the newsletter of woodlands community temple
June 2018 Sivan-Tammuz 5778
Farewell to Tara by Gary Stern
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abbi Mara Young was on the lookout for a new Director of Youth Engagement when she attended the URJ Youth Summit in 2015. She met a young woman there, a Pennsylvania native who was studying at Temple University and working part-time as the youth advisor at a congregation in Philadelphia. “She had a maturity well beyond her years, yet enthusiasm and fresh perspective,” Mara recalled. She had found Woodlands’ new youth professional, Tara Levine. Three years later, having become an integral part of the Woodlands family, Tara is preparing to leave for graduate school. The entire Woodlands community is celebrating not only Tara’s accomplishments, but the difference she made in the lives of so many students and families. “As Tara developed her own voice,
it became clear that her biggest motivation is helping people help themselves,” Mara says. “She’s a cheerleader, a coach, someone who pushes from behind. Nothing brings her more gratification than seeing others succeed.” Tara says that the most important part of her time at Woodlands has been the relationships she’s built. “My favorite part of the job is getting to see our Academy teens on Monday nights, sharing laughs with them and seeing them grow into mature, kind, compassionate, and passionate young adults. I also love mentoring the WoodSY board.” Tara made her mark, in part, by helping to start Woodlands’ LGBTQ+ Task Force and generally taking the congregation’s engagement with, and support of, the LGBTQ community to a new level. Daniel Goldberg, a Hastings High School student and task force member, said Tara’s commitment produced incredible results in a short period of time, and that the task force will continue her legacy at Woodlands. “Tara is so kind and genuine, as she always lifts up those around her,” he said. “If everyone in the world looked Continued on p. 2
How to Be a Reform Jew by Rabbi Billy Dreskin
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n 1999, the Central Conference of American Rabbis (Mara’s and my rabbinical union) issued “A Statement of Principles for Reform Judaism” in which the following tenet was asserted: “The great contribution of Reform Judaism is that it has enabled the Jewish people to introduce innovation while preserving tradition, to embrace diversity while asserting commonality, to affirm beliefs without rejecting those who doubt, and to bring faith to sacred texts without sacrificing critical scholarship.”* Throughout my career, I have sought to share what I love so very much about Reform Judaism, that we have been invited to explore the nooks and crannies of ancient tradition and choose for ourselves the parts around which to build our Jewish lives. The founders of Reform Judaism gave us a remarkable gift in empowering each Reform Jew to define for themselves what their spiritual life would look like. You see this in so many places here at Woodlands. On the bimah, we share (“we” being not only your clergy but WCT members too) many different ideas about God, about Torah, and about the impact our religious yearnings can have on how we live our lives. We don’t simply proclaim Jewish beliefs but we lay them out for consideration as each of us advances in our spiritual journey. Continued on p. 4
Roberta Roos Honored
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ighteen years ago, Lloyd and Roberta Roos joined Woodlands. According to popular mythology, they were just looking for a synagogue where they could quietly participate in Jewish life. That lasted perhaps six minutes. When Roberta learned of the myriad opportunities here to perform acts of loving kindness and social justice, she didn’t just dip her toes in the water, she cannonballed in! She and Lloyd have become fixtures in our Woodlands community, active in virtually every aspect of temple life, from worship to community service. Along the way, Roberta became an always-collaborating leader of our Social Action Committee (which she currently co-chairs with Rabbi Joan Farber), working side-by-side with dozens of interested and dedicated activists, and shepherding hundreds of us into such projects as the Midnight Run, Safe Darfur, March for Women’s Lives, Women of the Wall, the Jubilee Tablecloth, Ramadan Iftar, the Concert to End Gun Violence, and Baking for a Cause. She’s worked with our teens, our adults and even our very littlest ones to bring Jewish concerns for dignity and humanity into our daily lives. Recently honored by the Shames JCC for being a community builder, we couldn’t have been more proud or more thankful. Roberta, you have been our blessing. May it continue ever on!
Our Woodlands Community Rabbi Billy Dreskin rabbi@wct.org Rabbi Mara Young rabbimara@wct.org Cantor Jonathan Ben Gordon cantor@wct.org Tara Levine, Director of Youth Engagement youth@wct.org Corey Friedlander, Sh’liakh K’hilah corey@wct.org Deena Gottlieb, Intern intern@wct.org
Executive Committee Dayle Fligel, President president@wct.org Rachel Wineberg, VP Education education@wct.org Andy Farber, VP Facilities facilities@wct.org Michael Wiskind, VP Finance finance@wct.org Nancy Fishman, VP Programming/Ritual programming@wct.org Irving Adler, Financial Secretary financialsecretary@wct.org Steve Sagner, Secretary secretary@wct.org Bonni Arbore, Treasurer treasurer@wct.org
Board of Trustees David Bertan Dan Emery Judy Feder Herb Friedman Yvette Gralla Amy Green
Elka Klarsfeld Jenna Lebowich Lisa Linn Mike Scafidi Michele Wise Ann Zarider
Farewell to Tara, Continued from p. 1
at and handled situations a little more like Tara, it would be a much better place.” Tara is proud of co-starting Baking for a Cause, a monthly teen challah-baking, tzedakah initiative. She also loved implementing a new 8th grade retreat, expanding gender-based teen programming at Academy, and planning learning sessions for parents of teens with the Youth and Family Engagement Committee (on subjects from the teenage brain to teen sexuality). WCT’s vice presidents of education, Rachel Wineberg and Jenna Lebowich, said that Tara was instrumental in helping Woodlands revitalize youth engagement, a primary focus of recent years. They cited her development of the Mitzvah Challenge for 7th graders, her ability to increase teens’ connection to NFTY and her understanding that the Youth and Family Engagement Committee needed to serve parents as well as their kids. “Tara exceeded our expectations, bringing her warmth, inquisitiveness, creativity, and energy to the Woodlands community and, most importantly, to our teens.” they say. “No one who has worked with Tara or knows her well is surprised that she is going to be studying psychology and social work. It’s a natural fit for her talents, intellect, innate sense of empathy, and the way that she is able to connect with others from all walks of life.” Tara will soon begin master’s degree work at the Hunter College Silberman School of Social Work. Her goals are to be a therapist, have a family, and become a lay leader at a Reform congregation. She says she’ll miss the “joys and oys” at WoodSY board meetings, giving teens advice, having religious school kids running into her office for candy, and seeing teens so inspired on the Civil Rights Journey and RAC L’taken trips. “My advice to my successor is to value each and every relationship you make,” she says. Her farewell service will take place at the Mishpakha ShabBarbecue on Friday, June 15 at 6:00 pm (dinner reservations can be made online at wct.org/shabbq). WoodSY President Denali Sagner says Tara’s legacy will be her ability to connect with each teen. “She can carry on a conversation about anything from schoolwork to friendship troubles to her favorite new brunch place in Queens. I know every teen at Woodlands will not just miss Tara as a Youth Director, but as a role model and a friend.” So will the rest of us, Tara. N’siya tovah ... have a great adventure. And come visit us soon!
Stu Berlowitz (ex-officio)
Office Staff Liz Rauchwerger, Office Coordinator liz@wct.org Marjorie Mattel, Office Assistant marjorie@wct.org Michele Montague, Education Administrative Assistant michele@wct.org Bookkeeper bookkeeper@wct.org
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Woodlands Community Temple is affiliated with the Union for Reform Judaism Art Director: Melanie Roher
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Dear Friends, Thank you to the entire WCT community for being so loving, welcoming, supportive, and like family for me these past three years. I truly couldn’t have asked for a better home. Not many people can call where they work their home, and for that I’m beyond grateful. Rabbi Mara and Rabbi Billy’s friendship and mentorship has taught me so much and will be dear to my heart forever. I want to thank more people individually, but the list would be too long because so many people have had a positive impact on me during my time at Woodlands. To the teens: Watching you grow, gain confidence in yourselves, and make this world a better place has been inspiring. I can’t wait to see what you continue to do to change the world personally and at large. You are each special and incredible. Thanks again to everyone at WCT. Here’s to a “see you later,” not a “goodbye”!
