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FEATURE ARTICLES
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Challenges, Hopes and Dreams of Interracial Families Two local families share their experience blending races and cultures
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Mental Illness in Marriage: For Better or For... Strategies of help and hope
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A Festive Mess Creative activities for an unforgettable birthday party
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Editor’s Notes
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The New Domesticity Teach kids to express love, one book at a time
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Wander Woman Three scoops of the best ice cream in Vancouver
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EDITOR'S NOTES
Less is More I typically steer clear of Pinterest. My attempts at tangible creativity usually turn out more like the Pinterest Fails
blog post pics. (Nailed it!) A recent probe into the “kids’ birthday party” pins
on the inspirational cyber-hub revealed just a few simple and clever ideas secreted between the extravagant craft
magazine cover options. Delicately fashioned decorations
and delightfully crafted confections are all wonderful, and
can create lasting memories, at least for the kids old enough to recall it all later. But we parents need to be honest with
ourselves by admitting that, just like an elegantly designed
baby’s nursery, many of these efforts we make are more for us than they are for our precious progeny. A toddler is just as likely to play with an empty cardboard box as a shiny new toy, and a one-year-old couldn’t care less about the
intricate fondant flower on her birthday cake. So, if crafts and culinary creations are your happy place, then knock
yourself out. If not, close the Pinterest browser window and opt for the simplicity that will allow you to enjoy your little one’s special day to the fullest.
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THE NEW DOMESTICITY
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“Does somebody need a crouton?” My 12-year-old son extended this unconventional, crunchy peace offering to his sulking sister. Her eyes flickered in amusement. There was no way she could remain angry with the brother who had a knack for showing love in unexpected ways. This month, love is very much in the air. We walk through the stores, pink and red hearts soaring overhead in the form of banners and balloons, and we’re bombarded by fluffy bears and trays of chocolates. Such displays might lead our children to believe that love is only about sweetheart candies and paper valentines. While that may be a sincere expression in many cases, this season provides an opportunity for us to show our kids that love encompasses a great deal more than candy hearts and romance. Author Gary Chapman, in his book “The Five Love Languages,” has identified five ways in which we experience and express love. Through words of affirmation, acts of service, receiving gifts, quality time, and physical touch, both children and adults feel the love of those closest to them. (Discover the love languages of your family members by taking the simple test at www.5lovelanguages. com.) One powerful way we can teach our children to express love in a variety of ways is by exposing them to literature that promotes this character quality. Stories written over the course of the last century reveal that these five “love languages” are truly timeless and were often developed with creative child instruction in mind. By planting these truths in our kids’ hearts, we can equip them to show love in ways that are most meaningful to those around them. WORDS OF AFFIRMATION Children who both speak and enjoy receiving affirming words may relate to book characters who do the same. Consider the original
“Thomas the Tank Engine” stories, written in 1940s England by the Reverend W. Awdry for his son, Christopher. Although Thomas is often getting into scrapes and causing “confusion and delay” at the railroad station, the affirming words of Controller Sir Topham Hatt cause Thomas to beam with pride: “I’m very pleased with you. You’re a Really Useful Engine.” ACTS OF SERVICE Like Awdry, American author Virginia Lee Burton also wrote with her own children in mind. Her endearing characters—who often happen to be machines—express devotion through joyfully serving others. We see the compelling 1940s work ethic that parents strove to instill in their children through lovable characters such as “Mike Mulligan and His Steam Shovel” and “Katy and the Big Snow.” We learn that Katy is “a beautiful red crawler tractor” who tirelessly uses her strength to help an entire city during a snowstorm. RECEIVING GIFTS A gift may be as simple as a crouton or as big as a horse, but either way it can speak volumes. In his delightful “Billy and Blaze” books, C.W. Anderson develops the love between a boy and his horse in the 1930s. The series begins with a gift: “There stood a beautiful bay pony with four white feet and a white nose. Billy had never been so happy.” Through this gift, Billy enjoys many adventures, of course, but he also learns to lovingly care for his special friend, Blaze. QUALITY TIME Another delightful series is found in the “Swallows and Amazons” books by Arthur Ransome. Again set in 1930s England for the purpose of retelling the author’s true-to-life experiences, we get a glimpse of the special bond between a mother and her children. For the most part, the stories center around the children’s sailing continued on next page
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and shipwreck adventures. But every once in a while, Mother joins in the fun, sharing her precious time with her children: ‘“So you really are Robinson Crusoe,’ said Mother, ‘and I am Man Friday!’ That was the best of Mother. You could always count on her to know things like that.” PHYSICAL TOUCH A warm embrace, a back massage, or a foot rub might be the actions that will most say “I love you” to a child. In “Little House in the Big Woods,” Laura Ingalls Wilder shares the unique bond she had with her Pa in 1870s Wisconsin. She recalls the typical routines of a winter day, ending with the highlight, “The best time of all was at night, when Pa came home. Laura and Mary would run to climb on his knees and sit there while he warmed himself by the fire.” Although listed separately, these “love languages” naturally intermingle with each other and will be equally as meaningful as you seek to define love and encourage its expression in your home. As you read books with strong, loving characters, discuss the ways in which they show their appreciation. From “Pooh” and “Pinocchio” to “Pride and Prejudice,” we can glean from the best and, in turn, awaken the best in our children.
Julianna Lawson and her husband Jamie make their home in Vancouver with their four children, ages 10 to 17 (each of whom is decidedly fond of croutons). Julianna keeps a recommended reading list under the “books” tab on her blog, petuniajune.blogspot.com.
