Hope and Flourishing Bishop Peter reflects on the way Jesus offered hope through his life and teaching.
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REVEREND KIMBALEE
Hope: an invaluable asset
Reverend Kimbalee leads Dungog’s Hope25, a season of sharing hope through faith and community.
CLOSING THE GAP
Protecting the world’s oldest living culture
We ask Aunty Di about National Close the Gap Day.
THE MISSING MIDDLE
Addressing the mental health gap
Rural Young Minds program is supporting people with complex mental health concerns.
INTERNATIONAL WOMEN’S DAY
Kate Haberfield doesn’t want to be equal to men
Our Director Brand, Marketing and Communications explores the pressure of gender equality.
Acknowledgement to Country
Newcastle Anglican acknowledges the sacred connection Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people have with the land, sea, sky, and waterways.
We recognise, support and advocate for the sovereign rights of these nations as they navigate through the various impacts of colonisation.
This acknowledgement is aligned with our church’s commitment to creating a diverse and inclusive community. We embrace the call to recognise and acknowledge the people, culture and history that make up our beloved shared community.
What will bring
hope and flourishing?
There have been enough times in my life when I have felt like I am in quicksand and slowly sinking.
I have experienced life as demanding because of factors around me and within me. When I was young, I thought this was normal and I didn’t look for help. I thought everyone lived like I did.
I gained a new understanding as an adult. I also learnt that there are people around who want to help. They are ready and willing to offer kindness and support. As I look back, I had glimpses of this as a child, but they were fewer.
Help is harder to access when you have less knowledge and less choice. In the world of my youth, with less technology, help was much harder to access.
I open this way because I have found hope in caring people. The ones who come alongside and deliberately make a difference. Some of these have been Christian and some not.
As an adult I embraced the Christian faith. I found then and still know that Jesus, revealing God’s love, offers a hope-filled way of living.
In Newcastle Anglican, inspired by Jesus, we have people ready to meet other people in their journey and offer hope. This happens through our parishes, agencies, and schools. We have people ready to listen and be led by other people as companions. Walking and talking together, we help each other flourish.
Two of my favourite stories in the New Testament are about the Apostle Peter and the Apostle Mary Magdalene. The events of the days leading up to Good Friday and Easter Sunday affect them both greatly. There has been violence, betrayal, torture, and killing.
With Mary it is inconsolable grief. She has been with Jesus as he died and then she goes to his burial place. It looks like grave robbers have struck. Her grief and pain are palpable. She asks the gardener what has happened.
With the simple use of her name, Jesus shows her that he is risen from the dead. She wants to hug him but cannot. He sends her on an errand in which we can only imagine her running with excitement.
With Peter it is deep shame. He promised that he wouldn’t deny Jesus but does so. He was unable to match his brave words by action. He has been scared.
Now Jesus is risen from the dead. They’ve been around each other but not had the conversation they need to have. We get to overhear them talking. Jesus addresses Peter’s strong betrayal. He restores him to a place of leadership and dignity. Jesus removes Peter’s shame and makes it clear he trusts him.
Christian people seek to embody the character of Jesus in their lives. They also seek to enact his will in the world.
Christians look to the New Testament accounts for guidance. Time and time again they ask: “what would Jesus do”.
When Christians are at their best, they actively pursue a world where everyone is treated with dignity and respect. They pursue peace and seek to end violence of every kind.
Christians want to see mercy and justice for everyone. Christians are not always at their best so, at times, they contribute to harm rather than good. Internal church politics and competing worldviews mean there are some significantly differing views. However, all Christians must continue to wrestle with Jesus’ call to being bearers of love and hope through words and action.
As I reflect on the way Jesus offered hope, three things seem to happen – a realistic understanding of the situation, an invitation, and action.
When Jesus spoke with Mary and Peter, he knew what had occurred. We see this many other times in the New
Testament. We will never have the holy insight that Jesus had. Our pathway to understanding is through kind, generous, and curious conversation. We take time to listen deeply. We allow the person we are to help us understand what we are seeking.
There then comes an invitation to relationship. Mary and Peter were clear in their desire to listen to Jesus. In our case, it might be professional, pastoral, or personal. We seek agreement or consent. Do we want to take this journey together?
Finally, there are considered actions. Steps taken to make the situation better over time. Mary went to tell the others what she had seen and heard. Peter was given a huge leadership role. In our case, we explore actions that might be meaningful, empowering, and manageable. We don’t impose, rather we explore together. We wonder, what will bring hope and flourishing?
There is hope in Jesus and his life and teaching. There is hope in being a disciple of Jesus who seeks to promote love, justice, mercy, and peace. There is hope in building communities which actively care for one another. +Peter
My prayer is that we each take the steps to create hope. I pray that each of us may flourish, inspired by the way of Jesus.
Hope:
an invaluable asset in an uncertain world
Dungog Anglican Church Reverend Kimbalee Hodges asked her parishioners what the term ‘hope’ meant to them.
Their responses were varied.
The exercise taught Reverend Kimbalee that hope is not only respective, but also an invaluable asset.
“I live in hope. Hope in Jesus, hope that I can always rely on him.”
“Hope is my family and friends.”
“Hope is the good deal: ‘zero dollars for eternal life’.”
“A positive attitude that things are going to turn out okay.”
“Hope for healing.”
“Hope that things can change and that you can change yourself.”
“Hope for time to appreciate life and smell the roses.”
“Hope there is always good friends.”
“All around us we are faced with uncertainties - rising costs of living, the housing crisis, wars and rumours of wars, family violence, mental health epidemics, instability, and fear,” Reverend Kimbalee says.