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The Sages of Summer Cantor Jonathan Gordon
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ummer is nearly upon us, praised be. We shall soon savor long hot afternoons, only to be revived by agreeably cool nights. Winter’s bite is changed to a languorous caress. What is our Jewish response to such pleasant delights in the world? We are taught to be fully joyous, extremely aware of our good fortune. Deuteronomy commands us to face God in good times with “joy and gladness of heart.” Hassidism claims that God disapproves of those who are grumpy despite their many gifts. There was a man who habitually implored God with a constant stream of passionate requests. When he heard that his irreligious neighbor had received a lucky bonanza, the fellow cried foul. “Master of All, how could you heed his needs and ignore mine?” The Heavenly Voice replied, “You? With all your nagging?” Our parks will soon fill with people celebrating life. I’ll drive by Macy Park on my way to shul, and see families playing soccer and cooking on open fires. These folks, mostly recent immigrants, take my locale to be a holiday destination. Yet this is where I leave from, to go to my vacation spot. I am keenly aware of my privilege. How I respect my neighbors from the Bronx – they, their friends and family, find pleasure in the parkland I bypass. Parks are the vacationlands of the poor. The Ramban wrote, “Why should a person be prideful? If one has wealth, it is God who has made one poor or prosperous. All stand as equals before their Creator. God casts down the lofty and elevates the downtrodden. Be humble, and God will lift you.” The joys of summer express this idea perfectly. We take in the beauties of the natural world as simple human beings. We are raised by the gifts of abundant sunshine and fragrant breezes which are unconcerned with matters of class or wealth. A child in dirty dungarees, a frog in his pocket, holding a cane fishing pole, will know more about God’s gifts than an elegant landowner struggling over his machinery. Judah HaNasi wrote our blessing for seeing new blossoming trees. “Blessed are You, our God, Ruler of the Universe, who made the world lacking in no things, but has produced in it goodly creatures and goodly trees which give delight to human children.”
We are all children in the summer. Enjoy your eternal youth! It is a command, after all.
Camp Blessings Fri, Jun 15 at 6:00 pm Just before our sweet young ‘uns take off for points known and unknown – summer camp or otherwise – we invite you to bring them to temple. We’ll bless ’em and send ‘em on their way ... with much love and hope for a summer of fun, growing, learning and friendship. Hope you and your kids can join us! Shabbat Barbecue follows. RSVP for dinner at wct.org/shabbq.
It seems as if I only recently began my presidency, but now it’s three years later and I’m ready to pass the gavel to Andy Farber. I was always told that with a blink, all good things pass way too quickly. I guess I blinked, and now my presidency – a really good thing – is ending. Members keep coming up to thank me for what I have done, but all the thanks belong to you. Without each one of you, this job simply could not be done. I want to thank all three years’ worth of my Boards of Trustees for your time and effort in governing Woodlands. To every committee head and committee member, you are the backbone of Woodlands, the ones who truly make Woodlands great! Lastly, I want to thank all of our amazing members who are constantly supporting and showing up to our events. Without you, Woodlands would not function. You make being president the rewarding job it is. Thank you. When I think back over these past three years, we have definitely had our great times, good times and, yes, some not so good times. My first year as President, we held a year-long celebration to honor Woodlands’ 50th birthday. It was an exciting year that ended with a wonderful celebration. That year created great momentum to carry us through my next two years. Hard to believe it, but in two more years we will be 55! We sadly said goodbye to Jason Fenster, happily wishing him lots of mazel as he began his rabbinic career. Our programming was vast and engaging, and you all kept coming back for more. One area I have pushed and will encourage Andy to continue deepening is volunteerism. As great as Woodlands is (yes, I am a little biased) this is an area we still need to work on. From the time that David and I joined, we have rolled up our sleeves and volunteered. I promise, if you take that baby step and work on just one event, you’ll be hooked. As I finish out my last month, I know that thank you is not enough, but it is all I can say. So thank you, Woodlands Community Temple, for putting your trust in me to lead you over these past three years.
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How to Be a Reform Jew, Continued from p. 1
Just Israel That “ARZA Check-off” on Your 2018-19 Bill by Rabbi Billy Dreskin
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f you’re like me, when you think of Israel, you want to feel proud that she honors and protects all of her citizens, including women, Arab Israelis, and Reform Jews. You also want to know that she’s building bridges to peace with her Palestinian neighbors. Well, isn’t it good to know you’ve got ARZA, the Association of Reform Zionists of America, working toward those very same goals. ARZA (pronounced “ar-tzah”) is the Reform Jewish voice in the Holy Land. It promotes advocacy for a Jewish, pluralistic, just and democratic Israel, taking both the love and the concern that you and I share for Israel, and translating it into constructive and substantive action. ARZA is one of most tangible ways that we can express our love for Israel and our concern for Israel, both at the same time. Included on your membership statement is an opportunity to support (for $50) and join ARZA. It’s a small but important gesture from each of us. It’s a step we can take to connect to, and help build, the kind of Jewish homeland of which we can be justly proud. So please, when you see the invitation to join ARZA on this year’s membership statement, say “Yes.” It’s one way that each of us can truly help. Visit arza.org for more information.
While Israel struggles with the challenges of establishing peace with her neighbors, good news does emerge. This column provides a brief glimpse of something taking root there that firmly aligns Israel’s values with Judaism’s. We hope you share our pride and admiration for these Arab/Israeli achievements.
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In the realm of social action, while we definitely lean “left,” our program of community service and political advocacy is never dictated from the top but, in true Reform “form,” bubbles up from our community, making ample room for an abundance of voices, hands and ideas. And then there’s our learning program. From the youngest ages in our religious school, we promote the acquisition of new information, the active and communal consideration of new ideas, enroute to personal choice even for our kids. While this can be seen every day in our religious school, the sixth grade tallit program is an excellent example of how we “build” Reform Jews. Our sixth graders, a year or two out from becoming B’nai Mitzvah, where Jewish tradition invites them to don a tallit (prayer shawl) for the very first time, we spend a couple of hours learning its history, experiencing the feeling of wearing one during prayer, and then being invited to choose whether or not to add it to our repertoire of Jewish observance. We include a challenge to not let their tallit be a one-day, Bar/Bat Mitzvah thing, but to continue wearing it throughout the year so that they can really gauge its impact and meaning for them. These kinds of information-giving, idea-wrestling, value-in-my-life-considering experiences continue throughout the high school years. During seventh grade Family Torah, our students and parents are exposed to traditional and contemporary perspectives on the origins of Torah and its place in our lives today. During the tenth grade Confirmation year, our 16-year olds grapple with ideas about God and prayer. And in the eleventh and twelfth grade Post-Confirmation program, this exchange of ideas continues right on through Graduation. Even in adulthood, we encourage you to continue figuring out what it means to be an impassioned, committed Reform Jew. Around the Hevra Torah discussion table on Shabbat mornings, ideas are vigorously debated, just as they are around the Talmud table on Thursday mornings. There are loads of adult learning offerings every year, each one opening a Jewish door through which you can take a peek or, if you’re ready, step all the way in. As it turns out, it’s not so easy to be a Reform Jew. But in an environment of open dialogue and experimentation such as Woodlands, there are many to accompany us in this sacred adventure. Feel like joining in? Just take a look through this month’s bulletin and make a choice. That, after all, is what being Reform is all about! *Read “A Statement of Principles for Reform Judaism” online at wct.org/CCARstatement.
Why I Volunteer @ Temple In this column, we introduce you to fellow temple members who have stepped forward to help make Woodlands a place we can all love.
Bonni Arbore Why not? Woodlands has brought something to my family that I never knew was missing, a sense of belonging. We are an interfaith family and nine years ago we found Woodlands very welcoming. I grew up knowing I was Jewish, but I never went to religious school. Shortly after we joined Woodlands, I joined the B’nai Binah class so I could learn along with my children. It was a wonderful learning opportunity, and I really got to know the members of my class. Afterward, when I walked into temple, I felt like I was part of the Woodlands community.
