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Dan Meyer talks of navigating a sea of change
March 2016
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Dan Meyer BY JUDITH BERGER
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itting the arbitrary age of retirement poses a challenge for many in the workplace. For some retirement comes early and maybe not by choice; for others who feel they have more to do, can’t or won’t let go to move on to something new; and still others can’t wait for the next adventure. Dan Mey-
er said a lot of it has to do with mindset. His advice is to move forward, get over it and make it happen. Whatever ‘it’ is, Meyer took a leap of faith in his abilities and vision and made it happen when he started the Small Business Times in 1995 -- just when technology was beginning to impact the publishing industry. MEYER continued on page 17A
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SIXTY YEARS OF “CONTAINMENT AND PARTICIPATION” AGING ISSUES
By Tom Frazier
Recently, I read a new book by former State Senator Tim Cullen entitled Ringside Seat. Senator Cullen, a Democrat from Janesville, served two very different terms in the State Senate, the first from 1975-1987, and the second from 2011-2015. I have known Senator Cullen since 1983 when I started work for the Coalition of Wisconsin Aging Groups and he was Senate Majority Leader. I have tremendous respect for his political acumen and integrity.
The book is about Cullen’s long career in politics (with a 20 year hiatus in the private sector working for Blue Cross/ Blue Shield) and the major differences that took place in politics between his first and second terms in the State Senate. It is a thoughtful and insightful book for anyone interested in Wisconsin politics over the last 60 years. Senator Cullen also provides some amazing insights, in
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What it will take to address income inequality? BY LEE HAMILTON
The stresses we see in our political system today — free-floating public anger and distrust of government and large institutions — stem at least in part from the widespread perception that economic insecurity has become entrenched in our system and there’s very little ordinary people can do about it. When the history of this year’s presidential campaign is written, one of its more remarkable features will be that candidates of both parties feel it necessary to talk about income inequality. Surely that makes this a watershed moment. The issue is hardly new. As historian and writer Jill Lepore pointed out last year, income inequality in the United States has been rising since the late 1960s. As she put it, “The evidence that income inequality in the United States has been growing for decades and is greater than in any other developed democracy is not much disputed.” More notable is that it has become a defining issue of our day, with Republican candidates seizing on it just as avidly as Democrats — though with different views of its causes and solutions. Some reformist Republicans have argued for some time now for the right mix of public policies to give poor and middle-income Americans more FRAZIER continued from page 1A
my opinion, on the Scott Walker Administration and how he has governed so much differently than the previous 12 Governors over a 60 year period. He argues that the previous 12 governors all governed by a “containment policy” meaning that the six Republican governors all governed by a policy that was “right of center” while the six Democratic governors governed by a “left of center” policy. This meant that there were few big surprises for the people of Wisconsin who were very comfortable with this style. Senator Cullen attributes the term “containment” to Bill Kraus, an aide to Republican Governor Lee Sherman Dreyfus. Senator Cullen contrasts this containment style with Governor Walker’s “bomb throwing” (Walker’s word) style where it is not only a surprise but also included no citizen(public) participation in the decision-making
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opportunity without shifting power to the federal government. On the Democratic side, as expected, both Bernie Sanders and Hillary Clinton press for a firmer public stance to redress the problem. No one suggests there are easy solutions. To be sure, there are politicians, especially on the right, who believe there’s not much room for public action. Market forces will sort it all out, they argue. In this telling, inequality has come about because of globalization and technological changes that are unstoppable and that on the whole have raised living standards. Eventually, they believe, the gap between the highest earners and the rest of us will diminish. Instead of fighting inequality, we should be protecting and expanding the rewards for skill, leadership and entrepreneurship. This argument assumes that the very wealthy won’t act to tilt the field even more in their favor. Yet as the New York Times noted last month, they are doing just that. “With inequality at its highest levels in nearly a century,” the newspaper wrote, “the very richest Americans have financed a sophisticated and astonishingly effective apparatus for shielding their fortunes.... Operating largely out of public view... the wealthy have used their influence to steadily whittle away at the govern-
ment’s ability to tax them.” Yet some reform-minded conservatives agree with Democrats on at least one point, which is that government needs to act to achieve greater fairness and opportunity in the economy. The stresses we see in our political system today — free-floating public anger and distrust of government and large institutions — stem at least in part from the widespread perception that economic insecurity has become entrenched in our system and there’s very little ordinary people can do about it. If inequality continues to grow, the stress on the system will ratchet ever tighter. No one is arguing for a straightahead equalization of economic resources, which would not just require extreme restrictions on personal freedom, but would almost certainly hamstring economic growth. Nor, however, should government make the problem worse — which is what some politicians’ call for further tax reductions on the richest would do. There are some broad directions we should be moving to ensure a degree of fairness. Current trends are not inevitable if citizens are determined to reduce the influence and power of money on the system. We need to shift resources to education and workforce training, though that will take time to produce change. Encouraging tech-
nological change that boosts unskilled employment — rather than stripping it away — will matter. So will protecting the progressivity of the income tax, encouraging the well-to-do to follow the excellent examples of their peers who are sharing their wealth, focusing on trade deals that favor workers and not just the business community, and providing incentives for people of ordinary means to save and invest. We need to promote policies that help all children advance, and discourage efforts to further concentrate wealth. These are incremental changes requiring limited government action. A reduction in inequality is an essential ingredient in a healthy democracy. To let the gap between rich and ordinary Americans grow larger will allow political pressures to build in our economic and political systems. We should aim for a country where opportunities are more equal and the distribution of wealth and income is fairer. Lee Hamilton is a Distinguished Scholar, Indiana University School of Global and International Studies; and a Professor of Practice, IU School of Public and Environmental Affairs. He was a member of the U.S. House of Representatives for 34 years.
process. Of course, the big “bomb” was Act 10 that crippled the public labor unions, but Cullen describes other bombs such as mining, deleting the “Wisconsin Idea,” no pardons, destroying the Government Accountability Board, the attack on Wisconsin’s open records law, and dismantling the Civil Service System. Also, Cullen makes the point that the divisions created in the electorate by these actions were unnecessary. Two bombs that were not included in the book are Family Care and SeniorCare. I know about these programs because I was very involved in the political process that established them: Family Care, a long-term care program for frail elders and people with disabilities, and SeniorCare, an Rx drug program for older adults. Both of these programs were developed with extensive citizen participation over several years and were enacted into law
with very strong bi-partisan support. Governor Walker proposed drastic changes to both in his state budget with no public input into his decisions. These programs serve approximately 150,000 Wisconsin citizens providing vital assistance to those in need; citizen participation and bi-partisanship would have helped make better decisions. Fortunately from my political outlook I was able to recently observe a much better process. A Speaker’s Task Force on Alzheimer’s and Dementia was created with bi-partisan membership. Representative Mike Rohrkaste, a Republican from Neenah, was the chair. He held hearings around the state listening to many people with knowledge about the problems and drafted ten separate bills to alleviate many of the problems. I was able to attend a public hearing where these bills were discussed, and attend a meet-
ing where Representative Rohrkaste discussed the bills and the process. The bills have passed one committee, mostly on unanimous votes, and the ones with fiscal impact have passed the Joint Committee on Finance. I was very impressed with the leadership of Representative Rohrkaste who was able to restore, at least briefly, the policies of containment and citizen participation. Let’s all hope it’s a new beginning to an old process. Ringside Seat by Tim Cullen is published by Little Creek Press, Mineral Point, WI. Note: All proceeds from the sale of Tim’s book goes to the Janesville Multicultural Teacher Opportunities Scholarship, a foundation created by Senator Cullen to increase the number of teachers of color in the Janesville public schools.
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EDITORIALS
Age Comfortably Who would not like to age comfortably and peacefully? With a few perhaps just minor adjustments to your lifestyle and to your home, we suspect such could be accomplished with ease. The following are a few suggestions that might bring a person a more comfortable lifestyle. Let’s start in the bathroom with a walk-in shower, and, possibly, a grab bar in the shower and also one near to the toilet stool to help you arise. Stair lifts may be necessary for people who can’t use their legs like they used to. If you can’t afford a stair lift to reach your upstairs bedroom, why not move it to a first floor location?
For many older folks, safely aging begins with a personal alert system. These are not inexpensive, but much less expensive than having a health-related occurrence and not being able to call for help. How about that one or two-step entry into your home? A well-supported railing leading to your front door could be a great addition to your home. Keep electric cords clear from your walkways. When you can, utilize chairs with armrests to give you aid getting up from sitting positions. What else? You know your needs. Don’t neglect them.
No Wind Farms Wisconsin is ranked this year as one of states that has the lowest of renewable energy targets. In fact, it is the only Upper Midwest state that currently does not have at least one wind farm under construction. We understand that from 1800 to 3200 megawatts of wind energy might be produced in Wisconsin. To achieve this, blistering winds would not be
SENIOR ANSWER MAN DEAR SAM: When I feel “down” I do have a very really tough time getting myself up and in high gear again. Do you have any suggestions for me? Have a happy Easter season. Sincerely, Earl Elzon DEAR EARL: Of all the joys that we have on earth there is none that delights us more than seeing a baby’s first smile. Now, I know you perhaps are too old to think in terms of babies, but I might
necessary. Still, there is great opposition to wind farms with this being mainly from the siting of them. Many persons refer to them as above ground noisy wind tunnels. In the interim, and perhaps for long beyond, why haven’t we considered manure and corncobs as sources of energy?
be right in telling you that any age is to be enjoyed and joyful thoughts can weaken suffering if it does not banish it. Just take a few moments to realize that you are alive; that your life expectancy is greater than it was for any of the people who preceded you in your family. I pinch myself every time I eat a chocolate covered strawberry as a simple way of appreciation. Just make yourself really aware that as the decades ahead move forward, so will you in age and intelligence. Convince yourself, as I have, that life will continue to only become better as we age. Enjoy this wondrous season, Senior Answer Man
It Makes Me Let us consider emotional dumping today. We spend way too much time in front of the television set, often watching meaningless programming that otherwise could be referred to as garbage. I admit to almost mindlessly
CRABBY viewing violent, disturbing, unpleasant and occasionally idiotic programs. Often while such is playing on the screen, we daydream our time away. Are there not many more worthwhile ways to spend our leisure time? Think about it.
