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ith its 7,000-square-foot showroom, Michael Genovese Jewelers has one of the largest selections in the country. The family-owned business has been serving St. Louis since 1981. Owner Joe Genovese started working in the industry at age 13, taking over when his father, Michael, retired. Today, Joe carries on the vision and mission to make every customer a friend through a passion for beautiful, handcrafted jewelry and a focus on service excellence.

A true custom jeweler, Genovese makes 70% of its stock in house, enabling them to control costs and pass those savings on to their customers. They also believe in supporting their employees and giving back to the community as often as possible.

“We have 32 employees who we take care of as family,” Joe says. “We try to support every local charity we can, donating hundreds of thousands of dollars annually. My father instilled this commitment in me.”

The 17 store designers at Michael Genovese Jewelers know everything there is to know about engineering a piece of jewelry. “Every piece starts as an idea,” Joe says. “Anything people ask for, we can

make. People may have sentimental stones they want to use that have come from family members, and we can incorporate those, too.”

Designers create drawings based on either customer ideas or their own. Then, they design a wax model using the latest computer-aided design technology, which makes the process more accurate and efficient. Once the customer approves the design, they create a wax model with a 3-D printer.

Once approved, the wax model is used to create a cast in which the designers inject the molten precious metal of the client’s choice. The rough cast piece then goes through a finishing process and any stones are set in place. Completing each step in house allows for total quality control.

In addition to custom pieces made specifically for individual customers, Genovese designers also create most of the jewelry that fills the showroom’s cases, including the top-selling Novia designer line.

“Fifty percent are one-of-a-kind pieces that will never be made again,” says Joe. “The other 50%, we’ll make maybe once a year at most, so it’s a really unique collection you won’t see other people wearing.”

Genovese also offers the best selection of classic, best-selling items like diamond studs, diamond bracelets, diamond hoops and diamond pendants. It’s Genovese’s dedication to providing highly personal customer service that makes all the difference.

“When people come visit our store, they see how easy we make the process, whether they are designing an engagement ring or buying a gift,” Joe says. “We offer them a drink—they can have a beer, wine or a mimosa. We sit down with them, and they have our full attention for however long they need us.”

Every piece starts as an idea. Anything people ask for, we can make.

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by stephanie wallace

together credit union

St. Louis CITY SC goalkeeper and captain Roman Bürki has been named the official spokesperson for the credit union. The partnership follows the launch of Saves for Savings, an initiative that provides a $300 savings account for a local student for every save by CITY SC during the 2023 regular season.

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the very asian foundation

The nonprofit’s co-founder and 5 On Your Side anchor, Michelle Lee, was named the recipient of the Asian American Journalists Association’s AAPI Community Impact Award. The award recognizes those who champion the spirit of community through their work, leadership, diversity and inclusion.

kirkwood high school Library media specialist

Janet Mees Reinert has been announced as a 2023 Regional Teacher of the Year Honoree. In the spring, Reinert was recognized as the Kirkwood School District

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photographer COLIN MILLER

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children’s education alliance of missouri

The organization received refurbished iPads from CC3 Solutions as part of its SUCC3ED with CC3 initiative. The donation will support the St. Louis-based nonprofit’s mission to improve Missouri’s kindergarten through 12th-grade education system.

BRIGHT FUTURES

GIRLS

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by stephanie wallace

LOUIS

WE FEEL THE IMPACT OF GENDER INEQUALITY every day—from classrooms and boardrooms to the media we consume. U.S. women only earn 82% of what their male peers do and 25% of girls between the ages of 15 and 19 are neither enrolled in education or employed, compared to 10% of boys globally, according to UNICEF. Girls Incorporated of St. Louis works to change these numbers and make gender inequality a thing of the past. For more than 40 years, the nonprofit has been dedicated to inspiring girls and young women to realize their potential through educational, recreational and cultural programs in a safe environment.

“Our mission is to inspire all girls to be strong, smart and bold by providing education and cultural programs in a safe environment that allows them to rise to their aspirations,” CEO and President Cheryl Jones notes. “Our priority is to cultivate the intellectual, emotional and spiritual potential we see in every girl.” Girls Inc. begins working with young women in early childhood and continues to offer support with mentorship and scholarships through college. The local chapter serves more than 9,000 girls annually. Its services include STEM-based programming; summer and after-school offerings in subjects like wellness, media literacy, leadership, performing arts and athletics; and outreach initiatives designed to help girls navigate gender, social and economic barriers.

One of the nonprofit’s major initiatives is Project Accelerate. The program is dedicated to addressing workplace inequalities, especially among women of color in leadership positions. “Project Accelerate works with young women as they transition from high school into college and the workplace,” Jones explains. “We want to change their educational and career trajectory by providing scholarships, mentorship, coaching and social and emotional support to pave career pathways that they were previously excluded from. By increasing the support and training offered to young women, we expect to see a growth of female leadership across the private, governmental and educational sectors.”

To make its programs possible, Girls Inc. relies on community support in the form of both volunteers and donations. Its largest annual fundraiser is its Strong, Smart and Bold Luncheon. “Along with raising critical funds, the luncheon also is our chance to showcase our programs, champion young women and honor those who have made our mission possible,” Jones says. “This year, we are honoring those who have participated in Project Accelerate. You’ll have the opportunity to meet the best and brightest in person and see where your support goes.” The Strong, Smart and Bold Luncheon is Nov. 9 at The Ritz-Carlton, St. Louis.

Jones is excited to share the full spectrum of services and programming that Girls Inc. offers with the community. The nonprofit provides girls aged 5 to 24 with the tools necessary to navigate economic, gender and social barriers—from increasing media literacy to learning about money management and everything in between. “We hope that the St. Louis community will be inspired to get involved,” Jones notes. “We want to motivate people to invest in the future and help lift up the next generation of women.” &

GIRLS INC. PARTICIPANTS SYDNEY N., SUMMER C., MAE H. AND JAILEE J.