It was such a fantastic experience that when I was asked to participate in the Derekh leadership development program, I said yes. Thereafter, I joined the School Board for the next four years, and I also took over the Purim fundraiser. As I became more involved in Woodlands, so did my family. My son graduated this year from Academy and his Eagle Scout project was building the benches in the temple lobby. My daughter is still in Academy and my husband helps out whenever needed. Last year when I was asked to be the Treasurer I said yes, because Woodlands holds a special place for everyone in my family, a place where we all have a feeling of belonging.
Worship Schedule Shabbat Beha’alotkha
Shabbat Korakh
Num 8:1 - 12:16 ... Zekh 2:14 - 4:7
Num 16:1 - 18:32 ... I Sam 11:14 - 12:22
Fri, Jun 1
Fri, Jun 15
Pride Shabbat at 8:00 pm
Mishpakha ShaBBQ at 6:00 pm
Woodlands’ LGBTQ+ Task Force, in collaboration with our Social Action Committee, is excited to again present this service of equality, inclusion and love. Our guest speaker is Dubbs Weinblatt, Education and Training Manager for Keshet, a non-profit that works for full inclusion and equality of LGBTQ people in Jewish life. Naming tonight for Kaylin Adele Taft, daughter of Damian Bifano, granddaughter of Harriet Levine. Visual worship tonight.
One-hour Mishpakha Shabbat, including a very teary farewell to Tara Levine, our Director of Youth Engagement, followed by our annual cookout. Bring your campers-to-be for a blessing to send them off to a summer of fun and growing. Reservations for the BBQ a must at wct.org/shabbq.
Sat, Jun 2 Shabbat Morning Service at 10:30 am Celebrate with us as Hannah Kirshbaum, daughter of Jennifer Leff and Benjamin Kirshbaum, becomes a Bat Mitzvah.
Shabbat Sh’lakh Lekha Num 13:1 - 15:41 ... Josh 2:1-24
Fri, Jun 8 WoodSY Installation at 8:00 pm
Sat, Jun 16 Shabbat Morning Service at 10:30 am Celebrate with us as Ross Perlman, son of Shari VanSickle-Perlman and Don Perlman, becomes a Bar Mitzvah.
Shabbat Khukkat
There’s abundant room around our table. Drop by once or often, we’d love to have you join our lively conversation. In the Meeting Room or Library.
Jun 2: Parashat Beha’alotkha Facilitated by Rabbi Mara
Jun 9: Parashat Sh’lakh Lekha Facilitated by Rabbi Billy
Jun 16: Parashat Korakh Facilitated by Cantor Jonathan
Jun 23: Parashat Khukat Facilitated by Rabbi Billy
Jun 30 - Sep 29
Visit wct.org/hevratorah for list of summer/fall facilitators
Fri, Jun 22 Board of Trustees Installation at 8:00 pm Join us as we thank our outgoing leadership and welcome our new Board.
And throughout the summer ...
Sat, Jun 9
Saturdays through Simkhat Torah
Celebrate with us as Sarah Chernoff, daughter of Pam and Joel Chernoff, becomes a Bat Mitzvah.
Saturdays, 9:15-10:15 am
Num 19:1 - 22:1 ... Judg 11:1-33
Join us as we induct the new leaders of our teen youth program (special welcome to our WoodSY families)! Newly-minted Rabbi Maya Glasser will speak. Naming tonight for Graham Henrick Weinstein, son of Eric Weinstein and Megan McCauley, grandson of Mark and Fran Weinstein.
Shabbat Morning Service at 10:30 am
Hevra Torah Learning
Fridays throughout July and August Summer Outdoor Services at 8:00 pm Under the stars (weather-permitting), a bit less formal and lasting about an hour.
Hevra Torah Learning, 9:15-10:15 am Led by members of Hevra Torah and/or visiting faculty. Good conversation on the weekly Torah parashah is always happening. Drop by any Shabbat morning! Visit wct.org/hevratorah for schedule of facilitators.
Summer Outdoor Services
Friday Evenings All Summer Jun 29 - Aug 31, 8:00-9:00 pm You are cordially invited to join us – beneath a canopy of enchanting summer skies – for our Shabbat summer outdoor services. About an hour long, come and relax with friends and neighbors. These services are less formal (if that’s even possible at Woodlands), filled with music, prayer, and meaningful words of humor and hope. A very friendly crowd will join you following the service for an Oneg of noshing and even better shmoozing. Such a delightful way to celebrate Shabbat. Children are most definitely welcome! And if the weather does not cooperate, we’ll move inside for air-conditioned spiritual comfort.
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June Happenings & Beyond Learning
Lunch and Learn Wed, Jun 20 at 11:30 am
Hevra Torah Summer Learning Saturdays 9:15-10:15 am
Enjoy a delicious lunch and an enlightening discussion led by Rabbi Billy Dreskin on the topic “Where Science and Judaism Meet.” Register at wct.org/lunchandlearn.
Change Is in the Air! Throughout the summer and until Simkhat Torah, the rabbis and cantor do not regularly lead the weekly Shabbat morning Torah discussions. To give them time off during the summer and to keep their schedules lighter as they prepare for the High Holy Days, we will be featuring a pretty wonderful team of lay leaders and “ringers” who’ll be dropping by once each to lead a session. This will create tremendous variety in style and content, offering lively opportunities for exploring ancient Scripture. The schedule will appear in the weekly email and online at wct.org/hevratorah. Spiritual learning and growth never stop at Woodlands. You’re always invited to stop by.
WCT Book Club Wed, Jun 13 at 2:00 pm Last Days of Night by Graham Moore Facilitated by Karen Margulies Two visionaries battle to dominate a new world changing technology. Steve Jobs vs. Bill Gates? Try Thomas Edison and George Westinghouse fighting over the future of electricity in the 1800's (along with one groundbreaking lawyer involved in their legal dispute). This captivating historical novel illuminates a fascinating American moment.
Current Events Wed, Jun 20 at 10:00 am Please join us as we discuss what is happening in the world and how everything affects us. Good conversation with coffee, tea, and donuts. Stay and enjoy Lunch and Learn immediately following.
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Social Action Israel Environmental Panel Wed, Jun 13, 8:00-9:30 pm Adam Teva v’Din (ATV) is an Israeli environmental advocacy group whose local and national efforts include increased energy efficiency and renewables, remediation of Israel’s polluted water resources, preventing the death of the Dead Sea, environmental justice, smaller carbon footprints for private and public transportation, and environmentally sensitive planning. Amit Bracha, Executive Director of ATV, and Leehee Goldenberg, an ATV attorney specializing in environmental and economic issues will bring their knowledge and expertise to Woodlands, describing ATV’s efforts to promote environmental responsibility in a rapidly growing and overpopulated nation. They’ll discuss clean energy, clean water, sustainable planning for housing, and the circle economy (reducing waste, reusing waste, and remediating contaminated land to reuse it for housing). Visit adamteva.org.il for more information. And please join us on the 13th.
June Mensch of the Month is every member of Woodlands! You too can be a mensch by bringing healthy non-perishable foods to The Food Cart. Help our local food pantries and the folks they serve.
Take Care of the Environment and Help the Environmental Taskforce: The ETF still has some compost kits. For just $20, they sit on your kitchen counter, take up little space, and put you on course to producing zero waste. For info, contact environmental@wct.org.
Not Just Backpacks Just a ten-minute drive from Woodlands, on Manhattan Avenue, the Lois Bronz Children’s Center is an extraordinary place, providing a myriad of early childhood educational programs and services to families and children in our county: a groundbreaking infant nursery, a toddler and two-year old program, a preschool and Federal Head Start program, Universal Pre-K, a before and afterschool program for elementary school children, and Stepping Stones (a New York State certified special education preschool program), all at a cost that is very mindful of the financial circumstances of the communities it serves. Last year, Woodlands joined a program to help incoming first graders off to a good start. The response from our congregation was so enthusiastic that we are continuing this year. Until August 1, we will be collecting NEW backpacks and school supplies: crayons, glue sticks, pencils, erasers, rulers, folders, pencil cases, and 100-page spiral notebooks. We welcome individual items, or backpacks already filled. Help these kids start the school year with enthusiasm and self-confidence.
