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132 30 / READY, SET, DESIGN From Vietnam to Hollywood, John Marsala’s Career Has Taken Him Around the Globe and Back to the Future

106 / DESIGN WEBB Architect Clyde Webb Reflects on His Career and Role in Building One of the Most Successful Local Firms in Louisiana, Architecture Plus

48 / MOTHER’S LASTING IMPACT SHAPES HER CHILDREN’S LIVES While Theresa Marsala is No Longer Present, Her Spirit is Alive in the Minds, Hearts and Actions of Her Children

132 / SUMMER SUITED Suit Up in The Season’s Best Looks From Area Boutiques. From Color Block Swimsuits To Flirty Ruffles, This Summer Styles Bold Colors WIth Sultry Appeal

74 / DESIGN BOARDS Four Local Designers Showcase Elements of Design That Define Their Style

150 / NOT JUST THE BOY NEXT DOOR Joe Haydel May Look Like A Boy Next Door, But His Music Speaks To a Repository of Experience That Surpasses Age and Music Genre

82 / TRUE TO TRADITION Frank’s Has Brought the Love of the Italian Pizza-Making Craft to Louisiana

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178 / GIRL ON FIRE Fashion Designer and Project Runway Star Lela Orr has Watched Her Childhood Dreams Come True 202 / DON’T BLAME YOUR AGE, BLAME YOUR STRESS How Chronically Elevated Cortisol Disrupts Your Entire Hormonal Symphony, and Simple Tricks For Keeping Your System in Tune

APRIL 2018

160 / BY LAND OR SEA Finding the Fun in Traveling Without a Plan

218 / Dream Home This Year’s St. Jude’s Dream Home is a Collaboration of Local Designers, National and Local Sponsors, and the People of This Community and Beyond Contributing Their Talents and Resources in the Fight Against Childhood Cancer

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ELLO, SUMMERTIME

I’ve been waiting for you. School is almost out and my kids are anxiously counting down the days until they get to stay up late and sleep in. I’ve always loved our home issues and this magazine has been one of my favorites. Taylor Bennett and Kelly Moore Clark teamed up for some amazing home shoots. I’ve mentioned on our Facebook and in the magazine how proud I am of our staff. At our local advertising awards, we took home several Gold Addys, and Best of Show. This honor means that a few of our pieces are headed to district advertising awards. I couldn’t produce this magazine without my hardworking staff, our amazing advertisers and loyal readers. Thank you for your continued support. Speaking of hardworking employees, this month we welcome our new graphic designer, Meagan Russell. Meagan is a graduate of Louisiana Tech University, and currently resides in Winnsboro with her husband, Dustin, and furbabies, Zazu, Nala and Simba. She did an amazing job this month, and we can’t wait to see what the future holds for Meagan and BayouLife. For months I’ve watched the progress of the St. Jude’s Dream Home. St. Jude’s holds a special place in my heart, because our family was directly affected by childhood cancer. My cousin, Allyson, was admitted to St. Jude’s as an infant, and today is a survivor. She is currently at the hospital participating in a study, and has dedicated her life to researching cancer. Once again, Jan Hales Strickland, donated her time and efforts as the lead designer. Jan, along with countless volunteers, built

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PUBLISHER & OWNER Cassie Livingston cassie@bayoulifemag.com and designed a magnificent home. See the completed project on page 218. Are you looking for gift ideas for a new graduate or unique find for Mother’s Day? We’ve gathered some of our favorite products perfectly fit for these occasions. From charm necklaces for the new grad to a luxurious spa day for mom, we’ve got your covered. Find our gift guide on page 228. Growing up, I would wander through the cubicles at Architecture Plus visiting with designers and architects, and looking at blueprints spread across desks. There were a few times that my dad would let me fly with him across the country to various Dillard’s department stores that they were working on. My dad always spoke highly of his boss, Mr. Clyde Webb, and after reading his article, I now know why. Read about our May BayouIcon on page 106. It’s no joke that a few of us at the BayouLife office are a little obsessed with Bravo. And, we were completely thrilled to meet our own Monroe Bravolebrity, Lela Orr – a contestant on Project Runway. Read about her journey on page 178. There are so many great articles in this month’s issue. We hope you enjoy reading it, and please remember to SHOP LOCAL! Thanks ~

Cassie

COPY EDITOR Cindy Foust GRAPHIC DESIGNER Meagan Russell meagan@bayoulifemag.com ADVERTISING MANAGER Ashley Hubenthal ashley@bayoulifemag.com ADVERTISING SALES EXECUTIVE Amanda Singley amanda@bayoulifemag.com ADVERTISING SALES EXECUTIVE Katelyn Tolbert katelyn@bayoulifemag.com OFFICE MANAGER Sarah McElroy sarah@bayoulifemag.com ART DIRECTOR Taylor Bennett CONTRIBUTING WRITERS Dan Chason Laura W. Clark Kenny Covington Shannon Dahlum Lou Davenport Cindy Gist Foust Lori French J. Marshall Haynie Kerry Heafner April Clark Honaker Paul Lipe

Erin Love Meredith McKinnie Dr. Timothy Mickel Guy Miller Evelyn O’Neal Kay Rector Cathi French-Roberts Delia Simpson Beatrice A. Tatem Vanelis Rivera Judy Wagoner

CONTRIBUTING PHOTOGRAPHERS Andrew Bailey Kelly Moore Clark Jamie Dahlum Scarlett Garcia Anna Beth Guerriero Heather Land Hunter Romero ON THE COVER The St. Jude’s Dream Home Kitchen Design BayouLife Magazine is published and distributed by Redbird Publishing, LLC. Circulation: 13,000 copies monthly. Postal subscriptions ($30) can be ordered online at www.bayoulifemag. com. BayouLife Magazine is not responsible for unsolicited photographs, manuscripts or other materials. Reproduction of contents without express written permission is prohibited.

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The Significance of Stuff A Reflection of Our Lives Reflected in Our Homes BY BEATRICE TATEM, PH.D., LPC-S, NCC, ACS

RECALL VISITING AN ELDERLY FRIEND IN HER HOME. At first glance, her modest home appeared neat and orderly yet filled with randomly placed artifacts she referred to as her “stuff.“ Her home always felt inviting, emotionally safe and warm. It reflected decades of her living in the same home while serving as an educator, family member and community advocate. As we sipped tea I would inquire about various items as they stimulated my curiosity. One evening in a whispery voice she shared with me, “I am almost a hundred and I won’t be here much longer but as long as I am here I will enjoy looking at my stuff. People ask me all of the time what are you going to do with all of these things? I tell them I experience pleasure when looking at my stuff, it reminds me of the good life I have had. I guess when I am gone my family will come and get my stuff.” I would share with my “senior girlfriend” that I valued hearing the stories associated with her “stuff” almost as much as she was delighted to tell me. I would remind her of the saying, “one man’s junk is another man’s treasure” and to this we would laugh. My “senior girlfriend” is no longer alive and yet her “stuff” and the stories she shared remain. As a result of her sharing her stories I became aware that her “stuff” served as a life line of memories; memories that figuratively took me through a century long journey through a life I otherwise would not have known. Her collection of “stuff” gave voice to her living long and well while living at home. Our homes reflect our lives, our experiences, our relationships, our personalities and ultimately who we are. Our homes are repositories for our “stuff;” they house our memories, project our emotions, represent our interest, showcase our treasures and fulfill our senses. The things we acquire represent the people that come in to our lives and are often times symbolic of memorable events and meaningful occasions. The significance of “stuff” is not about our attachment to the actual object or “stuff,“ but our attachment to the people, experiences, feelings, sentiment and meaning associated with the object or “stuff.” There are times when individuals seek counseling in an effort to achieve order and normalcy to their lives. They are frequently amused when I inquire as to the nature of their home. I ask about the home environment, as it is where we begin our day and where

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we retire each night; it is my way of getting a sense of where people are emotionally. I will ask them how is the environment at home, is it disorganized, chaotic, messy and scattered? Or is it relaxed, calm, open and welcoming? Is it heavily decorated or minimally decorated? Does the environment pop with bright color or are subdued muted colors used? I explain that the space around us often reflects what is going on inside of us. Our homes say a lot about who we are and what we deem as important in our lives. It projects what we think and how we feel. In essence, our environments are often the exterior reflections of our interior worlds. I am an HGTV fan and after a long day at work in which people are seeking counsel as to how to organize and declutter their lives, I wind down by watching Love It or List It, Flea Market Flip, The Property Brothers, House Hunters, Fixer Upper with Johnna and Chip or Home Town with Ben and Erin Napier. Akin to renovating our homes and cleaning out that coveted junk closet full of stuff, we have to open the doors and clear out our emotional spaces to renovate our lives. As I prepare to move into my new “home away from home” … my office (see Wellness Initiatives LLC, Finds a New Home on page 140) I am reminded of the significance of stuff and that each of us assigns value to things based on the sentiment, feeling and attachment we have for the object. Perhaps you live in your childhood home or a house that you recently moved in. Maybe your home is your dream home or you are renting an apartment with a group of friends. Whether your house is big and grand, or small and intimate, brand new or in need of renovations, sparsely decorated or filled to the brim with personal treasures others regard as junk, be mindful to create a space that reflects your values and brings you joy. May the space you call home be full of the “stuff” you hold dear. For more information about counseling services and outreach programming contact Dr. Tatem at Wellness Initiatives,LLC 1900 North 18th Street, Suite 414, Monroe, La 71201, 318-410-1555 or at btatem.bt@gmail.com.

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A Beery Good Time 4th Annual DOMO Brewfest

BY DELIA SIMPSON, CRAFT BRAND MANAGER, CHOICE BRANDS, INC.

ACH YEAR, THE DOMO BREWFEST brings over a thousand craft beverage enthusiasts to the down-town Monroe area. This year, for the first time, it will be held at the Monroe Civic Center Arena. The arena will be transformed into a giant beer garden for all to enjoy. There will be over 200 different types of craft beverages available for sampling as well as food vendors, music from DJ Rob Lloyd, and some very special limited batches from local homebrewers. The list of amenities has definitely grown this year, with plenty of parking, air conditioning, and bathrooms. There will be ten check in lines to ensure a timely entry. Tickets are $25 and available for presale until the day of the event at domobrewfest.com. Your ticket gains your entry into the event and access to the tastings. All entrants must be 21 or older with valid ID. Tastings begin at 6:00 p.m. and doors open at 5:00 p.m. Once inside, food can be purchased separately. There will be sliders from 2 Dudes Brew and Que, popcorn from The Crazy Popper, the famous Etoufee Lady will have her signature dish, and Tony’s Pizza will be on hand with slices and mini calzones. If beer and pretzels is your thing, Sonic will have soft pretzel sticks with cheese dip. Now that you’re thirsty, here’s just a snippet of what will be available to wet your whistle… Flying Tiger Brewery Our local craft brewery, Flying Tiger, will be slinging out samples of their flagship favorites, Burma Blonde, Man at Arms Amber,

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and Heroic Hops IPA. They will also have the new star of their lineup, Final Resting Place Double IPA. It’s described as a juicy, hazy departure from hops as you know them and it’s been getting rave reviews, so make sure you get a taste before it’s gone. Rumor has it, there may be some other specialty beers on deck, so stay tuned. Lagunitas Brewery Lagunitas, which originated in Petaluma, California, is practically synonymous with IPA. In addition to their flagship IPA, they will be bringing samples of their new Daytime IPA. Clocking in at 98 calories and 4% ABV, it is a hop-forward brew that will appeal to craft beer lovers, while being fairly crushable on a hot summer day. Be on the lookout for another new kid on the block, Super Cluster Ale. It is a citra-hopped mega ale of intergalactic proportions. At 8% ABV and 60 IBU’s, this one is more of a sipper. Bell’s Brewery Bell’s Brewery actually started as a homebrew shop in Kalamazoo, Michigan in 1983. These days, they are cranking out beer all over the country. Bell’s Two Hearted IPA was named the best beer in the country by Zymurgy Magazine (a highly respected publication among home-brewers) in 2018 for the second year in a row. Stop by the Bell’s table and see what the fuss is about. They will also have their brand new addition, Official Hazy IPA on hand. It is a double dry-hopped IPA balanced with wheat malt. The resulting

flavor is complex with notes of peach and stone fruit. Cape Line Sparkling Cocktails Not a beer drinker? Not a problem. Refreshment is still at your fingertips. There will be a variety of non-beer beverages to enjoy. Cape Line Sparkling Cocktails have just made their debut locally. Available in variety 6 packs and 12 packs, as well as Strawberry Lemonade 6 packs, they are a healthier alternative to the premixed cocktail. Each slim can has just 120 calories, 4.5% ABV, and six simple ingredients. They are certified gluten free and the other flavors in the variety pack are Blackberry Mojito and Margarita. This is barely scratching the surface. There will be brews from Abita, Sam Adams, Crying Eagle, Dogfish Head, Shiner, and too many more to list. Domo Brewfest truly is a great event that helps expand the culture of craft beer in our area. It’s a great opportunity to sample your favorites and find new ones. Presented by the Downtown Monroe Alliance, all proceeds benefit special projects and beautification in Downtown Monroe. Make sure to get your tickets today! Be sure to like Choice Brands on Facebook and follow us on Twitter and Instagram to keep up with local happenings and new product releases. In addition, you’ll find links to beer related articles, fun recipes, and much more! Find us at facebook.com/ choicebrands, twit-ter.com/choicebrandsinc, and instagram.com/choicebrands.

Hearing is at the Heart of Relationships Audibel Helps with Hearing Loss and Overall Health

HE SECRET TO STAYING HAPPY and healthy? Open any magazine and you’re bound to find an article on how to turn back the hands of time. Posts on health and wellness are among the most popular on social media. Many of us hope to age gracefully and happily by looking and feeling our best. But is worrying about looking older delaying our decision to get hearing aids? If so, The Harvard Study of Adult Development should change our minds. For 75 years, the study tracked the lives of its subjects and found that the key to being happy and healthy as we age is the strength of our relationships. It’s not professional accomplishments, financial stability or looking like we did when we were 30. It’s having good relationships. “The clearest message that we get from this study is this: Good relationships keep us happier and healthier,” said psychiatrist Robert Waldinger, current director of the study. Dr. Waldinger and three generations of fellow researchers examined the medical records, brain scans and interviews of 724 participants over a 75-year period. They also interviewed family and friends, and what they discovered is fascinating. The study found that the number of friends a person has isn’t important, but the quality of those friendships is.

vital for our health. In fact, researchers found that 50-year olds with the highest level of satisfaction in relationships turned out to be the healthiest in their 80s. Researchers believe secure relationships even help preserve brain function. Good relationships extend healthy life expectancy and quality of life as we age. We are happier and healthier when close friendships are maintained. Sadly, many of us are not that lucky. An alarming 1 in 5 Americans report feelings of loneliness. According to the study, participants who reported feelings of loneliness experienced earlier physical decline and an earlier death than participants with strong social connections.

THE QUALITY OF RELATIONSHIPS IS KEY Happiness and health late in life is tied to the health of our relationships. Connectivity to our family, friends and communities are

CAN TREATING HEARING LOSS HELP IMPROVE RELATIONSHIPS? Conversely, a study by the American Academy of Audiology found that using hearing aids to treat hearing loss improves

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SO WHAT DO HEARING AIDS HAVE TO DO WITH ALL THIS? Hearing is one of the most basic ways we connect with others. Listening, laughing, and engaging verbally and aurally with loved ones helps form and strengthen the connections that bind relationships. Hearing loss, on the other hand, can make talking, listening and engaging more difficult. Hearing loss is a well-known precursor to social isolation — which the Harvard study proves it negatively impacts the quality of a person’s relationships and, subsequently, their health and happiness as they age.

the health of our relationships at home and work. Treating hearing loss with hearing aids can positively impact overall health. Hearing aid wearers report increased self-confidence and socialization. Hearing our best improves communication with the important people in our lives, and good communication is one key to maintaining quality relationships over the course of our lifetime. So, if you want to increase your chances of being happy and healthy as you age, put aside your worries about how hearing aids might look, and invest in yourself by treating your hearing loss and maintain the quality of your relationships. ABOUT US Audibel The Hearing Center is Northeast Louisiana’s Audibel dispenser. Cherry Phillips “The Hearing Lady” has been serving this area for over 31 years. We offer free hearing screenings, free second opinions, extended warranties and repairs on all makes and brands of hearing aids. You can find out more by visiting our website www.AudibelMonroe. com and you can see more and like us on Facebook.com/AudibelMonroe.

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Historical Impressions

B L U E S TA R S I N T H E W I N D O W

ver the years I have been privileged to know and work with many Blue Star Mothers on activities to support our men and women serving on active duty. I think Blue Star Mothers have become so visible in our society today that most people recognize the name and in at least some fashion the meaning of the name. What may be less understood is the history and background of the Blue Star name. US Army Captain Robert Queisser of the Fifth Ohio Infantry designed a banner in 1917 to honor his two sons who were serving in combat during World War I. The banner was a white field with a red border and had two blue stars, one for each son. Queisser patented his banner and it quickly became the unofficial symbol for parents with a son in active military service. Government officials noted this popularity and on September 24, 1917, an Ohio congressman read the following into the US Congressional Record:

THE MAYOR OF CLEVELAND, THE CHAMBER OF COMMERCE, AND THE GOVERNOR OF OHIO HAVE ADOPTED THIS SERVICE FLAG. THE WORLD SHOULD KNOW OF THOSE WHO GIVE SO MUCH FOR LIBERTY. THE DEAREST THING IN ALL THE WORLD TO A FATHER AND MOTHER—THEIR CHILDREN.

In 1918 the Women’s Committee of the Council of National Defenses suggested mothers who had lost a child serving in the war should be allowed to wear a gold star on the traditional black mourning arm band. President Wilson approved their suggestion. Families who had been displaying Blue Star banners and who had lost their child picked up on this suggestion. These families began covering the blue star with a gold star on their banners to indicate that their child had died in service to the country. Because of its scope and greater availability of instant communications by news and government entities, World War 14 MAY 2019 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

II engaged the nation as had no other war. The practice of displaying the Blue and Gold Star window banners spread to all corners of America. Most of these banners (now more commonly called flags) were hand made by mothers for themselves or for other families. The largest Blue Star flag belonged to the Matthees family of Goddhue, MN who sent seven sons (three Army, two Navy, and two Army Air Force) to serve during World War II. All seven survived. Not all families were so lucky. One of the most noted impacts of that war was represented by the Gold Star flag of the Sullivan family of Waterloo, IA which honored five sons who all died in combat aboard the USS Juneau. The loss of all of the Sullivan brothers prompted the War Department to establish the Sole Survivor Policy to protect members of a family from the draft or from combat duty once a family lost a member(s) in military service. The display of Blue Star and Gold Star window flags was codified after the war under the term Service Star Banners. Flags were displayed during the Korean War but fell out of favor during the politically charged era of the Vietnam War. The tradition of displaying the flags returned during the Gulf War and has continued through today. Although blue and gold are the only colors specified for Service Star Banners there is a recent movement to add silver stars to represent those discharged from service because of wounds or combat injuries. Forty-nine states, Guam, Saipan, the US Virgin Islands, the Chickasaw Nation and over 2,700 cities and counties have issued proclamations in support of the Silver Star Banner and of Silver Star Service Banner Day on May 1st of every year. Additionally on April 21, 2010, US House of Representatives Resolution 855 recognized the Silver Star Service Banner and May 1st as Silver Star Service Banner Day. One state, Missouri, has taken steps to

make such recognition a state law. Regarding the Blue Star Mothers, Army Captain George Maines conceived the idea for the organization shortly after the World War II began. On January 22, 1942, a coupon was printed in the Flint (MI) News Advertiser and mothers of serviceman were asked to fill out and return the coupons. On February 1st, 300 mothers met at the Durant Hotel in Flint with Captain Maines as chair of this first meeting. The group decided to form a permanent organization when they received 1,000 responses to the ad. Blue Star Chapters quickly formed in Michigan and the organization spread to other states. On January 6, 1960, Congress chartered the Blue Star Mothers of America as a Veteran Service Organization. The Blue Star Mothers became an official part of a movement to provide care packages to military members serving overseas and to also provide assistance to families who encountered hardships as a result of their child or husband serving in the war. Blue Star Mothers of America is currently a 501(c)3 Veterans Service Organization. They are a non-partisan, non-sectarian and non-discriminatory organization. Their mission is simple:

• Support fellow members •S upport our sons, daughters and other family members who are currently serving in the US Armed Forces • Support our country’s veterans • Support the families of our fallen heroes

There are Blue Star Mothers chapters throughout the nation and more than 10,000 members. The Blue Star Mothers are a true National treasure.

BY GUY MILLER Vice Chair-Chennault Aviation and Military Museum

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Let’s Celebrate May is a Month for Celebrating!

ROM GRADUATIONS TO MOTHER’S DAY AND THE Kentucky Derby to Memorial Day, we here Washington Wine and Spirits have you covered for all of your celebration needs.

RUINART BRUT BLANC DE BLANC This wine shows a superb, golden yellow color with a beautiful luminosity and a fine and persistent mousse. The nose is clean and intense with warm, rich notes of brioche, French toast and roasted almonds. On the palate the wine is very supple and harmonious, with notes of honey and minerals on the long, sustained finish. Ruinart Blanc de Blancs is produced from a blend of 100% premiers crus Chardonnay grapes from the best of recent vintages. Grapes from the estate vineyards in Sillery and Brimont are joined by carefully selected grapes from other premiers crus vineyards in the Côte de Blancs and the Montagne de Reims. RUINART ROSÉ This wine is a brilliant orange-yellow rose petal color with a very fine, profuse and sustained mousse. The nose is characterized by small red berries, mainly currant. On the palate the wine is vigorous and well balanced. A fine, fresh, fruity wine with well-integrated tannins and a hint of spice on the lengthy finish. Ruinart Rosé is produced from a blend of 55% Pinot Noir and 45% Chardonnay from the best of recent vintages. All of the fruit is from premiers crus vineyards. The grapes for Ruinart are selected basket by basket at the source, and only the finest premiers crus are used. The next two are recent additions to Washington Wine and Spirits, the La Vieille Ferme Reserve Brut Sparkling and the Reserve Rosé Sparkling. These two sparkling wines pack a punch at a great price for all celebrations. Don’t forget to try their Still Rosé, as well! LA VIEILLE FERME RÉSERVE BRUT SPARKLING This wine is designed to share your celebration in elegance and simplicity. Whether served as an aperitif with friends or at a lavish banquet, this wine will help you enjoy memorable moments. Once blended, the wines are rested on their lees with regular stirring. This process creates an autolysis that is crucial to the sensorial development, bringing roundness and subtle aromas of hazelnut. The elaboration finishes with the “prise de mousse” or creating the foam and of course, bottling. La Vieille Ferme Réserve Brut Sparkling uniquely combines the tension of the limestone terroir, the freshness of Chardonnay and the roundness of aging on the lees.

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LA VIEILLE FERME RÉSERVE ROSÉ SPARKLING This beautiful, elegant sparkling Rosé is made from vines planted on limestone soils which allows the roots to draw the necessary freshness and water they need to provide good acidity to the wine. The main varieties are Grenache(40%) and Cinsault(40%), vinified by direct pressing and Pinot Noir(20%). Once blended, the wines are rested in stainless steel tanks. The neutrality of the stainless steel allows to preserve the fruit aromas and the freshness provided by the limestone soils. KENTUCKY DERBY TIME! The 2019 Kentucky Derby will be the 145th running of the Kentucky Derby, and will take place on Saturday, May 4, 2019. The official drink of the derby is the Mint Julep, and we have two amazing brands of premade Mint Juleps, perfect for Derby parties. For generations, Kentucky Derby enthusiasts have enjoyed Mint Juleps made with Louisville’s Hometown Bourbon, Old Forester. In honor of that grand tradition, the distillery created the Old Forester Mint Julep, named the Official Drink of the Kentucky Derby. This 60 proof Bourbon cocktail gives you the winning combination of rich Old Forester Bourbon and fresh garden mint. We also have Maker’s Mark Mint Julep. This cocktail in a bottle is made by infusing mint flavors into standard Maker’s Mark Bourbon and adding a touch of sugar to make this the perfect premade cocktail. Just add ice! STEAKS AND TWICE BAKED POTATOES! Memorial Day is right around the corner so be sure to come by the shop and purchase the Doe’s Eat Place uncooked steaks and twice baked potatoes here at Washington Wine and Spirits. You can call us at (318) 816-5067 and we will have your steaks wrapped and ready to go or just stop by the shop and check out our amazing selection of wines, beers and spirits to pair perfectly with your fresh cut of steak! We are open Monday-Thursday from 10:00 am to 9:00 pm and Fridays and Saturdays from 10:00 am-10:00 pm. 6 oz Filet - $9.75 10 oz Filet - $16.24 14 oz Bone-In Filet - $39.99 1.5 lb Bone In Strip - $20.99 20 oz Ribeye - $21.24 2 lb Bone In Ribeye - $35.98 1.5 lb T-Bone - $20.99 2 lb T-Bone - $27.98 2.5 lb Porterhouse - $39.98 3 lb Porterhouse - $47.97 2-5 lb Sirloin - $9.99/lb Twice Baked Potatoes - $4.99/each

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Cathi French Roberts & Lori French

ANIE LIPSCOMB, our stylish friend and Master Gardner from Shreveport, has always presented her bed and breakfast, gazebo, gardens and cottages in the most inspiring way. Her favorite music sets the mood along with soft lighting when entering her space. The “art of living” is subtly infused throughout her surroundings.

The standard of excellence for her home and gardens has been recognized over the years, but her joy is creating beauty for herself and not the approval of others. Whenever Janie was staging for a business photo shoot or tour, she would utilize objects and reclaimed artifacts. Spring or Fall, fresh cuttings from the gardens made an appearance in gathered vessels. Leftover rose petals floated in a scented bath along with shells nestled in a powder room sink basin. The unmade bed plus a pillow gift delighted many a weary traveler when Janie was the proprietor of Fairfield Place Bed and Breakfast. She staged her bedrooms in a way that utilized every space to the fullest and surprised her guests with the most creative placement and arrangements. Her sense of color and mixed patterns was a magnificent combination of whimsy, charming and chic. One particular magazine shoot was meticulously prepared for days. When we arrived to place last minute flower arrangements and tablescapes, the home and gardens were immaculate. No worry that a rain storm brewing had us scrambling to bring all the outdoor creations quickly inside. Unhurried and calm, Janie seamlessly started serving ginger mint tea and lemon cake to all the crew until we could head back outside to “stage it up” once again. There is a yearning to step back in time to genuine detailed hospitality. The feeling of stepping into a relaxed environment that anticipates every need, even if just for a restful evening, can be magical. With Janie at the helm of anything lovely, one can only imagine what she will dream up next.

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Alumni Spotlight ULM Alum: Will Copeland

GRADUATE OF RAYVILLE HIGH SCHOOL IN 2001, ULM was Will Copeland’s first choice for higher education. His mother graduated in elementary education years prior, and Will wanted to stay close to family and friends in a comfortable environment. ULM provided that safe space. Attending college was a natural progression, and Will chose to major in Radiologic Technology. Will knew the medical field was booming, and he wanted to help people. During his four-year stint as an undergraduate, Will was involved in the Health Science Student Council and served as vice president and then president of Chi Beta Gamma, the Rad Tech fraternity, mentoring junior class students, attending conferences, and building communities across the state. Instructor Sharon Roach stood out to Will. She taught speech and was caring, charismatic, and made what could be a daunting class feel comfortable. She gave great advice, told the best stories, and helped Will find his voice. Brett Bennett, an Associate Professor of Radiologic Technology, still teaches at ULM. Will admits one of the reasons he remained in a field he knew didn’t quite suit him was because he “didn’t want to disappoint Brett.” Bennett is straight-laced, yet jovial in the classroom, and easy to talk to. In a campus environment, finding those professional voices to speak truth and ease the path from classroom to the real world are essential for students. College is as much about making connections as it is getting an education. After graduation in 2005, Will took a job at St. Francis Hospital and then in an urgent care clinic. The hospital environment didn’t suit Will; he felt pressure and sometimes lost. He believed he had “an aversion to the medical environment.” After about a year, he made a drastic shift and started working at Hollis & Co. Jewelers. He was able to build connections and exercise his creative abilities. He thrived in sales, created store displays, and eventually became a market buyer. He moved forward in the banking industry, but found the environment “too corporate,” and then began soul searching. Will considered teaching, and pursued a master’s degree. In graduate school, Will was more focused and naturally more mature. He had been out in the real world, knew the feeling of a job that didn’t make him happy, and invested himself completely in bettering his career options. Will taught mostly fourth grade at Rayville Elementary, primarily science and computer classes. He enjoyed giving back to his hometown, 20 MAY 2019 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

but after seven years, he began to long for a change again. He liked working in education, but longed for a larger scale environment, and he thought of the university, his alma mater. He is now the Transfer Specialist at ULM, acting as a liaison for transfer students as they enter the university and he also advises Health Science students. He likes the personal contact, helping keep students focused and on track. He relates to those who feel lost in a major. Will teaches University Seminar, a class that didn’t exist when he was an undergrad. As an instructor, Will helps freshman students integrate into what can be an intimidating and overwhelming place. He shows them how the campus works, who their contacts are, and the resources available to them. His class acts as a map for navigating freshman year, the most important for student retention. His students are grouped by college, and are able to form friendships with their future classmates. As a ULM employee, Will relishes in the atmosphere, the community at ULM. He finds it friendly and comfortable, much as he did as a freshman student years ago. His career path has been a winding one, but he needed the time to figure things out. Lisa Miller, the Chief Communications Officer at ULM, recognized Will’s talents early on, as she champions many who pass through ULM. She allowed Will to help with integral projects like the Bayou Pointe Grand Opening and decorating the University House. He was able to make more community connections and began helping friends decorate houses, a hobby he is passionate about. He gives advice on paint colors, new furniture, which allows him to use his creative energy. He worked on the St. Jude’s Dream Home team for several years, a project close to his heart, the newest in Egret Landing. He finds himself thriving professionally at ULM, the place where he started his professional journey, and for now, Will feels he is in the right place. The ULM Alumni Association reaches, connects and celebrates alumni and friends to build lifelong relationships, and commit to the university’s missions of academic freedom, scholarship, diversity, excellence, integrity and service. We represent alumni who honor the traditions of our university and who share a sense of achievement and pride. We create a network of professionals, establish scholarships and advocate for our University through community engagement. Members of the Alumni Association support countless initiatives, and annual memberships are just $35. To learn more or to become a member, please visit our new alumni network at ulm.edu/alumni.

Coburn’s Kitchen & Bath Four Ways to Level Up Your Outdoor Living Space

ITH WARMER WEATHER ON THE WAY, PATIO season is definitely upon us. From evening parties and backyard cookouts to the occasional indulgent porch nap, you may increasingly find yourself inventing excuses to turn off the TV and head outside. This desire, of course, is only made easier with an attractive outdoor space outfitted for all of your whimsical wants and needs. Are you a seasoned socialite who enjoys hosting gatherings? A backyard optimized for group seating and entertainment may be ideal. Are you a reserved book worm looking to relax? A space specialized for privacy might be more your speed. The point is that understanding your end goal can help you determine what type of space you need. If you’re looking to upgrade your outdoor area this season, here are four ways to approach your renovation: 1. PRIORITIZE THE PATIO Spending more time outdoors starts with actually having a place to sit and enjoy yourself. If you don’t already have a patio, porch or suitable sitting area, this is definitely the first place to start. These projects can range from simple DIY to advanced, so knowing what you’re looking for is a big piece to solving the patio puzzle. If you have a slab or stone foundation ready, then your renovation may only include small additions like patio furniture, awnings or lighting. However, if you’re in need of a foundation or are looking for structural changes that may affect the rest of your home, calling in a professional will pay off in the long run. 2. FACTOR IN FOOD Without the right setup, backyard cookouts and garden parties are often limited to BBQ fare and simple side dishes. Sometimes more traditional, kitchen-prepared options are offered, but this usually means the cooks are caught between entertaining their outside guests and managing food preparation within the house. Sure, this doesn’t seem like a huge wrench in the works. But when it comes to getting the most from your outdoor space, convenience is at a premium. Patio additions like stainless steel ovens, sinks, propane grills, fryers and any necessary plumbing may seem costly up front, but they significantly add value to your home — and enhance your outdoor hosting capabilities, too.

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3. PLAN FOR PRACTICALITY Don’t get completely lost in aesthetics, though. While the color of those patio cushions are important, having features that make your space both enjoyable and accessible to visitors will do wonders for the overall value it gives you. Does your patio get a lot of sun? Consider adding an awning or ceiling fans to reduce radiant heat. Do you or your guests require wheelchair or walker assistance? Planning for ramps and/or paved walkways between backyard features can help everyone enjoy the space. What about mosquitoes and other pests? Consider screening in your seating area or adding torch repellents around your backyard’s perimeter to reduce their effect. 4. UPGRADE YOUR GREENERY Of course, you can’t forget about the best part of being outdoors: the environment! Adding pops of color and sprinkles of shade can transform any basic backyard into your personal outdoor oasis. Not to mention, adding select species of flowers like marigolds and rhododendrons can attract butterflies and hummingbirds during certain times of the year. Consider the arrangement of your backyard, its lighting and your potential uses for its space. If you plan on hosting outdoor games like volleyball or croquet, limiting trees and flowers to the perimeter may be the best way to go. Otherwise, you may be able to find interesting layouts that intermingle seating areas with blooming beds, vegetable gardens and more. If you’re experienced with gardening and planting, this may be a project you can complete by yourself. However, for extensive landscaping changes and features that wow, hiring a professional can help you get the results you want in a much shorter time frame. COUNT ON COBURN’S If you’re planning to update your backyard this season, visit the Coburn’s Kitchen & Bath Showroom in Ruston or West Monroe for project ideas and product guidance. Our design consultants and experienced staff take the stress out of the renovation process and will help you create an outdoor space you’ll enjoy for years to come.

Blue Heron Homes Local Home Builder Offers Interior Design

OOD INTERIOR DESIGN IS A TRADE AND A SKILL that comes from more that just education or even experience. It is an instinct about people, and passion with which one is gifted. Our Designer, Suzanna Stone Bailey, comes from a background of art and design, and possesses this gift that shines through on our custom homes here at Blue Heron. Suzanna spent the first 22 years of her life in Ruston, LA where she had a happy childhood with plenty of time and space to grow a large and special imagination. Even as a child she enjoyed drawing floor plans and perspectives, and just appreciated the spacial quality of her surroundings. She went to Ruston High School and then attended Louisiana Tech University. She graduated with a Bachelor of Arts degree in Interior Design with a strong emphasis on architecture. She has always been drawn to the arts, fashion, style, and design. Geometric form and color are among the things that our designer is drawn. This is the time when Suzanna was really introduced to her love of painting in color theory classes. In fact, she is also an artist that has done work with oil on canvas, but her specialty is painted and adorned bison skulls, which began with her epic journey in the Rocky Mountains of Montana. The aweinspiring beauty there helped her get more in touch with the artist within. The authenticity of the people helped her learn about herself as well. She learned to be gentle with herself and to others regarding really anything in life. She has had two art shows in Montana, one in Red Lodge and the other in Bozeman, MT. She has worked with multiple custom art clients across the country and art dealers. Her art has been sold from Urbaine Home gallery, The Architects Wife showroom, the Western Art Forum in Big Sky, and a gallery in Crested Butte, Co. She has been featured in two publications in the past couple of years as well, including Mountain Living Magazine and Elysian Magazine based out of North Carolina. She feels as though her artistic skill and design skills have honed one another over the years, and that the two go hand in hand. After graduating from Louisiana Tech, Suzanna went on to Dallas, TX to work in the high end, contemporary design scene in the metroplex. With four years of experience there, she went on to Montana for 9 years and experienced the opposite end of the spectrum of design with lodges and beautiful mountain homes. This variety of

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work helped Suzanna have an overall understanding of the design world and the many possible ways to make a beautiful space. Her personal style now would be described as a happy mixture between contemporary and rustic design with a clean, chic edginess to it. She also loves the look of specialty items procured from around the world to give a space an eclectic feel. We feel Suzanna has an ability to make the process of home design fun and not stressful for our clients. Suzanna has a wonderful 8 year old daughter, Ireland Bailey, who also demonstrates an interest in art and style. Occasionally she will help her mom with a difficult paint color decision and also helps her take care of their two Pomeranian puppies who believe they rule the roost at home. Family and close friends sprinkled across the south have helped support Suzanna over the years and have ultimately brought her home, here to the Monroe area, where she feels like she has come full circle in life and has returned to her heartâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s home as well. As a big part of the Blue Heron Homes experience, Suzanna has a unique service to offer. She will take you step by step through our design process by meeting with you at show room appointments to make selections on things like plumbing fixtures, flooring and tile, lighting, countertops, paint colors and many other items from the exterior to the interior of your space. She will consider the way things flow, and the psychology behind the way your selections make a person feel. Itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s important! Each project is personal and unique to every client. She will help you create a vision of the project as a whole, and help facilitate continuity. The process of building a home is so personal and very important to each of our clients. Suzanna strives to show that the project is important to her as well by building a relationship with them and making each home have its own charm and charisma.

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Give Your Beauty a Boost Choose DermaMediQ for Your Non-Surgical Cosmetic Procedure

OR THE PAST THIRTEEN YEARS, DR. SAIDI SOWMAFakhre has been providing state-of-the-art medically supervised beauty regimens at DermaMediQ. Dr. Sowma-Fakhre is Board Certified in Aesthetic Medicine and Pediatrics. Her goal with each client is the creation of a rejuvenated and refreshed face which she achieves through a conservative approach. She provides noninvasive aesthetic treatments for teenagers and adults with includes Botox®, Juvederm™, Radiesse, Kybella, Bellafill, Juvederm, Restylane, Fractora, Lumecca, Diolaze, Thermashape, acne treatment, Sclerotherapy (for spider veins on legs), Obagi Blue Peel, Obagi Skin Care products, laser hair removal, permanent makeup, Photofacials and prescriptions for Hyperpigmentations. Among her most popular treatments are Bellafill, which is the only dermal filler that stimulates collagen growth long term to help maintain your youthful appearance for up to 5 years. Over time, your body uses the microspheres in Bellafill to create a “scaffold” onto which your own natural collagen can develop. This collagen forms a foundation that adds volume to wrinkles, reducing their appearance – and giving you natural-looking results that feel soft and smooth. Bellafill is also used to fade acne scars by adding volume to them, bringing them to the level of the surrounding skin and keeping them there long-term. If you’re bothered by fat under the chin and don’t want to have surgery, KYBELLA may be for you. The active ingredient in KYBELLA® is synthetic deoxycholic acid. When injected into the fat beneath the chin, KYBELLA® destroys fat cells, resulting in a noticeable reduction in fullness under the chin. Once destroyed, these cells can no longer store or accumulate fat, so further treatment is not expected once you reach your desired aesthetic goal. Dr. Sowma-Fakhre also specializes in Fractora, a non-invasive skin renovation without surgery. Fractora is a fractional skin resurfacing and subdermal tissue coagulation device that bridges the gap between fractional lasers and surgical procedures. Clinical papers demonstrate outcomes such as: improvement in skin complexion, reduction in skin irregularities and restoring skin to a more youthful appearance. This all occurs within one session or multiple sessions, depending on patient preference. Fractora can be used on active cystic acne and acne scars. 28 MAY 2019 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

The staff at DermaMediQ not only has an eye for aesthetics, but the medical knowledge necessary to safely provide patients with the relaxed and rejuvenated look they want. Schedule your consolation today and give your beauty a boost. BODYTITE Dr. Sowma-Fakhre is proud to partner with Dr. Daryl Marx to bring a new procedure to Northeast Louisiana. BodyTite by InMode is a minimally invasive body contouring system that uses RadioFrequency Assisted Lipolysis technology. In combination with traditional tumescent liposuction, Dr. Marx will be performing these two fat reducing procedures at DermaMediQ. WHAT IS BODYTITE? BodyTite is a great solution for individuals who are looking to reduce fat without the saggy, wrinkly skin. It also helps to improve skin laxity after weight loss or due to aging. BodyTite is a minimally invasive procedure that shapes, contracts, and lifts with the scalpel or large scarring. You are left with surgical-life results without prolonged downtime. WHAT AREAS CAN BE TREATED? If you can imagine it: stomach, arms, chest, knees and inner/ outer thighs are some of the most common treatment zones. Multiple areas can be treated in one visit. Each zone will take approximately 15 minutes of treatment. Results can be seen immediately, with best results noticeable after 6 weeks, and continuing up tot 12 months. And, depending on the treatment area, downtime can be from 1-2 days up to 10 days. If you are looking for a treatment that will treat fat in stubborn areas while tightening skin, the combination of BodyTite and liposuction will sculpt your body into its ultimate shape. The staff at DermaMediQ in partnership with Dr. Daryl Marx not only has an eye for aesthetics, but the medical knowledge necessary to safely provide patients with the relaxed, rejuvenated and sculpted look they want. Schedule your consultation today for this breakthrough fat reducing and skin tightening procedure.

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From Vietnam to Hollywood, John Marsalaâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s career has taken him around the globe and Back to the Future. His retirement brought him to North Louisiana where he is now lending his talents to the Strauss Theatre Center. ARTICLE BY APRIL CLARK HONAKER | PHOTOGRAPHY BY ANDREW BAILEY

BEHIND THE SCENES John recently found himself building the set for the Strauss Theatre Center’s production of Mamma Mia!

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etired Hollywood prop maker John Marsala was born on the south side of Monroe. His dad had a grocery store near where the Civic Center is now, but when he was just a kid, John’s dad decided to load the family up and head west to California. After his dad found work as a grip, John grew up around movies and television, and he got to know the stars. He remembers a time when his dad took him and a sibling to a curtain call for Sammy Davis, Jr. The performer set one of them on each side of the piano bench and gave them each a silver dollar. John said he still has that silver dollar today. By the time John was old enough to work, his dad was well-established and was managing stage hands and grips. In the summer of 1963, John’s dad got him his first job as a grip for Disney on the set of Mary Poppins. He spent three weeks rigging, dropping lights, moving chimneys, and anything else that was needed. He then went on to do similar work on the set of The Greatest Story Ever Told, moving rocks and bushes and redressing scenes. But John didn’t truly start his career in prop making until 1974. After graduating from high school, John served five years as a rigger in the U.S. Navy during Vietnam. During that time, he fought in two Tet Offensive attacks and was awarded two bronze stars. When he returned home, he found work building the Newhall Tunnel, a 360-feet-deep, 6-mile tunnel in the San Fernando Valley.

Eventually, John found his way back into the movie business. Once again, his dad got him in. According to John, there’s a card system that allows workers to increase their level of credibility as they work more hours, and he worked mostly at Universal Studios for more than four years building his credibility. During the late 70s and early 80s, he worked on a number of well-known movies, including Jaws 2, Battlestar Galactica, Coal Miner’s Daughter, The Blues Brothers, and Cheech and Chong’s Next Movie. According to John, some of the producers’ and directors’ kids worked alongside him and for him, and some of the prop makers and grips eventually became big stars, such as Harrison Ford and Ken Weatherwax, who played Pugsley in the original Addams Family series. But John was never interested in being a star. He was offered roles on occasion but always turned them down. “I’m not an ivory-tower person,” he said. He’s always loved to go fishing or walk in the woods and pick whatever was growing and eat it. In California, that might be an orange, avocado, or walnut. Now, in Louisiana, his favorite find is pecans. But in addition to being down to earth, John loved the work he was already doing. “I enjoyed creating more,” he said. When he watched the actors, he noticed they spent a lot of time sitting, and they constantly had to redo the same scenes. He simply wasn’t interested in that type of job. Instead, he was drawn to the action. He liked working with special effects and loved the stunt scenes and explosions, but he also loved working

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with wood and building things. “We’re dream weavers,” he said. “Someone dreams it, and we draw it up, and we build it.” Another reason John refrained from acting was his family. He wanted to guarantee he had time to spend with them. “I loved my children very much,” he said. John coached football and basketball and tried to be a friend to his kids. He said being their friend was necessary in California to make sure they didn’t end up with the wrong crowd. At times, John even took an interest in his kids’ friends. He fed them, and if they needed something he could provide, he gave it to them. “I’m a big lover of children,” he said. One of the biggest things he is grateful for is that the work he did allowed him to provide for his family. By 1980, John was already working as a construction foreman, and during his career, which spanned 34 years, he built some complex sets, including submarines, spaceships, and the hangar in Independence Day. But John didn’t go to school to study construction or engineering. Instead, he relied on his natural aptitude and on-thejob training. As a kid, he built forts and treehouses, and he played with Tinkertoys, erector sets, and Lincoln Logs. Through those things, he said, “You learn how things are put together.” He also took basic stagecraft in high school and learned some skills in the military, but most of what he learned was from mentors. “I got to work with some of the old timers before the business changed,” he said. Of his five children, all have worked in the business at some point, and two of his sons have followed in his footsteps. They’re still working in movies, but John said everything is different now. According to him, the pay isn’t as good, and the crews have gotten smaller. Also, more of the work is done digitally. John prefers to be handson. “I like creating,” he said. “I like working with wood, and I like to be included in a situation or a problem. I like to be involved in the flow.” One thing he learned early on from the pros was that you can’t just start building things. Understanding the message the director wants to convey is crucial, so crucial that John said he wouldn’t work on a project he didn’t fully understand. To get to that point meant sitting down face-toface with the director and asking the right questions. For John, it also meant asking

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“We’re dream weavers. Someone dreams it, and we draw it up, and we build it.” ~ J O H N M A R S A L A | B AY O U A R T I S T as many questions as he could up front and documenting the answers right on the prints. Taking this step saved a lot of time and money. Throughout his career, John worked on a lot of projects from commercials for brands like Coke, Target, and Progressive to TV shows like Columbo, Melrose Place, and N.Y.P.D. Blue. He even worked on the “Breakaway” music video for ZZ Top and has worked on numerous blockbusters and award-winning films, including The Best Little Whorehouse in Texas, Ghost, Back to the Future, and The Hunt for Red October. His résumé is several pages long, but his favorite projects were the westerns, particularly Coal Miner’s Daughter. The film tells the story of country music star Loretta Lynn’s life. Released in 1980, it won two Golden Globes: Best Motion Picture (Musical or Comedy) and Best Actress (Musical or Comedy) for Sissy Spacek as Loretta Lynn. Another film he worked on called The River also starred Spacek and was one of his favorites. John said he could look at the set for Coal Miner’s Daughter and The River over and over. He enjoys making things look old—distressing wood with chains and an axe, making a barn’s roof sag, or simulating a horse’s chew marks on a fence. Because of his job, he tends to look at old barns and buildings to see how they were constructed, what materials were used, and how they 34 MAY 2019 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

change over time. Attention to detail is important when it comes to making a set look realistic, and John has a knack for it. But for these two movies, it wasn’t just the set that was realistic. The themes and the people were real, too. “Both films dealt with real-life things happening in America,” John said, “and the basic way people lived.” They depicted the lives of people who struggled but still managed to get by. They grew their own food, made their own clothes, and still used horses. “I like the old way of living,” John said, “and it was fun to recreate that way of life. It feels good to do what I like and create something people can appreciate, but it’s not an ego thing. It’s a self-pride thing.” According to John, there was also a strong sense of community while working on those movies and a lot of love shared. Of all the actors and actresses he worked with, John said Sissy Spacek was one of the most genuine. They worked together on Coal Miner’s Daughter, and when they worked together again on The River, she found him on the roof the first day and called him to get down, so she could greet him. While they worked on the movie, she would bake pies and breads for the crew, and their daughters would ride in the surrey together. John said, “Being remembered and being treated as a real person and respected was a big thing.” According to John, a lot of that

humanity has been lost now in the business, but he believes you can still see that same genuineness and sense of community down south in the way people help those in need. The sense of community and the slower pace of the south lured John and his wife back to Louisiana when he retired in 2008. Since then, he’s been relaxing, gardening, and doing some woodworking on the side. Occasionally, he’s made props and sets for local schools and church theatre productions, but it’s all been through word-of-mouth. He doesn’t advertise, and now that he’s retired, he wouldn’t mind mentoring or training someone, but he’s more inclined to give technical advice. After all, he’s in his 70s now. Despite these facts, John recently found himself building the set for the Strauss Theatre Center’s production of Mamma Mia! The musical, directed by Cherrie Sciro, coordinator of theatre at Louisiana Tech University, will feature large revolving sets. It’s the first big project John’s taken on in a while, but he was approached to help when the original set designer fell ill. Given the circumstances, he was happy to take over. “I always got excited about doing a job. After I got all the info, I started building right away,” he said. And by early April, he had only the finishing touches left. In the end, he said he enjoyed doing it because it gave him something to do. As an artist, John said he simply can’t stop. He loves wood too much. Even now that he’s retired, he feels compelled to make things. He likes to salvage old wood and said he can look at it and know what he’s going to build. When he moved back to Monroe, he had all this wonderful wood lying around and decided to make crosses for the pure joy of it. Although he could have sold them, he opted to give them away instead. “I enjoy life,” he said. “That’s what I do, and I thank God every day. Whatever I do is not for myself. It’s for God.” Now, at 73 years old, John said, “I’ve lived a lot of life and been a lot of places. I didn’t waste my life, and I’m still enjoying what the Maker put us here for—to create and build. I’ve built some things that are forever immortalized in film, and my kids are proud of me and I of them.” He’s lived a full life, but he believes a lot of kids today allow their lives to be controlled by what they see. They want to be things they’re not meant to be. “Just be what life lets you be,” he said. “Wake up. Be happy. Appreciate what you’ve got. Smile at people. Be a listener. Remember what people say. And whatever you decide to do in life, give it all your heart. Do it right.”

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Confidence and Satisfaction The Woman’s Clinic Offers Expanded Services For Women’s Health and Beauty

OW OFTEN DOES A “WHAT IF” phrase cross your mind? “What if I was a size smaller, I could fit into that dress?” “What if I felt as good in all my pants as I do in my favorite pair?” These are questions we’ve all asked ourselves at one time or another. Confidence and lifestyle satisfaction play a big role in the care and well-being of today’s woman. At The Woman’s Clinic, our mission is to provide total care for today’s woman. In fulfilling that mission, we want to provide services that let us ask our patients these questions: “What if you could wear confidence?” “What if the fitting room was where everything fit?” “What if your all your pants were your good butt pants?” Over the last few months we’ve begun to provide types of services that answer these questions and we’ve seen confidence and satisfaction grow in our patients. We’re even more excited about the future of this than we were when we began. So, let’s take a moment and run through what we have to offer. In a recent survey of American women, 70% worry about developing a tummy bulge. 81% are concerned about maintaining their body shape and 45% are afraid cellulite will remain a concern. To address this, we will be offering a non-invasive body contouring product called Velashape. VelaShape III™ technology combines infrared light and bipolar radio frequency. This type of system stimulates the growth of new and better collagen and elastin. Velashape has been clinically proven to work on a variety of different treatments including: • Cellulite Reduction • Body Contouring

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• Shrinking of Fat Cells • Skin Tightening In clinical trials, the body contouring power of Velashape led to a reduction of one whole dress size after treatment. Each treatment lasts about fifteen minutes and most patients describe the treatment as feeling like a warm massage. For many women, skin imperfections can impact self-confidence. We also know women considering facial rejuvenation procedures are inhibited by high cost, pain, downtime and side effects. We found that Sublative and Sublime skin treatments are an ideal solution. Sublative treatments improve the superficial imperfections of skin’s tone and texture by precisely directing bi-polar radio frequency into the skin. Healthy skin around the treated area accelerates the healing process of the skin and new collagen and skin cells are produced. Sublime treatments improve facial contour and overall skin quality by heating dermal tissue with combined bi-polar radio frequency and light energy, stimulating collagen production. Both treatments have been clinically proven to treat the following: • Stretch marks • Acne scaring • Reducing fine lines and wrinkles • Eye rejuvenation These treatments provide the results you desire without the worry of more invasive procedures. They penetrate more deeply than creams and peels and address your skin’s overall tone and texture more effectively than injectables. And while results with more invasive procedures may be dramatic, few are

willing to incur the cost, risk, or downtime. No woman wants to lack confidence with intimacy. It is an important part of everyone’s satisfaction with life. To help with this, we will offer an in-office non-surgical treatment that uses laser energy in gynecological applications called CO2RE Intima. CO2RE Intima is a medical laser that delivers controlled C02 energy to the tissue improving skin tone, texture and appearance. Among its many uses it has been proven to treat the following: • Mild to moderate urinary incontinence • Help correct post-child birth and menopausal changes • Non-hormonal treatment for dryness • Improved confidence with intimacy We know the thought of laser treatments in such a personal area may give some women pause. CO2RE Intima is FDA approved for a range of gynecological uses and patients experience mild to no discomfort with little downtime. If you would like to hear more about any of these options, please give us a call at (318)388-4030 to schedule a consultation. You can also visit us online at thewomansclinic. net and request a consultation. Be sure to like us on Facebook and Instagram for the latest updates and information from The Woman’s Clinic, too. Pictured Above – Bottom Row: Dr. Erin Gullatt, Dr. Sara Klug, Dr. Dawn Pennebaker, Dr. Adrienne Williams; Top Row: Dr. Amber Shemwell, Dr. Jason Wilson, Dr. David Bryan, Dr. Terry Tugwell, Dr. Won Lee, Dr. Laura Petty

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Century Village Spring 2019 Update

UR CENTURY VILLAGE COMMUNITY IS GROWING. Whether you are looking for a temporary office space for your team, your new local gym, or dreaming of a new neighborhood to call home, we have you covered. The neighborhood is currently home to Century Village Athletic Club which is located in our Century Village Tower. Open seven days a week, the gym not only offers state-of-the-art equipment and a highly trained staff, but also a wide range of group classes to fit everyone, at every skill level. Why spend your time at other local Monroe chains when you can have your own personal fitness team on-hand to help you customize your routine based on your personal fitness goals. Don’t be another number, come to a gym that values their members as family. Meet the team online today by visiting https://www.facebook.com/centuryvillageathleticclub/ or stop in for a tour anytime between 4:00am and 11:00pm. When you need more space than your local coffee shop has to offer, consider another of our Century Tower residents, Regus. They offer workspaces solutions that suit your business, no matter the size. From one person, to an entire team, everyone can benefit from the fully-furnished, modern flex spaces that are IT-enabled. The environment in Regus is modern yet relaxed which creates the ideal work environment no matter your style. They also have conference space which can be rented out by the day. Stop by the new Regus space for a tour Monday through Friday between the hours of 8:30 am – 5:00pm or contact them at 855.400.3575 or by visiting www.regus.com. What’s next for the neighborhood? Our team has completed the design of our Town Center which will act as the hub for public events such as movies in the park and our monthly concert series. For our residents who call Century Village home, the Town Center and surrounding parks will be their central meeting place for family gatherings, and a place to catch up with their neighbors under the shade of our pecan trees. Keep an eye out for our programming lineup later this year. Our residential phase of Century Village will be ready for home construction beginning this fall. It will include 59 lots varying in size to accommodate a mix of eclectic housing to fit a range of family sizes and lifestyles. Home designs will draw architectural inspiration from 38 MAY 2019 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

Acadian Farmhouse, Colonial Farmhouse, Vernacular French and Colonial Classic styles creating an environment that feels cohesive, yet rich in character. If you’re hoping to call Century Village home, let the talented team at John Rea Realty introduce you to what will soon be Monroe’s most walkable and desirable neighborhood. They have over 30 years of combined experience in the Monroe market. Their knowledgeable and respected team will be the on-hand realty group for this community. In fact, they even have a special Century Village space dedicated in their office which walks our potential future residents through the experience of living in the neighborhood and helps to bring the Century Village dream to life. Connect with one of our sales agents today to discover all that Century Village will have to offer you and your family: Kathy VanVeckhoven Catherine Legg (318) 537-3701 (318) 348-6943 kvanveckhoven@comcast.net legg.catherine@gmail.com For companies interested in commercial and retail spaces, there are a variety of parcels available to fit your business needs in Century Village. The development is launching with several commercial and retail partners but there is still time to be one of them. The team at Vintage Realty can help you navigate through our available options. Contact them today at 318.222.2244 or via email at csusilovich@vintagerealty.com. Stay up to date with our progress by following us on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/centuryvillagemonroe/ or by visiting our website at CenturyVillageLife.com For general information on the development contact Info@CenturyVillageLife.com. We are proud to call Monroe home and are looking forward to growing our Century Village community in the coming years.