“Our world needs hope. Hope25 is an intentional season of sharing hope in Jesus.
“In the church, we have seasons. There is a season called Lent and, during Lent, that’s 40 days, we usually have a time of preparation.
“In this case, we’re going to prepare for Hope25 which will take place between Easter and Pentecost.”
During this time, parishioners are being encouraged to do something in their
Reverend Kimbalee Hodges at Dungog Anglican Church.
church or in their community to share the hope they have in Jesus.
“In our parish, we’re looking at doing a couple of things,” Kimbalee explains.
“We’ll do a little teaching series in the church about hope, and I’d like to try and get some people to share their stories of being Christian.
“Things like why they come to church, and when they first learnt about God.
“Some of our parishioners have been coming since they were children and are now in their 90s and have not stopped. There are all those stories.”
Reverend Kimbalee is also planning to host a community lunch at Dungog Anglican Church, inviting the community to attend and share a meal and activities with parishioners.
“We’ve got such big grounds here, we’re going to have a market day, with different stalls and activities, so people can make their way around, get some food, and just be part of a hopeful proclamation,” she says.
“We’re going to talk to people about hope and Jesus at that event.”
The Dungog parishioners are also planning to offer a tangible element, with plans to distribute postcards sharing messages of hope, together with church times.
“We’re big on invitational ministry here,” Reverend Kimbalee says.
“But in saying that, we’re also communicating to a secular world, so I would like to find out what hope means to our community and then bring Jesus into people’s lives.
“It’s important to know that our lives are not meaningless, and that we have meaning to God, and that there is a resurrection, and that Jesus offers hope to a world that’s hurting.”
The motto for Hope25 is ‘Hope in an uncertain world’.
The Anglican Church of Australia believes that Jesus is our hope in an uncertain world, and it wants to share that hope with others.
By empowering parishes and communities through resources, ideas, support and encouragement, Australian Anglicans have begun actively engaging in an intentional season of hope sharing.
It’s a season that took root in 2024.
Between Easter Sunday (20 April) and Pentecost Sunday (8 June) in 2025, Hope25 will come to fruition.
A simple message that’s making a
big difference
When Reverend Amanda Brockwell moved to the Hunter Valley three years ago, she didn’t expect a simple message would have such a profound impact on the local community.
Reverend Amanda Brockwell next to the white sign at St John’s Anglican Church in Branxton.
In June 2023, 10 people tragically lost their lives, 25 were injured, and thousands mourned when a bus driver rolled the vehicle at a roundabout near Greta on the way back from a wedding.
In the aftermath of the tragedy, St John’s Anglican Church in Branxton shared condolences and comforting words on its white sign outside.
“It’s surprising how many people read that sign,” Reverend Amanda says.
“[Following the accident], we put messages up there for our SES workers and the families and some of them actually started walking around this way.
I think it was just that little bit of recognition and it was hopeful and uplifting for them at that terrible time.”
The combined parish of Branxton Greta Lochinvar is now preparing to share more hope within an increasingly uncertain world.
The parish has organised a number of activities for Hope25, an initiative of the Anglican Church of Australia, which goes from Easter until Pentecost.
The planned events include an Evensong and special celebration on Easter Sunday, a sunflower planting day at Holy Trinity Church in Lochinvar, and a picnic service at Maitland Park on Pentecost Sunday.
For many within the parish, Hope25 has offered the opportunity to reconnect and refocus on God.
“Late last year, [Hope25 Project Officer] Reverend Kimbalee came over and spoke to us in parish council,” Reverend Amanda says.
“She explained what Hope25 was and the things we could do. I think that was very reassuring for the parishioners in that we could just extend on what we’re already doing.
“It does make you feel part of a bigger picture to know that everybody is doing it – not only in the diocese, but across the country. So, that’s really exciting and energising for the congregation.”
As Hope25 approaches, the white sign outside St John’s Branxton is still sharing uplifting messages. It currently reads: ‘Celebrating the hope we have in Jesus’.
“To see that word ‘hope’ back up there at the moment, it probably does cheer people along,” Reverend Amanda says.
Reverend Amanda is helping the parish prepare for Hope25.
Click here to visit the Anglican Parish of Branxton Greta Lochinvar’s Facebook page
What does ‘hope’
mean to our people?
Father Rod
Many of us have, from time to time, lived with the wishful thinking of a better job, a better relationship, or a lottery win. This is not hope. It’s just wishful thinking, which usually leads to disappointment.
Hope is different. Hope is an absolute conviction that we are compelled to live into reality. That can only be done in a sustainable way, with hearts that are filled with the graces of joy and peace.
Char
In our work, hope empowers individuals to overcome challenges, build resilience and pursue positive change - with professionals providing support and guidance to foster growth.
Emma
Hope, to me, is having an optimistic state of mind with expectations of positive outcomes for myself, my family and the wider community.
Bishop Sonia
When I think of hope my mind goes straight to the verse Hebrews 1.1: “Now faith is the assurance of things hoped for, the conviction of things not seen”. The author here refers to hope not as wishful thinking but as a firm trust in God. For me that is what hope in God is – a firm trust. To be hopeful is to be filled with this hope that God is trustworthy, cares for us, and loves us deeply. This hope feels joyful and looks expectantly to the future.
Emma P
Hope is looking forward to the future and knowing that you have things to achieve and accomplish and coming together and having connections.
Slater
Hope is focusing on strengths and future growth potential, not stuck in the past.
Ben
Hope for me is rooted in whanau and whakapapa, drawing strength from my ancestors and community. It’s a belief in overcoming challenges together, with a vision for future generations. Hope thrives in unity, cultural resilience and the wisdom passed down, guiding us forward with mana and purpose.
