Summer 2023 Reveille

OUR RECIPE FOR SUCCESS

Aloha’s Most-Asked Question

It’s a question we hear a lot and it’s a good one: “What’s your secret recipe?” Meaning, what’s at the core of Aloha Foundation camps and programs? What distinguishes them?

Here are some key points you would likely hear in our response:

First, we’d clarify that our “secret” recipe is not so secret and that’s intentional! Talking about the positive impact of camp is our passion, and whether it’s at the grocery store or on a plane to San Francisco, the opportunity presents itself more than you’d think. In fact, it’d be fair to say we spend most of our time discussing and sharing our recipe whether it’s with families, local educators, or our peers in camping nationwide.

We’d also want to point out that, by design, our recipe is flexible. Great cooks have been tweaking and refining it since the very beginning adding a dash of this or that, substituting an ingredient, experimenting with a complementary flavor, leaving the raisins out or adding in extra. It travels well, and can easily be doubled.

In our recipe for success, there are five essential ingredients: a belief that personal growth is at the center of our camps and programs, a commitment to excellence, outstanding staff, a strong network of supporters, and a beautiful environment where it all happens.

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A camper considers a new perspective from the fitness bars in Lanakila’s Athletics department.

Dear Aloha Family,

Every year as the calendar counts down, there are some clear markers that tell me camp is just around the corner. Take the recent delivery of 500 black watch plaid flannel shirts for our uniform rental rooms. Or even more noteworthy for getting in the camp spirit was the weekend I spent with our Board of Trustees at Ohana Family Camp for their annual spring meeting. One Board member told me that if he had to pick one word to describe those few days together, it would be ENERGY.

But perhaps my favorite annual reminder that camp is almost here happened the other day when I was hiking in the Hive woods with our family’s dog, Gracie, a happy and insatiable explorer. About 20 minutes down the trail, she bounded in front of me and in a single leap disappeared into a thicket of bushes.

I stopped to soak in the lush landscape of buds, newly sprouted leaves, and the carpet of moss. Brilliant shades of green surrounded me: pine, emerald, juniper, hunter, apple, sage. Just as quickly as she had vanished, there was Gracie, jumping out through a bunch of ferns and emerging seemingly out of nowhere.

Shades of Green

Vanessa Mendillo Riegler, Executive Director

I remembered that a few months back on this walk, the trees were mostly bare and I could see every move Gracie made. There was no spontaneous game of hide and seek. I watched her trot along and stop every so often to sniff something interesting. It was reassuring to be able to keep my eye on her.

Yet, there was no mistaking it: Gracie exploring on her own in the forest gave us both joy. I knew she was safe and we trusted each other to wander a bit, knowing we could reconnect at any time.

We continued down the trail and I thought about our campers who do the same thing: run excitedly ahead of their counselors as they scout out a new route or activity, and take independent steps forward. Even though we know they’re a few feet from us, for a fleeting moment, they feel far away.

As parents and caregivers, we’re familiar with the push and pull of raising kids the tension between holding on and letting go. The comfortable and the uncomfortable. At one point or another, most of us have thought, “Can’t they just live at home forever so we wouldn’t have to worry?”

What we know from camp is that the real beauty and wonder for our children and for us is found in letting go.

Each spring, the leaves on our properties fill in and fill out in all shades of green, readying our campuses for adventure and creating little spaces, pockets of independence where learning and growth, curiosity, and even courage can flourish.

Let’s embrace it together.

Vanessa Mendillo Riegler Executive Director vriegler@alohafoundation.org

Summer 2023 Reveille: Jenn Merritt, Director of Communications; Holly Fisher, Designer; Jenn Grossman Wheeler, 2022 Director of Photography and Camp Photographers. Email jmerritt@alohafoundation.org with story ideas, suggestions, or feedback.

Another magical summer day at Horizons Day Camp on Lake Fairlee—where campers play, explore, imagine, and create.

