Town & Style 8.23.23

Helping Our Region UNITE WITH US!

IN THE

by stephanie wallace

pnc bank

The bank awarded a total of $250,000 in grants to local arts organizations through its PNC Arts Alive initiative. The Black Rep and St. Louis ArtWorks received $75,000, and Opera Theatre of Saint Louis and Dance St. Louis were awarded $50,000. PICTURED: OPERA THEATRE’S PRODUCTION OF COOK SHACK

CONTRIBUTORS

CREATIVE

creative director JULIE M. STREILER

graphic designer CYDNEY MOORE

PHOTOGRAPHY

photographer COLIN MILLER

photographer TIM PARKER

photographer SUZY GORMAN

photographer BILL BARRETT

saint louis fashion fund

The nonprofit welcomed two new board members. Dwight Cater is the founder and creative director of Brainchild Production, and Ted Wight is a global real estate adviser for Dielmann Sotheby’s International Realty.

ethical society

mid rivers

Earlier this month, the society celebrated its 20th anniversary of exploring and enacting ethics, tolerance, compassion and social action. Founding member Dee Meyer created a quilt called “Celebrating Humanism” in honor of the milestone.

greater missouri leadership foundation

The statewide nonprofit leadership organization recently held its Women of the Year luncheon. The event recognizes the achievements of Missouri women who make an impact locally, statewide and beyond.

SALES

sr. account exec WENDY JABLONOW

sr. account exec JANIE SUMNER

ADMINISTRATIVE

office manager KATHY COWHEY

TONIA COLLINS SMITH, THE HONORABLE JEAN CARNAHAN, MAXINE CLARK, SANDRA M. MOORE, SARA FOSTER, ROSALIND COCHRAN

STAY UNITED

UNITED WAY OF GREATER ST. LOUIS

by stephanie wallace

CURRENTLY, MORE THAN 40% OF LOCAL HOUSEHOLDS do not have the monthly income needed to meet basic living expenses. The United Way of Greater St. Louis is dedicated to building stronger and more equitable communities. The nonprofit works to unite people, resources and funding to meet the needs of a 16-county region in Missouri and Illinois. Each year, it provides assistance to one million people— meaning it touches the lives of one in every three people in the St. Louis community

The United Way provides more than 160 local nonprofits with vital funding and training resources. Its goal is to support the region in five impact areas: basic needs, health and wellbeing, jobs and financial mobility, youth success and crisis response. “The United Way has been part of the community for more than 100 years,” says president and CEO Michelle Tucker. “We meet people where they are to help them respond to challenges through the safety net of agencies we support.” Last year, the organization invested almost $79 million into the region, having raised $67.4 million through its annual campaign, an initiative that includes individuals and more than 1,100 local companies.

This year, Marty Lyons, chief executive officer of Ameren, is serving as chair of the United Way’s annual campaign, and commercial banking leader and market executive of Regions Bank, Scott Hartwig, is acting as co-chair. Lyons notes that the decision to get involved is both a personal and professional one. “My wife, Leslie, and I have been working with the United Way for more than 25 years, so we’ve gotten to know about the agencies it supports,” he says. “Professionally, I understand that our business won’t thrive unless our region thrives. The United Way is helping the community be successful.”

Hartwig adds that he has witnessed the critical need for aid in the community first-hand. “My son was born with a serious heart condition,” he explains. “Spending time at St. Louis Children’s Hospital, I saw so many families that didn’t have the

resources or support that ours did. The United Way helps local families through crises. It helps people get back on their feet and find a sustainable way to thrive. That’s why I decided to get involved.”

One of the United Way’s most important initiatives is the 24-hour 211 helpline. Completely free and confidential, it connects people to resources and organizations that help with immediate needs such as food, shelter and transportation, as well as long-term needs such as childcare, education, job training and counseling. “We all stumble and run up against challenges,” Tucker notes. “But we don’t all have the resources necessary to overcome them. The United Way helps those that don’t have a network of support to assist them. With 211, we’ve receive roughly 150,000 calls annually.”

In 2023, the United Way is celebrating a major anniversary. Its Volunteer Center, the largest volunteer hub in the region, is turning 90. The center mobilizes thousands of individuals, companies and groups through meaningful volunteer opportunities every year. “The Volunteer Center and the annual campaign are ways for people to unite and get involved in helping the region,” Tucker says. “It’s that support that fuels the United Way’s efforts, allowing us to put people back on the road to success.” &

PRESIDENT AND CEO MICHELLE TUCKER

OF THE TOWNS talk

by bill beggs jr.

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So, what have you been reading lately? Oh, really? We’re sorry, but that’s kind of lame. You can do much better at the J Used Book Sale, where thousands of books will be available between Aug. 27 and Aug. 31. Stock up where prices are better than most anywhere. Bibliophiles—all right; book lovers—and collectors all anticipate this annual summer sale. Thousands of titles will be available, including various novels of all sorts, biographies, politics, religion, sports, cookbooks, history, animals, art, science, science fiction, mystery, business, women’s issues, foreign languages, gardening, poetry, psychology, self-help, humor, graphic novels … the list goes on. Parents and educators will find a large selection for children and youth as well as educational materials for homeschoolers. Multiples of select titles are available for book clubs, along with miscellaneous videos, books on tape/CDs and DVDs. Here’s the deal, which changes only a little from year to year, if at all. If you come Sunday,

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‘Barbenheimer’ is a cultural moment unlike any other. Just mix together Barbie and Oppenheimer, two summer blockbusters with completely different backstories, cinematography and themes that were released at the same time in July, et voilà! You wind up with clever, comical (and fictitious) movie posters like our accompanying image. Of course, this isn’t the official poster for either of the two movies running concurrently at Landmark Plaza theaters in Frontenac. But, as frequently as they were both screening daily at the time of this writing, you could buy popcorn and a soda (and Milk Duds, of course), watch Barbie and be blown away by the unexpectedly timely and thought-provoking approach to the timeless, model-skinny Mattel doll and her boy-toy Ken. Then, return to the concession stand for refills, enter the theater screening Oppenheimer to seriously darken your mood. Actually, it’s probably better to see these two movies the other way around. The docudrama about the brilliant scientist who shepherded the Manhattan Project to its completion—developing the first viable atomic bomb—is anything but uplifting. The soundtrack is almost as gloomy as the subject matter. For sunny and danceable—pop hits by Dua Lipa, Nicki Minaj with Ice Spice, and Karol G—leave the building right after seeing Barbie. Meanwhile, PBS has its own two-pronged look at the Barbenheimer phenomenon without digging into either theatrical release. Stream the Nine Network’s American Experience episode about J. Robert Oppenheimer, which follows his fascinating, yet troubling arc from the stratosphere of international physics to his dark days of the Red Scare and McCarthyism. Then, look for a two-minute clip from Antiques Roadshow about how to spot a first-edition Barbie. Pricey? You bet! Getting really sick of the way things are going in the world these days? The 1940s and 1950s are all the rage, you know. If nuclear weapons, the arms race and/or Barbie and Ken dolls kind of rub you the wrong way, there’s absolutely nothing wrong with saddle shoes and bobby socks or a 1959 Cadillac sporting fins in the back.

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preview day, before everything has been picked over and selection is best, it’ll cost you a sawbuck—that’s $10 for you whippersnappers who probably could read more—to check everything out from 10 a.m. to 6 p.m. Admission is free the last four days of the sale, when it’s open 10 a.m. to 7 p.m. … except for Thursday, when the doors don’t close until 8 p.m. and you can fill a bag with your treasures for just $5! Proceeds benefit the J’s Cultural Arts Department. Visit jccstl.com/programs/used-book-sale.

Many readers, after finishing a particularly satisfying book, wonder when the movie version will be released, how closely it will stick to the printed page, and whether Tom Hanks or Meryl Streep will star. And they have plenty of other questions, we’re sure. Karin Slaughter, a No. 1 bestselling suspense writer, can answer some of those at 7 p.m. on Aug. 25 when she appears at the County Library’s Daniel Boone branch, 300 Clarkson Road in Ellisville. But she may keep some answers close to the vest because, after all, she has to keep making a living as a wildly popular writer of suspense. Slaughter’s international bestsellers—in three series and numerous standalone novels—have already been adapted for television. Pieces of Her is now a Netflix original series starring Toni Collette, Will Trent is an ABC television series starring Ramón Rodríguez, and further projects are in development. What’s more, Slaughter knows how vital libraries remain to our intellectual and cultural well-being: She founded the Save the Libraries project—a nonprofit established to support libraries and library programming. The event is free, and copies of her latest Will Trent thriller, After That Night, will be available at the branch for purchase from the Novel Neighbor. Slaughter will be in conversation with freelance TV host Angie Weidinger.

trivia

WHAT SIGNIFICANT EVENTS HAPPENED ON THESE FOUR DATES? A) Aug. 9, 1945 B) March 9, 1959 C) July 16, 1945 D) Oct. 4, 1957?

LAST ISSUE’S Q & A

Harry Nilsson had his biggest success in the Top 40 the same year as “Coconut” with “Without You,” the cover of a tearjerker by what tragedy-plagued band?

In 1972, Nilsson held the No. 1 slot in the Top 40 for a month with his cover of a tearjerker by Badfinger, “Without You.” Tragedy struck the British band twice, with the suicides of leader and songwriter Pete Ham in 1975 and co-writer and bassist Tom Evans in 1983. Their recording of the song did not chart.

BILL BEGGS JR. HAS WORN MANY HATS AT NEWSPAPERS, MAGAZINES AND IN MARKETING COMMUNICATIONS SINCE BEFORE THE ERA OF THE FLOPPY DISC. NOW HE JUST WEARS A HAT TO KEEP HIS BALD SPOT FROM GETTING SUNBURNT. YOU CAN REACH HIM AT WRTRS.BLCK@GMAIL.COM

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Soul music is playing overhead at Applebee’s when your reporter sits down for lunch with Jack Morton, who’s played guitar behind some of the greats and on countless great soul, R&B, and blues songs. His ears somewhat keener than your reporter’s, Morton identifies “Turn Back the Hands of Time,” a 1970 hit for Tyrone Davis that’s become a standard. Morton, 81, of Florissant, chuckles. “I wish I had a dollar for every time I’ve played that song,” he says. Morton, however, is more attached to classics like “My Girl” by The Temptations and “Mustang Sally” by Wilson Pickett—if the band didn’t play those, heckling might have ensued. Although he played with the likes of Tina Turner and Oliver Sain, both essential to the development of rhythm and blues in the Lou, Morton never did quit his ‘day job’ with the U.S. Postal Service, from which he retired in 2013. “Oliver and I were very close friends,” he says of Sain, who died of bone cancer in 2003. That same year, Sain’s studio on Natural Bridge Road in north county was razed. We can’t turn back the hands of time, of course, but thank heaven for the recordings; Sain’s sax and the guitar both solo on Sain’s 1975 disco-flavored instrumental “Bus Stop.” Although Morton has played nearly everywhere in various groups and been in more recording sessions than you could shake a guitar pick at, he enjoyed his greatest success, and went on the road, with the Fabulous Motown

Revue, fronted by the inimitable Steve Schankman, now an uber-successful concert producer. Morton started out on keyboards back when a piano wasn’t really portable. Today a Yamaha electronic keyboard, say, is much easier to carry when on the move. Anyway, he switched from keys to guitar in his late 20s. He doesn’t share opinions about Steve Cropper and other great guitarists from soul’s heyday, but isn’t shy about the legendary William ‘Smokey’ Robinson. “I didn’t think Smokey could sing,” says Morton of the renowned songwriter, bandleader—and vocalist with a very high tenor that many have called falsetto. Then he shrugs. “I got used to it,” he admits after a moment. (Your reporter seconds that emotion.) Fast forward to 2022: Morton suddenly started having trouble with basic motor skills. “I couldn’t write like I was even in the third grade,” he recalls. He’d had a stroke, and although he apologizes for his speech today, it’s not obvious he still has difficulty. He’s back to driving, and gradually regaining his mobility. “I dodged a bullet,” he notes. But he doesn’t have his ‘axe’ with him for our photo. In fact, he’s incredulous. “I never keep my guitar in the car!” he exclaims. (Your reporter realizes his question was, well, pretty dumb.) When a 1971 Bobby Byrd song comes on, Morton grins. They played it for youthful offenders in lockup. Byrd sings, “I Know You Got Soul,” and continues, “if you didn’t you wouldn’t be in here!” ‘In here’ refers to a party or dance club, of course, but Morton et al. hoped the irony wouldn’t be lost on the kids. &

Jack Morton

fresh picked!