The Oxford Dictionary defines hope as: ”to want something to happen and think that it is possible”. We asked a diverse group within our organisation what it means to them.
Sharon
Hope is the belief that things can get better, helping us stay positive and strong through tough times.
Aunty Di
Hope for me would be that my children, grandchildren, and great grandchildren would live in a country that treats them equally, with love and respect as First Nations peoples. That truth-telling be a process of teaching history in this country, and all Australians accept that reparation through treaty becomes a reality.
Deb
Hope is the expectation and confidence we have as Christians that there is always good in the future, and we should continue to desire good things.
Jackie
My hope is that I can continue to make the residents smile. I hope that every day they are with us, they are happy and know they are valued.
Jordan
Hope, to me, isn’t just a wish or a possibility - it’s a promise. A promise grounded in the belief that, through dedication and effort, we can continually improve ourselves.
Jess
I am currently halfway through a book all about hope, written by Mark Manson. One line from the book that has really stuck with me is: “Hope is not some magical thing we pull out of our hats to make our lives feel better. Hope is a basic human drive, a desire for something better, and a reason to get out of bed every morning.” To me, hope means I wake up every day knowing things can always be better than they were yesterday.
Nikki
In life’s darkest moments, hope is a north star leading us out of the shadows and into the light of a new day. It is the quiet voice that whispers you can do this, the invisible hand that pulls us up, and the spark that reminds us we have more to give. When all is lost, it is hope that carries us forward, promising we are not done yet – that the best is still yet to come.
Closing the Gap with Aunty Di
Protecting the world’s oldest living culture is a responsibility that belongs to all of us.
Held annually on the third Thursday in March, National Close the Gap Day is an opportunity to send our governments a clear message ‘that Australians value health equality as a fundamental right for all’.
On the day, Australians are encouraged to host an activity in their workplace, home, community or school, to show support for the goal of achieving health equality for First Nations Peoples by 2032.
More than 250,000 people have participated in events across the country since its inception in April 2007.
Overall, only four of the 19 national targets are on track to be met.
They are early childhood education, employment, land rights and sea rights.
We asked Newcastle Anglican Reverend Canon and Director of Reconciliation
Dianne Langham what she thinks about National Close the Gap Day.
“The biggest problem about Closing the Gap is that it is the government of the day deciding what should be concentrated on rather than allowing our people to plan our own healing,” Aunty Di says.
“Most issues can be solved by better housing, access to healthcare - both mental and physical, better housing, education and meaningful employment.”
Incarceration
Aunty Di believes government funding could be better spent on preventative measures, rather than costly repairs.
“It costs approximately $150,000 to incarcerate a child for one year,” she explains.
“An adult is similar. We [First Nations] make up around 60% in the juvenile sector and 38% in the adult sector and yet we are only 3% of the population.
“Wouldn’t it make more sense, and be better economic practice, to spend that money in the community addressing the issues that lead to this behaviour?
“I believe rather than incarcerating teens, money could be better spent on places of training and education for them.”
Housing
“The houses that are being built for our people don’t suit their needs,” she says.
“When there is an uproar following pictures of houses where there are 16 people living in a three-bedroom house, the [furore] is because our people are being judged with the lens others are used to.
“My house has had nine people living in it when it was a two-bedroom house.”
Change
“I believe if the Voice referendum had been a ‘Yes’ [vote majority] then First Nations people would have been able to voice change. Unfortunately, that wasn’t to be.
“Closing the Gap is currently government-led, and my hope is that this will change for the future.”
Newcastle Anglican hosted a RAP Reflection Day as part of our commitment towards meaningful reconciliation.
Members of the RAP Working Group, the RAP Reference Group, Executive Leadership, the NAC Board, Diocesan Council, and the Episcopal Team came together for a workshop in March.
Aunty Di, Todd Saunders from Manning Valley Anglican College and Britta Osborne from Lakes Grammar - An Anglican School shared powerful reflections on what reconciliation means to them.
The organisation is committed to developing a Reflection Reconciliation Plan over the next 12 to 18 months to help build relationships with its Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander stakeholders and establish where it can take meaningful action to advance reconciliation.
Samaritans set to launch
exciting new appeal
Samaritans is preparing to launch a brand-new appeal, to raise money and awareness of an important service.
Samaritans Green Light Appeal will be launched in the coming weeks, and we’re excited to give the Newcastle Anglican community a sneak peek.
The Green Light Appeal will support Samaritans Student Accommodation program.
It is the only service of its kind within the Hunter, providing safe, independent housing for young people aged 16-25 experiencing, or at risk of, homelessness.
The program offers ongoing accommodation, with dedicated support and mentorship to help young people achieve their educational and training goals.
Since its inception in 2013, the program has been entirely funded through the generosity of the local community. It receives no government funding.
Almost
200 students 90%
Over the past decade, Samaritans Student Accommodation program has supported more than of these students have completed their education or apprenticeship during their stay.
Keep an eye out for the launch of Samaritans Green Light Appeal.
Thea is a resident at Samaritans Student Accommodation.
Takira’s Green Light story
Takira’s dream is to become a high school teacher in a rural community.
“I want to do something in this world that actually makes a difference to people”
After being kicked out of home with just $300 to her name, Takira found a home at Samaritans Student Accommodation.
She is now studying a Bachelor of Secondary Education and is on her way to achieving her dream.
Samaritans doesn’t receive any government funding to support this valuable service, that’s why Takira needs you!
Please give generously today!
Over the past decade, Samaritans Student Accommodation program has supported more than 200 students.
Almost 90% of these students have completed their education or apprenticeship during their stay.