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Wander Woman
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EXPLORING HIDDEN GEMS oF SOUTHWEST WASHINGTON By Afton Nelson
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Discovering the hidden gems of Clark County requires a certain amount of sacrifice. This month demanded particular dedication and selflessness as my team and I headed out to find the best ice cream in the Vancouver area. It was a rough job, but we attacked it with dogged determination. Here are the results of our hard work. Photos by Afton Nelson
Ice Cream Renaissance The first thing we noticed at Ice Cream Renaissance was the cozy atmosphere, complete with plush chairs and a fireplace. It felt like somewhere you want to linger while enjoying some of their all-natural ice cream, made on-site from local ingredients. The ice cream menu has both year-round standards as well as seasonal specialties. They also boast a nice menu of ice cream desserts that includes sundaes with names like Dr. Chocolate and Banana Bossa Nova. There were several vegan, gluten and dairy-free options as well. If you’re not in the ice cream mood, yummy-looking pies and cakes are also available. Ethan,18 years old, said he liked the homey atmosphere. “There were games, like chess, that you could play by the fire while you ate your ice cream.” This was definitely
a place we could have spent more time, but we had to move on. Address: 1925 Main St, Vancouver Winter Hours: 12-9 pm Sunday - Thursday 12-11 pm Friday and Saturday We tried: A small scoop of Egg Nog and a small scoop of Peanut Butter Fudge
Sheridan’s Frozen Custard We approached the walk up window at Sheridan’s and ordered the Royal Turtle sundae. The frozen custard was soft serve, super smooth, dense, and full of flavor. Between our five taste testers, it disappeared quickly. The warm toppings made a perfect combination with the cold custard. However, there was no indoor seating and only a walk-up window or a drive through to place and pick up our order. This might not be an issue on a hot summer day; but continued on next page
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on a cold January afternoon, it was a bit of an inconvenience. We huddled in our car to stay warm and took turns devouring our custard. Jonah, 13 years old, pointed out the service was fast. While it was cold outside, we definitely didn’t have to wait long before our treat was ready to eat. Address: 14389 SE Mill Plain Blvd, Vancouver Hours: 11 am-10 pm Monday - Thursday, 11 am-11 pm Saturday, 12-10 pm Sunday We tried: The Royal Turtle, fresh vanilla frozen custard, hot fudge & caramel, topped with roasted pecans and cherries
Flash Freeze Dreamery Flash Freeze Dreamery was the surprise hit of our ice cream exploration. Here continued on page 12 Vancouver Family Magazine • www.vancouverfamilymagazine.com • February 2016
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your ice cream is made right in front of you, instantly frozen with liquid nitrogen. I thought the quality would take a back seat to the liquid nitrogen gimmick, but I was wrong. They have 20 flavor recipes, or you can design your own using the large menu of flavors, fillings and bases. The whole process takes just a few minutes, is fun to watch, and the results are truly delicious. Ethan said it was so good because it was “not quite soft serve and not quite hard scoop.” He was right. The creamy, dense ice cream occupied that sweet spot right in between. The atmosphere was bright and modern with pop music streaming through the speakers. It is unmistakably a kid-friendly environment. “They definitely know what they’re doing because there are a lot of people here,” noted 12-year-old Eddy. It was true. On a Wednesday afternoon, Flash Freeze Dreamery had more customers than any of the other ice cream places we’d visited. Their menu also includes floats, shakes and ice cream “upgrades” like waffle cones and brownies. Address: 155 NE192nd Ave. #107, Camas Hours: 12-9 pm Monday - Thursday, 12-10 pm Friday and Saturday, Closed Sunday We tried: Salted caramel pretzel and apple strudel with heath bar
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The boys agreed Flash Freeze was their favorite and asked when we could go back. My pick was cozy, delicious Ice Cream Renaissance. It would be perfect for an after-movie dessert stop, or girls‘ night out with a sit down and relaxed atmosphere. As for yummy Sheridan’s? I’ll wait for the weather to warm up and then I’ll be back. Did I miss your favorite Clark County ice cream place? Leave me a comment at
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Afton Nelson is a wife and mother of three boys, a writer who loves exploring the Pacific Northwest with her family, and a huge fan of ice cream. Get to know her better at www. aftonnelson.com.
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Feature: Challenges, Hopes and Dreams of Interracial Families
Challenges, Hopes and Dreams of Interracial Families By Davi Nabors
The homogenous face of the American family is rapidly changing as interracial marriages and transracial and international adoptions become more commonplace. According to the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, there are approximately 7 million people in the United States who identify as mixed race. And by 2050, it’s estimated that the mixed race population will grow to 21 percent. While this diverse culture continues to quickly emerge, its newness can still feel a bit foreign to much of mainstream America and often to interracial families themselves. When distinct and separate cultures blend into one loving family, unique experiences reveal uncharted waters. And navigation through the unknown can be exciting but challenging for all. Clark County, Washington is certainly not the cultural melting pot of Miami, San Francisco, Las Vegas or New York. But as families continue to move here from all over the country, the level of diversity
rises. Vancouver Public Schools administrator Kirsten Copeland observes there are not many multi-racial students in the district, but he has noticed a recent influx of new faces which is providing fresh opportunities for kids to authentically interact across cultures. This trend is both professionally and personally meaningful to Copeland. An African American himself, his wife, Shelly, is Caucasian. The couple welcomed their first child, Kora, last year. As parents, the Copelands understand the importance of exposing their daughter to people of other cultures. Kirsten shares, “I want her to get along with whomever she encounters, and when you don’t have the opportunity to interact with other cultures, pieces are underdeveloped.” So he and Shelly are making special efforts to find extracurricular activities that will help Kora gain this experience. As a biracial child, Kora will be in a unique position to reach across cultures and portray
Kirsten and Shelly Copeland of Vancouver look forward to encouraging their daughter to reach across cultures and portray multiracial families in a positive light. Photo courtesy of the Copeland family.
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multicultural families in a positive light. The Copelands look forward to preparing her for this honor and responsibility as somewhat of a cultural ambassador. Of concern to many mixed race families is the current racial tension increasingly seen on national news. Recent interviews with frustrated and angry people bring to light a prejudice that appeared to be previously fading. Kirsten is concerned about how this will impact Kora as she grows up. He shares, “When I hear conversations on the continued on page 16
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news, I think, ‘It’s sad we are not past this. It’s sad that people still hold these kinds of feelings privately and publicly.’ And it creates lots of questions for us about how this will impact Kora’s friendships, school experience and relationships.” The Copelands are also sensitive to the occasional double takes and stares they face from people unaccustomed to seeing mixed race couples. Stereotyping and fear often lurk where lack of knowledge exists, and this couple seeks to promote understanding in an effort to lower the barriers of the unknown. “I appreciate people’s honesty, especially if they are not from a family with cultural diversity,” Kirsten shares. “I want to get to know other people and give them an opportunity to get to know me. I appreciate their willingness and courage to ask questions. Of course, there are right ways and times to ask questions, but I’d rather they ask instead
of making assumptions. I want people to share their story and their experience. That goes a lot farther than staring.” There is one place that the Copelands can count on feeling consistently comfortable. It’s in their local church. There they find people from a variety of ethnic backgrounds sharing a common desire to celebrate their differences and common beliefs while getting to know each other as individuals.