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RECIPE FOR SUCCESS

1. PERSONAL GROWTH: ADD SLOWLY

Creating Positive Impact

Servings:

About 10,000 people per year

Prep time: 118 years and counting

Level: Advanced

Ingredients:

• A central belief in personal growth

• A commitment to excellence

• A team of exceptional, highly trained staff

• A generous network of supporters

• A special sense of place

We believe camp is more than archery, canoeing, and the activities you do. A great camp experience teaches lifelong skills about building community and supporting others, and challenges us to become the best versions of ourselves. For one camper, personal growth may mean trying hiking for the first time and tackling an overnight trip. For another, it might be leading a group activity or mastering a new skill.

One of the distinguishing characteristics that supports our philosophy about personal growth is the Success Counseling framework. Consistent across all Aloha Foundation programs, it allows staff to build their skills over time. We introduce campers and counselors-in-training to basic Success Counseling concepts and teach more advanced principles as they gain experience.

For a specific example, read the short Success Counseling scenario on page 5.

2. COMMITMENT TO EXCELLENCE: SPREAD EVENLY

One of the ways we demonstrate our commitment to excellence is through the accreditation of all six of our camps and programs by the American Camp Association (ACA). Accreditation must be renewed every five years and requires a significant amount of time and commitment. Each program must meet up to 300 specific standards in categories such as health and wellness, staff supervision, program design, and facilities. Fewer than 20% of the 14,000 resident and day camps in the U.S. hold ACA accreditation.

In addition, we continually re-examine virtually all elements of our programs through the lens of our values and philosophy. Every aspect of our work is intentional—from the activities we offer, to the number of participants and staff enrolled in each program, to how we match campers and counselors in tent families. There’s even careful thought behind details that seem small, like camper name tags or how we serve food at a dining table. Continuous assessment and improvement are a crucial part of our work.

3. OUTSTANDING STAFF: FOLD IN

The Aloha Foundation’s diverse seasonal staff, who range in age from 18-77, bring with them their own wonderful array of personalities, talents, and backgrounds to share. They are college students, teachers, graduate students, professionals, parents, and retirees. At camp, we like to say we make our own fun, and our staff excel at this. Creative and enthusiastic, they are experts at adapting or pivoting when weather or other obstacles arise.

Before camp begins, counselors participate in a mandatory weeklong training. It is rigorous, thoughtfully planned and executed, and coordinated across all five of our summer programs (Aloha, Hive, Horizons, Lanakila, Ohana). Each camp’s staff forms a cohesive team—with a shared approach and goals—that becomes even stronger over the course of the summer. A few training topics during precamp include:

• Concept of a child’s world

• Developmental milestones

• Goal setting with campers

• Tent family agreements

• Teaching technical skills

4. A NETWORK OF SUPPORTERS: GENEROUSLY SEASON

Aloha Foundation community members have helped secure the organization’s future by giving to our endowment and Annual Fund that supports camperships, staff training, facilities, and more. This longstanding tradition of community support continues today when alumni and friends enroll in our programs, make donations to the Annual Fund and special projects, attend events like the Lanakila Reunion this summer, refer new campers and counselors, host a gathering at their home for prospective camp families, or serve as enthusiastic ambassadors for all things Aloha.

Seeking the Win-Win-Win

A Success Counseling Scenario at Camp

What is Success Counseling? This framework helps us better understand what motivates people and empowers us to make better choices. Let’s walk through an example:

Let’s say you’re a counselor supervising campers playing a group game. Over time, you notice Riley is not following the rules and other campers are getting annoyed. After about 10 minutes, Riley throws the basketball over the fence in frustration and stomps off angrily to sit on the grass.

One approach in this situation might be to tell Riley that they must follow the rules or else they will need to sit out. In this scenario, while the immediate problem may be “solved,” Riley remains angry, sad, or misunderstood, and is excluded from the group. In addition, the counselor does not learn more about Riley or have a plan for when it happens again (which it likely will).