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OF THE TOWNS talk

by bill beggs jr.

the metro

We got some lime-coconut flavored seltzer water by mistake in our last Instacart grocery delivery. Instantly it made me think of the Harry Nilsson novelty song from 1972: “Put de lime in the coconut, drink ‘em bot’ up / Put de lime in the coconut and call me in the morning…” It’s been an earworm ever since. Sorry if just mentioning it did the same thing to you. I honestly hope the incessant calypso beat doesn’t drive you coco-nutty enough to call the doctor in the middle of the night, pleading for a tummy-ache remedy. The sparkling water ‘beverage’ didn’t cause indigestion, but left me feeling kinda “meh.” OMG: There’s a whole grocery aisle stocked with this bland stuff. When did that happen? Randy and Jane had

central library

An exhibit of stark, evocative Richard Sprengeler photos showcases the unfinished last project of the late sculptor and visionary Bob Cassilly, who wanted to turn an abandoned cement factory in north St. Louis into a castle-themed amusement park. After having worked on the project for more than a decade, envisioning turrets, mounds, a sculpture garden and other ideas as eccentric as those at his beloved City Museum, Cassilly died at the controls of a bulldozer that flipped over in September 2011. He was 61. Cassilly was trying to outdo himself at Cementland—if it ever were to be finished, who could know whether it would have been remotely similar to his grand plan. The property was stuck in probate for years before finally being awarded to Melissa Giovanna ‘Gigi’ Zompa Cassilly, who’d at first expressed a desire to complete her late husband’s vision for the 54-plus-acre site near the river. It was sold in June 2022 at auction for $785,000. A portion along the riverfront sold to Beelman Trucking Co. for $1.4 million two years before that. The remainder has languished and is now overgrown and covered in graffiti. Sprengeler’s photos will be arrayed on the third floor of St. Louis Public Library’s Central Branch through Sept. 22. If you haven’t visited our awe-inspiring Carnegie Library downtown, you’ve yet to admire a prime example of grand architecture at the turn of the (previous) century. It boasts some of the finest examples of Beaux-Arts and Neo-Classical Architecture in the United States. Designed by renowned architect Cass Gilbert and completed in 1912, the structure, which occupies a full city block, is a historic treasure. In 1901, philanthropist Andrew Carnegie had made a substantial gift that allowed for construction of the Central Library and six neighborhood branches, four of which still exist throughout the city today.

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a cooler full of black-raspberry flavored water at their 50th-anniversary party. That was the first time I’d tried any variation of this stuff, which tastes like nothing more than a fruit soda left on the kitchen counter overnight for all the ice in the glass to melt. Someone must like it, or think they’re dieting by replacing real lemon-lime soda with “guilt-free,” zero-calorie lime-coconut water that smells only faintly like you “put de lime in the coconut.” Or maybe it’s some other exotic-yet-flavorless ‘flavor,’ like fuji apple, strawberry-kiwi or mango. I’d say none of it even has 1% more flavor than bottled water, which I’m not going to address here except to remind readers that most everywhere in the StL, fresh cool water comes right out of the tap. Still too warm? Fill a pitcher and refrigerate overnight. And, anyhow, when did coconut become such a thing? I like it in cake or a candy bar, but in perfume, shampoo and deodorant? Please, people, keep your tropical fantasies to yourselves—some of us have to share elevators with you!

TT trivia

HARRY NILSSON HAD HIS BIGGEST SUCCESS IN THE TOP 40 THE SAME YEAR AS “COCONUT” with “Without You,” the cover of a tearjerker by what tragedy-plagued band?

Of the 120 children shot in unintentional shootings in 2022 in St. Louis, 26 died. That means a child is caught in the crossfire nearly every three days—more than two kids a week wounded by gunfire. The St. Louis Story Stitchers artists collective, based at The Center in the Grand Center Arts District, works to reduce that number. The collective’s youth leaders have written, produced, recorded and released another hip-hop single designed to raise awareness of gun violence in St. Louis. Story Stitchers’ collaborative studio created “3 Steps Back,” with music by BlueBeatz and vocals by KP Dennis and Bobby Norfolk. Its beats are definitely dope, its purpose purely positive: To teach children how to react safely if they come across a firearm—take three steps back and tell an adult. The song also hopes to encourage adults to safely store a firearm by unloading, locking and securing the gun. What’s more, it’s a fun jam.

LAST ISSUE’S Q & A

When did Downton Abbey, the historical drama about British aristocrats and the men and women who served them, air on PBS?

All six seasons of Downton Abbey aired here on PBS from Jan. 9, 2011, to March 6, 2016. Unless you were swept up in this five-year cultural phenomenon, incessant cocktail-party jabber about the series was nothing but annoying. What’s that? Um, no, I didn’t watch any of it.

BILL BEGGS JR. HAS WORN MANY HATS AT NEWSPAPERS, MAGAZINES AND IN MARKETING COMMUNICATIONS SINCE BEFORE THE ERA OF THE FLOPPY DISC. NOW HE JUST WEARS

PHOTO: RICHARD SPRENGELER

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Michael ‘Supe’ Granda must really want to make it past St. Peter and through the Pearly Gates one day, because he’s been raising a little hell with his band for more than 50 years. Actually, somewhat longer if you consider Family Tree, the Springfield, Missouri, band that would become The Ozark Mountain Daredevils. And bassist Granda, a 1969 grad of Lindbergh High, had been gigging around the Lou in various bands since 1964. You may be familiar with the Daredevils’ “If You Wanna Get to Heaven,” from 1973, and the following year’s “Jackie Blue,” which means you’ve listened to KSHE-95 at least once. Real Rock Radio had Daredevils in the studio last week—Granda and his eight other country-bluegrass rockers return to the Lou for a 7 p.m. show on Sunday, Sept. 10, at The Factory in Chesterfield Valley. They still raise a little hell, and plenty of hysteria, with their new single, “More Cowbell,” released June 30. And it’s everything you could possibly hope for. Yes, it evokes the classic SNL sketch where producer Christopher Walken tells a band that he has a fever for the cowbell, which is played, more and more furiously, by Will Ferrell. Recently, Granda and his wife, Julie, trekked to Barcelona, which is referenced in Granda’s lyrics. He recalls, “I played guitar, and Julie played cowbell,” with both prone to fits of laughter throughout. “We took it to the band and worked it out.” The Daredevils’ sense of humor, a key to their popularity since the early 1970s, remains intact. The single’s cover art is a cowbell with a volume meter turned up to 11, which references the ‘mockumentary’ This Is Spinal Tap. Such levity started about 50 years ago, which is obvious from our vintage black and white band photo. (Granda, with the dark, bushy beard, is in the middle.) A popular cut from their debut LP, “Chicken Train Stomp,” features ‘fowl clucking.’ The Daredevils you’ll experience next month is a band larger than the one that recorded its major-label albums on A&M Records. “We’ll play the old songs— people would be perturbed if we didn’t,” Granda says. “But some of the ‘new’ songs are 20 years old.” Harmonica is essential to the vibe, although when ace Steve Cash passed away three years ago, Granda wasn’t sure they could continue. “But this is what Steve would’ve wanted,” he says. Nick Sibley has picked up where Cash left off, and Molly Healey plays fiddle and cello. And she sings, as do Granda, fellow original member John Dillon and most everyone else. “We reproduce the lush vocal harmonies you hear on record. Songs are the driving force, instead of how big our amps are!” Sorry you’ve been in suspense this long, but why ‘Supe?’ Granda would wear a Superman costume back in the day. It doesn’t fit anymore, but a Santa suit does. Not only does he play the Jolly Old Elf every year, he’s written a book about it, not to mention another about the Daredevils, It Shined. For more info about the 3,000-seat venue or for tickets, visit thefactorystl.com. &

Michael ‘Supe’ Granda

The Whitaker St. Louis Filmmakers Showcase has announced its 2023 winners. The Chellapa-Vedavalli Foundation Best of Fest Essy Awards and $500 cash prizes were awarded to the documentary Bring Dat Mono Back from filmmaker Edward Thornton and narrative short Captcha by director Andy Compto. Thirteen of the films presented at the showcase have been invited to the St. Louis International Film Festival later this fall.

