with BayouLife for this year’s photo contest,” said Sheila Snow, Communications Director of the MWMCVB. “To have your photo featured on the cover of BayouLife Magazine is a prize that we have not been able to offer until now. We hope that this will increase participation, as well as the variety of images that are submitted to us.” The theme is “Show us the Bayou Life.” The Bayou Life is our culture. It’s what we eat, where we eat, what we do, our history, our scenery and everything about Ouachita Parish that we know and love. Submitted images could include your favorite restaurant or menu item, favorite local shop, art gallery, architecture, event or anything that describes life in Monroe-West Monroe.
Last year, the MWMCVB received over 120 entries in the photo contest. Many of those entries, as well as past entries, have been featured in national advertisements and other materials, including the popular Visitors Guide, to promote the Monroe-West Monroe area. First, Second, Third and Fourth Prizes will be awarded in both the Adult and Student Categories. All entries will be exhibited at the Upstairs Gallery on June 6 at the June Gallery Crawl where the winners will also be announced and the Best of Show and Cover Photo will be unveiled. The deadline to enter is May 17 at 5:00 p.m. Please submit photos in digital format, along with the registration form, to Austin Bantel at abantel@monroe-westmonroe.org. Photos must be taken within the past two years and in Ouachita Parish to be eligible. Any photos including people must be accompanied by a signed Model Release Form that is included in the Registration Packet. For more information, call the Communications Department of the MWMCVB at (318) 387-5691 or visit www.monroe-westmonroe.org to download the registration packet today!
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The “Bayou Life” is our culture.
It’s what we eat, where we eat, what we do, our history, our scenery, where we party everything about Ouachita Parish that we know and love,
and we want your pictures of it.
For more information, call (318) 387-5691 or visit www.monroe-westmonroe.org to download registration form. submit titled photos in digital format 300dpi and registration form to Austin Bantel at abantel@monroe-westmonroe.org .org
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Mom & Me & Mom
Bayou Pages
BY MAYA ANGELOU | REVIEW BY CASEY MATTHEWS At a book signing in New York City, Maya Angelou read excerpts from her latest book and said to the audience that “Mother love liberates.” Mom & Me & Mom, Angelou’s newest book, is a memoir about the relationship between her and her mother, whom she refers to as “Lady” and her grandmother, with whom she lived between the ages of three and thirteen. Mom & Me & Mom is told in a series of vignettes, hopscotching through Angelou’s life. Angelou’s parents, Vivian and Bailey Sr., had a contemptuous relationship, and Angelou and her brother, Bailey Jr., were sent to live with her grandmother in Stamps, AR as children. While Angelou knows that her grandmother loved her deeply, she points out that her grandmother never showed any physical affection. After living with her grandmother for ten years, Angelou returned to California to live with her mother. Unable to call the woman in front of her “Mother,” Angelou asks to call her “Lady.” Vivian agrees and a tenuous relationship between mother and daughter begins.
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Angelou recounts various events in her life: an unplanned pregnancy, a brutal attack, her first marriage – each life moment that was somehow impacted by her mother’s assistance. Perhaps the most amusing mother and daughter bonding moment is when Angelou’s mother assists her in designing a costume and choreographing a dance for Angelous’s new job, strip-teasing. Any mother and daughter relationship has its share of triumphs and tragedies, and Angelou balances this memoir with both. Mom & Me & Mom is an insightful book about the delicate and often strained bond between mothers and daughters. Above all, however, the book is a reminder of how mom will always be there when needed most, and Angelou dedicates this book to the women who were ultimately there for her. Casey Posey Matthews graduated with her Bachelor of Arts degree in English Education from University of Louisiana in Monroe and her Master’s of Arts degree in English from University of New Orleans and is now an English teacher at Beachwood High School in Cleveland, OH.
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Life’s Best Memories With Every Bite by Myrt Hales, Jr. Spring 2000 YEAR AGO, I HAD AN IDEA FOR year ago, I had an idea for a poem. It was to be about the excitement, joy and sadness of the first watermelon of the summer. I had a lot of great ideas. I intended to write it, I never did. Now, a year later, my thoughts are more of a short story. A year can be such a long time. I’ve seen a lot of watermelons in the last few weeks in the grocery store, at the Buris Farm Market and Loxley, AL. I haven’t bought one yet. There is something about watermelon in the South. It’s great, it’s wonderful, but you can only enjoy it in the summer. Watermelon is the best of everything. It’s cool, refreshing, sweet, healthy, satisfying, fulfilling and sensous. I look forward to it every year. To have a cold watermelon in the Coca-
Cola box under the carport (It was originally in my dad’s old store) is as good as having a positive balance in my checking account. It is there waiting to be enjoyed and savored. My poem is about the anticipation of the first joy of the summer watermelon. you see it’s a lot like life. You have to wait until the moment is fulfilled. As you all know, if you don’t have the patience to wait and you run out and buy a watermelon too soon, it will not be as sweet. It will not taste as good. Consequently, the memory that you’ve relished all year will leave a less than perfect taste in your mouth. On the other hand, if you wait too long to make your first purchase, you’ve wasted one or two good melons. It’s kind of like coming into a good business deal too late. Better late than not at all, but we all strive for the perfect timing. Something else about watermelon – it’s
meant to be enjoyed with family and friends around a swimming pool or a lake bank. It’s got to be by water or at least a shade tree. All the finest things in life are at their peak when enjoyed with those we love. Of course, when I think of the first watermelon of summer, being a realist, I am always reminded that as the days are now getting hotter and hotter one by one, soon they will be getting cooler and cooler one by one, and then we’ll have Labor Day weekend when we’ll enjoy one of the last watermelons of summer. Sure, I’ll enjoy the first watermelon of this summer, but you can also be sure I’ll be sad when I eat my last. My earliest watermelon memories are of eating them in the backyard with family when I was only a child. I used to put salt on it back then, before I grew up and learned about heart problems and clogged arteries. One of my favorite memories is one 4th of July when I helped my dad open his country store. In only a few hours, we sold the entire row of watermelons, which I had carefully lined up in the front of the bread rack. I toted most of them to customer’s cars by myself. CONTINUED ON PAGE 129
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Pi Beta Phi Reception At Perry Home by MARTHA JANE ANDERSON
EVENTY-FIVE YEARS AGO,THE 29TH Governor of Arkansas and the first governor in Arkansas to ascend to the top leadership post from the Lieutenant Governor's position, had a beautiful auburn haired daughter who pledged and was initiated into the Pi Beta Phi sisterhood at Newcomb College. The following is a story from her life long great friend, Robertine Rhymes Cobb of Monroe and Rhymes Plantation in Rayville, who played a most important role in getting precious Mary Frances Parnell to rural north Louisiana. The two girls became best friends as their respective families sent them to the then prestigious Boarding School and 2-year college, Gulfpark College in Gulfport, MS. Robertine, dressed in a wool suit with mink collar and hat, boarded the train in Monroe, crying her eyes out for she did not want to leave the farm and her father, Mr. Robert "Bob"Rhymes. On the train, was the vivacious Mary Frances Parnell, dressed in crisp white cotton also headed to Gulfpark from Dermott, AR. Robertine said that Mary Frances was self-assured and made it her business to talk Robertine into thinking times were going to be good at Gulfpark. When the train arrived in New Orleans, they departed and boarded another train headed to Gulfport, and the thermometer read 100 degrees with Robertine still in her wool suit and hat.
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Things got much better for the girls and they finished high school at Gulf Park. Mary Frances went then to Hendrix College and Robertine headed to Brenau College in Georgia. After a year, both girls reunited at Newcomb College where Robertine Rhymes Cobb finished law school and Mary Frances majored in economics and political science and graduated from the University of Arkansas. In the summers, Monroe had more to offer than Dermott, AR, so Mary Frances visited Robertine and was introduced to the handsome J.W. Perry of Perryville. Monroe had fabulous dances at both the old Virginia Hotel and the Frances Hotel back then, so the young set enjoyed Monroe summers and the "picture shows." Since 1936, Robertine and Mary Frances have been close friends. Mary Frances married J.W. Perry and has twenty-one great grandchildren. Mary Frances has always loved good linen napkins so for Christmas this year, the children all got sets of napkin rings to carry on her tradition of linens at the dinner table. She laughed and shared with me that about five years ago, she was pretty sick at St. Francis, and Robertine came to visit. Robertine stood at the foot of the bed and told Mary Frances that she must get well, for Robertine was not ready to die yet and she was not going anywhere without Mary Frances...It did the trick and turned the tide! Mary Frances still plays great bridge
with "The Thursday Bridge Club." Daughter-in-law, the talented Cyndy Rivers Perry, hosted some fifty Pi Phis at a reception in her lovely home on Oak Drive. The Pi Phis gave Mary Frances a history book on Pi Phi and the food included petit fors, finger sandwiches, a cheese ball with crackers and shrimp dip. Punch and wine were served with the help of Courtney Curry and Susan Coates. The dining table had a magnificent arrangement of wine and blue flowers that was the best ever! Out of town guests included Rosemary Upshaw Ewing from Quitman and Caroline Christman from Rayville. Among the Pi Phi Alumnae there to celebrate with Mary Frances were Ann Grabill Cooksey, Jody Biedenharn Johnston , Kay McCue McDonald, Lynn Keller Hodge, Loretta Ray Rivers, Rachel Hopkins originally from Connecticut, Jo Goodwin Mattison, Clara Munholland Montgomery, Pat Reitzell Godfrey, Anne Wilson Yount, Johnston Williamson, Carolyn McCormick Myrick, Gabriella Armstrong and Martha Jane Anderson.