Blending Across the Globe Just as no two families are quite alike, each interracial family has vastly unique experiences and stories to tell, even with regards to the blending of their cultures. Another Vancouver couple, Dr. Ron Hsu (Tiawanese-Chinese) and his wife Misty (Caucasian with Scandinavian ancestry) have been married for 13 years and have
five children ranging from 12 years old to newborn. Ron shares that the blending of their widely different cultures, rather than their different races, is what has presented challenges for them. Dr. Hsu grew up in Taipei, Taiwan, a city of steel and concrete housing 2 million people, where stand-alone houses and grassy parks are nearly nonexistent. “Like children of most Far East nations,” Ron remembers, “my only focus was school work and grades. Very one dimensional.” By contrast, Misty grew up in small towns where land, grass and the chance to play was abundant. As a result, she was exposed to a huge variety of activities that allowed her to develop skills and abilities that Ron never did. As the two began to blend their lives, they soon realized the strengths and weaknesses that emerged from childhood would create significant stumbling blocks in marriage. continued on page 18
Ron and Misty Hsu of Vancouver hail from widely different cultures, and their children are benefiting from the best of both worlds. Photos courtesy of Lauren Davison at laurendavison.com.
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Intentionally working through these differences over the years has helped the Hsus develop mental and emotional muscles that they didn’t have before. Like the Copelands, they have found great support in their church, which places highest importance on marriages and families. Ron shares, “On the most important things in life, we do hold the same belief, and because we both believe our doctrines deeply, and we actively strive to live the tenants of our religion, whenever there are conflicts between us—and there were tons over the years—we go back to what matters most. So, when it comes down to it, we do whatever we need to do to change ourselves, and as we do so, our eyes are opened to new perspectives, and we are much more able to understand each other.” As a result of the hard work and deep commitment to their marriage, not only have Ron and Misty grown closer, their children have tremendously benefited as well. “My children have a much more enriched childhood than I ever had, and they have been more academically driven than Misty was accustomed to. They have also picked up their mother’s social/ emotional intelligence that I was devoid of when I was younger.” From a cultural standpoint, the Hsus try to incorporate Chinese/Far East Asian culture as much as they can. Their two younger children attend a school out of boundary in order take part in a Mandarin
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Immersion Program. They’ve also visited Taiwan twice as a family and hope to visit regularly, with additional trips to Europe and Africa sometime in the future. The Hsus’ ambitions for their children are high and rooted in love. “We hope that they will gain appreciation for people everywhere in the world, and that they can be sensitive to the needs and suffering beyond our nation’s borders. We certainly hope that having a bi- or multi-cultural upbringing will enable them to be able to do greater good in this world.” There is still much to learn from people who reach across race and culture as they build their unique families. But while we all hold a vast array of differences, our families are commonly united in love for those we hold dear. We also share in the hope for the future, particularly the future of our children. These universal principles can go a long way to help us embrace the unfamiliar as we strive to connect over what matters most.
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Davi Nabors is a writer, presenter, parenting coach, and assistant editor for Vancouver Family Magazine. She, her husband Will, and their two teen boys love to travel, meet new people and sample foods from all over the world. Davi offers parenting tips and encouragement at www.TriParenting.com.
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Feature: Mental Illness in Marriage
By Dr. Anson L. Service
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When a couple says “I do,” often they do not anticipate the possibility of mental illness in their relationship. While marriage can be an amazing and wonderful experience, it can be challenging, especially if adding psychological disorders to the mix. It is important to understand that your attitude and behavior play a vital role in helping your spouse through their illness, and you will likely see improvement over time, but just as important is your attitude and behavior regarding your own physical and mental wellbeing. If you or someone you know is married to someone struggling with mental illness, here are a few guidelines to keep in mind.
Know what you are dealing with. Misdiagnosed and undiagnosed disorders can be dangerous and sometime mistaken for character flaws. Jason* shares his experience: “My wife was incredibly sad, angry, and borderline abusive for seven years after we married. She was misdiagnosed by our family doctor and put on medications that ended up making things worse. The doctor tried several different medications until we finally got help from a psychologist who helped her without medications. We will be celebrating our 24th anniversary this month and she is mostly symptom free. It truly is a celebration because after getting help I was able to have much more confidence in our future together.” Unfortunately, under our current medical model, family physicians sometimes diagnose mental health disorders in a 15-minute doctor’s office visit. Powerful psychotropic medications with potential for serious side-effects are being prescribed under these circumstances. Contact a clinical psychologist specially trained to administer appropriate tests that can better
identify what disorder you are dealing with, recommend specific treatment options, and inform you as to what you might expect as a spouse. Furthermore, your psychologist can then work with a prescribing physician to help determine if or what medication might be a good fit.
becoming more independent, and even able to help others in crisis because of your experiences and perspective. Accept that you are a different person now than you were a year ago, and expect to be different in the future, but expect to be better with each experience.
Get counseling for you. Even though your spouse may be ill, the difficulties associated with it can affect your mental and physical health too. Individual counseling can help you learn to better communicate your feelings and gain control of your relationship together rather than letting the mental illness control the relationship. You can also get specific suggestions on how to best care for yourself, an important focus that is often overlooked or ignored.
Expand your activities outside of the illness. Participation in activities without your spouse may add that break and new energy you need to better deal with life. A change of scenery, people, and activities is important when things get difficult and will help you to not focus only on problems.
