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News e h t g Sharin Have you told anyone yet? Remember, while you might be slow to tell, you can get a lot of support from those around you. The dad might find it difficult to accept that you’re pregnant, or he might be thrilled. You won’t know until you tell him. He could surprise you! Whatever the reaction, at least you’ll know where you stand. Your Mam and Dad will nearly always come around after the initial shock. Just give them a chance. They care about you and that you’re ok. Tell a friend or two because sooner or later it’s going to become obvious. And it’s better if you decide when to tell people rather than people finding out through gossip. Mostly friends will just want to support you. It might be hard to get the words out, but generally the sooner you tell, the better. Once they know, people can give you the ongoing support you really need. Give them
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iscovering a positive pregnancy test is a massive event in anyone’s life, no matter who you are or what age you are. But when you’re young and unmarried, questions like telling your parents or wondering how you will cope with a tiny baby may spring immediately to mind. This feature will hopefully answer some of your questions. Make sure to read the other information in this guide on the practicals of being pregnant, giving birth and looking after your baby too. WHAT ABOUT SCHOOL OR COLLEGE? Some of you reading this may be pregnant and still in school. Although this can be a very difficult time, try to remember that all of this will pass. By law you must remain in school until you’re 16 years of age and you have every right to continue in school after that and to get your Leaving Certificate. You cannot be expelled or asked not to attend school because you are pregnant. Both secondary schools and third-level colleges have staff whose job it is to support students. Some secondary schools have a Home School Liaison Co-ordinator or a School Completion Co-ordinator. Their job is to support pupils who find school difficult for any reason. Your class teacher and the career guidance teacher may also be able to help. Third level colleges have welfare officers and access officers whose role is to support students who are having difficulties in getting to college or staying in college. Check to see if you live in any of the areas in which the Teen Parents Support
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