Go & Make Issue #28 (Feb. 2016)

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IN THIS ISSUE

18 COVER STORY: MAKE THE TRADE Lead Pastor Greg St. Cyr shares about Bay Area’s heart for the nations and unpacks this year’s short term missions theme, Make the Trade: Self.

6 PARENTING 101 On the heels of spending a month traveling around the country, encountering kids and families everywhere he went, Executive Pastor Ed Kelley offers 10 considerations for the Christian parent.

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24 DOWNTOWN HOPE CELEBRATES OPENING One year after closing on the space, church plant Downtown Hope celebrates moving into their new home at 255 West Street in Annapolis.

26 Q&A: DOUG AND ROBIN RAY Parents of a Bay Area family share about love, grace and walking alongside their children no matter the circumstances.

12 WINTER RELIEF Annual preparations are underway to transform our church into a shelter and place of hope for more than 20 homeless men and women for one week this March.

29 TOP 5 WAYS TO GET THE MOST OUT OF YOUR MC Missional Communities Pastor Brian Hopper unveils his top recommendations for gaining the richest discipleship and spiritual growth experience through participating in a Missional Community.

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MAGAZINE CREDITS EDITOR IN CHIEF Josh Shirlen MANAGING EDITOR Meredith Thompson ART Arianne Teeple Jake Williams Josh Burgin Josh Shirlen Meredith Thompson CONTRIBUTORS Casely Essamuah Brian Hopper Michele Rollins Steve Onken

On the cover: James Lagaras Photo by Josh Shirlen

ELDERS Brian Mallare David McPeak Don Wiley Greg St. Cyr J Upton John Battan John Taylor Keith Riniker Peter Godfrey Rich Heath Roger Ishii Tim Dotson Tim Grossman Tom Dalpini Tom Hogan Warwick Fairfax

BAY AREA LEADERSHIP Brent Squires, Student Ministry Pastor – brent.squires@bayareacc.org Brian Hopper, Missional Community Pastor – brian.hopper@bayareacc.org Casely Essamuah, Global Missions Pastor – casely.essamuah@bayareacc.org Ed Kelley, Executive Pastor – ed.kelley@bayareacc.org Gail Wiles, Children’s Ministry Director – gail.wiles@bayareacc.org Greg St. Cyr, Lead Pastor – greg.stcyr@bayareacc.org Janet Graves, Women’s Ministry Director – janet.graves@bayareacc.org Jerry Shirlen, Financial Administrator – jerry.shirlen@bayareacc.org Jocelyn Rimbey Sacks, Connecting Director – jocelyn.rimbey@bayareacc.org Josh Shirlen, Gathering Team Leader – josh.shirlen@bayareacc.org Leanne Lane, Care Network Director – leanne.lane@bayareacc.org Lynn Dutton, H.R. Administrator – lynn.dutton@bayareacc.org Micah Pringle, Worship Leader – micah.pringle@bayareacc.org Pat Linnell, Teaching Pastor – pat.linnell@bayareacc.org Ron Dutton, Operations Director – ron.dutton@bayareacc.org Tres Cozad, Technical Director – tres.cozad@bayareacc.org

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LETTER FROM THE LEAD

A favorite leadership quote of mine is by Max de Pree: “The first responsibility of a leader is to define reality. The last is to say thank you. In between, the leader is a servant.”

As a dreamer, I’m not always living in reality. I recently had a reality check that I want to pass on to you. I met with a couple of missionaries who are seeking to see the rapid multiplication of churches in the United States, and they asked me, “Greg, about how many people in Anne Arundel County would you say are lost?”

“Hmmm… I’m not really sure,” I muttered.

The next words out of their mouths penetrated my heart: “We think God would be honored if you would elevate lostness.”

I don’t know that I had ever put those two words together before: elevate lostness. Since that conversation, I haven’t gotten those two words out of my mind. So I began to pray for God to do a fresh work in my own life. I also asked Trevin Hoekzema, our local outreach coordinator, to do some research. What he found helped me see reality.

According to the Association of Religious Data Archives in 2010, 8.27 percent of the Anne Arundel County population identified as evangelicals. That is 44,446 people (including children) out of the approximately 550,000 people in our county. About 30 percent are divided between mainline Protestant (9.2 percent), Catholic (17.7 percent) and other religious faiths. And 62 percent of the population does not affiliate with any religion.

What all this means is that there are well over 400,000 people (and likely closer to 500,000 people) in our county who need Jesus!

Contemplate this: More than eight out of 10 people in Anne Arundel county are lost without Christ.

which we have many opportunities to spend time with other believers, we tend to lose touch with the reality of just how many people need Jesus. Everywhere we turn, our eyes fall on people who are missing out on the love, forgiveness, joy and purpose found in a relationship with God through Jesus Christ.

2 Corinthians 4:4 puts it like this: “The god of this world has blinded the minds of the unbelievers, to keep them from seeing the light of the gospel of the glory of Christ, who is the image of God.” As a church, we have a heart for global missions. Throughout this month, you’ll be challenged to “Make the Trade.” I’m praying that many of us will take that step of faith. But as we focus on the nations, let us never forget the famous saying by missionary C.T. Studd: “The light that shines farthest shines brightest at home.” Over 400,000 people surround us who are lost and desperately in need of a Savior.

So here’s the challenge: Will we allow the Living Christ to use our lips, actions, time, resources and talents to bring the Good News, not only to places like India, Brazil, El Salvador, Poland, South Sudan and other nations, but also to co-workers, family members, neighbors, friends at school and people all around the county? We are all missionaries, sent by Jesus, on mission with Jesus to bring the Gospel to the lost.

Every One A Missionary,

Greg St. Cyr Lead Pastor For the Son of Man came to seek and to save the lost.

Luke 19:10

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n November I probably flew 15,000 miles. I visited Atlanta, New Orleans, Baton Rouge, Chicago, Anaheim, Los Angeles, Cabo San Lucas and Puerto Vallarta. From conferences to spending time with Greg St. Cyr in his hometown, from Disneyland with my two youngest and their wives to a cruise down the Mexican Riviera at the invitation of my youngest son, the trips were great. Susan and I had a grand time with Eddie and Beau (Sarah couldn’t come but was with us for Christmas). Anyway…

The cruise ship had tons of kids on it.

Disneyland was full of kids.

On each flight and at every port there were tons of kids.

With the kids came parents. I observed “parenting” at all levels, in formal dining rooms, in ride lines, on airplanes, etc. As a longtime pastor of students, and having spent 24 years at the same church in Seattle, I’ve seen families up close and personal for quite a long time. After my trips in November, I have one conclusion: Parents are in serious trouble.

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It seems to this writer that parents are really struggling to know how to engage their kids, especially in the area of discipline. I can’t tell you how many angry words, jerked arms, crying fits, tantrums, disrespect, etc. I saw across all demographics. Intense screaming, kicking, hitting and all sorts of bad behavior happened in public to these poor parents.

Parents would default to being threat-repeating robots.

“Johnny if you do that one more time, I’m going to blank blank blank...” Of course, Johnny does it one more time, then the parent says, “All right, I’ve had it! I’m going to give you to the count of three and if you don’t… One! Two! [defiance by Johnny] Listen young man, what in the world are you doing? You get over here right now!” …and on and on it would go. The kids won every battle. Here are my random thoughts for those of you who have kids; I won’t elaborate, but consider these things: 1. You are the parent, not their best friend. It isn’t a popularity contest.

2. FTO. First Time Obedience is the goal. Threatening and/or repeating yourself sets an attitude in your child and

you’ll handicap them if you continue to do it. Mean what you say, and say what you mean! Let your yes be yes and your no be no.

other. One can’t be soft and the other hard; be together in this arena. Compromise to find a united front. Consistency covers a multitude of sins!

3. Controlled, modified corporal punishment works. Dr. Benjamin Spock is all wet… don’t listen to him.

Okay, so there are some of my random thoughts on the topic of parenting. If you’re having trouble, find someone perhaps from your Missional Community - to help walk you through it. In Children’s Ministry we concentrate on helping parents be better disciple-makers; attend all the things that Children’s Ministry offers to make sure your child’s heart is going in the right direction. Children’s Ministry Director Gail Wiles and her team have a passion for this; so do Care Network Director Leanne Lane and our Care Coaches. If you need help deciphering all the different voices out there on the topic, feel free to contact them.

4. Aim for the foolishness to be driven out, not the childishness. There is a difference. Kids make mistakes; that’s how they (we) learn. When it’s defiance, one has to address that every time. Never, ever let defiance go, even if it’s extremely inconvenient. Respect is a must.

5. Remember, you’ll default to parenting patterns that you’re used to - normally, what you experienced. Just like prayer, study, building a deck or whatever, you need to learn new methods and habits and continually sharpen your skills/tools. Parenting is the same way.

6. Physical abuse is never okay. Common sense goes a long way here. Hitting and striking are different than a

A couple final thoughts... It’s important to know that God is working on your kids even when you’re not. Other significant adults in their lives are important. Even today, I thank God for J and Holly Upton and their influence on my son Eddie (he’s 27). From the time he was 7, I was

single swat. That said, the “abuse” word is thrown around awfully freely, and is so ill-defined nowadays that it means almost anything, and one can get confused awfully fast. Be careful that you’re not frozen by that word either way. Just remember, never hit out of anger. In fact…

intentional about placing other adults in his sphere. He learned from them about mechanical issues, affinities and computers. They shaped him as well. Having good, quality people take part in your kids’ lives is essential. That’s why you need Children’s Ministry in your corner, too.

7. Disciplining when you’re really angry is a bad idea.

After every correction moment (a swat, a time-out, a whatever), you need to dialogue with your child, expressing love, reasons, expectations of future behavior, etc. When you’re really angry, that usually either turns into a yellfest or it doesn’t occur at all. To be clear, one must teach children to respect the office of parent. If one doesn’t do that, then the child will be handicapped for the duration of their life and the world will teach them the importance of authority in its harsh, cold way.