THE INSIDER

Support the ST. LOUIS COUNTY LIBRARY FOUNDATION

in style on Aug. 23 at its Great Gatsby Celebration! The evening will include a unique dining experience, jazz entertainment and an opportunity to learn about the library’s recent achievements. FOR MORE INFORMATION OR TO PURCHASE TICKETS, VISIT SLCL23.GIVESMART.COM.

Artisans in THE LOOP in U. City is celebrating its grand reopening this weekend! On Aug. 11, the art gallery is hosting an open house, followed by a ribbon cutting ceremony and artist demonstrations Aug. 12. The weekend wraps up with an ARTIST MINGLE & MIMOSAS event on Aug 13. LEARN MORE AT ARTISANSINTHELOOP.COM.

The St. Louis chapter of the Archaeological Institute of America published a book about the 2016-2019 archaeological excavation at Historic Sappington House, which featured local students from nine high schools participating in learning workshops. The book will be on sale for $15 at the Loft Gift Shop. Proceeds will go toward relocating the dismantled Affton Sappington family log house to Historic Sappington Park.

PATTY

by patty hannum

MY PARENTS APPARENTLY HAD A life—a fun life—that they failed to include their six little darlings in. Or you could say they loved each other a bit more than any of their kids. I know it is an odd opening statement, but you will understand by the end. I promise.

There were five remaining boxes from my long deceased parents that I could never bring myself to go through. My parents were not a sentimental pair. We took very few photos regardless of the occasion. My parents never pretended we were artists so there were no kindergarten paintings or handmade knick knacks cluttering up the place. Baby blankies were tossed after the final use. When each of us moved out, we got a photo album my mom put together of us as children. A loving gesture but as the youngest of six mine was awfully thin. So much so that my mom tried to pass off my older sister’s baby picture as mine. It didn’t work—I was a redhead, and Teresa was not.

STARTING THIS MONTH, THE ST. LOUIS KAPLAN FELDMAN HOLOCAUST MUSEUM

will offer weekly public sessions in the Impact Lab, the museum’s newest interactive, educational space. Held Wednesdays and Saturdays, the ticketed sessions feature a trained facilitator who will guide participants through the lab’s three key experiences.

Anyway, my sister very kindly offered to go through the last few of their belongings with me. I was reluctant because I miss my parents and just didn’t feel like poking around their stuff, but one afternoon, we tackled the remaining boxes where we found evidence of the secret life they had been living. The boxes were full of photo albums, not of their family, but of all the amazing trips they took once the kids had flown the coop. There was mom and dad in Ireland, Italy, London and Canada without a child in sight. These two, forever married, had a life that included not one of their kids! Stunning! It was how I felt after I realized my parents actually, well, had sex. (Oh, don’t think about your own parents whatever you do!) So that was the scam they pulled. Have six kids in 13 years and then wait until they leave before you bring out the real fun!

Now let me be clear, all of us were loved, a few even cherished (Tim), all of us fed and educated and grew up in a funny, quirky family that made us

who we are today. But our family vacations were float trips and camping. No hotels for the eight of us—we communed with nature. My parents were holding on to their plans for international travel until we all left. No feeling bad because you left someone at home. No, just leave their six kids plus spouses plus grandchildren and fly here and there for a holiday. My parents had a life! No rocking chairs for these two. Play dates with grandkids? Hmm not necessary until they could play Scrabble or fish. Yes, my parents spent the last twenty years together having fun!

My sister and I got through the boxes pretty quickly with donate, pitch and pass on piles. A few random family pictures were found, copied and sent along, but do you keep every photo album of your parents and their fun filled adventures with people whose names you weren’t completely sure of? Well, that will be up to you when your time comes. I must dash. It is time to put together my photo album of Alaska. Peace my peeps. &

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7. Union Avenue Opera

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STUDENT STANDOUTS

by stephanie wallace

ABBY GREENE OF KIRKWOOD HIGH SCHOOL

MAKE NO MISTAKE, ABBY GREENE is not someone to stay on the sidelines. As the captain of the Kirkwood High dance team, she not only cheers on the school’s football and basketball teams, but also leads her own teammates to victory at competitions—including first place finishes in her solos. T&S caught up with the senior to learn more about her motivation and what she’s looking forward to in her final year.

Where did your interest in dance come from?

I actually started later than most. I took dance classes when I was around 2 or 3, but my mom realized it wasn’t for me at the time. She then tried every sport a parent could think to put their child in, but none of them were the right fit. Around fifth grade, I started watching Dance Moms, and I loved seeing the dance routines and the way the girls moved. I started trying to learn dances and looking up tutorials on YouTube. Because of that interest, I started at a dance studio, and then freshman year, I tried out for the Kirkwood Pommies and made it.

What is your favorite thing about performing?

Whether it’s a competition or a game, I love the energy and rush that performing gives you. It’s something that’s hard to describe. It’s a little nerve wracking, but nothing beats the feeling of coming off the floor when you’ve done a routine well. Getting to share it with the rest of the team makes it just that much more fun. It’s a common misconception that dance teams just stand on the sidelines to cheer at football or basketball games, but our season is longer than other high school sports. So much conditioning and practice goes into routines—there’s a whole other side that people don’t see.

Why did you decide to take on the responsibility of being captain?

I love everything about Pommies and what we work so hard for. I’ve always enjoyed being a leader—I’m also editor in chief of the school yearbook. I like being able to help other people get to where they need to go. This team has the most potential I’ve ever seen, and I hope that I can help push us to success. Our goal is to make it to nationals in Orlando this year.

What are you looking forward to during your senior year?

Just the little things that you get to do. I just want to spend time with my fellow seniors. Dancing in college is a big goal of mine, so I’m looking forward to tryouts. Leaving the Pommies is going to be bittersweet. I hope to have one last ride and make this the best year I’ve ever had.

Do you have any hobbies

Dancing takes up a big chunk of my time. Unlike most high school sports, my club season doesn’t end when my school season begins. It can be hard to have other hobbies, but I have an interest in photography and journalism. I also enjoy helping teach the little kids of my dance studio. I’m dancing all the time! &

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MY MESSY M M LIFE

BACK TO HUMAN

IN RECENT MONTHS, I experienced some hateful people spreading lies online about my family for the first time as an adult. I was up all night for days on end. I was devastated that someone could so easily take to the internet and type up absolutely anything they wanted without knowing the facts or ever having met us. Although I have been aware of cyber bullying, it was my first personal experience with how crazy people can be on the internet and how far from basic human respect and social skills we have gotten.