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Ouachita Antique Woods A Full Service Reclaimed Lumber Yard and More

UACHITA ANTIQUE WOODS IS A LOCAL NORTH Louisiana business that’s passion is to find unique woods and architectural salvage materials that lend an antique authenticity that newly felled materials simply cannot. From floor to ceiling, reclaimed wood can give new construction instant character and a sense of history. There is nothing that elevates a home or business’s design aesthetic like the use of antique, reclaimed woods. Whether it is a large plank, heart pine flooring or cypress beams sourced from old warehouses, Ouachita Antique Woods is a game changer for contractors and designers who want to incorporate natural elements of design, such as worn shiplap that is recycled from old shacks, barn and sheds, or antique beadboard that can be used from walls to ceilings for a unique, vintage effect. Give your home something to talk about with a historic piece of antique lumber or one of their custom-built furniture pieces. Ouachita Antique Woods is a full service reclaimed lumber yard. They offer a wide variety of reclaimed beams, columns and barn board which date back to the 1800s. Once you select your wood products from their inventory, they wire brush, clean and prep your product for installation in your home. Whether you need a custom mantel with corbels, columns for your front porch or a beam to span your living room, they’ve got you covered. You can purchase what you need for your home project or sit down with them for a design consultation on where to use the products on your project. These days everyone tries hard to subscribe to the 3R’s- Reduce, Reuse, Recycle. Home design is all over this trend and has its own version of the 3R’s, Recycle, Repurpose, Reclaim. More and more contractors and home owners are finding ways to use reclaimed elements- especially wood, when decorating their homes. Salvaged wood is popular in structural elements, like flooring, beams, doors and wall treatments. It is also just as popular when used in furniture applications, like for a dining table, desk, headboard, mirror, coffee table and shelves just to name a few. According to design website houzz.com, “Adding reclaimed wood to your interior is a quick way to introduce warmth and texture. Used in abundance, it has a rawness that can balance overly neutral spaces

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and anchor sprawling floor plans. But while installing reclaimedhardwood floors or countertops can get expensive with the amount of staining, sealing and labor needed, an accent wall of reclaimed wood can be a smaller investment that makes a big visual statement.” Don’t forget your fifth wall when you are considering areas to use reclaimed woods. What is your fifth wall? The celling, of course. Ouachita Antique Woods has a wonderful, abundant selection of reclaimed beams, sources for their rustic beauty, that can add warmth and texture to any room. In addition to beams, reclaimed planks applied to a celling can add a hint of color or texture that takes the room to the next level. Ouachita Antique Woods is under the direction of Kyle Snellenberger, a wood artisan and furniture builder known for his ability to source beautiful pieces of raw wood for his own designs and his own use of large slabs of wood to create tables of distinction. Snellenberger is an expert in this field of using reclaimed woods for all furniture and design applications. Reclaimed wood lends a warmth to any room, but also infuses a space with a sense of history and charm that new materials sometimes lack. You will be surprised at all the places you can incorporate reclaimed wood into your home or business! Most recently, Snellenberger has been working diligently at salvaging and milling all the trees that were removed from the ULM Grove. This gives them a second life as beautiful, furniture pieces. These will be historic conversation pieces in many homes throughout our area. Snellenberger and Ouachita Antique Woods strive to help contractors and homeowners find these pieces to help their vision come to life. Contact Kyle Snellenberger today or visit the shop at 336 Fontana Road, Monroe, La 71203. It is located just minutes from Pecandland Mall and Delta Community College. You may also reach them at 318.348.0579. Be sure to follow on Instagram @ouachita_ antique_woods and Facbook.com/OuachitaAntiqueWoods.

I REMEMBER my graduation being a mixture of joy and sadness a r t i cl e by PAUL L I PE

I REMEMBER that my graduation from North Mecklenberg High Davidson was good starting point in my preparation. My new Friend School (near Charlotte, N. C.) was a bitter-sweet event. On the “up” was helping and guiding. side, it was a happy occasion because I had successfully completed a His help was needed and was available when it came to making a major part of my journey toward adulthood and independence – and choice relative to my vocation. I had contemplated becoming a teacher, that felt good. But those good feelings were tempered by the reality but several older Christians whom I respected suggested that I consider that some of the changes brought on by my graduation were not so the ministry. My new-found Friend seemed to be nudging me in that welcome. One such likely change was that friendships formed during direction, too, so I opted for the life work that has been so satisfying this time in my life, probably were to me. Not only did the Lord help not going to be maintained – most of me reach a decision relative to my my classmates and I were headed in vocation, but His grace has sustained different directions, and our paths had me through the good and the bad little chance of intersecting in the future times associated with ministry. – that did not feel so good. However, I I have no doubt but that it was was better prepared to deal with these His good providence that led to my feelings than I would have been a year long years of service at the Delhi earlier. Presbyterian Church. The pastor Something significant had at Delhi was leaving to take up a happened during my high school work in Virginia, and the church days that impacted the way I coped needed someone to preach while the with the mixture of joy and sadness congregation looked for a replacement. which accompanied my graduation. A call was placed to a theological The summer between my junior and school in Atlanta with the request that senior years at North High was spent a trainee, who had graduated from a at a Bible Conference in upstate N. Presbyterian college, be sent to Delhi Y. An older sister, whose influence on for the summer while the search “HE WAS GOOD IN HELPING ME WAY my life was substantial, encouraged for a pastor ensued. I was chosen BACK THEN AND DURING ALL me to attend that camp, doubtless (having graduated from Davidson – a hoping that I would be helped by the THE YEARS SINCE.” Presbyterian school), and ultimately experience. Her hopes were realized was asked to serve as pastor for the when I met the greatest Friend I have ever known – His name is Jesus. church. I do not think that this was all coincidental, but that my Friend It was His presence in my life that sustained me during my graduation had a hand in it all. predicament – and in the subsequent years. As the song says and as He has been that kind of attentive Friend throughout all of my life many will affirm, “God is so good!” He was good in helping me way and ministry. One way He has shown His concern and interest is by back then and during all the years since. providing scores of friends and encouragers from the good people of One of the things that each graduate faces, and one with which I Delhi – not only from those who were members of our congregation, was confronted, is this: should I go to college, and, if so, which college but from many others in our small community. In addition, He has is “right” for me. I had no idea what vocation I would pursue, but I blessed me with the best family for which a person could hope. What had been accepted by Davidson College and was granted a scholarship a Friend I have in Jesus! that would cover the cost of tuition and books – so, I enrolled in So, whether you are graduating, or just getting started in your Davidson. At the time, I did not know that the Lord planned for me vocation, or beginning a family, or nearing the end of your life, I to be a minister of His Gospel, but the liberal arts education (with commend to you my Friend. He has never failed me, but has been heavy doses of history, literature, and philosophy) which I received at faithful every step of the way. You can trust Him. 42 MAY 2019 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

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WE ALL LIVE OUR LIVES

AT OUR OWN PACE

article by Laura W. Clark

y husband and I are expecting a baby boy in early July. While my pregnancy is fairly obvious, I still mention it when relevant. During a salon appointment, I mentioned it so my stylist would know to use a pregnancy-safe product. Then, in making the small talk which is typical in salons, the stylist asked my age. When I revealed I was 40, the hairdresser responded, “Wow, you started having babies late, huh?” Late. While looking forward to my new baby, “late,” is the last adjective I would ascribe to his upcoming birth. Despite my understanding that the stylist intended no malice, I immediately felt like I needed to defend my decision to have a baby at 40. Instead, I did not say much, and the topic faded. The topic shouldn’t fade, though. The burden was on me to reframe the conversation, and I didn’t. I did not meet my husband Tim until my early 30s. We married after more than a year of dating, and I became pregnant the following year. We were both thrilled. It happened quickly, and I soon began planning the nursery theme. But at the six-week mark, I experienced complications and was admitted to the emergency room. The medical staff could not detect a heartbeat. The doctor spoke to me in a kind tone and said, “There’s a small chance the calculations are incorrect, and you aren’t as far along as you thought. But, more than likely, this is a miscarriage. I am sorry. My wife experienced six of these.” Tim, always hopeful, thought positively. But I instinctively knew the outcome. Later, after it was all over, I told my ob-gyn, “Don’t worry about me. It’s fine because I’m never going to go through this again.” I was crying, but I was also resolute in my decision. My doctor asked the nurses to leave the room, and then she sat with me and held my hand in silence. After 30 minutes had passed, she said, with determination equal to mine, “You will have another baby, and that baby will be strong and healthy.” She is the type of person, bold and confident, I could not ignore. So, I left her office half-convinced she might be right. I had already announced that I was expecting a baby, even though it was early, but I do not regret doing so. When people asked about the pregnancy, it was initially difficult to tell them what had happened, but it was also cathartic. I felt more at peace each time I explained it. I did feel sheepish about my initial reaction to the miscarriage. Did I have the right to be so sad about a six-week loss? So many others experienced miscarriage at a much later stage, or, they were never able to experience pregnancy at all. And then it occurred to me, I would not judge someone else’s pain, so I should be equally kind to myself. More than a year later, I became pregnant again. When talking about the pregnancy with my new boss, I told her in an apologetic tone that I would still work hard. She responded reassuringly, and said,

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“Pregnancy is not a disease. You don’t have to defend yourself. I’m happy for you.” Her statement has always stayed with me. Sometimes we feel as though we might be viewed differently in the workplace or lose professional opportunities due to impending motherhood. While I did not experience such discrimination, I am somewhat of an anomaly. Between 1997 and 2011, the U.S. Equal Employment Opportunity Commission observed a 50 percent increase in pregnancy discrimination charges. I was fortunate. My boss allowed me to work from home during my complicated pregnancy. Later, when I suggested I could work at least one afternoon in the office, she insisted I obey my prescribed bed rest. She said, “There’s nothing more important than delivering that healthy baby.” “Healthy” was the word my ob-gyn insisted I use to describe my 10-pound, 10-ounce baby, Weston, who was born Jan. 2, 2014. My initial reaction upon first seeing him was, “He is so fat!” She corrected me, saying he was simply “healthy.” We laughed at all of his little rolls. Because my pregnancy with Weston was challenging, both physically and emotionally, I did not attempt pregnancy again for a few years, even though I knew I was testing fate due to my age. When the pregnancy did not happen immediately, Tim and I began seeking various fertility treatments. I knew my age meant declining egg quality, so we decided IVF, which included genetic screening, was ideal. The first IVF cycle did not work. I was so disappointed. I thought about the money, the painful injections, and the hope I had invested in the cycle. But I was resolute in trying once more, remembering my obgyn’s words years ago. One of my dear friends recommended a facility in Alabama, so we transferred there. When I first saw the positive pregnancy sign, I was filled with joy and also a little fear—I wanted the pregnancy to be successful, but I also knew nothing was guaranteed. A while back, I attended an event and ran into a friend. She asked if I was expecting, and I immediately replied, “Yes! He’s my little IVF baby.” She looked at me, possibly a little surprised at my candor, and replied, “May I ask you some questions about IVF?” We immediately began talking, and she revealed her heartbreaking struggles with trying to have a baby. I left that evening thinking, what if more of us talked about this, openly and without shame? We all live our lives at our own pace, and so much of it—especially our biology—is beyond our control, which can be difficult to accept. It’s never too late to find joy in your life now. Embrace your disappointment without apology, and be kind to yourself. Starting the conversation is perhaps the most difficult step, but there is no shame in being brave. Laura W. Clark, owner of Vivian’s Voice, LLC, a communications consulting company, can be reached at findyours@viviansvoice.com

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Helping People Find Home Mark Sisk Helps You List It, Sell It and Move On!

PRIL SHOWINGS BRING MAY CLOSINGS. SPRING IS in full swing and the housing market is hot! Now is the time to get your home on the market. Interest rates are at historic lows and buyers are ready to make a move. To get your home “show ready” here’s a list of DIY projects that could significantly improve the appeal of your home. Smaller rooms can be difficult to decorate, because if you don’t know a few important tricks, the space can end up feeling a little claustrophobic. Here’s how you can keep a room feeling airy and spacious, even if it’s just a small office or laundry room. BREATHING ROOM Your first inclination might be to arrange all your furniture flush against the walls. Though this may add a little extra room to move through the space, it will make everything feel more crowded and congested. Instead, try arranging items at an angle, or pulling them six inches away from the wall. MIRRORS AND STRATEGIC COLORS Dark paint will make the room feel smaller. Instead, opt for whites, light grays, and other light colors. A well-placed mirror will also expand the room’s appearance. Just think of the times you’ve been in a restaurant and a mirror made the space look twice as large. MULTI-PURPOSE ITEMS Look for storage everywhere—you can keep books and DVDs inside an ottoman, or store blankets in a bench or hollow coffee table. If you don’t have room for a dining table, you can invest in a coffee table with a pop-up section. RAISE YOUR WINDOW TREATMENTS It’s common to hang your curtain rods just a few inches above your windows, but to make the ceilings appear taller, you can hang them just a few inches below the ceiling. It can have a dramatic effect. SWAP OUT THE SOFA The sofa is likely the biggest, most unwieldy item in your living room. What if you swapped it out for a smaller couch or a pair of 46 MAY 2019 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

comfortable chairs? You won’t lose much in functional seating, but you’ll gain some precious space and room for foot traffic. BAD LIGHTING Have you ever seen the episode of Seinfeld where Jerry’s date looked different depending on where they went to dinner? It was the lighting. I know you may feel that your “daylight” white light bulbs help to reduce fatigue, but it’s very harsh lighting. Soft warm lights always have a cozy, inviting vibe. I’ve lost count of the number of listings I’ve had to replace the lightbulbs. Some things are better left to the professionals. No matter how handy you are, I would not advise tampering with electrical, plumbing or other systems that require a licensed professional. Which brings me to my next point, the services of an experienced realtor and a full service professional real estate firm. I have systems in place to address both common and not so common issues that arise when selling a home. My extensive network of licensed contractors are on speed dial when a home inspector comes in and finds a laundry list of items to repair. My knowledge of the local market is invaluable to circumvent problems like having a low appraisal. My contacts with local title companies are essential when dealing with a title issue you never knew about. These problems only come into play after you get a buyer on the hook. My marketing strategies and systems are proven effective time and time again. You can’t sell the home if nobody sees it, or worse, if buyers see it and are turned off by a bad impression. I showcase your home in its best light and ensure maximum exposure in today’s digital age. I am consistently ranked among the top of all realtors in Northeast Louisiana according to the Northeast Louisiana Association of realtors. This is no accident. My 12 years of experience as a Realtor and my strong desire to exceed clients’ expectations have made my clients’ real estate transactions smooth and pleasurable. I’m extremely grateful for the growing number of clients who entrust me with their real estate needs and I also look forward to serving you. MARK SISK - REALTOR ® Real Estate Advisor

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Mother’s Lasting Impact Shapes Her Children’s Lives WHILE A BELOVED MOTHER IS NO LONGER PRESENT, HER SPIRIT IS ALIVE IN THE MINDS, HEARTS AND ACTIONS OF HER CHILDREN ARTICLE BY LAURA W CLARK AND PORTRAIT BY KELLY MOORE CLARK

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TH ER ES A CAT HE R I NE C L AR K MAR S AL A, president of the Cancer Foundation League, delivered her welcome speech at the foundation’s annual fundraiser on Saturday, Feb. 21, 2009. About 30 minutes later, she left this earth the same way she spent much of her 56 years—serving her community and enjoying her family. While it was the last night her four children would spend with her, her spirit perseveres.

That Saturday afternoon was spent like most Saturdays for the Marsala matriarch and two daughters Leslie and Catherine: pedicures and socializing. Catherine, the youngest of Theresa’s children and a professional hairdresser, styled her mother’s hair for that evening’s event, and because Theresa was not feeling well, Leslie helped her assemble the gala’s decor. Catherine and Robert almost did not attend the fundraiser, but they did so upon the request of their mother. Theresa was sitting with her family at the event when she suffered a fatal heart attack. Catherine, who was 22 at the time, said the evening was a blur. “I don’t remember those days following her death because I suppressed it. I remember being angry. I had to tell myself that God needed her for something bigger,” Catherine said. “Now, we are all thankful that we were there because it was our last night with her. She’s our angel, and she appears very vividly in my dreams. And when that happens, I wake up feeling so comforted because in my dreams, she hugs me.” Leslie, who was 30 when her mother passed, misses Theresa’s warmth. “She welcomed everyone with kindness and hugs. I miss her embrace the most. She could hold me, and all my worries would melt away—even when I was an adult.” Theresa’s family meant everything to her, Leslie said. “She once told me that she knew exactly why she had kids: so she could have grandkids. She loved her grandbabies so much, and she spoiled them rotten. I remember her reaction when my first child was born. She was in the delivery room, and she cried. She was so happy.” Only 26 at the time of his mother’s death, Robert said he began each day following her death with a sick feeling in his stomach—as if he had been punched—and a lump in his throat. While the stomach pain eventually dissipated, living without her advice, emotional support, and love remains a fresh pain. Robert described his dad Tommy—Theresa’s husband of 34 years—as an “absolute wreck” after Theresa’s death, and remembers trying to help his dad cope. Catherine said her dad “worshipped” their mother, who was his high school sweetheart. They were true opposites, Catherine said. Tommy was a “wild kid” with long hair, and rode a motorcycle, whereas Theresa was more conservative. Robert described his mother as a “master motivator” who helped people realize their potential. “Mom just had a way of making you feel so good about yourself, like you could

accomplish anything. She had this incredible willingness and ability to give people advice,” he said. “She was never too busy for anyone. After a long day of working, cooking supper, and doing homework with us, she would still answer an hour-long phone call because a friend or a colleague needed advice.” As siblings often do, the Marsala children would fight, and when Theresa intervened, she was always fair when dispensing punishments. She never lost her temper, and she always remained calm. She would listen to both sides of the dispute before making a decision regarding who to punish, and often both parties were reprimanded, Robert says with a smile. What struck Robert the most was at the end of each dispute, his mother would explain why the argument was wrong in a way that motivated the children to be better. The father of three children, Robert, still sheds tears when talking about his mother. “All I can do now is attempt to raise my kids the way she raised me, and try to be the man, husband, and father she would want me to be.” Tommy Jr., now a physician assistant at Haik and Humble, was 33 when his mother died. He attributes his work ethic to his mother, whom he described as “always calm in the face of adversity.” Theresa worked for more than 30 years at St. Francis Medical Center; 15 of those years were spent as the hospital’s Senior Vice President of Patient Care Services. She later directed the Louisiana Extended Care Hospital and served as president of the Northeast district of the Louisiana Hospital Association, among several other healthcare leadership roles. Tommy routinely meets people in various medical clinics who worked with his mother or for her. “They often tell me stories of how great of an administrator she was,” he said. “Those stories never get old.” Tommy began working as a technician at SFMC after high school graduation, heavily influenced by his mother’s contributions to the healthcare community. “I always saw her as a leader. Mom knew I wanted to do something in healthcare, and she always supported that. And I still rely on lessons I learned from her. If you’re ever placed in an adverse situation, and you put the patient first, you will always be doing the right thing. For the last 25 years, that philosophy has resonated with me throughout my career,” Tommy said. “She was so level-headed and patient, both at work and at home. If I have any of her traits, I’d like to think

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His mother even remained calm one day during a harrowing experience on the water. Theresa, who loved to spend time outdoors and enjoyed fishing, decided her family needed to spend their summer vacation—five days in a cabin—at Toledo Bend Lake in Texas. “We had arrived at Toledo Bend, which had a lot of dead timber. You couldn’t tell where the wood was located under the water. She was driving our family in the boat and opened up the motor pretty good. She was going 30 miles per hour, hit a trunk, and ripped off the back of the boat. She calmly said, ‘Well, I thought we were in the channel.’ Dad was the one who got excited, talking about how much money it was going to cost to fix. But Mom remained perfectly calm,” Tommy said with a smile. Nicknamed “Mother Theresa” by her children, Theresa started her day by serving her family breakfast, delivering her children to Jesus the Good Shepherd School,

and beginning her 10-hour workday as a healthcare administrator. Reflecting on those early days, Tommy, now the father of three children, is struck by how she managed to balance the many layers of her life, which almost always included a house full of neighborhood children. “As a 15-year-old kid, I remember aggravating Leslie—tickling her until she couldn’t breathe—and testing my parents’ sanity. We were a handful, but mom always remained calm.” As calm as Theresa was, she was also outgoing, and known for her loud laugh and vibrant smile. She was confident and articulate when speaking in public, and she loved listening to music and dancing. Theresa was also dedicated to her church; missing Sunday mass was “never an option,” according to Robert. Outside of her children and husband, she dedicated a lot of time to her mother Mary, who died in 2011. Theresa ensured her mother’s hair was permed, and her medicines and finances were organized. She and her daughters often spent Saturday mornings with Mary, shopping and eating breakfast at Shoney’s. Theresa’s unwavering devotion to her family, and the underlying strength this dedication involved, prepared Leslie for adult life. Theresa, whose own father died at 52 of a heart attack, often told her children that a positive attitude shaped one’s life. Leslie remembers the refrigerator sign in her childhood home: “Attitude is everything.” Leslie, the mother of three children, relies on this sentiment each day as she faces her husband Andy’s stage 4 lung cancer, a diagnosis he received on Valentine’s Day in 2013. “Mom always told us that no one was guaranteed fairness in life, and you just have to persevere. Her wisdom helped me prepare for my life. I truly feel every circumstance in our lives prepares us for what’s to come,” Leslie said. “Surviving my mother’s death prepared me to deal with the challenges I face with Andy today. If she were here, she would comfort me, and she would say, ‘do what you need to do for your husband.’ So that’s what I’m doing.” Theresa’s commitment to education also influenced Leslie. Theresa began her professional career as a nurse and earned two degrees from the University of Louisiana Monroe (formerly known as Northeast Louisiana University) after graduating from St. Frederick High School. She received a bachelor’s degree in nursing and a master’s degree in marriage and family therapy. As

a child, Leslie often accompanied her mother to evening classes while Theresa earned her master’s degree. “It was scary because I wasn’t allowed to talk,” Leslie said. “But I was so proud of her.” Leslie, now a speech language pathologist with undergraduate and master’s degrees of her own, remembers watching her mother lead, specifically the way she managed the many personalities at the hospital. Leslie worked alongside her mother at SFMC as a candy striper during the summer, and she said Theresa could “create a compromise between two people like no one else.” While Theresa was quick to intervene and help other people, she rarely volunteered personal information about her own problems, at least to her children. Catherine remembers passing her mother’s car during the middle of a work day, so she called her. “I immediately asked her, ‘Mom, what are you doing?’ She said, ‘Oh, I just had a doctor’s appointment.’ She ended up in the hospital for several days after that with heart complications. Mom never worried anybody about anything.” Theresa’s perseverance and steadfast focus on the positive aspects of life left a lasting impact on all of her children. Today, they carry on a tradition that was once Theresa’s dream: a golf tournament to benefit the Cancer Foundation League. The Theresa Marsala Memorial Golf Classic began in 2010, and Catherine and Leslie became the event organizers three years ago. This year, it will be held Friday, May 10, at the Frenchman’s Bend Golf Course. Robert, Tommy, their father, and the daughter’s husbands, Scott Stuckey and Andy Trahan, participate in the tournament each year. Leslie said that chairing the golf tournament is a blessing because she and her sister are continuing the work their mother started: helping the community’s cancer patients. Catherine, who now has two children of her own, said, “Mom would be beyond proud of us both. It is truly an honor to be able to fulfill a dream of hers. I wish she could be here doing it with us, but I know she is with us in spirit.” Theresa’s family also honors her in another way: the children and grandchildren eat together almost every Sunday at the home of their father, who is now retired from his job at a natural gas company in Fairbanks. Robert said, “Our family is still close, but it will never be the same without her. She made everything work. You always knew that everything was going to be okay when she was there.” Robert, an area sales manager for Marsala Beverages, takes great comfort in a question he is asked repeatedly when people hear his last name. “When I meet new people, they often ask me, ‘Did you know Theresa Marsala?’ I’m so honored to be able to tell them, ‘Yes, she’s my mother.’”

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FISHING

With Kenny

Confidence, Character and Other Things That Matter

am older. I’m not old but nor am I young and I am okay with that. The great Billy Joel once sang, “I’m young enough to still see the passionate boy that I used to be, but I’m old enough to say I got a good look at the other side” and how right he is. The older I get the more I realize just how much I didn’t know about fishing when I was younger and that is a good thing. What makes it bad is when I don’t adjust to what is new. In bass fishing nothing is ever new. Things are simply re-invented and, most of the time, made better than they were before. That doesn’t mean that the old ways and old techniques won’t work, it just means that in order to make them work, you may need to think outside the box and do so with confidence. It has been said the best lure in any angler’s tackle box is confidence. Anyone who fishes, be it the casual angler or the tournament competitor, has a handful of lures they will fall back on in times of trouble. With this being said, why didn’t we choose these lures to start our day to begin with? Fishermen as a whole are always looking for the newest, brightest and best secret lure. Such a lure doesn’t exist or we would win every tournament we enter or catch fish every time we go. In a technological advanced world such as ours the one thing I have noticed about younger fishermen is they are sound when it comes to the nuts and bolts of fishing. When it comes to fishing technology such as graphs, down imaging and side scans they are far superior to those of us who are much older. The advantage is on their side. What I have also noticed is that they are easily mentally defeated and lose 52 MAY 2019 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

confidence quicker when they can’t use technology to their advantage. Confidence is something you can’t be taught. Recently I was fishing in a charity tournament when I had an issue with another tournament competitor. As I idled my boat to a particular area I was going to fish, I noticed a boat on the other side of the cove turn and head towards the area I was headed. With his trolling motor on high, the angler did his best to beat me and proceeded to begin fishing in front of me less than 50 feet from my boat. I asked him why he would cut me off like that and his response was, “Man, I never even saw you.” While some of the younger anglers may lack confidence, many more of them lack character and sportsmanship on the water. I was taught not to intrude on another person’s fishing area. I believe in giving my fellow competitors and anglers their room and not to get in the way. If something happens and I have to move across their area to get to mine, I do so in a manner not to disturb where they are fishing if all possible. It is only after watching the repeated actions of some of my younger competition, and some of the older ones too, that I have come to grasp that this is just how things are these days. I understand I can’t change it but that doesn’t mean I have to embrace it either. Boat ramp etiquette is another sore spot among anglers. Unhooking your boat for launch or removing your boat after a day on the water is a fairly simple process, or at least it should be. Remove your tie downs, transom saver, put your plug in if need be, load any need equipment, check for life jackets, and any other small tidbits you may need BEFORE you ever position your boat on the ramp to be launched. When loading up after a day on the water, put it on the trailer, attach the front strap and move to an area that is out of the way to keep from interfering with boat ramp traffic. These simple steps make a world of difference and will minimize boat ramp confrontations. Boat dock owners are interesting people. Of all the years I have fished I can count on one hand the times I have had or heard negative words with or from landowners. I understand they have property on the lake and I respect that but I am causing no harm by fishing around or underneath their docks but some to them don’t understand that. While they may own the dock, they don’t own the water it is on. When dealing with disrespectful landowners I have found the best way to handle whatever the situation is to be as kind and polite as possible. It doesn’t do any good to get into a shouting match with someone who believes they are right to begin with. Confrontations can’t always be avoided but if possible please do so. Don’t allow something or someone trivial to ruin a good day on the water. When you are out on the water, within reason, help others when you can. You may not can do anything but at least have the decency to ask if help is needed. I have towed in boats before and on more than one occasion I have heard someone say, “I’m glad he came by because no one else would stop.” That doesn’t say a lot about our society as a whole and it makes me sad to think it’s the mindset people have on the water. Well it looks like we have run out of space again for another month. Time and space flies by when you are having fun! I hope you are able to enjoy being on the water this month as we are in between the freshness of spring and the dog days of summer. Wherever you go please be careful and, if possible, catch one for me! See you next month!

BUILDING? CONSIDER THIS!

by ERIN SHARPLIN LOVE | erinlove@panachebyerin.com

re you in the process of building a new home (your dream home)? If so, I can tell you from experience that it can be a fun endeavor but completely overwhelming at the same time. Although I have created hundreds of beautifully- decorated and organized homes for my clients, I was not yet involved with the building process of an ENTIRE home until I built my own home almost two years ago. It was a huge undertaking, but it opened up a whole new world full of inspiration and dreams. I am now working with a local construction company to help guide their clients through the design and building process. Needless to say, I have a lot of information that might help you, and I can’t wait to share it! Check out my tips below: 1. GET ORGANIZED NOW! I suggest that you create a binder, divide it by room, and begin inserting pictures and notes of things that you want and don’t want. As you search Pinterest and Houzz, for instance, you may see ONE item in a picture that you love or you may love the overall color scheme, etc. Make note of these so your designer can piece together a look for you. 2. DISCUSS YOUR NONNEGOTIABLES UP FRONT. Before your contractor begins the building process, figure out your non-negotiables and state them as soon as possible. For instance, a nonnegotiable may be a free-standing tub instead of a built-in. Or, maybe you want a large back porch equipped with an outdoor kitchen for entertaining. For me it was a lot of ironwork and the highest ceilings I could get! My

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point is that these non-negotiables should be decided BEFORE the building process begins (and preferably before the bidding process) so that your contractor and designer know what they need to keep as high priority. 3. GET READY TO COMPROMISE. Unless you have an unlimited budget, you will probably have to compromise on a few things. It should be easier, though, since you have already discussed your non-negotiables and won’t have to compromise where they are concerned. 4. BUILDING TAKES TIME. To make the building process as seamless as possible, you will need to meet with the contractor and designer often; so if you work, you may need to make sure you have some vacation days to take because most of the vendors will have typical “nine to five” hours of business. You should also plan to be available via text message when questions arise. 5. HIRE A DESIGNER. If your contractor does not have a designer on staff, I suggest hiring someone who is familiar with the building process. They can guide you, keep you on schedule (or ahead of the game), and will offer suggestions based on the style, location, and design of your home. For instance, one of the things my clients love is that I narrow down the myriad of options to a few so they are not quickly overwhelmed. This keeps them from making a choice that they may regret out of necessity and confusion. 6. INCREASE YOUR BUDGET FOR CABINETRY. When I am asked whether or not to have a cabinet built or to buy a piece of furniture, I always suggest that you opt

for the built-in! Built-ins make a home more customized and appear as a seamless piece in the design. They are typically built with all specification in mind (height of ceiling, length of wall), so they fit your spaces perfectly. 7. TRUST YOUR GUT. Listen to the professionals but trust your gut! There will be so many decisions to make and YOU know what you ultimately want the look and feel of your new home to be. A designer or a contractor can offer suggestions from experience, but if you want a different color shingle than was suggested, do it! Speak up! This is your home and you know what is best for you! 8. IT MAY APPEAR SMALLER. Your home will appear smaller than it will actually be after the slab is poured and the framing begins. This is one of the top things I tell my clients! They always call me freaking out because the rooms look so small! I advise that you wait until the drywall goes up and then reassess. You will be pleasantly surprised. 9. PLUGS, PLUGS, AND MORE PLUGS! Make sure you do more than one walk through with your electrician to finalize electrical outlets, phone charging stations, dimmable lighting, light switches, and outdoor lighting. The rough-in for electricals is typically done very early during the building process, so you might miss something or forget completely. Always think of where you might need an outlet or light switch. For instance, in my own home, I did not consider that the only two light switches for my garage lighting were oddly and incorrectly placed. One was inside the garage entry door and one was inside the house. So when I arrived home at night, I would have to search my way (in the dark) to find the switch or I would have to fumble (in the dark) for my keys to unlock the door so I could get inside to turn the light on. Needless to say, consider every mode of entry, exit, function, etc. with your electrician. 10. THERE WILL BE SOMETHING YOU WISH YOU WOULD HAVE DONE DIFFERENTLY. No matter how much planning, how many designers, and how large the budget, you will probably wish you had done something differently. There will always be improvements to make and items to add, so prepare yourself now for this inevitability. For instance, I really wanted a central vac system, but now I don’t use it very often because the hose is so long and cumbersome. It is much easier to pull out my Shark or Swiffer! I totally could have saved that money and used it toward something I had to give up for budget concerns – HEATED BATHROOM FLOORS! I could probably offer many more tips and stories, but I will leave it at this for now. I truly hope these tips help you through your planning process. Please don’t hesitate to contact me if you ever need help or have a question. I am here!

THE NOTE

Meredith’s Musings Modern Tradition |

y cream-colored simple stationery with embossed script bearing the eight letters of my first name lasted a decade. I conveniently bought an eight pack of generic cards with no personality...not the same. I like the elegance of my fancy cards. My words deserve a luxurious space to stretch out. I take time with thank you notes, seizing the opportunity to tell the recipient what he/she means to me or how much my daughter loves Mother Goose reading to her before bed. I believe in the written word. I believe in letting people know they matter, that their gesture is appreciated, that I’m thinking of them. And frankly, expressing myself comes naturally on paper. I’m a writer. With the digital shift, the convenience of email, the paperless push, I’ve questioned the relevance of the hand-mailed thank you note. And the response is twofold: Some believe them unnecessary, insisting a text would serve just as well and save the half-dollar stamp. Others are offended when an acknowledgement doesn’t appear in the mailbox within a few weeks. Honestly, sometimes it takes longer to put the stamp on the note than it does the recipient to read it. I find myself just as irritated from a poorly written thank you note as I am to not receiving one. After my daughter’s first birthday, I took home the presents, inventoried the gifts, making notes of who gave what, the thank you note list for later. I kept track of each baby shower gift the year before and meticulously detailed each contribution with name and date in her baby book. But I wondered, will she even care? Those people matter to me, but will they matter to her? Isn’t the list more for me? One longtime friend, whom I don’t see in person often, brought her the cutest little outfit. She told me being a mother of boys, buying for a little girl was a rare treat. I texted asking for her address, and her

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By Meredith McKinnie

response was: “Girl, don’t worry about sending me a thank you note. Just post tons of pics of Baby Girl in the dress.” She wanted to see her enjoying the gift rather than words from me on how she intended to. Videos and snapshots are so easily accessible, and dealing with postage and drop boxes and stationery is time-consuming and costly. My cousin Abby gave my daughter this little green frog that sits on the side of the tub and shoots bubbles. It makes her chuckle, and we named the frog Fred. I’ll push Fred’s head, shooting bubbles into the air, and she splashes the water in excitement and reaches for his face. The moment said more than I could in words, so I snapped a quick video and sent it to Abby. It was my thank-you note. Afterwards, I crossed Abby’s name off the contribution list, considering our appreciation expressed. Texts, videos, social media interaction, it’s how my cousin and I communicate, so it seemed fitting. I have a neighbor two doors down. Our communication exists in brief chats on the street corner, small talk about our dogs, and a daily wave in passing. We don’t text or follow each other on social media. I’m not sure she even uses either method of communication. A formal note fits our interaction, for her generation appreciates traditional acknowledgement. I don’t necessarily decide who gets the stationery based on the recipient’s age, but rather what suits our level of interaction, or what would matter most to the giver. I’m aware that my behavior will be the learned behavior of my daughter, and hopefully she emulates the positive examples and learns from my failures. I know that requires me acknowledging those failures when they happen. But I hope I teach her gratitude, to show others she is thankful for the small gestures. And whether she chooses traditional stationery or a modern Facebook post, the point is that the appreciation is expressed. In life, we have to meet people where they are, and sometimes it’s on the other side of a screen.

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SELECTING LAWN CARE SERVICES LSU AG CENTER

hey say April showers bring May flowers. We should be in good shape then! Let’s get outside! Lawns are off and running this month and lawn services are out in full force offering chores ranging from routine mowing and trimming to applying various and sundry chemicals. It seems new lawn services are popping up all the time. That some residents need to hire a lawn service is understandable. Our elderly or infirmed residents, especially, may need to hire a lawn service for regular, routine lawn maintenance. Or, folks who are always on the go due to work and family commitments may find that retaining a lawn service is more convenient than donning the armor and wielding the weaponry as weekend warriors themselves. As more of these types of small businesses pop up, it’s worth pointing out that their goal is all the same: to be paid. That said, I’m not in any way implying that all, or even any, of these small business are crooked. However, the LSU AgCenter encourages residents to be cautious and treat lawn services as any other work that would be hired out such as plumbing, carpentry, or electrical. Here are some tips: • Be wary of any business who approaches you first, instead of you doing some homework and approaching them first. • Always ask for references and take time to follow up with those references before signing a contract. • If chemicals of any type are applied to your lawn, ALWAYS ask the company to list, by name, ALL chemicals they applied on your invoice. If problems occur, this will greatly help out with detective work. If they don’t or if they refuse to, they should be fired on the spot. • Always ask to see either a Louisiana landscape horticulture license if landscaping is to be done, a commercial pesticide applicator’s license if chemicals are to be applied, or an arborist’s license if tree work 58 MAY 2019 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

is to be done. Also make sure they are insured should collateral damage occur on either your property or the next door neighbor’s property. • Try to be home when these services are at work on your property. At the very least, ask a neighbor to be present and observe the work being done. This way, you know the services for which you are being billed have actually been performed. • Try to hire locally. If a service from two parishes over approaches you, there may be a good reason they’re looking for work in areas besides their home parish! Don’t be afraid to ask questions. Above all, try to do your own lawn and garden work. You’ll definitely save money and it will be time well spent. It’s hard to think of another outdoor activity that affords

“ I told him I had never heard of it, that people around here generally grow ‘Pinkeye Purplehull’ or ‘Lady Cream’ peas. He said the Calhoun pea... it seems to have disappeared.”

sales. Also included in the 1976 article is a description of the process Dr. Miller was using to produce his pea crosses, the great exercise and the feeling of self-accomplishment gory details of which I’ll spare you. I was Calhoun Purplehull Pea like gardening whether it’s those delicious veggies you able to track down the original publication grew, that solid green lawn you created, or that ornamental describing the pea and its release to the public in bed that is the envy of the neighborhood. November, 1966. Testing for the ‘Calhoun Purplehull’ Okay, sermon over. Now then, I’m dying to tell you this story! began in the mid-1950s. It took a decade’s worth of breeding Several days after our Master Gardener seminar back in January, for Dr. Miller and his colleagues to arrive at a genetically stable variety the subject of which was heirloom seeds, a gentleman came in and that exhibited all the traits they considered important such as pod size asked where he could get seeds of the ‘Calhoun Purplehull’ pea. I told and shape, disease resistance, and maturity date. him I had never heard of it, that people around here generally grow So, the (Calhoun Purplehull) pea is real. Now to find it! I knew ‘Pinkeye Purplehull’ or ‘Lady Cream’ peas. He said the Calhoun pea who would be the most likely to have it and that was good ole Uncle was really popular years ago and it seems to have disappeared. I told Sam! Yep. The USDA. A quick search of the germplasm database the gentleman that he would probably have to find a home gardener and voila! There it was, along with the ‘Calhoun Crowder’ pea! They who saved seeds and who just happened to still have it. He thanked me not only had the pea in their seed banks, but they sent me samples, 25 and left. seeds, of both varieties. The goal is to grow them out and get these LSU In subsequent days, four or five more folks either came in or called varieties back into circulation! with the same question. After the last person called, I sat at my desk and thought about this. If that many people in just a few days came Let’s check the calendar: looking for the same thing, there must be something to this. A mystery! • May 11th and 12th, Le Tour des Jardins, a garden tour put on by I posted questions in a couple local gardening groups on social the Northwest Louisiana Master Gardeners in Shreveport. Advance media. A recently retired LSU AgCenter extension agent quickly tickets are $10. For more information, call their Master Gardener responded that there had been a ‘Calhoun Crowder’ pea and that our office at (318) 698-0010. Tickets purchased at any garden on the days former state fruit specialist had been involved in some of its trials years of the tour are $15. ago and that our vegetable specialist, Dr. Kiki Fontenot, would know • May 18th, Super Saturday at the Children’s Coalition Family Garden, how to contact him and ask him about it. So, a text to Dr. Fontenot 117 Hall Street in Monroe. Come get your hands dirty! yielded a “yes,” there was a ‘Calhoun Crowder’ pea developed by A.C. Miller at the LSU AgCenter’s Calhoun Research Station. In another social media group, someone said the Calhoun pea is extinct and could not be found. This was seemingly confirmed by someone at a feed and seed store in Choudrant. He said the Calhoun pea had gone the way of dinosaurs because it was a viney thing and not very conducive to machine harvesting. That makes sense, except these are home For advice on how to make your garden thrive, gardeners asking about it, not commercial growers. So, the question of go to the Ag Journal page at www.myarklamiss. why it seemed to disappear in a relatively short period of time became com and submit your questions.I’ll answer them another question; one for another day. every Tuesday on Louisiana Living! Out of nowhere, someone who would not be an obvious source messaged me saying there was a 1976 article in The News Star about the Calhoun pea. A quick visit to the library on N. 18th Street yielded pay dirt. An article published in the October 18th, 1976 issue of The News Star featured pea research being conducted at the Calhoun station at the time. And, A.C. Miller himself is pictured in one of the pea plots harvesting purple-hulled field peas. It turns out the Calhoun station, now sitting derelict, was pea-breeding central for a number of years. Several varieties were developed there and released for commercial WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM | MAY 2019 59

Strawberry Mango Salsa 3 cups chopped strawberries 1 mango, chopped 1/2 red onion, finely chopped 1 jalapeno chopped and seeded (add some seeds for more heat) Mix and let stand. 10-20 minutes before serving with chips or crackers. Good with meat and baked fish.

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BAYO U BU Z Z WO RT H Y AMERICAN NINJA WARRIOR An accomplished primary care physician and father of two, Billy Branch, MD, can now add the title of “American Ninja Warrior” contestant to his credentials. The Steward Medical Group doctor has been selected to appear on NBC television’s highly popular obstacle course series American Ninja Warrior – Season 11 this summer. Last year, Dr. Branch’s brother-in-law and his brother- n-law’s friend died as a result of an automobile accident. The pair were avid fans of the show and his determination to make the cast is a tribute to them. “They used to watch American Ninja Warrior and I want so badly for this experience to lift the spirits of those they left behind,” Dr. Branch said. Through his dedicated training, Dr. Branch has become healthier, shedding 80 pounds off his frame.

DAISY AWARD WINNER The DAISY Award is a nationwide program presented in collaboration with the American Organization of Nurse Executives (AONE) that rewards and celebrates the extraordinary clinical skill and compassionate care given by nurses every day. Glenwood Regional Medical Center is proud to be a DAISY Award hospital partner, recognizing one of our nurses with this special honor every quarter. Our very first DAISY Award honoree, Marianne Williams, personifies Glenwood Regional Medical Center’s remarkable patient experience. This nurse has consistently demonstrated excellence through her clinical expertise and extraordinary compassionate care, and is recognized as outstanding role model in our community.

GLENWOOD DONATES TO BOLEY ELEMENTARY On March 18th, the community was invited to attend an announcement that Glenwood Regional Medical Center donated $50,000.00 to the Boley Elementary recovery fund. The elementary school was recently struck by lighting and suffered a tremendous loss. The check was presented to the Ouachita Parish School Board by Jeremy Tinnerello, President of Glenwood Regional Medical Center. 62 MAY 2019 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

ULM ANNOUNCES ULM WOMEN’S BASKETBALL COACH Brooks Williams, the all-time winningest head coach in McNeese State University history who spent the last three seasons as an assistant coach at the University of Alabama, has been named head women’s basketball coach at ULM. Williams graduated from Mississippi State University in 2000 with a degree from the College of Education where she majored in sport communication. She was a member of the women’s basketball program; however, her Lady Bulldog career was cut short due to injuries. The Jennings, Louisiana, native is married to Tyler Williams, and the couple has one son, Griffin.

THE FASHION OF RUSTON HOSTS EVENT

The Krewe sunglasses and Gigi New York Handbags trunk show was a great success at The Fashion during Ruston Fashion Week. Friends and customers came in to hangout and enjoy craft cocktails, cute sunnies, gorgeous handbags, and scrumptious sweet treats. Kelly Hogan and her staff offer great styles unique to this area. If you missed this event, don’t worry! You can find the New Orleans based Krewe sunglasses and Gigi handbags at The Fashion in downtown Ruston

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GIRLS DAY OUT BY DAN CHASON

hen I hosted our television series during the 1990’s and into the 2000’s our slogan was “Take Your Kid Hunting and You Won’t Have to Hunt Your Kids.” This paralleled our encouragement to take your kids not only hunting but fishing as well. This has been true most of my adult life as I have enjoyed many trips afield with my children and grandchildren. Many of these trips are with “my girls.” You see, my wife Michele rarely hunts or fishes as it is just not her thing. She will go when the bream and chinqapin are bedding but the trips are usually short even though very enjoyable. But one group of our family is always ready to go. Our girls love to fish and I have spent many a day on the lake with them. The first to go fishing with me was my daughter, Danielle. She is a typical “Daddy’s girl” and always has been. I remember a show I filmed with her with the same title after she won a local beauty contest. I was so proud of this little girl and even more proud today of the woman she has become. As a mother of 3 boys, she has transformed into an outdoors woman either out of a new interest or from necessity. Two of her boys are die hard hunters and fisherman and she along with her husband Casey spend a lot of time in the woods and on the water. Our times together alone are ones I cherish and look forward to any time I can spend with her in the outdoors. The oldest, Mandy is the mother of three of my fishing partners, Rylee, JT and Kade. Rumor has it she is quite the angler but is a busy baseball mom and registered nurse. It is one of my goals this year to finally share some fishing time alone with her if the prowess and competitiveness she showed on the softball field is an indicator, I may have my hands full. Her husband, Nick, is a gifted hunter and angler so I guess I will have to wait my turn. Shaina, is a different story. She’s laid back woman who didn’t show a lot of interest until she was a bit older when it came to fishing or hunting. She would go but only after leaving home and starting her own life did she generate an active desire to go fishing or 64 MAY 2019 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

hunting. Fishing is her thing as she doesn’t like to get cold and welcomes a sunny day to catch some rays and enjoy some quiet time. She is a determined angler and very adept at most types of fishing, whether we are snatching crappie or catching bass. She has an infectious laugh and is a fast learner. If Shaina is going with you, I can guarantee she will figure out what to do to be competitive. The one thing I love about her is that she is always ready to do her part. Whether helping clean the boat or get it in the water, Shaina is a doer, not a watcher. The one girl in the family that is a diehard angler and good hunter is the baby, Katelyn. We call her KK and this girl is one bad hombre with a jig pole. It brings a smile to my face whenever she comes by the house and without asking, will simply say “I think we need to go fishing.” I have never turned her down and probably never will. KK has shot some nice deer and on our last trip went fish-for-fish with me on bedding crappie. Her tenacity is amazing but her best attribute is her willingness to listen and to be coachable. If she isn’t getting a bite, she will stop and ask me what she needs to do or in some cases, take my jig pole with a smile and start catching them. All of these ladies have had tremendous obstacles to overcome in their young lives. Danielle lost her husband Chad Powell in 2005 in Iraq. Chad was a Marine and spent many days with me and his best friend and my son, Andy fishing and hunting. I have watched Danielle blossom into a strong and independent woman who has succeeded despite the many obstacles she had to overcome. Shaina and KK came into my life when Shaina was 15 and KK was 10. Their biological father was killed in a motorcycle accident in 2005 just one month before Chad died. Mandy was a grown woman by then but losing a man she loved for years as a stepfather did not lessen the pain. But all of these girls have overcome this tragedy to become vibrant members of our community. The acceptance and love shown to me is one of the bright spots in my life. There are no stepchildren in our family as I accepted them as my own when they lost

their father. This is one reason that outdoor connection is so strong. It is a place we bond. A place where we just spend quality time together and a place where we can be at peace and appreciate the time we have together. When the hustle and bustle of living seems to be overwhelming, my recommendation is two-fold. First of all, take some time and take your kids (even if they are grown) fishing and hunting. I cannot tell you how therapeutic it is to slow down and just get to know your kids on another level. There are no agendas, no boundaries and there is great opportunity to show your love and guidance in an area they will never learn solo. Some tips I can lend are let them be the motivation to go on an outdoor activity. Let them learn on their level and don’t expect them to be “bass master casters” when they don’t go as often as you do. Pick a type of fishing that is not difficult such as fishing in heavy cover or in standing timber. Pick a day and do your homework. I scout and make sure the fish are biting and not hard to catch before taking one of them fishing. The same goes for hunting. I scout 90% of the time and we hunt 10% of the time. This increases success and will make them want to return, most times before you invite them. And don’t forget with females to make restroom accommodations. Guys take it for granted that this is not a big deal but with the ladies it can ruin a trip. Regardless of whether your children are 18 or 28 they still have a need to bond with their parent. If you take the time to take a kid fishing, the reward will be all yours. These are the trips that make memories that last a lifetime.

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Suitcases for New Places Rain Salon Hosts Donation Drive for Month of May

INCE 2004, RAIN THE SALON AND DAY SPA HAS BEEN A staple in our community. Not only do they provide the best techniques and service when it comes to hair cuts and color, a relaxing spa environment and quality products, they also give back. There are many organizations and causes that are close to the Rain team. Each year, they participate in Fashion Fusion, a style and fashion show, that has benefitted the Children’s Coalition and more recently, the Cancer Foundation League. Rain has served as a drop off point for prom dresses for Cinderella Project. They have donated products to Mercy Ministries, allowing local women to feel pampered. Rain has supported numerous local schools through donations and giving. This past winter, team members knitted scarves and hats for members of the downtown community during the cold months. And this month, Rain is giving back to an organization that is very close to their hearts - Suitcases for New Places. This group’s goal is to provide each child entering the local foster care system with a suitcase or bag filled with needed items to help make their transition a little easier. Often times, when children enter the foster care program, they do so with only the clothes on their back. Sometimes, what little belongings they do have are thrown in a trash bag. Sara McBroom is the founder of Suitcases for New Places and she became aware of this need when she worked as an investigator for the Department of Children and Family Services and it was her job to remove children from their homes. Sometimes it is in the middle of the night and there is no time to pack. Sara now works for the Children’s Advocacy Center as a forensic interviewer and works with children who have been abused and neglected. Suitcases for New Places provides a backpack containing a set of pajamas, toiletries, a stuff animal, an age-appropriate activity and a blanket to children entering the foster system. Donations often come from individuals in the community, as well as churches and schools. Right now, there is an immediate need for pajamas of all sizes - from infant to adult for big kids. Other items the group needs include: • Backpacks, duffle bags or suitcases • Small blankets • tootbrush/toothpaste • shampoo/conditioner • soap/bodywash • Deodorant

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• Lotion • Stuffed animals • Coloring books and crayons • Pens and Pencils • Journals • Age appropriate books The foster program is near and dear to the heart of the Rain team. Owners, Holly and James McCready were foster parents for a few years and got to see first hand how these children are affected from the systems set in place for removing them from their homes, older kids especially. They saw kids come with a garbage bag of a few things or just having a shoebox with a toothbrush, one pair of underwear and a happy meal toy to their name. “It’s impossible for the social workers to take care of immediate material things for these kids and they are left to leave homes with their few possessions in garbage bags, shoe boxes and sometimes nothing at all,” said Holly McCready. “Pajamas, toiletries, a couple of sets of clothes and a few small toys can help these kids feel like something is actually theirs in this tragic time in their lives and it also can give the foster parents a sense of peace knowing that if they can’t make it to the store within 24 hours, the kids are covered with basic necessities. These are basic items that so many of us take for granted each and every day.” A member of the Rain team also has experience with the foster care system. Holly Brooke, a stylist, was in the foster care system from the time she was five years old to her teenage years. “Often times, you are taken out of a home and taken off guard,” Holly Brooke explains. “You may have 15 minutes to throw your belongings in a bag, and you don’t have much. You are going to a house that you don’t know the people and you are scared and having something from Suitcases for New Places would really help a child feel secure.” Holly Brooke says one of the things she really appreciated having a journal, so she could work through some of the things she was feeling at the time. Rain is holding a donation drive throughout the entire month of May for Suitcases for New Places. For each drop off, you will be entered to win a $250 gift card to Rain. You can drop items off at the salon, located in downtown Monroe throughout the entire month of May. More information on Suitcases for New Places is available on Facebook or online at suitcasesfornewplaces.org.

