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DESIREE’ KINNEY

How One Businesswoman Is Helping to Create The Next Wave of Multi-preneurs

BY: AMY LOTHIAN

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Multi-preneur, Desiree’ Tulsidai Kinney is giving new meaning to the phrase “Jack of all trades”. In business and in life, Kinney leads every undertaking she pursues with optimism and has dedicated her career and business to inspiring and elevating others. Born in New Brunswick, NJ and currently residing in Edison, NJ, Desiree’ Tulsidai Kinney, a self-dubbed ‘Woman of Wall Street”, is a finance professional and the CEO and Founder of The Business Matchmaker. As The Business Matchmaker, Kinney has devoted herself to being a resource to entrepreneurs throughout every step of their business journey, from supporting small business growth, personal development, mentorship, and networking. In addition to being a successful, educated woman of color in a cut-throat, exclusive industry, Kinney also spreads her knowledge and light through her work as an empowerment speaker, career coach, brand ambassador, and media/TV personality. She balances the rigidity of the finance world with her creative side as a musical artist. Formerly a member of an award-winning group, Kinney says making music these days is a form of therapy for herself and others and she hopes it will uplift others in their lives. Kinney is a graduate of Rutgers University and has over 10 years of experience working in Finance and wealth management. She currently works in New York City as a wealth management specialist for one of the most prominent Fortune 500 corporations in the world. Through her education and passion for entrepreneurship as The Business Matchmaker, Kinney says her ultimate goal is to “make people feel powerful in their skin and unleash the story they want to tell.” As a public speaker, her specialty speaking topics are: She Means Business, Are You Linked In or Linked Out?, Personal Branding for Business Owners or Executives, and the Art of Networking. She is also a panelist for Brooklyn Savvy TV and is the former co-host of the Discover a New Future Show. Kinney is also currently a Host of the Work Your Money podcast and her segment is entitled “Women and Men In Business Who Rock”.

What has inspired and motivated you to want to help others in the way that you do?

Life experiences, most importantly loss and trauma. I am open about my PTSD and being an “overcomer”. I am also a proud empath. My work is inspired by and dedicated to those that had a special impact on my life. At the same time, I have not let my experiences define me. I am stronger and wiser because of it.

What is the message you would like others to take away from their experiences with you? What is your personal outlook on creativity?

“Creativity takes courage” – Henri Matisse. We need to get comfortable being uncomfortable. This is when the real creativity begins.

I want people to feel powerful in their skin and to unleash the story they want to tell. As a Business Matchmaker, I match clients with the tools [they need] for success. Everyone’s journey is different, and I dive deep into how I can elevate and empower them. I will proudly showcase their success stories to uplift others [and assist] in their businesses’ trajectory. Teaser Alert: I may be launching a “Master” Series via my TV Show or Podcast to show how successful entrepreneurs have mastered their craft.

What has been your greatest accomplishment to date?

My mentees – One was born in Nepal and the other in Brazil. Helping them build their

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confidence and realize their potential [has been] life-changing. Guiding them to land their first jobs in corporate America and still pursue their passions simultaneously – it felt like ALL of the work I do is for a purpose. I am also proud to support women filling the spaces that are still lacking in representation. When I landed on the cover of Investment News, I knew – CHANGE IS COMING and we aren’t stopping anytime soon. As Michelle Obama said, “There is no limit to what we, as women, can achieve.” Are you working on any exciting projects at the moment?

The Business Matchmaker TV Show which is a mix between Shark Tank meets Dr. Phil meets Oprah. It’s about business consulting meets a therapy/listening session. I don’t want to tell my clients what they need, I want to guide them to the solution. It’s based on the 7 Business Rules for Success. I was able to feature my amazing long-time client Princess Faraj, The Chief Engineer of the Luxury Clothing Brand ModMara, and CEO of Faraj Couture Creative Studio; She was my biggest inspiration to become an Entrepreneur.

What are you most looking forward to creating in the near future?

I would like to build The Business Matchmaker LLC into a reputable platform for entrepreneurs and business owners. I plan to conduct a series of personal development workshops and matchmaking sessions. I want to inspire confidence and hope in people’s businesses. My smile is my logo and my personality is my business card (Jay Danzie). I want to make an impact on everyone I meet and that is my trademark. I also feed off of good energy from the universe. There is a quote that says to “be the type of energy that no matter where you go, you always add value to the spaces & lives around you.” My vision is for my work to inspire others to reach for greatness and to spread positivity and light into the world around them.

What advice would you give to others?

I will say it through a quote “Believe in your infinite potential. Your only limitations are those you set upon yourself.” – Roy Bennett. You can be your biggest enemy or your biggest fan: Which one will you choose?