I’ll leave you with some good fodder for parenting ideas: “The New Dare to Discipline” by Dr. James Dobson; “Parenting isn’t for Cowards” by Dr. James Dobson; “Growing Kids God’s Way” by Gary Ezzo; “The Duties of Parents” by J.C. Ryle; “Grace-Based Parenting” by Tim Kimmel; “Shepherding a Child’s Heart” by Tedd Tripp; and Cloud and Trent’s books on boundaries and “The Blessing” of being a parent. Obviously, use 1 Thess. 5:21-22 when evaluating authors on this topic, but be a student of parenting.

8. Conversations surrounding discipline are a good thing.

Before, during and after. Make sure they know the love that you have throughout any discipline process. By the way, different kids respond to different forms of discipline. Be aware of the difference in each of your kids and utilize a nuanced approach.

Yours, rooting for you all...

9. Management 101 works for Parenting 101: Criticize in private and praise in public. Same thing with children: Be careful with their spirit. Don’t break it with criticism.

Ed Kelley Ed Kelley is the executive pastor at Bay Area Community Church and a monthly contributer to GO&MAKE.

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MARCH 12 9 A.M. - 3 P.M. AT BACC When we accept God’s invitation for relationship, we become partners with Him in displaying His love for all creation. Biblical teaching and practical workshops will encourage you to live more like Jesus.

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Once a month the members of the worship and tech

teams meet together for Team Night. It’s a chance for us to share a meal, experience community, talk about practical issues we deal with in our roles, and worship together. At our last team night, this question was asked: “What keeps us (the church body) from really reaching that next level of passion and meaningfulness in our worship gatherings?”

The question was birthed out of a slightly different topic that we were digging into, but for just a moment we pressed pause and I shared my heart with our team. I want to take this moment to share with you now too, and illustrate what I believe is one of the biggest things that robs us of really seeing and experiencing what God has for us when we gather together on Sundays: Worship is stifled when we live in fear, and when we cling to control.

Fear is a crippling thing in any arena. It can have health consequences, it can cause us to make poor decisions, and if we zoom out and look at our culture and political climate, part of the reason people are so divided is because much of the news media focuses on what is now being called “fearmongering.” In 2 Timothy, Paul reminds us that God has not given us the spirit of fear, but of power, of love and of self-control (or of a sound mind). So how does fear inhibit our ability to worship? Because it causes us to focus on what we don’t know, and cannot be certain of, instead of on Jesus, whom we DO know, and can find all our confidence in. It’s the classic case of a child’s of fear of the dark. Dark is feared because we don’t know what kind of boogeyman is hiding in it. And that fear can prevent us from doing what we know we should do – in other words, fear keeps us from being obedient.

In recent weeks we heard a great message about Gideon.

In Judges 7, Gideon is to take 300 men to battle against an incredibly large army of Midianites. God acknowledges that Gideon may have some fear… so he tells Gideon to sneak down to their camp and listen in on a conversation between a couple of the enemy soldiers. When Gideon does this, he hears them talking about a dream they had in which Israel overtakes them, and Gideon’s response is amazing. His first response was that of worship (Judges 7:15). When we

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are no longer slaves to our fear, and we understand that we are children of God, we cannot help but worship Him, because He becomes the object of our attention instead of the unknown things that once held our hearts and minds captive.

So no, our Sunday morning gatherings are not exactly like going to war with a massive camp of Midianites, but the parallels are there. Because the reality is, we all have something we fear. We all, every single one of us, run the risk of allowing the things we don’t know to hijack our ability to focus on the One we do know, and respond obediently. The fear could be something as simple as “will the person next to me judge me if I lift my hands in worship?” to something as heavy and difficult as “my child/ spouse/friend is struggling with ____ and I don’t know what to do about it.” Fear could even prevent us from following through with being obedient to what God has called us to do during the rest of the week, so we arrive on Sunday in a default place of disconnection from Him. So take a moment, right now, and think about your fear. If nothing jumps to mind, ask Jesus to reveal it to you. Really think about what that thing is. Got it? Now ask yourself, “Why is this my fear? What are the things that I fear about it?” Got that too? Now inject Jesus into it. Pray. And Obey.

Practice Psalm 55:22 and 1 Peter 5:7 and cast your care on Jesus, and remember that He cares for you and will sustain you. Step out as Gideon did and live in obedience.

When we are free of fear, we can step more fully into the place of worship that God has for us! Let’s collectively choose to not live in fear; let’s see where God takes us as we see victory over this area of our lives… and then we’ll talk next month about what it looks like to release the control we work so hard to maintain.

Micah Pringle is the worship leader at Bay Area Community Church and a monthly contributer to GO&MAKE. F E B RUA RY GO&MAKE 9

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By Pat Linnell

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ause here for a moment. Don’t rush past this. Answer this question: How can you tell if you are wasting your life? Does the answer lie in your bank accounts? Your relationship status? Your health? Your reputation? I mean, how can you really tell if you are fulfilling your purpose?

Simple answer: It’s got everything to do with exercising faith.

“Grasshoppers.” “We are like grasshoppers next to these giants. If they wanted to, they could easily crush us, and end our weird little bug lives.” This was the mentality of 10 of the 12 spies who were sent into the Promised Land under the direction of Moses, not long after God parted the Red Sea for some 2 million Israelites to walk through. If you are not familiar with the story, grab a Bible and read through Numbers 13 & 14 (the fourth book in the Old Testament).

It seems crazy that God’s people would lack the faith to obey Him, right after he had accomplished so much for them. Think about it – God had just dramatically intervened after 400 years of captivity. His people are exiting Egypt through the middle of a parted sea with great wealth, a new leader and a promise

that the new land will be placed right in their hand – God would be fighting their battles. But this next challenge seemed too hard for God, they supposed.

The result of lacking faith in what they were called to do was a wasted life. The generation that was overcome by fear ended up walking around in the middle of nowhere for 40 years. This is a life circling the runway, but never taking off – getting fit, for no real race – getting paid, for no real point – getting fame, in front of the wrong audience.

This little story from the people and places of Jesus’ history reminds us not to waste our lives. We are alive today for great and God-glorifying purposes.

He has prepared good works for us to accomplish in advance, and he has gifted and empowered us to do them. His plan is for you to build His Kingdom in your own unique way, to give of yourself in order to build His church.

Yet what holds many of us back from taking the smallest steps of faith is fear: I’m too weak, I’m too small, I’m not smart enough, fast enough, popular enough; I will be crushed, my dreams will be crushed, my fancy life will get crushed,

I don’t know what to do. God has parted the sea of sinfulness and carried us into the newness of life through the cross of Christ, and it seems crazy but we often lack faith to obey Him. Pause here for a moment. Don’t rush past this. Answer this question: How has God made you to make a difference for Him – what are the ways you can help people take one step closer to Jesus? It is important to figure this out, because the “this” is your calling, “this” is your adventure of faith, “this” is your time to trust that God is fighting for you, “this” is your life. Don’t waste it – go for it.

Pat Linnell is the teaching pastor at Bay Area Community Church and a monthly contributer to GO&MAKE. F E B RUA RY GO&MAKE 11

THE BLESSING OF

WINTER RELIEF

BY BRIAN HOPPER

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heryl sometimes sleeps in her car in Bay Area’s parking lot and uses our public WiFi. She has met with and been ministered to by our deacons. When Cruz is in town, he comes early on Sundays to our gatherings and helps set up chairs. Ryan has been struggling with a drug addiction, in and out of programs for a while, and when he is in town he joins us for worship on Sundays. Glenn has been in a yearlong conversation about faith in Jesus with one of our staff; though he has moved from shelter to shelter, he stays in touch via email. And from time to time, if you look in the corner of the bay café on a Sunday morning, you’ll see Kristen, sitting, drinking coffee, listening to the sermons and worshipping with our church.

attention, you can see their faces in the cracks of the city, living in wooded street corners, under bridges and on the back streets.

It is not as though churches, ministries and social organizations aren’t working to help the homeless, because they are.

Ministries like the Light House Shelter, the Arundel House of Hope and Sarah’s House have served the homeless in a variety of ways over the years, providing shelter, job training, mental health care and basic life-skills education to help the homeless get on their feet. But for

These snapshots may sound like random connections to Bay Area, but every one of them is the result of one week where these (and about 20 others) have literally called BACC their home.

This is Winter Relief, and these are the stories of homeless men and women who reside in our building for one week every winter.

Winter Relief is a program started and developed by Arundel House of Hope. They partner with and rely on local churches to house the homeless for a week at a time over the winter months. Our church has been blessed to be a host for the last two years, and to serve our homeless guests.

It’s an extraordinary opportunity for us to serve the least of these in our city and bless those who are truly in need.

Homelessness has been an ongoing social issue in our city for years. Annapolis, serving as the well-to-do capital of our state, has worked hard to both serve and hide the homeless. Though they’re not always visible, which is partially by design, there are over an estimated 2,000 homeless men, women and youth in our county. If you travel anywhere in the downtown area and look, really pay 12 GO&MAKE F EB R UA RY

to host Winter Relief again this year from March 14-21.

Similar to previous years, our auditorium will be transformed into a shelter with cots, blankets, suitcases and over 20 men and women. Our Missional Communities will again serve our guests every evening with home-cooked meals, activities, Bible studies, bingo, hot showers, bus tokens, birthday parties, washing laundry and many other simple but necessary blessings. This has been a rallying point for our church to connect with the greater needs locally in our city.

And more than just serve and send them off at week’s end, as noted above, real relationships have developed and carried over beyond our week. We have had many opportunities to bring the good news of Jesus to those in need and help provide direction and assistance in ways that exceed their short term needs.

For us, this has always been the goal – to be a blessing so that our good deeds not only exemplify the grace of Jesus in our lives, but also open the door for sharing the gospel and helping people come to faith. And, thankfully, we have seen the Lord use our church family to accomplish this.

some, the cycle of homelessness is not broken. And this is where caring for the homeless in simple, practical ways – shelter, food and protection – is what Arundel House of Hope is aiming to do through Winter Relief.