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Jesus the Good Shepherd Providing an Exceptional Catholic Education

MAIS PEE WEE BASEBALL AND SOFTBALL UNDEFEATED CHAMPIONS The JGS baseball and softball teams had an outstanding season this school year with three MAIS Pee Wee Championships. The JGS 4th and 6th grade baseball teams won the upper and lower division championships, while the 5th and 6th grade girls took home the upper division softball championship. These students have shown outstanding dedication to their school, coaches and teachers and we are proud of each and every accomplishment they have achieved in athletics and academics this school year. This success would not have been possible without the outstanding coaches who volunteer their precious time and knowledge to help these students achieve their goals and dreams. Being a coach is a calling, but being a volunteer coach is something truly special and a blessing to our students and our school and for that we are extremely thankful!

exciting summer planned for our campers. Summer camp students are grouped into sections by age and their games, crafts, snacks, field trips and outside playtime are planned accordingly. Our goal is to make camp fun and exciting with weekly themes and field trips, while at the same time providing structure and safety. A typical summer camp day will begin with outside play time, prayer and morning snack, followed by an age appropriate themed lesson/game, lunch, rest time, snack and afternoon activities consisting of computer lab, craft time, free play, board games or center play. Campers will enjoy weekly themes such as “Love Louisiana” and “Wild West at JGS” and field trips to Tinseltown Movie Theater, Uncle Robert’s Orchard, The Children’s Museum, Bayou Bowl, Wild Country Safari Park, Kiroli Park and Altitude. Our youngest campers will benefit from scheduled rest and snack times in the afternoon to ensure they are not overly exerted during the day.

ENROLLMENT AND TUITION ASSISTANCE We are currently accepting new student applications and applications for tuition assistance for the upcoming 2019/20 school year. Tuition assistance is available annually for qualified students. We have much to offer families and students at JGS in the form of enrichment classes such as art, music, computer lab, physical education, organic gardening as well as our Rising Runners program and integrated STEM education (Science, Technology, Engineering and Mathematics). We also offer a wide range of sports activities including football, basketball, softball, baseball, tennis, archery and cross country. We most importantly try to infuse the love of Jesus Christ in all that we do at JGS. Daily religion classes and classroom prayer along with weekly Mass help us to keep Christ the center of our school. We would love the opportunity to share these wonderful treasures with your family. Classes are filling up quickly, please do not delay in contacting the school with inquiries.

JGS CHURCH VACATION BIBLE SCHOOL The week of July 8-12, The Church of Jesus the Good Shepherd will hold its annual vacation bible school, Monday – Friday, 9 a.m. to 12:00 p.m. This year’s bible school theme is “Athens: Paul’s Dangerous Journey to Share the Truth.” Students will escape to Athen’s with Paul for five days, learning about the life altering truth of God’s heart for humanity straight from Paul himself! Vacation Bible School registration is available online at https://vbspro.events/p/ events/jgsvbs2019, through the Church of Jesus the Good Shepherd Facebook page and paper forms will be available in the JGS church office for children who are not enrolled in the JGS School Summer Camp program. Children in the JGS Summer Camp Program will automatically be enrolled for the week. All children are welcome, regardless of religious affiliation. Volunteers are always needed and may also sign-up through the above link. For more information, please call the JGS Church office at 318-325-7549.

SUMMER CAMP 2019 Jesus the Good Shepherd School Summer Camp begins Tuesday, May 28th and will continue through Friday, July 26th, Monday through Friday from 7:30 a.m. to 5:30 p.m. JGS Summer Camp is open to all students, ages 3-13 years, who are currently registered for the 2019/20 school year. Our highly qualified JGS staff has an

Open enrollment is in progress at JGS. Families interested in finding out more about Jesus the Good Shepherd Catholic School are encouraged to contact the school office directly at 318-325-8569 to schedule a tour with our principal, Mrs. Lisa Patrick, or visit our website, www.jesusgoodshepherd. org. Follow us on Facebook, Twitter and Instagram.

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Take a Vacation In Your Own Back Yard Azure Pools and Spas

PRING IS HERE AND SUMMER IS just around the corner! Now is the time to get your backyard ready and turned into your very own paradise. Azure Pools and Spas has been the place to go for pools for the past 13 years. Whether you have a pool that are maintaining and getting ready for the busy season or want to put in a pool, they are the experts for anything you need. When it comes to pools, one of the most popular types is in ground and Azure offers vinyl pools as well as fiberglass pools. Some of the benefits of the Polymer inground pools that Azure offers include: • Lifetime Warranty • 1 00% corrosion free, sturdy bracing system with drive stake assembly •T he walls will not rust, rot, dent or corrode • Engineered for superior strength and endurance • Compatible with both chlorine and saltwater A polymer inground pool is more cost efficient, while still providing beautiful, built to last quality. Azure offers over 60 different options when it comes to the liner pattern, allowing you to customize your poolscape to match your style and taste. Fiberglass pools are built for strength and designed to perform. Azure carries Viking Pools and Imagine Pools, which set the standard in fiberglass pools. Some of the benefits include: • Can withstand the weather and a variety of climates •S everal options for shape and layout design • Compatible with both chlorine and saltwater

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While fiberglass pools are more expensive, it can pay off when it comes to maintenance. There is minimal maintenance and no need for resurfacing like concrete pools. The smooth and easy-to-clean inhibits algae from growing, requiring less cleaning and scrubbing with harsh chemicals. If your yard doesn’t lend itself to an inground pool, Azure has options for above ground pools. These pools can have chlorine as well as saltwater and come in both round and oval shapes. They offer round pools from 18 foot to 33 foot. Oval pools are available up to 18 feet by 33 feet. Azure carries a variety of brands of above ground pools include Quantum, Saratoga and Sentinelle. These above ground pools can even be semi - in ground and have a deep end. If you already have a pool, you will want to stop by Azure to get yours ready for summer! They offer a free water test and their expert staff can tell you just what you need to get your pool perfect. Now is the time to get chlorine, algaecide and add salt to your pool.Balancing chemicals like pH, alkalinity, calcium and UV Shield are key to get your pool ready for summer. Azure also carries Dolphin Supreme Robotic Cleaners, offering convenience, peace of mind and the latest in technology when it comes to keeping your pool clean. If you are needing to replace your liner, the staff at Azure can show you a variety of options and walk you through the entire process. They have a variety of quality liners

with different patterns and thickness to suit any style. Azure has everything to get your entire backyard ready for summer. They carry Primo grills, from the Oval XL 400 to the classic round Kamado. Every Primo grill is made to be a primary outdoor cooker, but any of them can be added to a built-in outdoor kitchen or to complement an existing grill or smoker. They also carry the Primo All-In-One Series, which was developed with convenience in mind. This series also offers a cost effective avenue for Primo customers to get a bigger “bang for their buck” without breaking the bank. A Primo All-In-One Grill can be assembled in minutes and ready to cook. Once assembled just add whole lump charcoal, light and grill your favorite food. They also have tons of fun toys to throw in the ball or take to the beach, from floats to games to bluetooth speakers. While Azure is your go-to store for all your pool needs, that isn’t all they do. They carry Hot Spring Spas as well. Financing is available for 0% for 60 months. Azure Pools and Spas has a location in both Monroe and Ruston and services all of northeast Louisiana and South Arkansas. They now offer financing from Tower Loan and Wells Fargo. Whether you are looking to build your own paradise with a new pool or get the pool you have ready for summer, stop by and see the experts at Azure!

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Your Number One Dealer for Summer Fun B&L Marine Offers a Variety of Marine Products

S THE WEATHER BEGINS TO warm up, feelings of summer start slipping into our minds. The summer sun warms our spirits and gets everyone in the mood to get up, get outside and get on the water. One way to make this a summer to remember is finally getting yourself the boat you have been wanting for years. Whether it be a boat for water sports, fishing, or both, B&L Marine in Monroe is here to help and get you started. For 45 years, B&L Marine has been family-owned and operated and conveniently located in the Lakeshore area of Monroe. Bill and Hazel Buckley started the dealership in 1973. In 1985, their son-in-law, Pat McDonald came to the dealership and started working his way up. He purchased the dealership in 1997 from Bill and Hazel and continues to run it today with the help of his son Nick McDonald. The family is deeply rooted in the Lakeshore and Swartz area and continues to support the community which has come to know B&L Marine as a local landmark. Bill and Hazel’s goal was to make B&L Marine the best choice and a one-stop dealership for your sales, service and on the water fun. They continue that philosophy today with great customer service, the best products and the ability to handle any boating need that you may have. From fishing boats to ski boats, B&L has you covered. They pride themselves on having the best name brands and the most 72 MAY 2019 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

selection in all types of boats and equipment. Stop by their showroom and see what all they have to offer. Their knowledgeable staff is ready to help you make your decision. Their Xpress and Crestliner boats are all aluminum, with no wood, all welded, and both offer a lifetime weld warranty on their boats. Xpress is a name that has been around for a long time and has a reputation for being the best high performance aluminum boat on the market. Xpress can be stacked up against any other tournament bass boat on the market and usually for less money with more durability. Veranda Pontoons are a luxury pontoon and are a step above other pontoons on the market. Their patented aluminum interlocking deck allows the entire boat to be built without wood. That means Verandas are built to last a lifetime. The Relax series is the most economical way to get on the water in style. They are available in twin toon and triple toon versions and multiple interior formats. The VP and Vertex series are the best of the best in luxury and durability. From the plush interior and cooled cup holders, to the touch screen dash and reliable Yamaha V-MAX SHO outboard, you can’t go wrong with a Veranda Pontoon. Like a little adrenaline in your system? Then check out the new Moomba Tow-boat lineup. Moomba is the only true value brand in the inboard ski boat market, but don’t let that fool you. Moombas are consistently

some of the best looking and well optioned ski boats on the water. Whether you enjoy wakeboarding, surfing, skiing or tubing, Moomba will get you on the water without breaking the budget. Already have a boat? Before you hit the water this summer, make sure your boat is in tip-top shape. B&L Marine provides boating services and the best quality parts. Bring your boat by and have it serviced now before it’s time to push off. They have a wide array of Slingshot and Hyperlite wakeboards and bindings. Nick, their watersports know-it-all, will have you out on the water in the best gear on the market at internet prices. They carry the ropes, lifevests, and other accessories needed to wakeboard. They also carry a large inventory of kneeboards, skis, and tubes from HO Sports. They offer a variety of marine products, and their selection of high quality boats is second to none. B&L Marine prides itself on having the friendliest and most knowledgeable staff in Northeast Louisiana. It is their goal to help our customers find the perfect boat to fit their lifestyle, along with the right parts and accessories to truly keep you on the water! B&L Marine 110 Old Bastrop Rd | Monroe, LA 71203 bandlmarine.com (318) 343-1250

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DESIGNEDBAYOU PHOTO BY KELLY MOORE CLARK INSPIRATION BOARD BY TISH MILLER

DESIGNER SPOTLIGHT: Tish Miller

ish loves that her job is different – each day, each client and each job holds something new. After decades of working in design, she has been able to play and create in so many different aesthetics and styles that nothing is ever repetitive or boring. Tish says, “I take into consideration the way a space needs to function, how the client wants the room to feel when they walk in, any specific preferences, must-haves, any dislikes ... and build from there.” TISH’S DESIGN BOARD: “I wanted to create an airy, natural feel for my client. We started with antique limestone flooring and a sisal rug, layered with neutral, comfortable furniture. I pulled out our color from collected artwork and added watery, blue greens in accents of pillows and accessories. Subtle graphic wallpaper covers an accent wall. Organic touches of mixed metals and wood, and a patterned backsplash against a solid light countertops are included. This room is pulled together with fluid linen draperies paired with natural woven shades. ”

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DESIGNEDBAYOU PHOTO BY KELLY MOORE CLARK INSPIRATION BOARD BY SHAWN BRAZZELL

DESIGNER SPOTLIGHT: Shawn Brazzell

hawn Brazzell comes from a long line of creative people. Her dad was a contractor, as well as her grandfather. Her maternal grandfather was a draftsman and her mom is an artist and seamstress. From a very early age, the construction of all things has fascinated Brazzell, as well as textiles and colors. Growing up, there was always something being built or created around her. She says, “When designing a space, I want those spaces to be very practical and functional but have a charm and warmth about them. I love rooms that embrace you and say ‘come stay awhile.’ I want it to tell a story about the kind of person that resides there.” SHAWN’S DESIGN BOARD: “I recently designed a client’s home in Bluffton, South Carolina and fell in love with the Carolina low country. This board is inspired by the historic, large oaks, mossy greens, gorgeous sunsets, and calm, coastal feel of the community. The jute and grasscloth give a natural feel while adding texture, and the rich colors add that coastal vibe and warmth. The waterjet wood and marble tile add a historic elegance. And, nothing says low country better than a beautiful crocodile fabric.”

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DESIGNER SPOTLIGHT: Julie Mays

ulie Mays was raised loving color, and her childhood summers were full of art camps and museums. Her family moved often, so turning empty new living spaces into warm, comfortable and functional homes was a personal lifestyle, and those beginnings formed a hunger for design and creativity that has stayed with her to this day. As an interior designer accommodating both residential and commercial, Mays is a partner in Trenton Interiors & Company, a fullscale design center, studio and product showplace in downtown Ruston. JULIE’S DESIGN BOARD: “I wanted to evoke the calming and healing powers that bathing is known to have by creating a relaxing, spa atmosphere. The beautiful and soft peacock feather mat, along with a vintage coy grouping, combine with the locally harvested natural crystals my children found in a creek by our home. Combined together, these elements create the perfect home spa experience.”

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DESIGNEDBAYOU PHOTOGRAPH BY KELLY MOORE CLARK INSPIRATION BOARD BY SANDY MCMILLAN

DESIGNER SPOTLIGHT: Sandy McMillan

andy McMillan enjoys creating interiors that have a timeless look. When designing a space, she visits with the client to make sure their needs, as well as their wants are addressed in the overall design plan. McMillan finds neutral palettes to be a wonderful backdrop for antiques, art or treasures for which the homeowner has acquired over the years. Through her design business, Intelligent Designs, and her storefront, Haven, Sandy is fortunate to have a design library that has beautiful fabrics from all over the world. These fabrics in their fresh, ever-changing color palettes always provide inspiration. By using textiles and taking cues from architectural elements in a room, Sandy is able to provide clients with beautifully balanced, and well-designed spaces. SANDYâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;S DESIGN BOARD: â&#x20AC;&#x153;This design board is filled with beautiful finishes in shades of neutrals. Each item is selected for what it can add to the space. Interest is achieved through layering textures in fabrics, accents of metals, wood and acrylic finishes, and interesting wallpapers and rugs.

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Tr u e t o Tr a d i t i o n AR T IC L E B Y VANE L I S R I VE R A P HO T O G RA P H Y B Y AN D R E W B AI L E Y

Frank’s Has Brought the Love of the Italian Pizza-Making Craft to Louisiana IN THE WORLD OF PIZZA MASTERS, the Neapolitan pizza is held to incredibly rigorous standards. Conceived around 1600 in Campania, Italy’s southwestern region, it has achieved a renown not only credited to Neapolitan culinary talent but also handicraft. Owner of Frank’s, Frank Harris IV, has brought the love of the Italian pizzamaking craft to Louisiana in a cozy and chic environment that is true to a tradition that values craft as well as taste. Harris and partner, Brian Flournoy, opened the first Frank’s in Shreveport about six years ago, officially named Frank’s Pizza Napoletana. They branched out to open Frank’s Louisiana Kitchen, also located in Shreveport, and Frank’s in Monroe on September of last year. Harris, a pizzaiolo (professional pizza-maker), has been cooking professionally since graduating from The Culinary Institute of America at Hyde Park, New York. A Shreveport native and hidden talent, he’s a “pretty famous chef that most people don’t know about,” informs Monroe General Manager, Michelle Cascio. In the eighties, says Cascio, Harris was sous chef to well-known Cajun chef John Folse and the pair traveled to Italy to introduce Cajun cooking to the land of pasta and tomato sauce. In Italy, Harris fell in love with the intricate art of the Neapolitan pizza. In 2009, Harris trained in California with renowned artisan pizza consultant Michael Fairholme and spent over five years researching and planning the opening of his first Frank’s. The process was expedited by his partnership with Flournoy, whose many executive and board related roles assimilated well with the duties of the restaurant business, centralizing his role as co-managing partner of Frank’s. While both owners were involved in the opening of Monroe’s location, Cascio’s experience and resolute attention played a significant role in the restaurant’s opening. In the food business since the age of thirteen, Cascio grew up in her grandparents’ butcher shop, a meat market formerly located in the southside of Monroe. Her grandmother taught her how to cut steak and make sausages, skills she applied as butcher and chef at Vieux Carré Market, which she still incorporates on the days she happens to jump into the Frank’s kitchen.

YOU’RE MEANT TO WALK INTO MONROE’S FRANK’S and feel like you’ve stepped out of your hometown. A knotty pine, plank wall with built-in seating divides the waiting area from the dining spaces. Minimalist modern flares accent each corner of the interior, like the single, Edison bulb pendants hanging from the ceiling and like whimsical vines and Frank’s sputnik-like chandelier. One wall mounts an immense woodslice art backdrop centered with a water buffalo head mount—a nod to the source of their mozzarella. Louvered shutters add depth and texture to the wood booths. Bar area seating sits against a wall of ledgestone, while the bar is accented by a towering vertical wine rack display. Though standout design pieces are tastefully laid out for a trendy dining experience, the beating heart and living soul of the restaurant is in the pizzeria section. Like a candy-apple red catahedral a bustling square of food and wine, Frank’s Stefano Ferrara 7,500 pound, oak-fired oven commands attention. These ovens represent three generations of Neapolitan craftsmanship. They are unique pieces built by hand and brick by brick, each one taking up to ten days to construct. Santa Maria bricks from Campania are used in the walls and dome and the cooking surface is Biscotto di Sorrento (clay from Italy’s Sorrento region.) All of it is assembled with mortar made from nearby Mount Vesuvius. This careful handmade tradition is internationally appreciated and in such high demand that there is a waiting list for Stefano fixed ovens, particularly because only six are made a year. Louisiana boasts six Stefano ovens, two of which can be found at both Frank’s. The intense heat of these ovens play a significant role in the taste of Neapolitan pizzas. A true Neapolitan pizza is cooked in firewood ovens with a cooking temperature of about 485°C, guaranteeing the perfect cooking conditions. The smoky flavor imparted on the pizza and the speed at which it cooks (between sixty to ninety seconds) create the ideal conditions for a one-of-akind taste—thin, soft and chewy crust with a little char. Frank’s makes their dough daily using Antimo Caputo “tipo 00” flour from Napoli (milled specifically for Neapolitan pizza dough), fresh yeast, and sea salt. Their red sauce is simple: crushed San Marzano tomatoes and sea salt. Most of their white pizzas are sauced with panna, a mixture of their house-made buffalo mozzarella, ricotta cheese, and cream. Their top selling pie is one of their Pizze Bianche (white pizzas), The Desperate Housewife, a tide of flavors: roasted chicken, mozzarella, chile flakes, artichokes, sautéed baby spinach, crispy pancetta (Italian bacon), grape tomatoes, basil pesto, garlic, Pecorino-Romano cheese, ricotta, finished with toasted pine nuts. In the Pizze Rosse (red pizzas) section, The Big Hurt reigns, a must-have for any self-proclaimed meat fiend: braised pork, mortadella (Italian sausage), sopressata (Italian dry salami), coppa (dry-cured pork), crispy pancetta, pepperoni, caramelized onions, red sauce, mozzarella, Pecorino-Romano,

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garlic, and Calabrian chiles. It hurts so good! On the Keto diet? Just ask Frank’s to transform a pizza into a salad. Meanwhile, gluten free guests are encouraged to ask for Frank’s gluten-free dough. Doesn’t matter which pie you choose, or whether you eat it with a knife and fork or by hand, Frank’s wants you to know that each ingredient is carefully selected. They butcher their own meat and fish, make their own sausage and pancetta, cure and cold smoke their salmon, and make all their desserts. The only freezer they claim to have holds their house made gelati and sorbetti. True to tradition, some menu items are in Italian, but don’t let that deter your meal choice, because the Frank’s staff is ready to guide you based on your taste and appetite. For your antipasti (appetizer), try the Spiedini, skewers of mozzarella wrapped with pepperoni and roasted in the wood burning oven. The Salumi È Formaggi Misti, a sampling of Italian cured meats and Italian cheeses with olives, focaccia bread, and various other “goodies,” is a hit for tables of two or more. At lunch or dinner Frank’s Vino Rosso Burger is satisfying and aromatic: an 8 ounce ground beef patty with red wine reduction, blasted in the wood fire, topped with asiago, caramelized union, sliced tomatoes, and served on house-made rosemary focaccia with creole mustard-mayo and wild arugula with crispy onion rings. Cascio recommends the Orecchiette Pasta Bolognese, made with house cured pancetta, ground beef, ground pork, and red wine. “I could eat a whole bowl of that,” she laughs.

Pictured Below: The Salumi È Formaggi Misti, a sampling of Italian cured meats and Italian cheeses with olives, focaccia bread, and various other “goodies,” is a hit for tables of two or more.

heir new brunch menu features many of their main menu staples (including the pizzas) and some breakfast twists. Their gulf oysters on the half-shell are wood oven broiled and served with garlic-parsley, brandy butter, bread crumbs, and Pecorino-Romano. Currently, five of their main menu salads appear at brunch. Try the elaborate La Cosa Nostra: arugula and baby spinach with roasted butternut squash, dried cranberries, crispy prosciutto, roasted pecans tossed with a warm sherry vinegar-cane syrup vinaigrette, red onion, herbed French goat cheese, and PecorinoRomano. Frank’s brunch specialties include brunch favorites with an Italian touch. The Mr. Eggs Benedict includes house cured bacon on two house-made buttermilk biscuits topped with poached eggs and Italian sausage white gravy, served with vegetables du jour and fresh fruit. In the Crepes Bayou Desiard, diced chicken breast is medleyed in Creole-sautéed mushroom cream sauce with house cured pancetta and parsley. La dolce vita (“the good life”) can be achieved venturing into the dessert section of the menu. Michelle’s Tiramisu is

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a classic with espresso soaked ladyfingers, dark cocoa, and mascarpone. Anything Nutella is worth a try at least once and the Nutella Calzone is no exception. This wood-fired dessert features the world favorite hazelnut spread, bananas, roasted pecans, and mini marshmallows drizzled with chocolate sauce and sprinkled with powdered sugar. Cap your meal like they do in Italy with their selections of the unique and unmistakable taste of Illy coffee. Headlining such indulgent menu items speaks to Frank’s love for eating and cooking for people who love to eat. Heartfelt hospitality and an inviting atmosphere reveals that the restaurant is more than just pizza. Casual meets upscale in a truly artisanal space meant to captivate sight, smell, and taste. Frank’s is located at 2252 Tower Drive Suite 101, Monroe, LA. Call 318.387.1044 to make reservations or visit the Frank’s website for more information about their menu items and chef specials: https://www.franksmonroe.com. Give them a follow on Facebook or Instagram for food teasers.

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FLOWERS

COLOR ME HAPPY Designer and Master Gardener Gregory Hudgins takes our May floral arrangement in a joyful direction with the use of bright yellow miniature roses, white cremon, protea, privet berry and green hydrangea. Swept to the right, this arrangement is artfully anchored in a seafoam-hued glass vase. ARRANGEMENT BY GREGORY HUDGINS PHOTOGRAPHY BY KELLY MOORE CLARK

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The Fletcher Home Constructed by Jonathan Hill

IVE YEARS AGO, KEN AND KAREN FLETCHER RELEASED an ad in Bayou Life Magazine inviting the Monroe and West Monroe community to join them and their family for an open house of their new 21st Century Farmhouse built by Jonathan Hill Construction. Their purpose was pointed: “You come see what Jonathan Hill can do.” Approximately two hundred and fifty visitors showed up on their driveway, and to this day, they still welcome anyone who wants to witness the prodigious talent of Jonathan’s handiwork and his team’s dexterity. Deciding to build a house has been known as a harrowing undertaking. Karen was warned that building a house with a spouse often ends in divorce—the building process often too nerve-wracking and stressful. If not for Jonathan’s seamless planning and building along with her husband’s endearing intention to make his wife’s dream “castle” come true, the Fletcher’s may have a different story to tell, but they both felt surprised that at the end of the ten months of construction, they hadn’t experienced a whiff of negativity. “We just had fun for ten months,” she says. “Somewhere in the early part of the process, I realized I can turn those two people loose,” affirms Ken, referring to how Jonathan and Karen navigated construction and design ideas for things such as windows, sink knobs, and even hidden rooms. Karen trusted the choices Jonathan presented to her, consistently impressing her with a meticulous acumen for artful conception and cementing trust by actively listening to her unique vision. The Fletchers speak to Jonathan’s client-centered rule of thumb and appreciated him taking his time to choose craftsmen that fit their project. There were never any surprises. “We always knew why and when things were happening,” informs Ken, adding that Jonathan’s building approach “was all purpose driven.” While most construction is frantic and time sensitive, Jonathan’s goal is never to rush the process. He understands that his company’s pivotal role centers on service and that fulfilling client desires establishes reliability and a common thread. “When he talks about building dream homes, he’s talking about building your dream home, not his,” says Ken, which makes all the difference.

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A talented builder was important to the Fletchers, but with Jonathan, they also received a man of “principle and character.” He made decisions that were driven by the right thing to do, recalls Ken. When looking for a builder, look for someone who is “conscientiously attempting to put your plans into reality,” advises Karen. “That’s what he’s good at,” Karen adds. The Fletchers assert that they like Jonathan Hill “more now than when he began construction.” A rare statement in the chaotic world of home construction. The complexities of the building process can be staggering, but Jonathan’s team is prepared to guide you through the nooks and crannies of an ultimately worthwhile experience. The Jonathan Hill Construction assurance is three-tiered. Their “eye for design” marries the structural details of constructing a home with a passion for design. Going “the extra mile” means that they are willing to create design selections for their clients and work alongside them from preparation to completion. Staying up to date on the latest trends, current laws, and state of the art technology is their “homework” to constantly better aid their customers to make informed decisions on everything from paint colors and light fixtures to appropriately sized air conditioning system. While no one can guarantee a perfect experience or a flawless home, Jonathan’s desire is to give you both. The company’s goal has become clear; to exceed customer expectation in both quality and customer service. The overwhelming list of testimonials on their page show a succession of accolades describing satisfaction with Jonathan’s team, appreciation of a smooth experience, and gratitude for an outstanding finished product—custom homes for custom lives. Clearly, the Fletcher’s experience with Jonathan Hill Construction is just one among many that amplify Jonathan’s ability to breathe life into your plans.

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Fashion Fusion While Fashion Fusion was delayed by a day due to inclement weather, the show went on on Sunday, April 14th at the Monroe Civic Center. Models walked the runway in local boutique fashions, all to benefit the Cancer Foundation League. The event was produced by DBK Dance and Performing Arts. Participating boutiques included River Belles, Cara’s, C’est La Vie, Dusty & Company, Eleven 26, Heirloom, Hemline, Ruston Fitness Boutique, HerringStone’s, K-Sera, River Outfitters, Ron Alexander Clothiers for Men, The Fleurty Ginger and Uptown Girl. The Cancer Foundation League provides direct financial assistance to individuals diagnosed with cancer and everyone stood and applauded the cancer survivors as they walked the runway and closed the show.

On the BayouScene 1 Scott and Cindy Stone 2 Lyndsay Mixon and Amanda Prudhomme 3 Benjamin Evans, Veronica Knight and Dave Maxwell 4 F reddy and Tracy Frantom 5M ike Walsworth and Amanda Hatten 6 Mary Grace Littlefield and Macie Prudhomme 7C aroline Milford and Sonnet Bennett 8 Barbara Smith, Amy and David Campbell 9C aroline Ernst and Christy White 10 Deborah Foley and Nicole Cabello 11 Emily Essex and Kimberly Moore 12 B abbette Adcock, Maureen Crooks, Jessica Pollard and Jenni Hastings 13 J ustin Downs, Patrick Savage, Chris Gilmer, Ron Alexander and Joshua Talley 14 R iley Covington and Ashley Bailey 15 D iedra Adair, Bella Foley, Olivia Adair and Khloe Scott 16 H agen Campbell, Lanie Shemwell, Abbi Scallan and Kalyn Red 17 D ebbie Bourg and Diane Acree

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Living Through History Traditions Antiques

HE NUMBER OF TRIPS MELANIE LILES AND PAM WOOD have made across the pond has now crossed over the 40 mark. As the owners of Traditions Antiques, spending so much time in Europe has truly been a dream come true for them. These trips aren’t just their tradition, the trips are their business. Owning one of the region’s premier sources for high-quality heirloom pieces, Melanie and Pam understand how important it is to find the perfect additions for their customers’ homes and offices. Often customers come by their Antique Alley store and and reminisce on items they bought way back when. Pam and Melanie hear it all the time: “I bought a table, a bookcase, a server about 20 years ago from Traditions and it is still my favorite piece,” customers will tell them. When shopping with Traditions, you’re actually shopping through history—which is how the owners think of their frequent shopping excursions in England, France, Italy and beyond. Each item in the store is hand-selected for quality and beauty. At Traditions, each customer has the opportunity to own the types of quality antiques they desire at the best possible price, even offering pieces for layaway. Each piece they select for the showroom provides the kind of focal point that can make an interior. For example, designers suggest you should anchor a room with a dark piece of furniture, no matter the decor style. That’s one reason formal furniture is making a comeback, according to English & European dealers. If you’re unsure which piece will help make your space, the ladies at Traditions are friendly, approachable, and extremely knowledgeable in interior design. They will help you ground your home with the ideal antique. Over the years, Melanie and Pam have developed a solid reputation in the antiques world as two ladies from Northeast Louisiana who know their craft. They’ve also forged friendships across Europe with knowledgeable individuals who help them find beautiful treasures to bring back to northeast Louisiana. These are two women who understand that they never know what exactly they are looking for until they find it, and their European excursions are a treasure hunt. That’s why you’ll be amazed at what they find. Each piece Melanie and Pam bring back to the U.S. has a story, a

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history, memories. They bring those stories and histories back with them, which is why you should always ask the ladies there where the piece came from when you buy. Your new piece will not only anchor your room, but it’ll also serve as a great conversation piece, as well. You’ll begin to make your own memories, which you can hand down to your children, their children, and their children for generations to come. Their most recent excursion took Melanie and Pam to England, Belgium and Holland for two weeks in April. They stayed in some lovely places during their trip. One resting place for the trip included the Queen Elizabeth Suite where the current queen used to stay when visiting the stately home, now turned into a hotel. They also spent the night in the Cotswolds in a large historical home turned into a hotel. The Tradtion’s ladies met with some antique dealers who are renovating a home in the Cotswolds. What a treat to see how they are turning a deteriorating property into a lovely home with a a converted stable for antiques. They bought everything from a Staffordshire Dog to a 12 foot mahogany dining table with 12 chairs. They have lots of sources for antiques that they have visited for over twenty years, but it is always fun when they find new sources. Their newest source deals in some Swedish Antiques. They bought a group of Swedish wedding boxes with lids, which were used to keep the bride’s dowry. Working with people that are equally as passionate as they are make their job easy. It is such a pleasure for the ladies at Traditions to meet young dealers who have such a love for antiques that they have started their own businesses. Always a highlight of their trip, they love to revisit friends and meet new people that love what they do. They bring this same personal attention to every customer who walks through the doors of their shop. The end to their trip was spent in London. They met up with Gregory Hudgins and spent their day at Fortnum and Mason, Liberty and had a fabulous high tea. The last night they attended the musical Hamilton, which was the end to a wonderful and productive trip. Newest shipment of antiques coming soon and should start arriving in late May or early June. For any questions please visit the store at 313 Trenton St. in West Monroe or call 318.322.7728. Follow them on Instagram and Facebook for upcoming notifications. Watch for “Our Ship Has Come In”

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Opening May 17th Weekend Spartan Adventure Park

ORTHEAST LOUISIANA’S NEWEST LOCATION for hosting birthday parties and corporate events will be having their grand opening on Friday, May 17th. Held in the newly renovated Twin City Shopping Center on Louisville, the Adventure Park boasts more than 25k sqft and will have something for everyone, more than you could ever expect. Not just for children, this adventure park has everything from golf simulators to rock climbing walls to ziplines. So much to do and so many different attractions, you’ll have to come back another time to do it all. Looking to build some company morale? PGA endorsed golf simulators are perfect for some team building exercises. Located in a secluded section of the park are two giant golf simulators and a conference room complete with flat screen T.V.s, the perfect way to host a fun, interactive business meeting or retreat. These simulators are fun and easy to use , they are great for team building and family entertainment. The virtual reality section of Spartan has state of the art simulators. These next generation simulators will collectively run more than 50 games, flight simulations and roller coaster simulations. Fun for all ages and built for the future. If you’ve never tried one this should be the first on your Spartan to-do list. Don’t forget the trampolines! Spartan has wall-to-wall trampolines and games to play while jumping and defying gravity. Dodgeball, basketball, tag, you name it, we have it. Have a big staff? What better way to blow off some steam than a super fun game of dodgeball, which includes electronic targets and scoreboards, adding a new spin to a traditional game. It’s next level fun. Test your skills in the Ninja courses, compete with friends, or practice your own tricks freestyle. Not only fun but a great workout as well. Also, another way to build morale as a team, bring your employees and have fun supporting each other as you challenge these courses. If the Ninja courses won’t do it try the Ninja designed warped walls. Cheer on your friends as they climb to the top but whatever you do, don’t look down! 96 MAY 2019 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

Not looking to cheer your friends on? Then you should try the Battle Beams. Think balance beam plus sword fighting. Only the swords are foamy and the pit below is lined with cushy foam blocks. Laugh your heart out as you try to knock your friend in to the pit. Is it all in good fun? Or is there really no better feeling then defeating your friends on the Battle Beam. Decide for yourself! Discover some high flying fun with Spartan Adventure Park’s zip lines! Zoom through the air overhead without a care in the world. A foam pit runs underneath the entire stretch so you can drop off at any time. Spartan Adventure Park has seven party rooms, great for birthdays of all ages, team building meetings, family fun night or anything else you can think of. These rooms are huge and equipped with flat screen T.V.s. This is one of the reasons why they are naming it the Birthday Capital of the Twin Cities. Spartan also boasts a Parent Lounge dressed with premium furniture, an 82” flat screen TV and windows that overlook the entire park. Feel free to RELAX! Also, available for group and church lock-ins. Bring your youth group, sports team or any other group in for a fun filled night at Spartan Adventure Park. There’s no better place to spend the night and have a sleepover. Safety is at the top of the list at Spartan Adventure Park. All of the simulators have safety stop buttons for those that bite off more than they can chew.. There is an entire trampoline section for smaller children, as well. They want to make sure that each guest feels safe to have fun and comfortable enough to let loose. Guest’s safety is their number one priority. A good indoor park is perfect for this crazy Louisiana weather and at Spartan Adventure Park there’s so much for the kids to explore, they’ll have a hard time deciding which attraction is their favorite. Spartan Adventure Park has something for everyone and more than you would ever expect! Make plans to come by opening weekend and see what all of the hype is about. #FUNLIVESHERE

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River Oaks School

Striving For Excellence in Academics, the Arts and Athletics

VEN THOUGH THE CURRENT school year is drawing to a close, River Oaks School is already looking forward to next year! They are currently enrolling for the 2019-2020 school year and plan to continue to strive for excellence. The college preparatory school offers a 12:1 student/teacher ratio and has lower, middle and upper schools. LOWER SCHOOL: PRE-K3 - 5TH GRADE River Oaks Lower School is a nurturing, safe, and encouraging environment with a strong academic structure where students in PK-3 through Grade 5 spend their days learning and thriving. Our knowledgeable and professional faculty and staff understand the academic and social needs of children at River Oaks and our low student-teacher ratios allow us to work individually with students to track progress and tailor their educational development and social well-being. MIDDLE SCHOOL - 6TH - 8TH GRADE River Oaks Middle School is designed to enhance our student’s intellectual, emotional and social skills during these important transitional years of their lives. Because our teachers understand how difficult the transition can be from elementary to middle school, they work together to bridge the move from fifth to sixth grade to make it as smooth as possible. River Oaks Middle School also encourages students to develop their talents through a variety of extracurricular activities such as sports, service opportunities and a variety of different clubs similar to those offered in high school.

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UPPER SCHOOL: 9TH - 12TH GRADE The River Oaks Upper School provides a strong college preparatory program and a place for high school students to thrive academically and socially. River Oaks prepares students for the challenges of college through a rigorous academic program. They offer Dual Enrollment in Math, English and Social Studies. Because the upper school years are critical in developing a student’s intellectual development, River Oaks challenges and prepares students to excel. The results are outstanding in both personal and academic growth. Over the last five years, River Oaks senior’s average ACT score has been 24.2. The school’s motto is Deus-Patri-Ipse, which is Latin for God,Country, Self, and that is what they instill in their students on a daily basis. “We truly believe in teaching a sense of service and doing for others,” said Dr. David Nordman, River Oaks Headmaster. “We do service projects in all grade levels; from our younger kids going to nursing homes during the holidays, to the upper grades volunteering with the Dixie Diehards and Medcamps.” Not only does River Oaks make it a point to develop good character, they also promote good sportsmanship with 14 different varsity and JV sports, and 6 different youth league sports. River Oaks also offers 20 different student clubs and organizations, as well as middle and high school student council. Students compete academically in a Quiz bowl, Spelling Bee, Reading Fair, MathCounts, LaTech Rally, LSU Rally, ULM Math Challenge,

the Louisiana Technology Challenge, and Boys and Girls State. Just one of the things that sets River Oaks apart is the fact that they are an independent school so they aren’t teaching for a test. “We do have one standardized test each year, which helps us place students for the next year,” said Dr. Nordman. “It is really more of a self evaluation test and doesn’t have stress or high stakes attached to it.” At River Oaks, they truly care about the way each student learns and have even installed VARIDESK, with sitstand solutions, allowing students to stand up throughout the day. This past year, River Oaks improved on the technological infrastructure, allowing students to get online in the classroom on their individual Chromebooks. Physical improvements have been made to the school gym, better equipping it for multiuse. “Many of the improvements have been made possible thanks to supporters and patrons, as well as donations and proceeds from our annual auction,” said Dr. Nordman. This is just another example of how River Oaks is a family and we are all working together for one goal.” Looking forward, River Oaks is excited to expand their art program, continuing to improve and expand their STEM Lab and is working towards a CyperTech program with CenturyLink, all of which will prepare students for 21st century challenges in the work place. “We are excited about the future at River Oaks,” said Dr. Nordman. “Upon graduation, our students are prepared for a globally competitive world and we invite you to join us as we continue to move forward!”

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Grandview Farm Event for Russell Sheriff Russell Credits OPSO Team For Crime Reduction

HERIFF RUSSELL THANKED WENDY AND STEWART Gentry for hosting the fundraising event at Grandview Farm and called attention to the fact that the view of the hills, pastures, stables and horse training facilities in all directions was grand indeed. Russell thanked those who were at the event as well as those supporters who could not be there for the support of his re-election effort that will allow him and the existing Ouachita Parish Sheriff’s Office (OPSO) team to continue serving as Sheriff so that the existing Ouachita Parish Sheriff’s Office (OPSO) team can continue serving the people of Ouachita Parish. He recognized all OPSO team members in attendance, including the Mounted Patrol. SHERIFF RUSSELL CREDITS OPSO TEAM EFFORTS WITH DROP IN CRIME OPSO records show a decrease in violent crime in the Parish of Ouachita since 2016. Monroe city limits has seen a reported decrease in violent crime in the same time frame. Sheriff Russell credits this drop to OPSO efforts to aggressively police the high crime areas of these jurisdictions and the support of citizens who are the ears and eyes for the OPSO law enforcement team. The Multi-Jurisdictional Task Force coordinated by OPSO has targeted the violent crime in Monroe and Ouachita Parish. The Task Force is comprised of officers from eight area law enforcement agencies and the Fourth Judicial District Attorney’s Office. Advanced technology has also helped the OPSO team fight crime and make our community safer. • The New World Data Base allows paperless reporting of all calls for service through Dispatch, Patrol, Records, and Corrections. • The new AFIS (Automated Fingerprint Identification System) advanced computer system compares fingerprints recovered from crime scenes to a national data base. This system can match fingerprints in minutes. • The ALPR (Automated License Plate Recognition System) Network of cameras, records pictures of license plates that are compared to wanted files in real time. This system allows deputies to be alerted of the presence of a vehicle wanted in connection to crimes in real time. • The FACIAL RECOGNITION system compares facial photos from crimes (ring doorbell, business and residence surveillance systems, etc.) to data base of arrest photos to allow matches and help identify criminals.

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• The BALLISTIC SEARCH system takes images of spent shell casings and matches them to known casings from other crime scenes. This tool allows investigators to determine where the same weapon was used in multiple crimes across multiple jurisdictions. TRAINING ACADEMY SERVES 12 PARISHES The new 1.9 million-dollar, 13,000 square foot OPSO Training Center (North Delta Training Academy) will be responsible for training all law enforcement officers in the North Delta Law Enforcement Area which includes 44 separate agencies in 12 parishes. The new facility is outfitted with computers/monitors for every cadet. This equipment will allow the cadets to receive hands-on training. A variety of public, corporate, and private funding sources worked together to cover the construction, furnishing and technology costs associated with the new building. The new facility will allow for the ability to provide instruction of training in diversity, community policing, and officer safety. The Training Academy will also house the Citizens Academy which will host numerous youth and teen cadet academies. This new training facility will greatly enhance this area’s health and safety as a whole. This will be done by also providing training for first responders (Law Enforcement, EMS, Fire Fighters) in various citizen and infrastructure protection to better respond to crime, natural disasters, and other critical events throughout the North Delta Region. OPSO FINANCIALLY STRONG Through sound financial management, the Sheriff’s Office has added nearly $4,000,000 to the department fund balance and over $8,000,000 to the Ouachita Correctional Center (OCC) fund balance. These fund balance contributions will help ensure that law enforcement efforts will remain consistent even during periods of economic down times in the event they should occur. Ouachita Parish citizens can continue to expect highly trained, professional, effective and efficient law enforcement from the department. Recently, software developments have been made to improve Tax Collections, Fines and Costs Collections, Sheriff Sales, Traffic Ticketing, Patrol Unit Communications, Radio Room Communications, Records Management, and Investigative Tools. Through detailed budgeting and monthly expense monitoring, Sheriff Russell and the OPSO team continue to be excellent stewards of public funds and effectively use these funds to provide law enforcement for the citizens of Ouachita Parish.

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Haik Humble Eye Center Advancing the Art of Cataract Surgery with Breakthrough Technology

AIK HUMBLE EYE CENTER ophthalmologists are among the first in Northeast Louisiana to implement one of the most important cataract surgery innovations in recent history. The practice now offers patients the benefits of laser cataract surgery with the LenSx Laser. For more than a decade, femtosecond lasers have helped surgeons perform LASIK with unparalleled precision and accuracy. Now the LenSx Laser brings advanced accuracy and reproducibility to cataract surgery. Laser cataract surgery with the LenSx Laser is now available with Haik Humble Eye Center’s team of ophthalmologists that includes Dr. Thomas Parker, Dr. Baron Williamson, and Dr. Drew Thomas. WHAT IS A CATARACT? If you or someone you care for has been diagnosed with cataracts, you’re certainly not alone – cataracts are a natural part of the aging process, and they affect more than 20.5 million Americans over age 40. You’ve likely noticed that the cloudy vision caused by cataracts can affect your ability to enjoy activities like knitting, playing cards, watching TV, reading and golfing. A cataract occurs when the natural lens in your eye becomes cloudy, making it harder for light to enter your eye. Cataracts typically occur naturally as you age, and they often cause blurry vision, glare and rings of light known as halos—sometimes at night and while driving. WHAT IS CATARACT SURGERY? Thanks to innovative medical advances, cataract surgery is a common outpatient procedure. That means millions of patients just like you are getting back to their favorite activities every year. The goal of the operation

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is to break the cloudy cataract-affected lens into easily removable pieces, remove those pieces and insert an artificial intraocular lens (IOL) in place of the natural lens. Traditionally, surgeons accomplished this by making tiny incisions in the eye using a surgical knife. Today, patients have a choice: there’s manual surgery, and there are also bladeless procedures assisted by advanced laser technology. The LenSx Laser offers image guidance for predictability and enhanced precision. WHAT IS THE LENSX LASER? The LenSx Laser is the most technologically advanced procedure for laser cataract surgery. Designed to assist surgeons in the most difficult parts of cataract surgery, the LenSx Laser increases precision and predictability – and helps deliver better results. While our eyes all share the same basic anatomy, your eyes are totally unique when it comes to their size, depth, curvature and other key features. The advanced technology behind the LenSx Laser captures highresolution images of your eyes. These images yield precise measurements and data that help your surgeon plan and perform a procedure to exacting specifications – completely customized for each of your eyes. ADVANCING CATARACT SURGERY The LenSx Laser provides patients with computer-controlled precision as it automates some of the most challenging steps of cataract surgery. With laser cataract surgery, many of the steps that are currently performed manually by hand are now performed with the precision of a laser. Computer generated images of your eye allow your surgeon to customize the cataract procedure to your exact

individualized specifications, not attainable with traditional cataract surgery methods. The LenSx Laser is an advanced technology because it’s designed to offer: • A bladeless procedure that’s personalized to your eyes • Precise, reproducible performance • Enhanced control and efficiency • A customized procedure planned and performed for you by your surgeon. ADVANCED TECHNOLOGY LENSES Just as you can opt for laser-assisted cataract surgery, you can also choose the type of IOL that’s placed in your eye. If you’ve suffered from astigmatism all your life, a toric IOL may be the option for you. Toric IOLs are designed to counteract your astigmatism while treating your cataract. That could mean relief from glasses and contact lenses for certain activities. If you’ve been diagnosed with presbyopia, a multifocal IOL might be what you’re looking for. Presbyopia is a natural part of aging, and can force you to depend on reading glasses. Multifocal IOLs are designed to treat your cataract while helping you see better at near and intermediate distances. IT’S YOUR TREATMENT, AND YOUR CHOICE The LenSx Laser is a great cataract surgical option for many patients, but it may not be the right fit for everyone. When it comes time for your eye care doctor to recommend treatment and replacement lens options, your eye doctor will consider a variety of factors, as well as your lifestyle and hobbies. If you would like to find out more about cataract surgery options, please contact Haik Humble Eye Center at (318) 325-2610 or visit haikhumble.com.

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Building Your Future Today

Custom Designs Coupled with Quality Construction is the Ultimate Goal for Flanigen Builders

O, YOU’VE DECIDED TO BUILD A HOUSE OR MAYBE you want to remodel your existing home to meet your family’s needs. Great! What’s next? Some people may have plans; others may have a piece of property in mind for their home. Believe it or not, many people have a difficult time getting past the idea stage. General contractor Eddie Flanigen with Flanigen Builders can attest that his clients come to him at various stages with a multitude of questions and needs. He’s fine with that, because it is all part of the process of providing them with what they want. Building or remodeling can be a frustrating experience. On the other hand, it can be a wonderful, fulfilling achievement. It all depends on your contractor and the relationship you have with that person. With Flanigen Builders, the client is just as important as the project itself, and every step is taken to ensure complete satisfaction. Providing clients with custom designs coupled with quality construction is the ultimate goal for Flanigen Builders. It’s by dedication to this standard that Eddie has built his well-respected reputation. Personal service is another key component for Eddie. He oversees every project and provides one-on-one support for all of his clients. There is no middle man; he is the one you see, the one you call. It is such diligence to his clients that Eddie has built his vast portfolio over the past 20 years. It is also the reason he has done multiple projects for many of his clients. So many clients have become like family over the years and Eddie couldn’t be happier. After all, it’s the people who add so much value to his work. Having found his niche in life, Eddie relishes each project and is always excited when starting a new one. Whether it’s a small bathroom or a custom house, great pride is taken with each project by Flanigen Builders. After all, each is essentially a calling card for the company. Even after a project is completed, Eddie is readily available for his clients. It is part of what has led to his longevity and success in the construction business. There are many factors to consider when choosing a contractor for your construction project. You should keep in mind the following: Will they put your needs and concerns priority? Will your project be completed in a timely manner? Will your project be a reflection of your ideas and include the latest modern conveniences and designs? If you choose Eddie Flanigen of Flanigen Builders the answer to all the above

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is “Yes!” Eddie understands that each individual has unique needs that stretch beyond a cookie-cutter mentality. Through meticulous planning with his clients, Eddie creates custom projects that meet his clients’ needs. Not only does he tend to each and every detail of a project, but he also strives to provide an enjoyable experience in the process. It’s the details that truly make a home, office, or outdoor living area unique. “Custom” means it’s suited to your needs and preferences. Such custom details need to be given the utmost attention and service. Flanigen Builders provides quality service with experience in such details as custom cabinetry, crown moulding, custom indoor and outdoor lighting, home entertainment and sound systems, security systems, sprinkler systems, landscaping, outdoor living and entertainment areas, custom stone fireplaces, indoor spas, custom staircases and so much more. The list is truly as long as your imagination, and it can all be accomplished when you hire a qualified contractor, such as Eddie Flanigen. Keep in mind that construction projects, regardless of size, are tedious processes. Every step has a reason or a step that precedes it; it’s imperative to have an experienced contractor capable of providing you with the service you need. Eddie answers any questions and guides the way for a smooth and enjoyable experience. He is very knowledgeable in the up-to-date trends of custom homes and offices and strives to make your new project perfect. Partner with a competent, knowledgeable, well-respected contractor like Eddie Flanigen and have the confidence in knowing your project will be a success. He will lead the way and create a wonderful experience with a beautiful end result. Call Eddie Flanigen with Flanigen Builders at 318-355-0045 to make your dreams a reality and enjoy yourself along the way. You can also check out completed custom homes and other projects at www.flanigenbuilders.com, as well as Flanigen Builders Facebook page. EDDIE FLANIGEN BUILDERS,INC. Eddie Flanigen, General Contractor 318-355-0045/ Flanigenbuilders.com

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B AY O U I C O N

DESIGN WEBB

Architect Clyde Webb reflects on his career and role in building one of the most successful local firms in Louisiana, Architecture Plus ARTICLE BY KAY RECTOR PHOTOGRAPHY BY KELLY MOORE CLARK

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career, architect Clyde Webb designed and helped bring to fruition hundreds of commercial developments all over the United States. Specializing in upscale retail venues, Webb used his considerable talent and significant contacts to build an architectural firm with a nationwide reputation for excellence. Webb, who recently celebrated his 90th birthday, reflects on his career and his role in building the successful local firm that is now Architecture Plus. Webb attributes much of his success to good fortune and opportunity. “I was lucky to make the acquaintance of some fine people who allowed me to make a very good living doing something I enjoyed,” says Webb. Webb grew up in West Monroe and attended Ouachita Parish High School. His father worked in the engineering department at the paper mill in West Monroe and, in his spare time, drafted home plans for co-workers and friends. As a high school student, Webb started drawing house plans with his father. A talented draftsman, Webb quickly developed a client following and his hobby became a business.