We are all glued to our phones and the cyber world. It’s easy to think what we say online doesn’t matter or really affect people. We never have to meet face to face and have real-life conversations with people over these issues, so we feel free to express our thoughts and feelings without repercussions. As an adult, I was upset for days but then I remembered no online keyboard warriors can change my character. I sucked it up and moved on. After all, things on the internet fade away.

But for kids and teens, it’s not that simple. A mean comment on the internet feels like the world to them. Even if it’s a harmless rumor or a misjudgment, they can’t always recover. The statistics of this don’t lie. We can’t change everything or get rid of the internet, but as moms, we have the ability to intervene and make some change—even if it’s a small one in our own home.

Along with instilling confidence in our kids and creating a safe place for them to talk to us about stuff they are going through, I am now so aware of how important it is for me to teach my kids how to act online. I want to teach my kids to be brave enough and humane enough to confront issues face to face. They should never just take to the internet to vent their feelings about other people or share things they wouldn’t want someone to share about them. That’s the easy way out. I wish more adults understood this.

In my own miniscule situation, I mustered up enough courage to confront one of the people who posted about us. Although we never came to an agreement, she thanked me for having the courage to say something. It definitely brought peace and a little more understanding between us.

How many kids could be saved if we as adults set a better example for the next generation? Instead of rushing to our keyboards when we feel upset, we need to first attempt to talk to people. What if we got back to personal conversations instead of public ones? With the internet ever expanding, I think a new goal in motherhood will be to teach my kids to always prioritize relationships and communicate the hard stuff with people face to face and off the internet. I hope I teach them to always think about the person on the other end of everything they write online, and I hope somehow in this intense digital age, we get back to humanity and realize the power of real conversations.

It is never lost on me how we can overcome the failings of society by starting at home and instilling good character in our own kids. Maybe we actually can change the world, one real conversation at a time.

KATELYN YOUNG IS A LOCAL MOM OF FOUR (HER #CRUMBLYCREW) WHO SHARES REAL MOMENTS OF MOTHERHOOD AS IT RELATES TO FASHION, FOOD AND FUN! FOLLOW HER ON INSTAGRAM AT @_KATELYNYOUNG_ OR FOLLOW HER BLOG AT THEBEJULEDLIFE.COM.

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COMMUNITY SCHOOL

At Community, children flourish in an environment of active, experiential learning. Our seasoned faculty engage students (age 3 through grade six) with a curriculum that integrates academics, the arts, physical education and leadership development—all on our beautiful 18-acre campus.

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FORSYTH SCHOOL

Forsyth School fosters a spirit of curiosity and joy, empowering children age 2 through grade six to pursue challenges with confidence. Forsyth’s one-of-a-kind campus and engaging curriculum promote age-appropriate independence and prepare students to thrive in secondary school and beyond.

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THE FULTON SCHOOL

The Fulton School is an independent, co-ed, Montessori school serving children 18 months old through grade 12. Located in Chesterfield along the Highway 40 corridor, the school’s culture of respect, freedom balanced with responsibility and plenty of choices create a unique atmosphere where students thrive.

1100 WHITE ROAD | 314.469.6622 FULTON-SCHOOL.ORG

GRAND CENTER ARTS ACADEMY

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Andrews Academy is a private, co-educational, elementary school offering children, from Junior Kindergarten through Sixth Grade, an exceptional educational journey where curiosity and creativity are encouraged while developing a strong academic foundation. The spacious and diversified classrooms, outdoor educational areas, low student-teacher ratios, individualized learning and hands-on experiences all contribute to student success. Andrews Academy’s mission is foundational to the academic and social development of students as lifelong learners and global citizens.

New City School students (age 3 through grade six) engage joyfully in learning and cultivate their personal strengths and passions. Students are encouraged to build community and advocate for a more equitable world through a challenging curriculum.

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Principia School is a coeducational college preparatory school that offers an exceptional education defined by rigor and opportunity. The school provides an integrated curriculum that prepares students in preschool through grade 12 to thrive in a rapidly evolving world.

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An education from Rossman is designed to prepare children for their next steps in life and let them explore the limitless possibilities ahead. Rossman is a small community that embraces childhood and brings out the unique strengths of each student.

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WESTMINSTER CHRISTIAN ACADEMY

Westminster Christian Academy is an independent, coeducational school offering an education focused on community, college preparedness and Christ to students in grades seven through 12. Join us for an open house on Oct. 19.

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WHITFIELD SCHOOL

Whitfield provides a liberal arts curriculum that marries college preparatory courses with an emphasis on ethics, digital literacy and leadership. In a close-knit, coeducational learning environment students in grades six through 12 learn to think critically, lead lives of integrity and embrace the complexity of the world.

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THE WILSON SCHOOL

Since 1913, The Wilson School has excelled in reaching every student. Our deliberately small class sizes, accelerated curriculum and nurturing, inclusive community allow our students to build the academic and social-emotional skills they need to succeed in secondary school and beyond.

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Open House

by dr. tim jordan

I HEARD ABOUT A TEENAGE GIRL ONE DAY who one day came home and began venting about her friends to her dad. After a few moments, the girl screeched, “Daaaaad, you haven’t listened to a word I’ve said, have you?” Her dad replied, “That’s a strange way to start a conversation.”

The most common lament I heard from 21 middle school girls at a recent weekend retreat was that their parents don’t listen to them. So, I thought I’d offer you the five most common mistakes I see parents make when listening to their children. Buckle up for a rough ride.

1. Stop giving me advice! When our kids come to us with their hurts, it’s hard not to want to jump in and fix the problem. Girls often tell me that is not what they need. They want their parents to just listen to them, get in their shoes and see the issue from their perspective. That’s more than enough. Learn to mirror back what you think you heard your child say, then check in to see if you heard her right. If so, then ask her to share more. Once she feels fully heard, empathize with her: “That really stinks. It makes sense why you feel that way.” Research has shown that teens with empathetic parents have lower levels of systemic inflammation, a biological marker of emotional stress. Your kids also will learn that it is good to share with you, and thus you can remain an influence in their lives throughout their teen years and beyond.

2. Put your phone down and listen to me! Kids who are around distracted parents feel unimportant, unheard, unloved and misunderstood. When you’re open to listening to them, drop everything and be present, giving them your full attention.

3. Stop making it about you! Many girls have shared with me that their moms turn their feelings back onto what the mom is experiencing. When one of my patients, Sarah, shared how stressed out she was about her upcoming final exams, her mom flipped the script, saying, “You think you’ve got it rough! What about me? I’m a single parent working two jobs.” This left Sarah feeling unheard and like her feelings didn’t matter. She has decided that her mom and her friend’s feelings are more important than hers. Instead of feeling heard and understood, she’s left feeling like she now has to take care of her mom. It’s also important to not add your feelings and stories from your childhood into their experience because it becomes overwhelming. They have enough to deal with without having to sift through your emotions.