Eckert’s Farm is celebrating the 60th anniversary of its pick-your-own-apple season. To mark the milestone, the farm is offering 60% off all pick-your-own apples at all three of its locations on Sept. 9 and 10.

THE INSIDER

for art’s sake!

The Art Outside Festival is returning to Schlafly Bottleworks in Maplewood Sept. 8-10. The free fair features unique artwork from local artists, festival food, live music and Schlafly beer. Find out more at schlafly.com/events/artoutside.

show time!

This Historic Sappington House is hosting three outdoor concerts this fall.

On Sept 8, Motown quartet Nostalgia will perform; following its concert at the historic site last year, Rock Opera (pictured) will return Sept. 30; and Oct. 14 will see a classic rock performance from Fix Newton. Visit historicsappingtonhouse.org for more information.

PATTY

by patty hannum

AGING. THAT’S TODAY’S TOPIC. Sure, we all know we are going to slow down and look older, but there are other weird things that happen that no one prepares you for—until now.

Where did my eyebrows go? Apparently, my eyebrows have disappeared and reappeared on my chin. Yes, I still grow hair on my face but in weird places. I was never an overplucker so it has taken me by surprise that mine have all but disappeared. Yes, there does appear a patch of hair above my eyeballs, but they are all gray and wiry. Without a six week dye job, I would have no eyebrows to frame my face.

What is wrong with my hair? My hair was my best feature, but now it has thinned and grayed. Not normal graying. It looks like someone has used chalk to create a circle around my hairline. Sure. I should be happy that I have hair, but why can’t I look like the men and women in the AARP commercials with the perfect gray hair that sparkles in the sunshine?

What happened to my vision? I need to wear bifocals but can’t because they make me dizzy. So, I have two pairs of eyeglasses, one for distance and one for reading. The rest of the time, I just blindly move around life, asking everyone around me, “Do you know where I put my glasses?” Should I get one of those chains and wear it around my neck? How would that work with two pairs of glasses?

What happened to my balance? I have never been graceful. But I could always stand upright and usually limited myself to one good fall a year— not anymore. I walked into our pool the other day. You know the one filled with water that has been in my backyard for twenty years. Why? Because I bent down to get a ball. Don’t understand? Neither do I. I pray I never come across a sinkhole because it would be my final resting place. What is with my weight? I swear I have gained and lost the same ten pounds every year for the past ten years. It seems like the worse I eat, the more weight I lose, but whenever I get on a health

CELEBRATE THE 50TH ANNIVERSARY OF HIP HOP WITH ST. LOUIS COUNTY LIBRARY!

On Sept. 1, the library will host a Hip Hop Block Party at Bangert Park in Florissant. The event will feature food trucks, a live DJ, graffiti wall and more. For more information and a full listing of special programming centered around hip hop, visit slcl.org/events.

MARK YOUR CALENDAR!

The St. Louis Jewish Book Festival has announced four headliners for the 2023 event, which will be held Nov. 5-19. Youtube star Andrew Rea of Binging with Babish and Basics with Babish will present his latest cookbook. Luxury fashion mogul and social activist Rebecca Minkoff will kick off Women’s Night with her newest book Fearless: The New Rules For Unlocking Creativity, Courage, And Success. NBC news correspondent Martin Fletcher will present his latest book Teachers: The Ones I Can’t Forget. Bestselling author Mitch Albom will close the festival with a discussion of his most recent novel The Little Liar.

kick, you know lots of fruits and veggies, I can’t fit into my blue jeans. It is like my body doesn’t want me to eat right—high cholesterol be damned!

What happened to my fashion sense? Have you ever been out and thought you looked pretty darn good but then catch a glimpse of yourself in the mirror and are outraged. Yeah, that’s been happening to me more and more. I think I look cute as I head out the door but quickly realize that what I am wearing doesn’t go together. Could this be because my eyesight is bad, or are you just not meant to be fashionable after a certain age?

Why do I drive like I am a first-time driver? Driving a car used to be something I never gave a thought to. You get in and go, right? But a few years ago, I developed a phobia about merging onto the highway. It is like I can’t operate a motor vehicle without having a panic attack.

I guess that’s enough complaining. I’d rather be old than not so perhaps I should just learn to adjust. Ha! Peace my peeps. &

THE VELVET HAMMER

by joan berkman

Q: I’ve worked 10 years for my immediate supervisor, who has continually praised my work and recently acknowledged how much he valued my contributions—only to find out from a colleague that I’ll soon be out of a job. Obviously, my boss isn’t who I think he is. Where did I go wrong? Any advice moving forward?

A: Not knowing the circumstances of your employment or your work performance, I’ll have to take you at face value about the feedback you have been receiving from your supervisor.

Before you jump to any conclusions, there may be something else going on behind the scenes that your supervisor is unable to share about the company.

Is it possible your company may be experiencing financial difficulties or is changing its strategic direction? If so, there may be discussions going on that your colleague overheard. Could you be a victim of the office rumor mill?

Regardless, you need to speak with your boss for clarification. If he is unwilling to be transparent and offers no explanation perhaps your colleague is right and your assessment of your supervisor may be spot on.

Whether or not your current boss is trustworthy is yet to be seen; however, here are a few warning signs to measure someone’s trustworthiness:

▶ If a boss complains to you about your fellow employees, they probably aren’t trustworthy. Anyone who gossips to you will easily gossip about you.

▶ A boss who is afraid of higher-up managers is a sign that heor she may need a future sacrificial lamb to avoid looking bad with their immediate supervisor.

▶ If a boss is quick to find someone to blame whenever something goes wrong; it is usually because they can’t handle the pressure of being accountable. Don’t fall for how friendly a supervisor is when they’re not under stress because the minute something goes wrong, they will find a scapegoat and aren’t worthy of your trust.

▶ A supervisor who is obsessed with targets and metrics is not someone who typically has the back of their team or the backbone to lead through trust. They only care about those who hit their goals every day.

These are only a few warning signs. However, if you indeed are correct about your situation, it is time to launch a new job search. My advice: Find a company with a culture that values employees over self-interest. That said, being accountable and doing your job are paramount for any job. My point is you want to work for a company that leads by fostering professional and personal growth of its team members and provides them with the necessary resources as well as a supportive and collaborative environment. This kind of company culture has leaders that exhibit qualities such as empathy, listening, stewardship and empowerment.

Do your homework, start networking to land in a better work situation.

Good luck!. &

JOAN LEE BERKMAN IS A MARKETING AND PUBLIC RELATIONS CONSULTANT. IF YOU HAVE A QUESTION FOR JOAN, SEND IT TO BUSINESS@TOWNANDSTYLE.COM.

CREATIVE CURRICULUM

COMMUNITY SCHOOL

Community School’s research-based curriculum engages students in active and developmentally appropriate learning. Our low student-teacher ratio increases opportunities for differentiated instruction and support.

Community also offers robust arts, foreign language, leadership development and service learning programs at each grade level.

900 LAY ROAD 314.991.0005

COMMUNITYSCHOOL.COM

FORSYTH SCHOOL

Nine specialist subject areas are a significant part of everyday life at Forsyth. The curriculum now includes Innovation and Design for students in senior kindergarten through grade six and Sustainability for students in grades three through six.

6235 WYDOWN BLVD. 314.726.4542

FORSYTHSCHOOL.ORG

PRINCIPIA SCHOOL

A Principia School education is designed to help students develop applicable, transferable skills and competencies that they can effectively use in taking on the opportunities and challenges in college, the workplace and well into their future.

13201 CLAYTON ROAD 314.514.3134

PRINCIPIASCHOOL.ORG

ROSSMAN SCHOOL

The Rossman classrooms are alive with daily exploration, experimentation, creativity and skill-building experiences. The well-defined Rossman curriculum, linked with our commitment to teaching kindness, honesty, respect and responsibility, allows us to lay a notably strong academic foundation for our students.

12660 CONWAY ROAD | 314.434.5877 | ROSSMANSCHOOL.ORG

WHITFIELD SCHOOL

Character education serves as the cornerstone of everything students accomplish in and out of the classroom. By helping students understand their moral obligations to self, family and community, Whitfield aims to prepare a generation of connected and empowered students to become thoughtful, principled citizens of the world.

175 S. MASON ROAD | 314.434.5141 | WHITFIELDSCHOOL.ORG

THE WILSON SCHOOL

The Wilson School’s integrated curriculum inspires students in every grade to combine insights and skills. To build their second grade stores, for example, students employ their math skills (budgeting), tech knowledge (website building), artistic abilities (product design) and persuasive powers (advertising).

400 DE MUN AVE. | 314.725.4999 | WILSONSCHOOL.COM

by stephanie wallace

TakingtheLead

IN 2020, WHITFIELD ALUMNUS ROBERT GLASSMAN (’02) MADE A GIFT TO THE SCHOOL TO ESTABLISH THE GLASSMAN LEADERS PROGRAM. EACH YEAR, THE INITIATIVE HELPS A PROMISING GROUP OF UPPER SCHOOL STUDENTS DEVELOP PUBLIC SPEAKING, NETWORKING AND INTERPERSONAL COMMUNICATION SKILLS. THIS YEAR’S COHORT INCLUDES WINNIE MURPHY (’26) AND SARAH WOOTEN (’24), WHO ARE EXCITED TO BE ABLE TO APPLY THE LESSONS THEY’RE LEARNING TO THEIR ACADEMIC CAREERS AND BEYOND.

Wooten is president of the Black Student Union at Whitfield. Her interest in Glassman Leaders came from a desire to hone the skills necessary for leadership positions in and out of school. “I wanted to perfect my public speaking skills, as well as improve my communication with people my age and older,” she explains. “Being a part of the program is an achievement on its own that I’m proud of.” Similarly, Murphy was inspired to apply after participating in leadership development curriculum at Whitfield. “I really wanted to follow up and continue strengthening my leadership skills,” she notes. “After I was selected, I felt really grateful for the opportunity and excited for the potential to push myself outside of my comfort zone.”

As Glassman Leaders, Wooten and Murphy recently completed Generation.Next, a youth leadership course from Dale Carnegie. The program teaches teens how to strengthen interpersonal relations, manage stress and handle fast-changing conditions in school and in life. The goal of the program is to create persuasive communicators, creative problem solvers and confident and enthusiastic leaders. “The course really focuses on the core principles from Dale Carnegie’s books,” Wooten says. “We read experts and did activities centered around public speaking, managing stress and connecting with people you need to collaborate with. I enjoyed learning more about one-on-one communication and how to listen and be thoughtful, even if you’re working with someone you don’t agree with.”

Murphy benefitted from the collaborative nature of Generation.Next, especially getting to work with other students. “Everyone had similar goals, and we pushed each other to grow in our leadership skills,” Murphy says. “One of my favorite takeaways was becoming more comfortable receiving criticism. I can get in my head and feel attacked and embarrassed when receiving negative feedback. The program helped me learn not to see it as an insult. That’s a tool I can use to grow, and it will help me at school and in future jobs.”