In contrast, using a Success Counseling approach, a counselor might opt to have a conversation with Riley one-on-one to better understand the motivations at play. Within this approach, the counselor might:

1. Ask what Riley wants in this situation (a response could be to score more points)

2. Ask what Riley is doing now to get that (shooting a lot, not passing to teammates) and how it’s working (not well, as other teammates do not want to give Riley the ball in return)

3. Ask if Riley can think of a couple of alternative ways to move toward scoring more points or wants any help brainstorming ideas (Riley suggests practicing more in between games, asking for some coaching help from a counselor or fellow camper, passing more and demonstrating stronger teamwork skills)

5. A SPECIAL SENSE OF PLACE: PLATE & SERVE

When alumni reflect on their time at camp, they inevitably mention the beauty of Vermont, the Green Mountains, and our campuses on the shores of Lake Morey and Lake Fairlee. Even years later, the mere scent of pine or sound of crickets chirping, or a loon’s call can evoke fond memories of camp. Caring for our five campuses and 1,300 acres requires careful planning and strategy and a team of dedicated yearround and seasonal staff members and community partners.

For many of us, whether our hometowns are urban or rural, camp is the longest and most immersive experience we’ll have in nature in our lifetimes. Stepping away from technology and embracing rustic simplicity allows us to focus on relationships, connection, and community.

4. Ask if Riley would like help trying any of these ideas or wants to manage it alone, and ask if Riley thinks any apologies are necessary

5. Set a time to check back in with Riley the following afternoon to see how it’s going so far

The steps above might take a bit longer than the first approach, say, 10 minutes of conversation with Riley and then following up. The result, however, is geared toward long-term success rather than a short-term “quick fix” solution. This leads to more support and growth for Riley, a more positive interaction for everyone involved, and a plan for the future. A win-win-win.

In May, about 50 students from Shore Country Day School in Massachusetts came to the Hulbert Outdoor Center for a three-day program to enhance kindness and camaraderie, challenge themselves, expand their comfort zones, and recognize and encourage leadership development.

Give the Gift of Camp 2023

“Our family has attended the Aloha camps for multiple generations, and we are proud to continue supporting them today. The lessons learned and memories made last a lifetime and are priceless.”

Charlotte Shahid Lanakila parent Former Hive/Aloha camper

Annual Fund

The Aloha Annual Fund, is a critical component of the Aloha Foundation’s strength and vitality. Comprised of gifts from parents, alumni, and friends, the Annual Fund supports the entirety of our mission.

When you make your gift online or by mail, you may choose to support one of these areas of focus:

• Aloha’s Immediate Priorities

• Campership (Financial Aid)

• Equity & Community

• Campus Stewardship

• Staff Training

In 2022, 676 people contributed gifts of every size, from $50 to more than $10,000.

Every single gift makes a difference!

alohafoundation.org/annual-fund

THANK YOU!

Support the 2023 Annual Fund AND Lanakila’s 100th Anniversary at the same time!

Contribute to the Main House Renovation Project in honor of the Lanakila Reunion in August 2023.

Each summer, the entire Lanakila community comes together in the dining room three times a day to share family-style meals and make personal connections. Amidst the buzz of conversation and laughter, the dining room is a place where campers and counselors recount stories of camp adventures, find inspiration from peers and mentors, listen and feel heard.

The enhancements which will also benefit year-round Hulbert participants will include an extension of the Old Stage dining area, refurbishment of the Counselor space above the dining room, updates to the Costume Room and Rental Clothing space, and a fully roofed fire escape in the rear of the building, providing egress from the upstairs Counselor space or “Old Shop.”

For more information, visit: alohafoundation.org/Lanakila-reunion-2023

Aloha campers on the 2022 five-day pack trip take in the incredible view of the White Mountains from Bondcliff.

Stuart Fairbairn (Horizons Day Camp Director, former Lanakila counselor and Hulbert instructor) and Spencer Fairbairn welcomed Wilfred John Fairbairn to their family on March 13. He is pictured with older brother Rowan.