By partnering with local churches, whose buildings typically lay unused throughout the week, they are able to offer overnight shelter to the homeless.

This year, Winter Relief, working with local churches throughout the county, will house over 400 men, women and children who otherwise would be out in the cold on the street. It is our privilege

In return, we have been equally blessed. Last year, after a great week of serving our guests, a few of them pooled their money and purchased thank-you cards for each of the staff who helped throughout the week. With tears and applause, our guests thanked us for being a blessing to them. It is a moment that will forever be etched into my mind as together, we honored and blessed one another.

If you would like to find out more about Winter Relief and how you can serve, check with your Missional Community leader. If you are not part of an MC and would like to help, contact Trevin Hoekzema, who will oversee this year’s Winter Relief, at winterrelief@ bayareacc.org.

FEBRUARY

BOOK: Angels, Satan, and Demons AUTHOR: Robert Lightner

4. An evil thug. Turns out this angel was a demon and had to be dealt with by the hero.

Angels. There is one on every corner, seemingly.

5. Two ladies, normal looking. They would just find people who were desperate and more or less help them “think” through what they were doing.

Most of this show focused on the “divine from within.” Ewwww.

theology book; rather, it looks at angels as they were depicted in the early ages and has a detailed exegesis of what the Bible says about angels, therefore gleaning conclusions (that many times are at odds with the TV depictions).

This book will help you “get it right” when it comes to all three persons of the title. You’ll know when someone

If a Martian was to tune into our media, especially TV and movies, he would most likely believe the opening line of this book review. Angels are literally everywhere (can you say “Hallmark Movie Channel”?).

This past Christmas season I must have seen five different types of angels on TV: 1. The best looking dude ever! He was helping postmen deliver “letters to God.” I think it was called “Signed, Sealed, Delivered.” It was a cheesy but great redemptive story (I had to find the Kleenex a couple times I admit!). The angel guy was quiet, full of wisdom, and dressed like an executive for the USPS. 2. Old frumpy man. His name was Clarence, and he couldn’t do anything right. He was trying to help someone so he could get his “wings.” It happens to be the most watched movie in history during the Christmas season: “It’s a Wonderful Life.” This, too, drew tears for me.

3. A princess. She looked like a fairy godmother from the Wizard of Oz. She helped a girl find confidence to do what’s right.

Now, obviously, theologically, angels don’t earn wings. They don’t “help random people think.” They are messengers for God and from God, normally with a very specific point. They can appear in normal attire (read the scary Hebrews 13:2 verse!

Scary in the sense of “oh wow…really!” I truly do think I ran into an angel back in 1999. If you see me, remind me to tell you the story) and they can have esoteric functions (think burning bush!).

This month’s book is called “Angels, Satan, and Demons.” It’s all about the invisible (for the most part) beings that inhabit the spiritual world. The author is Robert Lightner, and it’s edited by Charles Swindoll. This isn’t a systematic

talks about an event and brings angels into the conversation if they’re right or wrong. Lightner penetrates the “fog” of popular myths (such as loved ones dying and becoming literal angels) and calls us back to the only authoritative book on the topic. Swindoll says “angelology” is one of the most misunderstood arenas of all theology.

Give this book a try. It’s a great read and you’ll definitely, most definitely, learn something.

Yours truly, Ed Kelley Executive Pastor F E B RUA RY GO&MAKE 13

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From participants to leaders, Brian and Judith Green share how the Marriage Ministry has strengthened their relationship

“We realized what transpired in our previous marriages and how painful divorce was, and we both have said over and over again to each other, ‘We’re not going through that again. This is it. We’re committed to our marriage, we’re committed to God, and we’re going to make this work.’”

By Meredith Thompson Brian and Judith Green met at work in 2003. After dating for two-and-a-half years, Brian, a cybersecurity consultant, played on Judith’s love of trivia games and scavenger hunts to orchestrate an elaborate proposal. A long string of clues and messages led his bride-to-be to the Chart House in Annapolis, at which point Judith had solved the puzzle. Their table wasn’t ready, so they went out on the pier, where Brian bent on one knee and popped the question. She said yes.

“We got up and saw all these middies lined up at Chart House waiting to go to dinner,” Brian said, fondly recalling that evening in May 2008. “It was the night of the Ring Dance for Midshipmen, and I had no idea—” “—and they all started applauding us!”

Judith finished. “It was so neat. I was crying, Brian almost dropped the ring, put it on the wrong finger.”

Though deeply committed to making their marriage work, the Greens ran into the same challenges many married couples face, compounded by the logistical hurdles of both having children from their previous marriages, so they sought out the Marriage Ministry at Bay Area. “We wanted to learn how to be a better husband and wife,” Judith, an operations manager for Northrup Grumman, explained.

They signed up for the “His Needs, Her Needs” Learning Community, and

benefitted from it so much that they re-enrolled again the next year for a refresher. The LC’s leaders asked the Greens to facilitate a session on finances; it was the first time they were able to share things they had learned.

Today, after participating in four of its LCs, Brian and Judith lead the Marriage Ministry, in collaboration with Gene and Brenda Fuller and Eric and Nancy Feldmann. They are also training with Missional Communities Pastor Brian Hopper to lead an MC for couples within the ministry. As leaders of the ministry, the Greens serve as the primary points of contact, and with the Fullers and Feldmanns coordinate marriagecentered Learning Communities and events including the Great Date Night, which will be held on February 13.

Whether newlyweds or couples who have been married for 50 years, the

“At the beginning, [the Marriage Ministry] was an injection of God back into our marriage. It’s enabled us to take an approach where we’re now able to share and give back to other marriages.”

- Brian Green

Greens agree the Marriage Ministry is beneficial for anyone. If you wait until you have a problem, Brian explained, it’s too late. Judith echoed, it’s like taking care of anything, such as a car: You need to have constant maintenance and upkeep.

“I think a lot of people, when they get married, think, ‘OK, now I’m done,’ but it requires constant communication,” she said. “One of the things I’ve really learned [through the Marriage Ministry] is being a servant … I think that’s when marriages become successful – when you’re putting the other person first.”

Brian added, “At the beginning, [the Marriage Ministry] was an injection of God back into our marriage. It’s enabled us to take an approach where we’re now able to share and give back to other marriages. … We don’t have all the answers, but we can facilitate conversations and get people talking.”

Bay Area’s Marriage Ministry exists to build maturing, passionate and lasting marriages as God’s most visible image of becoming one in Christ. Married couples can engage in enrichment and educational opportunities year-round including Learning Communities, marriage workshops, special events and Missional Communities. To learn more about the Marriage Ministry, go to www. bayareacc.org/marriageministry or contact Care Network Director Leanne Lane at leanne.lane@bayareacc.org.

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BY STEVE ONKEN he phrase "letting God do what He does best" not only represents something of a philosophy of life for Tom Hogan, but also captures the essence of the coast-to-coast and back again path along which the Lord has led him.

Growing up in a rather nonreligious home in Virginia, where church was a task to be completed and ritual to be followed, Tom was not particularly interested in the institution throughout most of his childhood and teen years.

However, when his Navy dad was transferred to California for Tom's senior year in high school, God stirred in Tom an interest in seeking out a new church. God drew Tom into a youth ministry through which he eventually would attend a Christian concert, where he heard the truth of the Gospel and gave His life to Christ.

Tom followed in his dad's Navy footsteps, enrolling in ROTC at UCLA, where he went to college to become a pilot in the Navy.

While at the university, Tom met his future wife through a collegiate church ministry, and they married in 1982, with Janet’s dad officiating.

Each new station in the Navy brought new ventures for the Hogan household. From 1998-2002, Tom taught computer science at the Naval Academy. While in the process of retiring from the Navy in 2003, Tom's doctors discovered he had prostate cancer that required treatment. Instead of facing hospital treatments without military insurance, God intervened, and Tom was reinstated into the Academy in the IT department.

mission trip, and has been going back ever since. He is regularly reminded of Acts 1:8 as he witnesses the power of the Holy Spirit in their midst time and time again, changing lives – not only of those they go to serve, but of those on the team as well. Tom loves how the family camp provides an experience of living with the local people day in and day out, bonding with them, doing life with them, and watching God transform lives.

He is especially blessed by seeing God raise up disciples from among those the team goes to serve, to carry on the ministry after the trip. One girl in particular, who reluctantly attended camp with her mom while battling extreme depression, came to the Lord during the week, and God has radically transformed her life. She can now be found at the camp each year witnessing for Christ and pursuing others to become maturing followers of Jesus! This year, Tom will lead a Poland trip for the first time, and He looks forward to what God will do in and through his team.

Tom has served at Bay Area in a number of capacities for over 10 years now. During his first years back in 2005-06, Tom was the webmaster for the church website. He has also served in Children’s Ministry, and has led a Missional Community with his wife. He and Janet, who have been married for 33 years, have two married daughters and six grandchildren. In Tom's free time, he enjoys reading and playing tennis.

In 2005, God brought the Hogans to Bay Area Community Church. Although Tom initially did not feel moved to participate in a short term mission trip, following the 2006 training, he responded with an eager "yes" to the call to join a team going to Poland. There, he served at the family camp and saw God use the trip in his own life as much as in the lives of the people they went to serve.

The following year, Tom entered a season of emotional challenge. His parents, living in Washington state, were not doing well, and Tom sensed he needed to be there for them, to serve them in their time of physical need.

He approached his superior at the Academy and explained that he needed to quit his job to go help his parents in Seattle.

Rather than accept his resignation, Tom’s boss sent him to Seattle with a job transfer so he could continue to work while serving his parents. Over the next few years, Tom endured the deaths of his dad, mom and sister while in Seattle.

In 2010 the Hogans returned to Annapolis and reconnected with BACC. In 2013 Tom returned to Poland on a short term

In 2014, Tom was nominated to be an elder; he sought the Lord, accepted His call, and was installed that November. Of the four core ministries of the elders – direction, doctrine, discipleship and discipline – Tom is most drawn to and gifted in the area of discipleship. One-on-one ministry with growing and/or struggling believers is at the center of Tom's heart, as evidenced by his selfless service to his family, his parents, those at the Academy, and now to the families under his oversight as elder.

