Ananda Sangbad 2013 Q3

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Ananda Mandir 269 Cedar Grove Lane Somerset, NJ 08873 Return Service Requested

Ananda Sangbad

NON-PROFIT ORG US POSTAGE PAID NEW BRUNSWICK, NJ PERMIT NO. 1215

July 2013 A Quarterly Publication of Ananda Mandir, New Jersey

Ananda Mandir Expansion – An update Reported By Ashok Rakhit, Chair, Construction Committee I am sure that if you visited Ananda Mandir in recent times, you have seen the metal fence around the construction area covering both the new community center and the expanded area of current temple. We have completed foundation for community center and have started the foundation work for temple expansion. After months of cold winter and several rainy days of spring, we are trying to push construction as much possible through the summer days this year. Over the next few months, you should see erection of structural steel for both buildings. It is an exciting moment for our community after long periods of planning during last 2 to 3 years. The bank loan will be used along with our own committed funds to pay for this construction. We have raised about $700,000 in last two years, and will need to raise another $300,000 this year to meet our contribution of one million dollar as part of our commitment to the bank. In preparation of our Annual Fund Raising Luncheon on Sunday, June 30, at Ananda Mandir, members of the Board of Trustees have started calling friends and families to support our fund Turn to page 2

Battling with Cancer By Pronoy Chatterjee I am lying down on a thick cushioned bed, attached to an alarm system all around. If I step down from the bed to the floor or even hang my legs from the side of the bed, the alarm will sound and a nurse will rush in. The bed can be moved up and down, and the shoulder and the leg sections can be moved separately. I am listening to a solo flute performance by a beautiful Chinese girl on channel 13 on a modern flat TV screen on my left side; the right has multiple tubes attached to my arm. My laptop is placed comfortably on my lap, attached to a charger on the right. I try to compose a short email, but doze off and fall into a soft sleep, don't know for how long, with my fingers placed on the keyboard. Next, I see a mumbo jumbo of letters, printed haphazardly, with my forefinger involuntarily tapping on to the keyboard while I was dozing or sleeping. I delete the entire e-mail and start over to compose a fresh one, but I lose my train of thoughts. In the next thirty minutes, I collect my thoughts again and rewrite the e-mail, with several interruptions for hospital routines and my frequent stomach spasms. But, I feel good that after trying for two and half hours I could send a short but useful message to my associates at our non-profit organization. I have a euphoric pleasure at the thoughts that I could write again – and that I have a laptop that is my friend, my resource, and my

connection to the network of my world at large. For almost a month now, my wife and daughter regularly visit me in turn. They keep looking at me with blank expressions on their faces, hoping that I would say, “I am well, I will go home soon,” but I can't, my whole internal body was cooked up with an overdose radiation and toxic chemical. Yes, it was an overdose but they had signed me up to proceed, overdose or not, to follow the protocol of pancreatic cancer treatment developed at John Hopkins Laboratory. I keep seeing the helplessly blank faces of my family gazing at me, seeking an answer to a question, “Why us?” I turn my face and look at a picture of a vase topped with white flowers hanging on the wall on my side. I don't have the answer to “why or how.” Leaving aside all these stray thoughts, I now search for a path to remain active and productive. I draw the energy and inspiration from my close friends, young or old, men or women, who come frequently to see me, their old friend, who has been confined to a bed with alarm attached to monitor his movement at every step and turn, like a criminal, though he is not a criminal. But, I am too tired to work on my laptop when I get some free time, so I hold my laptop tightly to my chest and whisper

to it, “Please let me have my ability to write again, my friend. I want to write about my dreams and my life experiences.” At night, at the pressing of an assigned calling bell, a nurse rushes to my bedside, holds my hand gingerly, supporting me to get up on my feet. She not only helps me to walk down to the bathroom but also shares her Christian believes that she learned from her church to give me spiritual strength. I listen to her, not interfering with my thoughts, and she enjoys that. She asks me to show the pictures of my grandchildren. I struggle to search in my computer and finally succeed at well past midnight. We laugh together seeing their playful pictures and I forget my agonies momentarily. Her help and compassion touch my heart deeply in a unique way. Next day, I get a new nurse and get her help and compassion in yet another unique way, but all focused to my well-being, physically and mentally. It's a memorable experience in my life, which I would have missed if I had not been in the hospital for such a long time. It is as if I have an extended family at the hospital. They talk to me about their Biblical stories and I discuss with them the mystery of creation. A few months ago, I stayed in the same hospital for ten days