Killing TIME WITH JIM MCLOONE Aren’t you excited about the prospect of being able to have lighted shoelaces for your shoes? I doubt that these battery-operated laces will show anyone the path to a better life. I’m waiting for lighted partial plates so my teeth can see what they’re chewing. a a a a This month of March was named for the Romans’ God of War, Martius; thusly, we have March. While it is a bit blustery, perhaps it would be better named for a politician than a warrior. a a a a Among other things that come from the mouth of babies definitely are burps and cereals. a a a a A granddaughter is expecting twin babies and a daughter-in-law a second baby in June. This will bring our grandkids to 22 and great-grandchildren to four. For real happiness, is there a better time than at the birth of children? a a a a In the past, we’ve said this about Ireland, but we’re changing this phrase today. Has there ever been a better export of foreign countries to the United States than their people? a a a a A grand slam home run cleans all the bases, bringing all runners to score. It might be darned difficult to clean the plates with a grand slam breakfast. a a a a I really never could figure out why the Obituary pages in the newspapers are known by some as the Irish Sports Pages. a a a a This column is being written while on a brief vacation, staying at Sawgrass in Ponte Vedra, Florida. In
a recent chapter of a book about golf, there’s a headline that intrigued me: Something new under the sun. Among the stories printed under that heading was one about ways to die on a golf course. They were to get hit in the head by a golf ball being driven off the tee, be run over by a golf cart, be struck by a swinging golf club, be struck by lightning and last, forget your hat and die of sun stroke. Did that author forget about skin cancer? a a a a KILLING TIME continued on page 11A
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Investing, put the odds in your favor!
As a money manager, I have come to one conclusion: where the economy is in the business cycle* will determine what happens to your investments. If you want to put the investing odds in your favor, understand the business cycle! DO YOU KNOW WHERE WE ARE IN THE BUSINESS CYCLE? Transitions in the growth of the economy have a major impact on the trends of asset classes, as prices rise or decline depending on the direction of the growth of the economy. In a complete cycle you will see business activity progress through four distinctive phases. Each phase is characterized by the following unique trends.
PLANNING TOMORROWS DREAMS TODAY
By Brad Olson Phase 1 – Expansion • Business growth rises but remains below its growth potential. • Money growth, stocks, and the dollar rise. The yield curve steepens. • Inflation, commodities, bond
yields, and short-term interest rates bottom after this phase is under way. This phase reflects the end of the disinflationary period of the business cycle. The strength of the dollar and the increase in liquidity, accompanied by low and stable short-term interest rates, support a broad stock market rise. Phase 2 – Peak • Business growth rises above its long-term growth potential. • Money growth, stocks, and the dollar peak before the end of this phase. The yield curve also begins to flatten after the peak in the growth of monetary aggregates.
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• Inflation, commodities, bond yields, and short-term interest rates rise during the whole period. The economy begins to overheat in this phase. Inflationary pressures rise. This is the time to closely watch the level of real short-term interest rates. If they are low, investors should expect a large movement in commodities and stronger than average inflationary pressures. Investors should shift their emphasis to hard asset-based stocks and asset classes, and away from interest rate sensitive investments. Phase 3 – Contraction • Business growth declines, but remains above its long-term growth potential. • The growth of the money supply continues to decline. Stocks and the dollar are also weak. The yield curve keeps flattening. • Inflation, commodities, bond yields, and short-term interest rates continue to rise, but they peak before the end of this phase and begin to trade in a range as the economy continues to
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Be thankful for the Millenials! They’re the next home buyers
Did you know that there are approximately 80 million young folks in this country making up the largest demographic group since the Baby Boomers? Millenials or Generation Y, ages 18-35 make up the next generation of first time home buyers. Statistics show that up to 35% of these young people are still living with parents and only 26% are married. That means that potentially we will see a surge in home sales as these folks move out of the nest and begin to start their families. First time buyers are always the key to a successful home selling market and we are experiencing the entrance of many new potential homeowners. Real estate, as in any other commodity, is governed by the law of supply and demand. When supply is up and demand is down, prices fall. The reciprocal follows that when supply is down and demand is up, prices rise. The latter is what we are experiencing in today’s real estate market. Home prices are rising (depending on the community) due to high demand and low inventory for single family housing. This is a great opportunity for
MOVING IN THE RIGHT DIRECTION
By Bruce Nemovitz those of you who have waited out the recession to recoup much of your equity. In many areas, we are back to the peak prices of 2007! There is one caveat when preparing your home for today’s market. Keep the millennials in mind at all times when deciding how to present your home! That is critical as your goal is to attract the best price depending on the condition and location of your home. That means gaining insights as to the buying habits and expectations of this huge cohort, the millennials. As you probably know from observation, they are “digital natives,” meaning this is the only generation that has not had to adapt to technology as they have grown up with computers
and social media. 80% are on Facebook and most share too much information about themselves online as viewed by older generations. They have high levels of student debt and lower levels of personal wealth and income than their two predecessor generations (Gen Xers and Boomers) at the same stage in their lives. Lifestyle is the most important factor when considering buying their first home and they dislike being pressured by aggressive sales people. They will pay a much higher price for a home that is move-in ready and penalize a property that is in poor condition. What does all of this mean to you, the homeowner? Everything! Since this group has a huge influence on home sales across the country, you want to make sure that you keep those characteristics listed in the previous paragraph in mind when preparing your home for sale. Even if you are not ready to sell today, understand the value of millennial friendly upgrades for that moment in time when you are ready to transition to new housing. For instance, this group will pay much more for cosmetic upgrades such as
granite counter tops, re-finished hardwood flooring, new carpeting and specific paint colors known by most Realtors and stagers. They shop online, meaning the pictures they see will greatly influence them in their search. Therefore, vacant homes show poorly in pictures versus a property with furniture. Starting with your exterior, I would suggest replacing a bad roof and painting where needed on the outside so that they will want to come inside. A poor outside appearance can prevent a sale or cause today’s buyer to harshly penalize the value of your home. If you have a basement that is damp, stained or cracked, make sure you have a basement inspector or engineer inspect your walls and drainage system and make any necessary repairs before putting your home on the market. Nothing will kill a sale more quickly than a defective basement! There are so many considerations when deciding how to offer your home to the public. Should you fix up or sell as-is? What effect will the condition have on the final sales price? Only a NEMOVITZ continued on page 7A
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seasoned Realtor can help make that determination for you. The experienced agent will do a walk through and look for signs of defects or improvements needed. They can identify areas of concern cosmetically as well as define the various options and sale prices reflecting the work or lack thereof done on your home. They will let you know the best time to list your home to maximize your return. All of this information in most cases is free and necessary. When the time is right and you prepare your home properly, your agent will then attract an offer on your home in a timely manner (2-3 weeks) and you can move on to enjoy your next home, which better meets your physical and emotional needs. The next time you see your kids and grandchildren know that they will be changing the world for the better, but doing so in a much different way than their predecessors. They will use technology to their benefit and adapt it to meet their needs in the future. Just as we thought we had a better way OLSON continued from page 5A
slow down. This is a transition phase. By the end of phase 3, commodities, shortterm interest rates, and bond yields begin to break from their trading range and start heading lower. Investors’ have to adjust their investment strategy and gradually shift away from inflation hedge asset classes and get ready for investments that will be more profitable once the business cycle enters phase 4. Phase 4 – Trough • Business growth declines and falls below trend. • Money growth, stocks, and the dollar bottom and the yield curve begins to steepen before the end of this phase. The Fed lets the inter-bank rate fall and attempts to stimulate the growth rate of liquidity to cushion the banking system from further deteriorating economic conditions. This action sets the stage for the next pick up in business activity. This is the time when the business cycle enters Phase 1. • Inflation, commodities, bond yields, and short-term interest rates continue to decline. Investors must recognize that trends in the financial markets are the same as when the economy is in a re-
than our parents, they, too, will have that same sense of uniqueness. But in the end, homeownership will always be preferable to renting, and raising a family with safety and stability will always be desirable; no matter how they get to that end. So put your fears to rest and know that human nature does not change in a generation or several generations. It is just how they travel to their destinations seems a bit odd to the previous generation. That is how is always has been and will be!
Bruce Nemovitz is a Senior Real Estate Specialist, as well as Certified Senior Advisor. Bruce has sold residential homes in the four county Milwaukee-Metro areas for 35 years. He has published a book called “Moving in the Right Direction�, A Senior’s Guide to Moving and Downsizing. Bruce has just written his second book for the children of seniors, “Guiding Our Parents in the Right Direction�, Practical Advice about Seniors Moving from the Home They Love. This book is now available at www.GuidingOurParents.com. Past articles about moving and downsizing and other important information can be found at www.BrucesTeam. com. Bruce received the 2010 “Realtor of the Year� from the 3,800 membership of the GMAR (Greater Milwaukee Association
cession or in a growth recession. In a recession, the economy shrinks. In a growth recession, the economy grows below potential. This is the main reason why we feel market trends have been related to growth rates rather than levels of economic activity. SUMMARY As the business cycle moves slowly through the various phases, investors need to re-balance their portfolio to take advantage of the opportunities offered by the next phase of the business cycle. Because of the uncertainties involved in recognizing new trends, adjustments to the portfolio should be made gradually and slowly. Investors should not think in terms of “buying� or “selling,� rather “increasing� or “decreasing� a position in their portfolio. My recommendation: if you are doing your own investing learn how the business cycle works, and if you don’t want to spend the time to learn how the cycle works use an investment advisor to guide you. If you would like an opinion on where we are at in the business cycle, and how I feel your portfolio should be positioned, call Brad Olson, President of Oak Tree Financial Services, at 262649-9202, or email me at brad@otfsllc. com.