The Sanctuary Dinners The Sanctuary is a shelter in Valhalla run for teens by Children’s Village. Our last dinner for the year is on Sun, Jun 10. If you’d like to help, contact the organizers at shelterdinners@wct.org.
Donating Stuff – As Moses Said, “Stop!” You are incredibly generous. Whenever we announce a drive, whether it’s socks for a Breakfast Run, school supplies for kids, or snack packs for local food pantries, we can always count on you. But please, bring in only those items for which a current drive is in place. We simply have no room to store other items. If you have items to donate that we are not currently collecting, send us an email and we will help connect you with a worthy recipient.
Billy’s Month of Music Fridays, Jun 29 - Jul 20
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ach summer, when Cantor Jonathan takes a well-deserved vacation, Billy dusts off the keyboard that resides in his study and, during Shabbat Evening Summer Services, unleashes a full load of new music. You probably won’t know much, if any, of it. But they are new melodies that he has come to love and hopes you will too. So be daring. Ta u’shma ... come and learn!
Dr. Jamall Calloway Pride Shabbat Fri, Jun 1 at 8:00 pm Spearheaded by Woodlands’ LGBTQ+ Task Force and Social Action Committee, in a warm, welcoming service, we will share experiences and hopes for LGBTQ+ inclusion. We’ll celebrate Rivertowns’ diversity as well as our temple’s commitment to the value of inclusion. A speaker from Keshet, a national Jewish organization working for full LGBTQ+ equality and inclusion in Jewish life, will be sharing the LGBTQ+ story within a larger Jewish context, sharing how we can move our inclusion goals forward. We look forward to sharing this special Shabbat celebration with you and embracing each of our own unique identities within the community.
WoodSY Board Installation Fri, Jun 8 at 8:00 pm Join us as we thank our outgoing WoodSY Board and welcome in our new leaders for next year! We’re excited to recognize this dedicated group’s accomplishments and share our excitement for the year ahead!
WoodSY Spin for a Cause Sat, Jun 9 at 11:00 am Come to the Shames JCC in Tarrytown for a fun morning spin class with your temple friends! Proceeds will go to tzedakah. Watch for more info. Contact Tara (youth@wct.org) with questions.
Fri, Jul 20 at 8:00 pm We just can’t help ourselves! Dr. Jamall Calloway has presented here at WCT three times since 2016. We’ve been so taken by his soft-spoken yet brilliant ideas that, knowing he’s about to relocate to the other side of the country, we had to bring him back one more time! Dr. Jamall Andrew Calloway is from Oakland, CA, and recently completed his PhD in Philosophical Theology, preceded by a Masters of Divinity from Yale and BA in interdisciplinary humanities from Tougaloo College in Jackson, MS. An ordained Baptist minister, Jamall is a postdoc research fellow and visiting professor at Brown University, as well as summer pastor of Christ Church UCC in Mt Washington, MA. Dr. Calloway writes about faith, resistance and hope in the face of evil. We told Jamall we’d like to bring him back to Woodlands once more before he becomes famous (which we’re quite certain is going to happen). He responded: “Oh no! I never ever want to be famous. Fame is oftentimes the end of a minister/rabbi/priest/imam’s substance. Sometimes there are too many compromises made in order to be popular in the public square. Pray I don’t get famous!” To witness humility and humanity like that, we can’t encourage you enough to join us!
Elul: A Month to Get Ready
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hile packing bags and kicking back for summer fun, you may want to circle Saturday, August 11 on your calendar. That evening is the beginning of the Hebrew month of Elul, which means Rosh Hashanah is only four weeks away (Sun eve, Sep 9). During the month of Elul, Jewish tradition urges us to begin the introspective process that will occupy our attention during High Holy Days. As we begin to wind down from the sunny (hopefully), lazy (also hopefully) days of summer, Elul reminds us it’s time to begin examining ourselves – our actions, our outlooks – and begin considering why we’ve made the choices we’ve made in the past year, and how we might modify those choices in the months ahead. We’ll give you more to think about when Elul gets here. But for now, we encourage you to make August 11 a red-letter eve in your summer/fall schedule.
Selihot: A Late-Night Mystery Sat, Sep 1, 8:00-11:00 pm
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s the summer winds down, join us for this late-night very spiritual beginning to Judaism’s remarkable period of self-reflection we call the High Holy Days. Selihot has its origins in Jewish mysticism and, to this day, offers an embracing, inspiring late-night hour of personal review of the year gone by. It’s a very sweet, yet provocative opportunity to meet the music and the themes that will fill our tent just a week later. One of our better-kept secrets here at Woodlands, Selihot is some people’s favorite service of the entire year! We’ll start with a film, then eat a little nosh, and gather for our 1st High Holy Days ritual. Be sure to put Sat, Sep 1 at 8:00 pm on your calendar.
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Come Sing with Us! This is the time to join up with the Woodlands Singers and help fill the High Holy Days tent with music! In June, we begin to rehearse what is arguably the best choral music in the Jewish world. If you are inclined to sing with the illustrious and friendly Woodlands Singers, why not jump in now? We rehearse every week, from now through the fall, beginning promptly at 8:15 pm (and ending just as promptly at 9:15 pm). Our singers come as often as they can. You don’t have to give up everything in your life to be part of the team, although it will become a meaningful part of your life and you probably will want to come as often as is possible. The choir sings on Rosh Hashanah evening, Yom Kippur evening, and at Neilah as the Day of Atonement comes to a close. The music is grand. The experience is wonderful. And our singers help provide a beautiful service for the entire congregation. Rehearsals are brief and fun. What’s holding you back? Now’s the time (we know you’ve been thinking about it). Contact Cantor Jonathan and chat about it (592-7070 or cantor@wct.org). Looking forward to hearing from you in every sense of the word.
WCT Seat Cushions are Back! Ever wonder why the chairs in the tent are so uncomfortable? Worry no more! You can now purchase attractive, comfortable and stylish seat cushions tastefully decorated with the Woodlands logo. At $10 per cushion (or a bargain rate of four cushions for $36), your entire family can enjoy the High Holy Days in supreme comfort. To order, email tushcush@wct.org. Questions, contact Nancy Fishman (programming@wct.org). Your tush and your temple will thank you!
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Board of Trustees Installation Fri, Jun 22 at 8:00 pm Each year, a wonderfully dedicated group of volunteers steps forward to share the responsibilities of leading our congregation. Our Board of Trustees works tirelessly to make our synagogue community a home for Judaism for us all. Please join us as we honor them with a gala Shabbat celebration.
Our sincere thanks
to these outgoing members of our Board of Trustees ... Stu Berlowitz Dan Emery Elka Klarsfeld Rachel Wineberg Michele Wise
For your leadership and dedication, todah rabbah ... thank you. And welcome to our 2018-19 Board of Trustees Andy Farber, President Nancy Fishman, VP Education Michael Witkowski, VP Facilities Michael Wiskind, VP Finance Jenna Lebowich, VP Programming/Ritual Herb Friedman, Financial Secretary Steve Sagner, Secretary Bonni Arbore, Treasurer Irv Adler, Trustee David Bertan, Trustee Pam Chernoff, Trustee Judy Feder, Trustee Yvette Gralla, Trustee Amy Green, Trustee Toby Linder, Trustee Lisa Linn, Trustee Matthew Moss, Trustee Mike Scafidi, Trustee Ann Zarider, Trustee Dayle Fligel, Immediate Past President
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Summer Reading of the Lofty Kind
“Celebrate Israel” Parade Sun, Jun 3 Seventy years – filled with incredible highs and devastating lows – but we made it through them and we will continue to march on. And march on we will indeed! On Sunday, June 3, Woodlands will march up Fifth Avenue in New York City with ARZA, the Association of Reform Zionists of America, to proclaim that we celebrate Israel, care about it, and work toward a democratic, pluralistic, Jewish state imbued with the best of our values. The parade itself will take place 11:00 am - 4:00 pm. As of this writing, we do not know our kick-off time and gathering location, but if you register to march with us (at wct.org/IsraelParade), we will let you know as soon as we do. Another benefit of registering with us is that you get a free ARZA t-shirt. What can be better than that? A WCT hat, that’s what! At $10, it’s not free, but it’s the perfect way to let folks know you are from Woodlands. Order yours at wct.org/hats.