Hope starts here. Click here to donate today
Keep an eye out for the launch of Samaritans Green Light Appeal.
From a very young age, Emma Pritchard remembers being the type of kid that would stand up for her fellow classmates if they were being bullied.
It wasn’t that she was physically stronger, or that she saw herself as a leader, it was more that she had always been passionate about equality and social justice.
Fast forward three decades – and add a degree in social welfare – and the mother-of-three is continuing to fight for fairness.
Emma is the team leader at Samaritans’ Tailored Youth and Family Services in Gateshead, formerly known as Creative Times.
The free service provides support for young people and their families going through a tough time.
Youth service
can catch anything thrown at them
“I think I’ve always cared for young people, equity, and treating people fairly,” Emma says.
“If I see an injustice I want to do something about it.
“I was always that kid that if I saw someone getting bullied, I would jump up and say something.
“I’ve always been drawn to helping people.”
By working with young people aged seven to 18 years, Tailored Youth and Family Services offers tailor-made programs delivered by an experienced team of qualified professionals with a wealth of knowledge in social welfare, psychology, mental health and youth wellbeing. The service assists more than 250 vulnerable children and their families annually.
Located on the Pacific Highway, perched
The team at Tailored Youth and Family Services.
between Lake Macquarie Private Hospital and Wiripaang Public School, the Samaritans service is almost hidden from the roadside.
Inside, however, it is awash with brightly coloured accessories and activities.
From ride-on cars, wall scrabble, paints and musical instruments, books and boardgames, to soft toys and a ball pit.
It’s all designed to help young people feel at ease.
There is even a therapy dog to bring an extra sense of calm.
“Zelda is trained to help individuals and families who visit,” Emma explains.
“There are so many ways she can help regulate. One way is just by feeling her fur, by patting her, which can help lower a person’s blood pressure and stress.”
The two-and-a-half-year-old Labradoodle also acts as a positive distraction.
“Young people can often feel safer around Zelda if they’re a bit hesitant around adults.
“Children that love dogs will even tell Zelda things.
“Zelda is often shy at the start, and so are a lot of young people that come into our service, so we can say to them
‘Zelda gets really shy and very nervous, what do you do when you feel nervous or anxious? Try some of those techniques with Zelda’.”
The Tailored Youth and Family Services team offers support to individuals and their families through its Group Parenting Programs, School Group Programs, and Afternoon Group Program.
Within this space they can help young people explore challenges and identify helpful ways to overcome these, in a playful and creative environment.
Emma Pritchard and Zelda.
Click here to learn about Tailored Youth and Family Services
The Middle
Missing
Samaritans service addresses mental health gap.
Young people in remote and rural communities across the Hunter are connecting with a vital program that aims to stop them from falling through a gap in Australia’s mental health care system.
The ‘missing middle’ refers to a place between primary care – which can assist with mental health conditions like anxiety and depression – and acute care needs associated with hospitalisation.
Since 2018, Samaritans Rural Young Minds program has supported young people aged between 12 to 25 who have complex to severe mental health concerns.
“Rural Young Minds provides relief for the incredibly overwhelmed mental health systems by meeting the ‘missing middle’ of complexity,” Youth Complex Service Manager Tyler Martin says.
“It reaches into remote and rural communities, where mental health services are at a minimum, and provides
The Rural Young Minds team.
therapeutic interventions and support for referral pathways and engagement with a variety of different services.”
Funded by the Primary Health Network, Rural Young Minds offers flexible appointments for locations including Muswellbrook, the Upper Hunter, Liverpool Plains, Singleton, Cessnock, and Dungog.
Over the past 12 months, the program has connected with more than 400 young people and completed about 2,200 appointments.
One of the participants during this time was a 15-year-old female who had been experiencing depression following the tragic loss of her friend from an accident.
Grace* lived in a remote, rural community with minimal support and no other funded mental health services in the area.
She was withdrawn from friends and family and no longer participated or showed an interest in the activities and passions she once enjoyed.
Grace refused to attend school, wasn’t eating, and experienced disturbed sleep.
Over a six-month period with the Rural Young Minds Youth Complex Mental Health service, she was able to focus on her personal values, connection to culture, self-compassion, mindfulness practices, self-care, emotional regulation, and distress tolerance skills.
Eventually, Grace felt comfortable to attend school more regularly, found a deeper connection to her land and culture, and developed a more confident view of herself and where she fits in this world.
*Name changed to protect identity.
Celebrating International Women’s Day
Newcastle Anglican is a proud leader in workplace gender equality.
Females represent
Women make up
Right now, more than are working for Newcastle Anglican and its agencies, including Anglican Care and Samaritans, to improve the lives of the people we support. of our workforce. of the senior leadership team. 84% 66%
2,000 women
“International Women’s Day is the day we pause around the globe and give thanks for the contributions of women in our lives and in our communities.
“It is an opportunity to give thanks for those of previous generations who have paved the way for girls and women to have the freedoms and opportunities they have today.”
- Bishop Sonia
Click to watch Bishop Tyrrell Anglican College’s visit to CA Brown Lodge
Why I don’t want to be
equal to men
That headline got your attention, didn’t it? That was by design.
It is true though; I don’t want to be equal to men. I’ve tried it, and it’s exhausting.
If you’ve spent any significant time with me, chances are I’ve spoken to you about my love for Taylor Swift. I am an unabashed Swiftie. Not the band-wagon variety. The bonafide, since-the-debut with variety. Many of her songs resonate with me, but one in particular. In The Man, she writes: “I’m so sick of running as fast as I can, wondering if I’d get there quicker if I was a man.”
Me too Taylor. Me too. I’m from a whole generation of women who are tired of running.