As a senior, Wooten is excited to apply her experiences in Glassman Leaders to university next year. “It was great to be able to get outside of my comfort zone because college will be a new environment for me next year,” she notes. “Learning communication and leadership skills now will help me in the long term, and it’s not just a professional benefit. It will help me in my personal life as well.” Murphy adds, “People often think leadership is something innate that comes naturally to some people. but it’s important to remember that these are skills that can be learned and improved.” &

JENNA WASSERMAN, WINNIE MURPHY AND SARAH WOOTEN WITH LINDA COLVIS OF DALE CARNEGIE

PHOTO COURTESY OF WHITFIELD SCHOOL

by dr. tim jordan

WHEN YOU ESCORT YOUR HIGH SCHOOL GRAD TO COLLEGE, you may think your job of parenting them is finished—think again. They still need you, but in different ways. Here are a few ways to support your graduate.

▶ Help them understand their emotional upheaval: Any time anyone approaches a transition or leap in development, we tend to fall apart, feel out of sorts and experience a myriad of feelings. My old mentor Dr. T. Berry Brazelton called these periods touch points. New grads tend to have a foot in the future while still maintaining one in their past. They can’t wait to shake off the dust of their boring hometown, yet are anxious about the uncertainty of the next leg of their journey. Normalize all of their emotions: happy, excited, freedom and independence as well as uncertainty, fear snf sadness at leaving their family and friends. What is unexpressed becomes unmanageable, so encourage them to express all of their emotions in healthy ways.

▶ Continue to be a safe base: Remember going to a family gathering when your child was a toddler and observing them cling to your leg until they got comfortable. Then they’d walk off and play for a while, returning to your side occasionally to get some comfort. Your job then was to receive them warmly, smile and give them the reassurance that they were safe and you were confident in their leaving your side to explore the world. That same pattern still holds true for your recent grad. When they looks at you in moments of uncertainty or fear, what they needs to see is your calm, reassuring face that says, “You’ve got this. I’m here if you really need me, but I have full faith you are ready for this next step.”

▶ Let go of knowing what’s best for them: Letting go is a process, and it’s never too late to start. It’s time for your graduate to take responsibility for knowing what’s right for them using their intuition and inner voice. Parents need to become more of a consultant versus a manager or micromanager. Young adults need to make their own mistakes, problem-solve, and overcome challenges to gain confidence and self-efficacy. It’s called growing up.

▶ Learn to connect in different ways: When your young adult leaves the nest, your relationship with them will never be the same. That’s why graduates and their parents feel a sense of loss. But your bond with them can grow into a richer, more equal one. It’s incredibly fulfilling to watch the fruits of your labor as they find their path and purpose. Have talks with your grad about what your relationship can look like as they become an adult.

▶ Ask your graduate how to support them: Their needs will continually change, and thus how they want to be supported will as well. Kids have a responsibility to teach you all along the way what feels annoying versus what feels supportive. Listen well and respect their wishes and boundaries.

High school graduation is just one step in your child’s long process of growing up. Mindfully follow these five ways of supporting them and enjoy the ride. &

IT’S NEVER TOO LATE TO TRY SOMETHING NEW

BY STEPHANIE WALLACE

Sometimes, it can be easy to become set in our ways. We fall into routine and forget about the benefits of stretching ourselves outside of our comfort zone. As we age, it’s especially important that we don’t forget to explore new things and stay engaged. Hobbies aren’t just a way to fill time—they can have major benefits for our physical and mental health.

VIDEO GAMES

Video games can be a divisive topic. You’ve no doubt heard arguments that they discourage physical activity or even “rot the brain.” However, not all those criticisms are warranted. Research has shown that video games can actually have a positive impact on the cognitive function of older adults. A study done by the University of Utah found that around 60% to 70% of seniors who did not benefit from antidepressants experienced a 50% decrease in their depressive symptoms within 30 days of starting a video game-based treatment program. There also is evidence that playing video games may be linked to a reduced risk of Alzheimer’s disease, according to a study conducted in 2017.

The mental health benefits of video games are believed to be for a variety of reasons. They offer mental stimulation, making players analyze situations quickly and strategize. Switching between tasks can increase mental flexibility and the ability to multitask. They also provide a sense of accomplishment as games offer attainable goals. On the other hand, losing at video games can help build emotional resilience. Online or multiplayer video games also can help reduce isolation, allowing people to connect with others.

YOGA

Yoga is another hobby that research has shown can have big benefits for seniors. As we age, we naturally lose bone density. Research has consistently shown that as a weight-bearing activity, yoga helps slow bone thinning, reducing the risks of osteoporosis, particularly among postmenopausal women. It also can help improve your joint health, protecting you from disorders like carpal tunnel syndrome and arthritis. Falls are another serious issue that older adults face—according to AARP, they’re the leading case of injury, with a senior visiting an emergency room for fall-related treatment every 11 seconds. With its slow, measured movements and strength-building component, yoga helps improve balance, tone muscle and increase proprioception, or awareness of position in space.

Along with physical benefits, yoga can help improve mental health. Studies have shown that regularly practicing yoga can lead to reduced anxiety. It induces a relaxation response that reduces your heart rate, lowers blood pressure and eases respiration. This can help moderate your body’s response to stress. Yoga also can improve cognitive function. Studies have shown that it has a greater impact on enhancing mood than other forms of exercise thanks to a boost in the production of the brain chemical GABA, which helps calm nerves.

PHOTOGRAPHY

Thanks to smartphones, photography is one of the most accessible forms of art—we carry a camera around with us all of the time! Creative expression is great for physical and mental wellbeing. Research indicates that it offers aging adults a sense of purpose, while helping maintain concentration, improving coordination and boosting mood. Creating art as part of a community through clubs or classes also is a great way to combat the increased isolation that can accompany our later years.

Photography in particular often gets you out of your home and into nature, encouraging physical activity. It also comes with the bonus of capturing memories, and it can aid in your cognitive health in several ways. Not only can it be enjoyable to look back at photos you’ve taken, reviewing them can help combat cognitive decline and aid in recollection. Additionally, learning new skills and mastering techniques can strengthen abilities like memory and focus. &

One of the reasons we may lose independence is the development of dementia. Most people know someone who has suffered from it. We have seen the profound impact it has on families, as well as the individual. Dementia is a general category with numerous subtypes such as Alzheimer’s disease, Lewy Body dementia or vascular dementia. There are over 6 million people in the United States currently suffering from Alzheimer’s disease alone. It is a scary disease because historically there has been little ability to treat it. Now, we know there are things we can do to try to mitigate the risk of developing dementia, as well as new diagnostic tools and treatments available for people who develop dementia.

One thing that has consistently shown to have an impact on the risk of developing dementia is leading a healthy lifestyle. Regular exercise, eating healthy, minimizing stress and improving sleep quality are examples of lifestyle changes that may reduce our risk of developing dementia. Controlling one’s blood pressure and minimizing overall cardiovascular risks can help over time. Treating hearing loss is another way we can mitigate the risk of developing dementia. A lot of people don’t think about it, but hearing loss may affect our dementia risk by making it more difficult to interact with others. It is very important to maintain mental stimulation over the years.

There are medications that can be used to treat the symptoms of dementia, such as memantine and donepezil. These have been available for decades and can help improve cognitive functions and behavioral disturbances sometimes seen with dementia. Lecanemab is a new medication recently approved for the treatment of mild cognitive impairment and mild dementia due to Alzheimer’s disease. This is the first in a new category of medicine that shows positive clinical impact to slow disease progression. More importantly, it provides hope that we are finally working on treating the causes of the disease rather than just treating the symptoms.

It is also important to recognize the impact dementia has on caretakers. Creating a solid support system and finding local resources are instrumental in helping navigate these very challenging years as dementia progresses. Your primary care doctor or neurologist can help you connect with these services.

While dementia remains a scary prospect, our knowledge of dementia and our ability to treat it has improved. I encourage you to discuss with your physicians how best to address your risk factors. This can help you live a healthier life, contribute to your goal of maintaining independence, and optimize your quality of life.

Amy Roberts, MD, and Associates is a concierge primary care practice serving Town and Country, Clayton, Ladue, Frontenac, Chesterfield and the surrounding suburbs with a focus on prevention and well-being. Dr. Roberts is a family medicine physician who cares for men and women 16 years and older with a special interest in care for mid-life women and beyond.

Dr. Roberts is taking new patients. Schedule a meet and greet today!

When most people are asked about their hopes for their future health, maintaining independence and a good quality of life are frequently mentioned.

Amy Roberts, MD

Alzheimer’s disease and other forms of dementia present a host of issues for those afflicted and for their friends and families. Often, the complexities of these diseases require treatment that is both specialized and person-centered, ensuring that health problems are addressed while also safeguarding quality of life. In the St. Louis region, some of the top memory care practitioners are affiliated with Parc Provence, a memory-care residential community that specializes in treating individuals with Alzheimer’s disease and other forms of dementia.

Dr. David B. Carr, clinical director of the Division of Geriatrics and Nutritional Science at Washington University School of Medicine, serves as medical director at Parc Provence. Dr. Lenise Cummings-Vaughn, a specialist in geriatric medicine at the medical school, serves as associate medical director. “From providing appropriate daily activities for residents to monitoring their nutritional needs, their expertise influences everything we do,” administrator Kathy Kelley says.

In addition to monitoring and treating the physical changes that cognitive diseases cause, the staff at Parc Provence offers activity programs tailored to fit each resident’s physical and social skills and personal interests. “We empower our residents by supporting and promoting their abilities,” Kelley explains. Residents participate in small- and large-group programs, as well as one-on-one activities. Certified therapists offer art and music interventions designed to help strengthen brain health while presenting opportunities for self-expression that can contribute to an overall sense of well-being. “Our goal is to enhance the many strengths our residents possess,” Kelley says. “We do this by offering treatment that is designed to protect and promote health, enhance quality of life and foster personal fulfillment.”

Every resident at Parc Provence receives care through an individualized treatment plan. Each plan is devised by a team of specialists who work in collaboration with the resident and family members when possible. The plan considers aspects of personal health, career and life experiences, current abilities, social skills, and other pertinent information. Once in place, the care plan is then monitored for effectiveness. “We conduct regular assessments of each resident’s abilities, altering the treatment plan accordingly to ensure the most effective and responsive level of care,” Kelley says.

Though families use a variety of criteria when assessing memory care communities for loved ones, many of those who have selected Parc Provence note its home-like setting and comfortable private and public spaces. The community as a whole, from its gardens to its dining rooms, was designed to offer residents and their families the spirit of home and a sense of belonging. “When a family is looking for a memory care residence for a loved one, they also are looking for education, support and direction,” Kelley notes. “Our commitment to excellence extends to them, too. We understand the challenges they face and strive to offer the support and compassion they deserve.”

Parc Provence is recognized in the St. Louis region—and throughout the United States—as a model of excellence in memory care. “We’re committed to serving the greater community and our residents, who are at the very heart of everything we do,” Kelley says.

Parc Provence is leading the way in memory care, and members of its staff are available to answer questions and offer support. If you would like to learn more about memory care or are interested in scheduling a personal tour, please call or visit our website.

“We’re committed to serving the greater community and our residents, who are at the very heart of everything we do”

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Unique. Extraordinary. Exceptional. These words are often used to describe experiences and places that are good—and may even be great. But such praise is most meaningful when it is earned, when the experience in question is truly unlike anything else, far exceeding the norm—when it is, in fact, the exception to the rule.

“We are confident that we offer our residents a lifestyle that really is exceptional,” says Carrie Montrey, executive director at The Gatesworth, St. Louis’ premiere community for active seniors. And U.S. News & World Report agrees, having placed The Gatesworth on its 2023-24 list of Best Independent Senior Living communities. “We are equally confident that we’re exceptional because our residents are,” she adds.

Communities like The Gatesworth are rare, in part because of the long list of amenities to match the varied interests of its residents. Some sing in the choir; others work in the garden. Still others enjoy onsite fine dining or movies in the theater. There’s yoga, a spa, heated saltwater pool, outdoor barbecues with friends and family, educational and cultural lectures and classes, worship services, evening cocktails and art classes. And that’s just the beginning.

the community’s luxury cars. Fitness and wellness classes are available, as are customized programs and personal trainers. These are the kinds of things that make The Gatesworth unlike other communities—the very definition of unique.