& UPDATES

Kelsey Hatch (former Hive/Aloha camper) and Quinn Self welcomed their daughter Rowan Adelaide Hatch-Self on October 11.

Elliot Rowan Gerrity was born on April 17 to proud parents Tommy Gerrity (former Lanakila camper/counselor) and Sophie Novack.

Edward William Benjamin Gibbons (Teddy) was born in Blackpool UK on August 4, 2022. Very proud Mums Laura “Gibbo” Gibbons (former Aloha counselor) and Emma Pumphrey (former Aloha counselor) and big sister Tia can’t wait to introduce Teddy to the shores of Lake Morey.

Weddings

George Douglas Prill was born to Katherine Prill and Derek Prill (former Lanakila camper/ counselor) on August 4. Older brother is Charlie Prill, who is now 2 ½ years old.

Jenn Grossman Wheeler (former Lanakila counselor and Aloha Foundation photographer) and Bleecker Wheeler (former Lanakila camper/counselor) welcomed their son Gideon Bennett Wheeler on December 12. He is pictured with his older sister, three-year-old Pilot.

Proud grandmother Mary Combs (former Aloha camper/counselor) visited her first grandchild, Violet Moon Williamson, earlier this year and sang through most of the camp songbook. Mom is Ann Combs Williamson (former Aloha camper).

Kaelia Cockington (former Lanakila counselor and Hulbert instructor) and Jarrod Skeates were married on March 31, 2023 in South Australia. Maggie, the couple’s dog, had the honor of serving as ring bearer. Guests from camp included Sara Liptrot, Tori Sumner, Ross Cannon, Alex Lipoff, Oliver Paul, Catherine Bleakley, and Teagan Littler-Reid

Lanakila campers and counselors share stories, music, and reflections at their Sunday gathering.

Other News

Joan Meyer Capriotti (former Hive/Aloha camper) from Delaware wrote in during #AlohaGivingTuesday to report she had been at the Lake Morey Resort for a golf weekend and stopped by camp. “My sister Beth and I walked around, found my name on the boards (in 1960s) as well as our younger sister Anne Meyer Matunas Peck (former Aloha counselor) and cousin Marcia Hunkins (former Hive/Aloha camper and Hive counselor). What a blessing to visit!”

For Thanksgiving 2022, Bob Dickie (former Trustee, Lanakila camper/counselor, and Aloha counselor) and his sisters Flora (former Aloha camper) and Jane (former Hive camper and Aloha camper/counselor) gathered children and grandchildren in an Airbnb north of San Francisco. Tommy Dickie (current Lanakila counselor and former Lanakila camper) was the Funcle (fun uncle) for the two preschoolers of Amy Dickie (former Hive/Aloha camper and Aloha counselor), Eva Regnier’s (former Hive camper/ counselor) two in double digits, and Caroline McGregor’s (former Hive/Aloha camper and Aloha counselor) eight-year-old. Also in attendance was Kevin McGregor (former Lanakila camper) and his wife Monika. Lots of great family time!

In May, Kate Shockey Lafrance (Trustee Emerita, former Hive/Aloha camper and Hive counselor), Posie Taylor (former Hive/Aloha camper/counselor, former Hive Director and Aloha Foundation Executive Director), and Mary Kohring Highberger (Trustee Emerita, former Hive/Aloha camper and Hive counselor) met up for lunch and laughter in Asheville, NC. All are in (or almost in) their 80s and feeling great! (Photo at right)

Sandy Bridger Kunze (former Aloha counselor) wrote, “I was an Aloha counselor in 1981. Responsible for the table runners in the dining hall. It was a wonderful experience. I retired from nursing in 2020. I now have five grandkids under the age of four. I spend my time making quilts and with my family. Life is good. Best to all!”