Women around my age were raised in a wave of feminism. As little girls we were told we could “have it all”. And we did. But we did it in a world that hadn’t adjusted its gender role stereotypes. We did it in a system, and with standards, that had been designed by the men before us. We were given equal opportunities, on an uneven playing field.
One of my great passions, apart from Taylor Swift, is sport. I grew up playing sport, watching sport, and idolising sportspeople. I forged a career in sport reporting and hosting and volunteering my time to sporting clubs. Sport showed me what it means to be “equal.” It also showed me that equality can feel wildly unfair.
For many women in this industry, the people before us were all men. Many of them childless. To prove we were worthy of the opportunity, we worked and trained twice as hard. We gained twice the qualifications and experience. It took us twice as long to get there. For many of us that meant we had to leave our family at the door. We twisted, contorted and often shrunk ourselves to fit into a manshaped hole. We played by their rules and were held to their standards.
I did all those things. I played the game the way they did, and I succeeded. I had it all, and I wore it as a badge of honour.
But it didn’t feel right. By playing the game the way the men did, I was pushing aside many of my strengths and struggles as a woman and as a mother. I thought it was my duty. I was paving the way for the women who would come after me. But was I actually perpetuating the problem? I realised that I hadn’t stopped running. But I had lost sight of what I was running towards.
It wasn’t until I joined Newcastle Anglican that I could finally see the destination.
Equity.
Here I was offered an equal opportunity, but this time I got to create the system. A system that suited me, not just as a woman, but as a mother, wife, daughter of a first generation Italian-Australian, sports-loving, Swiftie.
A system that supports and values my unique skills, perspectives and priorities. A system that will change as I do. An equitable system.
I am grateful for all the twists and turns of my journey so far, because I can now clearly see what path I’d like to help pave for the next generation. A path that leads from equality to equity and eventually to justice.
So, I say to everyone, let’s question the standards and benchmarks for success. Were they set to suit only one gender? Are they inclusive of everyone? The Matildas, for example, have shown us what can be achieved when the standards are thrown out the door.
Let’s talk about women “juggling” career and family. Let’s talk about it as a great strength. Let’s not ignore it because we don’t talk about a man’s achievements in that way.
Let’s loudly celebrate, honour, respect and support everyone equitably, regardless of gender.
You have to see it to be it. You also have to see it, to change it.
In case you’re wondering, I haven’t stopped running. It’s just not who I am. But thankfully, I am no longer out of breath.
Kate Haberfield is Newcastle Anglican’s Director of Brand, Marketing and Communications.
Kate and her daughter Aria at a Taylor Swift concert.
Beloved aged care volunteer ‘born
for the role’
Sue Bosshard has always loved a good chat.
Even as a little girl, her teachers would mention her “talkative nature” in her school reports.
After retiring during Covid and moving to Lake Macquarie to be closer to her two children and three grandchildren, the former Mudgee hobby farmer has since found a space where her conversation skills are most appreciated.
The 65-year-old is a regular volunteer at Toronto’s Kilpatrick Court.
Every Tuesday and Thursday she spends her days conversing with residents, joining them in activities or simply offering companionship.
It’s a role she says she was born for.
“At school they used to send me out of the classroom for talking,” Sue laughs.
“Now I get asked to do it. My true calling is talking.”
Sue has been volunteering at the Brighton Avenue address since October 2024, but her volunteering past dates back well over a decade.
Offering your own time to others and seeking nothing in return is what Sue describes as rewarding.
She is the first to recommend others put their hands up to volunteer too.
“There’s a real satisfaction when you can make someone else happy just by chatting to them,” she says.
“I just love it. I love it. I love that I can make a difference in someone else’s life.
Sue encourages others to consider volunteering.
Sue Bosshard has been volunteering in aged care for almost a decade.
“If you’re thinking of volunteering and you have the time, do it – you never know whose life you might have a real impact on.”
The topic of conversation is led by the resident, but often it is based on things they’re wanting to share with others outside their inner circle.
“We can chat about anything they feel like sharing,” Sue says.
“We’ll move from one subject to another and, when I’m back two days later, we could even carry on where we left off, or chat about something completely new.
“They love to talk about their families and what they did when they were younger, about their pets, the nursing home, how well they’re looked after, anything I can encourage them to talk about.”
It was after her own parents passed away nine years ago that Sue says she first considered volunteering in aged care.
“I saw what they were missing in their nursing home – it was the one-to-one chats,” she says.
Sue is one of many dedicated and selfless volunteers working across Newcastle Anglican and its service agencies.
From May 19 to 25, we will be recognising National Volunteer Week – Australia’s largest annual celebration of volunteering.
This special event is an opportunity to highlight the important role volunteers play within our organisation and the wider community.
“One of the residents said to me the other day that he sees plenty of people during his day. Someone brings his breakfast, someone brings him a cup of tea, someone brings his towels, but it is having someone with the time to stop and chat about his life that he really appreciates.
“My satisfaction comes from spending quality time with them and I’m loving that.”
Occasionally Sue will visit the residential aged care facility with her rescue dog named Luna.
The mixed-breed, gentle four-legged friend is becoming a highlight.
“They love seeing her. She’s a very placid, calm dog and the residents just love her,” Sue says.
“I take her in on a Tuesday morning and they give her a pat and ask about her day.
“She’s already got her own fan club there.”
We’ll be shining a light on some of these volunteers in the next edition of Encounter.
Are you interested in volunteering with us, either through our parishes, schools, Samaritans, or Anglican Care? We’re always on the lookout for more help.