He shares with others, and knows from personal experience, that we can "cast all our anxieties on Him, for He cares for you (1 Peter 5:7).”

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Imagine a corkboard where you pin your vision for your life. It holds your hopes and dreams. Does it reflect God’s vision for your life, or simply your own?

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e’ve been making trades our entire lives, exchanging things we have for other things that suit our interests: the ham and cheese sandwich for the PB&J at lunch, tickets to a Ravens game for tickets to see LSU play Ole Miss, the old minivan for a new SUV, the vacation savings for a kitchen upgrade. It’s all part of our personal dealings to create our ideal life, an innate desire to get what we want. It is in this mutual reality that I’d like to pose a challenge: Make the Trade. Trade in your ambitions for God’s plan for your life.

seriously to “make disciples of all nations,” how can we not at least pray about trading in part of our vacation time for the sake of another nation? And third, our church’s heart for the nations is ever-growing.

A phrase that I often say, though it sounds a bit churchy, is, “God has a grand, redemptive plan for the nations.” Until we grasp God’s overarching story for the nations, we cannot fully understand His plan for us. Why? Because our story is part of His grand story. The two are intertwined. That means we each have a role to play in His grand story.

Make the Trade is Bay Area’s annual challenge for those in our church family to consider serving on a global mission Allow me to give you a brief theology of the nations as a way trip. As a church, we’ve always done short term mission trips, of explaining why our church family is so committed to the sending out handfuls of people every year. Over the years, nations: several things have happened that have brought the fruit of our trips to new heights. First, we hired Casely Essamuah, God’s heart for the nations is grounded in His love. His our global missions pastor. Under Casely’s leadership, we love is an unconditional, sacrificial, initiating love. are able to more effectively partner with missionaries overseas, train teams, and organize trips. Second, three In the midst of hopeless rebellion, in love God years ago Gatherings Director Josh Shirlen was able to grasp sovereignly chose Abraham to raise up a people our vision and articulate it in a challenge that would force all (Israel) in order to bless the nations (Genesis 12:1-3). of us to pause and contemplate. If we take the words of Jesus 18 GO&MAKE F EB R UA RY

In the fullness of time, God lovingly sent His Son Jesus, the seed of Abraham, to atone for our sins on the cross (John 3:16). People from every tribe, tongue and nation now have access to God through Jesus.

In love, Jesus sends His followers to make disciples of all nations (John 20:21; Matt. 28:18-20). That involves each of us: Every One A Missionary.

In love, Jesus will come again and usher the redeemed from every nation into the eternal state, the full expression of the kingdom of God (Rev. 5:9,10; 21:24).

All of God’s dealings from Genesis to Revelation involve His heart and plan for the nations. He is calling out worshipers to Himself from every tribe, tongue and nation. When we lay hold of God’s grand plan, and live our life in light of His plan and not ours, life becomes a grand faith adventure of joy, purpose and adventure.

Let me say this as clearly as I can: God wants to use you to advance His mission from here to the nations.

Without understanding and participating in God’s grand plan for the nations, you short-change yourself of the full scope of how God wants to use you. Acts 1:8 puts it like this: “you will receive power when the Holy Spirit has come upon you; and you shall be My witnesses both in Jerusalem, and in all Judea and Samaria, and even to the remotest part of the earth.”

Now back to the trade-making challenge I introduced at the beginning of the article. I have found that there is one particular barrier that each of us must deal with in order to make the trade. It is the barrier of self. We are born with a default drive on selfishness. We want what we want, and quite readily prioritize our own self-ambition. It’s easy to envision our own plans for our future and how we will spend our time and resources. In some ways, our lives are like the popular website Pinterest. We have Pinterest boards for do-it-yourself projects, foodies, places to go, home improvement, style, crafts and much more. Of course, there is nothing wrong with Pinterest, unless what we are pinning on our board doesn’t take into account God and what He wants to pin.

What we are asking you to do during Make the Trade is simple but extremely difficult. We are challenging you to offer a pin to Jesus, asking, “What do you want to pin to my board? What is your plan for me in light of your grand plan?” In order to truly do that, something has to die: self. Our agenda, our plans must be surrendered to the grand Planner’s grand plan for us. If you open your “self” to what God wants to put on your board, you are going to see Him give you His heart for the nations, and it will radically change your life and the people around you. Will you take the challenge to Make the Trade?

The Great Commission is not only for Annapolis, or the United States, but also includes the remotest part of the earth. It’s not either/or. It is both/and.

Ponder this question: Are you faithful to the last words of Jesus to “make disciples of all nations,” and to be His witnesses “even to the remotest part of the earth,” if you do not give yourself in some way to the nations?

As a church, we are committed to Make the Trade for many reasons. This faith step gives us God’s heart for the nations like no sermon, book or missionary story ever could. When your boots are on the ground, your view of our global God expands exponentially. Mission trips are greenhouses for discipleship. This faith-step immerses you into an intense season of serving, witnessing, encouraging national believers, reading God’s Word daily, fervent prayer and trusting God way outside of your comfort zone. You return very different from when you left.

Additionally, you come back more equipped and passionate to live like a missionary right here, right now. Remember our saying, Every One a Missionary. You aren’t any more a missionary in El Salvador than you are in Edgewater, but having been to El Salvador you will return to Edgewater more like a missionary than before you left! And finally, by making the trade, you are used by God as a catalyst to advance His work in another nation. Ask any of our global missionaries about the fruit of our mission trips and they will all say something like, “It was a lot of work, and we are a bit tired, but the impact was huge and the team members brought great encouragement to us!”

James Lagaras: Made the trade 2014 El Salvador

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make the trade short term missions guide don’t ask yourself, “why should I go?” Instead, ask “why not?”

Originally from Ghana, God placed the nations on my heart from infancy, long before I became aware of that fact. My family had a welcoming, open table and bed for many non-Ghanaian missionaries.

For the last 11 years, I have had the privilege of serving Bay Area as global missions pastor. My role is to pray for, encourage, equip and lead all who are called by God to serve the nations. I serve as a coach to help lead anyone at Bay Area from “here to the nations.”

Bay Area supports vocational missionaries in India, South Sudan, Poland, Brazil, El Salvador, Ghana, Indonesia, Malaysia and Russia. We have a very special relationship in India (Pastor Samuel Devraj) and South Sudan (Pastor Stephen Mathiang) and are pleased to come alongside them in supporting church-planting, leadership development, children’s homes, schools and agricultural programs.

At the core of who we are at Bay Area is our heart for the lost (read Greg’s article on the previous page if you haven’t yet!).

It is my sincere desire and earnest prayer that you would share our heart for the nations. Many of you here already do – you pray for and sacrifice your time and resources so that people around the world have the opportunity to put their trust in Jesus. Even if you are still developing a heart for this, there are ways in which you can get involved right now.

Pray. First, all of us can pray – be informed and catch a vision of God’s heart for the nations. People matter to God, and people who are far from Jesus matter a lot to Jesus. Suffering people matter to Jesus. God has blessed us to be a blessing to others, so let’s join our hearts in prayer for those who don’t know Him yet.

Give. Second, all of us can give – God provides for His work through His people. Pray about giving generously. Give sacrificially. Give over and above what you normally would give. Give to support those who are going on short term mission trips.

Go. Finally, some can go – this year, don’t ask yourself, “why should I go?” Instead, ask “why not?” There is a short term mission trip with your name on it.

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Here are the countries we will travel to this year on short term missions trips: El Salvador – outreach to children, college students and a community in need Poland – using English as a tool to teach the love of Christ in a family language camp India – serving pastors, church leaders, loving on children, experiencing the diverse cultures of India Southeast asiA – befriending and serving Middle Eastern immigrants by teaching English Brazil – serving church leaders and pastors through encouragement and prayer walks South Sudan – serving the children of South Sudan in a Vacation Bible School Uganda – serving families of those affected/infected by HIV/ AIDS with love in community development Ghana – serving children and youth in a ministry of encouragement, evangelism and discipleship All together, we have 19 trips (we will have multiple trips to some countries) – there must be one that resonates with you! For a full list of the trip dates and costs, go to: bayareacc.org/stmtrips.

So, are you ready to GO? Here’s how to go from here to a different nation: Begin first by praying about where God would have you serve this season, then apply using our secure online Go Form, found on the above webpage. Start praying now about how God would want you to raise the needed funds. Be sure to clear your schedule for team meetings, especially the mandatory training for all teams on April 2. And most of all, expect God to do great things, to use your obedience to bless you and others.

El Salvador - Cost: $2,100 team Team Team Team Team Team

1 - March 12-20 (Led By: Andy Gish) OPEN TO MIDSHIPMEN 2 - May 21-29 3 - June 11-19 4 - July 9-17 (Led By: Amie Merriken) OPEN TO HIGH SCHOOL STUDENTS 5 - July 23-July 31 (Led By: Diederick and Nylca VanDillen) 6 - November 12-20 (Led By: Craig Fadel)

Children’s Ministry and Home Visits - Many in El Salvador are religious and call themselves Christians but don’t have an active relationship with Jesus Christ. While in El Salvador, you will spend your time working alongside our partners, Sarah and Jorge Solorzano, ministering to children, many of whom come from homes in extreme poverty. You will spend your days at the Children’s Center teaching the kids about Jesus’ love for them while helping with meals and upkeep of the center, and helping the teachers with many of their daily duties. If you love children, this is the trip for you.

College Ministry - You will have the opportunity to connect with college students at the local university. You will build relationships with them over meals, during their free time, and in the classroom setting.