4. Respect my context! Every child has their own unique doorway into their emotions, and our job is to find the key to help them feel safe enough to share with us. Give them more control in deciding on the context when they share, i.e., the time, place and what they share. For some kids, it can help to not ask direct questions about their feelings but instead ask how their peers are feeling about the issue. Research shows that helping teens step outside themselves and observe their situation from a third-person perspective helps reduce overall stress and helps them think more rationally about challenges they face. Some kids are more comfortable sharing side-by-side while driving in the car or walking around the neighborhood. Others share better by writing out their thoughts in a journal or letters.

5. Just be around! You never know when the window into their heart may open to allow you in. So, be around and available as much as you can so that if they need to talk, you’re accessible. When my son John was 15, he and his friends were watching a football game one Saturday evening, and when it was over, they asked if I would drive them to their buddy’s hockey game. It was eleven p.m., and it had been snowing for several hours. I was tired, but I said, “Absolutely!” I always learned so much by shutting my mouth and listening to my kids chatting away with friends during car rides, acting as if I weren’t there.

When the door into your children’s minds and heart opens, jump through it. Before you know it, they’ll be gone into the world and you’ll wish you’d taken advantage of those opportunities. Just listen! &

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THE MAGIC HOUSE

by stephanie wallace

THERE IS NO GREATER MAGIC than the joy that comes with sparking a child’s imagination. That sense of wonder and excitement is present around every corner of The Magic House as kids and families play and learn together every day. For more than four decades, the Kirkwood children’s museum has actively engaged children of all ages in their education through hands-on exhibits and activities that pique curiosity, enhance creativity and develop problem-solving skills.

The Magic House maintains its operations through fundraising and donations, and the nonprofit’s largest annual fundraiser, The Magic Ball: La Dolce Vita, is Sept. 29 at Stifel Theatre. The event is co-chaired by Stephanie Lee and Rebecca Sheehan, and the evening is themed after the museum’s newest cultural exhibit Ciao Bambini, which is opening in September. Lee says guests will be invited to celebrate “the sweet life” of Italian culture, including food, wine and entertainment such as opera singing and comedy from special guest Greg Warren.

The gala directly benefits the museum’s Access for All initiative, which provides free or reduced admission, field trips, outreach programs and family nights for children in need. As a former teacher herself, Lee recognizes the critical need for providing every child with opportunities to engage with learning through play. “Access for All makes visiting The Magic House possible for people who otherwise would not be able to afford it, such as children in foster care, military families and Big Brothers Big Sisters pairs,” she says. “One of the most wonderful

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things about The Magic House is it is truly for all children in the community—whether it’s by providing free field trips to Title I schools, offering special playtimes for kids with sensory needs or bringing traveling exhibits to local libraries.”

Currently, visitors to the museum can unravel the secrets of famous heroes of the past in Xavier Riddle and the Secret Museum: The Exhibit—created in partnership with the popular PBS Kids series. In September, guests will be invited to climb aboard the Mystery Machine for Scooby Doo! Mansion Mayhem, an immersive problem-solving experience centered around the beloved cartoon characters. Opening Sept. 23, Ciao Bambino will introduce families to the historical and cultural contributions of Italy. The exhibit is part of The Magic House’s World Traveler Gallery, which is designed to give kids a passport to the world by introducing them to different countries. Previous exhibits have shown a spotlight on the culture and daily lives of children living in Kenya, India, Argentina and China.

Lee notes that these special exhibits only scratch the surface of what The Magic House has to offer. Her own son enjoys visiting MADE for Kids, a 7,000-square-foot makerspace operated by the museum in the Academy-Sherman Park neighborhood. “So much of what The Magic House offers is about engaging children through their creativity,” she notes. “Whether it’s allowing kids who love Xavier Riddle to experience it in person or using hands-on activities to spark interest in STEM subjects, the museum recognizes the important role play has in learning.” &

THE MAGIC HOUSE ENGAGES KIDS CREATIVITY THROUGH HANDS-ON LEARNING.

THE MAGIC HOUSE ENGAGES CHILDREN THROUGH UNIQUE, HANDS-ON LEARNING EXPERIENCES. THE MAGIC BALL: LA DOLCE VITA IS SEPT. 29 AT STIFEL THEATRE. PICTURED ON THE COVER: DR. SUNITHA THANJAVURU, REBECCA SHEEHAN, STEPHANIE LEE, MARIA CONLEY. FOR MORE INFORMATION, CALL 314.822.8900 OR VISIT MAGICHOUSE.ORG.

COVER DESIGN BY JULIE STREILER

COVER PHOTO BY BILL BARRETT

This annual event celebrates the amazing work of our staff, volunteers, members, and community to support survivors as they heal, recover and rebuild. We will also honor the incredible generosity of our long-standing community partners! With your attendance, you become an integral part of this journey, helping us cultivate a community where hope grows and flourishes and lives are transformed. Join us for libations, food, and fun!

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GIVING BACK Laumeier Sculpture Park

by stephanie wallace

How has Laumeier evolved since its founding?

Laumeier opened featuring the work of only one artist, Ernest Trova, who generously donated a significant number of his pieces. In 1978, the nonprofit arm incorporated, and it was decided to feature more artists. Now, we have a collection of around 70 outdoor sculptures as well as smaller pieces and special exhibits that rotate. Along with growing the art collection, we’ve also grown in size to 105 acres. We’ve added events and classes—some of which like the summer camp and Mother’s Day art fair have been around for more than three decades. Some newer initiatives include a STEAM program that gets students out of the classroom and outdoors to learn not only about science, technology, engineering and math but also art. Our Opening Minds through Art (OMA) initiative provides art therapy for people with dementia in partnership with university students.

What makes Laumeier such a unique cultural landmark for St. Louis?

St. Louis is a very rich community when it comes to arts and culture. It also has incredible parks and green spaces. Laumeier is a unique blend of those elements in a single space and experience. Everything we do is focused on the confluence of art and nature. It’s a wonderful opportunity for people to find both relaxation and inspiration. We want to bring the community together to share these experiences and explore their own creativity.

IN 1968, MATILDA LAUMEIER bequeathed 72 acres of land to St. Louis County in memory of her husband, Henry. From that donation, a wonderful idea was born: a public park dedicated to artwork. In 1976, Laumeier Sculpture Park opened with a mission to engage the community through the intersection of art and nature. T&S spoke with executive director Lauren Ross to learn more about how Laumeier stays true to that original vision while looking forward to the future of artistic expression.

How can people support Laumeier?

We operate through a public-private partnership. We are part of the St. Louis County park system, but our operations aren’t covered by public funding. We have a nonprofit arm that is responsible for caring for the artwork and organizing events and programming. If you love the park, one of the best and easiest ways to support Laumeier is to become a member. Right now, we’re also running a campaign to fund the restoration of Alexander Liberman’s The Way, which is an enormous piece and an iconic part of our collection. It’s been a Laumeier since the 1980s, and over the years, it’s been repainted a number of times, but we’re getting ready to start a major multi-stage restoration project that will cost an estimated $335,000.

How do you plan new exhibits for the park?