Deborah Q&A with
Clancy
In January, Deborah Clancy commenced her new role as Executive Director of Education at Newcastle Anglican.
After almost 38 years spent teaching in regional classrooms, 28 in leadership positions, and three as Lakes Grammar school principal, the mother-of-three is keen to sink her teeth into a role that promises to be both challenging and rewarding.
I’m a Deb, or Deborah, but never Debbie. Q A
Do you prefer to be called Deb, Deborah, or Mrs Clancy?
Born in Sydney, educated wherever your dad could find the best surf (Crescent Head, Ballina, Byron Bay), what did you love about school life? Structure, and strawberry-flavoured milk at recess. Q A
Q A
You started your career in 1987 and have worked all over NSW. What was it that drew you to teaching?
My high school chemistry teacher Mr O’Connor. He had a sense of humour like me and that made learning enjoyable.
What has been your favourite subject to teach?
I’m trained in science, my favourite topic is biology, anything about animal behaviour, definitely not physics. Q A
Deb with her daughter and their two Golden Retrievers.
Three generations: Deb Clancy, middle, with her daughter and mother.
What will you miss most about Lakes Grammar?
The kids, the noise, the relationships.
Tell us about the new role…
The ED role helps the four Newcastle Anglican schools work together, to leverage off the expertise that we have in each school and within our organisation. It could include streamlining processes, sharing information, ensuring our schools are all utilising the shared services we have at Newcastle Anglican, like the Communications and Marketing team, People and Culture, and Finance.
What are some of the goals you hope to achieve within the new role?
I’d also like to work on broadening the outcomes for our students, including catering for alternative futures because not all kids want to go to university.
I’d like to explore ways to boost our results, which includes learning how to use AI effectively to improve our student’s education.
And I really want to improve the sharing within our schools – utilising our resources more effectively. If one of our schools is struggling to have a staff member teach physics for example, why can’t we share the lessons being taught at another of our four schools remotely?
I’ll be working on building relationships between Newcastle Anglican and its four schools so we can see the bigger picture and enable greater success.
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List your five favourite things:
1. Sleep
2. Reality tv
3. A 6am gym class
4. The beach
5. Soft drinks
I don’t like small talk. Q A
What is something people might not know about you?
Tea or coffee?
Tea, just two dunks of a tea bag with lots of milk. Q A
Finish this sentence: The best thing about Newcastle Anglican is ..
Our people.
Our staff work so hard to get the best for our students and make sure that they feel welcome, safe, supported and challenged to do their best – whatever that is. I want our educators to be that mentor that our kids remember long after school is finished. The one that 20 years down the track they say, “I remember that teacher, they inspired me”.
We can give that future to our students.
Our point of difference is that we are a collection of faith-based schools, and we are committed to inclusivity and excellence.
Our uniforms are unisex, our attitudes are welcoming, we offer learning in a safe space and promote belonging.
You can be whoever you want to be at our schools.
Lakes Grammar students learn the value of
building hope against homelessness
For the Year 12 students at Lakes Grammar, hope is a powerful force that can inspire change, bring communities together, and transform lives.
By committing to a passion project of choice this year, the compassionate cohort opted to raise both funds and awareness for their local homelessness service – Coast Shelter.
While their efforts are focused on fostering hope within their community, they are also learning the value of fostering hope within themselves and the value of giving back.
To kickstart their fundraising initiatives, the students embraced the spirit of love and generosity by organising a special Valentine’s Day activity in February.
By selling roses and offering serenades, the group spread joy among their peers while raising essential funds for Coast Shelter.
Building on the momentum, the students then hosted a barbecue at a school
event. They used the casual setting as a platform for spreading awareness about the challenges faced by individuals experiencing homelessness and how the community can come together to provide support.
“Year 12 chose Coast Shelter for our passion project because of their incredible work supporting vulnerable people facing homelessness and domestic violence,” Year 12 student Alie says.
“They provide safe housing, essential services and hope to those in need, creating a stronger, more compassionate community.
“We are proud to support their mission and make a real difference.”
In early March, the cohort hosted the ‘Lakes Sleepout’ event, with senior students spending the night on the school grounds engaged in activities designed to highlight the plight of those facing homelessness.
The immersive experience was twofold, with students deepening their understanding of homelessness while fostering empathy and a sense of social responsibility.
From soup kitchen-style meals to recycled cardboard boxes on concrete flooring, sleeping bags and swags.
“Through these initiatives, the students of Lakes Grammar are truly embodying the spirit of hope,” Lakes Grammar School acting principal Michelle Smith says.
“By raising funds, they are directly supporting Coast Shelter’s vital work. By advocating for awareness, they are helping shift perspectives on homelessness, and by taking part in these meaningful experiences they are cultivating a sense of purpose and compassion within themselves—lessons that will stay with them long after their school years.
“In a world that often feels divided, these students are proving that hope can be built, shared, and strengthened through action.
“Their commitment to making a difference is a shining example of how young people can lead the way in creating a more compassionate and hopeful future for all.”
Hope is a
superhero in preschool
In preschool education, hope is a powerful driving force that shapes young learners’ experiences. Children embody hope through their boundless energy and optimism, believing they can tackle challenges and explore the world around them. This hopeful mindset is vital for fostering curiosity and a love of learning.
Written by Scone Grammar School Yellow Cottage Preschool Director Kirsty Hails
Play is the cornerstone of preschool, where hope thrives.
Through imaginative play, children create worlds filled with possibilities, taking risks and learning without the fear of failure. Each attempt - whether climbing higher on the climbing gym or expressing creativity through artreinforces their belief in their abilities and encourages exploration.