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In 1947, Webb graduated from high school and attended Louisiana Tech where he played baseball. After his freshman season, he left school to join the Natchez Indians, a professional baseball team in the Cotton States League. While playing college and professional baseball, Webb continued drafting and selling house plans. Webb’s baseball career ended as the Korean War broke out and he joined the U.S. Coast Guard. He completed boot camp in New Jersey and then went to Connecticut to learn electronics. Six months later, he was transferred to a base in Seattle, where he met up with a friend and fellow Coast Guard member. Both were awaiting transfers--Webb was being sent to Alaska and his friend had orders to go to Hawaii. Envious of Webb’s assignment, his friend really wanted to see Alaska. To Webb, Hawaii seemed a much better assignment. Coast Guard officers allowed them to trade, and Webb ended up in Hawaii. After a short stay there, he was sent overseas to the Phillipines. Along with 14 other men, Webb was assigned to a navigation facility along the South China Sea. Each of the men was required to stand watch for hours at a

CALL OF DUT Y

Webb’s professional baseball career ended with the Korean War. After serving in the U.S. Coast Guard, he returned to Monroe before applying to the School of Architecture at the University of Texas in Austin.

time. Webb says it was often boring detail, so he asked his Skipper had been working in retail design and was responsible for generating if he could read to pass the time. With permission granted, Webb business for the newly created firm. Heuer was fortunate enough started reading. “I read everything on the base,” Webb says. “The to meet and work with key developers, including businessman encyclopedias once, the Bible a couple of times, and whatever Melvin Simon, founder of the largest shopping mall company in else I could find.” Webb wrote to Louisiana Tech and asked his the United States. Webb describes Heuer as hard-working, driven professors to send a reading list for his classes for all four years. He and adept at attracting clients. gave the list to the American Red Cross, and they arranged for all of “Lon could sell anything,” Webb says, but adds that Heuer was the books to be sent to him in the Phillipines. often too optimistic about their timeframes, making promises that In addition to textbooks, Webb studied classic literature. While were difficult to keep. “I was in charge of production and Lon was on leave for “R & R” in Manila, Webb found University of the marketing,” Webb recalls. “He would go out and meet with people, Phillipines’ bookstore and loaded up on Greek literature, including and then come back and tell me to get something out by this date. I The Iliad and The Odyssey. Webb says he owes his liberal arts would tell Lon there’s no way we can do that.” education to the Coast Guard and the Korean War. Although he shared Heuer’s enthusiasm for the projects, Webb’s tour of duty with the Coast Guard ended after three Webb was more practical when it came to deadlines. “I decided years. He returned to Monroe and began thinking seriously about the best thing I could do was go out on the road with him,” Webb his future. Deciding he wanted to become an architect, he applied remembers. He began traveling with Heuer, meeting with store and was accepted to the School of Architecture at the University of owners, developers and contractors whose business they were Texas in Austin. soliciting. Webb’s decision to join his partner on marketing trips Before reporting for duty with the Coast Guard, Webb had proved fortuitous. met Ellen Brown, a student at Northeast Louisiana State College Less than a year after Webb began accompanying him on these in Monroe. When Webb came home from the Phillipines, the two trips, Lon Heuer died from a brain tumor at the age of 51. Heuer’s became reacquainted and began death brought many challenges for dating. They were soon talking the firm he left behind. Fortunately, about marriage, but Webb worried though, Webb had met all of their that his plans for architecture school clients, including William Dillard, “Clyde Webb and the firm he would get in the way. “I told Ellen founder of the Dillard’s department successfully built and led for many I have no job, no money, and I’ve store chain. Because of Heuer’s years encouraged many business and got five years of school ahead of introductions, the firm was able to me,” Webb recalls. “She said ‘that’s maintain those client relationships professional owners to expand their alright, we can make it.’” and move forward with the plans vision beyond their home base.” So, in 1955 they got married Heuer had laid. and moved to Austin, Texas. Ellen Meeting William Dillard proved ~ RICHARD C THEVENOT landed a job as secretary to the to be a turning point in Webb’s career. Mayor of Austin, thanks in part to a Webb became Dillard’s primary recommendation from Monroe City architect, and for three decades, Manager Jim Williams, for whom Ellen had worked for several Webb and his firm designed all of the Dillard’s department stores years. She assisted the Mayor at City Hall downtown while Webb constructed in the U.S. Over time, Webb’s working relationship went to class, studied and learned his craft. with Dillard led to a close friendship with him and his family. “Bill Two of the couple’s three children were born in Austin while was fun to work with,” says Webb. “Mr. and Mrs. Dillard were very Webb was finishing up his studies and working for an Austin-based good to us.” architectural firm. Webb worked full-time with the architecture At a time when shopping malls anchored by large department firm of Jessen, Jessen, Millhouse & Greeven after graduation before stores were being built in suburbs throughout the country, becoming eligible to sit for the architectural licensing exam. Because merchants like Dillard expanded rapidly, taking advantage of the he was still domiciled in Louisiana, Webb took the licensing exam in opportunity to reach shoppers in these growing markets. While Baton Rouge and passed it on his first try. he is unsure of the exact number, Webb estimates he designed 320 Webb and his family returned to Ouachita Parish in 1962 at Dillard’s stores over the course of his career. Following William the urging of Roy Johns and Jack Neel, local architects who had Dillard’s death in 2002, Webb continued to serve as chief architect just landed a contract to design the city’s new civic center. Webb for Dillard’s Department Stores, Inc. accepted their job offer and began work on the Monroe Civic Michael Price, former Vice President of Store Planning and Center, a project that consumed almost a year of his time as a young Construction for Dillard’s, once described Webb as having a architect with Johns & Neel. “sixth sense” for business. He commends Webb for his “ability to Webb was an associate at Johns & Neel when he met fellow analyze the task at hand, efficiently communicate both verbally and architect and colleague Lon Heuer. At that time, Heuer was a visually the needs of the Dillard’s store to all involved and then partner with the architectural firm of Rivers & Heuer, located across coordinate with the Dillard’s team in achieving a solution within the street on Stubbs Avenue. Eventually the two firms joined forces, the framework of the schedule.” merging to create Heuer, Johns, Neel, Rivers & Webb. Webb and his team also created new stores and redesigned Working with Heuer, Webb began concentrating on larger existing spaces for other large retail chains, including J.C. Penney’s, commercial projects, particularly the newly conceptualized Sears, D.H. Holmes and Selber’s. The firm earned a reputation as shopping malls and department stores gaining popularity in the late the leading shopping mall and retail store designer in the nation. 1960s and early 1970s. Webb continued in this direction, following a “I was always looking for new ways of doing things,” Webb path that would take him far beyond North Louisiana. says. He describes all of the changes in technology he experienced, “Lon was the start of all this,” insists Webb, crediting Heuer with from working with T-squares, then computing calculators and launching what would become for Webb a rewarding and lucrative ultimately computers. Webb remembers the firm getting its first career in commercial architecture. 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and four workstations for $830,000.00,” Webb recalls. “I had a hard time convincing Jack Neel, who was our financial manager, we really needed this thing, but we got it.” The computer measured six feet wide and three feet deep, and was so large that they had to hoist it through a third story window to move it into their offices. “We worked shift work, night and day, using the computer,” Webb says. “The computer made everything faster and easier. You could pass from design to production with no lost motion.” The firm opened a branch office in Dallas, and with the newly purchased computer system they were able to send plans and information between their offices and back and forth to Dillard and his contractors with ease. The firm, which changed its name to Architecture Plus in the 1980s, continued to grow. At one point, Architecture Plus was the largest architecture firm in the State of Louisiana. Webb says that during those busy years he “kept one foot in the road” as he traveled the country, spearheading projects. Locally, Webb and his colleagues planned the renovation of the former Monroe Hardware Company building into what is now Washington Plaza in downtown Monroe. When it was completed, the firm moved its offices into the top floor. Now headed up by architect Joe Cassiere, Architecture Plus is still located in Washington Plaza, and remains a leader in its field. In 2008, Webb was awarded the Kitty Degree Foundation Lifetime Achievement Award in business for his outstanding contribution to the business community and accomplishments as a business leader. In recommending him for this prestigious award,

Dillard’s Vice President Michael Price described Webb as a man who exemplifies excellence in business and possesses innovative abilities, good judgment, energy and integrity. Price noted that Webb is “well respected and trusted not only in the Dillard’s community but in the retail industry throughout the United States.” Fellow architect Richard C. Thevenot, who served as Executive Director of the Louisiana Chapter of the American Institute of Architects for 37 years, also highly recommended Webb for the Kitty Degree Foundation Award. Based on his many years of professional association with Webb, Thevenot found that “Clyde had an unusual ability to manage big projects and multiple teams of architects.” He praised Webb for his progressive attitude, saying “Clyde Webb and the firm he successfully built and led for many years encouraged many business and professional owners to expand their vision beyond their home base.” Webb retired from Architecture Plus in 2009, but until a few years ago still collaborated on projects occasionally. At home in Monroe full time now, Webb can see his work all around him, manifested in unique structures like the Monroe Civic Center, Washington Plaza, and the Black Bayou National Wildlife Refuge facilities. Many fine homes he helped create still grace local neighborhoods. Webb doesn’t travel much anymore, but his memory is sharp. He can recall far away cities and towns with buildings that were once just ideas in his head. He remembers his “glory days,” when he and his partners were leaders in a rapidly changing industry. He doesn’t move that fast anymore, but is enjoying his retirement and memories of a job well done. WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM | MAY 2019 111

Rowing for Kids in Our Community First National Bank Bayou DeSiard Dragon Boat Festival May 10-11

VER 600 ROWERS WILL RACE along the banks of Bayou DeSiard for the fastest time and bragging rights during the First National Bayou DeSiard Dragon Boat Festival. Proceeds from this action-packed, family friendly event benefit the Children’s Coalition for Northeast Louisiana – celebrating 20 years of creating communities where children and families THRIVE! Thirty teams will race in an authentic 41foot long Chinese dragon boat complete with 20 rowers, a drummer and a professional. Boats compete in sectors for the Biz Cup, the Health Cup, Sponsors Cup, and Community Cup, as well as for the grand prize. This year, there will also be a Kid’s Hero Award where you can donate to the Children’s Coalition on behalf of your favorite team. Visit our Facebook page for information on how to donate online or the day of the race. Teams range from corporate and local businesses, fitness groups and schools. “The response from the youth has been phenomenal,” says Children’s Coalition Youth Coordinator, Jan Daniels, “Thanks to our generous sponsors, we have 11 youth boats representing 12 public and private schools in Monroe City, Ouachita Parish, Lincoln Parish and Union Parish.” Race day activities are free and open to the public – but the fun begins on Friday, May 10 will kickoff at 5:00pm. Grab your running shoes and join us for the Draggin’ Tails Fun Run, presented by Fleet Feet Monroe. While no entry fee is required, we encourage you to make a donation. Following the run, teams will compete in a mini-challenge “Dot the Eye” and leave their mark to “awaken” the dragons. Also that evening, there will be live music by the Mason Grenade Band and delicious treats from food trucks as well as beverages from Tonore’s Wine Cellar. In addition to the races, Saturday, May 11 will feature a Health Fair and Kids Zone on race day with something for children of

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all ages. Spectators can enjoy delicious dishes from local food vendors as they cheer on their favorite team. Spectators and teams are encouraged to bring chairs, blankets and plenty of sunscreen, hats and umbrellas. Strollers and ice chests are permitted – bicycles, golf carts or skateboards must park once they near the festival grounds. No riding will be permitted within the festival grounds. First National Bank is our Title Sponsor and Premier Sponsors include Choice Brands, Southern Beverage Company, Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Louisiana, Cypress Grove Behavioral Health System and Homeland Bank. Corporate Sponsors include Cognitive Development Centers of Seaside Healthcare, Dr. Larry Danna, MD, Drax Biomass, Entergy, Ernst & Young, Family Solutions, INFIT Gym, Knight Law Firm, Louisiana Healthcare Connections, Thomas & Farr Agency, LSU Monroe Family Medicine Residency, Monroe Coca-Cola Bottling Company UNITED, Northeast Delta Human Services Authority, Parker Alexander Law, Scott Equipment, Vantage Health Plan, Healthy Blue and The Woman’s Clinic. Twelve local schools will be represented including River Oaks, Lee Junior High, as well as Carroll, Neville, Ouachita Christian School, Ouachita Parish, Ruston, St. Frederick, Sterlington, Union Parish, West Monroe, Wossman High Schools. Friends of the Festival are businesses that provide important in-kind donations. Our Friends include: Acadian Ambulance, Bare Necessities, CC’s Coffee, Fleet Feet Monroe, Flying Tiger Brewery, H2Go Paddle, JPS Equipment Rental, Mr. P’s Tees, Newk’s, United Way, and Waste Connections. Media sponsors including Lagniappe Broadcasting,

and KTVE |KARD. Additionally, we want to recognize contributions by Guy Campbell, Tom and Deanie Baker, Health Fair partners and volunteers from Junior League of Monroe and many more. This year, one member of the Children’s Coalition can continue their water adventures long after the festival. As of 3:00 on Saturday, May 11, all active members will be entered to win a SOL Paddle Board, sponsored by H2Go Paddle. This inflatable stand up paddle board can be used by novice or expert rowers and one lucky winner will be announced during the closing ceremony. Memberships start at $25 and support programs such as Signs of Suicide, Nurturing Fatherhood, Bully Proof and much more. Join online or at the festival tent and you won’t miss the boat! For more information visit childrenscoalition.org or call 318-323-8775.

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Coldwell Banker

A Local Company Succeeding On A National Level

ROUP ONE REALTY WAS FOUNDED IN 1996 BY owner Darryl Beasley and quickly grew to become the #1 real estate firm in NELA. The company affiliated with Coldwell Banker in 2002 sharing a mutual value of integrity, honesty, and professionalism. Today, with almost 140 agents covering 17 parishes, (including 12 new agents already this year with more coming) Coldwell Banker Group One Realty continues to lead the market with over 14,000 transactions in the past 12 years. It also remains the only real estate company with offices in Monroe and West Monroe while still servicing an active Ruston group. The growth continues this year with a remarkable 24% increase in sales over the first quarter of last year with most other leading companies showing significant declines over the same period. Owner Darryl Beasley attributes the success to the company’s unparalleled commitment to supporting both their clients and their agents. While most companies today employ one or two staff.... Group One Realty boasts 11 staff that handle advertising, marketing, graphics, phone calls, free in-house training and mentorship, and insures that every listing is marketed in every possible way. As the #1 most influential real estate brand in social media, Coldwell Banker has received over 140 million video views, a 14% increase in YouTube likes, and has more than doubled its Facebook post reach in the last year. With almost 50 years of experience, Darryl Beasley was the former #3 realtor in Oklahoma City and former #1 real estate agent throughout NELA. He is the author of the national selling book, “Everything About Home Loans” and 20-year host of his own radio program, “Let’s Talk Real Estate.” He is the former Chairman of the Board for the NELA BBB, keynote speaker at the Louisiana Housing Conference, and held numerous positions in the Industry both locally and statewide. His designations include CRB, CRS, GRI, and ABR. As a Vietnam veteran, Darryl received the Purple Heart, Vietnamese Cross of Gallantry and Bronze Star. He pilots his own plane and has written hundreds of songs recorded by various artists. Darryl will be the first to say that the strength of the company starts with his quality staff, most of which have been with the company for 10-15 years. Brian Avara, the company’s, CEO, has kept the company on the leading edge of technology. As the owner of his own computer company, Brian entered real estate 5 years ago and remarkably was in the top 3% of all realtors throughout NELA in his second year. He

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is a director for the Local Real Estate Board, received numerous International awards, and was inducted into the Coldwell Banker Group One Wall of Fame this year. With a 20-year background as VP of Mortgage Operations, Brian has taken the company’s technology to another level adding agent websites, company drone packages, and so much more. His wife is a local teacher and author of numerous Christian children’s books while one son is in the Marine Corps and another a local music minister. Darryl’s wife, Paula Beasley, is equally amazing with all she has accomplished. As the companies Sponsoring Broker, Paula was elected (for the second time) as President of the NELA Association of Realtors for 2019; remains a State Director for Louisiana Realtors; and was the former Realtor of the Year throughout NELA. She is a CRS, ABR, GRI, E-Pro and has obtained the “At home with diversity” certificate. She has served on the local and state associations since 2002. She is the past President of Louisiana CRS (Certified Residential Specialist), a member of Coldwell Banker’s Wall of Fame and continues to receive Coldwell Banker International awards. With real estate models changing more than ever, the company has raised the bar each year to stay on the leading edge of a changing industry. It also takes great pride in the quality, professionalism, and integrity of its agents…many whom have been with the company for 10-20 years and remain the companies past, present, and future. Darryl believes 2019 will be one of the best years in real estate for NELA. Despite the potential volatility in so many areas throughout our country, he says we have also found stability, growth, and surprisingly low interest rates. Although higher rates were predicted, Darryl says the opposite has happened with the lowest mortgage rates in the past year or so. Everyone wants to own a home or move to a bigger one, he says. When rates are this low...... there’s little that can slow the market. And while predicting good news for NELA, Darryl also believes Coldwell Banker Group One Realty will find 2019 to be it’s best year ever as well. With a 24% increase already in the books for the first quarter.......the company is well on its way! 540AM/105.7FM www.kmlb.com

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Great Turnout for Hermes’ Reception Susan and Randal Hermes Appreciative of Support

HERE WAS A GREAT TURNOUT for the reception held at Margaret and Frederic Hoogland’s beautiful home in Ruston for Chief Randal Hermes, candidate for Sheriff of Lincoln Parish. Jim King introduced Randal saying, “I cannot tell you how many problems and situations Randal has solved just by listening and asking the right questions. Major crises are averted before they get out of hand simply because he had the law enforcement experience, demeanor and knowledge to listen and then take action. We have all benefited from his commitment to protect our community. And I don’t mean traditional law enforcement like we see on TV, the commitment is that he is very proactive. That’s the mark of a true professional. He builds relationships and starts the preparatory work to be ready long before a crisis happens. That’s something that a lot of people don’t get the privilege of seeing, but I have, and he’s done a wonderful job of that. Randal came to the campus about the time all of these crises hit the country, all of the shootings. We put together a plan and he did it masterfully and we benefitted from it greatly.” Retired Sheriff Wayne Houck stated that he recommended Randal Hermes for Chief of Police of Ruston. He knew that Randal had the training, experience, demeanor, and leadership ability to be the kind of Chief that Ruston needed to help protect the community. Randal’s record has proven that Sheriff Houck’s recommendation was absolutely correct. Hermes has a proven record of leadership. His impressive 42-year law enforcement 116 MAY 2019 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

career began as a patrol officer - first with the Louisiana Tech Police Department and later the Ruston Police Department. At the Ruston Police Department, he achieved the rank of Detective and served on the very first Lincoln Parish Drug Task Force. Hermes rose to the rank of Inspector within the Criminal Investigative Division, where he conducted investigations into crimes such as domestic violence, burglary, robbery, sexual assault, and homicide. In 1993, Hermes was appointed as the Ruston Police Chief, leading that department until his retirement in 2007. Quickly following his retirement as the Ruston Police Chief, Hermes was selected to be the Chief of the Louisiana Tech Police Department, where he currently serves. Chief Hermes has been the leader in improving interagency law enforcement cooperation and coordination. For the past 15 years, Hermes has hosted monthly law enforcement intelligence meetings with area agencies. These meetings are attended by all Lincoln Parish law enforcement agencies, including the District Attorney’s Office. Hermes told the crowd that he had been encouraged for quite some time to run for Sheriff of Lincoln Parish but hadn’t run out of respect for Sheriff Stone. He said he has no plans to name a Chief Deputy and noted that Sheriff Stone did not have a Chief Deputy for 14 years. Hermes believes that serving as Sheriff will give him the opportunity to utilize his years of experience investigating and solving crimes, as well as his years of administrative experience

as Chief of the Ruston Police Department and currently the Louisiana Tech University Police Department. This experience will allow him to maximize the coordination of all public safety agencies in Lincoln Parish for the protection of the community. “We all know that if we maximize training and communication coordination of law enforcement and public safety agencies, we will have better outcomes for our community. And the public must be part of the communication coordination effort. They are the eyes and ears in the community, and law enforcement must have that relationship in order to address crime and safety. If elected Sheriff, I will have regular community meetings, as I did when I was the Ruston Police Chief,” Hermes stated. Randal and his wife, Susan, appreciated everyone who came and spent the evening with them. “It was a nice time reconnecting with friends and enjoying some delicious food,” Randal said. “A special thanks to my wife, Susan, and our good friend Debbie Hightower and those whose efforts made this event such a success,” he added. Randal’s son Jeremy came in from Houston and his daughter Alex came from Los Angeles to support their father. “The support of everyone who attended and who sent well wishes is truly appreciated,” Hermes said. Randal is married to the former Susan Dunn, they have four children: Jeremy, April, Tanner and Alexandra, and five grandchildren: Isabelle, Emma, Grace, Evy and Hazel.

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Ruston Fashion Week Ruston Fashion Week was a great success this year. This year’s theme was “Think Global, Live Local.” The inspiration behind the theme is celebrating the fashion and design that connects us. The participants this year were 5.11 Tactical, Chartreuse Pear, Children’s Shoppe, Chessy’s Boutique, Cotton Top, Cricket’s Grace, Dussé, Embellishments, FanBase, The Fashion, Garden Baby, One Wardrobe, Patton’s, Ponchatoulas, Railway Coffee, Rodeo Boutique, Ruston Artisans, Ruston Fitness Boutique, Sue Paperie, Trenton Interiors & Co., Uptown Downtown and Utility Brewing along with many other great sponsors.

On the BayouScene 1 Mary Owen Parker and Diane Stewart 2C arol Goodwill and Connie Stuckey 3 Cedric Johnson and Kadee Malone 4 S usan Winkelpleck and Rebekah Wade 5 David Hedgepath and Melinda Maxwell 6 Jennifer Hanry, Whitney Diel, Amanda Burch and Simone Koskie 7 Ronny Walker, Tori Davis and Jacob Davis 8 Glen Willis and Randy Branch 9 Jordan Usie and Skylar Vickery 10 H agen Cupples and Alaniah Guidry 11 Fox Faircloth, Kendall Allen and Lyka Bajana 12 Sheila Branch and Patricia Willis 13 Staci Faulkner and Brenda Lee 14 Evan and Lauren Derveloy 15 Adam Whipple and Blake Martin 16 K ristie Frasier and Kaye Rabb 17 M acy Cox, Hannah Manuel, Madison Hataway and Cierra Patterson 18 Kelly Hogan and Anna Dowling 19 Shavonda Washington and Kelli Alexander

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Kress Building Debut On Thursday, April 4th, the Kress Building made its debut in downtown Monroe. This historic building was renovated by ECHO Build and designed by Christie Echols and Taylor Bennett. It was formally the Kress Department store decades ago, which is where the name comes from. The building now features six apartments and one commercial space. On this particular night, five of the apartments were furnished by local retailers and styled by local designers. The stores included Material Things, Palette House, Paul Michael Co., Three Threads and Walsworth & Co. The participating designers were Taylor Bennett, Brandi Howard, Heather Land, Shawn Brazell, Margaret Moses and Cole Brown and there was art from Levee Gallery, Sallie Bynum Anzelmo, Brandy Williams and Joshua Mitchell throughout. Each space is available for rent if you would like to live in the heart of downtown Monroe!

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On the BayouScene 1 Kathy Biedenharn and Stephanie Cotter 2 J osh Freeman and Jarod Stokes 3 Mark Sisk and Carter Cascio 4 J oey and Brittany McNamara and Meleah Jones 5 Cade, Amanda, Max and Elle Carter 6 Rebecca and John Reed Loflin 7 Hadley and Tiffany Jones 8 Eliana Parker and Triston Jones 9A lexa Bradshaw, Rylee Otwell and Kiersten Bradshaw 10 Ashton Albritton and Jessica Johnston 11 E sther and Kelly Clark 12 Rowan McElwee, Beth Holland and Charlotte Holland 13 Shawn Brazzell and Brandy Williams 14 Vince Howard and Beatrice Profit 15 Carol Anne and Grisham Lenard 16 Whitlie Delukie, Margaret Moses and Sarah Leary 17 Brandi Howard, Sierra Raspberry and Debra Raspberry 18 M ichael Echols, Austin Bantel, Kelsea McCrary and Marlee Pittman 19 Christie Echols and Taylor Bennett

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Russell Grandview Farm Event Sheriff Russell said that the view of the hills, pastures, stables and horse training facilities were indeed a grand setting for the fundraising event. He thanked Wendy and Stewart Gentry for hosting the event at Grandview Farm and those who worked hard to make this event so successful. Thurman’s Food Factory served duck wraps, boiled shrimp, mini muffulettas, poppy seed sliders, mini Rueben’s and onion soufflé with trays of fruit, cheeses and desserts. Choice Brands, Marsala Beverage and Southern Glazer’s Wine and Spirits of Louisiana supplied the beverages. Taylor Rental supplied the tent and Sammy’s Plant World provided the flowering plants.

On the BayouScene 1 Anthony and Wanda Washington and Jay Russell 2D r. Jane Mickey and Susie Husted 3 Wendy Gentry and Steve Tew 4C arley and Mario Leija 5 Rhonda and Mike Ruddick 6 Rick Sain, Kay Downey, Mickey and Angie Loftin 7 Kevin Summerall and Billy Haddad 8 Dr. Jane Mickey and Gus Campbell, Jay and Diana Russell, Susie and Mike Husted 9K itty and Jim Fannin and Wade Bishop 10 Kathryn and Jefferson Joyce, Michael Mahaffey 11 J ane and Greg Scallan 12 Frank and Susan Hoffman, with Angie Robert and Kathy Ray 13 Wade Bishop, with Chap and Ann Breard 14 Doug Schmitz, Robin and Dr. Antti Maran and Jay Ellerman 15 Kay Shipp and Gena Hanna

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Shindig Benefits Ouachita COA

Guests came from near and far to kick up their heels at the tenth annual Shindig. The event that benefits the Ouachita Council on Aging was held at MBH Farms in Calhoun on Friday, March 22nd. Party-goers enjoyed a silent and live auction as well as music featuring Lisa Spann and Company and a spread prepared by Catfish Charlieâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s. The MBH horses were a hit as always with the patrons who danced the night away at one of the biggest events of the year.

1 Barbara Medaries and Karen Fletcher 2D ewayne Atkins and Steven Garrison 3 Annie James and Marissa Ford 4C arla Hardy, Amy Rowls and Lacy Niblett 5 Brad Dowdy and Tara Laseter 6 Jessica and Glenn Micheal Breland 7R on and Amy Harris 8 Phil Hobbs and Kenda Bates 9 Ashley Able and Lisa Dixon 10 Leslie Louviere Keen and Lynda McGehee 11 S harron Mouk and Randy Donald 12 Madeline Kent and Zach Kent 13 Alicia Jones, Dondra Martin, Stephanie Foster, Robin Cox and Rhonda Burdeaux 14 R oz and Tom Janway 15 Sharron Collins and Nora Parker 16 Kevin and Terri Ray with David Ray 17 S harron Witten, Troy Olson, Annette and Dewayne Satterfield 18 Jessie Arant and Taylor Wyatt

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Junior League of Monroe Spring Market The Junior League of Monroe held their annual Spring Market at the Monroe Civic Center from Friday, March 15th to Sunday, March 17th. The event was sponsored by Origin Bank and had a fresh new feel, just in time for the spring season! The market opened on Friday with a “Shop ’Til You Drop Event” sponsored by The Mulhearn Corporation. The morning featured champagne, coffee, brunch from The Coffee Bean and entertainment from LA Jazz Quartet. Saturday night featured the signature event, “Girls Just Wanna Have Fun” and was sponsored by Progressive Bank. There was live entertainment, market-ritas and food from Thurman’s Food Factory. At the end of spring market, the winner was chosen for the New York City shopping vacation and the prize went to Kathy Brown! This event is the biggest fundraiser for the Junior League of Monroe, an organization of women committed to promoting volunteerism, developing the potential of women and improving the community.

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The Do’s and Dont’s of Wearing Heels Laissez Les Bons Temps Rouler ... Not Your Ankle BY J. MARSHALL HAYNIE, MD

F YOU GREW UP IN LOUISIANA, YOU more than likely are familiar with the phrase- Laissez les bons temps rouler- let the good times roll. We love parties, family get togethers, and just about any viable reason to pass a good time! Having gone to a few parties recently, I have noticed several party goers in fancy dresses dancing the night away to a great band in their bare feet…their perfect pair of heels for their outfit have been torture and they gave into the music and tossed the shoes aside! Let’s face it- most high heels are uncomfortable and over time can cause significant damage to your feet and your ankles. Wearing heels causes your heel to be elevated leading your body to naturally shift forward which puts added pressure on the ball of your foot. The higher the heel means a greater tendency to shift more of your body weight forward, creating even more pressure on the ball of the foot and often causing you to hyperextend backwards to counterbalance the weight that has been shifted forward. This counter balance act not only affects your feet and ankles, but also can cause knee, hip and back pain.

COMMON FOOT AND ANKLE PROBLEMS RESULTING FROM HIGH HEELS

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higher the heel the more pressure on the ball of the foot and a higher likelihood for injury. • Ankle Sprains and Tendinitis Repeatedly wearing high heels can cause all sorts of painful problems. Straining your ankles and other tendons surrounding the foot can lead to tendonitis. When your foot is elevated and the weight goes forward, a lot of tension gets taken off the Achilles tendon and it shortens over time. Women who are a bit older and have worn heels consistently, often complain that flat shoes are uncomfortable. This results from the the tendons tightening from continuous wear of high heels their whole lives and it becomes uncomfortable when they’re stretched to their original length. Extra weight and pressure on the front of the foot can even cause a stress fracture and heels are more likely to exacerbate clumsiness that can lead to imbalance and twisting or straining the ankle. • Morton’s Neuroma High-heeled shoes have been linked to the development of Morton’s neuroma due to the weight shifted forward to the ball of the foot from the elevation of the heel. Morton’s neuroma is a painful condition that affects the ball of your foot, most commonly the area between your third and fourth toes. Morton’s neuroma may feel as if you are standing on a pebble in your shoe. This can cause a sharp, burning pain in the ball of your foot. Your toes also may sting, burn or feel numb. So, what do you do? Do you forgo the perfect shoes for your perfect outfit because they sport a high heel? Not necessarily… my wife and many of my patients would be the

first to tell me that they were not willing to give up their favorite shoes because they have a heel. I offer a compromise, choose better shoes for day to day wear, so you can bring out the high heels for special occasions. I do have a few suggestions when choosing your footwear that can help preventing unnecessary pain and strain: • Choose a shoe with a wide toe box and two-inch or lower heel. If higher heels are preferred, shoes with a platform under the toe box decrease the overall stress on the foot. • Stretch your feet and calves in the evening. At the end of the day our muscles and tendons need a bit of relief- don’t forget your toes and ankles- they bear the brunt of your weight all day! • Get rid of worn out shoes or shoes that hurt your feet. Worn out shoes do not support your feet properly and if shoes hurt your feet today, they could have a negative impact in the long run. If foot and ankle pain persists, it may be time to consult with an orthopedic foot and ankle surgeon. Don’t let your high heels get in the way of your good times… moderation and saving the heels for a special night should keep you dancing and your feet and ankles strong and healthy. J. Marshall Haynie, MD is and orthopedic surgeon specializing in disorders of the foot and ankle/lower extremity. Dr. Haynie’s clinic has two locations in Shreveport and Bossier City. To schedule an evaluation with Dr. Haynie, please call his clinic, Orthopedic Specialists of Louisiana: 866.759.9679.

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Marsala Beverage Company Bud Light Family Gears Up For The Summer

N 1982, ANHEUSER BUSCH INTRODUCED

Bud Light nationally. Bud Light, the most popular beer in the country, is a light bodied lager with a fresh, clean and subtle hop aroma. Its delicate malt sweetness and crisp finish provide the ultimate refreshment. Bud Light is brewed using a blend of premium aroma hops, both American grown and imported, and a combination of barley malts, water and rice. Its superior drinkability and refreshing flavor make it the world’s favorite light beer. Bud Light contains 4.2 percent alcohol by volume (ABV). Brewing an American Light Lager, like Bud Light, is hard. The style is so clean and clear that any imperfection can come through. That’s why we believe in brewing the highestquality light beer on earth using the finest ingredients that come from the earth. And that’s why we pay special attention to every step throughout the brewing process to ensure the Bud Light in your hands is the best it can be. We believe you, the light beer drinker, deserve the very best with every single sip. We work hard to make sure that’s exactly what you get with every Bud Light. Bud Light Platinum Bud Light Platinum has reinvented the category of light beer. Within each cobalt blue bottle lies a bold formula that’s triple filtered with a smooth finish to create its stop shelf taste. Its the first of its kind, and the only beer worthy of the name Bud Light Platinum. Bud Light Platinum contains 6.0 percent alcohol by volume (ABV). Chelada Clamato The savory combination of Bud Light

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and the spicy richness of a Clamato Tomato Cocktail. Best served over ice and garnished with Lime. Chelada Extra Lime Enjoy the incredible combination of a refreshing Bud Light with Clamato and extra lime. Drink it straight from the can or make it your own with your favorite ingredients. Mango Chelada The savory combination of Bud Light and the sweet richness of a ripe Mango. Best served over ice and garnished with Lime. Bud Light Peels Series Just in time for summer, Bud Light is expanding the brand’s citrus portfolio with a refreshed Bud Light Lime and the addition of Bud Light Orange. Both light lagers are brewed with real lime and orange peels, and deliver a clean and crisp taste that highlights natural citrus flavors in every sip. The colorful new packs for Bud Light Lime and new Bud Light Orange feature bright orange and lime details, with accents of real citrus peels. Together these beers form the ultimate citrus combo for a taste that’s unmistakably summer. Bud Light Orange Bud Light Orange is brewed with real orange peels for a “clean and crisp taste that highlights natural citrus flavors,” according to a press release. It has 142 calories—more than Bud Light and Bud Light Lime, for those keeping score at home. Bud Light Platinum contains 4.2 percent alcohol by volume (ABV.)

Bud Light Lime Bud Light Lime is a refreshing twist on America’s favorite light lager. Our new brewing process uses real lime peels to ensure a clean, crisp and refreshing taste with a hint of real lime flavor in every sip. Pick some up and try the summery goodness today! Bud Light Lime contains 4.2 percent alcohol by volume (ABV.) Bud Light Lemon Tea Bud Light Lemon Tea is brewed with real lemon peels and aged over tea leaves for ultimate summer refreshment. It has a subtly sweet taste with a balance of real tea and lemon flavor to give a refreshing real steep taste in every sip. Bud Light Lemon Tea is now available in 12oz cans and 12 oz bottles. Bud Light Lemon Tea contains 4.2 percent alcohol by volume (ABV.) Locally, Marsala Beverage employs about 100 full-time employees. Marsala Beverage, LP is the largest malt beverage, wine/spirits and non-alcoholic distributor in Northeast Louisiana. Their success is based on the fact that they never lose sight of delivering what is really important – quality products, timely service and a genuine concern for our customers’ needs. Annually, they deliver over 2.4 million cases of beverages to over 700 retail accounts. Please find us at www.marsalabeverage. com or follow us on social media: Facebook: Marsala Beverage Twitter : @marsalabeverag1 Instagram: @marsalabeverage

Suit up in the season’s best looks from area boutiques. From color block swimsuits to flirty ruffles, deep v’s and flouncy hemlines – this summer styles bold colors with sultry appeal. PHOTOGRAPHY BY KELLY MOORE CLARK MODEL KARLEE MALONE | MUAH MEKA BENNETT SPECIAL THANKS TO BAYOU DESIARD COUNTRY CLUB

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Not Just Aesthetic Surgery Dr. Mickel & His Staff Offer In-Office Procedures BY Timothy J. Mickel, MD, FACS - Certified, AmericanBoard of Plastic Surgery

XCESSIVE SWEATING - hyperhidrosiscan shatter confidence, ruin clothes and strain relationships. This devastating condition affects about 5% of the population, but another 20-30% sweat enough to have an impact on lifestyle and activities. Excessive sweating can cause social anxiety, withdrawal and embarrassment, and can affect overall quality of life. Over the course of a lifetime you could spend a fortune on powerful antiperspirants - which could have health issues - or armpit Botox, which is temporary, not to mention the money you spend replacing clothes. Or, you could have a one-time treatment that destroys your sweat glands and at the same time reduces odor and armpit hair. MiraDry is a revolutionary new treatment that uses thermal energy to heat the armpit, where bothersome sweat and odor glands reside, and safely eliminate them. MiraDry is a non-invasive treatment that takes about

an hour, is done under local anesthesia, has little or no downtime, and results in an 8085% reduction in perspiration and odor in just one treatment. As a side benefit, there is also a 40-50% reduction in armpit hair – regardless of the color. Most patients can return to their normal activities immediately after treatment, although there may be mild localized soreness, swelling or numbness that can last a week or two. The results are immediate and lasting – the sweat and odor glands eliminated by MiraDry are gone for good. A single treatment is sufficient for the majority of patients, although an occasional heavy sweater may need a second treatment in four to six months. While your body does need sweat glands to cool itself, you have 2 – 4 million of them so eliminating the trouble making 2% that reside in your armpit won’t affect your ability to stay cool. All MiraDry treatments are done in my office by Kasey Burks, a licensed nurse

practitioner. Kasey is trained and experienced not only in performing MiraDry, but also in performing Botox and filler injections as well as FemTouch vaginal rejuvenation treatments. FemTouch is a fractionated CO2 laser with an established track record of safety and effectiveness. FemTouch allows rapid, safe, comfortable, non-surgical treatment for a variety of peri-menopausal vaginal symptoms in women from their 30’s to their 60’s, and it has revolutionized laser vaginal rejuvenation. FemTouch helps with mild stress urinary incontinence, vaginal dryness, painful intercourse and vaginal laxity after childbirth. FemTouch is a simple procedure performed in my office that takes just a few minutes and requires no anesthesia or special postprocedure care. Generally, FemTouch requires just 2-4 short office treatments until the desired result is achieved. All FemTouch treatments are done by my nurse practitioner, Kasey Burks, in the privacy and comfort of my office. So, whether you have excessive sweating, wrinkles or peri-menopausal vaginal symptoms, call Mickel Plastic Surgery at (318) 388-2050 and set up a free consultation with Kasey to see if MiraDry or FemTouch is right for you. From surgery to lasers and everything in-between, when it comes to looking and feeling your best, if it works, we have it!

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Wine Over Water

Spirit of the Warhawk Endowed Scholarship

HE ULM ALUMNI ASSOCIATION AND THE OUACHITA Parish Alumni Chapter held the 14th annual Wine Over Water on April 25th. Proceeds from the night benefited the Spirit of the Warhawk Endowed Scholarship, which is instrumental in attracting our local scholars to ULM. The Patron Party, sponsored by Blue Cross Blue Shield of Louisiana, was held prior to the event on the 7th floor of the ULM Library. This event gave our patrons the best view of campus, and allowed them to enjoy the celebration prior to the event. Lively entertainment was provided by Rod Allen Payne and Trevor Davis. Bridge tickets included a commemorative wine glass, wine from Southern Glazer’s Wine and Spirits, and beer provided by Marsala Beverage. Entertainment featured Flashback 5, sponsored by Land 3 Architect, Inc. Guests enjoyed food from nearly 25 restaurants, which included 2 Dudes Brew & Que, Aramark Catering at ULM, Bakery Boutique, CC’s Coffeehouse, Catfish Cabin, Champion’s Bistro, Chef Pat Nolan, Coca-Cola Bottling Co., Copeland’s of New Orleans, Cotton, Fieldhouse Bar & Grill, Hooter’s of West Monroe, Iron Cactus, Jimmy John’s Gourmet Sandwiches, Newk’s Eatery, Podnuh’s BBQ, Portico, Red Lobster, The Fat Pelican, Thurman’s Food Factory, Trapp’s of the River, Walk-On’ s Bistro & Bar, Warehouse No. 1 Restaurant, and Waterfront Grill. The event would not have been possible without the generosity of local businesses. Thank you to our Merlot Sponsors: Johnny’s Pizza House and Architecture +. Thank you to our Pinot Noir Sponsors: Centric Federal Credit Union, First National Bank, Little & Associates, Progressive Bank, Strauss Interest, John & Debbie Luffey, Blue Herron Homes, LLC, Morehouse General Hospital, Jim Taylor Chevrolet, Holyfield Construction, Inc., Waste Connections, Kimpa Hayes Boyd, CPA, The Reserve on Bayou DeSiard Luxury Apartments/Vintage Realty, Scott Powerline & Utility Equipment, Traxler Construction Co. Inc., Homeland Federal Savings Bank, Entergy, Lincoln Builders, Louisiana Plastics and Regions Bank. Thank you to our Zinfandel Sponsors: Thomas & Farr Agency, Iberia Bank, Vantage Health Plan, Inc., Boles, Shafto & Leonard, LLC, Sheriff Jay Russell, and Business First Bank. Thank you to our In Kind Sponsors: The Radio People and KEDM. We also want to thank KNOE and KTVE for spotlighting the event on their shows. A special thanks goes to ULM’s Office of Marketing and Communications for creating all the marketing material for Wine Over Water. Also, a special thanks to B&L Marine for being on standby for boatrides. The Tonore’s Cork Pull excited guests with over 50 bottles of wine up for grabs. Guests were able to purchase a cork for $25 and took home a mystery bottle of wine to enjoy. No bottles were valued at less than $25, but many were worth more. Not only did guests have the chance to win spectacular wine, they were also supporting ULM. To learn more about the ULM Alumni Association or how to get involved, please visit ulm.edu/alumni.

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Two Homes with Heart

The Perfect Time of Year for a Change

F HOME IS WHERE THE HEART IS THEN THESE TWO homes listed below are where it’s at. Each unique in their own way and ready for a family to move in. Spring is a time for growth and renewal, call to schedule a private showing.

109 YELLOWWOOD DRIVE WEST MONROE, LA 71291 A home with some southern charm. This comfortable and private home has a glamours rustic style that is 6400 square feet, sits on 1.58 acres and lakeside. This exclusive gated community is secluded enough for privacy while still maintaining a neighborhood feeling of community. The home has 6 bedrooms and 5.5 bathrooms giving your family plenty of personal space and room for guests. As you enter the living room the amazing 20 ft. vaulted ceiling lends to the sense of openness while the long list of amenities and the decor exude a sense of comfort even Joanna Gaines would love. The stylish rustic look continues throughout the home creating a warm and inviting atmosphere. The patio is an entertaining dream, overlooking the semi-private lake, it is equipped with a full outdoor kitchen and plenty of space for guests. Call to schedule a tour and let this home invite you in. 2313 PARGOUD BOULEVARD MONROE, LA 71201 As you enter this home on Pargoud Boulevard, a sense of warmth and feeling of coziness washes over you. This lovely home in North Monroe is the place your family wants to be and is in the perfect location to raise children. With large rooms and an easy flow from room to room, this house welcomes you home. It has 3 bedrooms, 3 bathrooms, a kids den (can be 4th bedroom), and an office providing everyone their own space. Large windows throughout the home make it feel open and floods the home with natural light. Large live oaks accent the traditional beauty while the courtyard and tennis court make outside living desirable. And don’t forget the 560 SF guest suite. This home is truly a space a family can make their own and grow together. Schedule a tour to get the full experience of this lovely home. Both of these homes have character and personality and they have histories of being homes to families. These homes are perfect for hosting parties and guests for the summer and are designed to entertain. They are beautifully landscaped and are move in ready. Conveniently located in the Twin Cities, they have easy access to restaurants, hospitals, schools, parks and shopping. Each one of a kind, these homes are truly where the heart is. Call Amy Sherman with John Rea Realty at 318-372-6227, or email her at asherman6227@gmail.com to schedule a private showing. Imagine being in your new home just in time for some summer fun!

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Wellness Initiatives Finds a New Home Moving On With Wellness

BY BEATRICE TATEM, PH.D., LPC-S, NCC, ACS

T IS HARD TO BELIEVE THAT IT HAS BEEN OVER SIX years since the doors to Wellness Initiatives, LLC opened. With over two decades of clinical experience, on February 6, 2013 Dr. Tatem, as owner and Executive Director, officially opened the doors to Wellness Initiatives to help others experience a healthier, meaningful and ultimately more satisfying life. After months of preparation Dr. Tatem saw her first client. “ It was as though it was yesterday, I can still recall the interaction and exchange held with that client.“ When I reflect on the business’s initial days and some of the suggestions, advice and predictions received, I chuckle and yet I am in awe today of how accurate the comments were. Predicated on the feedback received from clients and the support of some well intentioned and interested colleagues, Wellness Initiatives has found a new home. Since its inception Wellness Initiatives has been housed in the Premier Plaza Building located on 1900 North 18th Street, Suite 414 and will move this spring to its new location on 2485 Tower Drive, Suite 10, Monroe, Louisiana. The move is met with mixed emotions as Premier Plaza has been the birth place for Wellness Initiatives. “It is where it began, where it was nurtured and where it has grown and developed. I have met some wonderful people who have supported my business. Although, most were coming from a different business perspective, I have watched what they have done to be successful.“ “Some things will change, some things will remain the same,” was my response when a longstanding senior client stated, “Dr. Tatem you’re moving, what about your plants, your paintings what about me, you are not getting rid of me because I am old are you?” I assured her that clients thoughts, feelings and needs inspired the move and although we are in a new location, our clients old and new, the pillows we are known for and all the things held dear will go with us. The move is to better serve clients, providing more privacy, greater security in an environment dedicated to mental health services. The heart of the work we do has always been and remains our clients. My motto is, “everyone deserves a voice, including you, I am hear to listen.“ Everyone has a story to tell and it is nice to have an environment where stories can be shared. Wellness Initiatives is a space where stories are shared, where goals are identified, emotions are expressed, memories are explored, dreams are created, empowerment is experienced, where initiatives towards one’s wellness are taken and actualized. I look forward to connecting with new clients and reconnecting with established clients, their families, friends and the entities that support them. For more information on counseling and outreach services contact Dr. Beatrice Tatem at Wellness Initiatives, LLC 2485 Tower Drive, Suite 10, Monroe, La 71201, 318-410-1555 or at btatem.bt@gmail.com.

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St. Jude’s Dream Home

The St. Jude’s Dream Home officially opened on Thursday, April 11 with a ribbon cutting. Attendees included designers that worked on the home, as well as children that have been patients at St. Jude and their families. The home is located in Egret Landing in Monroe and built by BRACO. It was designed by Jan Strickland of Strickland Interiors in collaboration with Shawn Brazell and staged by Taylor Bennett, Emily Byrd, Will Copeland and Danielle Gilmore.

On the BayouScene 1 Cherish, Madison, Karson and Kalynn Sánchez 2 Brooke and Asher Brown 3 Jennifer and Sam Routon 4 Jo Tiffany Faulk and Danielle Gilmore 5 Will Copeland and Taylor Bennett 6 Jan Strickland and Shawn Brazzel 7 Amber Gresham and Morgan Crowell 8 Valarie Hodge and Lana Hodge 9 Jackie and Elayne Kitchingham 10 Kathy Torres and Vickie Barnes 11 Caroline Tannehill and Melinda Tannehill 1

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Organize Your File Management System The File Depot of Monroe Offers Solutions

HO HAS TIME TO BOX/FILE/ STORE and SHRED their records? Well, The File Depot does! Let’s face it, storing records are on the bottom of everyone’s list unless you need them and can’t produce them. The File Depot helps you organize your file-management system so you can free up time and resources. We offer HIPAA compliant records storage, delivery, disposal and document management services that are confidential, efficient and secure. Most companies believe their records are safe and securely stored either at their own facility or in a mini-storage building. Unfortunately, we live in a world today where identity and credit card theft, fraud, regulatory requirements, and lawsuits are common. The File Depot specializes in securely storing your vital information, automatically tracking how long you should keep that

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information then safely shredding and disposing of your records at the appropriate time, all in compliance with state and federal regulations. The File Depot also offers monthly shredding service as well as one time purging. Ask yourself these questions • How much time does an employee spend retrieving records when they could be spending their time on something more productive? • Wouldn’t it be awesome to call for records you need, and they be delivered to your office that very day? • Are your records thrown in a mini storage building with no organization? • Has your mini storage building flooded? • Is your storage space free of rodents? • Do you have a master list of your records in an excel spreadsheet? • Would you be prepared if you had an audit?

Our system for managing records has provided hundreds of satisfied customers using the latest technologies and secure hardcopy storage services. You would be surprised at how affordable our services can be. We typically meet all your storage needs for less than the typical business is currently spending on their current storage. Contact Chap Breard for a quote at 318-547-4648 or visit their website for more information at www.thefiledepot.com. You can store 100 boxes for less than $50.00 a month

Celebrate with the Chick So Many Things to Celebrate This Month

T’S FINALLY MAY, AND THE TIME HAS come when your senior is about to walk across the stage and get their diploma. If your looking for an easy caterer for your graduation party or event, Chicken Salad Chick has you covered. With 15 different chicken salad flavors, our food is sure to please all of your guests’ tastes buds. We offer full-service catering options for your next party or event. Chicken Salad Chick is a dinein restaurant that serves homemade chicken salad, side salads, desserts, and refreshing beverages. Whether you want to dine-in with us at our restaurant, or order our food for your next party, be sure and try the best chicken salad in the south! SPRINGTIME IS BURSTING WITH FLAVOR AT CHICKEN SALAD CHICK! Madame Curry chicken salad flavor will continue for the month of May, and is a traditional curry flavor with golden raisins.

The Blueberry Cheesecake is also staying through the month of May. It is the perfect sweet treat to go with any meal! ORDERING TIPS: 1. Select Your Preferred Serving Option: Choose between custom platters or boxed lunches! Our platters are perfect for large parties and buffet tables, and our box lunches make the perfect lunch for business meetings or even school field trips. 2. Select the Right Chicks: When you order custom sandwich trays, choose from your favorite flavor or mix it up with a variety! You can keep it sweet, make it spicy, or stick with traditional. For guests who may want something other than chicken salad, we do create great Turkey Pesto’s and Turkey Club sandwiches as well! 3. Stock Up on Sides: Our fresh side salads are the perfect way to round out your meal. Choose from broccoli salad, pasta salad,

grape salad and fresh fruit 4. Sweeten the Deal: Do not complete your order without choosing from one of our cookies by the dozen or scrumptious strawberry or fruit platters with fruit dip. REFRESHING DRINKS: Complete your order by choosing from gallons of sweet tea, unsweet tea or lemonade. Also we cant forget about all of the moms out there! Chicken Salad Chick will be celebrating all moms over Mother’s Day weekend with special promotions and giveaways! Be sure to follow the chicks Facebook page at www.Facebook.com/ ChickenSaladChickMonroe for more details! We’re located at 1191 Lamy Lane next to BooksA-Million.

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COPING WITH GRIEF Finding Solace Through Compassion article by Cindy G. Foust

ell, well, well, will you look what we’ve found...it’s the month of May which means we are nearly half way through this year. I know I talk about this at least every month, but it’s because I can’t believe how fast this year is flying by. As I write this column, the kids are on break for Easter and when they go back to school, they will just have a few weeks left before they are out for summer. Crazy? Yes, we are on the cusp of the month of the year where we celebrate mothers, graduates and May flowers. I’ll start with May flowers and just say this...I don’t know how in the DING DONG (yes, I am shouting) anything will have a chance to bloom in May because it won’t stop raining long enough for a flower to stick its head out of the stem, or wherever it comes from. I mean, rain rain go away and come back, say, somewhere around September. If that’s not a song, it should be. We are water logged and soggy, and just plain sick of it being dark, wet and wet. That’s all I have to say about that. I’ll report in sometime in May on the outside chance my hydrangeas or lilies bloom, but I’m thinking they are just going to stick their tongues out at me and stay inside their cocoon. Wait. Isn’t that a butterfly? I’ve clearly been out of the science classroom for a while. However, when the weather finally does clear and we start to experience some warmer weather and sunshine, May is also a month where we honor graduates. I have written in columns past about the magical time of graduation...so much

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life ahead, so full of promise and so many opportunities to fulfill dreams or create new ones. Yes, it’s a happy time, well, it should be at least, but this year readers, it’s a little bit of a struggle for this writer. For you see, this would be the year my late son, Samuel, would be graduating from high school. Oh its true, I have my trigger points that really push me into a funk, and it took me

years to realize that this is just my cross to bear, but Samuel’s high school graduation has certainly triggered feelings that have me on the struggle bus. Mother’s Day, too, has historically been a very difficult time for me, every year since his death, and this year, compounded with Samuel’s would be graduation, I have felt myself being a little more melancholy and well, just sad.

