Ananda Mandir
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Ananda Sangbad A Quarterly Publication of Ananda Mandir, New Jersey
REMEMBERING GURU CHAKRAVARTY
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uru Prasanna Chakravarty, beloved community member, died from brain cancer at his home on March 28, 2023. He is survived by his wife, Anita Chakravarty, his children and their spouses (Arijit and Poonam Chakravarty, Shubha Chakravarty, and Chris Wagner), and four grandchildren (Amrik Chakravarty, Meera Chakravarty, Sonya Aheli Wagner, and Aurav August Wagner). Guru was born in Jamshedpur on June 14, 1940, in the state of Bihar (now Jharkhand) in India. He was the youngest of four sons of Ram Narayan Chakravarty (1903-1989) and Pramila Chakravarty (1908-1998). Although he grew up in Jamshedpur because of his father’s job with Tata Steel, their ancestral home was in the village of Shaltora in the district of Bankura in West Bengal. During his childhood he spent school holidays in the village. Some of his earliest memories were of people standing in ration lines during the Bengal famine of the early 1940s. The Chakravarty clan still owns that home in Shaltora, with many extended family members residing in the surrounding areas. Guru continued to enjoy his visits to the village home, which grew more frequent after his retirement until his last visit in 2019. Guru proved to be an excellent student from early on, gaining top marks in secondary school class, completing a Bachelor of Science at Jadavpur University in Kolkata in 1960and a master’s degree in Chemical Engineering from IIT Kharag-
By Subha Chakravarty (New Delhi) Editor’s Note: Guru Chakravarty, a founding member of Ananda Mandir, was widely known within the Bengali community in New Jersey for his extensive spiritual knowledge and multitude of volunteer activities. He was a past member of the Ananda Mandir Board of Trustees and played leadership roles in many activities of the organization, most notably as the Executive Editor of Ananda Sangbad, for almost a decade. He was also a member of the fourperson team that worked closely with artisans in Jaipur (Rajasthan) and Kolkata (West Bengal) for the main deities in our temple. Last but not the least, he was always ready to perform religious rites at Ananda Mandir when requested. We will miss Guru and his calm and wise presence and always-ready-to-help attitude. pur in 1963. Following in his older brother’s footsteps, and those of so many welleducated Indians in the late 60s, he set his sights on the United States. With sponsorship from his brother and his engineering qualifications, he was eligible for a visa and came to live with his brother in Elizabeth, New Jersey. After a short stint as a clerk at the Two Guys department store, he landed an engineering job with CM Furnace and started to save up. Within a couple of years, he secured a job with the pharmaceutical firm Merck. Around this time, he sent word home to India that he was ready for the next step, marriage. One of his older brothers back in India started the search for a Bengali bride who would be willing to move to the US. It didn’t take long before they found Anita Coari, a young woman from Jhargram, India who happened to be fluent in English due to her convent education. She was a perfect match, and Guru flew back to India for the wedding on February 12, 1972. After settling down with Anita in the US in 1972, Guru worked as a pharmaceutical
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engineer for the next 60 years. In his early career he and the family moved around a lot, from New Jersey to Georgia, South Carolina, North Carolina, Puerto Rico, and then back to New Jersey, all within a six-year period. His longest stint was at Merck & Co. from December 1982 until he was nudged into retirement in November 2003 at the age of 63. He continued to work for the next 19 years, developing a post-retirement expertise in validation consultancy for a range of companies including Johnson& Johnson, McNeil Healthcare, Skanksa USA, Core Pharma, QSP, RCM Technologies. In January 2022 at the age of 81 he accepted an offer of a full-time job with New Age Systems, but he had to quit a few months later when he fell ill. Unlike my generation’s obsession with fulfillment and meaning, I have no idea whether Guru even liked being an engineer or not. I doubt he knew, either. The question just had no relevance for him. It was a respectable profession, a stable career, the best he could do, and those were the only things that mattered to him. Guru had learned early in life that the only route to success was by doing whatever it took to achieve and then achieve more. As the head of the family, it was his duty to set an example of that and to hold everyone else to the same high standard. He was a traditionalist who could never abide nonconformity of almost any sort. He had no use for the unconventional. He raised his children with
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AUGUST 2023 Shyama Puja Tuesday, 15 Satyanarayan Puja & Rakhi Purnima Wednesday, 30 (1940 to 2023) an iron rule and hot temper, earning him the nickname of “G-man” from his children and their friends. But as he aged, G-man mellowed out. He told more jokes and learned to let things go. He openly expressed his pride in his children’s professional accomplishments and developed a close relationship with his daughter-in-law. To everyone’s astonishment he was a rather doting and gentle grandfather, always ready to offer up treats from his secret stash of candy and clapping heartily at every imperfect cartwheel. He attended every grandparent’s day and tennis match of his older grandson when he lived within driving distance. And when both of his children and their families moved out of driving distance in 2017 to pursue jobs in Tennessee and in New Delhi, I believe he really missed being an everyday part of his grandchildren’s lives. A few years after his family settled in Hillsborough, NJ, he connected with other Bengal families in central New Jersey, and gradually ensconced himself within several Bengali-American organizations in New Jersey. He was active in three organizations in particular: Garden State Cultural Association, Bharat Sevashram, and was a founding member of Ananda Mandir. After retirement, he gradually devoted more of his energy and time to these organizations. He went on two once-in-a-lifetime pilgrimages with Swacontinue to page 2 }
SEPTEMBER 2023 Janmashtomi Wednesday, 6 Shyama Puja Thursday, 14 Biswakarma Puja Monday, 18 Ganesh Chaturthi Tuesday, 19 Satyanarayan Puja Sunday, 24 OCTOBER 2023 Mahishashura Mardini Sunday, 8 Durga Puja Shoshti Friday, 20 Maha Saptami Saturday, 21 Maha Ashtomi Sunday, 22 Maha Nabami Monday, 23 Bijaya Dashami Tuesday, 24 Kojagori Laxmi Puja & Satyanarayan Puja Saturday, 28 NOVEMBER 2023 Maha Kalika Puja Sunday, 12 Jagadhatri Puja Tuesday, 21 Ras Jatra & Satyanarayan Puja Sunday, 26 (*) See www.anandamandir.org or Call Mandir for details
Special Religious Services: Upon request, the priest of Ananda Mandir offers services such as in-house Shraddhas, Rituals associated with Cremations (Antyesti Kriya), Shraddha Anniversaries, Pre-wedding rituals (Naandimukh, Ashirwad, etc.), Upanayan (Paitey), Annaprasan, Wedding Ceremonies & Wedding Anniversaries, Griha Prabesh (Bhumi Puja), Consecrations of new cars (New Car Pujas) and others. If you have needs for any of the above or more, please feel free to contact Biswabhai @ 732-873-9821