POLAND - Cost: $3,000 Team 1 – July 20-August 1 (Led By: Tom and Janet Hogan) In Poland you will spend your time ministering to families who are attending a Family English Camp. This camp will give you an ample amount of time to connect and build relationships with Polish families who might not know Jesus personally. Teaching English to individuals by using the Bible as your tool will give you the opportunity to build strong bonds and open many doors to share the Gospel. Every person who goes on this STM ends up coming home with beautiful stories of new friends, baptisms and good family fun.

INDIA - Cost: $3,300 team 1 – May 27-June 4 (Led By: Mike and Stephanie Lane) team 2 - July (Led By: Randall Zyvoloski) Experience firsthand the three P’s of India: plurality of religion, poverty and population. While in India, you will have many different ministry opportunities and roles of service. You will serve children within the community, encourage local believers, and help teach pastors. This is a unique opportunity to work alongside the longstanding ministry of our partner, Pastor Samuel, and see what the Lord is doing in India.

SOUTHEAST ASIA

- Cost: $3,200

Team 1- May 16-28 (Led By: Trevin Hoekzema) team 2 - October 9-16 (Led By: David Larimer) You will travel to a Muslim country with many Middle Eastern immigrants. This is a unique opportunity to serve those who are unreached who have had no way of hearing the Gospel. While there, you will be working with our partners to start building relationships with the locals over meals and late-night coffee meet ups. You will also have the opportunity to help teach immigrant children how to read and write in English while demonstrating and having conversations. Lastly, the team will help our partners with their ministry’s logistical needs. Past mission experience is required.

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BRAZIL - Cost: $3,000 Team 1 - July 15-25 (Led By: Brian Hopper) In Brazil, you will have the opportunity to serve alongside our partners, Mickey and Cherie Counter. You will spend your time serving in the southernmost state of Brazil, Rio Grande do Sul, to descendants of both German and Italian immigrants. Those who have decided to follow Jesus in this region are often persecuted for breaking from long-held religious traditions. It is very difficult and rare for someone to make the decision to become a spirit-filled follower of Jesus. While in Brazil, you will have the opportunity to meet and fellowship with a variety of different church leaders, who are in the thick of ministry.

You will share ministry experiences and input with them, pray over them, and encourage them in the difficult ministry they are doing.

SOUTH SUDAN - Cost: $3,000 team 1 - June 20-30 (Led By: Casely Essamuah) Working alongside Pastor Stephen, the team will be involved in outreach to children, pastors and church leaders. We will learn the faith and resilience of the Sudanese Christians and support the ongoing ministries of The Mission Gardens of Christ. Past mission experience is required.

UGANDA - Cost: $3,300 team 1 - July 13-23 (Led By: Angela Essamuah) team 2– July 27-August 6 (Led By: Leanne Lane) You will have the opportunity to go on family visits to provide support, prayer and tangible needs to those you meet. You will come alongside an existing ministry at a local hospital where the team will facilitate building upkeep (painting, carpentry, etc.), and support current innovative programs that focus on malnourished children. Lastly you will be investing in and developing a micro-loan program that promotes sustainable agricultural practices among local farmers.

GHANA - Cost: $3,300 Team Team Team Team

1 - June 2-12 (Led By: Michele Rollins) 2 - June 30- July 10 (Led By: Jim David) 3 - July 14-24 (Led By: Chris Nichols) 4 - August 4-14 (Led By: Alex and Forrest Williams)

While in Ghana, you will work alongside the youth ministry of Scripture Union and our partners, Kwame and Jude. You will have multiple opportunities to connect with high school students in both small- and large-group settings while sharing your testimony and having faith conversations. Be prepared to meet many smiling faces and have meaningful conversations.

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BAYAREACC.org/STMTRIPS March 15 - $100 registration fee and Go Form (application) deadline.

FAQ Q: How are Short Term Missions funded at Bay Area Community Church?

Q: Is there anything that will keep me from going?

A: Fundraising is the source of paying for each Short Term Mission. Training for fundraising is provided during the mandatory training on April 2.

A: Possibly. If you have a major health problem, you should consult your doctor before applying. Also, a servant spirit is needed for a successful Short Term Mission Trip and if you can’t be flexible or teachable, then you won’t enjoy the experience and will make it difficult on your team members.

Q: What happens if I don’t raise 100 percent of the trip cost?

A: Every member is responsible for raising 100 percent of the cost. If you follow the guidelines and deadlines given during the training, you will most likely be able to raise what is needed. In very rare cases, team members are allowed to make up the difference once they return from their trip.

Q: May I drink alcohol or smoke on the trip?

A: No. Most cultures do not expect Christians, let alone missionaries, to drink alcohol or smoke.

Q: Can I travel without my spouse?

Q: Why should I raise support if I can self-fund it?

A: Two reasons: 1) for you, the goer and 2) for them, the senders. Through fundraising you will see God work in miraculous ways and your faith in Him will grow. You will also have an opportunity to ask people for prayer during that time. Your friends and family will benefit greatly from being active participants in your efforts to share the gospel globally.

In addition, any excess funds raised will go toward blessing the local ministry.

Q: What kind of time commitment is required?

A: It depends on each team, but most teams will have six or more meetings prior to the trip. You will study a workbook to better understand yourself, the culture into which you are traveling, and the specifics of your mission. There will also be debriefing meetings up to six months after your mission trip.

Keep in mind, the mandatory training on April 2.

Q: I want to go, but can’t commit time for the preparation. What do I do?

A: The time for preparing is as important as the mission trip itself, so if your schedule will not allow you to join the meetings, you should wait a year until you can make room in your schedule for it; most teams go on a yearly basis. Team leaders usually allow for a member to miss one meeting.

A: Yes, you can, but we encourage married couples to share this experience together. It is a disadvantage for one spouse not to experience the thrill and growth of a Short Term Mission Trip, so we usually encourage both to participate.

Q: In a post-9/11 world, how do you the ensure safety of Americans overseas?

A: We do everything in our power to ensure safety in health, food and travel by working closely with the local hosts. In almost all instances, when we follow the direction of the local hosts, we are assured of safety. Ultimately, our security is in the hands of the Lord.

Q: How do I know that God is calling me to a Short Term Mission Trip?

A: Please feel free to schedule a time to meet with either Casely Essamuah (casely.essamuah@bayareacc.org) or Ashleigh Bicevskis (ashleigh.bicevskis@bayareacc.org) to share some of your anxieties and fears about the trip. You can also talk to any of the mission representatives who have all been on a Short Term Mission Trip and are a great resource. Most importantly, spend time praying and reading God’s word.

He is pretty straightforward in his commands to GO (Psalm 96:3, Isaiah 6:8, Matt. 28:19, Mark 16:15, Acts 1:8, Acts 13:47, Romans 10:13-15).

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Downtown Hope Celebrates Building Completion At 255 West Street he final approval came in on December 21. Three days later, as the church around the world celebrated the birth of Jesus, who broke into a world in desperate need of hope, Downtown Hope held their first gathering at 255 West Street. The timing couldn’t have been more provident: The vision of Downtown Hope mirrors that first coming of Jesus, to carry the hope of the gospel to the people of Annapolis, to the region, and to the world.

255 West Street is tucked into the Annapolis Arts District across from Miss Shirley’s Café. Floor-to-ceiling windows form the backdrop for the worship team; during a recent Sunday gathering, cars passed by and pedestrians stopped briefly to peer into the windows. They saw the cement floors, the exposed ceilings, the 150 or so men, women and children gathered to worship Jesus together.

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The decor is minimalist – in part because some final touches are not yet complete, but mostly by design: The idea is that 255 West Street would look “not unlike other places that [our neighbors] frequent,” explained Lead Pastor Joey Tomassoni. The front half of the building encompasses space for the main gathering; the back houses classrooms, a nursery, the bustling Children of Hope ministry. On a Sunday morning, the space rings with friendly conversation and children’s laughter.

In the future, Downtown Hope will be a place for music shows, art displays and after-school tutoring – a gathering place for the community.

Joey calls 255 West an estuary, that confluence of freshwater and salt water where currents can be fierce and danger is present, but so are nutrients and growth and life. Already, the church and the city have intersected

here: Even before that first worship gathering on December 24, Downtown Hope partnered with Walk the Walk Foundation and Park Place to provide and distribute gifts for 120 children out of the as-yet-unfinished space near Westgate Circle.

Completion of the space came through the involvement of many hands, many hours and many churches locking arms to strengthen the body of Christ. The build-out took six months, and about 40 percent of the work was completed by volunteers. The space was framed out in a week and painted in just a day! Several members of the Bay Area church family were among those who caught the vision and served faithfully.

Billy Hood spent a day ripping up carpet and taking out cubicles in the early days of the project. “I really like that this place, which used to be office space, is

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now a place of worship,” Billy shared.

“Downtown Hope is a church on the frontlines, and I definitely wanted to be a part of the building process.”

Jim David had prayed for God to open doors for him to be able to serve shortly before Joey visited Bay Area to share the vision of 255 West. “I’m one of those people who has the assumption that in Annapolis, everyone is rich, and the more you get involved with Downtown Hope you find that’s not the case at all.

The abject poverty next to riches was eye-opening for me. Their vision is to train up their church to get out in the community and share the love of Jesus,” Jim stated. “[God] really challenged me with Downtown Hope.” Jim helped Downtown Hope with electrical work and, alongside his middle school-age son Santi, hung 15 sheets of drywall in just one day.

Billy, Jim and Santi were just three of many. BACC’s Denise Stafford and her cleaning company pitched in, and the Grossman family offered their time and talents, as did many others.

center. Their vision is to reach the more than 500,000 residents of Anne Arundel County, and to partner with other churches and organizations as they do so.

Though Downtown Hope now meets in their own space, needs remain.

Topping the list are things like chairs (they currently borrow them from Bates Middle School, their former meeting place), a sign for the front and a sound system. (Think you could help? Contact Downtown Hope at info@ downtownhope.org.)

Downtown Hope held an internal dedication on January 3 and a public dedication service on January 23, but it’s not too late for you to stop by and visit with our extended family at 255 West Street! They gather at 10 a.m. on Sundays; information about parking can be found at www.downtownhope.org/ findus.