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HE FABULOUS SOUTH GRAND G.B. COOLEY HOUSE was the topic discussed for the Crossroads Garden Club by MASUR museum CURATOR, the attractive Evelyn Stewart and friend of the Cooley Foundation, LaVerne Bodron. The Prairie Style home was the only example of this architect’s work in the South. It was deWalter Burley Griffin and his wife Marion Mahoney, both of whom were interns for the famous Frank Lloyd Wright. Marion was a graduate of MIT in architecture, quite a feat for a female at the turn of the century. The house was designed in 1908 but not completed until 1926. It was characterized by an open floor plan, horizontal lines and natural materials. The green tile roof was restored in 2008 and tiles were matched by the same firm that supplied the original tiles in the twenties. Mr. G.B. Cooley and his wife started the original Monroe Steam Laundry, and he was a highly successful businessman. Mr. Cooley tried to help the human condition and did so with the establishment of the Cooley T.B. Sanatorium which was later needed for the support of persons with developmental needs.The home was placed on the National Register for Historic Places in l986. In 2008, it was placed on the list of the Top 10 Most Endangered Sites by the Louisiana Trust for Historic Preservation. In 2008, the City of Monroe purchased the House with a cooperative agreement with the Cooley Foundation Board. It will eventually be opened as an Historic Museum. Hostesses for the evening by candlelight included Evelyn Amman Hahn, Kay McCue McDonald and Ellen Huey. A beautiful arrangement of hydrangeas, bunnies and eggs were the centerpiece of the dining table. Member enjoyed a choice of ham, turkey, or beef, rolls, baked chips, water and wine, plus great brownies for dessert. We all left with a feeling that we need to make a difference with the restoration of this extraordinary building in our town. The May meeting of the Crossroads Garden Club will be held at the gorgeous home of Susan Crawford on Monteigne Place with Judy Moore, Sharon W. Brown, Donna Aron and Pam Stratton as hostesses.
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From Left To Right: Kix Brooks, Lea Anna Cardwell, Terry Bradshaw and Mary Napoli photo by Donny Crowe
BRADSHAW BROOKS GOLF TOURNAMENT by Lea Anna Cardwell
It was overcast and quiet on the morning of the ninth annual Bradshaw-Brooks Golf Tournament – until Kix Brooks came off the course, that is. As Brooks made his way from the 18th green to the lunch buffet, the men of Squire Creek Country Club jumped up from their reclined patio chairs to shake the country superstar’s hand. The dreary Sunday afternoon soon came alive with the laughter and camaraderie of two old friends as Terry Bradshaw and Kix Brooks gathered on the lawn. Surrounded by a backdrop of azaleas in full bloom, the perfect Mas-
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ters’ Sunday setting, Bradshaw and Brooks talked of golf, of music, and of their loyalty for their alma mater. Bradshaw and Brooks are no strangers to North Louisiana – both being Shreveport natives and Tech alums – but their national fame tends to keep them on the road. However, these two sports buffs have made a point to keep this tournament on the calendar each year to raise funds for Louisiana Tech Athletics. This year, the Bradshaw-Brooks Golf Tournament, a fourman scramble event, raised over $40,000 for the program. Twenty-nine teams entered the April 14 tournament with a score of 16-under-par taking home the win. Bradshaw bragged about his team’s solid 12-under score that took second place saying that Offensive Coordinator Tony Peterson’s game was “stupid good.” Bradshaw boasted with a big grin. He said, “You know your guys are good when they’re looking at it and taking clubs out and going, ‘What do you think, should I cut a little six-iron in there or should I just sting it over there with a seven and drop it on the right side and spin it back?’” Brooks, however, was quick to point out Bradshaw’s strategic method. “See, I know a lot of great golfers, too, but I don’t bring them in
here trying to show out. I bring my dear friends,” Brooks said while cutting eyes at his friend. In typical Bradshaw style, the sports star protested loudly that Brooks was simply jealous. The two men shoot the bull like any old friends would, but there is one thing they can both agree on – their love for Louisiana Tech University. “For those of us who do support Louisiana Tech, you have to. It’s a deep passion,” Bradshaw said. “I love this school. I love what it’s done for me. I’m proud. I graduated from here.” “I DID graduate!” he adds gesturing wildly. Both Bradshaw and Brooks entered the world of fame and fortune after leaving Tech. Bradshaw went on to win four Superbowl titles with the Pittsburgh Steelers, while Brooks made award-winning country music for 20 years with duo partner Ronnie Dunn. Brooks released his solo album “New to This Town” in September, though he’s anything but new to Ruston. When he began to talk about songs that were inspired from memories at Tech, Bradshaw quickly interrupted with his own rendition. “Oh, who can I cheat off of…oh, who can I cheat off of,” he belted out in his best Southern drawl and rested his head on Brooks’ shoulder.
Brooks laughed along but said that every time he sits down to write a song, he conjures up all his old memories. “I just think that your songwriting is part of your spirit and your soul,” he said. “Probably 80 percent of the music I write, in all seriousness, is based in Louisiana.” At the Academy of Country Music Awards last month, Brooks sat behind Tim McGraw as he watched Korie and Willie Robertson of “Duck Dynasty” presenting on stage. It was a big night for our North Louisiana stars. But Bradshaw had a Duck Dynasty story to top Brooks’, of course. During his Dawg days, Bradshaw was second in line to quarterback Phil Robertson. There was friendly competition between the two, both on the field and on the bayou. Bradshaw explained Robertson’s unorthodox methods for taking him fishing. “Phil Robertson, he knows I loved to fish,” Bradshaw said. “He’d take me fishing, but he’d make me lay down in the bottom of the boat and put a toad sack over my head, so I couldn’t see where we were going!” Once they caught all the fish they could handle, they repeated the ritual. Bradshaw said
with a chuckle, “He knew that if I knew how to get out there the next day, I’d be right back out there; so I had to put the toad sack on and get back down in the bottom of the boat to leave.” Everyone laughed, but Bradshaw insisted, “It’s a true story. It’s humiliating, but I wanted to go fishing. And we did catch fish!” Bradshaw has come a long way since those days. Though his professional football career has long been over, he’s still lining up gigs left and right. On June 28 and 29, Bradshaw is making his Vegas debut – a dream that has been on his bucket list for quite some time. “Terry Bradshaw: America’s Favorite Dumb Blonde, A Life in Four Quarters” will premier as a 70-minute show for the Mirage’s “Aces of Comedy” lineup. He bragged to his golf buddies that he had four of the “hottest babes” he had ever seen as backup singers on stage. Although he is still chasing big city dreams, Bradshaw said he wants to settle down in Ruston, where his friends are, and has started looking at lots in Squire Creek. Brooks agreed that Louisiana is a great place to be. “We’ve got a great tradition here in
Louisiana with music and sports and everything,” Brooks said. “It’s really fun coming back when there’s great heritage and great tradition.” Life has taken them both for a ride since their time at Louisiana Tech, but Bradshaw and Brooks are still proud to claim their good ‘ole Louisiana roots. No matter where they go, in the words of Terry Bradshaw, they “throw the love out to the Dawgs.” (For more on Terry Bradshaw’s Vegas show, visit http://www.mirage.com/entertainment/terry-bradshaw.aspx)
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Thanking The Teachers Who Have Devoted Their Lives To Education
DON’T KNOW OF ANYONE IN THE world that can look back on their educational career, whether they stopped after high school or took it as far as medical school, who doesn’t have at least one teacher that helped shape the course of their future. Perhaps it was a coach or your beloved chemistry teacher (to be clear, I didn’t say chemistry was beloved, I said the teacher was), that you might give credit for the successes you have enjoyed. With that being said, I consider myself very lucky to have had many influential teachers along my educational path; a path I continue to stay on even today. One of the most notable for me, is Mrs. Sylvia Brass, who today governs the halls of Minnie Ruffin Elementary with an iron fist, and as principal, continues to expect nothing but excellence both inside and outside the classroom from her students. But before she became Mrs. Brass the “principal,” she was Mrs. Brass the “teacher,” and in my 7th and 8th grade English class, Mrs. Brass is the very reason I am a writer. Her creative approach to English and her interest and encouragement of my early writing skills, gave me the basis for the writing path I have taken. I am sure she could hardly wait to get home to read and grade my essay on Benjamin Franklin and probably felt so helpless at her inability to nominate me for the Nobel Peace Prize for the piece of literary genius that I cranked out in the 7th grade. Even though I wasn’t a middle school threat in the world of the prestigious Nobel for literacy, Mrs. Brass certainly made me feel as if I was. My writing skills were certainly honed under her tu-
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torship, but I will never forget how her encouragement and praise made me strive to do better each time I turned a paper in. I may be biased, but my children have had, and continue to have some of the very best teachers that can be found. Sadly, and without hesitation, I will say that our present education system has created many challenges for teachers today. I have watched with interest, especially over the course of the last school year, as my teacher friends and acquaintances have, however, risen to these challenges and continued to expect and achieve excellence in their classrooms. I think so many times that a teacher’s work and a teacher’s dedication to their students is a thankless job. However, the very idea that someone is sitting at a computer writing an article, which will ultimately be read by thousands of people, can only be attributed to the teachers who taught us to read and write. And along with the knowledge they impart to us (Except in Calculus. There is not a Calculus teacher in the world that can help me understand slopes.), the foundation they lay in the areas of behavior, discipline and life skills are just as important to the students they are charged to influence. Many lessons our children learn from the educators we entrust them to can’t be taught from a textbook. These lessons must come from a place in that teacher’s life that makes them willing to share and motivate their students to be better people. So, it’s no coincidence that this article will coincide with Teacher Appreciation month, or week, and my hope is that our readers
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will take a few minutes to think about the influence of a teacher. I have talked to many of my teacher friends about how they enjoy this time and what kinds of things they appreciate getting. I found it interesting that even though they certainly enjoy gift cards for movies or yogurt, what they cherish the most are words of appreciation from their parents and students. Yes, you heard it…just when you thought you had turned in your last writing assignment in college, I am challenging you to one more. Why not sit down at your computer, or heaven forbid, blow the dust off the stationery at the bottom of your desk drawer and handwrite your child’s teacher to let them know how much you appreciate and respect the job they do. I don’t know of any teacher who wouldn’t appreciate and treasure a sincere note that simply gives thanks. And in the middle of this handwriting extravaganza, why not send a note to a teacher that you had yourself… and let them know how they influenced your life and/or career. I love the saying, “Students may forget what you said, but they will never forget how you made them feel.” I urge you to reciprocate the love and attention that a teacher once showered on you or who continues to shower on your children and send them a note of encouragement and thanks. Unlike my 7th grade Benjamin Franklin piece, it might not be Nobel Prize worthy, but it will go a long way with that teacher who has devoted their life to the education and well-being of our children. That note and a gift card to Outback will likely bring a smile and a tear to the heart of our dearly-loved educators.