Andy Petersen (former Lanakila counselor, Aloha Foundation staff, and Ohana staff member) wrote, “Sharon and I have now lived in West Fairlee for 40 years. I’ve been associated with the camps since 1954 and Sharon since 1980. It has been a wonderful journey! Looking forward to Lanakila’s Reunion.” Sharon is a former Hive counselor.

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In spite of our best efforts, we have many outdated addresses in our database, and we need your help!

In Memoriam

Elizabeth T. Ackerman (former Trustee) passed away on February 6, 2023 at the age of 93. Liz leaves her children, Jane Ackerman and David Ackerman, and twin grandsons William Ackerman and Holden Ackerman. Liz was a devoted supporter of the Aloha camps and even as her memory failed her, she could sing all the verses of “Aloha Oe” and countless other camp songs.

Donna Kirkley Boatwright nee Lynch (former Hive/Aloha camper) passed away on March 25. She is survived by her sister Frederica Baxter, sons David Kirkley and Scott Kirkley, as well as grandchildren Dylan Kirkley, Danielle Kirkley, and Sofia Kirkley.

Lois Wright Brown (former Aloha camper/counselor) died on November 27 in Concord, NH at the age of 104. She is survived by her son Peter and daughter Prudence, eight grandchildren, and thirteen great-grandchildren.

Peter Cooper Brown, age 71 (former Lanakila camper) of Sausalito, CA passed away on September 1. He is survived by his children Angie and Michelle, and his siblings Tracy “Skip” Brown (Trustee Emeritus), Joe Dobronyi (Trustee Emeritus), Ferenc Dobronyi, and Laura Brown McCarthy, and their families.

George Blanton Chapell (former Lanakila camper) died on June 23, 2022. He leaves behind his wife of 40 years, Liane (Greenlay) Chapell, son George B. Chapell, Jr., daughter Brittany Rugel, and eight grandchildren.

Mike Cronk (former Lanakila camper/ counselor) passed away December 7 in Port Ludlow, WA. He is survived by his wife Patty and sister Toni. Mike will be remembered by many Lanakila friends.

Martha Mendenhall Daum (former Hive counselor) passed away on November 2 at the age of 87. She is survived by her children Mary Daum, John Daum, and Cathee Daum Clement, as well as 10 grandchildren including Tara Daum, Alex Daum, Torin Daum, Ryan Ford, Nadia Clement, and Chris Ford, and 2 great-grandchildren.

Christopher Bryant Fulton (former Horizons camper) of Chicago, previously of Norwich, VT, died unexpectedly in Chicago on February 1, 2022 at the age of 30. Chris set an ambitious goal of hiking New Hampshire’s forty-eight 4,000 foot peaks by the time he was 30 he came so close and had only the Bonds remaining to summit.

David Herbruck Geisler (former Lanakila camper) passed away at age 83 on October 29, 2021. He was at camp in the early 50s and earned his Odin, the highest Viking Honor. In addition to his wife Alice McCormick Geisler, he leaves his son David McCormick Geisler daughter Karen Johnson, seven grandchildren including Becky Johnson Hickey, and three great grandchildren.

Ralph Everett Penny (former Lanakila camper) of Greenwich, Connecticut, died on March 10 at the age of 77. He is survived by his wife Ann, his two devoted stepdaughters Kristen and Kerry, his older brother John, and his twin sister Bonnie.

Barbara Wyman Skiff (former Aloha camper) of Schaumburg, IL passed away on April 27, 2022. She is survived by her spouse Dr. Dana Skiff, her two children Bradford and Holly, and four grandchildren.

Amy Steele (Aloha camper/counselor) died on January 19 surrounded by family at her home in Denver, CO. She was 67 years old. She is survived by her husband Andy Steele, and her three children George Steele, Allison Steele, and Suzanne Steele, her mother Ginia Allison (former Trustee), and her older siblings Stephen Allison and Perry Allison

Eric Eden Sumner, Jr. (former Lanakila camper) died on April 14, 2022 in his Oldwick, NJ home, surrounded by loved ones after a short battle with cancer. Eric is survived by his wife, Patricia Brooks Sumner, his daughters Lora Davisson Sumner and Beth Davisson Pardilla, his sisters Hilary Sumner Langley and Erika Sumner, his brother Trevor Sumner, and two granddaughters.