Chris Lowe and Cantor Jonathan Gordon Together Again: 20 Years of the Woodlands Coffeehouse Sat, Jun 2 at 8:00 pm The Woodlands Coffeehouse will celebrate 20 years of great acoustic music with a very special evening of contemporary folk music. Chris Lowe will come up from Greenwich Village and join Cantor Jonathan for a night of original songs, blues, and tunes of all sorts from Jonathan’s song bag. Chris is well known as a vivid songwriter, a teller of the world with a Manhattan eye view of the passing parade. He plays a storied Gibson guitar with great skill and feeling, and will hold your mind and heart as he opens the world with his songs. Jonathan has prepared new material for this evening, including his originals and his distinctive arrangements of a panorama of songs and poetry, all sung with the humor and feeling in his music we’ve all come to love. It’ll be a great night of positive energy, friendship, and great music. Snacks, drinks, all in the friendly confines of our local coffeehouse. Admission $20 ($10 for students).
See you there!
If you’ve ever wanted to re-read sermons given by the WCT clergy, get your spirit-fix right here! Many of these writings live on in cyberspace and we’ve got the details below. So fire up some popcorn, stir yourself a tall glass of iced tea, and settle back for some adventures in soul-searching at: billydreskin.net/blog (Rabbi Billy’s writings) divreitorah.wct.org (Rabbi Mara’s writings) wct.org/hhdsermons (High Holy Days sermons)
Hevra Kaddisha: A Sacred Duty And We Could Use Your Help
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erhaps they’ve appeared at your front door? When death takes someone we love, Jewish tradition has us sit shiva to receive comfort from friends and neighbors. Sometimes we request that evening services be held in our home to provide an opportunity to recite Kaddish. That’s when the members of our Hevra Kaddisha arrive. With compassionate guidance, they take our hand for this ritual of remembrance as we make our way through the valley of the shadow. We can always use another member of the team. If you’re comfortable at a Friday night service, we will train you to lead the home shiva service and provide this most meaningful act of communal support. If you think (even if you’re not sure) that you might want to become part of the Hevra Kaddisha, please contact Cantor Jonathan (cantor@wct.org). He’ll help you decide if this is right for you, and he’ll train you to be able to comfortably lead the service. Thank you to all who, during our community’s most vulnerable moments, have throughout 2017-18 conducted shiva services in our homes: Bernie Bacharach, Chuck and Nancy Fishman, Herb Friedman, David Griff, Jay Izes, Mark Kaufman, Barry Kessler, Mike Kingston, Harriet Levine, Lance Rosenthal, Liz Scafidi, Eric Wachs, Mike Winkleman and Corey Friedlander. Special shout-out to their fearless leader and organizer (and alas, now a resident of the state of Washington) David Berliner.
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ho are these people who can always be found in meetings at the temple on Monday nights? And Wednesday nights. And Thursday nights. What do they do when they’re not at Woodlands (if that’s ever the case)? What brought them to Woodlands and what keeps them so involved? We asked. And we found out. Now you can too. Read on.
They’ll be installed officially during the Shabbat service on Fri, Jun 22. So, if you haven’t met them yet, meet them then! Irving Adler Trustee 2 years on BOT as Financial Secretary, member for 10 years Wife, Angela, retired NYC school teacher; Son, Matthew, NY entertainment industry & completing MBA at NYU. I am a retired healthcare communications executive, volunteer in pancreatic cancer, and advisor to startup biotech companies. “Woodlands is a unique community, with a special mix of worship, learning, social action and fun, and a warm welcome for interfaith families.”
Bonni Arbore
President
I have managed financial systems at Consumer Reports since 1994.
“At the end of a busy week, relaxation and peace comes from a beautiful Shabbat service with our Woodlands family.”
“Community is more than our middle name. It’s who we are.”
1 year on BOT as Treasurer, member for 9 years Married to Tony, children are Michael, 17, and Danielle, 14.
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David Bertan Trustee 2 years on BOT, member for 11 years 2 children: Alison, 25, and Eli, 16. I am an attorney, freelance journalist, spin instructor and a proud member of the Woodlands BBQ committee. “I love being a member of Woodlands. I’ll try to think of a better quote but that really sums it up for me.”
Pam Chernoff Trustee New BOT member, member for 6 years Husband, Joel, and daughter Sarah, 13. I am a financial technical writer and have served on the School Board for 2 years. “Woodlands means so much to all three of us. I’m excited to step into this new role and find new ways to be part of this community.”
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Immediate Past President 9 years on BOT, including Sec’y, VP Facilities, VP Programming/ Ritual and President, member for 22 years Husband, David, former WCT President; children: Sidney, attorney in Charlotte, NC, Erin, preschool teacher at Nashville JCC.
Judy Feder
“Through Woodlands I now understand what being Jewish is all about, and I feel more connected to my religion and my heritage.”
Dayle Fligel
10 years on BOT, including Financial Sec’y, Treasurer, VP Finance and VP Facilities, member for 15 years Wife, Rabbi Joan, children: Miriam (married to Beni, with two boys), Adam and Yael (only Yael became Bat Mitzvah at WCT, but all three consider Woodlands home).
Treasurer
I have served on the School Board for 4 years, Purim Fundraiser for 4 years, and Adult Ed for 3 years.
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Andy Farber
1 year on BOT, member for 14 years Husband, Paul, attorney, and daughter, Lara, attended WCT religious school and will be senior in college. I am an accountant and run my own business. “I have enjoyed my first year on WCT’s Board, especially the interaction with other Board members. I am looking forward to the coming year!”
Nancy Fishman VP of Education 3 years on BOT, including VP Programming/Ritual, member for 20 years Husband, Chuck, former temple president; 2 children: Alexa, 26, and Kimberly, 22 I am a Medical Oncologist at the Columbia University Medical Center/NYP Lawrence Hospital, specializing in treatment of breast and gynecologic cancer. “Woodlands is ‘The place that my heart holds dear.’"
I am a retired Special Needs Coordinator at WCT.
Herb Friedman Financial Secretary 5 years on BOT, including Financial Sec’y, founding member of WCT For 54 years I was married to Elaine who passed away in 2010. Children: Beth and Evan. Evan and Faye are members, granddaughter Rachel completed Bat Mitzvah, Confirmation and Graduation at WCT. I am retired after 44 years in education, 35 of them in administration. I served as Executive Director of SWSCHP Health Insurance Cooperative for 23 school districts in Southern Westchester from 1996 to 2010. “Woodlands has provided our family with the support and care we wanted and needed unconditionally. As a result, we have actively supported this, our Jewish community.”
Yvette Gralla Trustee Possibly 45 years on BOT, and 49 years as a member of WCT Husband, Larry, former WCT president; daughters, 2 sonin-laws, 6 grandchildren, all current members. I am retired as a teacher and statistician, now an active volunteer. “Woodlands is the place for our family – the people and community that we hold dear.”
Amy Green
Matthew Moss
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Trustee
2 years on BOT, member for 14 years Husband, Fred, children: Andrew, 21, Justin, 18 and David, 15.
New BOT member, member for 4 years Wife, Jodi, serving on School Board, children: Ellie, 12, Juliette, 9, and Sam, 6.
I love to talk with parents about their favorite subjects, so I work in Parent Relations at Mohawk Day Camp in White, Plains, NY. “I love Woodlands because we are a force for all things that are good! We give members SO MANY DIFFERENT WAYS to marry their passions with volunteering that is meaningful to them.”