What other evidence is there to indicate that a life lived at The Gatesworth is an extraordinary one? Some of The Gatesworth residents have weighed in on this very question.

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“It’s amazing how quickly the staff get to know you. They call you by name and truly attend to things that keep you happy.”

“The Gatesworth has everything I wanted: beautiful grounds, lovely people, great food and entertainment— and so much more.”

“My wife and I try to be positive, and it’s easy to do at The Gatesworth. It fits who we are.”

Ample parking is available for residents and their guests, as it should be—but so is on-demand transportation with a professional driver in one of

“When we’re talking about our community and the lifestyle we offer to residents, we like to say, ‘The answer is yes. What was the question?’” Montrey explains. And that really gets to the heart of the matter. The Gatesworth staff are there to ensure residents get the most out of life, whatever they imagine that life might be.

But what matters most to residents of The Gatesworth is that the community feels like home. Because everyone has a slightly different idea of what home should be, The Gatesworth apartments— which come in one and two bedrooms—can be customized to suit personal tastes and needs. The moving process is customized, too, thanks to their move-in coordinator and her team, who are ready to help with the heavy lifting. They make any move a significantly less troublesome endeavor.

The Gatesworth owners David Smith, Charlie Deutsch and Bob Leonard built the community because they wanted to create a place where, after years of sacrifices made for career and family, seniors could celebrate life as they aged. This “the best is yet to come” attitude is the foundation on which The Gatesworth stands.

The Gatesworth is, essentially, a community of active seniors, living life the way they define it; filling it with friends, family, new experiences, continuing education, new challenges, favorite hobbies, moments of contemplation and daily beauty—what could be more exceptional?

“Life at The Gatesworth is simply exceptional.”

—Carrie Montrey, Executive Director

CLARENDALE CLAYTON ∑

TAKING SENIOR LIVING TO NEW HEIGHTS.

Clarendale Clayton has brought a new, elevated perspective to retirement life—figuratively and literally. Open at the corner of Clayton and Hanley roads, active seniors benefit from upscale residences, exceptional amenities and invigorating wellness programming found on every one of this high-rise community’s 13 floors. Currently Clayton’s only high-rise community, Clarendale Clayton features modern design and offers independent living, assisted living, and memory care.

Clarendale Clayton truly levels up senior living—and did we mention the view? From the 12th-floor Signature Room, rooftop terrace, polished penthouse and private balconies, residents can take in the stunning sights of the city and feel like they truly have it all … because they do!

Executive Director Cathy Phillips is honored to work with a team of industry professionals who selflessly serve seniors and are enthusiastic about what each day brings for residents. Alongside Meredith Evangelista, Director of Sales and Marketing and a Clayton-area native, their team’s goal is to ensure that everyone who works in and calls this community home is safe, happy and healthy!

Seniors looking for luxury living with the reassurance of future care are met with concierge services, exceptional dining, fitness classes, live entertainment, art exhibits, excursions in and beyond the city and more enriching opportunities. Clarendale Clayton resident DeeDee says, “I couldn’t be more thrilled with the people that manage and run the community. They go out of their way to make sure that we are comfortable and happy. Just wonderful.”

Seniors and families interested in learning more about Clarendale Clayton are invited to reach out and schedule a personal tour.

As one of St. Louis’s finest senior living retirement communities, The Willows at Brooking Park takes pride in being part of a full-service community. We are unique in that we offer a wide variety of floor plans ranging in size from 890 square feet to more than 2,600 square feet—some of the largest senior living accommodations in St. Louis.

You don’t have to wait until you feel you need extra care or support to benefit from a senior living community. You can enjoy the benefits and experience retirement to the fullest at The Willows. Along with maintenance free living, our community provides access to a wide range of amenities and services under one roof—from restaurants, a bar and wine cellar to recreation and social programs. You can stay active and engaged thanks to our fitness center, wellness program and indoor pool.

As a resident of The Willows, you can enjoy peace of mind. Should the need for increased care arise, you have priority admission to Brooking Park Assisted Living, Skilled Care, Rehab and Memory Care. When you’re here, you can make the most of your golden years without worrying about the future.

The Willows is part of the St. Andrew’s Resources for Seniors family. The nonprofit organization has been serving seniors since 1961.

M C KNIGHT PLACE ASSISTED LIVING & MEMORY CARE

When you call McKnight Place Assisted Living & Memory Care home, you’ll find more than just a safe, comfortable place to live. You’ll discover a vibrant community full of opportunities to be active, eat well, set goals and live a purposeful life while nurturing meaningful relationships. Residents are passionate about the activities they love—and McKnight Place is passionate about delivering extraordinary service.

With more than 30 years of experience in top-quality senior living, McKnight Place knows how to help its residents live fulfilling lives. The professional staff builds trust with residents and their loved ones to let everyone know the day-to-day care will be at a very high level. Our staff genuinely loves and cares about our residents. We consider them an extension of our own families. Our resident-centered attitude is how we set ourselves apart.

Catering to the needs of residents and their families, the staff works to make life easier and more convenient. Residents can fill their days with an exciting calendar of events with activities ranging from fitness classes and educational workshops to concerts and happy hours.

Life at McKnight Place is full of possibilities for enjoying whatever inspires you and a community where your comfort, health and well-being are at the heart of everything they do. The dining experience at McKnight Place continues to get high praise. Residents at McKnight Place enjoy exceptional meals prepared by award-winning executive chef John Morales. Every dish is expertly crafted with the freshest, highest-quality ingredients while keeping everyone’s nutritional requirements in mind.

McKnight Place has luxury accommodations, ranging in size from large suites to one and two bedroom apartments. Each unit includes beautiful crown molding and wood-style flooring, kitchens with custom wood cabinets and granite countertops, full-size refrigerators, spacious bathrooms, large windows providing natural light and nine-foot ceilings. New residents can take advantage of a dedicated move-in coordinator to customize their space.

McKnight Place also has 27 special memory-care suites for senior adults of all cognitive abilities. The suites have been designed to provide a secure and supportive lifestyle that maintains the look, feel and familiarity of each resident’s home.

Residents are able to enjoy beautifully-landscaped gardens, outdoor spaces and walking paths. The community has all-inclusive services, plus amenities like a theater, art room, greenhouse, and much more. Unlike other senior living communities, McKnight Place does not use points, tiers or levels of care to escalate your fees. McKnight Place offers true, all-inclusive rates that are simple, predictable and worry-free. Predictable pricing is an innovative, all-inclusive fixed-rate program with no buy-in fees.

With local owners on-site, residents and family members with questions or concerns have access to decision makers. They are deeply invested in day-to-day operations and the lives of all concerned.

For decades, McKnight Place has been a member of the highly respected Gatesworth Communities. The Gatesworth (independent living), McKnight Place Assisted Living & Memory Care (assisted living and memory care) and McKnight Place Extended Care (skilled nursing) are located at Interstate 170 and Delmar Boulevard. Parc Provence (memory care) is located near Interstate 270 and Olive Boulevard.

Ownership and management truly care about all of the people and what matters to each and every resident.

“With more than 30 years of experience in top-quality senior living,...”

HealthFlash

by stephanie wallace

BETTER BIOPSIES

New robotic technology is helping physicians at Siteman Cancer Center at Barnes-Jewish Hospital and Washington University School of Medicine in the fight against lung cancer. The institutions are the first in Missouri to acquire the Ion by Intuitive, a minimally invasive surgical platform that can be used to obtain tissue biopsies in previously hard-to-reach areas of the lung. “This robotic technology allows us to safely and precisely reach lesions not previously accessible before and will enable us to obtain tissue samples and diagnose lung cancers at earlier stages,” says Washington University pulmonologist Dr. Nathaniel Moulton. “It’s a big step forward for our lung cancer program.”

ETHICS & PEDIATRICS

Saint Louis University hosted a symposium on pediatric ethics called “Best Interests and Beyond: Standards of Decision Making in Pediatrics.” During the three day event, 17 scholars debated the question of what moral precepts ought to guide parents in clinicians in medical decision-making for children. The discussions led to six recommendations for pediatric decisionmaking. “With these recommendations, we hope that pediatric providers feel better equipped to engage in decision-making with parents and patients, especially when there may be disagreement,” says Erica K. Salter, Ph.D., associate professor of health care ethics and pediatrics at Saint Louis University. “It can be very distressing when providers and parents disagree about what treatment option is best for a given child, but differences of opinion are not uncommon and should sometimes be expected.”

Live the life you so richly deserve.

BEHAVIORAL HEALTH CARE ACCESS

Mercy is working to get to the root of behavioral health care challenges. Using a model called Collaborative Care Management, it is working with a company called Concert Health to provide behavioral health care to patients in a primary care setting. “Instead of a referral out, it brings behavioral health experts into the existing relationship between the patient and their primary care provider,” says Patty Morrow, vice president of behavioral health operations for Mercy. “Concert Health provides behavioral health managers to patients via virtual and telephone visits, while a consultative psychiatrist supports the primary care physician in the diagnosis and treatment of various mental health conditions.” The program was piloted in Joplin, Missouri, and is planned to be implemented in all Mercy locations by the end of the year.

EXCELLENCE IN WOUND CARE

Congratulations to The Wound Care & Hyperbaric Center at SSM Health St. Joseph Hospital. It was the recipient of RestorixHealths’s Wound Center of Excellence Award, which recognizes organizations that have demonstrated exceptional success by meeting or exceeding clinical and operational benchmarks in several categories, including healing and adherence to clinical practice pathways, along with a patient satisfaction rate of 96% or higher. “This achievement reaffirms our mission to improve the health and quality of life for those in our community with wounds,” said Dr. Chris Wangard, the hospital’s chief medical officer. “We are proud to be recognized for the outstanding care that The Wound Care & Hyperbaric Center staff provides its patients every day.”

STRESS LESS. LIVE MORE.

Imagine… No more worrying about your house. No more stressing about future health care costs.

Imagine… Doing what you want to do. Not what you have to do.

At Friendship Village, your wellness is our top priority. That’s why we foster a senior living community where you can be a leader. A teacher. Or, just a friend.

After all, it’s your life. We’re just here to help you live the way you want to.

Learn more about how Life Care saves you on future health care costs—and ask about our special Active Lifestyle Units today!

Brooking Park ACTIVE ASSISTED LIVING

At Brooking Park we take the stress out of understanding your options because we offer a full continuum of personalized, quality care, all under one roof. Within our community, we offer:

• ASSISTED LIVING

• MEMORY CARE

• LONG TERM CARE

• SKILLED REHAB

This makes a move to Brooking Park your best choice in many ways. It’s a smart financial decision as we offer an all-inclusive rate with no worrisome level of care fees. Our personalized assistance is offered in a beautiful, bright, comfortable setting that you can enjoy for days to come. All this while lowering your stress level knowing you or your loved one will never have to make another move.

So WORRY LESS at Brooking Park

A member of the St. Andrews Resources for Seniors System A trusted non-profit, faith-based organization

ACCESSIBLE HOME HEALTH CARE OF ST. LOUIS

Accessible Home Health Care provides customized care for seniors in the comfort of their homes. A registered nurse develops individual care plans specifically for each client. Services include medication reminders, meal preparation, bathing, dressing, ambulation, transfers, companionship and light housekeeping.

PICTURED: OWNERS ANDY SCHNECK AND LYNN SCHNECK 443 N. New Ballas Road, Ste. 231 314.738.9979 accessiblestl.com

ADVANCED NURSING SERVICES OF ST. LOUIS

For more than 35 years, Advanced Nursing Services has provided one-on-one private duty nursing in the greater St. Louis area. It has aides and nurses with the highest level of professionalism and offers continuity of care.