Through the years, when different milestones would pass that Samuel should have been here for, I would certainly struggle...birthdays, starting kindergarten, middle school, driving, growing up with his brother, first time duck hunting...just whatever the milestone, I felt robbed and profoundly sad that he wasn’t here. It wasn’t fair, and it’s not fair today, as I write this column, that we aren’t planning his graduation party, his senior trip (Jesus take the wheel, I’ve already been down that road once and will have to go down it yet again), or helping foster his college aspirations. To some, who have made rather insensitive comments through the years about “getting over it” or “time healing all wounds,” my anguish may seem self-induced as Samuel has been gone 16 years. I mean, that’s plenty of time to “work through my grief,” right? As I sit in the quiet of my office and reflect on this month, I am keenly aware of many hurting hearts in our community...many parents who have recently lost their children, and my heart aches in a way that only a parent who has lost a child can understand. It aches because I know the struggles these parents face...I know the dark days, the sleepless nights, the psychosis that comes with losing a child and how it affects how you parent your other children (forever labeled the psychotic parent, a badge I don’t mind wearing one bit), and the idea or notion that no, there is no amount of time that will ever be long enough to “work through your grief.” In the years since Samuel’s death, I have counseled with parents who have

been forced to travel this same road as Scott and me. It has been in those moments, when prayer is the only thing that seems to bring any amount of comfort, that I have come to realize that my experience, my dark, heartbreaking, harrowing experience has been an opportunity to help other parents. It’s not a “role” I would have designed for myself or for Scott, but it is the one life dealt me and my family. When I think about those who have recently lost children, or any loved one for that matter, grief is grief, no matter how you experience it, I begin to pray for God to allow them one glimpse, one look around them at other parents who are bereaved and realize, that yes, it is the single most difficult thing you will ever experience on this earth, but you will make it through it. Times like graduation, Mother’s Day, and birthdays are not easy, but I’m sitting here today, at my computer, and I’m okay. There is so much hurt in our community, so much loss, some of it very close to me. One of the most instrumental people in my grief walk, one of the two people who was able to reach me, lost his son a few weeks ago very unexpectedly. Our community gave up one of our children during the recent flooding...senseless, makes no sense, it’s quite simply, unfair. But we don’t get to choose our journey, it oftentimes chooses us and I’m blessed today (kind of all over the place if you would, but bear with me, I’m getting there) to have this platform to write to our grieving readers and hopefully, give them hope that whatever cross they are forced to bear, what loss they must endure, they will get through it. I credit Jesus with my outcome, realizing that not everyone shares the same religious values as me, but quite frankly, I was prayed through my grief cycle. And here I am, 16 years later, overcome with sadness and hurt, but also grateful that even though I had but two short years with my baby, they are the single most sacred years of my life. I’ll never be the same person...I’m different in the sense that I scoff at the “little” things, because I know how dark the “big” things can be. Those little things that come between friends or loved ones, that seem so important and insurmountable, are most of the time just small insignificant nuances that we should just let go of. Focus on what matters this May (hey, that sounds like a new holiday) on our mothers, our graduates, our family... flowers that are trying to bloom. Look around you and reach out to someone that is hurting, even if you don’t know them. Send a card to those grieving friends, community members that are on a dark path. And give thanks for the very lives that you are fortunate to be part of, to love. I peeped in on my sleeping children right before I finished this column, and came back out and sat on my staircase and shed me a tear or two or twelve. Okay, I shed a bucket. But it was grateful tears, grateful to be a mother, grateful to be a wife, a daughter, a sister, a friend. I’m grateful to have been Samuel’s mother. And I am grateful to be able to write this column and use my sometimes broken voice to perhaps help just one of my readers dial back in and focus on what really matters...life.

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Local Business Supports Community

2 High Trampoline Loves Giving Back

ELLO, WE ARE CINDY AND MATT LUDWIG, A Ruston couple with 4 children, two grown and married and two still in local schools. We started this business because we saw a need to bring a great attraction to the Ruston community and surrounding areas. We absolutely love kids and we love rewarding them for good habits, and for their hard work and dedication to scholastics, athletics and their church. Being involved and supporting community events and organizations are very important to us as well. After all, that’s what owning a local business is all about! We currently employee close to 30 Louisiana Tech and local high-school students. We support our local schools and churches in a multitude of ways such as Adopt-A-School program for Lincoln and Ouachita Parish, Principal’s List Awards, Attendance Awards, field trips, class parties, special events for our local home-school communities, teacher appreciation weeks, Sunday School attendance awards and providing bottled water for church events. ATHLETICS We also think it’s important to get involved with our local and surrounding schools. In doing so, we have partnered with Louisiana Tech athletics, Cedar Creek and Ruston High athletic’s programs, and sponsored signs on a host of school athletic fields as support for their athletic programs. We are also proud supporters of the Ruston Reds and Ruston Dixie baseball programs, and have even sponsored an 8-year old Dixie baseball team this year.

COMMUNITY There is nothing we enjoy more than supporting our local people and their businesses. We have become proud members of the Ruston-Lincoln Chamber of Commerce and are very involved with many non-profit organizations in the area. Some of these awesome organizations are Junior Auxiliary of Ruston, Louisiana United Methodist Children and Family Services, Mission for Molley, Freedom 13 Ministries and Children’s Miracle Network, just to name a few. When there is a festival going on we are all over it. We love when the community and people from all around gather for fun filled day supporting local business. This past year we supported the Railroad Festival, Peach Festival, and Junior Auxiliary of Ruston’s Jazzin’ It Up Mardi Gras Festival in the heart of downtown Ruston. As you can see, we pride ourselves in being very involved in the community and rewarding all the good people who need to be rewarded and acknowledged for their good deeds. Nothing is more important than showing love and support in the one place that’s dearest to us and we like to call home. Call us for parties, lock-ins, field trips and stay tuned for our summer camp schedules. 146 MAY 2019 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

Home Health Services Choosing a Home Health Provider

T MAY BE NECESSARY AT SOME POINT FOR YOU OR your family members to seek the assistance of home health professionals for recovering in the comfort of home. Home health provides assistance with many aspects of recovery and condition management: • Teaching and training in the home • Help managing medications • Understanding diseases and/or conditions • Making healthy food choices • Monitoring treatment progress • Minimizing the risk of falls, infections, and other setbacks.

HOW DO I SELECT THE RIGHT HOME CARE PROVIDER Once you acquire the names of several providers, you will want to learn more about their services and reputations. The following is a checklist of questions to ask providers and other individuals who may know about the provider’s track record. Their insight will help you determine which provider is best for you or your loved one. • How long has this provider been serving the community? • Does this provider supply literature explaining its services, eligibility requirements, fees, and funding sources? Many providers furnish patients with a detailed “Patient Bill of Rights” that outlines the rights and responsibilities of the providers, patients, and caregivers alike. An annual report and othereducational materials also can provide helpful information about the provider. • How does this provider select and train its employees? Does it protect its workers with written personnel policies, benefits packages, and malpractice insurance? • Are nurses or therapists required to evaluate the patient’s home care needs? If so, what does this entail? Do they consult the patient’s physicians and family members? • Does this provider include the patient and his or her family members in developing the plan of care? Are they involved in making care plan changes? • Is the patient’s course of treatment documented, detailing the specific tasks to be carried out by each professional caregiver? Does the patient and his or her family receive a copy of this plan, and do the caregivers update it as changes occur? Does this provider take time to educate family members on the care being administered to the patient? • Does this provider assign supervisors to oversee the quality of care patients are receiving in their homes? If so, how often do these individuals make visits? Who can the patient and his or her family members call with questions or complaints? How does the agency follow up on and resolve problems? • What are the financial procedures of this provider? Does the provider furnish written statements explaining all of the costs and payment plan options associated with home care? • What procedures does this provider have in place to handle emergencies? Are its caregivers available 24 hours a day, seven days a week? • How does this provider ensure patient confidentiality? In addition, ask the home care provider to supply you with a list of references, such as doctors, discharge planners, patients or their family members, and community leaders who are familiar with the provider’s quality of service. You may also consider reviewing quality outcome patient care data on medicare.gov - home health compare. Source: National Association for Home Care & Hospice WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM | MAY 2019 147

One Mile Fun Run with the Roe City Roller Derby Benefitting The Chennault Aviation & Military Museum and Roe City Rollers

HE ANNUAL BULLS IN THE Streets event, once again, brings the lively essence and culture of Spain to downtown Monroe on Saturday, May 4th, 2019. Those who are not participating can join in the fun by watching and laughing as the participants move toward the finish line while being chased and “attacked” by the roller derby girls sporting bull horns and wiffle-ball bats. The race course can be found on the event website and is family friendly. The overall race winner will receive a customized trophy as well as eternal bragging rights. The proceeds from the mile long fun-run benefit both the Chennault Aviation and Military Museum and the Roe City Rollers roller derby team. Everyone can enjoy the activities before (starting at 9:30 a.m.), during, and after the charge, including food trucks, live music, kids’ activities, and more. The race begins at 11:00 a.m. and starts and ends at the Flying

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Tiger Brewery (located at 506 N. 2nd Street in Monroe), which will act as the “bullpen,” serving up brews for adults to enjoy. In keeping with the “May the Fourth Be With You” theme, participants are asked to dress up as their favorite Star Wars character, while also wearing the traditional red bandana around their necks (given at registration.) Early registration begins at $10 for adults and $5 for kids. The t-shirts and bandanas for the event will be designed by local artist Jason Byron Nelson. Please visit bullsinthestreets.org or facebook.com/bullsinthestreets for info on tickets and registration. The Roe City Rollers is a Monroe based women’s flat track roller derby league. The league was founded in 2011 and is a group of strong athletic women dedicated to evolving the sport of roller derby. Through the league’s bouts, events, and community outreach, athleticism and creativity are brought to

Northeast Louisiana. These ladies dedicate their time each month to volunteer and participate in local events like this one that help to benefit the community of Monroe. The Chennault Aviation and Military Museum promotes and honors the story of the Flying Tigers and their incredible feats during WWII. Throughout the over 11,000 artifacts on display, Northeast Louisiana’s prominent role in aviation and military history is also showcased. Admission to the museum is free but donations and memberships keep the museum operating. CAMM actively supports numerous veterans’ initiatives, including housing its own chapter of the Disabled American Veterans Association, which actively pursues benefits for veterans and their families. Stop by for a visit Tuesday- Saturday, 9:00 A.M.-4:00 p.m. Chennault Aviation and Military Museum is located at 701 Kansas Lane in Monroe.

A Shocking Transformation Combating Cellulite with Shockwave Therapy BY JUDY WAGONER

ELLULITE IS A FRUSTRATING and discouraging problem for millions of women. It targets young and old, large and thin. It’s typically most pronounced around the hips, buttocks, arms or legs of women. We have all tried various creams, potions, exercise regimens, and fad diets which simply don’t work. That’s because cellulite is not a fat problem — it’s a skin problem. Cellulite is made up of fat cells that can’t be burned as fuel, so dieting and exercise won’t eliminate them. Once we get it, we feel cursed because it simply gets worse over time. Many influential factors, such as genetics, poor diet, lack of exercise, smoking, imbalanced hormone levels, and weight, cause fat deposits below the skin to be strangulated by fibrous, connective tissue, called “septae,” thereby making circulation difficult and trapping fluids. Eventually, this connective tissue scleroses (hardens) leading to the dreaded dimpling and that orange peel appearance.

At Professional Laser Center we are committed to obtaining the most advanced technologies in treating fat and cellulite. Extracorporeal Shockwave Therpay and Infrared Laser Therapy were added to our list of services over the last year. Shockwave Therapy is a painless, noninvasive treatment that quickly and dramatically improves the appearance of cellulite and recontours the body. It uses powerful ultrasound waves to disrupt the scar tissue and connective tissue, improving circulation and initiating collagen production for thicker, more elastic skin. A total of 6 to 8 treatments, twice a week for three to four weeks is recommended. Up to four areas of the body can be treated at a time. Each session lasts about 15 minutes per area. Shockwave Therapy also has a prolonged effect. The results are stored at least one year, which means no expensive maintenance treatments. As photos show below and on our website, the results only get better over the next three to 12 months.

Infrared Laser Therapy is a great adjunct to Shockwave Therapy because it drastically tightens loose skin. Many women have cellulite and loose skin around their arms, abdomen, batwings, and knees. The laser delivers a beam of high-intensity, infrared light that deeply penetrates the skin tissue. The light heats the water content of your skin which stimulates collagen production, causing the skin to contract and tighten. This treatment utilizes patented, cutting-edge, Krypton Light Technology to safely target skin imperfections and tighten the skin. It can be performed alone or immediately after Shockwave, Microneedling, or IPL to heighten results. It can be used on loose, wrinkled skin anywhere on the face or body. Start your treatments now so you can be ready for summer pool and beach activities. For a free consultation or to schedule an appointment, call 318-361-9066. For a list of all our services, visit our website www.professionallaser.com.

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FROM ACROSS THE ROOM, Joe Haydel may look like the kind of guy you take home to meet the parents— well-dressed, well-spoken, and suave. His “all American boy” smile harmonizes with his “boy next door” charm. While his style is understated with a patterned buttonup and jeans, his thick-wavy black hair is one of his most visually captivating qualities. Overall, he keeps it simple, but when it comes to his music, Haydel proves that he is a local wellspring of guitar chops and baritone vocals. Born and raised in Houma, Louisiana, Haydel grew up in a music household. When Haydel would go missing as a toddler, he’d be found under the family grand piano while his father played, hard hitting Toto and Elton John tunes, among other notable eighties anthems. Intrigued and naturally drawn, he began piano lessons around age five, but underwhelmed by beginner ditties like “Mary Had a Little Lamb,” he sought zippier beats. “My dad taught me the rock stuff,” he says. At seven years old he picked up the guitar and joined one of his buddies who owned a drum set. “We would just mess around in his garage. We didn’t know what we were doing,” he laughs. His guitar playing snowballed when he was gifted his first electric guitar and amp by his godmother. He plugged in to basic blues chords, mostly by ear and drew inspiration from his first “guitar hero,” Angus Young from ACDC. In the midst of fleshing out guitar fundamentals with teacher Amos Rodriguez, he felt the itch to play drums, further fueled by his “drum hero” Travis Barker from Blink 182 and Incubus drummer, Jose Pasillas. When he landed his first drum set at nine years old, it only took three lessons for Haydel to improve on his own.

NOT JUST THE BOY NEXT DOOR

Joe Haydel may look like a boy next door, but his music speaks to a repository of experience that surpasses age and music genre. His self-titled EP features heartfelt songs about his “personal journey and the many obstacles” he has encountered. article by VANELIS RIVERA | portraits by HUNTER ROMERO | performance photos by ANDREW BAILEY It reached the point where he was teaching himself, focusing mostly on guitar and drums. By the age of twelve, he extended his prowess into a friend’s punk band, practicing nineties staples like skater punk tunes from then favorite, Blink 182. Somewhere along the way, between the soft rock of John Mayer’s ballads and Jack Johnson’s beach-chill songs, he realized he wanted an acoustic guitar. His purchase of a Taylor 314 CE, a solid wood acoustic, had Haydel exploring a more melodic style. The drums quickly dissipated, and the acoustic became his staple. By the age of twenty-two, Haydel was fully immersed in Mayer’s body of work. Listening to the artist’s blues influence roused Haydel’s curiosity. He dove into BB King, Stevie Ray Vaughan, and Jimi Hendrix, absorbing the intrepid style of the blues guitar which quickly ignited his interest in attaining a music career.

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Learn more about this budding musician on his website: https://www.joehaydel.com. Follow him on Facebook or Instagram to enjoy videos of him playing and to learn about upcoming local gigs.

I didn’t do well in college. Never knew what I wanted to do,” says Haydel recalling the “sh*t show” that was his late teens and young adulthood. At that point of hitting a rough patch and in dire need of a positive change, Haydel followed a friend’s advice and moved to Monroe. His goal was uncomplicated; he wanted to find a way to better enjoy his life without having to constantly look for a job that “wasn’t as bad as the last one,” he says, adding “The biggest inspiration was having cruddy jobs.” Trudging through what didn’t fit allowed him to affirm his music calling. Though a capable musician, Haydel only discovered his voice three years ago, singing along to songs in his car striving to emulate experienced vocalists. In the process of self-vocal coaching and learning songs to cover, he started to think that life as a full-time musician could be attainable, even if he had to embarrass himself the first few times on stage. His first ‘big break’ was cemented at Enoch’s Irish Pub & Cafe when fellow local musician Josh Love invited musicians in the crowd to join him on stage. Love suggested Haydel as a substitute musician at Ruston’s Portico for a gig Love couldn’t make. That’s when Haydel realized he was filling up his week with performances. Quitting his job was a no-brainer. He was twenty-three when he placed both of his feet in the pursuit of a music career. His journey has been one marked with persistence. Fervently networking with venue managers, he relied mostly on word of mouth for employment. He still wrote music throughout the hustle, performing original songs between his covers. He remembers thinking at the Ruston Peach Festival around 2017, “Man, it would be cool to be up there.” The next

year, his band opened for the headliner, a New Orleans based quartet called Bag of Donuts. “Things just started happening. My gut was telling me to keep going with it,” he says. On February 8th, Haydel released his debut EP, which was recorded at Dockside Studio, a successful recording compound located on the banks of the Vermilion Bayou. His self-titled EP features heartfelt songs about his “personal journey and the many obstacles” he has encountered. It’s influenced by alternative rock sounds of the late 1990s and early 2000s, soft and melodic with a few burning tunes that edge on blues-rock, New Orleans-style funk, and his “church stuff.” “I always had a dream of having an album. I wanted to have my own music for me to listen to,” he explains. By July, he had ten songs when he began at Dockside Studios. Under the mentorship of Joe Stark, guitarist for ‘Bayou Soul’ singer and songwriter Marc Broussard, Haydel narrowed it down to the six on his EP. Thanks to Stark and Haydel’s guitarist Matt Breaux, recording lasted only three days. “I was really blessed to have really good musicians,” remarks Haydel recognizing the work of his producer, Justin Tocket, also producer to Marc Broussard. The rest was packaging, scheduling a photo shoot with Hunter Romero in the New Orleans Bywater area, then ordering three hundred physical copies of his CD from CD Baby. The songs on his EP are about two years old, and though each touches on significant challenges from Haydel’s life, he keeps descriptions vague and open to interpretation. Even songs that seem on-the-nose, like “The Otherside” (which he wrote in one sitting) with lyrics that point to the importance of acknowledging wrongdoings and not knowing how to address mistakes, still allows listeners to relate on their own terms: “It’s been a while since I’ve been home, man I miss my

friends. How heavy is the telephone? Am I too proud to make amends?” His catchiest and most relatable song is “Love That I Haven’t Found,” a mellow alternative rock tune reminiscent of crash-and-burn relationship songs: “Empty hearts remain. Can you recall what I can’t explain? Tell me there’s more to love than pain.” Every song features Haydel on drums and, arguably the frontrunner of most of his songs, his surf green, early nineties, Japanese made, Fender Stratocaster. In “Life is Good,” the Electro-Harmonix Q-Tron (an effect pedal) provides a distinctive choppy sonic flavor to Haydel’s colorful, smooth, and bluesy guitar licks. “I can say that all my music is personal to me. It’s real. I’m not writing about fantasies or hypotheticals. It’s the most vulnerable I’ve ever been,” says Haydel, finishing with “It’s the most vulnerable I could see myself ever being.” “As a kid, I dreamt of being a rock star,” reveals Haydel. Though it was the one job he envisioned pursuing, he didn’t consider it achievable or responsible. But now he sings a different tune. “I’m just getting started,” he says, “This is the beginning. I’m going for the recording artist. I don’t just want to play around town.” His music is an outlet and a means of expression that he hopes inspires others to become more vulnerable and seek intimacy. “I think there is a big misunderstanding of intimacy and love. The world I live in, to surrender is to win. The way that I get by is surrender,” he affirms. Being relatable means not needing to “run the show” or caring what other may think of what he expresses in music. Joe Haydel may look like a boy next door, but his music speaks to a repository of experience that surpasses age and music genre. WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM | MAY 2019 153

Custom Carpets and Interiors

Partnering with the St. Jude Dream Home for Eighth Year

OR YEARS, CUSTOM CARPETS AND Interiors has been providing Northeast Louisiana homes and businesses with quality products that include carpet, hardwood, laminate, vinyl and tile. We also offer hardwood refinishing. We love to help homeowners revive their original flooring and preserve the history behind the floors. Each year, our team is up to date on the latest trends but also have a heart for timeless, classic designs. We believe that flooring is the foundation that sets your home or businessâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; design, tone and overall aesthetic. Whether you are building new or remodeling your existing home or business, Custom Carpets and Interiors can help bring your ideas and dreams to life all while working with your specific style and budget. The finishing touches you choose while working with our team will make your home or business inviting and stylish for years to come! While Custom Carpets and Interiors has

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projects of all sizes around Northeast Louisiana at any given time, their favorite project happens each spring, as the team anxiously awaits the start of the St. Jude Dream Home in Monroe. We love watching it come to fruition from the ground up and getting to play a part in this special project. The designers pour their heart and soul to make each house unique and beautiful. Custom Carpets and Interiors carries a variety of products from different companies, one of which is Shaw Floors. Shaw Floors partners with St. Jude Dream Homes across the nation each year to provide the flooring materials chosen for the homes. Custom Carpets and Interiors then provides the labor and any additional material needed for installation. Once the team of talented designers choose all the flooring, kitchen backsplash and bathroom tiles we can then get to work making their vision come to life! Our team of installers work diligently, precisely

and quickly to get it completed so the Dream Home stays on schedule. As soon as you walk through the front door of this years Dream Home, you immediately see the beautiful wood floors and staircase that really anchor the space. The kitchen features white subway tile backsplash with a stunning picture frame focal point of gold trimmed tile behind the stove. Each bathroom and shower has different tile work and feature designs that are absolutely stunning and unique. The home is designed and styled by many local businesses, artists and designers so you are in for a real treat. This yearâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s home is nestled in beautiful Egret Landing subdivision located at 405 Buck Loop. Stop by St. Jude Dream Home during tour hours and purchase your ticket for a chance to call this home!

One of Monroe’s Newest Subdivisions River Styx

OCATED ALONG THE OUACHITA River, Monroe is getting a new subdivision. River Styx is a beautiful neighborhood of single family homes in the Sterlington School District and is conveniently located near the growing area off of 165 North. Only 11 miles outside of Monroe, these homes and lots have access to all of the amenities of the city but with the peace and quiet of the woods. It’s the perfect place to raise a family. One neighbor says it’s “very peaceful, in the country but a minute from town.” The neighbors are close knit and try to gather for events like block parties. There is a Homeowners Association in the neighborhood and they have restrictions in place with the minimum square footage of 1500. The homes have underground utilities and gas available and use public sewer and water. Also, Ouachita Police Jury is soon paving Lennon Camp Road leading into the subdivision. This area is building up fast. If you are

interested in building your dream home, River Styx has plans that include single family houses, brick entrances, and neighborhood lighting. With Unit 2A filling up fast, only two lots are left, and they have just recently opened Unit 2B which has 16 lots available! The developer is currently offering a builders special on these lots at $32,500 and a builder discount for a multiple lot purchase. This is a limited time offer, so don’t wait. 117 & 119 RIVER STYX DRIVE Homes are also available in River Styx! Two homes being built now are both three bedroom and two bathrooms. These houses have all the latest amenities as seen on HGTV. They have curb appeal and an open concept floor plan. In the kitchen one can find stainless appliances and granite countertops. They have a beautiful master bathroom with double sinks and tiled walk-in showers. Outside one can find a covered back patio for entertaining, two-

car garage with electric doors and a sprinkler system. You must see to get the big picture! They offers high ceilings, gas log fireplaces, sod, landscaping, double pane windows, gas stove tops and tankless hot water heaters. These two new, beautiful homes will not last long. Please schedule a tour now. This subdivision is filling up fast with excited homeowners. If you want more information or are interested in a private touring of the subdivision please call Cara Sampognaro at 318-381-0385 or email her at carasampo@yahoo.com. These properties are going fast and she would love to help you and your family find the perfect home.

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Saving For College

Justin Mailhes with Argent Advisors in Monroe Explains

S THE COST OF COLLEGE HAS skyrocketed, students and/or parents have had to find new ways to pay for it. The average cost of attendance for a Louisiana university in 2019 is $21,880, while the cost for someone entering LSU in 2034 is projected to be $66,540 a year. Most parents have heard of a 529 education savings account, but some may not know that a Roth IRA could also be an effective way to save for college. A 529 savings account provides tax-free growth and tax-free withdrawals if used for qualified educational expenses (QEE.) Until the recent tax bill, 529 accounts were only able to be used for college, but now may be used for K thru 12 expenses. 529 assets can be passed to a different beneficiary. For example, if one child decided to not go to college, you can then apply their 529 funds towards another child’s education. There is no income restriction and parents, or grandparents can contribute

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$15,000 per child each year. Many people know that a Roth IRA is an individual retirement vehicle, but it also could be an effective way to save for children’s college. You put after-tax money into the Roth and after 5 years any withdrawal that does not exceed your total contributions can be withdrawn tax-free and penalty-free. Any account earnings withdrawn before 59 ½ will be subject to a penalty. However, you can withdraw money before 59 ½, including earnings, penalty free for qualified educational expense (QEE) like; tuition, books, and room and board. To be eligible, the expenses must be for you, a spouse, child, or grandchild. Unlike a 529, the leftover money in a Roth can be used during retirement with no tax or penalty consequence. In a 529 the leftover money can be switched to a new beneficiary, but any withdrawals not used for a qualified educational expense (QEE) will incur income

tax and a 10% penalty to the account owner. Also, the maximum contribution to a Roth IRA per year is $6,000 and an additional $1,000 after age 50. There is also an income limit to who can contribute to a Roth. A single taxpayer whose income exceeds $137,000 (married filing jointly - $203,000) are not eligible to make Roth contributions. Both Roth IRAs and 529s are great ways to save for college. If you have any questions about how you are saving for your children’s college, please give us a call. Why choose Argent Advisors in Monroe? Our mission is to help establish, manage, and protect our clients’ financial plans, and we take that very seriously. The Argent Advisors team in Monroe has over 60 years of combined financial planning experience. No matter where your objectives fall, we help our clients establish a definitive goal-oriented plan for current needs and for the future. If you have any question about saving for college or any other financial planning need, please contact our office. Sources: www.collegetuitioncompare.com www.collegecalc.org.

Fabulous Fabric Is Designing For A Cause Time To Spruce Up Your Windows

T FABULOUS FABRIC WE HAVE been busy this past month getting things made and ready for the St. Jude Dream Home built by Braco Construction Co. We are honored to be a part of this great fundraiser each year. It is definitely worth your time to tour this beautiful home that so many designers and local stores have collaborated on. Fabulous Fabric worked with each designer to provide custom draperies, custom drapery hardware, custom shower curtains, bedding and decorative pillows for all the spaces. We will be sharing photos and resources of these rooms on our Instagram and Facebook throughout the month, so please follow us @fabulousfabricmonroe. Creating a warm and inviting home for family and friends to enjoy is what we all strive for. Creating spaces that are functional and also pleasing to the eye can be a little overwhelming for some people, but at Fabulous Fabric we can help you make the best

choices. Now that spring is here it’s a great time to get the window treatments you’ve been needing underway. At Fabulous Fabric we can make this task easier for you with our wide selection of IN STOCK fabrics from linens, velvets, wovens and much much more! Treatments include roman shades, custom or ready made draperies with beautiful as well as functional drapery hardware...all made by Fabulous Fabric. We have an endless selection for custom drapery rods. Lucite and French rods are some of our favorites and can be seen in the St. Jude Dream Home. Iron rods come in many color ways. We stock a wood rod that comes in 6 color choices with different finials to choose from. Any of these styles work beautifully with our ready made panels too. We carry a dressy poly silk ready made drape that is available in 8 colors...linen panels come in 8 colors as well as a custom pinch pleat panel in 5 lengths and 8 colors that ships in 5-10 business days.

Now that you know how we can help with all your window treatments...let’s talk about your upholstery needs. Fabulous Fabric has been selling upholstery fabric for over 20 years now and we have knowledge on all types of upholstery fabric and the upholsterers in the area. Whether you need high performance fabrics, vinyls, outdoor sunbrella fabric, velvet and linens we can help you select the best fabric and style for your piece of furniture. We can tell you how much fabric you will need and also help you find an upholsterer. Come in today to touch and feel all the textures and styles that are available to you. There’s nothing like seeing in person all your options for upholstery and drapery fabrics. For smaller projects like benches and dining chair seats or decorative pillows we have tons of remnants at $10/yard. Come in and let us help create that fabulous home you’re dreaming of!

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Miss Kay’s Sweets and Eats

Local Restaurant Features Tasty Treats and Catering Options

ISS KAY’S SWEETS & EATS ON Antique Alley in West Monroe can accommodate any occasion with coffee, handcrafted espresso drinks, sweet treats and great food made with Miss Kay Robertson’s famous recipes! We love to cater, too! GELATO & SORBETTO The weather is getting warmer and that means you need some frozen treats! We have the only homemade gelato and sorbetto in town! We have delicious traditional flavors like Milk & Honey, Chocolate, Strawberry and Birthday Cake; we also have rare and exotic flavors like Salted Caramel Rose, Hibiscus Pineapple, Cilantro Lime Sorbetto and Fruity Pebbles. Call or stop by to see the awesome flavors we have in stock today! BURGERS OF THE MONTH Our new burger menu includes some old

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favorites such as the Cowboy Candy and the Grilled Cheese Burger; it also includes a new special burger every month, handcrafted and designed for maximum flavor and value. If you’re not feeling so adventurous, we have a regulation cheeseburger that will never fail to please. Coming in May is the Top Shelf Burger, an American Wagyu burger that features meat from local farms and is served with premium toppings and bun. Come eat the best burger you’ve ever had! CATERING & EVENT HOSTING Miss Kay’s Kay-tering is the hottest spot in town for your event! We can cater to groups as small as 6 or as large as hundreds for any occasion. We have a wide variety of specialties including favorites like hot boiled crawfish, gumbo, hors d’oeuvres, pastas and sandwiches. We can deliver to your venue or host your event! Our place on historic Antique

Alley in West Monroe is a great place for events such as baby showers, church groups, private dinners and more. We offer a range of options for your event, call us for a quote today! DON’T FORGET DESSERT Dessert isn’t just an afterthought for us! We offer a large selection of sweets, from cookie and brownie trays to birthday cakes and petit fours to cold, creamy gelato and sorbetto, we’ve got something for everyone! Custom cookies, cake pops or desserts are our specialty! Come on down to 401 Trenton Street to get your sweet fix! We are open 11 a.m. to 3 p.m. on Mondays and 8 a.m. to 6 p.m. on Tuesday through Saturday. Please call us at 318-587-5872 to place your order today!

Governor to Speak at Commencement

Gov. John Bel Edwards to speak at ULM Spring 2019 Commencement

OUISIANA GOV. JOHN BEL EDWARDS will be the keynote speaker at the University of Louisiana Monroe’s Spring 2019 Commencement on Saturday, May 11, 2019. The ceremony begins at 10 a.m. in FantEwing Coliseum. “We are honored that Governor John Bel Edwards has agreed to be our Commencement speaker for our May ceremony,” said ULM President Dr. Nick J. Bruno. “We make every effort to have a distinguished speaker at each of our Commencement ceremonies to share their individual perspectives and knowledge to our graduates as they begin their professional careers. Governor Edwards has been a champion for all of education.” Edwards was sworn in as the 56th governor of Louisiana on Jan. 11, 2016. He was born the seventh of eight children to Sheriff Frank Jr. and Dora Jean Edwards, a charity hospital nurse. He grew up hunting

and fishing in the town of Amite in Tangipahoa Parish. Edwards graduated at the top of his class at Amite High School and went on to attend the United States Military Academy at West Point. As a cadet, Edwards served as vice-chairman of the panel that enforces the West Point Honor

Code. The governor graduated from West Point in 1988, commissioning as a second lieutenant in the U.S. Army. He subsequently completed Ranger School and served as an active duty Airborne Ranger for eight years. He and First Lady Donna Edwards began dating while students at Amite High School. They married in 1989 and have three children, Samantha Bel, Sarah Ellen, and John Miller. Edwards retired from the U.S. Army with the rank of captain after commanding a parachute infantry regiment in the 82nd Airborne. After returning home, he earned a law degree from Louisiana State University and opened a civil law practice in his hometown of Amite. Edwards was elected by the people of House District 72 to the Louisiana House of Representatives in 2008 and served eight years. He was then elected as governor of Louisiana in November 2015.

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article and photo by Heather Land

By Land or By Sea

FINDING THE FUN IN TRAVELING WITHOUT A PLAN, AND THE ENDLESS POSSIBILITIES OF THE JOURNEY

MAYBE IT’S A WANDERLUST PROBLEM, or maybe, it’s this way for everyone, but I get overwhelmed by the possibilities of travel. In the time it takes to research one destination, such as skiing in Colorado, I find myself researching flights to Costa Rica. I have a friend who is an ideal travel planner. She can pinpoint a destination and create a killer road trip. I wish it came that naturally for me. For our honeymoon, I started my search in a sunny waterfront villa in Jamaica and ended up honeymooning on one of the Orcas Islands off the coast of Washington State, whale watching and kayaking in the rain. I am not good at planning a vacation several months in advance. I don’t live my life like that any other day of the year, so why would I be? How in the world would I know what I will be doing six months from now? And there are so many places I want to go. How do I choose? I just want to go.

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I don’t really long to visit places for the art, architecture, theme parks, or tours. And to be quite honest, I don’t really even know the “why’s” of visiting certain destinations. I don’t long to visit Disney or take some over-the-top cruise. I don’t long to go to big shows or concerts or festivals. Visit the same comfortable place over and over? Nope. Big crowds? No, thank you. I avoid itineraries like the plague. I prefer to be dropped into somewhere, have a look around and form my own opinions based on the experience. So, a typical tourist, I am not. Turns out, my little family feels the same. We believe the best things are never planned—they are experienced. The Land Clan motto is: “Plan for nothing, be ready for anything.” This has evolved after many years of trying to be in control but to no avail. An open perspective makes for a more fulfilling life, if I do say so myself. Years ago, we were in Florida at an RV park, sandwiched between other RVs, sharing a bit of beachfront. We were living the “dream” (insert eye roll). On a whim, we decided to splurge on a Jeep rental. We loaded up our two little girls, still in their bathing suits, threw in some clothes, and hit the road. We wanted to check out some possibilities. It was then that we discovered Grayton State Park and the 30A Community that would become so dear to us. We drove all over that day—getting lost for hours—stopping to explore, cruising through state parks, laughing at all of our crazy hair blowing in the wind, and driving into the sunset holding hands while the girls crashed shoulder to shoulder in the backseat. It will forever be one of our greatest travel memories. It was never planned; never expected. One Christmas, we surprised our girls with a trip to NYC. We wanted them to experience plane rides, seventhfloor walkup, snow, the whole thing. I just knew they would want to do all of the things in all of the places. What they really wanted to do was walk the sidewalks and ice skate—every day. If there was something to see along that route, we did it, and we all enjoyed it.

Had we just walked the sidewalks of NY or maneuvered the subways, and nothing else, it would have been equally amazing for them. Our sweetest memories of that trip are the little dive restaurants we would stumble into—after walking for hours—and the laughs we shared around those tables. Our girls aren’t impressed with places or things because they are supposed to be. They have taught me to realize I’m not either, and it’s ok. It’s liberating, actually. There was also the time we traveled through Tennessee, and the truck broke down. The nearest dealership we coasted into was kind enough to not only get us in ahead of everyone else, but let us park our RV in their parking lot. They also gave us a rental so we could explore. If you ask my girls, one of their top favorite trip memories of all time is hanging out on the grassy island in the parking lot of the dealership, jumping rope and playing with our dog. That is what they remember. And it is always the reminder they play for me when I question the way a trip might go. They’ve taught me so much. If I needed a label, maybe “traveler” would suit me best. What I long for is to simply travel—the motion of going anywhere else. I cannot explain it. I just feel it. I love wheels turning on the road, going anywhere. I used to believe that maybe it (the longing) was me running away from something or searching for something, and then a few years ago, on an extended stay, I realized that it was not that at all. I am a wanderer by nature. I just want to go. I always have. I don’t care where. I don’t have a motive. I just want to go. I want to experience. I can feel at home anywhere in the world. I don’t long for my bed in the house. In fact, most trips away, I find myself in mourning upon our return. It once took me a month and half of being gone to say, “Ok, I think I might like to go back home for a bit.” The older I get, the more I believe plans are necessary when you are preparing to meet someone or planning for events, but not for a getaway. Please note, I understand this is a luxury. We have worked hard to arrange our life to

live just this way, which is one undeniable perk of both working for yourself and homeschooling. We do not take it for granted; we understand just what it takes to live this way and we guard it with every decision we make. The definition of travel is, quite simply, “to make a journey.” Make a journey. The Lands love a journey. In January, after months of discussing possibilities, I looked at my husband and said, “Let’s drive the bus to the coast of California. I want to stand on a cliff and stare at the Pacific Ocean. I want to see the world between here and there. I want to start driving and figure it out as we go—all of it.” And after holding his breath for an extended amount of time, he said, “Well, the bus will either make it, or we could just leave it where it fails. Or worst case, we could drive it off the coast and fly home.” He was not, however, so sure of the “no plan” part. He just couldn’t comprehend not knowing where we would park at night for two weeks straight. I reminded him that we did our bus conversion for just this—to take long trips all over the US. If we never tried, we would never know what it could really handle. We had a family discussion to agree that if the bus failed, we would take it in stride. Pause here for a little travel education: There is a running joke in our house concerning traveling in an RV. We have had every size and style from manufactured bumper pull, fifth wheel, motorhome to our own custom DIY 40’ full bus conversion. We have never taken a trip in which we didn’t hold our breaths because it was inevitable that something would break. This has just been real life for us. Kudos to anyone who doesn’t share this experience. Next, the Western half of the U.S. is covered in public land. It is all of ours to cherish and appreciate because our founding fathers thought so far in advance and deemed it such. You can “boondock” just about anywhere. For RVers or roadtrippers, this makes for a pretty incredible journey with nearendless possibilities.

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“PLAN F OR NOT HING. BE READY F OR ANYT HING.”

~ LAND MOTTO

The Eastern half of the U.S. is barely sprinkled with the same public land. Instead, RVers and roadtrippers must make reservations or find state parks along the way. To give you an idea of this process, most desirable parks book up 11 months in advance, making the Eastern half just not as welcoming to spontaneity or boondockers. My husband took a leap of faith for me and agreed to travel blind, with only our atlas as a guide. We would use the day of travel to determine where we would land for the night. Our only plan was to make it to the California coast; everything before and after was left to discover. All of my personal travel theories were confirmed. Fourteen days later, three hours from home, without a warning glitch, we spewed about eight gallons of oil-like confetti on the highway as the rod went through the block of the motor and brought us to a complete stop. We had made it to the coast of California having driven through every changing landscape, ranging from trees to flat prairie lands, to desert cacti, to sand dunes to the 4,000-foot elevation of California, and its coastline of rocks and sea blue. And, on the suggestion of a fellow roadtripper, we had set our sights on an area in Laguna where we could park our bus on a cliff overlooking the Pacific Ocean. We gambled on whether there would be an opening when we arrived, or if it would just be a stop along the way. There was one spot. It had just been vacated one hour before because it was unusually cold for California, and the sun was in and out. This is a true story, but it gets even better. We settled ourselves into our spot, bundled up, and headed straight for the beach. After a mile or so of meandering an uninhabited coast line, chilled and starving—but so happy—we stumbled upon a beachside Shake Shack, which, by the way, was a 100% gluten free kitchen. For the first time in about a year, I would eat French fries! That was just a bonus. There, with my favorite people in the entire whole of everything, I sat barefoot, snuggled up on the deck, under the patio heaters, watching the sunset over the Pacific Ocean sharing cheeseburgers, fries, and milkshakes. We had done it. We had trusted the universe with our journey. That moment, which was so unexpected and unplanned, would go down as the best memory from our 14-day excursion. We could’ve turned around and headed back home right after that, but we did not. We spent three days in Laguna and saw nothing else but the ocean and the sand between our toes. We had gained our sealegs with that first half of the trip, and we would go on to see the Grand Canyon in the snow, the Vegas Strip lights at night, a sunrise over Lake Mead, the Hoover Dam, Santa Fe, and every bit of pavement in between. We experienced so many things in those two weeks, it seemed as though we had been gone much longer. However, none of it would make us feel the way we felt under that first California sunset. We felt alive, full and devoid of worry. It was unexpected and unplanned. The wheels were turning, the earth was moving. We, the Land Clan, were travelers. 162 MAY 2019 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

Redd Pest Control

Protect Your Home and Business With Redd Pest Control

OR 50 YEARS REDD PEST CONTROL HAS BEEN SERVING this community by helping protect homes and businesses from pests and the problems they can create. Owners Paul and Joni Eikert have been a part of this community for many years and look forward to being a part of the future of the Twin Cities and Northeast Louisiana. They know that pests come in many different varieties and they come at different times of the year. At Redd Pest Control, they are determined to solve your pest problems and control future infestations. At this time of year termites are one of the most common pests in the south and cause billions of dollars in damage each year in the U.S. Subterranean termites are foraging insects that live in the ground. They are very small (ant size) and live in large colonies. The colonies contain three castes, workers, soldiers and reproductives. Each group has their own responsibilities and functions and the colony cannot survive without the contribution of each one. The two groups that get the most attention from a property owner is the worker and reproductive. The worker is often found feeding in and around the structure. Workers forage for food, find it, consume it and feed it to the other colony members. They primarily feed on wood but can also damage paper, insulation, and even swimming pool liners and filtration systems. When termite damage is found it is always the result of worker termite activity. There are two primary methods used to treat and control termite activity. A liquid termiticide treatment involves applying a liquid termiticide to the soil under and adjacent to a home or building. The purpose of this application method is to create an unseen barrier that will impact the termites foraging around the property. Redd Pest Control can also help you with roaches, ants, bed bugs, rats and mice, fleas and ticks, and mosquitos. Itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s vital that you, your family, your home and/or business be protected from pests and the problems they create. Continuous training and years of experience have given Redd service technicians the ability to identify the individual needs of a home or property.To ensure your pest control is thorough and complete, Redd Pest Control assigns each customer their own personal service technician, who will know their property inside and out. After all, when you call Redd, pests are dead.

REDD PEST CONTROL 1009 North 6th St Monroe, LA 71201 (318) 807-REDD info@reddpest.net

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Make Your Pets Summer Pawsome at LVMC! Boarding Made Fun for Pets and Easy on Pet Parents

UMMER IS RIGHT AROUND THE corner and the fun is about to begin! “Summer Fun” is BACK, and we are looking forward to having your favorite fur babies spend time with us! Summer Fun is an outdoor doggie daycare program offering enjoyment for every animal. From our bacon flavored bubbles to our tennis ball launcher, your pet is guaranteed a great time at LVMC! Our outdoor area is divided into sections for large pets and small pets. No matter how shy, your pet is going to make some new buddies. Also, your best friend will be worn out after a fun filled day in our doggie playground. You know what they say, “play hard, nap hard.” BOARDING FOR DOGS AND CATS Ask about our other exciting options for canine and feline boarders such as Summer Fun for Boarders, Yappy Hour, Private Playtime in the Canine Courtyard for Dogs,

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Kat Kaviar and Frisky Time for Cats. Reserve one of our roomy Luxury Suites and allow your pet to stretch out, relax, and even watch T.V. Be sure to tell us their favorite Netflix series to binge! You can even keep an eye on them via the Luxury Suite cameras and watch firsthand your pet’s much deserved relaxation. Does your pet prefer to sprawl out? We also offer large rooms for our furry friends who prefer the extra space. WARNING: Excessive cat pampering is one of our mandatories. Feline guests stay in luxurious cat condominiums where they can spend the day perching on various areas while listening to soft music and enjoying an abundance of natural light. Kitties that stay with us are spoiled like they should be! ONE CONVENIENT VISIT To make life a little easier for pet parents, we can perform any necessary treatment during their stay with us. Any check-ups or

vaccinations can be administered including dental scaling or other elective surgeries. If your pet has a chronic medical condition, or is receiving medication on a regular basis, please let us know, as we are well equipped and trained for any possibility. Our goal at Lefebvre Veterinary Medical Center is to provide you and your pet the highest quality of care. We take pride in the services that we offer to pets and their parents. When choosing LVMC, we want you to feel comfortable leaving your pet with us, knowing that they are receiving top notch care, love, and attention -- and having a blast at the same time! If you’re interested in our Summer Fun Program and other boarding options, visit our website, Facebook page, or give us a call today. Though we are fluent in most canine and feline languages, we prefer that humans speak with our staff.

Monroe Garden Study League

A Garden Club of America Flower Show at the Chennault Museum

HE MONROE GARDEN STUDY League, member of The Garden Club of America, will host “We Can Do It!”, a GCA Flower Show at the Chennault Aviation and Military Museum, located at 701 Kansas Lane in Monroe. The flower show is free and open to the public on Tuesday, May 7th from 2 p.m.-4 p.m. and on Wednesday, May 8th from 9 a.m.-2 p.m. Said flower show co-chair, Sandy Dansby, “You are hereby drafted to come see this incredible show.” With Rosie the Riveter and General Chennault and his Flying Tigers as the inspiration for the show, patriots will want to be on these front lines. According to co-chair Maré Brennan, themes for the different classes were directly taken from the history books, giving participants a historical perspective into the Greatest Generation’s gifts to our country and insight into the lasting friendship

General Chennault and his men forged with the Chinese people that continues today. “We Can Do It!” Flower Show will feature groundbreaking contemporary floral design, horticulture, photography, botanical art, and a conservation exhibit that explores creating pollinator friendly landscapes and the Monroe Garden Study League’s work bringing native wildflowers and grasses to the medians of Highway 165 near St. Joseph Nursing Home. Exhibitors in “We Can Do It!” come from as far as Hawaii, with representation from both coasts as well as Texas, Tennessee, Arkansas, Mississippi, and Louisiana. Sponsors for the “We Can Do It!” flower show include The Chennault Aviation and Military Museum, Dr. and Mrs. Douglas C. Brown, Mr. and Mrs. Bubba Rhymes, Dansby’s Taylor Rental, Monroe/West Monroe Convention and Visitors Bureau,

BayouLife Magazine, Carlstedt’s Flowers, Choice Brands, Flying Tiger Brewery, Rhymes Renovation & Rick Trichell. “The Monroe Garden Study League is grateful to Nell Calloway and the Chennault Museum and its staff. If you haven’t been to the museum, this is a great opportunity to visit this beautifully curated piece of our collective history,” said Brennan.

For more information, call Maré Brennan at 318-348-1505.

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What Does It Take to Become a Mother? Positive Steps Fertility Sheds Light on Fertility Journey

OCIETY IS COMPLEX, WHERE modern families are very different from those painted by Norman Rockwell. Similarly, there are many ways to mother children, from classic conception to adoption to step-parenting to being the “cool aunt,” and more. Additionally, there is far more to being a mom than simply giving birth. However, for one out of six women who feel called to become pregnant, the trying to conceive journey is neither easy nor simple. The question is what does it take to get to the other side? Despite advice to relax, take a vacation, or lose weight, this well intended advice doesn’t usually fix underlying biologic reasons for subfertility. In fact, typical advice often doesn’t help or is even the opposite. Good examples of reverse effectiveness include Robitussin for fertility, where the D version can dry out cervical mucus and saying that stress reduces fertility. Most studies show no

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effect from stress, but one actually showed the more women stressed, the more likely they were to do something about their fertility, resulting in more effective care and higher pregnancy rates. This goes back to the saying if you do what you’ve always done, you’ll get what you’ve always gotten. If pregnancy hasn’t happened after a year of trying, it usually isn’t the case that sperm and egg haven’t had a chance to find each other, so there’s more likely to be an underlying cause more than 80% of the time. In fact, 75-80% of women, conceive within 3 months, so many women that have tried for a year should have been pregnant “4 times” over that interval. In fact, if not using contraception for a year, approximately 98% of women that will conceive over that time will have already done so and the odds are almost 5:1 against being spontaneously successful over the next

several years and at a year and a half almost 10:1 against. If you’ve been trying for a while, this is where a fresh set of expert eyes frequently can figure things out. At Positive Steps Fertility we typically need a single discussion can lay out a road map to pregnancy, and our patent pending Parryscope® test can figure out most of female fertility with just one visit. As importantly, we can help couples put their energy in to the factors that make the most difference relative to random “voodoo” when people try anything different just in case it might work, which can be exhausting. There is no one route to motherhood, but conception is like parenting where the road often depends on what you’ve been given in life. You do what you can on your own, but just as most weren’t born pediatricians, you have to know when others may be able to help. You wouldn’t fix a child’s broken bonewhy would you try to fix broken Fallopian tubes? Fertility journeys are hardest when they are alone, but sometimes all it takes is a call - such as to 833-767-7837 - to get support and to move forward faster. Please join us on Facebook every first Friday of the month for First Friday Fertility Live 12:00 p.m. CST.

Minimally Invasive Surgical Navigation

Dr. Patrick McGee Offers The X-Guide® Dynamic 3D Navigation System

R. PATRICK MCGEE IS PROUD TO announce the addition of the X-Guide® Dynamic 3D Navigation system. The X-Guide system is designed to elevate the surgeon’s control and precision over the entire implant process, including virtual planning and placement. This results in the ability to deliver patients a more desirable functional and esthetic outcome. The X-Guide system is like GPS for the surgeon’s drill. It utilizes the 3D treatment plan to provide turn-by-turn guidance during surgery, giving the doctor the ability to visualize precise movements of the instruments for more exact implant placement. This technology allows Dr. McGee to offer his patients minimally invasive treatment options. This means fewer incisions and less pain, as well as shorter healing time for patients. “Just as the i-CAT 3D imaging has helped transform my practice and my dental implant capabilities, the X-Guide provides

the next technological leap for my implant procedures. Navigation is commonplace for medical procedures and I am excited to offer this technology in my office for better dental implants. I have even more precision and accuracy with this technology and can offer more minimally invasive procedures with less office visits,” says Dr. Patrick McGee. With the X-Guide system in the dental practice, same-day guided surgery can be a reality for more patients. This is a big advantage, as more patients want their implant results to be functional and aesthetic, while minimizing complications and optimizing their time, with less pain. ABOUT DR. MCGEE AND HIS DENTAL PRACTICE Dr. McGee takes pride in delivering outstanding patient care for a variety of oral and dental conditions. His modern, state-ofthe-art facility can accommodate you for most

dental treatments that you or your family may need. Dr. McGee provides most general dental procedures for adults, children, and geriatric patients, which include: filings, crowns/ veneers, and root canals. He also provides more complex care and treatment which includes dental implant surgery, extractions and bone grafting, complete dentures, and implant-retained dentures. ABOUT X-NAV TECHNOLOGIES, LLC X-Nav Technologies is a medical device company that develops surgical products for the dental market that advance patient care while improving doctor productivity. For more information please visit www.XNavTech.com.

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Miro’s Now Open in Downtown Monroe Locally Owned Restaurant Quickly Becoming a Favorite

IRO’S IS ONE OF MONROE’S newest restaurants to open and it is quickly becoming a favorite in the Twin Cities. It’s on Walnut Street in the heart of downtown Monroe and owned by Roy Arthur and Lindsay Leavitt with Colby Mardis managing the restaurant. The menu features a variety of hamburgers, sandwiches, wraps, wings and more. Before you even dig in to the entrees, there are plenty of appetizers to choose from. “Our most popular by far is our totchos, our tater tots piled high with grilled chicken, jalapenos, pico de gallo, cheddar cheese, queso, sour cream and guacamole,” said Roy Arthur. Other appetizers include fried zucchini, cheese fries, fried green tomatoes, hummus, chips and the floating tray, with assorted cheeses and meats. There are several burgers with creative names that play off the very nearby river and railroad track. These include the River Burger,

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Morning Barge, Conductor and Caboose. Must tries include the Debris, a burger with pepper jack cheese and covered in roast beef debris, grilled onions and mushrooms and the Hawaiian burger which features a slice of fresh pineapple. Each burger is stamped with their signature fleur de lis, giving it an extra special touch. On the lighter side, there are wraps including grilled chicken, veggie, pimento cheese, turkey avocado and more. One of the dishes that has everyone in town talking is the Muffaletta. This 9 inch round sandwich features Leidenheimer bread and in house olive mix and rivals anything you will find down south. The menu continues with wings and tenders with five different sauces to choose from. Pizzas are also popular, from Muffaletta to Margherita. Miro’s offers a salad bar with over 20 ingredients to make the perfect salad, both during lunch and dinner. If you have room for dessert, you will love the wild blueberry

flapjack cake! Miro’s offers a full bar with drinks to enjoy while taking in the scenery. Be sure to grab a Mule, an Old Fashioned, Mojito or Spicy Margarita. This month, Miro’s is excited to start offering brunch on Sundays from 10:30 a.m. to 2 p.m. The brunch menu will feature some favorites from the regular menu, as well as fried chicken and waffles, pancakes with strawberries, biscuits, eggs and more items to come! And what is brunch without a little hair of the dog? You can enjoy Bloody Marys for $6 and bottomless mimosas for $10. Miro’s is open Tuesday through Sunday and even offers offsite catering, perfect for offices, parties or special events. They also offer an event room, perfect for meetings, receptions and parties. Check out Monroe’s latest restaurant and see what everyone is talking about!

Eagle Bank Mortgage Celebrates 100 Years Local Monroe Office Led by Susie Dartlon

HIS YEAR, EAGLE BANK MORTGAGE, A DIVISION OF Eagle Bank & Trust Company, celebrates 100 years of service! The company opened in 1919 and is owned and operated in central Arkansas. They opened their Monroe mortgage office in March of 2018. This location is equipped with everything under one roof- from one of the most experienced loan officers in the state to the person responsible for preparing your closing documents. They proudly process, underwrite, and close all of the loans in their office, which saves you time and money. The Monroe office is led by Susie Dartlon, who has continuously been recognized as the best in the business. She has 23 years of experience in mortgage lending and has been a top producer for the past 12 years. Susie has built a team of people who are experts in what they do. With a combined 125 years of experience under their roof, youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ll feel confident when dealing with Eagle Bank Mortgage and will have peace of mind knowing that they keep up-to-date of industry changes. Some of the new changes that went into effect were an increase in the FHA loan limit to $314,827 and an increase in the CONV loan limit to $484,350. When choosing Eagle Bank Mortgage, you are choosing a local lender which is important. The staff at Eagle Bank Mortgage are all

active members of the Northeast Louisiana area. They give back to the community through donations to local schools, assisting with first time homebuyer classes, and serving as members of the Board of Realtors and Chamber of Commerce. The entire team lives in the community and they know and understand the unique aspects of this area, which is a benefit to the home buying and home loan process. Because they are local, they have the ability to meet face-to-face with the customer at their convenience. They also partner with local realtors to provide an exceptional home buying experience for their customers. Rates have lowered so now is a great time to purchase or possibly refinance. Whether you are looking to purchase your first home or your forever home, the staff at Eagle Bank Mortgage is here to help! For more information, call Susie Dartlon at 318.460.7727 or visit her website, www.SusieDartlon.com.