As for prayer, the team at Downtown Hope asked our church family to join theirs in praying that they would boldly equip 200 disciple-makers in 2016 to reach their neighbors with the hope of Jesus. In addition to its roles as estuary and space for the city, 255 West Street is a training ground – a sending

To those in the Bay Area family who served, gave and prayed: thank you!

The fruit of your labor is a place where people have the opportunity to encounter Jesus, where the community gathers and celebrates, and where disciple-makers are equipped to share hope with their neighbors.

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& DOUG & ROBIN RAY SHARE ABOUT LOVE, GRACE AND WALKING ALONGSIDE THEIR CHILDREN NO MATTER THE CIRCUMSTANCES

BY MEREDITH THOMPSON

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s the Bay Area church family studied the book of Romans in October 2015, 20-year-old Alex Ray boldly shared his testimony on a Sunday morning as Teaching Pastor Pat Linnell unpacked Romans 1, in which the Apostle Paul addresses homosexuality.

Alex came to faith as a young kid. Around the age of 10, he began to feel attracted to other boys. Throughout his teenage years, Alex prayed fervently that God would take away the same-sex attraction, asking, “God, I know I’ll have a thorn in my side for you to use, but can it be something else? I will take anything, just not this!”

In his late teens and early 20s, Alex realized that the thing he considered his greatest curse in life is, in many ways, actually his greatest blessing. He recognizes that God has given him a unique opportunity to share Jesus with the gay community because of his experience.

Understanding Scripture, Alex is committed to living single, trusting that God will be enough.

As Alex has travelled along this journey, his parents, Doug and Robin Ray, have been on a journey as well.

God has taught them to love their son well while adhering to their Biblical convictions, and they have learned to support him unconditionally.

Though they take on many forms, almost all parents would agree that at some point, their children face challenges. Doug and Robin, too, are now sharing their story with the Bay Area family as an encouragement to all parents. Below is a Q&A in which they illustrate what God has taught them about love, grace and walking alongside their children no matter the circumstances.

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Prior to Alex sharing about his same-sex attraction, how had your faith background shaped your thoughts on homosexuality?

ROBIN: My understanding had been that acting on homosexual tendencies, not necessarily having those desires, was a wrong thing. The way that we talked about people with that struggle I know communicated to Alex that he was going to hell. Doug and I didn’t believe that, but I could see how in everyday conversation it could come across that way.

DOUG: I was a legalistic, prideful, judgmental Christian who, intellectually, knew about the grace that God had given me.

But the way I lived and parented communicated works to my children. My understanding of homosexuality was that you can’t be a Christian and a homosexual at the same time. There was some truth to what I had learned, which was, when you love God there should be a visible change; the change from my understanding was that the temptation and desire wouldn’t be there. I didn’t have a right understanding of where the choice is – the choice is not that I choose to have that be my great temptation; the choice is, “What am I going to do with it?”

After Alex came out, how did God teach you to engage him in love, but also with truth?

ROBIN: It definitely wasn’t a straight path; there was a lot of looking at Scripture. At the time, we didn’t know Alex was in a relationship. When we found out he was, that made things a little bit more complicated. For me, it was learning, OK, this is what I believe God is teaching in Scripture, and I can communicate that to my child, but we have to love him through this.

There was a part of me that was angry at God. We had raised our kids in the church, we homeschooled our kids; according to our prideful nature, we were doing all the things that were good for our kids – and now this, God? Then we realized it’s not us – we’re called to obedience as parents to do what we’re supposed to do for our children, but ultimately it’s their relationship with the Lord. Then it was a process of stepping back. Alex knew our conviction; we didn’t have to keep hammering him. A dear friend and I just prayed and left it for God to do that work in Alex.

DOUG: There was never any doubt in my mind – I love my son, and that will never change, and I told him right after he [came out to] me. That was in the first sentence that came out of my mouth: “No matter what, I will always love you, and that’s never going to change.”

That night I told a friend what Alex told us, and he said, “Doug, if God had come to you and Robin before you had Alex and said, ‘I’ve got this young man that I want you to raise – he’s going to have some significant challenges, and it’s not going to be easy, but I want you to be his parents and raise him through this – will you do it?’ Of course you would take the job.”

ROBIN: There were people who thought, “If he stays in that relationship, you might have to kick him out of the house,” and we were both like, “I don’t think that’s right.” Not just for the love of Alex, but we thought if he stays in this relationship, we have to love whoever this other person is. We may be the only Christians he ever talks to.

As you were praying for Alex, what were you asking God?

Photo by Arianne Teeple

ROBIN: “Lord, this kid has grown up in the church, he’s professed faith in God really early on. Don’t let him go; keep >> continued on page 28 Him close to you, whatever it takes.”

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What has God taught you about grace as you’ve loved Alex through this?

ROBIN: One of the verses that always comes back to me – “God will redeem what the locusts have eaten” – has always been a thing for me with Alex because I do feel like he got a lot of our legalistic parenting, but through that, God has held onto him.

Looking back, Alex will tell you he’s not upset about anything that’s happened in his life – he’ll say all those things are good for what he can do now for God. I look at that as God’s grace: As a sinful human, all the mistakes we’ve made, there’s still good coming out of that.

DOUG: When Alex first came out, I sat down with him a couple times and went through Romans 1, the paragraph in particular where God talks about homosexuality. For years, I saw that paragraph as separate – that means it’s separate from the other sins. In the midst of researching Scripture, for whatever reason I felt led to read the rest of Romans 1, and the Holy Spirit just stuck the knife in deep. I realized God is pointing a finger at me for at least 16 other things that He’s talking about that deserve death, and He’s not separating them from this one particular sin that my son’s dealing with.

That was really a turning point for me – we’re in the same boat. As Pat Linnell put it when he preached on Romans 1, nobody’s born all right. That helped me understand that Jesus forgave me on the cross, He paid for all these sins I’m guilty of, and yet I want to condemn people for dealing with this one sin? That was a turning point – I realized God continually pours out his grace and mercy on me.

What is your prayer for Alex’s future as he now honors the Lord by using this “thorn in his side” to encourage others?

ROBIN: To embrace the struggle: “This is what I’m dealing with; how does God want me to use it? And how can I help others with this?” He’s grown so much already, so that he’d continue to do that … I want him to love the Lord wherever he is, and I pray that the Lord would help him in his loneliness.

Above all, that Alex would just keep relying on the Lord.

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DOUG: My prayer for him, knowing that he’s a very social, relational guy, is that God would surround him with friends and families that include him in their lives.

What encouragement would you give parents who are seeking to walk alongside their children through difficult circumstances?

ROBIN: Love your kids. You may not like what they’re doing, but if you shut off your kids you’re not going to have any influence. You want to always be the person they come back to.

DOUG: Maintain that relationship no matter what. When this came to light, I was on my knees like never before; I cried like never before. I felt kind of like Job – I had the choice of cursing God and dying or trusting that God knew what He was doing even though I didn’t. Don’t turn away from God; don’t stop trusting God. ROBIN: As parents, it’s easy to look at kids who are going through a struggle and think, “Oh, I messed them up so badly.

There’s no redeeming them from this situation.” You have to remember God is doing the work and each of our children has their own will, too, and it’s their story – we play a part – but it’s still their story, their relationship with God. Just make sure you give yourself grace as a parent.

DOUG: When I get discouraged by looking back at how I’ve sinned against my kids over the years, and I feel like giving up, I read Joshua 7:10: “The Lord said to Joshua, stand up! What are you doing down on your face?” I need to be the father that they need now, where they are now, and keep moving forward.

If you would like to learn more about Bay Area’s beliefs regarding homosexuality, find our position papers at www.bayareacc.org/positionpapers. If you have questions about same-sex attraction and would like to have a confidential conversation with someone, email confidential@bayareacc.org.

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utside of our Sunday gatherings, at Bay Area one of the primary ways we make passionate, maturing followers of Jesus from here to the nations is by being part of a Missional Community. It is when we are in community that discipleship and spiritual growth happen best. So, if you’re not in an MC, I’d encourage you to join one, and if you’re already plugged in, I’d like to share with you five ways to get the most out of your MC.

life, you will not find social or spiritual fulfillment. The Scriptures regularly paint a picture of the body of Christ interacting in such a way that we should not only be in one another’s lives, but also know one another’s needs. In fact, the almost 60 “one-anothers” in the New Testament can only happen when we are in community and relationship and know one another. So, open up, be vulnerable, and let people get to know the real you.

Let’s face it, we are busy people. Jobs, school, family, sports, friends and many other things easily take priority in our lives (and in some cases, rightly so). But if we are not careful, we can easily push the important things of our life aside while we focus on the urgent.

When it comes to our spiritual lives, making time for community is one of those things that can easily get lost in the shuffle.

Though we all want the security and predictability of being with the same people each week in community, there is something special that happens when a new person joins our group. Jesus set the example by spending time with those closest to Him, while continually inviting new people into His life.

Granted, no one can do it like Jesus did.

However, what He illustrates to us is the capacity to be open to new people in our lives and community, while tending to the deep relationships we already have. This is a difficult balance for most people, but to get the most out of your MC, I’d encourage you to be open and welcoming to new people. You might be surprised what the Lord does in you and them.

If you are part of an MC, make being a regular participant of that community a priority. Don’t let it become like the gym membership you pay for every month and don’t use. Telling your friends that you belong to a gym and never going isn’t beneficial. You have to actually go and participate to experience the benefit. The same is true of being in an MC. To get the most out of it, and I know this sounds obvious, you have to make it a priority and go.

I have found that there are a variety of reasons people are in community.

Some want social interaction, others want spiritual growth, while others want a spiritual family. Regardless of what your motivation is, one thing is true - unless you let people into your

One of the best ways to deepen relationships with folks in our MC is to meet with them outside of our MC. As noted in number one above, we all face the reality that we only have so much time in a week to be available.