PICTURED: OWNER MAGGIE HOLTMAN

230 S. Bemiston Ave., Ste. 810 314.863.3030 advancednursing.org

BROOKING PARK

At Brooking Park, we love to keep it sweet! We open our Sweets & Treats Shop to staff, residents and visitors for delightful treats twice a week. Come join us!

307 S. Mills Road 314.576.5545 brookingpark.com

CLARENDALE CLAYTON

Experience first-of-its-kind, high-rise luxury senior living tailored to your wants and needs. Five-star hospitality, apartments with a view, exceptional dining and holistic programming beyond your wildest dreams await. 7651 Clayton Road 314.789.8173 clarendaleclayton.com

MCKNIGHT PLACE ASSISTED LIVING & MEMORY CARE

At McKnight Place Assisted Living & Memory Care, you can enjoy a life rich in quality care, genuine friendships and fun activities. Our community was designed to provide the warm, comfortable feeling of home in a safe and secure environment with beautifully landscaped gardens, outdoor spaces and walking paths.

3 McKnight Place 314.993.3333 mcknightplace.com

PARC PROVENCE

Parc Provence offers its residents and their families exceptional care for dementia and Alzheimer’s disease through dedicated, person-centered support. As a community of well-being, Parc Provence empowers senior adults by promoting individual physical and cognitive abilities.

605 Coeur de Ville Drive 314.542.2500 parcprovence.com

SAVE THE DATE september

9/5-9/10

PGA TOUR LEGENDS

Ascension Charity Classic

NORWOOD HILLS COUNTRY

ASCENSIONCHARITYCLASSIC.COM

9/8

SHINE THE LIGHT GALA Paraquad

FOUR SEASONS HOTEL ST. LOUIS | 6 P.M. 314.289.4200 | PARAQUAD.ORG

9/9

FEAST FOR CHANGE

Operation Food Search

THE PALLADIUM | 5:30 P.M. 314).726.5355 | OPERATIONFOODSEARCH.ORG

9/9 & 9/10

BIKE MS: GATEWAY GETAWAY

National Multiple Sclerosis Society

LEWIS & CLARK COMMUNITY COLLEGE

7 A.M.-5 P.M. 314.446.4177 | GATEWAYBIKEMS.ORG

9/14

STARBURST GALA

Affinia Healthcare Foundation STIFEL THEATRE | 6 P.M. 314.814.8507 AFFINIAHEALTHCARE.ORG/DONATE

9/16

GLENNON GALLOP

SSM Health Cardinal Glennon

Children’s Foundation

AUGUST BUSCH POLO CLUB | NOON GLENNON.ORG/GALLOP

9/21

GIRLS NIGHT OUT

Marian Middle School KNIGHT HALL, WASHINGTON UNIVERSITY 6:30 P.M. 314.771.7674 | MARIANMIDDLESCHOOL.ORG

9/22

NIGHT OUT: HOPE GROWS HERE

Healing Action

THIRD DEGREE GLASS FACTORY | 6:30 P.M. 314.833.4515 | HEALINGACTION.ORG

9/23

TRIVIA NIGHT

Albion Theatre BETHEL CHURCH | 6 P.M. ALBIONTHEATRESTL.ORG

THAT’S ENTERTAINMENT TRIVIA NIGHT

Cabaret Project of St. Louis

JEWISH COMMUNITY CENTER | 7 P.M. THECABARETPROJECT.ORG

9/23 & 9/24

PEDAL THE CAUSE

Pedal the Cause CHESTERFIELD 314.787.1990 | PEDALTHECAUSE.ORG

9/28

GRAY MATTERS CHARITY GOLF TOURNAMENT

The Center for Specialized Services OLD HICKORY CLUB | 10 A.M. 314.983.9230 EXT.1110 | CSSSTL.ORG/GOLF

9/29

THE MAGIC BALL: LA DOLCE VITA The Magic House STIFEL THEATRE | 6:30 P.M. 314.288.2525 | MAGICHOUSE.ORG

9/30

AGELESS REMARKABLE SAINT LOUISANS GALA St. Andrew’s Charitable Foundation HILTON ST. LOUIS FRONTENAC | 5 P.M. 314.802.1944 | STANDREWSGALA23. GIVESMART.COM

thursday, september

THE BACH SOCIETY OF SAINT LOUIS

The Bach Society of Saint Louis is now in its 83rd season as St. Louis’ oldest continuous choral society. Under the direction of A. Dennis Sparger, the organization provides stimulating and enriching musical and educational experiences in the tradition of Johann Sebastian Bach.

10/22

▶ Howard Goodall’s Eternal Light FIRST PRESBYTERIAN CHURCH OF KIRKWOOD | 3 P.M.

12/9

▶ Christmas Candlelight Concert 560 MUSIC CENTER | 2 AND 7 P.M. 314.652.BACH (2224) bachsociety.org

THE FABULOUS FOX THEATRE

Welcome to the spectacular 2023-24 Broadway season at The Fabulous Fox Theatre. Seven or eight show packages are on sale now at fabulousfox.com.

10/22

▶ Beetlejuice The Musical

11/14

▶ Tina - The Tina Turner Musical

11/29

▶ Twas the Night Before by Cirque du Soleil 314.534.1111 fabulousfox.com

KODNER GALLERY

The Kodner Gallery is a fine art gallery in Ladue.

9/7

▶ St. Louis Illustrated: An Exhibition of Work by Don Langeneckert (American, 1927-2022) 9650 CLAYTON ROAD | 5 P.M. 314.993.4477 kodnergallery.com/news

MOSAICS FINE ART FESTIVAL

Mosaics Fine Art Festival’s 28th annual event features quality artwork by more than 100 juried artists. Highlights include live music plus hands-on art experiences for children.

9/15-9/17

▶ Mosaics Fine Art Festival’s 28th Annual Event NORTH MAIN STREET IN HISTORIC ST. CHARLES

4 P.M. FRI., 10 A.M. SAT., 11 A.M. SUN. 314.406.2067 | stcharlesmosaics.org

THE REPERTORY THEATRE OF ST. LOUIS

The Rep is the region’s premiere theater for award-winning theatrical experiences that entertain, engage and illuminate audiences’ shared humanity.

PICTURED : THE LEHMAN TRILOGY

9/5

▶ The Lehman Trilogy LORETTO-HILTON CENTER | 7 P.M.

10/4

▶ Twisted Melodies

CATHERINE B. BERGES THEATRE AT COCA | 7 P.M.

11/28

▶ A Christmas Carol LORETTO-HILTON CENTER | 7 P.M. 314.968.4925 | repstl.org

THE REPERTORY THEATRE OF ST. LOUIS

THE BACH SOCIETY OF SAINT LOUIS THE FABULOUS FOX THEATRE

KODNER GALLERY MOSAICS FINE ART FESTIVAL

SAINT LOUIS BALLET

Saint Louis Ballet’s 2023-24 season promises ballets for all your senses withsomething for every audience member!

PICTURED : SLB DANCER LORI WILSON AS GISELLE

10/6-10/8

▶ Giselle with Chamber Music Society of St. Louis

TOUHILL PERFORMING ARTS CENTER

11/25 & 11/26, 12/15-12/23

▶ The Nutcracker and The Nutcracker: A Shorter Tale

TOUHILL PERFORMING ARTS CENTER 4/26-4/28/24

▶ Sleeping Beauty

TOUHILL PERFORMING ARTS CENTER 314.534.1111 | stlouisballet.org

SAINT LOUIS CHAMBER CHORUS

The Saint Louis Chamber Chorus presents the finest a cappella choral works in the region’s most distinctive buildings, seeking to entertain, educate and inspire.

10/1

▶ The Baltic States

SECOND BAPTIST CHURCH | 3 P.M.

11/5

▶ Mexico

ST. CECELIA CATHOLIC CHURCH | 3 P.M.

12/17

▶ The Holy Land

SECOND PRESBYTERIAN CHURCH | 3 P.M.

636.458.4343 | chamberchorus.org

ST. LOUIS ANTIQUE FESTIVAL

Don’t miss the midwest’s greatest antique show around!

Please join us Sept. 2 and 3 at the Belle Clair Fairgrounds. Admission is $6 with free parking. Hope to see you there!

9/2 & 9/3

▶ St. Louis Antique Festival BELLE CLAIR FAIRGROUNDS

608.346.3797 facebook.com/ stlouisantiquefestival

the Cathedral Basilica of St. Louis featuring world-class musicians for the cultural enrichment, education and enjoyment of the entire region.

10/20

▶ VOCES8 8 P.M.

11/13

▶ Vienna Boys Choir

8 P.M.

12/2

▶ Christmas at the Cathedral

10:30 A.M. 314.533.7662 | cathedralconcerts.org

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144th Season

We’re saving a seat for you.

Season highlights include featured artists Hilary Hahn and Yo-Yo Ma, beloved classical favorites Carmina Burana and Romeo and Juliet, the complete cycle of Beethoven’s piano concertos, and new works by Julia Wolfe and Adam Schoenberg.

Get your tickets today at slso.org/season

ST. LOUIS

SYMPHONY ORCHESTRA

Our 144th season features everything you love about your St. Louis Symphony Orchestra—timeless masterpieces, exciting new collaborations, fan-favorite films and so much more.

9/21

▶ Forest Park Concert

ART HILL | 7 P.M.

9/23

▶ Opening Weekend w/ Hilary Hahn STIFEL THEATRE | 7:30 P.M.

10/6

▶ The Nightmare Before Christmas in Concert STIFEL THEATRE | 7 P.M. 314.534.1700 | slso.org

STAGES ST. LOUIS

STAGES

St. Louis is a notfor-profit theater company performing in The Ross Family Theatre at the Kirkwood Performing Arts Center.

PICTURED THE COMPANY OF CLUE 2023.

9/8

▶ Million Dollar Quartet 210 E. MONROE AVE. 314.821.2407 stagesstlouis.org

PHOTO: KELLY PRATT

PHOTO CREDIT: PHOTO BY PHILLIP HAMER PHOTOGRAPHY

THE SAINT LOUIS CHAMBER CHORUS SAINT LOUIS BALLET

ST. LOUIS ANTIQUE FESTIVVAL

ST. LOUIS CATHEDRAL CONCERTS

ST. LOUIS SYMPHONY STAGES ST. LOUIS

UNIVERSITY centennial gala

by bill barrett

Celebrating Fontbonne’s 100 years of educational excellence, the gala raised funds to support the university’s advancement campaign. Guests enjoyed a cocktail reception, dinner and dancing with Mirage. guests: President Nancy Blattner, honorary event chairs Pierce and Sue

MARY ELLEN COTSWORTH, SISTER MARY ANN NESTEL CSJ, BILL SIEDHOFF

DENNIS GOLDEN, NANCY BLATTNER, MONICA GOLDEN

TOM AND KATE GUNN

JENNIFER AND STEVE LECLAIR, DENNIS AND MARY GIPSON

PIERCE AND SUE POWERS, CLAIRE SCHENK SHARLENE SCRUGGS, DYLAN SCRUGGS

JULIA AND ADAM WEYHAUPT

children in the community. Guests enjoyed a cocktail reception, a performance by Saint Louis Ballet dancers, an auction and dancing. guests: Gala chairs Allison Benney and Patricia Whiteside, advisory chairs Sarah Glasser and Laurie Lock, honoree Blanche Touhill

THE BALTIC STATES

OCTOBER 1, 2023 | 3PM

Second Baptist Church

MEXICO

NOVEMBER 5, 2023 | 3PM

St. Cecilia Catholic Church

THE HOLY LAND

DECEMBER 17, 2023 | 3PM

Second Presbyterian Church

THE AUSTROHUNGARIAN EMPIRE

FEBRUARY 18, 2024 | 3PM

The Shrine of St. Joseph

THE GLORY THAT WAS GREECE

APRIL 7, 2024 | 3PM

Graham Chapel

NATIONS UNITED

MAY 26, 2024 | 3PM

John Burroughs School

info@chamberchorus.org chamberchorus.org | 636.458.4343

VIRGIL AND SANDRA VAN TREASE

TOM AND CAROL VOSS, BLANCHE TOUHILL

LAURIE LOCK, ALLISON BENNEY, PAT WHITESIDE, SARAH GLASSER

EVA GERVICH, GREER DEN HOUTER, VANESSA WOODS, BRIAN WITKIN

TENNESSEE WILLIAMS: CENTER STAGE IN THE STL

BY STEPHANIE WALLACE

St. Louis has been home to many creative visionaries, but when it comes to theater, no star shines quite as brightly as Tennessee Williams, who spent almost two decades of his life living in the StL. Every year, the Tennessee Williams Festival St. Louis celebrates the art and influence of the playwright while shining a spotlight on the cultural life of the city. T&S spoke with executive artistic director and founder Carrie Houk to learn more about the annual event.