David Shaw Swanson (former Lanakila counselor) passed away on November 28 at the age of 92. He is survived by Ann, his wife of 66 years, his children, Sarah, Linda, Jennifer, and David, and grandchildren, Tucker Bair August Bair David Niemann, Jack Niemann, Jessica Niemann, and Emily Kenyon

Jane French Tatlock (former Aloha camper/counselor) died on October 3 surrounded by her family and beloved pets. Jane is survived by her husband Dick, her children Hugh and Dana, her grandchildren Ella Pike, Ben, Freddie, and Toby, her sister Peggy, and all of her loving nephews and nieces including Anne Conway Juster (Trustee Emerita), and grand-nieces and grand-nephews including Susannah Conway, Julia Juster, Grace Juster, and Hal Juster

BUILDING BRIDGES

2023 SUMMER VISIT FROM KELLY & PUNA

Strengthening our cultural understanding and connections to Hawaii

Arlynn Polletta, Director of Equity, Inclusion & Outreach

During the 2022 summer season, we had the opportunity to connect with Kelly Kelsey, a former Lanakila staff member, who now lives on the Hawaiian island of Kau’ai. In our conversations, Kelly shared insights about her ties to the Aloha Foundation and the spirit of Aloha that guides core values and ways of being in Hawaiian culture. Kelly also introduced us to her mentor and internationally honored elder, Puna Dawson. Puna is a record keeper of Hawaiian culture and history, and we were inspired to learn about her efforts to strengthen cultural bridges. These initial discussions with Kelly and Puna supported our ongoing efforts to unpack the complexities of our organizational history and begin to build our own intentional bridges.

We are thrilled to take the next step in this process by welcoming Kelly and Puna into our community this summer. They plan to spend time in our programs and join the Lanakila Reunion in August.

Kelly shared the following greeting:

Aloha, I am Kelly Kelsey and I am so delighted to be returning to the shores of Lake Morey after 20+ years when I was a counselor at Lanakila in Summer of 1996. What is so special about this reunion is that I am now living on the island of Kau’ai and have been being bathed in the essence of Aloha from which the Aloha Foundation was birthed. I have been blessed to introduce my Hawaiian Auntie mentor Puna Kalama Dawson on Zoom calls with Arlynn Polletta, Vanessa Riegler, and Sarah Littlefield to reconnect the sides of the aloha bridge from Hawaii to Vermont. This feels like a divine alignment to reconnect these worlds in the spirit of aloha and kinship. I am excited to see what synergies and relationships and opportunities emerge from this reunioning of souls and intentions long set forth in motion to this auspicious time. Thank you to all of the Aloha family who have kept the spirit of aloha kindled in your hearts and homes! See you in August!

We look forward to the collective learning and growth that will come with this experience and hope to visit Kelly and Puna in the future.

Kelly Kelsey

Puna Dawson

Ohana Family Camp

Your Best Family Vacation Ever

Rick Frey, Ohana Camp Director

If you do a quick Google search, you will find there are over 7,000 overnight camps in the United States. Most of those camps are for children. Sleep-away summer camps help kids gain independence, build confidence, learn new skills, and most importantly, have the time of their lives.

Many children’s resident camps offer a week or two of “family camp,” but there are far fewer programs devoted to the mission of operating a family camp exclusively. Family camps are unique and offer a chance for families to spend precious time together without the distractions of the outside world. There are no cell phones, computers, televisions, business trips, evening sports practices, or the constant barrage of media intrusions.