Educators play a crucial role in cultivating a growth mindset, helping children view mistakes as opportunities for growth. By creating a nurturing environment, they empower children to express themselves and build connections, enhancing both social and emotional intelligence.
The hope nurtured in preschool extends beyond the classroom, building resilience that prepares children for future challenges. As they grow, they will face uncertainties, but the foundation of hope instilled during these early years equips them to navigate life’s complexities with confidence.
In essence, the strength of hope in preschool education fuels curiosity, inspires exploration, and cultivates resilience. By fostering this hopeful spirit, we prepare children to face the world with optimism and courage, reminding us all of the transformative power of hope.
Inspiring hope
well into the future
Scone Grammar’s high school students often use their homeroom time for socialising, preparation or catch-up. But, once a week they use the lesson break to give back to those following in their footsteps.
The more that you read, the more things you will know. The more that you learn, the more places you’ll go – Dr Seuss.
Paying a visit to the school’s youngest cohort, they encourage a love of books by reading to each of the kindergarten students.
Gathering in the playground, a quiet corner or under a tree, the pairs share a special time, a time teachers say will remain well into their futures.
Reverend Helen Quinn, from Harrington and District parish, duri ng MVAC’s Shrove Tuesday service.
Reverend Natalie Quince, from Taree parish.
MVAC marks
Shrove Tuesday
It’s the day before Lent begins, otherwise known as Pancake Day.
Its name derives from the old word ‘shriving’, which means to listen to someone’s sins and forgive them.
In Anglo-Saxon England, Christians would go to church on Shrove Tuesday to confess their sins and clean their soul – in other words, thy would be ‘shriven’.
It was the final opportunity for households to use up their eggs and fats before embarking on the fast known as ‘Lent’ (40 days before Easter).
Pancakes became the perfect way to use up these ingredients.
At Manning Valley Anglican College, the date is a day of transition from the season of Epiphany tide to the season of Lent.
Not only is it a day of feasting, but Shrove Tuesday is also a day of confessing sins and preparing hearts for the start of Lent.
This year, College Chaplain Mr Anderson was keen for the Junior School students
to enjoy some pancakes and learn of the date’s significance.
For a gold coin donation students were invited to enjoy the tasty treat while raising money for the Anglican Board of Mission’s Reconciliation Fund.
Both teachers and students thoroughly enjoyed the fluffy treats.
Picnic day builds confidence & memoriescherished
Bringing your best friend to big school is a good day.
When it’s Teddy Bears’ Picnic Day at preschool and you meet your classmate’s best friend and join them for picnic snacks and loads of cuddles, that is a brilliant day.
And so it was at Bishop Tyrrell Anglican College.
Dinosaurs, puppies, bears and mice joined unicorns, bunnies, owls and llamas on the picnic rug.
Carrot sticks, cheese squares, pretzels,
squeezy yoghurt and strawberries were some of the nibbles being enjoyed by friends.
From storytelling and songs to an outdoor picnic, each child had the chance to introduce their special Teddy to their friends, sharing why they love them, where they came from, and their adorable features.
These moments of play are more than just fun.
They help little ones build confidence, social skills, and cherished memories.
A recipe to
combat loneliness
For almost 18 years, the Dungog Cuppa and Chat group has been developing a recipe designed to ward off loneliness.
It may be simple but, to date, it’s proven rather successful.
Firstly, pour a cup of tea, coffee, or hot chocolate, weak or strong, decaffeinated, rich or creamy.
Perhaps add a teaspoon of sugar and a dash of milk - or not.
Secondly, stir well and serve, together with two-way, non-judgemental, open, genuine conversation.
Finally, repeat every Friday morning.
It may sound basic, but the faces behind Cuppa and Chat say it’s a formula that has been warming hearts since the winter of 2007.
Back then the plan was to offer single mothers a chance to enjoy two hours of uninterrupted conversation with fellow Dungog locals.
While retired teacher Lorraine Walker cared for the babies and children, mums could focus on finding connection.
As temperatures dropped outside, the gathering promised warmth and friendship to all who entered its doors.
But the group soon dispersed as mother’s returned to work or moved away from the township.
The Dungog Cuppa and Chat group opens its doors and hearts to the community every Friday.
What remained in its place is the now-popular, all-ages social group that has been meeting at Christ Church in Dowling Street every Friday morning between 9:30 and 11am.
“We’ve got a lot of people who come here who have lost their partners. Some might be new to town, and then there are others the op shop might have sent over,” Lorraine says.
Despite the change in clientele, at its heart the group is still a beacon designed to combat loneliness in a town with less than 10,000.
We’re here for anyone who walks through these doors.”
“It [Cuppa and Chat] is about forming friendships, it’s a chance to socialise, and it’s about finding connection,” Lorraine explains.
“I thought I was going to entertain kids so mums could chat.
“That’s where it got its name.
“But it didn’t work out like that; obviously God had another reason for us to start it.”
Cuppa and Chat regularly draws at least a dozen visitors every week.
“We’ve got people who come who go to church, don’t go to church, are Catholic, Anglican, anyone can call in, everyone is welcome,” Lorraine adds.
While self-designated hosts Wendy, Lorraine, Lynn, Beryl, and Sandy take turns bringing a cake, slice or biscuits, and switching on the urn and airconditioner, they also coordinate special occasions and annual fundraisers.
“Christmas means sharing lunch and supporting a local charity,” Lynn explains.
“And birthdays mean cake.”
The group has even produced a recipe book over the years, sharing the secrets to some of their delectable treats.
During Covid-19 lockdowns, the group even met at a local park to stay connected.
“It’s a lovely group of people and a lot of them who have never had any connection to the church are now enjoying other parish events as well,” Lynn says.