WHAT WAS THE MOTIVATION BEHIND FOUNDING THE TENNESSEE WILLIAMS FESTIVAL?

I’ve been a Tennessee Williams fan for many years. I always enjoyed reading his plays or watching productions. He spent almost 20 years in St. Louis, and I never understood why we didn’t have a festival celebrating him. It started with me producing one production in 2014 of Stairs to the Roof , which was inspired by Williams’ youth here. It was a three-week run, and we sold out every show. People urged me to start a festival. I was living in Chicago at the time, commuting back and forth, but I knew the project would take a bigger commitment to pull off. I moved back to St. Louis and put together a board of wonderful local arts advocates.

WHY IS IT IMPORTANT FOR ST. LOUIS TO CELEBRATE WILLIAMS’ ARTISTRY AND INFLUENCE?

Williams’ relationship with his family in his youth and his feelings about working at the International Shoes factory were significant influences on his work. He took a lot away from his time in St. Louis—he never spent a longer period of time anywhere else. I think it’s important that St. Louis recognizes and celebrates that.

HOW HAS THE FESTIVAL EVOLVED?

We really started off ambitiously as a full-fledged festival. The first event was four days long, and this year, it will be 11. We’ve always had multiple events with panels, a strong education component, parties, shows and a Tennessee Williams tribute with readings, poetry and music. This year, we’ll have our first international production.

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CARRIE HOUK

A company from Poland will be performing The Glass Menagerie in Polish with English subtitles. We’re excited to have them, and they’re looking forward to exploring the places where Williams wrote. During the pandemic, we started doing a program called Something Spoken, which is a radio production of one-act plays on Classic 107.3, and it’s something we’ve continued.

THE FESTIVAL HAS A PLAY READING INITIATIVE TO ENGAGE LOCAL STUDENTS.

I want future generations to know and appreciate Williams’ work. It’s just as relevant today as was when it was written. When I was growing up, we didn’t really have a theatrical component in high school. Today, St. Louis’ private high schools have wonderful drama programs, but that’s not the case for public schools that are dealing with budget cuts. American playwrights like Williams also aren’t always included in the English curriculum. Our goal is to provide copies of the plays we’re producing to drama departments in underserved schools. We also offer tickets so the kids can see performances. The pandemic limited what we could do with the Play Reading Initiative, but I’m looking forward to rebuilding it.

THIS YEAR’S FESTIVAL IS THEMED THE UNIVERSITY CITY YEARS. HOW WAS IT CHOSEN?

The idea came from the fact that our venue this year is in U. City. We’re at COCA’s Catherine B. Berges Theatre, which is a beautiful, state-of-the-art space. Williams lived in the neighborhood for around seven years. He went to University City High School and attended Washington University. We’ll have panels to address how U. City influenced Williams’ work. It’s exciting to bring the festival to a different part of the community and broaden our audience.

WHAT CAN PEOPLE EXPECT FROM THIS YEAR’S FESTIVAL?

I’m looking forward to our main stage production of Suddenly, Last Summer , which is directed by Tim Ocel. It’s one of the most provocative plays that Williams wrote. We’ve got the perfect cast, and our tech crew and designers are at the top of their game. We recently had a production meeting, and I felt so much excitement knowing that this production is in their hands. I can’t wait for everyone to see the finished product. &

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THE DRIVE TO SERVE

ST. CHARLES NISSAN

by julia m. johnson

CHANCES ARE, your parents and grandparents spent weeks driving to dealerships and considering options whenever they purchased a car. In today’s busy and time-challenged environment, however, convenience and streamlined service are the expectation, and the professionals at St. Charles Automotive Group are well versed in making the customer experience efficient and enjoyable. With Nissan, Hyundai, Genesis and pre-owned vehicles all on one modern, 50-acre site in St. Peters, they’ve created a sales and service environment where you can spend minimal time and get optimal results.

President and general manager Kevin Maher Jr. says a recent renovation of the Hyundai showroom has created a luxurious, customer-centric atmosphere, the Nissan showroom will get a whole new look next year, and new Genesis sales space will be finished soon. “For customers who are looking at more than one manufacturer, this is a one-stop trip,” Maher says. “We also have hundreds of used vehicles at any time, and you can walk from one salesfloor to the next to find what you want. It’s also easy to buy online.”

Maher says the new Hyundai showroom includes bright, comfortable, functional space for customers to enjoy, and the new Nissan and Genesis showrooms also will offer modern amenities and impressive technology. “We’ll have more electric vehicle charging stations and other forward-thinking features as well,” he says. “We are building for the future.”

The exhilaration of fresh new space dovetails well with the company’s other exciting news—two prestigious manufacturer’s awards bestowed on the Nissan dealership this year. First came the Nissan Award of Excellence, the result of a year of hard work and top-notch service, and then the dealership won Nissan’s Global Award of Excellence,

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“We are over the moon about this,” Maher says. “We’re the only Nissan dealership in Missouri that has received the Award of Excellence the past two years and the global award for 2023. It’s a big deal.” To be recognized in this way, St. Charles Nissan had to hit a number of lofty goals in sales and service satisfaction, facility presentation, and new and pre-owned sales volume.

Maher says none of the accolades would have been possible without the company’s dedicated employees, many of whom have been on staff for years. “It took our entire team to do it,” he says. “It happened because we keep these goals in mind all year long, and that attitude drives the win.” Maher adds that the staff’s longevity is unusual for any industry. “Our average employee tenure is 17 years,” he notes. “That’s basically unheard of in the auto business.”

Other secrets to success include a Golden Rule of service— treat others as you’d wish to be treated—and a customer-focused attitude in all departments, including sales, service and parts. “We want every client to walk out saying, ‘That was the easiest, most enjoyable automotive experience I’ve ever had,’” Maher says. “We are fully committed to fairness and transparency, and that philosophy doesn’t just keep our staff loyal—it keeps our customers coming back.” &

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AUDI Q4 E-TRON

by robert w. paster

THE TWO HOTTEST TRENDS IN THE AUTOMOTIVE WORLD these days are SUVs and electric vehicles. The new Audi Q4 50 e-tron quattro sportback checks both boxes as an all electric midsize SUV aimed squarely at America’s ever-growing market.

The Q4 sportback sets itself apart with its distinctive styling, particularly its sharply raked rear hatch, which at first glance makes it look a lot sportier than the typical square back SUV. It also improves aerodynamics, which in turn increases driving range, always a positive for an electric vehicle. The negative is that the slope of the hatch limits the height and volume of cargo that can be carried and slightly impinges on rearward visibility. Since most people don’t have to carry that much stuff that often, the tradeoff seems pretty reasonable. The other most appealing quality of the Q4 is its size: not too big, not too small; easily maneuverable yet with interior volume that provides plenty of room and comfort for occupants and space for a modicum of cargo. Audi interiors have set the standard for automotive interiors for many years now, and it’s easy to see why. Rich leather covers the moderately bolstered heated front seats and the manual tilt/telescoping steering wheel while controls and the dash design are pleasing to the eye. Easy to use hard buttons are used for the dual automatic climate control. Audio controls are a bit different, with a circle in the center console over which you can run your finger to control volume and press left or right to go control the radio dial. The touchscreen at the top of the center console blends nicely into the dash and is usable, with hard buttons to the left of the screen that let you choose which mode to enter such as audio, navigation, etc. Two large sunroofs over the front and rear passenger compartments create an airy cabin. The front one opens and tilts. The rear seat is very roomy; there’s a surprising amount of leg room for a relatively small SUV, and rear seat passengers get their own air vents and USB ports. The cargo area has a nice large electric hatchback opening with a tonneau cover and offers a decent amount of cargo space. The rear seat folds 40/20/40 for additional capacity.

One of the greatest benefits of an electric car is the instantaneous torque from the electric motor, which basically means that you have access to all your power the second you step on the accelerator. The Q4’s 82 kWh battery propels it to 60 mph in just 5.8 seconds and it’s quite a trip. Power is sent to two electric motors, one in front, one in back, providing the Q4 with all-wheel-drive stability through an automatic transmission. The downside to battery power is that the batteries are heavy, meaning that moving all that mass from side to side or trying to stop it takes a bit more effort than it does in a lighter internal combustion engine vehicle. That said, thanks to its relatively demure size, the Q4 handles more than adequately for an SUV, and though the brakes aren’t quite as firm or strong as they would be on a lighter vehicle, braking is more than adequate for daily driving and adds the benefit of regenerative braking, which can recharge the battery from the force of the braking mechanism. Regen braking can be adjusted to suit the driver’s taste, ranging from hardly at all to bringing the vehicle to a gradual full stop when the foot is removed from the accelerator.

A myriad of safety features insure passenger and vehicle safety, including front and rear parking sensors, a rear view camera with guidelines, forward collision warning with auto braking, lane departure warning, blind spot warning, rear cross traffic warning with auto braking, a heads-up windshield display, adaptive cruise control, and available park assist that allows the car to park itself into a perpendicular or parallel parking space.

According to Michael Caros (great name for someone in the car industry), salesman at Plaza Audi, “The Q4 e-tron is a great new electric alternative in its size segment. The GPS system can tell you where to charge so you don’t have to worry about running out of power." &

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There aren’t many murders in Ireland so when one happens the press coverage is thick. Here is a quirky true crime story about a man who commits two murders and the biographer who decides there must be more to the story. Not your typical book, but one that will keep you hooked and expand your vocabulary. I am thankful Kindle has a dictionary feature!

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MATT HELMS OF ELLA & OLLIE POPCORN

FOR MATT HELMS, GROWING THINGS HAS ALWAYS BEEN A FAMILY AFFAIR. For more than 170 years and seven generations, his family has been farming in Belleville, Illinois. While his older brother currently runs the family farm, Helms has never lost interest in agriculture. His day job is at BioGenerator Ventures, which focuses on investment and development of startups in food and agriculture technology. He also used the farm to launch his own company: Ella & Ollie Popcorn.

Growing up, Helms enjoyed the excitement of being in a farming family. “I was the youngest child, so I loved to do things like riding in the tractor cab with my older brother—sometimes, I would fall asleep in the space behind the seat,” he recalls. “I loved playing in the big corn pile and baling hay. Whatever my dad and older brother were doing, I wanted to do, too.”

Helms also spent a lot of time with his maternal grandfather, Oliver, working in his garden, riding along in the truck during harvest or making pies. “Food and cooking were a big thing in our family,” he notes. Sleepovers at his grandparents’ home also were a regular part of his childhood. When he’d stay over, Oliver would make popcorn on the stovetop. “We’d watch Hee Haw and Cardinals baseball,” he says. “I have such fond memories of those times. It really made me a popcorn lover.”

When it came time to decide on a career, Helms briefly considered becoming a lawyer. However, his passion for plants and horticulture pushed him to pursue a degree in agronomics from the University of Illinois. “After my first agriculture job, I did briefly work as a consultant—having grown up on a farm, I wanted to make sure I wasn’t missing out on anything,” he notes. “It didn’t take long for me to figure out it wasn’t for me. I just kept going back to what I’m passionate about.”