Our curator, Dana Turkovic, has a lot of duties, and among them is selecting the artists we work with. We have a commitment to working with local, national and international artists. That mix is very important to us. We want to showcase the talent we have right here in St. Louis, but also present it in dialogue with artists who are working elsewhere. We try to do at least one major project with a local artist every year. We also have two artists in residence. The community artist position offers St. Louis-based artists the opportunity to engage with the community through workshops, events and discussions. The visiting artist in

residence program is focused on creators from outside the region who are foreign-born but based in the U.S. It offers the opportunity for that global-perspective while also celebrating the cultural contributions of immigrants.

You have two new exhibits opening later this month. Our two fall exhibits open Aug. 26. The official celebration is from 11 a.m. to 1 p.m. and free for the public. One is the first solo exhibit from a young local artist Vaughn Davis Jr. called The Fabric of Our Time. The other is an outdoor sculpture for our visiting artists in residence, Lenka Clayton and Phillip Andrew Lewis, called A Number of Tragedies. It’s a playful piece that will be installed in a grove of trees to appear as if a number of guests’ kites have become stuck. Discover Laumeier Day is Aug. 27, so it’s another great chance to see the new works. There will be a lot of great activities, including kite flying and a community mural led by Davis. &

DEDICATION OF THE WAY, JUNE 7, 1980

PHOTOS COURTESY OF LAUMEIER SCULPTURE PARK

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Kids In The Middle offers programs for children and families of divorce and separation, which provides counseling, education and support to help them cope with emotional challenges and build resilience for a brighter future.

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THE MAGIC HOUSE

On Sept. 29, The Magic House will host its annual gala, The Magic Ball: La Dolce Vita, to celebrate our newest cultural exhibit, Ciao Bambini, and to benefit the museum’s commitment to providing playful learning experiences for the community.

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Join us on Sept. 9 and 10 for the Bike MS: Gateway Getaway at Lewis & Clark Community College in Godfrey, Illinois. Together we can create a world free of MS.

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ST. ANDREW'S CHARITABLE FOUNDATION

Join us at the 19th Annual Ageless Remarkable Saint Louisans Gala on Sept. 30 at the Hilton St. Louis Frontenac. This event will honor 12 remarkable Saint Louisans while raising funds to serve low-income seniors.

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SSM HEALTH CARDINAL GLENNON CHILDREN’S HOSPITAL

Join the Field-Side Party at Glennon Gallop on Sept. 16! Sport your best Kentucky Derby attire, pack a picnic and enjoy an exciting polo match—all for a great cause. Proceeds benefit The Danis Pediatric Center at SSM Health Cardinal Glennon Children’s Hospital

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Children need hope, understanding and compassion to learn and reach their full potential. For more than 30 years, St. Louis LDA has provided the education and support families and students need.

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ANKEN JORDAN PEDIATRIC BRIDGE HOSPITAL beyond gala 2023

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The annual fundraiser supports Ranken Joddan’s mission to help young patients transition home so they can live to their fullest potential. Guests enjoyed cocktails, hors d’oeuvres, live and silent auctions and dancing.

guests: Event co-chairs Dawn and Mike Andrew, president and CEO Shawn Dryden, Mary Ranken Jordan Service to Children award recipients Shannon and Bill Willhite

HOPE HAPPENS FOR NEUROLOGICAL annual evening of hope

All proceeds of the event benefit Hope Happens and the Hope Center for Neurological Disorders at Washington University School of Medicine. Guests enjoyed cocktails, dinner, a live auction and entertainment by the Charles Glenn Group. Event chairs Mark Menghini and Colby Schmid, Spirit of Hope Award recipients Dr. Aaron DiAntonio and Dr. Jeffrey Milbrandt, special honoree Beverly Stiger

KENNDEY WILLHITE, SHANNON WILLHITE, MARLENE COLEMAN

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SHAWN AND CRYSTAL DRYDEN

ANDREA AND DAVID KNYSAK

DAWN AND MIKE ANDREW

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The event raises funds to support the groundbreaking research being done at the Alvin J. Siteman Cancer Center. Along with enjoying dinner and cocktails, guests were entertained by celebrity host Colin Jost. guests: BJC president and CEO Richard Liekweg, lead ambassador Penny Pennington, Siteman Cancer

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HAVE A FIELD DAY

GLENNON GALLOP

by stephanie wallace

ALL CHILDREN NEED REGULAR visits to the doctor to ensure they grow up happy and healthy, but not all families have medical insurance or other resources necessary to make that possible. The Danis Pediatric Center at SSM Health Cardinal Glennon Children’s Hospital provides outpatient care and other support to children, regardless of their families’ ability to pay. To help ensure it never has to turn away a child, the SSM Health Cardinal Glennon Children’s Foundation raises funds for the center through Glennon Gallop, its annual polo match and party.

This year’s event will bring guests fieldside Sept. 16 at August Busch Polo Club in Defiance. Along with watching an exciting polo match, participants can choose from two experiences. At the Field-Side Party, guests can choose to tailgate or watch from the bleachers. The VIP Experience offers access to a climate-controlled tent where they can enjoy fine wine, a luncheon and auction. “It’s not every day that you get to watch a polo match—it’s such a unique experience,” says Dr. Heidi Sallee, the center’s medical director. “Plus, purchasing a ticket or donating makes a huge difference for Danis Pediatric Center.”

The clinic was originally designed to receive 5,000 patients annually. Now, Danis Pediatric Center’s two locations are visited more than 21,000 times each year. To meet the rising demand for services, SSM Health Cardinal Glennon opened a new location in Tower Grove earlier this year, replacing its Midtown clinic. Located at the corner of Kingshighway Boulevard and Arsenal Street, the Tower Grove location offers more than double the exam space for patients. With a dedicated parking lot and easy access to public transportation, the clinic also eliminates barriers to access families previously faced with the Midtown location.

The funds raised by Glennon Gallop not only fuel growth like the new Tower Grove clinic, but also help Danis Pediatric Center provide important resources to patients and their families. Around 75% of patients live below the poverty line, and families receive a questionnaire at well child checkups to determine if they are dealing with concerns like food insecurity, parental depression and more. “The Cardinal Glennon Children’s Foundation’s support allows us to have family care navigators who meet with families and connect them to resources,” Sallee explains. “We also are able to provide important items like diapers, nonperishable meals and pack-and-plays for families who need safe sleep environments for babies.”

The families who visit Danis Pediatrics Center represent a wide diversity of economic, race, gender and cultural backgrounds—a true reflection of the St. Louis community. More than 20 languages are spoken by patients and their families, including sign language. Without the generosity of St. Louisans, the doctors and staff at the clinic would not be able to provide critical services to so many children. “The support from Glennon Gallop really does make a tangible difference in kids’ lives,” Sallee notes. “It’s something I see every day working as a pediatrician. We’re very appreciative to have the community rally around Danis Pediatric Center and our patients.” &

GLENNON GALLOP RAISES FUNDS FOR DANIS PEDIATRIC CENTER.

