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“Of all the rocks upon which we build our lives, we are reminded today that family is the most important. And we are called to recognize and honor how critical every father is to that foundation. They are teachers and coaches. They are mentors and role models. They are examples of success and the men who constantly push us toward it . — Barack Obama,1 Father’s Day Speech, Chicago, Illinois, June 15, 2008

Role of a Father in Parenting

Over the course of time, we have learned more about the essential roles of both mothers and fathers in the healthy development of their children Contemporary studies consistently show that children with involved, loving fathers are much more likely to do well in school; have healthy self-esteem; exhibit empathy and pro-social behavior; and avoid high-risk behaviors such as drug use, truancy, and delinquent activity, than children who have uninvolved fathers

Financial support from fathers is important, but data show that outcomes improve through both their monetary contributions and highquality interactions with their children.

Tips on how to be a supportive father

Your biological relationship with the child does not limit fatherhood. Fatherhood is about the quality of relationship you have with your child.

Take time. Schedule time to spend with your child. Physical presence is equally important to a child. Listen. To grow close to your child, you might find it better to listen to them more than you lecture their behavior.

Be a positive role model. Remember, children learn through imitation. Your child observes and knows more than you might assume. Always practice positive behaviors.

Respect the child's mother. How children handle their current and future relationships will be influenced by how you treat their mother. Treating her with respect impacts their relationships. Show affection. To make your child feel secure and safe, practice showing them love whenever you're together.

Be present. Fatherhood never ends. Children notice when you are absent. Try to show up in their important life events, spend quality time together, and play together.

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