Expect change within yourself. If you have been wishing that life would return to the way things were before, you may be denying yourself an opportunity for growth. Change is not always bad and you may find yourself growing as an individual,
Set boundaries and keep them. Be very clear with your spouse that even though he or she struggles with mental illness, some things will not be tolerated or excused. Work with your counselor to write down specific physical, emotional, and treatment boundaries. There is no tolerance for domestic violence or sexual misconduct. Boundaries that protect you and your children from emotional continued on page 22
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abuse are necessary, as are boundaries regarding the maintenance of treatment. Face the facts. In most cases, a couple can learn to navigate through the illness and remain together. However, there are some situations where a person must begin the process of moving away from the spouse who is mentally ill. I was honored to interview Jackie, who suffered through an abusive marriage with Steven for eight years. Together they had four children. Steve was formerly in the military and suffered from post-traumatic stress disorder. He was most abusive when drinking alcohol, which was his way of self-medicating his illness. Over time she began to believe and internalize his degrading comments and eventually, “just gave up.” She added, “I knew what to expect from him and did not really care if I lived or died toward the end.” It was not until her children told her they did not feel safe and wanted to be away from him that she finally decided the situation had to change immediately. She made a decision and created an exit plan. Even though Jackie stated she had lost the desire to save herself, she had to save her children. Leaving was a near death experience; but she saved the life of her children, herself, and her husband because he was able to get the help he needed. Facing the facts and having an honest conversation about the present and future of the relationship may be necessary. If you are
in a position where you cannot safely have that conversation with your spouse, assemble several advocates for you who will be able to help. Leaving a spouse is a process, not an event. Avoid self-medicating. Alcohol, drugs, and prescription medications will not help your problems disappear. In fact, when misused they will most likely make your problems worse and harder to deal with. If needed, seek help from a professional who can help you deal with things in a healthy way. Get help from the right people. Others will naturally see your situation through the lens of their own lives, their experiences, and struggles. One friend may helpfully listen to you while another may unknowingly belittle you, judge, or offer unhelpful advice that is either obvious or counterproductive. Jackie was asked, “How could you be so stupid to stay with him for so long” on more than several occasions by well-intentioned friends and family. Saying, “Just leave,” was not helpful and only left her feeling worse about herself and her ability to “be smart” or “be strong.” Ultimately she was strong, but strong for her children, which was all she cared about toward the end of the marriage. Seek friendship and support from those whom you know have the ability, experience, and skills to help. Be frank about your situation and allow them to help in ways that will better your life and ensure your safety. Kevin’s wife struggled with episodes of depression throughout their marriage,
but they had common goals and spiritual beliefs that helped them see through the tough times. Even when her depression reached critical levels after the passing of her sister they clung to the idea that their children needed them and that giving up was not an option. When asked what advice he would give others who have spouses who struggle with mental illness he said he has “no advice to offer because no social media meme, phrase, or quote will provide the silver bullet answer that will make everything better.” Every couple has struggles that are different yet one thing is constant: you must work to accept your spouse for who he or she is as a person, because they are not their illness, and with work, wisdom, and perseverance, you may make things better in the future.
Anson Service is a doctor of clinical psychology and a licensed clinical mental health counselor. He and his wife recently celebrated their 21st anniversary and have three boys. He is the founder of Adventure Psychological Services that focuses on counseling all ages and helping students of all ages succeed in school. Learn more at www. adventurepsychological.com.
*All names and some identifying information in this article have been changed to protect privacy.
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17 Creative Birthday Activities for an Unforgettable Party By Christina Katz
I don’t mean to brag, but my husband and I have thrown quite a few awesome birthday parties over the years. However,
broom handle. Secure a tarp underneath with duct tape (indoors) or camping stakes (outdoors) for easy cleanup.
when reflecting back over all that we’ve thrown, it’s clear to me that the most memorable parties were not the most elaborate or even the most expensive. They were simply the messiest. Messy and birthday parties go together better than you might imagine. After all, what could be more festive than a little bit of parent-approved pandemonium?
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Eggcentric art.
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Franken-beauty.
The key to milking the most fun out of any birthday party is including more messy fun. And if you really want to throw the party to top all parties, plan sloppy activities from beginning to end. If a little bit of mess is memorable, than a lot of mess just might be unforgettable. In that spirit, here is a list of 17 indoor and outdoor ideas that won’t break the bank.
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Take aim, color.
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Take a whack at it.
Break the tops off real eggs, and pour the yolks and whites into Tupperware to make quiche or a soufflé later. Keeping empty shells in the carton, fill each with acrylic paints of various colors. Outside or in the garage or basement, hang a large canvas against a sturdy wall or fence and let the kids take aim and fire until they make a masterpiece. Use plastic drop cloths to catch the splatters as needed. Make natural facial masks out of banana, avocado or cocoa. Sit guests around a large table in pairs to take turns applying masks to each other’s faces. Be sure to have some mirrors handy so everyone can see what all the squeals are about.
Mark off a square play arena outdoors with five-foot tall bamboo garden stakes and masking tape. Fill squirt guns or squirt bottles with non-toxic watercolor paints, don a pair of clear swim goggles, and let the kids decorate each other dressed in white t-shirts and leggings or sweats. The only rule is no one leaves the field until the paint is all spent. Fill a store-bought piñata two-thirds of the way full with cooked, welldrained spaghetti. Then add small plastic toys, foil-wrapped granola bars, and plastic wrapped candies. To extend the fun, hang the piñata on a pull cord threaded through an eyehook so you can pull it up and down as kids swing at it with a bat or
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Construction junction.
Supply lots of sheets, blankets and pillows for fort construction. If you can mount a few Hula Hoops strategically around the room, they come in handy. You might also supply bandanas and bungee cords. Be sure to inspect the results for hazards.
6. Reach for the foam.
Play messy Twister in the yard by mixing foam shaving cream and food coloring. Wear clothing that can get stained. If no one wants to worry about clothing stains, simply use white shaving cream for a similar effect.
7. Pudding slide.
Make about a gallon of chocolate pudding. Drop large spoonfuls of pudding onto a Slip & Slide. Have guests take a running start down a low-grade slope. To make the slide more slippery, have guests sprinkle it with water from a sprinkler can or mist from a hose sprayer. Add more pudding or water, as needed.
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Slime ball.
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Picasso footsie. Roll out a long sheet
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Musical silly string. Put half the group in the middle
Find an online recipe to make nontoxic slime and let guests prepare it. Then play a game of hide the bouncy ball in the slime. Use a blindfold and a timer to see who can find their party favors the fastest. Enjoy the groans.