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The lights are still shining brightly at SSA BY TOM MARGENAU
About a month ago, I wrote a column about possible declining service at the Social Security Administration. I pointed out that I get frequent emails from readers who complain about overflowing waiting rooms, generally unpleasant surroundings, and overall poor service following a visit to the Social Security office. And I get many more emails complaining about the service, or rather lack of good service, provided at SSA’s 800 number. But at the same time, I get occasional emails describing a positive experience with SSA. Still, the condemnations far outweigh the compliments. And then I got an email from a former SSA colleague who recently retired. Sadly, he lambasted his former fellow employees. He told me, “Tom, the lights have gone out at SSA.” That troubled me. So I decided to poll my readers. I asked people to share their experiences when dealing with SSA -- good or bad, or in between. And you responded! I got hundreds of reports. And to be truthful, I stopped reading them after
I got to email number 200. I decided that was a good enough sample for my very unscientific survey. And here are the results. I’m pleased to report that the lights are still on at the Social Security Administration. The favorable reports far outweighed the unfavorable ones -- by a wide margin. Of the 200 responses I tabulated, 178 reported generally positive interactions with the agency, while just 22 had gripes of one sort or another. I’ll spend the rest of this column sharing some of your comments. Here is a typical report from one reader. “My experience with SSA has been nothing but outstanding. From the time I registered for Medicare at age 65 (5 years ago) to the initiation of my Social Security benefits this past May, I’ve dealt with pleasant and knowledgeable people.” And one more: “My wife and I have both retired in the last 5 years. Service from our local Social Security office has been OUTSTANDING! They have made suggestions about spousal benefits and delays in taking benefits we would never have consid-
ered without their advice. They helped in mitigating Medicare premium penalties that could have arisen from onetime retirement payouts. Professional, proactive, compassionate! I give an A+ rating to those folks!” One reader even mentioned getting a Social Security clerk who was “young and fun and really knew her stuff.” It’s not too often that you hear government clerks described as “fun!” One reader experienced the good and bad. When she lived in one part of the country, she went to her local office and found “long, long wait lines, hard institutional chairs, and no one to help check us in. When they finally waited on me, they couldn’t find me in the system. Any time I went there, I hated it.” Then she moved to another part of the country and found the local Social Security office to be “a pleasant place with very helpful people.” She described it as a “night and day experience.” There were mixed reactions to 800 number service. More than a few people complained about long wait times on hold. One reader described it as a “black hole.” Yet the majority of folks
praised the service they got once they were connected to an SSA rep. One reader called the help she got very professional and she said applying for her Social Security benefits “was the easiest thing I have ever done.” Yet another reader relayed how easy it was to apply for benefits and complimented the agent who helped him. He called it “incredible service.” SSA’s online services tended to get very favorable reviews. In fact, of the 200 responses I read, only two reported having issues with the website, www.socialsecurity.gov. I don’t want to paint too rosy a picture of SSA services and give the impression that everyone was pleased with the treatment they got. Again, about 10 percent of my respondents were unhappy. But one thing I gathered from my survey responses was that folks who had gripes about SSA services tended to be those who had complicated claims issues or problems with their benefits.
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There is a strong link between faith and health BY DR. DAVID LIPSCHITZ
For the past 50 years, significant research has focused on the strong link between faith and health. Studies have shown that those who believe in a higher power and that “God is on their side” tend to be healthier, have a lower risk of disease and, most importantly, should they become ill, tend to recover more quickly, spend less time in the hospital and have a lower complication rate. Studies have also shown that a concerted effort to meet the spiritual needs of patients undergoing treatment for a serious illness leads to shorter hospital stays and better outcomes. This research, done with the Veterans Affaires Health System, indicated that not only was health improved, but cost savings were substantial. Most health care providers believe that it is inappropriate for them to discuss issues of faith with their patients. There is concern that this may imply a wish to impose their beliefs on those of their patient. This view is changing. Studies have shown that in the appropriate setting, virtually all patients welcome a discussion of faith with their physician. This particularly applies to the annual physical and care during a serious or life-threatening illness. After some thought, the approach I use is simply to ask the patient “Is religion important in your life?” In the most religious of nations, the answer is almost always yes. But to me, it does not matter whether the answer is yes or no, whether the patient is devout, an agnostic or atheist. Because the impact of faith on health is not related to what religion or denomination you belong to, whether you attend religious services or not, but rather on being spiritual. And I have yet to identify anyone, good or bad, who does not believe he is a spiritual human being. And the elements of spirituality that link to health are as follows: First, seek peace. A stressful and unhappy life leads to illness. Stress is a major contributor to heart disease, high blood pressure, cancer, depression and obesity. Living a stress free, happy and purposeful life prolongs life expectancy.
Second, have faith. Not only faith in a higher power but faith in yourself and in the goodness of others. Third, be hopeful. Have more hope that the future will be better, our lives richer and our bodies healthier. Should you become ill, simply being hopeful can be a key element to responding to treatment. Next, have more love. More than anything, love is the essence of spirituality and the key to longevity. Love assures a better and longer life. Men who are in long-standing, loving, intimate and monogamous relationships live 10 years longer than those who are not. While women in relationships do not get quite as large a benefit, they live an average of three years longer. Love is not relegated only to the realm of intimate relationships. Love can be expressed in many ways: between parent and child, student and teacher, doctor and patient, family, friends and community. Without love, there is no life. A central component of every faith is to be charitable and more giving. Volunteering 14 hours a week (at any age) prolongs life for five years. Giving your time or money to good causes is an insurance policy to a longer life. Research shows that the more you give in relation to what you have, the greater the benefit. A man of faith once told me that if you are unwilling to give, you cannot receive. Give to others and we all benefit. Finally, remember forgiveness. The willingness to forgive others and ask for forgiveness in return may be the most powerful link between spirituality and health. Most of us have great difficulty with forgiveness and it requires work. But, bearing a grudge and carrying the weight of unresolved conflict is a heavy burden to bear. It weighs on your heart and mind, affecting more than just friendships. Dr. David Lipschitz is the director of the Dr. David Health and Wellness Center in Little Rock.
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Today, it is not your Grandparent’s cataract surgery
Patients used to dread hearing that they had cataracts, but with all the advancements in the last twenty years, we now have many who are thrilled when they need surgery. Mike Jacobs, longtime Milwaukee TV News Anchor states, “I had cataract surgery in my left eye a few years ago and am extremely happy with the results. This will sound unusual, but I’m so pleased with my improved vision that I’m actually hoping to develop a cataract in my right eye.” Today’s cataract surgery is considered to be one of the safest and most successful procedures performed in medicine. Now, a technological breakthrough with femtosecond laser
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normal part of the aging process, most people will develop cataracts if they live long enough. There is no medical treatment to reverse or prevent the development of cataracts. Once they form, the only way to see clearly again is to have them removed and replaced with artificial intraocular lenses called IOLs. IOLs are available with optics providing a wide range of visual clarity and focusing capability. “Our goal is to give patients the best overall quality of post-operative vision with an implant that is best suited for their lifestyle’s visual needs,” said Dr. Peter Foote. In addition to clearing a person’s clouded vision, cataract surgery can also correct pre-existing nearsightedness, farsightedness and astigmatism. Basic IOLs can correct nearsightedness or farsightedness but for patients with significant astigmatism, an advanced astigmatism correcting “Toric” IOL is needed to provide clear vision after cataract surgery. “For patients who present with mild to moderate astigmatism, we can also use the femtosecond laser to make microscopic incisions in the outer margins of the cornea to treat their astigmatism,” states Dr. Nicholas Frame. “For patients who want a broad range of clear vision from near to distance, a Multifocal IOL is also available. These options are especially beneficial for patients who want to reduce or eliminate their need for glasses after cataract surgery.” During cataract surgery, the femtosecond laser is also used to perform several of the most critical steps traditionally done manually by the surgeon.
First, the laser creates extremely fine, stair-step incisions that are so precise they seal themselves without the need for sutures. The laser also creates a round opening in the lens membrane called a “capsulotomy” allowing cataract removal and exact placement of the IOL. Additionally, the laser softens the cataract so it can be gently aspirated from the eye. This allows the procedure to be less traumatic to the eye and results in less inflammation. The decisions about which IOL and type of cataract surgery (laser vs. manual) patients want are very important and will affect how they will see for the rest of their lives. We spend a lot of time making sure every one of our patients understands their IOL options and the benefits of laser assisted cataract surgery. Dr. Jason Edmonds is a comprehensive ophthalmologist at Milwaukee Eye Care Associates and specializes in cataract, cornea, and refractive surgery. For over eighty years, the doctors at Milwaukee Eye Care Associates have helped set the standard in cataract and lens replacement surgery. Their tradition of eye care excellence continued with the introduction of Laser Assisted Cataract Surgery in May of 2015. If your vision is getting worse or if you think you might have a cataract, contact them at 414-271-2020 or visit www.milwaukeeeyecare.com.
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KILLING TIME continued from page 4A
There are many different heat sources. The one we least want is to be “hot under the collar.” a a a a Charles Browne, in the mid1860’s, suggested that everyone live within their means even if they had to borrow money to do it. a a a a We’ve heard that even if you intend to just waste the day away, why not arise early so you can accomplish it in greater time? a a a a I recall our planting of potatoes on St. Patrick’s Day as the Irish thought that spuds planted that day would be large and juicy. Thank goodness that I won’t challenge that saying, as I have not a garden. a a a a March is expected to come in like lion and go out this year like a lamb. But whatever are the odds on that in Las Vegas? a a a a Is it not such a miraculous change that Spring brings us every year? Rejoice and be glad! Easter Sunday will be March 27. a a a a Josh Billings was a living person in the 19th century. Josh supposedly said that a man without a wife might as well spend his time alone playing checkers. a a a a How can it be true that every mother gives birth to the most beautiful baby ever born? a a a a Professional golfer John Daly joins the Senior Tour this year. We still recall Daly hitting a ball into a small lake at the Milwaukee Open after which about six or seven boys jumped in to retrieve the club that momentarily followed the ball. Will his bad habits follow him as he competes with seniors? He’s only made less than 30 cuts in the last 70 competitions.
a a a a We have been told that the worst waste of a grown man’s breath could easily be giving advice to a somewhat wild son. Thank goodness that our boys were mild-mannered and well behaved. a a a a With everything that is going on lately as far as theft of privacy, bank data, etc., I’d recommend you never fill in those vacant spaces for Social Security numbers unless mandated to do so by law. a a a a Ted Williams, then retiring in 1960 from starting for the Boston Red Sox, hit a homerun in his very final time at bat. What a way to enter retirement! Of course, the general manager of the Denver Broncos, John Elway, in his last game, threw passes for 336 yards and was the Super Bowl most valuable player. a a a a At what age does the phrase “old enough to know better” begin? a a a a Donald Trump, the GOP presidential hopeful, never has told us how much of the free stuff we get from government, is paid for with his taxes. a a a a I thank the good Lord that I have not wandered into the Wonder Years’ wondering where my glasses are, if I took my pills this morning, where I left my phone, where I parked my car and so on. a a a a I just filed my tax return. I was reminded once again that retirement wages do not have a minimum. But why does it cost so much to have a tax helper tell that to you?