“They’ve found a new connection.”
Newcastle Anglican Dungog Reverend Kimbalee Hodges pays a visit to the group each Friday before her service.
“And now they have all made a connection with her too,” Lynn adds.
“It’s lovely that everybody looks after one another.”
If you’re interested in joining the group, or finding out more, visit the Dungog Anglican Church’s Facebook page
Sew, have you met
Jackie Carr?
By stitching together a theme and a handmade costume, Jackie Carr is hoping to bring a sparkle to her Toronto workplace.
While her job title is Lifestyle and Wellbeing Coordinator at Kilpatrick Court Residential Aged Care, Jackie Carr is so much more.
To the residents at the Toronto address she is the life of the party, king of the kids, head clown.
She’s the one bringing the good vibes –every day.
And while she’d be reluctant to accept the compliment, Jackie admits she does enjoy wearing the badge of ‘chief party organiser’.
“I’m big on themes around here and I love dressing up,” she says.
“I just want to have fun. I want to hang out with the ressies [residents] and make them happy.
“If I can do that every day then I’m happy.”
Jackie’s role includes arranging rosters and workloads for staff, organising events and activities, writing newsletters and facilitating communications with families.
It’s a job she’s held for the past two years, although her time at Kilpatrick Court started nine years ago when she started as a cleaner.
From there she moved to Team Leader of Hospitality before transitioning into her current Lifestyle and Wellbeing role.
“I guess you could say I always used to annoy the residents. I wanted to play with them, to hang out with them. I used
Kilpatrick Court’s Lifestyle and Wellbeing Coordinator, Jackie Carr.
to dress up and do all the fun things to make sure they were having a good time, and so, when the role came up, I thought - I’m taking it.”
In a sense it’s a role Jackie was destined to fulfil.
After sewing costumes and decorating floats for Mardi Gras many years earlier, as well as designing sets and stages for a touring show, Jackie now showcases her talents during every dress up day at Kilpatrick Court.
“About 15 years ago my brother needed help with costumes for Rock Eisteddfod – that is how it started,” she explains.
“I’ve always been a sewer, but I can’t read a pattern.
“Now I sew costumes every chance I get. The residents are used to it now.”
Regular Kilpatrick Court volunteer Sue Bosshard says Jackie goes “above and beyond” every day to make sure the residents are actively engaged.
“She’s compassionate, kind, and friendly, and the residents love and appreciate her.
“Nothing is too much trouble for her. She’s the perfect person for the role.”
For Jackie, keeping residents active, healthy and engaged has become a passion.
“I love to make them happy. I do all this, so it gets them out of their rooms, it helps fight depression, it gets them involved with other residents. It’s 90 minutes in the morning and 90 minutes in the afternoon.
“If getting dressed up and having a bit of fun is all it takes, it’s worth it.”
Melbourne Cup, St Patrick’s Day, Halloween, Christmas – no date is out of bounds.
“I’m here to make them smile, bring light to them, whether it’s just walking the corridors and saying ‘hi’ or stopping to have a chat to them, it keeps them young, and that’s what it’s all about.”
Check out Anglican Care’s Facebook page to view some of the fun activities at Kilpatrick Court.
Every year, Jackie dresses as the Grinch and rides her trike to work for the residents.
Jackie (middle) dressed as the Grinch during a visit from Bishop Tyrrell Anglican College.
100 reasons to celebrate
There was a very special event held at Bishop Tyrrell Place as beloved resident Ena marked her 100th birthday in style.
Surrounded by family and friends, Ena was treated to cake, balloons, gifts, cups of tea and, of course, a happy birthday tune.
Born in the UK on 22nd January 1925, Ena is blessed to live near her son Alan.
She has two grandchildren and three great-grandchildren.
When Ena was born, the most popular song across the globe was ‘I’ll see you in my Dreams’ by Isham Jones, with Ray Miller and his Orchestra; the capital of Norway changed its name from Christiania to Oslo; and Australia’s oldest commercial radio station, 2UE, began broadcasting in Sydney.
Ena was surrounded by family and friends as she celebrated her 100th birthday in style.
Happy Birthday Ena.
Ena’s birthday celebrations included an afternoon tea surrounded by family and friends.
Delma turns 100
Born in Abermain, on Wednesday 4 February 1925, Kilpatrick Court resident Delma spent her childhood learning new skills and sharing adventures with her family.
While her mother taught her to sew, making her clothes from scratch, her dad used to take her fishing, and taught her how to swim.
After graduating from Belmont High School, Delma completed a hairdressing course and became a qualified hairdresser, a career she’d happily juggle with raising children for many years to come.
Some of her favourite memories include experiencing life’s simple joys, like packing sandwiches and enjoying a day at the beach, with her beloved husband James.
To mark the special occasion, Delma was joined by her family and staff in singing a joyous ‘Happy Birthday’ tune.
Happy 100th Birthday Delma.
Delma celebrated 100 years of Lake Mac living, joined by the te am at Kilpatrick Court.
A balloon and family: Delma turns 100.
Cartoon characters steal the show
Minions, Mario Brothers, The Flintstones and a disappearing red and white-striped Wallythere were plenty of laughs at CA Brown as staff dressed up as one of their favourite cartoon characters.
Even some of the residents couldn’t resist joining the fun, trying on racing goggles and bright yellow beanies to reveal their cheeky side.
A morning filled with
Q A fun and laughter
What do you get when you cross a group of Jesmond Grove residents with the volunteers at St Luke’s Op Shop, an array of fashion items, a bright yellow birthday cake and a cup of tea with a friendly greyhound therapy dog?
The answer is a morning filled with fun and laughter.