Messy Work for You Remember, the key to throwing an unforgettable party isn’t about choosing the trendiest theme or the hottest destination or decorating your guts out with the latest Pinspirations. The key is simply to let kids make a mess and have fun doing it. These tips will save you some sanity.
of paper and pour puddles of acrylic paint at one end. Have each guest step in one color per foot and walk across the paper. Switch to the other side of the paper to balance out the look. Hang art on a fence or wall to dry.
on a plastic tarp. Encircle guests with the other half of the group. Turn on the music. Have the inside group move in one direction and the outside group move in the other direction, while spraying the inside group with silly string. When the music is turned off, switch groups.
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Q If you can’t go outside, consider using a well-ventilated garage, shed, or basement. Check out the painting supply section of your local store for inexpensive items to protect your party space. Q Have a designated photographer who may not be slimed, spaghettied or painted. Q If you only have one messy activity planned, save the best for last. Q If you go with a totally messy party, go with messy food, too, buffet style or make-your-own. Q If you don’t want kids to get stained or dirty, you can still make a mess. Just use smocks, shower caps, and bandanas to cover up. Q The sky’s the limit when it comes to making messes. Use your imagination; then consider safety precautions, as needed.
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to thicken the water, then add spaghetti. The only rules are: use your own spaghetti, no bucket-dumping, and no touching - just throwing. Put them in a square play arena while you stand way back.
Holi colors (the type used for Color Runs, available online). The winners take on the next pair of challengers until everyone has run. The most colorful pair wins.
12. Mud puddle fun.
Divide guests into two groups, and mark a line across the center of your play arena. Everyone has to stay on their own team’s side and wear swim goggles. Place a table of supplies within reach of each backcourt. On the tables, supply large bowls of chilled mashed potatoes, Jello, pudding, and cooked oatmeal. Tint food with food coloring if clothing can be stained. On your mark, get set, food fight!
On a sturdy table at playing height, fill a small kiddie pool with dirt and just enough water to make mud. Add digging and pouring toys for an hour of industry for young guests.
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Duck-Duck-Dump.
Have kids put on a pair of goggles and sit in a circle for a game of Duck-Duck-Goose. But first, hand them a cup of water and a half-cup of flour to pour over each goose’s head.
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The opposite of tiny bubbles.
Make bubble mix with ten cups of regular Dawn dish soap and five gallons of water. Let it sit overnight. Do not agitate the solution as you pour it into a small wading pool slightly larger than a Hula Hoop in diameter. Have a guest don a pair of clear goggles and stand in the middle of the pool without splashing. Let two other party guests lower a Hula Hoop over the guest and then pull it straight up into a giant bubble.
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Three-legged color run.
Set up a start and finish line for a short jaunt. Tie the legs of two guests together and have them wear clear swim goggles and white play clothing. Have other guests stand on the sidelines and throw color from bags of nontoxic
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Trashion runway.
For a couple of months before the party, don’t discard your reusable recyclables. On party day, spread them out evenly in tarps with plenty of clear tape, masking tape, painter’s tape, and Duck tape. Pair guests up into design teams, and give them a time limit. The assignment is to design a runway-worthy fashion for each team out of only the trash that’s been supplied. Have a runway show afterwards to display the results.
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Music and Movement for Ages 0-6 at Vancouver Community Library, 901 C St., Vancouver. Activities include dance, parachutes, shakers, and scarves for babies and toddlers and their caregivers. 10:30-11 am
Family Storytime at the Woodland Community Library, 770 Park St., Woodland. Stories, fingerplays and songs followed by an activity or craft. Ages 0-6 and families. 10-11 am
Family Storytime at Three Creeks Library, 800-C NE Tenney Rd. Join us for a fun storytime for all. Ages 0-6 and parents welcome. 10:30–11:30 am
Vancouver Chess Club at Vancouver Community Library 901 C St., Vancouver. Drop in for informal chess games. All ages and abilities welcome. 4-7:45 pm Family Storytime at Cascade Park Community Library at 600 NE 163th Ave, Vancouver. Join us for stories, crafts, music and more for the whole family. Ages 0-6. 6:30-7:30 pm
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Terrific Tuesday: STEAM/Maker for 5-9 Year Olds at Vancouver Community Library, 901 C St., Vancouver. Kids explore science, technology, engineering, art and math. 4-5 pm
Boomerang Kids Story and Craft Time at Boomerang, 808 Main Street, Vancouver. Free stories, fun and activities in Boomerang’s awesome indoor kids’ play area. 10-10:30 am
Magnet Magic at The Mall Library Connection, 8700 NE Vancouver Mall Dr., Ste. 285, Vancouver. Experience the possibilities of magnetic attraction. Did you know that a magnet can move a train, pay your bill and even look inside your brain? Discover all this and make a magnet painting. Ages 6-12. 3-4 pm Ridgefield Gaming Group at Ridgefield Community Library, 210 N Main Ave, Ridgefield. Play RPGs and socialize. Is it possible to save the world in 4 hours? Find out. For tweens and teens (9-18 yr). 4-6 pm Wonderful Wednesdays: STEAM/ Maker for 9-12 year olds at Vancouver Community Library, 901 C St., Vancouver. Explore science, technology, engineering, art and math and be a creator with Makerspace activities. Create, invent and have fun. Parent participation is optional. 4-5 pm
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Knit and Natter at The Mall Library Connection, 8700 NE Vancouver Mall Dr., Ste. 285, Vancouver. Have you always wanted to learn to knit? Already know how to knit and would like to cast on with other knitters? Interested in other fiber arts and looking for some social time? This is the place you’re looking for. This program is designed for tweens through adult. 5:30-6:45 pm