Many family camps are in remote areas and allow campers of all ages to live outdoors and learn about the natural world a rarity for most families nowadays. More specifically, at Ohana (our name literally means “family” in Hawaiian), family campers explore one of the most beautiful lakes in Vermont, learn about the native plants and animals in the region, create beautiful art pieces, and play games together. And no camp would be complete without cookouts, campfires, s’mores, singing, and dancing. There is something for everyone. It goes without saying that all these activities abound at camps for children, but they take on a new significance when families, groups of friends, extended families, or possibly colleagues can participate in them together it encourages opportunities for growth and problem solving, trusting one another in a different setting, and smiling, laughing, and supporting one another in the most genuine and sincere way!

Top five reasons family camp will be the best vacation you and your family could ever embark on!

5. You’ll spend a whole week without checking your electronic devices!

4. You’ll share three meals a day with your family without distractions, and you won’t even have to cook a thing (or clean up the kitchen)!

3. You’ll experience much of the magic and traditions of the Aloha camps that stretch back over a hundred years and whose mission is to foster a transformational experience for all campers, young and old.

2. You’ll have the opportunity to swim, practice archery or yoga, canoe (bailer battles, anyone?), read on the porch, make a project woodworking, try the ropes course, sail, paddleboard, play capture the flag and that’s only a partial list!

And drum roll, please…

1. You and your family will spend a precious week together learning, laughing, and marveling in the absolute wonder of the natural world that will surround you day and night. You might even fall asleep and wake up to the calls of our resident loons on Lake Fairlee! We still have a few spots available this summer. Contact Rick for more information: rfrey@alohafoundation.org Online registration for summer 2024 opens in August!

CAMP SONGBOOKS

NOW BETTER THAN EVER!

Thanks to the hard work of Aloha community and staff members, we’re pleased to announce the debut of our new camp songbooks this summer!

At first glance, the songbooks look just the same as the classic books you remember that are full of rousing numbers, folk favorites, evening songs, rounds, mealtime songs, and more. When you look more closely, you’ll notice a few new additions, like 1) a new introduction about the central role music and singing play at camp, and 2) new paragraphs throughout the book that provide additional information about some songs, and serve as an opportunity for learning and discussion.

For example, at the bottom of the page beneath the lyrics for “The Duke of Plaza-Toro,” you will find this paragraph:

This beloved tune is from Gilbert & Sullivan’s operetta, the Gondoliers. An operetta is a “light” version of an opera, somewhere between an opera and a musical.

Gilbert & Sullivan wrote 14 of these operettas in the late 1800s in England, which continue to be performed by theatre companies around the world today.

Here’s another example for “Jamaica Farewell”:

This is a Jamaican-style folk song, in a genre called mento, which had a big influence on reggae. Mento are usually songs about everyday topics and life. The lyrics were written by Barbadian-American songwriter Lord Burgess, to a tune pieced together from folk songs in the Caribbean Islands. Harry Belafonte, a Jamaican-American singer, songwriter, actor, and activist, popularized the song in 1957. It has been translated into many different languages!

The process of learning about the songs in our songbook is ongoing, and the content you see will evolve in years to come. We encourage community members to ask questions and share your own knowledge about these songs. Over time, our camp songbooks will continue to grow and change to reflect the community here at the Aloha camps.

Special thanks to those who dedicated many hours to this project: Arlynn Polletta (Director of Equity, Inclusion, & Outreach), Chris Sarkis (former Horizons counselor), the 2020 Songbook Working Group (Margaret Huibregtse, Susan McLuckie, Margaret Pennoyer, and Lindsay Stelljes) and the Songbook Discussion Groups (Nigel Baynes, Carley Cook, Jeremy Cutler, Stuart Fairbairn, Michelle George, Jeremy Hawkins, Jordan Hendrickson, Eric Royo, Nekesa Straker, and Keith Witty).

My father, Biff Fink, musician, songwriter, and educator spent summers during the 1970s and early 1980s teaching music and drama at Aloha and Hive, and was a guest in Performing Arts in the years since. He credited much of his songwriting inspiration throughout his life to his time at the Alohas.

