10 AFRICAWORLD AUG 16 -31 2013
beauty & fashion Sierra Leone Has launched its first Status of the Youth report. The report contains the most comprehensive assessment of young people’s employment, education and well-being.
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AGONY CORNER
With Abdul Yusuf
I am 25 years of age and still live with my parents at home. I won’t describe my parents’ marriage as ideal as my father is forever accusing my mother of having extra marital affairs.
Sincerely, he isn’t off the target as my mother specialises in dating younger men. Somalia Medicines Sans Frontiers has pulled all of its personal out of Somalia. The move is due to the continued kidnapping and killing of MSF staff.
South Africa Nelson Mandela is making a “slow but steady improvement” in hospital in Pretoria, the Presidenc y said on Sunday. The announcement is its first update in two weeks on the former president’s health.
South Sudan The government has begun talks with former rebels who accepted President Kiirs amnesty last year. The rebel groups have asked to be integrated into the army and police force.
Sudan Four government soldiers have attacked and raped a woman in a refugee camp in North Dafur. The group also attempted to rape her young daughter, but she managed to escape the camp by using a machete to defend herself.
Swaziland Electoral candidates are claiming fraud after some candidates were left off the nomination lists. The nominations are the first stage of the controversial election for members of the House of Assembly.
Uganda A recent study in the Journal of Paediatrics has found that a thin plastic bag can be used to save the life of some of the most vulnerable new-borns. The study found the bags can reduce hypothermia in pre-mature babies who are placed inside them after birth.
Severally my father has had to send some young men away from our premises, who come asking to be employed as drivers. Since I spent the better part of my life away from home: entered into boarding school from Junior Secondary School 1, beyond what I experience during the holidays and the complaints of my younger ones, I can’t say categorically that I know my mother very well. All I know is that she is very fashionable and beautiful as well as a socialite. Unlike my father who is more into his children and home, my mother doesn’t care much about us. We have all come to accept her for whom she is and the times I am at home or when my father comes to visit me in school. I always tell him not to bother too much about my mother. I often tell him that after 26 years as a couple he should be used to her ways by now. It is an open secret that my father is the one keeping the marriage; my mother doesn’t care one bit about it. As a child, can’t recall when she went to the kitchen to cook, I don’t even know what the taste of her food is like. She is that bad. Although I have always known my mother’s weakness for young virile men, not once did it occur to me that
my mother is capable of sleeping with my own boyfriend.
About three months ago, I brought my fiancé home to meet my parents. He finished before me and travelled to England to further his studies. He came back about four months ago to ask for my hand in marriage. Since his parents were familiar with me, I brought him home to inform my parents of our intentions to spend the rest of our lives together. My father has also met him while he was still in school. My mother was at home on the day he came. We all agreed on the day his parents would come to meet mine. Three weeks after, they came for formal introduction and to agree on a date for the introduction and wedding. It was during the period of our wedding planning that I ran into my mother and fiancé coming out of a hotel close to the house of the caterer I contracted for the wedding. While I was still trying to fathom what both of them could be doing in that place, my mother oblivious of who might be looking gave him a quick peck on his lips before zooming off in her car. I didn’t need to be told what they had gone to do in the hotel. My boyfriend didn’t know what to say when I called out his name. Right there and then he confessed and started begging for my forgiveness. He
claimed not to know how it all happened; that all he remembers is my mother inviting him over for discussions concerning the wedding plans. I am pained and so confused. Our wedding is on December 18 this year. I want to end it all. There is no way I can go ahead with a wedding to the man who has slept with my mother. The worst thing is my mother’s attitude. Even when I confronted her with what she had done, her attitude was ‘so what!’ My boyfriend and his best man have been pleading with me. My chief bridesmaid who has been my friend since our childhood is of the opinion that my mother must have charmed my boyfriend and that the best way to deal with her is to forgive my boyfriend and go ahead with the marriage. I am so confused. I haven’t told my father anything since I don’t want to hurt him more than she has hurt him all these years. Please tell me what to do. He is the only man I have ever fallen in love with in all my life. We have been together for five years and not once has he cheated on me. Even he was away, he kept calling me religiously everyday for the 18 months he was abroad. Once he sent money down for me to visit him. He has been that dedicated to me. He is still insisting he doesn’t know how he ended up in the hotel with my mother.
6 0 SECONDS WITH THE DUCHESS
By Nena Huntaz Ubani
Adonis O’holi is a model, poet, actor and the current Mr Africa International. D. Have you always wanted to do modelling? A. I never wanted to model, I got injured playing football and chose another path,
that path being acting in film, so I used the route of modelling to attract attention to get there. Kinda smart huh!
the gift of words. Today, writing is how I breathe. D. Who is your main inspiration?
D. How does one get a body like yours?
A. My father in heaven, Jesus and my mama and papa, they all inspire me. I am forever with and in love.
A. Well firstly, I have always been very active and that has never changed not slowed down. I love to play football and I play real hard. Although I do eat junk food, it burns off before it gets a chance to settle. On top of this, I go to the gym 2-3 times a week. I have got plans to start eating my veggies though. D. You also write poems. How did you discover your flare for writing? A. It was a gift given to me by God a few years ago. I went through a crazy time in which I actually lost my life, I was given a chance to live on and with that chance also
D. What do you do to relax? A. I love to go to the cinema and watch a great movie, I love music, most of all I just love to laugh with and/or at people, including myself. I can laugh my ass of at myself D. What are you currently working on? A. Right now I’m preparing the promo for my 2014 calendar, the launch of adonisoholi. com and learning line for a movie I’ll be shooting for 40 days in Bulgaria next month. It’s an extremely busy time for me.