Excellent Care With A Personal Touch
Richardson Medical Center in Rayville Offers Convenient Care Close To Home
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UST BECAUSE SOMEONE LIVES IN A rural community doesn’t mean that they can’t have it all when it comes to health care and a local Gynecologist. Dr. Dunn came to Rayville in 2007 with the intention of leaving the hustle and bustle of the city and has been a tremendous asset to the medical community in area. Dr. Dunn made the decision to stop obstetrics, delivering babies, and focus on overall women’s health. Originally from Metairie, LA, Dr. Dunn is a 1981 graduate of Tulane University. He attended Medical School at LSU Medical Center in New Orleans. He served his residency at the University of Texas Health Sciences Center at Dallas/Parkland Memorial Hospital. Dr. Dunn sees patients at Northeast Louisiana Health Clinic at 1012 North Louisa
Street, Rayville and also travels to Winnsboro once a week to see patients. He performs surgery at Richardson Medical Center in Rayville. Although he no longer delivers babies, he will still perform pre-natal care and exams for those wanting to save their time and miles! Highly skilled and experienced, Dr. Dunn is able to perform simple as well as advanced female surgical procedures. Dr. Dunn lives in Rayville and is married to a very talented, well-known artist in the area, Anya Lincoln Dunn. Together they are raising 3 daughters. Another concept that is very attractive to those needing to be seen “today” is actually being able to get an appointment to be seen by a Gynecologist within a couple of weeks! Most
specialists have a 3 to 5 month waiting list. Even with his existing case load, it is often possible to be seen within a week or two. This takes us to the next wonderful discovery of the day….Tara Maybery, Women’s Health Nurse Practitioner! For those who are a bit timid about seeing a male Gynecologist, there is now an alternative! Tara Maybery, WHNP is a Nurse Practitioner who is licensed and certified in women’s health and works with Dr. David Dunn. Tara is able to perform routine female examinations including breast exams, pap smears as well as address other female concerns. Tara is from Slidell, LA She attended school at University of South Alabama in Mobile and recently became a nurse practitioner specializing in women’s health. Before joining Dr. Dunn Tara has worked at Richardson Medical Center for the past 5 years in ICU, ER and Med-Surg. Tara is married to Steven Mabry who is a licensed Addiction Counselor at Palmetto Addiction Recovery Center. Having both Dr. Dunn and Tara working as a team, routine and other female health issues, can be handled by quality professionals, in a timely manner, in a rural setting! Call for an appointment today to see Dr. David Dunn or Tara Maybery at 318-728-2046.
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Memorializing Our Heroes ARTICLE BY
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Nell Calloway spends her days surrounded by reminders of heroism. For the director of the Chennault Aviation and Military Museum, the artifacts and exhibits recount acts of bravery and sacrifice. “The last thing I tell children on tour groups is that they need to pay attention to the sacrifices these individuals have made and who they made those sacrifices for,” says Calloway. For many veterans, the memories contained in the museum record emotions of duty and service. That duty and service will be honored May 27, as the nation turns its attention to Memorial Day commemorations. Remembering the sacrifices of those who served in prior wars is important, Calloway says. But so is keeping in mind the service members currently engaged in conflicts. “They did this as a sacrifice for us, and they took that oath to do that, to protect us, even if it costs them their own lives,” Calloway says. Memorial Day observations evolved following the American Civil War, as the relatives of those who died in the conflict sought ways to remember their loved ones. By 1868, the remembrances were held throughout the nation at different times. That changed, though, when Gen. John Logan proclaimed a national Decoraction Day for May 30. Legend says Logan chose May 30 because no battles had been fought on that day. The holiday continued to evolve and was institutionalized by an act of Congress in 1968. Traditional Memorial Day commemorations include services of remembrance, special church services and parades. Veterans groups often partner together to increase the efficacy of
their efforts over the weekend. Along with flags and bunting, a frequent sight is the paper poppy—an international symbol that rose to prominence in the wake of World War I, when the poppy flower was the first plant to take root in the graves of soldiers who died in combat. West Monroe Veterans of Foreign Wars Commander George Anzelmo says his group will work throughout the weekend of Memorial Day to collect money and hand out paper poppy flowers. Various groups will spread throughout the area at retail stores and other locations to gather donations. The money is important to the efforts to provide vital support to veterans and their families. “All this money goes to help veterans in need,” Anzelmo says. “That’s what we do every Memorial Day Weekend, nationwide.” In addition to the poppy flower drive, American Legion L. B. Faulk Post 13 will hold Memorial Day services Sunday, May 26 at 4 p.m. American Legion Adjutant Darrell Adkerson says the American Legion annual commemoration will feature cadets from the West Monroe High School Junior ROTC Cadet Corps and patriotic music from The Big Band. Also, retired Brig. General Gary Jones will provide the keynote address. Adkerson says the ceremony is one way the American Legion and other veterans groups reach out to offer support to the families of fallen soldiers. “It’s the way that we remember our fallen heroes, the war dead,” Adkerson says. “It’s a
way for us to honor tem and their families for their sacrifices.” The annual Memorial Day service is a coordinated effort between the American Legion, who hosts the event at the American Legion Hall in Forsythe Park, the Northeast Louisiana Veterans Association, Veterans of Foreign Wars chapters and the Chennault Aviation and Military Museum. In addition to music and festivities, refreshments are available and the Chennault Museum will provide touring exhibits from the museum collections. Calloway offers one more message for Memorial Day 2013. She says citizens need to be aware of another mission of the museum that she thinks could make a tremendous impact for veterans and their families. “We really do give honor to the past, to the sacrifices have been made,” Calloway says. It goes beyond remembering the extraordinary acts of heroes, according to Calloway. The past is venerated through the exhibits while those presently serving are bolstered by the efforts of the museum to honor veterans and their service. “It’s about the present, because we have a crisis in the military with a suicide rate of one per day,” Calloway says. Calloway hopes that demonstrations of public support might help curtail the military suicide epidemic. “We need to let these men and women know we appreciate their sacrifices,” Calloway says. MAY 2013 BayouLife Magazine 101
Family Tradition
Harvesting Memories at Thompson’s Grocery article by Mary Napoli photography by Jenny Ellerbe
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wasn’t dressed for the weather. When I left my house this morning, I could swear it was at least fifteen degrees warmer than this. Now, it’s raining and too cool outside for the clothes I’m wearing. I pull up to Thompson’s Grocery on Highway 183 in Holly Ridge and make a break for it. On the other side of the screen door is Mrs. Shirley Thompson, better known in this area as “Granny.” I reach my hand out to make an introduction, but soon find myself wrapped in a gentle hug. “Honey, get in here and get close to this heater,” says Granny. I instantly know my place. “Yes, ma’am,” I answer.
the grocery nearly every day since. Prior to that, she lived one mile away, or “across the field.” As a girl, “my mother would send me over here with a bucket of eggs to trade for groceries,” says Thompson. “Tommy would walk me back home across the field, and my Grandmother Maxwell would watch us out the window and tell my mother, “Look at that. You are starting something with those two.” My mother would tell her, “That boy wouldn’t look twice at that child.” But he did,” recalls Mrs. Shirley with a smile. “And here we are.” The beloved Mrs. Bessie Thompson passed on in 2006, but many of the traditions she put into practice at the grocery continue today. The same wooden shelves are lined with fresh bread and canned goods, and the cooler is stocked with milk, eggs and other items. Single scoop ice
Call Me Granny Shirley Thompson, owner of Thompson’s Grocery in Holly Ridge.
Thompson’s Grocery was built by Manuel and Bessie Thompson in 1949 and quickly became an area landmark. The first customer was Ms. Bessie’s father, Leon Payne, who purchased a can of Prince Albert Tobacco for fifteen cents. The small store supplied locals with staples like milk, eggs, sliced meats, canned and dry goods and offered gasoline for passersby and farm trucks. Mrs. Shirley Thompson married Tommy Thompson, Manuel and Bessie’s son, fifty-six years ago and has been at
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cream cones are still available for fifty cents. The gas pumps were removed in 1998, and the meats are now cut with a slicer rather than Mrs. Bessie’s skillful knife. The grocery may not see quite as many customers as it has in previous years, but it continues to hold a meaningful place in the hearts of the community. The wood paneled walls hold dozens of mounted animals that have been hunted or caught nearby over the years. Decades old posters that identify indigenous flora, native wildlife and area geographical maps hold the answers to questions that continue to be asked here. Layers upon layers of photographs of children of various ages cover a large portion of the walls. A pressed tin sign that reads, “Try our Famous PB&J,” points the way to the home style kitchen. Here, Mr. Tommy Thompson cooks breakfast for farmers and friends each morning faithfully at 5:45 a.m. Eggs, bacon and biscuits are served to anyone with an appetite. “They aren’t
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Thompson’s Grocery Built in 1949 by Bessie and Manuel Thompson
It’s places like Thompson’s Grocery where they can find the type of nourishment that comes not just from food, but from honest fellowship and the wisdom of experience. for sale,” explains Mrs. Shirley. “But who ever would like breakfast is certainly welcome to it. You just help yourself.” These same farmers and friends reunite in the afternoons to catch up on the events of the day, drink coffee and enjoy a delicious pie or cake that Thompson or a neighbor has baked. Day after day, they congregate in the well worn seats, although the activity changes with the season. In the summer, there will be corn to shuck and “put up” and peas to shell. But there are always stories to tell. Thompson says that “more cotton has been raised and deer have been killed in this store than in the woods.” Many residents who have grown up in the area consider the grocery a home away from home. While visiting with the Thompson’s, a bearded gentleman in a ball cap and boots arrives. I assume he is a customer, but he walks past us and straight toward the kitchen without a word. He makes eye contact with the Thompsons, and they nod greetings at one another. The man heads to the coffee pot and rattles dishes. “There’s pie back there, too,” calls Thompson over her shoulder, and the man plates a slice and sits down with the newspaper. She looks down at the oak floorboards and runs the toe of her shoe over a worn spot. “Lord, many a track has been put in here,” she says and calls attention to the pathways where the wood has grown pale in color. “These floors have held up good. But I always have worried about the babies getting splinters.” Mrs. Shirley’s flame-haired, four-year old great grandson plays
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nearby at a worn, metal children’s table where many others have colored pictures, looked at picture books and daydreamed away the hours while their parents farmed the fields. “Tell this lady how you got your red hair, Cooper,” instructs Granny. Cooper recognizes his cue and immediately looks up with clear, bright blue eyes and speaks, “My granny prayed for it.” Cooper has his great grandmother’s heart on a string, but many who have spent their childhood in Holly Ridge are dear to her. As a young mother, she brought her own three children to the store, and later their children and their children’s children. As a young bride, she helped her mother-in-law care for other local children who needed to be watched. “We have always had plenty of children in here,” says Thompson. “Ms. Bessie used to keep bread boxes and use them for baby cradles,” she says motioning to the decades old Holsum bread sign hanging above the cash register. “We didn’t have play pens and whatnot back then. But those old bread boxes worked just fine.” Children have always been a part of the store, and it could be said that they are the reason for its existence. “Ms. Bessie knew she wanted children, and she had the idea that opening a grocery store would allow for her to be close to her babies all day,” says Thompson. It did, and also allowed other little ones to develop a fondness for the Thompson women. “School buses used to stop here every afternoon for the children to get an ice cream cone. They would all pile out, and