But if you can blend what you do with another person, couple or family, you get the best of both worlds. By meeting with others in your group outside of your group, you are allowing the Holy

Spirit to unite you in new ways. Being in good, healthy spiritual relationships is one of the keys to growing as a disciple of Jesus. Taking time to cultivate those relationships is a necessary part of growing together.

Going is good, and being with others is better - but applying what the Lord is teaching and revealing to you is best. I have found this tends to be the weakest part of meeting in community - applying what you are learning. We all want to grow in our knowledge of Jesus, and we all want to know the Scriptures, but without application, it never moves from our minds to our hearts, and consequently, never changes us. When Jesus instructed the 12 about what He wanted them to do (or not do), because He was in bodily form with them, they not only heard the sound of His voice, but also understood what He was saying and did what He said.

Likewise, if Jesus today presented Himself in bodily form and spoke to you or me audibly, I suspect we would have no hesitance in applying whatever He told us to do (or not do). What we as modernday disciples need to do is learn how to apply what He is teaching us through the power of His Spirit and Word.

Applying what we are learning in our MCs will help us get the most of our time, our relationships and our walks with Jesus. What is He saying and what will you do about it? This is how we get the most out of community. Come, be open, welcome new people, invest in relationships and apply what you learn.

If you would like to get plugged into a Missional Community or find out more about them, go to bayareacc.org/ missionalcommunities or send me an email at brian.hopper@bayareacc.org.

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CARE NETWORK

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Are you in the midst of any of these struggles or challenges: the loss of a loved one, a serious illness, divorce, job loss, addiction, discouragement, spiritual crisis, loneliness, parenting difficulties or any other challenge? These types of experiences can happen at any time in our spiritual journey.

Perhaps you even know of someone who is struggling and could use some help right now. God’s intention is that we engage with others and not walk alone through these circumstances.

Jesus wants to see us through challenges instead of avoiding or going around them. God is in the business of of restoring and renewing all things and we believe no person is beyond His redemption and grace. The Care Network is a free, confidential, Christ-centered ministry that assists those seeking help by serving as a bridge to hope and healing through a variety of resources. After an assessment, we offer appropriate referrals within BACC and other outside resources such as Care Coaches, Missional Communities, financial assistance, Celebrate Recovery, Christian counselors, or an appropriate agency or program in the community. If you need help or have questions, email leanne.lane@bayareacc.org.

• K-5th: contact gail.wiles@bayareacc.org • 6-12th: contact brent.squires@bayareacc.org • Adults: contact arianne.teeple@bayareacc.org

CELEBRATE RECOVERY Celebrate Recovery is for anyone seeking a richer life through worshipping God and being in community with others. Don’t let your hurts, habits and hangups keep you isolated. Let Celebrate Recovery be a place of healing, hope and community for you. We meet every Monday night, even on holidays, at 7 p.m. for worship, a lesson/testimony, open share groups and fellowship. We share a meal together every first and third Monday of the month from 6-7 p.m. Third Mondays are potluck dinners. Stop by our kiosk in the lobby every first Sunday of the month to talk with Celebrate Recovery representatives and learn more. The need for Celebration Place, the program for children at CR, has declined; until the need arises again, there will be no Celebration Place for children. Contact Tom at tmuth57@gmail.com or leanne.lane@bayareacc.org for more information.

CONNECT WITH BAY AREA If you’re new or just have a question, we’d love to meet you and help you get plugged in. Look for a member of our connect team in a grey shirt in the lobby after each Sunday gathering or visit us online at www.bayareacc.org/new.

HOSPITAL/HOMEBOUND VISITATION If you or a loved one is in the hospital or homebound we would love to serve you. Contact us so that we can learn more about how to be of assistance. Info: leanne.lane@bayareacc. org or 443-837-3718 VOCATION ASSISTANCE If you or someone you know is currently unemployed, on the early stages of determining their career path, or wanting to get a better understanding of how God has wired them for a F E B RUA RY GO&MAKE 31

career, perhaps meeting with a trained career coach would be helpful. Jacques Fox is equipped and called to help people better identify their vocational paths using a variety of tools and approaches (SIMA, DOMA and others). Info: leanne.lane@ bayareacc.org or neal.schaefer@verizon.net

CHILDREN’S MINISTRY 4TH & 5TH GRADE RETREAT What does identity in Christ look like for you and your child? That’s what we will study at this overnight retreat happening Friday, March 4, through the morning of March 5. We will have fun, prayer, discussion and reflection with the kids on Friday; on Saturday morning there will be a time for the parents to participate in a breakout session and family fun.

Registration opens online February 7. Cost is $40 per student and parents can register at bayareacc.org/deepblueevents.

THE GREAT DATE NIGHT You won’t want to miss this evening of desserts and entertainment by seasoned comedian Steve Geyer, to be held Saturday, February 13 from 7-9:30 p.m. at BACC. Come out for a special date with your significant other or take it as an opportunity to sponsor another couple for a fun night out. Cost is $40 per couple and there is free KidCare for children birth to 10 years old with advance registration. The registration deadline is February 7 so visit us in the lobby or online at THE HUNT www.bayareacc.org/thegreatdatenight.

All families are invited to Info: leanne.lane@bayareacc.org join us Saturday, March 26, MARRIAGE MINISTRY TEAM for a morning in community.

Do you as a couple have a deep Kids will enjoy finding more desire to see couples start and than 20,000 eggs filled with stay strong in their marriages? goodies. Invite new families in your communities, and don’t Have you been married 10+ forget to bring a basket for your children. years? Come join our growing WAVE RIDERS Marriage Ministry team.

Our Wave Riders group is designed for This team seeks to encourage existing marriages through families of children ages birth through the development and scheduling of enrichment/educational preschool to come together to encourage opportunities throughout the year including Learning and spend time in community with others Communities, Marriage workshops, special events and small in your same life stage.

This month Wave Riders will meet on group Bible studies. To learn more about the Marriage Ministry at BACC go to bayareacc.org/marriageministry or email leanne. Monday, February 8 and Thursday, February 25. For more details, check out the “Wave Rider Play Group” on Facebook. lane@bayareacc.org.

Info: stacey.burkhardt@bayareacc.org PREMARITAL MENTORING Are you newly engaged? Or are you thinking about getting DEEP BLUE FUN FACT: engaged? Premarital Mentoring is just what you need. Strong Every month more than 300 gumballs are purchased from the marriages are the cornerstone of a healthy, Jesus-centered famous gumball machine at the children’s welcome counter. family. BACC’s Premarital Ministry equips future and existing How awesome is that? That’s a lot of quarters! This means marriages with the tools they need to make it in marriage. $75+ a month is added to the Children’s Ministry offering that The premarital mentor program pairs couples with marriage is donated to kids helping kids within our local communities. mentors, couples who have been married for 10+ years, to help prepare them for marriage. It doesn’t matter whether a Bay MISSIONAL COMMUNITIES Area pastor is officiating your wedding, being prepared is the key. This is the best gift you can give each other as you start your life together as man and wife. Info: premarital.ministry@ bayareacc.org TEMPORARY HOUSING Occasionally couples come to the Premarital Ministry who are living together. We believe strongly in the Marriage Ministry that the best way to honor God is to remain pure and physically separated until marriage. Do you have space in your home that could be used by either a man or a woman on a temporary basis in order to fulfill this desire? Info: leanne. lane@bayareacc.org or 443-837-3718

LEARNING COMMUNITIES Our winter Learning Communities are underway, but you can still pop into “The Case for Faith,” a course discussing tough objections to Christianity, or “Man Up,” a course connecting and challenging men. Each week these Learning Communities cover a unique topic so you won’t be behind. Both courses take place during the 9:30 a.m. gathering in The Docks, the modular building in the east parking lot. Info: deb.shipley@ bayareacc.org 32 GO&MAKE F EB R UA RY

MISSIONAL COMMUNITY TASTER Are you new to Bay Area and/or looking to get connected in community? If so, consider joining us for our next MC Taster on February 14 in the Warehouse at 12:45 p.m. Here we will introduce you to our version of mid-sized groups that will help you continually grow spiritually, relationally and missionally.

RSVP online at bayareacc.org/mctasterrsvp. Lunch and KidCare are provided. Info: mc@bayareacc.org

FINANCIALS Operating Budget Financial Update As of January 17, 2016 New Fiscal Year Began September 1, 2015 Fiscal Year Giving Goal

$4,116,000

YTD Received YTD Goal YTD Actual vs. Goal (12.4% ahead) JANUARY To Date Received JANUARY To Date Giving Goal

$1,864,303 $1,658,447 $205,856 $258,458 $192,798

For weekly financial updates, please visit us online at www.bayareacc.org/financials.

Please be sure to designate all Building Fund donations on the memo line of your check: “One & Only Life” for original building debt or “Beyond884” for the new building expansion. Please note all undesignated checks will go toward the general operating fund.

How Do I Support The Cause of Beyond884: Room For People?

Preferred Methods eCheck: Go to www.bayareacc.org/give to give online through your checking account through a one-time or recurring donation on My Bay Area.

Direct Debit: Go to www.bayareacc.com/give to download the form. Mail completed form to the BACC Finance Department and we will debit your checking account directly each month.

Personal Check: Write “Beyond884” on the memo line and drop it in the offering basket on Sunday or mail the check to BACC (884 Chesterfield Road, Annapolis, MD 21401).

Bank Check: Process through your bank’s Bill Pay service online for a bank check to be sent to BACC. Be sure to note “Beyond884” on the memo line.

GLOBAL MISSIONS GLOBAL MISSIONS LUNCHEONS Join us for lunch after the third gathering on February 7, 14 and 21 to discuss short term mission trip options in detail and meet a few of our global partners. RSVP by the previous Sunday in the lobby or at bayareacc.org/globalmissionsluncheon.

February 7 - Lunch with our partners from El Salvador, Sarah and Jorge Solorzano. Learn more about the El Salvador, India and Malaysia trips (in the Warehouse).

February 14 - Lunch with our partners from Poland, Robert and Ela Boryczka. Learn more about Uganda, South Sudan and Poland trips (in the Bay Cafe).