Jenna Lebowich VP Ritual and Programming 9 years on BOT, including VP Education, member for 14 years Husband, Michael, daughter, Marina, a rising 12th grader. I am a registered Dietitian/Culinary Nutritionist and owner of Cook Learn Live, with a prior career in HR management. “Woodlands is a special place where everyone can find a comfortable connection to Judaism. There is always room for another great idea and for great people to step up to make those ideas reality.”
Toby Linder Trustee New BOT member, 3 years on School Board, member for 5 years Husband, Barry, children: Charlie, 13, Owen, 11. I participated in the Derekh leadership program, spent 2 years running the Sukkot BBQ, served for 3 years on the School Board. “Each member of our family has benefitted, albeit in different ways, from our membership at Woodlands. We, as a family, are happy to dig in and do the work so that other families may benefit as we have.”
Lisa Linn Trustee 7 years on BOT, member for 14 years Husband, Greg, children: JJ, 24, Zach, 21, and Emily, 21. I am self-employed at Senior Assist, and for 9 years have served as chairperson of the Jonah Concert Committee. “In the words of the great theologian Yogi Berra, ‘If you don’t know where you are going, you might wind up someplace else.’ We sure are happy we wound up at Woodlands!”
I have a background in real estate development and management with a focus on hospitality, and currently oversee development for Firelight Camps, a luxury campground (“Glamping”) company. I’ve served for 2 years on WCT’s Finance Committee. “Our family really enjoys being a part of the welcoming, joyful Woodlands community, and we appreciate the opportunity to help position Woodlands for success in the years ahead.”
Steve Sagner Secretary 8 years on BOT, including Financial Sec’y and Sec’y, member for 13 years Wife, Jen Tower, children: Denali, recently graduated Academy, Sarah, 14; In-laws, Roni Beth Tower and David Griff, also WCT members. “Enjoy being Board secretary. I love taking minutes.”
Mike Scafidi Trustee 6 years on BOT, member for 9 years Wife, Liz, children: Sam and Eliana. I work in digital marketing operations at PepsiCo. “Though we live within walking distance of 5 synagogues in White Plains, Woodlands is our community.”
Michael Wiskind VP of Finance 9 years on BOT, including Treasurer and VP Finance, member for 19 years Wife, Deborah, owner of DeeJ Designs, children: Rachel, pursuing MSW at Columbia School of Social Work, David, entering senior year at University of Hartford.
Michael Witkowski VP of Facilities New BOT member, member for 18 years Wife, Martha I have helped out with WCT retreats, including teaching on the 9th Grade Sexuality Retreat, for 17. I’m an EMT night Lieutenant, Captain for 15 years of the Tarrytown Volunteer Ambulance Corps. Phase President, H O A President for 14 years in our condo complex, Roofer for over 15 years, air conditioning duct manufacturer for 6 years, owner of processing photo lab for 17 years, 12 years with Ritz Camera, 6 years with Zip Jacket Custom Umbrellas, the last 4 years self-employer/photographer for Lifetouch School Yearbooks. “My big joy in life is family and friends. I always put family before anything else and will do anything to help family.”
Ann Zarider Trustee 2 years on BOT, member for 18 years Husband, Craig, children: Alison, 25, Sam, 22, and Scott, 15. I have served on WCT’s Youth Engagement Committee. Alison and Scott have been madrikhim in the religious school. “Woodlands has been a spiritual home to me and my family and a place where we feel a sense of community.”
Jay Zwicker Trustee New BOT member, member for 16 years Wife, Linda, daughter, Mariah, 26. I have 37 years of Public Safety experience in Heathcare and Higher Education, currently serving as Chairperson of WCT’s Security Task Force. “’Learn from yesterday, live for today, and hope for tomorrow.’ Being a member of Woodlands, we achieve all three.”
I work as Senior Director of Financial Planning and Analysis for Prime Resources in Bridgeport, CT. I am an Ardsley resident, Chair of the Ardsley Zoning Board of Appeals and Ardsley Library Board of Trustees. I was a WCT School Board member for 3 years.
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Can You Hear Me Now? WCT Sound Crew in Formation We’re looking for a few folks who’d like to mix sound for worship services. Previous experience is helpful. If you’ve ever played in a band or mixed sound, this could be just for you. Once a month or so, we need a pair of ears to mix sound in sanctuary for A Joyful Noise, Purim, and other complex musical moments at WCT. Here’s a chance to have lots of fun working with great people and to give a bit of time to our temple. We can train you on our specific board (Behringer X32) but we’re not really in a position to teach anyone from the ground up. Please contact Lance Rosenthal (lance.rosenthal@gmail.com) if you’re interested or have questions.
“So Is Life” Now Available for Download Boxt, Dreskin, Nelson and Nichols, now calling themselves So Is Life, appeared at this year’s Jonah Maccabee Concert, playing to a sold-out, adoring crowd. Featuring Josh Nelson, Dan Nichols, Cantors Ellen Dreskin and Rosalie Boxt, So Is Life presents a luxuriant tapestry of exquisitely lovely and loving songs. And now, you can download them for yourself (or someone you love) by visiting jonahmac.org/music.
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Leadership Development Program at Woodlands Community Temple
Would You Like To Explore the Possibility of WCT Leadership? DEREKH, a Hebrew word meaning “path,” is WCT’s leadership development program. From September through April, you are invited to join Dale Glasser, a member of our synagogue who is an expert in synagogue management, along with Rabbi Billy, Rabbi Mara, and temple president Andy Farber on a journey into the workings of temple leadership. We will meet monthly to learn the nuts and bolts about how synagogues work and what is needed from volunteer leadership. The program will include presentations by members of our current leadership. If you would like to participate in DEREKH or have questions, contact Rabbi Billy (rabbi@wct.org) or Andy Farber (president@wct.org). We’d be honored to have you with us. It is our hope that DEREKH will foster the development of future temple leadership for years, even decades, to come.
Join Friends, Familiar and New, in Autumn Learning Wed-Sat, Sep 26-29 “Harvesting Jewish Wisdom” A Weekend Retreat of Jewish Learning, Community Building and Spiritual Growth Spend a remarkable four days of Jewish learning, celebrating, and recharging with Cantor Ellen Dreskin, Rabbi Joan Glazer Farber, Rabbi Jodie Gordon, Rabbi Neil Hirsch, Marilyn Price, Rabbi David Teutsch and Rabbi Andrea Weiss. To be held in Great Barrington, MA.
More info awaits you at derekh.net
Registration is now open!
Travel Justly this Summer A
Woodlands Community?
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e’re all proud of the warmth and friendliness in our synagogue. It’s our community. But not everyone feels that way. Some have come to a Friday night service and no one said hello. Others have attended a temple event or were just waiting for someone in the hallway, and no one acknowledged them. If each of us considers ourselves ambassadors of The Woodlands Way, if we’re the ones to say hello, it’s a pretty sure bet folks will feel welcome. Woodlands is a warm, welcoming, open and embracing community ... when we’re the ones to make it that way.
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merica’s hotel employees work hard to ensure we feel at home while traveling. Yet they are often poorly compensated and sustain injuries at more than twice rate of other service-sector workers. During this summer’s vacation travels, here’s how we can all help:
Keep a Tidier Room Injuries commonly sustained by hotel workers include back aches, shoulder pain and “Housemaids’ Knee.” We can help by throwing away trash and organizing personal items so they don’t need to be moved.
Leave a Meaningful Gratuity We can show appreciation for quality service and help hotel employees better care for their own homes and families.
Stay at Unionized Hotels Visit hotelworkersrising.org to find union hotels where workers earn an average of 33.3% more. In Deuteronomy 24 we are taught, “Do not abuse needy and destitute laborers. Pay them their wages on the same day, before the sun sets ... lest they cry to God and you incur guilt.” For 3000 years, Judaism has advocated on behalf of those unable to lobby for themselves: the poor and the homeless. Let’s do our part.
That’s a Lot of Money!