Desiree’ Toulsidai Kinney wears many hats and she juggles all her ventures gracefully and with a smile. Steadfast on her mission of educating and inspiring others, she intends to continue to serve as a resource and inspiration to everyone who crosses her path as she believes every interaction is intended to be a part of her trajectory. As she continues to write and tell her story, keep an eye out for Kinney’s plans for The Business Matchmaker, and her new outlook and approach to creativity through music, media, and beyond. Check out more from Desiree’ Touslidai Kinney at www.thebusinessmatchmaker.org and as she quotes, “There are no limits to what you can accomplish, except the limits you place on your own thinking” -(Donna Thompson). 43

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TeaJos Todays

by: Joscelyn Lewis

5 HERBS TO HELP RELIEVE ALLERGIES

The pollen has arrived and it’s already making its mark. All around me I see people suffering from sneezing, rubbing their itchy eyes, coughing, etc. No allergies don’t affect everyone but even if you don’t suffer from them you know someone who does. Life is about stopping and smelling the roses but how can you when they’re sending your immune system into a frenzy? Hay fever, simply put, your body has an allergic reaction to pollen. To your body pollen is a foreign invader. If you are allergic to pollen, or anything else for that matter, your immune system kicks into overdrive telling your body to release histamines. Histamine is a chemical the body created to defend the body against allergens. The histamine attaches to the pollen which causes your symptoms. Even though the coughing and sneezing may be annoying, it is our bodies way of ridding themselves of the foreign entity.

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Here are 5 antihistamine herbs that will help reduce histamine production which will decrease or even possibly rid you of your symptoms. All 5 herbs should be made into tea and drank 1-3 times a day.

1. Fennel

This herb is high in Quercetin, which is an antioxidant and a powerful antihistamine. Fennel not only helps reduce inflammation due to the allergic reaction but also removes phlegm from the lungs. If your allergies have you congested, this is the herb for you.

2. Ginger

I mean is there anything ginger can’t do? This herb is great for those with sensitive skin. If pollen is causing skin irritation or causing hives, ginger tea will be your best friend. In addition to a tea, adding a piece of ginger root to your hot bath can bring major relief. 3. Thyme Yes, this popular herb is a natural antihistamine. It is great at helping your body purge out infections. Either as a tea or an essential oil give thyme a try. Rub a few drops of the essential oil on the body part causing irritation.

4. Peppermint Since your immune system sends histamines out to the body part causing irritation, if it goes to your nose, it will contract the nose muscles not allowing pollen to enter. A cup of peppermint tea will help to relax your nasal passageways and release that phlegm causing your congestion.

5. Moringa This herb not only contains Quercetin but also contains Vitamin C making it a powerhouse remedy for allergies. Vitamin C is a natural antihistamine. If you suffer from asthma, and allergies trigger it, this is the herb for you to add to your daily diet. It will help reduce your allergy systems and calm your asthma. Remember, true healing requires consistency. Drink your teas at least 1-3 times daily!

As always, I pray for your healing. I send gratitude out to the universe in advance for these herbs getting to the root of our ailments and making room for new, fruitful health.

With Love, Joscelyn Lewis Founder of Flow Teas, For Lovers Of Wisdom For inquiries on your herbal journey, I can be reached at: FORLOVERSOFWISDOM@GMAIL.COM 50

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Do you know what’s one of the most pathetic, romantic experiences in the human realm? The answer to that lies in not just what you feel, but it lies in the consistent results felt after the butterflies have left from the act. Many women have to look out for this reality, and a number of men do too. Selfishness has rearranged the ideals set about in courtships for many people, and the once flowery dating scenes have become soap opera reruns that no one wants to partake in.

Mary J. Blige sang “Real Love” with such passion, purpose, and intention that the world couldn’t help but be consumed by the lyrics to that song. “...someone to set my heart free, real love. (Insert adlib here) I’m searchin’ for a real love.” What does real love look like, and how do people recognize it? What is the distinct difference between a love that’s real, and a love that’s been bathed in a pretender’s bath water? If I may be bold about it, fake love can be unmasked while being observant of someone’s normal routine. IT’S IN THE LITTLE DETAILS! 52 wajmagazine.com

Ladies, there are some things to take note of when you see a man’s routine.

1. Does he confide in you? If he isn’t coming to you to vent and dilute his stress, then either he isn’t vulnerable enough to and for you (which is a red flag essentially to many), and he could be venting to someone else. That someone else may be his boy(s) or worse! The individual getting his vulnerable state could be another woman. Emotional infidelity isn’t just dangerous, but some women consider it more painful than the physical act of cheating.

