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Once you both decide what kind of ceremony you would like to have, make a list and start meeting with officiants and pastors. Look for the perfect person to solemnize your wedding, making sure your personalities, values and beliefs blend well together.
VOWS THAT WOW Traditional vows have been repeated for centuries and give some couples a sense of permanence after reciting them. An alternative is creating your own. Before you opt for this approach to vows, check with your officiant to see if they are okay with it. Once you’ve got the thumbs-up, begin by looking for inspiration and settling on a format and tone with your fiancé. Then, write it all out – including moments from your relationship and promises you will make to your partner for the new adventure ahead.
WHAT TO ASK: • Are you available on my wedding date? What time?
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• How long is your average wedding ceremony?
• How much do you charge? • Are there extra fees for travel? • How long have you been performing weddings? • What are your credentials?
Your wedding preparations should also include
• Can we write our own vows? If so, will you help us create them?
preparing for a lifetime together. Premarital counseling and education has proven to significantly reduce the divorce rate (30-40%) and increase the quality of your intimate relationship. Boost your success not only for your wedding day, but also for all of your days ahead with a strong foundation. [SMB]
• Will you give a sermon or a speech? Can we see it beforehand? • Can you give us an overview of the service? • Do you have any restrictions we should know about? • Will you perform the ceremony outside? • Will you attend the rehearsal? • Will you be joining us at the reception? • What is expected of us in terms of pre-marital classes?
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• How many pre-wedding meetings will we have with you?