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Vol. 43 • No. 27 • July 4-10, 2013

Historic Pride celebrates marriage by James Patterson

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he Obama administration’s reaction to the U.S. Supreme Court rulings striking down a key provision of the Defense of Marriage Act and Proposition 8 provides a stark contrast to that of the previous administration. In 2003, when the Supreme Court struck down laws prohibiting private intimate contact between same-sex partners (in Lawrence v. Texas), President George W. Bush had nothing to say, at least not publicly. His press secretary, Ari Fleischer, told reporters that the Bush administration had not filed a brief in the case and that it considered the decision to be “a state matter.” The Bush administration took no action to determine to what extent the Lawrence ruling might apply to various federal programs, such as the military’s “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” law banning openly gay service members. It continued enforcing the ban and, though statistics showed the Bush administration See page 8 >>

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San Francisco Supervisor London Breed had hot dancers on her London-themed float in Sunday’s Pride parade.

unday’s Pride parade, which organizers said attracted a crowd of 1.2 million, was historic and a sense of jubilation was in the air, coming in the wake of two U.S. Supreme Court decisions that recognize same-sex marriages. It was just a week ago that the high court, in a 5-4 decision, struck down a key provision in the 1996 Defense of Marriage Act that withheld federal recognition and benefits to same-sex couples. The justices also recognized a lower California court’s decision that Proposition 8, which banned same-sex marriage, was unconstitutional. After the 9th U.S. Circuit Court of Appeals in San Francisco lifted a stay late Friday afternoon, same-sex marriages resumed at City Hall. As a result, the Pride parade and related activities took on an air of joyfulness that hasn’t been seen since the Supreme Court struck down state sodomy laws 10 years ago. Around midday Sunday, most officials declined to estimate the crowd. In the parade’s aftermath, Lisa Williams, president of the San Francisco LGBT Pride Celebration Committee board, estimated the crowd at See page 11 >>

SF Pride vacations lead to weddings

Mary Beth Gabriel, left, and Pam Shaheen of Atlanta, Georgia, in town on vacation for Pride week, were the second couple to marry in San Francisco. Matthew S. Bajko

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n town last week celebrating their 20th anniversary during San Francisco’s Pride festivities, Atlanta couple Pam Shaheen and Mary Beth Gabriel were enjoying a drink at Market Street restaurant Zuni Friday afternoon when news came that California could once again marry same-sex couples. The couple rushed over to City Hall and was the second to exchange vows. Their ceremony occurred only minutes after Berkeley residents Kris Perry and Sandra Stier, one of the plain-

tiffs in the federal case that led to the lifting of the state ban against same-sex marriages, wed on the opposite side of the Rotunda before a phalanx of television cameras. “We discussed it Wednesday when the decisions came out but we thought it would take 25 days before the marriages would resume,” said Gabriel. “We’ve talked about it so long.” The women, both 48, had joined the crowd at City Hall last Wednesday morning to await the U.S. Supreme Court decisions in both the Proposition 8 case out of California and a New York case that had challenged a section of the federal Defense of Marriage Act.

After the court struck down a part of DOMA and Prop 8, Shaheen proposed to Gabriel. “I whispered in her ear at the base of the stairs will you marry me now,” recalled Shaheen. Gabriel, who said yes, had envisioned having a “quiet ceremony,” perhaps just the two of them on a beach, while Shaheen thought they would plan a “big church wedding.” It is up in the air if they will have another marriage ceremony before family and friends once they return home. “The negotiations have just begun,” joked Shaheen, who did text her mom and sister the news of the couple having tied the knot last week. Even though their marriage will not be legally recognized by their home state, one of 37 with bans against same-sex marriages, the women are hopeful it will be seen as a legal marriage in the eyes of the federal government. “We are hopeful about that,” said Shaheen, adding the couple is “even more hopeful” that someday soon same-sex marriages will be legal nationwide. Addressing the media following their ceremony, Perry and Stier pledged they would assist with efforts to overturn the remaining state-level bans against same-sex marriage. “We will come fight for you. You all should fight to be married because you deserve it and your children do too,” said Perry, who is raising four sons with Stier.

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Between Friday night and Sunday, San Francisco officials issued 563 same-sex marriage licenses and recorded 479 same-sex marriage licenses. It was the only county in the state to perform marriages over the weekend. “It is just overwhelming. We didn’t think it would happen in our lifetime,” said Chico resident Judy Yamada, 55, her eyes tearing up while discussing the marriage equality victories as she waited to witness Perry and Stier marry. Yamada and her wife, Julia Bryant, who first married in 2004 and again in 2008, happened to be staying at the nearby Phoenix Hotel with their friends, Elizabeth Goldblatt and Amy Louis, who also married in 2008, for Pride weekend when they saw news about the wedding on Facebook and rushed over to City Hall. “I am feeling elated but also disbelief, like someone is going to pinch me and this will have all been a dream,” said Bryant, who has been with Yamada 32 years. They registered as domestic partners in 1991, and their children, now aged 23 and 18, had pushed them to marry. “A lot of our friends said they wouldn’t get married until it was federally recognized, so I think they will now,” said Bryant. On Sunday alone, during the main Pride festivities, there were 236 marriage licenses issued and 218 licenses recorded See page 12 >>


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