2. Is he considerate of you, regularly? Let’s say he knows he’s hungry and typically knows you both are tired; does he come home expecting a meal already prepared for him? If he chooses to go to a restaurant (regardless if a fast food one or not), does he come home prepared to devour whatever he bought? Did he bring you anything? At the very least, did he bring you something you’d want, although he knows he wants food you both have at home? Let’s maintain the topic of consideration here..there’s more to unpack along these neglected lines. When he vents to you (if he does), does he just get up and say thank you before leaving, or does he inquire about your day? If he does inquire about what you’ve gone through, does he just

hear you, or does he listen to respond appropriately? How important is your mental, emotional, and physical wellbeing to him? If he’s truly considerate and it’s a regular and consistent pattern (or habit), then your answer is right before your eyes.

Is he protective of you and all that you are? This part is what I have seen missing in many romantic scenarios. Fake love can go but so far! It doesn’t have the capability to do much except sweet talk, do what must be done to woo you and make you smile, and then make you feel like you’re on a tropical island sipping mojitos, while you’re

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cheesin’ and laying in a hammock. It can do quite a bit for flare, but what about the days when your darkest hours are met? Can he stand beside you and understand why you respond to criticism the way you do? Can he go with you to your shows, speeches, and major events and not get bored while watching you be your best self on stage? Can he refrain from comparing you to himself, and lift you as high as he lifts himself without intimidation? Can he breathe life into you when you’re both at your lowest points?

Fake love IS NOT a love that is formidable enough to “stand the rain.” Real…authentic, and undeniable love alone can bear the brunt of any weapon formed against it! A love that is real is one that is truly intimate with you. A being who really does love you knows you, and also moves to use that knowledge to consistently see to your evolution, wellbeing, and fulfillment. Fake love only has one ending and outcome…it seeks to benefit one’s self alone.

Fellas, my guys, WATCH YOURSELVES TOO Some women have a gift for taking everything you have mentally, emotionally, financially, spiritually, etc, and leaving you DRAINED! You didn’t think you were the exception, did you?

Human expressions of love don’t come packaged exactly the same, but I’ve come to the conclusion that truly transparent acts do not fail to be noticed. There’s a depth felt when love is authentic. Some people can truly feel you out! Patterns, habits, specific words, and actions will allow you to differentiate between the love that nurtures your being, and the love that might as well be the equivalent of an STI. The embodiment of love is not just in the words y’all, but the actions to affirm the “I love you” statements that leave one’s lips on a daily basis. A) I love you + consistent, visible action to prove it = real love B) I love you - consistent, visible action to prove it = deceit

Oh and in case you do not remember, that real love is also very much rooted in consistency! Someone can most definitely love you for a time period, and then fall out of love with you too. However, there are reasons for that which must be addressed within the relationship, since every relationship has its differences and unique circumstances.

I find that REAL love has healing properties that the fake version cannot contend with. I mean, I have literally rubbed a woman’s belly during her cycle and stopped the cramping. I couldn’t begin to tell you how madly in love I was with that woman. What we felt with one another was GALACTIC in authenticity!

If you’re like me and searching for a love that proves to be real, know that you will find it. Remember though, you must keep your eyes open. Listen to your heart and mind, and consult your spiritual deity consistently (if that is your pathway to life). You will be able to tell the difference, without question!

I am rooting for success in your romantic journey!

a gentleman named, Mr. Jose Wright, Jr. wajmagazine.com 54

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RESTORATION

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CultureThe space in one’s mind that seeks the beauty of love doesn’t see the desired target as an option, but as a priority. When the door to a person’s heart has been unlocked and opened, and love is tapped into, there are specific mandates that a human being’s mind leans toward. Love truly activated in a man’s/woman’s being unleashes capabilities unseen to most eyes. It’s undeniable the possibilities one can experience when it is properly nourished, and the magic of the depth it can unravel is nearly unspeakable! That being said, love is untainted! Love is kind! Love is…much more than most movies and tv shows can capture. One power factor of love that will be focused on is…healing! *Writer takes a deep breath* One of the most deceptive implications about love that my ears have heard is, “love is pain!” To that, I say, “in what world?” I know that society likes to make things backwards often enough; “she’s bad” means that she looks good, and “hopeless romantic” is said by people who actually hope to find romance (words have power, so I suggest that be changed that immediately). That being understood, I genuinely hope that people realize the falsehood that carries this statement. Love cannot be pain! Hate can be, but love does the opposite of what hate does. That said, I must be clear… YOU CAN FEEL PAIN if you know that you love someone and desire to commit to them, but comprehend the fact that you shouldn’t for reasons of self-improvement needs, or other needs currently omitted. Love still won’t bring pain, but circumstances surrounding love most certainly can!