we would dip them up a cone,” she says with her eyes on the screen door, surely remembering the many children who have run across the threshold. “The bus still comes by, but I do think it’s a little unfair because half of the children have already gone by the time the bus stops here. But the ones who do come in are always happy.” “Sometimes I believe we wouldn’t see anybody, if it wasn’t for ice cream,” says Thompson rising from her chair as the sounds of gravel stirring signal a customer has arrived. She smoothes out her pants, looks down to straighten the “Granny” monogrammed on her sweatshirt, and offers a warm, “How y’all?” as the screen door creaks open and a young couple enters. Country stores like Thompson’s may be few and far between these days, but they still provide the same staples that local folks depend on. It’s not just sliced meats and ice cream people come looking for. They come, because they know they are always welcome and because it’s places like Thompson’s Grocery where they can find the type of nourishment that comes not just from food, but from honest fellowship and the wisdom of experience. The young lady bites her lip as she gazes indecisively into the ice cream case. Without moving her head, she looks up and directly into Granny’s watchful eyes. Granny leans in slightly and whispers, “When in doubt, order chocolate.” The young lady nods once. Granny smiles and begins dipping up her cone. Another satisfied customer. MAY 2013 BayouLife Magazine 105
aybe you can’t go home again, but Nina Venzant will feed you like you are one of her own. The traditional Southern food Ms. Nina dishes up will either make you lonesome for your mama’s cooking or angry with her for not feeding you better. Either way, you won’t leave hungry and you won’t remember the last time you ate so well. On the outskirts of downtown Ruston, the Blue Light Café has been an under-the-radar favorite for locals and college students for over 40 years. Current owner Nina Venzant has considered the café her home
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away from home since she was a child. She grew up tugging on the apron strings of her Great Aunt Fannie Rushing, the original owner and operator of the eatery. “I used to get whoopings for always running across the street to the Blue Light so I could watch her cook,” recalls Venzant fondly. When Aunt Fannie retired, Venzant’s Aunt Eula Wright took over and ran the restaurant successfully for sixteen years. Around age twelve, Venzant began her Blue Light education— waiting tables and watching her aunt create dishes that people craved. It was only natural that when the time came for Aunt Eula to
Ms. Nina dishes up the kind of classic Southern fare that folks in our neck of the woods have been enjoying even farther back that anyone can remember. retire, Venzant would take the reins. While she never wanted for customers, the Blue Light has seen its share of difficult days. A catastrophic fire in 2008 leveled the original location near Grambling State and left Venzant heartbroken. Her business and everything in it was gone, and she had no income and three young daughters to raise. Although understandably distraught, Venzant held strong to her faith. “I decided it was God’s way of telling me there was something better for us,â€? she explains. What happened next was a true testament to the power of human kindness. So many of the locals that Venzant had fed over the years began to show their love for her and her business by helping her to put it back together again. Venzant was shocked and touched by the outpouring of support she received from the community. Patrons purchased tables, equipment and licenses and did whatever they could to stoke the fires at the Blue Light. In 2010, Venzant was able to reopen the cafĂŠ in its current location on South Monroe Street near Louisiana Tech’s campus. It seems that she was not only filling hungry bellies of her customers, but feeding their hearts and souls. These days, the Blue Light CafĂŠ is alive and well and serves more home style cuisine than ever. The next generation, consisting of Venzant’s three daughters—Kamita, Ieshea and Shantoya—and her nieces, have joined the family business. They keep with tradition by asking that guests write their own orders at the counter on the pads of paper provided. “That way, if we don’t bring out what you ordered, it’s your fault,â€? says Venzant with a warm smile and a look in her eyes that tells you she means business. The building is modest and the plates aren’t gussied up, but once the doors open and the smells of the kitchen find their way to you, the only thing you will be concerned with is how to quickly you can find a table and dig in. Tech alum John Allen and ULM grad Junot Dixon are long time patrons of Blue Light and eat together when they can, even though Allen jokes his buddy “needs a permitâ€? to get this close to the Bulldogs’ campus. Like many customers, both men have been faithful to diners before Blue Light moved to its current location. “The faces in here haven’t changed much,â€? notes Dixon. “It’s a great place for Ruston. And the food is never disappointing.â€? Allen nods in agreement and adds with a laugh, “Its just the kind
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of food rednecks like to eat.” Redneck or not, the food Ms. Nina dishes up is the kind of classic Southern fare that folks in our neck of the woods have been enjoying even farther back that anyone can remember. Some good things never change, and this adage holds true to the Blue Light menu. Fried chicken, pork chops and smothered steak are always popular and are offered each day, but ribs are offered when the mood strikes Ms. Nina. One thing is for certain, the fried chicken is a gift from heaven. Venzant has perfected her method over the years and serves her chicken with a flaky, well seasoned crust. Each bite is a savory combination of crunchy, flavorful skin covering moist meat. Venzant says it’s the low temperature she cooks on and her flouring method that makes it come out just right. Bob James, a 1978 Tech grad who works in downtown Ruston, is a fan of the smothered steak. “It’s not too heavy and always crispy. The food here is consistently delicious and the staff is friendly. It is always the right temperature and cooked just right.”
Patrons face the difficult choice of deciding between several tempting sides. Venzant features down-home favorites like black-eyed peas, cabbage, macaroni and cheese, greens, corn, mashed potatoes, pinto beans, rice, limas, corn bread dressing and squash. One of her most popular items are the black -yed peas, creamy and mild with a flavor that is not overpowering. Venzant’s middle daughter, Iesha, was taught by her grandmother to cook yams masterfully. The slowlycooked, bright orange vegetable practically melts in your mouth it is so tender. Seasoned slightly with nutmeg and brown sugar, each bite is better than the last. Blue Light’s cooked cabbage is the most requested side. With only one taste, it’s obvious why people wait in line to dig into these tender, green leaves. Simmered low and slow with savory bits of ham, onion and bell pepper, this dish has people talking. Venzant says, “People who say they don’t like cabbage love it. Almost everyone who comes in orders it.” It’s impossible to go wrong when choosing sides, and diners can always add another side onto their order. Just like your mama did, Venzant knows what’s good for you, and she knows how to make it right. Sitting in a sunny booth at the Blue Light and watching Venzant and her daughters bring out plate after plate of Southern deliciousness, you begin to truly understand the term “Soul Food.” Venzant knows that without her loyal following, her life would be quite different, and for that she is earnestly grateful. The friendship and food she shares with the many familiar faces that she feeds each day are meaningful to her. It is only fitting that she send them away with a full belly and her best Southern wishes: “Y’all have a blessed day!” The Blue Light Café is located at 500 South Monroe Street in Ruston and is serves lunch Monday – Friday and on Sundays (except the fourth Sunday of the month) from 11am to 2:30pm. Tell Ms. Nina and her girls that BayouLife sent you! Left to Right: Shantoya Patterson, Nina Venzant, Kamita Patterson and Neisha Combs
by Michael DeVault photo by Mike Healey Joe, Lisa and Chris Holyfield
If You Build It...
Tower Development Blossoms hen Lisa Holyfield talks about construction taking place along Tower Drive, it’s easy to forget she’s talking about a development in Monroe, where ideas such as walking communities are still relatively new. But that’s what Joe Holyfield had in mind when he began to develop the area in 2003. “We wanted to build a place in the community—a walking community, where people could come and visit, shop, conduct business, all in a safe
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and pleasant, convenient location,” said Holyfield. To that end, the Holyfields set out to build a central commercial area around a master plan. The company holds final design approval over any construction in the area, even on buildings it is not building itself. Restricted design and usage guidelines are often a critical component of planned communities and offer developers the ability to tailor land use to fit into a larger vision..
So far, that’s worked well for the Tower Drive area, which Lisa Holyfield has been assisting her father, company founder Joe Holyfield, to develop. Holyfield said the aim of the development was to create something unique of which Monroe could be proud. “We wanted to create a thriving business community, so, when people come to Monroe, they could see what Monroe really has to offer,” Holyfield said. The first phase of development focused on an office park development along the north side of Tower Drive. Also, the Holyfields built the first phase of a retail park on the southern side of Tower Drive. Known as the Shoppes on Tower, the retail development became home to popular eateries: Newk’s, Orange Leaf, Pieworks and Portico. Retail boutiques and lifestyle services also took hold, with businesses such as River Outfitters, Bayou Gypsy, Bayou Beaux, Spoiled Rotten, Beauty Nails, Today’s Tanning and Fitness Together setting up shop. Demand has been such that the second phase of the retail development has been initiated. Shoppes on Tower II will sit adjacent to the existing retail center and Holyfield said businesses are already starting to express serious interest. Meanwhile, demand is high for Class A office space and the Holyfields have createdan office condominium development in the Tower Drive business park. Known as Tower Village Office Park (www.TowerVillageMonroe.com), the new development offers space for eleven tenants. Unlike most office park communities in the area, Tower Village operates in a condominium structure. Tenants have the flexibility to lease or the option to purchase space; offering businesses the ability to build equity instead of paying rent. Tower Village is also one of the area’s first certified ENERGY STAR commercial buildings. The federal ENERGY STAR certification means that a building performs more than seventy-five percent better than comparable, non-ENERGY STAR facilities, on energy usage. The move is an effort to reduce the environmental impact of new construction and development, according to Holyfield. So far, demand for space in Tower Village has been high. Only two units remain for purchase in Tower Village. Interest has also been high for the third component of the Tower Drive community. Holyfield said that, when Joe set out to build a destination community, he envisioned a three-fold mixed use area. Offices and retail made up the first two components. The third component, a medical park, is also currently taking shape. Demand has been high for space in the medical park, too. The U.S. Veterans Administration will cut the ribbon in October with a new Energy Star 23,000 square-foot outpatient clinic on Bienville Drive. Meanwhile, Saint Francis Medical Center broke ground on a 92,000 square-foot Midtown medical center on a twelve-acre tract situated at the corner of Fulton Drive and Tower Drive. The area was a natural fit for Saint Francis, according to Saint Francis President and CEO Louis Bremer.“We needed room to grow, and the Tower Drive location is a prime corridor and a central location,” Bremer said. “The trend toward outpatient services will continue to grow, and we needed to plan and design a facility to meet our future needs and the community’s future needs,” Bremer said. The $30 million brick-and-stucco facility offers visitors a twostory glass atrium, four floors of medical offices, landscaped gardens
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complete with water features and a covered entrance. Among the services the center will house are speech therapy; occupational and physical therapy; cardiac rehabilitation care and radiology and laboratory services. Also, the facility includes a pharmacy, occupational medicine services, a convenience clinic, Diabetes and Nutrition Center and plenty of space for physician offices. The building was designed by Baton Rouge architecture firm Bradley-Blewster and Associates and is being constructed by Lincoln Builders of Ruston. Saint Francis expected to begin occupying the new community health center in late summer of next year. Eventual plans envision close ties with residential development near the Tower Drive area. When development is completed throughout the Tower Drive area, the entire area will be connected via signature, curving sidewalks, offering residents and visitors convenient access to food, business services, medical care and shopping.