February 21 - Lunch with our partner from Ghana, Kwame Adu and our partners from Brazil, Mickey and Cherie Counter.

Learn more about the Ghana and Brazil trips (in the Bay Cafe).

2016 SHORT TERM MISSION TRIPS The 2016 short-term mission trips are here! We encourage you to pray to see how the Lord is leading you to serve this year.

For more information visit bayareacc.org/stm. Info: ashleigh. bicevskis@bayareacc.org EL SALVADOR • CHILDREN’S MINISTRY & HOME VISITS • March 12-20 | open to Midshipmen only • May 21-29 • June 11-19 • July 9-17 | open to high school students only • July 23-31 | college & children’s ministry • November 12-20 GHANA • HIGH SCHOOL MINISTRY • June 2-12 • June 30 – July 10 • July 14-24 • August 4-14 SOUTHEAST ASIA • ENGLISH TEACHING & RELATIONSHIP BUILDING • May 16-28 • October 9-16 BRAZIL • MINISTRY TO CHURCH LEADERSHIP • July 15-25 POLAND • FAMILY ENGLISH CAMP • July 20 – August 1 INDIA • May 27 - June 4 | outreach to children & ministry to local believers • May 27 – July | outreach to children and ministry to pastors and local believers UGANDA • COMMUNITY DEVELOPMENT • July 13-23 • July 27-August 6 SOUTH SUDAN • MINISTRY TO CHILDREN AND CHURCH LEADERS • June 20-30

PRAYER MINISTRY Did you know BACC has a ministry devoted to prayer? The Prayer Ministry comprises teams of individuals devoted to gathering in prayer for our worship gatherings, pastors, missional efforts and missionaries, the ministries of the church, those who are sick or saddened, and those who are wrestling with life’s struggles.

The Prayer Ministry provides an opportunity for us to gather together and share our hearts with our Father who loves us.

Let’s pray together. The prayer room is located on the second floor of BACC. Also, every Sunday immediately following the gatherings, members of our prayer team are up front and to the right of the stage if you would like someone to pray with. For more information about prayer or the teams, go to bayareacc. org/prayer or contact Pat at pat.linnell@bayareacc.org.

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EMPLOYMENT OPPORTUNITIES KIDCARE TEAM MEMBERS Our team is currently accepting new applicants for the 2016 year. Specifically we are searching for individuals who have a heart for kids. Our workers are paid and we are consistently looking to add to our team. We provide KidCare to all ministries of Bay Area including various events throughout the year. If you are interested in joining our team visit the Children’s Welcome on Sundays. Info: dax.clinkscale@ bayareacc.org

CONNECTING MINISTRY

DISCOVER BAY AREA NEWCOMER LUNCH New to Bay Area? We’re glad you are here! You may have some questions about who we are or what we believe so join us on February 7 at 12:45 p.m. in the Bay Cafe for Discover Bay Area.

Get a free lunch and hear from a few of our pastors and staff about our mission, values, and how you can get plugged in.

No RSVP necessary, kids are welcome. Hope to see you there!

The next Discover Bay Area will be March 6.

STUDENT MINISTRY LEADERS OF THE MONTH VAL CORKRAN We were thrilled when Val Corkran decided to join our team! She has been serving with the eighth-grade girls and has jumped right into the BASM by joining us at the Alive Conference. Having two boys in our ministry, Val understands the middle school way of life. When not around BASM, Val loves to travel, having been to 19 states and 29 countries.

This wanderlust translates well into her fondness of bird watching and spending time with her sons.

CHRIS COYLE Chris Coyle’s fun spirit and humble attitude make him a natural fit for the BASM team. Chris, who has served in the Air Force for 17 years, is revered by the sixth-grade boys that are in his community group. A cheerleader in his younger years, Chris still brings that upbeat energy to all of our events. Just don’t try to give him any baby corn; he hates that! Thanks Chris for all your hard work and dedication!

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CLUB678 Our next monthly hang out for middle school students is Friday, February 12, from 7 to 9 p.m.

February’s theme will be BASM Record Breakers. Students will compete to break (or set) BASM records. Students are encouraged to invite friends. Boys and girls will compete to bring the most friends. Whoever brings more, boys versus girls, will win a prize. Students can bring money for snacks. Info: lydia.macbride@bayareacc.org VERTICAL WEEKEND Signups have begun for Vertical Weekend, BASM’s annual in-town retreat for middle school students, to be held February 26-28. Vertical Weekend’s focus is to point students upward to God who desires to be in a relationship with them. Students will gather at BACC for four sessions from Friday night to Sunday morning. Each session will feature worship and relevant teaching. After Friday night’s session, students will depart in their gender/grade-specific groups to their host home for discipleship and discussion.

Throughout the weekend, students will also enjoy games and activities. Students will be picked up Saturday to go home and return Sunday to Fusion for the final session. Signup will end February 7. Cost is $50. Info: lydia.macbride@ bayareacc.org.

LOCAL OUTREACH LOCAL OUTREACH SERVING OPPORTUNITIES Missional Communities often don’t know how to get involved with serving locally. We’re here to help. There are many organizations in the Annapolis area that will be blessed by your involvement; we’d love to connect you with them. Go to bayareacc.org/localoutreach and fill out the short involvement form there.

WINTER RELIEF Every year, we house, feed and resource 25+ homeless men and women through the Winter Relief initiative. This year our guests will stay at Bay Area March 14-21. If you’d like more information or want to get involved, email winterrelief@ bayareacc.org.

WOMEN’S MINISTRY THE WELL At Bay Area, we invite women to join us on a spiritual journey in community with others.

Like the woman at the well in John 4, Jesus meets us where we are and leads us to the next step. The Well at Bay

Area is a place where women can come for spiritual growth.

It doesn’t matter if you are new to faith or a longtime follower of Jesus, The Well can provide an opportunity for you to grow.

For more information, contact Laurie Gregory (Wednesday morning) at thewell@bayareacc.org or Darby Cate (Tuesday evening) darby@dougcate.com.

UPCOMING WOMEN’S MINISTRY EVENTS

OPPORTUNITIES TO SERVE AMBASSADOR TEAM: Do you love Jesus? Do you love Bay Area? We need you to help serve our visitors and regular attenders. Info: rachel.perry@bayareacc. org AUDIO/VIDEO TEAM: We’re looking for a few more passionate, committed people to partner with our Sunday production team. Info: tres.cozad@ bayareacc.org

KINGDOM COME WOMEN’S CONFERENCE Saturday, March 12, 2016 9 a.m. - 3 p.m. at BACC. Learn about how when we respond to God’s Kingdom invitation, we become partners with Him in His Kingdom Incarnation on earth. Biblical teaching and practical workshops will encourage us to become more like Jesus. Cost is $20 and will include lunch and snacks. Registration begins February 21 at the Women’s Ministry kiosk in the lobby or online at bayareacc.org/womensevents. Info: sheiladavid7@ gmail.com.

WOMEN OF LEGACY (55+) Join us as we encourage one another in Christ and share about ways to practically care for others. On Monday, February 8, we will meet at 10:30 a.m. to work on discovering our spiritual gifts and seek how we can apply them in our everyday lives. Our meeting will be followed by lunch with all kind of teas, sandwiches and scones to celebrate Valentines Day. On February 22 we will meet with a special guest speaker in the Warehouse from 10:30 a.m. - noon. Info: Cedulie at luisandcedulie@gmail.com

BAY CAFÉ & ESPRESSO BAR: Do you love coffee and lattés? Enjoy hospitality? Join our team in the Bay Cafe and/or espresso bar. Info: sherri.raimondo@ bayareacc.org CHAIR MINISTRY: Serve on the chair set-up/teardown team. Info: chairs@bayareacc.org CHILDREN’S MINISTRY WELCOME TEAM: Welcome and assist families with everything from the electronic check-in system to escorting families to their child’s individual environments. Info: chyloe. cheetham@bayareacc.org EASTON CAMPUS: We’re looking for 50 volunteers who can help get the Easton campus off to a great start. Whether you’re able to serve for one month or six, opportunities include Children’s and Student Ministry, tech and worship, connecting, help with setup and teardown, etc. On the Sundays you’re not serving, we’d also invite you to simply attend BACC Easton to help cultivate a warm, friendly environment during our gatherings. Info: craig. fadel@bayareacc.org ELEMENTARY COMMUNITY GROUP LEADERS: The Submarine Canyon is looking for committed high school and adult volunteers to lead a small group of children during the 11:15 a.m. gathering. Info: tammy.taschenberger@bayareacc.org COMMUNION TEAM: Contact: arianne.teeple@ bayareacc.org

QUILTS FOR KIDS “Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our affliction, so that we may be able to comfort those who are in any affliction, with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God.” 2 Cor. 1:3-4. Our workshops aim to comfort those in our community just as Jesus has comforted us. Come out Saturday, February 20, and join us as we sew quilts for kids from 10:30 a.m. - 1:30 p.m. at BACC in room 235. You don’t have to know how to sew to help! But if you do, bring your lunch, a sewing machine, sewing supplies, and we will give you a quilting kit to sew. Contact Janet Hogan at annapolisQFK@quiltsforkids.org.

PARKING MINISTRY: Serve by directing traffic and greeting those arriving at church. Info: Steve at parking@bayareacc.org

MEN’S BIBLE STUDIES

HOSPITAL/HOMEBOUND VISITATION: Interested in being part of a team reaching out to those hospitalized or homebound? Info: leanne.lane@bayareacc.org

MEN’S MORNING BIBLE STUDY Tuesdays from 6-7:30 a.m. in room 236 at BACC. Contact Dennis at dbradylaw@aol.com for more information.

SAFETY TEAM: If you are passionate about safety or have experience in security, law enforcement, EMS or First Responders and want to serve contact Ed at safety@bayareacc.org.

USHERS: Help create a welcoming experience during Sunday morning gatherings through serving with seating, offering, communion and more. Info: Michael at mtabramo1@comcast.net

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