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A love that is authentic is a love that captivates, benefits both you and your partner, and typically can be seen by everyone who observes the two of you. Fake love is incapable of performing such acts of nobility, genuineness, compassion, and maintaining consistency in all of those things. The notion that love acts contrary to its intended nature isn’t just bogus, but what it evaded is the purest of intentions behind its true nature. Love is a healer! How do I know this? I’ll give you an example of a personal experience. Once upon a time, several very hasty moons ago in my basement, I was in a contradictingly beautiful relationship. There were challenges that gave me concern; more issues than one would like to have, and yet, the relationship also was quite beautiful indeed. That woman knew how to provide heaven when she wanted to. Anyway, she was on her monthly cycle this one particular afternoon, and in much pain. Surely, most women dealing with “mother nature’s vengeance” strongly dislike being touched. Well, ladies & fellas, I went against the grain (and lived to write about the moment… ha).! I prayed to the Creator to bless my hands with the power to heal, and against her word, began to massage her belly. At first, she definitely displayed resistance, seeing as the pain was essentially unbearable. However, after a few moments of intentional massaging, her cramping stopped. The look of total SHOCK she had on her face was almost more gratifying than knowing the pain was gone, and I tell you this, she still can’t believe that happened.

True love can heal a person’s innermost concerns, and also provide clarity for those unwavering battles that are fought daily. Many times in our past experiences, we shake off all of the good things that happened to us, because the traumatic experiences are lingering and beyond consistent in their effects. Ask yourself some questions for the sake of reminiscing and certainty: Have you ever been in a relationship that made you feel light on your feet, whenever you stood next to someone you loved?

1. Have you ever been in a relationship that made you feel light on your feet, whenever you stood next to someone you loved? 2. Has anyone you were romantically involved with cuddled you before, and it felt like all of your stress simply melted away in an instant? 3. Once upon a time, do you remember when you’d get that text from a man/woman, and your cheekbones lifted up too high so that your cheeks started hurting? 4. Have you ever loved someone to the extent that looking at a photo of them holds power, and you take that long, deep breath (and smile) when you see their face?

THAT…IS…HEALING LOVE!

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As we take time to reflect on past romances that likely gave us headaches when recalling certain people’s names, try not to rekindle the desire to slap anyone in the face. Remember the days when the moments happened that actually made you smile, and allowed you to see joy glistening in your partner’s eyes. Do you realize that those moments of joy may have healed them as much as they healed you? Can you recall the concerns you may have gotten healing from, while involved with the person who genuinely loved you? Do you realize that you can feel it even before they get close if it’s powerful enough?

HEALING LOVE comes with some tells that I may have already mentioned, and maybe some I haven’t quite yet. Ladies, keep your eyes open for this one! Those toxic brothers that claim they want to restore you, are telling you lies that can be seen when you watch bad movie reruns. Healing love is…

Consistent: You don’t have to question if your partner cares about you. He (or she) tells you reasonably often that you’re important to them, and they remind you of how much wonder you do for them. Most times, your presence alone makes them want to be of service to you. They value you! Some men and women have romantic pasts that have been savagely strangled with inconsistency, Intentional: When a person loves you to the point of healing you, their expressions have vigor, focus, interest, and determination! They have a task or mission locked into their minds, and they will see the mission completed in your regard. You have purpose and meaning to them, and so they will not love you just because it feels like they’re handling the role as someone should. They want to do it, and they desire to do so urgently & intently. Patient: For someone to love you in full authenticity, and provide you with a love that heals, they must also have patience. A human being with patience allows their partner time to assimilate to their way of life, their way of thinking, and their routine. Being patient with someone can allow them to trust you, and seeing as gaining trust removes walls of broken pieces fortified to protect one’s heart, you actually heal the spaces that need repair. The spots with the scars are refurbished, polished, and gently tended to. Patience heals a lack of trust.

Do you possess a love that can heal one’s heart? Is that organ in your chest powerful to heal the heart of another being? Do you comprehend the complexity behind love as well as the simplicity, or are you yet unsure of how love can heal? What does healing love look like to you? Maybe your definition differs from what I’ve observed and experienced. Either way…enter only into spaces where love heals. If you enter into a commitment where love is proclaimed, but toxicity, malice, and anguish are the norm when you and your partner collide, then be quite clear and specific. What is being provided with pain is nothing but chaos! Love has no slot in there.

~ I wish for you, dear reader, nothing but love…. A love that brings joy, and eagerly does heal… True love…

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