Coming from a family of entrepreneurs and risk-takers, Helms decided to launch his own business with his wife, Michelle. He also wanted to add to the

family farm, offering the next generation an exciting new component to build on. “I want my daughter and nephews to do whatever they want, but if they want to get involved with the farm, I think it’s important to help cultivate that interest,” he explains. “My wife and daughter also love popcorn. We realized no one in the St. Louis area was growing it, so there was a gap that we could fill.”

When naming the business, Helms once again was inspired by his family and its generational connections. Taking his grandfather’s name, Oliver, and his daughter’s middle name, Ella, he and his wife decided upon Ella & Ollie. “We didn’t want to pressure our daughter by putting her first name at the center of the company, but we wanted to tie together the generations that love popcorn,” he explains. “It feels fun and modern, but also has a link to history.”

To launch Ella & Ollie Popcorn, Helms first had to find what variety of popcorn to grow. After internet research and consulting various heirloom popcorn breeders, he and his family held a taste test. “My daughter made a questionnaire for our friends and family to score each variety,” he says. “We found that one was winning in most categories—from size and appearance to taste.” Helms planted two acres of the winning variety, and it became Ella & Ollie’s signature popcorn. The company has since started growing

more varieties, including mushroom popcorn, which pops more spherically and contains fewer hulls, and popcorn for movie theaters, which pops bigger and fluffier.

Along with growing more popcorn varieties, Ella & Ollie also expanded its offerings to include olive oils and seasonings. “We worked with another family farm to create the olive oils,” Helms notes. “A lot of people think of popcorn as a guilty pleasure, and it can be if you pair it with butter or coconut oil. However, olive oil is a healthier choice. It was a deliberate decision to provide families a healthy option. Another great thing about popcorn is that it is gluten-free, so it works for people with Celiac disease or other dietary restrictions.”

With the popularity of microwave and pre-popped varieties, it can be easy to forget that popcorn is a type of produce that can be locally grown like other vegetables and fruits. Helms says there can be unexpected benefits to choosing to purchase a local product. “Along with supporting local farmers and boosting the economy, it’s also more sustainable,” he

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For Cecilia Harris, helping others is her greatest passion. Her company Extracare Home Health Agency provides in-home care to families throughout the St. Louis region. Alongside her daughters Katie and Tyler, she also founded Building Opportunities in Support of Sisters (BOSS), a nonprofit dedicated to reducing professional and financial disparities for underserved young women.

HOW DID YOUR COMPANY START?

I was attending Saint Louis University, and like a lot of college students, I had to figure out a way to make some extra income. I decided to take a health care route. I worked with families to provide care for their loved ones. I found that the experience felt really good. There was something about giving back to someone else that made it more than a job but something worth living for. I’d discovered what I was passionate about.

WITH 20 YEARS IN THE BUSINESS, WHAT HAVE YOU LEARNED?

If you’re getting into this field, you have to have the heart to care for people. You have to want to make a real difference in other’s lives, not just be a temporary presence. I’ve also learned the importance of selecting employees. I’m sending people into our client’s personal spaces. You have to invest in people who you would feel good about placing in your own home.

WHY ST. LOUIS?

This is home for me. It’s where my family is, and that’s very important to me. After having worked with so many other families, I also believe in the community here. I’ve always felt like St. Louis is where I need to be.

TELL ME ABOUT BOSS.

It’s a nonprofit I started with my daughters to support high school students who need some coaching and mentoring. We prepare them with the tools they’ll need for success through lectures and career workshops, but it’s not just a seminar. We also match them with mentors who continue working with them throughout the year. It’s phenomenal to watch these young women and see what they take away from the opportunity.

AS A BUSINESSWOMAN, WHAT’S THE MUST-HAVE ITEM IN YOUR CLOSET?

You have to have that ultimate gown. That statement piece for when that big networking event or gala happens. Personally, the pieces I really enjoy in my closet are my sneakers and athletic wear. Working out is a way of investing in your health, and that is important to me.

WHAT ARE YOUR FAVORITE TRAVEL DESTINATIONS?

I would have to say D.C., Atlanta and Chicago.

BEACH OR MOUNTAINS?

Beach for sure—I love being near the water!

WHAT IS THE BEST ADVICE YOU’VE EVER RECEIVED?

If you do something, do it with passion. If you love it, then it won’t feel like work and you can pour your whole self into it.

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OUR EYEBROWS SAY A LOT about us to the world. They are one of the most expressive parts of the face, telegraphing our happiness, anger, surprise and more. It’s important not to let their appearance and care fall to the wayside. At Pur-One Medispa, the goal is to uplift St. Louisans, so they can face any challenge feeling confident in their appearance— including their eyebrows. At the medispa in Des Peres, licensed esthetician Courtney Carr also offers microblading services.

Microblading is a form of semi-permanent eyebrow tattooing. The technique involves placing hairlike strokes to shape and define the eyebrow area. Carr says that the initial treatment requires two appointments. “The first involves building a shape to the brows and placing strokes to blend with the existing hair,” she explains. “It typically takes around two to three hours, and it is followed by an initial touch-up appointment that takes around an hour and a half.” To ensure clients remain comfortable during the procedure, two numbing agents are used.

Following the first round of microblading, the initial healing process takes 10 days. Carr advises that patients should not get the eyebrow area wet during this time. “I usually suggest that when showering, the client press the shower head downward so that the water doesn’t hit the brows directly,” she says. “Profuse sweating also should be avoided. Makeup can be worn during this period, but only around the eyebrow area, not directly over it.”

Carr says that maintaining your eyebrows is easier after microblading, requiring only the light tweezing of any hairs

within the fattier eyelid area. After the procedure, if you still wish to improve the appearance of your brows, she notes there are other treatments you can combine with microblading. “For some clients that have gray eyebrow hair coming in or just have lighter brows in general, a tint and tweeze is a great service to give the brows a more manicured look,” she explains.

How long you maintain your desired look depends on your skin, according to Carr. She notes that people with normal to dry skin tend to retain microblading pigment for a longer period of time than those who have oilier skin. When it comes to maintenance, she suggests a regular touch-up appointment. “I recommend coming in for treatment anywhere from six months to a year after the initial procedure,” she says. “Once we place pigment back in the skin, it’s possible that the client wouldn’t need another touch-up for a longer period of time, such as a year and half or two years.”

This September will mark Carr’s fifth year of offering microblading. In that time, she’s worked with a variety of clients, ranging in age from early 20s to late 80s. “I’ve worked with moms, nurses, and teachers,” she says. “I’ve helped people cover scarring within the eyebrow area that has resulted in minor loss of hair and people with hypothyroidism who have experienced loss of all eyebrow hair, as well as cancer survivors. I’m confident that I can use microblading to meet a wide variety of client needs. Whatever your brow concerns, my goal is to boost your confidence!” &

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Reading Between the (Fine) Lines

BY STEPHANIE WALLACE

We spend

a lot of time thinking about wrinkles—

from the crow’s feet around our eyes to the furrows that form between our brows. While they are a sign of aging, fine lines and wrinkles also can be a reflection of a life lived well—from the sorrows and stresses we’ve overcome to the joy and laughter we’ve enjoyed. We’ve got the details on types of wrinkles, what can cause them and how to slow them.

static vs. dynamic

Wrinkles and fine lines generally fall into two categories: static and dynamic. Static wrinkles occur as we age due to the loss of elasticity in our skin that naturally occurs. Gravity takes over, causing the skin to droop and crease. An example is wrinkles that form alongside jowls. Dynamic wrinkles are caused by repeated facial movements. For example, if you frequently drink from a straw, the regular pursing of your lips could lead to the formation of fine lines. Dynamic wrinkles can become static wrinkles over time. For example, crow’s feet are caused by muscle contraction, but their appearance deepens with the loss of elastin and collagen in the skin that comes with age.

WORRY LINES: Eyebrows are responsible for many nonverbal cues, so the forehead is a common place to form dynamic wrinkles. Worry lines typically run horizontally across the top of T-zone. They are often formed by expressions of worry, shock and anxiety. They also can form vertically between the eyebrows.

BUNNY LINES: These fine lines appear diagonally and vertically on the bridge or either side of the nose. They are caused by repeated contractions of the nasalis muscle, such as when squinting or laughing.

a wrinkle-reducing lifestyle

CROW’S FEET: Also known as lateral canthal lines, these fine lines form on the outer corners of your eyes. They are caused by tiny muscles contracting in the outer corner of your eyes as you make facial expressions related to a wide variety of emotions, such as joy, stress and sadness. Crow’s feet usually start as noticeable lines that form when smiling or squinting, and over time, they become visible even when the face is at rest.

LAUGH LINES: As we age, our nasolabial folds become more prominent. These are creases that extend from both sides of your nose to the corners of your mouth. While they are often called laugh and smile lines, their prominence is usually not related to repeated expressions of joy, although that can create creases. Instead, it’s more often related to volume loss in the cheeks and reduced collagen and elastin in the skin—both natural effects of aging. Weight gain and dental problems can also cause the nasolabial folds’ appearance to deepen.

No, to reduce the appearance of wrinkles later in life, you don’t have to avoid making any facial expressions that might contract a muscle around your eyes and lips. Skin damage that could lead to earlier or more prominent wrinkles can be thwarted. Along with a good skin care routine (don’t forget sunscreen!), here are some simple changes you can implement.

LIP LINES: Medically known as perioral wrinkles, these lines form vertically around the perimeter of the mouth. They are caused by activity of muscle around the mouth, such as with pursing the lips, and with age, the appearance of the lines can deepen. Lifestyle factors like smoking, sun damage and alcohol consumption also can affect lip lines.

MARIONETTE LINES: These creases extend from the corners of your mouth to your chin. The name comes from the similarity in appearance they share with the vertical lines in the same area on dolls, dummies and marionettes that have moving mouths. They are a natural part of aging, but their appearance can be exacerbated by sun damage, smoking and stress. &

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T & S HOME

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by stephanie wallace

What do you like about the neighborhood?

The home is located in Clayton Gardens, so it’s as close to the city as you can get without living in the city. It’s an incredible neighborhood for families—there are always kids playing outside. You can walk to downtown Clayton, Shaw Park and schools.

Tell me about some standout features of the home. It has a very open layout. When you walk in, you have the formal living and dining rooms, and as soon as you pass through those areas, the kitchen and great room are one big open space. There’s a great atmosphere for conversation and togetherness. The home also has incredible finishes, like crown molding, coffered ceilings and very elegant paneling on the walls.

“We’re moving to another state, but we’ve loved living in the home,” she explains. “We hope the next homeowners appreciate the love and care that went into building this house.”

How is the home for entertaining?

We entertained often. The home has great flow between the great room and deck thanks to a pair of French doors. It’s very common for us to have guests move between indoor and outdoor spaces whenever we have company.

What are the outdoor spaces like?

The deck is great for just relaxing with a friend, and it’s one of my favorite areas. There’s a fireplace and all-weather sound system. Because the property faces north, it’s easy to have a garden. I grew tomatoes, peas, beets, herbs and more. The landscaping offers a lot of privacy to enjoy the outdoor spaces.

Do you have a favorite room?

The great opens up to the kitchen. It’s where we spent time together as a family—watching TV or just hanging out. The kids could do their homework at the kitchen island, or we could bake cookies together and take a break to watch TV while they were in the oven. The large fireplace is great to gather around.

What would you like the next homeowner to know about the property?

We thought about every detail to make it a place where a family could gather together. It also has a quality of finishes you don’t find everywhere. I hope the next homeowners appreciate the care that went in to making this property so special. &

“.THE ATTENTION TO DETAIL REALLY MAKES THIS HOME STAND OUT IN THE ‘NEW’ CONSTRUCTION ARENA!”