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Simply Lou TOXIC

article an illustration by Lou Davenport

have become addicted to a show on The Science Channel called “Mysteries of the Abandoned.” If I find it on, I cannot watch “just one.” I have found a lot of places I will NOT be going to but there is one abandoned place I have been. And, the weird thing, I wasn’t even aware how toxic it was and what danger I had placed myself in! I found that out later on down the road! Picher, Oklahoma is known as “the most toxic town in America.” It was the center of lead and zinc mining for both World Wars. The by-product is called “chat” and looks like mountains and mountains of white ash. To me, it looked like what the moon might look like. Before the chat was found to have such high levels of lead and extremely toxic, people had picnics on the mounds and I even saw four wheeler tracks from some “nuts” riding on them. The mounds covered such a large area, they were really all you could see along the left side of the highway. The other side of the highway was desolate and destroyed. The chat had blown into many of the homes and made big piles. I later found out that right before Picher

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was deemed “unfit for humans” a big F4 tornado came through and pretty much tore everything up. The school was left and a few old store fronts on the main highway. The school still looked pristine and had “Home of the Guerillas” painted on the building. It was so weird. I very seldom use the word, “surreal,” but this place was. I didn’t see a soul and really didn’t want to. I can certainly say I have seen an “environmental disaster” now before I die. I just wanted out of there. The atmosphere was heavy and haunted-like. In 1920, the town became incorporated with a population of 9,926, nearly all of them involved in the mining operations. Picher mine shafts produced over half the lead and zinc to make bullets in WWI and WWII. The zinc ore, being in such huge demand, was churned out, with no thought to any consequences. They just did not know and the little town boomed. At one time there were trolleys that brought workers from surrounding towns and villages. They worked in shifts the zinc and lead was in such demand.

Residents most likely were exposed to the harmful toxins everytime they stepped out their doors. Some parents used the chat as “sand” in children’s sandboxes. Children were allowed to ride their bikes up and down the mountains of chat. They just didn’t know the danger. By the time the mining stopped in 1970, severe damage had been done. The groundwater had been contaminated with ridiculous amounts of lead. The miningeroded soil made sinkholes and “cave ins” an every day occurrence. In 1967, contaminated water from the mines turned the local creek red. This is when the giant chat piles were found to be laced with lead. Picher’s cancer levels skyrocketed. The area was declared the Tar Creek Superfund site in 1981. Most residents wouldn’t leave until 2006 when it was discovered the entire town was in imminent danger of collapsing into the mines. It was declared too toxic to clean up as well. In 2008, just as the Federal buyout program began paying residents to relocate, the town was hit by an F4 tornado. Eight people died, including a child. That was the last straw and now only six people remain. They call themselves “Chat Rats.” I wonder if they are still alive. When I was there I noticed the school was in pristine condition although I don’t understand why. There were a few cars there. The sad part was seeing a deserted football stadium. There were swing sets with no swings and a baseball field with part of a backstop left. As I was researching some facts for this column I came across something I thought was so touching. It seems that for the past several years, many former residents get together in Picher at Christmas for a parade. The old pharmacy is open before and after the parade and is crammed full of souvenirs and keepsakes from their old hometown. Many recall how much they loved living there and I can sure understand that. Even the torn up mess I saw, I could tell it was a little town that everybody knew everyone. So sad, but, so sweet it is remembered even if it’s only one day a year! R I P Picher Oklahoma P.S. I did get to ride on Route 66 for awhile and pretend I was in a corvette with “Buzz and Todd!” It’s odd that you cannot just stay on Route 66 and go cross country. There’s bits of it here and then you detour and go get on it over there! It was still fun and I found out Oklahoma has some towns that if you want to sound impressive you can alway say you were in “Paris” (OK) or that you were hanging out in “Miami” (OK) and right on down the road from Miami, is a little vineyard with some of the best wine I ever had! Who knew?

Local Artist Commissioned To Create Portraits

Caroline Youngblood Commissioned To Create Portraits for LPB’s 2019 Louisiana Legends

RTIST,CAROLINE YOUNGBLOOD, was recently commissioned to create portraits for the Louisiana Public Broadcasting’s 2019 Louisiana Legends. The five portraits are of Roy O. Martin III, Rebecca Vizard, Todd Graves, Newton Thomas and Denise Lewis Patrick. Each piece is 22 x 30” and charcoal and oil on Arches oil paper. They will be framed and auctioned to the highest bidder at the LPB’s Louisiana Legends Gala on Thursday, May 8th at the old State Capitol in Baton Rouge. A composite poster will also be printed and available for purchase. The Louisiana Legends Awards Gala and Auction is a very special annual event hosted by Friends of Louisiana Public Broadcasting. The event honors the best and brightest of Louisiana’s sons and daughters who have distinguished themselves in a

variety of disciplines and have brought honor to the state. Friends of LPB is proud to announce that the 2019 Louisiana Legends are: Todd Graves, American entrepreneur and founder and CEO of Raising Cane’s Chicken Fingers; Denise Lewis Patrick, writer and editor of children’s books; Roy O. Martin III, CEO, President and CFO of RoyOMartin; Newton Thomas, founder of the Newtron Group, leader in industrial electric and instrumentation; and Rebecca Vizard, internationally renowned textile artist. The Louisiana Legends Gala will feature a champagne reception and buffet, a silent auction featuring items donated by the honorees, music and an awards ceremony. Highlights from the event will be broadcast at a later date on LPB. Begun in 1990 and now in its 29th year, the Louisiana Legends

Gala is a fundraising and public awareness project that draws support and participation from friends across the state who appreciate the many fine instructional, educational and cultural programs LPB provides. The Louisiana Legends Awards Gala and Auction is a very special annual event hosted by Friends of Louisiana Public Broadcasting and by Gov. and First Lady Edwards serving as honorary co-chairs.

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Professional Landscaping

Providing Landscape Services to Northeast Louisiana

.S. LAWNS IN MONROE HAS BEEN providing landscape services to businesses here in Monroe since 2007. I’m owner David Head, and I decided to start my own landscaping business and joined U.S. Lawns in 2007. Our services include full service landscape management, seasonal floral color, weed control, fertilization, irrigation maintenance, and other select custom services. With U.S. Lawns as your landscape management partner, you can trust that your grounds will be attended to with all the same care you would give them yourself. We’ll help you customize the right landscape maintenance plan to meet your goals without going over your landscaping budget. Our professional uniformed crews have the training and expertise to ensure your irrigation system is operating efficiently. We’ll perform routine inspections, maintenance and repairs, and can even do retrofits to improve the efficiency of older systems, contributing to conservation of both water and energy.

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We’ll make sure the turf stays healthy and green, trees and shrubs are properly pruned, and the grounds remain clear of sticks, leaves, and other debris. We’ll keep flower beds trimmed and weeded, and add seasonal color with the changing seasons along with a fresh layer of mulch when it’s needed. We’ve got the experience to understand how much a neat, clean appearance around the office, pool, and other entryways really matters, and that safety is always a top priority. So, your U.S. Lawns landscape management experts are right there making sure you’re covered there as well. As an added safety measure for customers, tenants, employees, or visitors, we will keep your property clear of hazards like tree branches growing low enough to become eye pokers or obstruct property entrance and exit views. At the same time, our horticultural focus is on protecting your lawn and plant health from pests and disease. We’re devoted environmentalists too,

which makes the safe application of chemical treatments and fertilizers of dual importance and always our priority when we must use them. U.S. Lawns is committed to helping you cover every angle when it comes to taking care of your landscape. We’ll be there when you expect us to be, and we’ll be there when you need us. We’ll stay on top of the ever-changing needs of your grounds, and keep you informed, so you won’t have to wonder what’s happening with your landscape or tell us about a problem we should’ve already identified. Contact us today and find out how you can sit back, take a break, and start utilizing your grounds to your best advantage while we do all the heavy lifting for you. You can also depend on us to keep your irrigation system functioning the way it’s supposed to so you won’t be wasting precious resources watering the streets, parking lots, or sidewalks. We can even work with you to renovate your landscape, adding new plantings and hardscapes to improve the quality of your grounds and elevate the value of your property. U.S. Lawns is your all-season landscaping partner–responsive, disciplined, professional, knowledgeable, and always there.

Helping Bring Your Confidence Back Dr. Robert Marx - Urologist

HERE IS NO NEED TO LIVE IN fear to live your life to the fullest. If you are having bladder problems it’s okay to seek help. You don’t have to continue living with a leaking bladder and you don’t have to be embarrassed by it. There are many ways to manage bladder control problems. Robert D. Marx, M.D. is this community’s hometown urologist. He was born and raised in Monroe, Louisiana. He graduated from NLU, now ULM, and graduated from medical school and completed his residency at LSU Shreveport. Dr. Marx has traveled extensively working with the leaders of the field in order to keep up with the latest and most successful techniques in incontinence. He has been in practice for over thirty years and conveniently operates at Glenwood, Monroe Surgical and P&S Surgery Center. Specializing in female urology since 1998, Dr. Marx is board-certified offering specialized care for female incontinence.

Dr. Marx promises caring, confidential consultations and personalized solutions for any related problem such as: bladder prolapse, removal of mesh, InterStim, and urethral bulking. He also treats male incontinence. Vasectomies are done in the office with a no cut technique. Because bladder incontinence seems so common, it’s sometimes difficult for women to understand that they may have an actual problem that requires medical attention. The best way to address your concerns is to talk to Dr. Marx. Depending on the severity of your condition, as well as how frequently you feel urges to use the bathroom or have urinary accidents, Dr. Marx will be able to determine if you have minor to moderate incontinence that can be improved with physical therapy, Kegel exercises, or medication. In some instances, incontinence is severe and doesn’t respond to non-invasive

treatments. In these cases, Dr. Marx may recommend bladder suspension surgery. This procedure can be performed in several ways, including through an incision in the vagina. Each procedure involves pulling the bladder back into place and securing it with sutures so that it stays put. Success rates for bladder suspension surgery are good. Success often depends on a patient’s medical history or other medical conditions, age, how long she’s been managing with incontinence, and how active she is following surgery. To maximize the effectiveness of your post-op results, be sure to discuss your lifestyle, limitations and any concerns you may have with Dr. Marx. Whatever level of severity your problem is, Robert D. Marx, M.D. and his dedicated staff are ready to assist you. Dr. Marx prides himself on the personal attention he provides each patient. He understands that this is a sensitive time for you. Dr. Marx has decades of experience providing careful, appropriate treatment to put you at ease. The office’s goal is to make you feel comfortable, so you can openly address your problems and let them help you fix it. Conveniently located in the Glenwood Medical Mall, they are happy to be accepting new patients. Call today for an appointment.

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A Local Family Business Automated Alarm Co.

UTOMATED ALARM HAS BEEN committed to serving Northeast Louisiana for over 25 years with custom designed systems. These systems focus on security and life safety systems for residential and commercial applications. Our staff has industry led training in system design and installation standards. We provide free consultation to aid you in assessing and mitigating your security and life safety vulnerabilities. We understand that every customer has specific requirements and are committed to aligning the best practices, topshelf equipment, and professional installation to bring you the best value and coverage. Technology is opening the way for home and business owners to have more automation solutions available at affordable prices. Our security alarm systems can integrate cameras, door access, and lighting and temperature controls through an app on your smart phone. Studies have shown that homes with

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a video doorbell can reduce burglaries up to 55% as a third of burglars use the front door. The Department of Energy indicates that programmable thermostats can reduce heating and cooling bills by 10%. Camera systems are becoming more common at residential and commercial locations as affordability increases. They aid in deterrence, assist in monitoring activity at entry/exit points, blind spots, and avenues of approach on site. Camera systems have become invaluable to law enforcement in solving burglary cases that currently have a solve rate just over 13%. Most burglars live nearby and generally operate between 10 am and 3 pm. Check with us at Automated Alarm to see how you can remotely view live and playback footage. Over the past 25 years we have maintained an A+ rating with the Better Business Bureau. Automated Alarm is in compliance with all known state regulations for employee

licensing and insurance through the State Fire Marshallâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Office. We are proud members of the Northeast Louisiana Homebuilders Association and Louisiana Life Safety and Security Association. Being a local company, we are involved in volunteering labor and parts for St. Jude, Chennault Air Museum, and local police and fire departments. Our primary mission is to provide low voltage technology solutions for residential and commercial applications with integrity through fair business practices, tip of the spear technology and equipment installed with professional practices. We strive to serve our customers through a shared passion of safety and security. Automated Alarm wants to remind you that security starts with a hard target mentality. Light up your location, lock your doors, remove objects that restrict visibility, and have a trusted agent check your mail and pick up your newspaper if you are out of town. If you have a security alarm system, use it! Activate your alarm system â&#x20AC;&#x201D; Alarm systems are only useful when you remember to activate them. We look forward to the opportunity to serve as your security and life safety company. AUTOMATED ALARM CO. 210 Kansas Lane Monroe, Louisiana 318-345-2378

Perfect Gifts for All Occasions

From Graduation to Mother’s Day, Haven has a Wide Selection of Gifts for Everyone

VENT SEASON IS IN FULL BLOOM, AND MAY IS PACKED with everything from graduation to Mother’s Day. Find the perfect gift for any occasion at Haven. If you are looking to buy for a high school or college graduate, Haven has a great gift selection in a variety of price ranges. A S’well bottle is a practical gift, as these eco-friendly insulated bottles keep drinks, like coffee, hot for 12 hours, or water, cold for 24. Help graduates stay organized with a stylish change caddy or gold-detailed jewelry tray paired with a set of earrings under $30. A handy multi-tool kit or pocket knife would be a useful gift for guys going out on their own. For a graduate with travel plans this summer, Haven offers an assortment of travel accessories, such as packing cubes and cosmetic bags, passport covers, suitcases, and travel totes. For a list of other great gift ideas, check out their graduation gift guide on Instagram or pick up a copy in the store. Don’t forget Mother’s Day is May 12th – and a beautiful, comfortable set of pajamas paired with elegant slippers would be perfect for any mother or grandmother. With 5 different styled pajama lines at Haven, you are sure to find one you love. If she likes to read, Haven has a variety of topics including interior design, gardening, cookbooks, devotionals, and many others. Haven has several different jewelry lines, so you

are sure to find the perfect piece for Mom. If you’re having trouble deciding what to choose, a Haven gift certificate is always a perfect gift! In addition to a stunning selection of gifts, this wonderful shop offers everything for the home. Bedding is available in-stock and by special order, with in-store assistance to pull a beautiful combination for your room. Haven always has a nice selection of throw pillows, art, side tables, beautiful lamps, and design accessories to complement any bookcase or coffee table. Inside Haven, you will also find a residential and commercial interior design firm that has been serving Monroe and the surrounding areas for over 20 years. This licensed interior design firm specializes in remodeling and new construction projects. They offer a large selection of special-order furniture, finish and paint selection, space planning and other full-scale design services. Call 318.398.3298 to set up an appointment. Shoppers know Haven always provides wonderful customer service and beautiful, complimentary gift wrapping to complete your shopping experience. So be sure to visit Haven: a shopping destination you won’t want to miss! Find them on Facebook and Instagram, and visit their location at 1127 Forsythe Avenue in Monroe. They are open Monday - Friday 10 a.m. - 5 p.m., and Saturday 10 a.m. - 3 p.m.

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Gorgeous botanicals add interest to a mantel, and this large piece works perfectly in the background Available by Traditions

A N ATOM Y OF A M A N T EL Illustrated by Meagan Russell Photography by Kelly Moore Clark Styled by Taylor Bennett

Use art, mirrors or framework for layering Mirror available at Cotton Port Antique Mall

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Include vases on the mantle to display something organic Find these vases at Palette House

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GIR L ON FIR E

CHILDREN ARE DREAMERS, and we often

encourage them to dream big. We tell them, “You can be anything you want to be,” and we watch as they take in the world, find inspiring role models, and begin dreaming themselves into those roles. Maybe they’ll save lives, write books, discover a new species, or become famous. If they don’t give up and the world doesn’t get in their way, their dreams often become reality. Fashion designer and Project Runway star Lela Orr has watched her childhood dreams come true. Born in Dallas, Lela spent her formative years in Monroe, and as a child, her earliest inspiration came from her grandmother. “She was a very fabulous, fashionable, glamourous woman,” Lela said. When Lela was just 5 or 6, her grandmother shared her collection of international Vogue magazines with her. Flipping through the pages, Lela was struck by the difference between the clothes she saw there and the ones she saw on the racks at the mall. “Through her and through seeing Vogue,” Lela said, “I realized, ‘Oh, wow! Fashion is an art form! And I wanna make that. I wanna make that art.’” Looking through the magazines and watching her grandmother get dressed up sparked Lela’s interest in fashion, but she was also inspired by watching her mom get ready for parties in the early 90s. “She would go from feeling okay to putting on her beaded, glamorous cocktail dress with the big shoulders to feeling ultra-glamorous. She just felt so transformed by fashion.” It was inspiring for Lela to see fashion have such an impact on someone’s persona and on their day.

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As Lela grew, she challenged herself creatively. She was the kind of kid who stayed up coloring or drawing at the dining table until her parents finally made her go to bed. Later, in high school, she found ways to surround herself with fashion. She worked at an upscale boutique called Signatures by Linda Reeves on Forsythe Avenue in Monroe. The shop catered to women of all ages and carried everything from business suits to ball gowns. Working there allowed Lela to watch women transform themselves with fashion every day. During that time, Lela also started experimenting with design. “I would cut up skirts and make new skirts out of them,” she said, “or take old jeans and turn them into other things and sew patches onto things to make them different, but I thought it was just something that I was doing. I didn’t realize I was designing.” Even though Lela was always interested in fashion and design, there was a time when she lost sight of the little girl who imagined herself creating the clothes she saw in her grandmother’s fashion magazines.

PHOTOGRAPHY BY KELLY MOORE CLARK ARTICLE BY APRIL CLARK HONAKER HAIR BY LESLEY BOYD AT THE PARLOR HOUSE MAKEUP BY BRITTANY DYE

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FERRAH COLLECTION

“It was an occupation that I saw as really unattainable,” she said, “just because I didn’t really see anyone around me pursuing something like that.” Looking around Monroe, Lela didn’t often see women who wore the kind of clothing she saw in Vogue. There were no schools for fashion designers nearby, and high-end designers were not part of the peoplescape. After high school, Lela moved to New Orleans where she earned her bachelor’s degree in business and international development. It wasn’t until she graduated and moved to New York that she realized being a fashion designer was her true calling. Initially, she was a sales associate for an accessory manufacturer, but eventually she was able to work with their in-house design team. She also saw everyone in New York pursuing their dreams, and she passed Parsons School of Design on her walk to work every day. One day, she said, “I was like, ‘What am I doing? I’m here in New York. I’m in the city of my dreams. Why don’t I just pursue my dreams?’” She finally realized the worst that could happen was rejection, so she applied. Up to that point, she hadn’t believed being a designer was a realistic option. “I always wanted to do it,” she said. “It was a childhood dream of mine, but in life, I think we can just put those things aside and chalk it up to being childhood dreams. Honestly, I tell people all the time, I think I was the one standing in the way of myself.” Her family was always supportive, so she had to overcome her own doubts. Fortunately, when she finally applied, Parsons recognized her talent and accepted her into the fashion design program with a partial scholarship. During an internship while studying there, she worked for an emerging brand called HARBISON. Because Charles Harbison, the brand’s founder, was just getting started, he needed an intern that could help in every facet of the business. The two of them shared responsibility for everything from emailing buyers to hand-sewing things on garments. Lela said, “I really got to see what it took to start a fashion business, so I think that’s why I started my business right of school—because I worked with him and he was just so supportive and encouraging.”

While she was still in school and working on her thesis project, Lela was already thinking about launching her own brand. She wanted to create a collection while all the inspiration was still fresh, and she wanted to practice some of the new techniques she was learning like zero-waste pattern cutting. In the research and planning process, she learned that on average only about 20-40% of the fabric that is purchased to make a garment is actually used. The thought of throwing away 60% of the fabric made Lela want to cry. She wanted to solve that problem. “My thesis was all about making things that are glamorous and beautiful and high-fashion, but also not throwing anything out,” she said. “I didn’t even realize it at the time, but I was being a zero-waste designer.” When her thesis was finished, she had created a zero-waste, luxury collection. Creating a zero-waste collection was important to Lela because of how she was raised. She called her mom “the original hippie” and said, “We’ve always been into conservation and doing what’s best for your body and the environment, but I think also, when I was really young, my family didn’t have a lot. This was the early days when we were living in the suburbs of Dallas. My family really struggled.” They would reuse everything. They were resourceful. They cleaned their plates, and they wore things until they couldn’t be worn anymore. Then they patched them. “We just made things last as long as possible,” she said. “I thought that’s how everyone lived, and honestly, it’s how everyone really should live because it’s so much cleaner that way.” Even when her family started doing well, they continued to be resourceful and conscious, so when Lela learned that the forward-thinking, progressive industry she loved was wasteful, she felt driven to do something about it. “It’s an easy problem to fix,” she said. “It’s so easy to lay out your patterns a little bit more thoughtfully, so that you’re wasting less. It’s easy to recycle in New York, and it’s easy to educate yourself, but it’s just taking those steps to educate yourself to learn what you can do to be better—just a better person honestly—that I think can really make a big difference.” According to Lela, microplastics are responsible for 30% of the plastic in our oceans, and every time we wash a synthetic garment, we release some of those plastics into our water supply. It’s a big problem, but Lela believes even one person can make a difference and even the smallest change helps. For her, change meant applying zero-waste pattern cutting and using only natural materials in her thesis collection.

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hen she finished the collection, she was ready Inspiration from that sketching session came through in to introduce it to the world. Because she felt the collection’s saree drapes, long trains, and flowing cape-like New York was already overflowing with elements suggestive of superheroes. “It was all about female talented, new designers, she decided to head empowerment because of the Women’s March and so many south. “I went to Dallas, back to my roots,” she amazing women’s movements happening around the world,” Lela said. At her very first show there, which was said. “So that was something that was sociopolitical—so large and at Fashion X, she got orders. With people responding to her work, so important—that I wanted to put into my fashion career.” Lela was inspired. She decided to move back to Dallas and start her Ferrah’s most recent collection, number V, is equally own eco-luxury brand. She chose to name her brand Ferrah because meaningful. It was initially inspired by clouds and a desire to create in Arabic it means joy. She said, “To me that’s the most important something light, airy, and voluminous. But as Lela and Lea’s plans element of designing—keeping that in mind and thinking of the evolved, they focused more on creating pieces inspired by their transformative impact that clothes can have on your persona—and different backgrounds and heritage. Lea is from Scandinavia, and my goal is to bring people joy when I create.” The next year, 2016, Lela was born in Dallas, so they named the collection Scandiwest. she officially launched her brand and won “Designer of the Year” As part of their creative process, they flipped through family at Fashion X. The sponsorship and mentorship she was awarded albums together. “We were looking at what would be considered as part of her win were instrumental in helping her grow Ferrah. a family heirloom,” Lela said, “and how we could inject that into During the months that followed, she started really carving our collection.” For Lela, it’s been great having someone to share out her niche and figuring out how she was going to define and ideas with. “It’s really helpful not being in an echo chamber and market herself. She started branding herself as an Americannot working alone anymore,” she said. “I have a business partner, made, zero-waste, high-fashion, eco-luxury brand with a low so we have these life talks. We’ll just sit down to have coffee, and carbon footprint. She also committed to using all-natural fabrics we’ll end up talking about all of this stuff happening in the world.” and dyes. These things along with ethical craftsmanship and They talk about everything from religion to politics to the shape being environmentally friendly, are now of clouds, and these talks then inspire hallmarks of her brand. their work. Another important development At the same time, Lela said, “Joy is the most important element “People are the most inspiring thing during this time was that Lela joined forces with fellow designer Lea Nyland of designing—keeping that in mind to me.” She likes to travel and people Poulsen. The two met after Lela’s but she often finds herself and thinking of the transformative watch, second Fashion X show. Lea had been drawn to the unexpected. “Being at impact that clothes can have on to the show and emailed Lela afterward Paris Fashion Week, I was seeing all expressing her love for the collection your persona— my goal is to bring this beautiful fashion coming down the and how much she’d like to work for her. runway,” she said. “But then I found people joy when I create.” Lela reviewed her portfolio and résumé myself on the Metro and looking at this and said, “I was so baffled that someone guy and the way that he cuffed his shirt with her skill set was wanting to work and his pants and the attention to detail for me, an emerging designer in Dallas.” But she was interested that he paid to what was probably a work uniform. The attention in learning why, so they met for coffee where Lela learned that to detail that he had in his garment to me was more inspiring Lea was working as a head designer for Zara. “She was this than some of the things I saw coming down the runway.” Lela amazing designer with this incredible portfolio and an incredible appreciates street style and people being confident in themselves thesis collection that honestly reminded me a lot of my own thesis and having a personal style. collection,” Lela said. She was impressed but still wanted to know She also believes her customers are craving something how a designer from Denmark who had graduated from fashion different, and as a brand, Ferrah responds to that craving. Over school in Barcelona and had worked in Spain ended up in Dallas. time, she and Lea have grown more fearless and experimental in During their meeting, she learned that Lea had moved to Dallas for their designs, and with their latest collection, they’ve seen that the love. designs they put the most of themselves into have been the most The move seemed fortuitous to Lela, but she wanted to create well-received. That experience has been really encouraging. In a test collection with Lea to see how they worked together before fact, one of the most important lessons Lela said she’s learned as a becoming partners. She had collaborated with other designers designer is to go with her gut and trust her intuition, whether it’s before and knew it could be difficult, but she and Lea meshed in the design process or in her business decisions. well. “It was just this easy partnership,” she said. “It was so kismet Being on Project Runway has also led to some valuable lessons. and so cool and really, really rare and special.” The two have been “I think the show really encouraged me to be even more fearless working together now since 2016. and bold,” she said, “to not question who I am.” Lela doesn’t For their first collection together, they were inspired by over edit herself anymore. “I really go for it,” she said, “and I feel women’s movements around the world, particularly in India. “I confident in my customer that they’ll follow along.” The show became really moved learning about the Gulabi Gang in India,” really pushed her to not only sew faster but also to embrace her Lela said, “and that was something that was just really life identity as a designer. It was difficult being a zero-waste designer impactful for me where I kind of felt like there’s no way that I can in the context of the competition, but she said, “I learned to stay just ignore what’s happening right now, and the things that I’m true to who I am.” Working alongside 15 other extremely talented learning about I have to express, and I have to do something.” She but very different designers and receiving advice from Christian learned about the Gulabi Gang while she and Lea were sketching Siriano and the judges was also inspiring. “Their advice and the together and watching news about the Women’s March. According experience as a whole has really shown me that I should push my to Lela, the Gulabi Gang is a network of women in India who wear aesthetic even more,” she said, “and just be really confident in pink sarees and fight corruption and abuse against women. myself and where my brand is going.”

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Northeast Imaging Now Approved for Blue Cross/Blue Shield and Louisiana Worker’s Compensation Patients

ORTHEAST IMAGING CENTER IN MONROE HAS announced that it is now able to accept imaging patients who are covered by Blue Cross/Blue Shield of Louisiana as well as Louisiana Worker’s Compensation patients. Northeast Imaging, which opened in late summer of 2018, uses advanced MRI imaging technology operated by experienced and certified imaging technicians in a convenient, nearby, and safe setting. “We’re pleased to be able to help even more area residents receive physician prescribed MRI services with our authorization by Blue Cross/Blue Shield and Louisiana Worker’s Compensation,” commented Jana Whatley Elkins, Marketing Director for Northeast Imaging. She adds, “Through our affordable low rate pricing for MRI services, including cash options, and with our expanded insurance coverages, we are able to save imaging patients up to several hundreds of dollars for their MRI imaging session.” The advanced MRI imaging technology of Northeast Imaging allows a patient’s physician to obtain very high resolution imaging of the patient’s body for use in developing effective treatment programs. In support of the patient’s physician, Northeast Imaging performs MRI imaging of a broad range of body sections including spine, neck, pelvic areas, brain, the vascular system, musculoskeletal among other areas. The GE MRI technology found at Northeast Imaging is among the highest quality systems available and allows for high resolution images to be obtained and provided to the referring physician. Once images are obtained, radiologists with Northeast Imaging read and interpret the results and provide their findings to the physician or other referring party. The MRI imagery obtained along with the interpretation of the radiologist provides the referring physician a tremendous tool to use in the diagnosis and ultimate treatment of their patient’s medical condition. All MRI technicians at Northeast Imaging are certified by the American College of Radiology (ACR) and imaging results are interpreted by experienced radiologists. All staff of Northeast Imaging practice a high level of customer service, being sensitive to the patients schedule, concerns and comfort. They are also centered in providing the results back to the referring physician or others as quickly as possible. MRI imaging appointments can be obtained by calling 318-570-4985 during the center’s office hours of Monday Friday from 8 a.m. to 5 p.m. More information on the MRI service can also be obtained at that number.

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Parents need to be aware of the warning signs of victimization and seek help to address them. There are plenty of valuable resources that can assist a parent with these issues.

Date Rape Drugs BY THE CHILDREN’S COALITION FOR NORTHEAST LOUISIANA

“DATE RAPE,” WHICH IS ALSO CALLED “acquaintance rape” is defined as a sexual assault that occurs when the victim and the perpetrator know each other through some sort of accepted social contact. It often occurs after the perpetrator first drugs the victim. This can be done without the victim knowing by slipping a drug into the victim’s beverage. Many drugs that are used will leave a victim unresponsive or unable to recall events. These drugs can be odorless, colorless, and tasteless, making it difficult for the victim to know. According to a recent national survey, approximately 15% of women students on college campuses reported being victims of rape, and 12% reported being victims of attempted rape. These numbers only reflect the women who reported the incidents. Police estimate that only 30% of all rapes are reported. Charles Joseph “C. J.” Beck is a Louisiana Licensed Professional Counselor and Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. He attended Northeast Louisiana University where he earned a Master of Arts in Marriage and Family Therapy. He currently practices at the First West Counseling Center in West Monroe, Louisiana. In addition to his 186 MAY 2019 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

work in mental health, he also works as a full-time police officer with the West Monroe Police Department. He serves as a Patrol Sergeant and oversees the DWI program for the department. Sergeant Beck is a certified Drug Recognition Expert and Instructor through the International Association of Chiefs of Police. He has been a speaker about “Identifying Drugged People” at Counseling Conferences, Pediatric Conferences and public schools. Q: What is the most important thing parents and youth need to know about date rape drugs? A: When teens think of rape, they might picture a stranger jumping out of a shadowy place and attacking them. But in reality about half of all teens who are raped know the person who attacked them. For these kind of assaults, “date rape” drugs are frequently used. It is important for parents to have an open discussion with their teens about this topic. The discussion can include identifying the effects of drugs, being cautious in private and social settings, and identifying the behaviors that increase the chances of being victimized.

Q: What are the date rate drugs and why are they so dangerous? A: At least one-half of all violent crimes involve alcohol consumption by the offender, the victim, or both. Alcohol is a Central Nervous System Depressant (CNS) leading a person to loosening of their inhibitions and judgement. Since alcohol is generally accepted socially, there is a greater risk that offenders will use alcohol to introduce “date rape” drugs to the victim. Drugs used in the crime include benzodiazepines such as Rohypnol (“Roofies”), Gamma-Hydroxybutyrate Acid (GHB), and Clonazepam. Many of these drugs are CNS Depressants. Since alcohol is also a CNS Depressant, the effects of adding drugs to alcohol are enhanced. Those effects include a lack of coordination, disoriented, sluggish, thick and slurred speech, gait ataxia and drowsiness. Imagine a person who is intoxicated by alcohol. There is an additive effect when other CNS Depressant drugs are introduced. The results can include complete vulnerability, lack of memory, unconscious, coma, and death. Q: Why is important for parents to talk to their children about date rape drugs? A: Although it may be difficult for parents to discuss sensitive issues with their teens, the issue of date rape drugs must be addressed. Parents need to be direct and open while discussing it. Parents should be familiar with various drugs and the associated street names, which are often used by youth. Reviewing websites on the topic is one way that can make it easier to discuss. Parents should also become aware what physical signs to look for. A valuable resource is the Drug Matrix, which can be found in any internet search. It outlines clinical and general indicators. Q: What is a good way to start the conversation? A: Some important facts about date rape drugs that should be shared with your child include: rape is not about sex, it is about power and control, aggression, and violence. Even if two people know each other well and are in an intimate relationship, that does not give a person the right to force a sexual act on another person. People are never “asking for it.” The fault is with the offender, not the

victim. Failure to discuss these issues leave youths more vulnerable. Q: How do I know if my child has experienced drug-facilitated sexual assault? A: There are many warning signs that may indicate a youth was a victim of a “date rape.” They include sleep disturbances, sudden changes in eating habits, sudden mood changes including withdrawal, self-mutilation, and depression. Half of all teens If warning signs are present, it is who are raped important for the parent to discuss their concerns with the youth without know the person an aggressive posture or being judgmental. Parents can seek the who attacked them. assistance of a counselor to assist in addressing concerns, where the youth may feel uncomfortable talking to their parents. Parents may also have feelings such as failure, anxiety, and depression when their child is victimized. Therefore, support systems should be utilized such as family, church leaders, and professional counseling. Q: If my child has experienced drug-facilitated sexual assault what should I do? A: If a youth becomes a victim, it is important for the parents not to judge, lecture, or pressure their child. This is a time in the youth’s life that their family support system is essential. There will be opportunities in the future to address the events that led to the assault. The first thing a parent should do is assist the child in reporting the crime. If it is a recent occurrence, they may be examined by Sexual Assault Nurse Examiners. A Sexual Assault Nurse Examiner (SANE) is a qualification for forensic nurses who have received special training to conduct sexual assault evidentiary exams for rape victims. That examination will occur after a police report is filed. Though it can be a terrifying experience, it is necessary to obtain physical evidence of the crime.

RESOURCES RAINN

A valuable resource for help is the National Sexual Assault Telephone Hotline or go to https://www.rainn. org. If you call 800.656. HOPE (4673) you will be connected with a trained staff member from a sexual assault service provider in your area and be routed to a local RAINN (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network) affiliate organization based on the first six digits of your phone number. Cell phone callers have the option to enter the ZIP code of their current location to more accurately locate the nearest sexual assault service provider. Jan Daniels, Youth Development Director at the Children’s Coalition, works with middle schools in northeast Louisiana to provide the suicide prevention program Signs of Suicide (SOS) and the the program Rights, Respect and Responsibility which addresses dating violence and healthy relationships. The Coalition will be offering a series of classes this Spring for parents to learn more about the sexual health of their teens and how they can have healthy relationships. Call Jan at (318) 3238775 or go to www.childrenscoalition.org to learn more about how you can get these programs at your child’s school. WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM | MAY 2019 187

G A L L E R Y of H O M E S 3165 Deborah Drive

1.4 acres right in the heart of North Monroe! This 5318 HSF home will make you never want to leave! High ceilings, deep crown molding and wood floors. 5 bedroom/5 bath this home also has a media/theater room, master suite wing, pool and pool house. MLS# 187098 Barbara Thomas - John Rea Realty 318.355.5551

2713 Bramble Drive

Located in Plantation Park, this stylish home has beautiful landscaping, fenced in back yard, sprinkler and security system. Driveway large enough for double cars. 4 bed/2 ½ baths, over 3200 sq.ft. allows very generous rooms. Hardwood floors and some new carpet. 25x15 den and 27x16 heat/cool sunroom adjoining. MLS# 187326 Nancy Inabnett - John Rea Realty 318.537..2698

2109 Bienville Drive

Built by Gretchen Kovac, this 3 bedroom , 2 bath home has 10 ft. ceilings, exquisite teak flooring, a wine refrigerator, gas lanterns, beautiful landscaping with gravel pathways, and a covered screened patio. MLS# 187441 Kathy VanVeckhoven - John Rea Realty 318.537.3701

2907 Pargoud Blvd.

Prestige and Luxury in a class of its own! This premier 4 bedroom, 3 1/2 bathroom home was masterfully designed by Bing Bishop and showcases nothing but the best of materials. If living the best life is your way of living then call to make an appointment before someone else does! Brandy Bell - Coldwell Banker Group One Realty MLS#186798 318.362.0007

2804 River Oaks

Located in a prime subdivision in North Monroe, this 4-bedroom, 3 1/2 bath home on River Oaks Drive features a gorgeous pool, boat dock, pool house and seawall on the beautiful Bayou DeSiard. Kathy VanVeckhoven - John Rea Realty | 318.537.3701

2313 Pargoud Blvd.

2219 Pargoud Blvd.

With large rooms and an easy flow, this house welcomes you home. 3 bedrooms, 3 baths, kids den (can be 4th bedroom), and an office gives everyone their own space. Large live oaks accent the traditional beauty while courtyard and tennis court make outside living desirable. MLS# 184581 Amy Sherman - John Rea Realty 318.372.6227

Great 4BR/3BA home in one of Monroe’s most desired locations! Completely updated & move-in ready. Spacious master suite w/ HUGE walk-in closet (I challenge you to fill this one up)! The large living room has tons of natural light. Split-bedroom floor plan gives everyone their own space! Tremendous opportunity in North Monroe! MLS#187492 Mark Sisk 318.801.4344

1915 Pope Street

448 Hwy 134

Custom one-owner brick home built by Lee Herron and expanded by Mike Porter. Lovely wood floors, 2 fireplaces, formal dining room, family room with wood beams and lots of built-ins, and a kitchen with stainless appliances, barstool seating and counter space galore! 25x17 MBR suite with vaulted ceiling, bay window, WBFP, and a very spacious garden bath. 2-room utility area/office space -- all on a beautiful corner lot. MLS# 183189 Patti Morris - John Rea Realty 318.547.2153

Enjoy summer on the bayou with fishing/kayaking in your own backyard! Open floor plan, huge remodeled kitchen with plenty of cabinets, granite, subway tile, large living area, all new bathrooms, master has walk in shower w 3 shower heads & rock floor, huge tub, custom shelving, sinks, & fixtures. Fresh paint, rec lighting, two (2015) 80 gal Rheem Pro water heaters, (2012) 4.5 ton Carrier A/C & so much more! This gorgeous bayou home sits on 2 acres w mature trees and landscaping! MLS# 183020 Melissa Evans - Coldwell Banker Group One Realty 318.789.7875

G A L L E R Y of H O M E S 108 Hilton Street

119 River Styx

167 Joe White Road

Come quick to see this beautifully restored 5BR/3.5BA Garden District home. All new electrical wiring, HVAC systems, windows, digital surveillance system, and plumbing. Original wood floors. Roof was replaced in 2015. Spray foam insulation in all exterior walls, underneath the home, and 18’’ insulation in attic. MLS# 184972 Mark Sisk 318.801.4344

New Construction with all the bells and whistles in the new River Styx Subdivision in Monroe. In the Sterlington school district, this 3 bedroom/2 bathroom home has high ceilings, granite countertops, stainless appliances, double pane energy efficient windows, gas insert fireplace, and covered patio! MLS# 184531 Cara Sampognaro - John Rea Realty 318.381.0385

Custom built home on the bayou. Real Cherry cabinets in kitchen, sunroom w/windows that stack down to a screen porch. High ceilings, marble bathrooms, outside lighting, Brazilian cherry wood floors, 3-car garage, gas generator, fish pond with waterfall, boathouse w/boat lift and deck. Meditation garden. MLS# 183358 Nancy Inabnett - John Rea Realty 318.537.2698

189 Ormond Lane

407 Speed Avenue

223 S Grand St Unit 901

Boasting 5 bedrooms, 4, 500 heated sf, 6 acres of manicured grounds with a boathouse on beautiful Bayou Desiard. Spacious mother-in-law apartment (great for traveling guests) includes a full kitchen and a large second story sunroom with sweeping views of the bayou. Built in 1917, this home was moved to its current location in the late 1990’s. Natural light permeates the totally updated kitchen. MLS# 187350 Mark Sisk 318.801.4344

Built in the 1920s and effectively restored to like new condition. This home features high ceilings throughout, 3 large bedrooms, 3 full baths, spacious living room, sunroom, and a formal dining room too. Highlights in the master suite include a walk-in closet, custom marble shower that overlooks a private garden, double French doors that opens up to a New Orleans style courtyard complete with fountain and built-in gas grill. MLS# 187675 The Bendily Group - John Rea Realty 318. 381.2077

GALLERY of H O M E S is a listing of local real estate properties by local realtors. To advertise in BayouLife Magazine’s Gallery of Homes, please contact us at 318.855.3185

One of a kind, beautiful home in downtown Monroe, nine stories above the city allowing for a breath taking view of the Ouachita River. Enjoy the morning sunrise from the private back deck and the beautiful sunset from the front deck. Entertain by opening all three double doors in the living room and dining area. Kitchen has Calcutta Danby Marble counter tops and Newport antique brass faucet. Kitchen Aid appliances. Master bath includes a marble steam shower. A 6 ft. wall aquarium separates the steam shower from the private toilet and bidet area. Home also includes antique crystal light fixtures in the dining, kitchen and 1/2 bath, antique dressing table with sink, solid wood doors with Victorian crystal knobs, surround system, home protected by fire, security and sprinkler system. MLS# 1872225 James Douglas - Coldwell Banker Group One Realty 318.307.3702

Easter Tea Party

The Easter Bunny hopped into the Childrenâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Museum in Monroe on Saturday, April 13th. Special guests enjoyed a spring tea where they got to take their picture with the Easter Bunny, as well as visit with some real bunny rabbits in the Bunny Patch. Everyone made a cute craft and some cookies to get them ready for the upcoming Easter holiday. Mother Goose even made an appearance to read a story and visit with children. A favorite was the egg roll on the White House lawn, one of the most recent additions to the childrenâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s museum.

On the BayouScene 1 Cathy Strickland, Angela Hales and Evy Strickland 2 Amanda and Jackson Smith 3 Lux Green and Sarah Sehon 4 Lillian and Margaret Paxton 5 Tim and Weston Clark 6 Alice and Mary Harris 7 Eliza, Sarah and Lillian Gregory 8 Gladden and Michelle Walters and Campbell Farr 9 The Easter Bunny and Cully Hubenthal

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Bayou DeSiard Title Company Celebrates New Office Bayou Desiard Title Company’s Ribbon Cutting and Open House

AYOU DESIARD TITLE COMPANY recently held an open house and ribbon cutting to celebrate the opening of its new office at 417 North Third Street in downtown Monroe. Gene Hastings, his son, Cooper, and their staff welcomed many friends, clients and local dignitaries to the celebration. Guests were given tours of the new construction built on a previously vacant lot in the rapidly redeveloping downtown area. In keeping with the area, the office was designed to make it look as if the building had been a fixture of the city for many years. The interior of the building reflects the commitment of the company to modern standards of practice including the protection of a client’s personal information. Featured on many of the walls of the office are works of art focusing on local and Louisiana artists as well as items of sports memorabilia. Bayou DeSiard Title provides closing

services in connection with all types of real estate transactions. It handles transactions involving residential and commercial properties including sales, mortgages, refinances, donations, servitudes and lease/ purchases. The company provides escrow services and writes title insurance for national title insurers. Bayou DeSiard Title is approved to handle matters on behalf of almost every banker, mortgage broker and realty office in Northeast Louisiana. Our list of clients includes buyers, sellers, landlords, developers and real estate investors. Gene formed the company in 1997 with one full time staff member and the first office was in a converted residence located on Bres Avenue in Monroe. The company adopted a slogan of “closing loans at the lowest possible cost to you” and a determination to provide professional title services while maintaining a personal relationship with its clients. Due to

its continued growth the company relocated to Walnut Street in 2003 and now to its current location. Cooper joined his father as a practicing attorney in the fall of 2018 and they are supported by a team of seven full-time employees. The support staff averages over twenty years of experience in the loan closing business. Please give Gene, Cooper and their staff the opportunity to assist you the next time you need legal services in connection with any real estate transaction. While you are there be sure and enjoy the new office space that we built so we can better serve each and every one of our clients. The building was a project of Bing Bishop Construction under the supervision of Justin Bishop. A special thank you to Margaret, Mike, Roy, Emery and Ann for all you did to help make the office and the open house a success.

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Monica Hebert and Cliff Tresner Exhibit Work

The Shepis Presents Works By Monica Hebert | Cliff Tresner Shows at Monroe Regional Airport

HE SHEPIS MUSEUM IS PLEASED TO PRESENT AN exhibition of works featuring Monica Hebert. Her exhibition, “I CAME HOME” will run from May 1st through May 31st with an open reception Thursday, May 11, 2019 during the Blend of the River 2019, from 6-9pm. Ms. Hebert, a Lake Charles native returned home 9 years ago, after living in other parts of the country including NYC and Washington, DC. All of the works in the exhibition of Ms. Hebert have been created upon her return home. Living away for so many years impacted her approach to art and her focus including opportunities to learn from others at the famed Art Students League of New York City. Come and see this wonderful showcase at the Schepis Museum with works for purchase during the showcase. The Schepis Museum strives to bring about an appreciation of the arts and an awareness of local heritage as well as educating the citizenry toward preservation of the arts and our heritage though exhibits and programs. For nearly 25 years the Schepis Museum, its friends and community supporters have been driven to create a resource in the community for the showcase of the arts. Visit us anytime – our normal hours are M-Sat 10-5. More online at www.schepismuseum.com or email schepismuseum1916@gmail.com for more information.

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LIFFORD TRESNER, ASSOCIATE PROFESSOR AND Program Coordinator in the University of Louisiana Monroe School of Visual and Performing Arts, has a new exhibit at the Monroe Regional Airport. The solo exhibition of sculpture and painting is in The Gallery by Origin Bank. The show’s title is “Rough Around the Edges” and it will run through October 6th. Tresner’s exhibit, “Tripping Over Cypress,” is currently showing at the Paul and Lulu Hilliard University Art Museum in Lafayette. The show runs through August 10th. According to hilliardmuseum.org, “’Tripping Over Cypress’ is an examination of how the artist Cliff Tresner places himself within the literal and cultural landscape of Louisiana …” Tresner’s work, “Tower of Babel” is on display on the Yokna Sculpture Trail in Oxford, Miss., for the 2019-20 season. He is part of an invitational exhibition at Middle Tennessee State University with the creation “Intersections.” Tresner is the William D. Hammond Endowed Professor of Liberal Arts and director of Bry Gallery. In 2014 he won Best in Show in the Louisiana Contemporary at the prestigious Ogden Museum of Southern Art in New Orleans.

Woodstock Furniture Revival

Local Shop Features Home Decor, Baby Clothes and More!

PRING HAS OFFICIALLY SPRUNG at Woodstock, the cute little shop located on North Third Street in the heart of Monroe’s Garden District. This month, we celebrate our eighth year and are doing some serious spring cleaning. We are making some changes and letting go of some amazing product lines that we have loved over the years. But change is good and we are ready for it! While I have two precious little girls, Woodstock is my first baby so its only appropriate we celebrate our birthday on Mother’s Day weekend. We will have a birthday party on Saturday, May 11th where you can shop, sip and save! We will offer huge discounts on some of the lines we are letting go. These include Lollia, a line of soaps, lotions and perfumes full of lovely details, blushing fragrances and flirtatious touches and Voluspa candles and their exquisite scents, in their cool and colorful containers. While we are sad to say

good-bye to these favs, we are looking forward to a fresh start and sharing new things with you. Our birthday party will be Mother’s Day weekend so it will also be a great time to grab some last minute gifts for mom! If your mom has a green thumb, she will love one of our planters or containers. We have plenty in stock and they would look great throughout the home or outside on the porch or patio. We have a variety of books that any mom will love as well - from gardening to cookbooks to charcuterie how tos. If she appreciates the finer things in life, she will certainly love a piece of original artwork from local artist, Caroline Youngblood. We also have plenty of candles and every mom loves a candle! And if you and your mom love to be #twinning, get the two of you matching Mr. P’s Tees. There are plenty of cute designs from the local t-shirt company! Some of our favorites include the magnolia and

the Parish Pecan Company with a super cute squirrel. Speaking of moms, if you are a new mom, we have everything you need for your precious little one! Our baby room is full of blankets, pajamas, bibs and more from KicKee Pants, L’ovedbaby, Cooper Pearl, Little Unicorn, Angel Dear and more! Be sure to follow us on Facebook to see the latest announcements on our sale! We will have some super exciting news this summer and can’t wait to share it with y’all! Thank you for supporting Woodstock over the last eight years and we look forward to celebrating with y’all on Saturday, May 11!

Chelsie

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Shop & Stroll Downtown West Monroe Antique Alley

NTIQUE ALLEY HAS MORE boutiques than antiques, however, our selection of shops allows you to find items from past and present, from Europe to America, children’s clothing to ladies apparel, houseware to gourmet spices, and handmade crafts to custom jewelry. Stroll down the Alley and you’ll be ready to spend the day shopping, dining, exploring, or walking through history. No shop is the same and there is always something new to find. Be cautioned, it may take more than one day! Thankfully we have a B&B here on the Alley! It seems there is always something happening on The Alley, just to mention a few… • Cotton Port Historic District Mardi Gras Festival which features the PAWS Pet Parade, along with vendors and music is held the morning of the Mardi Gras Parade. • Bi-Monthly Downtown Art Crawl sponsored by the Downtown Art Alliance. • Ouachita Live – A free outdoor live concert

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held the last Friday of the month April – October 5:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. • Downtown Spring Arts Festival held the First Saturday in May. • Downtown West Monroe Revitalization Group Wild Wild West Street Dance – held in the fall in late September, early October. • Holiday Open House held the First Sunday of November. • Shop Small Saturday takes place the Saturday following Thanksgiving. • And our favorite time of the year Christmas on The River! Activities include outdoor movies, walk-thru light displays, wagon rides and much more. The event starts the Friday after Thanksgiving and runs through New Year’s Day. You can enjoy breakfast, lunch or dinner at one of our downtown eating establishments. Grab a book from the Little Free Library and just enjoy an afternoon reading. Most people know it’s the perfect photo spot for homecoming, prom, or family gatherings.

Antique Alley has over 30 different shops, stores, and restaurants, so there really is something for everyone in Downtown West Monroe. Bring your Mom out to shop our SHOP & STROLL event, May 9th from 5-8pm. Tickets are $25 per person and can be purchased at Eventbright.com. Tickets include a Swag Bag, afternoon tea, sandwiches and entry for prizes, including a Grand Door Prize. Special promotions and sales at participating merchants will be available. It’s sure to be a great event right before Mother’s Day weekend. We hope to see you in Downtown West Monroe! Follow us on Facebook at Antique Alley-West Monroe for more information on upcoming events.

Southern Staging

You Only Get One Chance to Make a First Impression

HEN SELLING A HOME THE, FIRST IMPRESSION matters. Homebuyers want more than a house; they want a home within which they will build their lives. As they browse through Zillow, realtor.com, etc., they’re subconsciously envisioning what that life would look like in each available property. Then, as they’re walking through the doors for a showing, they’re really envisioning their lives in that space. Two things are important here: First, as realtors, we have to recognize that the home search now typically begins online. The old saying that “a picture’s worth a thousand words” is true here; only with real estate, the pictures used can be the determining factor in whether or not a potential buyer chooses to go see a house in person or just keeps on clicking. Bad photographs of an empty room do not do the property justice. Next, we must keep in mind that people are looking for a home. They want a space that’s inviting, where they can take refuge after the end of a long day, raise their children, spend time with their friends and loved ones, or where they can simply enjoy being still. The “wow” factor of a home doesn’t hurt either. This is where staging is important. Home staging is more than filling a room with furniture and décor: it’s allowing a home to shine for its uniqueness and highlighting what makes it special. Great home staging utilizes furnishings that compliment the home and allows it to appeal to the widest possible variety of homebuyers. It allows them to envision themselves living their daily lives there, and gives the property a feeling of “home.” Statistically, “77% of buyers find it ‘easier to visualize the property as their future homes’ when it’s staged,” according to the National Association of Realtors. Surveys have also shown that up to “68% of staged homes sell for at least 9% more than their unstaged neighbor’s homes.” Katie Phillips and Dani Manning, realtors with Green Star Realty in Monroe, have seen firsthand the power of staging. Out of a desire to provide their clients a service that would set their homes apart from the rest, they created Southern Staging. Whether you have one room that you think buyers need help visualizing, or need staging for the entire house, they can help you give your property its best chance to sell quickly, and for top dollar. Because Dani and Katie are both licensed realtors, they’re also able to work with their clients as a one-stop shop when selling. From staging to listing and closing, and everything in between, Southern Staging can help. For more information, you can check them out atwww. southernstagingco.com, or on Instagram as SouthernStaging, or on Facebook as Southern Staging.

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Virtuoso Welcomes Amie Smith Have Luggage, Will Travel

HERE’S NOTHING MORE EXCITING than booking a vacation! But before you go chasing an online deal, take a second to consider booking through a Travel Advisor. Amie Smith, a longtime Monroe resident, is your ticket to paradise! Amie’s love of travel and adventure have now brought her to For Travelers Only, a Virtuoso affiliated luxury travel agency based out of Ridgeland, Mississippi. Amie serves as their independent travel advisor for all of Northeast Louisiana. As a lifetime resident of Monroe, Amie along with her husband Brad and their two children have roots here in Northeast Louisiana. Amie is excited to launch this new chapter in her career and excited to help you begin to check off your travel bucket list.

