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way to receive it. Others place a high value on words of affirmation, quality time (excluding sex), acts of service, and just communication in general as the most important way to show love.

You may need to ask if you are unsure of your partner's preferred love language, but it will likely be the way they choose to show their love to you. Have an open conversation about what you both prefer, and your love life will pick up in no time!

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Throw the Itinerary Out the Window

Although it makes sense to plan things out properly because we all lead busy lives, it can take a lot of the spontaneous side of your relationship that you had when you were first together. Instead of having a cast-iron plan for all you will do on a special day with your significant other, you should play things by ear more and go with the flow.

If you are out in the city or on a weekend break, get lost and wander around.

Do Something Different

Most people find having routines gives them some stability. When you have tight schedules for work and other parts of your life, it can be good to have set times when things happen. However, after a while, in a relationship, it can become boring if you do the same things from one week to the next.

You can change that by trying to do something different with your partner. Why not take up a new hobby, or go to a restaurant serving food you have never tried?

Summary

When you are in a new relationship, everything is very exciting. As your relationship becomes a long-term thing, much of that excitement disappears. While it's nice to be in a stable relationship, it's not so good to be in a relationship without passion. Fortunately, all is not lost. You need to work hard and look for areas where things go wrong. By putting the tips highlighted above into action, you may find that the fire that burned between you is relit and brighter and hotter than ever before.l

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