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2 Wakefield Drive Ladue I $798,000

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325 N. Meramec Avenue, Unit 24 Clayton I $880,000

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34 Broadview Drive New Listing CLAYTON | $2,695,000

Stately and spacious fourbedroom Claverach Park gem with 6,150 SF of living space on three levels. Highlights include a light filled great-room, fabulous kitchen with two marble center islands, and butler’s pantry. The second level features a large primary suite with dressing area, walk-in closets and luxury bath, three additional bedrooms and baths, and a laundry room. The lower level has a rec room, playroom, utility room, wine cellar, half bath, and pet shower. Also, a wonderful 11’x6’ main floor sunporch, dry walled garage with heater and geothermal HVAC.

8 Hortense Place New Price CENTRAL WEST END | $1,295,000

Eight Hortense Place is a distinguished, traditional home on one of the most coveted streets in STL’s premier CWE neighborhood, just steps from entertainment & blocks from Forest Park. Six bedroom, 4.5 bath gem offered in “as-is” condition. Looking for buyer to finish the renovation. Perfect for both developers and owner/user to renovate and profit. 7,300 SF of living space on a beautiful .36-acre site with a 2-car garage. Convenient to hospitals, highways, downtown, and Clayton

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JOSH GREENE’S WATER MILL PROJECT

Carefully crafted for a fashion designer and his family, this Hamptons home balances robust modernist architecture with charmingly calm colors and curves.

Coastal Creativity

With its commanding presence and a captivating fusion of coastal and transitional design elements, the exterior of the Water Mill project is a true exercise in architectural finesse. The shaker-shingle canvas of the home provides a breathtaking backdrop and contrast to the elegant black-framed windows and doors, creating a splendid symphony of style. If you feel you’re missing a detail of this extravagant exterior—not to worry. The glass-sleek swimming pool offers an exquisite reflection.

Soft Tones and Shapes

Upon entering the interior of the home, visitors are greeted with calming creams, beiges, tans and sands, all of which give the space a cohesive and refined feel. This subdued color palette, met with a circular motif seen in select pieces such as the curved mirror on the left and lantern light on the right, add to an overall theme of softness throughout the project. Photos take center stage as a unifying force in this remarkable project. Every piece is carefully selected to complement and enhance its designated space, resulting in a stunningly cohesive display of artistry in multiple mediums.

A Truly Remarkable Home in the Hamptons

Josh Greene's Water Mill project is a testament to his impeccable design skills and artistic vision. The harmonious blend of modernist architecture, serene colors and captivating shapes creates a truly remarkable home in the Hamptons. From the coastal-inspired exterior to the thoughtfully curated interior, every detail exudes elegance and tranquility. If you're seeking inspiration or simply appreciate exceptional design, we highly recommend visiting Josh Greene's portfolio and following his projects on Instagram. &

DESIGN: JOSH GREENE | PHOTOS: NGOC MINH NGO AND JOSH MCHUGH

by stephanie wallace

DESIGN THROUGH THE DECADES

Interior design is driven by the world around us—and just like our world, it’s constantly changing. Each decade is marked by its own style movements and trends. T&S is taking a look back at 100 years of design trends.

1920S ART DECO

In 1922, King Tutankhamun’s Egyptian tomb was discovered, captivating the world. The motifs of ancient civilizations along with the combination of cubist art is found throughout art deco design. The style celebrates ornamentation with a focus on luxurious materials, sensuous contours, repeating patterns and bold colors.

1930S ART MODERNE

With the Great Depression, the opulence of Art Deco gave way to the industrial practicality of Art Moderne or Streamline Moderne. The sleeker, more minimalist approach to design stripped away the ornamentation to focus on aerodynamics and curving forms. The decade also embraced metalwork, black and white flooring, modern furnishings and bold geometrics.

1950S MIDCENTURY MODERN

Thanks to a newly prosperous middle class, modernism hit the mainstream with mid century modern design in the ’50s. Elements like Terrazzo floors, light wood and minimalist lines replaced more traditional, ornate decor. The Space Race also had an impact on home decor with starburst and boomerangs motifs appearing on items like barware, clocks, lamps and upholstery.

1960S COUNTERCULTURE dynamic

1940S WARTIME TRANSITION

World War II put design innovation on hold. Industry shifted to focus on the war effort, and there were material shortages for consumer goods. Even after the war, steel and metal were in short supply, so wood became the material of choice. Interior design had a more cobbled together approach for the average homeowner with a patchwork of elements.

The 1960s were marked by dynamic, graphic and colorful design—thanks in part to the rebellion of young people against tradition. Furniture from materials like Luctire, fiberglass and colored plastic was mass produced affordably. Other popular elements include lava lamps, paisley and floral prints, and color palettes inspired by India and Morocco.

1970S BACK TO NATURE

While the 1950s and 1960s embraced an idealized look toward the future, the ’70s saw interior design that embraced nature and romanticized the past. Instead of mass-produced, sleek furniture, items with a more natural, handcrafted aesthetic became popular. Modernism shifted to maximalism with woven textiles, wood paneling, houseplants and natural materials like stone, granite and wicker taking center stage.

1990S SHABBY CHIC

The ’90s hit the brakes on the loud ’80s aesthetic. Color palettes became more muted with sage, dark green, rustic golds, terra-cotta, earthy reds and beige. Repurposing items and thrifting also became popular for young homeowners, leading to the rise of shabby chic design. Hallmarks included chalk-painted furniture, slipcovered sofas, crystal chandeliers and iron beds with canopies.

2010S MODERN FARMHOUSE

The 2010s saw the rise of modern farmhouse design—thanks in part to the desire for a nostalgic look back to simpler times. The rustic charm of traditional farmhouse style is given a modern update with clean lines and high contrast neutrals. The look generally features barn doors, rustic wood, shiplap walls or ceilings, and exposed beams and stone or brick.

2000S RETURN TO MINIMALISM

1980S TO THE MAX

Excess defined the 1980s, and interior design was no exception. The move toward maximalism that started the decade before was complete. Memphis design became popular with bright colors, abstract decoration and whimsical asymmetrical shapes. Styles like country and prep also took off with more subdued color palettes but a bold focus on pattern with curtains, wallpaper and upholstery.

The early 2000s built on the trends of the ’90s and saw the rise of the McMansion early in the decade. However, following major events like 9/11 and the Great Recession in 2007, mid century modern saw a resurgence. The maximalist approach of the ’70s, ’80s and ’90s was rejected for minimalism and cleaner lines. Materials like stainless steel and granite also saw a boom in popularity.

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LUXURY LISTINGS

Truly exceptional in every way, this custom built home was designed with a timeless style and floor plan, delivering wonderful square footage on all levels without losing a sense of comfort and functionality. The multi-story view from the front entry of a cascading waterfall in the rear offers an unmatched backdrop. Suzie Wells and Liz McDonald | DIELMANN SOTHEBY’S INTERNATIONAL REALTY

gentility, style and grace. Everything is thoughtfully updated from the specimen plantings and knot gardens to the elegant two-story foyer with sweeping staircase.

Keith Manzer and Christopher Klages | GLADYS MANION REAL ESTATE 8227 MARYLAND AVE. | 314.721.4755 | GLADYSMANION.COM

A stately and spacious white washed brick two-story home has a slate roof and 6,150 square feet of living space on three levels. This gorgeous home offers the best of the best!

Joe and Steve Mathes | COLDWELL BANKER REALTY GUNDAKER 9651 CLAYTON ROAD | 314.503.6533 | STEVEANDJOEMATHES.COM

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This stately Ladue home is in the tree-lined Fair Oaks neighborhood. The traditional upscale floor plan offers hardwood floors, beautiful moldings, built-in bookcases and large bright windows throughout.

Rowe Schnoebelen | COMPASS REALTY GROUP 1608 S LINDBERGH BLVD. |

1362 HILLSBORO ROAD, HIGH RIDGE | $1,350,000

This unparalleled private paradise includes 9.57 scenic acres, a very cool, contemporary-rustic home, a stocked 0.75 acre lake, heated in-ground pool, private hot-tub, sauna and more!

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spacious four bedroom, 4.5 bath home sits on a 0.43 acre lot that includes a half sport court and brand new tree house in addition to lovely brick terraces and beautiful landscaping.

110 Lancaster Drive | $2,280,000 4 Bed | 4 Full 1 Half Bath 151 N. Bemiston Avenue | Clayton | $1,995,000 4 Bed | 7 Full 1 Half Bath 53 Portland Place | CWE | $1,649,000 8 Bed | 5 Full 2 Half Bath 11 Daniel Road | Ladue | $669,000 4 Bed | 2 Bath

8 Chateau Oaks | Ladue | $2,999,900 5 Bed | 6 Full 2 Half Bath

Yourself in Dreams

30 FRONTENAC ESTATES DRIVE, FRONTENAC | $1,110,000

This two-story, more than 5,300 square feet home is nestled on 0.85 acres. Notable features include the custom kitchen with breakfast room and butler’s pantry, four season room, master retreat with custom walk-in closet and luxury bath, finished lower level with rec and craft rooms, and a beautiful stamped concrete patio in the park-like backyard. Mark and Neil Gellman | The Gellman Team EXP REALTY | 2001 S. HANLEY ROAD, STE. 185 314.336.1991 | THEGELLMANTEAM.COM

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816 S. HANLEY ROAD, NO. 7A, CLAYTON | $975,000

Experience sophistication at its finest in this premier Clayton building. The stunning three-bed, three-bath condo boasts an abundance of natural light and breathtaking views. To top it off, it has been decorated by Jimmy Jamieson, adding a touch of elegance to the already fabulous interior.

Ted Wight DIELMANN SOTHEBY’S INTERNATIONAL REALTY 8301 MARYLAND AVE., NO. 100 | 314.607.5555 | TEDWIGHTREALESTATE.COM

10 BABLER LANE, LADUE | $925,000

Conveniently located near Warson and Litzsinger roads, this sprawling Ladue ranch on one acre has modern amenities and an outdoor oasis, including terrace saltwater pool.

Sarah Bernard REDKEY REALTY LEADERS | 16123 CHESTERFIELD PARKWAY W. 314.780.9070 | SARAHBERNARDTEAM.COM

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for your money what you get

BY STEPHANIE WALLACE ■ PHOTOS COURTESY OF REALTOR.COM

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HOMEWORK

AUG. 12, 2015

DEAR HOMEWORK,

We love the traditional look of our home and the neighborhood. We know we are seriously overgrown and need landscaping help, and we are planning to paint the exterior trim but are not sure whether a color change would make it lose its character.

Any ideas to freshen up this 80-year-old classic would be greatly appreciated.

Sincerely,

—CAN’T SEE THE HOUSE FOR THE TREES

DEAR JUST A LITTLE BIT COUNTRY,

There are a few landscaping rules I hold dear and the first one is: Never hide good-looking architecture with plantings. Your house is a good example why. Your home has a handsomely composed façade, but important elements such as the dramatic chimney are completely upstaged by a giant Magnolia tree.

Upscale houses from the ’20s and ’30s rarely need much landscaping to look good. They have great materials, composition, details and neighborhoods—in other words, they start off looking good, so don’t mess it up. In this case, only the front-facing air conditioner needs to be hidden (which, amusingly, it isn’t).

You also ask about color options. I think if you choose one of the colors typically found in a multi-colored slate roof, it will work on a terra cotta-colored brick house. In this example, I used a slate green color, which I think enhances the home’s character.

Finally, I show a simple landscape scheme at the base of the house, all kept lower than the ground-floor windowsills. A new evergreen hedge hides the A.C. unit. A new semi-circle of grasses and flowers at the sidewalk gives a welcome pop of color and completes the foreground view of the house.

Thanks for sharing this example.

HOMEWORK

HOMEWORK WAS PENNED BY THE LATE PAUL DOERNER, FOUNDING PARTNER OF THE LAWRENCE GROUP. TO CELEBRATE HIS LEGACY, T&S IS PULLING SOME OF HIS OLDER COLUMNS FROM THE ARCHIVES TO SHARE.