WHAT IS VIRTUOSO?

Virtuoso is the leading luxury travel network of invitation-only advisors, tour providers, cruise lines, hotels, and on-site

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representatives. Virtuoso travel advisors draw upon first-hand experience and unparalleled connections to partner with clients to craft the perfect vacation. Travelers will also enjoy value added to their vacations such as room upgrades, daily breakfast, early or late checkin, and resort food and beverage credits. WHY USE A VIRTUOSO TRAVEL ADVISOR?

Just as you might use a financial planner, an interior designer, or personal shopper, it makes sense to entrust your most valuable asset – your time – to an experienced travel advisor. The best advisors spend a lot of time on the road themselves – scouting out hotels, deepening relationships with tour guides, and finding the best restaurants and things to do. A Virtuoso travel advisor elevates every trip. They know how to get the best value for your time and money, and, thanks to their global connections, they can make you an instant

VIP at hotels, on cruise lines, on tours, and more. Travel advisors provide a safety net during your trip that you simply won’t get by booking yourself. Amie will be available to you during your vacation to solve any issues that may arise while traveling. Amie believes, “The best moments in life happen when you’re seeing the world with the people you love.” Amie would love to book your family vacations, honeymoons, adventure travel, group travel, or any kind of travel that is right for you. Whether you know where you want to go or are looking for inspiration, Amie can be a resource to help you design your perfect vacation. Contact Amie today to create a custom itinerary with value-added amenities and unique experiences for your next trip!

Twin City Granite Connects With The Community The Kress Building Project

AYLOR BENNETT,THE CO-DESIGNER for the newly renovated Kress Building, says that “when Christie Echols and I were designing the Kress Building in Downtown Monroe, we used Twin City Granite for our countertops. Having worked with them before, I knew their pricing was always fair and the service was top notch.” With hundreds of types of material to choose from, Twin City Granite specializes in the fabrication and installation of granite, marble and engineered quartz countertops. They don’t just stop at countertops either, they also do tub decks, fireplace surrounds, outdoor kitchens and the list goes on. When making decisions for the countertops at the Kress Building Bennett recalls, “I knew in some of the units I wanted to use a white quartz and some would get a black Nero granite. Joe and Ashley at Twin City Granite were so helpful in the beginning process as we looked over the plans to figure

out how we could get the most out of each slab with very little waste.” Twin City Granite has many different edges to complete the look of the granite/ marble/quartz that each customer can pick out. They also have vanity and kitchen sinks to purchase. They are professional in every aspect and will work hard to ensure that every customer is happy with their choice to use Twin City Granite. “From the time the order was placed, it was only 2-3 weeks before Chuck and the guys had it all installed. Have I mentioned it was all on the second floor? They had to get it up a flight of stairs and maneuver it through long hallways, and they did it without ever complaining. I will surely work with them on some of my upcoming projects,” says Bennett. Twin City Granite is a locally owned business located in the heart of Monroe, LA and loves being involved in the community. Bennett states, “I love working with companies

who give back to the community. They sponsor the St Jude Dream Home which I’m also involved with.” Owner Joe Gremillion and his team are always working on local projects. They have a local store front and showroom where customers can come see and feel the slabs that they are choosing. Twin City Granite is an authorized dealer and fabricator of Prestige, Caesarstone, Silestone, Vicostone, Cambria and Zodiac engineered surfaces. Owner Joe Gremillion and his team are considerate and friendly and will work closely with each and every customer to ensure the best options for them. Stop by their showroom at 300 N Stanley Ave in Monroe or give them a call at 318-654-7487 to get started on your dream home!

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Fancy Fox Boutique

Celebrating Their First Year of Business

HE FANCY FOX FIRST OPENED THEIR DOORS ON Mother’s Day last year, May 12th. With outstanding support from the community over the first year they were able to grow and expand the store to bring this area more high quality products at reasonable prices. Their belief that children deserve the best but parents don’t need to break the bank to make that happen, has stayed true through their first year and will continue to do so. To celebrate their first year of business, The Fancy Fox is having a giant Mother’s Day Sale! Come by and enjoy some lemonade, cookies and mini cupcakes. For the entire Mother’s Day Weekend there will be 20% discount store wide! Just in time for warmer weather, don’t miss this awesome event and be sure to bring the babies by, as well. Quality products at affordable prices is what The Fancy Fox is all about. They will have boys and girls clothes, shoes and accessories. Their sizes range from newborn to tween. Monogramming is also provided. They also carry car seat covers, bows, beach towels just in time for summer, and much more. Summer styles are pouring in daily. Fourth of July sets are coming for boy and girls. Also, infant and toddler fishing tees are perfect for warmer weather and are easily monogrammed. Sandals, tanks, swimsuits and bright colors, summer is always the season with the most fun. Not only a clothing store, The Fancy Fox has baby gifts as well. They have calendar blankets, diaper bags, bows, popsicle sleeves and more. Their inventory is constantly changing, so be sure to stop by the store often to see what’s new. The Fancy Fox has also doubled in size! They have grown into the space next door and are now able to bring this area even more products at affordable prices. With this move they are also able to spread out and make the shopping experience even better. Crystal, the owner, is a mother of two and understands that it’s not always easy to get out with the little ones. Children, of course, are welcome and Crystal has even supplied a children’s corner for kids to play while the mamas shop. Follow them on Facebook for pre-order sales and new items! The Fancy Fox 200 Bell Ln. West Monroe, LA 318-614-5097

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Decorative Concrete Coatings

Creating Custom Designs For Over 27 Years

INCE 1993, DECORATIVE CONCRETE COATINGS HAS been serving the Arkansas, Louisiana & Mississippi areas. A family owned business, Billy, Shirley and Chad are active members in our community. For many years they have participated in the St. Jude house and were excited to be a part of the St. Jude house this year, as well. Decorative Concrete Coatings is very involved with Northeast La. Homebuilders Association. Shirley has served as president twice and been on the Board of Directors for 12 years. She has also served on the Louisiana State Board for many years. Their decorative form of concrete is an excellent accent for any commercial or residential setting. They have been trained by numerous companies and over the years have mastered and perfected their service and skills. When you want beautiful, artful, original concrete Decorative Concrete Coatings has just what you are looking for. With summer right around the corner they can help make your pool area look amazing and be the paradise you always wanted. With custom concrete decks, furniture, waterfalls and water features, they can transform your outdoor area into the perfect place to relax. They can even make pool decks non-skid for safety. For other outdoor needs they also build concrete waterfalls, logos, rock features and rubber safety surfaces for playgrounds. Adding a decorative driveway or walkway to a home can truly tie together the exterior of a home or business. For interior settings, Decorative Concrete Coatings has unlimited options. From walls to seamless concrete countertops, stained floors and nonskid garage floors, they can do it all. Brick, stone or slate look they can do it. All of their work is custom and can be applied in an unlimited combination of patterns, colors, textures and designs. Whether you own a home, business, or industrial facility, Decorative Concrete Coatings can completely change the way people look at your space, for an affordable price. Services offered include: Stains • Overlays • Stamping Concrete Counter-Tops • Waterfalls • Faux Stones Rubber Playground Turf • Concrete Furniture • Logos Vertical or Horizontal Concrete • Interior or Exterior Residential or Commercial Contact Chad or Shirley at 318-398-1885 for help with your project. They would be more than happy to give you a free estimate and work with you to make your dream a reality. Visit their website at artonconcrete.com or on Facebook @DecorativeConcreteCoatings for more information and images of their work. WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM | MAY 2019 199

Antique Mall with Something for Everyone Cotton Port Antique Mall

STABLISHED IN 1997, COTTON Port Antique Mall has been a fixture of downtown West Monroe’s Antique Alley for over 22 years. Owners Ben and Suzie Cooper have always enjoyed the antique and collectible market. They searched the Southeast for many years to add to their own collections. By 1997, this hobby turned into a business and Cotton Port Antique Mall opened. With over 15 dealers, Cotton Port Antique Mall has an inventory that changes daily. Frank’s Sports Collectibles has sports cards, vintage pennants, old programs and magazines, as well as other sports related items. If you are looking for items to fill your farmhouse or Shabby Chic style, you will definitely find something in Shabby Garden’s booth. Just Blue by Sue has many Louisiana themed gifts, candles, and coasters and great selection of blue & white pieces. Cotton

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Port’s booth has anything you can think of to begin or add to a collection: old coins, vintage lunch boxes, pottery, kitchenware, political buttons, cast iron, advertising, tools, bottles, glassware and so much more. If it is books you love, Yellow Rose has several shelves full, plus a great selection of religious items. Boyce’s Antiques and Collectibles booth is full of old toys, dolls, and other collectibles. C&M Collectibles’s booth is full of Coca Cola collectibles and more. You will definitely find your new favorite sterling jewelry piece or a sterling charm to add to your bracelet in J.Rob’s Antique booth. If you are having a tea party, you can find everything you need to set a beautiful table down to a tablecloth from Tesoros de Taylor. Brides love to receive sterling serving pieces as a gift. Antiques D’Argent’s booth has everything from sterling forks and spoons to ice tongs and carving sets and has vintage baby pieces. If it is vintage

vinyl you are after, make your way to the back of the store and check out our large selection of vinyl. Cotton Port Antique Mall is not just antiques. TNT Treasures has local honey and homemade goats milk soap and A Little Louisiana Lagniappe Co. is fully stocked with original t-shirts from size small to XXXL. Coming soon a dealer who designs her own unique pieces from vintage jewelry. Whether you are decorating your home, adding to a collection, looking for a gift, or just want to browse, you will want to spend your day at Cotton Port Antique Mall. Make sure to follow us on Facebook and Instagram to see the latest merchandise being added to the store. Cotton Port Antique Mall is located at 323 Trenton Street Downtown West Monroe. We are open Tuesday thru Saturday from 10:00 a.m. to 5:00 p.m. and later during special events.

Key Millwork and Supply Company Time to Complete Your Kitchen with the New COVE Dishwasher

ITH LONGER DAYLIGHT hours, TIME is what it’s all about! Shorten your clean-up time in the kitchen with the only dishwasher that has SUB-ZERO and WOLF in its DNA. Since 1945, SUB-ZERO has been making refrigerators that set new standards for freshness, durability and design. In 2000, WOLF became its kitchen companion, bringing professional level cooking performance to residential customers. Now COVE is here, making clean-up a part of the trilogy you will find in the world’s finest kitchens … in YOUR kitchen! COVE dishwashers, the newest member to this elite team, clean to a higher standard. They’re built to ensure that each dish and utensil - including heavy saucepans, wire whisks and even delicate china dishes - emerge from the dishwasher spotlessly clean and dry. With a vast array of custom wash and dry combinations, COVE offers a clean beyond

anything you’ve seen. Each and every COVE appliance is rigorously stress-tested to perform for over twenty years of daily use and is backed by the strongest warranty in the industry. Its near-silent operation enables the dinner conversation to keep flowing while the dishes are being cleaned. The dishwasher may be your hardest-working appliance, so it should be the most durable. COVE appliances are made in the USA with premium-grade materials and include a five-year warranty. Custom handles, custom cabinetry, custom interior configurations... Cove is your flexible partner that never competes with the style of a room or the lifestyle of its owner. Thoughtfully designed with adjustable interiors, customizable exterior finishes, and the best warranty available, Cove is simply a more enlightened way to wash. Key Millwork has been in Monroe for

over 45 years, helping create “timeless” living spaces for our customers. We are excited about displaying the Cove, the newest addition to our fine lines of appliances. Watch for its arrival in our showrooms in May. In addition to helping you with all of your appliance decisions, our experienced staff can assist you with Andersen Doors and Windows, The Galley Workstation, Wellborn Cabinets, Artistic Tile, cabinetry and door hardware, and more! With our feet planted in the future, we are excited about Monroe’s downtown energy, and investments being made in surrounding areas. It is a statement expressing a need for OUR services for years to come. It is satisfying to see the reinvestment in our community because it signifies that Northeast Louisiana truly is a quality place to live. Key Millwork and Supply… making YOUR dream home come true!

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bayouhealth Don’t Blame Your Age Blame Your Stress How chronically elevated cortisol disrupts your entire hormonal symphony, and simple tricks for keeping your system in tune. ARTI CL E B Y SH A NNO N DA H LUM P H OTO GRAP H Y B Y JA MIE DAHLUM SHUTTERSTOCK IMAGE

s moms, we’re notoriously good at taking care of everyone but ourselves. We make sure our kids are fed before school, but we rush out the door without eating. We get them to bed early enough so they have a solid night’s sleep, while we stay up late finishing laundry. We endlessly drive our kids to their practices, games and lessons, but don’t make time to drive ourselves to that yoga or painting class we’ve been interested in. We wear “being busy” like a badge of honor and feel like we’re shirking our mom duties if we set aside any time for ourselves. Before we know it, excess weight has begun creeping on, along with mood swings, hot flashes, insomnia, infertility, menstrual imbalances, insatiable cravings, a crashed libido, fatigue, you name it… and we chalk it up to our age. Physical and emotional chaos has become the norm for women as we grow into our thirties and beyond, but that doesn’t mean it’s supposed to happen. Hormonal upheaval isn’t a normal side effect of getting older; it’s a side effect of chronically elevated cortisol. It’s the number of years we’ve bathed our bodies in stress that have taken their toll on us; not simply the number of years we’ve been alive. This is good news, because while we can’t control how long ago we were born, we can certainly control our levels of stress.

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T HE P R E G N E N O LO N E ST EA L

Pregnenolone is known as the “mother hormone.” It’s created from cholesterol, and then goes on to build estrogen, progesterone, testosterone, DHEA and cortisol. In fact, without pregnenolone, we wouldn’t have any of the other hormones our bodies need. When all of these hormones are produced in the correct amounts, at the correct times, everything functions as it should. These hormones all operate together like a beautifully composed symphony. Each one plays a very important part, and when one isn’t performing correctly, it just makes everything else sound a little bit off. Cortisol is one of our stress hormones, and like all other hormones, it plays a vital role in maintaining our balanced symphony. I imagine cortisol to be the base drum. During intense parts of the performance the drum takes the lead while the other instruments disappear into the background. This intense part, or apex, of the piece doesn’t last very long, though. Soon, the drum settles back down and the other instruments pipe back up again.

Add a squeeze of fresh lime to your water to help enhance its absoption. These citrus juices contain the minerals needed to help that water get inside our cells and properly hydrate our bodies.

TU RNIN G O F F T HE CO RTISOL CASCADE

Believe it or not, we’re in control of how much cortisol we produce. It isn’t necessarily what we do that sends danger signals to our brains, but how we do those things. Taking better care of ourselves doesn’t have to mean overhauling our schedules or figuring out how to add hours to our days! It just means we need to be more mindful about how we do the things we’re already doing. The things we already do every day, no matter how busy we are, include eating, breathing and holding some form of posture, moving, and resting. And we do all of these things in some sort of environment. Right? The way we do each of those things can contribute to either creating excess cortisol or turning it off. Not having time to take care of ourselves is no longer an excuse! Here’s how we can fit some cortisol-busting, hormone-balancing, self care in to what we’re already doing.

NUT R I T I O N

When it comes to nutrition, there are two things that add stress to our bodies: deficiency and toxicity. Not getting enough of what we need is a signal to our brains that we’re starving, and this triggers the cortisol response. Getting too much of what our bodies don’t need can lead to increased inflammation as well, and this, too, will flip on that cortisol switch. For proper functioning our bodies require adequate amounts of protein, healthy fats, complex carbohydrates, and plenty of micronutrients, along with water. Micronutrients are vitamins, minerals, and other natural compounds found in organic plants and naturally raised animal products. When we lack any of these important elements in our diets, our brains assume we’re starving, so cortisol production kicks up a notch, and cravings kick in. Of course, we don’t tend to crave the healthy things we so desperately need! When we’re depleted in nutrients our brains search for some fast fuel. The fastest fuel available comes in the form of sugar, refined carbs, caffeine and alcohol. And that brings us to the problem of toxicity. To avoid toxicity in our diets, it’s vital to avoid excess caffeine, alcohol, sugar and refined carbohydrates; those things we so desperately crave when we’re producing excess cortisol. That morning cup of coffee is fine, but if hormonal imbalance is a problem, more than one cup won’t be doing our bodies any favors. Alcohol, sweets, and prepackaged snack foods are

best avoided completely, because of the inflammation they create. When cravings for these inflammatory, cortisol boosting foods feel out of our control, it can be a sign that we need to increase our intake of all the nutrient dense foods we need. When our brains are satisfied that we’re properly nourished, those cravings will subside. As I mentioned earlier, it’s not only what we do, but how we do it that matters. This applies to eating, too. How often do we eat on the run, shoving something in our mouths while heading out the door, driving down the road, or cranking out some work in front of the computer? When we eat this way, our brains really have no idea we’ve even eaten. Because we were focused on getting out the door, driving, or working, our brains didn’t even have a chance to understand that there was food going in. Instead of focusing on other things we need to make it a point to take a few minutes to enjoy our meals. It’s important to sit down, see, smell and actually taste our food. Eating in a relaxed, state while focusing on nothing but the food in front of us, turns off the cortisol switch and turns on our digestive processes. Our bodies simply can’t digest well when we eat under stress, and this leads to all sorts of digestive problems and, you guessed it, even more cortisol. In addition to providing our bodies with nutrient dense foods, making sure our cells stay hydrated is an important part of keeping cortisol levels low. To stay properly hydrated, we should focus on increasing our water intake between meals. A simple rule of thumb is to start with a glass of water before our first meal of the day, and end with another after supper. Including three glasses between breakfast and lunch, and another three between lunch and dinner, will ensure that we get in a full eight glasses of water each day. Just because we’re drinking water, though, doesn’t mean it’s actually reaching our cells. Without some necessary minerals it’s possible the water we drink is going straight through us! Adding a squeeze of fresh lemon or lime to each glass of water with help enhance its absorption. These citrus juices contain the minerals needed to help that water get inside our cells and properly hydrate our bodies.

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Pictured is a simple high intensity circuit you can do at home in only 12 minutes

SQUAT JUMPS

Do each of the following exercises for 30 seconds, followed by a 30 second rest. Move as quickly as you can during each exercise, completing as many reps as possible. After resting for 30 seconds, move to the next exercise. Complete 3 rounds of the circuit. Increase the intensity by increasing the length of the work interval and decreasing the rest time. 1. Squats or squat jumps 2. Mountain Climbers 3. P ushups (Make it easier: elevate your upper body on a bench or table. Make it harder: elevate your feet.) 4. Jump rope (Don’t have one? Try jumping jacks!)

BR EATHIN G AND POST URE

When we’re startled, we gasp. A gasp is a shallow breath from our chest which sends an immediate signal to our brains that we’re in a dangerous situation. This shallow chest breath is one way that our bodies tell our brains to release cortisol. The problem is that most of us breathe shallowly from our chests all the time, and not only when we’re in danger! The diaphragm is our breathing muscle, and it lies across the base of our ribcage. In order to properly use the diaphragm for breathing it’s imperative that we’re sitting or standing with good posture. When we’re slouching our diaphragm isn’t able to contract properly, and this forces us to utilize the muscles in our chest, upper back, and shoulders instead. Rather than feeling our ribcage expand outward when we inhale, we may feel our chest and shoulders rise up. This indicates shallow chest breathing, and it signals to our brains that we must be in danger. Rather than simply breathing all day, our brains sense that we’re continuously gasping in surprise or fear. In response to this signal, it releases life-saving cortisol to help us escape. Paying attention to our posture and our breath is something we can do anytime throughout the day. Rather than pulling out our phones for distraction while waiting in line or at a stoplight, let’s pay attention to our breathing. We can immediately decrease our perception of stress simply by sitting or standing taller, in a position that exudes confidence, and focusing on breathing from the base of our ribcage. Not only will a confident posture lend itself to proper breathing, but the posture itself will decrease cortisol. Confident body language is yet another signal to our brains that our bodies are safe, at ease, and in control.

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MOVEMENT

Some form of exercise or movement is something we all know we need to do regularly. But if chronically elevated cortisol is an issue, then adding in too much high intensity exercise can throw our hormonal balance even farther out of whack. High intensity exercise (exercise that makes holding a conversation difficult, and makes your muscles burn) should be limited to two to three times per week, and is best kept to 20 minutes or less at a time. Weight lifting can be done 4-5 times per week, and each training session should be finished within 45 minutes. These styles of training done more frequently or for longer periods of time may cause an excessive rise in cortisol that’s difficult for our bodies to overcome. This is great news for us time-crunched moms. Consistent low intensity exercise should be a part of our daily routines, as well. During low intensity movement we should be able to easily hold a conversation; things like walking and stretching are good examples. Regular movement increases circulation and gets our lymphatic systems moving. The lymphatic system is one of our bodies’ main detoxification systems, and without regular movement, it becomes stagnant. This leads to a buildup of toxins

and fluid in our systems, which is another form of stress. It can be easy to work in more low intensity movement by adding small amounts here and there. Instead of walking to the bathroom or water cooler that’s closest to our desks, we can go to the farthest one. Getting in some frequent movement during work enhances brain activity and will help us perform better mentally, too. If we arrive a few minutes early to pick up the kids from practice, we can hop out and take a walk around the parking lot, rather than sitting in the car and checking Instagram. Parking toward the back of the parking lot when we go to the store and taking the stairs instead of the elevator are tips we’ve all heard before, but it’s because they work. Another simple way to include some healthy movement is to throw in a stretch every time we approach a sink to brush our teeth, wash our hands, or wash the dishes. Including regular bouts of daily movement and several short sessions of high intensity exercise each week can be really simple. There’s no need to complicate it with trips to the gym or expensive equipment if that feels daunting. We can simply make use of our own bodyweight and the space in and around our homes to get our heart rates up.

PUS HU P VAR I AT I ON

TO M A K E I T HA RDE R

REST

TO M A K E I T E A S I E R

REG U L A R PU SH U P

Sleep is when our bodies do most of their work on rebuilding and detoxifying. Inadequate amounts of quality of sleep will rob our bodies of necessary healing time and leads to excess cortisol. Regularly getting a minimum of seven hours of sleep, at regular times, is needed to maintain a healthy hormonal balance. To maximize the quality of our sleep it’s important that we’ve finished digesting our dinner before hitting the sack. Dinner needs to be finished a minimum of two hours before bedtime, but three would be better. Having food in our bellies to digest diverts energy away from detoxification in order to deal with digestion. It can also lead to blood sugar dips in the middle of the night, which may spike cortisol and wake us up. Alcohol before bed can have the same effect. We may feel like it helps us fall asleep, but it actually causes the quality of our sleep to suffer. In order to maximize tissue regeneration and detoxification, we need to shut the lights off by 10:30pm. This is in line with our hormonal cycles; getting off track with this schedule will cause our hormone production to get off track, too. When we stay awake past 10:00pm to watch one more episode of Game of Thrones, our brains increase cortisol production to help us stay up. And this causes our “fall asleep” hormones, like melatonin, to drop and make it even more difficult to fall asleep once the episode is over. Not only is our hormonal balance more important than the next episode of our favorite Netflix show, it’s also more important than the dirty dishes in the sink and the laundry that needs to be folded. I know, that’s easier said than done. Rather than forcing ourselves to stay up and finish more chores, or lay awake tossing and turning, worrying about all that needs to be done, it can help to write these items down. Getting our to-do lists and worries out of our heads and onto a sheet of paper is a simple way to help turn off our spinning minds. It can help just to know that to-do list is there for us to take car of the following day. We’ll also be able to accomplish those tasks and tend to those worries more productively after a good night of rest.

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Establishing a nightly ritual can be a game changer when it comes to being able to fall asleep. Watching a TV, computer or phone screen after dark can signal to our brains that it’s day time, because of the light they emit. Instead of watching electronics, it would be far more beneficial for us to pick up the latest issue of Bayou Life Magazine or a book to read. If giving up screen time isn’t an option, we can at least put our phones in night mode, install software like “f.lux” on our computers, or wear blue light blocking glasses to watch TV. All of these are ways to block the blue light emitted by these screens, which trick our brains into believing it’s still daytime. Taking a warm bath in the evening can also promote better sleep. The warm water is soothing and once we get out, our body temperature drops, which helps us drift off. Writing in a gratitude journal, focusing on our breathing, and doing some gentle stretches are all great ways we can prepare our minds and bodies to ease into sleep.

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ENVIRONMENT

Our environment today is loaded with toxins, and unfortunately, the air inside our homes can be up to ten times more harmful than outdoor air pollution. These toxins create a burden inside our bodies and become yet another form of stress and chronically elevated cortisol. The good news though, is that we can control what we’re exposed to in our own homes. We can vastly decrease the toxin exposure we receive by eliminating the use of household cleaners, fragrances, and body care products that contain synthetic chemicals, and swap them for natural alternatives. Our bodies absorb toxins from our environment through inhalation and by absorbing them through our skin. When we absorb synthetic chemicals, our cells don’t recognize them and we can have a hard time eliminating them. When we can’t get rid of them, our bodies keep us safe by tucking these toxic ingredients away in our fat cells. This keeps them out of our blood stream where they would do more harm. This leads to excess fat storage, though, a resistance to fat loss, and a continued cascade of elevated cortisol and hormonal imbalances. Molecules from plants closely resemble molecules in our own bodies and they can actually work to support our health and detoxification processes. For example, the naturally occurring plant chemicals present in essential oils are easily absorbed into our bodies and communicate effortlessly with our own cells. They speak our language. Because our bodies recognize them, they are easily metabolized and don’t build up in our systems. As an added bonus, they can even promote our health in a number of ways, like supporting our immune systems, as well as emotional and hormonal balance. Swapping out synthetic chemical based products in our homes for natural alternatives is easy and doesn’t have to be expensive. Instead of burning candles with artificial fragrances, we can diffuse essential oils in an ultrasonic diffuser. They make our homes smell good and even cleanse the air we breathe; our artificially fragranced candles can’t do that! Instead of using cleaners with harsh synthetic chemicals or skincare products with artificial fragrances, dyes and preservatives, we can easily and inexpensively make our own products. On the opposite page are a couple of simple recipes you can use to create healthier alternatives for cleaning your home and your skin.

This Mother’s Day I hope you allow yourself some time to kick your feet up, put yourself first, and decrease your stress. But focusing on stress relief only one day every year isn’t nearly enough to support a healthy hormonal balance. With your busy to do lists and family responsibilities, managing that cortisol cascade is something that requires your consistent attention. But now you know that by simply altering the ways in which you do the things you’re already doing, you can make a big impact on your stress levels, and as a result, your entire hormonal symphony.

All Purpose Spray Cleaner

ALL PURPOSE SPRAY CLEANSER

FOAMING FACE WASH

In a 16oz glass spray bottle, combine: 1/4 cup of white vinegar 1 3/4 cups of water (distilled is preferable) 30 drops of essential oils of choice

In a 6oz foaming soap bottle, combine: 2/3 cup liquid Castile soap 1 teaspoon vitamin E 1 teaspoon jojoba oil 60-80 drops of essential oils

Add your essential oils to the bottle first. Some of my favorite combos are equal parts of lavender, lemon and peppermint, or lemon, cinnamon and clove. Add the vinegar next, then top off with water. Be sure to leave enough space at the top of your bottle to put the spray top on without spilling!

Then, slowly add 1/3 cup of water (distilled is preferable.) For skin cleansing, tea tree, lavender and rosemary essential oils are great choices.

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Restoring Both Properties and Lives SERVPRO® of Monroe/West Monroe

ITH EVERY FLOOD COMES A flood of emotions, with every fire, a momentary spark of uncertainty and loss of control. When it’s your home, your business or your belongings that become damaged, you don’t just want things clean you want your life back. That’s where SERVPRO® comes in. SERVPRO® of Monroe/West Monroe has been a member of your local community more than 20 years. Don Legg and his capable teams are here to provide help when you need it most. We help commercial clients get back to business and minimize downtime and help homeowners get things back to normal. Our crew leaders, Calvin Blunt, Ken Tillman, Shane Snyder, William Roegner and Thomas Southern, are trained and certified to the highest industry standards set by the IICRC. This team provides Monroe and the surrounding areas with excellent customer service, step-by-step communication and

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reassurance that everything will be taken care of. This type of service distinguishes SERVPRO® of Monroe/West Monroe as a leader in mitigation/restoration services in our area. Our professional management team made up of Don Legg, Steve Whipple and Damian “Hutch” Hutchinson, offer constant communication with insurance companies and adjusters to help ensure you have less stress and the most reassurance. SERVPRO® of Monroe/West Monroe is capable of cleaning and restoring a fire, mold or water-damaged property and its contents, including wall, ceiling and floor surfaces; furniture; fabric; fixtures and more. We also offer cleaning and restoration of special items, such as: HVAC duct systems; building exteriors; electronic equipment, including computers; and documents that have sustained water damage. Once the damaged property is cleaned,

our sister company, 318 Construction, LLC managed by Jon McCartney, can help put your home or business back together. Our team can help you recover and rebuild by providing thorough construction services in a timely manner. SERVPRO® of Monroe/West Monroe and 318 Construction, LLC are dedicated to restoring both the property and the lives of their customers; like it was never dirty; like it never overflowed; like it never caught fire; like it never spilled; like it never smoldered – whatever the case, with SERVPRO®, our goal is to make it “Like it never even happened.” SERVPRO® Monroe/West Monroe 1917 Olive Street Monroe, LA 71201 Phone: (318) 345-5121 office@servpromonroewestmonroe.com Servpromonroewestmonroe.com

Three Threads Is Now Open In West Monroe Art – Apparel – Décor

HANK YOU, 318! THE DREAM OF opening a retail space could not have happened without the support of my amazing customers, family, friends – and a lot of hard work! Three Threads officially opened its doors in February, 2019 in downtown West Monroe and we have been bringing a fresh new look for shoppers searching for one of kind art, apparel, and décor ever since. Three Threads is located on Antique Alley at 115 Cotton Street, West Monroe. The front retail space offers a fun, contemporary shopping experience unlike any other in town. While shopping for all types of unique items, customers are able to take a peek at the process behind creating my line of hand painted glassware that got me started on this journey in 2008. The glassware line is painted and shipped daily to various customers and retail shops across the country and is certainly available at Three Threads. You can come in to buy off the shelf or sit down one-on-one to

commission artwork or customize glassware that has become a staple for weddings, holidays, corporate events, and for everyday entertaining. Along with my original artwork and glassware, Three Threads seeks out products from local and international artisans to fill our shelves. We currently have an amazing line of wooden charcuterie boards and knives handcrafted in Shreveport, LA, gorgeous hand woven handbags made in Bali & Southern Vietnam, and one of a kind jewelry from female designers across the south. We strive to source small batch products that are responsibly made, without sacrificing function or beauty. Three Threads has some wonderful gift items for spring and upcoming celebrations like Mother’s Day. You can find a variety of original artwork, hand painted floral and ginger jar inspired glassware, and our line of plant based body scrubs, oils, and facemasks from Oxalis Apothecary of New Orleans. It is

hard to go wrong with any of these! Since summer is right around the corner, you’d be missing out if you did not come in and scoop up one of the Sun Jellies totes before they are gone! With a fun vintage vibe, these totes are perfect for a day at the pool, a beach vacation, or just hopping around town. Another summer essential on the shelves is a line of handcrafted cocktail and spritz syrups that are exactly what you need for making a refreshing summer drink. Just add alcohol, stir or shake, and enjoy! So if you are looking for a special gift, original artwork for your home, or accessories to complete your look, let Three Threads be your new go to shop! (Photos by: Michael Jordan)

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National Better Hearing and Speech Month ENT Associates Can Help

AR, NOSE & THROAT ASSOCIATES of Northeast Louisiana is proud to support National Better Hearing and Speech Month. If you are one of the nearly 10 million Americans over the age of 65, you likely have some difficulty hearing. The chance of developing hearing loss increases with age. We can help! WHY DO PEOPLE LOSE THEIR HEARING AS THEY AGE? Hearing loss due to the aging process is called presbycusis. As humans age, we gradually lose the small inner ear cells that detect sound. In most cases, hearing loss occurs in both ears and may affect the person’s ability to understand speech. WHY ARE SO MANY OLDER ADULTS WITH HEARING IMPAIRMENT RELUCTANT TO USE HEARING AIDS?

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Some people may not admit they are having trouble hearing. Denial is the most important barrier to hearing aid use. Common reasons people give for not getting a hearing aid: • May claim that the problem is that others are mumbling or not speaking up • Believe their hearing is not bad enough for a hearing aid • Would make them feel old • Would feel ashamed or embarrassed to wear a hearing aid • Hearing aids cost too much WHAT CAN HAPPEN IF HEARING LOSS GOES UNTREATED? • Depression • Social isolation • Decreased self esteem • Decreased ability to participate in physical and social activity

What can help older adults hear better? Working together with a qualified audiologist, older adults can evaluate the benefits of hearing aid use and learn to overcome some of the adverse effects that hearing loss can have on their quality of life. HOW TO GET STARTED? Call our office to schedule a full hearing evaluation. We can help you choose from a variety of hearing aid styles and specialty features, such as audio streaming with iPhones and fitness tracking. Let the experts at ENT Associates help you tune back into life!

Serving Graduates for Over 50 Years The Graduate Shop

UR FAMILY HAS BEEN A PART OF Graduate Sales since 1965. We have served and lived in this community for over 50 years, providing students of Northeast Louisiana traditional class rings. Not only do we service 43 high schools in the Northeast Louisiana area, we also work with University of Louisiana at Monroe and many elementary and middle schools. Although Graduate Sales has represented different manufacturers over the years, we are now representing the Balfour brand and couldn’t be more excited to bring these quality products to our area. One of the most exciting times in a young student’s life, is graduation. It is an adventure and it’s our job to help students hold on to those memories forever. Graduation is a tradition that goes back centuries and should be honored by each and every student. Some of our traditional pieces include: traditional class rings, custom school graduation

announcements, letter jackets and graduation regalia. But with tradition there must be room for growth and change. Balfour has taken traditional class rings and given them a new, more stylish design. More than that, they have created new class jewelry including necklaces and bracelets, truly catering to everyone’s personal style. Custom school graduation announcements with a personal photo printed inside are also coming soon to the inventory. All of Balfour’s products are customizable to fit your personality. Apart from class rings, we can provide custom school graduation announcements, letter jackets, championship rings, honor awards, class apparel and yearbooks. Located in the heart of Northeast Louisiana in West Monroe, our family would love nothing more than to help you plan the perfect senior year and graduation.

Looking for the perfect gift for your grad? We are now carrying the new exclusive Liz James Collection! This necklace line lets you design a personalized charm collection to tell your story. Charms are personalized with Swarovski Stones. Choose from script names, mascots, year date, faith, school color charms and more. Mix your metals to truly make it your own unique style. Not sure what to get? Go to Balfour. com, where they have unlimited gifts for any graduate. Just enter your graduate’s high school name and begin shopping all products or stop by our store on Cypress Street and let us help. We look forward to working with you and serving this community for another 50 years! - Kevin & Becky Miller

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Unique Space For Sale

Melody Olson Renovates Building in Historic Downtown West Monroe

OW IS YOUR CHANCE TO OPEN YOUR BOUTIQUE, maker’s space, studio or other local business, while living in the same space. For the past few months, local resident Melody Olson has worked to renovate the space at 308 Natchitoches, in the heart of downtown West Monroe, just steps from historic Antique Alley. This is the first space of its kind in the area. The space is approximately 1,870 square feet and includes two bedrooms and two bathrooms. The bottom floor is built to be a commercial space, while the upper level features a living area. This live-work concept is not a new idea, but rather an older idea modernized. The modern version is perfect for entrepreneurs, small business owners and professionals. When Olson developed the space, she envisioned an artist living in the space with a gallery downstairs, or a startup to use the space as an incubator of new ideas! “Often times, ideas for small businesses often start from different work spaces like a spare room at home or a garage, just think of Steve Jobs and Apple.” said Olson. “This space includes all of the amenities and features of a loft, with the added bonus of the easy accessibility of your own business.” When you live and work in the same space, this cuts your commute time to mere seconds! Not only do you not have to commute to work, you can grab lunch quickly, don’t have to worry about leaving something behind or braving hot or bad weather! Uncle Sam even sees the benefit as gives you a break when it comes to deductions on your taxes. A few years ago, CenturyLink created a Charette Report for the area, which is a way for stakeholders in a project to come together to attempt to resolve conflicts and map solutions. One of the main things they found was the need to create critical mass by bringing residential space to a commercial area and that is just what this space has done. The downtown West Monroe area has seen a resurgence in recent years and is home to many popular and successful shops, boutiques, hair salons, restaurants and more. In fact, West Monroe will apply to become a Main Street community this spring with the help of the recently appointed Downtown Manager, Adrienne LaFrance-Wells. Her job is to coordinate activities and projects in the historic district and will work with downtown business owners, property owners and local organizations to promote the area. This will continue to enhance the area and make it even more attractive to live and work. “We are home to an amazing wealth of talent, history and natural resources,” said LaFrance-Wells. “I look forward to leveraging those assets to create an atmosphere that will provide city-wide economic stability, job growth and attract new talent and industry.” The building is listed with James Douglas with Coldwell Banker Group One Realty. You can contact him at 318-307-3702 to schedule a time to see the space if you are interested in owning a piece of historic history while moving the area into the future.

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North Delta Title Company Celebrates 25 Years of Service

N MARCH 4, 1994, NORTH DELTA Title Company opened its doors. Twenty-five years later, North Delta Title has the same commitment to providing its clients with quality service and representation in a relaxed closing environment. Founding partners, Larry Mullens and Kirby Price, opened North Delta Title with the vision of providing a one-stop shop for all title services, from closing services and title insurance to legal representation. In 2011, Amy Sawyer joined the firm with the commitment to move the company forward, relying on the same vision that has propelled the company to success, while also embracing technology and the advancements in the industry. The attorneys and employees of North Delta Title are known for their high quality work and service to their clients as well as providing those services in a timely and efficient manner. They believe the exchange

of property should be a smooth process and enjoyable for both the buyers and the sellers. One satisfied client recently stated that “North Delta is efficient and effortless to work with. Their people are hands down some of the nicest and most helpful at navigating what can be a painful and scary process. I’ve used them for three different housing transactions in the last ten years and cannot tell enough people how wonderful my experiences have been with them.” North Delta Title attributes its success to its valued relationships with realtors, lenders, and clients they have had the pleasure of working with over the past twenty-five years. During that time, North Delta Title has handled more than 38,000 transactions throughout Louisiana and Mississippi. With over 95 years of combined real estate experience, North Delta Title, its staff and attorneys, have become the area’s leading authority on real estate transactions.

The real estate industry is constantly changing and with that change comes the commitment to stay current on the latest in technology, legislation and industry standards. The attorneys and staff at North Delta Title stay at the forefront of the issues affecting their industry by attending seminars, education classes, and monitoring legislative activity. Perhaps the success of the company can be summed up best in a recent comment by Amy Sawyer: “Helping someone realize the dream of home ownership and having a part in the building of our community is a rewarding way to make a living. We love what we do and thank everyone that has been a part of our success the past twenty-five years. We look forward to 25 more!”

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Rhymes Renovates and More Randy Rhymes Offers Expert Renovations and Contracting

PRING TIME IS HERE AND EVERYONE has a list of projects they want to get done at their home. Randy Rhymes is a licensed contractor and has been working on renovation, addition and construction projects around Northeast Louisiana for almost two decades. The April showers we have had lately not only bring May flowers, but they can also bring roof damage. Often times, there are strong winds, wayward limbs and even hail that can damage a roof. Randy has knowledge in roofing and has worked with insurance companies to get his customers a brand new roof. Spring is also the time that most people list their house or look for a new one. If you are getting ready to list your house and want to get maximum dollars for it, its a good idea to finish some of those projects that simply haven’t gotten done. Bathrooms and kitchen get the best return and Randy can help oversee these projects, giving you peace

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of mind and a completed project in a timely manner! If you have purchased a house that needs updating, Randy can help with that too. From replacing paneling to drywall to updating paint colors, Randy can ensure your new home is just right. When it comes to updating and renovating, you definitely want to leave the electric and plumbing to the experts. These projects can be extensive and dangerous if you don’t know what you are doing. Even if you have watched every episode of every show on HGTV, hiring a general contractor has its advantages. When you work with Randy, you save time since he is responsible for dealing with the various sub-contractors and can handle any problems that may arise. It can also save you money, since Randy has the experience and knowledge to do the job right the first time, you don’t have to spend money redoing things that went wrong.

Randy has relationships with subcontractors and suppliers that are dependable and reliable. Plus, he is licensed and insured and is knowledgeable on building codes and requirements. Now that the weather is warming up and the flowers are blooming, everyone wants to be outdoors! Randy has expertise in adding a patio, deck, porch, outdoor kitchen, fire pit area and more. One of the things he specializes in is being able to seamlessly add an addition to an existing structure. He has an appreciation for architectural detail and design, that only add to his array of skills. Randy works throughout Northeast Louisiana and can handle a variety of jobs, no matter the size. He has worked on everything from small, repair jobs to building a home, taking care of every detail. Call him today to get a free estimate for whatever job your home needs!

Landscaping and Lawn Experts

Northpro Landscaping and Lawn Care - North Louisiana’s Property Preservation Professionals

INCE 2001,NORTH PRO LANDSCAPING and Lawn Care has been serving the Northeast Louisiana area and striving to keep their customers happy. Owner Tommy Neck has expanded his business to include multiple crews, full-time office staff, and currently serves customers all over Northeast Louisiana. No job is too big or too small for Northpro, whether you are looking for help with design or maintenance. North Louisiana residents agree, as North Pro is currently doing all maintenance at the Pecanland Mall. As Northpro has also been voted Best Landscaping and Lawn Care service of the Delta over the past few years. NorthPro Landscaping and Lawncare is one of the leading full-service landscaping companies in the Monroe/West Monroe area. Our services include landscape design,

landscape maintenance, lawn care, hardscapes, water features, outdoor lighting and debris removal. We have experienced landscapers and guarantee clean, prompt and reliable service. At the age of sixteen, Tommy began mowing lawns for extra money. By the time he was out of high school, he had employees to help him maintain his large customer base. Tommy has a landscape horticulture license (#3747) and an irrigator contractor license (#0442). Now a family man with a wife, three boys, and a girl, he balances his work life with his family life working hard to promote his business and spend time with his kids. Tommy’s creativity and business sense are assets in his thriving business. He manages Northpro Landscaping and Lawn Care while keeping the same core values that the business was founded upon – clean, prompt, reliable

service the first time and every time after that. Northpro’s services include landscape design, landscape maintenance, lawn care, hardscapes, water features, outdoor lighting and debris removal. They employ experienced landscapers and guarantee clean, prompt and reliable service. Thank you so much to our loyal customers for voting us this year’s Best Yard Care. We appreciate your trust in our company. “We started with a large empty yard and not much else. Tommy Neck and the crew at NorthPro helped us develop a plan to turn our blank yard into a beautiful outdoor retreat full of inviting places to relax, play and even birdwatch! Our yard now has several interesting shady spaces we use every day. His creative mix of flowers, trees, shrubs and hardscapes transformed the way we spend our time outdoors. His crew was always professional, on time, and kept us up to date with the project. Tommy called several times to inform me of the progress and ask my preferences on plants and colors. The hardscape he designed turned out better than I imagined and the budget was exactly what he estimated. Now that the project is complete we spend more time outside than we ever have before. I get compliments on my yard at least once a week! It’s like we added on to our home because we have so much more useful space outside. Thank you Tommy Neck and your crew for making our yard nicer than we dreamed it could be!” – Rebecca Frye

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Local Lending Done Right

Marion State Bank is Your Trusted Mortgage Lender

NTERING INTO A MORTGAGE IS often times the biggest financial transaction any of us will ever make. Whether you’re a first time homebuyer, downsizing, refinancing, or anything in-between, choosing a mortgage lender for your loan can be a daunting task. Marion State Bank would love the opportunity to make your choice easier! We are a local bank with our mortgage department located in Sterlington, Louisiana. We also serve Marion State Bank’s home office in Marion and our other branches in Farmerville and the Drew (West Monroe) area. As a hometown bank, it is of the utmost importance to us to support our friends and neighbors with which we work and live. All of our underwriting and appraisals are done locally. Closing documents are prepared onsite and we utilize local title companies who are well versed in our Louisiana customs. Flexibility, versatility, and convenience is

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integral in order to meet the needs and requests of borrowers and realtors. If you can’t get to us, we will come to you to discuss your borrowing options! Accommodating our clients and finding out which loan will best fit their needs is priority. You can count on Marion State Bank’s mortgage specialists to keep your best interest in mind. We offer a range of home loan programs, including Conventional, Rural Development, FHA, and VA loans. We also have lending products for self-employed borrowers. Our mission is to make the process as easy and hassle free as possible in order to get you into the home of your dreams! With over forty years of mortgage experience between them, our mortgage specialists, Pam Garrett and Joel Turner, are well seasoned and skilled in their industry. Pam has been in the mortgage business since 1991. She has served as an originator, a closing

agent for a title company, and a notary public. Joel has been an originator since 2002 and is proficient in mortgage lending guidelines and products. Kylie Middleton serves as a loan processor and works diligently to prepare, organize, and have your loan approved as soon as possible. Our team is excited about our new office and they believe that home ownership is one of the most exciting times in any individual’s life! Allow one of our local loan officers to navigate you through the home buying process and get you into your dream home. Their doors are always open for you to drop in and discuss your options. They are also available by phone, email, or text message and are looking forward to meeting you!

Wade Bishop Running for Senate Broad Business Support Deciding Factor for Wade Bishop

ASED ON THE SUPPORT OF THE business community, Wade Bishop has made the decision to run for the open State Senate District 33 seat that has been created by Senator Mike Walsworth terming out after serving three terms. “Wade Bishop’s decision to run for State Senator was welcome news to business and community leaders in North Louisiana. He is a successful business owner and has served as president or chairman of many civic and business organizations. He brings maturity and years of proven service as the business candidate for State Senate District 33,” said Wallace Hardy, Wade Bishop for Senate 33 Campaign Chairman. Wade, who just celebrated his 61st birthday, has been recognized for his impressive record of community service, having served in the positions listed: •C hairman of the Board of Directors, West Monroe Chamber of Commerce

• Chairman, Supervisory Committee – Centric Federal Credit Union • Chairman, Citizens Advisory Committee, Ouachita Parish Fire Department • Ouachita Economic Development Corporation, Land Corp. Board of Directors • Fund Drive Chairman of the Girl Scouts. “Every Girl Everywhere” Campaign • Glenwood Regional Medical Center, Board of Trustees and served as Chairman • United Way Board of Directors • Monroe Chamber of Commerce Board of Directors and Executive Committee • Louisiana Association of Business and Industry (LABI) Board of Directors and Executive Committee • West Monroe High School Foundation Board of Directors, Chairman of the Board • 2010 recipient West Monroe High School Distinguished Alumni Award • ARCO 2011, Standing Tall Award

• United Way Campaign Chairman 2012 - $3,600,000 which exceeded the goal by $42,000 • Graduate Ouachita Parish Sheriff’s Office Citizens Academy • Graduate of Leadership Louisiana Class of 2012 • 2012 A. O. Evans Award Wade and Kay have two children and four grandchildren. They are members of McClendon Baptist Church where Wade serves as treasurer. Wade, an NRA member, enjoys hunting, sports and photography. This season Wade is coaching his granddaughter, Alyssa, in Coach Pitch Softball. He also coached Alyssa’s mother, Ashley, in Dixie Youth Softball all the way to the World Series Softball Championship when she was 16. Contact Wade at 318-355-5803 or wade@wadebishopforsenate33.com

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DREAM HOME This year’s St. Jude Dream Home in Monroe was completed under the direction of several volunteers, artisans, designers and sponsors. article by M E R E D I T H M CK I N N I E and photography by K E L LY M O O RE CL ARK

HIS YEAR’S ST. JUDE’S DREAM HOME IS A collaboration of local designers, national and local sponsors, and the people of this community and beyond contributing their talents and resources in the fight against childhood cancer. It’s all about the kids, their families, and the rallying support of others. The dream home allows a community to get involved in support of a worthy cause that affects so many local children and families. The 2400 square foot, 3 bedroom, 3 bath home is located in Egret Landing in Monroe and built by BRACO. Lead designer Jan Strickland with Strickland Interiors envisioned a New Orleans’ style modern-chic design with gold, black, white, natural wood tones, and the slightest pops of coral and navy. It all started with the gold plumbing and light fixtures and black hardware, co-selected by Jan and Shawn Brazzell; those primary colors are incorporated throughout the rest of the house. The wood flooring has hints of gold tones, and the black accents can be found in the displayed artwork and accessories in each room. The entire project from start to finish brings together those passionate about design and bettering the lives of children and families affected by cancer. This is Jan’s second year leading the design team. She begins

by researching patterns, textures, and colors. She wanted a mixture of movement and straight lines. In the master bedroom downstairs, the straight lines are evident in the doors from Russell Moore and the black bed frame from Sleepy Hollow. The neutral drapes are custom-made from Fabulous Fabric featuring black geometric edging, mimicking the hard lines of the doors and the bed, and mirroring the gold geometric screen in the corner of the room. The blinds adorning the windows are mobile, operated by remote, and donated by Smith Blind & Awning. The movement is found in the large black and gold abstract artwork on the wall above the seating area, created by Garnett Robinson, a childhood friend of Jan’s. The twosome have collaborated several times before. Jan insists Garnett “takes the vision and interprets it exactly.” The pieces are coated in epoxy resin, and the gold frames are built and painted by Garnett. The room is further accented with a potted plant from Parterre, frames and lamps from Walsworth & Co, and a special book about St. Jude’s from Louisiana Purchases. The light fixture above the bed has a classic feel with a modern touch, compliments of Coburn’s in West Monroe. The paint used for the walls in the master are donated by Sherwin Williams, and the wall color is Greek Villa; the door color is Cyberspace.