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Moving on
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: Your situation is hardly uncommon. Moving on after a significant loss can seem insurmountable, but it’s important for you to pursue your happiness. Ultimately, your children should be happy for you, even as they also still miss their mother. Although you’ve suffered a great loss, recognize that you aren’t the only one to lose your wife. Your children may process their grief differently, and you should bolster each other through hard times. Remember that you care for each other and wish for each other’s happiness. Your children, especially daughters, may feel like your girlfriend is replacing their mother, and it’s important to recognize their grief, too. As always, the most important thing is communication. Prioritize your own happiness, but not at the expense of your existing relationships. Tell your family about your new relationship and why it’s important to you, but let them voice their opinions. The biggest issue will likely be integrating your girlfriend into your existing routines, especially around holidays. Relationships always involve compromise, so you need to balance the needs of your children and your girlfriend. Make your children know how important they are without sacrificing your positive momentum.
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friend to invite her to lunch. She told me she couldn’t because she was busy working on her ethical will. I have a will and a trust, but I didn’t know what she was talking about. What is an ethical will?
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: Ethical wills are self-written documents in which individuals express their personal feelings about their experiences, wishes and hopes for the future. They also discuss their love for their families. The ethical will is not binding and can be written and changed at any age. Most wills are positive and recreate many of the happiest times and events in their lives. They detail the miracle of their children’s births; explain why gifts are given or not given; apologize for certain actions they chose; or express their regrets for not having fulfilled desires and hopes. Paragraphs are filled with loving blessings about how fortunate they were to have their spouses and children in their lives. Writers often find these wills therapeutic when they express their thankfulness for their lives. Many writers choose to send a copy of their wills to other family members. Others simply put the original in a place where it can be found later. An ethical will can nurture your relationship with your family after you are no longer with them. Doug Mayberry makes the most of life in a Southern California retirement community. Contact him at deardoug@msn.com. Betty is a friend of Doug Mayberry, whom she helps write this column. To find out more about Doug Mayberry and read features by other Creators Syndicate writers and cartoonists visit the Creators Syndicate website at www.creators.com.
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ANNIE’S MAILBOX(R)
Distance grew after grandkids BY KATHY MITCHELL AND MARCY SUGAR
Dear Annie: I realize that this is a common issue, but I could still use some advice. When my son first married, his wife was loving and involved with the family. When the babies were born, we continued a warm relationship. Now that their children are older, however, our daughter-in-law is cold and distant, and she is not interested in interacting with our extended family. She grew up in a troubled family and seemed very happy to join ours. But not anymore. We live nearby and other than chance meetings, occasional help with the children and family holidays, we seldom see my son. We were told early on that we were not to visit unannounced, and we never have. If we didn’t attend the grandchildren’s school functions, we would never see them. It seems that our daughter-in-law just doesn’t like us and wants minimal contact. Are we asking too much? Are we living in the past? Is there anything that can be done to improve the situation? You’ve advised parents in our situation to find other interests. I think
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that if the young couples would imagine our situation in their own future, they might realize the extent of their hurtful behavior. -- Crying Mother Dear Mother: You are right that this is, unfortunately, a problem that many parents have. We don’t know why your daughter-in-law is behaving differently. She may have her own emotional issues that prevent her from having a healthy relationship with you. She may have been putting on a show for the past several years and doesn’t want to do it anymore. You may be behaving in a way that seems fine to you, but is annoying to her. You are not asking too much, but you might consider readjusting your expectations. Do not criticize or assign blame. That will only make the situation worse. You can ask your son whether there is something you can do to help smooth over the relationship, and then do it. You can see whether your son will bring the kids over without his wife so she can get a break and you can spend time with them. Or you can accept that this is how it is, being grateful that you get to see the family on holidays and at school events, and
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STEVE DRYER “It’s nifty being 50!” according to Steve Dryer of Pewaukee. Dryer, the president of Bank Mutual Financial Group, celebrated age 50 with his family and a cake full of candles. This laid-back, outdoor enthusiast enjoys going to Three Lakes, Wisconsin, in Northern Wisconsin with his family and friends.
In fact, it is his dream, to own the Three Lakes ice cream store someday, citing green tea ice cream as his favorite flavor. Over the years, Dryer, a self-proclaimed basketball superstar, has volunteered much of his time coaching his three children and their teams in basketball. Hobbies include working out, karaoke, playing with his dog, boating, comedy, golf and going to sporting events, especially Packer games. Dryer, who doesn’t take life too seriously, admits that being married to his high school sweetheart, Jayna, was one of the smartest decisions he has ever made.
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involving yourself in things that will bring you peace. Dear Annie: I read the letter from “Fed Up,” who objected to people with buckets asking for money to help send their kids’ ecology class to Honduras. As a teacher, I sponsored many clubs and teams. We did do outside fundraisers for charities where my students held buckets at the intersections in town and raised thousands of dollars. Although we didn’t bucket-beg for our own activities, I understand why they are so common now. With recent tax cuts, schools have less money for optional activities, such as band trips, choral productions and academic competitions. When you do
a fundraiser through the school, like selling candy, the price of the item has to be inflated to allow a profit margin. With a bucket campaign, the group gets 100 percent of all donations. Your advice was good. If you don’t support the activity, keep your windows up and drive on by. -- M Annie’s Mailbox is written by Kathy Mitchell and Marcy Sugar, longtime editors of the Ann Landers column. Please email your questions to anniesmailbox@creators.com, or write to: Annie’s Mailbox, c/o Creators Syndicate, 737 3rd Street, Hermosa Beach, CA 90254.
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15 years at Miller Park; Where has the time gone? “Take me out to the ball game, Take me out with the crowd, Buy me some peanuts and Cracker Jack, I don’t care if I ever get back.” It’s an odd quirk, but have you ever noticed how when you’re waiting for someone who’s late or in an activity you don’t particularly like that a period of 15 years can seem almost interminable? Yet at other times, it can whiz by so quickly we don’t realize it until it’s gone. For example, the first Major League game at Miller Park. Doesn’t it seem like only yesterday? It was the Milwaukee Brewers’ Opening Day in 2001. In case you’ve forgotten, it was exactly 15 years ago this coming April 6. It was a highly important occasion, not only here but nationally as well, as evidenced by the fact that President George Bush came here specifically for the game. It was the first time in history that a U.S. President, while still in office, came to Wisconsin for a sporting event. Bush was joined by Major League Baseball Commissioner Allan “Bud” Selig and more than 42,000 happy fans. The Brewers did their part in making it a great success by beating the visiting Cincinnati Reds 5-4. Actually that opening day had originally been scheduled for the previous year, something else that has slipped from most people’s minds. During construction work in the summer of ‘99 everything came to a glaring halt when a huge erection boom collapsed, killing three workers in the process. But when the stadium did open in 2001, it became the darling of fans, not only in the Milwaukee area, but everywhere. Attendance for the season, 2,811,041, shattered the all-time record for the city. And as noted, fans came from afar to see the wondrous new edifice. More than 67 percent of that attendance total came from outside the Milwaukee area. Many things don’t change in a decade and a half. Going to a Brewers game at Miller Park always makes for an enjoyable afternoon or evening, for all ages. We take it for granted here, but our baseball stadium is the envy of fans from every other Major League city, especially in the Midwest. Check
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By Jack Pearson it out. In Chicago, for both the Cubs and the White Sox, in Minneapolis, St. Louis, Detroit, Cleveland, Cincinnati and Pittsburgh, when its freezing cold or raining, the games are canceled, or it they’re not, the fans sit, suffering in their seats, shivering or wet or both. None of those cities have domed stadiums where its always dry and warm within. Did you know that there has never been a game at Miller Park, 1,215 of them, that has ever been canceled because of cold or inclement weather? I know, there was one game canceled in 2004, but that was because of an electrical malfunction, causing problems with the scoreboard and other elements. Conversely, during the summer months when the temperature reaches into the 90s and higher, the roof and side panels can be opened, allowing cool breezes in. It only takes a few short minutes to open and close the roof. It’s an amazing sight in itself, when that gigantic roof moves across the sky, no matter how many times you’ve watched it. There have been many changes and replacements over the years, both in the stadium itself, and with the hundreds of people who work within it. The original scoreboard has been changed twice. The huge new one is magnificent and has to be seen to be appreciated. It imparts information at the speed of light. Also, added is a ribbon advertising setup that rings the entire inner stadium; new seating areas and new restaurants, new Brewer retail stores. There are new plaques and statues honoring players and others, including the one in honor of Bud Selig, the Brewers founder and original owner. Without him neither the stadium nor the team itself would exist. Over the past winter, the screen behind home plate has been expand-
A picture of the Miller Park interior in 2001. A few changes have been made, as you might discern.
