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Volume 214, No. 10
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Oneonta, N.Y., Thursday, March 10, 2022
COMPLIMENTARY
School alum brings his national program home
Cooperstown Central enlists MMA champ, Iraq war vet as it charts anti-bullying strategy 1994 Cooperstown Central School graduate and Mixed Martial Arts champion Tom Murphy, left, and Iraq War Veteran Sgt. Rick Yarosh (retired), right, flank Junior/Senior High Assistant Principal Amy Malcuria after a March 7 presentation to CCS students.
Spot the local luminaries! Nearly the full cast and crew of “A Roadhouse Coup” pose after shooting the cocktail party scene at Oneonta’s Masonic Lodge. Filmmaker Lori Bailey told a Cooperstown gathering on March 8 she hopes to have the feature-length film complete in time for a September premier. See story on page 6. INSIDE ►Fields for dreams: Town, village leaders in Richfield ready to break ground on youth sports complex, page 3. ►TONY OLIVA CHECKS NEW DIGS: 2022 Hall of Famer visits Cooperstown for preview, page 3.
Longtime Oneonta Mayor Brenner dies after long illness
►they’re fantastic: Sonny Landreth and Cindy Cashdollar set for Cooperstown show, page 12. ►A FEW THOUGHTS ON IMPORTANT THINGS: Our columnists this week consider youth mental health, hope that an anti-bullying plan reaches its entire intended audience, try to discern the difference between politics and policy-making, and point out a problem with a sign in Otego. Pages 4, 5, and 6. . Follow Breaking News On
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This week’s edition carries the obituary for former Oneonta Mayor David Brenner, who died at age 90 on Friday, March 4, after a long illness. Along
with his public service as mayor and a member of the Otsego County Board, he worked at SUNY Oneonta for 33 years, rising to the post of Associate Vice President for Academic Affairs at the University. His funeral takes place Saturday, March 12 at St. James Episcopal Church on Main Street in Oneonta, with calling hours from 4 - 7 p.m. March 11 at the Lewis, Hurley & Pietrobono Funeral Home on Dietz Street. Mr. Brenner’s full obituary on page 8 commemorates a lifetime of community service.
The lights went out in Cooperstown High School’s Sterling Auditorium on the afternoon of March 7, not long after sophomores, juniors, and seniors had filed in for an afternoon assembly. The video screen went live with a high-energy montage of career highlights for Mixed Martial Arts fighter Tom Murphy, routinely battling his opponents to the mat and raising his arms in victory. “I hate fighting,” Mr. Murphy said as the video ended and the lights came up. “There’s nothing I find more despicable than fighting to solve a problem.” MMA, he said, was a competition: “20 years of preparation fighting men who had prepared and trained as hard and long as I did to compete in a sport, to win or to do better than others.” Mr. Murphy — a 1994 graduate of Cooperstown High School — wasn’t there to talk about his years in the ring (he stopped in 2008) but to lead students through an uptempo lesson on how to defeat bullies. “Sweethearts & Heroes,” the program he co-founded with Iraq War vet Rick Yarosh — a retired sergeant with the United States Army — has challenged some two million students across the country to, as Mr. Murphy said, “own the moment” to jump in and help when they witness bullying. Tailored for each age group across the district’s K-12 student population, the Sweethearts presentation to the high schoolers began in earnest with a jolting discussion about teen suicide. The oldest students were the last assembly of the day; immediately prior, a few busloads of elementary school students joined in a high-energy assembly aimed directly at their age level. “This is the moral puzzle, the biggest problem we have right now,” Mr. Murphy said to the senior high assembly. Showing a photo of a 12-year-old girl from Florida who later would live-stream her suicide, he said, “She felt hopeless so she gave up. It’s why hundreds of thousands of students every day think about suicide, why 22 members of the
United States armed forces commit suicide each day.” Sgt. Yarosh, injured in Iraq with burns over most of his body, told the assembly the details of the day in 2006 when his small tank hit an improvised explosive device (“an I.E.D., a homemade bomb”) and caused an explosion inside the turret where he and his colleague (who died one week later from the injuries he sustained in the explosion) were sitting. The life-altering event, he said, left him feeling hopeless until he saw an opportunity to use his experience to empower others who felt similar despair. He and Mr. Murphy teamed up to form “Sweethearts & Heroes.” “Bully is a 16th-century word that originally meant ‘sweetheart,’” he said. “None of us get to where we are without sweethearts.” The duo challenged students (“and educators!” Mr. Murphy repeatedly exhorted) to learn what they call the ‘stop-drop-androll’ of how to tap into their own abilities to address bullying situations head-on, how to recognize troubling situations, and how to take action. Students lined up at the end of the assembly for photos with Mr. Murphy and Sgt. Yarosh and to talk more about some of the finer details of the nearly 90-minute presentation. Mr. Murphy said he was looking forward to events at the school on Tuesday and Wednesday — ‘Circle’ meetings with small groups of students and educators seated in a circle and discussing, one at a time, various situations and/or empathetic outreach. “It’s really the most amazing part of this whole program,” he said. “You see kids open up and commit to helping.” “Bullying, how ever you define it, is happening all the time,” Mr. Murphy said. “Think about what these kids lost in the last two years. Their meaning in life, human acceptance, it was all ripped away from Continued on page 6
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