Biff wrote the following piece in March 2021 as part of a memoir class. I hope you will recognize in it the camp themes I did from the uncertainty and doubt we can feel as campers, counselors, or professionals, to the gifts of a growth mindset, choosing curiosity, and acceptance of ourselves and others. A lover of words and language in all forms, he is best honored with his own.

Jenny (Fink) Merritt

Communications Director

Former Hive and Aloha camper Hive counselor, and parent

Biff’s obituary can be found here: tinyurl.com/45umt9cv

In honor of his love of camp, music, and teaching, his family chose the Aloha Foundation as the recipient of gifts in his memory.

BYRON “BIFF” PERRY FINK

1943–2022

Ars Longa, Vita Brevis

By Biff Fink

It all started in 5th grade math. My parents thought school was too easy for me. And maybe it was—I had been floating along at the top of the class. Life was good. A’s seemed to be my natural habitat.

So in October they had Miss Fisher, our principal, bump me up into the 5th grade. I took an empty seat halfway back in the row nearest the long cork bulletin boards. Miss Fisher murmured a few words to Mrs. Snow and left.

The bulletin board next to my desk showed each student’s progress in math. Following each name was a row of orange rectangles indicating successful completion of a math unit. Some had long tongues of orange stretching across the white expanse of ignorance, while an unfortunate few had almost nothing.

Mrs. Snow inked in “Biff Fink” at the bottom of the list. The long white vacancy next to my name was demoralizing: This kid knows nothing, and the gap is insurmountable.

The complex diagrams of long division on the blackboard were totally bewildering. Mrs. Snow introduced the New Student to a wall of stares, and my confidence zeroed out.

The story I’ve been telling myself is that this moment was when I first felt a hollow chasm in my chest. I was lacking some core quality that all the other students had. Where their inner voice said “Here I am,” mine said, “No one home.”

Despite decent grades this feeling of inadequacy followed me through junior high and high school. It followed me to college, into the Army and into professional life as a teacher and composer. Other students knew more. Other officers had greater leadership skills. Other teachers had better control of their class. Other songwriters had magical skills. I never quite measured up.

So I took a second undergraduate and Master’s degree, read everything I could get my hands on, took professional courses every summer, and became an inveterate internet researcher, always pursuing, never knowing enough.

This invidious comparison became habitual. You could even label it Envy, a deadly sin. Or you might just say it was unquenchable curiosity about almost everything. Whatever you call it, it wore me out.

But now, near the end of my career, I’ve grown more accepting of myself. I know how hard I’ve struggled and far I’ve come. I’ve been recognized as a refreshing and creative teacher. I’ve written dozens of songs that are still sung in schools and summer camps. I’ve landed a song on a country album that sold six million copies. I’ve enjoyed a life of teaching, composing music, and directing choirs.

Now I see my life as a constant journey of discovery, a faithful quest for artistic excellence. I understand now that the pure ideals of art elude even the greatest of practitioners. Pursuit is the thing. As the ancients had it, “Ars longa, vita brevis” “Craft is long, life is short.”

Sometime soon I may even re-visit long division.

Biff sings with campers and counselors in the Comb at Hive during his 2019 visit.

2968 Lake Morey Road

Fairlee, Vermont, 05045

Ohana Family Camp Season

June 18 – August 17

2023 DATES

Aloha, Hive, and Lanakila Camp Season

June 23 – August 9

Horizons Day Camp Season

June 26 – August 11

Aloha, Hive, and Lanakila Visiting Weekend

July 15 – 16

Lanakila Reunion

August 11 – 13

Hulbert August Family Camp

August 13 – 19

Hulbert New Year’s Family Camp

December 27 – January 1, 2024

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Who else feels this way about camp? WE DO! Pure joy and fun on the special days at camp (we spy a dunk tank by Aloha’s Main House)—and every day in between!