Thinking about Synagogue Dues Rabbi Billy Dreskin
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e get it. Synagogue membership costs a lot of money. As the coming year’s dues statement arrives in the mail, some ask, “Is Woodlands worth it?” I think yes, it is, very much so. Here’s my two-cents as to why. 1) Woodlands is where we go to celebrate life’s significant and poignant moments. Not by ourselves, not merely with family, but with our entire community. We do so because something in us yearns to connect broadly at these times, to feel a part of something larger, to sense the pulse of the universe and where we reside in its vast schematic. 2) Woodlands is where we go to be reminded of the importance of nurturing those bonds of connectivity. We come to Woodlands to meet others: our Jewish neighbors, our Christian neighbors, our neighbors in need, and more. The universe is big and we are busy. Reaching out beyond ourselves, beyond our immediate circle of love and care, is important to our feeling purposeful and complete. And if we have kids, this is something we want for them too. 3) Woodlands is where we go to ponder life in all its complexity, its difficulty, and its possibility. No matter how privileged we may be, life is hard. We too experience pain and loss; suffering is not reserved for others. We wonder how to make sense of failed relationships, compromised health, stumbling careers, unchecked greed, ever-spiraling violence and war. Millennia of rabbis have probed these same questions, and here at Woodlands they step out of the pages of the past and join us around the table – to widen the conversation, and to struggle alongside us for insight. So can we go elsewhere to buy our kid a Bar Mitzvah, to rent a rabbi to stand under our huppah or officiate at a loved one’s funeral? Yes. And we’ll save a lot of money. But synagogues bring us ongoing friendships – with our temple staff, with our temple community, and with our wider community – that we might not otherwise have. Temples bring us moments of sacred celebration, learning, and caring, experiences only available at places like Woodlands, where the doors to a full spectrum of Jewish life and of human relationship help frame our lives in a broad, spiritual context. Temples are expensive, Woodlands included. But those checks you write to be part of this synagogue community, I think they’re the perfect gift – to ourselves, to our loved ones, and to a community that needs people who care to live “bigger” than the walls of our private lives. Thank you for joining our big little temple. We all look forward to navigating life’s adventures – wherever they take us – together.
Clergy Availability During the Summer ... Either Rabbi Billy, Rabbi Mara or Cantor Jonathan will be “on call” throughout the summer. Please understand, however, that summertime is one of the very few times our clergy can get away for rest and relaxation. If you should have need, you need only contact the temple office (592-7070) or our temple president (until June 30) Dayle Fligel (282-9019) or (after July 1) Andy Farber (914-623-8462).
We are always looking for unique Judaica art and items to enhance our Jewish lives, and especially enjoy finding merchandise you have asked for. And Jewish greeting cards sit high on that list.
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his month our featured artist, Quilling Card co-founder Huong Nguyen Wolf left the corporate world in 2011 to embrace her entrepreneurial spirit and pursue her passion for the art of quilling, the art of rolled, shaped, and glued paper that creates a unified, decorative design. The minute details of these cards is breathtaking! Having trouble finding Jewish sympathy cards? One World Project cards are simple, sophisticated and will express your feelings perfectly.
June is a month of non-stop celebration and finding the perfect gift can be daunting. Dads, grads, and weddings are top of mind. Start the new couple’s Jewish home with a sparkling home blessing from Michal Golan or a picture frame from Jillery. Dad’s Day is Sun, Jun 17. Celebrate him and his love of Judaism with a sterling silver chai necklace by Alef Bet.
The Judaica Shop at Woodlands is open every day by request, whenever the temple office is open. Evening and weekend hours are noted in the temple weekly email. Shopping for something special? Looking for a volunteer opportunity that’s fun and fits with your schedule? Let's talk! Email us at judaicashop@wct.org.
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Upcoming Meetings
The Simkha Page
B’nai Mitzvah
Executive
Hannah Kirshbaum
Ross Perlman
Mon, Jun 4 at 8:15 pm
June 2
June 16
Finance Committee
Torah Portion Beha’alotkha
Torah Portion Korakh
Hebrew Name Reya
Hebrew Name Elya Avraham
Mon, Jun 11 at 8:15 pm
Board of Trustees Mon, Jun 18 at 8:15 pm
Sarah Chernoff We would be delighted to welcome you to any temple meeting that interests you. Please be in touch with Dayle Fligel (president@wct.org) for information on how to join (or just visit) a committee.
The Woodlands Community
June 9 Torah Portion Sh’lakh Lekha Hebrew Name Sarah Esther
Mourns the Loss of
Mazal Tov to ...
Harriet Brickman mother of Lee Brickman
Benjamin Kirshbaum and Jennifer Leff as their daughter, Hannah, is called to the Torah as a Bat Mitzvah.
Barbara Kaliff grandmother of Tom Rechtschaffen, great-grandmother of Nate, Jessica and Zachary.
Joel and Pam Chernoff as their daughter, Sarah, is called to the Torah as a Bat Mitzvah.
Esther Lerner aunt of Harriet Levine
Jordan Sessler, son of Scott (z”l) and Andrea Sessler, and Danielle Stein, daughter of Adam and Fran Stein, on your aufruf and marriage.
Pearl Meyer aunt of Martha Dubinsky-Witkowski
Jill Bloom, on the birth of her grandson, Miles Harvey White, son of Alyssa and Brian White.
Lewis A. Opler friend of Karen Golden and Robert S. Berger Faith Zimmerman grandmother of Rabbi Mara Young HaMakom y’nakhem otam… may God bring comfort to all who are in mourning. Zekher tzadik livrakha ... may their memory be for a blessing.
Yes, Jews Are organ Donors! Organ transplantation is a routine therapy for dozens of life-threatening diseases, yet thousands of New Yorkers desperately await a second chance to live. Judaism teaches us, “To save a life is to save a world.” Contrary to popular misconception, Jews do register as organ donors! To participate in the mitzvah of matan hayyim – the gift of life, register online at donatelifeny.org. For more info about the Jewish view of organ donation, read Rabbi Billy’s article at tinyurl.com/jewishorgandonors.
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Don Perlman and Shari VanSickle-Perlman as their son, Ross, is called to the Torah as a Bar Mitzvah.
Todah Rabbah (thank you) to... Chuck and Nancy Fishman for sponsoring the Shavuot Ice Cream Oneg. The Academy BBQ grilling team: Stu Berlowitz and Mitch Klein. Betsy Schorr and Michael Silverman for leading our Breakfast Run to feed those in need in NYC. Rabbi Lisa Izes, Harriet Levine, their Scholar-in-Residence Committee, the Adult Ed Committee, the Social Action Committee, as well as the Grallas and the Steinhardts for making our Scholarin-Residence weekend with Dr. Annie Polland such a wonderful success. The 2017-18 WoodSY Board for your hard work, dedication, teamwork and passion: Amy Mendelson,
Denali Sagner, Isabelle Ripin, Daniel Goldberg, Gabe Gerstel, Emma Oren, Jacob Wise and Maddie Lesser. You are such a special team who will continue to make this world a better place! The members of “A Joyful Noise” for another fantastic, musical, spiritual year: Mark Kaufman (soprano and tenor saxophones, horn arrangements), Glenn Babakian (trombone), Rabbi Danny Price (bass), Adam Weber (percussion), Adam Hart (guitar and voice), Rabbi Billy Dreskin (keyboard and voice), Cantor Jonathan Gordon (voice), Cantor Ellen Dreskin (voice), Margot Serwer (voice), Ashley Klein (voice), Jeremy Sipe (voice), Samara Scharf
Donations We appreciate the thoughtfulness of those who
support Woodlands Community Temple by remembering and honoring their friends and loved ones through their generous contributions. Rabbi Billy’s Mitzvah Fund In honor of Ella Rimland becoming a Bat Mitzvah, from Jason and Michelle Rimland. In memory of Linda Solomon, from Allan Lazarus. In honor of Denali Sagner’s graduation from Woodlands, from Nancy Gladstone.