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Music and Movement for Ages 0-6 at Vancouver Community Library 901 C St., Vancouver. (See Feb 1) 10-10:30 am Explore! Program for 3-6 year olds at Vancouver Community Library, 901 C St., Vancouver. Hands on STEAM program exploring science, technology, engineering, art and math. Parent participation required. 11 am-12 pm Kiggins Theatre Comedy Night at 1011 Main St., Vancouver. Monthly stand-up comedy showcase featuring talented comedians who know just how to tickle your continued on page 32
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Bilingual Storytime: Cuentos Bilingues at Vancouver Community Library, 901 C St., Vancouver. Enjoy stories, songs and rhymes in Spanish and English for families with children aged 0-6 years old. It is an opportunity to learn and have fun. Se presentan cuentos, canciones y rimas en español e inglés para familias con niños. ¡Es una oportunidad de aprender y divertirse. 6:30-7 pm
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Explore! Program for 3-6 Year Olds at Vancouver Community Library, 901 C St., Vancouver. (See Feb 4) 10:30-11:30 am Portland Children’s Museum Free First Friday at 4015 SW Canyon Rd., Portland. 4-8 pm Vancouver Downtown Association First Friday. Every first Friday of the month throughout the year, participating art galleries, merchants and restaurants in downtown Vancouver open their doors to celebrate opening night of various art exhibits. Live music and citywide receptions welcome all! Visit www.vdausa.org/vdasfirstfridaydowntown for a downtown art gallery list and walking map. 5-9 pm
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Vancouver Ski Bus to Mt Hood Meadows departs 6:30 am from and returns 5:30 pm to Salmon Creek Elementary School, 1601 NE 129th St., Vancouver. This chaperoned, RAZ bus runs to Mt Hood Meadows every Saturday in February. Consecutive week program packages are available for elementary school, middle school, and high school students. A great way to get kids of all levels and ages up to the mountain to enjoy snow sports. For more information, visit https://www.skihood.com/lessons-andrentals/consecutive-week-programs. 6:30 am-5:30 pm
Come and Play on Saturday at Three Creeks Library, 800-C NE Tenney Rd., Vancouver. Arts, crafts, games, mystery activities. Kids drop in and see what fun awaits you. Ages 3-12. 10 am-12 pm Open Saturday at Pearson Field, 201 E Reserve St., Vancouver. Pearson Air Field
Annual Father Daughter Valentine’s Ball at Pearson Airfield Historic Hangar 1115 E 5th St, Vancouver. A fun and memorable event for fathers and daughters of all ages. Dad, show your daughter how special she is by treating her to a wonderful evening of memories, music and dancing. Featuring a local DJ, finger foods, and a professional photographer to capture your special evening together. There will also be a balloon artist and face painting. Enjoy Ballroom and Hip Hop dance instruction provided by Groove Nation Dance Academy. To register: http://www.cityofvancouver.us/parksrec/ page/annual-father-daughter-valentines-ball. 6-8:30 pm
Family Storytime at Three Creeks Library 800-C NE Tenney Rd. (See Feb. 1) 10:30-11:30 am
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Family Storytime at Cascade Park Community Library at 600 NE 163th Ave, Vancouver. (See Feb. 1) 6:30-7:30 pm Vancouver Chess Club at Vancouver Community Library 901 C St., Vancouver. (See Feb. 1) 4-7:45 pm
Teen Book Chat at the Battle Ground Community Library, 1207 SE 8th Way, Battle Ground. Join us each month to read and discuss something different. For teens 12-18 yrs. 5-6 pm Clark County Food Bank Repack Volunteering at Clark County Food Bank, 6502 NE 47th Ave, Vancouver. Volunteers can help sort and repackage food as long as there is food available to be repacked. No prior scheduling is required to volunteer as an individual or small family. Close-toed shoes are recommended for safety.
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Music and Movement for Ages 0-6 at Vancouver Community Library 901 C St., Vancouver. (See Feb 1) 10:30-11 am
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Parents’ Night Out every Saturday at Naydenov Gymnastics, 5313 NE 94th Ave., Vancouver. For boys ages 5-11 and girls 5 and up. Music, trapeze bar, movie, free play, zip line, foam pits, trampolines, games, ropes, and more. Non-members: $17, members: $14. Extra $7 for medium pizza. Children should wear comfortable clothes with no buckles, buttons, or zippers. No pre-registration required. 6-11 pm Lantern Tour: An Evening at the Fort, 1001 E. 5th St., Vancouver. Experience the reconstructed Hudson’s Bay Company’s Fort Vancouver at night. As in past years, each adult attending the program will carry their own candle lantern and tour with a Park Ranger through the reconstructed fort’s Counting House, Fur Store, Chief Factor’s House, Kitchen, and Bake House. In each building, visitors will experience historical vignettes with costumed living history interpreters, including graduates of the park’s
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Ridgefield Brick Lovers at Ridgefield Community Library, 210 N Main Ave, Ridgefield. Imagine amazing sructures and machines, then build them. For kids 5-12 yrs and families. 10 am-12 pm
Youth Volunteer Programs. Visitors will learn what activities would have occurred during the evening hours at Fort Vancouver, and enjoy a cup of hot cider at the end of the tour. These tours meet at the entrance gate to the reconstructed Fort Vancouver. Reservations and pre-payment are required. Call The Contact Station at 360-816-6244. Cost is $15 for adults, $10 for children 15 and under. 7 pm
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is open to the public from 1 to 5 pm every Saturday, featuring a free educational program provided by Pearson Field Education Center, the Flight Simulator lab, vertical wind tunnel, a glider-building station, historic airplanes on-site for viewing, collections on display, and educational programs to propel students of all ages into the wonderful world of flight. Experience the “Golden Age of Aviation” at the Northwest’s first airport, and one of the oldest continuously operating airfields in the country. 1-5 pm