ed and now extends all the way out to the first base and third base areas. This was done to help protect fans from foul balls and bats that have slipped out of a batter’s hands. It’s the changeover in people, however, over those 15 years that is quite astounding. There is not one officer or major executive of the team, not one member of the coaching staff including the manager, or one player who was on the team in 2001 who is still with the organization. Do you remember who was the Brewers’ president and chief executive officer back in 2001? If your answer included the word “Selig,” you’re half right. It was not Bud Selig, the aforementioned founder and long time president and CEO. In 2001, he was no longer the owner of the team because he had taken over as Commissioner of Major League Baseball. The president of the Brewers was Wendy Selig-Prieb, his daughter. Ms. Selig-Prieb didn’t have the job simply because she was the boss’s daughter. She’d been involved with the team ever since she was a child; she was a practicing attorney (graduate of Marquette Law School) and had worked in the front office since 1982. In 2001, by the way, she was the only female CEO in the Major Leagues and was the sec-
ond youngest. She was and is married to Laurel Prieb, then the Brewers’ vice president – marketing. One player on that 2001 Brewers team who had one of the greatest hitting seasons, for a Milwaukee batter ever was first baseman Richie Sexson, yet few fans today recall him. Sexson walloped 45 home runs that year, which tied for the all-time Brewer mark by Gorman Thomas, and had 125 runs batted in, only one under the mark set by Cecil Cooper. And at six feet seven, he was also one of the tallest Brewers ever. Besides Sexson, other hitting standouts on that 2001 Brewers team included crowd favorite Geoff Jenkins. In addition to his batting accomplishments, another reason for his popularity was his resemblance to Green Bay Packers star quarterback Brett Favre. Jenkins could have been one of the best Brewers hitters ever if he could have stayed healthy. He was always getting injured. In 2001, he had nine homers and 23 RBIs in his first 25 games before straining his shoulder. He still had fairly good numbers and finished with 20 round trippers and 63 runs batted in, but played in only 105 of the team’s 162 games. Another Brewer who had problems staying in one piece long was infielder Mark
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Loretta. Despite breaking a bone in his foot, he still led the team in batting average with a .289 mark, but was on the injured list for a third of the season. So many things can slip from our memory in just 15 years. For example, do you remember who the general manager was for the Brewers in 2001? Who the field manager was? Who the Brewers starting pitcher for the ’01 home opener was? Who the catcher was? Who the home plate umpire was? Who the media relations director was? What the Brewers won-loss record was on opening day at Miller Park in 2001? The answers are Dean Taylor, Davey Lopes, Jeff D’Amico, Henry Blanco, Bruce Froemming, Jon Greenberg, 0-4. (As to that last one, you probably assumed the record had to be 0-0, as it
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was the first game of the season. But in 2001, the Brewers opened the season in Los Angeles and then played three games in Cincinnati before coming back home, and they lost all four.) Enough of the past; this is now. Milwaukee Brewers’ Opening Day is on Monday, April 4. Spring has returned, and so has baseball. What else could you want? President George Bush and Brewers founder Allan “Bud” Selig shared the honors of throwing out the first pitch for the opening game.
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Scooping the big boys
In 2001, the Brewers’ top slugger was Richie Sexson, who walloped 45 home runs to lead the team.
It is virtually unheard of for a small, local magazine to beat the big daily newspapers and television stations on a major news story. But that’s exactly what happened back in April of 1991 with the first story and architect’s rendition of the eagerly awaited new Major League baseball stadium for Milwaukee. The story and the artwork appeared in Exclusively Yours Magazine. The feature had originated during an interview by the EY editor with Allan “Bud” Selig, who then was still the owner and president of the Brewers. The story was intended to be a biography of Selig and his exceptional career. But during the interview, the editor noticed a drawing of the proposed new stadium on Selig’s desk, and inquired about it. When Selig told him what it was, the editor asked if
he could make a copy of it and use it in a story in EY. “Well, you’re the first writer to have asked me about it,” Selig said, “so sure, why not? Go ahead and run it.” The next month, when the magazine came out with the story and the rendition of the stadium you can be sure there were consternation and a few choice profanities in the editorial offices of those papers and television stations. It took almost ten years, but the stadium, which later was named Miller Park, became reality and has become the pride of the city and state. That EY editor retired a few years later. He still writes, however, such as the Miller Park story in this paper.
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WE SAW YOU AT . . .
The Great Lakes Pet Expo BY MARGARET PEARSON
It wasn’t just your regular dog show. This year’s Expo focused on the proper care and training for your pet. The event was held at State Fair Park and included more than 200 exhibits. It was conducted by the Alliance of Wisconsin Animal Rehoming Efforts. The major sponsor was the Wisconsin Veterinary Referral Center. A few of the canines and their owners included:
Brian Wahlen of Brown Deer and his two English bulldogs, Winnie and Daisy.
Chat Flinz and Maria Poavic of Kenosha, with Hazel. Sandy Krispps of Verona and Kelly Uter of Madison with their cavalier spaniels, Ryder and Maggie. Ed Hamshire of Menomonee Falls, Bob Schwinn of Chicago and their golden retrievers, Haley and Sam.
David Secor of West Allis and his English pointer, Cash.
Jean Huber-Tyryfter of Milwaukee and her Peekaboo, Elfie.
Sally Anschuetz of Milwaukee and Judy with Gregg Gifford of Jackson.
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MEYER continued from page 1A Dan Mayer
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Meyer is the publisher and owner of what is now called BizTimes Milwaukee. The BizTimes, with its bi-weekly, magazine-format, print edition also has an online presence keeping its readers up-to-date with twice-daily e-news blasts and three weekly e-newsletters covering nonprofits, real estate and manufacturing. Meyer, born, raised and educated in Milwaukee, knows his market. With a background in sales and marketing, Meyer saw an opportunity. “I felt there was a niche that could be better served.” So barely into his thirties, Meyer started the business publication that focused on small to medium-sized, closely held businesses in our community examining industry trends, best practices and operational insights. “We want to help area business owners and executives run and grow their companies.” Meyer knows firsthand how to grow a company. He started with a business partner and a few employees. Within five years, Meyer bought out his partner. Today, BizTimes has 16 employees. Although not considered a family business, Meyer’s wife, Kate, comes in and helps out on occasion. Is Meyer an entrepreneur at heart? Maybe. “Sometimes you’re forced into it,” he said, referring to his unexpected departure from the Milwaukee Business Journal in 1994. “An entrepreneur looks to see if a service or product can be provided -- and make a profit. When you start a business, you don’t know what you don’t know.” Yes, admittedly, there was a learning curve. But at 54, Meyer continues to learn as he expands and grows the publication’s multi-media platforms. Businesses, as well as their leadership and employees, need to be nimble to navigate the changing seas of the market. Few industries have been changed so drastically by the Internet as publishing, which is why the BizTimes is involved in nearly 20 events each year that focus on business-related areas such as real estate, healthcare, finance and mergers and acquisitions. Its annual BizExpo conference is the largest of its events. “Publications provide content and information, and connect readers and advertisers,” Meyer said. “Events are a live version of editorial content. It’s a one-on-one educational
experience between the attendee and the exhibitor at the event.” At the merger and acquisition events, the BizTimes reporters speak with attendees and exhibitors. For company owners, the hot topic is always about the best time to sell the companies they have nurtured. “Business owners always want one more year,” Meyer said. Companies that took a hit in the recession have owners who want more time to recoup those losses. “For owners, it’s easier not to think about selling or leaving the company they’ve built. Maybe they didn’t plan for it, or they wonder what they would do with their time.” The age of 65 is no longer the milestone to retirement. “No, we are seeing people retire in their 50s, 60s and 70s.” Then there are those who never want to retire. No one wants to become irrelevant as they face the end of a career. As employees age out of the workforce or business owners sell their companies, Meyer said remaining relevant is a mindset, too. “You can sell your company and stay on as a consultant or take your talents into the community. If you were a banker, sit on the finance committee of a non-
profit.” Covering nonprofit organizations in the community is a part of the BizTimes lexicon. “It’s been very gratifying to run this publication and to cover nonprofits that impact our community,” Meyer said. And admits, there are ulterior motives. “We are invested in the health of the community. We want to elevate it and help to grow the region, promote businesses and facilitate commerce.” Journalism is more important than ever, Meyer said. “With the Internet, anyone can be a publisher. We need to make people understand the difference between content and content that’s independent, credible and true.” So much has changed in the more than 20 years since Meyer saw a niche worth his considerable time and treasure. The workforce has changed, too. “We are seeing companies that have three to four generations of employees. Companies that have a dynamic and engaged workforce and foster community-minded thinking will retain talent.” Also, leadership or owners of these companies may have an easier time transitioning because of their company’s connection with the community. They may continue to foster those connections and lend their tal-
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ow would a person develop into a busy, successful and honored accounting executive as an adult when his early formative years found him playing mobster in dad’s downtown Oconomowoc bar room as both dad and mom were busy tending to customers? The son of saloon keeper George Habib Herro, this story is about the son, H. Victor Herro, now moving into his eightieth year and still active in the accounting world in his son’s Germantown practice, George Herro, CPA. George, of course, learned the ropes, along with his minor partner sister, Jenny, from the old boy, who has worn most of the numbers off of the keyes from at least half dozen adding machines in his near 60 year career. Even before we get into Victor and various phases of his interesting life, let’s tell you that his dad came from Lebanon through Syria and settled into Chicago where he developed a route of tobacco and various other products that took him from his Chicago home base to nearby cities and villages. Once in Oconomowoc in 1911, George Herro decided this was to be home. He opened the Palace Cafe there in 1915 and operated it for 57 years as a cafe, a tavern and, during Prohibition, as a sweets’, ice cream and candy shop among other things. This “other thing” was the sale of Oconomowoc-made White Lightning,” an illegal booze that we’re told might either make the hair stand tall on the top of the imbiber’s head or curl his teeth as it was sipped. This was during some if not all the years during Prohibition. Victor didn’t enter the picture until 1936 and it was when he was about eight or nine years of age that
the lad could not only wear a small apron tied around his waist, but he could carry a tray of glasses to customers, especially the ones assembled in the back booth where they could, as necessary, keep watch on both the front and back doors. You see, these customers were among Chicago’s legendary gangsters, who liked to get away to their Oconomowoc hideout, a nice home nestled away from the road and among the trees while fronting on peaceful Oconomowoc Lake. Victor only recalls them as “Cooney Coctails, “ but dad perhaps was serving up a specialty of the Palace, martinis with olives, of course. Such was young Victor’s introduction to the world of work and also to the nice tips that such delivery of unspilled cocktails brought to the young man. Notorious in Chicago, in Oconomowoc they were affable, laughing and still people to be watched carefully. They talked with Victor, the cute little waiter, and watched him as he and his a bit older brother peeled potatoes and stood on upside down wooden soda cases as they cleaned and filled the Palace’s steam table. Now, with a new hip and a new knee and deft fingers due to his relaxation via card playing, Victor still could perhaps carry a tray of glassware, but only as a helpmate of his wife, Pat, in their West Bend home. Victor’s dad and mother met when dad was transporting a load of Oconomowoc-made illegal booze to Chicago. Dad Herro had known his wife-to-be’s father in Lebanon. Actually, they were fourth cousins. As Victor told about his dad’s trips to Chicago, he recalled dad’s telling him of his being accosted by the local booze barons there and threat-
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ened at gunpoint. The notorious Al Capone came to his rescue. He told the “boys” to let him go. It seems Capone had a soft spot in his heart for George as Herro had arranged for surgery in the then Summit Hospital near Okauchee as Capone had an appendicitis attack while at the Palace Cafe. As the story goes, mobsters stood guard at the hospital during the surgery and his time of recuperation. Obviously, even back then, one good turn deserved and brought another. So what’s the rest of the interesting story on Victor Herro, who went on to get an accounting degree in 1954 and became an accountant for American Oil Co in New York. After residing in Manhattan for two years, Herro then took what would be an overseas position with RCA Service Co. He had visualized being sent to Saudi Arabia, where he would the have been close to the family’s roots. But, instead, Victor was assigned to Thule, Greenland, where he was to teach a certain course to military personnel. This is where this is interesting. Before leaving for Greenland, Herro was sworn into the U.S. Air Force as a major at Mc-
Guire AFB. He was told his rank was so the military personnel there would have respect for him and what he was teaching to them. Upon leaving that post 18 months later, Herro’s air force career ended. At Thule during these Korean and Cold War periods of time, the U.S. Air Force had a SAT base as well as a huge IBM complex to scan the skies. About 5,000 military personnel were stationed there at that time. Today, at age 80 with the mind of a much younger person, when Victor Herro plays his cards, as he holds them, around the table, they fold them. An enthusiastic poker player to this day, Victor admits that games are becoming difficult to find so he works way too much for the ordinary 80-year-old. He has success, a sharp mind, a kind tongue and gentle ways; we suspect that he could easily rub elbows with positive or negative people and always come out with a royal flush.