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Fashion Fusion The runway was rockin’ at the second annual Fashion Fusion in the West Monroe Convention Center. The fashion forward event featured styles from local boutiques that were modeled by local celebrities, such as Miss Louisiana Lauren Vizza, Miss Louisiana Tech Julienne Tippen, Sadie Robertson of Duck Dynasty, John Reynolds from K104 and Chrys Howard. The incredible Debbie Bourg Dancers also entertained the crowd with an impressive performance. Proceeds from the event benefit the Children’s Coalition of Northeast Louisiana, which provides crucial assistance for children and families in need. Guests enjoyed the spectacular show and the opportunity to support such a worthy cause.
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Off the Wall Fundraiser The Twin City Art Foundation hosted its annual “Off the Wall” fundraiser for Monroe’s Masur Museum of Art on Friday, April 5. The creative crowd bid on exquisite artwork and grooved to tunes provided by Rocket 88. Proceeds from the artistically inclined event benefit the Masur’s educational programs and world-class exhibitions. It was the perfect opportunity for patrons to decorate their walls with memories of an enchanted evening.
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1 Cliff Tresner, Jana Giles and Frank Hamrick 2 Gretchen Dean and Charlie Heck 3 Bill Rambin and Jorenda Stone 4 Mary Ann Riddle and Vicky Valenzano 5 Maggie Zentner and Olive Sartor 6 Marilyn Sternenda and Charles Marsala 7 Kayla Edwards, Evelyn Stewart and Chris Edwards 8 Jason Grisham and Joli Livaudais 9 Bonnie Ferguson and Leigh Buffington 10 Martha Hartwell and Joseph Skinner 11 Priscilla and Connie Mott 12 Pam Parsons Dupuy and Babs Oakley 13 Amy Norris and Bob Eidenstadt 14 Randa Kitchington and Andi Holyfield 15 Kim Leija, Jenifer Johnson, Dana Tarver, Mary Katheryn Crigler and Becky Woods 16 Janelle Snellings, Kelly Keahey, Margaret Ann Zentner 17 Jeff, Ariel and Melanie Douthit
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Boots were boogying at Ouachita Council on Aging’s fifth annual “Shindig” on Friday, March 22. MBH Farm was the perfect setting for the western affair, thanks to Dr. Hershel and Mary Beth Harter. Easy Eddie and the Party Rockers kept the crowds dancing, and Catfish Charlie’s served tasty dishes to everyone’s delight. The successful benefit helps to support vitally important programs for seniors in Ouachita Parish like Meals on Wheels, dialysis and cancer centers.
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1 Ken Rugg, Scott Certain and Junot Dixon 2 Lorraine Henley, Janet Henley, Adrienne Reuther 3 Janet Durden, Keith Randle, Betty Randle 4 Cindy Ingram, Angie O’Pry Blades, Sue Riggle 5 Amy Sawyer, Jason and Meredith Beene 6 Mike Miller, T.C. Trichel, Heath Hendon 7 Jay Mitchell and Staci Albritton 8 Stuart and Anna Hill 9 Pat and Lynda McGehee 10 Donnie and Cindy Grubbs, Marilyn and Ronnie Dennis 11 Gloria Mitchell, Bobbie Nash, Dorothy Bell 12 Diana and Jay Russell 13 Tim and Aimee Kane, G.L. and Lisa Edwards 14 Brandon Cruse, Jason Hawkins 15 Kenneth Harper, Dr. Lauren Harper
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Spring Market The Junior League of Monroe held their fifteenth annual Spring Market on Friday, March 22 through Sunday, March 24. On Friday, the Monroe Civic Center was alive with excitement and held true to its theme of “Girls Just Want to Have Fun” sponsored by Ouachita Independent Bank. Guests not only delighted in shopping with over 100 unique and enticing vendors but also enjoyed delicious food from Thurman’s Food Factory, entertainment by Mike McKenzie, fabulous door prizes and irresistible “Marketritas,” that were created especially for the occasion. Once again, the ladies of the Junior League treated women to a spectacular weekend while raising funds to support essential community programs and beneficial projects throughout Ouachita Parish.
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1 Shirley and Billy Sanders 2 Beth Green and Sarah Aycock 3 Brittani Cloyd and Patricia Willis 4 Traci Canterbury, Melanie Christian, Paulen Luttgeharm and Ashley Burch 5 Caroline Brockman and Kasey Witherington 6 Kristen Ellis and Kristen Derr 7 Elizabeth Moses and Alissa Russell 8 Lynn Duncan, Leazel McDonald and Aimee Anthony 9 Melissa Stokes and Katie Bonette 10 Rene Jackson and Jeanie Green 11 Patricia Niswanger, Mary Spicer and Jodee Bruyninckx 12 Arie Milner and Meredith Hayes 13 Jennifer Lord and Kara Watson 14 Jo Ellen Showers and Marsha Leigh 15 Sarah Crowe, Bobbie Jo Johnston and Stephanie Miller 16 Crystal Barras and Stacy Wren 17 Lamar Smith and Denise Simpson
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Dames and Gents dashed to Geneva Academy’s “Wig and Stache Bash” on Friday, April 12 at the Monroe Civic Center. The festive Roaring 20’s theme brought out the playful side in guests, who costumed as feisty flappers and sharply dressed fellows. Lively music by Rod Allen Payne and Friends kept the crowd on their feet. Refreshments were provided by Marsala Beverage, and Waterfront Grill served tasty food for all. Live and silent auctions offered magnificent treasures as Geneva supporters enjoyed the revelry. Whether donning a wig or sporting a ‘stache, all those who attended adored the memorable bash!
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Music In The Air
Strauss Theatre Center set the stage for an incredible debut of their benefit “Music in the Air” on Saturday, April 13. The high-energy music of Equinox Jazz Band had everyone showing off their best moves on the rooftop of the Vantage Tower parking building in Downtown Monroe. Thurman Dickey of Thurman’s Food Factory provided tempting foods which were enjoyed by all. Mike Brown of Glazer’s prepared inspired cocktails, and Delia Davis and Frank Elkins of Choice Brands offered an appealing selection of craft beers. From the rooftop venue to the fantastic fare, the evening had guests calling, “Encore!”
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1 Sylvia Masur Thompson and Jo Mary Smith 2 Melissa Jarrell and Meghan Gallagher 3 Adrienne LaFrance and Cathy Airhart Webb 4 Moira O’Connor, Delia Davis and Tammy Sims 5 Troy and Jae Wold, Darron McGuffee and Celeste Carter 6 Gayle and Scott Frick, Terri Odom 7 Adam and Wendy Ryland, Donna Branson 8 Keith Rogers and Jon Baccarini 9 Thurman Dickey 10 Lessley Deshotel and Matt Shepherd 11 Walter, Lucy and Sue Sartor 12 Lee and Cindy Hairston and Myka Walker Sims 13 Torethia and Davyon Hill 14 Shaun and Lisa Patrick, Billy Justice 15 Shane Johnston and Kurt McEnery 16 Gail and Jerry Ryan
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Two Sweet Cowgirls
Born on exactly the same day eight years ago, it was only fitting that friends Alice Rutledge and Charlie French shared their birthday party together. The cowgirl themed celebration was perfectly planned by the multi-talented Mimi Rutledge and hosted by Mimi and Lori French. Melrose Farms served as the authentic location for the get-together, where all the cowgirl cuties were treated to horse and pony rides, a scenic hayride, horseshoe games and even photos with a sleeping pig! The custom tiered cake adorned with icing grass, horses, edible boots, hats and a sheriff star was a confectionary work of art from Social Bites of Ruston. Festive pink and chestnut brown horse balloons decorated the picnic tables, and there was not a sweet bite of cherry swirled ice cream or chocolate cake left. Each cowgirl tipped their hat and squealed “yee-haw� as they left with their favors...miniature stuffed horses and small buckets of bubblegum pink lipgloss!
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The Fashion on Ruston The Fashion of Ruston knows how to celebrate in style. On Thursday, April 11, trendsetters gathered to toast the posh new location with a fabulous fête. Guests walked the red carpet and were photographed by the fantastic Kevin Hawkins. While The Project provided entertainment, fashionistas in their finest enjoyed champagne and enticing aperitifs by Kacee’s Sugar and Spice. Gorgeous girls modeled the latest fashions of Laundry by Shelli Segal, which were provided by the always chic Rhonda McNabb McCartt of Dallas. At this lively soiree, The Fashion proved they are always on trend.
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Pro/Am Archery
Over 1300 archery enthusiasts from across the country competed in the Pro/Am Archery Tournament Friday, April 5 through Sunday, April 7. The event took place at the Ouachita Parish Sheriff’s Training Facility and Rifle Range in West Monroe. The most current and advanced equipment from top archery and bow-hunting manufacturers was on display to the delight of archers and bowmen. Spectators observed the challenging competition as the ambitious contestants gave it their best shot.
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Wine Over Water
ULM’s Alumni Association hosted its eighth annual “Wine Over Water” event on Thursday, April 4. Although the event took place indoors this year, rather than on the ULM campus bridge overlooking Bayou DeSaird, the rain did not dampen party-goers’ spirits. Attendees enjoyed food from 27 different local restaurants and chose from 40 different wines while dancing to music provided by MoJEAUX! Proud co-sponsors of the event were the Louisiana Restaurant Association, Marsala Beverage, Letsinger Marine, and Glazer’s Wholesale. Alumni and friends were pleased to support ULM’s “Spirit of the Warhawk” scholarship fund.