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funny bone. Tickets $10 per person. All ages are technically welcome, but parental guidance is heartily recommended since some of the themes and material are mature. For more details, visit www.kigginstheatre. net. 8-10 pm
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Boomerang Kids Story and Craft Time at Boomerang 808 Main Street, Vancouver. (See Feb. 3) 10-10:30 am Family Storytime at the Woodland Community Library, 770 Park St., Woodland. (See Feb. 3) 10-11 am Ridgefield Gaming Group at Ridgefield Community Library, 210 N Main Ave, Ridgefield. (See Feb. 3) 4-6 pm Knit and Natter at The Mall Library Connection, 8700 NE Vancouver Mall Dr., Ste. 285, Vancouver. (See Feb. 3) 5:30-6:45 pm
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Music and Movement for Ages 0-6 at Vancouver Community Library, 901 C St., Vancouver. (See Feb 1) 10-10:30 am Explore! Program for 3-6 year olds at Vancouver Community Library, 901 C St., Vancouver. (See Feb 4) 11 am-12 pm
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Explore! Program for 3-6 year olds at Vancouver Community Library, 901 C St., Vancouver. (See Feb 4) 10:30-11 am Blind Taste Testing Soda Pop at Ridgefield Community Library, 210 N Main Ave, Ridgefield. Tween and teens (9-18 yrs), taste anonymous soda and try to identify it. Get the most right and win a prize. 4-5 pm Magenta Theater presents “The Women” at 606 Main St., Vancouver. An all-female cast, set in the 1930s. Ticket and season pass information at www.magentatheater. com. 7:30 pm
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Vancouver Ski Bus to Mt Hood Meadows departs 6:30 am from and returns 5:30 pm to
Salmon Creek Elementary School. (See Feb. 6) 6:30 am-5:30 pm Come and Play on Saturday at Three Creeks Library, 800-C NE Tenney Rd. (See Feb. 6) 10 am-12 pm Open Saturday at Pearson Field, 201 E Reserve St., Vancouver. (See Feb. 6) 1-5 pm Rivers, Floods and Birthday Celebration: Second Saturday at the Water Resources Education Center, 4600 SE Columbia Way, Vancouver. Each second Saturday of the month, kids and their families are invited to explore a different topic through hands-on activities, games and stories. This month, celebrate the Watershed’s 20th anniversary, make a watershed and watch what happens when you change the flow of a river. Visit www.cityofvancouver.us/watercenter for more details. Children must be accompanied by a parent or guardian. 1-3 pm Magenta Theater presents “The Women.” (See Feb. 12) 2 & 7:30 pm Big Red at Cascade Park Community Library, 600 NE 136th Ave., Vancouver. Come wish Clifford the Big Red Dog a Happy Valentine’s Day. There will be fun arts and crafts, too. Ages 2-12. 3-4:30 pm Movie Matinee at the Battle Ground Community Library, 1207 SE 8th Way, Battle Ground. Join us for a family-friendly movie, cider and popcorn. This month we’re watching Paddington. A young Peruvian bear travels to London in search of a home. Finding himself lost and alone at Paddington Station, he meets the kindly Brown family, who offer him a temporary haven. For preschoolers through teens. 3 pm Parents’ Night Out every Saturday at Naydenov Gymnastics. (See Feb. 6) 6-11 pm Lantern Tour: Walking Vancouver Barracks, 1001 E. 5th St.,Vancouver. These new ranger-led programs will walk visitors through the grounds of Vancouver Barracks by lantern light, connecting attendees to the national park’s military history through thematic storytelling. These tours will be small in size and feature a specific thematic focus. They require walking through grass and uneven surfaces at night and in in inclement conditions, including rain and mud. This months theme: Romance at Vancouver Barracks. Meet at the entrance gate to the reconstructed Fort Vancouver.
Reservations and pre-payment required. Call The Contact Station at 360-816-6244. Cost is $10 for adults, $7 for children 15 and under. 7 pm
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Family Movie at Ridgefield Community Library, 210 N Main Ave, Ridgefield. Enjoy a family friendly movie with popcorn and lemonade. (3-12 yrs and families). Call the library 360-906-477 for movie title. 4-6 pm Bilingual Storytime: Cuentos Bilingues at Vancouver Community Library, 901 C St., Vancouver. (See Feb 2) 6:30-7 pm
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Boomerang Kids Story and Craft Time at Boomerang 808 Main Street, Vancouver. (See Feb. 3) 10-10:30 am Family Storytime at Woodland Community Library, 770 Park St., Woodland. (See Feb. 3) 10-11 am Ridgefield Gaming Group at Ridgefield Community Library, 210 N Main Ave., Ridgefield. (See Feb. 3) 4-6 pm Wonderful Wednesdays: Crazy Game Day for 9-12 Year Olds at Vancouver Community Library 901 C St., Vancouver. Come play games old and new. 4-5 pm Knit and Natter at The Mall Library Connection, 8700 NE Vancouver Mall Dr., Ste. 285, Vancouver. (See Feb. 3) 5:30-6:45 pm Magenta Theater presents “The Women.” (See Feb. 12) 7:30 pm
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Music and Movement for Ages 0-6 at Vancouver Community Library, 901 C St., Vancouver. (See Feb. 1) 10-10:30 am Explore! Program for 3-6 year olds at Vancouver Community Library 901 C St., Vancouver. (See Feb 4) 11 am-12 pm The Lego Club at Camas Public Library, 625 NE 4th Ave., Camas. A new Librarian’s Challenge every third Thursday of the month, with thousands of Lego bricks and minifigs! No registration required. All ages. 4-5 pm continued on page 34
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continued from page 33 Magenta Theater presents “The Women.” (See Feb. 12) 7:30 pm
Parents’ Night Out every Saturday at Naydenov Gymnastics. (See Feb. 6) 6-11 pm
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Lantern Tour: An Evening at the Fort, 1001 E. 5th St., Vancouver. (See Feb. 6) 7 pm
Teen Night at Three Creeks Community Library, 800-C NE Tenny Rd., Vancouver. Teens 12-18 yrs join us for fun in the library after hours. 7–9 pm Magenta Theater presents “The Women.” (See Feb. 12) 7:30 pm
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Vancouver Ski Bus to Mt Hood Meadows departs 6:30 am from and returns 5:30 pm to Salmon Creek Elementary School. (See Feb. 6) 6:30 am-5:30 pm Come and Play on Saturday at Three Creeks Library 800-C NE Tenney Rd. (See Feb. 6) 10 am-12 pm