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March 9, 2016 Festival of Flowers Waukesha Floral & Greenhouse, 319 S. Prairie Ave., Waukesha This lunch or wine & cheese event benefits Interfaith Senior Programs and features beautiful floral demonstrations. The luncheon has two seatings 11 am or 1 pm and will be catered by Rochester Deli. The wine and cheese tasting has a 5:30 pm seating and will be hosted by Crush Wine Bar with specialty cheeses from Brennan’s Market. There is limited seating so early registration is recommended by calling Margaret at 262-522-2409. March 10, 8:30 - 10 am Senior Breakfast: Maximize Your Medicare Benefits Treiber Conf. Center – Community Memorial Hospital Campus, W180 N8085 Town Hall Road, Menomonee Falls Learn more about your Medicare benefits and options! This presentation will provide an overview of Medicare Parts A, B, C and D as well as supplemental insurance and how they all fit together. Important information will also be shared about special programs for Medicare beneficiaries with limited income that may help pay for Medicare costs and Medicare Prescription Drug Coverage. The $4 fee includes breakfast and may be paid at the door. Call 414-8058-3666 to register. March 12, 5 – 9 pm Pullin’ o’ the Green Irish Party Grant Park Club House, South Milwaukee This Irish Party is a fundraiser for the Friends of Grant Park. Tickets are $15, which includes an Irish Dinner and Celtic music by the Garlic Mustard Pickers. Irish beers and Irish Cream are also available for purchase.
March 12, 6:00 - 9:00 NBPCAAA Wine & Beer Tasting New Berlin Community Center 14750 W. Cleveland Ave. New Berlin, WI 53151 Please join the New Berlin Police Citizens Academy Alumni Association for their 2nd Annual Wine and Beer Tasting Event. The Twisted Cork in Muskego hosts this event. They will bring their expertise to not only let you experience the taste of 50 wines and 20 craft beers, but also educate you in the various offerings. There will be wine themed raffles, bottle pull and 50/50 raffle during the evening. All proceeds go to support the New Berlin Police Department. March 12, 9 am – 2 pm Spring Fest – Better Together Hamilton High School, W220 N6151 Town Line Rd, Sussex Join us for this year’s healthy living themed event with a focus on wellness screenings and health education. Free screenings include body fat analysis, spinal stress analysis, blood pressure, bone density, plus chair massages. Outstanding entertainment and demonstrations including: Trinity Irish Dancers, UW Marching Band, Pampered Chef food demo, Strollin’ Colon and more. FREE admission. March 12, 10 am – 4 pm 4th Annual Art in the Burg Cedarburg High School Field House, W68 N611 Evergreen Blvd, Cedarburg Presented by the Cedarburg High School Art Department and Fine Arts Boosters, seventy-five artists from the Midwest will exhibit and sell their original work in many artistic disciplines. The juried art fair includes artists’ one-of-a kind pieces including pottery, glasswork, graphics, fiber art, jewelry, photography, woodworking, wearable art and more. For more information, visit: artintheburg.tumblr. com
March 13, 9:30 am – 1 pm Oconomowoc Winter Farmers Market Oconomowoc Landscape Supply and Garden Center, N68W37850 Highway K, Oconomowoc Greener Oconomowoc and the Oconomowoc Area Chamber of Commerce present this annual event which features 26 vendors who have fresh, locally grown food as well as other handmade products. March 13, 1:30 – 4:30 pm Milwaukee Area Recorder Society (M.A.R.S.) monthly workshop Mount Mary University, 2900 N. Menomonee River Parkway, Milwaukee The local chapter of the American Recorder Society MARS holds workshops for members and new members on the second Sunday of the month. The group meets in room 37 of the lower level. Louise Austin, National Recorder Clinician, is Music Director for the Milwaukee chapter. For more information contact Diane at dkuntzelman@wi.rr.com or by calling 262654-6685. March 14, 3-4:30 pm SPARRK! air Irish Culture Sharon Lynn Wilson Center, 19804 W. Capitol Dr., Brookfield SPARRK! air is a program for caregivers and loved ones with beginning to mid-stage Alzheimer’s disease and other forms of dementia. Participants will observe Trinity Dance Rehearsal and have interactive session with dancers - Irish culture will be discussed - Topped off with Irish coffee & treats. Registration is require, please call 262-549-3348. March 15, 9 am – 3 pm AARP Tax Assistance Brookfield Public Library, 1900 N. Calhoun Road, Brookfield AARP Foundation Tax-Aide offers free, individualized tax preparation for low-to-moderate-income taxpayers – especially those 60 and older. Appointments are REQUIRED. Contact the Adult Reference Desk at 262782-4140, option 1.
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March 17, noon – 1 pm Adult Book Club Delafield Public Library, 500 Genesee St., Delafield Come discuss the book “The Residence” by Kate Andersen Brower. America’s First Families are unknowable in many ways, but no one has insight into their true character like the people who serve their meals and make their beds every day. Full of stories and details by turns dramatic, humorous, and heartwarming, The Residence reveals daily life in the White House as it is really lived through the voices of the maids, butlers, cooks, florists, doormen, engineers, and others who tend to the needs of the President and First Family. March 18, 11:30 am Friday Afternoon Monthly Concert Featuring the Florentine Opera Company Spring Creek Church, N35 W22000 Capitol Drive, Pewaukee The Florentine Opera Company is a leader in Wisconsin’s art community and is the nation’s sixth-oldest opera company. You will delight in the artistry and professionalism of this outstanding performance by their artists. The concert begins at 12:30 pm but there is a pre-show lunch option a homemade lunch served buffet style starting at 11:30, advanced registration is required. Please call Spring Creek Church at 262-695-2211 or email Jan at jatchley@springcreekonline.com. March 18-20 & 23-26 92nd Realtors Home & Garden Show Wisconsin Exposition Center at State Fair Park, 8200 W. Greenfield Ave., West Allis Show-goeers can anticipate a range of home improvement tips and trends from design experts as well as a re-creation of outdoor living spaces designed by some the area’s top landscapers and numerous cooking demos daily. There are more than 350 exhibitor booths that allow attendees to browse the latest interior and exterior products. For admission prices and information, please visit www.mkehgs.com or call 414-778-4929.
March 19 & 20, 1 – 4 pm Maple Sugar Days Wehr Nature Center, Whitnall Park, 9701 W. College Ave., Franklin The event will feature a hike to an old-time sugarin’ camp. Led by a naturalist guide, families will trek through the woodland to the sugar bush, where they’ll see tapped sugar maple trees and taste sap as it drips from a tree. Then, visitors will follow the sweet aroma of maple syrup to the sugarin’ camp, where clear sap is boiled down to form dark syrup. A sugar maker will tell tales of camps long ago. Walks to the camp will last about 45 minutes. Visitors are encouraged to dress in layers and to dress to keep their feet warm. The first tour will start at 1 p.m.; the last tour, 4 p.m. Hikes will go on rain or shine. March 20, 4 – 6 pm Winter Music Series – Peter Mulvey & Bill Camplin Hawks Inn Visitor Center, 426 Wells Street, Delafield Over the past 20 years, Mulvey has pursued a restless, eclectic path as a writer and musician – immersing himself in Tin Pan Alley jazz, modern acoustic, poetry, narrative, and Americana styling. For ticket information
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DEAR ANNIE: All of my life, I’ve heard about the “golden years.” Why are mine only black and gray? I have been married to my husband for 40 years. He has not been sexually capable for half that time. I understand that, but he also does not want to kiss me, hold me, talk to me, go to bed with me or get up in the morning with me. He puts his arm around my shoulders only in church. Everyone in town considers him “Mr. Nice Guy.” He takes care of widows, single women, the older gentleman he works with and our daughter and grandchildren -- particularly the oldest grandson and our only granddaughter. He doesn’t pay much attention to our son. I have retired twice, but being ignored has hurt so much that I
have gone back to work again. I have begged him to talk with me, but he’d rather watch TV. Everyone wants to be special at some time in his or her life, Annie, and I am almost suicidal. I want out. It hurts so much to not be loved that I would prefer to live alone. It’s painful to sit and read, hoping that he will notice me. I know that not all men are like this because I see others kissing and embracing their wives, and I hear their wives talk about their romantic lives. I have been faithful, sharing and supportive for all of these years. I have never asked him for anything. What can I do except to play solitaire and cry? -- A. DEAR A.: Has your husband always been like this? His lack of affection does not necessarily mean that he
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MU Law Students visit Cuba to explore Havana Cuba, back 50-plus years ago when travel was not as quick and easy as it is today, was quite easily accessible TODAY’S as a tourist destination for Americans. TRAVELER After all, this island nation is said to be only 80-plus miles south of the FlorBy Jim McLoone ida Keys. People often fantasize that they can view the lights of downtown the austere economy in CommunisHavana from there. However, with tic Cuba, the electrical power output
Among the sought after and still driven automobiles are the fancy pink Caddy’s from the 1950’s. They have been skillfully repaired and are still in operation in Havana.
is dim at best during certain hours of the day. Cuba was founded as a country in 1868. With Fidel Castro, still alive and mostly behind the scenes, but with his brother in power now, the country is intriguing to say the least. Recently, President Obama’s overtures have lifted the spirits of many Cubans, who now are mostly deprived of U.S. made goods.