Rabbi Mara’s Mitzvah Fund In honor of Ella Rimland becoming a Bat Mitzvah, from Jason and Michelle Rimland. Thank you, Rabbi Billy, for officiating the wedding of our daughter, Danielle to Jordan Sessler, from Adam and Fran Stein.
Cantor’s Discretionary Fund In honor of Ella Rimland becoming a Bat Mitzvah, from Jason and Michelle Rimland. In honor of the naming of our daughter, Harper Sydney, from Gary and Amy Hollander.
Chai Fund In memory of Sonia Kernich and Marvin Yarnold, from David Yarnold. In yahrzeit memory of Gussie Halper, mother of Philip Halper, from Philip and Lyn Halper. In memory of Barbara Kaliff, grandmother of Tom Rechtschaffen, from David and Dayle Fligel. In memory of Robert Brickman, father of Lee Brickman, from Lee and Nanci Brickman. In memory of Harriet Brickman, mother of Lee Brickman, from David and Dayle Fligel.
Social Action Fund In honor of Maya Glasser’s ordination, from Stuart and Teresa Stein and Family. In memory of Lewis A. Opler, MD, from Robert Berger. In honor of Maya Glasser’s ordination, from David and Dayle Fligel. In honor of Maya Glasser’s ordination, from Emily Harper. In honor of Maya Glasser’s ordination, from Rosemary Anselmo. In honor of Maya Glasser’s ordination, from Harriet Levine. In honor of Roberta Roos being honored at the JCC’s Annual Celebration, from Audrey Rosen. In honor of Roberta Roos being honored at the JCC’s Annual Celebration, from Harriet Levine. In honor of Rachel Best’s high school graduation, from Roger, Roberta and Allison Wetherbee.
In honor of Jenna Salomon’s graduation from Syracuse University, from Roger, Roberta and Allison Wetherbee. In honor of Roberta Roos being honored at the JCC’s Annual Celebration, from Liz Rauchwerger. In honor of Roberta Roos being honored at the JCC’s Annual Celebration, from Marjorie Mattel. In honor of Rabbi Maya Glasser, from Phyllis Opochinsky.
Education and Youth Activities Fund In honor of Michael and Martha Witkowski’s 18th anniversary and vow renewal, from Harriet Levine. In honor of Denali Sagner’s graduation from Woodlands, from Nancy Gladstone.
Music Fund In honor of Maya Glasser’s ordination, from David Griff and Roni Beth Tower.
congregation and from the Dreskin family) to Herb Friedman, Norman Friedman, Beth and Todd Benjamin, and Evan and Faye Friedman, for generously underwriting this year’s Jonah Maccabee Concert in memory of their beloved and much-missed Elaine, Pat and Phyllis. Zikhronah livrakha ... remembering them is our blessing.
Jonah Maccabee Fund In appreciation of Rabbi Billy, from Michael and Martha Witowski. Donation from Tara Levine. In honor of Andy Farber’s milestone birthday, from Mitchell and Juli Klein.
Education Enrichment Fund In memory of Faith Zimmerman, grandmother of Rabbi Mara Young, from Angela and Irving Adler, Jeanne and Murray Bodin, Joan and Andy Farber, Dayle and David Fligel, Nancy Gladstone, Dale, Elly and Glasser Family, Michael Goldberg and Jenny Ottinger, Joy and David Gralnick, Lois Green, Mitchell and Juli Klein, Harriet Levine, Iris and Gary Levine, Marjorie Mattel, Rebecca Mazin, Michele and Mark Montague, Rochelle Novins, Phyllis Opochinsky, Debbie and Jim Pollowitz, Liz and Mark Rauchwerger, Jonathan Richer and Lisa Sacks, Ruth Rugoff and Joe and Annie Potischman, Rochelle Stolzenberg, Linda and Philip Weber, Michael and Deborah Wiskind. In memory of Ester Lerner, aunt of Harriet Levine, from Harriet Levine.
The Geraldine and Gerald Weinberger Lifelong Learning Fund In honor of Harriet Levine, from the members of Jewish Studies Class.
Todah Rabbah (thank you) to..., Continued from previous page (voice), Rachel Kaufman (voice), Ethan Sipe (violin), and Hernando Carmona (technical guru and all-around good guy). Thank you, as well, to occasional drop-ins Rachel Chang and Rabbi Maya Glasser.
A very special thank you (from our
All of our temple committees for an amazing year of programming and spiritual nourishment. All of our advertisers for your support throughout the year. See you in September!
Memorial Garden Wall Inscribe Your Loved One’s Name
Twice a year, Woodlands adds names to our beautiful outdoor Memorial Garden Wall (just outside the sanctuary on the other side of the Ark) and dedicates them during a Yizkor Memorial Service. The fall dedication will be held during Yizkor on the last day of Sukkot (Monday, October 1 at 9:00 am). Please visit wct.org/memorialwall if you wish to have names inscribed on our Memorial Garden Wall in time for the Sukkot dedication, and supply the information requested there – not later than Friday, September 14. The price for inscription is $800 per name. Space may be reserved on the Wall for future inscriptions with full, advance payment. All names (whether they are to be inscribed or reserved) should be submitted at the time of reservation. This allows the engravers to allocate appropriate space for future inscriptions. Zekher tzadik livrakha ... their memories are for a blessing.
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Judai Connection What’s “Pride” and Why Is It Jewish?
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by Rabbi Mara Young
n the 1960’s, gay and lesbian Americans were not allowed to openly display their identity. The American legal system and dominant culture marginalized and tried to erase gay and transgender individuals and anyone else who did not fit into the cisgender, heteronormative standard. Many of these individuals found refuge and freedom of self-expression at clubs and bars. Not surprisingly, police raids on these establishments were routine. In the early morning hours of June 28, 1969, NYC police raided the Stonewall Inn, a bar in Greenwich Village. The crowd fought back, inciting a riot. This led to protests over the next few days and the quick organization of gay and lesbian activists calling for freedom to express their sexual orientation. The Stonewall uprising was a pivotal moment in the LGBTQ (Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer/Question) Liberation Movement. Groups mobilized and amplified their efforts. On June 28, 1970, numerous cities around the U.S. had their first Gay Pride marches, commemorating the events at Stonewall and increasing the visibility of the LGBTQ community. The day continued to be celebrated in the decades following. LGBTQ pride events now take place
worldwide throughout the month of June, constituting a whole month of symposia, marches, parades, concerts and learning events that support, advocate for, and celebrate, LGBTQ individuals and culture.
Pride shares a liberation sentiment with Judaism: no one should have to live in the shadows.
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udaism today respects and promotes liberation movements. Our unwavering assertion that every human being is created b’tzelem Elohim, in the image of God, demands that we see people’s sexual orientation, gender, and partner choices as natural extensions of who they are. Authenticity is the name of the game. Freedom of expression means freedom to show the most Divine aspects of ourselves. It wasn’t always this way in Jewish tradition, and in some circles, it still isn’t. Some still point to prohibitions in Leviticus that condemn homosexual acts. Yet when read in literary and historical context, it is clear that the Torah text is more concerned with power dynamics and differentiating from the Canaanites
than about relationships and self-expression. Liberal Jewish movements (like Reform Judaism) demand that we understand the original context and reform the tradition to modern discoveries and sensibilities. While the Tanakh (Jewish Bible) occasionally speaks of love, it does not conceive of relationships the way to do today. If you look to the Bible, you’ll find a lot of good stuff, but you’ll also find male dominance, imbalanced relationships, and xenophobia. In an egalitarian society that regards consent, authenticity and trust as hallmarks of a healthy relationship, the gender of either partner matters less. Truthfully, this is where Judaism’s heart lies: loving your fellow as yourself and the sanctification of human partnership.
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oday, LGBTQ Pride events are happening in Jewish communities all over the world. In 2017, over 200,000 people participated in Tel Aviv’s Pride parade, the largest in continental Asia. Congregations will be offering Pride Shabbats (including Woodlands on Friday, June 1). Pride shares a liberation sentiment with Judaism: no one should have to live in the shadows. Each human being, created b’tzelem Elohim, should live freely, happily, and proud of who they are.