Open Saturday at Pearson Field, 201 E Reserve St., Vancouver. (See Feb. 6) 1-5 pm Magenta Theater presents “The Women.” (See Feb. 12) 2 pm Family Movie Matinee at Three Creeks Community Library, 800-C NE Tenny Rd., Vancouver. Join us for a family friendly movie and popcorn. Ages 3-12 and families. 3-5 pm
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Famly Storytime at Three Creeks Library 800-C NE Tenney Rd. (See Feb. 1) 10:30-11:30 am
“I Want Candy” Science Program at the Battle Ground Community Library, 1207 SE 8th Way, Battle Ground. Do you love candy? Do you love science? Come to our candy science workshop featuring dancing candy hearts, high flying Pop Rocks, gum drop engineering, and ice cream creations. Ages 7-12 yrs. 4:30-5:30 pm Family Storytime at Cascade Park Community Library at 600 NE 163th Ave, Vancouver. (See Feb. 1) 6:30-7:30 pm Vancouver Chess Club at Vancouver Community Library 901 C St., Vancouver. (See Feb. 1) 4-7:45 pm
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Last Tuesday Poetry Reading at Barnes and Noble, 7700 NE Fourth Plain, Vancouver. Open poetry mic on the last Tuesday of each month. Suitable for all ages. 7-8:30 pm
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Family Storytime at the Woodland Community Library, 770 Park St., Woodland. (See Feb. 3) 10-11 am Ridgefield Gaming Group at Ridgefield Community Library, 210 N Main Ave, Ridgefield. (See Feb. 3) 4-6 pm Wonderful Wednesdays: Adventures in Art for 9-12 Year Olds at Vancouver Community Library, 901 C St., Vancouver. Come explore aspects of the arts. 4-5 pm continued on next page
Community Sewing Circle at Three Creeks Library 800-C NE Tenney Rd. Join sewing enthusiasts as they craft much needed items such as tote bags, blankets, quilts, bibs and pillow cases for local shelters, hospitals, nursing homes and other charities. Two sewing machines are available or bring your own. All materials are provided. All ages. 5-8 pm
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Bilingual Storytime: Cuentos Bilingues at Vancouver Community Library 901 C St., Vancouver. (See Feb 2) 6:30-7 pm
Boomerang Kids Story and Craft Time at Boomerang 808 Main Street, Vancouver. (See Feb 3) 10-10:30 am
Music and Movement for Ages 0-6 at Vancouver Community Library 901 C St., Vancouver. (See Feb 1) 10:30-11 am
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Northwest’s Largest Family Expo-KidFest! SportFest! at Portland Expo Center, Hall E, 2060 N Marine Dr., Portland. Live stage entertainment, interactive sports demos, inflatable fun zones, game truck video and laser tag, rock Wall, Star Wars character appearances, Iron-Kid chef competition, Minions stage party, concert by American Idol’s Daniel Seavey, Mad Science, exotic animals and more. $5/person, Kids age 3 and under free. Family Pass: $20 for up to 5 people. Receive $1 off admission with canned food donation for local school food pantry. More Information at www.kidfestnw.com. 10 am-6 pm
Northwest’s Largest Family Expo-KidFest! SportFest! at Portland Expo Center. (See Feb. 20) 10 am-4 pm
Terrific Tuesday: Adventures in Art for 5-9 Year Olds at Vancouver Community Library, 901 C St., Vancouver. Kids, explore the arts from music to art to drama and more. 4-5 pm
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Artsy-Fartsy Friday at Cascade Park Community Library at 600 NE 163th Ave., Vancouver. Calling all young artists. Express yourselves. Ages 6-8. 4-5 pm
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Explore! Program for 3-6 year olds at Vancouver Community Library, 901 C St., Vancouver. (See Feb 4) 10:30 -11 am
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continued from previous page InBeTweens: Bricks and Sticks at Cascade Park Community Library, 600 NE 136th Ave., Vancouver. Calling all 8-12 year olds: Join us for fun with K’nex and LEGO bricks. 5-6 pm Knit and Natter at The Mall Library Connection, 8700 NE Vancouver Mall Dr., Ste. 285, Vancouver. (See Feb. 3) 5:30-6:45 pm Magenta Theater presents “The Women.” (See Feb. 12) 7:30 pm
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Music and Movement for Ages 0-6 at Vancouver Community Library, 901 C St., Vancouver. (See Feb. 1) 10-10:30 am Explore! Program for 3-6 year olds at Vancouver Community Library, 901 C St., Vancouver. (See Feb. 4) 11 am-12 pm Brick Builders for Ages 5-11 at Three Creeks Library 800-C NE Tenney Rd., Vancouver. Join us each month for a new LEGO building challenge. 4-5 pm Magenta Theater presents “The Women.” (See Feb. 12) 7:30 pm
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Friends of Woodland Community Library at Woodland Community Library, 770 Park St., Woodland. Buy a book and support the
Friends of the Woodland Community Library Fund. Used books of all kinds available. 10 am-4 pm Explore! Program for 3-6-year-olds at Vancouver Community Library 901 C St., Vancouver. (See Feb 4) 10:30-11:30 am Magenta Theater presents “The Women.” (See Feb. 12) 7:30 pm
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Vancouver Ski Bus to Mt Hood Meadows departs 6:30 am from and returns 5:30 pm to Salmon Creek Elementary School. (See Feb. 6) 6:30 am-5:30 pm Friends of Woodland Community Library at Woodland Community Library, 770 Park St., Woodland. (See Feb. 26). All items $5.00 a bag on Saturday. 10-2 pm Come and Play on Saturday at Three Creeks Library, 800-C NE Tenney Rd., Vancouver. (See Feb. 6) 10 am-12 pm
geocaching with instructors Mike Tribe and Debbi Patton. Toward the end of the class, we will go outside and practice finding a geocache. Refreshments will be provided. Ages 5 to adult. 2-4 pm Parents’ Night Out every Saturday at Naydenov Gymnastics. (See Feb. 6) 6-11 pm
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Family Storytime at Three Creeks Library 800-C NE Tenney Rd. (See Feb. 1) 10:30-11:30 am Music and Movement for Ages 0-6 at Vancouver Community Library, 901 C St., Vancouver. (See Feb. 1) 10:30-11 am Family Storytime at Cascade Park Community Library at 600 NE 163th Ave, Vancouver. (See Feb. 1) 6:30-7:30 pm Vancouver Chess Club at Vancouver Community Library 901 C St., Vancouver. (See Feb. 1) 4-7:45 pm
Open Saturday at Pearson Field, 201 E Reserve St., Vancouver. (See Feb. 6) 1-5 pm Introduction to Geocaching at Three Creeks Library 800-C NE Tenney Rd.,Vancouver. What is geocaching? How do I start geocaching? What types of geocaches are there? How do I find a geocache? How do I hide a geocache? Come to learn about
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