QUICK BITES

by stephanie wallace

GOING TO THE DOGS

In celebration of National Dog Month, Le Meridien St. Louis Clayton is hosting “Yappy Hours” on Tuesday nights in August. Furry friends can join for a $10 fee—human companions get in free! Pets can sample offerings like ‘barkuterie’ boards and puppy mocktails while their owners enjoy petite plate appetizers and inventive cocktails. Tickets are available through Eventbrite, and a portion of the proceeds goes to the APA of St. Louis.

FROM ACROSS THE GLOBE

Global Foods Market is partnering with the International Institute of St. Louis to create its first cookbook! It will feature original recipes submitted by St. Louisans and notable local chefs. The proceeds will support the International Institute’s mission to help immigrants transition into the St. Louis community, and every time a cookbook is sold, another will be donated to be included in the nonprofit’s welcome packs. The cookbook is expected to be available for purchase in stores just before the holidays at the following locations: Chao Baan, Global Foods Market, King & I, Oishi Sushi and Steakhouse, United Provisions and Oishi Sushi.

SQUARE MEALS

A unique dining experience is popping up at Hot Java Bar and Events on Sept. 16 and 17. Brick Burger will feature a menu of inventive burgers inspired by colorful building blocks. The immersive experience will include colorful brick walls, themed furniture and even a brick building station where you can let your imagination run wild. Tickets are available now for $47 at explorehidden.com.

SAY I DO!

Bistro La Floraison is ready to help St. Louisans tie the knot this fall. The restaurant from Take Root Hospitality is now hosting micro-wedding receptions—attendance is capped at 36 for any sit-down meal. Parties can take advantage of the patio for a happy hour with drinks and snacks before heading inside for an intimate dinner. To find out more, visit bistrolafloraison.com.

OPENS CLOSES &

Peruvian food is on the menu in O’Fallon. Los Incas Peruvian Restaurant is now open at 4279 Keaton Crossing Blvd. … Good news for anyone with a sweet tooth, Sugatree Baking Co. is reopening at 1242 Tamm Ave. The bakery closed at the end of 2022 after 23 years in business. New owners Megan and Derrick Cobb hope to have the bakery open again by the end of the month … Bijoux Handcrafted Chocolates is closing its original location in Des Peres. The chocolatier will continue to operate in Webster Groves.

C.J. Mugg’s Bar and Grill has closed in Webster Groves, but the space at 101 W. Lockwood Ave. won’t be empty for long. Later this fall, it will be replaced by Italian eatery Madrina from restaurateurs Frank Romano and Stanley Browne. &

FRONT & CENTER UNION AVENUE OPERA

by stephanie wallace

IN 1995, SCOTT SCHOONOVER HAD A SIMPLE IDEA. He would organize a summer production of Purcell’s Dido and Aeneas to give emerging artists an opportunity to perform in St. Louis. Thus, Union Avenue Opera was born. Almost 30 years later, the company and Schoonover, its artistic director, are still dedicated to bringing St. Louis remarkable performances each summer while giving performers the chance to shine. What motivated you to found Union Avenue Opera?

I had just graduated and moved to St. Louis for a job at Union Avenue Christian Church. I wanted to create an opportunity to give other emerging artists a chance to develop their skills and perform. That is a big part of Union Avenue Opera’s mission. For many of the artists we feature, this is their first time performing these roles. They’re in the early stages of their careers. We started out small with only one show that first summer, but we saw success. Working with Union Avenue Christian Church, we’ve been able to renovate the performance space, even putting in an orchestra pit. It really is a grassroots effort. We’ve been able to grow sustainability thanks to the support of the community.

Why is it important to bring opera experiences to St. Louis?

It’s always powerful when you can tell stories from unique perspectives through art. It inspires people to think differently about things. With opera, you are always telling a story, and we have a platform that allows people to look at their lives differently—from who they are as a person to what St. Louis is as a community. Music really allows you to feel vulnerable and connect with a narrative in a special way that’s different from what a traditional play offers. Union Avenue Opera also pulls from the local talent we have here—whether it’s performers, orchestra members or technical support.

What goes into planning a season?

When planning a season, we want to bring in different perspectives, periods and styles. We also try to feature different languages. All of our performances are in the original language, and we project supertitles on a screen so people can follow along. We want to offer as diverse an experience as possible. Planning for each summer season starts a year in advance. We select the shows and hold auditions in St. Louis and New York. For each production, we have performers arrive three weeks before we open. There is a two-week rehearsal period, and the third is production week.

Your final production of this season is Ragtime.

The show is Aug. 18, 19, 25 and 26. It really offers a snapshot of life in 1900 while its themes of racial injustice remain just as relevant today. It follows three groups in New York: the upper class in New Rochelle, African Americans in Harlem and immigrants. Ragtime music is the pulse that weaves everything together. It’s a big production with a 42-person cast made of mostly people from St. Louis. A cool thing about Ragtime is that it’s got a local connection. The character Coalhouse Walker Jr. is a ragtime pianist from St. Louis who knew Scott Joplin.

How can people support Union Avenue Opera?

One of the main ways is by buying a ticket. As a nonprofit, we also take donations. Through the end of August, one of our board members is matching gifts up to $25,000, so now is a great time to donate. We also have volunteers for every night of our performances. There’s a quick training each evening, and you get to see the show for free. You can sign up to participate on our Facebook.

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TIKTOK IS BRIMMING WITH BEAUTY CONTENT FROM INFLUENCERS—WHETHER IT’S MAKEUP TUTORIALS, “GET READY WITH ME” VIDEOS OR PRODUCT REVIEWS. IT’S A GREAT WAY TO FIND WAYS TO UPGRADE YOUR DAILY ROUTINE. HERE ARE SOME TIKTOK-APPROVED BEAUTY PRODUCTS THAT LIVE UP TO THE HYPE. &

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Every year, millions of people get the flu. The good news is you can reduce your risk by half with an annual flu vaccination. For National Immunization Month, we’re answering some of the most frequently asked questions about flu shots as fall approaches.

I start getting an annual

Are there any side effects to the vaccine?

Common side effects include soreness, redness or swelling where the shot was given. The flu vaccine also can cause headache, fever, nausea, muscle aches and fatigue. This is usually the effect of your body producing protective antibodies—not the vaccine itself giving you the flu, which is a common misconception.

When is the best time to get a flu shot?

What kind of protection does the flu vaccine offer?

The effectiveness of the flu vaccine can vary. It is generally most effective among people under the age of 65. For healthy adults between the ages of 18 and 64, the vaccine is about 50% effective, according to the Mayo Clinic. For people 65 and older, they may develop less immunity after receiving vaccination. High-dose flu vaccines can help improve the immune response of this population.

What happens if I get the flu anyway?