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As a country with a nice climate to winter in, Cuba has been through the years a favorite destination for Canadians and many Europeans. Cuba is mostly a Catholic country, but is not necessarily a fervently practicing one. While now somewhat relaxed, the Castros had put the squeeze on the Catholic Church after they assumed power there after the revolution in the middle of the last century. Why is this article being written about Cuba?
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A granddaughter, Elizabeth Herrick, who is a third year student at the Marquette University School of Law, recently was one of a group of 25 students with three legal professors, who broadened their knowledge of foreign peoples, their activities, lifestyles and customs via a five-day tour of this country, with a one day stopover in Miami. The group was mostly busy in Havana, beginning at 8 a.m. each day with a meeting in their hotel, the once quite famous Copacabana. The meetings included arranged speakers such as city dignitaries, diplomats, other government personnel and Cuban journalists. The Marquette group toured much by bus and ferried across Havana Bay to Regla for a visit to a somewhat impoverished area, but still there were no visible street bums, panhandlers, and street women. Regla is an Afro-Cuban working class community. Many recognize it for its hip-hop and jazz. Although the Marquette group didn’t have the opportunity to enjoy the night life there, Ms. Herrick did say fun, entertainment, and great writer Ernest Hemingway-inspired mojitos were enjoyed in night spots near to their hotel, which was situated right along the ocean side of the city. Prices throughout the city for food, drinks and goods were reasonable, but then the stiff Cuban taxes had to be added. And these weren’t easy to swallow. Of course, when you consider that the Cubans have totally free universal health care and pay no fees for education all the way through college, the money for such must come from taxation. Cuba’s technological expertise and use of the most up-to-date indus-
trial and scientific equipment pales by comparison to that in the United States and most European countries. The government owns many of the buildings and also owns the ground on which individuals’ houses are located. Its numerous laws do control much of the business activity. People in Havana can be considered as nice-dressers, wanting to appear in public always wearing their best and with smiles to match. They appear clean despite a shortage of soap in the country and were always eager to meet, greet and converse with the tourists. The latter was something now relaxed as laws in the late 90’s forbid such intermingling. Since tourism is their largest single source of income, most Cubans went out of their way to be nice to and to serve the tourists. Old Havana still is very touristy. It also is said to be very old-fashioned in most of its ways. Ms. Herrick said that Havana was not a dangerous place for tourists. She said they were not at all frightened to walk outside at night, however, she warned that there have been instances of thefts when nice things-jewelry and expensive watches -are flaunted. The Marquette students were each given two bottles of purified water daily and advised against drinking the local water. But there were no indications of any of them becoming ill via the ice cubs in restaurant beverages. As for foods, Ms. Herrick found them average in taste and found plates generally heaped with rice and beans in addition to entrees such as chicken and/or beef. Hygiene seemed to be somewhat lacking. In addition to there being shortages of soap, persons were not to flush toilet paper after usage into the
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The Museo de la Revolucion is in the background of this photo of Elizabeth Herrick and fellow student Charles Fiergola.
toilets, but to place such in canisters for recycling. Would Ms. Herrick go back to Cuba again? “Yes,” she says, “but first there are so many other wondrous and historic places and countries to visit.” General operation of airlines still is not allowed for U.S. citizens traveling for anything other than approved tours, unless family is involved. At time of printing, easier travel is being approved upon.
Ms. Herrick found the Cubans, generally, as nice, considerate people, who appear to be intelligent, fun-loving, diligent working and anxious for the United States to further open the doors in both directions for tourist travel. If there are continuing problems between the two countries, they seemed transparent to Ms. Herrick. The only bottlenecks were the time it took going and coming back through the airports, she said. So what else is new?
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Lent is about more than sacrifice The Lenten season is in full bloom now. With it, our preacher says that each of us should be doing some sort of penance; I added the “some sort” to what he said as penance to some people might just be what is ordinary every day activity for others. The preacher did catch my attention last Sunday when he told us that if we really are frightened by the possibility of going to hell that we should resolve each morning when we awaken to live this day as we would if we knew it was to be the last day of our lives. I guess he believes we then would be able to resist any and all temptations to sin. In addition, he says we should practice glad tidings to all we come into
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By Aunt Emma contact with. Henry was with me at church service, but Pastor Paul was a bit long-winded so Henry not only closed his eyes while Pastor was sermonizing, but also his ears. Lent means many things to as many different people as there are. When I was a little girl on the farm, it meant giving up candy for those
40 days and nights. Also, each year, during the week before Easter, I’d be presented with a little chicken. I did not really look forward to this as I knew that after I had fed and given it much loving care, that the day would come when we would have it for dinner. I generally skipped the meat on that occasion and also the next few days when we had chicken dumpling soup. Now, getting back to this idea of Lent, Giving up candy for 40 days was a mighty tough thing for a kid with a mighty sweet tooth to do. My mom would tell us kids that if we really thought giving up candy for Lent was such a difficult thing to do, how would we like being nailed to a cross? Well, I guess this is enough about Lent. I now try to do positive things and also a bit more praying than I usually do. I certainly was glad, and still am, that I was home in the kitchen that day when young Henry came as a plumber to install new kitchen faucets over the sink. Anyway, mom at that time, was even more than she is now, as some people would call it evangelical. Daddy often said if she hadn’t met and married him and moved to another farm that she might have been an under-the-tent holy roller. I do guess this is where I get my religious views and make a few assertions.
I do know that when we girls do get together as my Henry would probably say, “If you listen to Annie and Ella long enough or seriously, you can’t help but realize that the farmers never spread all that organic compound (Henry called it something else) on the fields to help make them fertile. I didn’t dare tell Henry that Gertie, another one of the girls, sat behind Henry in church last Sunday and, giggling a bit, informed me that Henry has an affliction, HIV. His hair is vanishing. Now, should that be HHHV, not just HIV, but if it was, I guess it might ruin the joke. Ha! I will close this month by quoting Henry who says that if you want something done, ask a man strong in his faith and wisdom to do it. Henry adds that if he does it in haste, chances are good it won’t last long. Now, as I still have you for March, let me honestly tell you that my forefathers didn’t board the Mayflower before it sailed from Europe. They met on the boat. That’s kind of like Henry and me; we met by coincidence if you can call a plumbing job that.
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March Poem This is the first day in the traditional month of March Winds of this month have tendencies in some to parch. Actively, we do serve the living by honoring the dead. We do this even if the effort is such that we only of it read. Having come through another winter, we cherish this award. We survived the worst of weather and have moved forward. Was Mother Nature our recent worst enemy of all? January was cold; February made us slip and fall. Mr. Spring, soon to arrive, will lead us into new things. Even returning birds have bright feathers on their wings. To the last of 2015-16 wintertime, let’s have a song What will be the words? Come now. We can’t go wrong.
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Why not a serenade to window designer Jack Frost? He placed his stamp on many panes without any cost. Now we seek out fancy ways to harness early Spring. Left over stocking stuffers might provide some zing. On-line, off-line, there’s much snooping and hacking. Wouldn’t you sometimes like to do a bit of whacking? Maple trees already are bursting with sugary sap. Brown bears would like a sap drainer’s forest map. May God grant us a blessed 2016 Easter season? Fun, candy and vacations will be part of the reason. As we close for March, we honestly will take flight. No airplanes, of course, but via a homemade kite. Now ask yourself, What have I accomplished this day? Did I leave a drawn map for others to find their right way? We’ll be back in April to plow and sow a farm field To do such, various tools we’ll naturally wield.
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Spring into a new season BY SHARON MOSLEY
There may be a blizzard outside your window, but you can stay warm and toasty inside and still do a little browsing online while you daydream about warmer days ahead ...and a new season of fresh fashion right at your fingertips. Check out some of these spring trends: --IT’S ALL ABOUT LACE. Spring is the perfect time to lace up in dresses, midi skirts, jackets and even shoes and handbags. This airy trend isn’t all sugar and spice. Give the delicate look a little tough chic with a touch of leather.
--BARE THOSE SHOULDERS. The off-the-shoulder tops and dresses are a spring and summer favorite this year. Whether it’s a one-shoulder knit top or a flouncy ruffled dress that slides nonchalantly down your upper arms, the shoulder is the erogenous zone of the season. --WEAR STRIPED ANYTHING. The nautical effect has always been one of spring’s traditional trends in navy and white, but this year stripes go way beyond the classic Breton T-shirt. Think graphic and colorful, even when printed on handbags. --WHIP OUT WIDE-LEG PANTS. We saw them last fall, but expect to see them in even more abundance this
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--DRESS UP THOSE SWEATS. The “ath-leisure” trend is taken to a new level this spring and summer. Those comfy active-wear pieces like sweat shirts, hoodies and track pants are getting a makeover and dressing up... even making an entrance into the office. --ADD A STATEMENT JACKET. The boxy jacket returns for those in-between chilly days in and out of the air conditioning. From military-style aviator bomber jackets to graphic printed knee-length trench coats, a special outerwear piece may be best way to update your basic wardrobe this spring. --SHIMMER AND SHINE. Just because the holidays are over doesn’t mean you have to put the sequins away. This spring and summer, the shine is still bold and bright. The glittering dresses may be in lighter-weight fabrics, but they’re still ready to shimmy into the day or night. Glow on! To find out more about Sharon Mosley, and read features by other Creators Syndicate writers and cartoonists, visit the Creators Syndicate Web page at www.creators.com.