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Cracking Down On Domestic Violence urtailing domestic abuse is important to Fourth Judicial District Attorney Jerry Jones. It should be. After all, Jones is the individual responsible for making domestic abuse a crime. Literally. “We wrote the law on domestic violence in Louisiana,” says Jones. “There was no law against domestic violence as a crime in and of itself prior to 2003.” Today, Jones is centering his efforts on strengthening domestic abuse laws for certain abusers. Working with State Sen. Bob Kostelka and State Rep. Katrina Jackson, Jones is hoping to increase jail sentences for individuals convicted of intentionally burning victims during a do-
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mestic attack. “We’re going to make intentional burning in a domestic situation a serious crime in the state of Louisiana,” Jones says. While the law will provide additional protection to many victims, one case in particular is driving this latest effort. In 2011, Allen Robinson and his livein girlfriend became embroiled in an altercation. During the fight, Robinson not only repeatedly struck his victim, but over the course of twelve hours Robinson engaged in what Jones called a systematic torture. “He would follow her from room to room in the house with a hot iron, plug it
into a new outlet and burn her again,” Jones said. The victim suffered serious burns over seventy percent of her body. She also suffered multiple contusions and lost teeth during the attack. Jones says state laws that currently restrict these criminal acts are not tough enough and provide inadequate jail sentences for perpetrators of such heinous crimes. “Based upon the battery alone, the maximum sentence I could have gotten without a prior felony conviction would have been fifteen years,” Jones says. However, Jones was able to prosecute Robinson under Louisiana’s habitual offender
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Jerry Jones remembers the case that started his crusade against domestic violence. It’s a case that has always stood out in his mind as the turning point. Prior to the 2003 case, Jones’s office prosecuted eleven consecutive domestic violence murder cases in a row. “And there’ve been a lot more since then,” Jones said. But 2003 marked a turning point for Jones. That’s when Timmy Davis and his livein girlfriend were having problems when he snapped. After a protracted argument, Davis waited for his girlfriend to leave home for work. As she backed out of the driveway, Davis approached the car with a .38 snubnose and shot her in the head. He disposed of the gun in the bushes and was set to go on the run. “As he is leaving, a police officer arrives on the scene, and he sees Timmy Davis walking from around the building and he sees the victim lying dead in her car, and he just loses control,” Jones says. “The policeman’s name is Dennis Courtney. He’s one of my heroes in the police force.” Fellow officers restrained Courtney, but Davis was apprehended. He was eventually convicted of murder in the first degree and sentenced to life in prison. What caused Courtney to snap, though, was the history of calls to Davis’s residence. On eleven separate occasions, Davis had been arrested for domestic abuse. In each of those cases, the charges were dismissed after the victims failed to press charges. “Many times, the victims dodge the subpoena service because they don’t want the batterer prosecuted,” Jones says. Jones worked hard to put into place a new system of prosecution, crimes and penalties for domestic abuse situations. It was a simple equation in 2003. “We treated domestic violence under state law exactly like drunk drivers are treated,” Jones says. The logic was simple for Jones. “A battered woman should receive the same protection from her batterer that society receives from a drunk driver,” Jones says. As abuse escalates, so do the penalties. Eventually, the abuser receives significant jail time if abuse persists. And, the system works. Jones says his office today is one of the top prosecutors of domestic abuse in the state. 124 BayouLife Magazine MAY 2013
statute. After a jury found Robinson guilty, his she knew all too well how arguments with him turned out. After all, he had beaten her fate fell to the hand of Judge Wendell Manduring their marriage. ning, who presided over the 2012 trial. What happened next was a sheer act of “I cannot undo what you did to her, but I bravery and heroism. can sentence you,” Manning told Robinson, “She drove over to following his convichis house, walked up to tion in October. Manthe door, knocked on ning imposed a the door of a man who 115-year sentence upon had previously battered Robinson, who is ineliher,” Jones says. gible for parole or proRobinson came to bation. the door and refused to Jones said he was allow his ex-wife into thankful of the prior the home. When he felony conviction and moved to slam the door, Robinson’s status as an she stopped him. habitual offender. That “She put her foot in appears set to change, Fourth Judicial District the door and shoved though, as Jones lobAttorney Jerry Jones her way in,” Jones says. bies a bill amending the “She searched and state’s criminal code found the victim hiding through the Legislabehind the bathroom ture, toughening door, covered in blood statutes. and burns.” Under the proHamilton convinced posed changes, intenRobinson to allow her tionally burning a to take the victim to the victim will carry a senhospital. Upon arrival, tence of anywhere from the nurses went to five to fifty years. work. “The five to fifty “These E.R. nurses years gives a judge are unrecognized heroes wide latitutde,” Jones in this community and says. That’s important deserve the credit for when it comes to prosesaving this woman’s cuting cases, because life, number one, but prosecutors will have number two, for coming better chances of getto court and telling the ting serious jail time. victim’s story through “And we won’t have to their eyes,” Jones said go out searching for Though Jones decharges to prosecute,” Representational painting commissioned by clines to name the vicJones adds. Jones from local artist, Adam Davenport tim, he says she’s a hero The victim surin her own right for vived her attack and standing up to her attacker, for seeing through today Robinson is behind bars. But it was not to his prosecution. He expects that she will through the efforts of law enforcement or her eventually travel to Baton Rouge for hearings neighbors. Instead, Jones credits Robinson’s on the proposed changes to state law. ex-wife with saving the victim’s life. A critical component of the Robinson During the attack, Tonya Hamilton case, though, is that justice was served. Jones phoned Robinson to find out why he had not notes there are resources available to the vicpicked up their children for a weekend visit. tims of domestic abuse—and that they are not Robinson informed Hamilton that he and his alone. girlfriend were engaged in an argument. The Wellspring operates the Family JusHamilton asked to speak to the victim, who tice Center, a secure and confidential facility told her she was all right. But something did that it describes as one-stop for all domestic not sit well with Hamilton. abuse, battery and child abuse needs. Hamilton and Robinson had history and
“Wellspring and the Family Justice Center is available to help them to break the cycle of violence for them and their children.” ~ Bowman Deputies from the office of Ouachita Parish Sheriff Jay Russell staff a detail to the Family Justice Center. Those deputies are tasked solely with investigating domestic abuse situations.“They review each and every case that we work that is categorized as a domestic violence case under Louisiana state laws,” says Russell. The Family Justice Center detail even reviews cases of victims who never make their way to the Family Justice Center, according to Russell. “Those investigators pick up those cases, too, and follow up on them,” Russell says. In addition to the specialized taskforce at the Family Justice Center, Russell says all deputies receive specialized instruction concerning domestic abuse situations. “Our deputies are trained and have roll call periodically about how to go about approaching victims, walking them through everything that has to be done,” Russell says. From pursuing and receiving a protective order to testifying at trials, Russell says deputies work to see the job through. One difference that seems to help curtail repeat offenses is that deputies are instructed to look beyond the incident before them. “These deputies are trained to go that one step further and make sure that the case they are working that night is not a continuation of an ongoing situation,” Russell says. Tough prosecution from the district attorney’s office has helped, too. Throughout the law enforcement and prosecution process, both Russell and Jones underscored a central tenant of breaking the cycle of domestic abuse: victims do not have to suffer alone. If the Wellspring and Family Justice Center have one message, that’s the one they hope victims hear, according to Family Justice Center director Valerie Bowman. “They are not alone,” she says. “Wellspring and the Family Justice Center is available to help them to break the cycle of violence for them and their children.” While victims reach out to family and friends for support, it’s also important for them to understand the resources available through law enforcement and the Family Justice Center. “They have people there who can help support them along the way,” Bowman says. She notes that, for many victims, leaving a situation is a process with numerous steps. “It may take them time to make that final break from that relationship,” Bowman says. “So they often need someone there helping them along the way.” The Family Justice Center is trained to recognize this process and to work with victims to remove them from abusive situations. “We offer them safety and the opportunity to break that cycle,” Bowman says. If you or someone you know is in an abusive relationship, the Family Justice Center can help. They can be reached at (318) 998-6030.
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Twin City Ballet
Twin City Ballet Company was recently honored at Regional Dance America’s Festival for the Southwest Region held in Fort Smith, AR. TCB Senior Company member, Madelyne Clark received a full scholarship and was chosen to represent the Southwest Region at the annual National Craft of Choreography Conference. Guest choreographer, Jamal Story received the Emerging Choreography award for his moving piece, “Shelves for Your Tears.” TCB’s assistant director, Leaia Alsup received the festival’s highest honor, the National Choreography Recognition Award for her bold, contemporary work, “Angst.” This award is selectively presented to the choreographer whose work has been designated as the most outstanding of the Festival. Congratulations to Lauren Harper, a Twin City Ballet Company Artist in Residence, who auditioned for FOX Broadcasting’s popular “So You Think You Can Dance” competition with 2,200 other dancers and finished in the TOP 200! Amazing!
Mike and Dawne Walsworth
Jay Russell and Felicia Kostelka
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On April 16-17, 2013, Kristin Brown and Debbie Stockstill attended Florescence in Houston, TX. Florescence is one of the largest competitive national flower shows sanctioned by the Garden Club of America in the United States, presented by The Garden Club of Houston, River Oaks Garden Club and the Museum of Fine Arts, Houston. Florescence showcased floral and horticultural arrangements by garden club experts, renowned floral and garden designers, members of The Asia Society, Houston, and other noted personalities. Many of these flower arrangements were interpretations of masterpieces from the Museum of Fine Arts, Houston´s permanent collection. Debbie and Kristin were awarded second in their class and "Best Interpretation of Theme.” The painting they interpreted is entitled "Trance" by William Baziotes, painted in 1953, part of Houston's Museum of Fine Arts permanent collection.
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Mark you calendars for Saturday, May 4th to visit the Downtown RiverMarket. The Bourgeois Sisters booth will have tasty samples of new soups, sauces & casseroles. All family recipes - stop by for a taste and take home a delicious meal!
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Lauren Harper
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BayouBuzzworthy
On March 20, 2013, guests were invited to a soft opening at Monroe’s newest downtown restaurant, River and Rail Cantina. Patrons enjoyed views of the Ouachita River while sipping margaritas on the beautiful back deck. River and Rail Cantina is located at 201 Walnut Street in Monroe.