Everyone benefits from vaccination, but an

The flu shot is usually available at the end of August, and flu season reaches its peak around December and February. It takes up to two weeks to build immunity, and the shot is effective for around three to six months. It’s usually best to get vaccinated by the end of October. However, if you miss that window, you can still benefit from getting a vaccine even after flu season is in full swing.

Why do I need to get vaccinated for the flu every year?

• Cystic fibrosis

• Diabetes

• Brain or nervous system conditions

• HIV

• Kidney or liver disease

There are several types of influenza strains, and they change quickly. The vaccine is designed annually to protect against the varieties predicted to be the most common in that flu season. Last year’s vaccine may not be effective against the flu viruses that are prevalent this year. Also, vaccines function by causing your immune system to make antibodies that protect you from those viruses. Your antibody levels decline over time, so getting a flu shot annually boosts your immune response.

There are a few reasons why you may get the flu even if you are vaccinated. You may be exposed to the virus during the two-week window when immunity builds, or you might encounter a variant of influenza that the vaccine was not designed to protect against. However, your flu shot can help reduce the severity of the illness. Research has shown that vaccinated adults who are hospitalized with the flu spend less time in the hospital and are around 60% less likely to require treatment in the intensive care unit, according to the CDC.

How else can I lower my risk of getting the flu?

Getting your flu shot is the best protection against the flu, but other steps you can take include:

• Washing your hands often and thoroughly, or using hand sanitizer

• Avoiding touching your eyes, nose or mouth

• Staying out of close contact with others who are sick

• Regularly cleaning commonly touched surfaces, such as counters, light switches and doorknobs

• Exercising regularly

• Getting enough sleep

• Drinking enough fluids, and eating a healthy diet &

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T & S HOME 10 UPPER WARSON ROAD, LADUE

by stephanie wallace

from the homeowner »

With more than 13,600 square feet of total living space on 3.15 acres, this Ladue estate has something for the whole family. The kids can get in a game of pickleball on the tennis court or watch a movie in the lower level theater while mom and dad take a break in the steam room and dry sauna. The current homeowner’s are offering T&S some insight into all this extraordinary property has to offer.

What have you enjoyed about the property’s location?

The location is one of the best things about our property. Tucked away on an intimate street in the heart of Ladue, we have the perfect blend of privacy and convenience. We have easy access to the highway and are a stone’s throw to Old Warson Country Club and Lifetime Fitness.

What are some standout features of the home?

This home was designed to impress. As soon as we walked in and saw the sweeping stair and two stories of windows with breathtaking views, we knew this was the house for us. There are beautiful views from every room.

What are the outdoor spaces like?

Absolute paradise for our active family. There is an oversized swimming pool with fountains and a tennis court that doubles as a pickleball court and a basketball half-court. The private sports area is a playground for kids of all ages! We’re on just over three acres. The backyard is a beautiful backdrop of tall majestic trees. We’re completely immersed in nature with frequent sightings of

turkeys, deer and even a feral peacock now and then! The master bedroom has a private deck where we love our morning coffee. There’s also a large deck off the kitchen where we have amazing sunset dinners. Our home is truly a sanctuary.

How is the home for entertaining?

This home was designed with entertainment in mind. In the lower level, there is a kitchen and a bar, a theater, a dance floor and even a stage with a drop screen for karaoke—all packed into a massive open space that overlooks and opens to the pool. Live performances on the stage, school fundraisers, casino nights, movie nights and ladies spa evenings are just a few of the theme parties we have hosted.

What would you most like the next homeowners to know?

The home, in all its grandeur, has a soul. While it’s a large house, it never loses its personal appeal. This is an incredible family home where we’ve made so many wonderful memories. We hope the next homeowner will love and treasure it as much as we have and continue to fill it with joy, love and laughter. &

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NESTLED WITHIN A SECLUDED ENCLAVE, THIS IMPRESSIVE ESTATE OFFERS LUXURY APPOINTMENTS, AWE-INSPIRING VISTAS AND ENDLESS AMENITIES!”

–STEPHANIE OLIVER

PHOTOS: OLIVER@SOTHEBYSREALTY.COM

HOMEWORK

DEAR HOMEWORK,

We love the country, and country was the appropriate style in the ’80s for our home on 3 acres in Wildwood. However, we never seem to get the right front look to our home. Over 30 years we have put in and torn out many shrubs. The full-sun facing façade is difficult: bricks get hot! As retirees, we don’t have a huge budget for landscaping, and my husband is ready to let it be. But what is still missing is a warm and welcoming entrance. I would love your suggestions.

—JUST A LITTLE BIT COUNTRY

DEAR JUST A LITTLE BIT COUNTRY,

I agree with your assessment that your house lacks a welcoming warmth, and I admire the fact that you would remove landscaping attempts that haven’t worked out. In this case, your house is just too perfect. Most things that have a country feel have a patina: a pleasant mellowing that takes place through time and use. Your house instead looks brand-new and carefully manicured. We need to mess things up a bit.

The first thing I would do is wrinkle the line of the driveway with overflowing ground cover and ornamental grasses. I also would plant some tall shade trees to frame and shade the house. Finally, a line of day lillies at the porch adds color and charm and will do well in strong sunlight. As you can see, the property has now taken on a much more easygoing spirit and is thus more welcoming.

In addition, I am showing a messy whitewash on the red brick. This helps give the façade a more farmhouse feel, and makes the different parts of the architecture blend together better.

With these changes, I hope your house looks more like you originally intended; just remember to let things get a little messy.

Hope that makes things a little bit more country.

HOMEWORK

HOMEWORK WAS PENNED BY THE LATE PAUL DOERNER, FOUNDING PARTNER OF THE LAWRENCE GROUP. TO CELEBRATE HIS LEGACY, T&S IS PULLING SOME OF HIS OLDER COLUMNS FROM THE ARCHIVES TO SHARE.

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As you wander through each room in this gorgeous seaside cottage, you are greeted by cheerful and personal details at every corner. This project is completely captivating, with layered art revealing a world of charm and sophistication. Although newly built, you’d never know it with the heirloom pieces, exquisite millwork and lived-in feel.

Basking in Blue

Hints of blue gracefully dance throughout every corner of this remarkable home. From the moment you approach the exterior, the eye-catching blue shake siding captures your attention, evoking a sense of authentic allure. Stepping inside, the living space showcases two blue accent chairs located for added comfort as well as a delightful burst of color. In the serene bedroom, a bright blue dresser takes center stage, effortlessly pulling the home’s entire design together with this captivating hue. A shower adorned with patterned blue tiles takes this approach even further and becomes a mesmerizing focal point in the bathroom, transforming the ordinary into an oasis.

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Carefully curated saturated yellow accents effortlessly weave warmth and joy into each room, ensuring that every corner of this home radiates with vibrancy. In the laundry room, yellow cabinetry immediately draws the eye, bringing an undeniable pop of color and transforming the mundane task of chores into a delightful experience. This cheerful pop of color is repeated in the guest bedroom with a boldly bright yellow dresser and checkered quilt to create the ultimate cozy and inviting space.

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