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Tips to save money on beauty and grooming BY MARY HUNT
Whether you want to look good or just to feel better, reaching your goal traditionally comes at a significant cost. But not if you’re a dedicated cheapskate. While medications and beauty products you use must be safe, there’s no reason that you have to pay exorbitant prices to ensure such qualify. Here are some fascinating and functional tips for saving time and stretching costs on everything from deodorant to skin care and more. VISIT THE MEN’S DEPARTMENT. Buy men’s toiletries if you have a choice when it comes to unscented deodorant, shaving foam and hair colorings, for example. Products manufactured specifically for men are significantly cheaper ounce for ounce than those made for women. Go figure. SHAMPOO. With great confidence, you can confidently stop being a shampoo snob. In a Consumer Reports test of 132 name-brand shampoos, the lowly cheap brands from the supermarket rated just as highly as the pricey salon brands. Just make sure you know how to read the product’s list of ingredients. SUNLESS TAN. Smooth baby oil on skin and allow it to penetrate before applying sunless tanning lotion to achieve a more even, lighter tanning effect, especially on elbows and feet. HAIR DYE ALTERNATIVE. Sounds wacky, but bear with me here. As a color pick-up for drab brown hair, rinse it with warm strong, stale coffee. Rinse with cool water. HAIR CONDITIONER. Slather mayonnaise liberally on your hair. Wrap your hair in plastic wrap or a
small plastic bag and heat with a hair dryer. Leave on for 30 minutes. Shampoo and rinse well. This beauty secret is brought to you compliments of a professional cosmetologist’s collection of secret bag of tricks. . MAKEUP REMOVER. You can continue to spend big bucks for brandname pricey make-up removers, or you can save a bundle and use baby wipes. They’re made for sensitive skin and won’t cause dryness or irritation. MAKEUP PRIMER. My new primer is not actually sold as a makeup product, but it is an amazing gel that doubles as a fabulous face primer. You have to trust me on this -- I would not lead you astray. Monistat Chafing Gel is outstanding for this use and outperforms any primer I know of. LIPSTICK PALETTE. Don’t waste the last half-inch of lipstick in the tube. Do what professional makeup artists do. Using an orange stick or other clean implement, transfer all of the product from the bottom of the lipstick tube into one compartment of a compartmentalized pill organizer (the kind with a little compartment for each day of the week, available at the drugstore for less than $2). Use a lipstick brush to apply. As you accumulate other colors, fill the rest of the compartments and soon you will have a portable make-up palette. FACE-LIFT. Here’s how to give yourself an instant “face-lift” and beauty treatment: Mix one teaspoon each of baking soda and olive oil to form a slightly thick paste. Gently massage it into your skin, rinse well and then pat dry.
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reading the cautions on the label. Then try not to think about the rest. Would you like more information? Log on to EverydayCheapskate.com, where this column is archived complete with links and resources for all recommended products and services. Mary invites questions, comments and tips at mary@everydaycheapskate.com, or c/o Everyday Cheapskate, 12340 Seal Beach Blvd., Suite B-416, Seal Beach, CA 90740.
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Family always came first for golfer Burleigh Jacobs BY JACK PEARSON
Whether you’re a golfer or a golf fan or not, you must be aware of the three young headliners in the sport today, Jordan Spieth, Rory McIlroy and Jason Day. Each of them, despite still being in the early 20s in age, already makes millions of dollars a year in prize money, appearances and testimonials, and will undoubtedly make many more millions over the coming years. Can you imagine any of them deciding to retire from the game now,
when just at the beginning of such fantastic careers? Seems like a ridiculous question, doesn’t it? Yet that’s what a young Wisconsin golfer, Burleigh Jacobs, did, way back in the early ‘40s. He did so to be able to spend more time with and support his wife, the former Janet Grede, and their four young children. Time out here for a moment to do a quick perspective of that era as compared with our present one. When I was a youngster, myself, the first professional golf tournament I was ever
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at was the Phoenix, Arizona Open. I think the year was 1946. I was lucky enough to meet and talk to Ben Hogan and his wife, Valerie. During our conversations, she told me that her husband was proud of the fact that he was the top money winner on the PGA tour, and would top the $10,000 mark in total winnings. At the time my own father was making almost as much as that as an insurance salesman. Today’s top winners take home more than a hundred times that. All of which sort of explains why when young Burleigh Jacobs got out of the service in 1945, with a wife and four young children to support, that he made the choice to give up the game, and to get a regular job. Young golfers back then, no matter how good they were as teenagers, had no assurance that they could make a living as a touring pro. Most of the ones who did opt to become touring pros came from affluent families or had sponsors with deep pockets. Can you believe that the leading money winner on the PGA tour in 1946 made as little as an average insurance salesman? So why do I infer that Jacobs was such a good golfer in his early years? To begin with, he is in the Wisconsin State Golf Association Hall of Fame, one of the first golfers from the state to be so honored. Only a smaller percentage of athletes make it into Halls of Fame. From the time he was in his mid-teens until he’d graduated from the University of Wisconsin in Madison and had entered the U.S. Air Force in 1942, only a period of a bit over six years, he had compiled an incredible golfing record. Over those half dozen years he achieved as much or more than most of the other WSGA Hall of Fame recipients had in an entire lifetime. To begin with, the name I used above, Burleigh Jacobs, is not complete. There’s a “Jr.” at the end of it, as his dad had it first. Here are few career highlights of Mr. Burleigh E. Jacobs Jr. • Burleigh E. Jacobs Jr. was born in Milwaukee on February 3, 1920, to Burleigh and Ora Jacobs. They lived in Wauwatosa and also had a daughter, Clara. Burleigh Sr. was the president of the KW Jacobs Cooperage Co., a
Here’s Burleigh Jacobs (seated) today, with his old pal Gene Haas, former Executive Director of the Wisconsin State Golf Association. Both of the two gentlemen are in the WSGA Hall of Fame, Jacobs inducted in 1970, Haas in 1991.
firm started by his father, Kenneth Jacobs. Burleigh Jr. learned to play golf when he was eight when his grandfather took him to his golf club, Lac La Belle CC, and told him that he should learn the game. He took to the sport like the proverbial duck to water. He hit the ball so well that his father, quite impressed, joined Westmoor CC so that young Burleigh could take lessons from the pro there, Burns “Blackie” Nelthorpe. • Although he had been playing competitive golf for only a year, in 1935, at age 15, he shot a then course record 67 at Bluemound Country Club. • A year later, in 1936, he was the runner up in the Wisconsin State Golf Association Junior Championship at North Hills CC. • In 1937, Jacobs was the Wisconsin State High School Champ. • In 1938, Jacobs was 18 and had graduated from high school. He also had won the club championship at Westmoor. Because of that win, Head Pro Nelthorpe, who was also his instructor, entered his young protégé in the National Tournament of Golf Club Champions in St. Augustine, Florida. In his first match, Jacobs beat medalist and two-time winner Carl Dann Jr.
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In 1922 Jacobs had just graduated from the University of Wisconsin. Here he is with the Championship Cup, awarded every year to the winner of the Wisconsin State Golf Association’s Annual Amateur Tournament.
of Orlando. He then fought his way to the finals where he was matched against Frank Strafaci, the 21-yearold National Public Links Champ. Jacobs beat Strafaci on the 39th hole of a scheduled 36-hole match. It was a golfing battle they still talk about. • Later that year, he was the Medalist at the Western Amateur in South Bend, setting the then course record 67. • He also made it all the way to the finals of the WSGA State Amateur Championship, losing to future Hall of Famer Lynford Lardner. • A year later, both Jacobs and Lardner made it to the finals of the same tournament, but this time Jacobs was the winner. Jacobs was 19, the youngest State Amateur winner until that time. • At the University of Wisconsin from 1938 to 1945, he captained the
golf team and once won the Big Ten Championship. At the time the game of golf was not considered as a major sport and thus did not have a coach. After Jacobs arrived the powers that be decided they would have one, but instead of hiring a capable one, they gave the job to the school’s swimming coach to handle in his spare time. He didn’t even play golf. It didn’t seem to bother Jacobs. In addition to leading the team as its captain and being its top player, he also managed to win the Milwaukee District Golf Championship and was the runner-up in the Wisconsin State Open. All of this background has been about Jacobs’ golf career. He was also an A student all through high school and college, and was a fine basketball player. At Wauwatosa High (there was only one high school in the city then) he was the rarest kind of high school
student; outstanding in both academics and athletics. He was the salutatorian of his class and on the National Honor Society. In sports, besides being the best player on the golf team, he was the top scorer and captain of the basketball team. He was 6’1’ tall, which seems a bit small by today’s standards, but back in the ‘30s was above average height. The team was one of the best in the state and in one year took runner-up honors in the state championship. In his first year at the UW, Burleigh made both the golf team and the freshman basketball team. Initially, he seemed to do as well in the classroom. Nevertheless, his mother was concerned and worried that the time required for two sports would affect his studies and their grades. She asked him to give up one of the sports. After thinking about it for a while, he chose to drop basketball. (Had he remained on the team in his junior year he would have been a member of the Badger team that won the NCAA Championship, the only time a Wisconsin team ever to do so.) Jacobs graduated from the UW on June 6, 1942, and left for the U.S. Navy Aviation Supply Corps a week later. That same year he married Janet on November 1 and left for duty in the South Pacific on November 12. No one wasted much time then, there was a war on. When he returned two years later his priorities had changed. He and Janet started a family and he took a job in Iron Mountain running a foundry. From 1942 to 1950, Jacobs played no golf at all. From 1950 on, he played some recreational golf and competed at country clubs where he was a member. His record in country club competition is as phenomenal as was his early career. He won club championships at the Pine Grove CC in Iron Mountain; five at Westmoor CC, and six more at Bluemound CC, the last one in 1965. He was elected to the WSGA Hall of Fame in 1970. His four children are Mary, Bruce, Scott and Bill. Janet’s father ran the Grede Foundries in Milwaukee. In 1960, Burleigh took over the operation. The company remains in the family ownership today and is presided over by one of Burleigh’s sons, Bruce.
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Mary’s marriage name is Mary York and she lives in a beautiful home in Elm Grove, right next door to an equally beautiful home where her dad lives. He lives there all alone now, since year 2000 when his beloved Janet died. They had been married for 58 years. Burleigh turned 96 on February 3. He uses a walker to get around now. I asked him how in the world he managed, and he pointed to the window and replied, “My daughter, right next door.” When I went to his home to interview him and take a picture or two, Gene Haas, the former executive director of the Wisconsin State Golf Association accompanied me, to make introductions and to visit with his old friend. After Burleigh and I had finished our session, he and Gene began reminiscing about old times and the game of golf. I thought they’d talk for five or ten minutes and then we’d leave. I should have brought a tape recorder along. The stories those two swapped back and forth were priceless. I also wished I could have turned the clock back 50 years or so and watched those two play a round. About an hour later, I managed to break it up and we left.
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