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River < & Rail Cantina
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Liu Receives Grant
The National Cancer Institute awarded $310,045 to Yong-Yu Liu, an associate professor of pharmacology at the University of Louisiana at Monroe. The grant will fund his “critically important” breast cancer research. Liu, M.D., Ph.D., teaches in the Basic Pharmaceutical Sciences Department in ULM’s College of Pharmacy. “This grant is critically important for cancer research because it helps us learn how cancer stem cells cause chemotherapy failure and how to target cancer stem cells to improve cancer treatments. This grant also creates a unique opportunity for training our students in the forefront of biomedical study.” Liu’s long-term goal is to understand how cancer stem cells can be specifically manipulated for preventive and therapeutic purposes. ULM’s College of Pharmacy is the only state-supported pharmacy program in Louisiana. To learn more, visit: ulm.edu/pharmacy
May is Stroke Awareness Month
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F.A.S.T. IS: • Face Drooping: Does one side of the face droop or is it numb? Ask the person to smile. • Arm Weakness: Is one arm weak or numb? Ask the person to raise both arms. Does one arm drift downward? • Speech Difficulty: Is speech slurred, are they unable to speak, or are they hard to understand? Ask the person to repeat a simple sentence, like "the sky is blue." Is the sentence repeated correctly? • Time to call 911: If the person shows any of these symptoms, even if the symptoms go away, call 911 and get them to the hospital immediately. Visit www.stfran.com/strokecare to learn more about how to prevent having a stroke and how to recognize the warning signs. *Sources: American Heart Association & Centers for Disease Control & Prevention St. Francis Medical Center and St. Francis Medical Group are working together to make blood pressure testing more accessible to the community. Together, they sponsor a bright blue, easy-to-spot Heart Check Center™ blood pressure-testing kiosk display at Pecanland Mall, which provides FREE testing. Uncontrolled blood pressure can lead to stroke, heart attack, heart failure or kidney failure. The only way to determine high blood pressure is to have it checked regularly.
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Celebrating 50 Years Miss Louisiana Pageant Slated For June 29, 2013
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HEN LAUREN VIZZA PLACES THE CROWN ON THE head of the next Miss Louisiana in June, she’ll have one piece of valuable advice. “Enjoy every single day and every single moment, because a year isn’t as long as you think it is,” says Vizza, Miss Louisiana 2012. Vizza is the 49th individual to hold the title. Sometime late in the evening on June 29th, the 50th Miss Louisiana will begin her reign, marking five decades of excellence and scholarship, which is, after all, the point of the annual Miss Louisiana Pageant. Miss Louisiana Executive Vice President Darris Waren says just last year, the Miss Louisiana organization doled out more than $60,000 in cash scholarship and in excess of $1 million worth of in-kind scholarships. “This year, we’ll be doing it again,” says Waren, who constantly reminds people that the Miss Louisiana organization is about more than a beauty contest. Waren says scholarship is important to the group as it is one of the four points of the Miss America crown. The remaining three points are Service, Style and Success. To that end, some 37 Miss Louisiana contestants are competing this year for the crown. Part of that competition includes individual platforms (former Miss Louisiana Hope Anderson remains an active part of Pilots for Patients, for example) and participation in the Miss America official charity, the Children’s Miracle Network. The largest pageant in the organization’s fifty-year history featured forty competitors. But Hurricanes Katrina and Rita hit the state— and the Miss Louisiana organization—hard. Waren says he’s pleased with the increased number of competitors. “We’re getting back up to that pre-Katrina mark,” Waren says. Increasing the pageant’s competition base is important because, Waren says, it provides organizers the ability to provide even more scholarship dollars and more charitable donations--and to attract more people to the Miss Louisiana Pageant in Monroe, affectionately known
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to pageant insiders as “The Big Show.” The three-day Miss Louisiana Pageant spreads preliminary competitions across the schedule and offers locals their first chance to get up close and personal with the competitors—just one of whom will be chosen to represent Louisiana at the Miss America pageant next year. The competitors will each take part in preliminary competitions, interviews, and talent rehearsals. But there’s one big difference this year: instead of a Thursday-Friday-Saturday schedule, the pageant preliminaries will begin Wednesday, June 26th. “Prelims,” in pageant speak, are the early rounds of competition where the competitors first meet judges, begin answering questions, and, most importantly, start tallying points. It is the preliminary competition that will help to determine who the top competitors are. Waren says organizers shifted the schedule a day to make room for a 50th Anniversary Commemoration, in the form of a variety show presented by and for the previous Miss Louisiana titleholders. “So far, we have 32 confirmed former Miss Louisianas performing,” Waren says. “We’ve got them coming from California and New York, and from as far north as Washington State and from New Orleans. Literally all four corners of the country.” The Miss Louisiana variety show is one of the activities Miss Louisiana 2012 is most looking forward to. “I’m like a little kid at Disney World,” Vizza says of the variety show. While there will be singing and dancing, Vizza noted many of the former titleholders will present their talents from the years they won the crown. “I never got to see them do that.” The 50th Annual Miss Louisiana Pageant will be held June 29th, beginning at 8 p.m. in the Jack Howard Theatre at the Monroe Civic Center. Tickets are available online or by calling the Civic Center Box Office.
Watermelon Summer
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Then there is a great memory of the first watermelon I ate on the balcony of our new Orange Beach condo. That was a good melon with great family time and quite a view. I never wrote the poem. I’m reminded that all the things I intended to do will never get done unless I do them. So here I go... A poem doesn’t seem appropriate anymore. My emotions cannot be contained inside phrases with limited parameters. My words cannot be selected just to be in rhythm - sometimes life doesn’t fit so neatly. A lot can change in a year. A year can be such a a long time. A year can be such a short time. Last summer, I enjoyed watermelon with my father-in-law, Daddy Frank - the best father-in-law and granddaddy in the world. He was always making us laugh. Since his last watermelon, he endured many surgeries, days in ICU and ultimately death. This year when I enjoy my watermelon, he will not be sitting by the pool making us laugh. I look forward to the first watermelon of the year. As I enjoy the sweet juices grown in the Southern soil, I’m reminded of our past, our heritage, a symbol of the South. As I enjoy my watermelon, I’m reminded that all things in this world will end and there are many cycles that we all go through. Where I have once been, my children are now. Where my parents and in-laws are now, I must go. When I cut my first watermelon this year, I know that Daddy Frank will be enjoying his first watermelon in heaven, and he’ll be smiling down on us. The thoughts are now out of my head and onto paper. Now I’m ready to go “thump for the best” and take a big first bite. P.S. Remember to spit the seeds.
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REFERENCES (1) Tabar L, Tony Chen HH, Amy Yen MF, et al: Mammographic tumor features can predict long-term outcomes reliably in women with 114mm invasive breast cancer. Cancer 2004; 101 (8). 1745-59. (2) Weedon-Fekjaer HH, Lindqvist BH, Aalen OO, et al: Breast cancer tumor growth estimated through mammographic screening data. Breast Cancer Res 2008 (May 8); 1111110(3):R41. [Epub ahead of print]
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Lake Bruin
9 Sara Lane, Natchez
Terral Island
Lake lot (104 lake front feet) and pier for sale by owner on beautiful Lake Bruin! Osceola Subdivision - easy access to/from Highway 65. Ready for new construction | Carlyle Killen | 337-9625323 | carlylepaxton@gmail.com
New construction. 3 BD, 2 BA in beautiful, premier subdivision in Natchez, MS. Only 4 years old. Open floor plan. Granite countertops, high ceilings, scored concrete floors. Spacious Workshop. 1 Acre Lot. MLS #2012000317 Betsy Hungerford-Iles | 601-597-2509
Last lot on Terral Island in Farmerville. Beautiful piece of paradise on the east side of the island, ready for your dream construction. Ungrnd utilities, sprinkler sytm, storage building, boat house with swim deck/fish cleaning station with neighborhood restrictions. | 318-680-2113 | $125,000
Gorgeous view of the bayou. 6 bedrooms, 4 baths. Screened in porch/balcony. Separate apartment. Priced below appraisal. Generator and elevator. Butlerâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s pantry; tons of built-ins. Dock and pier. Third floor attic. 152368 Heather Guillot | Remax Premier Realty | 318-331-4229
$295,000 This 3 bedroom, 3 bath camp is perfect for entertaining with large screened in areas and covered patios. Pier has 3 lifts and covered sitting area 2268 Hwy 606, Lake Bruin Island, St. Joseph, LA Jane Netterville Broker & Associates | 318-766-4585
$164,321 Beautifully landscaped w/perennials, annuals, pond & landscape lighting. 2-story shop w/ AC/heat. Hdwd thru out w/cer. tile in utility & bathrooms. Walk-in shower in MBR bath w/multiple shower heads. 155597 | Mark Phelps John Rea Realty | 388-0941 or 237-5153
$539,000 Beautiful 2 story 5 bedroom, 4.5 bath home right in the heart of Monroe. Very spacious rooms. Features a guest house and in-ground pool. 156770 | Melba Gray Phelps | John Rea Realty | 348-1754 or 388-0941
$260,000 Completely remodeled kitchen w/marble & glass tiles, upscale appliances! Energy efficient windows, 2 fireplaces, 4 BR, & lg. playroom, 3 full baths. Spac. back yard w/brick fence & outdoor lighting.157039 | Nancy Vascocu | John Rea Realty | 348-8550 or 388-0941
$799,000 LAKE BRUIN! Impressive lake house with 4 BR, 5 BA, open floor plan, vaulted ceilings, exposed beams, high end kitchen, screened outdoor living & kitchen w/Viking appl., WBFP, TV. Pier with 3 boat sips, 2 jet ski slips. Commercial ice maker & buzz off on pier & house. Comes fully furnished. 157889 | Paula Wilhite | John Rea Realty | 341-0981 or 388-0941
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Gardening & Growing
During this special year of celebration for The Garden Club of America’s Centennial and the Monroe Garden Study League’s 30th Anniversary, there was no better way to honor this wonderful time than with the MGSL Flower Show “Gardening & Growing with The GCA: An Anniversary Celebration.” The show was a huge success because of the hard work and support of every member. Chairpeople for the event were Kristin Brown and Sue Sartor with Debbie Stockstill and Beth Murphy. The judges were impressed with MGSL’s talented group; especially the creative Photography, the gorgeous cut specimens in Horticulture, and the beautiful and diverse Floral Design. A special “thank-you” to Carol MacDonald for conducting the informative critique and Walk-Through of Floral Design for MGSL members, the judges who traveled from out-of-town as well as the Junior Garden Club members.