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Jan commissioned Sallie Anzelmo, owner of Three Threads in West Monroe on Antique Alley, for the smaller square canvases lining the wall entering the master bathroom. The pieces honor Jan’s three childhood friends who have passed from cancer: Tiffany, Claude, and Amber. In last year’s home, Jan showcased a write-up of their stories, and this year she wanted a more personal contribution replicated in the home. Their memories are incorporated into the design through the feathers and relics associated with loved ones and the faint words, though ineligible, that symbolize each person’s story. Jan says touches such as these “make a house a home.” In the laundry room opposite the master, the ABC’s of cancer are displayed in a vertical pattern. When Jan attended the St. Jude’s Dream Home Summit in Memphis in September, she toured the research hospital where she found a large wall of plaques displaying patients’ artwork on what cancer means to them, A to Z. It touched Jan, and she wanted that sentiment replicated in the home. In the hallway leading to the master, nine black and white canvases feature the faces of local St. Jude’s patients. Some are in remission, and some are still receiving treatment. Jan commissioned Morgan Crowell’s help including Bible verses with the photos and their names next to the prints. A black and gold bar cart from Walsworth & Co. sits in the corner underneath the photos, with cups and serving pieces from Woodstock in Monroe. The combination of national donors and local sponsors are integral to the completion of a dream home. All the flooring is donated by Shaw Floors, a national sponsor and installed by Custom Carpets & Interiors. Jan chose some of the newest styles on the market, like the geometric tile in the laundry room, the herringbone tile in the master bath, and natural wood throughout. Overhead Door provided the garage door, and Acme Brick donated the stone and brick for the exterior and interior accent walls. The mirrors in each room are gifted from AAA Glass. The freestanding tub in the master bath is adorned with brushed gold faucets and features, compliments of LCR in West Monroe. An orchid from Parterre alongside the tub mimics the shape of the tall faucet. The neutral-toned tiles in the shower are donated by Custom Carpets & Interiors. The navy cabinets accent the neutral tones in the space, as Jan has always considered blue to be a neutral color. All cabinetry in the home is from Rucker’s Custom Cabinets and M&M Millworks. John Reed Loflin with McCorquodale Transfer moved all the furniture into the home, and Green Horizon’s Landscaping was responsible for all lawn care and landscaping needs. 220 MAY 2019 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

he master closet sits on the far side of the master bath. Jan had her friend and neighbor Sadie Blackwell stage it with clothes, shoes, purses, and pieces from her new store in Rayville, Sadie C’s. She wanted the people touring the home to envision themselves there. Jan’s favorite Bible verses are strategically placed throughout the rooms she designed to remind people what this is all about. There are words of encouragement such as: “I can do all things through Christ which strengthens me,” and remindwers such as: “For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future” Jeremiah 29:11, Jan’s favorite verse. At the summit, Jan was reminded this project is for those fighting for their lives and their families, and she has the power to inspire others through the design. Jan worked for the third time with Ray Bendily on the floor plan. He created last year’s home plan and the one for her parent’s home. She is consistently surprised and inspired by his talent. Shawn Brazzell of Shawn Brazzell Designs collaborated with Jan to choose all the finishes in the home this year. Shawn says, ‘It was exciting to get in on the construction part this time as well as the staging. I think Jan and I make a great team!” Shawn also created the looks for the kitchen, living, and dining areas. She went for a modern feel with a glamorous edge, warmed up with wood tones and textures. In the kitchen Pecky Cypress wood was used on the custom vent-a-hood and kitchen island. “Rucker’s Custom Cabinets did a phenomenal job on

all the cabinetry in the house,” Shawn says. Amy Simmermaker stained all the wood on the island in the kitchen and the hood over the stove. The countertops on the kitchen island are white quartz, courtesy of Twin City Granite. The countertops alongside the stove are a black pearl leathered finish; the technique takes the polish off so one can feel the divots and natural texture of the stone. The three gold pendant lights above the island as well as in the dining room and living chandeliers are all provided by Coburn’s of West Monroe. Shawn says, “Michelle Miller of Coburn’s was instrumental in getting all the lighting for this year’s home.” The gold pendants show off the beautiful gold and marble accented tile backsplash, provided by Shaw and installed by Custom Carpets & Interiors. The island is accented with modern, leather stools from Sleepy Hollow Furniture. Shawn feels the leather adds warmth to the space while keeping the modern vibe. “I like to use natural materials for that very purpose.” The sole accent piece on the island is the carved teak root filled with lemons, providing an organic, natural feel to the space. The appliances are brushed black stainless by Bosch from Coburn’s, and the black and white runner over the wood floors is from Walsworth & Co. The sunflowers in the kitchen bring a light, colorful touch to contrast the white walls. The dining table is a metal base with a live edge wood top, provided by Sleepy Hollow Furniture. The windows of the dining area are flanked with custom draperies by Fabulous Fabrics. Shawn says, “ I wanted this house to have a warm and happy feel when you step in the door.” Shawn’s connection to St. Jude’s comes through a friend whose daughter is currently at St. Jude’s going through chemotherapy treatments. It keeps Shawn heavily grounded in what they are all doing with this project. After three years of working on dream homes, Shawn calls the work her most rewarding projects. “I am so blessed to be a part of this and so pleased to know every dollar raised goes directly back to St. Jude’s. A family should never have to worry if they can provide treatment for their sick child. As a mother of 5, I can only imagine the stress and worry not only sickness brings, WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM | MAY 2019 221

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but also the financial burden. With St. Jude’s these families do not have the added financial burdens. This is why I love this project so much!” In the living area, dramatic European-mount elk horns, courtesy of Paul Michael & Co., hang on the sleek, concrete finished fireplace, done by Chad Sanders from Decorative Concrete Coatings in Monroe. The custom finish is carried over to the beam dividing the living and dining areas, giving the space an industrial, modern edge. The shelves were donated by Kyle Snellingburger of Ouachita Antique Woods, using antique timbers. They are adorned with decorative pieces from Louisiana Purchases, Paul Michael & Co, and Walsworth & Co. An accent piece Shawn chose to display is a horse made of natural wood, giving the shelf a childlike quality. Also on the shelves are special artwork done by some of the children being treated at St. Jude. Feathers and shells provide more texture, and the alligator bookends symbolize being on the bayou. A rosary acknowledges St. Jude’s, and an hourglass stands symbolizing that the time spent in this season of life is temporary thanks to the research and treatment given by St Jude’s. The sectional in the middle of the room is accented with leather chairs, a coffee table and layered rugs from Sleepy Hollow Furniture and Walsworth & Co. The pillows are from Louisiana Purchases, and the center navy feathered one is Shawn’s favorite for providing a fun, cool texture. Lissy Compton of Mr. P’s Tees created the canvas that hangs by the front door and another piece by the stairs. Shawn told Lissy to “keep it fun and organic.” Shawn says, “Lissy is an amazing artist and asset to our community. She is always willing to help and create wherever she can.” Emily Byrd has worked on the St. Jude’s Dream Home for the last two years. Whereas last year Emily decorated a guest bedroom, this year she designed the study off the living room on the main floor. She has always been attracted to large-scale abstract art, and particularly to local artist Sallie Anzelmo’s aesthetic. When Emily entered Three Threads, Sallie’s store in West Monroe, she was immediately drawn to a deconstructed mixed media face painting on gallery-wrapped canvas called “Hearts & Half Faces.” Emily couldn’t get the image out of her head, and inevitably designed the room around it. Decorating an 222 MAY 2019 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

office space relies on interesting incorporations of color. Emily decided to paint the accent wall behind the painting a slate color to match the doors throughout the home and use a pillow with whimsical, stylized lemon trees to offset the neutrals in the space. Holly from Fabulous Fabric created drapery panels to mimic the accent wall, and the desk, cabinet and console are compliments of Sleepy Hollow. The accessories are from Material Things and Walsworth & Co. The glass desk with the gold metal frame sits center of the room and provides a clear view of the console behind it. Emily loves being a part of this community of designers dedicated to using their talents for this mission of hope. They all understand the gravity of this charity, and they all want to provide their best work for this project. Emily loves being inspired by the designers, bouncing ideas off each other, and supporting one another. She didn’t know any of these people two years ago, and now she is fortunate to call them all friends. It is a pleasure to give back in a rewarding way, doing something for the benefit of others.

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Danielle Lewing Gilmore’s perspective is “a little bit different.” Her nephew Luke Siria became a St. Jude’s patient in 2014, diagnosed with brain and spinal cord cancer. Danielle spent time with him and her sister at St. Jude’s during his treatment. Most kids walk into St. Jude’s on foot; Luke arrived by ambulance. After surgery, Luke couldn’t walk or talk, and one side of his body was paralyzed. In June, they took Luke outside for the first time in a month. It took three people to get all the wires and equipment outside with him to the Danny & Rose Marie Thomas Memorial Garden. Danielle made a wish at the fountain, that Luke’s mother could hear him say “Mom” again. Five years later, Luke is now walking and talking, and attempted his first 100-yard dash recently, all thanks to prayer and St. Jude’s. In 2017, when Danielle was lead designer of the dream home, Luke came to the ribbon cutting; he was just beginning to walk. Danielle’s contribution to the dream home project is both heartfelt and passionate, her way of giving back.

Danielle designed the back patio off the dining room. When she began to ponder the space, she thought of the moment at the fountain and knew she wanted to create a place of peace. When people walk outside at St. Jude’s, they see nature, feel God’s presence, and hear the sound of the water. Danielle recreated that feeling of being surrounded by angels at the dream home. She wanted “their shoulders to go down, to remember their blessings, and look at God’s beauty, and remember the purpose of this house.” Danielle commissioned James Machineworks to create a St. Jude’s statue, and she’s used it in each dream home since 2017. The outdoor furniture by Sleepy Hollow is mid century modern themed and black and white with pops of color for hope. Chad Sanders installed the black decorative concrete and was instrumental in making Danielle’s vision come to life. Rucker’s Custom Cabinets provided the outdoor cabinetry, LCR handled all the knobs and pulls, and Coburn’s provided the modern fan for the space. The painting above the seating area is called “Up from Below,” WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM | MAY 2019 223

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a contribution of Danielle’s son Conner Lewing, who visited Luke with Danielle at St. Jude’s. Luke’s favorite Bible verse, Philippians 4:13 is on display and created by Annie Barnett, along with planters designed by Danielle and a miniature fountain. Artist Deanna Broussard created “Perfectly Imperfect,” a custom art canvas for the space. All the contributions help tell a story, Danielle’s initial purpose for the design. Jo Tiffany Faulk, owner of Sleepy Hollow in Monroe, was asked to come onboard the dream home project five years ago. At the time, she didn’t know any children who had been to St. Jude’s, but she has personally had children go to Texas Children’s Hospital. She understood the fears and support they needed. She fell in love with the St. Jude Dream Home Project and began sponsoring the entire home three years ago. She works closely with the design team, turning the house into a home. Jo Tiffany says, “We spend months preparing for staging. Every beautiful detail of the home is taken into account before ordering the furniture and accessories.” Sleepy Hollow also donates a $10,000 open house prize each year in an effort to get more people to tour the home and buy tickets to support St. Jude’s. The entry for the prize is free; everyone who tours is allowed to register. Jo Tiffany and the team at Sleepy Hollow are “excited for the community to finally get to view it.” Jo Tiffany loves working with the designers and meeting different children from St. Jude’s every year. Now she does have friends who have taken that journey to Memphis. Brooke Brown’s son Asher is a patient, and Brooke told Jo Tiffany, “It would have been devastating to get that diagnosis had there not been St. Jude’s.” It’s a full give-back, as St. Jude’s takes care of the entire family during the children’s treatment. Asher calls it his “special hospital,” and is proud to show off each floor. Asher is still undergoing treatments, and is one of the local children for the home this year. Jo Tiffany likes that it’s an adventure for Asher, taking his mind off of cancer for a moment. 224 MAY 2019 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

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WILL COPELAND

Taylor Bennett says yes to the dream home every year, despite how hectic his schedule may be. He sees how many lives it impacts. He appreciates getting to work with all the people that also have a heart for St. Jude’s. The design team becomes a family, and they’re always excited to work with each other again. The plans began late last summer, when Jan and Shawn showed the team the design elements chosen thus far. After Christmas, Taylor began selecting furniture for his space, a guest bedroom upstairs. He wanted something different from what he normally does, but admits it’s still his signature style. Taylor jokes, “Green is my favorite neutral,” the color of trees all around us. That led him to the emerald tufted headboard from Sleepy Hollow, where his concept all started. The nightstand and dresser have live edge finishes. He needed raw wood texture to bring down the elegance of the green velvet. Taylor’s style is utilitarian; things that look worn and livable. He prefers the wrinkles of the white linen bedding and layers. He wants people to feel as if they can sit anywhere and not mess anything up. Old wooden shoe molds surround a circular mirror above the bed. Leather chairs are nestled in the sitting nook with a canvas creation by designer Robin Hamaker. The African mudcloth pillow on the bed is from Louisiana Purchases, alongside leather snakeskin pillows. A cowhide rug with gold flaking finishes the sitting area with a lifelike staghorn fern on the wall. Will Copeland is drawn to abstract art, and the open-ended piece on the landing of the stairs spoke to him. His design for the second upstairs bedroom began with a Schumacher “Chiang Mai Dragon” pillow he spotted in Fabulous Fabric. He wanted a sophisticated uptown New Orleans vibe, classy, with a touch of traditional and trendy. Will loves to play with textures, as shown with the layered linen and velvet on the bed. He spotted the golden antelope in Palette House at the last minute and said, “You’re going to watch over the 226 MAY 2019 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

bed.” With all the gold elements throughout the home, Will continued with more metallic gold accents in the space. Four framed charcoal silhouettes from Material Things sit two on either side of the window, subtle sophistication. The drapes are custom-made by Holly at Fabulous Fabric. With it being a smaller room, Will didn’t want bulky shelves and decided on an etagere, knowing the open shelves would balance the room without giving it too much weight. The shelves are decorated with unique pieces that appear to be collected over time; some look timeless, some handed down, sentimental rather than generic. The jute rug is Will’s go-to; it wears well. The gold sunburst mirror radiates happiness, the feeling he wants the house to convey. Will collaborated with Taylor on decorating the flex room upstairs, featuring four swivel chairs surrounding a modest glass coffee table over driftwood. The table is big enough to use for games but not cumbersome. The shelves are filled with old leatherback law books and various accessories from Coco’s on Antique Alley, Walsworth & Co, and Woodstock. In the upstairs bathroom, the flooring is a modern hexagon tile with a marble and tile shower. Will knows St. Jude’s is a worthy cause; he’s been invested since he was a kid raising money via bike-a-thons. The dream home project allows him to give back while expressing his creativity. Touring this year’s St. Jude’s Dream Home is an emotional experience. While visitors will be delighted by the designs and creations of local artists, one can’t miss the sentiment in each space. Each room tells a story, often one of a local child battling cancer, often beating the disease, and inevitably touching hearts and lives. Cancer can rob families of the light; projects such as these help provide hope. All the designers, contributors, and volunteers believe in the power of St. Jude’s, the strength of these families, and the resilience of children. Hope is on display in Egret Landing, and we hope you get to experience it.

Chauvin Bayou Market

A Great Hometown Market With a Fun and Family Atmosphere

HAUVIN BAYOU MARKET IS A PREMIUM MEAT MARKET, with a great wine selection, a wide selection of beer imports, and everyday grocery needs. Whether it’s a quick snack for the road, an after school snack, or a dinner party, Chauvin Bayou Market has it all covered. Chauvin Bayou Market is now under new owners, Michael and Nicole Creighton. These Monroe natives have created a fun and friendly atmosphere that caters to all ages. They wanted to create a fun and safe place for your kids and their friends to load up on a golf cart and grab a snack or drink safely. The summer is quickly approaching and this is the perfect place for the kiddos to come visit. Chauvin also hosts different wine and whiskey tastings on occasion. To get more information on these tastings, make sure to follow Chauvin Bayou Market on their facebook page to get the updates on upcoming events! Their wide variety of premium meats and sides, such as steaks, chicken, loaded baked potatoes, shish kebabs, and pre-seasoned vegetables, are perfect for Saturday grilling with the family. Need a quick dinner option for those last minute schedule changes? Chauvin also carries grab and go dinners as well, such as home-made lasagna, gumbo, beef tips, shrimp bisque, red beans and sausage, to make your nights as easy and stress free as possible. HERE IS WHAT A FEW OF OUR CUSTOMERS HAVE TO SAY: “Stopped by to pick up some crawfish bread and bacon wrapped asparagus to try & they were both soooo delicious! Such a great, fresh selection! Will be back to try out more! Thanks for being so friendly & helpful!!” ~ Eron B. “The store, selection, food, and location are the best. A great, familyowned place to shop.”~ Keith W. “Outstanding selection! The owners are knowledgeable, helpful and super friendly! Organic products · Knowledgeable staff · Health food · Great selection · Convenient location · Fresh food · Artisan meats · Prepared foods · Local produce” ~ Jason C. “Whatever you need to entertain this is the place to go! Convenient location · Great selection · Artisan meats” ~ Vickie J. Chauvin Bayou Market is conveniently located down the street from the Monroe Athletic Club at 2538 River Landing in Monroe. Give us a call today and let us help make your life a little easier!

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Cheers to Mom Celebrate mom with a handprinted wine glass or champagne flute from local artist, Sallie Bynum Anzelmo. They are available at her storefront, Three Threads, in West Monroe.

Love Mom ChocoLOT Material Things in Monroe carries these Louis Cherry truffles in a variety of flavors from Passionfruit Kumquat to Turkish Coffee. And they come in a beautiful tin box, a gift in itself!

Mother of Pearl Moms of all ages will love these mother of pearl gold drop Kendra Scott earrings from Herringstone’s. They will complete any outfit and will work in all seasons!

Rose All Day The Belle Epoque Rose 2005 is a wine whose charm and extravagance precisely mirror Vik Muniz’s design adorning the bottle. Find this gorgeous Rosé at Washington Wine and Spirits for the perfect Mother’s Day gift.

Brighten Up the Room Gift the gift of color this Mother’s Day! Ladies love changing out decorative pillows throughout the year to spice or change up the look of a room, and Fabulous Fabric has all the pillows you need!

Rose-Colored Glass This antique teared glass epergne is truly a beautiful piece and any mother would love to add this to her home. The detail in the metal work and the rose colored glass make it standout with or without greenery. You can find items like this at Traditions on Antique Alley.

Get That Glow Every lady needs a good daytime topical vitamin C gel, and Spa Nouvelle has the best of the best SkinCeutical products to help get that youthful younger looking skin. These products would be perfect for that special mother in your life!

Pamper Her Mom will love any of the Oribe products at Rain Beauty | Body, especially this luxurious body creme. It is ultra moisturizing, smooths and softens skin, and the scent is amazing.

Just for Her Is the special lady in your life hard to shop for? If you’re not sure what to get the special mothers in your life, DermaMediQ has you covered. Give her a gift card so she can get what she wants!

Pretty in Pink Mom will love these Marc Jacobs glasses from Haik Humble Eye Center. The gift of sight is priceless, and cute frames are essential.

Pitcher Perfect Farmhouse is all the rage and Sonny Panzico’s has an entire line of Farmhouse tins, containers and pitchers. Mom will love the chic and functional decor!

Mirth for Mom Palette House carries pieces from Mirth, a line of easy, modern caftans and resortwear. Check out their new pieces that will carry her into summer in style.

Relaxation is Key Azure Pools & Spas just started carrying this line of all natural-spa and bath crystals and elixirs with anti-inflammatory and stress reliever. Grab some for mom so she can relax this Mother’s Day! Have a Seat Mom will love all of the furniture from Sleepy Hollow, including this chair from Bassett. You can customize the fabric and details to get exactly what she wants!

Take a Page This book is not only beautiful, it is from a Monroe native, Lee Ledbetter. Grab a copy for mom at Material Things.

Mom is a Saint Hemline in Monroe carries pieces like this necklace from Virgins, Saints and Angels, a jewelry line that features symbols of protection and good fortune that are both spiritual and fashion forward. You A-Door Mom Sonny Panzico’s Garden Mart in Monroe has an extensive line of door hangers, garden flags and more like this festive flamingo. Your mom’s door is always open so make sure it is decorated, too!

Chic Frames These Vera Wang glasses, found at Broussard Cataract & Eye Institute, have a vintage chic cheetah print frame that give it that prestige “Vera” look. Perfect for all of the fashionable mothers!

Heart to Heart Any good southern mom loves to entertain and appreciates a good serving tray. Grab this gold one from Thurman’s Food Factory in Monroe.

Motherhood Memoirs This book is beautiful keepsake for every kind of mom and available at Woodstock. There’s imaginative illustrations in watercolor, gouache and ink, paired with inspired quotations, some silly, some solemn, some true.

Served With Style In Louisiana oysters are a common delicacy. Traditions on Antique Alley has this beautiful floral oyster plate with gold trimming that mom would absolutely love. If she has a certain style, they have a large assortment of other oyster plates to choose from.

The Hunt Is On This Wedgwood blue biscuit jar would be a wonderful gift for mom and can be found at Cotton Port Antique Mall on Antique Alley. The beautifully depicted hunting scene adds a bit of character to the jar along with the gold finish lid and handle.

Sip with Style If you are looking for a unique gift for this Mother’s Day, look no further than Washington Wine and Spirits. It’s 8 month aging gives this sipping tequila an amazing balance, body and flavor. Each bottle is hand-made and hand-painted by artisans in a small village in Mexico, so each one is a unique piece.

The Mom Bag Swan dive into this super cute backpack/diaper bag. Found at The Fancy Fox in West Monroe, the bag comes in all different colors and prints and would be the perfect gift for a new mom. Lord knows she’s going to need it!

The Energy of the Sea Every mom could use some more energy and the Inis line of products from Debbie’s Hallmark in Monroe is perfect. These lotions and perfumes smell amazing and are inspired by the magic, beauty and nature of Ireland.

Time to Shine Pucker up with smooth, kissable lips drenched in moisture and irresistibly playful color. The creamy formula glides on and stays on. Treat your lips to luscious lip gloss shades that soothe, hydrate and nourish your lips for a fresh, pretty look. Find these and many more shades at DermaMediQ today!

Posh Pajamas Every mom needs a break to get some rest and what better way to do so in style? Pick her up a pair of Barefoot Dreams pajamas from Haven in Monroe.

Lookin’ Good These Tierra sunglasses from Sperry would be the perfect gift for the stylish fashionable new graduate. These glasses are perfect for both dressy and non dressy attire, and would look great for all seasons. Find these glasses at Broussard Eye Cataract & Institute today!

Dainty For Diploma This Kendra Scott necklace from Herringstone’s is the perfect gift for the graduate in your life. They will love the dainty look and can wear it for years to come.

Beach Bum If you have a graduate headed to the beach this summer, you have to get one of these games from Azure Pools and Spas in Monroe and Ruston. They are perfect for some R&R before they head to college!

Custom to Her These customizable charm necklaces from the exclusive Liz James Collection are perfect for the graduating senior. They can be ordered at The Graduate Shop in West Monroe and you can choose from script names, mascots, year, faith, school color charms and more to make a truly unique style.

Straighten Her Out! If your daughter has been using your beauty tools, it is time to get her own before she heads off to college! She will be going to class in style with the Paul Mitchell Nuero Halo flat iron from Rain.

Deck Out the Dorm After moving out of the house, they will need everything and Sleepy Hollow has just that. From mattresses to throw pillows, you can get everything to deck out their new dorm or apartment.

Forever Young A key to looking young and staying young is having a good sunscreen to your daily routine. Spa Nouvelle has the perfect product for that! This SPF 50 sunscreen is a tinted sunscreen while also promoting natural radiance and a more even skin tone.

Future is Bright These Maui Jim sunglasses from Haik Humble Eye Center are perfect for any graduate whose future is so bright, they gotta wear shades.

St. Francis Golf Tourney On Thursday, April 11th, St. Francis kicked off their annual golf tournament with a party and auction held at the home of Charles and Brenda Marsala in Monroe. Party goers enjoyed light refreshments and drinks, while they browsed and bid on silent auction items. The hit of the night was the live auction, with Saints player Thomas Morstead encouraging everyone to bid on Saintsâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; packages and trips. The event is sponsored by Morsteadâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s foundation - What You Give Will Grow. This year, Morstead was joined by fellow Saints player, Wil Lutz, and the two visited the St. Francis Neo-natal Intensive Care Unit and visited with patients and staff. The next day, they participated in the golf tournament at Bayou DeSiard Country Club.

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1 Carol-Anne and Grisham Lenard 2C ynthia and Steven Mathes 3 Lyndsay Mixon and Leslie Bauman 4 L exie Oliver, Ella McDuffie and Lillian Morstead 5 Brenda and Charles Marsala 6 Debbie and Blake Herrington 7 Lewis and Jill Youngs 8 Tammy and Jeremy Rogers with Tom and Denise Gullatt 9 L ance and Marcia Donald 10 Tyler and Becky Flemister 11 N ikki and Frank Sampognaro 12 Chris and Dorabeth Windham 13 Paulen Landrum and Ashley West 14 Misti Cordell, Aimee Kane, Tori Fisher and Thomas Morstead 15 Reggie Carroll, Gary Blaylock, Kyle Roberts and Ian Blaylock 16 M eredith Davis, Trey Dunbar and Sharon Wesberry 17 Josh and Leslie Culp and Janelle Snellings 18 Mike and Joellen Lee 19 Leigh Moses, Bradley and Maureen Crooks 20 Jarod and Megan Sellar 21 Kirk and Tori Fisher 22 Jeanne Taylor, Terri Arthur and Sheila Dickson 23 G erald McClowskey, Caron McPherson and Hal Moffett 19

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Basket - Three Threads

Vase - Material Things Emergency Tin - Palette House

Vintage Jug - Traditions Wood Handle Brush - Material Things Vintage Clorox Jug - Cotton Port Antique Mall

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Don't overlook the laundry room when decorating your home. These simple elements will take your household chores from drab to fab. Photo by Kelly Moore Clark | Styling by Taylor Bennett

Cedar Creek School

“Rolling on the River” was the theme for Celebration 2019, Cedar Creek School’s annual spring fundraiser. Attendees were greeted by event co-chairs Larkin and Ben Haddox and Joanna and Bart Dugdale as they entered the Ruston Civic Center on April 16th. The River-inspired decor was cheerful and relaxed, and, of course, the attire was casual! The packed crowd enjoyed live music provided by DJ D-Smooth throughout the evening. Cedar Creek parents, grandparents, faculty, alumni and friends enjoyed the cook-off prepared by our Celebration teams. Patrons then perused the silent auction that offered an array of packages donated by area merchants and supporters of the school. Dinner was followed by the live auction that included class projects, major art pieces, a hunting trip and a golf package to name just a few. All the proceeds will benefit improvements for Cedar Creek School.

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Make A Statement At The Front Door Greet guests in style with these key pieces from area retailers. Photography by Kelly Moore Clark | Styling by Taylor Bennett

1. Lamp - Haven 2. Artwork - Palette House 3. Print - Material Things 4. Painting - Three Threads 5. Candle & Vase - Woodstock 6. Pelican - Cotton Port Antique Mall 7. B ooks - Cotton Port Antique Mall 8. Plant - Sonny Panzico's 9. Books - Haven 10. Table - Sleepy Hollow

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FAUX PL ANT GUIDE

If your thumb is a little more black than green, a faux plant may be your new best friend. With options that look like the real green deal, faux plants are a great substitute.

Staghorn Fern available at Palette House

Photo by Kelly Moore Clark Styling by Taylor Bennett

Croton plant available at Sleepy Hollow

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Books stacked on table available at Haven

Staghorn fern and books available at Material Things

Lavender available at Cotton Port Antique Mall

Ferns, Moss ball and table available at Woodstock

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PIL LOW T IME

We've picked out our favorite pillows from area retailers. Add interest and color to any space by updating your pillow game. Photography by Kelly Moore Clark

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Masur Museum Off The Wall On Friday, April 12th, the Masur Museum celebrated the 10th Anniversary of their Off the Wall event, Monroeâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s premier silent art auction and one of the best events of the year! Off the Wall is the annual fundraiser for the Masur Museum of Art. The main event is the silent auction where guests bid on a huge variety of visual work by both local and regional artists, as well as artists around the country. There was also a special curated gallery of highly collectible art from selected local artists. Local artist Leigh Buffington created a live painting during the event which was raffled off and the winner was Phillip Williams, while Emily McGee walked away with the Bon Voyage Trip raffle. Everyone enjoyed food from Thurmanâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s and live music from George McConnell and walked away with fabulous pieces of art!

photography by Emerald McIntyre

On the BayouScene 1 Zach Stephens and Pamela Bryant Petrus 2A lex and Kelsey Bohl 3 Steve and Johnette Mintz 4 L aura Kilpatrick Marchelos and Kerry Kilpatrick 5 Evie and Arthur Stewart 6 Amanda and Patrick Smith 7 Matthew and Scarlett Garcia 8 Ashley and Frederick West 9D estiny Black, Kassidy Broussard, Jenny Burnham, Alyssa Guidry, Evie Stewart and Lindsay Kearney 10 Jaclyn and Bradley Hall with Emily and Patrick McGee 11 H ardy and Claire Gordon 12 Meredith and Tommy Hayes 13 Judy Moore and Kathy Schendle 14 Leah and Mac Reitzell 15 Allyson Campbell, Regina Wood and Peggy Sullivan 16 Steve and Janet Haedicke 17 S ylvia Masur and Jay Johnston 18 Brandi and Josef Cook 19 Amy and Kelby Ouchley 20 H ardy and Claire Gordon 21 Ryan and Jessica Grigson

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Jim Taylor Gives Back

On April 2th, Jim Taylor presented ARCO with a check with the funds they raised during their Jim Taylor Memorial Sales Event held in March. Tanya Pesek and Don Robertson were on hand to present a check to Roma Kidd, Executive Director, as well as ARCO participants and friends. Both dealerships raised a combined amount of $24,600 for ARCO, who empowers people with developmental disabilities and their families to have quality lives through instruction, support and opportunity.

On the BayouScene 1 Emily Ewing, Andi Stanley and Benita Curry 2 Steven Thatcher, Betty Davis and Chandler Leila 3 Barry Trichell, Robbie Byno and Thomas Knighten 4 Ricky Justice and Jason Weems 5 J.P. Gaspard and Mary Frances Landry 6 Jerry Gregory and Laura Poss 7 Sarita Daniels and Edda Curry 8 Robert Biggs and Steven Thatcher 9 Barbara Blanson and Stephen Hendrick 3 Breeya Bird and Connie Scott

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Annual Photo Contest Photo The Roe

The Monroe-West Monroe Convention and Visitors Bureau Teams Up With BayouLife

HE MONROE-WEST MONROE Convention and Visitors Bureau and BayouLife Magazine partner to present their 12th annual photo contest, continuing the theme of Photo the Roe. Submissions will be accepted April 1-May 18, and the winners will be announced on June 6 at the Downtown Gallery Crawl. The Best of Show winning photograph will be featured on the July cover of BayouLife Magazine and receive an award of $200. In the Adult Category, first through third place winners will receive up to $150 in prize money. The Student Category winners will receive up to $125 in prize money. The theme Photo the Roe, like last year, is inspired by the revitalization of the downtown areas, local organizations, and the community that is committed to making the area even better. Photos can be taken anywhere in Ouachita Parish, but to capture the spirit of

the theme, send photos of what life is like in Monroe and West Monroe. Whether it’s people, wildlife, or cuisine, we can’t wait to see what Ouachita Parish looks like from your perspective. The contest gets an update this year! We’ve added the capability to upload your photos on our website. In the past, we’ve asked for this information through e-mail, but now submissions can be sent online. Follow the link below for the submission page. Send your registration packet to jbennett@monroewestmonroe.org. Last year, the MWMCVB received over 100 entries in the photo contest. Many of those entries, as well as past entries, have been featured in national advertisements and other materials, including our Visitors Guide, to promote the Monroe-West Monroe area. The deadline to enter is May 18th at 5:00 p.m. Upload photos online at the submission form

given at www.monroe-westmonroe.org/ phototheroe. Photos must be taken within the past two years and in Ouachita Parish to be eligible, and they must be larger than 3MB. Images that include people must be accompanied by a signed Model Release Form that is included in the Registration Packet. For more information, contact Jerrica Bennett of the MWMCVB at (318) 387-5691 or visit http://www. monroe-westmonroe.org/phototheroe to download the registration packet.

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KEDM Director’s Gala On March 23rd, KEDM held a Director’s Gala before a performance of Phantom of the Opera, where attendees mixed and mingled with the actors and the director of the play. Guests enjoyed hors d’oeuvres and desserts from local restaurants at the Black Box Theatre on ULM’s campus as well as a live music performance. The Phantom of the Opera was presented by the University of Louisiana at Monroe School of Visual and Performing Arts and directed by Mark R. Clark and conducted by Deborah Chandler. The gala was a wonderful chance to support the local arts community, support local talent and support public radio. The gala was sponsored by the Northeast Louisiana Arts Council, Fiesta Nutrition Center, Atmos Energy, BayouLife Magazine, Kelsey Klean and Sir Speedy.

On the BayouScene 1 Katie and Tom Torregrossa 2 Jojo Clark and Mark Clark 3 Gary Salazar, Cherylyn McIntosh and Manuel Garza 4 S teve Haedicke, Val Salomon and Craig Henry 5 L yndsay Turner, Sandy Henderson and Janet Haedicke 6 Bob Chambless and Kristopher Kelley 7M ichelle Colvin and Kaylen Tannehill 8 Craig Henry, Kyle Gregory and D.H. Clark 9B ob Eisenstadt, Pamela Fritz and Baron Brandon 10 Tami Tharpe, Scarlett Pitt and Angie O’Pry 11 B illy Cascio, Hagen and Brandy Cascio 12 J ay Curtis and Sabrina Curtis 13 L yndsay Turner, Sandy Henderson and Bonnie Patterson 14 M organ Rowland and Kylie Daigle 15 Derle Long and Bobbye Legan 16 Charles Jackson, Gwenn, Guy and Nancy Miller 17 H annah Clark and Peggy Burns 18 Isabel Lewis, John Neal, Bob and June Dowden

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ULM’s Women’s Symposium The 2019 ULM Women’s Symposium was held on Wednesday, March 27th in the new Bayou Pointe Student Event Center. ULM students, faculty and community members came together to discuss personal, professional, and cultural issues women face on campus and in their communities. Nine panels addressed questions about leadership, financial health, mental health, inclusion, social media challenges, harassment, negotiation, and networking. Numerous representatives from various businesses and organizations served on panels, sharing their knowledge on relevant topics. The Symposium inspires ULM students, connects them with community leaders, and shows them success up close. The Symposium recognizes outstanding individuals effecting change for women across the spectrum.

On the BayouScene 1 Karen Melbin, Stephanie Polk, Brooke O’Bryant and Morgan Buxton 2 Talitha Elliot and Ashanti Jones 3 Ashley Ellis and Misti Cordell 4 J essica Brady and Dr. Eric Pani 5 E leanor Hatfield, Marguerete McLemore and Ann McIntyre 6 Lindsey Nadler and Brandi Howard 7 F irst Lady Donna Edwards and Lisa Miller 8 Babbette Adcock and Maureen Crooks 9H annah Salsbury, Karen Melvin, Brooke O’Bryant and Carol-Anne Lenard 10 Lexi Wooten and Daliah Woten 11 M eredith McKinnie, Allison Franzon and Julia Letlow 12 S usan Chappell and Kristin Chandler 13 L isa Miller, Renada Norman and Alvina Thomas 14 M elissa Kiper and Cindy Foust 15 Vanelis Rivera and Alissa Abrahm 16 L inda Holyfield, Laura Clark, Linda and Dr. Nick Bruno 17 A manda Brunson, Jan Daniels and Sarah Floyds 18 Kim Shepherd and Colandra Smith 16

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The Children’s Coalition The Children’s Coalition, located in the heart of downtown Monroe, hosted an awards ceremony to honor all of the hard and selfless employees and volunteers that help make the Children’s Coalition what it is today. Along with the awards ceremony was a preview of the new family garden. This garden includes 32 raised-beds, a sound garden, bubbling rock and a mud kitchen. The Children’s Coalition works in conjunction with LSU Ag, Northeast Louisiana Master Gardeners and 4H Leaders and students in Northeast Louisiana to promote healthy eating by connecting children and families to the food they eat. Volunteers ensure the garden continues to grow.

On the BayouScene 1 Carla Parker, Thom Rogers and Merion Sanderson 2 Darrion Neiler, Ivy Parhms and Eliza Draper 3K erry Heafner and Brooke Cassady 4A ndrea Dyer, Angie D’Angelo and Douglas Kimes 5R od Washington and Gerry Binkley 6 Antoinette Hoard, Jan Daniels and Alex Cory 7 J an and Ralph Webb 8 Cynthia Cage and Karla Parker 9 S hauna Harrell and Tammy Washington 10 Cynthia Rodriguez and Mark Parrish 11 L ynn Clark, Cleveland Mouton and Mark Wilson 12 S hannon Huckabee, Donna Guice and Alpa Pate 13 Candace and David Cole 14 E llen Prather and David Hartt 15 Jennifer Calhoun and Amy Clancy 16 Eliza Draper and Shirley Cokern

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Hermes Reception It was a perfect evening for the garden party fundraising reception for Chief Randal Hermes, candidate for Lincoln Parish Sheriff, at the home of Margaret and Fredric Hoogland in Ruston. A pleasant breeze had the windchimes singing, as guests enjoyed food and beverages in the beautifully manicured backyard setting, while the orange sunset reflected in the ponds beyond. Mike Hoogland of Hoogland’s Landscape in Bossier City, and Wesley Mardis, groundskeeper, were responsible for the beautiful grounds and landscaping. The table decorations, donated by Cheryl Leachman and Valerie Hoogland, were charming lanterns and small vases of herbs, in keeping with an outdoor theme. The party furnishings were from Terzia’s Rentals. The event was catered by the very talented Marlette and Steve Ryan. Phil Soileau donated his delicious jambalaya and lemonade. Log Cabin & Ponchatoula’s donated tasty meat pies. Popular pork sliders were prepared by Debbie Hightower. Morgan Garrison of Uptown Downtown prepared dessert trays with a variety of wonderful sweet treats and made special “Hermes” Sheriff badge cookies. Devine Wines donated the beverages. Judy Moore of Moore Cake Please prepared party favor bags of her famous JuJu’s Kettle Corn for guests to take home.

On the BayouScene 1 Abi Olsen, Skylar Shuler, Lauren James, Vivian Taylor 2 Bill Davis, Seth Hightower, Michael Baxter 3 Debbie Cochran, Sherry Mahaffey 4 Ed Jackson, Randal Hermes, Tommy McClelland 5 Bill and Pam Davis, Jarod and Heather Patterson, Lana Bullock 6 Stephanie Sisemore, Susan Hermes, Tommy Sisemore 7 Susan Pyles, Steve Ryan 8 Randal Hermes, Annette Straughter 9 Margaret Hoogland, Johnnie Hogan, Susan Hermes 10 Jay Bascom, Alex Hermes, Susan Hermes, Margaret Hoogland, Randal Hermes 11 M att Flynn, Randal, Chris Ward, Jared Johnson 12 Debbie Hightower, Marlette Ryan, Pam Davis 13 Randal Hermes, Wayne Houck, Mike Jones 14 Dr. Richard Greechie, Randal Hermes, Janie Stephenson 15 Mike and Sue Coyle, Randal and Susan Hermes

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JLM Provisional Reception A reception was held for the provisional members of the Junior League of Monroe on Thursday, April 4th at the home of Rhelda Nolan. The incoming provisional class for 2019-2020 mixed and mingled with current members as well as sustainers. The Sustainers on Standby group provided the food, with most of the dishes coming from one of the popular Junior League of Monroe cookbooks. There are 45 new members that will join the league as provisionals next year. The Junior League is an organization of women committed to promoting volunteerism, developing the potential of women and improving committees through the effective action and leadership of trained volunteers.

On the BayouScene 1 Nanette Cohen, Laura Centola and Dawn Sager 2 Shannon Underwood and Ashley Ambrew 3 Jenny Baker and Sarah Sistrunk 4 Liz Hughes and Miranda Roberson 5 Patience Talley, Misty Bayles, Brandy Taylor And Dana Benson 6 Brandy Taylor, Jessica Brady and Alana Klingman 7 K elsey Laudenheimer, Lisa Miller, Liz Hughes and Cydni Hanks 8 Brandy Taylor, Dana Benson, Lauren Voorhees, Monica Pittman, Misty Bayles, Cydni Hanks and Melissa Kiper 9 Kandice Guice and Tiffany Montgomery 10 Katie Montou, Yameen Dickerson, Chelsie Walker, Lauren Hassell and Helen Marrs 11 C arolyn Perry, Mary Bernard, Melissa Kiper, Rhelda Nolan, Meghan Sharp and Kirsty Bass 12 M onica Pittman, Faith Gremillion, Shannon Pitard and Mandy Green 13 Jessica Brady and Jordan Raborn 14 Sydney Finch and Lauren Voorhees 15 Melissa Kiper and Jenny Pankey

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Calendar of Events

For a full list of event happenings in Northeast Louisiana, see our website at www.bayoulifemag.com May 2 Addict by Jerome McDonough Northeast Delta Human Services Authority and Candy Studio LLC are partnering to produce two showings of "Addict," a play to educate the public about the dangers and realities of alcohol and substance abuse. Written by Jerome McDonough, "Addict" portrays the allure and devastating consequences of drug and alcohol abuse. The audience may think addiction "can't happen to me," but common addiction impacts become clear as they experience this convincing and powerful drama. "Addict" will engage the audience with a better understanding of addiction and mental health issues in creative, innovative ways. Register today to secure your seats! Venue: Jack Howard Theater 401 Lea Joyner Expy, Monroe Hours: 10:00 AM & 7:00 PM Cost:Free Phone: 318-329-2225 May 2-4 ULM Lady Warhawks vs ULL Ragin' Cajuns Join in on the fun and watch the ULM Lady Warhawks take on the ULL Rajin' Cajuns! Venue: ULM Softball Field Warhawk Way, Monroe Hours: 6:00 PM Thursday & Friday, 12:00 PM Saturday

Cost: General Admission: $5 Phone: 318-342-1000

Cost: $30 for Adults $10 for Students Phone: 318-323-6681

May 3 OWL Center: Adult Field Day Owlympics is a fun communitywide adult field day! Teams of 6 will compete in various relaystyle events for trophies and yearlong bragging rights at Owlympic Champions Registration fees benefit the OWL center and the recreational, therapeutic, and educational activities they provide to the community. Venue: OWL Center, 1523 Hwy 563, Dubach Hours: 2:00 PM Phone: 318-777-3460

May 3-5 ULM Warhawks vs UT Arlington Mavericks Join in on the fun and watch the ULM Warhawks take on the UT Arlington Mavericks! Venue: ULM Warhawk Field Warhawk Way, Monroe Hours: 6:00 PM Friday, 2:00 Saturday, 1:00 PM Sunday Cost: General Admission: $9, Reserved Seatback: $13 Phone: 318-342-1000

MAY 3-4 Mamma Mia at Strauss Enjoy a showing of Mamma Mia at Strauss! A mother, a daughter, three possible dads, and a trip down the aisle you’ll never forget. The magic of ABBA’s timeless songs propels this enchanting tale of love, laughter, and friendship, creating an unforgettable show with songs such as the title song plus “Dancing Queen,” “Thank You for the Music,” and “Money, Money, Money.” Venue: Strauss Theatre Center 1300 Lamy Lane, Monroe Hours: 7:00 p.m. Thurs - Saturday 2:00 p.m. Sunday

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Barak Shrine Circus For the past 61 years, the Barak Shrine Circus has brought incredible acts, family fun, and the one and only Barak Shrine Clowns to the Monroe Civic Center for all ages to enjoy! Join the Barak Shrine Circus again and help celebrate 61 years of what is for many a family tradition. Come early - the doors open one hour before each show so the kids can ride the elephants and ponies, get icees, freshly made cotton candy, and fun light-up toys! Venue: Monroe Civic Center 401 Lea Joyner Memorial Expressway, Monroe Cost: $12-$17 Phone: 318-329-2225

May 4 Downtown Spring Art Festival Stop by Antique Alley and enjoy the Downtown Spring Art Festival! There will be activities for all. Over 50 booths filled with artists and artisans and local organizations providing learning activities and demonstrations. Food vendors, live music and performances, free craft projects, jumpers, activities for kids, and more! The festival will be located in the area along Commerce St. in between Antique Alley and the Ouachita River. Venue: Antique Alley 100-400 blocks of Trenton Street, West Monroe Hours: 10:00 AM - 5:00 PM Cost: Free Boutique Bazaar at the Origin Bank RiverMarket Boutiques are storming the river! This free, family friendly event in downtown Monroe will feature your favorite (and new favorite!) home and clothing boutiques from across the region. Enjoy lunch on food truck row, and more! Venue: RiverMarket 316 South Grand, Monroe Hours: 10:00 AM - 4:00 PM Cost: Free Phone: 318-807-9985 Bulls in the Streets 2019 A fun run/walk event benefitting

local non-profit organizations Chennault Military Museum & Roe City Rollers. Visit bullsinthestreets.org for more info. Venue: Flying Tiger Brewery 506 North 2nd Street, Monroe Hours: 3:00 PM - 6:00 PM Phone: 318-547-1738 Juleps & Jazz Kick off the weekend at Juleps & Jazz where you’ll find signature Mint Derby Cocktails and enjoy the 145th running of the Kentucky Derby. Many folks are just as excited to see the historic home where Juleps & Jazz will be held: the King Stubbs-Horne House at 1608 N. 5th Street in the historic Garden District of Monroe features one the most stunningly landscaped grounds and beautiful swimming pools in the entire city. Tour the public areas of the house then make your way outside where you will enjoy a wide variety of delicious food and beverages, a selection of fine wines and spirits and fabulous music provided by the LA Jazz Quartet under the beautiful Horne House Pool Cabana. Juleps & Jazz promises attendees an opportunity to dress fabulously, a chance to participate in raffles and exciting fun derby games— all while supporting Northeast Louisiana’s only symphonic organization, the Monroe Symphony Orchestra along with the community and youth programs it supports. More Info at: www.mymso. org/JulepsandJazz Venue: 1608 N. 5th Street 1608 N. 5th Street, Monroe Hours: 4:00 PM - 6:30 PM May 5 The Music of Emy-Lou

Stop by the Biedenharn Museum & Gardens and hear The Music of EmyLou! Featuring the voice of acclaimed contralto Seva Day-May, the concert will feature classical vocal selections that Emy-Lou Biedenharn sang in her many performances throughout the world. Take a taste of history in the historic home of Monroe's Opera legend. Venue: Biedenharn Museum and Gardens 2006 Riverside Drive, Monroe Hours: 2:00 PM - 4:00 PM Cost: $10 Phone: 318-387-5281 HATS – Exhibit Opening Join the Biedenharn Museum and Gardens for their Hats Exhibit Opening! Come see articles of fashion history belonging to Ms. Emy-Lou while she was a traveling superstar! Venue: Biedenharn Museum and Gardens 2006 Riverside Drive, Monroe Hours: 3:00 PM – 5:00 PM Blend of the Bayou The Arts Council of Northeast Louisiana presents its 22nd annual Blend of the Bayou. The block party over the bayou will feature local men who cook and brew in additional to area artists. Ticket proceeds and a portion of silent auction profits benefit the Arts Council of Northeast Louisiana and its programs and services. The popular event features a wide array of delicious food and beverages prepared and served by prominent area professionals and businessmen who generously volunteer their time and talents. Purchase tickets online: https://bontempstix.com/events/

BlendFest or go by the Arts Council's office:2305 N 7th St, West Monroe, LA. Venue: 2110 Island Drive 2110 Island Drive, Monroe Hours: 5:00 PM - 7:00 PM May 9 Shop and Stroll Gather at Hamilton House Inn Reception Hall to pick up your swag bag which includes your discount shopping ticket. Enjoy light bites, shop the participating merchants and enjoy a fun evening with friends! Entry for grand door prize! Ticket includes food, discounts and swagbag. Venue: Antique Alley 100-400 blocks of Trenton Street, West Monroe Hours: 5:00 PM - 8:00 PM Cost: $25 Beer and Bards Beer & Bards takes place on the 2nd Thursday of every month at Enoch’s Irish Cafe and Pub. It begins at roughly 7:00 p.m. and lasts anywhere from an hour to an hour and a half. They ask for readers from all walks of life whether they be students, teachers, published authors, or just the casual connoisseur of short fiction and/ or poetry from within the community, the state, or anywhere in the world! Anyone with questions or who wishes to read can reach Jack Heflin, ULM English Professor and Beer & Bards Host, by either sending a message on the Beer & Bards Facebook page or contacting him directly at heflin@ulm. edu. Venue: Enoch's Irish Pub 507 Louisville Ave, Monroe Hours: 7:00 PM - 9:00 PM Phone: 318-388-3662

May 9-12 Twin City Crawfish & Music Festival Don't miss out on the Twin City Crawfish & Music Festival! Crawfish, fair rides, games, live music, petting farm, sno cones, face painting, raffles, crafts and more! Venue: Ike Hamilton Expo Center Arena 501 Mane Street, West Monroe Hours: 5:00 PM Phone: 318-325-9160 May 10-11 First National Bank Bayou DeSiard Dragon Boat Festival The 2019 Bayou DeSiard Dragon Boat Festival, presented by First National Bank will be held May 1011, 2019. There is a maximum of 30 boats this year, so don't wait! This event benefits the Children's Coalition for Northeast Louisiana and supports underfunded programs like Signs of Suicide, Jus4Me, Nurturing Fatherhood, Healthy Living & Youth Development as well as our Children's Coalition Family Garden. Venue: Bayou DeSiard 3430 Loop Road, Monroe May 10 Theresa Marsala Memorial Golf Classic The Theresa Marsala Memorial Golf Classic will be May 10th at the Frenchman's Bend Golf Course! 4 Man Scramble. 8am &1pm Shotgun. Join the Cancer Foundation League for a day of fun with raffle prizes, food and drinks, breakfast by McDonalds and all for a great cause! All proceeds benefiting The Cancer Foundation League. Venue: Frenchman’s Bend Golf Course, 1484 Frenchman’s Bend, Monroe

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Big Creek Trade Days Come out and enjoy this flea market-type experience with something to offer everyone! Browse hundreds of vendors with clothing & accessories, home decor, homemade furniture, antique & vintage items, and much more! Venue: California Plant Road in Dubach Hours: Friday-Saturday 9:00 AM – 4:00 PM, Sunday 10:00 AM – 4:00 PM Cost: $5 for parking Phone: 318-680-1304 May 11 Food Truck Festival Food trucks have exploded onto the culinary scene all across Louisiana. The Rivermarket is celebrating their craft with the Food Truck Festival! Enjoy delicious foods as well as shopping with great local vendors. Venue: Downtown Riverwalk 316 South Grand, Monroe Hours: 10:00 AM Cost: Free Phone: 318-812-0450 Tour Along the Ouachita Join the Cooley House and Schepis Museum as they caravan to historic sites along the Ouachita River, from Monroe to Columbia. Beginning with the Cooley House and Layton Castle at 2:00 p.m. From there, you'll caravan to Caldwell Parish, to visit Synope Plantation, the Graves Plantation, Martin House, Our Lady of Peace Meditation Chapel and the Shepis Museum in Columbia. There will be refreshments at stops along the way. Registration also includes admission to Blend of the River Festival in Columbia. Proceeds benefit the restoration of the 1928 Cooley House, a rare Prairie style masterpiece of the South. Venue: Cooley House 1101 South Grand Street, Monroe Hours: 2:00 PM - 6:00 PM Phone: 318-329-2237 Landry Vineyards Music Concert Murphy's Law Murphy's Law play country, classic rock and dance music. Jambalaya, cheese trays, 4 types of boudin, wine Bellini's and drinks will be offered for purchase. Don't forget to bring your lawn chairs and blankets to relax on the lawn or call to reserve a table. Food and cold drinks are welcomed but please do not bring pets or outside alcohol. The tasting room will open at 11:00 AM and will carry through to the end of the concert. Come celebrate an afternoon of fun with your family and

community! Venue: Landry Vineyards 5699 New Natchitoches Road, West Monroe Hours: 4:00 PM - 7:30 PM Cost: adults $10.00 young adults 1318 years $5.00 children 12 and under are free. Phone: 318-557-9051 FFC 4 Enjoy pro and amateur mixed martial art at the Monroe Civic Center! Venue: Monroe Civic Center 401 Lea Joyner Memorial Expressway, Monroe Hours: 7:00 PM - 11:30 PM Phone: 318-329-2225 30 Men Who Cook Quota International of Ruston invites you to come out for their 2019 annual fundraiser, 30 Men Who Cook! Enjoy an evening of live entertainment, activities, and delicious food samples! The proceeds will be dedicated to helping fund Quota of Ruston's service projects for 2019 which include the hearing impaired and underprivileged women and children of the community. Venue: Railroad Park, Downtown Ruston Hours: 3:00-6:00 PM Cost: $15/$3 for kids May 14 ULM Warhawks vs Northwestern State Demons Join in on the fun and watch the ULM Warhawks take on the Northwestern State Demons! Venue: ULM Warhawk Field Warhawk Way, Monroe Hours: 6:00 PM Cost: General Admission: $9, Reserved Seatback: $13 Phone: 318-342-1000 May 16-18 ULM Warhawks vs ULL Ragin' Cajuns Join in on the fun and watch the ULM Warhawks take on the ULL Rajin' Cajuns! Venue: ULM Warhawk Field Warhawk Way, Monroe Hours: 6:00 PM Thursday & Friday, 2:00 PM Saturday Cost: General Admission: $9, Reserved Seatback: $13 Phone: 318-342-1000 May 17 Starter-Plant Sale Stop by Fiesta Nutrition Center for the Starter-Plant Sale! They will also be handing out information about gardening and how to grow your own food! Venue: Fiesta Nutrition Center 1211 North 18th Street, Monroe

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Hours: 11:00 AM - 1:00 PM Phone: 318-387-8446 May 18 'Rita's on the River/Taco Festival Margaritas and tacos are the feature at the Origin Bank RiverMarket. Sample the best margaritas and tacos found in the twin cities! Enjoy shopping, food trucks, and more. Margarita samplings are from 124pm. Local bars and restaurants are competing for the titles of Best Classic Margarita, Most Creative Margarita, People's Choice, and Best Dressed Booth. Venue: Downtown Riverwalk 316 South Grand, Monroe Hours: 10:00 AM - 4:00 PM Cost: Free Phone: 318-812-0450 Yolanda Adams Concert Hear Yolanda Adams live in concert! Yolanda Adams is an American gospel singer, record producer, actress, and former radio host of her own nationally syndicated morning gospel show. Venue: Monroe Civic Center 401 Lea Joyner Memorial Expressway, Monroe Hours: 5:00 PM Cost: $25-$75 Phone: 318-329-2225 Downtown Foot Pursuit 5K This race will benefit the Reserve Officers of the Monroe Police Dept. Race Awards will be given out to the Top 10 Male & Top 10 Female. This event is sure to be a blast full of surprises all for a good cause! There is no fun run in this race, just the 5K. Dirty South Running is offering a discount for all of our 1st Responders. Venue: RiverMarket 316 South Grand, Monroe Hours: 5:00 PM – 7:00 PM Phone: 318-807-9985 May 25 5th Annual Memorial Day with Our HOME Each year Our HOME honors Fallen Heroes and their Gold Star Families! They start the event with a ceremony to renew their promise to the Gold Star Families, and then have a celebration to honor the sacrifices of these Brave Service Men and Women! Charlie Woods and the Smokin Section Band and Scotty Temple and Southbound Train will be rocking away in honor of our heroes! There will be a kid zone with bouncers, face paint, activities and more!

Venue: West Monroe Convention Center 901 Ridge Avenue, West Monroe Hours: 5:00 PM - 8:00 PM Phone: 318-396-5000 May 31 Ouachita Live Concert - Andrea Coburn & Mud Mosely FREE Outdoor Live Music Event! Hear Andrea Coburn & Mud Mosely live May 31st! Stop by Downtown West Monroe every Last Friday MarchOctober for a musical event! Venue: Antique Alley 100-400 blocks of Trenton Street, West Monroe Hours: 5:30 PM - 8:00 PM Cost: Free May 4, 11, 18, 25 Ruston Farmer’s Market Shop, eat and support locals at the Ruston Farmers Market. Choose from a wide selection of seasonal fruits and vegetables, meat, eggs, honey, jams, salsa, and other locally produced goods! You can also shop for natural skin care products, soaps, woodworks, and more, all hand-crafted by local artists and makers. Coffee is available from Railway Coffee along with breakfast from local vendors and food trucks. Venue: Ruston Farmers Market, 220 E Mississippi Ave Hours: 9:00 AM - 1:00 PM Cost: Free to attend Phone: 318-957-1305 May 6, 13, 20, 27 Family Movie Nights Join in a Lincoln Parish Library tradition of family movie night! Films are always family-friendly and free to attend. Venue: Lincoln Parish Library, 910 N Trenton St Hours: 6:00 PM Phone: 318-251-5030

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