for a surgery and a few weeks before that in another hospital in North Jersey for an endoscopic ultrasound procedure. There, for the first time, I heard from Dr. Ben Menachem who said in a steady and sound voice, “Sorry, you have pancreatic cancer,” I looked at my son who was sitting by my side and who had been with me all along through all the tests and consultations with a variety of doctors. I saw his jaws stiffened. I stretched my hand to hold his. The doctor's words, “You have cancer,” reverberated in me for days, echoing from one corner of my heart to the other. The words rang in my ears camouflaged as a verdict of death. I asked the doctor, “How many months do you think that I would live?” No one had the answer, except the typical response in statistical probabilities, a technical jargon to hedge the reality, I guess. The battle begins shortly after that, a Whipple surgery by Dr. August, followed by chemotherapy by Dr. Reid, then chemo plus radiation by Dr. Jabbour, ending in chemo again for a period of six months total, at least. The battle challenges me physically and mentally. I talk, I argue, and I stress on the Turn to page 07

Ananda Mandir Calendar of Events (Dates are subject to Change) Please check our website frequently

www.anandamandir.org) Tel: 732-873-9821 NOTE: If a particular Puja time is not listed, please contact temple or visit our website:anandamandir.org July Shyama Puja Sunday, 07, 6:30 pm Jagannath Prabhur Ratha Yatra Wednesday, 10, 10 -11 am; 7 pm Bipad Tarini Puja Tuesday, 16, 9:30 am Jagannath Prabhur Punar Yatra Thursday, 18, 6:30 pm Satyanarayan Puja Sunday, 21, 6:30 pm Sahitya O Alochana Friday, 19, 8 pm Ananda Sandhya Friday, July 12, 8 pm August Shyama Puja Tuesday, 06, 6:30 pm Heritage Day Celebration & Picnic Sunday, 18, 11 am – 5 pm JhulanYatra & Satyanarayan Puja Sunday, 18, 6:30 pm Rakhi Purnima Thursday, 20, Call for time Janmastomi Wednesday, 28, Call for time Sahitya O Alochana Friday, 16, 8:00 pm Ananda Sandhya Friday, 9, 8:00 pm September Aghor Chaturdoshi Tuesday, 3, 6:30 pm Shyama Puja Wednesday, 04, 8:00 pm Ganesh Chaturthi Monday, 09, 9:00 am Satyanarayan Puja Sunday, 15, 6:00 pm Biswakarma Puja Tuesday, 17, 10:00 am Sahitya O Alochana Friday, 20, 8:00 pm Ananda Sandhya Friday, 13, 8:00 pm October Til Tarpan Friday, 04, 10:00 – 12:30 pm Shyama Puja Friday, 04, 8:00 pm Mahishasura Mardini/ Ananda Prabhat Sunday, 06, 4:30 am Durga Puja Thurs-Mon, 10-14, See details in center page Lakshmi Puja/ Satyanarayan Puja Friday, 18, 5:30 – 9 pm Sahitya O Alochana To be announced Ananda Sandhya/ Bijoya Sammelan To be announced

Special Religious Services: Upon request, the priest of Ananda Mandir offers services such as in-house Sraddhas, Rituals associated with Cremations (Antyesti Kriya), Death Anniversaries, Pre-wedding rituals (Naandimukh, Ashirwad, etc), Upanayan (Paitey), Annaprasan, Wedding Ceremonies & Wedding Anniversaries, Griha Prabesh (Bhumi Puja), Consecrations of new cars (New Car Pujas) and others. If you have needs for any of the above or more, please feel free to contact Biswabhai @ 732-873-9821


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