Flower Show Awards Floral Design Division – Best in Show: Kristin Brown Novice Award: Ginny Yatco and Leigh Ann Goff Most Creative Interpretation: Dee Ledbetter Best Use of Color: Annette Harrison and Margaret Brock Best Use of Plant Material : Sue Sartor and Margaret Barr Horticulture Division – Best in Show: Ashley Higginbotham Novice Award: Sue Sartor Best Cut Specimen: Ashley Higginbotham Best Container Plant: Ashley Higginbotham Photography Division – Best in Show: Sandy Dansby Novice Award: Kathy VanVeckhoven
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About three years ago, the FDA cleared a new technique, called CoolSculpting, which gently chills the fat layer and has been clinically proven to reduce localize bulges of unwanted fat, without needles, without incisions and most importantly without downtime. CoolSculpting uses an ingenious concept called cryolipolysis developed by researchers at Harvard Medical School. The device delivers precise, even cooling to the fat layer causing fat cells to rupture and slowly release their contents. The fatty material is picked up by the lymphatic system and processed just like a piece of cheesecake or a Shipley’s donut. Studies of hundreds of patients who have undergone CoolSculpting treatments have shown no significant increase in serum cholesterol or lipid levels. Improvement is gradual and progressive, peaking at three months. Patients in the initial studies experienced a 20-25% reduction in the thickness of the fat in the area treated as measured by ultrasound. The procedure can be repeated at three-month intervals if necessary. Only one area can be treated at a time, and the procedure takes about an hour. No sedation is needed so you can drive yourself to and from the office. No compression garments are necessary after the treatments, and you can literally return to your normal activities, including exercise, immediately. Of course, the procedure is not for everyone. If you are morbidly obese, you still need bariatric surgery. If you are moderately obese, you still need a disciplined program of diet and exercise and may eventually require liposuction and excisional body contouring for an optimal result. But if you are reasonably fit, close to your ideal weight, yet in spite of Zumba, Body Pump, Spin Classes and half marathons still have localized areas of unwanted fat, then CoolSculpting may be right for you. Call Mickel Plastic Surgery at (318) 388-2050 to set up a consultation.
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Additionally, the lower anchors in vehicles vary in weight limits so an installation using the vehicle seat belt may be required. Some stores will allow you to “try” the seat if you leave your license or credit card with them during the trial period.
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Why must the seat be new? Purchasing used child seats at garage sales, thrift shops or hand-me-downs is strongly discouraged. Child restraints which are involved in crashes may not be effective the second time around. This critical information will not be known if not purchased brand new. Is your child’s life worth that risk? For more information, please visit www.NHTSA.gov. For a free evaluation and child seat selection/installation information from a nationally certified child passenger safety technician, please contact Louisiana State Police at 345-0000 or 345-2810 to set-up an appointment. Written by Lt. Julie Lewis, Louisiana State Police Public Affairs, Safekids certified child passenger safety technician and technician instructor since 2003.
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May 2 & 9-11 Guys and Dolls Time: Thursday and Friday performances at 7:00 pm; Saturday performances at 2:00 pm The Strauss Youth Academy for Arts is performing Guys and Dolls. Don’t miss this exciting musical presentation! Admission Cost: Ticket Prices Vary Strauss Theatre Center • (318) 3236681• www.strausstheatrecenter.com May 2 Fiddlin' on the Vine Time: 5:00 pm-8:00 pm The Monroe Symphony Orchestra presents Fiddlin' on the Vine at Landry Vineyards. Enjoy a sampling of wine and tasty down-home fare featuring entertainment by the Bluegrass Boys. Admission Cost: $20 Landry's Vineyard •(318) 812-6761 www.monroesymphonyorchestra.com May 4 Garden Path Series Time: 11:00 am The flowers are blooming and the bees are buzzing at the Biedenharn Gardens! Bring the whole family to watch as Amy Weeks collects honey from all the bees in the Gardens! Admission Cost: $5 Per Person Biedenharn Museum and Gardens •(318) 387-5281 • www.bmuseum.org May 4, 5, 10, 11, 12, 16, 17, 18, 19, 24, 25 Natchez Festival of Music The Natchez Festival of Music brings high quality Opera, Broadway and Jazz performances to the Natchez area. For more information on concert schedules and ticket prices, visit their website at natchezfestivalofmusic.com. May 4, 11, 18, & 25 RiverMarket Days Don’t miss the shopping fun at the Downtown RiverMarket in Monroe nestled alongside the beautiful Ouachita River! Vendors with clothing, accessories, food, home décor, produce, and
more will be there, along with special guests for each themed weekend. Don’t Miss: May 4-International World Day May 11-Mother’s Day May 18- Shop & Stroll May 25- Health & Fitness Admission: Free to attend RiverMarket • (318) 807-1735 • www.downtownrivermarket.com May 4-6 ULM Warhawk Softball Time: Friday 4:00 pm & 6:00 pm, Saturday 1:00 pm Come out and support the ULM Warhawks Softball Team as they take on UL-Lafayette! Admission Cost: ULM students admitted free; $8 for adults; $4 for children (4-17) ULM Softball Field • www.ulmwarhawks.com May 10 Juanita Cochran Remembered Time: 11:00 am-2:00 pm Join us as we celebrate the life of the late Juanita Cochran at Rhymes Memorial Library. Admission Cost: Free Rhymes Memorial Library * 815 Louisa Street, Rayville, LA • (318)728-4127 May 11 Landry Vineyards Concert Daniel Sumner "Jazz Band" Time: 4:30 pm – 8:00 pm Enjoy this Landry Vineyards outdoor concert featuring the Daniel Sumner “Jazz Band.” Make sure you pack your lawn chair, blanket and picnic dinner and enjoy the outdoor show. Admission Cost: Adults - $6, Children under 12 - Free Landry Vineyard • (318) 557-9051 • www.landryvineyards.com May 11 The Art and Music Campaign Time: 10:00 am-8:00 pm Enjoy an outdoor concert from local bands such as And We Were Saints, Prestor John, Adam Rowan MAY 2013 BayouLife Magazine 133
Local Artists Included in Exhibit Four Northeast Louisiana Artists Included in “Delta Artists” Exhibit at Tunica RiverPark and Museum
Four Northeast Louisiana artists were recently invited to participate in an exhibit in Tunica, MS. The Tunica RiverPark and Museum will open its new gallery to the public on April 25 with the “Delta Artists” exhibit. Local artists with pieces in the “Delta Artists” exhibit include: • Joli Livaudais from Monroe with photography • Don Hudnall from West Monroe with pottery • Donna McGee from West Monroe with acrylic/mixed media paintings • Melanie Douthit from West Monroe with acrylic paintings T. Clifton Art in Memphis, TN curated the exhibit which will run through August 31. Pat Brown, co-owner of T. Clifton Art, said she selected a diverse range of artists and art for the exhibit. “In looking at the richness of all the Delta artists, we wanted visitors to see different mediums and styles,” said Brown. “Each of the artist’s area of emphasis truly epitomizes the diversity of the region. I also selected artists with a wide range of experience; some are emerging artists and some are well established.” Brown chose 25 artists who have an association with the Mississippi Delta. For more information, visit www.tunicariverpark.com
Music, Phyrebeatz, AO, and Kali, Ali Grayson and more! Also in the park there will be food, drinks, games, face painting, a moon bounce, bake sale, silent auction and more. On the inside, there will be an art show taking place with many different artists that will include Gary Ratcliff, Heather Miles, Andrea May and more. This event is to help raise money for Portico Church so that we can purchase our own sound system. With this sound system, we will be able to open up The Palace as a music venue to put life back into Downtown Monroe! Admission Cost: $5 for 10 and up Portico Church • (318) 340-0023 May 11 Mother's Day Blues Fest Time: 7:30 pm It's Mother's day and what better way to celebrate with your family than at the Monroe Civic Center Blues Fest! Join in on a night of good music and fellowship! Admission Cost: $25 in advance, $30 at the door. Monroe Civic Center • (318) 329-2225 May 11 Young Voices: A Teen Poetry Event Time: 3:00 pm-5:00 pm Young Voices is a teen poetry event created to provide a space for high school students to express themselves to promote literature and selfexpression. Admission Cost: Free Tri-District Boys and Girls Club • (318) 538-1187 May 11 Camp Quality 5k Road Race Time: Registration 8:00 am, 5k Run begins at 9:00 am Help celebrate 25 years of Camp Quality with a 5k Road Race! Put on your running shoes and compete, or head to Forsythe and show the runners your support! Admission Cost: $25 April 28th - May 10th, $30 Race Day Forsythe Park • (318) 329-2439 • www.campqualityuse.org/la May 16-18 ULM Warhawk Baseball Time: 6:00 pm Come out and support the ULM Warhawks Baseball Team as they take on UL-Lafayette! Admission Cost: ULM students admitted free; $8 for adults; $4 for children (4-17) ULM Warhawk Field • www.ulmwarhawks.com
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May 18 Bayou DeSiard Dragon Boat Races Don’t miss the fun as teams from Northeast Louisiana compete in these colorful boats in a race for the prize. This event raises money for Downtown Renaissance, a group working to revitalize Downtown Monroe. Admission: Free to attend Bayou DeSiard (corner of Forsythe and Loop) • (318) 388-2323 May18-19 Ronald McDonald Big Bass Tournament Time: Weigh-ins every hour beginning at 7 am until 3 pm; Prizes awarded at 3:30 pm on Sunday Don’t miss the excitement as fishermen compete to land the big one! Weigh-ins on the hour, and the one who catches the Big Bass goes home with $10,000! Admission: Free to attend Lazarre Park • (318) 387-7933 May 24 Moonlight in the Garden Time: 7:00 pm-10:00 pm, Music begins at 7:30 pm Treat yourself, your family and friends to a Coke Float courtesy of the Biedenharn Coke Museum and The Creamery. Bluebell Homemade Vanilla Ice Cream adds a great taste to a glass of Coca-Cola served up by some of Monroe's best soda jerks. Enjoy this nostalgic treat as you stroll through ELSong Garden by the light of the full moon. Brian Sivils will be playing the blues at 7:30pm! Admission Cost: $5 Biedenharn Museum and Gardens • (318) 387-5281 • www.bmuseum.org May 24-26 Crawfish Craze 5-D Barrel Run Time: Friday Exhibition 2:00 pm-5:30 pm & Show 6:00 pm, Saturday Exhibition 6:00 am-8:30 am & Show 9:00 am, Sunday Church 8:00 am & Show 9:00 am S&J Farm and Feed presents this year’s Crawfish Craze 5-D Barrel Run event. Bring the whole family and watch as contestant’s race for the fastest time. Admission Cost: Free Ike Hamilton Expo Center • (318) 3259160 • www.crawfishcraze.webs.com
For more information on upcoming events, visit The Monroe/West Monroe Convention and Visitors Bureau at http://www.monroe-westmonroe.org or call (318) 3875691.